Echoing others, spot on about every point. Be warned, guys, if you are married or paired to a woman who doesn't "get you" before kids, you will have much difficulty raising kids with her, trust me.
I now know my dad was truly a sigma especially in teaching me how to read people, leading by example and many other crucial things brought about by this video.
When I got told by a random stranger that I was the best dad she’s ever seen 😢 that meant the world to me. Being a dad is the greatest blessing the universe has to offer. Great video guys 😎
Same here. People say parenting is so hard... I say it is the most delightful thing I have ever done. No conflict on this path, just the miracle unfolding.
I’m realizing I can check off almost every box of these videos defining sigma males. It’s beginning to make sense why I studied six sigma to the black belt level.
Never had a playbook but amazing how spot on this is. I did all this just because it’s how I think. My three adult children now are the most amazing humans , polite, independent, don’t whine, caring etc… we’ve always had an amazing relationship and still do.
One day, my daughter told me that I was her superhero. It caught me off guard but made me realize how our kids see us in such a magical light. Being a dad isn't just about providing; it's about being there to inspire and nurture their dreams. Great video guys
Telling kids that everyone is an expert at something and in that they can learn from everyone. Also, teach them that ego is a handicap that should be overcome, not fed.
My 2 son's are in there late 20's and are always involved in family time without me ever pushing them and they are well equipped to deal with todays world . I am always proud and amazed at both of them in the way they deal with todays problems.
I think people wont actually truly reach sigma until age 30+ because that's your self believe and confidence improves enough by then to stop caring about other people opinions or their validation. After this happens you end up doing what you want the way you want when you want. Then Sigma becomes truly unique and authentic and does things the way he thinks is best. Even if nobody else does it that way.
Accurate.. Children are the future, and if we want to change the world for the betterment of everyone, we should start with giving our children the tools and advice they need to be great humans.. I'm very proud of my little boy and confident he will be a good man wise beyond his years..
Also teach your kids to not seek validation or attention, but to be an asset to the team no matter where they go, and to be authentic to themselves instead of being something they're not, just to fit in.
I'm 36. Car painter down in NZ. Never met my dad, mother was a druggie. My boys 7 and he has seen and done what most 10-15 year olds. Physics, Intellect, sarcastic joke mid conversation and physical abilities on point. I'm so proud but I know I could spend more downtime with him. Shits hard but I could never be like my parents, a bad day doesn't last long. It's how we deal with them is the key to life
I did most of the things in this video when bringing up my kids. I took my kids to work with me. They learned how hard I had to work to get the things we had. I had to do my own thing in life and I told them to do that too. Both are sigma's. I'm having fun watching them do their own thing in life.
The answer in my case with our (5) children, it does make my life more difficult but it will serve our kids best IMHO; and very much so with hobbies and connecting, in our case it's surfing, pool time, fishing, work around the house, and gardening/yard maintenance.
I have three sons. I didn't baby them, any decent parent knows the cry of I need attention or I'm hurt. I would tell them it will quit hurting when the pain goes away, then they run off to play again. I taught gun safety and to shoot very young like I was taught. They would watch violent movies with me and play violent video games while teaching them restraint and self control. Taught them to make spring traps at 3, 4 & 6, I came home from work the next day and they set one up and were throwing their teddy bears in it laughing when the bear would fly into the air. I learned to play Pokemon when they wanted the card game, went to tournaments weekly for about two years. When the zombie apocalypse was just becoming a thing we sat around making elaborate survival plans. I told them the why's of everything and the laws to make it work. I used most of anything as a teachable moment, my youngest at 16 wanted a six pack, like the wise father I bought it and advised him not to drink it all that night knowing he wouldn't listen. He puked his guts out and had a really hard hangover, again being the wise father I showed no pity. He never touched it again until after his 21st birthday. I raised them on the feral side and they became great men in their own rights.
My father took me with him, talked to me, taught me, and I realize today that I would not have the street smarts if it wasn't for him. Ironically, I have done the same in raising my son and we are best of friends. He tells me I am his hero who has always been there for him and taught him so much. I am blessed knowing he will be okay in life. I am blessed knowing I had a father who gave me wisdom beyond the ordinary. Proud to be Sigma generational!
Partially true, yet many of the kids are in constant conflict with their parents, some kids are not "normal". It really depends on the kids/teenagers individual character. This clip portrays an idealistic father character, somewhat unreal. Not all Sigma fathers are so educational and patient.
I have adult daughters who have repeatedly recognized bad situations prior to the escalation and left through less obvious exits to avoid unwanted attention. They watch instead of clamoring for attention. My youngest is a born cynic. The tradeoff for raising situationally aware and competent humans is their shortened childhoods. Unfortunately, awareness makes one grow up quickly. Aside from their protection, I let them find their own interests. So much so that I don't even get the appeal of their interests, but I'm happy they have their own genuine likes and dislikes.
I learn the kids to survive and thrive in the wilderness I learn them to invest and what real money is I learn them selfdefence And i learn them what love is and to take care of their soul.
I always give better advice than most dads, and my nephews ask me more serious questions. My girlfriends nephew wanted me to teach him how to shave his face, but I couldn't. I felt that little event was actually an important event that his father should show him. Theres a lot of men showing the sons anything. The children are just part of the keeping with jones Act for some, and it's sad. Sigmas can be a great dad or uncle.
I remember when my daughter was about 3yo in the playground, some Karen showed up demanding that I force my daughter to apologize for some perceived slight that her child received from my daughter. Karen went on and on. The two of us just stood and listened. When the Karen finally ran out of steam, I bent down and asked my daughter if she wanted to apologize. She shook her head. I looked up at Karen, shrugged, and politely said "I guess this is not your day." I really tried not to smirk. Karen was furious. She then turned on me for being a terrible father. To this day, I am so proud of my little girl. This parenting style is a high-risk. Most people feel they must be controlling. My controlling ex was deeply jealous of my daughter's trust, and obedience to me. She went to the police and claimed not to "feel safe," and implied I was sexually abusive. I faced multiple very serious legal charges (all later withdrawn in court) and I was out of contact with her for over a year. Though... I am not "cool" as a parent. I would say I was "warm."
I don't personally have any kids, but that is how I treat my women, and most can't handle it. I give them their independence and they think it means I don't care. For an example, my girl and I were at a pool party. She wanted to socialize, I just wanted to observe, so we found ourselves separated. She was on the other side of the pool in conversation with a couple of guys about 40 feet away. I had noticed that she started to look uncomfortable, so within a few seconds I was by her side. Turns out these guys were threatening to throw her in the pool, and she didn't want to be thrown in the pool. I told the guys they were making her uncomfortable, and they apologized.
I will be a father for the first time in two months,I will have a girl. I am just wondering how I will raise a girl when I don't deal with them that often!
Be honest, allways answer all of her questions, admit when you don't know, teach her how to learn and follow her step rate, not too fast, but not childish neither. Congratulations for being dad.
I have 2 grownup daughters and I raised them like I would boys but slightly more protective. They have turned out awesome and sailed through every life milestone. You still have to set the example in your own life whether your kids are boys or girls. Congrats and good luck
Yeap, children are an interesting "project" :))) Sigma will raise extremely smart/ valuable-good/ critical-thinking /happy people who will most likely be extremely successful in their talents/ interests. Sigma Empath will do it even better/ wiser than you said (the most important- a "talents assesment center" for a small child and holistic development of the nervous system).
This is absolutely mad. I've heard about the whole sigma thing from being a dodgy supply teacher (I couldn't be a real teacher plus other projects). Children use the word a lot. I had a weird upbringing with epic parents and I'm the same. This has literally just painted the whole picture. I'm not sure whether it's a strictly male thing, but it's most certainly a thing. It's also the way I'm raising my children. I split up with mother as we were on different pages and didn't relate, following the death of both of my parents. My daughter is already a chip off the old block. I'm so proud of her. Decent, lovely and independent
What? I have a furniture shop and one of my daughters loves it. Im also about to build my youngest son his first gaming PC cause im a gamer when i have time 🤣
I wonder if women know that there are 3 types of men Alphas, Betas and Sigmas If a smart woman tries to understand these she’ll be a wiser picker when it comes to men
I'm an old man now and I'm not so sure raising the children the way we do is necessarily the best way to raise them. There is a lot I didn't understand when I was at the stage of having kids. I think we tend to be too friendly with them especially if the children also are sigmas (extremely rare though normal children can learn sigma traits from their fathers). I think when children become teenagers you have to let them despise you. It's a trick really. It makes them want to strike out on their own as soon as they can and start building whatever life they are going to have. That's a good thing for them. The faster they start their lives the sooner their lives will blossom into something worth living.
Echoing others, spot on about every point. Be warned, guys, if you are married or paired to a woman who doesn't "get you" before kids, you will have much difficulty raising kids with her, trust me.
I now know my dad was truly a sigma especially in teaching me how to read people, leading by example and many other crucial things brought about by this video.
Finally a family sigma video. Yes. All this is true. My sons are their own sigma beasts in the making.
So glad to hear it!
Teach them discipline self control martial arts silent but deadly
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well groomed.. proud for you
When I got told by a random stranger that I was the best dad she’s ever seen 😢 that meant the world to me. Being a dad is the greatest blessing the universe has to offer. Great video guys 😎
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Same here. People say parenting is so hard... I say it is the most delightful thing I have ever done. No conflict on this path, just the miracle unfolding.
The universe doesn’t offer anything. God is your Maker, He can be found in the Bible.
@@Romans-10-9-13 God is bigger than a book 📖
I’m realizing I can check off almost every box of these videos defining sigma males. It’s beginning to make sense why I studied six sigma to the black belt level.
That's made me cry.
That's me and my daughter
I love her so much.
Thanks 🙏
Never had a playbook but amazing how spot on this is. I did all this just because it’s how I think. My three adult children now are the most amazing humans , polite, independent, don’t whine, caring etc… we’ve always had an amazing relationship and still do.
My Father had so many of these attributes & I know they have rubbed off on my son. Proud of who he is & his achievements.
Lead by example until you need to exercise your authority for bad behaviour.
One day, my daughter told me that I was her superhero. It caught me off guard but made me realize how our kids see us in such a magical light. Being a dad isn't just about providing; it's about being there to inspire and nurture their dreams. Great video guys
Its amazing how you make these videos with accurate information
I think he himself is a sigma. 😉 Any sigma can articulate their thoughts and decision-making process, and it will likely resonate with most sigmas."
Amen 🙏 great content wisdom 😊
Telling kids that everyone is an expert at something and in that they can learn from everyone. Also, teach them that ego is a handicap that should be overcome, not fed.
Right man right
Thanks Wise-thinker! You're the best! My prayers answered
Thank you for this great video and information... finally i understand the connection i have with my son
My 2 son's are in there late 20's and are always involved in family time without me ever pushing them and they are well equipped to deal with todays world . I am always proud and amazed at both of them in the way they deal with todays problems.
I think people wont actually truly reach sigma until age 30+ because that's your self believe and confidence improves enough by then to stop caring about other people opinions or their validation. After this happens you end up doing what you want the way you want when you want. Then Sigma becomes truly unique and authentic and does things the way he thinks is best. Even if nobody else does it that way.
I'm 66yo, and my daughter and I go hiking together most weekends, overnights and even long 100mile back country trips when our schedules permit.
Spot on great video. No lone wolf marching to his own drum stereotype making my brain throw up. Good job.
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What amazes me is how well you have a deep understanding of the sigma personality inside out
Great, accurate video. I really appreciate it!
Great video, makes a lot of sense.
This content is so instructive, thanks.
Excellent topic!
My regret is unaware of your content. I grown up that way, and I teach my kids the same way as I was.
Accurate.. Children are the future, and if we want to change the world for the betterment of everyone, we should start with giving our children the tools and advice they need to be great humans.. I'm very proud of my little boy and confident he will be a good man wise beyond his years..
Also teach your kids to not seek validation or attention, but to be an asset to the team no matter where they go, and to be authentic to themselves instead of being something they're not, just to fit in.
Sigma Dad sounds like the ultimate father anyone could ever wish for.
Amen 🙏 😊
Nr. 2 so very true...
Very beautifully made.very very thanks for your hard work not only sigma every other person helped here
Where do you stem this knowledge from?
This is so accurate.
Thanks for sharing.
I'm 36. Car painter down in NZ. Never met my dad, mother was a druggie. My boys 7 and he has seen and done what most 10-15 year olds. Physics, Intellect, sarcastic joke mid conversation and physical abilities on point. I'm so proud but I know I could spend more downtime with him. Shits hard but I could never be like my parents, a bad day doesn't last long. It's how we deal with them is the key to life
❤from OZ…
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Critical thinking is what is being taught.
Lovely.
100 % accurate. 🎯 This me with my kids.
I did most of the things in this video when bringing up my kids. I took my kids to work with me. They learned how hard I had to work to get the things we had. I had to do my own thing in life and I told them to do that too. Both are sigma's. I'm having fun watching them do their own thing in life.
Vote up if this is how you parent
The answer in my case with our (5) children, it does make my life more difficult but it will serve our kids best IMHO; and very much so with hobbies and connecting, in our case it's surfing, pool time, fishing, work around the house, and gardening/yard maintenance.
Therefore I am hated but in the deepest part of my heart I believe my kids love me. Just need time to understand.....
wonderful
I can relate to that. That's wise parenting.
very good
Present 😊
This are what any good dad does
I have three sons. I didn't baby them, any decent parent knows the cry of I need attention or I'm hurt. I would tell them it will quit hurting when the pain goes away, then they run off to play again.
I taught gun safety and to shoot very young like I was taught.
They would watch violent movies with me and play violent video games while teaching them restraint and self control. Taught them to make spring traps at 3, 4 & 6, I came home from work the next day and they set one up and were throwing their teddy bears in it laughing when the bear would fly into the air.
I learned to play Pokemon when they wanted the card game, went to tournaments weekly for about two years. When the zombie apocalypse was just becoming a thing we sat around making elaborate survival plans. I told them the why's of everything and the laws to make it work. I used most of anything as a teachable moment, my youngest at 16 wanted a six pack, like the wise father I bought it and advised him not to drink it all that night knowing he wouldn't listen. He puked his guts out and had a really hard hangover, again being the wise father I showed no pity. He never touched it again until after his 21st birthday.
I raised them on the feral side and they became great men in their own rights.
My father took me with him, talked to me, taught me, and I realize today that I would not have the street smarts if it wasn't for him. Ironically, I have done the same in raising my son and we are best of friends. He tells me I am his hero who has always been there for him and taught him so much. I am blessed knowing he will be okay in life. I am blessed knowing I had a father who gave me wisdom beyond the ordinary. Proud to be Sigma generational!
Rings true.
Makes me emotional.....
And it looks like I tread every single person around me the same way, not just my children.
Way before I first watched this, I have always advocated to my kids to "Question EVERTHING."
Kids: Even you, Dad?
Me: Especially me. 🙃
I just sent this to my youngest.
Made me giggle because damn near everything said (save the bits my crippled arse can’t do) was dead on.
That sounded the description of myself
I also hope more similar videos will be made in the future
Theyer all the same video 😂😂😂😂😂😂
One case I'd be HIGHLY proactive...
Facts!
Very hard to put this in place when we have every second weekend together, my 2 and me, I try and try though💚
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Truth !!!!!
Partially true, yet many of the kids are in constant conflict with their parents, some kids are not "normal". It really depends on the kids/teenagers individual character. This clip portrays an idealistic father character, somewhat unreal. Not all Sigma fathers are so educational and patient.
U are right bro am sigma male
I have adult daughters who have repeatedly recognized bad situations prior to the escalation and left through less obvious exits to avoid unwanted attention. They watch instead of clamoring for attention. My youngest is a born cynic. The tradeoff for raising situationally aware and competent humans is their shortened childhoods. Unfortunately, awareness makes one grow up quickly. Aside from their protection, I let them find their own interests. So much so that I don't even get the appeal of their interests, but I'm happy they have their own genuine likes and dislikes.
Thanks for reall 😂😂😂😂
I learn the kids to survive and thrive in the wilderness
I learn them to invest and what real money is
I learn them selfdefence
And i learn them what love is and to take care of their soul.
I always give better advice than most dads, and my nephews ask me more serious questions. My girlfriends nephew wanted me to teach him how to shave his face, but I couldn't. I felt that little event was actually an important event that his father should show him. Theres a lot of men showing the sons anything. The children are just part of the keeping with jones Act for some, and it's sad. Sigmas can be a great dad or uncle.
Awesome video ❤
Yep
I have to admit, fatherhood has softened my edges
My father is an alpha, and he absolutely hates it whenever I question him, I am so thankful I'm not like that
I remember when my daughter was about 3yo in the playground, some Karen showed up demanding that I force my daughter to apologize for some perceived slight that her child received from my daughter. Karen went on and on. The two of us just stood and listened. When the Karen finally ran out of steam, I bent down and asked my daughter if she wanted to apologize. She shook her head. I looked up at Karen, shrugged, and politely said "I guess this is not your day."
I really tried not to smirk. Karen was furious. She then turned on me for being a terrible father. To this day, I am so proud of my little girl.
This parenting style is a high-risk. Most people feel they must be controlling. My controlling ex was deeply jealous of my daughter's trust, and obedience to me. She went to the police and claimed not to "feel safe," and implied I was sexually abusive. I faced multiple very serious legal charges (all later withdrawn in court) and I was out of contact with her for over a year.
Though... I am not "cool" as a parent. I would say I was "warm."
I'm a sigma uncle so true
I don't personally have any kids, but that is how I treat my women, and most can't handle it. I give them their independence and they think it means I don't care. For an example, my girl and I were at a pool party. She wanted to socialize, I just wanted to observe, so we found ourselves separated. She was on the other side of the pool in conversation with a couple of guys about 40 feet away. I had noticed that she started to look uncomfortable, so within a few seconds I was by her side. Turns out these guys were threatening to throw her in the pool, and she didn't want to be thrown in the pool. I told the guys they were making her uncomfortable, and they apologized.
I will be a father for the first time in two months,I will have a girl.
I am just wondering how I will raise a girl when I don't deal with them that often!
You now have some tips
Be honest, allways answer all of her questions, admit when you don't know, teach her how to learn and follow her step rate, not too fast, but not childish neither. Congratulations for being dad.
Your love for her will guide the way. Then one day she will marry a man just like you.
Exactly the same as I was. Kids are kids. Nurture them with love and plenty of physical activity.
I have 2 grownup daughters and I raised them like I would boys but slightly more protective. They have turned out awesome and sailed through every life milestone. You still have to set the example in your own life whether your kids are boys or girls. Congrats and good luck
Yeap, children are an interesting "project" :)))
Sigma will raise extremely smart/ valuable-good/ critical-thinking /happy people who will most likely be extremely successful in their talents/ interests.
Sigma Empath will do it even better/ wiser than you said (the most important- a "talents assesment center" for a small child and holistic development of the nervous system).
Your children will much more readily follow your example than your advice. Live the life you want your children to have.
I’m a family guy it’s everything
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Im pretty sure my son respects how i have my own beliefs. He doesnt agree with me on a lot but i know he admires how i dont think like so many others.
🚨 haha, I don’t have children but this is likely how I’d raise them if I did 😂😂😂😂🤪
My five sons are well on their way
You want them to represent your values and traditions. :-)
This is absolutely mad. I've heard about the whole sigma thing from being a dodgy supply teacher (I couldn't be a real teacher plus other projects). Children use the word a lot. I had a weird upbringing with epic parents and I'm the same. This has literally just painted the whole picture.
I'm not sure whether it's a strictly male thing, but it's most certainly a thing. It's also the way I'm raising my children. I split up with mother as we were on different pages and didn't relate, following the death of both of my parents. My daughter is already a chip off the old block. I'm so proud of her. Decent, lovely and independent
Family seems non sequitur, tho mine won't push away siblings or their children. Mine just have different priorites...
I just noticed that everything said in these video is engraved at the core of my personality naturally except I don’t have a kid
What? I have a furniture shop and one of my daughters loves it. Im also about to build my youngest son his first gaming PC cause im a gamer when i have time 🤣
My dad was my superhero when I was a kid,but be became my superhero when I be e is American adult.
💯💯💯 True
I just realized my dad was a sigma.. 🤔 now my life choices make sense.hmmm
That "adults in training" was my dad
well 7 months and let see :D i will teach what money is and how it works.
Sigma make his son alpha. This tells being sigma is pain.
1995 1996 yeah that's Kool eat well then probably understandable because first got to teddy blue hop hello treasure goes fed though Tommaso is
I wonder if women know that there are 3 types of men Alphas, Betas and Sigmas
If a smart woman tries to understand these she’ll be a wiser picker when it comes to men
So sigma makes do what parents are supposed to do…
Stand by, but stand back…seems like common sense to me…
How about we do sigma males and religion
Easy : religion is something personal like sex and politics. None of other's business.
I think he realizes religion is false and the Gospel of Christ is true.
I'm an old man now and I'm not so sure raising the children the way we do is necessarily the best way to raise them. There is a lot I didn't understand when I was at the stage of having kids. I think we tend to be too friendly with them especially if the children also are sigmas (extremely rare though normal children can learn sigma traits from their fathers). I think when children become teenagers you have to let them despise you. It's a trick really. It makes them want to strike out on their own as soon as they can and start building whatever life they are going to have. That's a good thing for them. The faster they start their lives the sooner their lives will blossom into something worth living.
This isn't fully true...
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This sigma male thing is a psychological operation designed to socially engineer you. Dont buy into all the hype.