People Who Like To Be Alone Have These 12 Special Personality Traits
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- Опубліковано 16 лют 2018
- Here are the special personality traits of people who like to be alone. If that’s you, then you tend to enjoy spending as much time on your own as possible. Of course, this doesn't mean that you're lonely. You do have friends, but you just like being alone and have less of a need for socializing than most.
Loners are strong willed, and if there is anything extremely important to a loner, it is time. And you respect and value time more than anything else. Also, you tend to be among the most empathetic people in the entire world. Your intuition is your constant guide, and that’s one of the biggest signs of empathy.
People who like to be alone always have healthy boundaries. And even though you like to be alone, you are open-minded. At the same time, you’re more than aware of what your strengths and weaknesses are. And you tend to look at the bright side, no matter what life throws in your way.
You are an extremely unique individual if you have the special personality traits outlined in this video!
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People who like to be alone are not loners. They simply dont tolerate the vast amount of crap around them.
So...what's your definition of a loner then?
I think tere is a stigma with the word, "Loner". There is nothing wrong with being a "loner" in my view. Most people just do not understand this because they project their need to not be alone.
that said, I'd rather be a "loner" than a "sheeple" any day of the year!
I will forge my own path, trusting my instincts and intuition.
To hell with getting in line behind some designated/hired 'leader' (fake poser), ready to lead everyone down a path of ruin.
Sheeple easily fall for charlatans and commercialism. They are the best customers for retailers and puffed up, so-called leaders.
I will think for myself and not automatically follow the leader.
For how many have gone off a cliff, into harm or huge debt when taken by a leader with an agenda.
Honest authenticity is my Creed.
Agree
I'm sensing LoNeR as a negative its really Not.
People talk so much bull it's monotonous.
I love to be alone, I dont socialize much, I am not anti-social, I just have no tolerance for drama and fake people.
Same here
Same
yep
Indeed
Its a good choice to not give your energy out to the wrong people. Some people haven't realized the negative impact it has on them. I have a couple friends at work. At home I have my kids and my 🐕 & I'm happy with the peace.
I LOVE being alone. Free of chaos and fakeness.
A falsidade incomoda muito mesmo
Being alone doesn't mean being lonely. It means being at peace.
For sure...too much people time can cause stress --- It's nice to float back and forth between being alone and with other people, would you agree?
Very true
No. It means being alone. Being at peace comes from the non-chaoticness of being alone. You can find peace in many ways, but for someone like me, it takes separation from others and their profound way of thinking to find that peace.
Yes absolutely
Absolutely
Being alone is better to me than being with someone who makes me feel alone.
Thanks for expressing it. Exactly how I feel with the wrong person or persons around.
Same
👍👍👍
THIS. x infinity.
Well said bro 👍👍
I ♥️ being alone. I’m not ‘anti-social’ nor do I dislike people; just very at peace with my own company 😊
Same here!
Love the company of my books!! Not the toxic humans at the ...CLUB!!!😅🤣😅
me too
Me too 🥰❤️
I'm D I.D. and others don't understand it
It's better to have no friends, than the wrong "friends". You can always make new friends, the right ones.
You are right
I love that when you're alone there are no intrusions. Intrusion is usually by people who don't like being alone and don't understand why you do.
Exactly.
Not to be cynical but when your about to leave this mortal coil you do it alone if that makes sense
People Who Like To Be Alone Have This One Trait-They didn't freak out after a week of lock-down.
not even after 6 months, my life haven't changed one bit.
You got that right 😂
lol its abit inconvient doing errands but if it stayed like this permanantely i wouldnt care just send miss right i dont like live in girlfriends have our own places is fine by me
So true. I embraced it.
People are having to find themselves new hobbies and stuff like that. What the heck did they do before?
What people don't understand is there's a difference between being alone, and being lonely. I love being alone, and have never cared much about what others think.
Cathy Purnell, people understand that; extroverts aren’t stupid.
@@traditionalgirl3943 A lot of people dont
Korek
Exactly 🤔🙄
We're twins! Feels good to know others feel this way - you either get it, or you don't.
You're never alone, if you like the person you're alone with.
I am a woman who loves being alone w/myself
What a beautiful comment, John Sr.
You are so right,As long as you love being alone with yourself,why can't others leave you alone?I have been this way all of my life and I'm not about to change!
That's Good!
And I love love love myself
Love being alone. As I get older though, I dislike ppl more & more bc there are so many awful ppl out there.
Me too! 62 now and I enjoy my alone time.
I so agree with you. As i age, I let go of negative people who don’t respect my time as I respected theirs. I agree, there are a lot of awful people out there.
I am on that page too. I like being in the company of animals in the wild much more! Most people I come across are energy thieves, and have zero interest in anyone but themselves, very boring. Am never more alone than in the company of a huge group of people.
@@demelza32 i was in hospital intensive care covid 19 i found my true identity putting treatment aside i never spoke to any one and nobody visited me 2yrs on i survived and still see whats best for ME ME ME i be 69 yrs soon i get by
@@railtubetik2022 well done to you finding who you are, it is very liberating!! Glad your health has improved, and best of luck in your new life going forward.
I'm never alone....I'm with myself.
That is alone. You're with All-one aka only one.
At the very least, I am always with ME, MYSELF, and I --- And I will not mention the TEN other LADIES I always keep near me all the time !!! .........
@@NumberOneScientist Only 10 other personalities? Geez, your lagging behind 🤭
thats me
When I need good advice I talk to myself.
I'm at peace when I'm alone. It gives me a great sense of serenity and tranquility.
Me too.✌🏼💕
Yes!
Even I find peace when I am alone
Totally 👍
Me as well
Einstein: "I live in that solitude which is painful in youth, but delicious in years of maturity." (IIRC)
Interesting, profound comment
Solitude can be very calming and comforting.
I Am so glad to see this video. I thought there was something wrong with me. I just love being at home with my dogs.
No nothing wrong with being alone with our pets I am alone with my beautiful 😻 She is wonderful company for me
I ENJOY BEING WITH MY PETS THAN THE TOXIC PEOPLEAROUND ME. AGREE
Me too! As a HSP I have always lived alone, happiest with my dogs, art and books and I am never lonely. Kindness and compassion is important as an INFJ but I have learnt to avoid energy vampires as I've grown older.🕊
Me too! Love being alone with my fur babies.
There’s nothing wrong with you my dear. Animals have more manners and empathy than a lot of people out there
I feel drained when I'm around people for too long.
I pick and choose when I go out to see and I can't stay for long cuz I do I do understand what you're saying I also get too long
Exactly!!!!
so do i natalie but the exhaustion i experience is a fulfilling tiredness.
Man!!! I thought I was the only one this happens to
@@fidelisitor8953 Its called being an introvert
20% of people are introverts, lol.
Loners for life. We don't "hate" people, however we feel very stressed out when people is around. We feel very "happy'' alone or where there is no drama at all
I do hate most people :|
@@GoodsDell7
🙋♀️ hi......me too.....
I feel relaxed and comfortable alone. People make me anxious and nervous.
I definitely relate to this.
@@GoodsDell7 Don’t hate them. Feel sorry for them. Look at them as victims of the nasty society standards people set on eachother. Feel sorry for them being so weak minded.
The traits you mentioned actually describes my son. He likes being alone. He loves to read a lot, self reflects, sets goals for himself & does them. He is actually a role model at work & gets bonuses & prizes for them. I sometimes get worried bec he likes being alone. However, your description of their personality assures me that he is & will be okay.
I think this is awesome and healthy. BRAVO because this is right on! Rather than one not able to be comfortable alone, to reflect, but instead is consumed by others...if that makes sense...Like you said reflect! I love it. People and constant socializing can drain you, seems he is building character.
Speaking from experience, he will be and is totally fine. It's a rare way of life most dont understand and it's exhausting convincing people you're normal. Lol. He's probably very humble too. And comfortable being himself. Don't change that in him. My parents tried that with me. It went badly.
Wonderful you realize he isn't broken. I am a teacher who is fairly introverted. I choose to be vocal in meetings when other educators start the "we have to make them talk and participate to fix the children". I'm introverted NOT shy and these children are not broken. Often they are more engaged than the child that can't stop talking, and talking, and talking. Parents, please teach your child how to listen. 😞
That sounds like my son. As a 1st grader, he would get home from school and tell us he wanted to play alone b/c," I've been with people all day."
Maşallah,nazar değmesin.
I'm married and retired. I have adult children, grandchildren, and friends, but I LOVE my "ALONE" time. I really enjoyed the video and can relate to most of the personality traits mentioned. I commend ALL the people who live alone and love living alone. I think it's a sign of good mental health.
Better to be alone than to be with negative people.
Amen to that.
That's right.
Never a truer word said! 👍
I fully agree
But what about with positive good people..would you feel the same?
Being alone doesn't mean I'm lonely..
Sya Isa No just. you like to be alone
You can be lonely in a crowd of people.
Ball Magnetic yes and no
Rishirishi Roopnarine I’m not saying you can be hypothetically alone in a crowd I’m saying it’s a fact you can be because I’ve done it so many times there’s no “Yes or No” to it. There is a such thing as being out of place. Culture shock is similar but at this point one my not be trying to fit in....the person wants to get out into their environment.
Ball Magnetic you are. reall. sad get some pussy.
I am a loner and many people think this is a bad trait and I have never been able to explain to people that think this. I am sincerely grateful for this explanation. I have all the traits describe for a loner. I am never bored with myself and my mind continually gives me things that are inventive and challenging. I have empathy, giving, patience and a great friend if you are not a fake or have certain traits that are important to me and my morals. Thank You
the video describes me 100%. Has all 12 characteristics. love my wife and children but have 100% peace and quiet in my mind when alone
Weak, meek and bleek
I’m so glad you learned about yourself. You probably have gifts you give to this world, without being excessively social. “Loners” have amazing talents & gifts 🥰and so do ppl who are opposite, who like to be around others often.
Sounds like me alright.
God bless you, wish you always knew that it is OK
To be YOU!!!!!
I lived with other people, family and housemates, until I was 48 years old. It took some getting used to at first but now I have lived alone for 16 years and love it. When I'm around other people for too long I crave some aloneness. Your video sums up loners nicely. It's not about avoiding other people. I like most people. It's a real blessing to enjoy your own company 🙏
We had the only party house in town back in the day. Stepping over bodies in the morning LOL then we'll kind of got married and hooked up, shacked up, had a few kids here in there. though none of us would change anything, from a long time ago
" go placidly amid the noise and haste
And remember what peace there is in silence"
"I don't hate people; I just feel better when they aren't around." - Charles Bukowski
Me too.🤣
Same here, when they come for a visit I wonder when they are leaving.
Same here and when I ever do go to someone's place I don't stay very long.
Me too
The phrase Jean paul sartre once quoted-"hell is other people" comes to mind from time to time.
Stay strong 👍
Being alone is better than being in bad company!!!
So true.
Got that right
Something not mentioned here that is just as valid if not more so is the aspect of Asperger’s syndrome. Good company of Albert Einstein and NIKOLA TESLA.
I am with you on that.
Totally agree!!
I love seeing comments of people who like being alone, just like I do. It makes me feel that I'm just normal and it's ok to love being alone. I absolutely love solitude. It's so peaceful. It's just about me. It's full of energy. I love myself with all my flaws.
These comments have unique appeal
Im 39. I love being alone. This is so true. When one spends time alone, we tend to be self aware, appreciate our time, improved focus and cognitivity, etc. I can relate to most of these traits. Wouldn't change being alone for anyone.
I have always been a loner. This virus lockdown has not bother me one bit
Me neither. Going to walmart is a chore. They all seems so edgy and with an attitude, so I can't wait to get my stuff and get outta there
You should be bothered by the agenda for the lockdown.
I was in Nam for 3 tours for two years. After I returned to the world, well let’s just say I preferred to be alone. Like Phil Collins once sang, that’s just the way it is!
Been a loner all my life. I'm so interested in the things I like people don't really matter too much.
Barbara Smith:. I'm so glad to see that it's just Not me, bec I sometimes wondered Why I haven't had Any prob w it either.. when soo many can't handle it. I've been just fine! 👍 Peace!
I've been alone for so many years and i enjoy my own company. I prefer to be alone rather than be with toxic and fake people.
They represent the nuclear destruction establishment.
Which most people are these days, cos there's just too many of 'em!!!!!!🙄
Same here. I'm trying to distance myself from a toxic, fake friend that I've known for over 20 years. I definitely should've cut her off years ago but I got caught up in feeling like because we'd known each other for so long that we should stay in each other's lives. However, this pandemic slowed me down to reflect on the numerous times that she has been condescending, rude and insensitive over the years. I hate myself for not distancing myself sooner but for some reason I just couldn't. Now, even though she hasn't said anything negative in a while, I still can't help but to want her out of my life to make up for those years that I should've done it long ago.
me too.
One day I talking to my so call friend on her phone and I HER back stabbing me forget she not hang up yet and I jump at the chance to tell her I need a break from HER it NOT fell right for along time but I don't know how to break free FROM HER she constantly call and text saying I need her want to move in with me for rent free it just me me, I can tell you friend like HER I don't need enny enemy.
Watching this as an old woman who spent her entire life as a loner. Worked at a job with little direct contact with customers/coworkers, lived mostly by myself throughout my life. Never bothered me until I retired & then truly I realized how alone I was when I got a debilitating illness which required someone to come in & help me longterm. Immediate family all deceased, no money to hire home healthcare, no neighbor & very few friends. Nobody who could step in & take care of me in my hour of need. I am telling you this as a warning. Dont be comfortable with your loner lifestyle. Constantly work hard as you go thru life building family/friend connections. Do the work even if you would rather just stay home all alone. Dont end up alone like me because when you need help, & trust me - that day will come, you will have a support system in place. A group of people who you can lean on & trust to take turns, if need be, to take care of you when you can't. Its too late for me, but not for you.
You are so right. Nice to have your own company. But later in life we all need help.
Absolutely agree with you
Bless you and thank you for saying it.
You are awesome
❤
I love my solitude. In being a songwriter, it is critical that I have no distractions. While the whole world moves rapidly along, I find my peace and contentment on my own.
I’m more alone when I’m in a room with a lot of people. When I’m by myself I’m not alone.
U can feel lost in a crowd but can connect with urself
So true
I know exactly what you mean. During my wretched first marriage, I could be in the same room with my husband, sitting beside him on a couch,etc., but I would feel so desolate and so utterly lonely. He was extremely cold and distant, so I began to realize I felt more peaceful and content when I was by myself. I was always a bit of a loner; never felt the need for constantly being with groups of people. I always thought I was an odd-ball for being this way, but it is comforting to know there are lots of us who just prefer being by ourselves,
@@caspence56 yup u can feel lonely with family and siblings being the odd one out in the familiar group is a sign u dont belong and need to find ur own space
@@caspence56 Very well said....
There is something peaceful about being alone that the constant drama people would never understand.
"Just leave me alone, please leave me alone, won't you leave me alone...", d'ya know that song,? I LIKE being alone! (There's NOTHING wrong with THAT!)
She recently passed away...Helen Reddy
Exactly
I know some people that are totally having meltdowns over this quarantine really and why that I do not understand at all maybe it would be a good time for them to get to know their real self and as to who they really are and take a long look in the mirror you think.
@@helenboula3538 Exactly. And do things they have never done before, like walk in the woods, practice meditation, cook healthy foods, play an instrument, paint, make some art, etc...
I love being alone and I’m not a fan of people but I have a great family wife and children but I still enjoy being by myself a lot and I don’t need or want any friends I find most people are liars and users.
“Users?” Some people take advantage of my kindness and thinks I’m their genie or ATM.
You're a privileged loner
To have peace and quietness are two of the most precious things that were given to all of us. I enjoy having both of them.
Yes
I spend over 95% of my time alone
I enjoy it & I'm never bored.
Julia, 100% for me , and loving it. I can engage people but don't need to. have nice day
Boredom is a luxury. I have never been bored, except in boring classrooms.
me too
I'm totally bored during work meetings. Sitting around a table with nothing to engage myself.
Now that I am older I spend alot of the day looking for stuff I misplaced.. lol
Being a loner doesn't mean loneliness. You just don't need or rely on others to make it through life.
Am alone but am not lonely. I love to be with other but cannot wait to come home to be alone with my own comfortable surroundings. Cheers to the loners! 💘
@@pereliniandrews-manuma1758 When you need companionship, the company of others you know where to find it. Once satisfied, you've had enough, there is no place like the solitude of home, and if friends need you, they know where to find you, you'll be there.
I have no problem being alone, I’ve learned you have to make yourself happy before you can make someone else happy, so I’m happy to be alone, I have a lot of friends and family, I’m okay….
I am lonely sometimes, but it's just an emotion so if you give yourself some love and let it go it will be off after some time. I know, obvious. :-D :-( :-)))
@@sandraburns731 I am the same .
Being alone and putting boundaries are the most peaceful thing one can have especially for the introverts, thanks for the great video..
I love living alone…no conflicts and no confusion
I love being alone. The lockdown didn't bother me at all. He he he.
I am the same way. It didn't bother me at all.
Yea i know and understand this problem in the whole world even me to as an ambivert i know about this..
Same here.
Same😊
What lock down? Lol
"I don't want to be alone, I want to be left alone." ~Audrey Hepburn
Exactly. And people usually mix up loneliness and being left alone. It frustrates me. I remember one time, I wanted to have some alone time and a girl asked "Why are you lonely?" It made me so mad. I said "I'm alone not lonely."
Where's the Lamb SAUCE!! Me too!
I’m pretty sure Greta Garbo said that in a movie in the 30s or 40s not Audrey Hepburn.
Yes💃
Amen.
I am a loaner and I am so happy that you explained all my personality traits so distinctly and so correctly. It all felt like standing outside and looking into myself.
I hope that they at least pay you back 🤣😉
@@dadduorp Dammit! Beet me to it. *Beat (lol)
From the time I was little I have enjoyed being by myself. I've often to thought there was something wrong with me but after reading the comments I am so encouraged. I love animals and their company suits me best. Nothing irritates me more than people who won't stop talking. Being in the mountains, sitting at the beach watching the waves, or even people watching is my idea of "fun". People slow me down, I know exactly what I want to do and I hate it when people insist on helping. So I think I'll sit with my dog now and watch a movie.
I too was criticized as a child for the need to be alone. I would sit in my room and listen to music. No one ‘got’ me. They still don’t.
I agree.
I’m the same way. Even as a kid.
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1. value time
2. self aware
3. level headed
4. open minded
5. clear boundaries
6. aware of weaknesses and strengths
7. very empathetic
8. guided by intuition
9. never codependent
10. kindness and compassion
11. extremely courageous
12. self loving
Saurabh Kondka
Thank you for this...very helpful!
Thank you so much
Saurabh Kondkar thanks I didn't want to waste time on this video.
Bless your soul
Being alone doesn't mean that i'm alone. It means i'm strong enough to handle things all by myself.
You can be happy with someone I think; once you have lived on your own; and have been strong enough to handle everthing that life throws at you; I believe you become happy in you're own skin, every hurdle one climbs over; gives one confidence, therefore giving a more amiable, happy approach to life. At 57, years of age i'm less concerned about what I should wear, what I look like etc, and appreciate most days, and what I do and don't have. We all have a moan about the government and the country, but onthe whole we do have a decent amount of freedoms, we can watch what we want on television, lots of channels, download anything we want on youtube, at what time we want, we do have a national health service, always room to improve, but I believe our doctors nurses and scientists laboratory technicians have worked hard and gone all out, and believe they always do. I guess life experience makes one more able to deal with situations as they arise.
Or simply have no friends lol
@@cherylspandley8270 I was your age once, Now I am rejuvenated, don't ask me how, it's a long story, seriously. Just to say that "Estrogen" played a big role in it, sorry, can't elaborate. have a nice day.
Buddha....
Thank you this is my guide, I use intuition for most of my life, I'm not boasting but I can handle everything I need to do If I can I'll procrastinate. I am also self-partnered. have a nice day
Being an empty nester who suddenly lost my identity when the boys grew up I’ve come to value my alone time. I may be alone but I’m not lonely. I read about topics if interest like psychology, body language, human nature and meditation to further spiritually learn and grow. I’ve always known I had the 6th sense not just because I’m Scorpio but because of things I’ve had happen or can do. Intuition is my strongest ability and it’s never been wrong in 48 years.
I don't fear being alone nor do I think it's bad. Sometimes I hear other people make fun or criticize "loners," because they think it's not healthy to be alone. That may be true in some cases especially if a person is self destructive or is into negative actions/ activities; however, there are those of us who are very productive and find alone time as rejuvenation time. Carry on my fellow "loners. " I think the information is pretty accurate.
The greatest irritation: somebody destroys your solitude and doesn’t provide you with meaningful company.
If I'm sick and you just HAVE to drop off a bowl of soup, please do so...then leave me alone. Please.
Omg!
Agreed!
my son would agree with you
Sometimes you should give your solitude to the lonely. It is an inconvenience, but it has rewards that strengthen your being. It is wise to avoid becoming a reclusive.
We are social animals, regardless of how annoying the other humans are. It is why we came here, after all.
Having a bed all to yourself is blissful.
Sharing one can be fun too!!!
Absolutely!!!! I always say men and women should go back to having their own rooms....hey, you can always visit each other!!!
yea!? But still miss a warm naked body, next to mine.
Totally! ❤
Plus.....I toss and turn a lot
I'm a social butterfly at work but spend most of my time at work to myself. When not at work, I focus on what I like and love and only schedule fun times with my friends when I feel lonely. My best friend is an INFJ and I am an INFP. Value yourself. Being alone is a gift and so wonderful.
I love being alone. It’s unfortunate if others have difficulty, because it’s an amazing loving feeling being with yourself. Very peaceful! My time is precious because every second is an experience I have chosen to feel happy, and not be bothered by what the world dictates. My life, my terms.
Being alone means you can watch as much UA-cam as you want in peace and quiet!
John Nabers right or all the ID you can watch. get Sone ideas on how to handle garbage.lol
John Nabers Facts!
Indeed
yep!!!or do whatever u want when u want.love it love it love it!!!!
Being alone means my pot stash lasts longer.
i LIKE BEING ALONE. i LIKE TO CHOOSE WHEN TO BE WITH PEOPLE.
Me too!!
Me too
ME THIRTEEN !!! .........
@@NumberOneScientist
Me 27
Me to...
There is absolutely nothing like being alone❤
Have never had my loneness analysed so accurately before, thank you xx
If you really like being alone, you don't seek validation from other people through social media either.
good point.
Thats Right we post information to free the masses! and then we have them but hurt over the truth......got no time for it !!
@@rc9266 'information' is made from data, but it is often disinformation. no?
@@rc9266 'they' post disinformation free TO the masses!.
you got no time for the truth?
do you mean 'alone' as; independent, aloof, isolated, anti-social, egotistical, insular or what?
it may not be 'like' to be alone, it may be through self preservation, e.g. mr heavyside, or social misfit e.g Tesla, etc
If you can’t enjoy your own company, you’re in big trouble.
As said by Sadhguru 😇
preach!...
Frank Herrera Serial killers are not happy campers.
I love hanging out with "me" sometimes I see myself in the third person. I'll say things like "you know that's not going to work dummy, remember last time?" I think there's a smart me and a dumb me. I try to have the smart one lead the way but it doesn't always work out that way. Either way I'm digging me!!!
Yup.most people are their own worst enemies scared of themselves need to escape with crowds they are the lonely ones
Gosh. I am a "loner" - but I just love all that can be witnessed, felt and understood through the power of one's own brain. And yes, it is of vital importance to me - to touch the face of life in truth. What an insightful video. Well done!
I can find myself in all 12 traits. Amazing selection, thank you :)
I have never felt lonely or bored in my entire life. I don’t understand people who get bored.
I get bored but I don't experience loneliness at all.
Awesome. Like minded. I've been a "loner" since childhood and I Love it! Never ever EVER bored. The word bored should not truly exist. Boredom denotes a lack of self love, discovery and understanding. Knowledge is endless, and if a person is bored he or she lacks the choice or will to improve.
I'm 80 years old and still find there is so much to do. I don't see how anyone can be bored, maybe they are just plain lazy.
@@jamestommasin6542 Wow. Awesome. I'm 53 and you're correct sir. Boredom should not exist. Its called lost and lazy. I absolutely cherish my aloneness. Love it!
I don't allow that word with my son
Me, myself and I make a trio of best friends so I am never alone. God is with me too.
Love it !!!
Right on.
Indeed!😊👍🏾👍🏾
Amen
Same here.!!
Every single trait mentioned is a perfect example of who I am as a person. Being alone and having me time is vital to my well being. I don't know if being an only child has helped shaped me as one of these individuals or if I was just born this way and maybe it's a mix of both but I am glad that I have all of these traits!
being alone prevents from fake relationships and toxic affairs
i too have same thinking
Your right
Yes
Definitely.
.......Wow, Vivo! You said a mouthful!!! SO TRUE!!! The older I get the more I notice that! Thank you for the huge pinpoint! ♡
I don't hide from people, but I am my own best companion.
This is the same for me - it's weird, but that's how it is.
@@TREVASLARK, Do you hear sometimes from people that you just don't care... ? I do, but they are so mistaken...
@@garysmith7760
No, I don't hear it, but I'm quite sure some think that. And some think that maybe I'm a snob. One of my problems is that I can't just make "small talk" with a casual acquaintance on the spur of the moment. But if I know a person a little, I can certainly have a good, meaningful conversation with him/her.
Sea Star, Ditto on every point ! I especially avoid "chatty" phone calls, just go straight to the topic and even use lamest excuses to end the call. The meaningful dialogue, however, is my objective, and then others tell me that I'm too serious.
@@garysmith7760 Every conversation can't be seriously meaningful, but I don't enjoy talking just for the sake of talking !!
Have been single for 5 years. My occupation is very social, therefore I revel in peace & quietness when I get home. I’ve had the same close circle of friends for 30 years.
The video was awesome!
WOW! How spot on!! I am def one of these! Very encouraging!! I look forward to alone time more than a vacation! Actually alone time is a vacation for me. In the midst of craziness I can just think of a few days alone and be happy.
Alone, yes, lonely never. I can talk with people for hours, but I have to be alone in my house.
Nice one, Olivia.
I'm talkative with interesting and intelligent people, but at the end of the day, I cherish my solitude the most. I also cherish time with animals. They never lie or cheat on you. They just want the basics: food & love.
Being alone means you have time to think, question and be critical about things that other people ignore. You don't follow the crowd to be popular and cannot be persuaded to change your viewpoint just to remain one of the herd - thinking outside the constraints of orthodoxy. Harbouring an inquisitiveness about everything ensures you never tire of things to do - nothing is taken for granted. In summary, we are seeking truth and consequently abhor deceit.
exactly... I like being alone in the house
Texting is king
I love being alone, it's so peaceful.
Agreed I do enjoy being a little social, but I like my quiet time more though
Robert Atwood
Amen to that.
Yeah sometimes it really is
i agree so much. I feel so damn obligated that i have to fit in with the rest of the social people. And i feel guilty over it! like i';m not doing my part or something.
I perfectly agree, as I like to stay alone, if people do not understand, I can send them this video, so they understand me.Thank you for the video.
It's true! I enjoy a special space in my life when I enjoy my alone time. I am very social but my alone time is important to renew and unwind, reflect, totally relax.
The worst loneliness is being in a home with someone who doesn't even acknowledge your alive. Much better by myself
I agree that makes ya feel like" shot"
hurts like dry ice.
That's what brought out loving my own company and staying solo. My ex boyfriend was shit. And shit company. I rather be alone and Happy
Oops meant to comment on comment above 😂
NVM got it right lol
I'd rather be completely alone than with someone that makes me feel alone. It's not a good feeling. I don't feel any rejection if I am by myself. People can make one feel very lonely. I try not to do that to others.
same. I wouldn't want to hurt anyone, some people don't understand .
I was in a marriage like this. Now I live on my own and I'm not lonely anymore.
Sadly, the world highly misunderstands people who prefer to be alone.
Well most people are SHEEP anyway....and sheep don't like to be alone..they follow each other regardless...that's why they don't understand people who prefer to be alone. X
true af
Tru dat!
We dont need the world people understanding us they need mind work and mind change
@@margaretgill4330 lucky im not a sheep im a strong leo starsign lions fight alone kings of the jungle
Yes. I enjoy my own company and have never felt alone. This video was pretty spot on.
great video, all my life i have liked "alone time" just to reflect and try to make sense of the world arround me, i even took a packed lunch and books to the woods on my own as a boy just to have a "day off" from the world. always found it easy to make and have friends, but sometimes found the "clingy" or controling ones hard to shake off ! (hiding behind the curtains when your friend calls is a bit confusing !) now after two marriages, one bitter divorce, one ammicable separation, I think I am where i was always meant to be, alone, not lonely and looking forward to retirement. thanks for reading, remember, we are all different and i hope you enjoy life "your way" love, Dave.
There is no better way to celebrate Freedom than being alone and making your own choices.
I’ve lived by myself for over 25 years and I love it. I’d rather be alone and in complete control of my surroundings. I have no tolerance for fakes, or drama. I am the most altruistic person I know. The freedom I enjoy is boundless and beautiful.
I agree it a peace of mind just got out an relationship thinking im better alone. Dont have to worry about drama it get lonely but im fine.
That's me exactly. Have been single for 35 years now. Marriage was like being in prison. I never get lonely - I'm interested in too many things. Ironically, I don't even date, but get asked out often.
Admires you sir
@@annemccarron2281 preach. ❤
That sounds lovely.
Amazing! Checked out all of them, thankyou for sharing this. I always thought there were something wrong being a loner but after seeing your vid make me feel better.
I learned that there are so many people who like to be alone..earlier I used to think,I am some weird person who liked to be alone.
It's more important to understand yourself than to understand others.
Being alone has many benefits...
Thanks for the lovely video .
My home is the house of peace. All are welcome, but anyone who disturbs this peace, they get the boot.
I feel the same way...
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The curb awaits.
Absolutely, Allen. My Apartment is my sanctuary.
@@annmarie2964 Yes, LOL
I feel comfortable being alone,you know why?
-I'm independent
-I'm brave but humble
-No ones will control your decision
-Myself is my priority first but not selfish.
-i know God beside me.
-Thinking about my dreams how to be success.
You spoke my heart out
As a Loner I prefer to hang out with real introverts but sometimes you feel alone cuz i dont know what im gonna say. It feels more safer when hanging out with Nice loners
I love your list! It really gives me internal peace accepting myself perfectly into it's honorable descriptions especially faith in God. It really is a great root to develop your tree of morality and righteous behaviors. If you take the Bible seriously you become all of these by default and so much more. Again this list really made me feel so much better. 💪🥰👍
I love that you mentioned God. I am an introvert and have been preparing my whole life for quarantine....lol! I love to see how extroverts start freaking out with all this time on their hands. My life hasn't changed one bit.
@@alienheston5748 Same Same Same
Wow ! Resonates with me better than any astrology chart, therapist, or personality test I’ve ever experienced
I really love being alone and you wouldn't know the power of being alone until you vibe alone. Thanks so much.
I love my alone time. I like my own company and never bored as there is always plenty to do.
Alone sometimes is good and sometimes in really pouring
hello beautiful woman with a beautiful smile best wishes for a beauiful woman like you, oh my god you are looking very beautiful, how are you doing, i hope you are having a nice day how is the wearther over there
My biological father used to say, " the best remedy for boredom is a good book. Get one and read it."
Charles Bukowski once said "I don't hate people, but I do seem to feel better when they're not around."
Yup i think the best marriage is between a deaf man and a blind woman i like to observe but not participate
Wasn't he a drunk?
I much prefer the company of animals, guess that's why I love rehabbing wildlife
Christopher Helms. ...lol. Good quote ...great author ...post office is a good book ...also ham & rye ...
@@kendallevans4079 so what if he was a drunk he was wise in his drunken state maybe
I can’t say I “enjoy” being alone, because even if I’m the only human around, I never feel alone! 🤷🏽♂️
I like being alone and just sitting and observing what’s is going on around me. As the world spins more out of control, I find myself more in control of myself. I no longer change who I am and want to be to make others happy.
There's a difference between being alone and being lonely, one can do without people, the other can't...
@Stuart Ongley I agree with you, I'm like
you
Agree
@Stuart Ongley other friends who you might not trust are referred to as aquantances
nailed it
@@JJAVA-wt6eo UR welcome...
Not sure who said this:
"Learn to enjoy your own company. You're the one person you can count on being with the rest of your life."
Not sure who said it; it's nice. To add another, Oscar Wilde said, "To love one's self is the beginning of a lifelong romance."
Evie H. This is solid advice😎
💯👍👍😎
@Shirley Jackson absolutely!!!
Love it
I had a breakdown 7 years ago....and looking back my friends weren't really friends in time of need, choosing to be on my own has really helped find the real person I am.
Wow how true! For the first time in my life I am physically alone and I am at my happiest! And I enjoy being with myself by myself! 🙌🙌🙌
I was married for 20 yrs. Been alone for 35 yrs. I was lonelier married than I have in the last 35 yrs. I lost myself but now I know and more important like myself so much better. The peace you have is wonderful.
The only thing worse than being alone is wishing you were.
It’s not pice for peace ✅✅✅🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
been there worst feeling
You sound like my kind of girl. 👍
This is all true,I enjoy my quiet alone time. I like people but sometimes people can be very judgemental. I was married,now divorced and I enjoy the peacefulness of just being me.
I love the state of solitariness. It makes me strong, creative, courageous. hey loners! like if u agree👍
good reply
Hey r u a loner like me
I couldn't agree more.
I am the best friend I have.
@Maria Camilla Thiago stop getting judjemental. why i asked for likes is to keep a count for a reason i wont share
First the word is solitude you "solitudeness" is a clear reach to be different which is NOT what a loner would do and SECOND "click LIKE" is something a real "loner:" would give TWO shits about so .. YOU are a fake.
Great video. I am all that you mentioned! Plus, I am an empath here to serve in the awakening of Humanity to greater love, unity, and collaboration amongst our diffetences. Take good care and be safe!!
That was very enlightening because I possess all 12 of those qualities I love being by myself because it keeps me focused and motivated to continue to work on being me and no one else❤️
Being a loner doesnt mean your lonely because i love being myself it brings me peace of mind
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I wish i Had a friendgroup of More loners we Would be so Peaceful together with Each other. And I could throw my protectshield away.
Let's create a group,this is exciting group of loners,
@@vanessacoronel136 good idea and how?
I love being alone too. I have a number of friends but I love doing things and going places by myself. Thanks for this video.
Oh wow, this is so me. Thank you for your insight.
I’m just not interested in small talk. And people do that 99% of their entire day. I’m a deep thinker sort of person.. It just bores me and I’m not interested that’s why I enjoy being alone.
Right on...same here...I hate small talk!
Spot on me aswell I'm rather good at it if need be but I HATE it I'd rather sit in silence 😀 and often do 😅
Same. I always think of the Dumb and Dumber scene "No, and I don't care!" LoL
@Paul Blazewicz Sent this to Trump, McConnell, & the lot.
People usualy do not understand the things i talk about and i am not interested in the things most people talk about
I am a loner and am 100% at peace in my life. My inner world is so rich that in comparison, the outter world is boring.
Well said. The richness happens internally.
YOU. LOVE. GOD. JEHOVAH ? PSALM. 83 ; 18. JW . ORG
Same here. I can’t say that I’m at 100% peace but I know I could be. I have a loving, spiritual, kind, peacefulness inside me. The outside world isn’t boring to me but very stressful. Xx
I am never bored and I cannot even understand that many people actually complain about "being" bored. Too much going on inside that any outward disturbance distracts from my purpose. But when someone does recognize the energy this is, within me, that will be a mutually amazing day for both of us. Reaching out with love to all of you. Hugs are good. It has been too long for me, that COVID-19 has not allowed my eternal nature to give HUGS to people. This is the most difficult sadness for me.
Same here. I'm not impressed by extravert People who like to be in the center of attention. Loners are chill as f.