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She's such a hypocrite. She constantly says that divorce should be illegal but then tells men to leave their wives if they gain weight. Make it make sense
@@lilywong9672I was gonna say not even people , but her own gender shouldn't be talking about their views, which is her actual career ? The redundancy is the actual representation of her lmao
@CaityBlue... i swear, isnt traditional conservative? because conservatives like keeping things as they were (back when the world was "right") and are... traditional...? genuine question
@@rhondascraftobsessions5817you know what's funny though? Is that even though she tries and tries to advocate for (shitty) men and be a pick me girl, she is still single. It's funny and sad all at the same time.
I'd ashamed if she's my daughter. lol. Her mother is amazing, career woman but all her daughter cared is her mom diet. lol. Do she has degree at least to talk like these? She doesn't sound educated at all. Who's listened to her?
I used to be on twitter, then I got a new phone and forgot login info to get back on the app. Before I lost my old phone, WW feminists were dragging her for being a pick me and a misogynist and WM were going in on her looks. WW were low key dragging her for being a pick me but not being picked and the role of her dreary looks and needing brush her flat hair. 🍿
@@sugakookie6303she said in Twitter, word by word "16yo chicks are hotter than 26yo chicks" Chicks is not a word I use to see, but I feel it kinda disrespectful...
@@bellerain381 Sad and pathetic. People with the whole "main character syndrome" are just so self entitled that they're delusional. It is quite pitiful really..
IDK if Pearl realizes this, but she is indirectly giving off the impression that her dad is cheating scum. Seeing her say, 'cheating is the wife's fault because she's become unattractive', 'my mom gained weight during my childhood, which was her fault because she was addicted to sugar', and 'cheating is different for men when they do it' in rapid succession really tells a certain type of story.
No they aren't. If you are sexually attracted to actual kids who haven't gone through puberty you are a sicko with a mental illness. If you think a hot 16 year old is hot that's just normal. From a biological point of view that person is an adult. They've been through puberty. They are sexually mature. They can have kids. In the past they were adults culturally as well as biologically. You would be a scumbag for actually pursuing such a relationship in this day and age because in modern times 16 year olds are no longer adults in the cultural sphere. In modern times they have been more sheltered and most of them just don't have an adult understanding of the world. I've slept with 15-16 year olds... When I was 15-16 myself. Does that make me a pedo? Of course there are hot 16 year olds. Take... I don't know... Keira Knightly who was 17 when they filmed Pirates of the Caribbean. Was she hot in that movie? Of course she was and a vast majority of people thought she was very attractive. It doesn't mean you should pursue minors as an adult. Anyway the difference between 16-18 is pretty arbitrary and cultural. You finish high school and start work or college at around 18 in the US but at around 16 in Europe. Likewise the age of consent is 18 in most of the US but 16 in most of Europe. Simply because you have to officially draw the line somewhere but I wouldn't pursue a 18 year old for the same reason I wouldn't pursue a 16 year old. But in the US one would be legal and one wouldnt while in Europe both would be legal.
as someone who was just 16 a few months ago, that got me vomiting fr. pedoph1le ass tweet like WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER??? why would a 27 year old say we're attractive?? and dissing herself in the same time, saying that we're more attractive than her?? she hates herself so so much .
Pearl has admitted that the only reason she agreed with red pill content was because she has a low self-esteem. I wonder what she thinks she is doing for herself by perpetuating these misogynistic ideas.
i used to kind of be like her. I used to do nothing but scroll on /adv/ all day, hearing lowly people's opinion on how romance and love worked despite them not actually participating in a relationship. it ruined me for a while. I can't help but feels bad for Pearl sometimes. She must feel a lot of weight on her shoulders, trying to appeal to nuerotic people who will never be truly pleased.
Pearl's mom had 10 children. The fact that Pearl thinks that her mom was going to stay the 120lbs woman she was when she was married after giving birth 10 times is... ... ...I'm just speechless. Many women have a hard time losing weight after giving birth while also having to take care of the home and working...
Right. 10 kids. To have 10 kids she barely had time to lose weight before being pregnant again. I am pregnant with my 9th baby. I've found it just about impossible to lose weight after the last 3. So my weight just keeps going up. It's been really a very difficult thing to deal with. I'd be so hurt if I were her mom. My body has either been carrying or nursing a child for 17 years now. That's a lot on a person's body.
Yes. I have 3 kids, and even if I have been lifting weights and dieting.. My body will always have those poufs on my hips and belly.. Being fit but still shaped like a pear.. And here comes someone who isnt married or have had any kids and tell us men should leave.. Now my husband is amazing, so Im lucky.. But for the younger generation, with the men hearing this.. Its messed up. Then she complains about single moms too.. Like.. You told the men to leave them you b.. ..
Embarrassingly, in my younger years, I bought into the pregnancy is not an excuse myth. Then I watched the most bad arse woman I know, (helicopter pilot in the Marine Corps) struggle to actively loose weight after both her pregnancies. It changed my perspective completely. I can honestly say now at 43, I would have loved to bare stretch marks and wider hips at least once. Alas it wasn’t possible. Moms are super heroes. Shame on people who bash them for not being a perfect 120.
I also have a more traditional marriage and was a SAHM for years. My husband would never dare treat me the way Pearl advocates for men to treat their wives. Marriage is about respect. I do make a conscious effort to stay healthy and fit and I expect my husband to do the same, but when either one of us starts gaining we discuss it respectfully and motivate each other, not abandon each other.
Tradwife here as well, and my husband always crinkles his nose like he smells something bad whenever his feed shows her. I think Pearl, and to a little lesser extent Candace Owens, are pick me grifters. In a time when men feel scared to even look at a woman, they are grasping at any woman who shows them validation, even if it’s toxic.
I gained 115lbs over the course of our marriage, my husb still loved me and found me attractive. I've lost 105 of those pounds, my husb still loves me and finds me attractive.
I was all into fitness and healthy eating. Then all of a sudden I started gaining weight. No changes in diet or fitness, just inexplicably gaining. Turns out I had hormonal ovarian cancer. Ended up on hormonal steroids by the end. That lasted a year. All in all by the time I was done with treatment I gained 80 pounds. It was very difficult to lose the weight. Eventually I became pregnant and lost 60lbs by the end of the pregnancy. The pregnancy completely retuned my body back to normal. That said, I was obese. But I was obese because I'm a survivor.
@zvezdoblyat well with ovarian cancer it never goes away. There has been no growth for 7, almost 8 years. 2 more years and I will be clear (but never cancer free). The important part is clear and no growth!
Pearl: "Marriage is for better or for worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, til death do you part." Also Pearl:"Absolutely leave your wife if she puts on weight, no question. "
High value men DONT CHEAT! Otherwise they arent high value! 🤦♀️ if they cheat they lack self control, repsect for their partner, etc. Those traits dont sound like high value to me.
Yes being part of Christian groups (that are neither left or right) but lean more traditional, men are held to the same standard like the Bible says no sex before marriage, no cheating, and to take care of your body but not be vain/too focused on looks, commandments which are given to both men and women honestly I have no idea where she gets her views she’s definitely just a big troll looking for attention/money
As someone who has an overweight partner whom I care for dearly, I would snap at anyone who decided to terrorize him for his body. Yes, I can acknowledge his weight isn't healthy especially for his height. We both know this and I do worry about him for it, but bullying is never okay. Oh and the "fat people aren't attractive" is a BS statement. I think my partner is adorable and handsome. People need to stop equating looks with health
@@canelareina3795 Also shows how superficial you are if you stop loving someone the instant they gain weight. Some people do look good especially if they have an amazing Personality. But i bet you dont know anything about good personality.
One thing that makes a man extremely high value is self control. If he is angry, he can control it and not fly into a rage. If he is stressed he doesn't take his stress out on his wife and children. If he is tempted by another woman's beauty, he doesn't give into that temptation because he cherishes the love, respect and affection of his wife and children. Money and status does not make you valuable to a good woman. It's your character, your morality, a sense of self respect and dignity to not degrade your own body and soul for a cheap lay in a moment of weakness.
Nah its crazy how she doesn't believe in divorce even in most cases of abuse but then when a woman gains a hundred pounds shes like "leave the whale" 💀💀💀
@@InsertArgumentHere "Kinda ironic when there’s a cartoon whale in Spongebob called Pearl" Who also likes to spend her rich daddy's money. Literally life imitating art.
I just want to put this here. Like so many others, in 2020 I struggled with alcohol abuse. When I drink, I hardly eat at all. I got down to a size 2/4. Then I met my incredible wife, who is a great cook, and stopped abusing alcohol. I have gained about 30 pounds (at 5' tall) and am now a size 8. "Skinny" or a smaller number on the scale is not "BETTER." Imagine a life so empty that you judge your worth by what a scale says. You do whatever you want and I'll be over here enjoying a grilled cheese and homemade soup. PS this is a great reminder that someone else's weight is none of your business, whether it's going up or down. Find another compliment or comment to make to someone you haven't seen in a while.
@@forgetmebluesidk, what is actually better being self countios about the weight or be at unhealthy weight and don't care about it at all, and thing you are perfect. I personally think the latter is more toxic actually.
As a man I think it’s pretty sad that people like this hold men to such low standards of self control when it comes sex and it’s even more sad seeing all these “alpha” males agree so quickly just to justify their own bad behavior.
Hearing these statements I'm almost offended on behalf of men. How are you so stupid you don't find that insulting? It's just trash men grasping for excuses to remain trash while pretending they're "normal".
Agree. Men like them are pretty weak in my opinion if they don’t have the strength to stay faithful or they at least have weak morals if they don’t care and use this as an excuse.
Yes, but "as a man" i haven't met any man who finds 300+ pounds attractive - let alone more attractive than 120 pounds. Obesity is not attractive to most people for very objective reasons. As someone who was at 313 pounds once - most people who find you attractive, do it despite the overweight, not because of it. And of course there are guys with a fetish, but that's not a standard, there is a guy with a fetish for everything you can think off. All this is theoretical BS anyways, talking points for incels and wannabe alphas. Most normal men (especially "the good ones") won't leave their wife because she gains weight and most women won't leave their man because he lost his job (or gains weight), no meaningful relationship is build on looks or status (it can get in the way at some point though). But she is right in that point: men *generally* like "normal" sized women and women *generally* like guys with a good job. All the anecdotal, subjective and objective evidence indicates that. And i would bet money, that 95% of men would pick the body of Heidi Klum over Tess Holiday's body. Women luckily seem to be *generally* more complex in that regard.
I came here to say that, I hate when people talk about a whole gender like they're one person, I doubt its her looks that is the reason she's single, it's probably because she's a horrible person and most guys have more decency that her
@@amnahammad5560 I feel like she lost a bet and has to present random powerpoints about „shocking“ topics. Then she figured out it pays off and here we are
Bad idea, women can get quiet violent and murderous in that kind of environment which makes them jealous. This is surely why men who had a harem of 500 women died in their twenties.😹
She contradicts herself all the time because what she says aren't her actual values. She says controversial stuff because that's her brand. She's gotten a lot of attention by pissing people off.
Hot take: people shouldn't be made fun of for being short or red-headed, either. The goal shouldn't be to find examples of people being treated poorly and seek to make that as common and universal an experience as possible.
No matter how horrible a person is I can't bring myself to insult how they naturally look. It's not just insulting them, it's insulting everyone who looks like them
She leaves out the fact that men tend to do the same thing. Just about every single man I’ve known once they met someone and or got married gained at least 15 pounds within the first year
Imagine taking relationship advise from a women who's never even had a boyfriend, let alone marraige. All this pandering and still no guy wants her. LMAO
As a member of the fat community, you absolutely nailed it. Pearl just trashes individual humans. Her content is the social media equivalent of a mean girl in the locker room, calling me fat and making pig noises. You genuinely critique a "movement" that has stopped being about accepting our bodies and loving ourselves and become about promoting unhealthy choices and demanding people have seggs with us. She personally attacks individual women for being fat. You criticize the advice and actions of predatory public figures. You are not the same.
I said the same thing!! I think she created this troll persona as a joke and then got popular and just is super committed. She doesn't practice what she preaches and if she REALLY believed what she said I don't think she would look or say the things she does. She is just a little too good at acting the part😂
I don't think she's necessarily a troll, but definitely a grifter who says intentionally provocative things for attention. She enjoys being inflammatory but she doesn't just want to be outrageous to get people upset, she specifically goes for the talking points of the groups she wants to appeal to (manosphere conservatives). A lot of it is just parroting things that gets the approval of her target audience, it very quickly becomes obvious that she doesn't actually know what she's talking about and can't back up her claims when asked.
Ya know. The realization she's 1 of 10 suddenly makes SO MUCH sense on why she's like this. She's attention starved. She has daddy issues, mommy issues, and is giving off major pick me vibes because she never got her parents attention competing with her siblings.
Imagine being such a pick me that your entire personality is based on bashing women but no man wants you. She’s knows what men want and how a woman should be and yet can’t get a man herself. Ok Pearl
She can’t even use the excuse ‘I’m not actively dating’ because she’s been spotted on multiple dating sites, so I do agree that she’s not wanted- OR maybe she has super high standards and are rejecting everyone. Idk.
Tbh, I don't believe she's a pick me. She's just greedy for money and fame, and she chose edglord way, because female redpill influencers are much rarer then feminist ones or something like that. I don't think she believes anything she says. I also don't think she has any morals or empathy.
Right? Made me think that Pearl doesn't understand that people find their loved ones attractive, even if that person doesn't find themselves attractive.
My theory is that Pearl is just bitter about being 27 and looking 47 so she woke up one day and went ‘scotch earth bitch-bag’ on everyone, being intentionally outrageous to gain attention that she previously lacked.
I'm 35 pounds heavier than I should be after having a baby. I'm aware of this and plan to lose the weight once I'm done breastfeeding. I find her comment on women gaining weight after having a child, irritating. Women who have kids don't make a conscious decision to 'let themselves go'. I gained the weight I needed to gain to feed my baby.
She'll probably never have kids, no one wants her even the men she gives lip service to. I had a baby back in July I gained very little weight and my boyfriend tells me I don't look like I just had a baby but that stance about weight gain with child bearing is gross, so many women do gain a decent amount with pregnancy and are expected to drop it despite how men are supposed to have no hand in childcare so she can workout, so she's expected to snap back and on top of that be a slave to her Sloppy gross pig of a husband (he's allowed to be that way) it's just ridiculous, I wonder if her mom dropped her on her head as an infant
Congratulations on your new baby!! I hope you can give yourself some grace. Your baby’s health and your health is the most important thing. 35 pounds sounds like extremely normal weight gain during pregnancy and breastfeeding. I hope you and your family are well ❤
Yeah, porn culture has completely divorced people from the realities of growing a child, giving birth, and how the process changes your body forever. It's also extra funny when it's a pick me like her that essentially claims women's only purpose for existing is giving birth.
I think it's more likely her dad who created this monster. Pearl has said before that his approval means the world to her, but I've never seen her talk about her mom prior to now* other than to acknowledge that they used her as a 'company owner' to receive grants for female-owned businesses.
@@saiyamoru I knew it had to be something connected to the dad. The way she shamed her mom and called her a “whale” when gaining weight while being with her father… and then saying things like “your a selfish and terrible wife to your husband if you gain weight”, gives the impression that the attention and approval of her father was contingent on the mothers weight body and aesthetic. Then fighting for his approval all while he’s reinforcing her insecurities.
She comes across as someone who desperately wanted to be one of the mean girls in high school but got bullied by them instead. She's so desperate for approval and validation, makes me wonder what her home life was like. Sad.
the fact that Pearl called her own mom a whale, that made my jaw drop, also given the story of her parents, its no wonder she has the distorted views she does
I was shocked as well. My mom was pretty toxic to all of us and she was overweight for years, but I would NEVER call her a whale, what the hell? Pearl is just a bully.
@@buysncharge harden up???? Do you not understand that this is about the sheer disrespect of your elders-- nevermind that- your literal parent? Get outta here. You DO NOT speak to your parent that way ever unless they’re some crazy abusive piece of shit which…. Her mother clearly isn’t. The least of this is the weight based insult. It’s the audacity to insult the person whom you came out of at all.
As a man who will be the house keeper in my relationship, I find it hilarious that staying at home is seen as a feminine thing My mom was a stay-at-home mom by choice and I have nothing but enamourment for her, I cannot imagine being in the home for 25 years raising 3 children (2 with autism (me and my little brother)) plus helping to care for our cousins while my aunts and uncles were out working, making food, cleaning the house, and all of this while being half deaf from childhood and struggling with undiagnosed ADHD I even started asking her for tips on how to keep yourself from going insane while being someone who works from home or is just the house keeper in general, because my dumb ass struggles just being at home in my dorm room alone while my partner is attending their classes XD
I also think this idea of staying at home "being the woman's job" is extremely stupid, people stay home for so many reasons In my parents case, my dad was able to get a job with a high enough salary to provide for the 5 of us at a relatively young age, so when my mom dropped out of medical school for her own health reasons she didn't feel pressured to go into the work force full time like my dad (they didn't even have me (their oldest child) until 3-5 years later so this wasnt a "stay at home with the kids" thing) And for me I'm planning to be a work-from-home husband for the main reason of... I can't handle the work force or a full 9-5, I've known this about myself for awhile but in recent years I've been discovering the full extent of my sensory issues and have been learning to cope with them, and having a job that forces me to leave the house every day for 5-8 hours a day... even just half of that sounds horrifying to me (I even worked a part-time position over the summer and I was exhausted beyond words)
@@kryskross9199 she gives sporty stem lesbian vibes 😂. I bet she’ll disappear from the internet, come back with a female fiancée and a reformed personality lol
As a conservative Christian woman that has a job and still likes to cook and clean for my man and enjoys that feminine role, I think Pearl is a total tool. The reason I like to do things like that for my man is because he actually appreciates it, wouldn't dream of cheating on me, and to a lesser extent also still cooks and cleans. I couldn't stand being in a relationship with a man that treated me like a maid. You're supposed to be in an equal partnership, not an authoritarian heirarchal nightmare. Pearl does such a disservice to conservatives by even opening her mouth.
This sounds good but if you’re a “conservative Christian woman” than there’s no equality in your relationship by “design.” My mom is a conservative Christian woman and says “your father is the head of the home.”
@@SapienSafaridepends on the conservative. I'm guessing your mom is also very religious. There's a lot of conservatives who view it as a group project where some aspects are managed by the wife and others are managed by the husband. With evangelicals you tend to see something closer to a man on top hierarchy, but there's also a view that it's a co-manager hierarchy where you are teammates or a unit. That's how my catholic father and stepmother are, anyways.
You, ma’am, are what feminists (at least the original feminists not misandrists) fought for…you choose to do all of that. Feminism is about the ability to choose
I have an auto immune disorder that affects my metabolism, my metabolism is really “fast” I struggle to gain weight, my blood sugar drops, I can’t go anywhere without a snack. If my blood sugar drops too low I seize and I’m toast, I can only imagine the nightmare it is to have a metabolism that is slow. That’s the opposite end of my condition but they have a slew of things to deal with as well. I can only imagine
For a woman who likes to judge based on looks, she not only looks older than her age, but she's pretty homily looking. Look at the kind of women she shames for the love of the manosphere. Every single one of them have the looks that catch guys like, Andrew Tate's attention, yet Andrew has never shown any interest in her, nor has any of the other men she plays, "Pick Me" for. Has she never asked herself why? I mean, really?
Her physical appearance might be an insecurity of hers which is why she may be so focused on “dressing it up” and “staying fit.” She’s gone off the deep end but I wish her inner peace. ❤
@@thegangsterhippiebut she’s clearly not “staying fit”… in the video you can see she did gain weight, she’s probably still in the healthy range but for someone who would shame me to death if I gained 20 pounds (I’d probably be at her weight then depending on how tall she is) she gotta do more 😂
I don't think she seems very feminine, she seems fairly "masculine" to me. She looks sporty/muscular. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that and that is a very cool look but she does not play it up at all, she almost tries to hide it? I bet she'd look great if she were to play into it and feel confident in her own skin!
How is Pearl advising that women are best in their 20s, fit, virginal, submissive, ladylike, homebound, voiceless and essentially a disposable posession. She is a 6 foot plus, overweight, 30+, opinionated, non-virginal, argumentative, single business woman, dead lifting 300lbs and boxing. Why not just say, " If you want a man, don't be me?" However, people like who they like, Pearl or non-Pearl alike. She knows this, but the controversy pays... or at least it did.
@ryanmackenzie6109 it would take more than 330,000 Earths to match the mass of the Sun, and it would take 1.3 million Earths to fill the Sun's volume. The Sun is about 93 million miles (150 million kilometers) from Earth. The worst part is when you have all the confidence and none of the root knowledge. This won't be the only thing you need to relearn. Scale. Quality. Man. You have a significant gap in your abilities from your education. I'm a 6th grade student.
I think all women, except for criminals and Pearl, should have the right to vote. (And the reason I don't think Pearl should have the right to vote is because SHE doesn't think she should have the right to vote.)
I honestly think Pearl is just repeating all the things Men that rejected her have told her. She may be trolling, she may actually believe in some of what she says, but if she fully believed in what she says, she wouldn't be seen or heard, she would have found a man to basically own her by now.
@@dinosaur___7209 Those all-I-see-in-women-are-their-look men she "panders" to all day, are easy to get. She only had to dye her hair blond, wear make-up, a padded bra, and a tight dress.
@@dinosaur___7209 You have a point, but the thing is, as far as I know, none of these man is married or even dating a woman that they deem "wife material." So this tells me that they are just one of those people that speak one thing while doing something else. Or that they are not able to attract the women they see as "wife material" nor are able to recognize one if one was standing right before them. So, they only go after women that they see as inferior, they can't help themselves.
not that it matters, but the woman 1:00 into the video is (imo) so much prettier than Pearl. Her hair is gorgeous, her glasses are stylish, she has such beautiful healthy looking skin and her nails are looking fresh. again, there's no need to compare, but as a word of advice for the Pearls out there, you are not prettier than someone else based on how many pounds difference there is between you and that other person. Be kind, be considerate, and don't be a Pearl.
Didn’t her ex-best friend say that Pearl was always very insecure and socially awkward? Apparently, she would spend hours searching stuff like “how to talk to guys”. This is probably her just seeking male attention she never got and hating other women because she idolizes men so much
@@GalacticTradingPostI don't see why any man would want her, a rich handsome man, neh, she is giving too of a control freak vibe, I think a simp, which she will hold under her boot more likely.
I had a husband I gained weight after my father died about 100 pounds my ex husband lied and cheated on me I’m better now I’m down to my high school weight of 120 pounds so saying woman can’t gain weight it’s terrible I was depressed when my father died and I’m sure there are women who have personal issues going on What I’m saying is Pearl is an awful person
Feel you. I also gained a few kg after my dad passed, I felt kind of a psychological hunger, I just didn't feel like I'm full no matter how much I ate. Eventually everything normalised, including my weight, but I definitely understand and support you. Your ex is a total asshole.
@@meredith5977 as do I... What? 😅 If you're gonna try to insult me, at least make it legible 🤣 And honey I have no problem getting picked. I'm married and have 2 beautiful kids with my husband, who picked me for being the strong, independent woman I am. It's embarrassing pick-mes like you that no matter how you throw yourselves at men, you'll always get skipped. Go cry about it 😂
@@LotteReid I’m married two and no I’m not a pick me. Did I trigger you? You obviously understood my writing if you replied and I’m sure your man has his side pieces
Pearl is the epitome of everything she says is wrong with women. I can not stand her, but there is a part of me that feels really sorry for her. She’s about to expire (by her own definition), and her opportunity to get picked is going to slip away. 🤷♀️
It is sad. She's only 26, but she believes teens are more attractive than her. I hope she's trolling. Also, the clothes fooled me into thinking she was 5-10 years older than she is.
Even worse than staying single: can you imagine which guy she'd attract, right now (if she doesn't wise up and get some healing or therapy?)? It would probably be someone abusive.
Good thing that that claim is complete bullshit. Women are wanted at any age, you just naturally get more attention in your 20s and 30s. What I mostly worry about is that she gets trapped in an abusive relationship with one of those disgusting creatures whose podcasts she appears on.
@@MissMoontreeyes, and what’s sad is that she might think she deserves less love and respect because she’s older so she’ll excuse her abusive partners’ toxic ways if she ends up with someone like that
Unrelated, but I imagine Pearl would love that particular Amish group where the woman sews her own wedding dress, then is expected to wear that same dress for every weekly service for (presumably) the rest of their lives barring pregnancy or other such other exception. Can't remember if it was amish, menonite or just that particular community in the documentary I watched a few years ago.
It really irks me that people like Pearl have no issues pushing the false notion that all gay people are always predators when people like her are doing exactly that. It’s either hypocrisy or projection. Maybe both.
@@FreshSalmonid she’s encouraging men to find teenage girls attractive, and encouraging teenage girls to go after older men. If that’s not predatory I don’t know what is.
I think it's trolling. I can't believe someone would be as hypocritical as her and not be trolling. She made a post in July saying "16 year Olds are hotter than 26 year olds" when she herself was 26. That was the post that first made me think she was trolling, and the more I see her content, the more I think she's a troll.
I’m a mom and wife. I have always been into fitness/exercise. Since becoming a mom it’s been hard to keep up with the same workout routine from before I had a baby! Pearl has NO idea what being a Mom and Wife is.
Pearl is young, a reasonably healthy weight, probably wealthy........and still manages to look like she fell out of the ugly tree and hit every damn branch 😂😂😂 How is that?
She is putting all the energy a normal woman would put into resting finding joy and general self care into being toxic and stressed out from not fitting the standards she sets out for other woman to follow.
So she says marriage is "for better or for worse" which means men get to cheat if they want and you gotta deal, but a woman gains some weight and he can leave her. Got it.
Im very close to 300 pounds and by the amount of men in my Inbox daily would say otherwise, Pearl lol I dont want to stay this weight and have lost and gained and over again through the years but at 42, the weight is breaking my body down that gained a lot of weight during the pandemic through stress eating, its time to lose and take care of myself for my son.
I've been either obese or overweight for most of my 40 years of life. Over the years I went from just shy of 300lbs down to an all-time low of 160 and back up to 200 where I sit currently. And I don't carry it in a particularly flattering distribution in my opinion, either. Yet somehow, there is no shortage of men who openly hit on me in public. And that's just the ones who say something. Plenty look but never say anything. I think it's gross behavior honestly, but it does serve as a good metric for how many men like fat women, even older ones. Apparently, there are plenty of them. So Pearl doesn't know what she's talking about.
People don't talk about how when a woman gets married she is no longer just caring for herself. She immediately takes on a whole other person to care for, cook for, clean for, etc. Add on children and everything else, its not that woman "let themselves go" its that we lose ourselves in the act of caring and loving others
Also, I know when I was living alone before my children. I had so much more control of my diet and had time to meal prep and also no reason to have junk food in the house so I never had to exercise will power. But now that I have a husband and 3 kids, I have to cook dinners and meals that suit ALL our tastes. No time to meal prep, and no leftovers because we have a big family. Also I always have soda and sweets and chips in the house because if my husband, he has a sweet tooth an likes a snack every now and then so now it’s constantly in the house, it’s hard today no when it’s there and everyone else is eating it. Also sometimes it’s EXHAUSTING for me to do everything on my own so every now and then we eat fast food so I can hav a break for one meal. Which I NEVER used to eat that. so it did change my lifestyle DRASTICALLY.
It's a choice to lose oneself in the efforts to make the whole family happy. I find that allowing others needs to obliterate all of your own needs will eventually backfire. You'll end up burnt out and resentful with a spoiled and never fulfilled family. There HAS to be boundaries.
@lostandfond2163 do you not place any expectations to share responsibilities with your partner? You are not their mom. You are their partner...there is a big difference.
@@ownerofastolengunIt’s really stupid how you guys think being fat is the worst thing someone can be and refuse to acknowledge the reasons why it may happen.
She looks like the dried out manure of a heifer who had too many carrots (Edit:To anyone who is ginger or shares some physical aspects with her,I profusely apologize, this isn't aimed towards you. It's aimed at little miss pick me pearl)
Right it's kind of in the same realm of the fat positive influencers who make content that comes down to "look at me I'm so hot." When one makes their looks such a part of their personality of course people will critique it
26 is old? Did I read that right? Damn, I must be ancient at 54. 🙄 I have never felt better. this girl really is just talking out her behind. For someone who isn’t married and hasn’t ever been married she’s got a lot of opinions about marriage. Sorry, she’s a child.
OMG you look amazing!! I would not have guessed that you were 54 at all! And as a 26 year old, I am also BAFFLED at the extreme and nonsensical ageism that we have right now, that has been made by people who don’t know how super young a 30 year old still looks and is. If the average lifespan of humans right now is at least 75 years, then 26, 30, and even 54 is NOT “old” at all.
@@winxclubstellamusa Thank you! You just made my day. 😉 I agree that there’s as a lot of ageism going around especially online and I don’t know if some people even realize that they’re engaging in it. With all of the advances in the medical field and the focus on wellbeing (both mental and physical) people are taking better care of themselves. My parents are both pretty healthy now at age 86, but they didn’t start making better decisions about their day to day lifestyle choices until about 25 years ago. I believe that added extra years to their lives.
She knows absolutely nothing. Nothing about life, nothing about marriage or having children and taking care of a family. Absolutely NOTHING! I cannot wait until she gets married and has children to see what she's talking about then. She can't even stay in shape without kids. I'm so confused by her.
you know the posts of the Disney bed spreads from the 90s and the highest comment is always “this pic smells like pee” .. somehow pearl gives off that same vibe
I am fat and I am nowhere near 300 pounds. I am working on losing the weight, and this is after 4 kids. To be fair to me, my husband thinks I am sexy, but I need to lose fat.
After 4 kids honestly is understandable and it’s good your husband still thinks your sexy you should feel sexy and give yourself grace you created multiple human lives ❤
@@RileyDebernardeyou shouldnt excuse unhealthiness though. Being fat is unhealthy no matter how many kids you have had, I have had 3 kids in 4 years, and after my 3 kid my bmi wasnt good, if people had made the excuse that I had just made 3 kids without any break, ofcourse I am fat. Than I wouldnt have worked to loose the weight and return to my healthy weight
@@Bergmaal that is true but I’m saying like that’s probably an explanation for it but not an excuse to like keep living like that fatness and fat exseptance is not okay and it’s stupid I agree. It is unhealthy but i understand it being difficult to get back into the groove of things after having kids. My mom had 2 kids and at most gained 20 pounds but lost it after she had me and my sister
No one takes this conversation to “what body expectations should I have for my spouse when they are 50, 60, 70, or 80” you know, after menopause, cancer treatments etc etc. There’s this bizarre expectation that people stay exactly the same as when you meet at 25. So when the wrinkles come in around the eyes or hair starts turning gray, then what?
I think you have to take care of your body as best that you can, you can't stop aging, but choosing healthy foods and excersice helps to keep the body healthyer and be there for your kids and grand kids. So, everyone should have a goal to be as healthy as they can.
That is the conversation that would be actually helpful. First setting options based on what is scientifically possible and then mapping the lifestyle choices you have to make to attain your chosen results. I think it would help people to choose partners with long term compatible health goals in a nuanced way.
I honestly think Pearl needs to heal her inner child. She can do this by facing her flaws and behaviors, and then learning how to be kinder to herself and others.
You can see it on her face when she's talking about how her mom would talk about her weight. She is a deeply pained individual that has turned to clownery to cope.
Forever grateful for my husband who was more worried for my mental health post partum than my weight gain. When i asked him how he felt about it he said he thinks i should lose weight because he misses how confident i used to be and he knows it will make me feel better about myself again.
@@canelareina3795as all people should be. Honesty is great but not in all situations, and certainly not to a woman who has just been pregnant and suffering from mental health issues
Except for the fact that she’s gonna have to live with everything she’s done at the end of the day Pearl is now starting to fade however, her reputation will proceeded her everywhere. She goes through the rest of her life.
The weirdest thing about Pearl is that there isnt any reason for her to be that ugly. Not personality, just looks. Literally all it would take is a solid skin routine, a signature makeup look, and some hair definition. Throw in minimal gym and health effort and she wouldn't look like that. A touch of lip filler if we're being extreme. Her ugliness is very fixable...but she doesn't fix anything & tells other women to
I WAS TRYING TO PUT MY FINGER ON WHY SHE LOOKS LIKE THAT omg cause I was like literally just do some weights and and skincare if your apparently better than every other woman and more desirable but that's literally it she's too lazy too even with the money she has so she expects other girls to do it for some weird reason
Yea not to be a hater but she could benefit from a stylist, she doesn’t dress flattering or do her hair in a flattering way. It always looks like shes in a costume when she puts a dress on
There is another big difference between you and Pearl, you point out a problem, you kindly and in care for others give a solution and you don’t go around insulting people, you try to understand the other side. Pearl just points at a problem, doesn’t care about giving solutions and then blames everyone but herself when things go bad. I disagree with some of your views but you are so kind that it doesn’t become a problem, I don’t even like Pearl at this point.
Pearl expects women to stay home and take care of the kids all day, but doesn’t understand that a woman literally has to destroy her body to pump out children. Sure some women are able to get right back out there and get in shape but a lot of other women struggle. Maybe instead of degrading women for gaining weight why not give some tips for how to live a healthier life. That’s the issue with pearl though, she’s all point and blame with no solutions.
Pearl also doesn't understand is that it takes time and energy to raise kids. There's not always time to go to the gym afterwards. Because now it's time to cook lunch and clean up the house or care for other kids.
@@asteriasheria2053 As a mom, you are a nanny, a chef, a chauffeur, an accountant, a teacher, hairdresser, pet groomer. You’re also the housekeeper, laundry maid, And landscaper if you have a garden. And when your children are little, you are covered in fluids and substances that are not your own not to mention she is running on fumes from a lack of sleep. And yet Pearl is cheering on men to leave their wives and cheat on them if they gain extra weight. She really has a nerve to call her own mother a whale. She doesn’t remember that her mother had to take care of her and a whole house full of kids, and is a businesswoman.
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As a large woman, I can confirm that I mostly don't have any issues getting good dates. I also can say that (although I understand this is not mentally healthy), I actually tend to be at a healthier weight when the person I am with treats me well.
The most fatphobic person I’ve ever met was 15 lbs underweight and he couldn’t afford food because he was bad with money and had a felony. He thought normal weight people were fat, if we were standing behind a fat person in line or something I could feel the hatred emanating off of his body. He would not be friends with fat people or treat them like human beings. He would grow apart from his friends if they gained weight.
Just remember everyone, Pearl ditched her semi pro volleyball career to do this. Even if she’s making money doing this, she’s ruining every other aspect of her life possible. Her family relationships, her friendships, her FUTURE assuming her UA-cam gets terminated and her money from it dries out, and who knows what else? It’s wild that she had so much access to high school athletes and college athletes as dating choices since she was top of the line in high school and college for both basketball and volleyball, and she still somehow can’t manage a long term relationship with anyone, despite her athletics background being a MASSIVE advantage.
I don't get why being an athlete is a plus for a woman. If she did something like ballet or gymnastics that would be very feminine and a plus but volleyball girls seem more masculine => not as attractive
@@bebrochka8113good sir I don't know you but women that play volleyball are so pretty. And I'm a straight woman. Maybe you don't think Olympic volleyball players are attractive. But most don't look like that
@@bebrochka8113 I just explained why it’s a plus for Hannah. ACCESS to every athlete possible with little chances of difficulty interacting with fellow student athletes. And if she really wanted to, she could’ve gotten anyone outside of sports to date her in both high school or college and she still managed to ruin that? NO EXCUSE!
@@onlyone23km what I meant is volleyball gives this kind of buff physique to a girl (at least the volleyball girl I met were real buff and not feminine physique), so while she could know all the athlete boys personally her sport of choice didn't give her a body that would be attractive to them
@@bebrochka8113Bro, did you see ballet dancers? Ballet it's not easy, it makes you buff too, because it requires a lot of strength. The thing is, girls that do it have to be light too, because if not, they can hurt themselves, so they try to stay as thin as possible at the same time that they acquire that strength. I have a friend that's a female dancer and you can easily see she's got muscles all over her body. It's even easier to see because of how little fat she has.
Pearl: are you abused by your husband? Is he cheating? Endure! Also Pearl: you gain weight? He will leave you. Pearl has zero standards for men and project all responsibility on women.
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She's such a hypocrite. She constantly says that divorce should be illegal but then tells men to leave their wives if they gain weight. Make it make sense
Would love for someone to show her how that worked for the Philippines. (Spoiler: it didn’t change anything besides making married “single” moms)
Pearl and RPers only think divorce should be illegal for women, not men
Isn't she also the same one that said women should remain virgins, but she isn't one?
She thinks if she keeps pandering to red pill eventually one will pick her, unfortunately for her she doesn't look like what they want
@sbell5702 she also gives relationship advice but can't keep a man lmao, she's a joke
Pearl has a lot of views for someone who says folks shouldn't have views
EXACTLY! shes so contradicting towards he own self. she hates feminism but she sure knows how to use her voice and her platform.
To be fair, it's just womenfolk that she thinks shouldn't have views (except for her).
To be fair, there is a difference between an opinion and a vote, it's not the same thing or doesn't hold the same power.
@@lilywong9672I was gonna say not even people , but her own gender shouldn't be talking about their views, which is her actual career ? The redundancy is the actual representation of her lmao
When she does collabs and on her shorts.
"Leave your wife if she gains 50lbs after having your child"- such great conservative family values.
They only care about these value when women leave their cheating husbands
Maybe not conservative but definitely traditional 🙄
I can't wait for Pearl to get married, to some fool, and see what happens to her body and mind. Try to talk smac then, Pearl
@CaityBlue... i swear, isnt traditional conservative? because conservatives like keeping things as they were (back when the world was "right") and are... traditional...? genuine question
@@rhondascraftobsessions5817you know what's funny though? Is that even though she tries and tries to advocate for (shitty) men and be a pick me girl, she is still single. It's funny and sad all at the same time.
Pearl hating her mother for being a career woman while she herself is a career woman is both baffling and sad.
if you can call what she does a "career"
@NotVille_ I see you everywhere and I hate it I hate you
I'd ashamed if she's my daughter. lol. Her mother is amazing, career woman but all her daughter cared is her mom diet. lol. Do she has degree at least to talk like these? She doesn't sound educated at all. Who's listened to her?
Pearl talking smack about fat people when she's clearly overweight is also baffling
She has to cause who tf else is going to take care of her
Imagine hating women for men’s attention and still not having a man
If this isn’t Pearl distilled into one sentence, I don’t know what is…
Period.
What exactly is she saying is hate and how we don’t know she’s isn’t taken?
I used to be on twitter, then I got a new phone and forgot login info to get back on the app.
Before I lost my old phone, WW feminists were dragging her for being a pick me and a misogynist and WM were going in on her looks. WW were low key dragging her for being a pick me but not being picked and the role of her dreary looks and needing brush her flat hair.
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@@beigenegress2979 let me guess, none of those women addressed any of the points she makes and just name call. Great constructive discussion, smh
its insane how pearl says 16yr olds are hotter than 26 year old women, but her own mother is more attractive than her
I think women are at their hottest at about 36 but it's a minority opinion. This, of course, assumes that they aren't fat.
Women in their 30s actually look so damn good. They lost the childish looks and look more mature.
So she’s saying minors are hotter??? Ok…
I would consider it as propaganda of pedophilia
@@sugakookie6303she said in Twitter, word by word "16yo chicks are hotter than 26yo chicks"
Chicks is not a word I use to see, but I feel it kinda disrespectful...
"I'd rather be a pick me than a skip me"
Girl, you are BOTH!
It’s quite sad…
@@bellerain381 Sad and pathetic. People with the whole "main character syndrome" are just so self entitled that they're delusional. It is quite pitiful really..
911? I... I think I just witnessed a murder 😐
Isn’t being skipped what creates a pick me though?
@ReikiRev depends why they were skipped.
if insecurity was a person it would be pearl.
Yup!🤣
I don’t think so
U sure u don't mean delusional Levels of confidence?
@@Mindyobusiness89then who?
@@theselfproclaimedretrogame9383 then who what?
"I don't think I look good but my wife always tells me I'm handsome." That is soo precious. I wish the best to him and his wife.
IDK if Pearl realizes this, but she is indirectly giving off the impression that her dad is cheating scum. Seeing her say, 'cheating is the wife's fault because she's become unattractive', 'my mom gained weight during my childhood, which was her fault because she was addicted to sugar', and 'cheating is different for men when they do it' in rapid succession really tells a certain type of story.
I hadn't thought of it that way, that's pretty sad if true.
Whoa...i never thought about it but this makes sense
Wow, so insightful!!
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“I don’t think I look good, but my wife says I’m handsome” WE LOVE A SUPPORTIVE QUEEN!!!
That genuinely made me shed a tear❤ he is so lucky. ❤😭❤️
I loved that part. So wholesome.
That guy was so cute!
He is so wholesome and I can see why his wife loves him.
exactly
16 year olds aren’t hot. THEY ARE CHILDREN.
No they aren't. If you are sexually attracted to actual kids who haven't gone through puberty you are a sicko with a mental illness. If you think a hot 16 year old is hot that's just normal. From a biological point of view that person is an adult. They've been through puberty. They are sexually mature. They can have kids. In the past they were adults culturally as well as biologically. You would be a scumbag for actually pursuing such a relationship in this day and age because in modern times 16 year olds are no longer adults in the cultural sphere. In modern times they have been more sheltered and most of them just don't have an adult understanding of the world. I've slept with 15-16 year olds... When I was 15-16 myself. Does that make me a pedo?
Of course there are hot 16 year olds. Take... I don't know... Keira Knightly who was 17 when they filmed Pirates of the Caribbean. Was she hot in that movie? Of course she was and a vast majority of people thought she was very attractive. It doesn't mean you should pursue minors as an adult. Anyway the difference between 16-18 is pretty arbitrary and cultural. You finish high school and start work or college at around 18 in the US but at around 16 in Europe. Likewise the age of consent is 18 in most of the US but 16 in most of Europe. Simply because you have to officially draw the line somewhere but I wouldn't pursue a 18 year old for the same reason I wouldn't pursue a 16 year old. But in the US one would be legal and one wouldnt while in Europe both would be legal.
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as someone who was just 16 a few months ago, that got me vomiting fr. pedoph1le ass tweet like WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER??? why would a 27 year old say we're attractive?? and dissing herself in the same time, saying that we're more attractive than her?? she hates herself so so much .
In America, yes. The rest of the world begs to differ.
@@trinelangohr6661unfortunately not pedophilia is a huge problem in a bunch of other countries as well
Pearl has admitted that the only reason she agreed with red pill content was because she has a low self-esteem. I wonder what she thinks she is doing for herself by perpetuating these misogynistic ideas.
She thinks she’s making herself likable to men.
i used to kind of be like her. I used to do nothing but scroll on /adv/ all day, hearing lowly people's opinion on how romance and love worked despite them not actually participating in a relationship. it ruined me for a while. I can't help but feels bad for Pearl sometimes. She must feel a lot of weight on her shoulders, trying to appeal to nuerotic people who will never be truly pleased.
@@Poopiepies Yet she still can't get a man 😂
She doesn't care about the long term. She wants money NOW.😂
And she's still single. 🤷🏽
Pearl's mom had 10 children. The fact that Pearl thinks that her mom was going to stay the 120lbs woman she was when she was married after giving birth 10 times is... ... ...I'm just speechless. Many women have a hard time losing weight after giving birth while also having to take care of the home and working...
Right. 10 kids. To have 10 kids she barely had time to lose weight before being pregnant again.
I am pregnant with my 9th baby. I've found it just about impossible to lose weight after the last 3. So my weight just keeps going up. It's been really a very difficult thing to deal with. I'd be so hurt if I were her mom. My body has either been carrying or nursing a child for 17 years now. That's a lot on a person's body.
@@Sarah-psalm127Damn why would you have 9 children?
@@SomeBoyHere Some people like kids and that's ok.
Yes. I have 3 kids, and even if I have been lifting weights and dieting.. My body will always have those poufs on my hips and belly.. Being fit but still shaped like a pear.. And here comes someone who isnt married or have had any kids and tell us men should leave..
Now my husband is amazing, so Im lucky.. But for the younger generation, with the men hearing this.. Its messed up. Then she complains about single moms too.. Like.. You told the men to leave them you b.. ..
Embarrassingly, in my younger years, I bought into the pregnancy is not an excuse myth. Then I watched the most bad arse woman I know, (helicopter pilot in the Marine Corps) struggle to actively loose weight after both her pregnancies. It changed my perspective completely. I can honestly say now at 43, I would have loved to bare stretch marks and wider hips at least once. Alas it wasn’t possible. Moms are super heroes. Shame on people who bash them for not being a perfect 120.
As someone with a more traditional marriage, my husband would never treat me the way Pearl portrays husbands.
She say this to get a man to marry her but little does she know even those men who wants to cheat wouldn’t choose a one who wants to be cheated on.
For real! I am also in a "traditional" marriage, and it is NOTHING like this.
I also have a more traditional marriage and was a SAHM for years. My husband would never dare treat me the way Pearl advocates for men to treat their wives. Marriage is about respect. I do make a conscious effort to stay healthy and fit and I expect my husband to do the same, but when either one of us starts gaining we discuss it respectfully and motivate each other, not abandon each other.
My husband can't stand her.
Tradwife here as well, and my husband always crinkles his nose like he smells something bad whenever his feed shows her. I think Pearl, and to a little lesser extent Candace Owens, are pick me grifters. In a time when men feel scared to even look at a woman, they are grasping at any woman who shows them validation, even if it’s toxic.
This has nothing to do with pearl but the guy who said that his wife calls him handsome warmed my heart
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So cute
I came here to say the same thing, so sweet 🥰
I know, right?!?
@@Raya-ir4tm pearl thrives off of being miserable while telling other people how to live
I gained 115lbs over the course of our marriage, my husb still loved me and found me attractive. I've lost 105 of those pounds, my husb still loves me and finds me attractive.
Amazing journey! I'm so happy you have a true partner! Have a merry Christmas!!!
Congratulations on losing weight and having a great husband 😍
You obviously have a happy, healthy relationship, and I'm glad for you. ❤
It's almost as if love, attraction and marriage is not based on solely sex but something deeper. Pearl has not experienced this so she doesn't know.
I am so happy for you
I was all into fitness and healthy eating. Then all of a sudden I started gaining weight. No changes in diet or fitness, just inexplicably gaining. Turns out I had hormonal ovarian cancer. Ended up on hormonal steroids by the end. That lasted a year. All in all by the time I was done with treatment I gained 80 pounds. It was very difficult to lose the weight. Eventually I became pregnant and lost 60lbs by the end of the pregnancy. The pregnancy completely retuned my body back to normal. That said, I was obese. But I was obese because I'm a survivor.
Girl, that is WILD! I'm glad you're better now, bodies are wild. ❤
Congratulations on beating cancer and having your baby! 😊
Congrats mama bear 💕
Did the cancer go away? Please say yes
@zvezdoblyat well with ovarian cancer it never goes away. There has been no growth for 7, almost 8 years. 2 more years and I will be clear (but never cancer free). The important part is clear and no growth!
Pearl: "Marriage is for better or for worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, til death do you part."
Also Pearl:"Absolutely leave your wife if she puts on weight, no question. "
Yeah... no consistency. She's all platitude and no reason. Poor, stupid Pearl.
She's just mirroring the sentiments of men, this is exactly how they think. Women should endure and men should leave when its no longer convenient
I disagree with her on this one. What not help her lose weight?
The math isn't mathing
"And endure a**se so the kids can have a two parent household."
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High value men DONT CHEAT! Otherwise they arent high value! 🤦♀️ if they cheat they lack self control, repsect for their partner, etc. Those traits dont sound like high value to me.
Yeah, but that whole dumb red pill community think nouveau riche hood rich displays of wealth are the only measure of value in men. 🤦♂️
I am so glad someone finally said this! You took the words right out of my mouth!
Exactly. They're using shallow parameters to determine low and high value. Not legitimate aspects of a human being.
They also lack self esteem and self worth. If they didn't, they wouldn't be seeking validation from other women.
Yes being part of Christian groups (that are neither left or right) but lean more traditional, men are held to the same standard like the Bible says no sex before marriage, no cheating, and to take care of your body but not be vain/too focused on looks, commandments which are given to both men and women honestly I have no idea where she gets her views she’s definitely just a big troll looking for attention/money
As someone who has an overweight partner whom I care for dearly, I would snap at anyone who decided to terrorize him for his body. Yes, I can acknowledge his weight isn't healthy especially for his height. We both know this and I do worry about him for it, but bullying is never okay. Oh and the "fat people aren't attractive" is a BS statement. I think my partner is adorable and handsome. People need to stop equating looks with health
Being fit is both healthy and attractive. So funny you put the word "bs" in yours
@@canelareina3795 being fit doesn't make you attractive nor can it make up for a lack of a personality
@@canelareina3795girl, bye.
@@canelareina3795 Also shows how superficial you are if you stop loving someone the instant they gain weight. Some people do look good especially if they have an amazing Personality.
But i bet you dont know anything about good personality.
One thing that makes a man extremely high value is self control. If he is angry, he can control it and not fly into a rage. If he is stressed he doesn't take his stress out on his wife and children. If he is tempted by another woman's beauty, he doesn't give into that temptation because he cherishes the love, respect and affection of his wife and children. Money and status does not make you valuable to a good woman. It's your character, your morality, a sense of self respect and dignity to not degrade your own body and soul for a cheap lay in a moment of weakness.
Amen!
Exactly. And a man with self control is so much stronger than all those “high value” men Pearl tries to please.
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Nailed it! Very well put.
Nah its crazy how she doesn't believe in divorce even in most cases of abuse but then when a woman gains a hundred pounds shes like "leave the whale" 💀💀💀
I was thinking the exact same thing. She's just all over the place, doesn't know what she's talking about.
Kinda ironic when there’s a cartoon whale in Spongebob called Pearl
It literally makes no sense right? She says complete opposite things
@@InsertArgumentHerewhat?(sorry my brain just doesn't want to work today😢)
@@InsertArgumentHere "Kinda ironic when there’s a cartoon whale in Spongebob called Pearl"
Who also likes to spend her rich daddy's money. Literally life imitating art.
I just want to put this here. Like so many others, in 2020 I struggled with alcohol abuse. When I drink, I hardly eat at all. I got down to a size 2/4. Then I met my incredible wife, who is a great cook, and stopped abusing alcohol. I have gained about 30 pounds (at 5' tall) and am now a size 8. "Skinny" or a smaller number on the scale is not "BETTER." Imagine a life so empty that you judge your worth by what a scale says. You do whatever you want and I'll be over here enjoying a grilled cheese and homemade soup. PS this is a great reminder that someone else's weight is none of your business, whether it's going up or down. Find another compliment or comment to make to someone you haven't seen in a while.
Im so happy for you ❤
Proud of you for your accomplishments and sharing your story. ❤
Reread my comment and try again.
@@forgetmeblues If you judge your life solely on what a scale says, it is empty. My God, why keep commenting on this to say nothing? Go the fuck away
@@forgetmebluesidk, what is actually better being self countios about the weight or be at unhealthy weight and don't care about it at all, and thing you are perfect. I personally think the latter is more toxic actually.
As a man I think it’s pretty sad that people like this hold men to such low standards of self control when it comes sex and it’s even more sad seeing all these “alpha” males agree so quickly just to justify their own bad behavior.
Agreed.
Hearing these statements I'm almost offended on behalf of men. How are you so stupid you don't find that insulting? It's just trash men grasping for excuses to remain trash while pretending they're "normal".
Agree. Men like them are pretty weak in my opinion if they don’t have the strength to stay faithful or they at least have weak morals if they don’t care and use this as an excuse.
Yes, but "as a man" i haven't met any man who finds 300+ pounds attractive - let alone more attractive than 120 pounds. Obesity is not attractive to most people for very objective reasons. As someone who was at 313 pounds once - most people who find you attractive, do it despite the overweight, not because of it. And of course there are guys with a fetish, but that's not a standard, there is a guy with a fetish for everything you can think off.
All this is theoretical BS anyways, talking points for incels and wannabe alphas. Most normal men (especially "the good ones") won't leave their wife because she gains weight and most women won't leave their man because he lost his job (or gains weight), no meaningful relationship is build on looks or status (it can get in the way at some point though). But she is right in that point: men *generally* like "normal" sized women and women *generally* like guys with a good job. All the anecdotal, subjective and objective evidence indicates that. And i would bet money, that 95% of men would pick the body of Heidi Klum over Tess Holiday's body. Women luckily seem to be *generally* more complex in that regard.
I came here to say that, I hate when people talk about a whole gender like they're one person, I doubt its her looks that is the reason she's single, it's probably because she's a horrible person and most guys have more decency that her
Leave the woman because she got fat but the man can do whatever they want and the woman should stay no matter what! The double standard is unreal.
She wants the man to leave his wife if she gets fat but also thinks that we should get rid of divorce 💀
@@amnahammad5560 I feel like she lost a bet and has to present random powerpoints about „shocking“ topics. Then she figured out it pays off and here we are
Bad idea, women can get quiet violent and murderous in that kind of environment which makes them jealous. This is surely why men who had a harem of 500 women died in their twenties.😹
@@dylansereno9233that's called a pro business move😹
She contradicts herself all the time because what she says aren't her actual values. She says controversial stuff because that's her brand. She's gotten a lot of attention by pissing people off.
Hot take: people shouldn't be made fun of for being short or red-headed, either. The goal shouldn't be to find examples of people being treated poorly and seek to make that as common and universal an experience as possible.
No matter how horrible a person is I can't bring myself to insult how they naturally look. It's not just insulting them, it's insulting everyone who looks like them
Idk if your entire persona is policing other women's appearance, not upholding standards is hypocritical
She says women slack off after finding a partner but also shames women for trying too hard to look attractive after they are married….
Right, honestly it's like no matter what women do, it's wrong. But hey men decided a long time ago that being born a woman is a crime.
She leaves out the fact that men tend to do the same thing. Just about every single man I’ve known once they met someone and or got married gained at least 15 pounds within the first year
If I ever called my mother a whale on camera, there’d be a lot of slow singin’ and flower bringin’ as my casket starts sinkin’.
Fr man- how some ppl can talk to or abt their parents like that and survive is still astonishing to me😅
If she isn’t respecting her own parents then that enough to tell you that she wouldn’t respect her future husband
@@ragsrare3771 I guess that's why she is hyping up trash men no one should respect
May she get the husband she truly deserves.
More like, may she get the husband she expects other women to put up with.
I'm dead
@@AngryReptileKeeperehh… same thing
@@AngryReptileKeeperthat’s literally what they just said bud
Imagine taking relationship advise from a women who's never even had a boyfriend, let alone marraige. All this pandering and still no guy wants her. LMAO
even more ridiculous is the fact that she did actually have a boyfriend at one point and he left her ass lmao
@@skittle38 Her best friend said it wasn’t a real relationship and were together for a like month tops
@@skittle38he left cus she had a high body count
@@xBlacMagSxActually, she even said she had a relationship. She was crying on tiktok and calling him her boyfriend.
It's funny because Pearl herself said she wouldn't take relationship advice from a single woman. But who's the single woman giving advice, Pearl? 😂
I hate when Pearl tries to talk about someone's shape, while she's shaped like a fridge
😂😂😂🤣🤣
OMG!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
And now I can’t unsee it! 😂😅😂😅
Yeah and one of them old school fridges too you know what I’m talking bout right? 😂
As a member of the fat community, you absolutely nailed it. Pearl just trashes individual humans. Her content is the social media equivalent of a mean girl in the locker room, calling me fat and making pig noises. You genuinely critique a "movement" that has stopped being about accepting our bodies and loving ourselves and become about promoting unhealthy choices and demanding people have seggs with us.
She personally attacks individual women for being fat. You criticize the advice and actions of predatory public figures. You are not the same.
Pearl is definitely a troll. She has the giddiest smile on her face whenever she says something shocking
@@sgujuhgftyyuyy To her, getting any kind of attention is "doing something". I wish she would go get therapy and healed her inner wounds
That smile that says, "I do good, Daddy?"
I believe so. She's just saying those things to get a reaction and valuation from men.
I said the same thing!! I think she created this troll persona as a joke and then got popular and just is super committed. She doesn't practice what she preaches and if she REALLY believed what she said I don't think she would look or say the things she does. She is just a little too good at acting the part😂
I don't think she's necessarily a troll, but definitely a grifter who says intentionally provocative things for attention. She enjoys being inflammatory but she doesn't just want to be outrageous to get people upset, she specifically goes for the talking points of the groups she wants to appeal to (manosphere conservatives). A lot of it is just parroting things that gets the approval of her target audience, it very quickly becomes obvious that she doesn't actually know what she's talking about and can't back up her claims when asked.
Ya know.
The realization she's 1 of 10 suddenly makes SO MUCH sense on why she's like this. She's attention starved. She has daddy issues, mommy issues, and is giving off major pick me vibes because she never got her parents attention competing with her siblings.
Imagine being such a pick me that your entire personality is based on bashing women but no man wants you. She’s knows what men want and how a woman should be and yet can’t get a man herself. Ok Pearl
She can’t even use the excuse ‘I’m not actively dating’ because she’s been spotted on multiple dating sites, so I do agree that she’s not wanted- OR maybe she has super high standards and are rejecting everyone. Idk.
Tbh, I don't believe she's a pick me. She's just greedy for money and fame, and she chose edglord way, because female redpill influencers are much rarer then feminist ones or something like that. I don't think she believes anything she says. I also don't think she has any morals or empathy.
The guy who said his wife thinks he’s handsome looked so sweet.
Right? Made me think that Pearl doesn't understand that people find their loved ones attractive, even if that person doesn't find themselves attractive.
That was absolutely precious 🥺
That's something she'll never have.
He does look handsome.
My theory is that Pearl is just bitter about being 27 and looking 47 so she woke up one day and went ‘scotch earth bitch-bag’ on everyone, being intentionally outrageous to gain attention that she previously lacked.
I'm 35 pounds heavier than I should be after having a baby. I'm aware of this and plan to lose the weight once I'm done breastfeeding. I find her comment on women gaining weight after having a child, irritating. Women who have kids don't make a conscious decision to 'let themselves go'. I gained the weight I needed to gain to feed my baby.
I remember being 4 weeks PP and people telling me to work out. I only gained 49 pounds, and I have 16 left to lose.
@@DamnitMercy they are obviously clueless just like pearl. Listen to your body. Do too much too soon and you prolong your recovery.
She'll probably never have kids, no one wants her even the men she gives lip service to. I had a baby back in July I gained very little weight and my boyfriend tells me I don't look like I just had a baby but that stance about weight gain with child bearing is gross, so many women do gain a decent amount with pregnancy and are expected to drop it despite how men are supposed to have no hand in childcare so she can workout, so she's expected to snap back and on top of that be a slave to her Sloppy gross pig of a husband (he's allowed to be that way) it's just ridiculous, I wonder if her mom dropped her on her head as an infant
Congratulations on your new baby!! I hope you can give yourself some grace. Your baby’s health and your health is the most important thing. 35 pounds sounds like extremely normal weight gain during pregnancy and breastfeeding. I hope you and your family are well ❤
Yeah, porn culture has completely divorced people from the realities of growing a child, giving birth, and how the process changes your body forever. It's also extra funny when it's a pick me like her that essentially claims women's only purpose for existing is giving birth.
Her mother projected her insecurities onto her children and now Pearl projects those insecurities to her audience.
I think it's more likely her dad who created this monster. Pearl has said before that his approval means the world to her, but I've never seen her talk about her mom prior to now* other than to acknowledge that they used her as a 'company owner' to receive grants for female-owned businesses.
@@saiyamoru I knew it had to be something connected to the dad. The way she shamed her mom and called her a “whale” when gaining weight while being with her father… and then saying things like “your a selfish and terrible wife to your husband if you gain weight”, gives the impression that the attention and approval of her father was contingent on the mothers weight body and aesthetic. Then fighting for his approval all while he’s reinforcing her insecurities.
@@blabla187watching her 12 or 13yo sister say "wow you are so single" was absolute gold 😂😂
Pearl is the proof of why being a legit almond mom is really dangerous for your kids personalities.
It just makes them huge bitches.
How do you know her mom did that?
Ironically Pearl is not married nor does she have children. She seems very, very bitter about that.
She comes across as someone who desperately wanted to be one of the mean girls in high school but got bullied by them instead. She's so desperate for approval and validation, makes me wonder what her home life was like. Sad.
the fact that Pearl called her own mom a whale, that made my jaw drop, also given the story of her parents, its no wonder she has the distorted views she does
I was shocked as well. My mom was pretty toxic to all of us and she was overweight for years, but I would NEVER call her a whale, what the hell? Pearl is just a bully.
@@user-is7xs1mr9y yeah that was just mean and rude for her to say that about her own mother
@@blabla187 its good to know her siblings don't have these views
Huh? Words need to have less effect on people. Harden up.
@@buysncharge harden up???? Do you not understand that this is about the sheer disrespect of your elders-- nevermind that- your literal parent? Get outta here. You DO NOT speak to your parent that way ever unless they’re some crazy abusive piece of shit which…. Her mother clearly isn’t.
The least of this is the weight based insult. It’s the audacity to insult the person whom you came out of at all.
As a man who will be the house keeper in my relationship, I find it hilarious that staying at home is seen as a feminine thing
My mom was a stay-at-home mom by choice and I have nothing but enamourment for her, I cannot imagine being in the home for 25 years raising 3 children (2 with autism (me and my little brother)) plus helping to care for our cousins while my aunts and uncles were out working, making food, cleaning the house, and all of this while being half deaf from childhood and struggling with undiagnosed ADHD
I even started asking her for tips on how to keep yourself from going insane while being someone who works from home or is just the house keeper in general, because my dumb ass struggles just being at home in my dorm room alone while my partner is attending their classes XD
I also think this idea of staying at home "being the woman's job" is extremely stupid, people stay home for so many reasons
In my parents case, my dad was able to get a job with a high enough salary to provide for the 5 of us at a relatively young age, so when my mom dropped out of medical school for her own health reasons she didn't feel pressured to go into the work force full time like my dad (they didn't even have me (their oldest child) until 3-5 years later so this wasnt a "stay at home with the kids" thing)
And for me I'm planning to be a work-from-home husband for the main reason of... I can't handle the work force or a full 9-5, I've known this about myself for awhile but in recent years I've been discovering the full extent of my sensory issues and have been learning to cope with them, and having a job that forces me to leave the house every day for 5-8 hours a day... even just half of that sounds horrifying to me (I even worked a part-time position over the summer and I was exhausted beyond words)
As a lesbo myself, Pearl gives huge closeted lesbian vibes…
Well.. she started all this redpill gospel shit after her bestie (and roomate) got married so..one can wonder lol
Yes!
Lol that was my first impression of her! She looks like she played soccer or softball 🤣
@@brioche8123pretty sure she was a volleyball player? If I’m not mistaken. So, you’re right. Lol
@@kryskross9199 she gives sporty stem lesbian vibes 😂. I bet she’ll disappear from the internet, come back with a female fiancée and a reformed personality lol
As a conservative Christian woman that has a job and still likes to cook and clean for my man and enjoys that feminine role, I think Pearl is a total tool. The reason I like to do things like that for my man is because he actually appreciates it, wouldn't dream of cheating on me, and to a lesser extent also still cooks and cleans. I couldn't stand being in a relationship with a man that treated me like a maid. You're supposed to be in an equal partnership, not an authoritarian heirarchal nightmare. Pearl does such a disservice to conservatives by even opening her mouth.
This sounds good but if you’re a “conservative Christian woman” than there’s no equality in your relationship by “design.” My mom is a conservative Christian woman and says “your father is the head of the home.”
@@SapienSafaridepends on the conservative. I'm guessing your mom is also very religious.
There's a lot of conservatives who view it as a group project where some aspects are managed by the wife and others are managed by the husband.
With evangelicals you tend to see something closer to a man on top hierarchy, but there's also a view that it's a co-manager hierarchy where you are teammates or a unit.
That's how my catholic father and stepmother are, anyways.
You, ma’am, are what feminists (at least the original feminists not misandrists) fought for…you choose to do all of that. Feminism is about the ability to choose
I have an auto immune disorder that affects my metabolism, my metabolism is really “fast” I struggle to gain weight, my blood sugar drops, I can’t go anywhere without a snack. If my blood sugar drops too low I seize and I’m toast, I can only imagine the nightmare it is to have a metabolism that is slow. That’s the opposite end of my condition but they have a slew of things to deal with as well. I can only imagine
For a woman who likes to judge based on looks, she not only looks older than her age, but she's pretty homily looking. Look at the kind of women she shames for the love of the manosphere. Every single one of them have the looks that catch guys like, Andrew Tate's attention, yet Andrew has never shown any interest in her, nor has any of the other men she plays, "Pick Me" for. Has she never asked herself why? I mean, really?
Homely is a perfect descriptor
Her physical appearance might be an insecurity of hers which is why she may be so focused on “dressing it up” and “staying fit.” She’s gone off the deep end but I wish her inner peace. ❤
@@thegangsterhippiebut she’s clearly not “staying fit”… in the video you can see she did gain weight, she’s probably still in the healthy range but for someone who would shame me to death if I gained 20 pounds (I’d probably be at her weight then depending on how tall she is) she gotta do more 😂
I don't think she seems very feminine, she seems fairly "masculine" to me. She looks sporty/muscular. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that and that is a very cool look but she does not play it up at all, she almost tries to hide it? I bet she'd look great if she were to play into it and feel confident in her own skin!
Negativity on the inside makes you ugly on the outside.
How is Pearl advising that women are best in their 20s, fit, virginal, submissive, ladylike, homebound, voiceless and essentially a disposable posession.
She is a 6 foot plus, overweight, 30+, opinionated, non-virginal, argumentative, single business woman, dead lifting 300lbs and boxing.
Why not just say, " If you want a man, don't be me?" However, people like who they like, Pearl or non-Pearl alike. She knows this, but the controversy pays... or at least it did.
It's because the world went downhill ever since woman started voting and working. That's the basis for the shtick.
@@buysncharge womp womp cry abt it
@@buysnchargewow you ahve objectively ALL the wrong views lmao
@ryanmackenzie6109 sounds like a man who can't build things defending woman for ruining the world. Tell me what's better.
@ryanmackenzie6109 it would take more than 330,000 Earths to match the mass of the Sun, and it would take 1.3 million Earths to fill the Sun's volume. The Sun is about 93 million miles (150 million kilometers) from Earth.
The worst part is when you have all the confidence and none of the root knowledge. This won't be the only thing you need to relearn. Scale. Quality. Man. You have a significant gap in your abilities from your education. I'm a 6th grade student.
I often forget she’s younger than me, all that hatred in her body is making her age like milk. Meanwhile i still get asked if I’m in high school lmao
At this point she should take her advice and not give herself voting rights or opinions, im so done 😂
I think all women, except for criminals and Pearl, should have the right to vote. (And the reason I don't think Pearl should have the right to vote is because SHE doesn't think she should have the right to vote.)
I'd love to know if she voted in the last elections. I can't imagine she would just "let the leftists win"
@NotVille_lol. Every thread. Lmao.
@NotVille_nah
I honestly think Pearl is just repeating all the things Men that rejected her have told her. She may be trolling, she may actually believe in some of what she says, but if she fully believed in what she says, she wouldn't be seen or heard, she would have found a man to basically own her by now.
@@dinosaur___7209 Those all-I-see-in-women-are-their-look men she "panders" to all day, are easy to get. She only had to dye her hair blond, wear make-up, a padded bra, and a tight dress.
By her logic, she should quit to become a more "traditional woman"
@@dinosaur___7209 You have a point, but the thing is, as far as I know, none of these man is married or even dating a woman that they deem "wife material." So this tells me that they are just one of those people that speak one thing while doing something else. Or that they are not able to attract the women they see as "wife material" nor are able to recognize one if one was standing right before them. So, they only go after women that they see as inferior, they can't help themselves.
@@dinosaur___7209These men want baddies who are virgins but experienced p0rnst@rs, independent but also dependent, innocent but bad asf, etc
@@dinosaur___7209then will wait til they get older and want younger women who are..pure.
not that it matters, but the woman 1:00 into the video is (imo) so much prettier than Pearl. Her hair is gorgeous, her glasses are stylish, she has such beautiful healthy looking skin and her nails are looking fresh. again, there's no need to compare, but as a word of advice for the Pearls out there, you are not prettier than someone else based on how many pounds difference there is between you and that other person. Be kind, be considerate, and don't be a Pearl.
you are right. Your opinions don't mean a flying f***.
Ugh...Pearl. I'm almost 99% sure she cries herself to sleep at night. Such an awful human being.
Could almost feel sorry for her if she wasn’t projecting that insecurity like vomit.
Didn’t her ex-best friend say that Pearl was always very insecure and socially awkward? Apparently, she would spend hours searching stuff like “how to talk to guys”. This is probably her just seeking male attention she never got and hating other women because she idolizes men so much
pearl will probably bag herself a rich handsome husband even though she's average looking. men are desperate for someone like her.
@@GalacticTradingPostnah, I doubt she practices what she preaches
@@GalacticTradingPostI don't see why any man would want her, a rich handsome man, neh, she is giving too of a control freak vibe, I think a simp, which she will hold under her boot more likely.
I had a husband I gained weight after my father died about 100 pounds my ex husband lied and cheated on me I’m better now I’m down to my high school weight of 120 pounds so saying woman can’t gain weight it’s terrible I was depressed when my father died and I’m sure there are women who have personal issues going on
What I’m saying is Pearl is an awful person
Im sorry for your loss and your ex was a jerk. Im glad youre doing better
Feel you. I also gained a few kg after my dad passed, I felt kind of a psychological hunger, I just didn't feel like I'm full no matter how much I ate. Eventually everything normalised, including my weight, but I definitely understand and support you. Your ex is a total asshole.
Pearl's pretty bold for someone who wears a collection of her grandma's drapes.
Sound of music...
lol!
"I'd rather be a pick-me than a skip-me!" But girl... You're embarrassingly pick-me and you STILL got skipped 😅
As do you 😂
@@meredith5977 as do I... What? 😅 If you're gonna try to insult me, at least make it legible 🤣 And honey I have no problem getting picked. I'm married and have 2 beautiful kids with my husband, who picked me for being the strong, independent woman I am. It's embarrassing pick-mes like you that no matter how you throw yourselves at men, you'll always get skipped. Go cry about it 😂
staaaahp, she's already dead 😭
@@meredith5977lmao what kind of insult is that. I can’t this is pathetic
@@LotteReid I’m married two and no I’m not a pick me. Did I trigger you? You obviously understood my writing if you replied and I’m sure your man has his side pieces
Pearl is the epitome of everything she says is wrong with women. I can not stand her, but there is a part of me that feels really sorry for her. She’s about to expire (by her own definition), and her opportunity to get picked is going to slip away. 🤷♀️
It is sad. She's only 26, but she believes teens are more attractive than her. I hope she's trolling. Also, the clothes fooled me into thinking she was 5-10 years older than she is.
Even worse than staying single: can you imagine which guy she'd attract, right now (if she doesn't wise up and get some healing or therapy?)? It would probably be someone abusive.
Good thing that that claim is complete bullshit. Women are wanted at any age, you just naturally get more attention in your 20s and 30s. What I mostly worry about is that she gets trapped in an abusive relationship with one of those disgusting creatures whose podcasts she appears on.
@@heyizz Absolutely agree.
@@MissMoontreeyes, and what’s sad is that she might think she deserves less love and respect because she’s older so she’ll excuse her abusive partners’ toxic ways if she ends up with someone like that
0:57 "i do not think I'm the most gorgeous thing in the world" girl please you are so pretty 😭
I feel like Pearl could unite all of us against her.
😂😂😂
I feel like she already did
Ehh
That’s quite an accomplishment!!!
Well it seems to already be working 😂
She makes me sad, she must be miserable. I can’t imagine hating myself that much. She’s monetised her own projection
Unrelated, but I imagine Pearl would love that particular Amish group where the woman sews her own wedding dress, then is expected to wear that same dress for every weekly service for (presumably) the rest of their lives barring pregnancy or other such other exception.
Can't remember if it was amish, menonite or just that particular community in the documentary I watched a few years ago.
I love when my favorite female creators go after Pearl. She's such a bad person.
The best part is everyone hates her equally no matter their differences 😂
Don’t lower yourself to be like people like Pearl
@@heyizzI don’t think everyone hates her lol
@@Mindyobusiness89 I don't follow gender traitors so no, I don't get freaks like Ben Shapiro's sister in my feed 😚
@jordanjordan3167 my biggest fear when i was younger that i would one day act and say things like pearl.
It really irks me that people like Pearl have no issues pushing the false notion that all gay people are always predators when people like her are doing exactly that. It’s either hypocrisy or projection. Maybe both.
She fr said 16 yos are hotter than 25 yos and then has the audacity to call a group of people minding their own business predators
@@FreshSalmonid she’s encouraging men to find teenage girls attractive, and encouraging teenage girls to go after older men. If that’s not predatory I don’t know what is.
I think it's trolling. I can't believe someone would be as hypocritical as her and not be trolling. She made a post in July saying "16 year Olds are hotter than 26 year olds" when she herself was 26. That was the post that first made me think she was trolling, and the more I see her content, the more I think she's a troll.
She said all gay people all predatory?
I feel like she is just baiting at this point but at least it’s mildly entertaining seeing what bullcrap she says next @@audrawells1383
I’m a mom and wife. I have always been into fitness/exercise. Since becoming a mom it’s been hard to keep up with the same workout routine from before I had a baby! Pearl has NO idea what being a Mom and Wife is.
Pearl is young, a reasonably healthy weight, probably wealthy........and still manages to look like she fell out of the ugly tree and hit every damn branch 😂😂😂
How is that?
Ugly tree😭😭😭😭
I was thinking the same thing 😂
She is putting all the energy a normal woman would put into resting finding joy and general self care into being toxic and stressed out from not fitting the standards she sets out for other woman to follow.
I haven’t heard that “ugly tree” expression in years 😭 thank u for bringing it back lmfao
Pearl looks like a pony crammed into a dress.
So she says marriage is "for better or for worse" which means men get to cheat if they want and you gotta deal, but a woman gains some weight and he can leave her. Got it.
Im very close to 300 pounds and by the amount of men in my Inbox daily would say otherwise, Pearl lol I dont want to stay this weight and have lost and gained and over again through the years but at 42, the weight is breaking my body down that gained a lot of weight during the pandemic through stress eating, its time to lose and take care of myself for my son.
I've been either obese or overweight for most of my 40 years of life. Over the years I went from just shy of 300lbs down to an all-time low of 160 and back up to 200 where I sit currently. And I don't carry it in a particularly flattering distribution in my opinion, either. Yet somehow, there is no shortage of men who openly hit on me in public. And that's just the ones who say something. Plenty look but never say anything. I think it's gross behavior honestly, but it does serve as a good metric for how many men like fat women, even older ones. Apparently, there are plenty of them. So Pearl doesn't know what she's talking about.
People don't talk about how when a woman gets married she is no longer just caring for herself. She immediately takes on a whole other person to care for, cook for, clean for, etc. Add on children and everything else, its not that woman "let themselves go" its that we lose ourselves in the act of caring and loving others
Also, I know when I was living alone before my children. I had so much more control of my diet and had time to meal prep and also no reason to have junk food in the house so I never had to exercise will power. But now that I have a husband and 3 kids, I have to cook dinners and meals that suit ALL our tastes. No time to meal prep, and no leftovers because we have a big family. Also I always have soda and sweets and chips in the house because if my husband, he has a sweet tooth an likes a snack every now and then so now it’s constantly in the house, it’s hard today no when it’s there and everyone else is eating it. Also sometimes it’s EXHAUSTING for me to do everything on my own so every now and then we eat fast food so I can hav a break for one meal. Which I NEVER used to eat that. so it did change my lifestyle DRASTICALLY.
That’s not an excuse to be fat
It's a choice to lose oneself in the efforts to make the whole family happy. I find that allowing others needs to obliterate all of your own needs will eventually backfire. You'll end up burnt out and resentful with a spoiled and never fulfilled family. There HAS to be boundaries.
@lostandfond2163 do you not place any expectations to share responsibilities with your partner? You are not their mom. You are their partner...there is a big difference.
@@ownerofastolengunIt’s really stupid how you guys think being fat is the worst thing someone can be and refuse to acknowledge the reasons why it may happen.
Pearl holding herself up as some kind of arbiter of good looks when she looks like she does is hysterical to me.
Shes a BBB....
Bland
Beige
Basic 😂
She looks like the dried out manure of a heifer who had too many carrots
(Edit:To anyone who is ginger or shares some physical aspects with her,I profusely apologize, this isn't aimed towards you. It's aimed at little miss pick me pearl)
she literally looks like a blank sheet of paper
@@aroyalesavagelmfao I’m dead
Right it's kind of in the same realm of the fat positive influencers who make content that comes down to "look at me I'm so hot." When one makes their looks such a part of their personality of course people will critique it
26 is old? Did I read that right? Damn, I must be ancient at 54. 🙄 I have never felt better. this girl really is just talking out her behind.
For someone who isn’t married and hasn’t ever been married she’s got a lot of opinions about marriage. Sorry, she’s a child.
OMG you look amazing!! I would not have guessed that you were 54 at all! And as a 26 year old, I am also BAFFLED at the extreme and nonsensical ageism that we have right now, that has been made by people who don’t know how super young a 30 year old still looks and is. If the average lifespan of humans right now is at least 75 years, then 26, 30, and even 54 is NOT “old” at all.
@@winxclubstellamusa Thank you! You just made my day. 😉 I agree that there’s as a lot of ageism going around especially online and I don’t know if some people even realize that they’re engaging in it. With all of the advances in the medical field and the focus on wellbeing (both mental and physical) people are taking better care of themselves. My parents are both pretty healthy now at age 86, but they didn’t start making better decisions about their day to day lifestyle choices until about 25 years ago. I believe that added extra years to their lives.
@@LibraInSeattle WOW that’s amazing!! You’re most welcome! And I totally agree 😊🩷✨
She knows absolutely nothing. Nothing about life, nothing about marriage or having children and taking care of a family. Absolutely NOTHING! I cannot wait until she gets married and has children to see what she's talking about then. She can't even stay in shape without kids. I'm so confused by her.
Same. I’m right behind you at 40. I’m already buying my coffin, haha!!
you know the posts of the Disney bed spreads from the 90s and the highest comment is always “this pic smells like pee” .. somehow pearl gives off that same vibe
You're right, and now I wish I could forget it.
I am fat and I am nowhere near 300 pounds. I am working on losing the weight, and this is after 4 kids. To be fair to me, my husband thinks I am sexy, but I need to lose fat.
Hope for our success in the future.
After 4 kids honestly is understandable and it’s good your husband still thinks your sexy you should feel sexy and give yourself grace you created multiple human lives ❤
Big Ws both for you and your husband
@@RileyDebernardeyou shouldnt excuse unhealthiness though. Being fat is unhealthy no matter how many kids you have had, I have had 3 kids in 4 years, and after my 3 kid my bmi wasnt good, if people had made the excuse that I had just made 3 kids without any break, ofcourse I am fat. Than I wouldnt have worked to loose the weight and return to my healthy weight
@@Bergmaal that is true but I’m saying like that’s probably an explanation for it but not an excuse to like keep living like that fatness and fat exseptance is not okay and it’s stupid I agree.
It is unhealthy but i understand it being difficult to get back into the groove of things after having kids. My mom had 2 kids and at most gained 20 pounds but lost it after she had me and my sister
It’s so funny to me when she says 💩 like “I’d rather be a pick me than a skip me” because she is (still) being skipped 😂😂😂
Wanting to be skipped is a hell of a lot more dignified than being a PickMe.
5:26 coulda added the I rathboned somebody's cumberbatch joke from family guy. 😂😂
Its funny how Pearl says older overweight women are unattractive when the comments said her mom looks attractive or better than pearl lol
No one takes this conversation to “what body expectations should I have for my spouse when they are 50, 60, 70, or 80” you know, after menopause, cancer treatments etc etc. There’s this bizarre expectation that people stay exactly the same as when you meet at 25.
So when the wrinkles come in around the eyes or hair starts turning gray, then what?
I think you have to take care of your body as best that you can, you can't stop aging, but choosing healthy foods and excersice helps to keep the body healthyer and be there for your kids and grand kids.
So, everyone should have a goal to be as healthy as they can.
That is the conversation that would be actually helpful. First setting options based on what is scientifically possible and then mapping the lifestyle choices you have to make to attain your chosen results. I think it would help people to choose partners with long term compatible health goals in a nuanced way.
she wants women to feel the way she does about herself.
pearl shouldn’t criticize anyone’s looks. no one should take her seriously
She doesn't look good at the weight she chose to be so she can't say anything.
How the red pill men’s movement is proud to follow a modern unwed woman is beyond me.
Men don’t like fat chicks be fr
I love Pearl! ❤
@@simply.living.better why? Im not hating, but I sincerely wonder why some people love her and her content.
I honestly think Pearl needs to heal her inner child. She can do this by facing her flaws and behaviors, and then learning how to be kinder to herself and others.
You can see it on her face when she's talking about how her mom would talk about her weight. She is a deeply pained individual that has turned to clownery to cope.
@joeybarszcz7717Honestly, same. That amount of self hatred is awful.
For someone who knows so much about what men like and want, she sure has trouble getting one for herself.
Forever grateful for my husband who was more worried for my mental health post partum than my weight gain. When i asked him how he felt about it he said he thinks i should lose weight because he misses how confident i used to be and he knows it will make me feel better about myself again.
He's diplomatic
@@canelareina3795as all people should be. Honesty is great but not in all situations, and certainly not to a woman who has just been pregnant and suffering from mental health issues
Pearl strikes me as a parody. She knows what she’s doing. I don’t believe she truly feels these things. She just wants buzz. Brilliant marketer.
Except for the fact that she’s gonna have to live with everything she’s done at the end of the day Pearl is now starting to fade however, her reputation will proceeded her everywhere. She goes through the rest of her life.
Her tears can always save her.
not a parody but a grifter. this has made her so much $$$$ lol
Shes like a conservative Trisha Paytas
I don't know. I kinda see her as a Monica Lewinsky: famous now, but gonna regret it in the end.
26:13- Seeing Pearl so gassed walking up stairs and holding onto the hand rails was pretty damn funny. 🤣
The weirdest thing about Pearl is that there isnt any reason for her to be that ugly. Not personality, just looks. Literally all it would take is a solid skin routine, a signature makeup look, and some hair definition. Throw in minimal gym and health effort and she wouldn't look like that. A touch of lip filler if we're being extreme. Her ugliness is very fixable...but she doesn't fix anything & tells other women to
“Her ugliness is very fixable” 😂 true!
I WAS TRYING TO PUT MY FINGER ON WHY SHE LOOKS LIKE THAT omg cause I was like literally just do some weights and and skincare if your apparently better than every other woman and more desirable but that's literally it she's too lazy too even with the money she has so she expects other girls to do it for some weird reason
Yea not to be a hater but she could benefit from a stylist, she doesn’t dress flattering or do her hair in a flattering way. It always looks like shes in a costume when she puts a dress on
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Truer words have never been written.
So she'll say divorce should be illegal but then tells husbands to leave their wives if they gain 50 pounds. Thats doesnt even make sense.
Pearl : " Tell me someone who looks good at 300 pounds"
Tell me a pick me who has a healthy self-esteem and doesn't bully others
There is another big difference between you and Pearl, you point out a problem, you kindly and in care for others give a solution and you don’t go around insulting people, you try to understand the other side. Pearl just points at a problem, doesn’t care about giving solutions and then blames everyone but herself when things go bad. I disagree with some of your views but you are so kind that it doesn’t become a problem, I don’t even like Pearl at this point.
Michelle also doesn't give out fashion advice whilst dressing like aunt Helen
@@ilickgrandmas2854 💀
Michelle acts in good faith, with compassion, nuance and understanding. Not to mention she actually practices what she preaches
Pearl expects women to stay home and take care of the kids all day, but doesn’t understand that a woman literally has to destroy her body to pump out children. Sure some women are able to get right back out there and get in shape but a lot of other women struggle. Maybe instead of degrading women for gaining weight why not give some tips for how to live a healthier life. That’s the issue with pearl though, she’s all point and blame with no solutions.
Pearl also doesn't understand is that it takes time and energy to raise kids. There's not always time to go to the gym afterwards. Because now it's time to cook lunch and clean up the house or care for other kids.
@@asteriasheria2053 As a mom, you are a nanny, a chef, a chauffeur, an accountant, a teacher, hairdresser, pet groomer. You’re also the housekeeper, laundry maid, And landscaper if you have a garden. And when your children are little, you are covered in fluids and substances that are not your own not to mention she is running on fumes from a lack of sleep. And yet Pearl is cheering on men to leave their wives and cheat on them if they gain extra weight. She really has a nerve to call her own mother a whale. She doesn’t remember that her mother had to take care of her and a whole house full of kids, and is a businesswoman.
@@snowbird1381And her point would only create more single moms....which she is against...
@@Gchildwarrior “but you pick who you sleep with!” Yes pearl and men pick too. We are all responsible for our choices aren’t we? 🙄
I mean...she is grifting for a group of men that blame women for everything
I'm a plus size person on a weight loss journey (40 pounds since January), and I recently found your channel. I've been really enjoying your content, and wanted to express my gratitude. Have a fantastic day!
As a large woman, I can confirm that I mostly don't have any issues getting good dates.
I also can say that (although I understand this is not mentally healthy), I actually tend to be at a healthier weight when the person I am with treats me well.
Michelle is really one of the elite few who can make commercial breaks that I'll actually watch 😂
Same 😂😂
The most fatphobic person I’ve ever met was 15 lbs underweight and he couldn’t afford food because he was bad with money and had a felony.
He thought normal weight people were fat, if we were standing behind a fat person in line or something I could feel the hatred emanating off of his body. He would not be friends with fat people or treat them like human beings. He would grow apart from his friends if they gained weight.
Just remember everyone, Pearl ditched her semi pro volleyball career to do this. Even if she’s making money doing this, she’s ruining every other aspect of her life possible. Her family relationships, her friendships, her FUTURE assuming her UA-cam gets terminated and her money from it dries out, and who knows what else? It’s wild that she had so much access to high school athletes and college athletes as dating choices since she was top of the line in high school and college for both basketball and volleyball, and she still somehow can’t manage a long term relationship with anyone, despite her athletics background being a MASSIVE advantage.
I don't get why being an athlete is a plus for a woman.
If she did something like ballet or gymnastics that would be very feminine and a plus but volleyball girls seem more masculine => not as attractive
@@bebrochka8113good sir I don't know you but women that play volleyball are so pretty. And I'm a straight woman. Maybe you don't think Olympic volleyball players are attractive. But most don't look like that
@@bebrochka8113 I just explained why it’s a plus for Hannah. ACCESS to every athlete possible with little chances of difficulty interacting with fellow student athletes. And if she really wanted to, she could’ve gotten anyone outside of sports to date her in both high school or college and she still managed to ruin that? NO EXCUSE!
@@onlyone23km what I meant is volleyball gives this kind of buff physique to a girl (at least the volleyball girl I met were real buff and not feminine physique), so while she could know all the athlete boys personally her sport of choice didn't give her a body that would be attractive to them
@@bebrochka8113Bro, did you see ballet dancers? Ballet it's not easy, it makes you buff too, because it requires a lot of strength. The thing is, girls that do it have to be light too, because if not, they can hurt themselves, so they try to stay as thin as possible at the same time that they acquire that strength. I have a friend that's a female dancer and you can easily see she's got muscles all over her body. It's even easier to see because of how little fat she has.
You know what's funny? A lot of women that share the same circles as Pearl can't stand her.
Pearl: are you abused by your husband? Is he cheating? Endure!
Also Pearl: you gain weight? He will leave you.
Pearl has zero standards for men and project all responsibility on women.
Pearl looks like a SIMS 2 character, like she's perpetually in low resolution but she's harassing people? The lack of self awareness is interesting.
Lol I’m going to have to keep the “perpetually in low resolution” in my back pocket
That is a fantastic insult. Or observation. Both? Either way, I'm tickled.
I thought she terrorizes them by sending them pictures of her face. Which would be terrifying.
Pearls eye shape and face in general makes me think of those uncanny valley videos on tiktok please tell me someone else sees
FR 😭
I can’t stop thinking about how her eyes look upside down and mirrored its weird af
Her eyes are upside down