I'm 69 years old and to see and hear two men having this beautiful, vulnerable, insightful conversation is such an incredible gift. Thank you Dustin and Kyle.
Aha, so it appears that I'm NOT going mad. Sat with my sadness today. Still find myself procrastinating, although much more awareness as to why and some solutions and compassion coming through. Thanks Kyle, and Thanks Dustin for your authenticity and willingness to expose your fears. This will be very healing for so many people. Big hugs and love to you both xx
I kept crying almost all the interview, as you guys touched my deep “darks” and my stories of being “broken and ever unfixable”😭 I’m very grateful to you!!!! Big hugs to you from Kazakhstan!!! Thank you for everything - for “half-birth”, for true nature of boredom when face to yourself, for clearance in understanding “dopamine source” (=process, not outcome), and most of all thank you for big trust that raised in me immediately!!! Just great trust is felt in my heart now. I was really able to feel and comprehend things I knew or read or listen before. P.S. During a school time a question often came “What I study English for as I’m not gonna use it anyway?” Coz in our country it’s not bad to speak English, but not a due or obligation at work or municipality. We study but never use. Today I got the answer! I loved my English classes for this great opportunity to hear and listen and watch people that I feel alignment with! Oh my... thank you so much, Kyle and Dustin!
You are so beautiful! What a beautiful connection and way to make the World a smaller and reachable place for all of us, we just need to See it. Love to you Anna. 💕💕
Dear Kyle and Dustin: Sooooo healing to see 2 amazing men share with such authenticity, vulnerable and courage. I'm 15 minutes in and teary already, thank you! 😊
The feeling of "I gotta earn it" has gotten in the way of me receiving so much... As I heard Dustin put it so clearly, was revelatory for me! Great interview, thank you both 🙏
Thanks guys. Well done Dustin, you've shown a lot of depth and 'heart'!!! Really so many profoundly truthful dynamics revealed. Yep, sitting with our pain is truly the only way to actually resolve/address/put pain in context. Then we're able to be comfortable being with ourselves...alone and still, and not feel like we need drugs, porn, food or escapism. And when you think about it, none of us can really actually escape from the now anyway, so...*shrugs* 'the veil is lifting' and all of this is happening is hyperdrive. Peace.
Thank you both for this, and Dustin for allowing yourself to be vulnerable. We are definitely all going through similar experiences to aid our ascension, and we are never, ever truly alone.x
💕 this was hard to listen to for me. I'm having to look at the end of a the possibility of a GREAT, DEEP, BEAUTIFUL, LOVING RELATIONSHIP. 15 months of falling in love and moving towards bring together. But suddenly he is ghosting me. It fucking hurts like hell!! I've always been OK alone. Then I met Greg and I fell deeply in love with him. ♥ now he's ended all communication with me. I'm realizing the truth about how I need to love being just with me again. 🙄😬 I loved this conversation. Ty 💕
What made this interview so rich with meaning for me is Dustin being so authentic and honest about what he's experiencing, voicing feelings and thoughts I've had but haven't been able to articulate. Kyle's very relatable analogies help bring awareness to things I'm feeling but couldn't put my finger on; the iPhone child trying to get approval from the heavy dial phone parent. The baby chick trying to put its broken shell back together, wanting to feel safe in what it knows rather than walking away from the past and learning a new way to be. God putting us in a strainer to remove the things that aren't serving our highest good, and us in fear because we've identified so long with what God is removing. Of course my "understander" ego excitedly wants to jump in and ask, "okay smartie pants, but how will this information change how you relate to your dad?". "Fine, walk away from your broken shell, what are you walking towards, you should have a plan". "When God is straining stuff out are you going to be smart enough to recognize that's what's happening and be able to let it go?" Then the ego me being proud for recognizing my ego, and realizing that's an ego trap too, lol! Time to meditate 🧘♀️
Hi Kyle. At 108:17 ,when you were talking about our desire to accelerate breakthrough, I was struck with the thought that since this "breakthrough" is human species deep, and thousands of years old, it's no wonder that it feels like the very beginning of generating momentum. We're collectively, just at that heavy, crucial, 1st gear stage.
Great interview and authentic sharing. We are all cracking open and letting go of our false self and old patterns…and thank goodness we have support like this so we can help each other not feel so alone in it. ** We were taught to put the mask on and show up as having it all together..but we can’t hold that down anymore. Time to expand and embrace our God Self. I, too like the birth analogy…another example: a caterpillar to a butterfly. 🦋💗🙌🏼🤟
Thank you so much! Such beautiful allowing of what wanted to surface. So helpful and supportive right when I was dangling in the old patterns again. You cleared up so many nuances that keep tricking me back into the past versions of me. I choose new because it is exciting and loving. I choose the unknown. I choose to be new versions of myself even if it's scary because deep down I know, I'll feel more freedom and ease. I move into trust. I am held. I am supported. No matter what. Thank you Kyle and Dustin!
I love this chat! I'm allowing lots of boredom these days and accepting I don't have to impact anyone or contribute to the world unless it merely comes through me. The urge to create and share is what I sit with these days.
Thank you both SO much!!!!! Absolutely awesome, I feel such relief and happiness listening to what you two have shared, thank you zillions!!! 🤩😍❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰
YES THE BOREDOM !!!!! can you pls do a whole video about the boredom while meditating bc it has stopped me from settling into the now consistently. In fact i associate THE NOW with boredom and almost irritation. Thank YOu Kyle 🌷🕊️
When I finally get more money, the better relationship, the newer home, etc. than I’ll finally be happy. Satisfaction and the presence of now are anathema to the ego. The old adage “success is a promise that’s never kept” is not just a fanciful attitude, it’s a psychological maxim.
Can so relate to you Dustin what an incredible interview. I've been trying to take away my additions TV, tasty food, facebook scholling. I feel so bored , everything feels boring. There's so many takeaways from this. Removing addictions and sitting with feeling uncomfortable. As boredom is another layer. I've always looked for quick fixes. Giving my self choices instead of saying I must meditate and exercise. Also revolving my life around meditation and exercise. Great interview and really hit home all of it. Keep up the good work and keep living in the now
What a beautiful conversation! More richly instructive and invigorating than I can express in words. Many thanks to both of you for your courage, wisdom and openness.
Exponential growth for sooooooo many shall come from your living, loving, learning and sharing ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Tah-freaky-dah!!🥰🥰🥰 ❤️🙏Love2All2Love🙏❤️ And so it is! 🥰 We're on our way ~ growing from here ~ love you both beyond time space and measure! ❤️
Kyle, this was such potent medicine, thank you. Have you heard from Dustin since he published this on 6/22? His Ig shows this episode as his last post and that was a month ago... I'm a lil worried about our baby chick 🐣
The only fulfilling & true love is in the infinite NOW ♥️. Thank you for everything Kyle🙏. You've been a constant beacon of LIGHT in these challenging times. Gotta lotta love for ya, buddy! XO✌
Just finished the interview and it was so timely, relevant & helpful!! Thank you so much to both men for being so open and honest, it was one of the best interviews I've ever listened to!! Dustin was awesome!!🎆✨🎇♥️
Man, I am that guy. So close to being born, but don't want to have to give up the toys I've been playing with forever, even though that means keeping the pain. Thank YOU Dustin for helping me see myself a little better. How do we make our addictions a choice 🤯
You guys really hit on a huge signpost here. As we awaken to our eternal nature, we lose our fear of death. We come into the very real and visceral fear of pain and acknowledging how much and how intense the collective pain has been and still is being experienced. The old school was that we had the ego centered fear of death. The new school is, death is an artifact of one way linear time. Our perception of time and it's eternal nature has shifted due to all the individual practices of present moment focusing. This has cleared the way for us to see and acknowledge all the pain and the realization of how integrated pain has become to our every aspect of experience. The new school(s) of experience and perception deal with disentangling from all that pain. If there is pain, there remains a need for healing. The signal that healing is complete is that, there is no more pain. The pain pattern has millennia momentum because it's gone on and intensified for thousands of years. That's a huge momentum to shift and it is the shift we're in. We're shifting out of all the pain. My new Soul speak for myself for the last 4 months is, "Do it without pain" See profound beauty or compassion without that twinge of pain, feel love and nostalgia with no trace of pain. Even witness the pain around you without taking it onto yourself. Come to see that as you choose your way out of the pain entanglement, you are literally turning the tide of pain toward genuine healing. It's happening. That's our next Soul task in the healing of our individual and collective hearts. It's not a matter of doing it, it's our natural progression out of the high pressure, intense friction and suffering due to living so far out of alignment with our source nature. Millenia of warpage and it's resulting pain are ending in these new re-alignments with who and what we are in our expanded self. And for the first time... in forever, we're experiencing love without the threat of pain, Love in alignment with Its genuine and pure presence. Be of good cheer, your talk here is clear evidence of that. Peace and goodness to you both.
" The pains going to be felt but you'v never felt the pain, actively felt. You felt it come up and you half distract from it, half run from it, thats what causes 10 times more of the pain. Boredom sounds like a negotiation between distraction and feeling the pain." 54:49... What will overtake you ? ... the pain that I feel, the floodgates opening, the unbearable...I am still here " The " illusion " that your alone in this is the biggest pain." " God's cutting you open right now and taking out everything you thought you were." You got this🤚 🤚 Thanks Kyle and Dustin for sharing, can so relate🙏
That didn't just go well, it went exactly the way it needed to go because you let it be in the now. Tears of recognition with this talk (as always with Kyle). Thank you both so much for evolving out loud!
21:15 ... i feel that 💜 ... another 'first everything' child here! Amazing discussion ... pain of existence, depression and loneliness ... lack of trust in self.
Dustin is a wonderful interviewer!! 🙌🏼 This was a deeply resonant conversation on so many levels. I’ve been in the process of letting go and allowing and with that comes a big lesson around letting go of traditional ideas around goals. We can expand, evolve, grow and move forward in ways that the world doesn’t measure and maybe doesn’t ever see but it’s SO valuable on a personal level. Thank you both for reinforcing this idea in a beautiful way!! 💛💛💛🙏🏼
Thank you for a wonderful time with you both. So honest and enlightening on this awakening journey. Would love the link to Dustin's UA-cam. So gentle and genuine & not afraid to be totally honest. Precious, thank you x
Dustin, so much resonates with me, I'm the eldest and was the first grandchild, first cousin and everything you speak of is what I felt as well. Thank you for this Kyle and Dustin.
“This massive attachment to eachother is what’s dying”. We are moving away from survival mode (where we thought we needed eachother to survive) to trust is God/HigherSelf and trust in life to provide for us.
This is AMAZING 👏 way to help each other. Kyle I love listening to you speak and when I get it, it's even better. Thank you both for sharing this with the world.
Thanx you beautiful men! Loved it and had a laugh at how men speak about porn as easily as about drinking 😄! This was really beneficial, I think especially for men. We women are more used to talk to eachother and share deep stuff. I see many men struggling because they don't have these close friendships or are not used to being vulnerable. It' s great that that is changing now! Love from the Netherlands for you and your sweet beautiful eyes!
What an amazingly honest and vulnerable and authentic conversation! Beautiful!!! May millions of people be able to see this and relate to that in them which is just like this in some way. Blessings to you both, Kyle and Dustin, for doing this podcast.
Thank you so much for sharing this relatable energy. Recently I’ve been obsessed with learning/watching how a dragonfly transforms from nymph to wings. Witnessing and helping my dad so close to death and on hospice, all I can hope for is he’s going through a metamorphosis process and soon he will be free of his pain body. Life can feel overwhelming and it’s a nice reminder to trust the process of our soul evolving and that we’re feeling the collective trauma together. It’s felt so heavy lately and I’ve been extremely homesick for a peaceful more enlightened planet. Surrender to the human experience and trusting the process to be here now. 💕💎
Is this ego death? I love this thank u so much both of you .i have said for over 2 years now - wow I made it another day I am Doing good .. much compassion for all right now … ❤️
That's what I needed to hear today, If this pattern of behavior dies, then the bad thing that hurts so much will come back to get me. I have been trying to figure out why I can't let this last thing go in my life that I know I need to in order to release myself and truly be happy in the now. That explains it all...
I can’t thank you enough for this. As someone who had to fight to stay alive this weekend for the exact reasons you mentioned (being too aware and not relating to those around me) I thank you both so much. I want to give this man a hug and let him know I’m exactly where he is!! The advice to just stay alive is the best thing I’ve heard in awhile. THANK YOU!!!! 💙💙
I so needed this today guys…. When I listened to the part about imagining who someone is and that’s what you love and not the real person… it hit me that what I really want to love is a version of me that doesn’t get triggered… so I imagine a person in my future who is so unreal as to not trigger me because I fucking hate me when I’m triggered!! I hate everything about me in that state… it happens a lot lately because I’m caught in an imaginary future of politics and spiritual battles and bla bla bla… I can’t hardly function in reality lately. So in that future where people are kind and we rebuild this planet…. I’m a damn hero! I cling to that because the now seems so uncertain and terrifying some days I threaten myself and my life in my mind…. I hate that me as well! Thanks for letting work this out here. Awesome to have examples of public vulnerability and strength.
I understand if this just happens I will be happy. I’ve been saying for over a year if my book just sells and my UA-cam channel rises in status, I will get the money to move away from this toxic place and then I will happy. Hasn’t happened yet, of course I have to work through it and rerelease my distractive patterns. Thank You for this interview.
I’m excited to watch and listen to your conversation again. Dustin has been so brave in real life. Your conversation touches so much of what I’m feeling right now. Thank you for sharing it. I treasure it.
What a wonderful, honest conversation. It has definitely made me feel that I'm not alone, less afraid, and more open to being fully present with all that is in this moment. 💓🙏💕💗
I almost didn’t listen to this one because of the title, but WOW! Like you said, this might be my favorite ever. So honest and so human. Thank you both for this gift 🙏
So perfect and poignant for darkness coming up right now. Actually felt physicsl pain shift by being present for the video. Could really relate to Dustin and loved his vulnerability, energy and articulation. Thank you!
Loved everything about this interview not least the depth of authenticity and insights of awareness around surrendering the egoic patterns to the bigger I AM 💗🥰🤩✊💥💥💥
This so resonated with me tonight! Thank you so much for sharing it! Like you, I have given up everything I had built my world around... spiritually, financially, the husband where everything looked right but wasn't, my huge home, the cars, the money, a big design business all back in 2012. Waking up had begun in 2008. I've completely redesigned my life and it's better than I could've imagined. It wasn't necessarily bad before, it just wasn't me.... it was what everyone wanted and expected from me which is a whole other weight around your neck! I finally live by the beach in California where I was "told" at age 9 in Newport Beach I was "Home". My level of spirituality is even deeper and wider than it ever was. And doing this work has been incredible as far as personal growth. But I do have a question... We've all been so trained to set goals, build a life, be someone, do great things, create experiences, etc. I've been a great human doing!! I used to look forward to the next thing, the next thing, etc. But my "new training" in the past 10 years is to live in the present (still working on that!). I still find myself caught up in the past AND future, setting goals, looking forward to having something to look forward to! It makes me feel excited, alive and I'm afraid to take the next step into not being so "positively" affected by reaching a goal or having a certain experience. This is esoteric I know but I've given up so much of what was "me" in order to actually find Me, maybe I'm afraid to give up caring... it's not caring... what is it?? I'm right there, so close... but I feel like if I take that next step... nothing will mean anything. Am I making any sense? 😆 I know what I mean, its just not coming out right 🥴😄
I'm 69 years old and to see and hear two men having this beautiful, vulnerable, insightful conversation is such an incredible gift. Thank you Dustin and Kyle.
Yes❣️ So wonderful❣️
Aha, so it appears that I'm NOT going mad.
Sat with my sadness today. Still find myself procrastinating, although much more awareness as to why and some solutions and compassion coming through.
Thanks Kyle, and Thanks Dustin for your authenticity and willingness to expose your fears. This will be very healing for so many people. Big hugs and love to you both xx
This really hit home. I felt it. It’s definitely one of your best interviews Kyle. Love you
I resonated with it too! What part of it specifically hit home for you?
I kept crying almost all the interview, as you guys touched my deep “darks” and my stories of being “broken and ever unfixable”😭
I’m very grateful to you!!!! Big hugs to you from Kazakhstan!!!
Thank you for everything - for “half-birth”, for true nature of boredom when face to yourself, for clearance in understanding “dopamine source” (=process, not outcome), and most of all thank you for big trust that raised in me immediately!!! Just great trust is felt in my heart now. I was really able to feel and comprehend things I knew or read or listen before.
P.S. During a school time a question often came “What I study English for as I’m not gonna use it anyway?” Coz in our country it’s not bad to speak English, but not a due or obligation at work or municipality. We study but never use.
Today I got the answer! I loved my English classes for this great opportunity to hear and listen and watch people that I feel alignment with! Oh my... thank you so much, Kyle and Dustin!
You are so beautiful! What a beautiful connection and way to make the World a smaller and reachable place for all of us, we just need to See it. Love to you Anna. 💕💕
So amazing❣️ You have so much media available to you knowing multiple languages ❣️
Yes, and you put it into words so eloquently that which I cannot put into words.
Dear Kyle and Dustin: Sooooo healing to see 2 amazing men share with such authenticity, vulnerable and courage. I'm 15 minutes in and teary already, thank you! 😊
The feeling of "I gotta earn it" has gotten in the way of me receiving so much... As I heard Dustin put it so clearly, was revelatory for me! Great interview, thank you both 🙏
Thanks guys. Well done Dustin, you've shown a lot of depth and 'heart'!!! Really so many profoundly truthful dynamics revealed. Yep, sitting with our pain is truly the only way to actually resolve/address/put pain in context. Then we're able to be comfortable being with ourselves...alone and still, and not feel like we need drugs, porn, food or escapism. And when you think about it, none of us can really actually escape from the now anyway, so...*shrugs* 'the veil is lifting' and all of this is happening is hyperdrive. Peace.
Love this! Kind, honest, real, and supportive between both. This is heart-opening.
Oh. Dustin … if I don’t do this I will be stuck in the muck. Me with myself. Is horrible. This!! Is !! What!! I!! Needed!! Today!!!
Thank you both for this, and Dustin for allowing yourself to be vulnerable. We are definitely all going through similar experiences to aid our ascension, and we are never, ever truly alone.x
Bringing up...feeling broken....hit home! Thank you both for being so open and honest to help others. Love to you both! ❤
Sooo goOD…Re-ceived wonderFULL new INsighT 2 share with The rest of mY sOul familY…thank yOu bOth..🎶🥰🤗💝🙏💚✨🌎✨🐝🦋🌈✨
I love the part when he was so vulnerable about how he felt having you on the show. ❤️
💕 this was hard to listen to for me. I'm having to look at the end of a the possibility of a GREAT, DEEP, BEAUTIFUL, LOVING RELATIONSHIP. 15 months of falling in love and moving towards bring together. But suddenly he is ghosting me. It fucking hurts like hell!! I've always been OK alone. Then I met Greg and I fell deeply in love with him. ♥ now he's ended all communication with me. I'm realizing the truth about how I need to love being just with me again. 🙄😬
I loved this conversation. Ty 💕
This may be a twin flame situation for you.
Sounds like you were love bomed by a narcissist. A heck of a life lesson. Not your fault. You will come back stronger and wiser. Much love to you.
What made this interview so rich with meaning for me is Dustin being so authentic and honest about what he's experiencing, voicing feelings and thoughts I've had but haven't been able to articulate. Kyle's very relatable analogies help bring awareness to things I'm feeling but couldn't put my finger on; the iPhone child trying to get approval from the heavy dial phone parent. The baby chick trying to put its broken shell back together, wanting to feel safe in what it knows rather than walking away from the past and learning a new way to be. God putting us in a strainer to remove the things that aren't serving our highest good, and us in fear because we've identified so long with what God is removing. Of course my "understander" ego excitedly wants to jump in and ask, "okay smartie pants, but how will this information change how you relate to your dad?". "Fine, walk away from your broken shell, what are you walking towards, you should have a plan". "When God is straining stuff out are you going to be smart enough to recognize that's what's happening and be able to let it go?" Then the ego me being proud for recognizing my ego, and realizing that's an ego trap too, lol! Time to meditate 🧘♀️
Hi Kyle. At 108:17 ,when you were talking about our desire to accelerate breakthrough, I was struck with the thought that since this "breakthrough" is human species deep, and thousands of years old, it's no wonder that it feels like the very beginning of generating momentum. We're collectively, just at that heavy, crucial, 1st gear stage.
Susan 108:17 was the end credits.
Great interview and authentic sharing. We are all cracking open and letting go of our false self and old patterns…and thank goodness we have support like this so we can help each other not feel so alone in it. ** We were taught to put the mask on and show up as having it all together..but we can’t hold that down anymore. Time to expand and embrace our God Self. I, too like the birth analogy…another example: a caterpillar to a butterfly. 🦋💗🙌🏼🤟
Thank you so much! Such beautiful allowing of what wanted to surface. So helpful and supportive right when I was dangling in the old patterns again. You cleared up so many nuances that keep tricking me back into the past versions of me. I choose new because it is exciting and loving. I choose the unknown. I choose to be new versions of myself even if it's scary because deep down I know, I'll feel more freedom and ease. I move into trust. I am held. I am supported. No matter what. Thank you Kyle and Dustin!
I love this chat! I'm allowing lots of boredom these days and accepting I don't have to impact anyone or contribute to the world unless it merely comes through me. The urge to create and share is what I sit with these days.
You two speak my language ❤️ beautiful, authentic, natural conversation 🥰
100% relate! 💖💖💖
Thank you both SO much!!!!! Absolutely awesome, I feel such relief and happiness listening to what you two have shared, thank you zillions!!! 🤩😍❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰
YES THE BOREDOM !!!!! can you pls do a whole video about the boredom while meditating bc it has stopped me from settling into the now consistently. In fact i associate THE NOW with boredom and almost irritation. Thank YOu Kyle 🌷🕊️
When I finally get more money, the better relationship, the newer home, etc. than I’ll finally be happy. Satisfaction and the presence of now are anathema to the ego. The old adage “success is a promise that’s never kept” is not just a fanciful attitude, it’s a psychological maxim.
Can so relate to you Dustin what an incredible interview. I've been trying to take away my additions TV, tasty food, facebook scholling. I feel so bored , everything feels boring. There's so many takeaways from this. Removing addictions and sitting with feeling uncomfortable. As boredom is another layer. I've always looked for quick fixes. Giving my self choices instead of saying I must meditate and exercise. Also revolving my life around meditation and exercise. Great interview and really hit home all of it. Keep up the good work and keep living in the now
I love this! I'd love to see more videos of you doing coaching sessions I think that could be extremely helpful for your audience to relate to
What a beautiful conversation! More richly instructive and invigorating than I can express in words. Many thanks to both of you for your courage, wisdom and openness.
Another transformational video. Thanks ever so much, Kyle for sharing. So blessed to be a part of the AEP community.
Exponential growth for sooooooo many shall come from your living, loving, learning and sharing ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Tah-freaky-dah!!🥰🥰🥰
❤️🙏Love2All2Love🙏❤️
And so it is! 🥰
We're on our way ~ growing from here ~ love you both beyond time space and measure! ❤️
Kyle, this was such potent medicine, thank you. Have you heard from Dustin since he published this on 6/22? His Ig shows this episode as his last post and that was a month ago... I'm a lil worried about our baby chick 🐣
The only fulfilling & true love is in the infinite NOW ♥️. Thank you for everything Kyle🙏. You've been a constant beacon of LIGHT in these challenging times. Gotta lotta love for ya, buddy! XO✌
Just finished the interview and it was so timely, relevant & helpful!! Thank you so much to both men for being so open and honest, it was one of the best interviews I've ever listened to!! Dustin was awesome!!🎆✨🎇♥️
WOW!😍 TEARS ARE FLOWING ALREADY! I feeeel this!
Thank you both!
🤗💖;🤗💖
Man, I am that guy. So close to being born, but don't want to have to give up the toys I've been playing with forever, even though that means keeping the pain. Thank YOU Dustin for helping me see myself a little better. How do we make our addictions a choice 🤯
You guys really hit on a huge signpost here. As we awaken to our eternal nature, we lose our fear of death. We come into the very real and visceral fear of pain and acknowledging how much and how intense the collective pain has been and still is being experienced. The old school was that we had the ego centered fear of death. The new school is, death is an artifact of one way linear time. Our perception of time and it's eternal nature has shifted due to all the individual practices of present moment focusing. This has cleared the way for us to see and acknowledge all the pain and the realization of how integrated pain has become to our every aspect of experience. The new school(s) of experience and perception deal with disentangling from all that pain. If there is pain, there remains a need for healing. The signal that healing is complete is that, there is no more pain. The pain pattern has millennia momentum because it's gone on and intensified for thousands of years. That's a huge momentum to shift and it is the shift we're in. We're shifting out of all the pain. My new Soul speak for myself for the last 4 months is, "Do it without pain" See profound beauty or compassion without that twinge of pain, feel love and nostalgia with no trace of pain. Even witness the pain around you without taking it onto yourself. Come to see that as you choose your way out of the pain entanglement, you are literally turning the tide of pain toward genuine healing. It's happening. That's our next Soul task in the healing of our individual and collective hearts. It's not a matter of doing it, it's our natural progression out of the high pressure, intense friction and suffering due to living so far out of alignment with our source nature. Millenia of warpage and it's resulting pain are ending in these new re-alignments with who and what we are in our expanded self. And for the first time... in forever, we're experiencing love without the threat of pain, Love in alignment with Its genuine and pure presence. Be of good cheer, your talk here is clear evidence of that. Peace and goodness to you both.
This is ammaazinggggggg
Absolutely brilliant…even for a fifty something female! Thank you guys. 😘
I’m 60 and a woman who was awakened a year ago.
I’m loving my life, now!
*Wow dustin! Did you say that you were a newbie podcaster? You are doing so well! :-)* ☺️
This is so helpful. Thank you both. Seeing myself in so much of this. Love you guys 💞
" The pains going to be felt but you'v never felt the pain, actively felt. You felt it come up and you half distract from it, half run from it, thats what causes 10 times more of the pain. Boredom sounds like a negotiation between distraction and feeling the pain."
54:49...
What will overtake you ? ... the pain that I feel, the floodgates opening, the unbearable...I am still here
" The " illusion " that your alone in this is the biggest pain."
" God's cutting you open right now and taking out everything you thought you were."
You got this🤚 🤚
Thanks Kyle and Dustin for sharing, can so relate🙏
So....LOL....Life is a Bee Gee's song...... Staying Alive, we are back in disco....... good one.
I love your Iphone analogy, Kyle !
PS: Dustin, I totally feel you ♥
Dustin is so truly vulnerable and authentic.
Beautiful interview. 💕
So great. Made me LOL when Kyle became the pretty girl. Totally get it🤣
Very relatable, going to check out Dustin's podcast now, thank you both 🙏💓
That didn't just go well, it went exactly the way it needed to go because you let it be in the now. Tears of recognition with this talk (as always with Kyle). Thank you both so much for evolving out loud!
🔥🔥🔥🔥🤜🏻💥🤛🏻🎯🎯🎯 POWER SEGMENT....🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
AMAZING and MOVING. Thank You Both for showing up for your lives... we are all better for it.
Crying! I am allowed to be broken in my body also!
This was really wonderful to watch.
21:15 ... i feel that 💜 ... another 'first everything' child here! Amazing discussion ... pain of existence, depression and loneliness ... lack of trust in self.
Dustin is a wonderful interviewer!! 🙌🏼 This was a deeply resonant conversation on so many levels. I’ve been in the process of letting go and allowing and with that comes a big lesson around letting go of traditional ideas around goals. We can expand, evolve, grow and move forward in ways that the world doesn’t measure and maybe doesn’t ever see but it’s SO valuable on a personal level. Thank you both for reinforcing this idea in a beautiful way!! 💛💛💛🙏🏼
Thank you for a wonderful time with you both. So honest and enlightening on this awakening journey. Would love the link to Dustin's UA-cam. So gentle and genuine & not afraid to be totally honest. Precious, thank you x
Dustin, so much resonates with me, I'm the eldest and was the first grandchild, first cousin and everything you speak of is what I felt as well. Thank you for this Kyle and Dustin.
Now who doesn't Love that kind of Sunshine!!?!! "You are my Sunshine, my other Sunshine"...
So good! Ty for sharing this ❤️
“This massive attachment to eachother is what’s dying”. We are moving away from survival mode (where we thought we needed eachother to survive) to trust is God/HigherSelf and trust in life to provide for us.
This is AMAZING 👏 way to help each other. Kyle I love listening to you speak and when I get it, it's even better. Thank you both for sharing this with the world.
Thanx you beautiful men!
Loved it and had a laugh at how men speak about porn as easily as about drinking 😄! This was really beneficial, I think especially for men. We women are more used to talk to eachother and share deep stuff. I see many men struggling because they don't have these close friendships or are not used to being vulnerable. It' s great that that is changing now! Love from the Netherlands for you and your sweet beautiful eyes!
What an amazingly honest and vulnerable and authentic conversation! Beautiful!!! May millions of people be able to see this and relate to that in them which is just like this in some way. Blessings to you both, Kyle and Dustin, for doing this podcast.
Thank you so much for sharing this relatable energy. Recently I’ve been obsessed with learning/watching how a dragonfly transforms from nymph to wings. Witnessing and helping my dad so close to death and on hospice, all I can hope for is he’s going through a metamorphosis process and soon he will be free of his pain body. Life can feel overwhelming and it’s a nice reminder to trust the process of our soul evolving and that we’re feeling the collective trauma together. It’s felt so heavy lately and I’ve been extremely homesick for a peaceful more enlightened planet. Surrender to the human experience and trusting the process to be here now. 💕💎
Love how he keeps opening and then leaning into it…
Wow. This whole talk really resonated with me. Thank you so much for this talk. My mind is just blown.
Is this ego death? I love this thank u so much both of you .i have said for over 2 years now - wow I made it another day I am
Doing good .. much compassion for all right now … ❤️
Dustin, is brave and generous to share this interview with everyone.
I love the rotary phone example!! But really enlightening and spot on for what I go through so many times… xoxo’s!
This was beautiful thank you both
1st. born princess of the grandchildren here🤘love this interview TY so much
That's what I needed to hear today, If this pattern of behavior dies, then the bad thing that hurts so much will come back to get me. I have been trying to figure out why I can't let this last thing go in my life that I know I need to in order to release myself and truly be happy in the now. That explains it all...
Oooooh this is exciting!! I’m gonna be watching this soon ❤️🔥
Any "pretty girl" would be lucky to go on a date with a conscious, kind, and sincere man like him!
Thank you to you both. This is so applicable to me on many different levels. It's comforting to know I'm not the only one.
I can’t thank you enough for this. As someone who had to fight to stay alive this weekend for the exact reasons you mentioned (being too aware and not relating to those around me) I thank you both so much. I want to give this man a hug and let him know I’m exactly where he is!! The advice to just stay alive is the best thing I’ve heard in awhile. THANK YOU!!!! 💙💙
YES THIS!!🍃
WOW I guess I was ready for this...🙏
Just looking for a few moments & it seems he healed you to. Very very beautifully to see. Vulnerable Kyle.
Wow! Just wow!! Thank you for the massive expansion I experienced with this interview☀️🤗
I so needed this today guys…. When I listened to the part about imagining who someone is and that’s what you love and not the real person… it hit me that what I really want to love is a version of me that doesn’t get triggered… so I imagine a person in my future who is so unreal as to not trigger me because I fucking hate me when I’m triggered!! I hate everything about me in that state… it happens a lot lately because I’m caught in an imaginary future of politics and spiritual battles and bla bla bla… I can’t hardly function in reality lately. So in that future where people are kind and we rebuild this planet…. I’m a damn hero! I cling to that because the now seems so uncertain and terrifying some days I threaten myself and my life in my mind…. I hate that me as well! Thanks for letting work this out here. Awesome to have examples of public vulnerability and strength.
For me . it getting my health back. Bc it does negatively affect you and your life ..
I understand if this just happens I will be happy. I’ve been saying for over a year if my book just sells and my UA-cam channel rises in status, I will get the money to move away from this toxic place and then I will happy. Hasn’t happened yet, of course I have to work through it and rerelease my distractive patterns.
Thank You for this interview.
Felt highly relevant to me. +1 subscriber to the big believer podcast.
Wow Dustin thanks for being so open. Sounds like you were talking about me
Love this... one of the best talk so far...
I was just telling my friend recently that just staying alive has become my biggest goal and challenge. Thank you for this video.
Dustin is so open, vulnerable here and such a beautiful soul. Thank you for this interview. Thank you for this powerful and connected conversation. 😘🫶
My goodness... I REALLY enjoyed the last 30ish mins of this. Amazingly insightful with deeper and new exciting ways of seeing. AMAZING!
OMG, I loved every bit of this. Thank you!
I’m excited to watch and listen to your conversation again. Dustin has been so brave in real life. Your conversation touches so much of what I’m feeling right now. Thank you for sharing it. I treasure it.
What a wonderful, honest conversation. It has definitely made me feel that I'm not alone, less afraid, and more open to being fully present with all that is in this moment. 💓🙏💕💗
",,,you're still in negotiation trying to live in the shell version of you". Brilliant.
Gosh This was fantastic!! So many great words were spoken by both
Men! I got so much out of this!!
Thank- you both Love to you guys❤️🩹
I almost didn’t listen to this one because of the title, but WOW! Like you said, this might be my favorite ever. So honest and so human. Thank you both for this gift 🙏
I am SO-O-O GLAD your paths crossed! No doubt about it, this is helping MANY! ...& will continue too!💖💖💖 ( #MeantToBe! )
I love this, thank you so much for touching this subject
That was amazing.
So perfect and poignant for darkness coming up right now. Actually felt physicsl pain shift by being present for the video. Could really relate to Dustin and loved his vulnerability, energy and articulation. Thank you!
Loved everything about this interview not least the depth of authenticity and insights of awareness around surrendering the egoic patterns to the bigger I AM 💗🥰🤩✊💥💥💥
Great interview!
Perfect time… thank you ♥️💜♥️
Wow...amazing stuff. Thank you both
Excellent interview! Dustin, your openness is inspiring! Thank you. Kyle, thank you for bringing your gifts.
This so resonated with me tonight! Thank you so much for sharing it! Like you, I have given up everything I had built my world around... spiritually, financially, the husband where everything looked right but wasn't, my huge home, the cars, the money, a big design business all back in 2012. Waking up had begun in 2008. I've completely redesigned my life and it's better than I could've imagined. It wasn't necessarily bad before, it just wasn't me.... it was what everyone wanted and expected from me which is a whole other weight around your neck!
I finally live by the beach in California where I was "told" at age 9 in Newport Beach I was "Home". My level of spirituality is even deeper and wider than it ever was. And doing this work has been incredible as far as personal growth. But I do have a question...
We've all been so trained to set goals, build a life, be someone, do great things, create experiences, etc. I've been a great human doing!! I used to look forward to the next thing, the next thing, etc. But my "new training" in the past 10 years is to live in the present (still working on that!). I still find myself caught up in the past AND future, setting goals, looking forward to having something to look forward to! It makes me feel excited, alive and I'm afraid to take the next step into not being so "positively" affected by reaching a goal or having a certain experience. This is esoteric I know but I've given up so much of what was "me" in order to actually find Me, maybe I'm afraid to give up caring... it's not caring... what is it?? I'm right there, so close... but I feel like if I take that next step... nothing will mean anything. Am I making any sense? 😆
I know what I mean, its just not coming out right 🥴😄
Thank you for the many Aha moments! Wonderful interview.