Types Of Women I Met Dating After Divorce In My 30s! Storytime Chat.
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Thanks for watching! Just a quick chat about the types of women I experienced when dating after divorce. Share your stories in the comments!
I’m only 14 and may not know as much, but I have noticed that single guys in their 40s are usually much more sane and successful than girls in their 40s
Very good observation. Hang in there kid. Public schools sucks, pick up a skill, start your own business. Success will come your way in your 30s. Hang in there.
You're thinking with your head and not your penis. Good. Things get better after 30 my young friend. Find a trade or skill for sure and stick with it. Best of luck.
Keep watching young brother and get you a mentor like this and you will be successful and retired in your 20s
You're a smart kid. Keep up the good work 👍😎
Yup. Just remember, once you get a girl pregnant, that's a 20 year minimum full-time commitment. I suggest, if you want kids, either adopt or surrogate from another country (don't do it in the same country, laws change and guys that adopt/surrogate end up on the hook for child support and other crazy shit).
Dude you're a lifesaver. Instead of getting sucked into depression over stuff like this I'm able to sit back and laugh at it. Thanks for taking the edge off with your humor and wit👍
EsotericOccultist Never do that bro. Wamens are nearly worthless
Fuck that I’m forever depressed about females and I love it because it’s a genuine sort of disappointment knowing they could be so much more
@@off6848 wtf? lol
C note feels good to feel deeply about something that you know is true no guessing
@@roserevancroix2308 how old are you?
If you're dating at this point, you're basically picking up someone else's litter.
...you're basically piking up a little Hitler;
A little spoiled bitch-child with a feminism infection.
And it is spreading like cancer.
I'd rather pick up litter at this point, at least it stays in the trash.
Vast majority of women are only good for sex nowdays.
Good luck sifting through the trash, mental psychos, drug addicts, nymphos and gold diggers, and sociopaths just to find that one. You might get lucky. But the time you'll waste when you can better spend that time improving yourself will be considerable, to say nothing of the social and legal dangers you'll be putting yourself in. A rational and observant male, faced with these realities, will walk away.
@Faster Master Blaster agreed, that is what it is. I went on tinder a few weeks ago and lots of single moms matched me. I was thinking, am i really going to go on a date with somebody who I know I would likely despise just so i can use them for sex? Almost every profile of theirs says relationships onky and my kids. I just would feel bad for sleeping with her after she said only relationships.
Dating after 30 is a complete waste of time and money. You're basically shopping for a car at the junkyard.
Very True!
Lmao I'm stealing that dude. Great one liner. 😂
Exactly! But that junkyard car still wants you to pay the new car price
I love dating more and more at this age. I wasn't a man in my early 20s, mentally and emotionally. If you're in your 30s, fit and cool, women in their 20s like that.
duke1duke1 same. Life gets better
I'm 53, I get laid everytime a woman see my house. (You live here alone?)
Yeah.
One week later, "We should take our relationship to the next level"
My reply,, What relationship?
Lmaooooo I love it
Yep. Pump and dump no relationship ever. Not worth it anymore. Marriage is really fucked that's a prison sentence for a man. The man gets screwed by getting married. She's gets half of your pension, money and house and kids. No thanks
I hate when women do that "relationship to the next level" suggestion. ugh.
🤣🤣🤣
As soon as I bought a house my female friends told me I upped my game. Then they wanted to hook me up with their old friends. I passed lol
Well I was married 30 years to my x we lost our son to suicide he was 28 . Long story short she went off the deep end . Try dating in your mid 50s! I ran into single moms with kids in mid 30s early 40s with fucked up teenagers. All of them wanted to he taken care of. I finally gave up and quit looking. I finally became ok with being single. I put all my energy and time on me and and friends and grandchildren. I'm very happy!
Yup, about the same story. Last 22 years as a bachelor were the best years of my life.
You’re very lucky you had grandchildren, I don’t think I could be bothered to live to 50/60/80 if I didn’t secure by bloodline. If it was evident I wouldn’t be able to have children/grandchildren I wouldn’t really be able to justify the suffering that is life
single ladies with fucked up teenagers just like your son. Yes, unfortunately mental health issues are a thing that affect people from all walks of life, even your own child. Discriminating women for having kids with mental health issues is both hilarious and terrifying. Oh the double standards!
I'm 48 with a 4-year-old boy. My wife of 7 years died suddenly and unexpectedly 2 years ago. I was a MGTOW back when it began on the board where it began (in 2004), so I was already a MGTOW in my 30's who dated a bit. Then I met my wife. We had a good marriage. It took a lot to get me into that, but she was a good woman who idolized her father and didn't hate men.
Now I'm a single dad and haven't desired to date, EVER AGAIN and I don't even care. Sure, I'd love a good romp in the hay, but the cost of doing so is so astronomical, i.e. all the crap that goes with being with a woman, that I just don't need the bull crap. I've always enjoyed solitude. I enjoy it even more with my little boy.
I've tried to be brief.
Sorry for your loss. It sucks that you finally found a good one and she was taken away. Deep down I hope that I will find someone like that one day but Im not holding my breath. I hear you on the occasional romp though. Thats all I really need. I have no time to entertain these modern wahmens BS! Thanks for watching.
I've been a solo father since my son was nearly six months old, got seven years of it now.
I never let them know where we live...
Lucky for me I can get reduced rate on rooms at the resort where my friend works.
You'll learn about the discrimination that we as solo fathers face, if you haven't already.
I've found it's better to be a parent on my own than consider bringing someone into bubble.
Cheers!
GEG
@@GardenerEarthGuy Cheers to you sir. I haven't yet noticed anything in the discrimination department, but it's still early.
@@KeepingItKeith Me either. An old quote from Plato's Republik regarding a question asked of a man about love at his advanced age, and his answer is he's thankful to have been freed from bondage of the raving madman (of his sex drive). At 48, my jets have cooled just enough to where I don't have that alarming urgency to get laid like I did in my 20's and 30's. And I too am thankful for that.
@Dojocho Thank you.
Divorced Women who own their own car and house got it from the man in the divorce. They will lie and say otherwise though. Pathetic.
True. If she got a house, then it's via alimony or a huge amount of child support.
Also, word to the wise. If a single mom is living by the good graces of family (reduced rent, rent free etc take a long hard look).
This is true. ive seen it.
That is so true !!!! Women wouldn't have shit without men..
I know someone who separated from her sons father for x reasons. Then the guy came back and spent three years trying to recover the relationship. She kept breadcrumbing the guy but never really giving in. Finally he decided to move on and now she says look at what he did to me...
Man...
You are fucking right . See that everywhere . Briffault,s Law . Jeremy you are a smart man .
Words I never want to hear:
“You’re not my dad!”
Yeah do not ever date single moms
And if you really make Chad Jr. and Nevaeh angry, that abuse allegation is a comin
@@olegunnarsolskjaer337 fuck them kids just avoid single mothers so you dont have that problem.
But it is the truth ...You haven't fathered him/her
@@alphapimp0073 assuming women with no kids are even telling the truth that they have no kids.
This quote is awesome:
"Young chicks: a lot of maintenance, a lot of fun, expensive, hard on your body, hard on your mind and hard on your liver"
you said hard on 3 times huh huh huhhuh
@@elliebelly9362
That's a fair point Eleasha, but when the young lady mistakes love for sex more than a few times, she must know she's on a slippery slope to slutdom?
I'm divorced, 46, FULL TIME single dad(I've had my kids full time from jump), two boys, 14 and 11, and my 11 year old is autistic. I'm a freelance illustrator and designer who works from home(as I need to be there for my son all the time), and am starting a small business selling my art. No family even remotely close by to help, so I'm k-solo, 24/7. Needless to say, I DONT STOP...EVER. There's nary a moment when I'm sitting around without something that needs to be done. There's ALWAYS something. And with my son being autistic, there a lot of extra time, care, attention, etc that's required.
That all being said, I was literally having this same conversation about dating apps with someone yesterday and they were asking me if I still used them...ooofff...what can I say. What a clusterfuck. When it comes to dating apps, especially Tinder, if you're not paying to get your profile bumped up the feed(yes, its a business), you're essentially getting the bottom of the barrel. Not that the top of the barrel is any better, but man...what a mess. I just don't even bother any more. I cant front, I did have some success right after I got divorced. I was just starting to get red-pilled at the time so I was still pretty blue pilled on relationships and women and how things truly operate. And really, I just wanted to smash after my extended marital drought. But Tinder was just getting worse and worse and I ended up deleting it way back. Separately, with my situation what it is, I might as well be a leper when it comes to meeting women on a dating app. I didn't sugar coat who I was in my description. Yeah, I have kids. Yeah, I'm divorced. And essentially, yeah, I just want to get laid. Doesn't go over too well. No woman wants to be put second. For us single dads, our kids will ALWAYS come first. Then, taking care of all our day to day shit. Then work. Then our businesses. Then whatever else is on our plate. THEN women. Women don't want that competition, they know they can't win. All your time, money, resources, effort, etc, all go into your kids and getting shit done. No woman wants to compete with that. Most importantly, on these dating apps these women have a TON of hella thirsty betas orbiting 24/7, so they don't want to deal with all your extra baggage when they have so many other options. A few women have told me this first hand. "I just have too many other options..."(i.e.-rather than deal with all your shit).
Now, 5 years after my divorce and being fully red-pilled, as much as I'd love to get laid, I really just don't even want to be bothered. Its not worth the effort, takes too much time and energy, too many emotions get involved(on the women's side) and the payoff is a gamble at best. Typically, the juice is not worth the squeeze, as they say....
Just fuck them prostitutes bro. The only difference is that you are paying for the ones behind the windows. Just get laid and skip on the bs.
*the juice is not worth the squeeze* ... hahahaha ... spot on!
@@norarae3867 ? you are not a nice person... or more accurately, you have a heart disability.
Thanks for the novel
You are a hero. A man that understands fatherhood. I thank you for being a shining light.
Sadly, a woman in the same situation will still have plenty of men circling because of The Magic Orifice.
Also sadly, I'll bet there are a thousand women who would want a man like you, even with your "baggage." How to find and meet them, of course, is the challenge. I would guess it would happen by accident, not intention. A friend of a friend. Something like that.
What is ALIMONY?????
Is it a gift?
Is it a pension?
Is it unemployment?
What exactly is alimony?
Women do not work for men.
Wives do not ds.
An ex-wife gets alimony UNTIL she gets remarried??????
Why?????
Was she employed?
Was she enslaved?
Does she get a pension for being married?
Alimony should be a temporary subsidy UNTIL she GETS A FUCKING JOB.
Women can work.
Women are adults.
Women DO NOT need alimony until remarriage IF THEY ARE WORKING ADULTS.
Help is one thing.
A temporary subsidy is rational.
Alimony from marriage to marriage to marriage does not make sense.
Wedding vows are not employment contracts.
Marriage licenses are not employment contracts.
Women are not employed by men if they get married.
Women are SUPPOSEDLY EQUALS.
Women are SUPPOSEDLY ADULTS.
Women are treated as children BY THE GOVERNMENT.
Women are children to judges.
Women are children to Family Courts.
Equality means that a divorced woman GETS A JOB AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
NO ALIMONY.
NO SPOUSAL SUPPORT.
NO "ACCUSTOMED TO" ANYTHING.
Very true brother, all this feminist bullshit women just want "equal" shit whenever it suits them.. Men always get fucked over in the end.
This is gold💯
Flame Warrior Go rent a car at the airport. Return said car. Then, continue to pay for the car rental after you turned it in. Makes sense, right?
Matriarchy labeled patriarchy
Is this a poem?
Your dog is confused. Too many commands and no treat. One treat,one command.
Yes, dog is getting frustrated
Maybe that's what lead to his divorce.... Hahaha
Alisa Belove ... his ex wouldn’t sit & speak ?!
Harry Cojones There are many commands to be given, besides sit and speak. It's more like "barking" orders and not giving the "other" a chance to follow the first command before another one given. Geez are men on this channel dense?
Lisa belove what are you talkin about? Those are female to male tactics.
Dating a man with kids is a terrible idea too; not only do they have kids, they have a baby mama(s), that may be crazy. Too much baggage.
Right. He's a single dad too and his ex is technically a single mom.
@J K They totally do. I ended up taking care of my ex boyfriends daughter for a whole day because he wanted to sleep all day. It was the 2nd time I ever met her.
@Meh Maybe you didn't see the rest of my comment, it was only the 2nd time I met her. If he was comfortable with my taking care of her, so he could sleep all day, the 2nd time I met you, imagine what the future would have looked like. I would have became a parent, and I wasn't even the one who forgot the condom.
That’s the most hilarious part about this hot mess fh.
Yeah, I love kids (and can't have my own so I was fine with being a step-mum) but the ex-wife drama always ruins it.
Spent 7 months dating on Bumble/Tinder here’s the highlights
- Had a doctor stand up in the middle of a restaurant and yell at me for not ordering lemon in my water.
- Had a girl tell me she wanted to pick a bar for our first date...it was a BDSM club and her lesbian friends tried to pick me up and she ran out the door crying.
- Met a girl at her apartment and she took me inside sat me on the couch and said “you should know I’m fucked up and if you were smart you’d leave right now”....took me 3 months sex was the bomb lol....but yea lots of crazy stuff happened.
- Dated an actress who was totally off the wall our first date was to a house warming/acting party which was really an akward wanna be orgy party with a bunch of overweight weirdos.
It was mostly a mixture of toxic feminists, sexual abuse victims and narcissists.
And finally met a single mom in her 40’s and was with her for 3 years.....she was a covert narcissist/feminist and was a roller coaster ride from start to finish. Just left that mess a few weeks ago.
Its a wasteland out there on the dating apps. Once the fun of sleeping around wears off and you yearn for a real relationship and your in your 30’s.....God Speed.
incredible thanks for sharing--worse stories than anyone could imagine
Crazy dating stories we should all get together and write a book.
Maybe men sleeping around recklessly is what caused so much of this. How many of these girls were damaged simply because some horny lonely guy simply couldn't keep i in his pants?
What was the problem with the lemon?
@@jaybee6505 She was upset that I didn’t know the health benefits of having a lemon in my water. IMO she probably does something like this with every date. Things were going really good we were talking about Ohio State Football because her car was all decked out in it. Then we were on a convo about going kayaking...The waiter walks up and asks for our drinks. She says “ill have a water with lemon please” then I go “I will have the same minus the lemon thanks”. And it was on like Donkey Kong she stood up right then and there and tripped out it was fucking wild 😂. Then a few weeks later she liked me again on Bumble and tried to get me to go out again .
I feel your pain. I’m divorced, red pulled and 48. in every direction I have taken in terms of dating it feels like I’m settling for some mediocre situation. I’ve given it up basically.
Exactly! I dont want to feel like I am settling either. At that point I would rather be alone.
Go full Monk MGTOW and love life.
@new salt if you import ...plan to have a shelf life of about 4 or 5 yrs till after she gets her citizenship...protect your assets and start over if she bails....till you die
I'm 45, single and never married. I'm right there with you. I've come to the conclusion that at this age, a woman has nothing to offer me that I really want or need. The juice ain't worth the squeeze anymore.
Man, what the fuck? Look, adapt. You paying alimony or support? Get a roomate. Hell, get two. Tired of women? Find yourself and enjoy some down time. You do you!
Getting attached to western demons and their hellspawn. Lol. Nope.
They're fucking useless.
Stay the hell away from them.
Be your own man and ontrol your own life.
Sex and the City is one of the most poisonous shows imaginable. Human beings are seen as more disposable than shoes.
You mean "men" were seen as disposable as shoe
@@ActionNoJackson I never saw much of that show, but I think the female characters implicitly saw themselves as garbage to live that way. Disposable men, relationships, intimacy, and self. Nothing and nobody is sacred or valuable.
Never watched it, but have heard.
"I've had my fun. Now I'm ready to settle down."
Great. So when do I get my fun?
She hasn't told you to STOP pulling that plow yet...
You get ACTION BILLS! EXTREME CHORES! and become an EMOTIONAL PUNCHING BAG! YEAH!
Late 30s your good wait till your late 40s its over....hit 60 who cares...but if your a guy who can't be single...you won't be but..you'll probably be a doormat
When you dance with the devil, you wait for the music to stop.
When I think of a “hot mess” I just think of diarrhea. Nobody wants that. Ever
Always awesome to hear someone beat cancer. Best wishes from Minnesota👍 Hope Dan does well
Thanks! He is doing great. Finally got his main line removed so no more chemo!
Single moms are sooooo hard to date. Not to mention if you ever decide u want to break up best believe youre going to get the "So youre saying you just came into my son/daughters life and now youre just gonna fcking leave? thats the type of person you are???" Youll get that whole speech
I drink to that 🍻
I don't want to meet her kids.
@@KrimsonKannon1969 That is the right thing to do. Not to meet them.....I was young, dumb, and full of cum when i dated this single mother i am reffering to that when i finally wanted to end it(because she was insane, not stable at all) she threw a tantrum about what i stated above. They will try to guilt trip u with their kids.
Man single mom's and fuck her kids man. You don't deserve the shifty ass relationship
@@KrimsonKannon1969 Smart man
All true but you didn't mention the 37-45 range with no kids and don't want kids. I see a few of them online dating and usually they are successful and want a wealthy, good looking guy to travel the world with and generally have fun. She'll usually have a long list of requirements like the other categories of women.
Cpt Stephen Peacock yes I see this all the time . They have grown kids and an awesome job and house . Because of hypergamy they want the man who has more than they do .
was just at heathrow intl in london, and saw a few of them lurking around. strange b/c all of them would be doing the same thing. wearing nice clothes and shoes, and acting like they are shopping at the very high end stores like Cartier, Burberry, Tiffany, Vuitton, etc.
but they were also sizing up all the men that were around, and indeed that was their true motive, intention...
*BEWARE:* If she wants to travel, you can bet your ass it will be on *_your_* dime! You are just a means to an end; a vehicle for her to use to get what she wants. As soon as she gets bored or has no further use for you, she's off to find the next victim.
@@jeedwards1981 the above comment was talking about women who NEVER had kids, not women who have kids that are grown. ITS NOT THE SAME THING!
This is what the evolution of the workplace has brought us, and why those women - and greater numbers in the future - are doomed to loneliness.
Women are hard-wired to date/marry "up." But as they have worked/threatened/accused/litigated their way up the chain in the workplace, the number of men who qualify as "up" is now almost microscopic.
You reap what you sow.
I was divorced at 31 and met wife #2 at 32 - she was 34 - we were married at 39 & 42. It's never perfect, and is not always smooth & easy, but DAMN, she's 47, looks 35, and (ahem) everything else like she's 25. Both of us learned a ton from our first relationships and we have a lot in common. Winning!
That's why people should stay married, maybe the old traditional ways were there for a reason.
its sad
I totally agree
Boycott all women who do not conform to patriarchy. Don't marry them. Don't have kids with them. They can go to a sperm donor for all we care.
There WILL always be women who support patriarchy. Marry them and have kids. Trust me your kids will be better off than the sperm donated ones. And these kids will hate their single moms when they grow up and follow your model.
Sounds idealistic but even if it doesn't work, why not try it yourself. I mean is there another way except patriarchy in which you can live respectfully as a man.
@Charles Lee Ray Yeah, I was one of them. BTW, the women initiating divorce is "only" about 65%!
@Charles Lee Ray so true. Part of the reason our society is so fucked. Happiness is not the meaning of life
As a 22 (going on 23) year old young man, your perspective, advice, and stories have really opened my eyes to what kind of future may lay ahead. Its a crazy world that us young men grow up in. Tinder, Bumble, late night college bars tell us that women are always down to “have fun” but also want Mr. Prince Charming to sweep them off their feet on their wedding day (and also want to post all the pictures on facebook, because they have to show their old high school friends that they finally got that ring of course!) Long story short, keep up the good work. Great videos, nice stories, and a good message for us young men to ponder upon.
Peace N’at✌🏻
Congrats to Dan. Glad to hear he is well, and will pray for no recurrence.
Thanks! They said he is fully clear and not even in remission. Hopefully things stay that way!
I was deeply depressed over a bad breakup for over a year. I went out and did a ton of app dating and I’ve finally just accepted that the app dating pool is awful and pursuing it is really a waste of resources. Surprisingly, accepting that makes me feel better. This channel makes me feel a lot better about my situation. I’m almost 34, in the best shape of my life, no kids, making more money than ever, and saving towards FIRE within the next ten years. I’ve accepted that 99% of women don’t bring much to the table long term. Plan on moving to Asia when I’m done here. It’s a different world with the women over there.
It really isn't a different world. They will still suck you dry financially. You'll be on the hook for just not her, but her entire family. If you're just looking for pussy go to Thailand, but relationships are a huge risk wherever you go.
Joe Blow I agree. Most dudes only ever go to Thailand and Philippines and try to marry bar girls. You may be right, but I don’t think early 40s is too old to find a girl in her mid to late 20s and make it work, but maybe. I’m making too much money here to make the move right now. I’m in saving mode.
Joe Blow I was in Taiwan earlier this year and hooked up with a great girl for a week or two. I had to fight her to pay for things. If I didn’t have my money out right away, she just paid for stuff left and right. I’ve never had an American girl do that.
How do women bring nothing to the table yet you're planning to go to Asia to find happiness with women there??
My ex was 18 years younger. I wanted someone in my age bracket because I wanted a woman, not a girl. My first reaction to seeing women in my age bracket was “I am that old?” All of them look like grandma’s! Heck! There are grandmas!
This is so sad 😔
I'm a woman and I pretty much agree with you guys on a lot of stuff. Women are so demanding and expect so much from their men. My sister just about ran her man to the grave sadly, but you don't have to put up with it either and can still have a relationship. My man is IN CHARGE, not just because he's the "male" but because of the kind of person he is. He demands respect. If he wants to sit and watch a game I would not dare to complain. In fact I would get his drink ready because he deserves that and more. He works hard, treats people with respect, and takes care of what needs to be done. And I'm ready to take care of his others "needs" too vice versa for him lol. We enjoy ourselves hehe.
kleec0203 if what you said is true, you’re a rare gem, and your man is truly blessed.
@@eucalyptus303 That's what I was thinking. We may have actually found the mythical unicorn
I have met 5 women in my life that like you. All of them came from a home with a father in the house.
There's an old duo, The Captain and Tenille. Sappy music. I have an album of theirs, a headshot of the two of them. You can see her admiration in her eyes.
There is an wifi broadcasting nearby, the SSID is My Captain, Oh Captain." I love seeing that.
You are a ray of sunshine in this comment section. Too many men nowadays don't demand respect and a relationship without mutual respect is doomed
If you're dog had said MGTOW, I would have bought a bag of treats💯.
Shout out to Dan, 💪
Damn! I should have edited that in. Would have been hilarious!
Not only that, but they put in their profile nothing that describes them but a "just ask" response. I will not ask any woman since it shows their laziness in the intellect and the amount of effort they are willing to put into a relationship.
Mark Boyer this!!! A thousand times, this! “Anything you wanna know, just ask.” I hate that shit! You’re not that interesting, girl!
Wroger Wroger ..putrid juice not worth the squeeze
Five years ago I had harems in several cities - all women 12 - 25 years my junior. Now, Tinder. And what a coincidence! STD rates are up 95% in that time. The End.
The STDs are insane. I think something around 80% of people have HPV. Then you have all the others running rampid. When did wearing a condom become such a horrible decision?
@@KeepingItKeith I remember i met a chick off a dating app, to this day i thank GOD she told me she had HPV before i tried to smash. I didnt even know what HPV was until i googled it, i threw up in my mouth and deleted that hoes number asap. From that day forward I have been MGTOW monk, i rather watch porn and drain the snake then put my health on the line
@kirk patrick std rates are way up "cause guys are too effin stupid to use a condom !
Joe Blow your
Joe Blow ..... herpes is everywhere!
When I was 23 I met a 31 year old women with no kids and told her that I want to keep it that way. Today I'm 33, she's 40, we're married and no kids. life is good
41 you mean?
@@stopyourbullshit6231 omg youre right, dont tell her please lol
@@tunaXonXtoast hahahaha
Bless you guys
I know a guy that's dating a single Mom. Right now it's bliss. Lets see a few months from now. Good luck!
It has been a year. How is your buddy doing?
I have came to a similar conclusion , now I enjoy my freedom it's much more important to me.
No use for people who litter. I always pick shit up and put it in trash receptacles. Good vid again. Glad your brother is OK. My neighbor is 45 and he had cancer in his neck and they cured it so far.
I go fishing a lot and always leave with more trash than I brought.
@@Red0660 Tnx, I will pass that on!
Let’s be real. Old man Andy is the real star of this channel
He has been there through it all. Mans best friend. Marriage, 2 kids, move to florida, move back home, divorce, so many different homes! He is a champ!
That God damn dog is like 16 years old by now...Andy lol
@@metz35 you have been around longer brother! I've known you now the better part of 2 decades!
Basically he is saying don’t date anyone.. just learn to be happy by yourself..the right one will come if she does not it’s ok.
YESSSS I AGREE
I tried step parenting twice. The first time the stepdaughter dropped out of school, did drugs, and brought home the last kind of guy you want to see your daughter with and having sex with them. When I tried to stop it, she and her mom became violent. The second time it was a 3 year old girl I raised as my own for 12 years. When my own girls were born, I made it clear that she was the big sister. She was the perfect big sister. Everything appeared to be a model relationship. The perfect blended family right up to and until mom met some guy on line and filed for divorce. The stepdaughter instantly turned declaring that I failed to make her mom happy and that it was sexy that mom found the courage to find an upgrade. She then won her half sisters over to moms side. Seven years later, I am finally made up with my daughters. The former stepdaughter tried to reach out to me while attending my daughters graduation. I was the duck and rebuffed her.
What kind of crazy women have you experienced?? Thanks for watching!
Aren't most narcissists.
I've experienced the insecure and hysterical girl who compensates for her fear of being a spinster by embracing being a spinster.
I've experienced the girl who can't stop telling other people what those other people think, whether they think it or not. She would also do this with things like 'wants' and 'needs'.
And of course the girl who's bumper is about a foot or two away from a giant brick wall. She's used her sexuality for everything and its starting to not work and she doesn't know what to do.
There are others, but those were the last 3 before I said fuck it.
@@ltmoods4182 you can thank feminism for all the narcissistic women out there. Women think feminism is great til they hit the wall and have nothing to show for their lives.
@@kingbIIIr I can't stand the SJW types. They just have such a smug arrogance about them.
I could instantly tell in your face, you've lost weight.. Your face is much thinner.. Very Noticeable... Good on ya!
He's telling the exact truth regarding single moms. They want to move at lightening speed. NEVER date them and NEVER be a stepfather. You can meet a girl with college debt, but NEVER marry her, NEVER give her money, and definitely NEVER let her live with you or keep any of her property at your place including clothing, cosmetics, etc.
Ya got my like. Early sixties been single half my 18 year marriage 13 years after, she passed after 7 years. I felt bad for her but single free and I'm very happy. Live free!
I just turned 32. I got into medical school late as a second career and realize by the time I’m making Surgeon money, unless I find a wife between now and then, I’ll be in a very strange and precarious position.
Good luck, everyone.
I’m in medical school now at 25, but when I graduate according to these red pill guys I would be “hit the wall” goods. I’ve never dated, terrified of getting hurt or it’s B/c i don’t go out much, but it seems like everyone is effed. Men and woman.
@@jessves6939 you guys should date each other
I get it man...I got married in 2008, divorced in 2010, and it took 7 years of dating, working on myself, and understanding my value as a man in the world and in a relationship, before I found someone worth approaching with the idea of marriage again. Happily married now, to a woman who understands her value as a woman in the world and in a relationship, and we're expecting our 1st boy in another 10 days. I know things seem hopeless, because I was there too, but I'm 41, she's 32, and it can actually work. Keep up the great content.
The me too movement has made it much harder to date women. The dating game has changed so much since all this happened.
Its amazing that you can both meet at a bar, get fucked up, bank like rabbits, and then its somehow your fault the next day. Women fail to take any accountability for their actions.
It's gotten very dangerous - for the men.
I just don't do it, have too much money at this point. Will retire at 42.
Whenever I see a single mom, I think: what defect does she have that ran a man off?
Either she picked an asshole or she is the asshole. Most of the time its the latter....
@@KeepingItKeith Or both are assholes.
What a bunch of sad little men. Trash attract trash. You can't do any better than trash
I feel that dating/marriage is for young idiots. What do you think?
Nope. Only idiots.
Although men are more sexual because of testosterone, sleeping around for both men and women has made modern-day relationships messed up. A higher moral compass for both genders is required to be able to withstand difficulties and temptations in life.
This is the type of shit a woman would say.
@Max Raider True about how religion is seen by many individuals. Many think that religious people are hypocrites today because there is evidence that religious people are not above temptation so yes religious people do commit sexual immorality. However, familial and societal pressures do force people to be accountable for their actions.
There should be a society that punishes or shames immoral behavior just like what happened in the past. However, generations younger than mine worship SEX to an extreme level so teens, both genders, are so focused on losing their virginity as soon as possible. They also find their worth by sleeping around and bragging about it among friends. It is not uncommon to shame someone with this statement: "You are a still a virgin," (showing that society on average mocks virginity even for women nowadays).
In my family and clan, the women should stay sexually pure until marriage and remain loyal to their husbands until death or else there is this threat of physical violence (not saying this is good) or getting disinherited and ostracized (a big deal to the disowned clan member because my family and clan have money and land to pass on to the next generation). Our family and clan will only support other members financially in any endeavor if they uphold the clan's principles. Yes, we had some wayward family members and relatives so they faced the consequences of their actions.
The wahmen who say they want to date "like men" are disingenuous and hypocrites.Men may be more sexual than wahmen but men are rejected much more than the wahmen. The women who wanna sleep around are seldom rejected. And after a few years of "dating like a man",the sleep around woman will get a higher body count than most regular men. Then eventually,she will want to settle but the regular guys will reject her. Nobody wants to be the clean up guy... Sure,both men and wahmen need a higher moral compass but wahmen need it more because they can sleep around easier than most men ...
@@whatevergoesforme5129You are quite correct!
Older chicks are hot for young guys because they can be gullible, but they usually just wind up as the "practice chick" then its just goes down hill from there
I can hear the plain crashing now lol.
Same with old geezers young wemon just wants that experience for their young men.
I agree completely. I miss her kids but not her.I still have contact with her boy though.
stop.. don't
Dude, I'm 27, and I'm nearly done with women. They are either single moms, fat a'f, will cheat on you, or completely psychotic. My only Hope is I find a girl that's basically fresh out of high school/college, and had little to no past bf experience.
ScottyTaco yeah... good luck if they join any type of sorority.
ScottyTaco ..exactly.. 18 to 25 after that it’s game over
Take some college classes
Gotta get them before they ruin their ability to pair bond. You have to convince them to drop their whorish nature and cash the chips in. You'll have to sell the dream, but if it doesn't add up perfectly over time, they'll 100% resent and leave. It's an eggshells situation at best.
But family trauma is FIRMLY implanted by age 18 so....
I went monk mode so i don't want to deal with woman outside of my job
right there with you dude. women are too much hassle
My experience at 28 years old and divorced after ten years of marriage, was that the guys I met wanted sex the first date. That was a surprise to me. One cute guy who repaired my phone where I was working at the time, flirted with me an asked me for my phone number. I gave it to him and as he was putting it away in his shirt pocket, said, "I hope you're not one of those who say no to sex on the first date..." I said, "oh, I forgot to give you a second number where I can be reached..." He handed the slip of paper back and I said, as I tore it up, "Yes, I am one of those." I could write a book on how many ways there are of being a rude fool entitled to everything before earning anything. Also, most of them lacked intellect and a sense of humor and complained too much about work issues like a bunch of kids complaining to their moms about their teacher....If I were ever to consent to listening to the likes of this conditioned , opinionated guy, past a first date, I would go into counseling.
As a childfree man at 37 I refuse to date single mothers and divorced women.
Childless women at 35-36 are danger zone for sure.
Mark If only this guy had known about your advice:
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Mark I’ve observed three get married/pregnant very quickly this past year that we’re in my orbit. Well one isn’t married, she’s almost 40 and pregnant......
i'm afraid i fell for that trap 3 yrs ago.. always been dodging bullets all my life, but this one got me. Still beating myself for it till today..
@@ao6677 These types of women have baby rabies and just want to get that bun in the oven. Any guy who makes that mistake will be in baby jail doing 18 to life. So glad I went monk mode.
Mark so true!
I totally agree with the terrible pic women put on Tinder. Many appear to have put lazy pics up. Absolutely no effort given at all.
And, worse yet, is there's always atleast ONE simp that dates her. So, it reinforces that they can continue to be that way and still pick up guys.
Because, Women don't want to be objectified anymore ...They want you to love them for their personality...Hilarious !
Stepkids direct their Mom hatred to the new Stepdad...Always!
Especially the ones where the Bio Father is not around. Those kids are so brainwashed by their single moms that its almost child abuse.
Fuck them kids
@@KeepingItKeith Exactly like my ex wife. Her daughter was a total bitch to me by the end. She even stabbed me with a fork. She was a shit mum to a horrid girl. And horrid because she was so much like her lying, cheating bitch of a mum.
Dating after divorce... you didn’t learn your lesson the first time? ;).
Dating is ok, just don't commit to them long term or finance them.
At the end of watching this video and reading the comments, I got the feeling of "don't date any men who are divorced- they have too much emotional baggage from previous failed relationship, seem lost and frustrated, etc"
Women just get worse with age. The ones from 35-45 were the worst. I'm just being brutally honest.
I'm 48 and I've been divorced twice. First one was 16 months long, then 3yrs after a baby. Second one was 16 weeks long. I dated most from 2012 (41yrs)-2015 (44yrs). I had the most sex I've ever had in that period, but the women were the worst I've ever experienced. Most of them lasted 2 months before I ejected. I tried, but once they started talking marriage I was like "I'm out". I wasn't there to use them, but I just couldn't stay. The few women I did use I felt like it wasn't how I wanted to treat women.
Of course I'm sure they have no regrets about how much of my money they spent or had spent on them, so yea... LMFAO.
I found women I was dating in my late 30s post divorce to be by and large, boring as f**k. They didn't do anything, had a bucket list a mile long but wouldn't ever just take a weekend and check something off, their conversations turned to whatever tv show they were watching within 10 minutes, and other than their job, they didn't know anything. It was like, oh, so you're here just for the sex...ok I suppose. It was that or it was a total rush to get married...the second date they'd had already told you every way they met your needs, when I hadn't really said my needs/wants. And they would put out everytime you looked at your watch. These women I noticed were also very feminist, and still boring but at least they could talk about feminist stuff for hours...which doesn't really help them sell themselves or the sex.
What could women talk about that would interest you?:)
@@Faeriefungus Plenty. I've met women that are avid outdoors people, cyclists, radio operators. I've met plenty of women who are damned sharp in business....however, I've never tried to get to know them more than that. I know I'm pretty boring as a person, but the thing I think that defines me a bit more, and men in general, are our hobbies and what our mission statement is. Younger men have no mission statement so they sit in a dark room playing games, but women usually don't have a mission statement. If they have kids, they do of course...but 'getting attention from adoring fans' isn't a mission statement in my opinion, any more than eating all the food is.
Dig your channel man! Keep plugging along! I got a storytime for you. So, I live on a piece of property in a work/trade situation. So, instead of rent, I am the property maintenance guy on six acres, 10 to 15 hrs/week. The owner is a 66 year old woman,former stripper, former junkie, was married got divorced, never had kids.... She is slim and petite, so back in the day when she was in her prime, she wasted her best SMV years drinking drugging and strippin. She learned her business from her ex, then divorced him for all the stuff and became his competitor for customers. Now she has a few orbiters and a boyfriend (guys in there 60s and older). She bitches that the boyfriend won't commit, every day is drama and everyone/thing is out to get her... (Victim, men never listen or take her seriously, etc.)
She has been thru the hep c treatment (got hep c back in her party days), so, to sum up a 66 yr old whamenn that still thinks her V is gold.
I do as little as possible for the free rent, but her attention seeking behavior is funny in a desperate pathetic way. I write this to show that they still act like stuck up little girls at 66 years old if dumb simps still give them attention.
Bro. Women stay 15 until their death.
@@7s29 😂😂😂
Never date single mothers period!
Never date single dads period.
@@norarae3867, doesn't work the other way round. Women are harder to please, so when she finds a man she's genuinely attracted to she wont let the fact he already has kids get in her way. Single mothers are a dime a dozen and easily replaceable. Nice try though.
@@KeepinItOneHunnnid Yes it does work the other way around my brother and i were raised by a single dad brought up to never marry or even date someone with kids and this was in the 80s and 90s my dad taught us wise. you men today were not brought up to stay away from allready made familys. seems you men today love to date and marry women with kids rather then a women with no kids no baggage. which is ass backwards you men today are so fucked up in the head its quite sad.
This guy is only 3 years older than me? I thought he was in his late 40's or even 50.
The wall is undefeatable
Divorce will do that to a man.
@@_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_- Marriage u mean
Right? He looks my age or older!! Men can be in denial as well 😁
Yeah I don’t wanna be rude, but this is the third video I’m watching where I think the person is born mid 70s and they are younger than me. But I have a baby face, so maybe I’m biased
Based on my own experience from the 4 options you mentioned I definitely go for the younger women (23 to 28 years old), at least they bring two cool factors to the table: lots of fun and awesome sex. Just don´t give them too much attention, be one day loving and caring and another day be cold and distant, learn how to take them on an emotional roller coaster (they subconsciously appreciate that, don't ask me why), oh and of course NEVER CHASE THEM! And also if you play your cards right you don´t even have to spend that much money (without looking cheap of course), believe it or not if done correctly this makes them even like you and respect you more because you show that you are not a simp.
Order of the Eternal Doom when u get dumped by then, just pick up their younger sister..
@Order of the Eternal Doom I'll dump her when she turns 29 anyway.
@Order of the Eternal Doom like a real man who understands the bible and the red pill, I will sin through fornication and send the devil on it's way. I've broken up with every girl to ever come in my life naturally, now they stand no chance. Enjoy your heartbreak, hope you realize these thots ain't ish
Order of the Eternal Doom Actually he’s on some pretty advanced shit
Sin to salvation = Gnostic Alchemy
No use pointing this occult info out except that I’m a nihilist who breaks all the rules
They are always looking for their ‘partner in crime’, ask if chivalry is dead, and always ALWAYS mention how they love traveling.
They’re all dog moms too or if they have an actual kid “My kid is my world” 🙄
Cant stand the dog moms. Single women are HORRIBLE at raising dogs.
I love to travel........ let her tell you all the places and then know she has been banged in all of them. Women can't be slut shamed by friends and family overseas so they crank up the carousel to 11 and break off the knob.
I dated a millennial dog mom for a few months once. She would leave early in the morning to go feed this dog. I like to sleep in and love morning ass so I called her out on it. She equated having a dog to me having a child? To which I replied "So you'd leave your kid home alone with a water bowl to go bang your boyfriend? "
lol I didn't hear from her for days.
Dog moms are a nightmare. Her smelly ass dog sleeping in the bed with you...avoid like you would a single mother.
I'm surprised you are still doing the dating apps.
You are playing with fire dude.
I find myself just swiping for fun. I havent been on a date of any sort in years. I guess I hope that I come across someone like me and we can just bang. lol
@@KeepingItKeith : like I said... playing with fire.
There is no "just bang"
It all comes with a price and consequences.
I'm just saying...
Electro Man either or it's a gamble just pump and dump and keep going
Absolutely. However, it can create or give fuel to the illusion There are still Good, entertainable women out there hiding in the woods or smt. I personally think for men dating apps are more damaging then porn. Watching porn you can go light But dating apps is a certain way to destroy women for you. Indefinetely!
This is all quite immature .. why you still single again 🤣🤣.. you sound very bitter and I hope you don’t pass this negativity into your daughters .. there’s good men and there’s good women there’s bad men and bad women .. anythng else is just crying in your milk and bitching .. man up
Fascinating hearing this from a mans perspective. I am 37 single/divorced Mom of 1 teenage boy and on hiatus from dating until I get my shit together. Dating is exhausting and a waste of time to me right now. I feel good about taking a long break to work on me. The word “No” is my new favorite. I don’t feel rushed to find a man and know that as soon as I am ready, it will be better in the long run that I am gifting this time to myself and make for a more deeper meaningful relationship in the future as I won’t have ulterior motives, act out of desperation, or put up with bullshit. Thank you for your content.
I agree with him on 100% of this. The problem is why he thinks he's a catch with baby mama drama himself. Men and women both need to choose better early on.
Single mommy- Another man's garbage that they threw out their car window that nobody else should touch.
RPG 808 hahahaha umad
@RPG 808 nigga you mad because you raising another man's kid 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Basically every woman is another man's leavings
Uh-oh, RPG is triggered. Must be a step "daddy ". Better get that laundry done before your old lady comes home.
I bet Marks mom was a single mother 😄😄
true for single moms ...had 1 chase me last yr ....she went to grooming me right away..nope..not my thing
thanks for the informative content as usual since i'm in a different age bracket my dating pool consist mostly of girls in their 20's. I'm 24 , have a well-maintained physique, articulate myself well in most social settings and pretty much women from every category works in my favor in the beginning interactions , but the red flags that these women show are all the same. Every girl I've interactive with in their twenties are chasing social validation, career development, or just wanna party. Their is a downside to all these women though, and even the mythical "good girl" who is quirky and nerdy is capable of manipulating you. The red pill philosophy is a solution to modern dating and can save most men costly mistakes
Before I consumed the red pill ideology I was oblivious to things like SMV (sexual market value), hypergamy that women instinctively have. Just wanna say content creators like you , coachgregadams, entrepreneur and cars are changing lives. after consuming content like this I improve my career , my fitness has increase , and productivity is through the roof. The whole process of going through dates just to get to the desired end goal of wanting to get laid isn't a good return investment of my time. I still believe their are women who are virtuous but the probability of meeting one these women is so low that you might as well focus on yourself.
Wake up , get better daily , get your needs meet here and there and maybe keep couple women around long-term around if they benefit YOUR FRAME.
I'm younger too and I will say from personal experience its hard to find good quality men just as much as it is for you to find good quality women. As a young woman who never whored herself out in college and who was looking for a serious relationship it was extremely difficult to find a guy who actually wanted more from me than just sex.. I think modern feminism has played a huge role in making men think all women are man hating obese chicks, but like you mentioned in your comment there are still young women out there who hold more traditional values and know that a relationship is a two way street not just one sided and have a lot to offer in a relationship.
I'm divorced and childless in my 40's and the things that you say makes alot of sense. It's interesting to hear what it's like from a man's point of view because I've had some disappointing and even scary dates and relationships. It's a whole different ball game in your 40's.
I’m going through a divorce now and this was absolutely HILARIOUS... just made my day😊
You're so candid and unfiltered, I love it... So hilarious😄👍👍
P.s.- You look like Phil Miller from The Last Man on Earth 😂
You sound like you found the Red Pill the hard way.
Definitely avoid the single moms. They can be fun, but they have an expensive agenda. I dated a few. The worst was a mom with three upset teens. They loved causing drama. They loved costing me money. It was a nightmare.
The problem with online dating is that women have the ability to fake it all the way. It will unravel. Fortunately I have never had one try to cover for a deranged ex. They are out there.
It happened to me now I'm in Navy and all these bitches I tried dating now trying to hit me up on Facebook lol. They were good looking 5 years ago at 18 but now I'm 23 they all married, divorced,fat, out of shape, broke , and single moms
Can't stand litter bugs. Throwing cigarettes out the window. Im 37 as well, divorced about a year soon. Haven't dated and have been living in peace.
I cant lie back when I smoked I would throw cigs out the window. So glad I kicked that habit!
@@KeepingItKeith yeah, I can't stand cigarette smoke. Good for you, good stuff man. I think I'll be single forever. One marriage was enough for me, that's for sure.
I'm a big littler bug and will keep doing it
@@jamesgreen6376 cool, hope it makes you feel better.
@@jamesgreen6376 thanks ur the only one ive seen so far to admit to this
I LOVE the outdoors and litter drives me batty! When we go hiking,fishing, tubing etc. We (teenboys and I) take extra bags to clean up.
I had a similar experience when I found myself single at 30, albeit w/o kids. Dating has completely changed in the last 10 years. I found early 20-somethings to be far too flaky these days even when they enjoyed my company. AVOID SINGLE MOMS & 29+ SPINSTERS LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!! I found it best to focus on things that I enjoyed & not to be preoccupied with women. It's a waiting game & the sun, the moon, & the stars all need to be aligned in today's day & age for it to work out with a woman. 24-29 is the best target age for a successful man in his 30s but it's still no guarantee. Find a woman who's happy being single in that age bracket that would like to find a man but thinks it's hopeless. Make sure to find out early on how her relationship is with her father. If she doesn't respect her own father, she will NEVER respect you.
Congratulations to DANGER DAN!
N'at, love your videos man.
I always encounter the Narcissistic Single Mom type - among the worst of them.....single moms that have the nerve to act like they are bringing so much to the table.
Agreed. Todays modern woman is extremely narcissistic. Its an epidemic.
1. Younger chicks: most of them don't know who they are or what they want to be if they ever grow up. If they do know, you'll probably end up training someone else's future wife once she gets a clue and realizes what she wants, she'll probably dump you and hate you, particularly if you lead her on. Far too much work unless she's training herself to please you before you date.
2. Single moms: I don't have kids, so I don't date moms from the school, but most single moms don't know how to make good choices or recognize that they can't ask full price for used merchandise. I dated two right after I was divorced, but I was so far down on their priority list that I could not date them and not be any lower on her list. As you said, they're usually not able to survive on their own, and if they have a pot in which to piss, it's either because they're using sexuality to make money or because they took it from their ex.
3. Single women in 30s. Women look at single men in their 30s who were never married as menaces to society, and single women that age bracket make me wonder why nobody wanted them. Often, besides having their biological clock tick, they're frequently the kind of woman that nobody wanted to keep in the first place. Sure, there are exceptions, but unless you're jonesing to reproduce, this is something to avoid.
4. Anyone older than I am. They're intransigent and intractable. Their ruts run so deep that they're not going to change their lives to accommodate mine. Their idea of compromise is that I give up everything I like and have and am in order to conform. They demand to be accepted for who they are and then demand that I become what they find acceptable. Ironically, I have my act together. I'm in my second house, I have multiple cars that I maintain, an education, a career, a retirement plan, and a life, and that after my ex wife socked it to me in the divorce. I've recovered, so why would I compromise that just for the pleasure of company for a few years before I have to tend you as your body wanes?
You might as well be gay. Come on son
@@joeroot9142 Don't have to be gay. Just have to live life without them. Epicurius allegedly once said that no man has been elevated by sexual intercourse but many have been brought low through it. So, hard pass.
Nailed it on the head with the whole “No one night stands” on women’s profiles.
Quick story: My dad waited til he was 47 to get married & have children. This was back in the early 70's. He was janitor his whole life who made minimum wage & was living in a rooming house at the time. It was a different era, but even back then, he said no American woman wanted a middle aged guy who made minimum wage. He decided to save his money & try his luck finding a wife in Guadalajara Mexico. He was there less than 2 weeks when he met my mom who was 23, 5'3" 110lbs at the time, through a "lonely hearts" radio show. They married about month later. He brought her back to the states & quickly started a family. They remained blissfully married until my dad died in his late 60's. My mom is so faithful to my dad that she's never remarried or even dated another man since my dad's passing. I don't know if Mexican women are like this anymore, but it might be something worth considering. Best of luck my friend!
its horrible. I had a short marriage in early 20s, but ended up marrying a woman with 2 kids when 39...and it was a disaster. I was perfectly content until 9 months after we married, she confronted me and asked me "Do you think we are going to make it?" It was my first clue she was unhappy. From then on it was finding her laying across the bed crying when I got home. She ****tested me and shamed me, demanding I apologize for things I didn't do. Accused me of chasing other women when she could see me on the tractor feeding cattle a half mile away. She demanded another apology for an imaginary slight and I refused. So she went to Tulsa to her dad's house. I told her to stay then she fought the divorce tooth and nail...the judge finally ordered her to sign the papers or pay all the court costs. She called me everything in the book. Now she follows me around on FB like a puppy - I ignore her, and she has been married a couple more times since...once to a guy from Trinidad who didn't bother to tell her he was already married... ha ha
I'm in my late 30's. i love my wife, she is the best relationship I have ever experienced. But she is still crazy, naggy, and generally selfish. After being in many relationships AND observing many relationships around me, I have concluded that ALL women are a net burden in a relationship. If somehow I ever wind up single, I will NEVER marry again. I very likely will not even entertain getting into a relationship. It simply is not worth it.
@GunsAndPoker that is my point, they ALL are like this. Some act this way all the time, others only act this way a few times a year, but they ALL are like this. The only way to not deal with it is to MTGOW, which is fine when you no longer care about sex.
I listen to Patrice Oneal material and he has a LOT of great theories on the nature of men and women and how to keep your woman in check.
Basically his theory is that all women are innately irrational and controlling, you can't even blame them for it, it is simply in their DNA. Then he goes through many ways a man needs to act in a relationship to counteract their bullshit in a way that allows for both of you to be happy. My wife nags, but I put her in check immediately (and publicly if necessary) so now her bullshit is seldom and manageable.
But yes, if I am ever single again I will be at an age where I am simply done with the bullshit and will be too tired to train another woman to act right. Therefore I will simply be out of the game.
@Cakesandrainbows Rainbowsandcakes I notice that your husband is not the one commenting here about how happy he is. His wife is on here (patting herself on the back about how great she is) letting us know how happy he is.......................
Your comment must be true though, because no woman has ever misrepresented her life to make herself look better online...................
@Cakesandrainbows Rainbowsandcakes again, you really don't know if your husband is happy. I know of many marriages where the man divorced his wife after 20 or more years because he was quietly waiting for the kids to be grown. These men lived quietly unhappy for decades just so their kids could be raised by a mom and dad. Once he no longer had the since of duty to keep the family together for the kids, these men divorced their wives at great expense financially and socially. But so many of you women live your lives so unaware or even concerned about what your husband wants or needs from you. You THINK your husband is happy because he is not complaining. He is usually not complaining because he is busy trying to keep little princess happy so she doesnt throw tantrums. I am not saying this is your marriage, but what I am saying is you have no idea what the average relationship is like for a man.
@Cakesandrainbows Rainbowsandcakes I know a lot of women who are great wives. This discussion is about a subset of damaged women. The problem is that it's the damaged women who are on the market, because the good ones don't get divorced.
I'm 42 this month... Oh dude the average woman under 25 is a 4 at best. I don't even give women over 24-25 any time at all. They're not worth it.
Good luck finding one that isn't grossly overweight.
@@samsmith3025 I know a few that are what we used to call "average" when average meant healthy in appearance. Now average means 20 extra lbs, if not a lot more. I go for the trim/fit ones. The rest are toxic!
So true. They have learned that if they just give up the sex then they dont need to worry about their appearance. There will always be a simp ready to take over!
@@landmassproductions It all relative unfortunately, they gain 2-3 points just by being at a normal weight.
@@samsmith3025 the average woman these days has a healthy BMI between the ages of 18-19. After that it's all just extra skin and fat.
You're a single father... Turn this video into the reflection of yourself. "Man can't afford a valuable woman, because he has kids, and his ex took half," pfft... humbled...I do wish you well in your search for the "right" woman for you, and your family.
I ageeee. I’m a man. I hate baby daddy’s running down single mother’s. Like hello you do the SAME
You seem a really honest bloke with a pleasant demeanour, it’s so sad in this modern world that people with good characteristics go unnoticed. People are looking for 24/7 happiness in a throw away society. Only when people are in they’re 60s and 70’s will they quit being an arsehole, and want to settle because they don’t want to die lonely. Strange that the only group where marriage rates are increasing is this one! Tis a sad world we live in.
Saw an arabic family out walking.. They did exacty that, just dropped a can of soda right down, so I picked it up and ran after "HEY! Didnt you forget this?! Hey?! HEEEY?!" They were suddenly in a hurry and my friend with me laughed out of joy.
Ps: I'm 42 and get hit on by 23 year old dudes. Goodlooking ones aswell.
Same. I get hit on by more younger dudes than older. I'm not into it. Never dated anyone under 35. Stop it boy, I'll tell your momma!
Pretty accurate stuff here. Very slim pickings if you’re a high value man looking for a woman with her shit together and no baggage.
@darby o'hara there's no such thing as a woman without baggage.
Frank Juster of course there is. It depends on your definition of baggage but I’ve dated women that came with no baggage
OMG this was hilarious for me to watch. I was divorced at 27 and I never got married because I focused on my daughters and me. I worked my butt off too. I am now 56 and I can say I have met some really nice men and some creeps. Loved the male viewpoint.
What I found on Tinder, women looking for someone to save them from their lives and prostitutes. Literally every chick 25 and under is a sugar baby/prostitute on there, and everyone else is looking for someone to fix their lives. On the single mother conundrum, its hard like you said, the relationship with the mom and with the kids are separate, and maybe you hit it off with the mom, but the kids aren't feeling it, or vice versa you really get along with the kids then things go south with the mom. Its more work than its worth. That's the unfortunate truth about relationships and women in general, just a cost to benefit analysis comes up making them a bad idea. You sacrifice way too much of your time, resources, and peace just for sexual access and some company.
I got divorced at 37 (51 now). I've dated women over 40 or so since I was around 20. Women under 35 are almost universally awful.
Every older woman I tried dating just wanted all the works (dating; drinks; dinner; travel; dancing; etc) until you start to ask them, what can you offer me? Older women are just as spoiled.
Throughout my 20s and 30s I dated modestly but had many single friends, male and female. As I got older I found that single, never married men were becoming fewer and divorced men with children were becoming my norm. I HATED it. They expected sex from you as they offered you NOTHING. Their children were understandably resentful of you. The ex-wife either hated you or wanted to tell you of the ex's faults or both.
I chose not to participate with them beyond friendship and an occasional dinner. They still wanted to whine about their ex or bash women in general, such a turn off. Usually lost interest after the second date. After the second divorced dad I vowed never again. Found a good guy (never married & no kids!) who was a mature GROWNUP who pursued ME. We became great friends, then we became lovers. Two years later we married.
Quality people of either sex are hard to come by.
P.S. NO ONE is going to love you as much as your first wife/husband.
When I was 25 I met a good lookin lady that was 43 so yes she graduated high school the year I was born. It was fun, I had full control... probably how women feel!
You are so cute and honest!
Signed by woman who is:
• almost 40
• divorced for almost 3 years and healed
• has 1.5 job
• no kids and don’t want her own kids but likes humanity (that’s an Aquarius thing)
Have a nice day. 😊
Fellow aquarius here. Good work on getting your shit together. I will never lump all women under one umbrella. I just speak about the majority. For my daughters sake I still have hope that there are good ones out there!
Conservative N'at Thank you, you are amazing human being !
Keeping It Keith LMAO. You talk shit about women, lumping us all in one category in your videos, until a woman posts a nice and normal comment.
As my grandfather used to say, “As long as it’s still there, I don’t give a damn what color my hair turns.” 😂
As far as dating apps, I’m blunt in person, so I’m blunt on my bios. So as you can imagine, they don’t work for me. Lol
Good video and so true. I was divorced in my late 30s and I can so relate to you. After 6 years I ended up married to a younger woman 15 years younger. I did the dating thing much in the same way you have. What I found to be true after awhile was I had to ask myself "What do I want"? Eventually I lucked out and found someone who shares my values, a friend, a partner, and someone who I could respect. No one is perfect but I found someone I could deal with and she can deal with me. I hope. lol. It took awhile but I was in no hurry after my 13 year marriage ended I needed to decompress. I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. If I had to give any advice it would be enjoy being single. And if and when you are ready for a serious relationship write down all the qualities you want in a partner and target that. You might not get all you want but I found it helpful. I have now been married for 8 years and we are still both very happy. Thanks for posting this video. Man did it bring back the memories.