WOMEN Want YOU to CHEAT ON THEM when Dating (uncomfortable truth of arousal and desire)

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  5 місяців тому +12

    Attract and Keep ANY women you want using 'MBT' Below!🔥
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    • @Mojorisin3699
      @Mojorisin3699 5 місяців тому

      What about when in a serious relationship?

    • @DWilsonSr
      @DWilsonSr 5 місяців тому

      @@Mojorisin3699 put yo mac dwn… I don’t think you been listening this is for all women

    • @ahuramazda980
      @ahuramazda980 5 місяців тому

      Does this still work if you cheat and have a rotation, but she never finds out directly? In other words, you exhibit the energy and behavior of someone who gets sex from other places without her knowing whether it is so 100%? Or must she find out for sure that you are cheating?

    • @paulmccormacksvideogamesan2912
      @paulmccormacksvideogamesan2912 5 місяців тому

      Man you are so right about everything! I'm so mad at myself for being so stupid. I have a million stories that support your videos bro be true!

    • @LyotoMachidaMachida-pp2rd
      @LyotoMachidaMachida-pp2rd 4 місяці тому +1

      Question . So to keep a “ main girl “ girlfriend to who u give ur love and treat her etc , you have to still be sexual with other girls . Ok , get the idea , but, how does she know? Is it because you act different when u having sex elsewhere and it makes u care less . Or u mean because u tell her u are going to be sexual with other girls ? So the question is should she know or not know but suspect it ?

  • @user-pg8uh7zr8s
    @user-pg8uh7zr8s 5 місяців тому +698

    When you figure out how women think you wont want one

    • @JEMANF
      @JEMANF 5 місяців тому +117

      Absolute facts. Thats where I’m at. It’s almost disgusting…

    • @headbandassasin
      @headbandassasin 5 місяців тому +45

      @@JEMANFalmost?

    • @elpretisabe
      @elpretisabe 5 місяців тому +82

      nah, that's just previous beta programming. It made you idealize women and now it all came crumbling down and made you angry. Once you get past the anger phase you start appreciating women for what they can actually bring to you.

    • @rhuiden4086
      @rhuiden4086 5 місяців тому +36

      @@elpretisabe "appreciate" is taking things too far but yeh u on point.

    • @brentrosencrans3968
      @brentrosencrans3968 5 місяців тому +29

      @@elpretisabe could you provide some examples of what women can actually bring to you? Please and thank you.

  • @williamclayton9566
    @williamclayton9566 5 місяців тому +88

    In a woman's mind, A Man's Loyalty = Lack of options.

    • @MalkuthEmperor
      @MalkuthEmperor 5 місяців тому

      If this has happened to you, i know it will sound condescending, maybe even mean, but i dont mean it like that at all.
      If youve been hurt by a woman, it doesent mean that all woman are the same as those woman.
      Not all humans need to like everyone else. We can acknowladge that and move on, we dont need to generalise based on personal grevance with a few people who hapen to be the same sex.
      Nothing is gained by fueling this male victim mentality.
      Im not saying this because there is any shame in getting hurt or rejected, because its a horrible thing to get rejected and hurt by someone.
      But there are woman who will be kindd to you, and if you assume every one of them is bad, than youll end up hurting the ones who love you.
      This is coming from a guy who has experienced thease things.
      I ask you to only think about it.
      You dont have to reply or to admit anything or whatever, ofc you arealy knew that
      Okay, ill quit bothering ya, have a nice day man, hope things get better if they are bad
      And if they are good,then i hope they get even better

    • @notyourdad361
      @notyourdad361 4 місяці тому +2

      @@MalkuthEmperor Not everyone are the same but there are some things that are common in everyone. Especially what women find sexually attractive even if its not good for them in the long run

  • @sammywilliams6
    @sammywilliams6 5 місяців тому +363

    Facts men get the best results when a women is worrying about you/scared to lose you 😂😂

    • @kendallroy7
      @kendallroy7 5 місяців тому +53

      Facts...no need to cheat though..just focus on your mission and keep your options open..works every time.

    • @johnn.marshall4566
      @johnn.marshall4566 5 місяців тому +15

      @@kendallroy7women think not putting them first is ‘cheating’ 💯

    • @larrymartinez3094
      @larrymartinez3094 5 місяців тому +2

      Yet w my own eyes I see this is true mostly.. but what about when she don’t fw that at all N she leaves you.. only cuz her parents been together for so long. She wants that 1 on 1 but I know for a fact her dad has cheated so like why she living in a fake world

    • @Mr.Ambrose_Dyer_Armitage_Esq.
      @Mr.Ambrose_Dyer_Armitage_Esq. 5 місяців тому

      @@johnn.marshall4566
      There's what a woman says, what a woman thinks, and what a woman's evolutionary instinct responds to. They _SAY_ not putting them first is cheating, they may even believe that but, they're going to subconsciously intuit your dedication as a license to let themselves go, not worry about losing you, and an indication you're a doormat.

    • @sishaw5005
      @sishaw5005 5 місяців тому

      @@larrymartinez3094this is my exact situation. Girls like this live in a delusional world

  • @spruce5123
    @spruce5123 5 місяців тому +220

    If a woman believes that you cannot or would not cheat..... At some point she will cheat on you.

  • @MrRobuo
    @MrRobuo 5 місяців тому +188

    Sexual exclusivity is a state of mind... For married fathers (like myself), it does not require cheating to eliminate this mindset from your mental repertoire. It basically means you go out there and keep your attraction skills honed (i.e. lightly flirt with every woman you see - including in front of her). By doing so, you will convince yourself that if you had to get a new woman you could. Just having that confidence and mindset will straighten out a good woman who is dissing you.

    • @daynemin
      @daynemin 5 місяців тому +24

      Yup, no need to cheat. Just stay on point.

    • @GrayFur
      @GrayFur 5 місяців тому +21

      I agree. If the goal is to look and feel desired then there should be harmless ways to do it without breaking trust. Having female friends, having fun around women and look physically attractive should be enough

    • @clevelandwilliams5922
      @clevelandwilliams5922 5 місяців тому +1

      That’s correct

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 5 місяців тому +1

      I don't agree with the flirting in front of her thing. That's sounds try-hard, and the woman you are flirting towards is confused that you are doing it in front of your wife.

    • @daynemin
      @daynemin 5 місяців тому +8

      @@GUITARTIME2024 you can flirt without interest, it's just fun conversation, being engaging and present

  • @user-uc7qb1su4e
    @user-uc7qb1su4e 5 місяців тому +352

    Crazy how you have to go against your heart and values in cheating on a woman just to keep her attracted but I’ve personally seen it work

    • @nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115
      @nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115 5 місяців тому

      Yeah, going against your nature just for seconds of orgasm... Truly unworthy.

    • @DavidianCrest
      @DavidianCrest 5 місяців тому +5

      question does it still work if you do it and don’t tell her (and act funny), or just let her see it intentionally and make her rage 😂. I’m only asking because I’m 100% sure I’m atp with my gf smh

    • @nananyantakyi1549
      @nananyantakyi1549 5 місяців тому +33

      Only cowards cheat, most men are cowards..I dont cheat on my girl, I explore my options

    • @nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115
      @nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115 5 місяців тому

      @@nananyantakyi1549 Men have been coerced from the cradle to become submissive to the chaotic w0men's nature, but the more you know the more you are disgusted and eventually frees you.

    • @PD-qu8dq
      @PD-qu8dq 5 місяців тому

      Big Facts!!
      It’s the emotional indoctrination that makes us feel guilty about it.
      It’s really a mating strategy. Depending on the Guy, they will accept it, not accept or argue about it but accept it keeps happening.
      Also, some guys they actually condone it, and will gladly play wingman.

  • @thomashilmersen711
    @thomashilmersen711 5 місяців тому +243

    That is one story, and sometimes it happens like that. Other times, the woman gets so disgusted by the cheating that she never wants to see the guy again.

    • @zaynyt3420
      @zaynyt3420 5 місяців тому +35

      true, I've had some instances where girls never wanted to see me again

    • @johnthomas7070
      @johnthomas7070 5 місяців тому +51

      Yea some actually have self respect LOL but in my experience it is very rare!!

    • @_Shadow10.
      @_Shadow10. 5 місяців тому +25

      It all depends on her perception of you.

    • @maggot617
      @maggot617 5 місяців тому +27

      Prob disgusted for other reasons or the girl wasn’t hot

    • @user-je6cd2op2l
      @user-je6cd2op2l 5 місяців тому +24

      They love the cheaters

  • @Njderig
    @Njderig 5 місяців тому +118

    I think they want to know you have the option and the ability to cheat, but not actually cheat. Any woman with self respect shouldn't put up with that, and neither should any man.

    • @bravo4adventure988
      @bravo4adventure988 5 місяців тому +12

      That's some blue pill thinking right there bro. I used to think that too. But then I cheated on a girl. She became even more committed to me in every way (she knew that very night). This was a major lightbulb moment for me. Other girls I dated knew that I had options, but that I wouldn't exercise them, and thus didn't respect me and certainly didn't give me their best.

    • @Lockedin03
      @Lockedin03 5 місяців тому

      dats cap bro@@bravo4adventure988

    • @ThirdEyePerspective1111
      @ThirdEyePerspective1111 5 місяців тому

      ​@@bravo4adventure988 only low self esteem women would think and feel that way. It's basically another form of "battered wife syndrome".

    • @DirtyJamesUK
      @DirtyJamesUK 5 місяців тому

      Self respect. That's probably the kicker. MANY of them have inferiority complexes and a lack of self respect. Meaning that they pretend to be superior but know its all a feeble lie.
      That's why they say nonsense like girls run the world. Inferiority complex.

    • @DirtyJamesUK
      @DirtyJamesUK 5 місяців тому

      ​@@bravo4adventure988 it sounds like emotional abuse, but women are naturally emotionally abusive, so you're just winning at THEIR horrible little game.

  • @loudseik9997
    @loudseik9997 5 місяців тому +59

    Well thats a lie. I cheated on my ex and I was seeing her soul getting crushed when she found out. After she found out nothing was the same anymore and it ultimately destroyed our relationship and we broke up. If the girl really loves you and is mentally stable dont do it, youll regret it.

    • @mat7083
      @mat7083 5 місяців тому +2

      How did you respond to her reaction?

    • @loudseik9997
      @loudseik9997 5 місяців тому +19

      ​@@mat7083 Well when she first found out she was pretending that she doesnt care so I didnt have any special response or change to my behavior. And then 2 years later she just broke up with me, out of nowhere, saying that she was a stupid girl for putting up with the cheating and that it destroyed her. Only now in retrospect the signs that it bothered her from the beginning are clear as day, I just didnt want to see them I guess. She was an amazing girl, beautiful on the inside and out. Cheating on her was the dumbest thing I ever did in my life.

    • @mat7083
      @mat7083 5 місяців тому +2

      @@loudseik9997 Yeah. That was stupid

    • @marcusmcgraw3519
      @marcusmcgraw3519 5 місяців тому +6

      @@loudseik9997 thanks for your common sense. I can admit that I treated some women like shit that I shouldnt have. I convinced myself that I did it to protect myself. Maybe there is some validity in that. But I know this woman did not deserve what I did to her, regardless of how much I wanted to self sabotage the situation in order to avoid failing on someone else's terms instead of my own. I have to respect your self reflection here, seeing as it's on the same wavelength

    • @ThomasP525
      @ThomasP525 5 місяців тому

      You deserved to lose her. Do better.

  • @katadromeasgr
    @katadromeasgr 3 місяці тому +2

    Seeing me liked and wanted by other women is a turn on yes. Seeing me cheating on her isn't. Unless we want to have the maturity of a 12-year old for the rest of our lives.

  • @johnbonham617
    @johnbonham617 5 місяців тому +44

    I was a natural on " how to lose your girlfriend".....

    • @psp4150
      @psp4150 5 місяців тому +4

      I’ve done everything wrong and yielded the results.

    • @SeanMcCaffrey-zo4jw
      @SeanMcCaffrey-zo4jw 5 місяців тому +1

      🤣

    • @johnbonham617
      @johnbonham617 5 місяців тому

      Shoulda' listened to my brothers motto... "they are all WHORES!

    • @tootrill4711
      @tootrill4711 5 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @DonTrump-sv1si
    @DonTrump-sv1si 5 місяців тому +23

    This is so true. I had a chick that was almost let down that i wasnt flirting with other chicks at work and she thought they all wanted me because she wanted me. This is seriously correct

    • @PyroMiniYak
      @PyroMiniYak 5 місяців тому +2

      Cool story bro

    • @DonTrump-sv1si
      @DonTrump-sv1si 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@PyroMiniYak Dont be a jealous little beta b!tch. No one has time for that little kid sh!t. When you say "cool story bro", youre just saying im a jealous loner that cant get women so im gonna try to be dismissive to someone else and bring them down. Its low class and its what beta males do. Be better

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 4 місяці тому

      Something wasn't right with her. The workplace should be to earn a living not to build a cardboard house.

    • @DonTrump-sv1si
      @DonTrump-sv1si 4 місяці тому

      @@Erica-cf1xb Shouldnt you be making me a sandwich?

  • @JEMANF
    @JEMANF 5 місяців тому +196

    Sorry fellas, I can’t rock with this one, even though I know it’s true. I’m not gonna cheat on my chick to get her to act right. I’ll just leave her. It’s easier to just walk away and let the streets have her…

  • @anthonypaules7893
    @anthonypaules7893 5 місяців тому +23

    Ignore her, cheat on her, she cheats back. Doesn't really seem like it's even worth it anymore.

    • @faulfeza5243
      @faulfeza5243 5 місяців тому +8

      No. If you demonstrate high value, she will not want to lose you. If she breached your boundaries she knows you’ll leave and she doesn’t want that

    • @rejectwokeness1314
      @rejectwokeness1314 5 місяців тому

      She cheats back, dump her ass. Simple.

    • @TeacherToolkitDemo
      @TeacherToolkitDemo 5 місяців тому

      If you are a pathetic man yes.

    • @andybond5002
      @andybond5002 5 місяців тому

      yeah right, its nice to live in delusion, don’t deceive yourself, she gets high on cheating and she will cheat on you

    • @savking6188
      @savking6188 5 місяців тому

      @@faulfeza5243 If you cheat on any woman, she will cheat on you and that's just facts. It doesn't matter how "high value" you are, she get back.

  • @SturdyBam
    @SturdyBam 5 місяців тому +22

    If she thinks or knows you have women before you get with her, she will always assume that you still do and when you don’t she will lose attraction. Her knowing you have women is what brought her to you in the first place. She wants to win you over from the rest of the women. Ex girl in college left campus and I was working on my rotation and she came from out of state to drop those draws when she found out I was with other women. Women operate like this when you already have women in the background and especially if you let them know you have women. It’s not cheating if she knows you have women….shell act pissed but it will keep her in competition mode.

    • @cynicist8114
      @cynicist8114 5 місяців тому

      Good insight. They do act like one big tribe in competition with each other. The sisterhood they always talk about is a front.

    • @jimbeam7160
      @jimbeam7160 5 місяців тому +1

      They seem to be dependent on what their peer group thinks...like they aren't really sure if they like you. They like you, if other people like you? Which ignores all the potential possible ways of connecting with humor, concern, attraction, etc? It's like, they cannot make up their mind, and want it all...including anything that could crop up later when she's in your house driving your Cadillac?

  • @3mr.1
    @3mr.1 5 місяців тому +51

    one thing you don’t get is that they will always get back at you after cheating. they will always cheat back .. doesn’t matter if it’s a homeless guy she will do it even if she begged you back

    • @Tryggvasson
      @Tryggvasson 5 місяців тому

      that's for the simps. women don't treat simps and "real men" - to their definition - mostly assholes - the same. they don't see these 2 categories as the same creature.

    • @javilo2797
      @javilo2797 5 місяців тому +3

      She doesnt have to know you cheated

    • @user-mx6ct4lo7d
      @user-mx6ct4lo7d 5 місяців тому

      They will never forget or forgive. She will soon have your most masculine dominant buddy 2" past her tonsils. Break rules she had for you and put it in her 🍑 herself

  • @willi898
    @willi898 5 місяців тому +51

    The best relationship set-up as a man is to be a single man in a relationship.
    That’s the only way to have a happy and healthy relationship.
    Be single and taken at the same time.

    • @OldSchoolStrength
      @OldSchoolStrength 5 місяців тому

      this

    • @rbfarrell1
      @rbfarrell1 5 місяців тому

      Don't live with women. If she wants to move in. Move on. Too many guys get sucked in to thinking moving in with a woman will be better but almost 100% of the time. Everything changes and you get to see her way too much and you wish you living alone. Pu$$y once a week that has her own place. Is so much better then Pu$$y once a week that is sleeping in your bed everyday.

    • @waxdoe115
      @waxdoe115 4 місяці тому

      Yup

  • @troyl5498
    @troyl5498 5 місяців тому +9

    I, personally, have found that, when you really learn how the (predominantly) common woman thinks and operates
    ... _you're cured._

    • @Casarzino
      @Casarzino 5 місяців тому +1

      cured of what?

  • @aidaneze6258
    @aidaneze6258 5 місяців тому +6

    A lot of women have options and most would desire to explore them, they want you to do same on a minimum level in order to give them room to do same with high interest counterparts. That way she’s not dealing with the guilt and everyone wins equally 😅😅😅

  • @mmr0221
    @mmr0221 5 місяців тому +21

    I was with this woman for 12 years. The second I got fatter, lazier and no one woman wanted me, she left

    • @TAKING-EVERY-SOUL
      @TAKING-EVERY-SOUL 5 місяців тому +24

      Sounds like that was all your fault homie, it’s your responsibility to keep yourself attractive so your woman knows you always have options.

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 5 місяців тому +5

      You were better off cheating on her before she left, she might have respected you more and stayed with you inspite of your short comings, bruh

    • @brianmorris2533
      @brianmorris2533 5 місяців тому +4

      I would too

    • @ThomasP525
      @ThomasP525 5 місяців тому +2

      @@oscargonza2748cheating is never the answer. Another low quality dude. Fml.

    • @TeacherToolkitDemo
      @TeacherToolkitDemo 5 місяців тому +1

      Obviously

  • @gregh2880
    @gregh2880 Місяць тому +1

    Casey has changed my entire game. Pure gold.

  • @faulfeza5243
    @faulfeza5243 5 місяців тому +7

    Best video I’ve seen in awhile and I have seen hundreds of yours over the past 3 years.
    It’s because you’re willing to say what is fucking true

  • @honestjohn6499
    @honestjohn6499 5 місяців тому +4

    This is VERY TRUE. About 5 years ago, a woman I was seeing found out that I had slept with my ex a few days before. She asked the typical “why?” while crying. Then she proceeded to get undressed so we could have sex…I kid you not. Also the sex was better than it had been in awhile because she was being so aggressive. Believe what Casey is telling you in this video. He’s NOT lying…I’ve seen it firsthand

  • @SigmaWarrior1978
    @SigmaWarrior1978 5 місяців тому +5

    It’s the only way to check and correct their behaviour. Exclude them and give your attention to other women. If she leaves then it wasn’t meant to be. If she goes on a rampage then dump her. Whatever the consequences are, the man always wins.

  • @oscarcontrerasmusic
    @oscarcontrerasmusic 5 місяців тому +3

    Right on point. I can tell this is the absolute truth. By experience. Thanks Casey.

  • @ralphacero2785
    @ralphacero2785 5 місяців тому +7

    I 100% agree. My girlfriend was acting up while I was going out of my way to please her, so I decided to give another girl the opportunity to treat me like a king, and she was mad at me for cheating on her but at the same time her attitude improved and she started treating me like a king again. So it worked out better than I could have imagined.

    • @dsulli7383
      @dsulli7383 5 місяців тому +3

      She’s always going to plan on getting back at you 10x worse.

    • @liamfrost1037
      @liamfrost1037 3 місяці тому

      @@dsulli7383wrong. Not if she thinks you are high value. If you start acting weak and change your frame.. then yes, make may retaliate

  • @nige_moves
    @nige_moves 5 місяців тому +17

    Man I missed these whiteboard vids please keep em coming.... best way to breakup with a girl is to tell them how much you love them everyday, and blow their phone up with future plans.

    • @ThirdEyePerspective1111
      @ThirdEyePerspective1111 5 місяців тому +3

      Well then how is it that billions of happy, committed, loyal couples and families exist, and have been existing for as long as civilized society has existed? Casey and his audience have such tunnel vision, and are forgetting the big picture. You guys seem to think that what Casey says about "women", applies to all women. No, it applies to low self esteem, self loathing women. There's TONS of couples in the world who have been together for decades, and have been loyal to each other since day one, and are mutually in love with each other. If what you say here was true, then those couples wouldn't exist. These worldviews pushed by these guys like Casey are poisoning your minds.

    • @johnstephens101
      @johnstephens101 5 місяців тому +2

      I have to agree with you bro, he is talking mostly of the modern toxic western woman, head out to the far east or south America or anywhere far from the western modern women mindset and and you can find some fine women who still look to find a good man to love and respect!
      Treat them well and they will reciprocate in kind, forget about trying to bag one of these messed up brainwashed modern women, they will just bring mind games and misery, the choice is yours to make, choose wisely!

    • @mitnick212
      @mitnick212 5 місяців тому

      @@ThirdEyePerspective1111 in the past, women had no choice but be dependent on their men . Modern women dont need to be like so

    • @thisthat5874
      @thisthat5874 5 місяців тому

      Dudes a mad scientist with his white board 😂

    • @MalkuthEmperor
      @MalkuthEmperor 5 місяців тому

      @@ThirdEyePerspective1111 now this is a perspective i can get behind.
      Not this devisive shit about how all woman are bad.
      I wonder why even go after woman if they hate um so much.
      As you said
      There are plenty of healthy relationhips that prove the oposite of what Caseys tunel visions are saying, amd thats a much better outlook on human beeings for people who want to actually be in a healthy relationship
      A healthy relationship doesent entail sick mental games from any party involved
      Have a good day

  • @jessebohannon7084
    @jessebohannon7084 5 місяців тому +4

    I hate how true this is. It is absolutely true. I didn’t do it on purpose, but looking back all of the women that I really want it dumped me. All of the women that I held at arms length chased me.
    This is so hard to reconcile with my Christian ethics, and I think that Casey is looking for a middle way Based on some of his previous videos. This is difficult, but it’s absolutely true.

  • @mgtow-balance3409
    @mgtow-balance3409 5 місяців тому

    lmfao that episode phucked your head up so much that it, BENDED your mind 😂

  • @venxamalu
    @venxamalu 5 місяців тому +9

    she has to see youre desired , you dont have to cheat .
    not everyone will the same way when you cheat on them .

  • @Mike_Ober
    @Mike_Ober 5 місяців тому +1

    100% on point. Once I realized this fact, my relationship blood pressure started to stabilize. The more you love, care, shower her with gifts and praises the less she is into you. The more she hates you and the worse she also treats you. And most importantly, her vjay gets drier for you.

  • @canadaisruledbyclowns7188
    @canadaisruledbyclowns7188 5 місяців тому +13

    I fkn love it. My gf of 11 years and I were growing apart. We went from bf/gf to fwb. Then we decided to spend a couple of months apart. She told me when I left I could have sx with another girl, but don't tell her. Well, I did just that, but feeling so "guilty" about it I just had to tell her. I also told the girl I slept with that I still had an old gf that was still fwb and when I returned I would be expected to have sx with her.
    Both of them know about the other, and both have responded by giving me amazing sx. I've 57 years old, and have a 50-year-old who is really good in bed, and a 25 year-old who is gorgeous and learning. I am living my best life. LOL So I will say what Casey says is true, you create competition anxiety in them.

  • @michaelgutierrez3441
    @michaelgutierrez3441 5 місяців тому +2

    Hey brother. That is probably the best video I have ever seen by you that explains how a woman keeps her to you. Tou break it down perfectly. And from divorced man, I know exactly how that plays out. This video is for every man who wants to keep his girlfriend, wife, hook up, etc. Or for the man who doesn't. Bc you created options, my guy.
    Let men be men!

  • @kinglou1908
    @kinglou1908 5 місяців тому +13

    Omg everything you said in this video is pure facts. It’s literally mind blowing what you are telling. I used to be so gullible wanting love but these women hate that. Whenever she suspects I’m cheating she instantly starts undressing and it would shock the hell out of me.

  • @knives-sg1sz
    @knives-sg1sz 4 місяці тому

    this guy speaks truth!!! ive been in so meany relationships and everything this guy says is true!!! im subbed! and theres always room to learn!

  • @washingtoncastro7823
    @washingtoncastro7823 5 місяців тому +1

    Dude ! .. Everything you just said is pure gold, makes a lot of sense to me now. I have experienced most of those different “moments” with females that I couldn’t completely grasp at those times, but now you have enlightened my mind so much that finally I’ve ended up connecting the dots !

  • @andevipertraderpfeiffer8787
    @andevipertraderpfeiffer8787 5 місяців тому +29

    Gentlemen, this is a perfect example of why you absolutely should not take one man's perspective or experience for gospel in your dating life or life in general.
    As a man you need to ask yourself Are you gathering information Eliminating what is not useful to you Using what is useful Or are you simply a follower, as men we should not be followers.

    • @ThomasP525
      @ThomasP525 5 місяців тому +7

      Agreed. Finally some common sense in the comments.

    • @splashmoby
      @splashmoby 5 місяців тому +2

      It's OK not everyone can grasp it

    • @andevipertraderpfeiffer8787
      @andevipertraderpfeiffer8787 5 місяців тому +4

      @@splashmoby some of what he talks about is correct some is just incongruent from one message to another

    • @johnstephens101
      @johnstephens101 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@andevipertraderpfeiffer8787Indeed!

  • @user-gz7od5on2g
    @user-gz7od5on2g 4 місяці тому +1

    Smart man…givin the secrets away to men who never knew…your on point ..!!!

  • @PedroGomez-xf3be
    @PedroGomez-xf3be 5 місяців тому +19

    I did all the mistakes Casey mentioned and I lost my marriage because of it. Everything he said is so true it's human nature.

    • @bobbruce4135
      @bobbruce4135 5 місяців тому

      We learn the hard way to go Own Way (low value) or Fun Way (high value).

    • @AuthoritativeChadWarrior
      @AuthoritativeChadWarrior 5 місяців тому

      Woman*

    • @johnstephens101
      @johnstephens101 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@bobbruce4135what if going your own way IS the fun way, what kind of value would that be then?

    • @bobbruce4135
      @bobbruce4135 5 місяців тому +1

      @@johnstephens101 That means not being a walking ATM, not being baby trapped, no fake love, etc.

  • @Colorado303Adventures
    @Colorado303Adventures 4 місяці тому

    Your videos are setting me on the right ✅️ path forward. Learned so much, feel so much more confident.

  • @YondaimeApproved
    @YondaimeApproved 5 місяців тому

    I’ve watched every single Casey video, and none of them are the same😊

  • @HughesLaviolette
    @HughesLaviolette 5 місяців тому +4

    Casey i had such good time when you explain how to lose you woman, laughling with you

    • @MrRobuo
      @MrRobuo 5 місяців тому

      That was pretty funny!!

  • @chosenone8131
    @chosenone8131 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for this advice, this video hits hard and its a gem .. full of valuable information and a great perspective of female nature.. everything is spot on.. 😮

  • @brebrey124ni
    @brebrey124ni 5 місяців тому +1

    I had the same thing happen to me in high school. I came up with a saying. "A little bit of Jealousy goes a long ways" And have used it to my advantage.

  • @nightrider2k6
    @nightrider2k6 5 місяців тому +1

    Casey you da man , game recognize game

  • @schwagger1987
    @schwagger1987 5 місяців тому +2

    I literally have a woman right now that says she does not like men that sleep around.. says it over and over.. she is constantly blowing me up and I’m upfront about us not being exclusive..
    Men you can’t take what they say and expect it to be truth. What they say they want, think they want, and what they respond to are 3 different things.

  • @dreambeliever3652
    @dreambeliever3652 5 місяців тому

    I left a comment prior to finishing this video but I need to change it. Dude.. you are SPOT ON!!!
    Man, I can’t help but to admit that. If woman know you have options… then they get nervous. If you don’t keep yourself looking good and on the market… she will dog you and leave!! Facts!!!

  • @nigeleharis5886
    @nigeleharis5886 5 місяців тому +8

    Competition anxiety is real

  • @JulesOille
    @JulesOille 5 місяців тому +1

    I generally agree with you. I can think of a few examples where I vanished, and she became an hammered by me however, once it backfired, so as a general rule, it does work, but on occasion, it won’t.

  • @Deltahairlines82
    @Deltahairlines82 5 місяців тому +2

    As a long time playaaaaa I approve this message

  • @jamesbennett8970
    @jamesbennett8970 5 місяців тому +3

    Firstly, I would like to give my utmost appreciation for the excellent information you consistently offer in your videos. Growing up without a father meant I have lacked in certain areas of masculine behaviour which has seen me suffer in my relationships with women in the past.
    I have never seen you give anything but excellent information and I feel privileged to be able to watch your videos, so again, thank you man 🙌🏻
    But this video has left me feeling a bit perplexed because of a few reasons :
    1. If you’re genuinely in love with someone you will not want to go and sleep with someone else..
    2. Sleeping with someone else behind your partner’s back not only shows that you cannot be trusted but will rightly cause your partner to distrust you and also create conflict and unpleasant interactions whereby she will end up cheating on you and/or will leave the relationship
    3. It shows that you’re not a good person and that you are deceitful and lack integrity.
    I’m sorry, but I, for the first time disagree with your advice here.
    Who wants to have the fact that they betrayed their partner looming on their conscience? Not me..

    • @johnstephens101
      @johnstephens101 5 місяців тому +2

      You my friend are an anomaly, one who has true high value as shown by the integrity of your character, sadly most of what passes as high value is mostly superficial and shallow, true high value comes from deep within!

  • @ChaadFairservice20022
    @ChaadFairservice20022 5 місяців тому +1

    Can confirm, this is absolutely true.

  • @IAMM-W-TWEST
    @IAMM-W-TWEST 5 місяців тому +1

    Right is wrong. Wrong is right
    ..crazy times we living in. But hey we must adapt and stay true to our nature

  • @vladimirdosen6677
    @vladimirdosen6677 Місяць тому

    He doesn't mean go and cheat, he means to show the ability to do so.

  • @CM-tc4ny
    @CM-tc4ny 5 місяців тому +44

    For the record, Casey isnt telling you to cheat on your GF. Hes telling you not to have a GF. Can't break a commitment if there isn't a commitment to break.

    • @3mr.1
      @3mr.1 5 місяців тому +15

      that’s my way for as long as I can remember. date multiple at a time, no strings. keep a rotation

    • @SSJ3MetaridleyXros
      @SSJ3MetaridleyXros 5 місяців тому +11

      yeah but i don't care because i want children with a nuturing mother and not a broken mess of fatherless kids because the mom took them away from me and i didn't have the right too raise or see them. so a relationship for kids is neccessary with mother and father energy.

    • @_Shadow10.
      @_Shadow10. 5 місяців тому

      Unfortunately that's incredibly rare these days. @@SSJ3MetaridleyXros

    • @willi898
      @willi898 5 місяців тому

      Yea. Freedom over Commitment
      If a girl likes you, just let her in your life

  • @user-mx5vr5ce7m
    @user-mx5vr5ce7m 5 місяців тому

    PLEASE UNCLE C DROP MORE FREQUENTLY 🔥🔥🔥PLEASE WE’RE BEGGING YOU!!

  • @pmbarro
    @pmbarro 5 місяців тому +4

    Once a girl i liked told me that its attractive when other women want her man. Then i let other women give me attention and she was sooooo insecure after lol 😆

  • @Stanley-xc4yc
    @Stanley-xc4yc 5 місяців тому

    Thank u for telling me the truth 😊 Casey Zander 😊

  • @starfleetcommander
    @starfleetcommander 5 місяців тому

    This is gold CZ.

  • @Jaylionad
    @Jaylionad 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for the wisdom 🙏🏽

  • @user-kv8bv7nt9g
    @user-kv8bv7nt9g 5 місяців тому +13

    The best content creator on dating and female nature keep going men I love these videos and the secrets that uuu got that nobody got men keep going

  • @sole__doubt
    @sole__doubt 5 місяців тому +1

    I cant help but think how different my life would be if I had this when I was a young man. I had to learn this stuff with trial and error and that took years to do.

  • @stefanr.8823
    @stefanr.8823 5 місяців тому +2

    You changed my life

  • @spruce5123
    @spruce5123 5 місяців тому

    Casey is giving you the raw truth about feminine nature..... Like it or hate it..... And he is giving you sound method and strategy to navigate it with some measure of success.

  • @TheTmshuman
    @TheTmshuman 5 місяців тому +1

    I can confirm this is sadly true. I had two girlfriends as a young marine and when they met at my parents house when I was home on leave and wearing them both out every day, instead of both dumping me, they fought for me. They were both quality woman, one becoming my now ex wife (14 year marriage no kids).

  • @daneanderson9743
    @daneanderson9743 5 місяців тому

    For the gentlemen in this back. This is 💯 for me. Every time my long term partner gets rude, I just go on dates with other women, and that has her fall in line instantly.

  • @thalmoragent9344
    @thalmoragent9344 5 місяців тому +2

    Yeah, she wants to know you're sought after by others. Does she want you to cheat? No, but the idea you could cheat on her without issue means she gets to have drama and competition, which is an exciting prospect.
    Its wild, but then again, they're basically wired to be BPD, emotionally.

  • @user-km5ye6qy8g
    @user-km5ye6qy8g 5 місяців тому

    Another great female behavioural
    point, Casey

  • @alextrodriguez
    @alextrodriguez 5 місяців тому +2

    Women want a man who other women desire and other men respect
    However.. if you’ve already agreed to exclusivity, then cheating would mean you lied and therefore she cannot you with your word. This is an L
    The key is to delay exclusivity with her

  • @r1sabotage
    @r1sabotage 5 місяців тому +2

    I've never gotten dumped for cheating... If a woman leaves you for cheating, she likely never liked you.

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 4 місяці тому

      That's incorrect. If she leaves it's smart. You will reoffend and get her sick. That's the part of cheating nobody likes to discuss.

  • @youms108
    @youms108 5 місяців тому +2

    The spirit of immorality has gained mastery over humans.

  • @coltonshanley1921
    @coltonshanley1921 5 місяців тому +1

    I’d be lost without you sir. I’m not big into this kinda content but this girl I’ve been seeing is cool and hot and I broke all your rules for the first part of things with her. And was confused . She seemed to want to like me she would sleep with me and call me daily etc, but I could tell I was turning her off with my behavior towards her. And now I know why. Appreciate the help

  • @emilschneider9974
    @emilschneider9974 5 місяців тому

    Great video, thank you!

  • @shawnlavigne9069
    @shawnlavigne9069 5 місяців тому +1

    As a Christian I can't live that way.

  • @paulcolin9071
    @paulcolin9071 5 місяців тому +4

    I love the psychology stuff as a thinker

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 4 місяці тому

      Everyone does until it's time to pay for intentionally playing with someone's head that can result in permanent damage. Everything is so funny these days.

  • @MidwestMechanics
    @MidwestMechanics 3 місяці тому

    Every woman I've ever cheated on has came back to me literally begging for attention. She would go from texting me all pissed off to "come over real quick". I've done this all the way up to my current age (32) and its amazing how well it works. This guy is not lying.

  • @PoopScooper10000
    @PoopScooper10000 5 місяців тому +1

    I think the key is how she’s treating you. If she’s treating you good (and she knows you’re able to get laid), and you cheat, she’ll likely dump you
    If she’s acting out, and treating you like crap (even if she knows you can get laid) and you cheat, she’ll act right.
    At least this is my hypothesis

  • @faulfeza5243
    @faulfeza5243 5 місяців тому +5

    Watching this video made me do research on Reddit why these women broke up with their men.
    Cheating demonstrates higher SMV but I also noticed that woman react like how you’d expect a small child to react.
    They probably don’t want to but they feel justified to cheat on you back if they think you’re low SMV.
    They do this because they feel you didn’t deserve to cheat on them, that you aren’t valuable enough to get away with doing that.
    I think cheating on a woman reveals her belief in where she ranks you as a man.
    It’s like a test. If you cheat and she wants you more and never cheats back. You’ve established high SMV.
    If she already believed you were weak and needy and you cheat on her, then you’re done

    • @ThomasP525
      @ThomasP525 5 місяців тому +1

      Wrong

    • @PyroMiniYak
      @PyroMiniYak 5 місяців тому +3

      The mental gymnastics incels will do to justify toxic behavior never ceases to amaze me

    • @TeacherToolkitDemo
      @TeacherToolkitDemo 5 місяців тому

      Women on Reddit constantly talk shit. Can’t take a thing on that site seriously.

    • @TC-yx1qt
      @TC-yx1qt 5 місяців тому

      "They probably don’t want to but they feel justified to cheat on you back if they think you’re low SMV."
      Best comment and 100% facts.. but if that's true and she cheats "to get back" it's better for it to be done now versus later, years or decades later especially if now it's at the expense of a failed marriage and losing half your sh*t, because if she cheats to get back the relationship was already over she just didn't leave yet, but in her mind it was already over.

    • @We_Must_Resist
      @We_Must_Resist 5 місяців тому

      FaulFeza Thanks for posting. It makes sense. How else do we explain why some women break away from a man after he cheats and other women cling more to the man after he cheats?

  • @user-hx1hx8px6i
    @user-hx1hx8px6i 4 місяці тому

    Your tutorials are spot on. There are exceptions to the rule. But mot many. Married a " woman's libber". Masters degree. I know, 90% most likely to divorce. Divorced 22 years ago. No relationship since!

  • @samuelnimmo5149
    @samuelnimmo5149 5 місяців тому +6

    This guy has a PhD in womanology.

    • @AblackGenie
      @AblackGenie 5 місяців тому

      His research paper is endless. His dissertation lasted 3 days and 3 nights.

  • @Brainin4malin
    @Brainin4malin 5 місяців тому

    Exactly that is how I lost my bride! Thanks Casey but too late! 😅

  • @vixuserid5518
    @vixuserid5518 5 місяців тому +1

    I may not like that this is true, yet I do appreciate having the truth explained well.

  • @pinglankek
    @pinglankek 5 місяців тому +1

    a girl will always respect you if u cheat, but i can guarantee you alot of them will actually break up with or, or it will damage the relationship so much that its over. But relationship doesnt have to end when a man cheats, like when women cheat

  • @jimb3093
    @jimb3093 5 місяців тому +1

    We don't learn this in church. "You need to pray for a wife." lol! So spiritually minded and no earthly good. It's very hard hearing this as a middle-aged man. I had opportunities to cheat but I never did. Looking back now....I should have.

  • @emolasher
    @emolasher 5 місяців тому +1

    If nothing is working for you, ask yourself why. If you see someone is easily able to achieve the things you desire, reassess your beliefs. Some things to look forward to... denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. You likely were told bad information your entire life, it isn't your fault, but it will be your fault if you refuse to change.

  • @michaeleckert5877
    @michaeleckert5877 5 місяців тому

    Make them want you. You are right on.😊

  • @kianarosablau
    @kianarosablau 5 місяців тому

    You helped my self knowledge (I still think Im not like this but I discovered something else because of this video). Because of dissociation I didnt know myself very well so I started to self explore. Thats why I know myself better now but still I didnt know why I had some reaction like attraction towards something unusual. I was thinking about it for hours but didnt figure it out. So I like this channel it has value for me in consciousness! So I remembered about two weird attractions and finally figured it out - it was hard to admit the truth (because DID is about hiding truth from yourself). I still dont agree with some things in this vid, but Im glad that I have more knowledge about my dissociation what I was hiding (it was something little different than this vid but little similar = it wasnt about cheating but only about weird inexplicable attraction trigger which has some reason 🤫 sorry for longer comment, I want to write only something insighting but dont want reveale my "dark side" even I think its not much dark).

  • @jameshumphries5059
    @jameshumphries5059 5 місяців тому +28

    No broken women who had no father want to be cheated on.

    • @user-pg8uh7zr8s
      @user-pg8uh7zr8s 5 місяців тому +2

      Yes

    • @07wrxtr1
      @07wrxtr1 5 місяців тому

      I still think ALL women want reminders that they have the prize - just some need differing levels of social proof based upon how other women behave.
      I was lucky to have met a very traditional girl from Fiji - so she def doesn’t need what a lot westernized women need in terms of cheating

    • @CaseyZander
      @CaseyZander  5 місяців тому +38

      False. Parents, lifestyle, and upbringing can't make an apple tree and orange tree. The hardwiring remains the same.

    • @fitnessdareal
      @fitnessdareal 5 місяців тому +2

      Works with them too, done it a couple times

    • @07wrxtr1
      @07wrxtr1 5 місяців тому +19

      @@CaseyZander Hence the idea that you must always be playing the game even if you're in a relationship - my girl sees me get smiles/nods from other women nearly every time we're out in public...last week I ignored her for a day - no replies - that next day when home from work - she was like a totally different person - like the girl I knew when we first met. My girl was born/raised in Fiji - she had both parents, loved her father, and she even does her Hindi prayer and all that. Even with all that said - she STILL needs that weekly reminder that there are OTHER women around - and that those women will gladly get with me. Now if you're with a westernized girl - I think they need HOURLY reminders that other women are there the MOMENT they step out of line. Sad - true.

  • @V0skAnian
    @V0skAnian 5 місяців тому +8

    Well to be honest it works, but she can start cheating too... so it's not that simple

    • @fitnessdareal
      @fitnessdareal 5 місяців тому +2

      Yeah, she can, but in most cases they cheat the good guy (the loyals)

    • @faulfeza5243
      @faulfeza5243 5 місяців тому +2

      They cheat the loyal guys more often lmaoo.

    • @rejectwokeness1314
      @rejectwokeness1314 5 місяців тому +4

      She cheats, just dump her. The idea is you should never be in love with a woman. In this case you have options to leave, ignore, punish her bad behavior and all that

    • @TeacherToolkitDemo
      @TeacherToolkitDemo 5 місяців тому +3

      So what if she does. Get rid.

  • @karljebailey3656
    @karljebailey3656 5 місяців тому

    You are 100% correct

  • @danielchrt294
    @danielchrt294 4 місяці тому

    Holy crap! Thanks 🙌

  • @spruce5123
    @spruce5123 5 місяців тому +4

    It's not good for you to care more about her feelings, than you care about yourself.

  • @Ablemaung
    @Ablemaung 5 місяців тому +3

    Man I’ve had a hunch on this for so long. But he’s absolutely right

  • @07wrxtr1
    @07wrxtr1 5 місяців тому +3

    1000% Accurate

  • @mervynmontague1811
    @mervynmontague1811 5 місяців тому

    Interesting and informative 🇯🇲 💯

  • @kt_drul
    @kt_drul 5 місяців тому +3

    First timers on this channel will have a hard time digesting this..
    😂 The truth, they say, is stranger than fiction.

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 5 місяців тому +1

      I've had such terrible luck with women my entire life. I'm in no position to argue with him. I'm open to new ideas, even if they sound completely absurd.

    • @ThomasP525
      @ThomasP525 5 місяців тому +1

      This isn’t truth. This is merely the perspective of one man’s shitty dating life.

    • @ThomasP525
      @ThomasP525 5 місяців тому +1

      @@Karruxo9 not hurt mate, merely attempting to wake guys up from the toxic shit being fed to them.
      Edit: Guy who’s with a loyal woman that got cheated on in her last relationship. She left him because she no longer trusted him and was repulsed by his actions.
      Wake the fuck up.

    • @TeacherToolkitDemo
      @TeacherToolkitDemo 5 місяців тому

      @@ThomasP525mate you oh are a proper femboy. Grow a pair maggot.

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 5 місяців тому

      @ThomasP525 I don't know. Everything I've done in my 51 years with women has crashed & burned; dating & marriage. I'm willing to accept I had it all wrong & try new ideas.

  • @MindBodySpirit85
    @MindBodySpirit85 5 місяців тому

    How to lose your gf or wife phone call part was accurate af haha

  • @jwick-dn5td
    @jwick-dn5td 2 місяці тому

    I was roughly 16 or 17, and I was at my friend's party.. my girl, along with my friends girl, leaves to go get something. when they come back, I'm on the phone with a girl I had been talking to, I'm drunk and oblivious to the fact my girl is standing in front of me now. She snatches the phone and says what she has to say to the girl and then hangs up.. I remember laughing about it all to her face. Later that night. She is practically trying to have sex with me while I'm pretty much passed out on the couch. It makes no sense to us as men bc if that happened to us we would (should) just walk away from the disrespect. They are our opposite!

  • @AndresSanchez-pp3ho
    @AndresSanchez-pp3ho 5 місяців тому

    One time me and my fiancé fought and she called off the wedding and told me off. I simply asked her to calm down and ask me to go home she didn’t want that, she said fuck you leave bla bla bla , so I left. I went out to my local bar and got a beer. A woman came up to me and offered a joint and conversation privately outside. I obliged and joined her. She sat close and we began talking and after a beer and a joint we were face to face and laughing and MY GF ROLLED UP TO THE BAR. she came out and told me to get in the car and I did. We went home and SHE APOLOGIZED TO ME. She said it pissed her off I was with a woman but it scared her and turned her on at the same time and I swear she acted right. Ended up marrying her and she’s a loyal girl and we don’t drink. 100% sober.