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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024

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  • @OurQueerLife
    @OurQueerLife  5 місяців тому +17

    Go to my sponsor aura.com/mattcullen to get a 14-day free trial and see if your
    personal information has been compromised

  • @HelloCoco888
    @HelloCoco888 5 місяців тому +51

    💁🏻‍♀️I’m a straight Mom in New Zealand…so I’m about as polar opposite as you can get both life wise and geographically to Amp and Mr Kristopher but I watch all of their videos and have been subscribed for many years haha.
    I also watch all of your videos Matt - you’re an incredibly respectful and open-hearted guy in the way you treat each guest making them feel valued snd appreciated it definitely comes across that way in your interviews.

  • @MorningStarScorpio
    @MorningStarScorpio 5 місяців тому +46

    Matt IS a total golden retriever.

    • @crestonediamond
      @crestonediamond 4 місяці тому

      definitely, could benefit from some paper -training in the corner with a firm loving hand.

  • @gloriahufnagel5556
    @gloriahufnagel5556 5 місяців тому +20

    GREAT INTERVIEW!! & I can see someone liking this.. not for ME, but I know I treat my dog like a king. He gets belly rubs, kisses, hugs, praise and lots of treats..

  • @thankubelle
    @thankubelle 5 місяців тому +12

    love the whole convo. thx for keeping it all in and not removing the biz chat. i loved that too.
    on GRATITUDE: i have also been very stressed lately. with good things though. im learning alot and putting myself out there and its been stressful but starting the morning by just laying there and saying a few things im grateful for, affirming myself and taking cleansing breaths have helped me alot. gratitude as an attitude is definitely a daily practice.

  • @SynthwaveDuck
    @SynthwaveDuck 5 місяців тому +34

    The queer content we wanted and deserve, thank you so much

  • @amberatartimec2564
    @amberatartimec2564 5 місяців тому +9

    These 2 are a funking delight!! I love their demeanour and their clarity of thought.
    I think having some of their personal life as business which is shared with the world is a fab convo to share.
    Matt, you're fab. Love, love,love your work.
    Grateful for you xx

  • @giannishen
    @giannishen 5 місяців тому +49

    Matt, you are very handsome and friendly.
    I like you very much! I wish I can meet you one day!
    You did a really great job, thanks a lot for sharing! 👍🤩🙏

  • @markusistes5662
    @markusistes5662 5 місяців тому +3

    I have been following them for a long time. It is so nice to see them from another angle. And to see them interact with an outside third person and not just with a camera or guest on their channel. Love them even more now 😍🥰 thanks Matt❤❤

  • @marcellemccalla6325
    @marcellemccalla6325 5 місяців тому +3

    Amp and Mr. Kristofer have really helped me understand where some of my kink tendencies are leading to in the community.

  • @LickBamboo
    @LickBamboo 5 місяців тому +4

    Omg, the sit-down questions about their personal relationship had so many gems for both monogamous and non-monogamous couples so informative!

    • @Jojo-o6o6w
      @Jojo-o6o6w 5 місяців тому +1

      I always look to sex workers for my relationship advice.

  • @FRomeo1293
    @FRomeo1293 5 місяців тому +2

    I thoroughly enjoyed watching this interview. The interaction between the couple with each other - and you as the interviewer was wonderful ❤ Thank You 😊😊😊

  • @aar8n955
    @aar8n955 5 місяців тому +2

    The picture of Matt in the harness is everything. It perfectly illustrates the perks of telling these stories. You get to have experiences you may not otherwise have had. 😂❤

  • @BadaBadger
    @BadaBadger 5 місяців тому +6

    Would you ever do a video on the Furries? I feel they deserve a spotlight, they're part of our community too.

  • @glossysky.e
    @glossysky.e 4 місяці тому +1

    I’ve rabbit holed down wattsthesafeword for the last year and I truly adore them so much. I love queer content, especially the informative, raw and real shit. It was so nice to see them both get interviewed by youu

  • @wren_179
    @wren_179 5 місяців тому +3

    Favourite episode so far Matt. I'm a 51 year old about to be divorced Mother of 3 adult children. I'm also a survivor of what's ended up to be called Family Violence. Horrific in fact. I'm recovering and getting better each day..
    I've had therapy on and off since I was 18 and 2 years of specific trauma counselling and this episode taught me ways of looking at things and what I like to call "thinking my way out of it" in such a way that I really, really felt it.
    These guys are brilliant. I'm going to start watching their channel. I especially loved the part that got you flustered. Me too!! I feel so much better today. Thank you so very much for it. Fan for life 😚🫶🏼

  • @brandyrose9997
    @brandyrose9997 5 місяців тому +9

    I was so excited to see Amp and Mr. Kristofer in last week's episode! They are so playfully sex positive. Thanks Matt and gentlemen for great SF representation. 🐾💜

  • @Meganmama
    @Meganmama 5 місяців тому +8

    As a fellow content creator, I absolutely appreciate you keeping the business talk in the episode.
    You are so amazing and I love everything about every episode you put out. I’m proud of you for all your success!

  • @cyndykated358
    @cyndykated358 5 місяців тому +2

    Another great post. I’m grateful for my body feeling healthy and being consistent with doing my outdoor workouts..running a bit..walking..stretching..mixing it up to have fun!

  • @edwardhuxter761
    @edwardhuxter761 5 місяців тому +1

    LOVE THE CHANNEL AND THE GAY WORLD WE NOW LIVE IN AND HOW THE PAST GAINED THE WAY AFTER THE US WE NEED MATT CULLEN IN THE UK ❤❤

  • @Ceo_ReefFresh
    @Ceo_ReefFresh 5 місяців тому +8

    Super happy for the new video

  • @ZuquinaDEmiljo
    @ZuquinaDEmiljo 5 місяців тому +1

    I discovered Matt's videos recently. I enjoy learning about "other worlds" and what made me subscribed is that Matt does these interviews with the greatest respect for others and with no judgement. Nothing is vulgar, his content is naughty 😊, but very decently presented. Words are chosen carefully because he's got self respect and he is fully aware of what you put out on the internet might haunt you for the rest of your life. Yes, haters will hate, but I am here to learn and I am sincerely happy seeing people enjoying themselves in a safe place. I am a heterosexual woman. I am wired a bit differently, so it makes me extremely anxious to hear about open relationships as it is a very dangerous world out there for women (and men too)...I prefer a longterm monogamous relationship with a man I can trust fully in mind and with my body because most women like me, we GIVE fully and want full attention back. I tend to be very insecure about my aging body and my hormones raging - putting negative self talk in my head, etc. I feel undesirable after each bad experience. Unfortunately one is not guaranteed that your partner will stay loyal to you, I have been cheated on so many times. Maybe it is easier for gay men (apologies, I can't speak on behalf of anyone) as "men" have that "understanding" that a man's nature is to "wander"? I try not to think about it too much...but for now, I would rather stay single...for a while at least. Maybe while time heals me, I might grow to love myself more to keep in mind that it is okay if life hands you lemons, you can always grab the Tequila. Good luck to you all, please stay safe ❤️. Apologies again, I don't mean to speak on behalf of anyone.

  • @ggibson262
    @ggibson262 5 місяців тому +7

    Hi Matt, youve just made my day! Thank you!❤

  • @MonchitoPutito
    @MonchitoPutito 5 місяців тому +1

    Matt i love your chnnel, hoping for your first million subs and sharing your content with all queers in my life

  • @GabsR-N
    @GabsR-N 5 місяців тому +6

    Maaaaan, I've LOVED these past videos!! Two of my absolute favourite channels together!!
    Great Pride present!! Thanks you guys 🥰🥰☺☺

  • @foo9877
    @foo9877 5 місяців тому +1

    I’ve learned so much from their relationship over the years of watching them. I’m not in a relationship right now but I can’t wait to be so I can really put what I’ve learned into perspective. They’ve definitely opened my mind to open relationships and non monogamy

  • @anneredmoon
    @anneredmoon 5 місяців тому +3

    Oh. A second channel. Interesting... and I'm there!

  • @margaretwilson-y5j
    @margaretwilson-y5j 5 місяців тому +23

    OMG I immediately thought of Matt as a golden retriever! lol

    • @MayzieeLee
      @MayzieeLee 5 місяців тому +1

      the “do i really” immediately after was giving 100% golden 😂

  • @crestonediamond
    @crestonediamond 4 місяці тому

    Hey Matt, Just wanted to let you know that I really enjoy your show. And I feel that I learn a lot about how diverse our community can be. Sometimes, I find some of the folks really out there; but, it's defintely a live and let live situation that makes it possible for all of us. Found this was an excellent example of one of your better shows. Keep up the good work, Joe

  • @lindaf9901
    @lindaf9901 5 місяців тому +1

    I've followed them for years, I was so happy about your videos with them! They are so inspirational

  • @cagliarigirl6510
    @cagliarigirl6510 5 місяців тому +1

    I love Daddy and Amp! They're so great. Thank you for this great interview ❤
    I'm following on your new channel

  • @fearsomebeard4290
    @fearsomebeard4290 5 місяців тому

    Amp & Mr. Kristofer are two of my inspirations. Matt you are another who inspires me. I thank all three of you for getting together. Keep it up guys, we need more people like you.

  • @Blessedwitch13
    @Blessedwitch13 5 місяців тому +2

    I love your content! You are so kind to everyone and I so wish people were like you. Also I've learned so much about things from you!!! Thanks

  • @Heothbremel
    @Heothbremel 5 місяців тому

    Learning how to argue (noticing that you are arguing) and listening to what is needed underneath the words being said and being able to communicate that so that needs are met
    is SUPER important.....

  • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
    @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 5 місяців тому +3

    **Mr. K puts Matt in cage**
    Matt: “What do you do in here?”
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Megan-b2x
    @Megan-b2x 5 місяців тому +1

    A new matt cullen video plus a new what's the safe word video in the same day!!

  • @ernestcoulombe8958
    @ernestcoulombe8958 5 місяців тому

    Great conversation with two thoughtful and genuine.

  • @NebbieNZ
    @NebbieNZ 5 місяців тому +1

    My two new youtubers, actually taught me a lot about myself.

  • @rasferrastfarian739
    @rasferrastfarian739 Місяць тому

    I watch and am subscribed to "Watts the safe word", Daddy and Amp. Loved the questions and the answers.

  • @dramonmaster222
    @dramonmaster222 5 місяців тому +2

    Yes! Amp and Kristofer are awesome.

  • @kaseyalley4104
    @kaseyalley4104 5 місяців тому +2

    Matt, Amp and Daddy you are awesome people

  • @JóseGhilarducci
    @JóseGhilarducci 5 місяців тому

    Beautiful! Great interview. All 3 of you are amazing people and I am grateful for you.

  • @johnmichaelreyes911
    @johnmichaelreyes911 5 місяців тому +1

    Ugh! I missed you in town Matt! Hope to meet up sometime :)

  • @jimbo6989
    @jimbo6989 5 місяців тому +1

    Hi Matt, I am really enjoying and appreciate your channel. Regarding gratitude, many many years ago I made the decision to never end the day without giving thanks for the blessings and good things that have come my way. I have stuck to that and can say that it originally changed my perspective and ultimately, my life....best to you!

  • @kelsonl6084
    @kelsonl6084 5 місяців тому +6

    Omg we were just saying in the comments how he has golden retriever energy. I wonder if he saw those or he just feels it too 😅

  • @TheJamesaustin21
    @TheJamesaustin21 5 місяців тому +1

    Such an amazing interview!!! I’m a fan of all of these people’s work and by far the best interview and episode!!!! I want to see more interviews or content with the three of you!!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤

  • @nancymomfam4761
    @nancymomfam4761 5 місяців тому +1

    Absolutely love your channel and I am grateful to wake up everyday and learn something new at 63 yrs of age! Thank you for all your hard work you are appreciated. Peace love and light always from Kansas ✌️❤️☀️🌻💪💪💪💯

  • @paramoreparks9960
    @paramoreparks9960 5 місяців тому +2

    Just walk Matt, walk🤗
    I could feel your curiosity for Daddy😉🕯 They're both very intriguing. Awesome interview.

    • @Jojo-o6o6w
      @Jojo-o6o6w 5 місяців тому

      its my experience that most of these old queens into bdsm cant get it up and use the whole 'master' 'daddy' thing to get action. Id much rather a man use his actual tool on me than some silly leather toys.

  • @Jnnburk
    @Jnnburk 5 місяців тому +1

    Just subscribed to your backup channel - smart!!!

  • @taymae420
    @taymae420 5 місяців тому +4

    WE LOVE YOU MATT 💚💙💜

  • @cjjohnson7801
    @cjjohnson7801 5 місяців тому +3

    I am a straight female and I really enjoy this channel and it’s educational, entertaining and comical 😂

  • @richardnault9493
    @richardnault9493 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for bringing us such diverse information.

  • @T2C47
    @T2C47 5 місяців тому +1

    I honestly didn't expect to love this as much as I do. Thank you. Excellent video. 💜

  • @michaelmorrissey5880
    @michaelmorrissey5880 5 місяців тому +1

    Matt, I love your content, your are doing a great service for the entire community, thank you so much

  • @JMarqable
    @JMarqable 5 місяців тому +4

    You can absolutely sense that Matt is personally intrigued by what he's hearing, that it's tapping into something in him that even he didn't perceive before, and that this isn't just another interview. Especially when he was interviewing the daddy separately. I love watching your content, Matt! Thanks!

  • @ivanamicimici
    @ivanamicimici 5 місяців тому +5

    I love these 2 guys this is just awesome!

  • @rdbwdc774
    @rdbwdc774 5 місяців тому +1

    Lovely. Thank you, Matt.

  • @miguelcontreras1629
    @miguelcontreras1629 5 місяців тому +1

    Appreciate your videos! And so cool to learn about my community

  • @katiesarmour
    @katiesarmour 5 місяців тому

    Love these guys. I’m a straight white girl and what’s the safe word was my first into to Kim and bondage. I love what they do! Sex and kink education is so important and there is a huge need for it. Love them and you love!!

  • @troylapersonerie
    @troylapersonerie 5 місяців тому +1

    Omg these eps are so good

  • @wvusciguy
    @wvusciguy 5 місяців тому

    Everyone sitting there makes great content and it is greatly appreciated. Re: why is monogamy seen to “be the way” in the straight community. In my experience, I had to agree, I didn’t get it until we had two newborns at home. The feeling of vulnerability and fear being responsible for this new human(s) and how confining and limiting that is does not feel safe. I an only image what it feels like when you add hormones on top of it. “Knowing” someone is absolutely committed to you over the centuries where communication was much more limited was maybe the only thing I can imagine making me feel safe. I think this is were it comes from. In my experience gay men can/have formulated their relationships around what works for them and without that fear, being open sexually is easier to accept.

  • @HossMan48
    @HossMan48 5 місяців тому +2

    You are so good and just keep getting better and better. Hugs!

  • @dumbnhung
    @dumbnhung 5 місяців тому +1

    Matt: I'm a Golden Retriever!
    Everyone else in the world: Duh!

  • @donnamaxwell9153
    @donnamaxwell9153 5 місяців тому

    Wow...love your show as a beautiful black straight woman. Married for 18 years to wonderful black man..my best friend. You show is awesome and educational ❤❤

  • @scotnca
    @scotnca 5 місяців тому +1

    Enjoyable and entertaining duo. Love them!

  • @annafink2245
    @annafink2245 5 місяців тому +1

    DYING to know if Matt's ever hooked up with a guest.

  • @DWNicolo
    @DWNicolo 5 місяців тому +3

    Do a video on men and women who are trans attracted.

  • @scotnca
    @scotnca 5 місяців тому +1

    Valuable content great job with this one

  • @Dimi374
    @Dimi374 5 місяців тому

    This episode was one of my top favorites because there was so much sound topics.❤️

  • @marcokeller3575
    @marcokeller3575 5 місяців тому +1

    Loved this, great job!

  • @shakazulu3594
    @shakazulu3594 5 місяців тому +2

    I prefer to focus on my problems and victimization rather than gratitude. Praise it all!😄

  • @butterbean3676
    @butterbean3676 5 місяців тому +1

    Informative and well done. Good on you

  • @SaltySaltySalty.
    @SaltySaltySalty. 5 місяців тому

    I'm grateful for this channel

  • @TheSimaralynn
    @TheSimaralynn 5 місяців тому +2

    I’m pretty sure I’m the super minority of your followers as a Herero female but I’d love a getting to know you video. Interview yourself 😄 You’re such a sweet guy that emits positive energy and that’s why I follow your channel. I’d love to know a little bit more about you.

  • @montymontgomery2471
    @montymontgomery2471 5 місяців тому +1

    Hi, great video ……… yet again Bravo.
    Would it be possible to tell me the name of their channel ?
    Thank you

  • @melindamullins9272
    @melindamullins9272 5 місяців тому +1

    i think you are great you stand by your opinions and we love it while always willing to learn and or be open to learn more your beautiful inside and out and i love your amazing skin also i feel u brought ur spin to tgif fabulous.

  • @jpao908
    @jpao908 5 місяців тому +1

    You might want to consider rumble which would be less restrictive I believe

  • @jazzyflorida3757
    @jazzyflorida3757 5 місяців тому +1

    Golden retrievers can’t be in an open relationship Matt! You know that

  • @keginemylife
    @keginemylife 5 місяців тому +1

    I love this interview.

  • @ImBigDave79
    @ImBigDave79 Місяць тому

    Long time fan of Wattsthesafeword.

  • @thebaileybearuk
    @thebaileybearuk 5 місяців тому +1

    ❤ awesome job

  • @Missfoxtooyou
    @Missfoxtooyou 5 місяців тому +2

    My practice of gratitude is waking up and thanking the universe (or god) for allowing me to wake up in my own place, with my dog, being able to feed myself, get out of bed, go to work, and have a place to relax. In the evening I thank the day for lessons I may hav3 learned, reflect on my day, express gratitude that I was able to make it home safe and be able to decompress walking my dog, and take in the neighborhood.
    We are not promised a tomorrow, and I recently entered the “Orphan club”, so you die once, so live each day authentically as much as you can. 😊

  • @kelsonl6084
    @kelsonl6084 5 місяців тому +2

    “We’re not paying their bills “ …uh, I would say that the UA-cam creators are the *exact* people paying UA-cam’s bills. Creators are the ones giving them something to sell addspacs or subscriptions to. If they didn’t have people uploading videos they would be nothing: it’s just there are so many desperate creators that they are able to abuse their position of power

  • @raqueldeshow9678
    @raqueldeshow9678 5 місяців тому

    Im grateful for YOU!❤

  • @SynthwaveDuck
    @SynthwaveDuck 5 місяців тому +1

    The Goldie/Shep scene broke the Forth Wall for me. First time. hmm

  • @danaventura5998
    @danaventura5998 4 місяці тому

    Funny the guy is talking about puppy play and a dog food commercial pops up. if someone talks about pony play does a Purina Horse feed ad come up ?

  • @ericdwhitmorec
    @ericdwhitmorec 5 місяців тому

    Ooh, Aura sounds nice, and I just got another letter from some company i never heard of (3rd party for soneone else) that said they had a "data breach."

  • @misskvixen5479
    @misskvixen5479 5 місяців тому +1

    What’s their channel? Can’t find

  • @gordonadams4793
    @gordonadams4793 2 місяці тому

    You also have Mr. S leather as an outlet for education.

  • @gdStPete
    @gdStPete 4 місяці тому

    didn't really get into the kinky world and how they discovered, shared their kinks. Was more about them as a couple and sounds like they both are rather acceptingt of what ever. DID one/both grow into a new kink because of the other, or not, how do/did they learn to expand limits, and do they find love by sharing/doing BDSM ?

  • @melatomic
    @melatomic 5 місяців тому

    I would lay money down at 5/1 that views on this are 80% straight. Views, not comments. 😂

  • @batcheeba
    @batcheeba 5 місяців тому +1

    He is so gorgeous! And so interesting!

  • @chuckwallace4791
    @chuckwallace4791 5 місяців тому +1

    I love your work and I adore Amp and Daddy as well, so it absolutely made my day to see that you filmed with them and brought their story to people who might not have known of them before. 😊🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @ericarachelscranton6405
    @ericarachelscranton6405 5 місяців тому +1

    Love it !

  • @DavidTexas340
    @DavidTexas340 5 місяців тому

    The older guy is so much more handsome. The young guy reminds me of a guy out of drag with plucked eyebrows

  • @melindamullins9272
    @melindamullins9272 5 місяців тому +1

    i love armons necklace fantastic honey yesssssss.

  • @JimmiAlli
    @JimmiAlli 5 місяців тому

    Hi Matt, have you ever interviewed Rajee Narinesingh in Miami? She is an amazing trans advocate. A bit similar to Glamorous Monique.

  • @zzizahacallar
    @zzizahacallar 5 місяців тому

    ❤ this channel

  • @TSUNAMIPOPPY247
    @TSUNAMIPOPPY247 4 місяці тому

    I can only imagine what Siberian Husky energy is like 😂

  • @allythatninja-_-2175
    @allythatninja-_-2175 5 місяців тому

    Love them!