People Pleasing - Healing With The Inner Tarot Ep: 2 Two of Pentacles
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- Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
- Welcome to Healing With The Inner Tarot. In today's episode I discuss people pleasing and how we can use the teachings of the Two of Pentacles to help us heal. I'm following along with the healing guide put together by Kate Van Horn from her book The Inner Tarot.
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Rain ♥
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Trauma Healing Journal For Women by Cher Hampton
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Music: Longer Distance - TrackTribe ♫
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☼ Additional Resource For More Learning: How To Stop Being A People Pleaser: www.calm.com/b...
☼ Mental Health Resources in Canada: www.canada.ca/...
♣ Decks used:
Rider Waite Smith Tarot
The Bob Ross Oracle by Michelle Witte
Wise Dog Tarot by MJ Cullinane
Whispers of Healing Oracle by Angela Hartfield and Josephine Wall
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Dear Rain, this sooo good ! Every single word resonates , believe me.
You are wonderful - a rhousand times Thank you 🧡💖❤
Oh, your comment makes me so grateful Hanna! Thank you so much and you are VERY welcome. Let's STOP people pleasing NOW!!!!!!! 🧡🧡🧡🧡
This is so good rain you are helping so many people by doing this.
Sending blessings Rain😇
I appreciate that Fatima, thank you! ♥
@@spiritualrainfrances
Beautifully presented, this hit home for me as I am a recovering people pleaser myself! But for me, I realize that I became that way, as a response to my trauma! Which is one of several trauma responses that many find themselves in! But one thing that I am also understanding abut myself also, is that I not only enjoy being there for others, but it is something that I am good at! Part of my healing journey is finding a way to do so without losing myself in the process!!! Thank you so much for the time you took to put all of this together!!! In my personal opinion and professional opinion, I think you would make an amazing therapist! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥹🥹🥹😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰💞💞💞
OMG...there are SO many of us who are recovering people pleasers...it's a pandemic in itself. And it's just so damn unhealthy. Oh you're so sweet! ♥♥ I am working towards my diploma in Modern Applied Psychology and hoping that one day I'll have the funds to continue towards a certification to be a therapist. Education is so expensive! I think that not losing yourself in the process can be a challenge Alana...I struggle with that too. Hugs! ♥♥
@spiritualrainfrances Well, Rain!!! I pray that one day you will be able to achieve that for yourself because you are great! However, I think people pleasing is something that we need to redefine somehow because I still believe that giving and receiving love is something that we should all be doing anyway! But finding the right balance of such a practice that is healthy and doesn't compromise our integrity for self or others!!! That is what has been my mission as someone who has experienced abandonment and has seen some of the worst that humanity has to offer! My heart breaks for those who have ever experienced abandonment, loss, rejection, isolation, or even invisibility and discrimination!!! I see the world differently, I suppose, because of my origins and the fact that I am a visible minority in more ways than one. We are all living here and having a human experience. While our individual journeys may defer, we are all still connected, and regardless of different we may all seem to be, we all come and go in every lifetime just the same!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😘😘😘💞💞💞
I agree Alana, doesn't this ring true for so many aspects of mental health? Stigma, antiquated descriptions, assumptions and judgments....there is a big difference between being generous and giving and kind....and "people pleasing". People pleasing is done as a result of unhealthy behaviors/habits/thinking. It's almost a desperate act that many people don't even realize that THAT'S what they are doing. I can say I didn't realize it until recently, and when I did some deep diving into WHY I was doing it, my jaw dropped...I could do a whole other episode of the backlash of when you STOP being a people pleaser too! Thanks so much for your comments!! ♥
@spiritualrainfrances Yes, I agree! I have experienced a lot of the backlash of that, too. The shame and guilt trip that many have sent me on, too!!! So I know, exactly what you mean! I don't speak to most of my family because of that! I have very few friends too as a result! It's a very hard thing to go through. My life lesson was about abandonment and patience. I realized, though, that being a good person also includes being kind to yourself as well. We are equals and should be appreciated as such, giving one another the freedom of expression, understanding, and acceptance! My beef with society is that it isn't equal or fair! Not by a long shot! The world has become rather cold and calculating. Obsessed with money, status, power, and popularity. We have become rather superficial for the most part! I see so many people suffering in many ways! I can't solve the world's problems on my own, nor is it my responsibility to do so as an individual. All recovering people pleasers end up learning that lesson the hard way! Some worse than others, of course! But community advocacy is something that I feel is needed. Awareness and unified efforts for change! Closing ourselves off from one another, in my opinion, is not the answer! It just creates a further divide amongst us all, making us all more vulnerable to trauma and evil intentions!!! We all need healing, and to me, it begins with bringing our hearts and minds back into alignment with one another! As we each commit ourselves to healing, my hope is that we can eventually restore our connectivity to each other, bringing equilibrium back to society! But Hey, what doIt makes me so sad because so many are hurting, and there really isn't anything that I can do on my own to fix it! I feel everything all the time, and it makes me feel uncomfortable being in my own skin!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😭😭😭😔😔😔🥺🥺🥺💞💞💞
Which is why I appreciate so much what you are doing, I wish more people would take the time that you have to share their healing gifts with others, too!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰💞💞💞
I can definitely relate to what you said about when you have a lot going on. It makes it harder to deal with any type of stress.. I’ve been there and I’m there now lol. This is so helpful and worksheets are amazing.. Thank you so much. ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for the feedback! I'm actually sorry to hear that you can relate with so much going on...we bite off more than we can chew at times don't we? I hope life isn't too stressful for you! xx
@@spiritualrainfrances oh beautiful lady, only stress that I have allowed 😏 I am a work in progress. I am becoming better at saying no, lol. It’s hard. But, everything you talked about I have had to work through at one point, because I didn’t realize I was people pleasing. And, one of my cherished friends helped me to see how self destructive it was. that was over a year ago. I am so grateful to her, she is a very kind and gentle person. So, she didn’t beat me over the head with it, either, if you know what I mean. She just presented information to me. And she listened. I could cry now, just thinking back to those times. I have been and still am healing. I am so grateful for these talks 🥰
@@MissCoolalasMysticalMusings Carla! Now I can call you by your name! ♥ Your friend sounds so genuine, a real keeper. I have had "friends" who, as you say, beat you over the head....that's so counter-intuitive. I'm glad you came to the realization that people pleasing is so harmful, as did I. Healing is definitely a life-long journey. Hugs! ♥
@@spiritualrainfrances You are more than welcome to call me Carla or Coolala. 🥰 It's a nickname that I've had for over 30 years now. I'm sure you can guess, but I've always liked to sing 😁 Hence, the nicknickname ☺️ It is such a pleasure to meet you too, Rain 💯❤️❤️❤️
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