Is it Ok to be Jealous of a Friend’s Success? - Sadhguru

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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2024

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  • @balbirkaur10
    @balbirkaur10 3 роки тому +747

    jealousy happen mainly if you don't got anything from your hard work but others got everything..

    • @Feelthesongs-o7l
      @Feelthesongs-o7l 2 роки тому +37

      Yes it happen with me😞😞😞😞😞

    • @harshchaudhary1374
      @harshchaudhary1374 2 роки тому +64

      Faced yesterday i do hard work in my exam but my exam not went well
      But my all friends done cheating and they are all happy after exam making me 😢

    • @anusharanjana
      @anusharanjana 2 роки тому +9

      Yes if u dont get what u want becoz if we both r acheieving what we want then there will not be any jealously

    • @isaacnotnewton3600
      @isaacnotnewton3600 2 роки тому +2

      With me too😣😣😭😭😭

    • @sapnabinu9024
      @sapnabinu9024 2 роки тому +1

      Bro very true

  • @proudindian7037
    @proudindian7037 2 роки тому +1

    Through doing heart out hard work.. i hardly get any success.. and some people just get so easily.. that is where mind gets triggered ....

  • @livewithmynk9689
    @livewithmynk9689 5 років тому +2

    Plz add hindi caption plz sir plz

  • @roumikroy9914
    @roumikroy9914 4 роки тому +1

    What is the name of track which is playing in the first 40 seconds ?

  • @JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness
    @JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness 5 років тому +430

    So true, when our happiness is determined by outside variables it will always go up and down 💕

    • @JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness
      @JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness 5 років тому +12

      I love how Sadhguru sits, he makes himself a home wherever he goes 🙂

    • @mr.c2485
      @mr.c2485 5 років тому

      Janey Imaani - Emotional Awareness
      Happiness is just an emotion. Soundness of mind is a state of being achieved only through the awareness of weakness. The two aren’t even remotely related.

  • @jessepera2457
    @jessepera2457 5 років тому +397

    if i ever met sadhguru in person i would hug him and never let go

  • @saamykrishvj5168
    @saamykrishvj5168 4 роки тому +107

    Though I have blessed with good life..lot of time I felt jealous about others..I don't know this is creating unwanted pressure..in me..I ashamed of myself...this is indication that you are psychologically weak

    • @keerthukumar2107
      @keerthukumar2107 3 роки тому +5

      Same prblm.. Dnt knw y

    • @stardust628
      @stardust628 3 роки тому +13

      I guess it's the way that our society is structured. Starting from school days we are thought to compare our grades. Our minds got entangled in this.

    • @wolfcola6329
      @wolfcola6329 2 роки тому +3

      You can recognize this in you and can speak it freely. Even if you are WEAK it's only for until you strengthen your love for yourself.

  • @ksingh5283
    @ksingh5283 3 роки тому +155

    This has change a lot in me. I can finally understand what I have to do in my life. I was feeling jealous of my classmates but that is because of there photo where they show there success. I have to live my life on my terms and condition. I have to let my heart chose what way should I go

    • @chesstime_0720
      @chesstime_0720 3 роки тому +8

      yes, this video has the potential to change lives. I too is overcoming my jealousy towards my college mates

    • @Kavyasingh018
      @Kavyasingh018 3 роки тому +3

      Same feeling frnd.... that's why I'm here to just remove all that insecurities

    • @sukanyachatterjee1632
      @sukanyachatterjee1632 3 роки тому +1

      @@Kavyasingh018 same feelings here.

    • @youranime3283
      @youranime3283 6 місяців тому

      Currently I'm feeling the same.....please guide me to overcome it.I don't want to envy my friends because they are my friends.

  • @FlexNFly
    @FlexNFly 4 роки тому +174

    "Seeing you succeed reminds me of my failures." That's really why it's so hard for many people that have to deal with being jealous of their friend's success. It's a character issue that can be corrected. I created a video on this because of the vulnerability that it takes to have such a conversation. Loved everything that Sadhguru said.

    • @ibrahimoziti9920
      @ibrahimoziti9920 11 місяців тому

      Name of the video please, so i can watch

  • @rrsk88_farming
    @rrsk88_farming 5 років тому +235

    Sadhguru's sense of humor is amazing 🧡🙏😂 the coolest enlightened friend which today's youngster can ever have.
    We're such a fortunate generation

    • @ananyamohanty8689
      @ananyamohanty8689 5 років тому +3

      Anonymous Namaskaram! Really true! We are so lucky 😍❤

    • @rrsk88_farming
      @rrsk88_farming 5 років тому

      @@ananyamohanty8689 🙏🙏🙏

    • @Pferdecoach
      @Pferdecoach 5 років тому +1

      Anonymos....yes, not only for "today`s youngsters".....smile

    • @rrsk88_farming
      @rrsk88_farming 5 років тому

      @@Pferdecoach 😂👍

  • @josephalexanderovidi
    @josephalexanderovidi 5 років тому +145

    We need to be independant of others opinions.
    This is true power.

  • @srikanthuppiretla407
    @srikanthuppiretla407 4 роки тому +43

    sadhguru is a precious gift to this generation. isn't it so ? iam asking you,hallo? :)

  • @raymondtendau2749
    @raymondtendau2749 4 роки тому +26

    Compare yourself with who you were yesteryears.Not who someone is today.

  • @divjay6403
    @divjay6403 5 років тому +187

    For the people disliking this video: you run a pathetic chemical industry!

    • @Aerochalklate
      @Aerochalklate 5 років тому

      Divyansh Juneja ouch

    • @awarenessandjoy3993
      @awarenessandjoy3993 5 років тому +10

      They must be following someone else..So how can they appreciate anybody else...
      Such people are not out there to learn anything, they are just there to prove that their master is the best..

    • @PriyankaGupta-ew1li
      @PriyankaGupta-ew1li 5 років тому +1

      Burn 🔥😁

    • @pianoforme122
      @pianoforme122 4 роки тому

      "understand them"

    • @erictherealtor5914
      @erictherealtor5914 3 роки тому

      They're lousy CEOs😂😂😂

  • @shatabdichanda636
    @shatabdichanda636 4 роки тому +21

    *Your body is the most complex chemical factory in the universe, if you are a great CEO you'll generate chemicals of bliss.*

  • @himantasaikia8724
    @himantasaikia8724 5 років тому +67

    Stolen car can be joy!
    Amazing humour...

  • @karthickgandhi3345
    @karthickgandhi3345 5 років тому +52

    Every time I see sadhguru ji I feel happy.... Every time I hear his thoughts I feel energetic....

  • @SoleCardona
    @SoleCardona 5 років тому +37

    Thank you! Greetings from Canada 👏

  • @abdullahawisimulaha
    @abdullahawisimulaha 4 роки тому +8

    okay, lot of anegdots and talking as always.. But what practically we can do about it, what to do inside when we feel fillings like jealousy which is unintetional, out of councious controll?? We should do mantra, meditate in that moment, what we should do? And on the other hand, isn't these kind of feelings showing us something - are they always "bad"? Isn't that jealousy means that we would like to go in some direction, showing that something is missing? Anger that something is wrong and maybe we should stand for ourselfs?

  • @KailashSGubbi
    @KailashSGubbi 5 років тому +18

    Jealousy is that feeling which can only lead to a degradation of a human feeling.

  • @leggyReid4c
    @leggyReid4c 5 років тому +38

    Never thought of my peace of mind as a company i needed to manage. Very well put Mr. Sadguru, thank you for sharing your wisdom.

  • @signaturespecialist
    @signaturespecialist 5 років тому +43

    Happiness is a choice - Sadhguru

  • @harsha2874
    @harsha2874 2 роки тому +13

    Learn and train yourself in such a manner, that you will always perform at your best in all conditions at any given point of time.

  • @maliksy7127
    @maliksy7127 5 років тому +31

    Absolutely we should not use the word friend in this context, well said

  • @TruthTriumphs786
    @TruthTriumphs786 3 роки тому +39

    True...When you manage your own thoughts and emotions you become a great CEO of your own body. You do things that you love and are happy for others success.
    Most of the people in the crowd haven't understood this. They just sit and nod their heads and go out and are miserable again.

  • @jayantj9837
    @jayantj9837 2 роки тому +4

    I am still unable to understand how to deal with it! even after understanding the cause

  • @bru1015
    @bru1015 5 років тому +20

    Typically Financial success brings a certain amount of security. 👩‍🌾

  • @beasweirdaspossible
    @beasweirdaspossible Рік тому +4

    When your own life’s a mess, it’s not that easy to put on a happy face for your friends success and i know you feel terrible for having such feelings for your loved one’s but know that it’s okay! Its natural. You’re just a human.

  • @artfun5975
    @artfun5975 3 роки тому +11

    If your. Happiness is decided by others then you have to be independent & not rely on others for your happiness

  • @celebratingilluzion4926
    @celebratingilluzion4926 5 років тому +10

    Saw Sadhguru in person for the first time today... In Bangluru

  • @Indo_sapien
    @Indo_sapien 5 років тому +18

    Her voice is similar to Deepika Padukone!!

  • @abcdefghijkl9234
    @abcdefghijkl9234 3 роки тому +3

    The girl who asked the question had voice same as deepika padukone!!

  • @basitalikhan5161
    @basitalikhan5161 5 років тому +42

    Love u from pakistan amazing

  • @shivangisingh6785
    @shivangisingh6785 5 років тому +11

    After a long time , a sadhguru video !!! :))
    Thank you so much for uploading.

  • @ayantika_03
    @ayantika_03 Рік тому +1

    Everything feels ok untill their Instagram photos comes in display and feel like I haven't done that i haven't got that i didn't reach that i couldn't get there all this things comes in my mind but do i really want those things or is it just mere jealousy really a big question 😟

  • @juli6108
    @juli6108 5 років тому +12

    Greetings from Brazil 🇧🇷.. God bless you for your wisdom.. ✌

    • @goodguyyt
      @goodguyyt 3 роки тому +1

      Love from india
      Jai hind jai bharat 🇮🇳

  • @murthyv.s4548
    @murthyv.s4548 4 роки тому +6

    thanks for helping me out in life....:-)

  • @melc8388
    @melc8388 3 роки тому +2

    Jealous of a friend? You mean admire. Jealousy N friendship doesnt go together.

  • @pratisaad
    @pratisaad Рік тому +3

    Envy happen when we compare with others and social media big reason which i feel , this always create self doubt within us..😔

  • @awarenessandjoy3993
    @awarenessandjoy3993 5 років тому +9

    Pranam sadguru... Your way of explaining things is superb.. It goes straight into the heart...
    I bow down at your feet..

  • @vikasv7678
    @vikasv7678 3 роки тому +2

    There are only questions but no answers. The questions spiralled, was fun to watch but no clarity.

  • @shatabdichanda636
    @shatabdichanda636 4 роки тому +4

    Your life shouldn't controlled by others.but by yourself

  • @ShoonyaShivaTribe
    @ShoonyaShivaTribe 5 років тому +6

    Love u Guruji... Although you don't need my love 😍😇😁🙏

  • @lucassabath3304
    @lucassabath3304 5 років тому +16

    This cat is deep man

  • @anoopg5024
    @anoopg5024 5 років тому +43

    When he speaks about a complex subject it becomes very clear & easily understandable.
    Thank you!!!!

  • @viciousraccoon7094
    @viciousraccoon7094 5 років тому +5

    The answer is simple, if your friend fails or tops when he deserve it you should'nt be sad.Question is what do you think and does it matches to the reality!

  • @mr.c2485
    @mr.c2485 5 років тому +17

    Soundness of mind is the only thing worthy of our envy.

  • @kumarr9267
    @kumarr9267 4 роки тому +8

    I love Sadhguru's teaching ❤

  • @bharathgk5884
    @bharathgk5884 5 років тому +8

    Touching ur feet sadguru

  • @Randomly.assembled.molecules
    @Randomly.assembled.molecules 2 роки тому +1

    I don't know why i feel unwanted jealous not in friends success but in when my friends stop sharing what they think and i feel like they all are ignoring me

  • @snap-touch-me-not652
    @snap-touch-me-not652 2 роки тому +3

    "If you have a choice"... does one really have a choice what to feel? Envy is an instinct, a feeling. How much can an instinct be controlled? Can you really not react to how people feel about you? The answer is - yes, but only if your combination of genetic background and parenting gave you this quality.

    • @aditidwivedi6719
      @aditidwivedi6719 2 роки тому

      I know right! I don't know how can people even say that controlling our emotions is a choice. Jealousy is bad no doubt but it's human nature, we will obviously feel bad for our lives when everyone else is getting succeeded and everything good is happening in their lives, this will only remind us of how nothing good is happening with us. Only therapy can improve this feeling

    • @SatishKumarNathanMusic
      @SatishKumarNathanMusic 2 роки тому +1

      From personal experience am telling this.. Try this out consistently on a daily basis. This is the Single Secret of all Meditation techniques.
      Close your eyes and focus on your Breathing process. Observe your thoughts, if they go astray, again try to focus on your breathing. If you find it difficult, chant OM with focus on urself.
      Whenever u get any Negative thoughts like Jealousy, Anger, Hate etc, try this continuously for few minutes. Do this daily, diligently. Over a period in life, the longevity of such thoughts will reduce. It will take time for completely overcoming this, but trust me, this really helps if you do diligently. And u can also keep saying to yourself (I love myself without comparing with others. I am happy always)

  • @mohitpandey3616
    @mohitpandey3616 2 роки тому +2

    i will control my own industry
    right now its start bcz of you sadhguru sir

  • @khalilahmad7447
    @khalilahmad7447 4 роки тому +3

    i have a question for anyone who reads my comment plz answer it
    MY QUESTION- i have a friend (priyansh) who hadn't studied anything for exam like he studied only 1hour for an exam and where as me and my other 2 friends (Aryan and anas) . like i studied 8 hours a day during exam days . other friend 6 ,5 hours but due to this corona we all are promoted to next class . and i am literally jealous that he ( priyansh) is getting pass ( me + aryan + anas ) we studied in annual exams and after exams i can say i will get passed in all subject . aryan said he will get pass 3 subject anas can also pass 3 subjects but priyansh can only pass in 1 subject. so after knowing he is going for next class . i m jealous i m angry that he didn't deserved to get pass . he didn't even thought that he can pass even in dream if this corona wouldn't have happened . i have told this to priyansh , my family . that i m feeling bad that he passed i m not happy that my friend passed . and my family u r wrong so my question is - is i am doing really wrong . i think he didn't deserved to get pass . and i m jealous that i had to study 8 to 10 hours a day and he didn't even studied night before exam he used to play exam . so reply me am i right that i m getting jeolous or if i am wrong then why plz explain me this have been a reason i m feeling low these days

    • @mohitmodekar657
      @mohitmodekar657 4 роки тому +7

      Khalil anyone do the same..But thinking too much about it will spoil your life only because your life has just started and you have to see so many things in life like these. At the moment you are focusing too much on others rather than your self and its only hurting you..Just be happy...As far as priyansh is concerned..his habit of lack of studying will let him down somewhere in life..And your habit of studying will make you winner eventually...So just don't focus on what is not in your control and chill

    • @machambi1753
      @machambi1753 Рік тому

      You can use your knowledge you persuied in future 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Lr8_youtube
    @Lr8_youtube Рік тому +1

    Take control your emotions + thoughts
    Internally: you control your thoughts and feelings.

  • @jvolc
    @jvolc 3 роки тому +3

    1:19

  • @prajaktss1229
    @prajaktss1229 Рік тому +1

    Jealousy comes from situation where one isn’t in position to achieve things what he once desired for .

  • @Half_agnostic
    @Half_agnostic 5 років тому +12

    Namaskaram Sadhguru 🙏
    My only dream is to Meet you physically in my Life

  • @Lifetimewanderer
    @Lifetimewanderer 4 роки тому +2

    So much difference in students of IIM and nalsar

  • @deborahcroft5182
    @deborahcroft5182 4 роки тому +1

    I said No good about marriage video earlier. I meant Haygood no good. Which was attached to video She with others called me names at the park while waiting to meet m.jackson. other negatives regarding her as well. (D) Has kept her close for many yrs but fatality is what she is about.

  • @Bhruguraj
    @Bhruguraj 5 років тому +10

    At 3:01 , when sadhguru does moves 😎😎

  • @이현정-m1i9t
    @이현정-m1i9t 5 років тому +1

    All poeple want to get dream car and dream nobady get that easily anybody just look dream car and just enjoy look dream car Human experience is crated my in side and we grow up by doing something outside

  • @vesinokkapuuskuttaja
    @vesinokkapuuskuttaja 5 років тому +1

    If person A is jealossy cuz of person B cuz B got something or know something and A feel bad jealossy and maybe want to do something bad cuz of it. Would person A be better friend of B if B is not worth of jealossy and dont have anything that A dont have or know :D. I would love friend maybe more if he know something more like how to love more. Best that people can be and be free but u dont need ferrari so bmw guys can take easy:D

  • @vijayarya8632
    @vijayarya8632 4 роки тому +1

    look of sadhguru is great now a days video then older one...replace pic of sadhguru with the latest one plz.

  • @TikyeWilliams
    @TikyeWilliams 8 місяців тому

    I’ve been jealous I’ll admit but switching up and trying to sabotage, NO

  • @BullishSpike
    @BullishSpike 5 років тому +5

    Loved New introduction of video.

  • @smssms7167
    @smssms7167 5 місяців тому

    Jealousy never got u good, but its mainly something u also want to make it for yourself. I think its better to fix your own garden. U will watch less other people. Your moment is coming. I always remind myself everytime I feel jealousy comes up do I really want to be like this or do I want rather to enrich my life. And I always choose number 2

  • @xavierpaololedesmamandreza
    @xavierpaololedesmamandreza 5 років тому +1

    Such are Political Activists or anyone pursuing such Activism.

  • @chinmay4136
    @chinmay4136 3 роки тому +2

    So now how to get rid of it

  • @haizzzz7486
    @haizzzz7486 2 роки тому +1

    I'm a manager and see exactly what he is saying everyday. Even me probably 6 months ago. I let go of the "things should be this way" and "people shouldn't be like that".
    People are as they are, they just are who they are in that moment of time.
    Hes right, one day one of the other managers could be outright spiteful and angry but if you allow them to be that and not take them personal, the next day they are totally different, some even apologise.
    We all have our moments, where we don't think and just react to the situations that play out in our lives. We project our fears onto people and in the end will see it in our own time and take the time to make changes within ourselfs. So who are we to judge on how people should be when we ourselfs can be cruel.

  • @tanghiulongshe4114
    @tanghiulongshe4114 3 роки тому +1

    What if making excuses make me happy?😄

  • @Santy-s7n7w
    @Santy-s7n7w 7 місяців тому

    After 15 mins of gyan, he did not tell whether it's OK to feel jealous.

  • @Nothingness55555
    @Nothingness55555 5 років тому +1

    अंग्रेजी में कोई फायदा नही है।

  • @janviisworld
    @janviisworld 5 років тому +4

    Thank you sadguru 🙏😊

  • @servusmovies
    @servusmovies 5 років тому +3

    Eagerly waiting with rgv and sadguru

  • @geraldineclark2026
    @geraldineclark2026 5 років тому +1

    I am never JEALIOUS unless it's mine then I get disappoint of man disrespect

  • @fredrikbeckker125
    @fredrikbeckker125 2 роки тому +1

    Jealously is a sin

  • @realshubham1998
    @realshubham1998 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you Sadguru.

  • @rutpandya1125
    @rutpandya1125 Рік тому

    Wen to abroad country with friends all passed and went away I am still stuck with my final year project and feeling very depressed, sad with life. Not even shared this with my parents. Feeling so lonely anybody is there who can just talk with me. I am just broken😢

  • @dannysze8183
    @dannysze8183 4 роки тому +2

    very true

  • @dlgm161
    @dlgm161 3 роки тому +2

    Very healing. Thank-you!

  • @katerinafatsea3609
    @katerinafatsea3609 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Sadhguru, all your wisdom is a blessing for this planet ! Υou bring light into our lives!

  • @BeOutstanding
    @BeOutstanding 2 роки тому

    u will always feel sad whether ur fren do well or badly.
    take charge

  • @hanananf
    @hanananf 2 роки тому

    ohhh thats crazy she sounds excatly like deepika .....okay i feel she did the dubbing here

  • @Anonymous-pk5uz
    @Anonymous-pk5uz 2 роки тому

    Well i am performing better than some dudes at the gym and on Snapchat when i usually send 2 pics of my physique update they be like stop it bro how many pictures you gonna send and laugh and all What should i do ? Mainly i ignore them and remove them so that my peace and success is not disturbed again as i cannot change their prespestive

  • @Nothingness55555
    @Nothingness55555 5 років тому +1

    हिंदी में वीडियो को करें

  • @somashekharertyug9528
    @somashekharertyug9528 Рік тому

    Being both Jealous & Envious is Immature

  • @HealingNatureMeditation
    @HealingNatureMeditation 5 років тому +4

    I love listening his talks!💙
    Thank you so much💜🙏💜🕉

  • @MsMaxmotivation
    @MsMaxmotivation 4 роки тому +4

    1.23% is a lot when it comes to DNA 🧬

  • @fredrikbeckker125
    @fredrikbeckker125 2 роки тому

    Evolution is still going in, omg I think I just learned something very important now

  • @uttkarshraut1087
    @uttkarshraut1087 5 років тому +2

    Before explaining : see 🤔👀

  • @rohitlalwani1983
    @rohitlalwani1983 5 років тому +3

    Thanks

  • @navyaamusic
    @navyaamusic 5 місяців тому

    Her voice is similar to Deepika

  • @maggiedoherty760
    @maggiedoherty760 4 роки тому +1

    So no advice

  • @Ashish-kc5zg
    @Ashish-kc5zg 3 роки тому +1

    1:45 sense of humour 🤣😂🤣

  • @prabhakarj1
    @prabhakarj1 5 років тому +4

    Beautiful sadguru, really feeling blissful by your talk. Namaskaram.

  • @chasingchaplin
    @chasingchaplin 5 років тому +1

    Hello? Yes or no? Isn't it? Hello?

  • @shatabdichanda636
    @shatabdichanda636 4 роки тому

    Sadhguru ji...😶I love you..namaskaram.🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

  • @genarocuellar777
    @genarocuellar777 2 роки тому

    No! What is successful mean anyway.

  • @pranjalchoudhury477
    @pranjalchoudhury477 2 роки тому

    His words are really deep and true. One minute silence for his Haters.

  • @valsalaashokan1919
    @valsalaashokan1919 Рік тому

    Are.you.coming.Delhi.to.do.a.satsang