Let’s Do It Scared! | It’s Related, I Promise
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- Опубліковано 22 лип 2024
- When’s the last time you did something that scared you? Like quitting a job? Speaking up in a public setting? Or maybe even asking someone out? 👀😅
We’re sharing our moments in this episode and would really love to hear yours!
Leave us a comment 👇🏾
00:00 Just The Two Of Us
05:01 What Caught Your Attention
13:32 Doing It Scared
36:27 Self Confidence vs Self Efficacy
53:10 Sharon's Testimony
1:00:41 Choosing to Join the Gig Economy
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This recording was done before the recent events in Kenya. Our hearts go out to everyone affected and those that lost their lives in the revolution. Thank you for supporting our content in difficult times.
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Mum of two just went back to school didn't want to overthink applied and paid period
Everything Jules touches turns into gold 💯 she might not see it because she’s doing it but we are the spectators and we see it 🎉
Yaaaaaaaaaasssssss
My best friend always says " Jules is one person that was meant for content creation" she was happy that you came back to UA-cam after over 25. I'm just happy ya'll are back it's been a minute, sending you love from the 256❤.
Jules is such a creator ❤ 💯
@@winnieroze An amazing one
For sure ❤
Very true
I really really ADMIRE Jules... I reasonate strongly with how she has said several times on podcasts how her 20s were fucked up because she didn't know what to do with her life while her peers were making it big.
One moment you are certain this is what I want to do, another moment you feel sucked up because you just don't know what exactly you were created to do. I love her because of how raw she has always been. ❤❤Jules
Shout out to Sharon for organizing the apartment life event, I am a big fan, I really enjoyed kaneda's set and we appreciate you for making that move for us
Jules has so much influence , but she is very humble .
The advice of doing it scared is all her .
Exactly what the email said " I wish Jules could see her like we do" coz maaan this babe is THE SH*T 👏🏽👏🏽 I'm literally a Jules her STAN ❤️❤️
I'm a new but OG Christian. I grew up Christian but it was moreso something I did absent-mindedly and now it's a decision that has become more intentional in the past 2 years. I believe the relationship you have with God is very personal and it's between the people in that relationship to define what that looks like. I don't follow Christianity as rigid as a religion but as free as a spiritual connection between me and God. I define what that looks like and God leads me - that's how religion for me works.
Honestly Sharon , for your christian journey , take it one day at a time . Transformation works inside out , so take a day at a time . Let God do the work in you . Doing the change in your own strength will frustrate the journey . So one day at a time
Sharon is a good friend. You can see it in her demeanor , she really celebrates you .
Here’s some feedback for the camera person/people.
If a guest is speaking please focus on the or at least have the camera frame in the area. Most of the time when Sharon was speaking the camera was on Jules, instead it should have either been on both or Sharon speaking. I hope this helps you all!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I totally agree. It would make it feel more natural and also more engaging
I was looking for this comment 😂 it’s so awkward I had to stop looking at the screen and just listen
I was looking for this comment,i thought the camera person forgot their job surely i even lost concentration on what Sharon was saying i had to go backto listen again
Like for real! I am like is the person crushing on Jules and forgetting to focus on Sharon who’s talking? Cause why???
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Hi Sharon!
Thank you for sharing your testimony.
Thank you for sharing your faith. Thank you so much for talking about the struggle of being a Christian and trying to uphold your faith.
God will help you. It's so worth it to be a Christian. ❤
Hi ladies! This episode has reminded me that I have done a lot while scared. I have changed countries, restarted life, gone after the kind of job I wanted, applied to engineering school (still waiting to hear on this), changed teams at work despite being “comfortable” with where I already was. Your stories have given me more perspective and respect for myself and motivated me on yet another thing I am trying to do scared. It has truly been relatable and I’d say mission accomplished!
Thank you Jules and Sharon, it’s lovely tuning in to hear you both , I love the authenticity of your friendship and all the guests you bring in.
My life is faith in action ,doing it scared…I left Kenya for Europe to join my husband of four months to a country I knew nobody else. I left my lovely job, apartment, family and friends to start from scratch. It was one of the most scariest experiences of my life ..the uncertainty of it all....I wasn’t allowed to work for four years due to the laws at the time..I depended 100% on my husband, and he abused me financially and emotionally and things went downhill from there..
10 years later after changing careers, I took my children and left, peacefully. The fear of the unknown was keeping me stuck into a miserable existence and my children were seeing it all. Leaving a marriage with no family support aboard is one of the most difficult things one can do and I did everything alone regarding the move.. still in the same country..5 years later,happily divorced it’s been the best thing ever for me and my children. We are thriving! Co parenting with strict boundaries in place and I’ve been feeling alive ever since…we have only one life to live ..let’s live it to the fullest . Do it scared, but do it! Unshackled yourself from what’s keeping you tethered, whether it’s in your personal life or work related, career move , whatever it is ..be bold and see yourself thrive.
This resonates heavily for the path i am on currently in my interior design career,,i am like sharon, i go after it unapologetically even when i am uncertain of the outcme and i have made progress,,might seem small but i am not who i was 5yrs ago and i am proud of the progress. So anyone reading this,lets do it scared!!!
Thank You Jules for sharing your art with us from Over 25, to your not so tiny channel, to So This is Love to IRiP. Sharon you are a great friend, very supportive and inspirational. I am going to complete my degree this year since I joined campus 10 years ago. Doing it scared ❤️
❤❤❤ Jules anytime. Such a lovely & authentic soul.
Natural bodily processes are something I do not feel ashamed about at all.
For example, the stomach rumbling due to bloating.
I just tell whoever heard the rumbling that I am on my period and my stomach is bloated.
Being comfortable begins with you❤
How you women can be bold and yet so vulnerable is an art. Thank you
OMG...I love that Sharon acknowledged God!!!! You are going places ❤❤❤!
Uplifting,transforming conversations ❤
Something I did scared was starting my content creation journey back in 2021. I had also just started campus and it was something fun that I was looking forward to knowing. I had to pause on it because I had to prioritize my studies as things had started being thickkkk 😂. I loved the process and learnt so many lessons about my creative self.
I am so inspired to keep pushing on my dreams, I'll continue to do it scared. OMG I'm even crying
Jules you are such an inspo.
I'm gonna apply for that job now
What Sharon said about the relationship with God is so relatable for me right now.
Jules we are so blessed to have on this space honey,aaaaagh!!!
18:54 -23:36 I wish we got the camera angle of Sharon, or a wide angle, while she shared the Aprtment Life story..... Otherwise really enjoyed the episode
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences ladies!
It's about 3:30am right now, I'm working on a project that is outside my usual scope of work. I procrastinated on starting because of a crippling fear of failure but I finally did and I'm about to finish the final task.
My fear of failure (combined with perfectionism) tells me it's better to not do something if I cannot guarantee MYSELF that I can do it and do it very well. Recently I have been challenging myself by trying out something new every month because my biggest challenge is starting something, but once I start, I realize it's not as complicated as it seemed in my head.
Keep up the good work! Looking forward to more episodes
Never heard of the word self efficacy before until I listened to this episode, I think that's what I've been lacking and I'll strive to have it onward.Thank you for such an amazing episode ladies ❤❤❤
You and me both.
Thank you so much guys for sharing this episode... Now I know I am not alone in letting fear stagnate me.
Thank you for this episode. ❤
I'm afraid of looking cringe on TikTok but I'm doing it scared . Great episode ❤❤
Nice idea by Jules of channeling inspiration from every day lives of normal people. Reminds me of the book Working by Studs Terkel, Obama also did a series going by the same name.
Inspired for sure.Thankyou for sharing.
Second time hearing about self-efficacy from Jules! Sharon, your first story gave me chills. I love how Jules imitates her mom 😀
My clear sign to do it scared. Thank you girls🎉
♥♥♥ may ya'll continue being blessed and thus bless us too.NEVER STOP
I just love you both! You guys are amazing and self aware, your teachings are changing lives. It’s always a pleasure learning from fellow youth. Much love. Namibia
Thank you so much Jules for your vulnerability! You are healing a whole lot of people! ❤️🩹
Thank you so much Sharon for a powerful testimony! My oh my! And thanks for your grace in how you affirm Jules! Absolutely beautiful sister love. A joy to watch.
loved the audio and infatuated with the visual content... LOVE IT!!!!!
this is a good episode. The part where Sharon talks about the team and catering to the team and fighting to keep them spoke to me. Like you said, you will find a way to cater for them.♥
Such an enlightening episode, thanks y'all for sharing with us
They are both so gorgggg😍😍😍
Happy to see you beautiful ladies!!! Camera is off today. Why is it on Jules when Sharon is talking..please fix it.😅
Love love this❤❤❤
love love this episode..😍
Such a though provocaking episode, I'm inspired❤
I usually listen to this pod on Spotify but I had to come see Jules narrate her what caught her attention and laugh again😅
Thank you so much both for being vulnerable on your platform.
I always wondered how Nomad collaborated with Aprtment life kumbe it was Sharon’s brain behind this👏🏾
Also Jules everyone I’ve recommended your podcasts to from Over 25, to TLC, iRIP and So This Is Love they’ve heard it, went back to episode 1 and started over! Your work speaks for itself. Since you’ve noticed the things that cause fear it’s important to understand how to use it to your advantage and do a fact vs myth comparison in each scenario, it helps (read from The Four Agreements book by Don Miguel)
I relate with where Sharon Machira is at in her spiritual journey with God. I pray for guidance for you.
Now I get it, it's self efficacy that I luck ...Jules you are speaking foor meeee 🥺
The editor today is crushing on Jules by the amount of Screen time they are according her😂.... but it's good, She looks stunning 😍
I love the episode❤❤❤
Av always wanted to do farming as a side hustle but fear of the unknown made me postpone the idea. This year i decided to start small by doing kitchen garden. its been an amazing journey, av harvested a couple of vegez and am proud of myself.
Woohoo 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Loved this!❤
This has been such an eye opener as am planning to do something scard
I needed this, really resonated., as a startup, thank you!!
I love when I come on UA-cam and see another episode is out 🎉 #fridaycompany and rooting for you guys from the UK ❤
Even if your event didn’t work, you are still fine af Sharon you gon be alright
Julia is me OOO... it's all relatable l promise now at the verge of leaving my job and starting my business And Yes God voice is telling me it's time so 2025 is doing everything scared.
The camera person had a crush on jules for sure 😅
I just came to say this too 😂 like we all love Jules but give Sharon her moment too 😅
I cannot believe that I have been watching for a while without subscribing. Sorry and ashamed. New subbie hereee🎉🎉🎉🎉
Pleeeaassee 😅😅
This was such a warm, authentic, and vulnerable moment. I admire how you two are able to be open with each other & also boldly with the world.
It's not easy admitting the things you have. I would've never guessed in a million yrs that you Jules move in self-doubt. You hide it so well. I'm in alignment with that thought process & that's one thing I consciously have to remind myself that those negative thoughts are not my own. It can be a pain in the ass.
Sharon, wow, I recently just bumped into Apartment Life Content & I highkey vibe with them. I'm glad you were able to connect & work together. Wish you the very best in your spiritual journey. Having that spiritual war is another blood sucker but you can do this just as you've managed to do everything else in your life.
Lastly, I commented on a previous video about the Fingo app. Is it Diaspora friendly? I'd greatly appreciate feedback on this, please. Thank you again for sharing & I'm so happy to be part of the online community you've created. I wish Muthoni was on this piece as well, I would've loved to hear her insights.
Thanks so much for being here!
We’ll have someone from the team respond to you.. sorry about that
@ItsRelatedIPromise No worries. Thank you I will be waiting for response.
i wish it was like 2 hrs lol but this was so gooooood Jules and Sharon 😭😭more than you know
Hello, thank you so much for the Episode I've really enjoyed it. One of the things I'm doing scared is Rooting for Myself. For the longest time I've been shrinking, compromising and self sabotaging but I'm currently Rooting for Me and doing it anyways whether or not I'll succeed.
This is so important 💪🏾 well done
29:10 thank you! Been wondering what it is 😂.
Thank you so much Jules for your vulnerability! You are healing a whole lot of people! ❤️🩹
37 SECONDS IN!
This is such an amazing episode! I'd recommend a book called Conversations with God by Neale Donald in regards to the spirituality journey. It so dope what the both of you are doing, thank you for sharing!
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Heeeey Sharon & Jules...woooooow.such gems and wisdom ..👏👏the 'what caught your attention' segment'.🤣🤣such a great space here..also Jules..you still doing the skincare shipping? If so kindly plug esp for the Korean beauty...And Yes Power to Doing it Scared.Doing it Broke.DOing it Tired and Doing it Anyways 👍👍🗣
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You are so sweet
Feedback to the editor: I think Jules' Instagram is incorrect. I've noticed it in a number of episodes now.
Thanks for that
This is so insightful. Thank you for being vulnerable ♥️❤
Also who is manning the camera? There's Abit of moments where Sharon is speaking and the closeup is on Jules... It would be nice to see who is speaking...
Thanks for this feedback
I love the location shoot, where is that? I absolutely love the ambiance.
It’s a place in Hardy called Afrika House
Very very Inspired. I am like Jules, I don't gloat about my achievements, 😢
Why did it have to take you this long to start a UA-cam channel, do you know how much I waited for this
😂😂what's caught your attention Sharon: "
I've seen a tongue but have you seen a giraffe's tongue!!"
Lol😂
Jules what's caught your attention is also making me weak😂
I just read,
"Rome was built in a day.
It wasn’t finished in a day. In fact, it’s still not finished.
But the day someone said, “this is Rome,” and announced the project, it was there."
Sometimes we get hung up on the beginning, unwilling to start Rome unless we’re sure we can finish it without incident.
Jules have been eating her yams of lately 😅
Julia has talked about this self doubt since over 25 on IRIP too (some episode with Kwambox) then now again… 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
And if you're keen you'd see how every other time the story would end with a different lesson,just phenomenal 😊
Self-doubt is a sucker & definitely doesn't end overnight, it can take years.
@@Wahsoep for sure!
And we can see her growth through it and the different lessons she so gracefully shares with us so whats your point?
And we've related with her experience every single time!
Sharon stick to braids
Why? I think she pulls off both looks, braids and wigs, pretty well.
So rude of you..
What do you mean? She looks fine as hell
This was so long-winded. Wow. Sigh.