The Mister as Told by The Dom

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  • @ffnendhgrgd
    @ffnendhgrgd 2 роки тому +2479

    The power disparity between a billionaire and a working class woman wasn't bad enough, so James went with an aristocrat and an undocumented immigrant. I think we all know her real kink.

    • @krankarvolund7771
      @krankarvolund7771 2 роки тому +432

      What will be the next step? I bet for a historical romance between a master and his slave :p

    • @adeer87
      @adeer87 2 роки тому +299

      @@krankarvolund7771
      Don’t give her any ideas!

    • @thegayghost872
      @thegayghost872 2 роки тому +218

      @@krankarvolund7771 I’m willing to bet money she has a book like that in progress right now

    • @kaichen04
      @kaichen04 2 роки тому +81

      @@krankarvolund7771 One of Brazil's most famous classic books, Slave Isaura.

    • @Tareltonlives
      @Tareltonlives 2 роки тому +18

      @@krankarvolund7771 I'm sure she's writing that now.

  • @timothymclean
    @timothymclean 2 роки тому +3514

    In 50 Shades, it was plausible that Anastasia's infantilization was just a byproduct of how EL James imagines female virtue. But between emphasizing how small Alessia is, the child's nightlamp, and _the Spongebob Squarepants pajama bottoms,_ it feels a _lot_ more deliberate now.

    • @DS-uh6ss
      @DS-uh6ss 2 роки тому +1

      The way she demonizes confident, self-assured women in all of her texts is the flip side of it. Women must be modest, demure, and self-deprecating. Women are only allowed to be confident if they're mouthing off to another woman who wants to fuck THEIR MAY-UN!

    • @Xehanort10
      @Xehanort10 2 роки тому

      Which makes Alessia being sold into sex trafficking and Maxim using both that and her childlike nature to get her to have sex with him even worse.

    • @Cailus3542
      @Cailus3542 2 роки тому +384

      Just when you think it couldn't get worse, she makes it worse.

    • @Nerobyrne
      @Nerobyrne 2 роки тому +314

      I'm surprised she's not a 10000 year old dragon

    • @thatitalianlameguy2235
      @thatitalianlameguy2235 2 роки тому +136

      @@Nerobyrne I'm just a little baby girl!
      zero?
      I'M A THOUSAND!
      NOPE-

  • @loyaultemelie7909
    @loyaultemelie7909 2 роки тому +2932

    She’s not like other girls, she has horrible ptsd♥️

    • @gstonemeetsred
      @gstonemeetsred 2 роки тому +22

      🤣 🤣 🤣

    • @Panda_Roll
      @Panda_Roll 2 роки тому +111

      Baby got backstory ❣

    • @Tareltonlives
      @Tareltonlives 2 роки тому +3

      And trauma turns James on

    • @adeer87
      @adeer87 2 роки тому +86

      Just girly things 💕

    • @lulufan100
      @lulufan100 2 роки тому +112

      What doesn't kill you makes you... sexy? 🤔

  • @DS-uh6ss
    @DS-uh6ss 2 роки тому +2429

    I'm continually astounded at how Erika, a UK resident and citizen, writes about life in England like she's a 15-year-old who's never been there before but saw an Austen adaptation on telly once.

    • @timothymclean
      @timothymclean 2 роки тому +77

      If this hypothetical 15-year-old hasn't been to England, why would she watch telly and not TV?

    • @DS-uh6ss
      @DS-uh6ss 2 роки тому +95

      @@timothymclean Erika would watch telly.

    • @KristopherBel
      @KristopherBel 2 роки тому +166

      @@timothymclean because the person who wrote the comment is from England, sort of like if I were to talk about a hypothetical person from Spain I wouldn't have to do it in Spanish.

    • @marocat4749
      @marocat4749 2 роки тому +59

      Bold to asume whe did watch a jane austin adaptation

    • @samuelbarber6177
      @samuelbarber6177 2 роки тому +44

      I’d say more like one or two scenes from Rebecca seeing as she took a name from it

  • @izunahosaki6133
    @izunahosaki6133 2 роки тому +4019

    I know you suffered for us, but just remember that for a lot of women like me, it feels so very cathartic to see someone be disgusted and horrified by these kind of stories and mentalities. It's like seeing someone get mad for us when we don't even have the energy to be mad anymore because we're so used to see these kind of tropes and mentalities throughout différent medias

    • @adeer87
      @adeer87 2 роки тому +123

      I second this!

    • @Remerdre
      @Remerdre 2 роки тому +132

      Amen. It does give me hope just when I'm ready to go outside and set things on fire.

    • @onbearfeet
      @onbearfeet 2 роки тому +256

      As a woman with abuse-related PTSD, I second this. It's incredibly validating to hear someone describe a situation similar to the one you survived as "awful" rather than "what are you whining about?" (My background doesn't resemble anything in this book, but Dom's reactions to more familiar situations in other books are a big part of why I follow him.) If it's any consolation, Dom, you actually are helping people when you are appalled by appalling things.

    • @alarcon99
      @alarcon99 2 роки тому +37

      Yup. THIS.

    • @searchingfororion
      @searchingfororion 2 роки тому +53

      @@Remerdre Well worded. *Many* times (it's practically a catchphrase) the individuals around me will sense the shift in my, for lack of a better word, 'chi' and proclaim, "Remember - setting people on fire is *wrong.* "

  • @justme0910
    @justme0910 2 роки тому +1668

    Can't wait for Mitchell's next book, which is probably gonna be about a woman who was literally raised by wolves being taken advantage of by the dictator of a medium-sized country or something, given her track record.

    • @Romanticoutlaw
      @Romanticoutlaw 2 роки тому +316

      hell, I'm ready for her to leap straight to scifi emperor of the known universe and a woman grown from a test tube just for him

    • @vysharra
      @vysharra 2 роки тому +154

      @@Romanticoutlaw that one is her end game. She has to wait for new horrible words to be invented about incredibly toxic relationships for it to really match her vision.

    • @3crowsinatrenchcoat
      @3crowsinatrenchcoat 2 роки тому +111

      I'd read that if at the end the woman guts him with her wolf family and takes over the dictatorship

    • @grell5108
      @grell5108 2 роки тому +89

      Even better:
      If the god of the universe had a thing for a devout follower with Peter pan syndrome.

    • @Blue_Lunacy
      @Blue_Lunacy 2 роки тому +31

      @@Romanticoutlaw That was kind of the plot of Emperor of Dune.

  • @theoneandonlymichaelmccormick
    @theoneandonlymichaelmccormick 2 роки тому +2116

    Erika Mitchel had thought to herself about how she could possibly make the power disparity between her leads any more uncomfortable, and eventually came to the conclusion of “I know! I’ll make him literal royalty, and I’ll make her an undocumented immigrant!”

    • @timothymclean
      @timothymclean 2 роки тому +163

      Technically just aristocracy. _Literal_ royalty is restricted to kings, emperors, some dukes, and their families.

    • @theoneandonlymichaelmccormick
      @theoneandonlymichaelmccormick 2 роки тому +160

      @@timothymclean Fine, EFFECTIVE royalty.

    • @henrygvidonas9573
      @henrygvidonas9573 2 роки тому +128

      @@theoneandonlymichaelmccormick Her lawyer probably told her that she couldn't use William or Harry for her crappy BDSM-done-completely-wrong book because of personality/likeness rights...
      Just kidding! Kind of... but not really.

    • @hiddenechoes
      @hiddenechoes 2 роки тому +2

      🤣

    • @theoneandonlymichaelmccormick
      @theoneandonlymichaelmccormick 2 роки тому +90

      @@henrygvidonas9573 More like Andrew, given his simultaneous purchase of a child’s night light and a prophylactic.

  • @metasequoiaglyptostroboides
    @metasequoiaglyptostroboides 2 роки тому +852

    So Alicia has her mind blown by the ocean, while being from Albania with a very big coast line and at most 4 hours to the sea from any point in the country... Yeah, totally... And the rest is just disgusting as well. Thank you for suffering for us 😅

    • @noahhobson4521
      @noahhobson4521 2 роки тому +85

      EL James did all of her research on Albania by watching the movie Wag the Dog.

    • @fyraltari1889
      @fyraltari1889 2 роки тому +128

      How did she even get to the UK without seeing the sea?

    • @MightyArgos
      @MightyArgos 2 роки тому +18

      I was about to make this point myself.

    • @clouddd8053
      @clouddd8053 2 роки тому +28

      To be fair, the Albanian coastline is seas with smaller waves than the Atlantic Ocean but honestly I don’t know how she’s still a writer

    • @Grim_Sister
      @Grim_Sister 2 роки тому +49

      This is basically like an Israeli having their mind blown over hummus
      Or an Italian shocked by the art in the Vatican

  • @cakt1991
    @cakt1991 2 роки тому +662

    This just confirms the theory I had all along: she fell in love with 1970s/80s historical romance with all its toxicity, but the industry has moved on beyond that so, she tried to have her cake and eat it by doing all of this in a contemporary.

    • @DS-uh6ss
      @DS-uh6ss 2 роки тому +91

      Her stuff reads 100% like those late-80s/early-90s Fabio bodice rippers combined with fanfic of the same era.

    • @AnnekeOosterink
      @AnnekeOosterink 2 роки тому +27

      I mean, those kinds of books are still available. She could definitely write for that market.

    • @cakt1991
      @cakt1991 2 роки тому +66

      @@AnnekeOosterink as a romance reader, I will say the traditional romance publishing market has changed a lot…especially since 2016 for obvious reasons. Less readers and authors want to romanticize toxic power dynamics, although it still exists in some corners of publishing, particularly in indie “dark” romance, as there’s always an audience for it. But I’d recommend looking up stuff about what authors have said recently in press for their books (plus Twitter). A good one is historical romance author Sarah MacLean discussing how the 2016 election inspired a revision of the book she was working on at the time to be less of a jerk.

    • @Tareltonlives
      @Tareltonlives 2 роки тому

      I completely believe that. she's one of the die-hards trying to keep the old toxic bodice-ripper tropes.

    • @petrosinella
      @petrosinella 2 роки тому +57

      I've read a few Harlequin books from the 80's, and I agree about the toxic relationships. However, those books were WAY better written than Erika's stuff. The other authors I read knew how to build sexual tension to the point where you're on the edge of your seat waiting for the actual sex to start. When it does, the author describes it in a way that turns the reader on. So, the toxic aspect fades into the background, and you can have fun with the fantasy.

  • @KyleRayner12
    @KyleRayner12 2 роки тому +532

    The empty gun is unironically the funniest thing I've heard this week. It's like something out of an SNL sketch that goes on 4 minutes too long.

    • @Arosukir6
      @Arosukir6 2 роки тому +53

      The three screams of "No!" really bring it home for me 🤣

    • @mariefoose998
      @mariefoose998 2 роки тому +29

      Omg I couldn't believe such a scene made it past editing! Like, did the publishing company even LOOK at this book...? 😶😶

    • @NWolfsson
      @NWolfsson 2 роки тому +49

      (imagine this situation in a low-end theater looking set)
      Alessia: Do not worry, everyone, the gun is empty!
      Anatoli: Drat, well I shall still try to shoot!
      Alessia: Please, no! He's my only family!
      Anatoli: Bang!
      Everybody: *screams and alarm as if it was the sound of the gun rather than Anatoli bratfully screaming the word*
      Alessia's father: I... I'm alive!
      Alessia: He's alive!
      Maxim: He's alive!
      Anatoli: Drat, he's alive! How is that possible?

    • @Eloraurora
      @Eloraurora 2 роки тому +17

      @@NWolfsson This is such an improvement! The image of a bunch of community theater people playing this scene for laughs is amazing.
      ...for some reason I'm picturing stage!Maxim wearing a money-printed tracksuit and enormous sunglasses.

    • @NWolfsson
      @NWolfsson 2 роки тому +8

      @@Eloraurora By the Spirits that's an absolutely perfect version of Maxim! I'd do Gucci personally, but straight-up money-print is really good!

  • @Caernath
    @Caernath 2 роки тому +690

    Dom: “In the unlikely even that any snipers are watching me right now, please just take the shot.”
    Sniper hired by people fooled by Dom’s The Room video: “That would be too easy for you.”

    • @BLZ231
      @BLZ231 2 роки тому +82

      “Professionals have standards.”

    • @juanortiz9123
      @juanortiz9123 2 роки тому +32

      NEVER FORGET PRIMA APRILYS

    • @helenacleveland3444
      @helenacleveland3444 2 роки тому +6

      They are empty. No, wait - NO, don't shoot! :D

    • @EllieC130
      @EllieC130 Рік тому +6

      Wait, we have the finances to hire a sniper?!

    • @greywalker505
      @greywalker505 Рік тому +4

      @@EllieC130
      Wait, you guys have *finances?*

  • @valentinarunko67
    @valentinarunko67 2 роки тому +563

    As a Croatian, I'm so annoyed at E.L. James for even marginally involving Zagreb (the capital of Croatia) in this dumpster fire she calls a book. 🙄

    • @lelnel6242
      @lelnel6242 2 роки тому +22

      As someone who hates Zagreb, it deserved better than being in this book

    • @valentinarunko67
      @valentinarunko67 2 роки тому +4

      @@lelnel6242 *deserve.
      Ako ćeš biti trol na internetu, barem nauči pravilnu gramatiku, srećo. 😘

    • @lelnel6242
      @lelnel6242 2 роки тому +8

      @@valentinarunko67 lol na početku sam htjela napisati 'it didn't derseve to be in this book' ali je to bilo previše dvosmisleno... Na kraju zaboravim izbrisati 'didn't'.

    • @valentinarunko67
      @valentinarunko67 2 роки тому +3

      @@lelnel6242 Hahha, kako se značenje lako promijeni 🙈😉

    • @stellabelikiewicz1523
      @stellabelikiewicz1523 2 роки тому +3

      @@lelnel6242 ha ha! That’s some great shade on both things 😄

  • @EricaPThompson
    @EricaPThompson 2 роки тому +808

    I've decided that Ms. James isn't a bad author; she's actually an excellent programmer and all her novels were written by the AI she developed.

    • @lostbutfreesoul
      @lostbutfreesoul 2 роки тому +75

      Nah... they have better grasp of Paragraph Format.

    • @DS-uh6ss
      @DS-uh6ss 2 роки тому +47

      @@lostbutfreesoul the fact that Erika usually tags one character's dialogue with another character's actions is a continual peeve.

    • @searchingfororion
      @searchingfororion 2 роки тому +15

      Well thanks HAL.

    • @chartypeplays2396
      @chartypeplays2396 2 роки тому +28

      Ah yes, good old MisogynyBot.

    • @NWolfsson
      @NWolfsson 2 роки тому +24

      Considering I have recently twiddled around with AI Dungeon and managed to steer it to write good fiction and engaging smut, I'd say she isn't that great of a programmer.

  • @benzass95
    @benzass95 2 роки тому +247

    Hey Dom, there is a thing called "Broken Heart Syndrome" in the medical field. It usually applies to older recent widows and widowers that literally give up on life and die a couple days later because they cant stand living without their love.

    • @peterknutsen3070
      @peterknutsen3070 2 роки тому +55

      Yeah. A few days later might make sense. Not 4 years later, until “broken” heart is an euphemism for him seeking escape from his sorrows in a cocaine habit of unholy magnitude, which then wears out his heart over the course of 4 years.

    • @LaurenPebble
      @LaurenPebble 2 роки тому +36

      @@peterknutsen3070 to my knowledge, doctors still count it as Broken Heart Syndrome for a few years after a person’s significant other passes/leaves. Days after is only in extreme cases.

    • @peterknutsen3070
      @peterknutsen3070 2 роки тому +14

      @@LaurenPebble I sit corrected, then.

    • @billuraral1870
      @billuraral1870 Рік тому

      Dad Travelyen: *dies of a heart attack four years after the divorce*
      Maxim: It was heart break! It's Mum's fault for being a slut!!!
      Also; for some reason, I imagine Dad Travelyen being identical to Maxim but with a bushy moustace

    • @radschele1815
      @radschele1815 Рік тому

      Hah... the broken heart Syndrome is not connected to death.
      It is connected to any break up or auf, where you may have actual symptoms of a hat attack. And one can see it in EKG graphs.
      It is not a heart attack as no arterias or venes are clogged.
      It is not connected directly to death, but it shows how much the psyche can influence the body.

  • @Shades14
    @Shades14 2 роки тому +470

    As much as I hate James and her work, she at least has me feel more confident in my writing skills even as just a humble fanfiction writer.

    • @misscarolinasousa
      @misscarolinasousa 2 роки тому +57

      I kid you not: she is one of my inspirations to finally move past the fear of publishing something. If this garbage has an audience, there are readers out there for me too

    • @stuffwithsoph8264
      @stuffwithsoph8264 2 роки тому +24

      FR, I'm an amateur writer and I want to be a writer and be able to make a living off of my work but I am so scared of being bad or mediocre, but then i'm like "okay but she's done it so i think im good" 💀

    • @klaytonalexandermatthews2047
      @klaytonalexandermatthews2047 2 роки тому +12

      @@stuffwithsoph8264 the book that did that for me is the smut novel about a hunky covid-19 virus that 'makes love' to the protagonist....
      And I just ... Needed to lie down about hearing that

    • @Thewritingelf
      @Thewritingelf 2 роки тому +6

      @@klaytonalexandermatthews2047 That image… I don’t even need to really read this shit to know that if what I’m imaging is what’s in that book…..I might have to lay down as well LMAO.

    • @TheeKittyPie
      @TheeKittyPie Рік тому

      @@stuffwithsoph8264 @Carolina Sousa
      YES, I’m not gonna say my writing is perfect at all but if 50 shades of all things can become a best seller shit let me take a stab at it, my stuff is Lord of The Rings in comparison

  • @kristinlundell9924
    @kristinlundell9924 2 роки тому +604

    This makes me feel like my worries about "not being good enough to write" almost evaporate >.

    • @lelnel6242
      @lelnel6242 2 роки тому +49

      Never wrote a book, eng isn't even my first language, but this story gave me courage to start writing a fanfiction and one day I'm going to publish it on wattpad.
      To be fair I'm first going to write it like a screenplay and then change it into a book format, and see how that goes.

    • @kristinlundell9924
      @kristinlundell9924 2 роки тому +17

      @@lelnel6242 heck yes! Come back and post a link, ok? :3

    • @fruitygarlic3601
      @fruitygarlic3601 2 роки тому +11

      @@lelnel6242 I think you'd like the book 'Of Mice and Men', if you haven't read it already. The prose was written to easily translate as a stageplay.

    • @sigidaly9950
      @sigidaly9950 2 роки тому +16

      Ngl Dom reading The Mister made me wanna write again fully out of spite. Problem is that this plus a bunch of actual play vids have been my only media consumption for a while which isn’t helping my writing all that much XD

    • @Timothy4468
      @Timothy4468 2 роки тому +5

      Agreed. E.L. James is reassuring aspiring writers everywhere.

  • @jessmorgan6732
    @jessmorgan6732 2 роки тому +333

    My favorite thing about this book is how often Maximuscle thinks about how attractive Alessia is and, in two or three separate instances later, thinks some version of "I want her. There. I've admitted it to myself."

    • @barryallen2240
      @barryallen2240 2 роки тому +88

      I hate this book. There. I've admitted it to myself.

    • @adeer87
      @adeer87 2 роки тому

      I want Maxipad to die. There. I’ve admitted it to myself.

    • @fruitygarlic3601
      @fruitygarlic3601 2 роки тому +36

      me, having just finished my eighth litre of milk for the day: 'I want dairy. There. I've admitted it to myself.'

    • @coffeewolfproductions9113
      @coffeewolfproductions9113 2 роки тому +17

      Me eating my 5th cookie today: I want sweets. There, I've admitted it to myself.

    • @bellamckenzie4433
      @bellamckenzie4433 Рік тому

      @@fruitygarlic3601 this comment made me choke 😭

  • @JuanJose-bc2gs
    @JuanJose-bc2gs 2 роки тому +732

    As someone with synesthesia (chromesthesia, which is the type of synesthesia Alessia has), it annoys me that this is the only example of synesthesia in media I can think of.
    Also, your current opening theme for Lost In Adaptation is blue with hints of green at the end to me. The music heard between sections is full on dark green.

    • @jackmesrel4933
      @jackmesrel4933 2 роки тому +72

      There's an anime called Canaan, whose MC is a girl with synesthesia and is based on a Type Moon story so it's pretty good. Check it out, that way this terrible book won't be your only representation XD

    • @timothymclean
      @timothymclean 2 роки тому +55

      To my surprise, TV Tropes is insufficient to help me find additional media with synesthesiac(?) characters. Which seems like a pretty clear sign that either they're _super_ rare, or that's considered too nitpicky for even a community built around cataloguing random trends in fiction.

    • @lorekeeper585
      @lorekeeper585 2 роки тому +72

      There is a YA book called A Mango Shaped Space where the main character also has synesthesia similar to Alessia and also sees letters and numbers in different colors. The main character had an embarrassing moment as a kid where other kids laughed at her for using different colored chalk while solving a math problem and after that she went out of her way too hide her synesthesia from everyone. Eventually it's revealed and the plot goes from there. It's been several years since I've read it but that's the only other book I can think of.

    • @JuanJose-bc2gs
      @JuanJose-bc2gs 2 роки тому +2

      @@timothymclean I'd say it's probably the latter.

    • @JuanJose-bc2gs
      @JuanJose-bc2gs 2 роки тому +18

      @@lorekeeper585 That actually sounds like a really interesting read. Thanks for the recommendation 🙂

  • @theMadCEHMist
    @theMadCEHMist 2 роки тому +1119

    So EL James, the author allegedly horrified at the idea anyone saw abuse in Fifty Shades, straight up wrote a rape scene in her next book…
    Yikes. 😬
    But it’s ok because, even though Alessia was super drunk and super vulnerable, she totally wanted it so it’s fine. 😬😬😬

    • @timothymclean
      @timothymclean 2 роки тому +181

      "It's not rape if she actually wanted it."
      -EL James, probably.

    • @DS-uh6ss
      @DS-uh6ss 2 роки тому +1

      "It's not rape if he's hot and rich!" "It's not rape if she comes!" - Erika and her idiot fans

    • @abadenoughdude300
      @abadenoughdude300 2 роки тому +1

      Apparently it's only ra pe when the perpetrator is an ugly bastard, when it's a totally sexy prince charming the readers are supposed to have hots for then it's fine. 😑

    • @amityislandchum
      @amityislandchum 2 роки тому

      GOD and it is so much more disturbing that instead of writing a scene where they both get drunk, go home, and fuck, she literally took the time to write in a scene of Maxim saying, "I am aware that you are drunk and unable to consent, and that you experienced a very traumatic event today, and it would be rape for me to sleep with you," FOLLOWED BY HIM DOING THAT.
      WHY. WHAT WAS GAINED BY LETTING THE AUDIENCE KNOW THAT HE MADE A CONSCIOUS CHOICE TO RAPE HER.

    • @amityislandchum
      @amityislandchum 2 роки тому +79

      @@timothymclean EL James, the US justice system, the US voters, and the US politicians. (I say US because that's the system I intimately know, but let's be real... It's everywhere.)

  • @Roseforthethorns
    @Roseforthethorns 2 роки тому +319

    “She’s not like that. Demure and totally focused on her job, Alessia seems reluctant to engage with me”
    YEAH MAYBE BECAUSE YOU HIRED HER FOR A JOB AND ARE NOW BEING A CREEPAZOID
    smdh I’m so sorry you had to read this

  • @whiteraven562
    @whiteraven562 2 роки тому +530

    Broken Heart Syndrome (or Stress Cardiomyopethy) is a real medical condition, and it can be fatal. Though usually only in old people. EL James got one (1) thing right, ish.

    • @Tareltonlives
      @Tareltonlives 2 роки тому +130

      All she needed was to mention an underlying heart condition, or a weakened immune system, or a combination of factors. Like it made sense in Star Wars since it's someone who also just delivered twins. But James was too lazy

    • @coffeewolfproductions9113
      @coffeewolfproductions9113 2 роки тому +100

      @@Tareltonlives Not to mention the fact that Anakin strangled her to the point of passing out beforehand. I'm no doctor but even I know that that probably would have made her pregnancy and delivery 100 times more dangerous for everyone involved.

    • @johannesseyfried7933
      @johannesseyfried7933 2 роки тому +66

      @@coffeewolfproductions9113 On top of needing to come to terms with the Fact that your Husband not just attacked you, but is also working for a Sith-Lord *and* has just slaughtered his own Colleagues in cold blood.

    • @anna-flora999
      @anna-flora999 2 роки тому +1

      ​@@johannesseyfried7933 I mean, that's nothing new. She already knows that he also tends to murder the women and children, too

    • @helloill672
      @helloill672 2 роки тому +51

      @@johannesseyfried7933 and the fact that the democratic system you tried so hard to work was taken over by that sith lord who made your husband evil

  • @RobinNicoagain
    @RobinNicoagain 2 роки тому +272

    I had a chuckle when you mentioned the whole lordship thing in the beginning. Since James obviously does minimal amount of research, I can say that most English lords do not have money and fortune behind them these days. Only queen's family, friends and associates have any riches left among their titles.
    Most of the families just pass the lord title like a bit of family furniture. They just shrug and go on with their lives because you gain absolutelly nothing with it. My hubby's family has the title of duke and whenever they go to their old historic properties, the guides usually get excited to hear any old family stories that they have plenty of. :D The guides were also kind enough to let my hubby's gradfather to restricted parts of the property for a moment just because he lived there when he was a little and it cheered him up at the time.

    • @sorryifoldcomment8596
      @sorryifoldcomment8596 2 роки тому +62

      Yeah, I thought this book was set in the farther past due to all the "Lord = fabulously wealthy" shit...until I heard "his brother died in a motorcycle accident." 😂

    • @jemdragons3120
      @jemdragons3120 10 місяців тому +2

      Oh that's so sweet though.

    • @unhackerthelaziestbastardo6083
      @unhackerthelaziestbastardo6083 6 місяців тому +1

      Oh yeah, I remember that EL James basically made Maxim make a point of stating how *this* family wasn't poor.

  • @shymayfly2222
    @shymayfly2222 2 роки тому +776

    I honestly didn't think EL James could get anymore disgusting or downright horrifying in her writing than the 50 shades nonsense but I stand corrected.
    The thing that horrifies me the most is just how infantalized the main lead actually is. I have no intentions of ever reading this book, and you are a saint for suffering through it, but just the few descriptions of her and how she's both treated by others and how she's framed by the narrative were enough to make me extremely uncomfortable.

    • @0_isha_041
      @0_isha_041 2 роки тому +43

      A youtuber named Krimsonrouge made a more detailed video explaining/reviewing the book and throughout it he gets angry and though the book is disgusting, it’s amusing to see him go insane.
      His video is the first time I’ve ever heard of The Mister and watching it, like you, I couldn’t believe James could go worse. Not saying you should check it out because god The Mister disgust me but if you’re a fan of Dom then I suggest giving Krimsonrouge a watch if you like a 1 hour long man yells at a bad book

    • @shymayfly2222
      @shymayfly2222 2 роки тому +14

      @@0_isha_041 Thank you for the video suggestion. I'll definitely have to watch that one next.

    • @jesusofsuburbia3675
      @jesusofsuburbia3675 2 роки тому +30

      @@shymayfly2222 krimson makes like hours long very detailed reviews of horrible books.
      It's like having an audiobook but the reader is self aware to go "wtf am I reading"

    • @NWolfsson
      @NWolfsson 2 роки тому +14

      EL James: Oh right, I heard the complains, my next work will be less problematic.
      Narrator: It was not.

    • @donaldhysa4836
      @donaldhysa4836 2 роки тому

      SHe is into infants dont kink shame

  • @LixiaWinter
    @LixiaWinter 2 роки тому +174

    It's chilling how accurate and nuanced her writing becomes, when she writes about abuse and trauma

    • @coffeewolfproductions9113
      @coffeewolfproductions9113 2 роки тому +38

      Uh do you mean the accuracy of how abusive it is, because from what I've seen of her she doesn't recognize it as abuse.

    • @LixiaWinter
      @LixiaWinter 2 роки тому +81

      This is exactly what I mean. She gives so much tiny, subtle details, but then she just "and it was true love, HAPPY END"

    • @tristanhartup4936
      @tristanhartup4936 2 роки тому +56

      The scariest part is the fact that she portrays said abuse and trauma as true love, and I'm sitting here thinking, "What the fuck is wrong with this woman?!"

    • @ezrastardust3124
      @ezrastardust3124 2 роки тому +35

      @@tristanhartup4936 I suspect she’s got more than a few skeletons in her closet

  • @verbena208
    @verbena208 2 роки тому +213

    Mitchel missed a great opportunity here to create a memorable title. Something like Shades of Melody or the Hues of Love would have been a far better title than The Mister considering the girl can literally see colors.

    • @belagrolaub8746
      @belagrolaub8746 2 роки тому +55

      you probably mean "can literally see music" because... a lot of people can see colours XD i'm sorry
      please have a nice day

    • @TheMissileHappy
      @TheMissileHappy 2 роки тому +17

      No way, I can see colours too! xD

    • @timothymclean
      @timothymclean 2 роки тому +8

      Shades of Melody would be rejected on the basis of sounding like a 50 Shades spinoff rather than an unrelated romance novel. Though it wouldn't surprise me if Erica Mitchell had pitched the manuscript under that sort of title...

    • @asthajindal5275
      @asthajindal5275 2 роки тому +2

      Kind of think she meant "the master", then changed it last moment for whatever reason.

  • @abisnow1843
    @abisnow1843 2 роки тому +47

    I watched generallypooky's videos on the Mister, and in the latest one, they point out JUST HOW MUCH Maxim asks her permission before they sleep together for the first time.
    It's like James was so hung up on the fact that people interpreted 50 shades as abusive/SA-y that she wanted to make it ABSOLUTELY CLEAR that she is CONSENTING.
    Ignoring how vulnerable she is bc of all the alcohol she drank!!!!

    • @becauseimafan
      @becauseimafan 2 роки тому +1

      OMG, what?!! LMFAO!!! 🤣🤣 What the hell, E.L.!

  • @professoroat1310
    @professoroat1310 2 роки тому +178

    Do you think James knows that Albania has a coast on a much nicer sea? Or just chose a country at random and never googled it

    • @sweetbunnybun
      @sweetbunnybun 2 роки тому +36

      I think she just picked a random EE country, maybe she saw sonewhere that the uk has an albanian diaspora or something. She prolly doesnt even know where is it or talked to a person from albania

    • @thequeenofcringe1585
      @thequeenofcringe1585 2 роки тому +12

      Hey, give her some credit! She knows what the capital of Albania is.

    • @billuraral1870
      @billuraral1870 Рік тому +10

      She probably watched the Taken movies and took the Albanian represetetion at face value. Or, thinks place with a Muslim percentage= savage lands.

  • @HattiesVlogs
    @HattiesVlogs 2 роки тому +47

    Just remembered that when he is going to rescue Alessia he takes time out of his day to check his instagram. Because priorities. ...

  • @lancerguy3667
    @lancerguy3667 2 роки тому +167

    That was also what put me off about the book, more than... y'know... EVERYTHING about the book.
    Anna was naive to the point of farce, but I at least believed her age. She could, on the rarest of rare occasions, occasionally show some awareness of things going on around her, and even make an attempt at sass or sardonic with. (er, 'attempt' being the key word, there.)
    Alessia 'literally' comes across as a 10-year-old girl in a grown woman's body. At no point in the entire book does she ever even offer to be able to comprehend what's going on around her. It was just so deeply, deeply unsettling.
    I won't begrudge her the Spongebob pajama pants, though. I've had more than one girlfriend who would absolutely rock those as an adult.

    • @stellabelikiewicz1523
      @stellabelikiewicz1523 2 роки тому +3

      Like Buffy in her yummy sushi pajamas 😄

    • @stuffwithsoph8264
      @stuffwithsoph8264 2 роки тому +15

      @@stellabelikiewicz1523 Or Willow with ANY of the outfits she wore lol, fashion taste can be youthful and fine but at least Buffy and Willow acted their respected ages throughout the show

    • @stellabelikiewicz1523
      @stellabelikiewicz1523 2 роки тому +2

      @@stuffwithsoph8264 oh my god, some of Willow’s outfits 😆! Good times, and one of my favorite characters in all of fiction despite some of those questionable hats!

    • @stuffwithsoph8264
      @stuffwithsoph8264 2 роки тому +2

      @@stellabelikiewicz1523 Willow had questionable drip but she was unique, Buffy, Cordelia and Harmony were always dripped out though

    • @stellabelikiewicz1523
      @stellabelikiewicz1523 2 роки тому +4

      @@stuffwithsoph8264 ooh, this is me learning a new term, “drip” as a term for I assume fashion sense? Very exciting!

  • @Dormant_Chrysalis
    @Dormant_Chrysalis 2 роки тому +299

    I am still completely amazed that she named the male protagonist "Trevelyan" - the surname of the protagonist in Dragon Age: Inquisition if a human is chosen. I have a sneaking suspicion that James came across a few too many "this is my Dragon Age OC" posts online and just stole the name. I think the Dragon Age: Inquisition hype might line up with when the book came out, too.

    • @Hombie-f6p
      @Hombie-f6p 2 роки тому +54

      To me at least "Trevelyan" brings to mind the English civil servant/baronet that described the Irish potato famine as "the judgement of God sent the calamity to teach the Irish a lesson" long before it does Dragon Age, and considering the British setting and him being British aristocracy that seems like a more likely if even more baffling derivation.
      I sincerely hope the character doesn't wasn't named for that one, but I do feel like singing 'Fields of Athenry' whenever I hear him mentioned lol.

    • @NotyourAngel162
      @NotyourAngel162 2 роки тому +5

      I was wondering if someone would catch that lol

    • @joelmole3157
      @joelmole3157 2 роки тому +55

      Trevelyan also reminds me of Alec Trevelyan from Goldeneye and the lines “For England, James?” and “No… for me” become a perfect metaphor for this book

    • @alexmcleod9078
      @alexmcleod9078 2 роки тому +25

      I first ran across the name Trevelyan in a mystery novel, it was the name of a construction company owner who had other dirty business going on. Apparently the name is Welsh origin and not unheard-of.

    • @alexandrialeonora6542
      @alexandrialeonora6542 2 роки тому +10

      @@joelmole3157 That's literally who I think of whenever I hear the name "Trevelyan". In fact, the only person I will ever think of. Sean Bean in "007: Goldeneye."

  • @KurganMacLeod
    @KurganMacLeod 2 роки тому +319

    So, fun story here: one of my favourite book series of all time is The Dark is Rising Sequence by Susan Cooper, its been one of my favourites since I was a small child (and it also has a shite adaptation if anyone with more money than me wants to take the hint). The thing is, the majority of the plots of books one and three of the Sequence takes place in a Cornish seaside village called *Trewissick*
    What I'm saying is that hearing the phrase 'Earl of Trevethick' caused me several levels of psychic damage and I can't focus on anything else except the question of whether E.L. James has read the Dark is Rising.

    • @aandersson9181
      @aandersson9181 2 роки тому +54

      As a fellow TDIR and Susan Cooper fan; In my humble opinion, I *strongly* doubt E.L James has read any fiction that wasn't for sexually frustrated housewives.

    • @Roseforthethorns
      @Roseforthethorns 2 роки тому +24

      The Dark is Rising is a MUCH BETTER SERIES by a MUCH BETTER WRITER. Now I want to reread those books again.

    • @ronjaj.addams-ramstedt1023
      @ronjaj.addams-ramstedt1023 2 роки тому +5

      @@Roseforthethorns Truth!!

    • @milliegarrett8459
      @milliegarrett8459 2 роки тому +12

      They are just Cornish names, that's why they sound similar. 'Tre' means homestead/town. It's a bit like the the 'ton', 'by', 'ham' endings elsewhere in England.

    • @bradwolf07
      @bradwolf07 2 роки тому +5

      I've never read the books, but I saw the trailer for the movie. What I heard was that the movie was horrendous. I'm very glad to hear that the books were leagues better

  • @lindseyc9149
    @lindseyc9149 2 роки тому +41

    That stand-off scene with the empty gun feels like it's right out of a parody. It's like that scene in Not Another Teen Movie where the mean girl dumps her water bottle on the lead girl, who is already wet, and everyone reacts in horror.

  • @bookishnewt8468
    @bookishnewt8468 2 роки тому +38

    19:57
    This alone could have been slightly better if: only Alessia knew the gun was empty, Anatoli intended on shooting her, and without a second thought Maxim went to protect her.

  • @hurricanechild217
    @hurricanechild217 2 роки тому +436

    Dom, the fact that you're so willing to suffer so that we don't have to is very wonderful, the added content of watching you decent slowly into madness is also entertaining as well (In a lighthearted, I hope you genuinely feel okay type of way.)

    • @trinaq
      @trinaq 2 роки тому +13

      Agreed, I love how Dom goes through so much dreck on behalf of us, and we're eternally grateful!

    • @YEDxFILMS
      @YEDxFILMS 2 роки тому +3

      Descend*

    • @laureneras9523
      @laureneras9523 2 роки тому +2

      It's why we raised so much many.

  • @YourEvilHenchman
    @YourEvilHenchman 2 роки тому +51

    the protag-kun in this story literally has a supervillain name. no, seriously, "trevelyan" is the name of the villain from goldeneye: alec trevelyan as played by sean bean.

    • @Tareltonlives
      @Tareltonlives 2 роки тому +15

      To be fair, he's pretty much a villain in this book too

    • @becauseimafan
      @becauseimafan 2 роки тому +8

      *That's* where I'd heard the name before!! Thanks!
      Goldeneye was *such* a good Bond movie!! I hadn't even realized that Sean Bean was in it my first watch, despite my obsession with The Lord of the Rings. He was so good! Goldeneye, now _that_ is a good one to introduce people to James Bond movies. 😁

    • @mateusmarinomunhol9747
      @mateusmarinomunhol9747 Рік тому

      ...and the name of the sir Hugh Pembroke's plantation in the chapter "Sugar Interest" in James Michener's Family saga historical novel "Caribbean".

  • @clutchingstars
    @clutchingstars 2 роки тому +149

    Just had surgery… can’t tell u how much I needed a laugh. Thx for not making me suffer alone!

    • @Flareontoast
      @Flareontoast 2 роки тому +13

      Sending love, hopefully recovery goes smoothly!

  • @bepisthescienceman4202
    @bepisthescienceman4202 2 роки тому +43

    10:23 I'm just imagineing maxim whining so much that the slavers get uncomfortable and leave

  • @Lucifersfursona
    @Lucifersfursona 2 роки тому +61

    Yyyeessss feed me the pain
    The horror
    The tactlessness
    The part time DJing

    • @Lucifersfursona
      @Lucifersfursona 2 роки тому +1

      Linkara’s maxim voice is
      - canon
      - a perfect sendoff to the streams :)

  • @thetypicallifeofcousins2703
    @thetypicallifeofcousins2703 2 роки тому +177

    You are a saint for suffering through this for us, sir

  • @prettyface146
    @prettyface146 2 роки тому +112

    Your Albanian accent in that “epic standoff” elevated the material! I was DYING 😂

  • @yltraviole
    @yltraviole 2 роки тому +60

    To be honest, when I read about someone dying of a broken heart in fiction, I usually assume it's an euphemism for suicide or dying of drug addiction/alcoholism brought on by a depression resulting from heartbreak. It's still a bit cliché, and probably not a good way of representing mental ilness, but I'd never think to consider it an actual heart attack or something.

    • @brookelynnwu8016
      @brookelynnwu8016 2 роки тому +5

      It’s actually a medically recognized cause of death. Usually happens to older ppl with much weaker hearts tho

    • @debymello4756
      @debymello4756 Рік тому +2

      @@brookelynnwu8016 chances can beraised by things like pre existing heart conditions, substance abuse, some types of medication or sometypes of chronic illness. Erika would likely describe any in agonizing detail in the "pity my dad" secssion, tho

  • @denblakat9243
    @denblakat9243 2 роки тому +19

    great meow by Sir Terry at 17:34, deserves a spot on the meowscars

  • @greengreysolarpunk4036
    @greengreysolarpunk4036 2 роки тому +32

    I’m sorry to say I’ve been ruined by the Internet and when I saw the title my reaction was not “Oh Dom’s describing the plot!” But “Oh! This is written from the perspective of the male lead!” because I come from fan fiction hell and I know EL James well enough to know the girl isn’t the dom…

  • @gabbodelaparrawrites
    @gabbodelaparrawrites 2 роки тому +69

    The fact that the earldom has "thick" in its name says a lot about her creativity. 😅

    • @Xehanort10
      @Xehanort10 2 роки тому

      She couldn't help a reference to his dick size in his name apparently.

    • @samuell.foxton4177
      @samuell.foxton4177 2 роки тому +6

      Richard Trevithick was far from thick though, he built early steam engines

    • @gabbodelaparrawrites
      @gabbodelaparrawrites 2 роки тому +7

      @@samuell.foxton4177 You probably know more about that Earl than her because research is not a word she understands or acknowledges. #justsaying 😆

    • @jtothep4234
      @jtothep4234 2 роки тому +6

      And he has the last name of a Bond villain.

    • @kramermariav
      @kramermariav 2 роки тому +4

      Trevethicc

  • @incitossol
    @incitossol 2 роки тому +32

    Dom “the things I do for charity and you beautiful watchers” Noble

  • @Timothy4468
    @Timothy4468 2 роки тому +76

    Not going to lie, I genuinely laughed at the "weaponized privilege" passage. It actually felt like a weird moment of self-awareness from James, and caught me totally off guard.

  • @c.w.simpsonproductions1230
    @c.w.simpsonproductions1230 2 роки тому +32

    You want painful? Try being at the in-person book presentation. I was the only male there besides the presenter, rest were middle and older aged women. And the event had such little turnout that they had to move from an auditorium to a smaller room in a different building. But Dom built her up so much that I just couldn’t resist the opportunity to meet E.L. James.

    • @DS-uh6ss
      @DS-uh6ss 2 роки тому

      Is it wrong that I'm delighted by a mediocre turnout for Erika's abuse-porn?

    • @antonakesson
      @antonakesson 2 роки тому +4

      So how was it?
      Riveting I imagine......

    • @c.w.simpsonproductions1230
      @c.w.simpsonproductions1230 2 роки тому +4

      @@antonakesson There’s a recording of it on my channel.

  • @SiraSpirit
    @SiraSpirit 2 роки тому +20

    The standoff with everyone shouting "NOOO" at the empty gun is giving me big "My Immortal" vibes. It's that level of bad.

  • @shebjess
    @shebjess 2 роки тому +15

    *Hears loud meow*
    Me: HI, SIR TERRY!!

  • @yukishikabane
    @yukishikabane 2 роки тому +93

    Funfact: I read 50 shades in middle school and even then knew it was hot garbage because I was the antisocial child who spent their lunches at the library.
    I legit read so much (I don't do it much as an adult) that I felt my eye twitch everytime the books got truly awful. I've seen better writing from a ya novel about a teenager falling for a civil war soldier ghost who died in his early 20s (God awful btw)

    • @happyjellycatsquid
      @happyjellycatsquid 2 роки тому +21

      Funfact: Im gonna need the title of that confederate nightmare of a YA novel for… science?

    • @yukishikabane
      @yukishikabane 2 роки тому +15

      @@happyjellycatsquid rebel spirits by Lois ruby. Scholastic sold the shit for 10 usd. It's no longer available from their site tho

    • @js66613
      @js66613 2 роки тому +8

      Oof. Antisocial personality disorder is a thing, so I honestly don't feel comfortable reading it used as that. You're probably introverted as opposed to antisocial.
      But also, how the heck was it in your middle school? That's not a book for middleschoolers. Heck, that's not a book for anyone, but...

    • @happyjellycatsquid
      @happyjellycatsquid 2 роки тому +3

      @@yukishikabane Love that Scholastic published this bloody nonsense, based

    • @mateusmarinomunhol9747
      @mateusmarinomunhol9747 Рік тому

      i was too the antisocial kid who spent the lunch in the library.

  • @BewareTheLilyOfTheValley
    @BewareTheLilyOfTheValley 2 роки тому +19

    That interruption from the kitty while doing the ad was amazing.

  • @enbyarchmage
    @enbyarchmage 2 роки тому +59

    Seeing Dom being low-key possessed by Cthulhu bc of bad writing really feels very good for some reason 😈
    Don't worry Dom, your reviews of actually good books can be just as entertaining as their fire-and-brimstone counterparts 😁🤗

  • @zuulmeister8409
    @zuulmeister8409 2 роки тому +18

    I remember the moment I was going through Dom's reading of this story and realized "oh, this is just Poldark".

  • @TeamIzlude
    @TeamIzlude 2 роки тому +21

    When you said the male lead's name, I literally said - out loud - "no way that is his name"

    • @tristanhartup4936
      @tristanhartup4936 2 роки тому +3

      Maxim Trevelyan, sounds like a supervillain name.

  • @nicole-ls4jb
    @nicole-ls4jb 2 роки тому +121

    A couple of things: I'm afraid to say that, for some of us, we like watching you "suffer" because your frustration is rather cathartic. And funny. You make us laugh 😂
    Secondly, I really liked a lot of the production of this video! I liked the rainy backdrop you had behind the text, the cute lead-in to the sponsor part, the fact that you just held Sir Terry during part of the video, and your explanation of the unloaded gun 😅

  • @acatnamedbeef
    @acatnamedbeef 2 роки тому +108

    There is something called the "broken heart syndrome", maybe he was referring to that (I doubt it tho).

    • @NWolfsson
      @NWolfsson 2 роки тому +29

      I mean... It would be more coherent narratively (I know real life is complex, but we're talking writing, you have to take shortcuts) if said father wasn't presented shortly after as the kind of person to _bring his son to a brothel to teach him the intricacies of love._ I have a hard time imagining someone who does that being so infatuated with their significant other to die of grief.

    • @amityislandchum
      @amityislandchum 2 роки тому +25

      Doctor here -- and also someone who suffered from Takotsubo cardiomyopathy, aka Broken Heart Syndrome! It is indeed a thing, but it's defined by a sudden, immense stress (physical or emotional) causing an abrupt enlargement and failure of the left ventricle. It's not something that would occur 4 years later. (Incidentally, it actually *could* happen in the case of Padme, but that doesn't make George Lucas any less of a dumbass.)
      People can definitely suffer from a "failure to thrive" after losing their partner, and men are especially susceptible to this since they rely on women to do literally EVERYTHING for them (cook, clean, make doctor's appts., keep track of medication, raise children, etc.).

    • @Tareltonlives
      @Tareltonlives 2 роки тому +13

      @@NWolfsson That's the plot hole there- it made sense in Star Wars, since it's also someone whose undergoing severe physical stress with delivery. Not so much here as it's simplified and the character isn't remotely nuanced or emotional.

    • @judeconnor-macintyre9874
      @judeconnor-macintyre9874 2 роки тому +4

      "dead of a broken heart" says the robot.

  • @chach1579
    @chach1579 2 роки тому +55

    10/10 segue into the ad read. Also, I thank you for your sacrifice, Dom. It couldn't have been easy to make your way through this book and give us a run down so we didn't have to.

  • @mistyeyedreamer
    @mistyeyedreamer 2 роки тому +15

    I remember when Jenny Trout did a read of the book, they determined a few chapters in that this book is almost definitely a modern Poldark fan fiction. At least she finally left Twilight alone?

  • @RabbitTeaPot
    @RabbitTeaPot 2 роки тому +12

    Someone out there made a video thesis called “Born sexy yesterday” on YT & it was about the fifth element but they did say that was just their thesis example, other examples are seen through out diffrent forms of media…and it encapsulates the main female character perfectly. Someone who (in this case at times but in the fifth element through out) is of adult age physically and sexually but behaves in a way that is like they were born yesterday….and it’s WEIRD once it’s pointed out. Like I can’t watch that film in the same way since…and I’ve seen people irl who behave like this, have relationships like this, it’s all so very very VERY weird.

  • @tonieartemis
    @tonieartemis 2 роки тому +50

    Dom, now that you've mentioned it, you HAVE to do a Lost in Adaptation of Beastly. I just read the book, and it will live rent free in my head until you talk about. I almost couldn't believe what I was reading.

    • @airari24
      @airari24 2 роки тому +1

      I think he may have one. I have a vague memory of watching that video (though it could be misattributed to him)

  • @Crazael
    @Crazael 2 роки тому +23

    21:14 If I were writing that scene, I would have the gun go off because the guy had checked and noticed it was empty and reloaded it before hand. Then he gives her a "Did you seriously think I wouldn't notice you emptied the gun?" look.
    That, or there was a bullet in the chamber that she know about so she just emptied the magazine.

    • @NWolfsson
      @NWolfsson 2 роки тому +3

      "This morning, in Zagreb [...]"
      Considering they probably travelled by car, and according to Google Maps, that means Anatoli had about 10 hours to check his gun and replace the bullets.
      TEN HOURS! Did EL James even check the time and distance between Croatia and Albania? This man is supposed to be a dangerous trafficker, not a silly Scooby Doo villain!
      If at least Alessia had empty the gun ten minutes ago, at the last stop before going to her father's house, that'd only be slightly disappointing.

  • @oli_kate
    @oli_kate 2 роки тому +20

    Putting your cat into the ad read is very smart... Very evil but very smart.

  • @lilybliblablubb5023
    @lilybliblablubb5023 2 роки тому +24

    To be fair, there is broken heart syndrome. But it's rather usual with parents losing children or partners suffering after the others death after decades of being a happy couple. You now sometimes the husband dies three days after his wife or something, that is broken heart syndrome. No physical cause, simply so much pain that you get a heart attack. But it's rare and there needs to be a true real bond, not the bs E L James calls "love"

  • @ashlingteirney7543
    @ashlingteirney7543 2 роки тому +78

    I have to say watching your streams of reading this has been so cathartic as a woman. It can be hard to muster the anger at these tropes sometimes that they deserve and most of the time I just get resigned to it so it's nice seeing someone blow up about the bullshit. Feels very validating, so while I am very sorry you had to suffer through this awful book I do appreciate your reactions.

    • @adeer87
      @adeer87 2 роки тому +5

      Very true

  • @Tolly7249
    @Tolly7249 2 роки тому +12

    I spent the entire episode facepalming and yelling in various levels of grossed out... And then in came Il Neige with a Beatles-style parody and I almost cried from laughing. God I love this channel.

  • @carapatel2214
    @carapatel2214 2 роки тому +48

    I was originally watching along with the live show readings of the book but I had to give up because I found the mishandling of sexual asault so triggering, so thank you so much for making these summary videos. I don't know how she could possibly pass this garbage off as romance.

  • @CameoAmalthea
    @CameoAmalthea 2 роки тому +150

    Fifty Shades of Grey’s popularity is explicable. Domward (dominant Edward) was a VERY popular sub genre of Twilight fanfic at a time when Twilight was very popular. James therefor had an insanely large following from this fandom who bought 50 Shades making a hit upon release and generated buzz whereby other people read it because it was popular to see what the fuss was about/because everyone else was reading it. It also was explicitly sold as porn for women, and women don’t have things for them. Female sexuality is taboo and seen as something that doesn’t exist, the cultural framework is men like porn, men like sex, women like pleasing men and put up with sex. Women obviously can like sex and have their own desires and something mainstream that caters to their desires that’s popular (ie not seen as fringe or trashy like paperback romance novels) was intriguing. For all it’s flaws, 50 Shades does give readers a self insert for a domination fantasy (the whole book being that fantasy). Unfortunately, the book frames the domination/non consent fantasy as a healthy ideal relationship and thereby romanticized abuse. But it’s popularity does make sense. Unfortunately.
    More unfortunately there are actually amazing works out there that fall under Twilight Fanfic and I’m BEGGING you to read “Luminosity”

    • @josephdavis9234
      @josephdavis9234 2 роки тому +13

      It's rare that I see a Luminosity shout-out in the wild, and it's always great.

    • @Kateiswriting
      @Kateiswriting 2 роки тому +24

      Thank you for this thoughtful comment. I remember when 50 Shades came out a lot of the discussion was about female sexuality, especially for middle aged women who are often seen as nonsexual beings. And tbf it's ridiculous the way society tends to assume that a woman reading E.L. James wants that relationship to happen to her IRL, the way they wouldn't about a man watching porn. It's darkly ironic that the series that made a bunch of real women feel empowered to reclaim their sexuality featured a sexually naive woman rendered powerless by the narrative but there you go.
      I don't like the books by any means and have really enjoyed Dom tearing into them. But I think a lot of the wider criticism around them lacks nuance. Kind of like how the problem with the Twilight books was never *really* that Edward sparkled but people remember that way more than his controlling behaviour.

    • @SkySong6161
      @SkySong6161 2 роки тому

      Luminosit for the win.

    • @ttthecat
      @ttthecat 2 роки тому +2

      Who is the author? There are a lot of out of books with the title luminosity on kindle I can't figure out which one it is your referring to? I would like to try your recommendation.

    • @SkySong6161
      @SkySong6161 2 роки тому +8

      @@ttthecat Luminosity is a Twilight fanfic, thus why it's not showing up on the Kindle. 🙂 If you're still interested it's on AO3.

  • @ashmondthesoutherntrashmon2210
    @ashmondthesoutherntrashmon2210 2 роки тому +58

    i appreciate the new format. sorry i couldnt watch the livestreams, but im glad im still able to see your suffering lmao. thanks for the upload dom :]

  • @AlorrinINK
    @AlorrinINK 2 роки тому +17

    Dom...Dom...Dom... my dude, you need a juice box, a cookie, and a consensual hug. That book took SO much out of you, more than it ever had right to. But, you are greatly appreciated for reading it and suffering through it so we didn't have to. Though, like I’d said before, I enjoyed suffering through the live readings. So much (tortured) fun.

  • @Shadow1Yaz
    @Shadow1Yaz 2 роки тому +23

    I've heard a theory that Emperor Palpatine used the force to drain the life out of Padme to make Vader think she died cuz of his actions. Not sure if that is what Lucas intended but I thought it was interesting

    • @Tareltonlives
      @Tareltonlives 2 роки тому +6

      I think the combination of emotional shock (husband becomes an abusive mass murderer, government turns into dictatorship) and physical stress (pregnancy with twins in a less than ideal facility) would be enough anyway. Besides, the less to do with Rise of Skywalker the better.

    • @Shadow1Yaz
      @Shadow1Yaz 2 роки тому +8

      @@Tareltonlives I believe you, having twins increases the chances of complications and from the way her death scene was portrayed, I think it's highly probable that massive blood loss also contributed.
      I just remember hearing that theory and being like, "huh..."

    • @Tareltonlives
      @Tareltonlives 2 роки тому +6

      @@Shadow1Yaz Yeah, it would be in-character. I've also heard that Anakin instinctually reached out to the force to her, and Palpatine used that to kill her. My pet theory is that Palpatine kept Anakin alive not only through machines but through the Force, preventing him from dying of grief too.

    • @Shadow1Yaz
      @Shadow1Yaz 2 роки тому +7

      @@Tareltonlives OOOH! That theory about keeping Anakin alive makes a lot of sense!! With that much physical damage, not having the strength (emotional/physical) could do him in and it makes sense that Palpatine did that! Devious! :O

    • @tristanhartup4936
      @tristanhartup4936 2 роки тому +1

      I think Rise Of Skywalker confirmed that.

  • @KoiPuff
    @KoiPuff 2 роки тому +10

    Sir Terry announcing mid ad that he’s the Main Character is just so great lol

  • @SJ-jq2rt
    @SJ-jq2rt 2 роки тому +8

    Can I say how much I appreciate "Mean Mr. MAXIM' Song!!!!

    • @anikibailey4624
      @anikibailey4624 2 роки тому

      do you know if it's a parody of a real song? It sounds familiar but I don't know where from

  • @BLZ231
    @BLZ231 2 роки тому +15

    And what’s really scary is that despite how awful the male lead in this book is, based on your descriptions it sounds like he’s still a marginally better person than Grey.

  • @atiredfloridian777
    @atiredfloridian777 2 роки тому +15

    You sir, are a saint for suffering through all of this for charity. You're a good man, Dominic, you're a rare gem.

  • @vanessar.6085
    @vanessar.6085 2 роки тому +8

    I saw "The Mister as Told By The Dom," then "PAIN." This sounds about right, all things considered.

  • @tv_tim
    @tv_tim 2 роки тому +7

    That was one of the best "Now for a word from our sponsor" messages I've seen in a UA-cam video.

  • @szaboluca5536
    @szaboluca5536 2 роки тому +6

    The "falling in love over an umbrella" part made me think of Miraculous, and I just wish I could stab myself in the brain for making that association💀💀

  • @MusicoftheDamned
    @MusicoftheDamned 2 роки тому +34

    Lol at that "tense" scene towards the end with the emptied gun. Somehow I am still surprised the "child"'s father didn't just automatically shoot Anatoli after being told that the gun had no bullets, but that likely would have been too logical for a story clearly fatally allergic to it.
    I can't wait for E. L. James's next book to have the female protagonist be a cheerful, child-like literal slave since that seems to be what she's ramping up to unfortunately. All of the creepiness in this book isn't otherwise surprising given what a terrible person she revealed herself to be publicly while touring for her _50 Shades_ books.

  • @valentinarunko67
    @valentinarunko67 2 роки тому +23

    Can we all just appreciate the amounts of psychological torture that Dom experiences for our entertainment? 💙

  • @chelseawhite7117
    @chelseawhite7117 Рік тому +1

    “sssssSSSSSSSLLLÜUUUUTs” made my day so much brighter. Thanks for your suffering, Dom

  • @myridean2k4
    @myridean2k4 2 роки тому +22

    Thank you, Dom, for giving us a preview of what we're both in for the next few months (albeit if you need more recovery time between sex reads, this could take another year.) but we're here for it.
    Thank you also for posting this synopsis because I wanted to link to your last reading/reaction but realised that anyone would've had to know how the plot developed up to that point so all I could do was post my utmost gratitude for a bang up job. I'm still laughing at that one line paraphrased, "The ACLU is depending on us to get through this sex scene" LOL!

  • @chelonianmobile
    @chelonianmobile Рік тому +3

    Also, isn't "broken heart" typically a historical euphemism for suicide?

  • @romankotas448
    @romankotas448 2 роки тому +4

    (Grabs comfort blanket) “Lets’s do this.”

  • @Amandoop
    @Amandoop 2 роки тому +8

    I recently worked with someone who's last name was trevithick. I could barely keep a straight face!

  • @laurenquigley6599
    @laurenquigley6599 2 роки тому +4

    May all the God's forever be your Allies for this heroic task.

  • @Soguwe
    @Soguwe 2 роки тому +36

    You'd be surprised how many people die of a broken heart.
    It's mostly a condition befalling the elderly, but can happen to younger people too.

  • @Jixa15
    @Jixa15 2 роки тому +8

    Every time I hear Maxim's full name I think of Dragon Age Inquisition cause the male human's set name is Maxwell Trevelyan. Does have me wondering if this started as a dragon age fanfic.

  • @mariaregina4242
    @mariaregina4242 Рік тому +1

    I love the fact that your cat demanded screentime.

  • @tini243
    @tini243 2 роки тому +7

    I laughed tears at the shootout scene, hilarious!

  • @chelonianmobile
    @chelonianmobile Рік тому +1

    All the yelling "NOOO" during the standoff with no bullets reminds me of another bad dark romance book where it's specifically mentioned that the heroine's kidnapper/traffickers make her a fake passport, despite transporting her in a cargo hold where no one would see it. It reads like the writer read a bunch of scenes involving guns/planes and didn't understand how the elements fit together, so just stuck in dialogue or items where they didn't work.

  • @sirloss3080
    @sirloss3080 2 роки тому +3

    the song at the end of this one killed it

  • @FerraticaTheBard
    @FerraticaTheBard Рік тому +1

    Ever since I learned that it was an old-timey 'polite company' way of saying 'yeah, they overdosed on opium' (spawned from how an opioid overdose can lead to cardiac arrest), I can no longer take the phrase 'died of a broken heart' seriously except in cases of truly exquisite writing.

  • @maladypond
    @maladypond 2 роки тому +12

    As much as I can't stand James...'s writing, at least Dom's rants are amusing. And relatable.
    And then there's Il Neige's delightful song and the adorable appearance of feline cuddliness!
    💖💖

  • @erin8050
    @erin8050 9 місяців тому +2

    Fun fact; there is a real heart condition known as Broken Heart Syndrome! It happens when a person experiences deep long lasting grief that causes the heart to beat extra hard to the point of actually breaking via torn muscles and broken valves, according to those who've had this condition and recieved medical attention it's also exteremely painful.
    So yes, Daddy Dearest could have actually died of a broken heart but not 4 years later, this sort of condition usually developes within a few months of the loss and progresses quickly.
    HOWEVER, this is a very uncommon condition makign it far more likely that in universe Daddy Dearest just had a heart attack or something similar but when writing Mitchel didn't care about research and thought that death via broken heart sounded more romantic.

  • @jessz7819
    @jessz7819 2 роки тому +7

    Dom, I am so sorry for all the suffering you had to live through to bring us this, but I appreciate it endlessly. These videos are so cathartic in every way and I can already tell this is going to be in my regular rotation now. Hearing you tear apart these kinds of books is a very welcome reminder that the world still has some very good people in it. And hearing every possible bastardization of Maxims name is comedy gold

  • @CassiBlack
    @CassiBlack 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for suffering on our behalf! The accents in the stand-off portion are my new favorite thing and also very Monty Python-esque.
    The good thing about James’s work is that they reassure me that my own writing isn’t all that bad! If she can get her dumpster fires published, I have a chance!

  • @astrinymris9953
    @astrinymris9953 2 роки тому +5

    Sir Terry Pratchett is so sweet, helping defeat the UA-cam algorithm with the power of his cuteness!
    Also, Il Neige has outdone himself with the outro song.

  • @POLE7645
    @POLE7645 2 роки тому +7

    One thing that gives me hope, though.
    Back in 2019, when I was travelling, I saw copies of this everywhere, including airports.
    I travelled two weeks ago and visited several bookstores, and I didn’t encounter a single copy. Not even at the airport.
    I’m guessing either it didn’t sold all that well, or whatever popularity this book ever had was very fleeting (and judging from this video and KrimsonRogue’s, this isn’t a book that’s good at keeping your attention).

  • @andrewphilos
    @andrewphilos 2 роки тому +10

    Wait, the "Mister" from the title is named Trevelyan? As in, like, Charles Trevelyan, the guy who exacerbated the Great Irish Famine? Why would you name a character after that psychopath?!?

  • @火星イスクラ
    @火星イスクラ 2 роки тому +6

    I know that you are suffering through this and I sympathise. However, for some inexplicable reason the way you and your guests are reading this is highly entertaining. I must thank you double since, I had a terrible family event about the time you started reading this. Without this literary car wreck I would not have made it through. Now that I am facing a terrifying future for another reason I am thank full you are still working through this book. Well, up till now. This distraction is oddly soothing. Thank you, thank you.