Bro compared to all the other lessons ,this is #1 most useful lesson for me from your channel.Cuz I have been suffering to quit it and failed many times.Thanks a lot brother.
@@shubhashish_ranjan I will get in the habit doing that. I have to be careful not to meditate too long, especially when I have something important to do.
The moral of the story is well explained by Amrapali at 4.38. The young monk's sexual desire is not about control, it dropped after self realization through meditation. Any desire controlled will not go away, it'll grow in intensity and resurface when your awareness is relaxed. To transcend sex is not about suppression, is through insight.
common, don't be to hard with yourself, we are all human. Sexuality is not to feel ashamed of, but ok don't exaggerate it. It is with everything: the way of the middle. Namaste.
The way I am interpreting what you're saying is, what you resist, persists. When you're aware of your thoughts and why you're thinking them, there's no longer a need to try and control it. Your awareness of it is what gives the thought and desire no more power over you, therefore no longer needs to be controlled. To control something means to resist what the opponent wants or wants you to do. To be aware of your opponent's presence, means you know where they are and can avoid their presence altogether while allowing them to be and exist how they please while sparing yourself the conflict whether from the exterior or from within. I'm new to all of these teachings, but I'm really trying to find and understand the meaning and concepts of these teachings. I was raised Roman Catholic, but I don't believe in any man made organized religions. When I was younger, the contradictions of any religious scripture I would read vs the actions of the followers and teachers are what turned me off and makes me skeptical of each religious leader's intentions. Very few if any lead by example from my observation. As a person who has had leadership positions in my career, I've always believed that as a leader I would never expect my subordinates to do something that I wouldn't be willing to do myself. As I've matured, I am starting to see more value in certain scriptures and teachings. Not because of the leaders preaching or teaching it, but because I am trying live what I am learning without needing a leader or an example. Why can't I be my own example? Why can't I lead myself? I'm appreciateling this concept of self awareness because it's something you can pursue on your own and if you attract the people with the right energy to help you along the way, then so be it, but the need for it is not there. It materializes if it serves you and if you accept it. If I sound like I'm talking shit, please let me know. I am not sensitive to criticism. I don't mind opposing views and I appreciate honesty. It gives me something to compare to and make adjustments in my understanding along the way in this journey we call life. Love, Peace and Chicken Grease! ❤✌🏼🍗
@@Xavaje You are right. From my own experience, when you aware of your desire (thought, feeling or body sensation), a gap is created between you (observer) and the desire (the observed). You no longer identified with the desire and it loses its grip on you. If you try to control it, it means now you desire not to have that desire.You are still identified with that desire by creating another desire, so it will persist. Not sure if it helps. All the best to you, fellow seeker of truth.🙏
@@DC-qj8dt Thanks Brother, I'm glad we have a similar point of view on the matter. I appreciate your words and how your energy comes across here. Have a great rest of your weekend 👊🏼
I remember a time when my work was driving a taxi at night into the morning. Most of my fares were dancers from strip clubs going home. Most tried the 'hi sweetie' and 'you want to buy me something?' I would immediately cut them off and honestly confess: "I have never been in a strip club; only parked on the outside for picking up patrons needing a ride. I am not interested in the atmosphere or lifestyle." Without fail, close to 100% of those girls would burst out crying and start confessing their trapped state. Many gritted their teeth and angrily voiced, "I HATE this job; I HATE my life." For most, I was able to offer a Higher Path that exposes the matter realm as illusion and the unseen as the Real. Not all 'bad' people want to be 'bad'. Plus, it's not about good or bad but more about being connected to Spirit / Abiding and disconnecting from matter / the transitory. Good people are not always holy; Bad people are not always evil !!!
When human beings realize that highest purpose of life is not to enjoy sensual pleasures and material comforts, but to seek spiritual exaltation and attainment of "moksha". There are 2 ways men can use their sexual fluid. One is by conserving it and using it only for the highest sacred purpose of creating a perfect child free of diseases, disabilities and defects and all karma so he or she will never undergo any pain or suffering. Another way is in yoga where you conserve the energy, release the nerves around each chakra or energy center and attain a state called samadhi and then moksha which is death without pain or suffering. Not all are gifted in this. There maybe 1 in million who can attain this state as 99.99999% of humans in this world are surrounded by sexual material and distractions one way or another. Nobody is so lucky to die off in sleep. Nobody dies as and when they want to end their life. They have to live it on and on and on and they just don't know how they will go... either through cancer or heart attack or brain tumour or kidney failure or lung cancer or anything else. Hence, attainment of moksha is a gift and for that, one has to abandon sensual pleasures of which sexual pleasure is the crippling force that is ruling the world of today.
Remember we are all on different Paths heading to the same destination from different perspectives of purview & understanding. All Paths are unique so right for the Individual on it
Tried a lot of things. Was very hard to come out of it. Then i met my future wife. And immediately, i just had this change of heart to BE A BETTER MAN for hwr and for myself. Just like it's said WHAT THE MIND THINKS, THE BODY BECOMES Take control of your body. Coz I haven't done anything ever since 😊.
Love the moral of the story and it's wisdom. Although completely erasing my sexual desire isn't something I want in my life, retention and conscious use of it is something I seek. Like restraining from the unnatural maturbation and channeling this life energy to create good but also life.
As-salamu alaykum Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world.
This is very greatful information for youngest generation.. now a days lot of people not controlling these type of things.. Yeah meditation is god's gift.. this will be control our feelings ,bad thoughts and increase our positivity...
No need to control mind nor emotions or nothing, the true consequence of a deep meditation practice is that you'll become free from Body, Mind & Emotions. To become free: you don't need to control anything, you just need to observe it as it is.
Man don't cry. That is what we have been taught. One day when I was in the US Army I started to cry from 7:30 to 3:45 in the afternoon. On my wedding day, I cried again from 6:30 to 11:45. The cameraman made a joke. This video should be on American Funny video. I called this event a storm of a century. Don't try to control your emotion; just let them flow. Now I never try to stop my urge to cry unless I am at work or surrounded by customers. Thank you for ur comments. U are right. Don't try to control anything By the way, I am a survivor of the Khmer Rouge Genocide. Many people in my family were killed during the communist. Those memories still haunted me; I still have flashbacks on regular basis. Now I cried almost every day, but the pain gets less severe because I just let the storm pass by not trying to influent any thoughts
I know this story but is through sincerity that she changed and so did the sangha. It is a valuable lesson that often only takes experience to devote a mind to do better in face of adversity. May all sentient beings witness this profound brilliant glory.
Great lesson. Semen retension is a good way to control desires and use that sexual energy in other fields of life and become successful. Right woman will come later on.
Now it is nearly impossible bcz girls r exposing themselves that is very bad and it is natural that we get attract towards them bcz we can't help plz request to girls do not expose urself have some manners I see lot of tik tok videos girls r exposing all much that it is unbelievable plz girls don't do like that have some morals or do onething remove all ur clothes and Rome freely
Be celibate and happy. Sex desire and woman is cause of misery. Sexual pleasure is available even to stool eating dogs and hogs. Read Bhagvat Gita and Bhagvat Mahapuran scriptures par excellence.
If you examine nature deeply, sexual energy is purely used for the higher purpose of procreation. If sexual energy, fluids are wasted off for selfish pleasures, then Law of Karma will ensure pain and suffering in some way, shape or form. The child of a sex addict may suffer a lot of pain. We see many children born with diseases, disabilities, defects. All these plus all the pain and suffering in this world is directly a consequence of LUST and Greed alone. In that, Lust alone is the biggest part as we see how human population exploded to 8 Billion. This desire to enjoy is like taking a loan from bank and then struggling to pay interests later on. The soul of a true seeker who abandons all worldly desires, jumps to higher conscious level and is reborn into higher heavenly world where those beings are literal Gods and Goddesses. So, choice is with us. If we wanna be born in this material body template with pleasures and pains, then we just repeat the same mistakes of the Lustful world of today. If we wanna evolve spiritually and jump to more evolved species in some other galaxy or planet, then we gotta reject this material world. Our desires shape our future bodies. If we our souls become superior to human souls of today, then it will not choose human body in it's next lifetime.
Thank you sir I am overcamed from negative thoughts anxiety confusions masturbation thank you for your channel from 2 months im feeling strong confidence ...
Along with control of mind, it is also important to control the senses, especially the eyes. If the ten senses are not controlled, then mind control is not possible. This is clearly mentioned in the Bhagavad Gita. Desire must be removed from the mind, by telling yourself that the mind and senses can never be satiated by indulging in sense pleasures and their objects. Only by rising above these sense objects and pleasures, can we get rid of desires. We can rise above them by convincing ourselves that these pleasures are consuming us, and are hollow and vain.
I think there are some changes in story, amrapali also known as ambapali in pali language is a court dancer or not a prostitute and people yeah use to call her nagarvadhu but she isn't prostitute. Many great kings used to came to see her classical dance and she has lover known as ajatshatru. The story of seducing a monk seems quite different and I never heard about that.
Yes you are right, I think the story of Haridas Thakur (who was a Muslim originally) a disciple of Chaitanya Mahaprabhu, has been mixed here. A prostitute tried real hard to seduce him but her heart got transformed after listening to holy mahamantra from Haridas Thakur. You can easily find more about him on UA-cam n google.
Yes absolutely true . divert the attention on good thoughts and meditation and physical activity and work , reading what is happening around the world.
We all born with a purpose. Even buddha born for that purpose to prach the world. So listen to your true, good and genuine inner voice about you, fellow men, society around and the whole world and do your best. This world has created from the "nothing". The "nothing" is "complete". That is God. If you become "nothing", you will merge with God. We all born here to clear our desires and duties. 🙏
Interesting story. It's taken me over 35 years control my libido. But not sure about "semen retention". Prostate Cancer is no joke and I've known a handful of older men who have dealt with removal of their prostate. I don't agree with the No Fap proponents.
Be celibate and happy. Sex desire and woman is cause of misery. Sexual pleasure is available even to stool eating dogs and hogs. Read Bhagvat Gita and Bhagvat Mahapuran scriptures par excellence.
Fapping is not the issue. Too much Fapping is the problem. And it's true, it becomes addicting to the point of you don't even enjoy it, you just want the release. But Fapping is a decent substitute for sex, just not too much of it.
## Our semen is our energy. My most important lesson in my life is in knowing my true-self & discovering mine greatest of potentials!! Thank you Gautama Buddha..
No one can leave this habit just by listening to a story. Buddha gave a practical way to people who were heavily indulged in sexual activities, he asked them to go to the cemetery and observe the dead bodes lying there infested with worms, maggots etc, so that they can realize that their own bodies will end up like this and physical attraction is just an illusion, this brought a significant impact on people's mind. And this was just one of the 82000 ways that he introduced to the mankind. Unfortunately we all forgot Buddha's teachings since they declined 500 years after he passed away.
It's not about eliminating sexual desires,it's about understanding your emotions,it's about understanding our mind not about controling it, don't you think??
I meet this channel only today I think this channel is also one of the best UA-cam channel among the Best UA-cam channel And I believe it can control our Mind until to reach my Destiny🔥👍
My life was just opposite n I was spoken among my friends that I was not normal human being... I know this n I believe in myself how you can stay strong mentally and physically 🤗🤗🤗♥️✌️🕊️😎👍n this happens when you are spiritually strong 🙏
@@younglove3362 😂😅🤣yup isn't that story of Amrapali amazing 😍 facts don't lie, People Do 🤗🤗🤗❤️✌️🕊️🕺💃🕺💃🕺💃 Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be honorable among all, and let the marriage bed be without defilement, for God will judge sexually immoral people and adulterers.🙏🤩
sexuality is something to get in contact with yout higher being. sexuality is a part of our being, sexual attraction is part of humanity and also of spirituality.
sexuality has nothing to do with your higher being😂😂 you must be pervert or in contact with some perverts sexuality is just for fun and procreate. nothing spiritual or weakening in it.
Sex is natural. When you're one half you seek another half to complete. Yin and yang needs each other to become whole. When you're whole and One, you need to go into the contrast again to experience
I will try to share what made me come out of this. The idea is simple: what is not true doesn't sustain, truth alone sustains, truth alone is 'the truth'. Whenever we are confused about what is right or wrong, if we just ask ourselves whether 'is it true or not', we'll get the answer. Therefore, if we ask ourselves truly we will realize that the truth is our sexual desire is clouding over the fact that this person is a unique individual, who is also related to others just like how we're related to other women in our own lives, like our mother, sisters, friends etc. Once if we can just pause, and mentally subside our desire, we will suddenly recognize that this is an individual, a fellow human being, who has much more value than just being an object of my desire. How would I feel if someone perceived me/my loved ones like that? So, firstly our desire is objectifying an individual and clouding over the intrinsic value of a human being. Next, just like other desires, is there an end to this desire? No, it comes, we satisfy it, it goes, then again it comes and this cycle repeats. But, truth is not something that comes and goes, it is something that is always there, it is always true. Just like how our desires and karma keeps us in a continuous cycle of life and death, there is no point in this cycle, we need to break this cycle and reach to the state of our true selves. Desire for things that are fundamentally untrue (like lust, money, power, fame etc.) are all the mini cycles in this larger cycle of life and death. Everything has a 'true' purpose in this world. For example, the purpose of food is to aid the larger purpose of our health by providing nutrition to this body. Hence, food that doesn't serve this fundamental purpose is not true. We can see that how refined foods, artificial flavors, overuse of chemicals etc. are leading to a range of consequences like obesity, early heart attacks, high blood pressure and so on. Similarly, the purpose of our sexual desire is nothing but procreation, to aid in bringing another life to this world. That's all, that is its use. Now, we can take that and make it attractive, just like adding excess sugars and artificial flavors to our food. But it is useless, it is untrue. There is nothing wrong in trying to make our food tasty, but it mustn't come in the way of its fundamental purpose, which is nutrition. In fact, the art of cooking is to make a nutritious meal tasty. Similarly, the fundamental purpose that governs our relationship with our partner is love, the physical aspect only aids that relationship. But, just like a tasty meal without nutrition is useless, a relationship that is only physical without love is meaningless. Whenever a sexual desire crops up in our mind, if we just pause, close our eyes and remind ourselves that this person is just like me, another individual, a fellow human being, and open our eyes, we are filled with empathy towards that person. This is the truth.
Thanks for making video on my and other so much request it will definitely help us a lot. Hats off to you and thanks again I'll keep supporting you ❤️❤️
You cannot eliminate that thought or desire 🤔 but, you can achieve that stage of "virakti"(losing interest in something) by over doing it. And that is the only possible way for common people.
@@srinivasanj7693 it's not like that. It is according to a person's mind. And it changes person to person. (Person means not an ordinary human but a capable candidate. If you administer it properly he or she could gain control over it... Ordinary people can also test their capacity but, before that you must set levels. You must set many parameters most importantly you must know yourself and must be aware of your capacity. Beware of blue whale kind of 🐳 🎯🎮 games. 🎮
@@TcCT238 Thanks bro. As per our book there are no difference between attaining supreme spirituality of ladies and gentlemen as well. So don't waste time on hide and seek. We all belongs to that One supreme being. We are here to seek and realise it. Hopes some of us are enlightened.🙏🏼✌️
You can't control sexual energy , you can only direct it to lower chakra ( sacral or swadishthana) and release it or upper chakras like Ajna and Sahasrar and become a Bramha or God ! Also if you try to suppress any desires or feeling it's like you are hiding them inside and eventually it will come up and backfire ! Be a witness to your thoughts and feelings watch them without any judgment and attachments ,then miracles happen .love and light to all my brothers and sisters 💚
This is the first most educative video I have seen on UA-cam. Another useful reminder for achieving greatness in life. You just won yourself a new Subscriber😀 Keep up the good work.
thanks Sir I'm glad I got the idea on how to get over masturbation I've been doing it for years now but I choose to stop right here right now you have help me a lot 😥😥🙏🧠💔
You Can not stop until you really see the negative side effect and You will not stop until you make the descision to quit not trying to quit but just quit that simple
I think this is debatable. Science has proven that 21 ejaculations a month are needed for a man to stay healthy and avoid prostate cancer. As always, the law of the middle is the way to go. Not being a slave to desire, not being obsessed by sex, but also not avoiding sexual activities altogether (be it alone or in a couple).
If what you said is true,then most monks or celibate people will have health problems but i do not see that.Base on my understanding,sexual ejaculation drains your energy and your minds equanimity.Its not dirty or immoral but it just not conducive for people who seeks spiritual wisdom and peace.
The easiest and the most natural way to get rid of sex and masturbation is to have sex with someone in real, and nothing can beat that. It doesn't matter what anyone says or tells you to do about any other methods to get rid of sex or sexual thoughts, it doesn't actually work. Because sex is our physical need which is deeply connected to our mental health. So if anyone wants to meditate to get rid of sex or masturbation, then do sex, because sex is the right meditation for sex. So if anyone says any other absurd way to get rid of sex, then they doesn't have the right knowledge about sex or they doesn't know the actual powers, benefits and importance about sex.
In recent years frustrated women and the society are wondering why men are no longer interested in dating. To counter this, they embarking on shaming men about masturbation. Fortunately, men are no longer falling for that. Better than live a stressful life with a woman.
True… unfortunately, a woman has become embodiment of countless desires with the eternal stress which is breaking men’s spine and ribs… Let’s don’t get in to a trap on to that tender skin with biological bumps and openings!!
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Bro compared to all the other lessons ,this is #1 most useful lesson for me from your channel.Cuz I have been suffering to quit it and failed many times.Thanks a lot brother.
Why to quit in the first place?
@CiyontL7 does 5-10 min cost the efforts to achieve that?
@CiyontL7 I don't think so
@CiyontL7 I wish and hope you remain bachelor ever
Keep trying one day something will click in your mind and you will just stop
Meditation really works as a miracle, I have been practicing it for the last 10 years and results are totally visible in my life. ☺😇
I hope I can achieve the same results as you did.🙂
@@warrenbradford2597 You'll, just start with 15 minutes a day and increase the time in upcoming weeks.
@@shubhashish_ranjan I will get in the habit doing that. I have to be careful not to meditate too long, especially when I have something important to do.
@star 3 To be honest, yeah I did 😃
Bro what is meditation..how to do
She thought she was looking for love but what she was really looking for was her true self! 😇 Such a great story!
The Self is love, but divine love, which is different than our Hollywood notion of "romantic love" based on attachments
The moral of the story is well explained by Amrapali at 4.38.
The young monk's sexual desire is not about control, it dropped after self realization through meditation.
Any desire controlled will not go away, it'll grow in intensity and resurface when your awareness is relaxed.
To transcend sex is not about suppression, is through insight.
Correct
common, don't be to hard with yourself, we are all human. Sexuality is not to feel ashamed of, but ok don't exaggerate it. It is with everything: the way of the middle. Namaste.
The way I am interpreting what you're saying is, what you resist, persists. When you're aware of your thoughts and why you're thinking them, there's no longer a need to try and control it. Your awareness of it is what gives the thought and desire no more power over you, therefore no longer needs to be controlled. To control something means to resist what the opponent wants or wants you to do. To be aware of your opponent's presence, means you know where they are and can avoid their presence altogether while allowing them to be and exist how they please while sparing yourself the conflict whether from the exterior or from within.
I'm new to all of these teachings, but I'm really trying to find and understand the meaning and concepts of these teachings. I was raised Roman Catholic, but I don't believe in any man made organized religions. When I was younger, the contradictions of any religious scripture I would read vs the actions of the followers and teachers are what turned me off and makes me skeptical of each religious leader's intentions. Very few if any lead by example from my observation. As a person who has had leadership positions in my career, I've always believed that as a leader I would never expect my subordinates to do something that I wouldn't be willing to do myself.
As I've matured, I am starting to see more value in certain scriptures and teachings. Not because of the leaders preaching or teaching it, but because I am trying live what I am learning without needing a leader or an example. Why can't I be my own example? Why can't I lead myself? I'm appreciateling this concept of self awareness because it's something you can pursue on your own and if you attract the people with the right energy to help you along the way, then so be it, but the need for it is not there. It materializes if it serves you and if you accept it.
If I sound like I'm talking shit, please let me know. I am not sensitive to criticism. I don't mind opposing views and I appreciate honesty. It gives me something to compare to and make adjustments in my understanding along the way in this journey we call life.
Love, Peace and Chicken Grease!
❤✌🏼🍗
@@Xavaje You are right.
From my own experience, when you aware of your desire (thought, feeling or body sensation), a gap is created between you (observer) and the desire (the observed). You no longer identified with the desire and it loses its grip on you.
If you try to control it, it means now you desire not to have that desire.You are still identified with that desire by creating another desire, so it will persist.
Not sure if it helps.
All the best to you, fellow seeker of truth.🙏
@@DC-qj8dt Thanks Brother, I'm glad we have a similar point of view on the matter. I appreciate your words and how your energy comes across here.
Have a great rest of your weekend 👊🏼
Our semen is our energy,if we conserve it we will find great success in all fields of life...
Thank you ❤
Thanks
no research has been done that shows that besides that it's the placebo effect.
Today's youth is just wasting wasting and wasting there semens 😢
@@theaditxys Are you perhaps a teenager?
@@RT-oz3lg indeed I'm and that doesn't conclude that I'm ignorant.
I remember a time when my work was driving a taxi at night into the morning. Most of my fares were dancers from strip clubs going home. Most tried the 'hi sweetie' and 'you want to buy me something?'
I would immediately cut them off and honestly confess: "I have never been in a strip club; only parked on the outside for picking up patrons needing a ride. I am not interested in the atmosphere or lifestyle." Without fail, close to 100% of those girls would burst out crying and start confessing their trapped state. Many gritted their teeth and angrily voiced, "I HATE this job; I HATE my life." For most, I was able to offer a Higher Path that exposes the matter realm as illusion and the unseen as the Real.
Not all 'bad' people want to be 'bad'. Plus, it's not about good or bad but more about being connected to Spirit / Abiding and disconnecting from matter / the transitory.
Good people are not always holy; Bad people are not always evil !!!
*For rational spiritual knowledge Read*
1 *Bhagvat Gita*
2. *Bhagvat Mahapuran*
*Scriptures par excellence*
I love this, the most wise comment I've ever seen
When human beings realize that highest purpose of life is not to enjoy sensual pleasures and material comforts, but to seek spiritual exaltation and attainment of "moksha". There are 2 ways men can use their sexual fluid. One is by conserving it and using it only for the highest sacred purpose of creating a perfect child free of diseases, disabilities and defects and all karma so he or she will never undergo any pain or suffering. Another way is in yoga where you conserve the energy, release the nerves around each chakra or energy center and attain a state called samadhi and then moksha which is death without pain or suffering. Not all are gifted in this. There maybe 1 in million who can attain this state as 99.99999% of humans in this world are surrounded by sexual material and distractions one way or another.
Nobody is so lucky to die off in sleep. Nobody dies as and when they want to end their life. They have to live it on and on and on and they just don't know how they will go... either through cancer or heart attack or brain tumour or kidney failure or lung cancer or anything else. Hence, attainment of moksha is a gift and for that, one has to abandon sensual pleasures of which sexual pleasure is the crippling force that is ruling the world of today.
Very True
Remember we are all on different Paths heading to the same destination from different perspectives of purview & understanding.
All Paths are unique so right for the Individual on it
Tried a lot of things. Was very hard to come out of it.
Then i met my future wife. And immediately, i just had this change of heart to BE A BETTER MAN for hwr and for myself.
Just like it's said
WHAT THE MIND THINKS, THE BODY BECOMES
Take control of your body.
Coz I haven't done anything ever since 😊.
True love calms unhealthy lust
Love the moral of the story and it's wisdom. Although completely erasing my sexual desire isn't something I want in my life, retention and conscious use of it is something I seek.
Like restraining from the unnatural maturbation and channeling this life energy to create good but also life.
Nature never goes against reality but man made laws do. Good though with a good deed always within. Thank you for sharing it👍🙏
As-salamu alaykum
Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world.
🙏
as Muslim you can have 3 wives.
@@saishashi 1600 wife
Thank you and the same for you.
Shut up with your nonsense plz
i pity the peeps who even took your best of luck 😐
This is very greatful information for youngest generation.. now a days lot of people not controlling these type of things..
Yeah meditation is god's gift.. this will be control our feelings ,bad thoughts and increase our positivity...
The mind is not easy to master what eve we think we meditate we meditate all day just by working performing daily task and what we think we become
There's no such thing called a bad thought, they're all just thoughts.
I'm a Buddhist girl and love this story
Its tuff for giris to remain a monk is it not so? That too in india it's very difficult
Y not.....?????
*Read Bhagvat Gita spoken by God. Also read Bhagvat Mahapuran Scripture par excellence.*
@@vimalsehgal6947 pls don't forget abt Veda🙏
Vimal Sehgal.. swapnil... Varna caste system, dev dasi system, sati pradha ,etc,etc ??
No need to control mind nor emotions or nothing, the true consequence of a deep meditation practice is that you'll become free from Body, Mind & Emotions. To become free: you don't need to control anything, you just need to observe it as it is.
🧐wow I never thought of it that way. Thanks man
@@kurtcornwall2793 In fact, that is the way my friend... controlling it makes it more stronger. you are welcome!!!!
Man don't cry. That is what we have been taught. One day when I was in the US Army I started to cry from 7:30 to 3:45 in the afternoon. On my wedding day, I cried again from 6:30 to 11:45. The cameraman made a joke. This video should be on American Funny video. I called this event a storm of a century. Don't try to control your emotion; just let them flow. Now I never try to stop my urge to cry unless I am at work or surrounded by customers. Thank you for ur comments. U are right. Don't try to control anything
By the way, I am a survivor of the Khmer Rouge Genocide. Many people in my family were killed during the communist. Those memories still haunted me; I still have flashbacks on regular basis. Now I cried almost every day, but the pain gets less severe because I just let the storm pass by not trying to influent any thoughts
I know this story but is through sincerity that she changed and so did the sangha. It is a valuable lesson that often only takes experience to devote a mind to do better in face of adversity. May all sentient beings witness this profound brilliant glory.
Glory to that woman! Glory to that true monk, true renunciate who wasn't tempted even a tinge and transformed her being!
For rational spiritual knowledge Read
1 Bhagvat Gita
2. Bhagvat Mahapuran
Scriptures par excellence
Top effort Buddha. Respect for her and 'trust the remark."
🙏Namo Amitabha Buddha, may all being be Happy. Thank you
Amitava Buddha and Sakyamuni (Goutam Buddha) are different Buddhas This story is about Sakyamuni Buddha not about Amitava Buddha
Great lesson. Semen retension is a good way to control desires and use that sexual energy in other fields of life and become successful. Right woman will come later on.
Now it is nearly impossible bcz girls r exposing themselves that is very bad and it is natural that we get attract towards them bcz we can't help plz request to girls do not expose urself have some manners I see lot of tik tok videos girls r exposing all much that it is unbelievable plz girls don't do like that have some morals or do onething remove all ur clothes and Rome freely
Be celibate and happy. Sex desire and woman is cause of misery. Sexual pleasure is available even to stool eating dogs and hogs. Read Bhagvat Gita and Bhagvat Mahapuran scriptures par excellence.
@Saswat Dev Stop using Instagram. Lower your gaze...
If you examine nature deeply, sexual energy is purely used for the higher purpose of procreation. If sexual energy, fluids are wasted off for selfish pleasures, then Law of Karma will ensure pain and suffering in some way, shape or form. The child of a sex addict may suffer a lot of pain. We see many children born with diseases, disabilities, defects. All these plus all the pain and suffering in this world is directly a consequence of LUST and Greed alone. In that, Lust alone is the biggest part as we see how human population exploded to 8 Billion. This desire to enjoy is like taking a loan from bank and then struggling to pay interests later on. The soul of a true seeker who abandons all worldly desires, jumps to higher conscious level and is reborn into higher heavenly world where those beings are literal Gods and Goddesses.
So, choice is with us. If we wanna be born in this material body template with pleasures and pains, then we just repeat the same mistakes of the Lustful world of today. If we wanna evolve spiritually and jump to more evolved species in some other galaxy or planet, then we gotta reject this material world. Our desires shape our future bodies. If we our souls become superior to human souls of today, then it will not choose human body in it's next lifetime.
@@aliengod2039 well said brother
This is a very good message to young generations
Also easier said than done. When we're young we're full of semen and testerone. I know that I was.
Thank you sir I am overcamed from negative thoughts anxiety confusions masturbation thank you for your channel from 2 months im feeling strong confidence ...
Background vioce,
English subtitles,
Background music,
& Ur story with good message
Are awesome n lively. ❤️
However told/narrated, it is a beautiful story that sends you with a POSITIVE MIND!
Along with control of mind, it is also important to control the senses, especially the eyes. If the ten senses are not controlled, then mind control is not possible. This is clearly mentioned in the Bhagavad Gita. Desire must be removed from the mind, by telling yourself that the mind and senses can never be satiated by indulging in sense pleasures and their objects. Only by rising above these sense objects and pleasures, can we get rid of desires. We can rise above them by convincing ourselves that these pleasures are consuming us, and are hollow and vain.
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2. Bhagvat Mahapuran
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What are the 10 senses?
I think there are some changes in story, amrapali also known as ambapali in pali language is a court dancer or not a prostitute and people yeah use to call her nagarvadhu but she isn't prostitute. Many great kings used to came to see her classical dance and she has lover known as ajatshatru. The story of seducing a monk seems quite different and I never heard about that.
Yes you are right, I think the story of Haridas Thakur (who was a Muslim originally) a disciple of Chaitanya Mahaprabhu, has been mixed here. A prostitute tried real hard to seduce him but her heart got transformed after listening to holy mahamantra from Haridas Thakur. You can easily find more about him on UA-cam n google.
i heard this story in osho talk
With the voice of this man story telling surely many would be rescued from long term draught..... Great textbook call 🤙
One of the best lesson i have heard in my life thank you so much for giving wonderful message.
Yes absolutely true . divert the attention on good thoughts and meditation and physical activity and work , reading what is happening around the world.
👑 DHAN DHAN SRI WAHEGURU JI
DHAN DHAN SAT GURU NANAK DEV Ji👑
WAHEGURU JI BLESS ALL HIS CREATIONS.
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@@allahthepimp6042 gay shree raa*nd
I feel highly obliged and humbled by the grace of God 🙏🙏🙏
I am at 168 days of semen retention an I feel great. Meditation, Sun gazing and semen retention it's what you need to do.
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What is "Sun gazing" ?
@@bojankojic108 Hahahahahahaha
Taking sunlight
Don't you have sex though? Like, with women, I mean...?
Wow 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮 this is so beautiful❤ I have never been so inspired.
If you want to destroy any nation without war,make adultery or nudity common in the youth generation.
-- Philosopher words
We all born with a purpose. Even buddha born for that purpose to prach the world. So listen to your true, good and genuine inner voice about you, fellow men, society around and the whole world and do your best. This world has created from the "nothing". The "nothing" is "complete". That is God. If you become "nothing", you will merge with God. We all born here to clear our desires and duties. 🙏
Interesting story. It's taken me over 35 years control my libido. But not sure about "semen retention". Prostate Cancer is no joke and I've known a handful of older men who have dealt with removal of their prostate. I don't agree with the No Fap proponents.
Lol prostate cancer is very rare.
Be celibate and happy. Sex desire and woman is cause of misery. Sexual pleasure is available even to stool eating dogs and hogs. Read Bhagvat Gita and Bhagvat Mahapuran scriptures par excellence.
@@allahthepimp6042 I've been turning down dates for almost a year. Too much drama. But I have not stopped Fapping away. 🤣
Fapping is not the issue. Too much Fapping is the problem. And it's true, it becomes addicting to the point of you don't even enjoy it, you just want the release. But Fapping is a decent substitute for sex, just not too much of it.
@@allahthepimp6042 you should also agree that for some sex is part of their happiness and being with Somebody
## Our semen is our energy. My most important lesson in my life is in knowing my true-self & discovering mine greatest of potentials!! Thank you Gautama Buddha..
no. shithead😂😂
semen is not anyone's energy.
But I have no desire to stop my need for sex. I love it, that's the greatest gift I've received as a man.
Same here but you should also value retention when you Want to acheive something cause thats where your will power came from .beside that I like sex
I don't believe in budha but this story really is sound of wisdom. This is a gift.
Can I ask in a humble manner, what do you believe in?
Very beautiful and deep meaning story..... Respect ☺️ May Allahtala forgive me and bless me with his showers Ameen.....
The more u will think not to think bout it the harder we will fall into this it's better to keep ourselves diverted into positive things
Sex isn’t wrong …it can be healthy under the right circumstances.
this is a really good video.....
as a human we may cannot eliminate sexual thoughts.....but we can sure control it.....
Just cut off your balls.
Awesome message! Stay till the end as it is more informative than the story in this case.
Exactly the end gives you the key takeaways 🤔👍👍👍💪👌🙏🙏
Our mind is a like a vessel, what you fill is what matters. Thanks for sharing.
No one can leave this habit just by listening to a story. Buddha gave a practical way to people who were heavily indulged in sexual activities, he asked them to go to the cemetery and observe the dead bodes lying there infested with worms, maggots etc, so that they can realize that their own bodies will end up like this and physical attraction is just an illusion, this brought a significant impact on people's mind. And this was just one of the 82000 ways that he introduced to the mankind. Unfortunately we all forgot Buddha's teachings since they declined 500 years after he passed away.
I am a female,
and this speaks to me.
Hare Krishna Hare Rama 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌷
I like your calm and non forcing voice.
Trust me, I don't say that to every Hindu I find on the internet. In fact you are the first one.
Yes well said majority of the young generation sd practice this beautiful thought
The core of Buddha's teaching in a nutshell.
painful at first , can't deny it's remedial benefits , suffering has it's rewards though.....
AMEN 💥🙏🔥✴️
It's not about eliminating sexual desires,it's about understanding your emotions,it's about understanding our mind not about controling it, don't you think??
Mind will only run after pleasures and attractive sense objects. It is the nature of mind and senses to be drawn towards such things.
This is your desire speaking
It IS about eliminating desires completely. It's Your desires that are speaking on behalf of you.
Transmute Negative Human Desires into Positive Creations/Hobbies.And Balance the Sacral Chakra.That's the #1 Essence of Soul.
I meet this channel only today I think this channel is also one of the best UA-cam channel among the Best UA-cam channel And I believe it can control our Mind until to reach my Destiny🔥👍
This video contains great solutions to the challenges of many young people. Thank you!
By the way, how old are you?
@@thetruthseeker1606 I am 110
How old are you too?
@@festusjohnson9692 I'm young enough to get a boner. But why would you watch this video? I'm sure your T levels are in the negative.
My life was just opposite n I was spoken among my friends that I was not normal human being... I know this n I believe in myself how you can stay strong mentally and physically 🤗🤗🤗♥️✌️🕊️😎👍n this happens when you are spiritually strong 🙏
So you're one of those rare nonsexual females. I dispise and envy you at the same time.
@@younglove3362 😂😅🤣yup isn't that story of Amrapali amazing 😍 facts don't lie, People Do 🤗🤗🤗❤️✌️🕊️🕺💃🕺💃🕺💃 Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be honorable among all, and let the marriage bed be without defilement, for God will judge sexually immoral people and adulterers.🙏🤩
sexuality is something to get in contact with yout higher being. sexuality is a part of our being, sexual attraction is part of humanity and also of spirituality.
sexuality has nothing to do with your higher being😂😂
you must be pervert or in contact with some perverts
sexuality is just for fun and procreate. nothing spiritual or weakening in it.
Agree
I agree with this concept of self control, still many find that dangerous.
Good message. Well narrated story to motivate everyone to improve health.
I don't know, i admire the physique of a person, the beauty and the intrication of all creations amazes my little mind
THAT WAS A GOOD ADVICE, JESUS ALREADY SAID THAT IT ALL STARTS FROM LOOKING !
Control your lower self and ascend to the highest heights!!! All praises due to the Most High!!!!
Sex is natural. When you're one half you seek another half to complete. Yin and yang needs each other to become whole. When you're whole and One, you need to go into the contrast again to experience
I will try to share what made me come out of this. The idea is simple: what is not true doesn't sustain, truth alone sustains, truth alone is 'the truth'. Whenever we are confused about what is right or wrong, if we just ask ourselves whether 'is it true or not', we'll get the answer. Therefore, if we ask ourselves truly we will realize that the truth is our sexual desire is clouding over the fact that this person is a unique individual, who is also related to others just like how we're related to other women in our own lives, like our mother, sisters, friends etc. Once if we can just pause, and mentally subside our desire, we will suddenly recognize that this is an individual, a fellow human being, who has much more value than just being an object of my desire. How would I feel if someone perceived me/my loved ones like that? So, firstly our desire is objectifying an individual and clouding over the intrinsic value of a human being.
Next, just like other desires, is there an end to this desire? No, it comes, we satisfy it, it goes, then again it comes and this cycle repeats. But, truth is not something that comes and goes, it is something that is always there, it is always true. Just like how our desires and karma keeps us in a continuous cycle of life and death, there is no point in this cycle, we need to break this cycle and reach to the state of our true selves. Desire for things that are fundamentally untrue (like lust, money, power, fame etc.) are all the mini cycles in this larger cycle of life and death.
Everything has a 'true' purpose in this world. For example, the purpose of food is to aid the larger purpose of our health by providing nutrition to this body. Hence, food that doesn't serve this fundamental purpose is not true. We can see that how refined foods, artificial flavors, overuse of chemicals etc. are leading to a range of consequences like obesity, early heart attacks, high blood pressure and so on. Similarly, the purpose of our sexual desire is nothing but procreation, to aid in bringing another life to this world. That's all, that is its use. Now, we can take that and make it attractive, just like adding excess sugars and artificial flavors to our food. But it is useless, it is untrue. There is nothing wrong in trying to make our food tasty, but it mustn't come in the way of its fundamental purpose, which is nutrition. In fact, the art of cooking is to make a nutritious meal tasty. Similarly, the fundamental purpose that governs our relationship with our partner is love, the physical aspect only aids that relationship. But, just like a tasty meal without nutrition is useless, a relationship that is only physical without love is meaningless.
Whenever a sexual desire crops up in our mind, if we just pause, close our eyes and remind ourselves that this person is just like me, another individual, a fellow human being, and open our eyes, we are filled with empathy towards that person. This is the truth.
Thanks for making video on my and other so much request it will definitely help us a lot. Hats off to you and thanks again I'll keep supporting you ❤️❤️
Yes..this is real nature of real monk...
You cannot eliminate that thought or desire 🤔 but, you can achieve that stage of "virakti"(losing interest in something) by over doing it. And that is the only possible way for common people.
U may get virakthi in doing good things but not in bad things u will dig deep d deep.. No end my experience
So true! It’s been said that the only way to understand what is enough is by finding out what is too much.
@@srinivasanj7693 it's not like that. It is according to a person's mind. And it changes person to person. (Person means not an ordinary human but a capable candidate. If you administer it properly he or she could gain control over it...
Ordinary people can also test their capacity but, before that you must set levels. You must set many parameters most importantly you must know yourself and must be aware of your capacity.
Beware of blue whale kind of 🐳 🎯🎮 games. 🎮
@@gregglockhart9551 MIND....
@@TcCT238 Thanks bro. As per our book there are no difference between attaining supreme spirituality of ladies and gentlemen as well.
So don't waste time on hide and seek. We all belongs to that One supreme being. We are here to seek and realise it. Hopes some of us are enlightened.🙏🏼✌️
This is what am struggling from, pray for me.
I am fighting to gain control over my mind. Wish me luck, am new to meditation also.
You will surely fail if you continue like that have à good amount of sex and you will naturaly move towards méditation
Sir such an inspirational video a real change of mind ☺️🙏🏼
One of the most profound
I now see ED as a blessing rather than a curse!
Potentially stronger message that indulges our undesirable thoughts in to the pest control called "The Powered Meditation"
You can't control sexual energy , you can only direct it to lower chakra ( sacral or swadishthana) and release it or upper chakras like Ajna and Sahasrar and become a Bramha or God ! Also if you try to suppress any desires or feeling it's like you are hiding them inside and eventually it will come up and backfire ! Be a witness to your thoughts and feelings watch them without any judgment and attachments ,then miracles happen .love and light to all my brothers and sisters 💚
How do you do this?
This is the best nofap motivation. The story represented the motivation perfectly
Such a beautiful channel. Thank you so much for sharing these for us.
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I one hundred percent believe in what he is saying
This is the first most educative video I have seen on UA-cam. Another useful reminder for achieving greatness in life.
You just won yourself a new Subscriber😀
Keep up the good work.
Just what I really needed.ive been a fiend recently.
thanks Sir I'm glad I got the idea on how to get over masturbation I've been doing it for years now but I choose to stop right here right now you have help me a lot 😥😥🙏🧠💔
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You Can not stop until you really see the negative side effect and You will not stop until you make the descision to quit not trying to quit but just quit that simple
It is through God that you can get over it
Jai Sri Krishna 🙏
Jai Buddha
And soon humanity will grind to a halt. The answer is not in suppressing sexual desire but in fulfilling it in the way guided to by Allah SWT.
I think this is debatable. Science has proven that 21 ejaculations a month are needed for a man to stay healthy and avoid prostate cancer. As always, the law of the middle is the way to go. Not being a slave to desire, not being obsessed by sex, but also not avoiding sexual activities altogether (be it alone or in a couple).
Rubbish! Many people are celibate and are happy. 🤔😏
just like religions are debatable too, whose truly right in following christ words,
Stop eating meat, and then see if you still have the same sex drive. Then talk about science.
@@07sushy I agree on this fact. Our food type really has an effect.
If what you said is true,then most monks or celibate people will have health problems but i do not see that.Base on my understanding,sexual ejaculation drains your energy and your minds equanimity.Its not dirty or immoral but it just not conducive for people who seeks spiritual wisdom and peace.
if the monk's meditation is deep it will change Amrapali and if the it is not it will change the monk, very well put
The easiest and the most natural way to get rid of sex and masturbation is to have sex with someone in real, and nothing can beat that. It doesn't matter what anyone says or tells you to do about any other methods to get rid of sex or sexual thoughts, it doesn't actually work. Because sex is our physical need which is deeply connected to our mental health. So if anyone wants to meditate to get rid of sex or masturbation, then do sex, because sex is the right meditation for sex. So if anyone says any other absurd way to get rid of sex, then they doesn't have the right knowledge about sex or they doesn't know the actual powers, benefits and importance about sex.
I have been living this life already few years now... I clean my lush trough meditation...
sex is emptiness, emptiness is sex.
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Mhh I feel for you
Listen it again & again & again... Full of peace.
Thank you so much am a Christian but your words has touched me
Sexual life before marriage is sin I think, I'm Christian religion too
Buddhism looks magical teachings💆
People call something magical what they don't understand
Powerful admonition!
Thank you 🙏 sir.
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Hi atunda
Yes
In recent years frustrated women and the society are wondering why men are no longer interested in dating. To counter this, they embarking on shaming men about masturbation. Fortunately, men are no longer falling for that.
Better than live a stressful life with a woman.
True… unfortunately, a woman has become embodiment of countless desires with the eternal stress which is breaking men’s spine and ribs… Let’s don’t get in to a trap on to that tender skin with biological bumps and openings!!
@@ranganathmaringanti4380 😄😄😄
Your funny, but I love you.
This lesson made me understand what was quite confusing for me to understand. Everything has to do with controlling one's thought.
Control is an illusion. Just like thoughts. ✌️
Biggest Issue in this Earth ,
🙏🙏🙏 Om Namah Shivaya
amazing history 🙏🏻🤗
I haven’t in years…it hasn’t done anything for me other than give me peace ☮️
I am the CREATOR 🌅💝🥳✔️
The term Prostitute may kindly
be avoided, all the old prof names
has been, changed in this case
SEX WORKER, a humble request. Excellent episode 🙏🙏🙏
Repeat after me PROS TI TU TE. Sex worker ... ahahahahah. PROS TI TU TE. Liberal like my morning sh.t before i flush it you are...
Please, prostitution is one of the oldest professions. It is what it is.
Get out of here, its called prostitution, stop trying to change the language
@@jeunejaegerx3458 he's not, he's explained how this weak and pitiful, politically correct, wanna righteous, society is trying to change the language.
Yes
This Has Really Being A Great Help 🤗🤗🙏🙏
Thank You Ji 🤗🤗🥰😘😘😘
Jai Shree Radhe Krishna Ji 🧚♀️🙏🙏🤗🤗
Holding your energy is vital to reach higher levels of consciousness. Good inspiration story.
Hi elon, lol
But not after you expérience loosing it
True meditation will help u a lot in controlling urself
I was that monk 2400 years back .it was so thrilling living with #Amarpali .she was just awesome
true and so factual l am a fan of this way of life