It is way better for the children to know whats going on in the house, especially when its something like this. Seeing or hearing your father hit or "punish" your mother without any context you would see it as abuse. But being they BOTH are consenting to the terms of the dynamic, its completely different. Plus they state that he doesn't even kit hard enough to leave a mark.
@@lesliecurtis8073 as someone who has direct contact with Atyiana every day, ive asked her personally. and no, she says it doesnt bother her at all. she finds it a little odd, but shes indifferent about it otherwise
Their 13 year old child is extremely intelligent both intellectually and emotionally. It’s saddening she has to be around this, but the fact she can distance and understand it’s not for HER, at 13, is astonishing.
I had abusive controlling crooked father, my mother delt with that for 20 years, I and my siblings had to handle that for 10 years. She then got remarried but after 2 years he commented suicide when I was 6. This is an example of rough. All the shows on this channel are crooked and are examples of horrible marriages
@Kenzi Ghost I don’t disagree that the parenting style could be good, even great. I don’t agree with their relationship style, but they seem like good parents, to have a child that intelligent
@@skyesgeckos5726 yet you know about it? Like, I'd understand if you where over the age of 16, but it's weird that they literally hang up picture frames of rules for your moms punishments.
idc what theyre doing but what happens when their kid has friends over? poor kid will be so embarrassed from them pictures on the wall, at least do all this in your room
That is child neglect when u teach kids this .I'm a sub but in a mutual enjoyment situation I believe domestic discipline is abuse though cuz of the gender issue a woman can not be the hoh ,but then to include your kids by their actions is neglect
A child should be completely unaware that one of their parents disciplines the other, whether for real, or for kink. Maybe they can have “the talk” with their teens at some point and just say, “We’re kink positive, so don’t be afraid to come to us with questions,” but that should be it. Kids-especially sons-won’t respect a parent-male or female-who receives the same discipline they do.
Because they're being lead by the Jezebel spirit...or some other evil spirit. You don't realize, bc it's not like an actual dark figure in the corner telling you to do something... only when you've been saved will you see things for what they really are.
There are two things about this that really bother me. 1. Their kids actually know about this. 2. SHE DOESN’T LIKE IT. Why would you make this a part of your relationship if you don’t enjoy punishment?! It makes no sense.
I was confused and I wasn’t sure if I heard it right. She doesn’t like it but SHE’s the one who wanted her husband to do it? He doesn’t like it but she wanted him to do it? Something is not right. And yes why do the kids have to witness this? Keep it on the bed room but the kids will think it’s normal
@@whitedragoness23 Unlike some wives in CDD marriages, she doesn't receive sexual or emotional gratification from it. Why does she want it? Because her interpretation of the Bible led her to believe it is Christian and a part of her religious practice that the husband be the head of the family and, as such, have the authority to guide and punish.
@@vargvikernes4859 She WANTED it but, unlike many CDD wives, doesn't enjoy it. She believes it is religiously right and that it will help her become a better person.
@Varg Viking nah 4:20 ahe literally says she doesnt enjoy it. She said its not bdsm its domestic disciple that she doesnt get any emotional or sexual pleasure from. Why do they do it when neither party likes it? I have no clue! They most likely going to get divorced and used this to "save" the marriage.
I feel like they shouldn't have been so open about it with their kids and then place it all over the house. The son could get confused and see it as the norm and could possibly be abusive one day.
I was looking for this comment smh this is why a lot of people that are into bdsm have to struggle with these misconceptions because some people like this exist... where they involve their children.
But if the kids never see the dad put his hands on the mom in any way they're not witnessing abuse. and if someone whose parent who was not into this lifestyle I can tell you I witnessed verbal and got verbal abuse from my parent grandparents just like many and multiple other kids. So is the true problem with this lifestyle that y'all don't agree with it because the kids have no problem with it obviously going off of their opinion and the kids are better equipped knowledge wise for if they decide I want to try this lifestyle or not when they get older
Kingjay the boys are still very young. Just because they don’t WITNESS the dad putting his hands on the mom, they still acknowledge what is going on in that house. They can grow up thinking putting their hands on a woman is okay. Your point is dismissed because these are very young children and have no business being acknowledged of their kink fetish...
As a kid I witnessed my uncle beat my aunt with a belt like she was a child. It was traumatizing and I will never forget it. I told my father about it and being a martial artist he taught me some real life defense moves. His words were don't you ever let a man mistreat in anyway and if he does, lay his a%& out. And that I did do. Sorry playing games like this can cause someone to seriously get hurt. But to each his own.
If it's traumatizing watching this happen to an adult, imagine going through this as a child. Bottom line, no matter the age, no one should be physically punished.
Usually when your partner makes you consistently unhappy you leave them and find someone that makes you happy. The dynamic of their relationship allows him to mold her into what makes him happy which probably makes her more secure. Judging from everything else I saw, she going for a superwoman vibe.
I guess the idea is that spanking makes her behave better and prevents bad behaviour from becoming a habit which could lead to arguments and divorce. So she is willing to suffer for a few seconds, because those benefits are worth it
She said herself that it’s a Dom/sub relationship...THAT’S THE D AND S IN BDSM!!! That said, I believe the kids do not need to be exposed to this aspect of their relationship. This is between the adults only.
@@HaleyEden Over time BDSM has become a sort of umbrella term for anything considered a kink or fetish; I say both kink and fetish because they are not inherently or always the same thing. In other words, these activities may or may not have, but do not require, a sexual component. But I believe that distilled to it's origin as an initialism it is as I listed above.
This entire situation is demeaning, disgusting, disturbing, and right down DDD.👀 And the saddest thing of it all is that she chose this lifestyle and that's eye opening indeed.
@@BettieBoo I'm judging hard, no I'm spitting facts that apparently people these day's are to scared to spit out their mouth's. They want to Sugarcoat everything, well not this chick, I won't do it.
I only agree with this since the child was exposed to this. Otherwise this stuff is completely fine on its own. Like… there is MUCH worse than this tbh. Some people just like the lifestyle and choose to live in it. I don’t see how it’s a problem really. Eye-opening is a bit of a stretch. I mean, this is technically something that has existed for decades. So this isn’t a very weird thing to see… except exposing it to the children.
@@FuzzPit The point being made here is that the couple is being dishonest about the true nature of their relationship and how "DD" plays a role in their lives. They're vague as hell. We never get to understand why she needs to be physically disciplined in order to follow his rules? This type of behavior screams: "i need to be hurt or tortured in order to feel loved and have a long lasting relationship". It's illogical, but it's their lifestyle and they can live how they chose. We'll know how this all turns out when the children grow older and express how they're parents kinky relationship affected them..
My daughter and I are extremely close, just because she doesn't want to do this lifestyle when she's older doesn't mean she's distancing herself from the family
@@BrandiLazJustUsRobinsons PREACH! people pass so much judgement. i was on a documentary from this channel back in 2008/9 and my family got hate too. if this lifestyle works for y'all then go for it! y'all are wonderful people.
Yeah. Because more than likely after witnessing and living with her parents arrangements she has decided that she will be lesbian. Smh. Listen how she answers the questions toward the end of the vid, and her responses in the comments. Smh. Her parents have corrupted her.
Hella Kels I am too. Completely wrong. Get the children out! More wife abuse. Foolish couple. Terrible husband. No way does she feel confident and positive about her own self worth. If people put their story on UA-cam then become all hurt and offended when people are not accepting spousal abuse.
I pray for the daughter - she seems emotionally intelligent+, hope all the children shine thru. This helps me understand other 'uneven' relationships.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
ua-cam.com/video/CfTLMcc9hxA/v-deo.html - so? You still want to be like the wicked ones, corrupted and only after money? And no, I do not ask from you to go and to learn to be a doctor yourself, no, I do not ask it. What I do ask is, to pray, have a change of heart and mind and pray. Build up the once lost relationship between you and GOD.
@@sweetenlemons8659 Ik but don't you think if she really really really didn't like it she would put an end to it right then and thier bc she still has the ability to do that? But idk, just a thought 🤷🏽♀️
@@Faith-lc6yj of course she isn't being traumatized by it or anything. But it still makes no sense that they continue doing it. I get that it's a lifestyle thing, but there's better lifestyle choices then whats happening here. Like, seriously if the father can be in order without a punishment, why does the mom need to be spanked? Just a thought.
My reply to someone else's question in a comment, I will copy and paste: Possibly a sense of structure and organization in the relationship and commitment, kind of like having a work life. But provided throughout with the relationship and commitment.
She tricked him into being an alpha Male. Sad part is the boy kids may grow up thinking it's normal to spank your partner and turn out actually abusive
I think she must have been abused before allot then she found a good partner finally and makes him abuse her without it going to far because he was too “nice” not something she was use too
I find the saddest part about all this the fact that he was clearly a nice non abusive man and she convinced him to not get upset when he hits her even though he did not like to see her hurt. Also this type of stuff I believe works against the all the campaigns and teaching that the world has done to work against violence against women 😞
I agree with this completely. Whilst BDSM is and always has to be between 2 consenting adults. I see so many cases where the man's explanations for violence is because they were in that type of relationship.
YOUR KIDS SHOULD NOT KNOW THE “INS AND OUTS” OF DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE!! Obviously don’t mean that in a sheltering type of way, I mean they shouldn’t have to see that and only hear THEIR opinion on it because chances are, they’re gonna grow up thinking that’s okay and/or normal and that would obviously effect their future relationship and just simple ideals and view points majorly! OR it could end up traumatizing them in a way, it’s proven that children hide or tone down how they really feel to please adults. I don’t know about you, and I obviously don’t understand since I didn’t grow up in that environment, but seeing or hearing that would make me feel very uncomfortable and I don’t think as a kid, I would’ve been comfortable enough to say that especially with how they seem to view things in THEIR relationship.
Nah. Withholding information seems to be the smart, safe and sensible choice. Right? Don't tell them anything about sex, kinks, drugs and violence. Or intimacy or lust or boundaries. Don't talk about yourself at all. Keep them dumb and they'll figure everything out by themselves the day they turn 18. It works perfectly. Super safe. Never fails.
@@doggytheanarchist7876 I’m sorry but did we not just watch the same video? Those are not the “ins and outs of domestic discipline” any child should be learning about and much less witnessing, how much more likely do you think that makes the CHILD to be a domestic violence victim or abuser? They should learn to NOT do it through example. They should learn how to solve issues through mediation not altercation. I was raised by a mother who didn’t believe in censorship and nor do I, but this isn’t censorship that I was speaking about, I was speaking about INFLUENCING something that is just simply wrong. Do you really think that they asked their children if they felt comfortable with them doing that? THAT is more like censorship than what you were whining about.
@@doggytheanarchist7876 You are super ignorant if you think there's no reasonable middle ground between withholding information about life from your children and making your BSDSM lifestyle part of your children's upbringing. You didn't watch what everyone else watched.
this isnt okay, they are showing terrible behaviour to their children, the children will grow up thinking this is okay. the parents are showing a terrible example for their children, please stop this.
I'm sure there are many other unseen oddities going on in that house. You put a camera crew with those people for a week and I guarantee you find out they drink blood, listen to LeAnn Rimes and founded a local chapter of Scientology
@Mason Crowley lmaoo well clearly those 'bad habits' are still continuing since there is still spanking going on. So either it's not fulfilling its real purpose or they're lying to us about what the real purpose is. I think the real purpose is pleasure tho... juss sayin
Imagine your biggest fear is your husband leaving you for another woman. You compensate for this fear by being the 'ideal' woman. You cook, you clean, you submit and you live in the security that if he's not happy with you, he'll correct you instead of leaving you. That's what I imagine the appeal is.
I think they misunderstand what being submissive means. A man is only supposed to be head of the house if he is a man of God and a true man of God would never punish his wife.
Basically fifty shades of grey in real life. Imagine being their kid and inviting someone to the house and your friends see those pictures with “you will be punished” they’ll be walking out the door right away😅
all i can hope for is that the children grow up acknowledging the fact that this is really unusual and that it is not how pretty much everyone else works.
It probably makes her feel like the ideal woman. She cooks, she cleans, she raises her children, she obeys her husband's every wish. She's getting her Donna Reed on. As long as they're happy.
@@MissKashira ikr...not sure why it’s unbelievable for folks to understand why some women like that kind of life. I don’t agree with their decision to have their children witness the physical aspect of their dynamic....but otherwise I don’t see anything wrong with this tbh. Definitely couldn’t be me, but if she’s happy, when who are we to say that she’s not?
I would have filed for divorce if nothing let up, because that is abuse and should have left to the kids if they broke a rule! Sir, she is not your daughter, she's your wife!
Physical violence in a relationship is never okay. She is teaching her daughter that it is acceptable to be spanked and punished by your partner, absolutely insane. And what’s up with the stockpiling? Apocalypse coming?!
Hey! Atyiana here (they misspelled my name). But I know the difference between abuse and this style of relationship. My parents have instilled into all of us, that this is something that they chose to do. And that this is not something we have to do. They make sure we know that this is completely consensual.
@@maddiemmxo now that’s a stretch and a half!!!! i once found some next genderbend naruto fanfic where they boiled naruto, sasuke, etc alive (they found it sexually arousing ig) and ate them…. 💔💔 i’m still traumatised 😾
I came straight to the comments EDIT - these people are a mess . Some are saying this is a Dom and Sub relationship but I do not believe it is . She states it's not as there is no sexual pleasure derived and she does not enjoy the ,what essentially is, abuse . I hate that the children are witnessing this -we learn from relationships that we are exposed to when we are young . This is something that could definitely get out of control easily .
There is nothing terrible about my marriage. After you've been married for 13 years and are successfully raising a family (kids all by the same person) then you come and judge what we do.
Say what you want, there are millions of women who are worse off. Looks like a somewhat stable-ish family with a house, nice kids, a dog, a working husband/dad and a damn lawnmower..! A lawnmower! You know what I'm talking about. Ok, She 's a bit crazy, but if all that takes to keep the family together is just the occasional consensual spanking, .. what the hell. Better than where I grew up
@@BrandiLazJustUsRobinsons you’re exposing your children to a BDSM relationship that they’re not part of. You’re publicly humiliating your daughter, that’s your kink not hers.
Alyssa Leiby they are in here. Look through the comments the little girl name is sky and replied to damn near most of them trying to defend her mother. The mother has commented from her page as well
Yeah. So far this comment is thought I had watching this. I get it. I can even understand it. Why is it out here for all the heathens of the world to see?!?
@@xXAnni3LuvsYhuXx that’s their choice. because that’s the dynamic. Some it’s wi the the female as a dome and the male a a sub and other b it h of them are switch’s. That’s their dynamic respect that
High Priestess Vibez Tarot that’s not what’s happening here. It’s not about keeping a man, it’s a lifestyle agreed upon by two consenting adults. It’s not due to childhood abuse, I really don’t think she was abused at all. It’s not hurting anybody.
I wonder if he lacks dominance and this was her way of helping him gain a sense of control. She knows he'll never go to far and this is just enough for her to feel secure in his level of masculinity?
Women want to be led and Men want to feel like they are in control. That's really the key to a Marriage. Men want to feel masculine and Women want to feel feminine
it's nobody's business at all I don't care if it involves kids what business is it of ours how they raise their children The best motto you could ever live your life is "mind your own business" if it doesn't affect you don't worry about it
Dude, no. This is pretty much emotional and mental abuse. She stays because it is a cycle of effing abuse, not because she actually wants to. She probably has some major insecurities and past trauma. A household in which she had to surpress who she was.. Where's the info on her past because there's a reason she's okay with this. And if they both don't like doing the punishing and being punished, why are they doing this? Ugh I hate when people don't want to be equals. I just, I don't like when women are okay with being a man's slave.
Hold up.. Hold up.. If there's no enjoyment, what's the point? I'm down with whatever they're into if they're enjoying themselves.. But eh.. And the kids know.. Okay, I'm out too..
Possibly a sense of structure and organization in the relationship and commitment, kind of like having a work life. But provided throughout with the relationship and commitment.
from the looks of it theres some OCD going on here. maybe this is a coping mechanism for one or both of them. some sense of control or something. also, she was probably spanked as a child... now she feels she's in control of it where when she was a child she was not.
Some people find happiness in submission. She isn't being abused. She's consenting to this and I have a feeling that they love and respect eachother enough that if either wanted to stop the dynamic-they would immediately.
I’m not judging them or saying there bad people for doing this it’s there life, I’m just speaking mind, and how I would feel if I were in this type of relationship.
Vanessa Thomas - based on my observations of the video (not having full context of their lives) ) that the self inflicted four D's have the effect of extrinsically motivating her with her day-to-day tasks. Good for her!!
Creepin NeverSleepin idk know this for a fact. But I know there are a lot of women who probably wish they could trade places with this woman. Just to say they “love” getting punished.
The mother needs immediate help. For her to even suggest that is sick and for her to do that around her children is even more sicker. Someone needs to get that lady a docter
This division of labour existed in most marriages when I was growing up in the 1940s. It worked ok while both partners were fit and alive, but men who were widowed couldn't look after themselves. They'd never learnt to cook. When my grandmother died, my grandfather had to eat his meals with us. He couldn't cook. Boys were never taught to in those days. A very shortsighted policy considering that it's a basic survival skill. When my father died, my mother had never even written out a cheque. She had to learn to do things my father used to do. Currently my wife is ill and I'm doing all the cooking, washing and shopping. I've had to adapt and acquire skills I didn't have before. So in my opinion strict job division in a marriage isn't at all practical.
yup! In this day and age, its not practical. And you brought interesting point. It never came to my mind, how Ill prepare one becomes when taking on the other's task. When one finally has to do it, it makes the learning curve unnecessarily more difficult.
This is so true. My father took care of all the household accounts, banking, billing, etc. He died unexpectedly and she, suddenly, had to learn what was going on financially and take over what had previously been his domain alone. At 70 years old, it was a lot to take on. If they had worked on these things together, it wouldn't have been such a difficult transition.
I live in a part of the Americas where most domestic relationships are traditional, and people often live with their parents until they get married. If you're a man whose wife or girlfriend has left you, you often run back to your mommy's house so she can take care of you; or as in the case of my neighbors, if you're an unmarried man you go to your mommy's house for breakfast, for coffee mid-morning, for lunch, for coffee in the afternoon, and for dinner. I'm surprised this man knows how to bathe himself and use the bathroom.
No man will ever spank me or punish me!!! My father recently died. If he never hit me, I know damn well that other men had better know to keep their hands to themselves.
To each their own. What I would say though is that daddies are meant to raise their daughters to have their own voice, honor their intuition, and to remember that their voice and opinions matter ALL THE TIME. Fathers are not meant to be controlling. That's harmful to daughters.
More so her since she was the one to bring it up and had to convince him to roll with it. No doubt in my mind that she's got daddy issues or some other deep seeded childhood trauma.
You don't like the idea of being spanked, choked a little, getting ur hair pulled? Sounds fun to me. It's not abusive if she's consenting cause it turns her on
@@meyminglam6107 in the bedroom is one thing, that I understand. But being told in every day life what to do and how to do it and be treated like a child is something else entirely. She flat out said she doesn't like the punishments and he doesn't like doing them....yet it happens. Where's the logic in it then?
@@sarahk.466 hey, there's a lotta people who haven't experienced trauma or have any issues and just happen to enjoy a D/s lifestyle! they enjoy the giving up of control, and just because it's not for you and you don't see the point of it, or understand it doesn't mean someone else wouldn't enjoy that kind of thing. And her saying she doesn't like punishments seems like a lie to me, she's the one that suggested this so she's definitely into giving up control, and I get that she might not like feeling the guilt that punishments bring, but she seemed really into domestic discipline.
Bring submissive is Biblical. But my husband would never lift his hand to me. We talk about it. We’ve been married almost 25 years, together almost 27. In the beginning we were both young teenagers and we both did our dirt. Took us the better of our 20’s and God’s help, and guidance from our Pastor to learn how to threat each other. If it works for them, then let them be.
as someone who's actually involved in BDSM let me shed some light on this subject I'm currently in a non-sexual relationship with a female for us it looks something like this I am required to check in in the morning no later than 11:00 AM bedtime @11:00pm-if i want to say up late i have to ask permission i MUST be respectful at all times if i'm going to be late for any reason i must let her know when i go to bed 🛌 i must let her know if i don't follow the rules i get a firm talking to and 30 minutes in timeout it helps me because it gives me the structure and discipline that i NEVER got as a child because my parents were literally, incapable of even talking to A child let alone raising one my mother has zero emotional intelligence and is literally incapable of empathy so basically, this person is kind of like a mentor but a very strict one she is trying to teach me how to behave like an adult I am Very immature it is quite possible that the lady in this video did not receive structure and discipline as a child
They can do whatever they want if they both agree, but for gods sake keep the kids out of it!
Ikr, that's just crossing the line
They told the TRUTH to their kids, so they could understand that it was consenual on both sides.
It is way better for the children to know whats going on in the house, especially when its something like this. Seeing or hearing your father hit or "punish" your mother without any context you would see it as abuse. But being they BOTH are consenting to the terms of the dynamic, its completely different. Plus they state that he doesn't even kit hard enough to leave a mark.
It’s good they told the kid so they didn’t grow up thinking their father was ABUSING their mother. That could relay damage them
I dont think they show the kids anything, they have their relationship rules and thats why they show them going into the room. They dont see anything
IF it's two consenting adults then that's on them, BUT... the children SHOULD NOT BE INVOLVED IN IT IN ANY WAY!!!
oop one of they're sons watched this video
the kids are not involved. they are aware of what's happening, but they are have nothing to do with what actually happens.
@@lexiesingenium3320 Do you honestly think that watching the dynamic between their parents isn't going to have a lasting effect on them as adults?
@@lexiesingenium3320 if they can see or hear, they are involved.
@@lesliecurtis8073 as someone who has direct contact with Atyiana every day, ive asked her personally. and no, she says it doesnt bother her at all. she finds it a little odd, but shes indifferent about it otherwise
How embarrassing for their kids. This is on the internet forever 🤦♀️
Oof, that’s true....
Yep. It's such a shame i don't see why they even felt the need to share this with everyone at the first place.
I know the kids personally, they don’t care
@@aidanparks125 Cool for them.
😂😂😂
Their 13 year old child is extremely intelligent both intellectually and emotionally. It’s saddening she has to be around this, but the fact she can distance and understand it’s not for HER, at 13, is astonishing.
I had abusive controlling crooked father, my mother delt with that for 20 years, I and my siblings had to handle that for 10 years. She then got remarried but after 2 years he commented suicide when I was 6. This is an example of rough. All the shows on this channel are crooked and are examples of horrible marriages
She knows they lost their ever living minds. Lol
@Kenzi Ghost I don’t disagree that the parenting style could be good, even great. I don’t agree with their relationship style, but they seem like good parents, to have a child that intelligent
i think the issue isn't with their relationship but with what they're showing their children
Oh no, it’s both, it’s bad and worse.
Yea it's weird to do it infront of them. I'm happy they know they don't have to do it, but still.
Lovel Monroe Subliminals hey! I’m Atyiana. We see absolutely nothing that goes on between my parents.
@@skyesgeckos5726 yet you know about it? Like, I'd understand if you where over the age of 16, but it's weird that they literally hang up picture frames of rules for your moms punishments.
Lovel Monroe Subliminals Those were only up for this video.
I can’t believe they do this around their child and have those rules on the wall.
You CANNOT convince me this is ok
I agree with you
idc what theyre doing but what happens when their kid has friends over? poor kid will be so embarrassed from them pictures on the wall, at least do all this in your room
That is child neglect when u teach kids this .I'm a sub but in a mutual enjoyment situation I believe domestic discipline is abuse though cuz of the gender issue a woman can not be the hoh ,but then to include your kids by their actions is neglect
Sounds lit
A child should be completely unaware that one of their parents disciplines the other, whether for real, or for kink.
Maybe they can have “the talk” with their teens at some point and just say, “We’re kink positive, so don’t be afraid to come to us with questions,” but that should be it.
Kids-especially sons-won’t respect a parent-male or female-who receives the same discipline they do.
I'm just...so confused..she doesn't enjoy it?? He doesn't enjoy it?? Why are you doing something you don't enjoy??
I yelled the exact thing
Because they're brainwashed...
Because they're being lead by the Jezebel spirit...or some other evil spirit. You don't realize, bc it's not like an actual dark figure in the corner telling you to do something... only when you've been saved will you see things for what they really are.
@@nunyabidness6045 you are certifiably nuts.
They need a "reason" to do something they cant admit they like doing
There are two things about this that really bother me.
1. Their kids actually know about this.
2. SHE DOESN’T LIKE IT. Why would you make this a part of your relationship if you don’t enjoy punishment?! It makes no sense.
I was confused and I wasn’t sure if I heard it right. She doesn’t like it but SHE’s the one who wanted her husband to do it? He doesn’t like it but she wanted him to do it?
Something is not right.
And yes why do the kids have to witness this? Keep it on the bed room but the kids will think it’s normal
She does likes it she is the one who wanted this , did u even watch the video
@@whitedragoness23 Unlike some wives in CDD marriages, she doesn't receive sexual or emotional gratification from it. Why does she want it? Because her interpretation of the Bible led her to believe it is Christian and a part of her religious practice that the husband be the head of the family and, as such, have the authority to guide and punish.
@@vargvikernes4859 She WANTED it but, unlike many CDD wives, doesn't enjoy it. She believes it is religiously right and that it will help her become a better person.
@Varg Viking nah 4:20 ahe literally says she doesnt enjoy it. She said its not bdsm its domestic disciple that she doesnt get any emotional or sexual pleasure from. Why do they do it when neither party likes it? I have no clue! They most likely going to get divorced and used this to "save" the marriage.
I feel like they shouldn't have been so open about it with their kids and then place it all over the house. The son could get confused and see it as the norm and could possibly be abusive one day.
Your beautiful
@@albertpolk8510 That's what you got from her comment?
@@zap2960 🤣😂😂
Probably not, tho. Not the way it's done there. Very by the rules. I understand it completely.
@@angel_030 THANK 👏 YOU 👏
BDSM is fine as along as it’s consenting adults. When KIDS are involved is when it becomes an issue
Yeah and the kids are homeschooled as well! So they can't even escape for a couple hours or socialise with normal individuals
I was looking for this comment smh this is why a lot of people that are into bdsm have to struggle with these misconceptions because some people like this exist... where they involve their children.
The kids can grow up beating their wives in the long run. Idk doesn’t sit right with me getting the kids INVOLVED in their BDSM... goodness
But if the kids never see the dad put his hands on the mom in any way they're not witnessing abuse.
and if someone whose parent who was not into this lifestyle I can tell you I witnessed verbal and got verbal abuse from my parent grandparents just like many and multiple other kids.
So is the true problem with this lifestyle that y'all don't agree with it because the kids have no problem with it obviously going off of their opinion and the kids are better equipped knowledge wise for if they decide I want to try this lifestyle or not when they get older
Kingjay the boys are still very young. Just because they don’t WITNESS the dad putting his hands on the mom, they still acknowledge what is going on in that house. They can grow up thinking putting their hands on a woman is okay. Your point is dismissed because these are very young children and have no business being acknowledged of their kink fetish...
I blame myself... I shouldn’t of clicked this.
😂😂😂😂 right ✌🏾
Same
Me too!🤦
AlwonDomz shouldn’t of- duuuuude that’s embarrassing!
Haha!
As a kid I witnessed my uncle beat my aunt with a belt like she was a child. It was traumatizing and I will never forget it. I told my father about it and being a martial artist he taught me some real life defense moves. His words were don't you ever let a man mistreat in anyway and if he does, lay his a%& out. And that I did do. Sorry playing games like this can cause someone to seriously get hurt. But to each his own.
If it's traumatizing watching this happen to an adult, imagine going through this as a child.
Bottom line, no matter the age, no one should be physically punished.
@@InYourNetwork Have you not met BDSM people who literally derives pleasure of being abused
@@InYourNetwork that is your subjective opinion and feelings of course
I’m so sorry about your aunt :(
Wait, she doesn't enjoy getting spanked, and he doesn't enjoy it either? So what's the purpose of this?
@Stefon Palinic Uhh what ??
@Stefon Palinic you’re crazy. Controversial statements with zero evidence. Get help...
Usually when your partner makes you consistently unhappy you leave them and find someone that makes you happy. The dynamic of their relationship allows him to mold her into what makes him happy which probably makes her more secure. Judging from everything else I saw, she going for a superwoman vibe.
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I guess the idea is that spanking makes her behave better and prevents bad behaviour from becoming a habit which could lead to arguments and divorce. So she is willing to suffer for a few seconds, because those benefits are worth it
She said herself that it’s a Dom/sub relationship...THAT’S THE D AND S IN BDSM!!! That said, I believe the kids do not need to be exposed to this aspect of their relationship. This is between the adults only.
Bondage Discipline Sadism Masochism, but your point remains notwithstanding
Obviously they must enjoy something about it
@@seth_5394 I thought it was Bondage, Domination, Sadism and Masochism! Learn something new every day!
@@HaleyEden Over time BDSM has become a sort of umbrella term for anything considered a kink or fetish; I say both kink and fetish because they are not inherently or always the same thing. In other words, these activities may or may not have, but do not require, a sexual component. But I believe that distilled to it's origin as an initialism it is as I listed above.
@@HaleyEden bdsm stands for:
Bd - bondage and discipline
Ds - domination and submission
Sm - sadism and masochism
you can literally go grocery shopping in their house.
I wonder if she's does extreme Coupon
@@cenia1665 Being one myself I think she is.
Right! All those supplies.... lol
@@jennyv385 I love coupons
@@cenia1665 yes I'm a couponer.. that little bit of stuff shown on the video is stuff that I hadn't put in my coupon room yet
This entire situation is demeaning, disgusting, disturbing, and right down DDD.👀
And the saddest thing of it all is that she chose this lifestyle and that's eye opening indeed.
u judging hard
@@BettieBoo I'm judging hard, no I'm spitting facts that apparently people these day's are to scared to spit out their mouth's. They want to Sugarcoat everything, well not this chick, I won't do it.
I only agree with this since the child was exposed to this. Otherwise this stuff is completely fine on its own. Like… there is MUCH worse than this tbh. Some people just like the lifestyle and choose to live in it. I don’t see how it’s a problem really. Eye-opening is a bit of a stretch. I mean, this is technically something that has existed for decades. So this isn’t a very weird thing to see… except exposing it to the children.
I agree
You’re attitude towards two people who aren’t hurting anyone, is why you’ll die alone in a house full of cats.
This is a BDSM relationship where the couple is too afraid to admit their desires so they pretend that it isn't.
Yup it is a kink....sub and dom
It’s not BDSM it’s a DD relationship BDSM is where there is enjoyment DD is where there isn’t enjoyment. She literally explained that.
Given that she brought it up that's what I thought... But she says she doesn't really enjoy like that so... Idk but hey each unto their own...
I think you've hit it.
@@FuzzPit The point being made here is that the couple is being dishonest about the true nature of their relationship and how "DD" plays a role in their lives. They're vague as hell. We never get to understand why she needs to be physically disciplined in order to follow his rules? This type of behavior screams: "i need to be hurt or tortured in order to feel loved and have a long lasting relationship".
It's illogical, but it's their lifestyle and they can live how they chose. We'll know how this all turns out when the children grow older and express how they're parents kinky relationship affected them..
I love how their daughter is distancing herself from all of this
My daughter and I are extremely close, just because she doesn't want to do this lifestyle when she's older doesn't mean she's distancing herself from the family
@@BrandiLazJustUsRobinsons PREACH! people pass so much judgement. i was on a documentary from this channel back in 2008/9 and my family got hate too. if this lifestyle works for y'all then go for it! y'all are wonderful people.
Yeah. Because more than likely after witnessing and living with her parents arrangements she has decided that she will be lesbian. Smh. Listen how she answers the questions toward the end of the vid, and her responses in the comments. Smh. Her parents have corrupted her.
Wouldn't you? Ik I would, id move out at 18 asap. Shes cursing in front of her mother too, she doesn't respect her.
This should be private between the adults with no child knowledge or involvement.
"Love don't judge"...but I'm high key judging right now...
Hella Kels I am too. Completely wrong. Get the children out! More wife abuse. Foolish couple. Terrible husband. No way does she feel confident and positive about her own self worth. If people put their story on UA-cam then become all hurt and offended when people are not accepting spousal abuse.
Yes this is beyond my understanding smdh
@@mzfancy4767 I like u
Me to mlllmao
lol. i know that's right. me too.
I pray for the daughter - she seems emotionally intelligent+, hope all the children shine thru. This helps me understand other 'uneven' relationships.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
ua-cam.com/video/CfTLMcc9hxA/v-deo.html - so? You still want to be like the wicked ones, corrupted and only after money? And no, I do not ask from you to go and to learn to be a doctor yourself, no, I do not ask it. What I do ask is, to pray, have a change of heart and mind and pray.
Build up the once lost relationship between you and GOD.
She doesn’t enjoy being spanked but she introduced this to him and had him do it ... stop lying sis😂
Maybe it's a form of self harm? Or copying dysfunctional relationships from childhood?
@@Faith-lc6yj she literally stated she doesn't like it
@@sweetenlemons8659 Ik but don't you think if she really really really didn't like it she would put an end to it right then and thier bc she still has the ability to do that? But idk, just a thought 🤷🏽♀️
@@Faith-lc6yj of course she isn't being traumatized by it or anything. But it still makes no sense that they continue doing it. I get that it's a lifestyle thing, but there's better lifestyle choices then whats happening here.
Like, seriously if the father can be in order without a punishment, why does the mom need to be spanked? Just a thought.
My reply to someone else's question in a comment, I will copy and paste:
Possibly a sense of structure and organization in the relationship and commitment, kind of like having a work life. But provided throughout with the relationship and commitment.
She tricked him into being an alpha Male. Sad part is the boy kids may grow up thinking it's normal to spank your partner and turn out actually abusive
This is no alpha male behaviour
I think she must have been abused before allot then she found a good partner finally and makes him abuse her without it going to far because he was too “nice” not something she was use too
It doesn’t work that way though
Annastasia Lea that’s not true. She wasn’t abused as a child. A lot of people choose to live this lifestyle.
Boom
"I don't enjoy being spanked and he doesn't enjoy doing it." Uhh...then why do it at all?
LITERALLY THOUGH
They are saying it's something that helps keep order it's not fun to them but helps keep strong relationship.
Well at least they coupon
Damn I wonder how their family feel
Bingo!
"Domestic discipline" is just a fancier way of saying "domestic abuse"
It really isn’t
So are you saying victims of domestic abuse encourage their abusers to abuse them?
@@j.baldwin3012 Clearly not what she’s saying. It’s an enabled form of domestic abuse
How come it's not considered abuse if it's done to kids?
@@sarayoung9395 It is still abuse when it’s done to kids.
The daughter sounds more mature than the mother.
Johanna Jones wym the mom is who wanted to get the discipline he didn’t want to do it
Strange relationship!
Weired!
@Johanna Jones nah. I’m an exact copy of my mother.
I'm liking comments without finishing the video
I wonder how their kids will grow up seeing this dynamic from their parents
I hope they don't follow after her.
@antisocial Abby EXACTLY! forgot to add that thought to my comment
I was wondering that too.
Michelle N. Sirca my mother isn’t brainwashed lmao. She’s the one who brought this to my fathers attention. I’d suggest you rewatch the video.
@@skyesgeckos5726 the woman on the video is your mother?
The paddle says DADDY, and she’s out here saying “it’s not bdsm” 💀
She literally said he's the dominant and she's the submissive like, girl, just come out and say you like being spanked.
Shes kinky and shes in denial lol.
What that means ⁉️
JESUS IS COMING BACK TURN TO HIM he loves you think about this
This could end really bad for the guy, get out while you can, there is documented proof that she's the freaky one.
I find the saddest part about all this the fact that he was clearly a nice non abusive man and she convinced him to not get upset when he hits her even though he did not like to see her hurt. Also this type of stuff I believe works against the all the campaigns and teaching that the world has done to work against violence against women 😞
I was thinking about that too!
I agree with this completely. Whilst BDSM is and always has to be between 2 consenting adults. I see so many cases where the man's explanations for violence is because they were in that type of relationship.
This is a sad affair. They're destroying their children's minds w/consensual domestic violence. Their behavior is ludicrous.
YOUR KIDS SHOULD NOT KNOW THE “INS AND OUTS” OF DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE!! Obviously don’t mean that in a sheltering type of way, I mean they shouldn’t have to see that and only hear THEIR opinion on it because chances are, they’re gonna grow up thinking that’s okay and/or normal and that would obviously effect their future relationship and just simple ideals and view points majorly! OR it could end up traumatizing them in a way, it’s proven that children hide or tone down how they really feel to please adults. I don’t know about you, and I obviously don’t understand since I didn’t grow up in that environment, but seeing or hearing that would make me feel very uncomfortable and I don’t think as a kid, I would’ve been comfortable enough to say that especially with how they seem to view things in THEIR relationship.
Nah. Withholding information seems to be the smart, safe and sensible choice. Right? Don't tell them anything about sex, kinks, drugs and violence. Or intimacy or lust or boundaries. Don't talk about yourself at all.
Keep them dumb and they'll figure everything out by themselves the day they turn 18.
It works perfectly. Super safe. Never fails.
@@doggytheanarchist7876 I’m sorry but did we not just watch the same video? Those are not the “ins and outs of domestic discipline” any child should be learning about and much less witnessing, how much more likely do you think that makes the CHILD to be a domestic violence victim or abuser? They should learn to NOT do it through example. They should learn how to solve issues through mediation not altercation. I was raised by a mother who didn’t believe in censorship and nor do I, but this isn’t censorship that I was speaking about, I was speaking about INFLUENCING something that is just simply wrong. Do you really think that they asked their children if they felt comfortable with them doing that? THAT is more like censorship than what you were whining about.
@@doggytheanarchist7876 You are super ignorant if you think there's no reasonable middle ground between withholding information about life from your children and making your BSDSM lifestyle part of your children's upbringing. You didn't watch what everyone else watched.
@@doggytheanarchist7876 Right? Kids get resentful when they find out their parents are living a facade, and rightfully so!
Yup yup yup
How embarrassing for their kids. Can you imagine if these were your parents and this aired on UA-cam?! Also, she is definitely an extreme couponer!
I'd never want to go outside ever again 🤷♀️👌
He is setting his daughter up to being abused.
she did good during the COVID. She was ready
@@myfabablelife7354 In my heart I want to be an extreme couponer but in my bones I’m just lazy. 😂🤷♀️
@@denisedean2446 you are really dumb to even think that.
What is up with them having the entirety of Walmart in their house?
🤣🤣🤣
Thats what I was wondering... all that washing powder and laundry supples ?? strange!!
Lololl
THIS!!!
Lol
this isnt okay, they are showing terrible behaviour to their children, the children will grow up thinking this is okay. the parents are showing a terrible example for their children, please stop this.
Everyone is focused on the relationship I’m focused on all the stockpiling going on in the background
LOL me too!
Nothing like being stock up
I know. I was like are they getting ready for an apocalypse!!!
FR💀
Lmao ikr. Recognize a fellow couponers’ house when I see one. That Persil stash had me envious lol......(until I saw the rest of the video)
Wife: "It makes sense."
Husband: "I understand the reasons for it."
Audience: "Can you please explain it to us then?"
Hahahahhahha...
Because you wouldn’t understand it
😂😂
I'm sure there are many other unseen oddities going on in that house. You put a camera crew with those people for a week and I guarantee you find out they drink blood, listen to LeAnn Rimes and founded a local chapter of Scientology
@@773fishing2 😂
"I don't enjoy being spanked, he doesn't enjoy doing it."
Um...why do it then? 🤔 I don't judge, I just really don't get it.
@Mason Crowley why do they need discipline tho
@Mason Crowley lmaoo well clearly those 'bad habits' are still continuing since there is still spanking going on. So either it's not fulfilling its real purpose or they're lying to us about what the real purpose is. I think the real purpose is pleasure tho... juss sayin
She does lol He prob didn't want to but she convinced him lol
Imagine your biggest fear is your husband leaving you for another woman. You compensate for this fear by being the 'ideal' woman. You cook, you clean, you submit and you live in the security that if he's not happy with you, he'll correct you instead of leaving you. That's what I imagine the appeal is.
@@MissKashira wow! makes good sense
I think they misunderstand what being submissive means. A man is only supposed to be head of the house if he is a man of God and a true man of God would never punish his wife.
All ima say is, COULDN’T BE ME!
😂😂😂😂. Exactly. But to each their own.
Same here
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 Sis not me either
Yea I don't trust myself. I may just wake up at 3am while he is sleeping and introduce an ax to the middle of his forehead
Writing as a man, there is categorically no way that I would want to be in this man's place. There is something very wrong here.
We must save our boy Lazarus.
#savelazarus
@@henshi9474 xD
@@Nadiesalevivo for what???
I am afraid that you may be right.
We need to save him.
Basically fifty shades of grey in real life. Imagine being their kid and inviting someone to the house and your friends see those pictures with “you will be punished” they’ll be walking out the door right away😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂lol you had me at “you will be punished “
They will call the police and think that the mom is abused lol They don't know this is their kink thing
I wouldn't want my kids within 100 yards of such a house!
@@hartcoronet9968 why would they be there anyway
@@korridaxe7424 Maybe because they are friends with this couple's kids? Or don't YOUR kids go to their friends' houses? A real no-brainer, I'd say.
all i can hope for is that the children grow up acknowledging the fact that this is really unusual and that it is not how pretty much everyone else works.
I’ve been married for 33 years and there is no way in Hell, I would allow these rules in my house.
Well obviously most people would not. That's why this is a special type of relationship.
I am not a feminist 😒 but, if my husband wanted this kind of lifestyle, I would be gone!!!!!!!!!!
Well, that is YOUR preference.
Seems like this relationship is sad .
My stupid hair is in my face and I can’t see what I type lol
i wonder what her childhood was like to want to have this kind of “partnership “
My thought exactly. Like she had a really strict Dad who left, now she wants to have that role filled.
I like this stuff and I had two loving parents who provided everything
She was punished harshly
She was afraid of loosing her husband and still is.
@@G0dismabestfren im still here and not going anywhere.
If I wanted to be grounded instead of married I would still live at home with my parents.
Right!!!!
@Billy B wrong!!! Try again!!!
@Billy B wrong. A lot of women prefer to actually be dominant
@Billy B you love in an alternate reality
@Billy B you got all the answers huh? Lol .. go sit down before you hurt yourself 😂😂😂
If neither you nor your husband don't enjoy it, then why do it??
She likes this WHOLE situation...she came up with this idea for a reason.
It probably makes her feel like the ideal woman. She cooks, she cleans, she raises her children, she obeys her husband's every wish. She's getting her Donna Reed on. As long as they're happy.
@@MissKashira ikr...not sure why it’s unbelievable for folks to understand why some women like that kind of life. I don’t agree with their decision to have their children witness the physical aspect of their dynamic....but otherwise I don’t see anything wrong with this tbh. Definitely couldn’t be me, but if she’s happy, when who are we to say that she’s not?
No
@@justagirlandherdogs615 yes
@@xsigna1 no
Its sounds a lot like a parent/child relationship honestly.
Ddlg is a thing lmao
Some things are age appropriate - and or better left unsaid.
My parents dont beat me they just yell and scream
I would have filed for divorce if nothing let up, because that is abuse and should have left to the kids if they broke a rule! Sir, she is not your daughter, she's your wife!
Jennifer Snelling i mean she wanted it lmao
She's definitely a couponer
Right!
What’s a couponer .
@@abigailranga9036 someone who saves a extreme amount of coupons for a grocery store trip
😂🤣😂🤣❤️
I call prepper as well.
After being in several abusive relationships with domineering/controlling spouses, this is setting off all kinds of alarm bells 😒😔
Good
Ok, I'm out. This quarantine got me watching any and everything. Lmaoo,I'm going to read the dictionary. 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣 Bible would be better!
That part! Lmao
Lmao
Okay!! I knew I was going to get irritated watching this, but I clicked anyway 🤦🏽♀️
that part 😬
They act like they’re new age, but they’re basically a sixties couple
No, actually 60s couples didn't spank or do this stuff... This is some BC stuff
@@vikramsureswarannaidu7248 no we don’t do this stuff here in BC maybe this stuff happens more in Ontario
@@cecilia7079 BC as in Before Christ .........
Not really because of gender
@@vikramsureswarannaidu7248 nah this isn't even BC, its modern day they're just weird
Physical violence in a relationship is never okay. She is teaching her daughter that it is acceptable to be spanked and punished by your partner, absolutely insane. And what’s up with the stockpiling? Apocalypse coming?!
Hey! Atyiana here (they misspelled my name). But I know the difference between abuse and this style of relationship. My parents have instilled into all of us, that this is something that they chose to do. And that this is not something we have to do. They make sure we know that this is completely consensual.
Absolutely insane, medieval, relationship.
ealize yes. Their relationship is very medieval! We even pay for stuff in shillings!
@@skyesgeckos5726 loool good one
She is teaching her daughter what it means to be engaged in consensual activities
My dudes be ready for the apocalypse 💀✋
This is a whole wattpad story.
This is a whole another level above wattpad 😭
@@maddiemmxo ao3
@@cake2939 YUP- Maybe even higher than ao3 if I do say so myself 😳😳😳
LMAO
@@maddiemmxo now that’s a stretch and a half!!!! i once found some next genderbend naruto fanfic where they boiled naruto, sasuke, etc alive (they found it sexually arousing ig) and ate them…. 💔💔 i’m still traumatised 😾
I’m reporting them for toilet paper hoarding 👀🤣
Lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Right! Got a whole wall built up
What’s that?
They stocked up ‼️👍
I just want her to teach me couponing lol
Same girl
She has a video of her coupon closet on her UA-cam channel. I’d suggest you check it out!
Skye's Geckos what’s her youtube??
Skye's Geckos thank you kind stranger
CeCe you’re welcome!
The kids don't speak to their mom with respect either...
Son: what the hell I'm supposed to do with this...
Mom: don't say hell...
when I tell you I RAN to the comments
It's all for the views and the comments. They know it's crazy.
You too?? 😆
😂me.
I came straight to the comments
EDIT - these people are a mess . Some are saying this is a Dom and Sub relationship but I do not believe it is . She states it's not as there is no sexual pleasure derived and she does not enjoy the ,what essentially is, abuse . I hate that the children are witnessing this -we learn from relationships that we are exposed to when we are young . This is something that could definitely get out of control easily .
Same omg
@@KaylaJoySmith 😂😂😂
Me to.
Guilty 🥴
Facts.
Nobody:
Women in terrible marriage: At least I’m married
There is nothing terrible about my marriage. After you've been married for 13 years and are successfully raising a family (kids all by the same person) then you come and judge what we do.
Brandi & Laz Just Us Robinsons yeah yeah
Facts
Say what you want, there are millions of women who are worse off. Looks like a somewhat stable-ish family with a house, nice kids, a dog, a working husband/dad and a damn lawnmower..! A lawnmower!
You know what I'm talking about.
Ok, She 's a bit crazy, but if all that takes to keep the family together is just the occasional consensual spanking, .. what the hell. Better than where I grew up
@@BrandiLazJustUsRobinsons you’re exposing your children to a BDSM relationship that they’re not part of. You’re publicly humiliating your daughter, that’s your kink not hers.
It’s not domestic discipline. It’s BDSM. It should not be practiced in front of a child.
2:48... So THAT'S why I can't find no toilet paper in the grocery store!
🤣🤣🤣
It is is comments like these that makes clicking on a video like this worthwhile :D
Lol right?!
😂😂
Probably so.. gotta buy by the buck
Damn. She couldn’t even remember the 4th “D.” Time to get in trouble!
Wink wink 😉
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😅🤣🤣🤣
Lmaoooooo
Girl 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bihhh I’m so weak 😂
I'll come back when the comments are hella juicy because this situation...idk idk
Come back! The mother and daughter are patrolling the comments hilarious!
@@forthestreetstv945 Wait where? I don't see them.
Alyssa Leiby they are in here. Look through the comments the little girl name is sky and replied to damn near most of them trying to defend her mother. The mother has commented from her page as well
TheKennedy Marie I’m back. Let’s roll 😎
ArmyTrashhh 🤣🤣🤣 the internet is freaking undefeated 👏🏽 I love to see it!!!
This is not freedom
Say it with meeee: You don’t gotta share every aspect of your life guys.
@Mason Crowley u didn’t make any sense
Yeah. So far this comment is thought I had watching this. I get it. I can even understand it. Why is it out here for all the heathens of the world to see?!?
If my husband brought this to me I would laugh in his face.
I dunno you might be a good HOH
Tonia Shields- That is because you have self-respect. Sadly, a lot of women do not.
But what if you brought this to your husband, just like the wife did in this video?
@@773fishing2 BDSM isn’t my thing.
@@toniashields6150 and that's fine but to laugh in his face? I bet he really feels safe and secure in your relationship 😒😐
Who gets to beat him when he breaks all his own rules on a weekly basis?
He can do what he wants n not get punished is the problem
the dog!
Exactly. It’s not fair.
@@xXAnni3LuvsYhuXx that’s their choice. because that’s the dynamic. Some it’s wi the the female as a dome and the male a a sub and other b it h of them are switch’s. That’s their dynamic respect that
The kids
This is NOT an equal marriage. This is nauseating!!!!
Sounds like she's been through a lot of abuse as a child to be submitting to some foolishness like this
she's an idiot
@@HighPriestessVibezTarot maybe some Mommy issues too. girls learn from their mothers.
You couldn’t be more wrong.
High Priestess Vibez Tarot that’s not what’s happening here. It’s not about keeping a man, it’s a lifestyle agreed upon by two consenting adults. It’s not due to childhood abuse, I really don’t think she was abused at all. It’s not hurting anybody.
😂😂😂😂
I'm out here tryna unwind from a long day- this ain't what I need
hahahah
😂😂
Lol
Same lol
😂
I think they have a Costco shopping problem
Iol 😂
Right, maybe it was pre-covid mayhem shopping 🤣
@@jemzjyp yes way before c19.
She's an extreme couponer
😂😂
He wasn’t like that she brought it up to him😂😂😂
This is none of our business 😭😂
Now it is. They should keep it private.
Exactly. I feel like i invaded their privacy by watching this 😂😭
@@caribbeanqueen9894 thank you
Exactly. Why are they sharing? 😅
Reality: He is the puppet and she pulls the strings.
100%
More like: SHE is the puppet and HE pulls the strings ****
Precisely. He may he head of household, but she has the control.
Topping from the bottom, its a thing in the BDSM community that she say she is not a part of....😒
Exactly
I wonder if he lacks dominance and this was her way of helping him gain a sense of control. She knows he'll never go to far and this is just enough for her to feel secure in his level of masculinity?
Yes!!! I thought about it like that and I completely understand it.
Although their way of life is weird... In a way this video is kind of refreshing, since hardly any men get to be head of household nowdays.
Women want to be led and Men want to feel like they are in control.
That's really the key to a Marriage. Men want to feel masculine and Women want to feel feminine
@@starcityrc3298 Exactly
Deep
She said it’s between “two consenting adults.” That’s fine. Look- it’s nobody’s business until you involve children.
it's nobody's business at all I don't care if it involves kids what business is it of ours how they raise their children The best motto you could ever live your life is "mind your own business" if it doesn't affect you don't worry about it
Wrong title,. It should be “how to coupon”
I was thinking the same thing haha 😂
What is a coupon?
Exactly what I was thinking.
😂😂😂😂😂
Lol!! 😂
Nah sorry. Something wrong there. Especially with a dog running loose while weedwhacking.
I peeped that too lmaoo 😂
That’s Buddy. He’s not gonna get too close to the weed whacker. He’s not the brightest pup out there though.
😂😂😂💀
😂
IKR I was so worried about the dog's face omg!! 😩😂
Why do they have a lifetime supply of detergents?
Couponing
Corona stockpile😆
And paper towels 🧐🤔🤔🤔
and sodas
Cause daddy is dirty 😩
Dude, no. This is pretty much emotional and mental abuse. She stays because it is a cycle of effing abuse, not because she actually wants to. She probably has some major insecurities and past trauma. A household in which she had to surpress who she was.. Where's the info on her past because there's a reason she's okay with this.
And if they both don't like doing the punishing and being punished, why are they doing this?
Ugh I hate when people don't want to be equals.
I just, I don't like when women are okay with being a man's slave.
Hold up.. Hold up.. If there's no enjoyment, what's the point? I'm down with whatever they're into if they're enjoying themselves.. But eh.. And the kids know.. Okay, I'm out too..
I don’t get that either. What’s the point in doing it if you don’t enjoy it? What is the benefit?
Possibly a sense of structure and organization in the relationship and commitment, kind of like having a work life. But provided throughout with the relationship and commitment.
I think it’s because they believe so strongly in specific gender roles...
Holly Clark that is partially true.
from the looks of it theres some OCD going on here. maybe this is a coping mechanism for one or both of them. some sense of control or something. also, she was probably spanked as a child... now she feels she's in control of it where when she was a child she was not.
This is a very odd couple, I would not want to be in this type of relationship, I would feel very trapped and controlled.
Okay so dont be. But it works for them and they have a long happy marriage so.....
Some people find happiness in submission. She isn't being abused. She's consenting to this and I have a feeling that they love and respect eachother enough that if either wanted to stop the dynamic-they would immediately.
Good guess what bc you get a choice. Let them be happy
I’m not judging them or saying there bad people for doing this it’s there life, I’m just speaking mind, and how I would feel if I were in this type of relationship.
She would be wayyyy more productive in life if she didn’t have to be “punished”
Vanessa Thomas - based on my observations of the video (not having full context of their lives) ) that the self inflicted four D's have the effect of extrinsically motivating her with her day-to-day tasks. Good for her!!
She definitely seems to like it
Says your mother goddess worship programming.
How do you know this
Creepin NeverSleepin idk know this for a fact. But I know there are a lot of women who probably wish they could trade places with this woman. Just to say they “love” getting punished.
The mother needs immediate help. For her to even suggest that is sick and for her to do that around her children is even more sicker. Someone needs to get that lady a docter
This division of labour existed in most marriages when I was growing up in the 1940s. It worked ok while both partners were fit and alive, but men who were widowed couldn't look after themselves. They'd never learnt to cook. When my grandmother died, my grandfather had to eat his meals with us. He couldn't cook. Boys were never taught to in those days. A very shortsighted policy considering that it's a basic survival skill. When my father died, my mother had never even written out a cheque. She had to learn to do things my father used to do. Currently my wife is ill and I'm doing all the cooking, washing and shopping. I've had to adapt and acquire skills I didn't have before. So in my opinion strict job division in a marriage isn't at all practical.
I sooo agree with you!
you must be 80-90 right? you're doing great!
yup! In this day and age, its not practical. And you brought interesting point. It never came to my mind, how Ill prepare one becomes when taking on the other's task. When one finally has to do it, it makes the learning curve unnecessarily more difficult.
This is so true. My father took care of all the household accounts, banking, billing, etc. He died unexpectedly and she, suddenly, had to learn what was going on financially and take over what had previously been his domain alone. At 70 years old, it was a lot to take on. If they had worked on these things together, it wouldn't have been such a difficult transition.
I live in a part of the Americas where most domestic relationships are traditional, and people often live with their parents until they get married. If you're a man whose wife or girlfriend has left you, you often run back to your mommy's house so she can take care of you; or as in the case of my neighbors, if you're an unmarried man you go to your mommy's house for breakfast, for coffee mid-morning, for lunch, for coffee in the afternoon, and for dinner. I'm surprised this man knows how to bathe himself and use the bathroom.
No man will ever spank me or punish me!!! My father recently died. If he never hit me, I know damn well that other men had better know to keep their hands to themselves.
Oh, I absolutely agree with that! ♡
Yes girl👏❤
Except in bed of course, right ladies?
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@@karri17 lmao
Their relationship seems more of a parental type than a partnership /marriage... But to each their own I guess
It’s sexual in a way. Like adult babies... this is just a step up from that
Morgan there’s nothing sexual about this.
Mallory K Agree, she even said she doesn’t enjoy it. :/
To each their own. What I would say though is that daddies are meant to raise their daughters to have their own voice, honor their intuition, and to remember that their voice and opinions matter ALL THE TIME. Fathers are not meant to be controlling. That's harmful to daughters.
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A hot flaming mess. At least the daughter is smart and knows better.
It’s the “A hot flaming mess” for me 😂😂😂😂
DADDY ISSUES...
I'm so angry with myself for watching this. This couple seriously needs therapy.
Exactly
More so her since she was the one to bring it up and had to convince him to roll with it. No doubt in my mind that she's got daddy issues or some other deep seeded childhood trauma.
You don't like the idea of being spanked, choked a little, getting ur hair pulled? Sounds fun to me. It's not abusive if she's consenting cause it turns her on
@@meyminglam6107 in the bedroom is one thing, that I understand. But being told in every day life what to do and how to do it and be treated like a child is something else entirely. She flat out said she doesn't like the punishments and he doesn't like doing them....yet it happens. Where's the logic in it then?
@@sarahk.466 hey, there's a lotta people who haven't experienced trauma or have any issues and just happen to enjoy a D/s lifestyle! they enjoy the giving up of control, and just because it's not for you and you don't see the point of it, or understand it doesn't mean someone else wouldn't enjoy that kind of thing. And her saying she doesn't like punishments seems like a lie to me, she's the one that suggested this so she's definitely into giving up control, and I get that she might not like feeling the guilt that punishments bring, but she seemed really into domestic discipline.
Bring submissive is Biblical. But my husband would never lift his hand to me. We talk about it. We’ve been married almost 25 years, together almost 27. In the beginning we were both young teenagers and we both did our dirt. Took us the better of our 20’s and God’s help, and guidance from our Pastor to learn how to threat each other. If it works for them, then let them be.
If you don’t like being spanked and he doesn’t like spanking you then just STOP. SMH 🤦🏼♀️ it’s that easy.
she has to be lying about not liking it. good lord.
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Ridiculous!
She likes it ! She brought it up to him
@@fresh5959 I completely agree with you!
@@jenniferbragg3576 She means she doesn't like the pain, but she likes being put in her place because it's necessary.
Sooo they both don’t enjoy it? And he thinks it’s weird? And the kids know? Ok I’m confused.
Right like it doesn't seem like this lifestyle fits the family lmao
She’s the puppet master to this whole thing. Husband and kids seem like this is awkward to them but they are just going with it.
It takes two to tango but it stops being funny when you see the kid sitting at the table. God knows the impact it will have on them.
Poor kids and husband
@@bighands69 well in this case it takes one to control the tangle as he isn’t even comfortable with it
as someone who's actually involved in BDSM let me shed some light on this subject I'm currently in a non-sexual relationship with a female for us it looks something like this
I am required to check in in the morning no later than 11:00 AM
bedtime @11:00pm-if i want to say up late i have to ask permission
i MUST be respectful at all times
if i'm going to be late for any reason i must let her know
when i go to bed 🛌 i must let her know
if i don't follow the rules i get a firm talking to and 30 minutes in timeout
it helps me because it gives me the structure and discipline that i NEVER got as a child because my parents were literally, incapable of even talking to A child let alone raising one my mother has zero emotional intelligence and is literally incapable of empathy
so basically, this person is kind of like a mentor but a very strict one she is trying to teach me how to behave like an adult I am Very immature
it is quite possible that the lady in this video did not receive structure and discipline as a child
Okay but did you see how much toilet paper they’re hoarding
Well they got 4 kids 🤷🏽♀️
That's the first thing I noticed!
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Girl you a grown woman why would you choose to put yourself through This? Therapy
I'm curious, so what happens when the man wrongs? I'm guessing nothing? Or he's just never wrong?🤔