How to Forgive Someone who has Hurt You ~ Dr. K. N. Jacob

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 128

  • @gladystlhomelang9321
    @gladystlhomelang9321 Рік тому +4

    This has really opened my heart and made to understand forgiving and reconciliation i have forgiven everyone and i am free ❤😂

  • @lazarusjambeinge1539
    @lazarusjambeinge1539 Рік тому +7

    I forgive everyone who hurt me in Jesus name amen

  • @ruthnjaungiri4655
    @ruthnjaungiri4655 Рік тому +3

    May the LORD continue using you for his glory

  • @janetnthenya9235
    @janetnthenya9235 Рік тому +14

    This message has brought healing and freedom to my heart. as I listened through I felt an heavy burden lifted off my heart

  • @RESULTSofMERCY
    @RESULTSofMERCY Рік тому +14

    I was skeptical when I heard that we should forgive over and over again' because now some people take advantage of our kind hearts, but when I continued to watch till the end: I have realized that all that you say is true and it healed my heart from that heavy burden I had.. Thank you so much for such a powerful teaching..
    I'm so happy you backed it up with scriptures, may God shine on you in Jesus Christ name..
    Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.. I truly needed to hear this..
    From my heart I can now easily sense that I have forgiven all those who have terribly wronged me... 🙏🙏 And to those I have wronged as well, I hope I'm forgiven

  • @yintomyyang8420
    @yintomyyang8420 Рік тому +5

    I already started my travel of forgiving those people,but I need God's grace 🙏🙏🥺cause it's not easy at all to forgive them but at least am into peace of love ❤️❤️

  • @faithhope4703
    @faithhope4703 Рік тому +28

    1) Why you should forgive
    We are all products of forgiveness
    2) How do we forgive someone who didn’t apologize
    It is an attitude of the heart
    Letting go of resentment, bitterness and anger
    Pray for them, bless/wish them and support them
    Forgiveness is for the brave and humble
    3) How often should you forgive
    Lifetime and constant attitude and decision not to store up any grudges
    4) How do you know you have forgiven?
    Is through your words. When you are able to move beyond what is good
    5) Reconcile

    • @petermwanginjuguna8993
      @petermwanginjuguna8993 Рік тому

      Aà1à

    • @MaryNjoki-sl7of
      @MaryNjoki-sl7of Рік тому +1

      Truely we are God's product

    • @marygamanga6625
      @marygamanga6625 Рік тому

      Forgiveness is divine. May God Almighty help me in Jesus' mighty to forgive others.Amen🙏🙏😃💯❤️

    • @greteldallas7585
      @greteldallas7585 Рік тому

      Forgiveness is love you have to have love in your heart to Forgive God his love God say we must Forgive one another.

  • @glendaruiz2477
    @glendaruiz2477 Рік тому +17

    Forgiveness is for the humble!! How true!! 💯✔

  • @agwanggenavive2823
    @agwanggenavive2823 Рік тому +3

    Thanks Doc now I have known what true forgiveness is. My life has changed right from the time I landed on your teachings.

  • @phionanambogo2944
    @phionanambogo2944 Рік тому +2

    My has healed because of this message, thnx Dr much love from Uganda🇩🇪

  • @collinsdundo3787
    @collinsdundo3787 Рік тому +2

    The greatest lesson ever that when put into action the world could a better place. May God have mercy on us

  • @godprincesspreciousgrace1557
    @godprincesspreciousgrace1557 Рік тому +2

    Our Lord God Almighty Holy Spirit Divine Powerful Presence I thank You Lord for giving us God's spirits of forgiveness Deliverance Healing Sanctification Pure HEART directions Gifts influencers discernment Grace Mercy love Freedom i Liberty through the Precious Blood covenant of Jesus Christ Speaking LIFE Abundance for us in Jesus Christ Name Amen Rose Ngadi 🌹🗽💕❤️🗽🔥🗽🔥

  • @susanwangui8223
    @susanwangui8223 Рік тому +1

    In my pain, I'm choosing to forgive. Like you said doc, the offender wasn't entirely a bad person, otherwise we'd never have formed relationships with them. Indeed forgiveness is for me and not the other party

  • @emmandadi9605
    @emmandadi9605 Рік тому +2

    I bless the name of Lord for this great lesson, thank you so much Doctor,more grace man of God

  • @donnathomas2143
    @donnathomas2143 Рік тому +1

    Thank you. I was having issues with forgiving someone mainly because I believe the are not sorry. It not the first but this time they did something to intentionally hurt me. I prayed for them and know that forgiveness is for me, but still couldn’t find in my heart to truly forgive him. The way you broke it down, is softening my heart e solve/heart. Thank you for give us what God gave us

  • @AlabaGracious-uo6xg
    @AlabaGracious-uo6xg 11 місяців тому

    I thank the heavenly father coz of the wisdom he gave to u,I did not forgive whoever had done mi wrong without asking forgiveness but frm today onwards I will be forgiving 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @babiryejjane6642
    @babiryejjane6642 Рік тому +2

    Forgiveness is for the humble!! How true!! 💯

  • @lungilentuli3244
    @lungilentuli3244 Рік тому +4

    Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself !!! Hallelujah

  • @winniembilu-ue1ff
    @winniembilu-ue1ff Рік тому +2

    The video blessed me so much l was released from heavy burden off my heart

  • @stellajoseph2314
    @stellajoseph2314 Рік тому

    Very beautiful message.
    Forgiveness is golden. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Forgive, so that you will be forgiven.
    Forgiveness may be difficult, but the way I made it easy to forgive, is by recognizing that we are an integral part of the ever forgiven, Cosmic Good/God, as such we all have good in us. Further, recognizing that something must have been completely off, in the perpetrator's psyche that led to him or her perpetrating the negative act on me or others, and recognizing that sometimes, the negative behavior may not be intentional, especially if it's not repetitive.
    Upon waking up daily, I first thank God for waking me up. I ask for forgiveness for unknown and known negative actions thoughts or words against self and others. I also send thoughts of forgiveness to anyone who has offended or hurt me in any way shape or form. I send thoughts of healing, perfect health, oneness, love, peace, success, beauty and all that is good to self and to everyone. Right after, I feel very happy, free, at peace, and wholesome.
    Have a beautiful day of reflection and forgiveness with the most for peace Profound ✌🏼🌹❤️

  • @evelynephilemon6993
    @evelynephilemon6993 Рік тому +1

    Yes, we must forgive, so God can forgive us. I love your teachings. You are such an inspiration... Thank you so much 🙏🏾

  • @winniembilu-ue1ff
    @winniembilu-ue1ff Рік тому +1

    J was bitter for many years am blessed

  • @gatojulie7837
    @gatojulie7837 Рік тому +2

    Waooo what a great teaching.

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 Рік тому +2

    Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself 💕
    Thank you sir

  • @annetmanyonge4275
    @annetmanyonge4275 Рік тому

    Wow !what a blessed teaching

  • @Joycekabeta-ul5qx
    @Joycekabeta-ul5qx 11 місяців тому

    I forgive everyone who hurt me, I ask my father to forgive me also.

  • @juliejoshua9880
    @juliejoshua9880 Рік тому +1

    Forgiveness sets us free

  • @yandemwita8084
    @yandemwita8084 Рік тому +1

    Wow powerful message...I feel so blessed!

  • @florenceojowa7706
    @florenceojowa7706 Рік тому +1

    Very powerful and inspiring. Thank you

  • @kaarinaiyambo125
    @kaarinaiyambo125 Рік тому +1

    My heart ws heavy... Thankx Dr. be blessed 🇨🇩

  • @hazelkeagile2372
    @hazelkeagile2372 Рік тому

    Thankyou for inspiring words 🙏🙏

  • @claudettezimmerman5900
    @claudettezimmerman5900 Рік тому

    Dr.K , I thank God in my heart is not space for hates any one. I have tell my X husband sorry I don't hate him not at all but for me it's ready with him But he perseguite me, last year he tell that he give me 7 mouth . I know that I have to forgive my self for a lot I do to my self . Me be my behaviour to others hurt by knowing or un knowing. But one things my inner being is in peace.but many things from my child hood.sometimes pull-up.sorry .I pray God had help me a Lot help me go through .and his Love I fill in my heart.thank you.❤❤❤❤

  • @aliciamacalalad7746
    @aliciamacalalad7746 9 місяців тому

    Thank you ptr for this very helpful topic... It is really difficult to forgive someone who caused you hurt... But thank you for this sermon that makes me realized I am a product of forgiveness.. God bless you more ptr

  • @user-jp1ym6sq6c
    @user-jp1ym6sq6c Рік тому +1

    Pastor thank you for this sermon, a huge lesson to us

  • @mercyazangu6766
    @mercyazangu6766 Рік тому +4

    God bless you, this was so touching 🙏🙏

  • @winniembilu-ue1ff
    @winniembilu-ue1ff Рік тому +2

    J was blessed by the video so much been in pain for many years

  • @geoffreymogeni2104
    @geoffreymogeni2104 Рік тому

    Am really blessed thank you be blessed too🙏🙏🙏

  • @tumisharon356
    @tumisharon356 Рік тому

    Am highly blessed, Please Lord see me through that my humble prayers, concerning forgiveness and hurt's

  • @dupzyhairandcare7125
    @dupzyhairandcare7125 Рік тому

    Thank you doctor am blessed

  • @rubyminhas1183
    @rubyminhas1183 Рік тому +1

    Thanks you very much for taking my thoughts upto the higher level.
    May you live a healthy and long life !

  • @breezyaugust9407
    @breezyaugust9407 2 місяці тому

    Thanks alot Dr Jacobs for you good advice I am always flowing what ever you're teaching keep it up by god's glory

  • @crystalnelson1775
    @crystalnelson1775 Рік тому +1

    All is forgiven...just choose to leave you alone .. you learn in life always love and for give but sometimes you may have to release people ....and just love them from afar....

  • @elizabethdaniah3221
    @elizabethdaniah3221 Рік тому +1

    Thanks sir for this,so encouraging
    I will learn to forgive all the pple who has wronged me..

  • @sanyurosebel8076
    @sanyurosebel8076 Рік тому +1

    I learnt something from it ,thank you

  • @shanysharon8814
    @shanysharon8814 Рік тому

    Thanks for letting me know such things

  • @Jonah854
    @Jonah854 Місяць тому

    Powerful message indeed 🙏🙏

  • @gladysnyanchama6055
    @gladysnyanchama6055 7 місяців тому

    Amen ,a good teacher of family life 🙏

  • @mundiakangumu1501
    @mundiakangumu1501 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for the timely advice 🙏

  • @atuhaireharriet6873
    @atuhaireharriet6873 Рік тому +1

    From today i stand to forgive two people who hurt me more. thx for your great words🙏🙏

  • @nana-mv9do
    @nana-mv9do Рік тому +1

    This was timely. Thank you so much

  • @KoromaJosephSaidu-oy3hy
    @KoromaJosephSaidu-oy3hy Рік тому

    Thank you very much for the wonderful message, it's touches me so much. I will practically try to forgive everyone who hurts me.

  • @janecyprian3235
    @janecyprian3235 Рік тому

    Am blessed to have Dr.K.N Jacob ...

  • @amyamy1727
    @amyamy1727 Рік тому +1

    Thank you 🙏 for teaching this hard truth.

  • @osinyoruth2769
    @osinyoruth2769 Рік тому

    I,m blessed.

  • @user-kc4uf3sd3p
    @user-kc4uf3sd3p Рік тому

    God bless you man of god

  • @mariemkarama1811
    @mariemkarama1811 Рік тому

    Abig blessing in my life forever

  • @tinaaposhee4375
    @tinaaposhee4375 Рік тому +1

    Actually something are hard to let go,forgiving but atlist have gotten some clue,may the Lord bless you,,,,,

  • @hlengiwemaseko4343
    @hlengiwemaseko4343 Рік тому

    Thanks a million I'm really inspired be blessed

  • @user-yx1wl9kl6j
    @user-yx1wl9kl6j 8 місяців тому

    Thanks to God for l have forgiven all those who hurt me

  • @estherdanjumamusa1807
    @estherdanjumamusa1807 11 місяців тому

    Thank you brother for this teachers, it takes the grace of Almighty God to forgive. I pray that God give me the grace to forgive those who hurt me

  • @aliciamacalalad7746
    @aliciamacalalad7746 Рік тому +5

    Thank you ptr for this wonderful message.. It answers some of my questions in life... Really to forgive is not easy, it takes time to forgive.

  • @deepthipankaj5495
    @deepthipankaj5495 Рік тому +1

    Thanks Sir

  • @GraceChalouhy-en9qe
    @GraceChalouhy-en9qe 6 місяців тому

    Thanks for your good testimony,, God bless you

  • @olatayoolu5518
    @olatayoolu5518 Рік тому

    May God help us

  • @nafula3216
    @nafula3216 Рік тому

    Thank for the word pr.

  • @nduhukirepheonah8604
    @nduhukirepheonah8604 Рік тому

    Thanks so much

  • @hilarysejero9333
    @hilarysejero9333 Рік тому

    Very true iv just listened now it has changed my focus

  • @user-kt8iw1es4m
    @user-kt8iw1es4m 5 місяців тому

    God give me the grace to forgive

  • @artishasohtun6203
    @artishasohtun6203 Рік тому +3

    I'm really blessed by the message 🙏🙏🙏

    • @DrWanjau
      @DrWanjau Рік тому

      Dr, ur right. Forgiveness is not a one day thing. It took u years to forgive ur father. Time heals

  • @naomyronoh7632
    @naomyronoh7632 Місяць тому

    Thanks a lot man of God, it's a great massage.

  • @julianakasema765
    @julianakasema765 Рік тому

    Thank you so much

  • @monicahkariuki5166
    @monicahkariuki5166 Рік тому

    Lovely message

  • @bowenvicek3504
    @bowenvicek3504 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Lord for such a blessed & inspired information from your servant..I have picked my part may Forgiveness manifest in my ❤ for your own glory Lord...thank you man of God

    • @evelynbusobozi5617
      @evelynbusobozi5617 Рік тому +1

      Gd lessons. Forgiveness is a virtue for de strong ones. OMG

  • @kanariomiriti2924
    @kanariomiriti2924 Рік тому

    Great help thanks❤

  • @ruthnambeye700
    @ruthnambeye700 Рік тому

    Thank you pastor for this message.iam blessed

  • @nantarelillian5294
    @nantarelillian5294 Рік тому

    For really we have to take everything out to be easily because life is too short👌👌thank you so much Good luck may the Lord blessing you more🤝🤝🙌🙌🙏🙏

  • @SolomonOnyiloInalegwu-xr9to

    Good message 🙏🙏

  • @alphonseoa7105
    @alphonseoa7105 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for the good message.

  • @pastorasha7899
    @pastorasha7899 Рік тому

    We forgive because we are forgiven past , future and present sins were all washed away by the blood of Jesus

  • @jaredonsare181
    @jaredonsare181 5 місяців тому

    Nice,I enjoy how you atticulate issues,I have time for you

  • @monicandegi3967
    @monicandegi3967 Рік тому +2

    Awesome message bt I dt know how to go about forgiving somebody who is very close to me coz of continues behaviour of hurting my heart..God give me grace to overcome this..my prayer.

  • @user-xw8go4rf7r
    @user-xw8go4rf7r 11 місяців тому

    It's true only the humble only one

  • @dayancamara3266
    @dayancamara3266 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this message I'm relieved now,cos I use to say what my partner has done thinking I have forgiven him. But it plays back to me cos he now does it in my face without remorse.

  • @annnjeri4928
    @annnjeri4928 Рік тому +1

    That's true

  • @janesemurray2543
    @janesemurray2543 10 місяців тому +1

    I don't forgive or forget easily sometimes i think that holding me down

  • @Jacki2023
    @Jacki2023 Рік тому

    Powerful

  • @Jesusandme100
    @Jesusandme100 Рік тому

    Amen

  • @chimukachoobe5637
    @chimukachoobe5637 Рік тому

    This is good

  • @user-lj1sj3zc6g
    @user-lj1sj3zc6g Рік тому

    Amen and amen

  • @user-ck1xh3fz5d
    @user-ck1xh3fz5d 8 місяців тому

    Pain for more and more years pls God help me to forgive 😭😭😭😭

  • @user-xw8go4rf7r
    @user-xw8go4rf7r 11 місяців тому

    Yes

  • @jannymarsh9909
    @jannymarsh9909 Рік тому

    Let for give

  • @myfinancechannel2432
    @myfinancechannel2432 Рік тому +1

    Dr please make a video how to stop ruminating thoughts on sadness and move on 🙏

    • @tee-totheroyalty8763
      @tee-totheroyalty8763 Рік тому

      If you are a believer of GOD, read your Bible often. Fellowship with other believers in the teaching of GOD'S Words. Gradually you will overcome it.

  • @adebolaayodele5450
    @adebolaayodele5450 Рік тому

    Wao! I love the reconciliation aspect. So many people believe or think you must reconcile totally after a hurt. You have spoken my mind concerning reconciliation. Forgiveness is a must. But I need clearance here: when the same person you kept on forgiven kept on hurting you controlling you as well;and these are people you are close with;what do you do ?

  • @sarahkerubo5841
    @sarahkerubo5841 Рік тому +2

    How do u do this? Every time you remember the other party's actions, the bitterness comes back automatically.

  • @asiatuconteh301
    @asiatuconteh301 Рік тому

    👏👏👏👏

  • @rauhanakale7667
    @rauhanakale7667 Рік тому

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙏

  • @winniembilu-ue1ff
    @winniembilu-ue1ff Рік тому

    J decided to forgive some one how hurt me and l was in Alot of pain

  • @AlphonseMarko
    @AlphonseMarko 9 місяців тому

    Very tru brother,ok one question for me and this is Tru,, recently my wife has been cheated on me?we have two daughters,what will I do to her now, we've gone Through councelling, please brother I really need your reply

  • @donRoberts79
    @donRoberts79 Рік тому

    Hello Dr. Jacob, I thank you for your teaching on forgiveness. But what about forgiving someone who planned to take your life. Do you forgive and let yourself at the mercy of the one that you forgave? How do you know that they will do more damage to your life?