The #1 STOIC TRAIT all ALPHA Males HAVE (YOU'RE MISSING)
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I have started a relationship. Do you think I should be stoic when she praises me (tell me: sexy, cute, etc...) should I be stoic at all times? that's my question
@@themeirim i understand the i don't care mentality in a relationship is alsso to build boundaries so she would know that you won't fold to every desire she has but if someone does it all the time wouldn't it produce apathy in a relationship
Where'd you get this from
Remember also that real STOIC men feel their feelings and emotions... dont suppress them but dont express them without first observing them. Otherwise emotions can come out in an ugly way that is reactive and not responsive.
I think your message is critical and that there are many people who misinterpret the stoic philosophy by becoming emotionally numb. Great point
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Ive also learned to express them to God in private, and seek His wisdom
I'd like to also add that it is important when and/or to whom you express your feelings and emotions. E.g., if something really bad happens it is ok to go back to your home/car and maybe cry or scream by yourself and in private, but do not do that in front of your woman - as an example scenario, of course there might be (rare) exceptions.
@@jayboxking567 thats what i learn to do. life is a single player game there is no reason to show anyone else your emotion; you give them your ammunition out of your stockpile which they can turn around and shoot you with. but when you share your emotions with god and ask for his hand, u get carried to victory
Not being moved is actually biblical. This is one of the many references. “ I have set the LORD always before me: because he is at my right hand, I shall not be moved."
Psalms 16:8, KJV 💪💪
Good connection.
Thanks for this.
Best of luck
God is our rock 👌🏼
Exactly what I thought of, most of this "redpill" type stuff is biblical
This is facts but realize many do not have the intimate intimate connection David had with God.
Sheeesh this one ☝🏽
In my experience, meditation is key in practicing stoicism. I know a lot people have their doubts about it but commit to just 10 minutes a day long enough for it and stuff will start to change, namely your ability to process an emotion. Instead of having a thought and getting overwhelmed by the emotion that comes with it, You'll start to simply just observe and let the thought/emotion pass or you will feel much more in control of them. Genuinely the best thing I did for my own mental and happiness
Would u mind if I ask for a recommended youtube video that teaches meditation? I think I should try it because my life has been so unproductive lately. Anyways, thank you for the tips.
exactly, stoicism comes naturally for the meditator. Everything is processed and watched
You’ve inspired me to begin the practice again thank you 🙏🏽
Great insight. Thank you!
Do you use any meditation audios on any specific frequency to do this?
I used to be stoic and masculine. I was productive and didn’t give a crap of what others thought about me. But I fell into some sort of depression and now I’m the complete opposite. I’m going to have to start over again.
Self-improvement is a never ending cycle brother.
Happens to me all the time as well, I fall back into bad habits and have to press the reset button.
It's annoying, but it's part of the process.
If it was easy to continually improve yourself, everyone would do it.
You got this king!
Same dude kinda like a brain dead zombie at this point
I got very sicks and hurt from a mob crash during a race, went from a pro racer very stoic to a shell of myself for almost 2 yers but once I felt ok I pushed again and got back to where I was, you got this, when you get back to where you were you won't be where you were anymore, you are wiser, you will be much further
Courage, stay strong
Listening to Casey I cant help but think of all the un-stoic traits I have, really aiming to grow
..indeed
You’re already making mad growth to be able to recognise you don’t have them. Most people would be delusional. You’re already strong.
@@goat6inboots I very much agree 👍 ... By only recognizing this stuff, we are half way THROUGH, already ... 💪
Friday night 22 October 2021.
Being STOIC = non-reactive
1. The masculine fundamental of "NOT CARING"
-Indifferent to external circumstances
-Not emotionally volatile (i.e. screaming at the TV news, sports or screaming at significant other about nothing, screaming at their parents because they don't like the situation, pissed off at their boss, then they are angry and go home a look at pornography on the internet)
-Less stress
-Faster success because you are "FEELING LESS"
2. No reaction
-business
-bills
-dominance hierarchy (self-worth not in pay check)
3. Women
- Man says "Ok."
- Man says "No."
-Man says "I don't care."
"When men misbehave (BETA, weak), women dump them. When women misbehave, men try to fix them." -Casey Zander
The scary super power - I CANNOT BE MOVED, I don't care.
“No strength in feeling things when it comes to decision making process” 🔥🔥
So true and a great reminder. Love stoicism, especially books like meditations by Marcus Aurelius and discourses by Epictetus
Those 2 guys are my favorite.
35 days no alcohol, 23 years old. It hasn’t been easy. However, I didn’t like the idea of having to rely on a substance to deal with stress. I’m currently reading Marcus Aurelius’s book “Meditations”, eating clean, hitting the gym. Living paycheck to paycheck, digging myself out of a rut caused by my addiction to booze. I just tell myself, I’ll be alright. And I’ve been alright. Thank you for your content.
Best of luck brother
I rely on porn which makes me feel odd 🤔
Congratulations man keep going
As a woman… this is tremendous advice. I think for me as well… not reacting to external circumstances…if we continue to do this - to react- our power is completely out of our control. We must know ourselves and our value and our values… a situación happens and so we need to RESPOND and not react. I have a fantastic man in my life and there is so much stuff going on in his life but he is unflappable. He expresses his thoughts and even his feelings about each situation, but he doesn’t get shaken… he usually will say ‘I need a couple of days to think this through’ and I say ‘you have all the skills and knowledge so I do not doubt you will come up with the right solution.’ … and he does…
What a goat this man is. Like seriously
There is an old German study, about children. Where if a child grows up in a stable two parent household until the age of 7, it will be extremely difficult to control him. The conclusion of this study was that if you want to control a man in his later life, destroy the circumstances in his early life 0-7. If you want a population of weak men, destroy the family unit. Now think about todays society, Casey you do good work, but some people might just be beyond the help due to early life circumstances. The system or system of values that creates weak men must be removed and replaced by force if need be.
Its like Aristotle said...give me the boy until he is 7 and I'll give you a man.
This is gold..
Being competent at your job and enjoying I have noticed makes my test go up, I can feel it.
I do not react on emotion. I rationally decide what I want and I develop a plan to achieve my goals. When things go wrong as they often do I simply reevaluate and adjust my actions. No emotion is necessary.
A calm and steady demeanor will serve you well.
Watching this video I finally got to the point where I completely understand the STOICISM. Being calm and collected 99% of situations is NOT STOICISM. 99% is NOT ENOUGH. You must be rock solid 100% of the time, 100% of all situations. No hesitation, no doubt. Of course there are failures and setbacks but you must always keep your head up and move forward.
Recently a girl stopped texting me out of nowhere and I didn't get it. I started doubting myself and probably missed an opportunity to just apply stoicism to keep moving forward without overthinking it.
half these H's hate themselves anyway that's why there's more of them than us so we can be happy and they can ultimately be alone
This is the video i needed . Everyday I will strive to reach the level of god tier level of stoicism
In case it hadn't been pointed out already, it is a hell of a lot easier to be stoic if you have your diet/blood sugar in a good place. Been adjusting my diet over the last couple months, mood swings have gone way down, the feeling of urgency/impending doom has gone way down, now I can just see what's happening, and make a decision. Has been pretty great.
Steve MCQueen said ‘ I live by my own rules & answer to no one ‘
This guy pissed a lot of people off on the way to success however he was doing what he loved, riding motorcycles & women 💪
You and your entire family tree deserve a life of peace and happiness just off this video alone. Wow
I agree completely - when you start being indifferent to the things you cannot control, you’re going to see your life change for the better.
Most people go through life Suffering because they’re constantly worrying about things they cannot change.
And that’s exactly what it is: It’s Suffering - instead you should focus and spend your energy on things you’re in control of.
And see how productive you become, it’s ultimately your choice… What are you going to choose? Suffering or being Productive?
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Being in control of your emotions and having the ability to stay calm no matter the situation is probably the most masculine trait you can have.
Cheers Casey👍
I have several YT playlists, but I've created one just for this single video. I'll watch it everyday until these lessons become my second nature. It's that good. Casey is THE man!
Brilliant video Casey. Strenth, power and truth - all in one concise package
Right on Casey.
Sidenote: It's important for many, including myself, to realise that the difference between agreeing with Stoicism in theory and applying it in practice are two completely different worlds.
I thought I had a bunch of it figured out because I knew many Stoic principles in theory, but I have still encountered many rude awakenings from day to day life that show me I haven't mastered it yet in practice and still react in ways that are very much non-Stoic and emotional (e.g. when receiving suboptimal results from my study or when noticing decreased interest in a female I'm interacting with. In both scenario's I reacted in emotional manners, when I should have just been accepting of these things. Luckily I didn't do anything to notify the girl of my emotional state, I know better than that, but I would still like to respond more appropriately purely for myself).
Thanks for the reminder through this video.
Uncle C! I've been following your videos and teachings for almost a year and I wanted to say you're superb💪
Casey I’ve watch several of you videos in the past few days. I’m going through a divorce as we speak. There’s so much truth and things that you teach on and really see so much info that is going on in my life right.
"I cant be moved" Thanks for this Casey
Putting that self worth outside, and living in fear. I’m ready to change that.
Sometimes I genuinely annoy or surprise people with how little I care about things, some of which are extreme
This is the best video to that topic I have ever seen.
It's such an easy mistake to think "I need to become high-value, I need to make money, I need to hit the gym, I need to have the hot girl, and then I can feel complete and happy." What is most important is your inner strength, your self esteem. Liking yourself and your life so that you don't NEED women and can just let them go. Ironically, this seems to be the most attractive quality in a man. Few UA-camrs highlight it like that.
I love how practical this is.
One of your best / illuminating videos yet. 100% TRUTH
When I didn’t give a F about anything or anybody Life was good.
Sounds cold, but it’s the TRUTH
Great message Casey💪
I needed this reminder, thank you.
i love your videos men,you always post when it's really needed,Than you for the wake up call
You're Turning into a Lord, Casey!
It’s so good I’m taking notes🔥🔥 appreciate your videos!!
This dude has quickly become my favorite UA-camr
This spoke directly to me. Thank you
Key is to not react to external stimuli, but to respond in a calculated & measured way.
you look leaner Casey, great video as usual
After getting ffckd these videos appear 😢 not before when we need this content 😭
So many channels try to tell guys how to make money, muscle, confidence, game ect...
But without a foundation of stoicism none of it will work out well.
The way of the superior man by David deida is definitely a book which is quite out dated it seems. I’m reading it right now and it says that when a women is having moods or is acting out as the man you must “give your love to your deepest core” in order to fix the mood. I questioned it at first and I don’t know if it applies to modern relationships.
Hmm I think theres times to use both philosophies, I think you can embody the love in yourself in a ‘non-caring way’ like you still got love in your heart for people but they go over the line and wrong you don’t get reactive and don’t let it lower your vibration. I think stoicism and modern spirituality can clash sometimes however they both contain many truths, you just gotta find the one which pertains to the situation at hand.
Love is playful and fun, so remaining stoic and not being moved off center is what I believe he means. The feminine turns a small problem into a huge problem, so the masculine turns that huge problem back into small problem. I’m not talking about fixing character traits, but remaining loving when the feminine is testing you or when the feminine is reacting dramatically to something.
You don't have to become emotional to give a women love.. Just grab her and hug her until she shuts up. It works all the time, I'm speaking from experience.
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Remember that Love is an ACT(!), not a feeling.
@@christiandenkstar Well said !!
I'm jelous a kid knows this.......and so much more than me.... good shit bro.
if that kid is a pre world war 2 generation u should be jelous otherwise ur better of being an old soul
I was trying stoic traits recently, and this video just pops up. Great timing, C 💪🏻💪🏻
Will you make any other video talking about this topic?
Looking ripped af tho
I’ve always wondered what was meant by being stoic. I understand what the word means but wasn’t able to apply it in a practical / masculine situation. This helps.
Thanks Casey
8:00 I can't be MOVED!
This is POWERFUL
Build yourself..Powerful Confident Masculine..Make your move, stake your claim to be a Man..Stand Firm..do it!
This is solid stuffs. Thanks Uncle C ✊🏾✊🏾
Hey Casey,
I appreciate the videos you be preaching.
I want to ask If you will do a video about Fathers and the role they play in their families lives. The stats for fatherlessness today is horrendous and I think that is an issue that creeps into a lot of guys in this day in age.
Casey, I wish I had a mentor like you when I was in my teens early twenties. My life would have turned out much different. Arguably better.
Young men, please pay attention.
You will save yourself a lot of headache in the future.
Uncle C is brilliant. Spittin pure knowledge. 👍👍
Uncle C, keep doing you. You Tha man
The sleeve monster got ahold of Casey this day.
Casey Zander For President!
If only more men understood this simple concept, this is golden 💪🏽💯
Uncle C, back in the office!
Stoicism Rocks! There's a cool video about Connor McGregor on UA-cam. Seems he may have been a major stoic without even knowing it.
“Check to check for two months, I’ll live”
You Casey, are fucking Awesome!
Young Casey is still making sense
Uncle C with the killer mantras
very powerful Casey.
Much appreciate your hard work you put into your videos
6:41 Casey, this put so much shit into perspective for me. It's crazy.
To sum it up.
Take your meaning from what you do, not what happens to you.
love your vids bro
Hey Casey, I've been watching your videos for a while, and I was just wondering if you could make a video on how to stand up for yourself? Sometimes I struggle to do that and its mostly at my workplace. cheers
@CaseyZander ... this would be awesome 👆 !!
Good video though Life Ain't Easy. I'm happy I heard this
i wish i could give you a million likes maan you are abs f right
Great video, Casey.
Showing the guns yes sir. We listening 🙂
Oh I am so glad to C... Uncle C..
While I mostly agree, I think there needs to be a balance of heart and mind. I have seen too many men cut out their heart and get their way, they get what they want, but they turn into abusive assholes unworthy of having a partner in their life. Yes, we can not allow our self to be ruled by our emotions, but neither can we deny them and still remain human.
Casey you are the MAN 😎🔥
She has to win you over
remember missunderstanding this 10 years ago in the pu community (unreactive/indiffrence to outcome concept), and turned into Clint Eastwood😅 its also important to apear dangerous btw😉
''When men misbehave women dump them. When women misbehave men try to fix them.'' Casey Zander 2021
I did not see that untill now. This will change my game. Thanks Casey
A salute to the Netherlands ... great country !
Just came across your videos. They are awesome man! Thank you
Another brilliant video. Thank you.
Amen. Great share.
Looking good brother
Thanks for the tip!
Keep moving forward gentlemen.
Great stuff bruv
Awesome advice!
I’m dealing with a negative foreman, thanks for the pep talk
Can anyone suggest books or websites you visit regularly to further your personal development and sense of stoicism? Don't hold back. Could help a lot of folks here. By helping others, we can help ourselves -- mutual trade.
I would suggest looking up some of Eric Greitens' books. You may not agree with him politically (let alone some of his more recent political controversies), but the knowledge and insight of a former Navy SEAL could very well be universally useful.
theres a story about a man which we'll call Uncle Adolf, u wont find any useful information on mainstream media... but u can install a Linux OS with thor and find out by urself that everything you know is wrong
Meditations - Marcus Aurelius and Discourses - Epictetus are classics
F yeah. Good info. ABC always be cool
Very powerful video
Turn negatives into a positive.
That's the secret.
I got the like button, I LOVE this video.
Love this one.
Interesting ideas. It would be more helpful if your board writing were much larger in print. Tough on a cell. Tx.
I been dealing with a girl who broke up with me, I said ok, 6 weeks no contact she’s back. Then she threatened to break up again, i said ok. She can’t move me and she has to fall into my frame because of it 😂. Wether I continue to deal with this I’m still not sure.
Why would you let her come back is the question?
You know she was getting railed by a bunch of guys or maybe one guy for all of those six weeks right?
Loved every single bit of it
well said. i learned it the hard way!