LOL - influencers can say whatever they would like. But for me? I simply do not impulse purchase based on the likings of someone I don't know. OBVIOUSLY they are receiving some sort of payment for every click on an affiliate link, and I am find with that. Good for them. For me - it's entertainment. Kind of like this video. I love it! It's entertaining for me to watch different channels, and pick and choose what I would like to have. Because there are cute things out there I might not have seen otherwise. But influenced by without intelligent aforethought? ? Nope.
When I had a much higher income, I felt a certain responsibility to support American-made where I could find it versus something cheap from another country. Paige jeans, for example, fit me like no other and so I was happy to buy them. I understand if somebody can't afford American-made because it is more expensive right now, but when even people who can easily afford it, buy the cheaper things from a certain communist country that has been stealing our business, they should take a breather and connect the dots that we are shooting ourselves in the foot when we do this. We have almost completely lost our manufacturing base because of our own greed, and we scratch our heads and wonder why our economy isn't doing well. And because of our miserliness, I'm afraid that we have stolen our children's and grandchildren's futures. I wish we could get out of our own self-absorption and start doing what is the right thing to do.
As we get older (be 60 this year) think we realize that paying MORE for an item of clothing just so we can have the IN thing is wasteful. Wearing what actually flatters our frame and body type and not paying ridiculous amounts of money for it is the SMART thing to do :)
Totally agree, but for me personally, I also find comfort is also high up on the list now, especially since gaining weight in certain areas and it is not always an easy thing to lose. Influencers always look fantastic because most of them are younger, usually are in great shape to begin with, and have an incentive to promote their stuff--but maybe it's the ones that I particularly watch in the past? Lol. I'll watch Lori because I'm also very petite at 5'0" and similar body frame.
@traceyverba2691, I agree wholeheartedly!! But I must confess that I adore that Songmont handbag!!! I am digging the functionality but I couldn’t fit half of my everyday items…..🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
I went to China many years ago for business and I had a shocking eye opener. So many things are made in the same factory by the same people with similar materials. Some big brands commission so many items and attach their label and price tag. Less well-known and marketed brands are produced the same way but dont have the hefty price. We are actually paying for the brand, not the quality.
True to certain extent. I never bought into trends. I have always worn what I like. Even in the dreaded high school years I refused to wear trendy clothes, unless it was something I liked.
I think you’re wrong about the pleated pants. They look fantastic on you and actually make you look taller and thinner. The problem is proportion: you have something baggy/loose on top paired with these wider legs. Wearing them with a closer-fitting/tailored top would fix the outfit immediately. Please try it-I think you’ll love it.
@@pamkramer3030 Thanks Pam! Yes, several others have recommended the same thing. Will definitely try that or possibly have them tailored a bit . Thanks for watching! ❤️❤️
I agree with absolutely everything you said. I worked in the beauty industry for almost 4 decades and I dressed nice and loved it. Hair, makeup, jewelry, heels, trendy clothes every day….so much fun. Now that I’m retired I just don’t need as many clothes so every time I want something I ask myself if it’s for my “real self” or my “fantasy self”? My “fantasy self” still thinks I need it but my “real self” says no. Keeps me in check.
As a young person, I always had a leather or suede coat that I wore as my everyday coat. I think your mistake is thinking of the leather blazer as a special piece that you are saving for an event. Put it in your coat closet and when the weather cools down just grab it and wear it. It looks great on you and will elevate anything you wear. As for jeans; totally agree. I am loving good old Levi’s and Land’s End or LL Bean. The higher the cotton content the better. They last forever and I am pulling the high rise, straight jeans I bought years ago out of the cedar closet and wearing them again. Like a jeans jacket, they are classic, and if you buy good quality cotton jeans they never loose their “elasticity” only get better with wear.
I swear by the LL Bean "true fit" jeans. They absolutely keep their shape wear after wear--no bagging and sagging. I am a lifelong fan of Levi's--if the cotton content is high. Take care.
The leather jacket is cute on you. It will look better and not stuffy as it gets worn in. Great for outdoor events in the autumn days before cold winter.
sell the stuff you regret. even selling at 1/4 what you paid (or less) gets that regret AWAY from you. you don't need the negative energy cluttering your positivity.
Oh my goodness. You are the first person to agree that Mother jeans are NOT flattering to the bum! I can’t stand it! Thank you for validating my opinion! Haha!
boy golden goose sneakers is the ultimate mystery to me. my neighbor's daughter got a pair (at age 18 gasp) and I am mystified why someone would pay that amount of money for a sneaker that looks like your grandfather wore into a disgusting river and then left in a dumpster. but that's just me :) brilliant observation on the songmont handbag! i really wanted one, but i didn't want to pay that much for such a tiny purse. but it is absolutely darling!!
@@AgeIsJustANumber lol oh my gosh you made me laugh 😂. You are so right, I never thought about that! You can’t even get a tic tac out let alone a conceal carry. 🤣
Hi Lori!💗 Oh boy, buyers regret! I could write a book! Over the years I have bought quality brand clothing that eventually had to give to goodwill, it looked like the day I bought it. Same with purses. But these days I don’t find the quality in clothes. They fade, they rip, straps on purses are thread bare in months! Quite frustrating! Great content! I think most of us can relate! Enjoy your weekend! Stay cool!💗
OMG I agree with you regarding those Golden Goose sneakers, what an absolute ripoff! I actually have 2 pairs and neither one of them is very comfortable, I’ll never buy this brand again!
Double-breasted jackets of any material tend to make us look wider. The eye travels side-to-side instead of vertically, which is usually more flattering. I go for a zipper, single-button styles, or no closure mechanism at all. 🌸🐝
Last year I purchase the Sam Edelman tan sandals that have been on trend the past few years. I love them…comfortable and beautiful. I have and looove the bumblebee wallet!
I currently own three pairs of Mother jeans. One pair was purchased at Ross for $12.99, another from Burlington for only $9.99, and ironically my most expensive pair (approximately $28) were like-new at my favorite consignment store.
This!🙌 it’s the only way I shop. I will buy high end brands if I find them either at discount stores or in consignment shops. I would never pay full price for luxury items.
I love my Portland Leather tote for work. I treated myself about 4 years ago. It is a workhorse. It still looks brand new and I routinely get compliments on the quality of the leather and look. I do have a bright coral leather blazer I bought on ridiculously good sale and, while it isn't something I wear all the time...when I want to feel like a boss lady, it is my go to. And the color is gorgeous. It's another piece I get compliments on all the time. I just googles an American Eagle store near me to try the jeans out. I agree with everyone else - $250 is not what I could ever spend on jeans. The pleated wide leg trousers look amazing on you!
Agree! If jeans trends didn't change so often, it might be OK to invest in great quality, expensive jeans. But if the flare, straight, skinny, boot, cropped, full-length, raw hem, finished hem trends are constantly changing, why would be bother to toss money out the window?
I always am disappointed by online buys. It’s too big and I should’ve sized down, but when I do it’s too small. I read the material description, but that is not what arrives. Excetera
I almost fell for the very expensive jeans - even went to try them on when they were on sale at Nordstrom….but my J Crew and Old Navy jeans were just so affordable. So I passed. I regret buying Spanx leather pants…..too hot!
Spanx or leather or Spanx brand? They are not the same thing. You can't have real leather pants with stretch in them. And yes, leather anything tends to be hot. Leather is not the most breathable thing to wear.
Thank you especially for showing us there is a downside to them!!!! It annoys me no end if bags are stiff, have little room, or are difficult to get into!
Boy, can I relate to everything you said!!! At. My age, 57, you’d think I’d have learned my lesson by now!!! But I still have some more recent purchases that I look at and want to kick myself for even considering buying them, let alone actually pulling the trigger. Going forward I just need to remind myself that I should only buy something if I absolutely love it and know that it won’t be on some “out of style” list in the near future. Thanks so much for this video!!! 😊
@@susanmcintyre9934 lol yes it’s a lesson I relearn every so often too. I typically choose very classic pieces and styles but I mess up every now and then 😂
I really appreciate your candor! One of my biggest mistakes is thinking I need more clothing than I can reasonably use and feeling guilty when things sit in the closet. Most of us have a few things we really like and wear over and over and we need to pay attention to what we really use so we don't waste time and money shopping for things that take up space, which of course is where the capsule wardrobe comes in - but that can seem boring and so many of them look the same so we need to really think what our best capsule wardrobe is.
Ohhh! I'm glad I saw this, I liked that handbag with the alterable handle... looking at it like that, it looks like a pain in the a$$ to use, Timed perfectly as I'm off to Sydney next week and was looking to buy one!!😮🤑👜
Pleated pants can work very well with a slimmer fitting top. They can make your waist look very small when done right, but they are definitely not for everyone and I don’t see them being a popular option at the moment now that so many are struggling to wear shapes that make them appear either slimmer- or shapeless. Pleated pants can add some volume to the lower half- but when done right this can visually make you look slimmer overall. Having a careful approach to balance the top and bottom is key.
@melocoton7, see, now every pair of pants/slacks that have had pleats I have had professionally altered as they always seem to show a pronounced belly which makes me crazy. I stand at 5’ 1.5” at 105-112 and I HATE the look of a bigger belly so I have had them altered and I stay clear of pleated plants!! So I am one that will steal clear of pleats as they simply don’t look good on me!!
I think the pleated pants look great on you. Being petite, we just have to pay special attention to the fabric and tailoring. The wider the pant, the softer the fabric (so it drapes close to your body, no extra fabric - and then add a heel of some sort. I like the overall look on you.
Thanks for your video Lori. I agree no jean is worth $250! Also, I refuse to get on the bandwagon when it comes to baggy, pleated pants. Why do we want to look 10 - 15 pounds heavier? I just don’t understand why we’re going back to those unflattering styles of the 80s and 90s. I feel next they’re going to try to bring back the oversized shoulder pads on us. I have a hard time with the high waisted pants because they actually hurt if I try to wear them. I’m also not a fan of having to tuck my shirt in. That being said, I can live without the skinny jeans and am all for the slim straight jeans/pants, flared jeans/pants, and wide leg jeans/pants.
Thanks so much for going over these! I agree with you! I do have several designer bags, but won’t be buying any more. Quality over someone’s name splashed all over fits my lifestyle so much more! Again, thanks! Great video!!!
I look bad in chinos. I love the look on others but the pocket placement doesn't work with my pear shape. And I could never justify $100 jeans. Too many good ones for less. Thanks for sharing your regrets.
The best is going to thrift shops and looking for higher quality clothing in good condition. Many thrift shops, such as the two I volunteer for, reject clothing donations that are dirty, pilly, ripped, stained, etc. Some actually even support a charity organization, such as a home for women escaping abuse or a food pantry. So you're also helping others by buying the clothes
It's definitely very important to look at the way jeans especially fit around your bottom, so I always hold a mirror up or take a photo on my phone. Jeans pockets that are normal size (definitely not small) and closer together are more flattering on my body, I'm slim but hips and booty are my widest point so I'm always trying to minimise them.
You look incredible in the pleated trousers !!!! They look so sophisticated and chic on you. I think it is hard to like a style that you are not used to if you have worn the opposite fit for years…. But I think you look way cooler with the wide leg pleated pants
Agree with everything. One of my favourite clothing items of clothing is a leather jacket but in the more traditional moto style (but grey not black). Much more me than a leather blazer
Liked this video. Another idea for a video - things you love one season but next season not so much and you say to yourself, “Just 6 months ago I thought this looked great!”
Thanks for another informative video-regarding wide leg pants, try pairing with a close to the body top, (ribbed top maybe) it can be flattering. Using a belt to focus on a smaller waist and adding a heel will help. Thanks again Lori!
I agree with the overspending of jeans, the most expensive pair I bought, were True Religion skiny jeans for $140, flattered my butt, I've had them for 5 years, supposedly are out of style, but I still wear them, especially in winter with my sperry boots, ill buy gap jeans & some AE jeans, i love a good leather coach purse, on sale, I have a few essentials, TY for your time!
We all make mistake purchases… I’m trying to look at these mistakes and figure out what drew me to these items and why they were ultimately wrong. Now these items are making their way to my local consignment store as I do a major purge. 😂
My favourite jeans are from Marks & Spencer in the UK, the Eva Bootcut is so flattering (£25) and the Sienna and Autograph straight jeans also fit me so well and have French chic vibes
Thank you, for sharing! I have similar experience with trousers! I have learned that they should be: - high waisted - flowing, light weight fabric - longer cut/trim for a heel to elongating your legs and for the same reason: - pointy-toe shoes, or longer toe loafers - top needs to be more fitted (In my case I like v-neck) to support verticals. I follow the formula: fitted top + volume bottom or vice-verse fitted bottom + volume top. I also have few leather pieces that just sit in my wardrobe and they look good, but no occasion to reach them 😕 Love American Eagle - I feel like they are pros on best jeans models for any body shape. Sometimes I order from Old Navy since they have an option for tall. I’m not a big fan of jeans and usually choose solid deep color I appreciate recommendations on your best substitutions❤ Will look closely on those. Best wishes to you and your channel
New to your channel and YES! Your comment about $ 250 jeans😂😱. I was a jeans buyer for a huge chain of stores- and really, at a price point above 40 or 50 its all about advertising and drinking the "kool-aid"😂. Im 5'2 currently ,at last, 120 lbs and have recently bought Lucky jeans - 8 pairs😂 all resale!! All dif styles and washes but whats great is the sizing is consistant 💯 of the time!! Great construction and denim although made in several countries. Thank u for your great video!!🎉
I really enjoyed your total honesty!! Plus you are right on the mark on price of jeans it's really how they fit on you, not the price....altho I could never ever pay over $200 on jeans. Really liked the slim cut pants then the pleated ones, made you look thinner! Keep this coming love your videos! Have a great weekend😊
Yes, I think we all make purchases that we regret and say, "What was I thinking?" Anyway, I do love my Golden Goose sneakers. I have the same pair as you do. They were not comfortable at first, but I wear these on repeat and I even use them to walk NYC for hours. I am now at the point in my life where I really have to love an item before I purchase it. I bring it home and try it on with several things in my wardrobe. If it doesn't spark joy, I bring the item back.
I enjoyed the video but women of our age should know better. I’m proud to say that no influencer has ever made me part with my hard earned cash unless I really wanted that item already.
I would somewhat disagree with you there. As a 55 year old post menopausal woman, my body isn’t the same shape as it used to be and some styles and items I used to wear regularly don’t look good or aren’t appropriate. Sometimes you have to try new trends to find what suits you (or not) and and what you feel comfortable in. I tend to shop secondhand though so if I make a mistake, I just donate it back to the thrift shop and haven’t wasted too much money.
@@tokidokiteacher659you aren't disagreeing with her, you are also the same..you aren't influenced into buying what you don't want. She didn't say she wouldn't try things or even make the mistake of buying something not as good as hoped, but it's at least her own decision. 👍👍
@@tokidokiteacher659 Why go for any trend? Just wear what makes you happy. I'm 65 and I have never once gone for a trendy item just to be 'on trend'. And like you, I shop at thrifts. Unlike you, I donated the 'bad' purchases to my local women's shelter. I just feel it's a better place for my boo boos than letting the thrift get money for them twice. 🙂
@@lynettefinnigan9540 I have been influenced many times into purchasing things I hadn’t even considered I needed. Cosmetics, clothes, household gadgets. My point is, even older women who ‘should know better’ can be influenced since our bodies and faces are changing and we start to experiment with our changing body and face.
@@gusmonster59 I live in Tokyo. There are very few places to donate clothing. There are many consignment stores that will buy clothing for super low prices, but only one thrift shop (The Salvation Army) that will collect donations. I don’t know of any women’s shelters in the city or I would definitely donate to them.
I hear you on the wide leg pleated pants. They look terrible on me. They make me look huge. I’m 64 and have gained some weight lately so wide leg pants are out. I love jackets and coats but I’ve make a few regrettable purchases there as well. Sigh 😞
Was about to say the same..I've seen many petite sizes wear them this way with good results, I'm tall and often wished for shorter legs when i see them 😊even with flat shoes - slimmer fitting tops with less blousing at the waist was often how it was styled
I really like American Eagle jeans, too! I have thrifted two pair that fit me so well! Smaller waist and roomier in the butt and thighs - that is so hard to find in pants these days!
@sct4040 personally, I think it's a great look. A fitted tee would be great and make the look casual, but chic. The 80s were such a fun time to grow up in 😊
The leather blazer and the wide leg pants are awesome! Paint the blazer with more casual items for a relaxed look, like black t-shirt and white pants or jeans.
My favorite casual summer shoe, for the last 3 years, has been Vionic Beach sneakers. They are like an updated Keds & come in multiple colors. $69 full price, but I recently picked up 2 new pair discounted at an end of season sale.
I'm 5'2" and don't have hips or a butt. And my legs are very skinny. I gave the same problem with those pleated, wide-legged pants. There's just so much material! I think fabrics can overwhelm our smaller frames so it's important to have a more tailored fit. I can't tell you how many times I've had to put back pants, shorts, skirts and dresses because of all the extra material. Which makes me think: could you have the pleated pants tailored? Thanks, so much, for sharing your thoughts. New sub!❤
Yep I love express jeans but only when on sale. They have short sizes and I'm 5'1. Mother jeans are all over on other fashion influencers but no that's crazy, golden goose shoes are ugly imo, I don't like the blazer trend, I just don't see me wearing them. I agree with everything you said.
@@PaulaViniard Thank you Paula! They are definitely two different looks and I think everyone has convinced me to keep them 😂. Thanks so much for watching! ❤️
I love American Eagle jeans! The best fit and price! Great styles too, for everyone. I probably have like 10 pairs in a closet 😊. Oof and many regrets in my closet too 😳
Lori.. Consider taking those pleated pants to a tailor to slim down the legs. I just gave away 2 pair of on sale paper waist pants. So unflattering . 13:2013:20 Big Mistake! Why designers make purses that are difficult to use is beyond me. I have one Portland leather bag that is easy and the leather smells so good. Excellent video.
I'm gonna be 38 this September and never, ever have I been satisfied with any small bags!!! I always, always need wide big bags where I can throw anything fast and go.
I’d never heard of the first two items you mentioned, snd I agree the purse is a no-go. Might consider trying on American Eagle jeans, never have as I thought they were for teens in jr sizes .
The pleated pants looked good on you and have a place in your closet. The first fitted pants were not fitted properly at the crotch, I thought. I’m short so I worry about these things. But yes, pleated pants are good for you, just think the color of top should be a little more in tone with the bottom and not contrast with the bottom.
This is great! BTW, I think the pleated wide legs look great on you--you just need to try them with a more fitted shirt, maybe a cropped lady jacket...
You are 100% correct! In my humble, but accurate opinion, lol, NO jeans are worth $250.!!!!
@@corinnecannings6410 💕💕
GAP jeans are great and on sale a lot
I have never paid more than $39.99 for a pair of jeans. My favorite pair was $3.99 from the Salvation Army, new with tag.
@holly...Old Navy as well!
Exactly. I think I paid about $30 for my favorite jeans.
Thank you!!! I am so tired of influencers insisting we purchase expensive items. We don't need to spend all our money just to look like everyone else.
@@jeanettekays1954 ❤️
LOL - influencers can say whatever they would like. But for me? I simply do not impulse purchase based on the likings of someone I don't know. OBVIOUSLY they are receiving some sort of payment for every click on an affiliate link, and I am find with that. Good for them. For me - it's entertainment. Kind of like this video. I love it! It's entertaining for me to watch different channels, and pick and choose what I would like to have. Because there are cute things out there I might not have seen otherwise.
But influenced by without intelligent aforethought? ? Nope.
When I had a much higher income, I felt a certain responsibility to support American-made where I could find it versus something cheap from another country. Paige jeans, for example, fit me like no other and so I was happy to buy them. I understand if somebody can't afford American-made because it is more expensive right now, but when even people who can easily afford it, buy the cheaper things from a certain communist country that has been stealing our business, they should take a breather and connect the dots that we are shooting ourselves in the foot when we do this. We have almost completely lost our manufacturing base because of our own greed, and we scratch our heads and wonder why our economy isn't doing well. And because of our miserliness, I'm afraid that we have stolen our children's and grandchildren's futures. I wish we could get out of our own self-absorption and start doing what is the right thing to do.
You be you. You’re probably more exciting of a dresser than the person who wears only what’s in the magazines or on the runway. Be yourself.
@@ingaburns9465 ❤️💕❤️
As we get older (be 60 this year) think we realize that paying MORE for an item of clothing just so we can have the IN thing is wasteful. Wearing what actually flatters our frame and body type and not paying ridiculous amounts of money for it is the SMART thing to do :)
@@tracyverba2691 Yes definitely agree! ❤️❤️
Completely agree!
Totally agree, but for me personally, I also find comfort is also high up on the list now, especially since gaining weight in certain areas and it is not always an easy thing to lose. Influencers always look fantastic because most of them are younger, usually are in great shape to begin with, and have an incentive to promote their stuff--but maybe it's the ones that I particularly watch in the past? Lol. I'll watch Lori because I'm also very petite at 5'0" and similar body frame.
@@nicn4873 ❤️💕❤️
@traceyverba2691, I agree wholeheartedly!! But I must confess that I adore that Songmont handbag!!! I am digging the functionality but I couldn’t fit half of my everyday items…..🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
I went to China many years ago for business and I had a shocking eye opener. So many things are made in the same factory by the same people with similar materials. Some big brands commission so many items and attach their label and price tag. Less well-known and marketed brands are produced the same way but dont have the hefty price. We are actually paying for the brand, not the quality.
I recently watched a documentary about this and you are 100% correct!
I have seen designer stuff so poorly made it's coming apart on the rack. I have some very old things I bought at Walmart that are better made.
It's called maturity when you no longer fall prey to peer pressure to impulse buy. It is a rite of passage! 😊😊
@@monicafornaro3424 😁❤️
True to certain extent. I never bought into trends. I have always worn what I like. Even in the dreaded high school years I refused to wear trendy clothes, unless it was something I liked.
I think you’re wrong about the pleated pants. They look fantastic on you and actually make you look taller and thinner. The problem is proportion: you have something baggy/loose on top paired with these wider legs.
Wearing them with a closer-fitting/tailored top would fix the outfit immediately. Please try it-I think you’ll love it.
@@pamkramer3030 Thanks Pam! Yes, several others have recommended the same thing. Will definitely try that or possibly have them tailored a bit . Thanks for watching! ❤️❤️
I totally agree the pleated pants were so much better❤️ try adding a nice belt. I also liked the colour of the pleated pants better on you…
I think you look great in the pleated pants as well. Not everyone can wear them and look that nice!
@@karenhaynes8850 Thank you Karen! 💕
I agree on the pleated pants - you look stunning!
I will never spend 200 plus dollars on jeans!
I will.
It depends on how fabulous they make me look.
I am not even in league to spend that kind of money bracket.
It’s just not necessary
Ridiculous
I agree with absolutely everything you said. I worked in the beauty industry for almost 4 decades and I dressed nice and loved it. Hair, makeup, jewelry, heels, trendy clothes every day….so much fun. Now that I’m retired I just don’t need as many clothes so every time I want something I ask myself if it’s for my “real self” or my “fantasy self”? My “fantasy self” still thinks I need it but my “real self” says no. Keeps me in check.
@@lalablotz7348 ❤️❤️
As a young person, I always had a leather or suede coat that I wore as my everyday coat. I think your mistake is thinking of the leather blazer as a special piece that you are saving for an event. Put it in your coat closet and when the weather cools down just grab it and wear it. It looks great on you and will elevate anything you wear.
As for jeans; totally agree. I am loving good old Levi’s and Land’s End or LL Bean. The higher the cotton content the better. They last forever and I am pulling the high rise, straight jeans I bought years ago out of the cedar closet and wearing them again. Like a jeans jacket, they are classic, and if you buy good quality cotton jeans they never loose their “elasticity” only get better with wear.
@@shogo8995 Great suggestion on the leather jacket
I swear by the LL Bean "true fit" jeans. They absolutely keep their shape wear after wear--no bagging and sagging. I am a lifelong fan of Levi's--if the cotton content is high. Take care.
yes. I wear leather jacket all the time.
The leather jacket is cute on you. It will look better and not stuffy as it gets worn in. Great for outdoor events in the autumn days before cold winter.
sell the stuff you regret. even selling at 1/4 what you paid (or less) gets that regret AWAY from you. you don't need the negative energy cluttering your positivity.
I have some nice/ decent things to sell but I have no experience. Can you suggest a good site or method for me please?
Oh my goodness. You are the first person to agree that Mother jeans are NOT flattering to the bum! I can’t stand it! Thank you for validating my opinion! Haha!
@@sherirx 💕
boy golden goose sneakers is the ultimate mystery to me. my neighbor's daughter got a pair (at age 18 gasp) and I am mystified why someone would pay that amount of money for a sneaker that looks like your grandfather wore into a disgusting river and then left in a dumpster. but that's just me :)
brilliant observation on the songmont handbag! i really wanted one, but i didn't want to pay that much for such a tiny purse. but it is absolutely darling!!
@@hippiekansasgirl1632 lol 😂 😂😂. It’s true about the sneakers! I’m claiming temporary insanity. That’s my story 😂
@@LoriLundquist oh believe me, i totally understand!!!!!
I have never understood the Songmont bag.....seems it would be very difficult to get to a conceal carry item out of it..LOL
@@AgeIsJustANumber lol oh my gosh you made me laugh 😂. You are so right, I never thought about that! You can’t even get a tic tac out let alone a conceal carry. 🤣
I wore pleated pants in the 80’s and I won’t do it again. I’m 5’3 and they just don’t look good on me.
Agreed
So true about Mother jeans! They are SUPER thin. I actually bought about 3 pair and never reached for them.
@@heidij70 ❤️
Hi Lori!💗
Oh boy, buyers regret! I could write a book! Over the years I have bought quality brand clothing that eventually had to give to goodwill, it looked like the day I bought it. Same with purses. But these days I don’t find the quality in clothes. They fade, they rip, straps on purses are thread bare in months! Quite frustrating! Great content! I think most of us can relate!
Enjoy your weekend! Stay cool!💗
@@lindajames4922 Hi Linda! 💕. So true and yes, very frustrating. Hope you have a great weekend!
@@LoriLundquist 💗
OMG I agree with you regarding those Golden Goose sneakers, what an absolute ripoff! I actually have 2 pairs and neither one of them is very comfortable, I’ll never buy this brand again!
Double-breasted jackets of any material tend to make us look wider. The eye travels side-to-side instead of vertically, which is usually more flattering. I go for a zipper, single-button styles, or no closure mechanism at all. 🌸🐝
Lee or Levi's are classic and reasonably priced; NYDJ are also nice; pricier but look great. The leather blazer is beautiful; wear it any time.
Last year I purchase the Sam Edelman tan sandals that have been on trend the past few years. I love them…comfortable and beautiful. I have and looove the bumblebee wallet!
I currently own three pairs of Mother jeans. One pair was purchased at Ross for $12.99, another from Burlington for only $9.99, and ironically my most expensive pair (approximately $28) were like-new at my favorite consignment store.
@@XDominiqueXFranconX you found some super good buys on those!
This!🙌 it’s the only way I shop. I will buy high end brands if I find them either at discount stores or in consignment shops. I would never pay full price for luxury items.
I love my Portland Leather tote for work. I treated myself about 4 years ago. It is a workhorse. It still looks brand new and I routinely get compliments on the quality of the leather and look. I do have a bright coral leather blazer I bought on ridiculously good sale and, while it isn't something I wear all the time...when I want to feel like a boss lady, it is my go to. And the color is gorgeous. It's another piece I get compliments on all the time. I just googles an American Eagle store near me to try the jeans out. I agree with everyone else - $250 is not what I could ever spend on jeans. The pleated wide leg trousers look amazing on you!
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Agree! If jeans trends didn't change so often, it might be OK to invest in great quality, expensive jeans. But if the flare, straight, skinny, boot, cropped, full-length, raw hem, finished hem trends are constantly changing, why would be bother to toss money out the window?
I feel like we learn our style and then personally change. My closet is always in flux.
I learned in my 20s to not follow trends or certain designers as most of their stuff is crappy...I would rather travel than spend on "stuff"
I would have my stuff than travel
Thank you for showing how difficult it is to get into the Songmont bag. I'll definitely avoid it:)
@@tamaram.7339 ❤️
I will spend a lot on a perfect pair of jeans. I'm short and not slim - if the look good and fit great, im getting them.
I always am disappointed by online buys. It’s too big and I should’ve sized down, but when I do it’s too small. I read the material description, but that is not what arrives. Excetera
I almost fell for the very expensive jeans - even went to try them on when they were on sale at Nordstrom….but my J Crew and Old Navy jeans were just so affordable. So I passed. I regret buying Spanx leather pants…..too hot!
@@joannecava2418 Love the J Crew jeans! ❤️
Spanx or leather or Spanx brand? They are not the same thing. You can't have real leather pants with stretch in them. And yes, leather anything tends to be hot. Leather is not the most breathable thing to wear.
I prefer the wide fit trousers on you. Would work with a close fit top for balance
I'm glad you mentioned the Songmont bag. I thought I wanted one, but now I think not. Thanks for saving me 300 bucks!
@@jessiebaker9313 ❤️Thanks for watching
Thank you especially for showing us there is a downside to them!!!! It annoys me no end if bags are stiff, have little room, or are difficult to get into!
Thank you for your honesty & sharing your experience!
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Boy, can I relate to everything you said!!! At. My age, 57, you’d think I’d have learned my lesson by now!!! But I still have some more recent purchases that I look at and want to kick myself for even considering buying them, let alone actually pulling the trigger. Going forward I just need to remind myself that I should only buy something if I absolutely love it and know that it won’t be on some “out of style” list in the near future. Thanks so much for this video!!! 😊
@@susanmcintyre9934 lol yes it’s a lesson I relearn every so often too. I typically choose very classic pieces and styles but I mess up every now and then 😂
SAME HERE!
I love your honesty! I think we go through different stages in life, this is not your time for those items
@@eileenkilworth6950 ❤️
I really appreciate your candor! One of my biggest mistakes is thinking I need more clothing than I can reasonably use and feeling guilty when things sit in the closet. Most of us have a few things we really like and wear over and over and we need to pay attention to what we really use so we don't waste time and money shopping for things that take up space, which of course is where the capsule wardrobe comes in - but that can seem boring and so many of them look the same so we need to really think what our best capsule wardrobe is.
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The brown leather jacket would be great for Fall!
Value doesn’t equate to style. Styles in my opinion are subjective to each individual. Keep those videos coming
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So agree:)
Ohhh! I'm glad I saw this, I liked that handbag with the alterable handle... looking at it like that, it looks like a pain in the a$$ to use, Timed perfectly as I'm off to Sydney next week and was looking to buy one!!😮🤑👜
Hahaha it is kind of a pain! It’s pretty though! 😂😁
Pleated pants can work very well with a slimmer fitting top. They can make your waist look very small when done right, but they are definitely not for everyone and I don’t see them being a popular option at the moment now that so many are struggling to wear shapes that make them appear either slimmer- or shapeless. Pleated pants can add some volume to the lower half- but when done right this can visually make you look slimmer overall. Having a careful approach to balance the top and bottom is key.
I discovered the Golden Goose Trainers at Nordstroms in the designer shoe section. I noticed the dupes on Amazon. Thanks for sharing.
I think you’re right about pleated pants. They tend to be aging on me.
You look radiant, beautiful skin and natural, luminous make-up
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I agree with all of these!
The pleated trousers need to be styled differently. It’s a proportion issue. Also combine them with more casual shirts and shoes for a cool look
@melocoton7, see, now every pair of pants/slacks that have had pleats I have had professionally altered as they always seem to show a pronounced belly which makes me crazy. I stand at 5’ 1.5” at 105-112 and I HATE the look of a bigger belly so I have had them altered and I stay clear of pleated plants!! So I am one that will steal clear of pleats as they simply don’t look good on me!!
I think the pleated pants look great on you. Being petite, we just have to pay special attention to the fabric and tailoring. The wider the pant, the softer the fabric (so it drapes close to your body, no extra fabric - and then add a heel of some sort. I like the overall look on you.
Old Navy Jeans they come in every size, shape, color & cut!
Thanks for your video Lori. I agree no jean is worth $250! Also, I refuse to get on the bandwagon when it comes to baggy, pleated pants. Why do we want to look 10 - 15 pounds heavier? I just don’t understand why we’re going back to those unflattering styles of the 80s and 90s. I feel next they’re going to try to bring back the oversized shoulder pads on us. I have a hard time with the high waisted pants because they actually hurt if I try to wear them. I’m also not a fan of having to tuck my shirt in. That being said, I can live without the skinny jeans and am all for the slim straight jeans/pants, flared jeans/pants, and wide leg jeans/pants.
Thank you for this refreshing video.
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Thanks so much for going over these! I agree with you! I do have several designer bags, but won’t be buying any more. Quality over someone’s name splashed all over fits my lifestyle so much more!
Again, thanks! Great video!!!
I look bad in chinos. I love the look on others but the pocket placement doesn't work with my pear shape. And I could never justify $100 jeans. Too many good ones for less. Thanks for sharing your regrets.
@@mimzyc9949 yep I can relate. Thanks for watching! ❤️
I also look very bad in chinos! I can't figure it out, but but not at all flattering! Glad someone else understands this!
The best is going to thrift shops and looking for higher quality clothing in good condition. Many thrift shops, such as the two I volunteer for, reject clothing donations that are dirty, pilly, ripped, stained, etc. Some actually even support a charity organization, such as a home for women escaping abuse or a food pantry. So you're also helping others by buying the clothes
It's definitely very important to look at the way jeans especially fit around your bottom, so I always hold a mirror up or take a photo on my phone. Jeans pockets that are normal size (definitely not small) and closer together are more flattering on my body, I'm slim but hips and booty are my widest point so I'm always trying to minimise them.
You look incredible in the pleated trousers !!!! They look so sophisticated and chic on you. I think it is hard to like a style that you are not used to if you have worn the opposite fit for years…. But I think you look way cooler with the wide leg pleated pants
@@elizarosalind Thank you ❤️
Thanks for being honest about some regrets, and what you would purchase next time instead!
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Thank you for deinfulencing me with your truthful reviews.
Agree with everything. One of my favourite clothing items of clothing is a leather jacket but in the more traditional moto style (but grey not black). Much more me than a leather blazer
I love your channel, our fashion style, and advice! Thank you!
@@marvinschuh Thank you so much! 💕
Liked this video. Another idea for a video - things you love one season but next season not so much and you say to yourself, “Just 6 months ago I thought this looked great!”
@@nschoess I love this idea!! Thanks for watching and sharing! ❤️
Thanks for another informative video-regarding wide leg pants, try pairing with a close to the body top, (ribbed top maybe) it can be flattering. Using a belt to focus on a smaller waist and adding a heel will help. Thanks again Lori!
@@jmmalnati9229 Thank you! ❤️
I agree with the overspending of jeans, the most expensive pair I bought, were True Religion skiny jeans for $140, flattered my butt, I've had them for 5 years, supposedly are out of style, but I still wear them, especially in winter with my sperry boots, ill buy gap jeans & some AE jeans, i love a good leather coach purse, on sale, I have a few essentials, TY for your time!
I LOVE Lucky brand jeans fit on me… and Wit & Wisdom are nice fitting also
We all make mistake purchases… I’m trying to look at these mistakes and figure out what drew me to these items and why they were ultimately wrong. Now these items are making their way to my local consignment store as I do a major purge. 😂
My favourite jeans are from Marks & Spencer in the UK, the Eva Bootcut is so flattering (£25) and the Sienna and Autograph straight jeans also fit me so well and have French chic vibes
Me too x
And me too.
Thank you, for sharing! I have similar experience with trousers! I have learned that they should be:
- high waisted
- flowing, light weight fabric
- longer cut/trim for a heel to elongating your legs and for the same reason:
- pointy-toe shoes, or longer toe loafers
- top needs to be more fitted
(In my case I like v-neck) to support verticals. I follow the formula: fitted top + volume bottom or vice-verse fitted bottom + volume top.
I also have few leather pieces that just sit in my wardrobe and they look good, but no occasion to reach them 😕
Love American Eagle - I feel like they are pros on best jeans models for any body shape. Sometimes I order from Old Navy since they have an option for tall. I’m not a big fan of jeans and usually choose solid deep color
I appreciate recommendations on your best substitutions❤ Will look closely on those.
Best wishes to you and your channel
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New to your channel and YES! Your comment about $ 250 jeans😂😱. I was a jeans buyer for a huge chain of stores- and really, at a price point above 40 or 50 its all about advertising and drinking the "kool-aid"😂. Im 5'2 currently ,at last, 120 lbs and have recently bought Lucky jeans - 8 pairs😂 all resale!! All dif styles and washes but whats great is the sizing is consistant 💯 of the time!! Great construction and denim although made in several countries. Thank u for your great video!!🎉
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Leather jacket is perfect for winter and colder days, with long neck jumper.
Very interesting and I’ve never heard of these brands except American Eagle but thank you It was interesting and I liked your outfits.
@@Martinique_36 Thank you!
Love your cardigan!
Thank you!
Yes I know what you mean about knowing things when you bought the bag, it's timeless for me all the way instead of I NEED IT 😂😂
I really enjoyed your total honesty!!
Plus you are right on the mark on price of jeans it's really how they fit on you, not the price....altho I could never ever pay over $200 on jeans.
Really liked the slim cut pants then the pleated ones, made you look thinner! Keep this coming love your videos! Have a great weekend😊
@@ladeanlombardi8638 Thank you for watching and commenting! Hope your weekend is wonderful too!
I hear you! I'm on a journey to revamp my style and have a few regretful purchases as well. Dang it! I hate when I do that lol
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I agree with everything except Mother jeans. I have splurged for two pairs and I love the fit, but I certainly understand your point!
Yes, I think we all make purchases that we regret and say, "What was I thinking?" Anyway, I do love my Golden Goose sneakers. I have the same pair as you do. They were not comfortable at first, but I wear these on repeat and I even use them to walk NYC for hours. I am now at the point in my life where I really have to love an item before I purchase it. I bring it home and try it on with several things in my wardrobe. If it doesn't spark joy, I bring the item back.
@@dianecyment1715 I love this and I agree about the items sparking joy. ❤️
I enjoyed the video but women of our age should know better. I’m proud to say that no influencer has ever made me part with my hard earned cash unless I really wanted that item already.
I would somewhat disagree with you there. As a 55 year old post menopausal woman, my body isn’t the same shape as it used to be and some styles and items I used to wear regularly don’t look good or aren’t appropriate. Sometimes you have to try new trends to find what suits you (or not) and and what you feel comfortable in. I tend to shop secondhand though so if I make a mistake, I just donate it back to the thrift shop and haven’t wasted too much money.
@@tokidokiteacher659you aren't disagreeing with her, you are also the same..you aren't influenced into buying what you don't want. She didn't say she wouldn't try things or even make the mistake of buying something not as good as hoped, but it's at least her own decision. 👍👍
@@tokidokiteacher659 Why go for any trend? Just wear what makes you happy. I'm 65 and I have never once gone for a trendy item just to be 'on trend'. And like you, I shop at thrifts. Unlike you, I donated the 'bad' purchases to my local women's shelter. I just feel it's a better place for my boo boos than letting the thrift get money for them twice. 🙂
@@lynettefinnigan9540 I have been influenced many times into purchasing things I hadn’t even considered I needed. Cosmetics, clothes, household gadgets. My point is, even older women who ‘should know better’ can be influenced since our bodies and faces are changing and we start to experiment with our changing body and face.
@@gusmonster59 I live in Tokyo. There are very few places to donate clothing. There are many consignment stores that will buy clothing for super low prices, but only one thrift shop (The Salvation Army) that will collect donations. I don’t know of any women’s shelters in the city or I would definitely donate to them.
Thank you!!!!
@@shellymusgrove3328 ❤️
The pleated pants look good on you and make you look taller.
I hear you on the wide leg pleated pants. They look terrible on me. They make me look huge. I’m 64 and have gained some weight lately so wide leg pants are out. I love jackets and coats but I’ve make a few regrettable purchases there as well. Sigh 😞
@@dinnykelly6763 ❤️💕❤️
Thank you good to see I’m not the only one who has these regrets
@@alicecropper8686 definitely not! ❤️
Try a form fitting high neck tank with your pleated pants. It will balance the proportions.
@@Idontwantahandleyoutube ❤️
Was about to say the same..I've seen many petite sizes wear them this way with good results, I'm tall and often wished for shorter legs when i see them 😊even with flat shoes - slimmer fitting tops with less blousing at the waist was often how it was styled
I really like American Eagle jeans, too! I have thrifted two pair that fit me so well! Smaller waist and roomier in the butt and thighs - that is so hard to find in pants these days!
Very hard to find!
I think the wide leg pleated pants would look really nice and more balanced with a fitted top
A tight tee would look better with wide leg pants. I remember wearing wide leg jeans in the 1980s. 😂
@sct4040 personally, I think it's a great look. A fitted tee would be great and make the look casual, but chic. The 80s were such a fun time to grow up in 😊
Good video!! I enjoyed it! I have spent so much money on purchases. But I do purge every so often and sell on my Poshmark closet.
@@sueturaninalexander6520 ❤️
The leather blazer and the wide leg pants are awesome! Paint the blazer with more casual items for a relaxed look, like black t-shirt and white pants or jeans.
My favorite casual summer shoe, for the last 3 years, has been Vionic Beach sneakers. They are like an updated Keds & come in multiple colors. $69 full price, but I recently picked up 2 new pair discounted at an end of season sale.
@@mjordan1028 Good to know! I need to check those out
I'm 5'2" and don't have hips or a butt. And my legs are very skinny. I gave the same problem with those pleated, wide-legged pants. There's just so much material!
I think fabrics can overwhelm our smaller frames so it's important to have a more tailored fit. I can't tell you how many times I've had to put back pants, shorts, skirts and dresses because of all the extra material.
Which makes me think: could you have the pleated pants tailored?
Thanks, so much, for sharing your thoughts. New sub!❤
I appreciate ur honesty
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Interesting about the bag. It's gorgeous and I have seen influencers wearing it. I see your point about it being a bit impractical,
Thank you for being honest about the bag. I have seen so many people raving about it and my question every time is ‘how do you get into it’
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Yep I love express jeans but only when on sale. They have short sizes and I'm 5'1. Mother jeans are all over on other fashion influencers but no that's crazy, golden goose shoes are ugly imo, I don't like the blazer trend, I just don't see me wearing them. I agree with everything you said.
@@doriscistrelli9560 Thanks for watching! ❤️
I think the pleated pants look much more dressy but both look good on you!❤
@@PaulaViniard Thank you Paula! They are definitely two different looks and I think everyone has convinced me to keep them 😂. Thanks so much for watching! ❤️
I love American Eagle jeans! The best fit and price! Great styles too, for everyone. I probably have like 10 pairs in a closet 😊. Oof and many regrets in my closet too 😳
@@evarkf5303 ❤️
I relate to the leather jacket and handbag. Some things you can just love, but they are never going to be a good match for your lifestyle.
@@mrsbinkbonk So very true!
Lori.. Consider taking those pleated pants to a tailor to slim down the legs. I just gave away 2 pair of on sale paper waist pants. So unflattering . 13:20 13:20
Big Mistake! Why designers make purses that are difficult to use is beyond me. I have one Portland leather bag that is easy and the leather smells so good. Excellent video.
@@carolalvarez3925 Hey Carol! I may do that since they are nice pants. Might make a big difference. Yes love my Portland bag too! ❤️
I'm gonna be 38 this September and never, ever have I been satisfied with any small bags!!! I always, always need wide big bags where I can throw anything fast and go.
@@HappyLife-nf7wb Yassss!! 🙌❤️
You are young wait until your back and shoulders start aching at 55. I gave the big bags up 5 years ago
I’d never heard of the first two items you mentioned, snd I agree the purse is a no-go. Might consider trying on American Eagle jeans, never have as I thought they were for teens in jr sizes .
try a monochromatic look with that leather blazer- maybe black or off white or navy pants and top
The pleated pants looked good on you and have a place in your closet. The first fitted pants were not fitted properly at the crotch, I thought. I’m short so I worry about these things. But yes, pleated pants are good for you, just think the color of top should be a little more in tone with the bottom and not contrast with the bottom.
This is great! BTW, I think the pleated wide legs look great on you--you just need to try them with a more fitted shirt, maybe a cropped lady jacket...
@@jennfeinstein4125 Thank you! ❤️
I love the sweater you're wearing!
@@ninamc6116 Thank you! Let me know if you want the link.
Agree with you on the Golden Goose sneakers - great video thank you 🤩
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