Baba Sawubona , ngicela use la e Goli ,I m Evangelist Violet Lindiwe Sibanyoni, I will counsel you n you will receive peace forever in the Name of Jesus Christ
The biggest mistake siyenzayo is to forgive the cheater. A cheater always a cheater! The leopard never change its spots! Shiya phantsi my brother so that you can heal
Atleast mnikat we story unekucabanga kuts mybe kunesandla ses3... Muntu was cheat waphindzelela usuka angasakutsandz ngeke went into intokabili muntu umtsandz
Oh my god this is deep 😢 I pray that after he receives help,he comes out strong n sees no need to return to her cos by the looks of things he is bound to relapse n fall back into depression n he will deffinetly kill..who ever gives him help,please help him out of this relationship 😢 this guy loved this woman n she broozed him beyond repair 😢 listening to him,there's no way 1 can bring these 2 back together again 😢 please someone help him out of this relationship
I wish every male ear can hear this .. bezwe nje ukuthi how does it feel to be cheated on😒😓😓. It's very painful xem ukugangelwa and strong... I call all Chester's ears to hear this
Le program yenu bhuti siyayibulela ngokunceda abantu ,uyhlale under bhuti you are a good listener to your clients keep it up mtasekhaya, ubhuti sele enyamezele leminyaka xa esamthanda makamxolele ndiyambongela ngokumzamela uncedo let's hope uzoncedakala nangenxa yabantwana nkosi yam all the best.
Ubhuti udinga usizo lokubuyisa ukuzethemba azithande abe complete as a person azazi ukuthi uwubani ufunani empilweni nokuthi ufuna umuntu onjani. At that point you'll be surprised that he will realise ukuthi kwasisi lo akusiye inhlobo yomuntu afuna ukwakha naye ikusasa.
Wena wake waCheatelwa I can tell by reading this comment, this is the real one, my brother currently suffers from low self esteem he mighty be confident enough.
Ungazibulali, siyakudinga! Forgiveness is not easy. But if you can forgive I applaud your courage brother, son, father, uncle, cousin, nephew makhi. Ubalulekile ebantwini abanengi! DONNOT DISTROY YOUR LIFE. Tomorrow might be better than today and yesterday! I am Praying for you, remember we need you! Mfowethu you need to heal. Get help for the both of you, talk about your issues with a mediator in a safe space where you both can talk about it. This will help you manage to ask the difficult questions you need answers to. Counselling can help you to make a decision and understand the meaning of your decisions. Therefore, will help you in dealing with the triggers in your situation. Such as; scrutinising her behaviours and getting triggered. If you choose to forgive do it 100%. Kunzima!
Ngeke iphume loyinto emqondweni wakho bafo. Kubuhlungu ukudlelwa umfazi. The only way to deal with your circumstances is leave her alone and move away from her. Ngeke uphole usambukela eduze but ukuze uphole wena futhi ukhohlwe muyeke. Lithi igama uma usamthanda muyeke efebe. Inhliziyo yakho izopholiswa ukumbona esebuya kuwena ngenxa yokushayeka ebufebeni bakhe. Ilapho ke uzothola khona ukukhululeka. Only know you love her when you let her go
I feel very sorry ngaloyomfowethu shame nakithi ikeyakhona efuze le umfowethu yena wayeshaywa wumkakhe for years basebeshadile with 2 children and ekhaya sasithi uma sikhuleka simkhulekele naye ubafo kwathi nje singassnakile bahlukana ngokuhlala umuzi wadayiswa
Bafo ithathe istep esityt ngokukhuluma ngoba lento yokuthi indoda ayikhali iwumcabango orong ngoba nawe unomphefumulo imizwa nentliziyo so ubuhlungu uyabuzwa ngiyakubongela ngokuba ekugcineni ukwazile ukuphumela obala ngoba ayikho into ebuhlungu njengokuphoxeka kumuntu omthandayo so uma ufike kule stage ofike kuso you are not a victim any more you are a survivor Good luck bhutiza ube ryt usize abanye nawe ngomuso
Iyamangaza indaba yamadoda ngoba wona ayafeba kodwa uma kumuntu wesifazane bona kuba nzima mina nje eyami indoda inezingane yonke indawo kodwa ngayixolela naye akaxole uma esamthanda xola ndoda
Ungathi si... ngoba nani noyawenza amavezandlebe kwuminye imizi ya manye amadoda.. this is an example... indoda Uma I cheater ayi cheat ne s'lwane kanti no wes'fazane ku njalo... lento iyafana bhuti..
Siyakhala thina madoda masijolelwa asikwazi ukuxola kodwa thina sijola sizesimithise abanye bajolela abesifazane bezithwele
True
I love you❤your comment dude👌
Waze walikhuluma iqiniso bhut wabantu
Uyadibhela wena indoda iyajola??
True
Inkinga lapha sizwa iside lomuntu oyedwa hleze nje ucc unesigaxa sendaba ngobhuti yingakho agcine enza lokhu akwenzile
1. Ukuthula ngeke uze ukuthole mfowethu until uphume kulobubudlelwano.
2. Icala lokufeba komuntu wesifazane alithethwa.
3. Ukuzibulala nokubulala akuxazulili lutho kepha kwenza isimo sibe worse.
4. Umuntu akalawulwa engasiyo inkomo. Ngakho-ke yisinqumo sakho ukuthatha/jola nomuntu onengane. As long as uzokwazi ukulawula ingqondo nemizwa yakho. Ukujolelwa kwendoda kufana nokuyibulala iphila.
Beka impilo yakho phambili and uqonde ukuthi isinqumo ozosithatha nezenzo zizothinta wena uqobo. So, ungavumi ukulawulwa yizimo.
Baba Sawubona , ngicela use la e Goli ,I m Evangelist Violet Lindiwe Sibanyoni, I will counsel you n you will receive peace forever in the Name of Jesus Christ
The biggest mistake siyenzayo is to forgive the cheater. A cheater always a cheater! The leopard never change its spots! Shiya phantsi my brother so that you can heal
Eish Kona kumatima bhutwam but nje ngekutsi usuke umtsandza and myb utoshintja Kan awati kutobese kuyaphindzeka Kona kubuhlungu kakhuuuuulu Jehova....
@@sbusisomatsenjwa2032 it's true my brother it's not easy just to leave her just like that but if you want to heal it's better to leave
Atleast mnikat we story unekucabanga kuts mybe kunesandla ses3...
Muntu was cheat waphindzelela usuka angasakutsandz ngeke went into intokabili muntu umtsandz
Yay err you have no@@sbusisomatsenjwa2032
It applies to both gender ukujolelwa kubuhlungu its not easy to trust after
Agree and I like your comment
When one door closes another opens Just pray brother God will guide you through this You will find a good woman
Njengoba amadoda exegekwa isimilo aze azalise nga 2,3,4 abalimali yini abantu besifazane, niyahluoha ngokungena esbhedlela nifune nokubulala monichethelwa inhliziyo izwa ngokufana ubuhlungu, istigma esibi nje lesi esithi indoda isoka umuntu wesifazane issifebe, yekanani uyothola omunye bese ungakwenzi kuye loku okwenze lo wayofeba njengobusho
Nam ingidin kabi le yokwenz sengath thin kumel sfetshelwe amadoda ngb engamadoda won ekben sinezinhliziyo sonke ubuhlung buyefan nje
Ngivumelana nawe kulokho sisi shuthi thina bantu besfazane mele sibekezele and uma ungumuntu wesmame angeke uye kuTV uyoshukuthi umyeni wakho wakhululisa ngaphandle ngoba yinto esiyijwayele bese babizwa ngamasoka thina ubufebe 😢😢😢😢ibuhlungu ngempela kudlaliwe ngathi
Hi bafo undlala usatha bafo zethembe be a really man uyindonda mshaye ngeduku vale emnyango zalwa kabusha bafo zethembe.
Oh my god this is deep 😢 I pray that after he receives help,he comes out strong n sees no need to return to her cos by the looks of things he is bound to relapse n fall back into depression n he will deffinetly kill..who ever gives him help,please help him out of this relationship 😢 this guy loved this woman n she broozed him beyond repair 😢 listening to him,there's no way 1 can bring these 2 back together again 😢 please someone help him out of this relationship
Ngane yami shiya phansi lonondindwa ungaze ungene eslingweni okungcono yazisa umndeni ulande inkomo zakho ukhohlwe uyena 😢😢
I wish every male ear can hear this .. bezwe nje ukuthi how does it feel to be cheated on😒😓😓. It's very painful xem ukugangelwa and strong... I call all Chester's ears to hear this
Bafo Musa ubayislima shiya lomfazi once umfazi aqalise ujola asoze ayeke Musa uzibulala bafo shiya phantsi esosfebe mfazi umele ukuba avikele isdima sendoda yakhe xosha lonjakaz leyo🤞🤞🤞🤞🙏🙏
Haw bhut makaxole ubhut
Qina bhuti 😢kona kunzima kodwa uma icounceling ingawenzi umehluko ncono ushiye kuno kuthi ukhiphe umphefumulo qina ndoda Siyabonga ngesibindi sakho sokukwazi ukubhodla kumuntu ongaphandle
Le program yenu bhuti siyayibulela ngokunceda abantu ,uyhlale under bhuti you are a good listener to your clients keep it up mtasekhaya, ubhuti sele enyamezele leminyaka xa esamthanda makamxolele ndiyambongela ngokumzamela uncedo let's hope uzoncedakala nangenxa yabantwana nkosi yam all the best.
I’m very happy and proud of you the way you handled the problem , nga jabula when you make him laugh 👌🏼
Wayethi ugogo ngezikhathi zabo umfazi mayefebile wayengaxoshwa babemkhipha inxiwa ngezansi komuzi bemakhele 1 room ngoba usencolisile izidalwa zalayikhaya bese indoda iqala phansi iphinde iganwe kodwa ahanjiselwe ukudla izingane zakhe kodwa zona zisale noBaba
Bhuti ayikho into ezokusiza lana kuthi hlukana nalo cc ngoba angeke kuze kwedlule lento wayibonayo akulula ukukhohlwa ukuthi umfazi ykufebele futhi ngeke uphinde umethembe nje sdalo
Nesizulu sibuye sibe inkinga koda masithi umfazi akaxoshwa ulanda inhlawulo kubo ukuba akunjalo ngabe ngithi myeke manje Akukho okunye ukugwinya kushisa ... Kodak mele uhlele wazi usazophinda futhi
Mina angidlulisi nhlobo kwindoda ejolayp. Yiko sengakhetha ukuhlala single and happy. Uhlalaniphile bhuti wami. Mina ngibona iphyscologist yakusasa lana kuwe. Khulisa abantwana bakho bazokusiza kusasa. Ungawubulali umuzi kababomkhulu wakho.
Good advice my Sister! The only solution for cheating is not forgiveness/therapy or counseling but is to pack & leave that relationship or marriage
Mfowethu ungazibulali ..baningi abantu besfazana please. Kona kubuhlungu impela. Ukudliswa kuyinkinga yokuqhiliza abanye abantu 😢
Bhuti Mduduzi siyabonga ngomsebenzi wakho, ngathi uNkulunkulu angasebenza ngawe asebenze phakathi kwakho akulondoloze akuhole emsebenzini wakho omuhle. Uthwele imithwalo yezwe, uNkulunkulu ukuthwesile ngoba ekwethembile ngayo. Qhubeka njalo usipholise siyizizumbulu iSouth Africa yonke. Ngathi ungabusiswa ndlela zonke. Ubhuti lo nenkinga ngokumehlele, ngithi phola, sihle isinyathelo osithathile ngokufuna usizo, uNkulunkulu ngathi angakusiza kubo bonke ubuhlungu obhekene nawe. Unganqeni ukukhala makuthi khala ukuze inhliziyo izokwehla ibe ncono. Unganqeni futhi ukuguqa ngedolo ukhale kuJehova, uzozinqaka izinyembezi zakho, unguBaba wethu sonke. Phola mfowethu.
Phephisa bhuti into engiycelayo kuwe kunzima kakhulu kodwa ngiyacela umxolele usisi ulingekile usatane akayifuni into enhle funa usizo baku cancele ngiyazwelana nawe iphutha lisemtwini lungisani niqhubeke nempilo bonganje ukuthi akezanga nengane kusencono khona lokho Asbonge
Well done Mkhanazi.
Ubhuti udinga usizo lokubuyisa ukuzethemba azithande abe complete as a person azazi ukuthi uwubani ufunani empilweni nokuthi ufuna umuntu onjani. At that point you'll be surprised that he will realise ukuthi kwasisi lo akusiye inhlobo yomuntu afuna ukwakha naye ikusasa.
Wena wake waCheatelwa I can tell by reading this comment, this is the real one, my brother currently suffers from low self esteem he mighty be confident enough.
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Sorry my brother Pray God will guide you through this
I'm glad uBhuti uzile lana wazofuna usizo... Ngoba impilo yakhe nomfazi wakhe iseNcupheni😢 Ngicela uphume kulobo budlelwane weBhuti ukuze uzoPhola, inhliziyo le...
Yeka nje lento yokufuna ukuzibulala, mase ufile uzoqhubeka yena nalomuntu wakhe wena esekhohliwe ngawe musa nje ukuba yigwala please
Very true ❤,ncono akwesha uBhut ancenge inhliziyo yakhe aphume ku cc
Ohhh yena unesancinza ngoba indoda indoda. Ay bandla
Ungazibulali, siyakudinga! Forgiveness is not easy. But if you can forgive I applaud your courage brother, son, father, uncle, cousin, nephew makhi. Ubalulekile ebantwini abanengi! DONNOT DISTROY YOUR LIFE. Tomorrow might be better than today and yesterday! I am Praying for you, remember we need you!
Mfowethu you need to heal. Get help for the both of you, talk about your issues with a mediator in a safe space where you both can talk about it. This will help you manage to ask the difficult questions you need answers to.
Counselling can help you to make a decision and understand the meaning of your decisions. Therefore, will help you in dealing with the triggers in your situation. Such as; scrutinising her behaviours and getting triggered.
If you choose to forgive do it 100%.
Kunzima!
Bhuti zama kumyeka ngek vele uphinde umethembe n if umxolela ubokwaz usazophinda futh akujolele 🤞
Ukukhuluma kuyasiza kakhulu kunokufela ngaphakathi, uzobaryt asikho isimo esingalungiseki take your time ucabangisise kakuhle ungaqala kabusha ngempilo umyeke agoduke uzomthola owakho.
Mayelana nalobhuti mina bengingathi angaqhubeke nempilo yakhe ngoba kusobala ulimele ngaphakathi angeke akwazi ukuphila nalomama impilo yakhe yonke one day uzothatha isiqumo esi rong akaphole kuqala bese ethola omunye
Kanti bakhona abantu besilisa abaxolayo mufebile 😹😹😹 big up broo but ungamshadi muyeke ahambe
Noma engaqhubeka naye lomama still kuzofika loko ukuthi lento akayenza kuyena usakwenza kulo amshithela njengoba esho naye😢akabikele abomndeni kubuye izinkomo ngoba isazoqhubeka le film yokumfebela unkoskazi kunzima,umuntu mangakabi ready akamusa ukuntshontsha izinkomo esibayeni sendoda buka manje ulahlekelwe okuningi ngobufebe nje,okudliwe isikhonyana kuzobuya mfwethu💪💪💪💪💪💪
Abantu abahlukane noku phawila izinto abangazazi thula ungaphawuli uyisilima esizenza isihlakaniphi
Uzomtholaphi umfazi ongeke akujolele
Bhudi akasize umdeni ngale ndaba ngoba udliwa ngumzwangedwa elibele ezama ukuvikela isithunzi salo mama. Besebemkhpha inxiwa athatha enye inkosikazi.
Heeee amadoda ave ezwela dade shuth makungathiwa nathi sinjengabo ngabe akusekho muntu wesfazane la mhlaben
Shiya phansi bhuti coz zogcina sumbulele naye ,abakini bayokulapha maybe she did something kwena,zonthola umuntu okfanele.
Mshiye nje bhuti uyotfola lo worse mnaka shem kusemhlabeni lapha lomunye uyotfola ana 4 kids of her own
Mtakababa siyaxolisa ungazinaki uzilima qhubeka ngomsebenzi wenu omuhle eniwenzayo, siyabonga kakhulu
Bhut sinzima isimo obhekene naso.yazisa imndeni yobili.bese Wena uthathe isqumo uphume kuloluthando.ngoba awusoze waxola ngaphakath uJehova ukasoze wakulahla ungazikhaleli inkomo owalobol ngazo Zonke izimo esibhekana nazo zibabuhlungu kakhulu.kodw ekugcineni siyaphuma kunezo nhlung esisuk sibhekene nazo.ungacabang ukubulala konke lokhu kuzodlula bhut wam.ukhuleke uJehova uzoksiza ngokupholisa inhliziyo yakho🙏
😢😢😢kubhlung kona kodwa nath bant besfazane ksuke kubhlung kanj masgangelwe indoda kodwa kunina ngath kuzwela kakhulu phephisa bhuti nath simelwa zinhliziyo kodwa siqini ngoba unkulunkulu usthembile siyimbokodo nawe nj ehlis umoya kzodlula
Thina uyahlekwa kuthiwe uneskhwele lomfazi kubuhlungu nakithi
Uyakwazi ukulobola wena okanye uthwala izindleko zakaboyfriend wakho ngoba umthanda?
Mxm
And kahla kahle Lana... we only hear one side of a story...🤔🤔🤔
The day amadoda abona ukuthi kubuhlungu kanjani ukufetshelwa ayoyeka. Kubuhlungu uma kwinina but thina as women kmele sibekezele????
Akudlali ukunikizelwa izinqa zakho uztshela ukuthi zaziwa nguwe wedwa😢
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Anguvumi lokhu abakutshoyo abanye uma bethi kungenzeka indoda yaqonywa kuqalamanje useyabuyisela ucc lo akubuyiselwa okubi ngokubi kanti eliphi lelizwe ulotsholwe lomntu.
Mfowami, ziningi izimo kodwa Oqonda kancono uwena. Okwakho ukukhetha okukulungele nokulungile. Uyamxolela mangabe umthanda noma myeke kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi wemukele , wendlulise. Akusona lesi esakho kuphela isifebe kungukuthi yena usebanjiwe. Okonye akuyona ijoke ukuthi abeneli. Mungakwemukela njengokwazi ukuthi usu test positive . Ngoba omunye umuntu uyafunda ephutheni lakhe.
Ungikubhekisa kona , ungezwa ngomuntu, ungenzeli abantu. Yazi ukuthi esintwini kuthiwa umuzi wakhiwa ngamabibi. Thanda umkakho udedele igazi coz uzofelwa nawubudoda bakho muzoxistressa ngombhedo zonke ziyafeba lezinto. Qinisa ezidingweni zakhe. Nibe ne communication.
umfazi wakufebela uyahlukana naye akunakuxolela kuleyonto wamxolela uyohlala uyicabanga njalo hlukana naye kuphela nje.
Same applies to a woman.. this is hard
Ngeke iphume loyinto emqondweni wakho bafo. Kubuhlungu ukudlelwa umfazi. The only way to deal with your circumstances is leave her alone and move away from her. Ngeke uphole usambukela eduze but ukuze uphole wena futhi ukhohlwe muyeke. Lithi igama uma usamthanda muyeke efebe. Inhliziyo yakho izopholiswa ukumbona esebuya kuwena ngenxa yokushayeka ebufebeni bakhe. Ilapho ke uzothola khona ukukhululeka. Only know you love her when you let her go
Thuleleni ngimamele kodwa indlela ubhuti achaza ngayo Uthi ulobolile kunemindeni emibili laa kufanele ukuba wathatha umkakhe waya naye kubo inye into engingayithandi u kodwa wakhe akangichazi bakhona Abantu abadala umfazi uyinto ebekezela ngendlela eyisimanga empilweni buka uthi wehlisa incindezi ngezidaka mizwa ekuthi ukuphela kwazo ibuye lento ake ngimbonge nkulunkulu namadlozi avikayo nalemiphefumlo
Mawumthanda myekele ahambe
Ladies and gentlemen kunzima ukwamukela ukuthy ugangelwe and iyalimazana nje leyonto yazy nomekuthinta umuntu okugangele kusuke kuwuye yedwa okulesosimo sokujabula ekubeni umgangelwa usuke eoff ezibukela lento osukuyenzile kodwake isinqumo nenhliziyo okwakho bhuti
XOLA BHUTI..BUT ICALA LOBUFEBE ALIXOLELWA..USAZOPHINDA LOWOMFAZI..AKAGODULE FINISH
Uthathe isnqumo esihle.ngokufuna usizo ungakamoshi.uNkulunkulu ngath.angaba nani impilo iqhubeke.akusize nawe uxole ngokuphelele .noCc abese aze hlisa alibone iphutha lakhe.niqhubeke nempilo yenu.kube mnand ft.
Kanti mengingabuza nje ku bantu beslisa yini le engaka ukuthi ningangaxoli ngoba nani niyakwenza nje ukucheater njengoba lobhuti mabembuza ukuthi yena akanaye umuntu azwana naye eceleni uthi indoda indoda kuryt kuyena
Bafo I counselling mayingakusizi zikha counsillishe wena umakungavumi shiyaphantsi ngoba uzoboshwa ngesenzo ozosenza
Uqinisile
Abantu besifazane ababulali ndoda echeatayo, amadoda awabe strong njengoba ahlezi esho kuthina
Abekezele! Baze bathi bafuna abakwazi ukubekezela😂
Mfowethu phuma ngoba uzothuka ususejele usumbulele ukhalela imali yakho ziningi intombi
Ama advice anjena iwona adingakalayo
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Ey ngiyamhlonipha lomfwethu namanye amadoda awathathe nasi isifundo
i hope amadoda amamele le ndodo ,ukuba bayabona umonzakalo owenzwa kujolelwa ngumntu obucabanga ukuba ngeke akujolele .
I feel very sorry ngaloyomfowethu shame nakithi ikeyakhona efuze le umfowethu yena wayeshaywa wumkakhe for years basebeshadile with 2 children and ekhaya sasithi uma sikhuleka simkhulekele naye ubafo kwathi nje singassnakile bahlukana ngokuhlala umuzi wadayiswa
Weeh lobhuti kanti baphelile yin Abantu besimame
Qina Ndoda noMama kuthiwa ababekezele ,bekezela nawe futhi niqonywa njalo
Umuntu ofebile uhlezi efila ukuxolelwa as an obligation ngenkani
Sorry bhuti, Mara ubumhekhile ngokubona kwami why ukwenzile loko, but ungambulali nawe ungazibulali, kuzondlula akukho okungandluli, hlala nomndeni wakho
Bafo ithathe istep esityt ngokukhuluma ngoba lento yokuthi indoda ayikhali iwumcabango orong ngoba nawe unomphefumulo imizwa nentliziyo so ubuhlungu uyabuzwa ngiyakubongela ngokuba ekugcineni ukwazile ukuphumela obala ngoba ayikho into ebuhlungu njengokuphoxeka kumuntu omthandayo so uma ufike kule stage ofike kuso you are not a victim any more you are a survivor
Good luck bhutiza ube ryt usize abanye nawe ngomuso
Bhuti muyeke uqhubekenempilo coz vele awasamethembi futhi ngekekusa shitsha
Iyamangaza indaba yamadoda ngoba wona ayafeba kodwa uma kumuntu wesifazane bona kuba nzima mina nje eyami indoda inezingane yonke indawo kodwa ngayixolela naye akaxole uma esamthanda xola ndoda
Mina ngokubona kwami balimele kakhulu bobabili. Indoda ilinyazwe ukuganga kukamama, umama ulinyazwa ukuthi akasakwazi ukukhuza indoda yakhe ngoba uyesaba. Mina ngibona kumele bahlukane. Kuzophuma isidumbu la ngoba ubaba unenzondo. Angiboni ukuthi isazolunga lento. Bobabili abaye kwcounselling kodwa abahlukane. Hayi kabi, kuzolunga
Kwabuhlungu😢 kodwa inkosi izikusiza nami ngalenza lelo phutha namhlanje ngikwazile ukwazi ukuthi umyeni wami izizwa kanjani sesishade iminyaka engu34 year xola baba usathane nje
Mina ngizolokhu ngisho njalo nje bafo uyisiphukuphuku esingabongi noma amadlozi ekukhombisa ukuthi uwalandele unondindwa.
Zibulale ufe vele uyihlazo lendoda elihlulwa ukukhipha isfebe emzini kayise
He's not a full.. a full is that cheater of his... and I wish angathola iintanga zakhe yerer
Mmmmm nxese bhuti kuzophola mtanekhehla akuqali ngawe futhi akugcini ngawe eyokuzibulalake nje igxobe ngezinyawo khuleka ziba ntathu nje izinsuku ucela uNkulunkulu adlulise lesitsha siyadlula beseke uthatha isinqumo sakho ukuthi uyaqhubeka naye noma uyaphuma kukuwenake lokho ngikufisela inhlanhla
Ncese mtaka baba ,kungathi yimi lo okhuluma ngaye ,nami ngidlule kuyo lenkinga 3times in 16yrs ngaze ngashada phezu kwaso lesosimo kodwa manje .mina nje engakusho phuma lapho
Kunzima mpela ngiyabazi lobubuhlungu ummmmmmm uzungafisi mpela ukujolelwa ngumuntu omthandayo ikakhululazi owesifazane nce awukhohlwa ngitshousuku owakugila ngalo Mina ngize ngaba ngcono ngenva kwe 3 years akukho engingakuzamanga Nami ukuzama ukubulala nokuzibulala
Lona ngathi udlisiwe ngeke phela sekuphele u 3yrs soloko wena ulwa nento yinye shiya loyosisi ngoba ngathi nje kukhuluma isidliso lana 😢
Hay okwamadoda kuyaxaka makuza kuwona kubanzima ukuxola kodwa wona mayeqonywa owesifazane uxola kalula kudlule futhi. Vele umxoshe Baba abuyele Kubo ungaze uboshwe cause kuyacaca awusobuye uxole into eyenzeka 3yrs ago😮😮
Kufanele amadoda angaxoli ngoba nibuya namavezandlebe singazi
Ungathi si... ngoba nani noyawenza amavezandlebe kwuminye imizi ya manye amadoda.. this is an example... indoda Uma I cheater ayi cheat ne s'lwane kanti no wes'fazane ku njalo... lento iyafana bhuti..
Ngakhala Kanye nobhut, but empeleni yiyo into le siyizwayo nathi leyo uyizwayo bhutwami . Ncela wehlise Moya uphume kuloyomcabango wokufuna kukhipha is
Izindumbu please. Bhut Ncela uyilqndela lendaba please sifuna feed back😢
Kuthiwa nje icala lobufebe aluthethwa
Uthando luhle lumnandi kodwa ngamanye amaxesha lusivisa kabuhlungu into endingayitsho kukuthi be strong Bro kuzolunga coz akukho lula ukuba uqale a new relatiobship coz lowomntu uzofela izono zalona and asoze ubuye uthembe mntu nyamezela ulungise lo sewumazi nihambe nenkonzo nifunde ibible ezinye izinto ziyaphenduleka lapha ebhaybhileni mayela nokuthemba too much umntu sorry Boy
Khona umfowethu kufana nokuthi uyadlala Uma uthi uyaxola,ngoba inhliziyo uyohlezi inamabala,shiya phansi ndodaà ungakhaleli amandla,akho ,hamba uyophala uqale phansi impilo,uyeke ubushimane uze uzibulalele umuntu ,
Unayo yini ingane naye if not tshela abakini nilande inkomo😢futhi wakudlisa ngeke we ayi
Cha kunzima ukuxola kubafethu😢
Kunzima mfwethu kodwa ungazibulali . Ayikho into engadluli empilweni . Ezinye izimo ziyafika ezimpilweni zethu , zisuke zingazile ukuzoqeda ngathi , kodwa zisuke zizosiqinisa. Qina mfwethu kuzodlula.
Nakubafazi kubabuhlungu kanje
Alukho uxolo lomjolo endodeni bafo..sinjalo nje thina madoda so shiyaphantsi bafo uzomthola okufanele ngoba uzoya ejele ngomuntu owamthola enamazinyo awu 32......
Mfo kwakufanele umyeke ngalesosikhathi kumadoda akwa.zulu nasendulo.ayikho.intethelelo kanondidwa wayedingiswa ngokusho.kwakho.kungenzeka nengane asezakho nawo lamanyala.usaxhubeka nawo ubufebe.kumfazi kunzima ukuyeka kunjengedakamizwa kuye kuku we mfo ukuthi uzohlala.ufukamele inyoka emele ukugadla.noma Nini💔🐕👹👎🗑️👍
Ukuqala phansi akulona iphutha kunokucabanga ukuzibulala musa ukuba igwala lempilo bhuti wami,kuzodlula suka eduze kwakhe ukuze uzophola ngikfisela inhlanhla.
Bhuti nje xola uqale phansi impilo. Amandla nendoda awapheli nezidalwa zakini ziyakukhombisa ngalomuntu wakho.
Good wakhuluma kahle
Waybeka yaqonda ngqo👌
Ngyabonga kwithuleleni ukusiza abantu nakumfwethu ukuphumela obala cha okwami mfwethu shiya phansi myeke kuzophileka nathi sedlula lapho ngoba usazokuphinda bese kuba khona kakhulu
Umntu ophuzayo nobhema intsangu akukaze kube nenhlanzeko1abantwana banamhlanje bayaqhathanisa 2umcabago wam kukhona lapho ubhuti ayekelele kuze izinto zifike laa zikhona mina ngiyamuzwa umbuze kaningi ukuthi akanaye na umntu ajola naye loko kuyamhlekisayena engicabanga ukuthi unkosikazi kuyamthukuthelisa
It's very hurtful but my advice for you it to ask God almighty to give you the strength to forget about it and move on since you forgave her
Sorry bhuti kuzodlula. Eyi ziyenzeka lezinto cabangela nengane zakho nathi siphuma kuzo kodwa saxolelana impilo iyaqhubeka ukubulala akukho kuhle siyabonga ngokuza kumkhwanazi uzoluthola usi usizo
Waze wameluleka kahle bhuti Mdu siyabonga ngikufisela inhlanhla bhuti wami engathi ungaluthola usizo🙏🙏
Aliqulwa nje icala lomjolo noma ngabe ubumthanda kanjn chenga inhliziyo bafo udele uphume kuye uziqalele impilo etsha kuyaphumeka nje Kumuntu ukuthi bayamthanda kin akusho lutho okusalayo uwena ongasekho happy
Bhuti umfazi ofebile umakhela le kude wena uthathe omunye umfazi.Ngoba ukufeba komfazi akudluli endodeni.
it my happen that kwaqala wena Buti ............. yi revenge le yithathe mfethu
Indoda ebekezelela umfazi efebile isuke idlisiwe
Bhuti Loko kwenzeka kuwowonke umuntu hayi owesiliisa kuphela kubuhlungu ukujolelwa umuntu omthandayo kuyavuka bhuti
Ndiyavelana nawe bhuti but kuzalunga ayikho into engapheli Zama
Ai buti ngyala okwamanje usazizwa umthanda but uma ningabuyelana aphinde abe seduze kwakho kula ozobona khona ukut awsamfun nakumbona mina nje nginjalo ungangigila ngkuthande ngikuxolele fut ngukuthembise kodwa 2 weeks sisonke sbuyeleni mningi kakhulu