Remember, folks, relationships are a 2-way street. If you get no reward for what you do, you just walk away and don't look back. All these 7 reasons are spot on - a nice reminder how to spot red flags early and not to get burned.
I work with a girl that was nice when I met her. I was just being a friendly coworker and learning names. It's rude to not know someone's name if you work with them. When I start a new job I make a little small talk with all of my coworkers and that's about it. I don't believe in flirting unless a woman has made it obvious she's into me. But in this case, I'd just say hey every now and then when I actually saw her. She wasn't my type at all. But, a lot of women tend to think any man who says hello is interested. I never was. After about a month she started playing hard to get. I said hello to her once and she started ignoring me. So I returned the favor by never speaking to her again. I never even liked her, she was too thin and immature. To this day I don't even look at her or speak. She realized she messed up a long time ago and doesn't even try to talk to me anymore. Clever girl. I don't entertain women that play hard to get or chase every woman I see. I will pursue a woman that doesn't play games and meets my standards. But I don't date much because most women aren't worth my time. S-i-g-m-a gents, know your worth...play ball!
@@Merdle If your ignorance is so large that you assume you can know my lived experiences and observations through a virtual medium you aren't wise...or a sigma.
@@debonairdevil1523 True indeed, but when we match it, if we decide to pursue, she has to maintain it. Make it easy for us, life gets better for both of us.
@oscargonza2748 when I was young and romantic, I thought I needed to be chosen also. Hard fought lessons later, I found it necessary to involve myself in the selection process. If you take whatever sticks to you hardest, you might choose a leech.
Why do manipulative women keep picking you? Because if you make them come to you, you aren't really choosing them, are you? If you find all women you date manipulative and petty then clearly you only attract that kind.
Which is why I’m going to Mexico and let it play out. Only because Latin women act like actual women!; feminine, submissive, and traditional. It’s a bit more worth to chase then American women. Or western women.
If she’s not interested first then don’t bother. Let them come to you if they never do you’re better off without them. At least you keep what you earn.
I gave my heart, at a young age, to a female like this, always seeking ,to be with someone ,with status. The good thing is, knowing that, makes it easy for me to move on. I definitely, cannot be with someone,who has that kind of mindset. That shows me, they don't have good morals.
We are the prize they are the option a higher mentality brings more than the mandatory ordinary.. if your value is not appropriated initially move along.
Why do manipulative women keep picking you? Because if you make them come to you, you aren't really choosing them, are you? If you find all women you date manipulative and petty then clearly you only attract that kind.
Sigmas know women love to chase validation so they have no incentive on chasing women; knowledge of women's needs to chase validation IS INCENTIVE ENOUGH and it makes us happy too!
Why do manipulative women keep picking you? Because if you make them come to you, you aren't really choosing them, are you? If you find all women you date manipulative and petty then clearly you only attract that kind.
My last girlfriend was a famous super star diva I was originally obsessed with her I flooded her with love letters we started out in love until she started gaslighting me when she expected to be worshiped 24/7 I put up with her anger for a long time but I eventually had to exit because I had to much self respect for myself
She tested to see how much bad attitude, behaviour & actions you’d put up with. You got past that threshold and therefore she wanted you gone. You thought it was your resilience, no it was you putting up with that bad behaviour because your actions are obsessed with beauty.
All of this makes sense. I feel most of it applies towards me. Could I be a sigma? Idk. But I resonate with this. Yet, girls are after me. Don’t see how but maybe I’m inadvertently doing something right.
For me, there has always had to be that "something", to be interested. I mean, sex is a thing that gets goood in a meaningful relationship. And if the sex is boring, why bother?
Honestly this defines a lot more about me and I keep wondering why am I different from so many guys I cannot chase any woman that is me girls needs attention
I’ll see your seven, and raise you one: Priorities. Chasing women simply isn’t on the list: career, fitness, self-care, budgeting & financial planning, side hustle & starting a business, philanthropy work, house projects, miscellaneous hobbies, etc.
It’s very interesting your picture of this video: it shows lots of suit guys running after a woman but the one in casual clothes is internally independent. This basically contradicts the common thinking that „clothes make the man“. It’s only this way: „the man makes the clothes“
You forgot the women who wants you to compete with others or a fantasy competition to mess with your emotions. With Sigma's it is a complete turn off and ends the game.
That's why I don't go on dates, except ones that are "natural" like a long walk... I can't stand the "artificialness" of situations like this, it's more of a job interview than a natural conversation 😅
I know a lady that is hot and cold. I get fed up with the mixed signals, so I walked away. She also is in a on/off relationship. We all work at the same place, so I see what is happening. I am looking for someone else. If the work lady becomes stable, my door is open to her, but I am not chasing. I will not play games or stress about it.
@@Rareace21 Thanks for the good advise. I treat her, as she treats me. Early this year, she did ask me why had I "gone quiet" with her. So she does notice a change in our (non romantic) relationship. She doesn't seem to realise her attitude is causing the reaction.
🤣😂Hot and cold....they are like that all their lives, every day, in the morning they can be happy to see you and in the afternoon it's WTF did I do. Hormones and menstrual cycles, you get used to it eventually and just ignore it. Men are linear, woman are all over the place.
Yeah, Sigma men actually get approached by women (from my personal experience), they rarely approach women unless they were in their early or mid teens, but not after they become men. That's why it's called Sigma "men" not Sigma boys.
Why do manipulative women keep picking you? Because if you make them come to you, you aren't really choosing them, are you? If you find all women you date manipulative and petty then clearly you only attract that kind.Why do manipulative women keep picking you? Because if you make them come to you, you aren't really choosing them, are you? If you find all women you date manipulative and petty then clearly you only attract that kind.
@@Merdle Do you really understand the concept of not chasing but attracting? Do you sleep with every woman that comes to you? Focus on yourself. When you are on your feet, the good. the bad and the ugly will be attracted to you, then you choose wisely.
@judeogbonnaya2975 Of course, I don't sleep with every woman I meet. Because I am a woman who takes mens' and womens' indifference as non-attraction. To me, ignoring people is the honest way to disappoint them. It lets them save time and image. Hence, I am an example of why you may not attract honest women with integrity.
Who else noticed things are changing in the dating world; where Men seem now to care less, no women to seek validation from and just grinding not caring whether a girl joins in on the ride... Trust me, give it a year or two, it'd be hard for the feminine side to Garner little or no attention from the masculine side .. begging to settle down 😂
The test to determine if you are a true Sigma male is to walk up to a random attractive woman, talk to her, and get her. If you can't do that you don't have the social skills of a true Sigma. Sigma is naturally attune to the world, and the social dynamics but chooses to be independent of a social structure,. Sigma are in par with Alpha in strength and influence. Most guys who can't even approach or talk to a woman categorize themselves as Sigma, when all it is an inability to court a woman. A cop out definition.
@@Merdle Not talking about getting her into bed. It's just simply approaching and having a conversation as if it was normal. Any person who doesn't have the navigation to do this is not a Sigma, but just an introverted and private personality type. Remember Sigma is on par with Alpha in terms of presence and confidence.
Why do manipulative women keep picking you? Because if you make them come to you, you aren't really choosing them, are you? If you find all women you date manipulative and petty then clearly you only attract that kind.
Sigmas don't chase women because sigmas don't really have time to waste They have their own set of goals for which they work consistently They have their values and besides they are rich unlike those beggers simping on women
Why do manipulative women keep picking you? Because if you make them come to you, you aren't really choosing them, are you? If you find all women you date manipulative and petty then clearly you only attract that kind.
This is why i don't date anyone. Besides, i'm bisexual, so i can always date other dudes. I do also prefer to keep it simple, have it less complicated, so yeah, i want to stay low with who i'm in a relationship with, because my private life is my private life, and some women snoops where they really shouldn't, which i hate and dislike. Besides, i don't need to be in a relationship to be happy, i can find that on my own, and i don't have enough time chasing love anyways
It’s always been that way since forever. Women have always chased the man they wanted. For example back in the early 1900’s women would purposely throw their handkerchief on the ground the and the man that she was interested in, unbeknownst to him would pick it up and start a conversation. Women nowadays have lost their ways. Why do you think you’re attracted to the guy that’s not messaging you all the time. I know you got countless guys in your DMs but the guy you want is doing none of that. You want the man who isn’t simping for you.
Perhaps that was the case when your mother was an adolescent. But when she was young the world was a different place. Just look @ the state of western society today. I'm sure Pride Month & rainbow flags were nowhere to be seen & pronouns played a different role in schools. Wouldn't you agree? I'm a man & I hunt for food, Not for women. Welcome to the New World 😁
If you're gonna build up a sigma male make sure the moment you show a picture of what they typically look like. Try not to use a scene from a movie with a psychopath that has multiple personality disorder....
This is absolutely correct. We do not chase we simply are always available till the right one comes along. We leave the chasing to her because we are comfortably solitary and keep ourselves in the position of power where we may not be able to choose because we dont chase however we ultimatley get to either accept or reject the womans advance. I'm always going to be alone even when in a relationship. I got to because ultimately a woman doesnt belong to me she belongs to God and he just blessed me by temporarily placing her in my care for the interim of a lifetime. Me, I BECOME HER COMPANION. Yet I still stand alone as man created in the image of God. We are Priest in the eyes of God. Never needy Never clingy. I rather be needed and clinged to. That's how a sigma male rolls. Hit that like button if you are God's creation if you believe and agree and a woman is not even the last thing you need fellas. That's right! Gyeah, my Sigma😊
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Remember, folks, relationships are a 2-way street. If you get no reward for what you do, you just walk away and don't look back. All these 7 reasons are spot on - a nice reminder how to spot red flags early and not to get burned.
yup wasted 9y with an ex that used me for money and did not love me, i learned.
This helps me understand exactly why I've always had a dislike for chasing women and thus, why I've very rarely ever done it.
FACTS If there is no reciprocation, just walk away
Sigmas have a very rare quality: self-respect
If women play the game "playing hard to get" I walk away.
The harder you play to get. The harder you become to want.
Real quick
easy to get, easy to forget then🤣
I work with a girl that was nice when I met her. I was just being a friendly coworker and learning names. It's rude to not know someone's name if you work with them. When I start a new job I make a little small talk with all of my coworkers and that's about it. I don't believe in flirting unless a woman has made it obvious she's into me. But in this case, I'd just say hey every now and then when I actually saw her. She wasn't my type at all. But, a lot of women tend to think any man who says hello is interested. I never was. After about a month she started playing hard to get. I said hello to her once and she started ignoring me. So I returned the favor by never speaking to her again. I never even liked her, she was too thin and immature. To this day I don't even look at her or speak. She realized she messed up a long time ago and doesn't even try to talk to me anymore. Clever girl. I don't entertain women that play hard to get or chase every woman I see. I will pursue a woman that doesn't play games and meets my standards. But I don't date much because most women aren't worth my time. S-i-g-m-a gents, know your worth...play ball!
If your ego is so large that you assume her all actions are solely to play games with you, you aren't a sigma
@@Merdle If your ignorance is so large that you assume you can know my lived experiences and observations through a virtual medium you aren't wise...or a sigma.
A Sigma in particular is self focused. A woman has to make it easy for a Sigma to focus on her.
Damn, that's accurate. It's easier when she's putting in that initial effort.
@@debonairdevil1523 True indeed, but when we match it, if we decide to pursue, she has to maintain it. Make it easy for us, life gets better for both of us.
Perfect & on point.
Wow. This resonates.
I like this
We’re the real 1%er’s 😎
Sorry bro, everyone is a Sigma Now after watching this video!! So 99%... more like it now !!! ☹☹☹☹☹🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Alan-megan 😂 Try all you want but you can’t pretend to be sigma. That’s literally the exact opposite of what a sigma is 🤤
@@christupper0goddamn right! 🤘🏻
Don't chase be chosen
This! 👏🏻
My street word
@oscargonza2748 when I was young and romantic, I thought I needed to be chosen also. Hard fought lessons later, I found it necessary to involve myself in the selection process. If you take whatever sticks to you hardest, you might choose a leech.
Number 6 is right on the money
Only dog beta simps will chase women. Sigma is like a moody cat. He walks away.
Yup
Why do manipulative women keep picking you? Because if you make them come to you, you aren't really choosing them, are you?
If you find all women you date manipulative and petty then clearly you only attract that kind.
You know exactly what I'm dealing with brother
TBH! Sigmas hate these modern days women because they are Soo damaged and silly. 100%facts
So so true........spoiled n shitty
Well, Sigmas not necessarily hate the "modern" women, they simply neither like nor need them,.
Which is why I’m going to Mexico and let it play out. Only because Latin women act like actual women!; feminine, submissive, and traditional. It’s a bit more worth to chase then American women. Or western women.
I'd rather do something creative than wasting time chasing after shadows.
I don't chase, I replace.
'My Sigma'..😅😊
@@XKHRYSTORM1973😂😂
Ditto... Without boasting... Or roasting... Just knowing how to butter 🧈 my toast is liberation!🎉
You sir are a top tier sigma. 💪🏼😎
I’m so wet right now.
If she’s not interested first then don’t bother. Let them come to you if they never do you’re better off without them. At least you keep what you earn.
I gave my heart, at a young age, to a female like this, always seeking ,to be with someone ,with status. The good thing is, knowing that, makes it easy for me to move on. I definitely, cannot be with someone,who has that kind of mindset. That shows me, they don't have good morals.
We are the prize they are the option a higher mentality brings more than the mandatory ordinary.. if your value is not appropriated initially move along.
Sigma Malcom Devon 🪨🗿🍷
Well said brother. Well said.
Why do manipulative women keep picking you? Because if you make them come to you, you aren't really choosing them, are you?
If you find all women you date manipulative and petty then clearly you only attract that kind.
@devonmalcolm34 if you are the prize, why don't all you prizes just date each other. Those of us with realistic egos will be happy to see you gone.
@@Merdle Why are you here if that’s the case? You’re a bum talking s#*t
Sigmas know women love to chase validation so they have no incentive on chasing women; knowledge of women's needs to chase validation IS INCENTIVE ENOUGH and it makes us happy too!
@Rebmetpes4 Wow that is an impressive extrapolation for such a faulty premise.
Great video.
Thanks!
" Never chase buses or women , because you always get left behind "
ARE YOU LISTENING AND LEARNING "SIMPS ☝" 🤭
😂😂😂😂😂😂.
Now I realized I am a simp
Lol
Simps need a serious reality check!
I do not chase I attract my last relationship was fun but toxic I rather focus on my career
If you only date people who come to you, you aren't choosing them. So what about you attracts manipulative women?
That’s right I don’t Chase I Replace
Why do manipulative women keep picking you? Because if you make them come to you, you aren't really choosing them, are you?
If you find all women you date manipulative and petty then clearly you only attract that kind.
We don't chase women because they chase us.
We observed, discovered, and determined women will chase us, so we went and became successful, made something of ourselves.
Present 😊
My last girlfriend was a famous super star diva I was originally obsessed with her I flooded her with love letters we started out in love until she started gaslighting me when she expected to be worshiped 24/7 I put up with her anger for a long time but I eventually had to exit because I had to much self respect for myself
She tested to see how much bad attitude, behaviour & actions you’d put up with. You got past that threshold and therefore she wanted you gone. You thought it was your resilience, no it was you putting up with that bad behaviour because your actions are obsessed with beauty.
Wah gwan me boss, big up youself, glad to see you 👋👋👋👋
I agree bro
Why this guy is always relatable 😂
A sigma is naturally born not made 💪🏽
❤powerful 💪🏾💪🏾
I don't chase women that's why I'm single for 30 years😂
You're not missing out on anything that much
If she’s into you she’ll come to you
So true...
All of this makes sense. I feel most of it applies towards me. Could I be a sigma? Idk. But I resonate with this. Yet, girls are after me. Don’t see how but maybe I’m inadvertently doing something right.
#2 is on the ball….
For me, there has always had to be that "something", to be interested. I mean, sex is a thing that gets goood in a meaningful relationship. And if the sex is boring, why bother?
Honestly this defines a lot more about me and I keep wondering why am I different from so many guys I cannot chase any woman that is me girls needs attention
👊😎
I never chase
I’ll see your seven, and raise you one: Priorities.
Chasing women simply isn’t on the list: career, fitness, self-care, budgeting & financial planning, side hustle & starting a business, philanthropy work, house projects, miscellaneous hobbies, etc.
Great, my cover has been blown again ....
👍
It’s very interesting your picture of this video: it shows lots of suit guys running after a woman but the one in casual clothes is internally independent. This basically contradicts the common thinking that „clothes make the man“. It’s only this way: „the man makes the clothes“
Maybe that's a sign of what they truly think of their viewers as they milk their egos for views. Just a thought.
I agree with sigma men !
Maybe I am a sigma woman... lol :)
You forgot the women who wants you to compete with others or a fantasy competition to mess with your emotions. With Sigma's it is a complete turn off and ends the game.
You’re either Sigma or you’re NOT…
0:04
Then I guess, I am a sigma male...I just realized that with your video.😊..now I know why I always been single..and I am 38.
Same here bro.
That's why I don't go on dates, except ones that are "natural" like a long walk... I can't stand the "artificialness" of situations like this, it's more of a job interview than a natural conversation 😅
I play by my own rules and nobody else
women who don't give you their attention don't deserve yours.
I identify will this.
Men nowadays imitate sigma 😂😂
Right? Why do manipulative women keep picking you?
If you want them to chase you, they are picking you.
Because we are Sigma males that's why
You are not sigma
Sigma here, you can all go * yourselves ✌️
I know a lady that is hot and cold. I get fed up with the mixed signals, so I walked away.
She also is in a on/off relationship. We all work at the same place, so I see what is happening.
I am looking for someone else.
If the work lady becomes stable, my door is open to her, but I am not chasing. I will not play games or stress about it.
@@marklion bro if she playing hot and cold. You stay cold.
@@Rareace21 Thanks for the good advise. I treat her, as she treats me.
Early this year, she did ask me why had I "gone quiet" with her.
So she does notice a change in our (non romantic) relationship. She doesn't seem to realise her attitude is causing the reaction.
🤣😂Hot and cold....they are like that all their lives, every day, in the morning they can be happy to see you and in the afternoon it's WTF did I do. Hormones and menstrual cycles, you get used to it eventually and just ignore it. Men are linear, woman are all over the place.
@@marklionthen it's normal for friends to ask why a friend stopped talking to them
Do not chase. Attract.
Yeah, Sigma men actually get approached by women (from my personal experience), they rarely approach women unless they were in their early or mid teens, but not after they become men. That's why it's called Sigma "men" not Sigma boys.
Why do manipulative women keep picking you? Because if you make them come to you, you aren't really choosing them, are you?
If you find all women you date manipulative and petty then clearly you only attract that kind.Why do manipulative women keep picking you? Because if you make them come to you, you aren't really choosing them, are you?
If you find all women you date manipulative and petty then clearly you only attract that kind.
@@Merdle Do you really understand the concept of not chasing but attracting? Do you sleep with every woman that comes to you? Focus on yourself. When you are on your feet, the good. the bad and the ugly will be attracted to you, then you choose wisely.
@judeogbonnaya2975 Of course, I don't sleep with every woman I meet. Because I am a woman who takes mens' and womens' indifference as non-attraction. To me, ignoring people is the honest way to disappoint them. It lets them save time and image.
Hence, I am an example of why you may not attract honest women with integrity.
Who else noticed things are changing in the dating world; where Men seem now to care less, no women to seek validation from and just grinding not caring whether a girl joins in on the ride... Trust me, give it a year or two, it'd be hard for the feminine side to Garner little or no attention from the masculine side .. begging to settle down 😂
skynet will destroy matrix
The test to determine if you are a true Sigma male is to walk up to a random attractive woman, talk to her, and get her. If you can't do that you don't have the social skills of a true Sigma. Sigma is naturally attune to the world, and the social dynamics but chooses to be independent of a social structure,. Sigma are in par with Alpha in strength and influence. Most guys who can't even approach or talk to a woman categorize themselves as Sigma, when all it is an inability to court a woman. A cop out definition.
If you can talk her into bed in one conversation, you can bet others have too. Easy wins are below a true sigma.
@@Merdle Not talking about getting her into bed. It's just simply approaching and having a conversation as if it was normal. Any person who doesn't have the navigation to do this is not a Sigma, but just an introverted and private personality type. Remember Sigma is on par with Alpha in terms of presence and confidence.
@imoretullv243 What did you mean by "talk to her and get her" ? Is there another way to "get her" ?
I'm not a signa but i don't chase wonen they are already behaving like celebreties from getting too much attention
Oh, look😎😎😎 There I am on the left 😎😎😎
DANG!!! I LOOK GOOD!!!😚👌🏻
True.....most points....why bother....it should be a 2 way thing......they are spoiled....superficial....n...shitty....why waste time n money....
Why do manipulative women keep picking you? Because if you make them come to you, you aren't really choosing them, are you?
If you find all women you date manipulative and petty then clearly you only attract that kind.
1:52 using this clip to talk about not committing is dumb... that dude and chick got married in that show.
Maybe that's a sign of what they truly think of you as they milk your ego for views. Just a thought.
@@Merdle anythings a possibility.
Wow. Scary. Describes me to a *'T'.*
LEVITICUS 23:31 AND ALSO NO NECROMANCERS
What does that have to do with the video?
Sigmas don't chase women because sigmas don't really have time to waste
They have their own set of goals for which they work consistently
They have their values and besides they are rich unlike those beggers simping on women
Why do manipulative women keep picking you? Because if you make them come to you, you aren't really choosing them, are you?
If you find all women you date manipulative and petty then clearly you only attract that kind.
Simple put it chasing womans are simping and feminine behavior.
Sigma arn't feminine simps.
This is why i don't date anyone. Besides, i'm bisexual, so i can always date other dudes. I do also prefer to keep it simple, have it less complicated, so yeah, i want to stay low with who i'm in a relationship with, because my private life is my private life, and some women snoops where they really shouldn't, which i hate and dislike. Besides, i don't need to be in a relationship to be happy, i can find that on my own, and i don't have enough time chasing love anyways
Main reason , Sigma’s prefer woman who accepts money for their service
Not natural for women to chase men... definitely not traditional as I was taught by my Mom that men want to be hunters not the hunted
It’s always been that way since forever. Women have always chased the man they wanted. For example back in the early 1900’s women would purposely throw their handkerchief on the ground the and the man that she was interested in, unbeknownst to him would pick it up and start a conversation.
Women nowadays have lost their ways. Why do you think you’re attracted to the guy that’s not messaging you all the time. I know you got countless guys in your DMs but the guy you want is doing none of that. You want the man who isn’t simping for you.
Well....times are changing.
Perhaps that was the case when your mother was an adolescent. But when she was young the world was a different place. Just look @ the state of western society today. I'm sure Pride Month & rainbow flags were nowhere to be seen & pronouns played a different role in schools. Wouldn't you agree? I'm a man & I hunt for food, Not for women. Welcome to the New World 😁
The social contract is broken by women and they aren't traditional anymore so neither are the guys who know what's up in western society
Never knew there was a term for males like that. I guess I'm a Sigma male then
You’re not, sigma males know who they are. They don’t announce they are sigmas ever
If you're gonna build up a sigma male make sure the moment you show a picture of what they typically look like. Try not to use a scene from a movie with a psychopath that has multiple personality disorder....
American Psycho
@@johndoe480 its actually the movie Split
Maybe that's a sign of what they truly think of you as they milk your ego for views. Just a thought.
This is absolutely correct. We do not chase we simply are always available till the right one comes along.
We leave the chasing to her because we are comfortably solitary and keep ourselves in the position of power where we may not be able to choose because we dont chase however we ultimatley get to either accept or reject the womans advance.
I'm always going to be alone even when in a relationship. I got to because ultimately a woman doesnt belong to me she belongs to God and he just blessed me by temporarily placing her in my care for the interim of a lifetime.
Me, I BECOME HER COMPANION. Yet I still stand alone as man created in the image of God.
We are Priest in the eyes of God.
Never needy Never clingy. I rather be needed and clinged to.
That's how a sigma male rolls.
Hit that like button if you are God's creation if you believe and agree and a woman is not even the last thing you need fellas.
That's right! Gyeah, my Sigma😊
THERE IS NO MARRIAGE IN HEAVEN, THEY ARE AS THE ANGELS. MY WIFE ROARS AT ME THEREFORE I HATE HER😂🎉