How to get the Girl - Step 1- The Approach

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  • @RichardMedhurst
    @RichardMedhurst 15 років тому

    Hey man, never have I seen someone lay it down so clearly and with so much charisma. Mad props.

  • @TheInnerSanctuary
    @TheInnerSanctuary 16 років тому

    This was surprizingly well done. You're one of the very few straight guys that actually get it, which is so refreshing. You've got a good head on your shoulders, bro. Kudos.

  • @MatthewLedZepfan
    @MatthewLedZepfan 14 років тому

    great advice! since I'm really shy and rarely walk up to women and say hi, your "homework" at the end really inspires me to finally have the guts to do it.

  • @chillskid
    @chillskid 15 років тому

    This guy is the man. Perfect advice, can't really put it any better than he did.

  • @SilkRoad33
    @SilkRoad33 16 років тому

    buddy, this video made me subscribe to you. Not because of the tips, though they were generally clear and well described. But because you're a real fellow, and I like your style. Hope you become a success because you made my day.
    cheers.

  • @baseballfreak611
    @baseballfreak611 14 років тому

    haha! i actually did ur homework and the first girl i did it to blew me off, but the second girl actually kindly said hi back. its actually amazing to know that girls dont mind talking to random guys. nice vid man, ur aweasome.

  • @sujaymessi
    @sujaymessi 15 років тому

    u rock man..........the best advice ever seen on youtube about approaching a girl

  • @yaregod
    @yaregod 15 років тому

    Damn. Really cool tipss!!!
    Anyway. When is the deadline of the homework? :D

  • @jppotato17
    @jppotato17 13 років тому

    Everyone who is giving this guy crap just quit cause he's cool and knows what he's talking about and bro this was a lot of help thanks A LOT

  • @datingmaverick4359
    @datingmaverick4359 11 років тому

    Guys (and Gals) cripple themselves with their own thoughts...just as you've mentioned DS. Fear (False Evidence Appearing Real) is ruining the lives of most people these days. Whether it be guys not being able to approach women, or a guy not going after that career he's always wanted; our obedience to fear is creating havoc in most people's lives. The first step to overcoming it is to face it. Accept that you're scared and then begin to move towards it...approach that pretty lady, send out a resume to that job you've always wanted, etc. You're more powerful than you'll ever 'think', you just have to wake up and remember it.

  • @hugandkissme33
    @hugandkissme33 15 років тому

    the key is guys that your first approach has always most definitely has got to be a polite one. what is it with guys who see a lady/girl and then come with whatever nonsense they feel to say. tell me don't men/boys take some time to observe that woman before he walks over to her? can't guys differentiate b/w women that look respectable and classy from easy girls? this is good advice

  • @gloshglosh
    @gloshglosh 16 років тому

    Spoken like a champ!!
    Im heading out to the bar tonight DS!
    Ill keep this all in mind,, though most of it ive allready learned through trial and error lol!

  • @FallenZer0
    @FallenZer0 16 років тому

    Wow after watching this i just felt infinitely better. Awesome dude keep making more videos.

  • @glitterngloss13
    @glitterngloss13 15 років тому

    Watching this was so refreshing! I wish more guys understood this it would have made my dating years a whole lot easier. I saw a guy at the gym last night ask out a girl and he went about it all wrong. I really wanted to pull him aside and give him advice from a femal perspective on it.

  • @inuyashadabomb
    @inuyashadabomb 15 років тому

    whats your editting software? and and holy crap 475 vids o.o

  • @ribbonsonbedposts
    @ribbonsonbedposts 16 років тому

    As a girl, I give this video my seal of approval. Good tips -- wish more guys followed them!

  • @techdudezz
    @techdudezz 16 років тому

    You rock man. Thats prolly the best advice on UA-cam. I'm gonna try it out tmrw.
    Subscribed....!! :)

  • @AndysGuitarSolos
    @AndysGuitarSolos 12 років тому

    seriously.. its been 3 years.. no part 2? it was a good video man. really helped me

  • @littlewhiteroom
    @littlewhiteroom 15 років тому

    really enjoyed ur vid man. its weird cause i gave one of my buddies pretty much the same advice. then i seen this and it tripped me out. keep it up man
    \

  • @Gods0n1
    @Gods0n1 14 років тому

    my problem is when i see someone i like, i dont know the right timming for the approach. for example. i see a girl i like that is using a computer but there's too many people around for me to talk to her. when she's leaving, i have to leave my stuff and what im doing to go chase her down, and usually thats awkward and gives off a despereate feel.

  • @korda44
    @korda44 16 років тому

    nice video man, come out iwth 2 and 3 soon cause im around there. keep up all the vids cause you always have something cool to say. sometimes i dont agree with some stuff but other opinions are always good to hear, and you know how to back up your opinions.

  • @lazard06
    @lazard06 16 років тому

    ive always wondered but how do i make it where im able to put my own advertisment or what ever it is. the thing im talking about is the rectangle picture thing above your account name box. plz tell me how to set that up or something to that effect. :)

  • @VivaLaMexico1
    @VivaLaMexico1 14 років тому

    yur on point 100% with this video.. one thing i want to add tho is instead of asking a girl for their number (because they sometimes jus giv it out to be nice) ask to giv them yur number.. if they txt / call yu then thts a 90% chance they're interested in yu

  • @00Pablo01
    @00Pablo01 16 років тому

    digitalsoul...ur videos r always awesome...keep it up bro, ur a cool dude.

  • @moltengrace
    @moltengrace 16 років тому

    Does this approach work for getting stealing kiddies as well? I've watched chitty chitty bang bang and the candy trick just doesn't work anymore.

  • @ramir332
    @ramir332 14 років тому

    @L0GAN811 Well its spring break, I can't approach her until next week. Sorry for the early post. I'll let you guys know how it went. At the very least, we'll be friends. And the worst, a no-no. She didn't like me even to be friends. But, thanks! Wish me luck next week. haha.

  • @luko156
    @luko156 14 років тому

    Hey thanks for the advice and after this what do you do because I have a school carnival next weekend and should I ask her to come because we only just hooked up

  • @FrogJon
    @FrogJon 16 років тому

    Good advice man! I really needed that kind of pep talk. Thanks.

  • @nothinglim28
    @nothinglim28 15 років тому

    Thank you DiGiTiLsOuL for uploading this!
    It helped me alot :)

  • @chloe12341234
    @chloe12341234 14 років тому

    Awwww!!
    you have the cutest tinyest little lisp :3
    & i like boys who care alot about me and that show it. I dont want boys calling me gawjus and stunning etc because its cheesy. I like laid back boys that have alot of time for me and boys with respeect and not shy! xx

  • @markseed
    @markseed 16 років тому

    i love this video man one of your best videos this is going to get me throutgh the day with a smile on my face lol :)

  • @ReadingRaven019
    @ReadingRaven019 15 років тому

    advice from a girl here. okay, so like this video says, just say hi when you pass her in the halls, or at lunch whatever. And maybe if you can become friends with some of her friends. It's easier if you have a class with them. Other than that, you just have to wait until you become better friends. good luck!

  • @Meshehetube
    @Meshehetube 15 років тому

    now, i just jumped into a coversation with this chick on my bus who my friend and i thought was a lot older than us. he wanted me to ask her how old she was, but in the end, he did, and she seemed offended. the next day, i explained the whole deal, and we really hit it off. its great. this was 2 days ago. now we're going to homecoming.

  • @LeonTheDebri
    @LeonTheDebri 15 років тому

    cheers man i can quite understand your feeling coz im having the same experience. but compared to me you are much more luckier; you'll get much more chances because i have graduated from universty, and you just went into it! life's bringht man, cheers

  • @Meshehetube
    @Meshehetube 15 років тому

    i would show confusion at some class matierial, and ask her about it during class, maybe after. then another time, sit NEAR her on the bus, aka in front of or across the aisle, don't make her turn around to have to see you. introduce yourself, and maybe ask about the class again. ask about other classes, too. the key is to ASK and LISTEN. they love that. also, if she doesn't have a lot of friends, she'll latch onto you really quick.
    (also, help HER in the class if need be, study buddies rule!)

  • @kitsundesu
    @kitsundesu 14 років тому

    This guy knows what he's talking about, and puts it in plain English. It's kinda creepy cause he's so good, I'M starting to like him. I guess his advice is just THAT good!

  • @tumblechick3216
    @tumblechick3216 15 років тому

    all the guys should watch this cause he is right. Like if a guy came up to me and said hey i would talk to him and girls love to get compliments and makes them feel nice. Just go for it....

  • @Mchlgraca15
    @Mchlgraca15 14 років тому

    they are gonna think your a creeper if you say hi to them, why they think that is beyond me but i can just see it happening, "hi" they say no, then they tell thier friends how creepy you are..

  • @0cTeT
    @0cTeT 15 років тому

    Be nice and respect her. To make the first visible signs that u want to be more than friends try to have reasons to touch her more often. Or like smile and make more eye contact.. And in the end after doing those things for a while and u know she noticed them and she responded positively, find the good time and moment and ask her on a date. Good luck ;]

  • @susipunkrockprincess
    @susipunkrockprincess 14 років тому

    Good video, it could be more useful to me a how to approach the boy.. but whatever
    i think you are cool, im subscribing ^^

  • @worldwar2history
    @worldwar2history 14 років тому

    You know man, you actualy made sense, if you go through life, wondering "what if" life will suck, great advice, so im going to approach a girl i know now, no more waiting, im too good for that

  • @MrLivinitup123
    @MrLivinitup123 14 років тому

    Dude! Love your videos man, you are like my idol. I think your really cool. Keep it real. :)

  • @TheSkullranger
    @TheSkullranger 13 років тому

    Even if this guy is trying to sound "cool" he still got a point we will never know if we don't try

  • @itay1r
    @itay1r 16 років тому

    great video bro! i do have a girlfriend ATM but still great time to hear those tips from ya!

  • @entro819
    @entro819 14 років тому

    I liked a really good friend of mine, but as soon as she found out that I liked her, she started treating me like crap. Now we're not even friends anymore. What should i do?

  • @shoshon3
    @shoshon3 16 років тому

    Digitil Soul is the man, one of youtube's best.

  • @Tymonisthename
    @Tymonisthename 16 років тому

    See there is a girl i like and she would always talk, joke,tease, giggle and fool around (clean) around with me for 2 to 3 months. Now she barely speaks to me or wants to interact with me. I dont know if this is good or bad, but im thinking its bad. We have a lot in common but her "intrest" in me has dissapeared. I NEED HELP!

  • @SoulJurr16
    @SoulJurr16 14 років тому

    @Buxbuny88979 the first step to getting a girl is becoming friends with her. your first priotity here should find a way to befriend her, talk to her, anything to come in contact with her. find an excuse to talk to her or something. once you do that, make a good first impression, make her laugh dude, i know its gonna be hard, but just have confidence and once things start going smoothly itll become more easier to do that . Good luck!

  • @DrsJacksonn
    @DrsJacksonn 14 років тому

    You remind me of that Dutch rapper. Lexxxus.
    I'm not so good at this sorta thing. I've been staring at one girl now for almost... no, more than three years. And when I look at her, all I can think about is how beautiful and kind she is while I'm the joke of my entire school. Justifiedly. I know, counterpoles attract and all, but..

  • @relzm432
    @relzm432 14 років тому

    Girls have to be physically attracted to the guy too. You can be the male version of the girl your trying to date, you can have everything in common with her, but if she's not attracted to you then say hello to the friend zone.

  • @denny826lee
    @denny826lee 15 років тому

    hi where did you get your beanie hat thing? i want one

  • @reifsaint
    @reifsaint 15 років тому

    Thank you for the video. It's a great advise. Breaking the ice is always dificult, I know. But thanks that you are sharing this with others.
    Peace

  • @eldrad16
    @eldrad16 15 років тому

    Thank u for this vid, this was the motivation I needed, I can thank u enought

  • @TheCondemnedProphet
    @TheCondemnedProphet 14 років тому

    Oh my god. Yo, the last time i saw you digitil was like when modern warfare 2 came out. Damn. I think that was a different account.

  • @007Tydog
    @007Tydog 14 років тому

    Awesome advice from an awesome dude! Nice video bro

  • @Zwimfreak
    @Zwimfreak 15 років тому

    The thing for me is dat I moved to europe and I cant ask her anything
    Plus dats the harding part
    U look nice today is like a big step
    Is there any smaller steps?

  • @borochocho
    @borochocho 15 років тому

    Dude dont stop making videos you rock. See you online on PS3 . PS3 RULZ

  • @B4gle
    @B4gle 15 років тому

    great video dude, and i mean that. this changed my outlook on things, and not for just when im trying to get a new girlfriend.

  • @drizzlekidd
    @drizzlekidd 15 років тому

    ok now how do u get OUT of the friendship stage? I kinda waited too long to watch this video and now im close friends with her....

  • @7jacks7
    @7jacks7 12 років тому

    man you're a beast, subscribing right now

  • @IdaSputum
    @IdaSputum 14 років тому

    LISTEN TO THIS MAN CAREFULLY

  • @GingaBean28
    @GingaBean28 13 років тому

    K I got a question that confuses me sometimes. I've been trying to chill with this girl for a couple a weeks and everytime I ask her to hangout she says sure but when it comes to the day she backs out... Should I keep going for the girl or move on?

  • @kranti1992
    @kranti1992 15 років тому

    @Buxbuny88979 there's an easy way man, all you do is take a deep breath to calm yourself down and think, but then you can say something like "damn it's been a stressful day" or "so what's up" you know, just to make your 'deep breath' seem natural (you don't want to let them know you're taking a deep breath to calm down of course).

  • @entro819
    @entro819 14 років тому

    so I like this girl, she was my best friend, but ever since I started liking her, she's been treating me like crap. I wanna keep our friendship, but nothing seems to work. Wat should I do?

  • @ChicanoLagunero10092
    @ChicanoLagunero10092 15 років тому

    @trumpetboii its easy have confidence in yourself if you don't know her just go up say hey or hi and give them an honest compliment. i did i just said a simple phase "whats your name?" they smiled and talked to me and now were really good friends, to talk to is you HAVE to listen to them talk about stuff they like and if you have looks it will make it much easier :)

  • @bleupapillons
    @bleupapillons 16 років тому

    Most of those advise should also be given to girls.
    All of what you said seemed obvious and simple.
    But we tend to forget and make love a bigger deal then it should be.
    We frigthen our self whit the "what if ".

  • @Rnassif123
    @Rnassif123 15 років тому

    What if uve known this girl for more then half of your life, through school, and you havent really spoken to her much and now uve moved schools and start talking to her and she already knows u like her, wouldnt she kinda find it wierd??

  • @robotpanda77
    @robotpanda77 16 років тому

    They respond to social status more then anything else. Showing them respect is not part and parcel to this. They will say it is, but they also say "they want a guy who is funny". Last I checked carrot top is not a chick magnet.

  • @Gods0n1
    @Gods0n1 14 років тому

    I went up to two random girls today... The best thing to do is just say " hey, i wanted to tell u , you look pretty today"..... OR "hey, i just wanted to say hi to u before i left,... Whats your name?". U dont have to get her #. u just wont to work ur way up the ladder for now.

  • @oxidiana93
    @oxidiana93 12 років тому

    I dunno if this worked or not, but i'm actually really happy with me and my girl and if something in this video that i saw years ago worked...then thank you

  • @jonathanmanuelmusa
    @jonathanmanuelmusa 15 років тому

    omg son, i was about to cry, when i heard 5:20
    i will do the '' homework '' and i'll let you know if that worked or not, thanks dude, oh and i am from argentina hehe :B

  • @BOINGIE100
    @BOINGIE100 15 років тому

    excellent advice....but the girl i'm tryn to talk 2 is kinda agressive.any tips?and also the fact tht im a junior and shes freshman....

  • @danik077
    @danik077 15 років тому

    snaps. when i talk to the girl i like and i look into her eyes, i start losing it and dont know what to say. do we really have to look into their eyes?

  • @NicolasUnger
    @NicolasUnger 14 років тому

    i like this girl.. and i know she likes me (because a friend of her told me).. so i tried what you said.. say "hi" start a conversation, but its diferent with this girl. For some reason she doesnt talk to me for herself.. if you know what i mean. I try to talk to her but she doesnt folow me in the conversation. she only talks if i ask her something.
    i guess its because she is shy.. but thats not the usual reaction in girls.
    What can i do?

  • @AJDaEnvoy
    @AJDaEnvoy 15 років тому

    the way Digitsoul said "fine??" at 7:41 was comedy. BTW for my school did a presentation evening and after that we went to a restaurant. my friend yeled DAMN when two fine honeys went inside and i was like "We need to come here more often." the girls were laughin and blushin, but then some random came up to them and dragged them to their table. guess wat is was their BF's.

  • @michaelcrash
    @michaelcrash 15 років тому

    girls like to feel that you are fighting for them.
    they are the prey and you are the hunter.
    she says NO but in real she wanted you to make her say YES , by flirt for example.
    She didn't expect you give up that quickly.
    And if you really wanted to go with her.
    you should ask her couple of times, but "in different way"

  • @nobodysperfect06
    @nobodysperfect06 15 років тому

    It's very hard to accept this, I know it is just the way it is, but it is unfair and very frustrating because I am sick and tired of being rejected.

  • @kendjo
    @kendjo 16 років тому

    def good tips. i find the complement chased with a diss in jest works good.
    example: nice dress....yeah i think my grandma has one like that. thats more for when you know em a while, not an icebreaker but you get the point. they dont like 100 percent nice.

  • @ramir332
    @ramir332 14 років тому

    I'm doing step one today (but, she's a stranger in school) wish me luck peeps. Good or bad, like you said, can't go on life with a question mark in my head.

  • @jeremy9946
    @jeremy9946 13 років тому

    @TheGamesConsole you should probably say hi and do not comment on her physical features as she might think that you like her because of her looks and if she is with a group you should perhaps find a better chance to talk to her.

  • @jrkilla78777
    @jrkilla78777 16 років тому

    if anyone really watched this vid cause you dont have a girl just be yourself thats how i got my girl and she loves me for it

  • @mossyx360
    @mossyx360 15 років тому

    Please d a part 2.! or maybe forcing people to love you back, because that's a major problem with a lot of people.

  • @Permyak1991
    @Permyak1991 15 років тому

    dude u the man. i did a lot mistakes woth girls but now praktise and practise getting bettar man. i like ur vid.

  • @drushtvo
    @drushtvo 15 років тому

    You got a video with 60,000 views. Congratulations!

  • @skimp702
    @skimp702 15 років тому

    aww thats sweet lol heres what you do just walk up to her and ask her whats up and try to get a conversation going. just ask a couple question and when she answers them tell her your thoughts on whatever subject its alot easier then it may seem. you will do fine.

  • @DantevKratos
    @DantevKratos 16 років тому

    "What if she liked you too man", he sounds A LOT like Vin Diesel. I'm betting the girls love that. Lol.

  • @Elk4758
    @Elk4758 16 років тому

    I dont have any self-confidence, or at least not anymore. Ive tried being confident and its always ended badly for me.

  • @Cize8
    @Cize8 13 років тому

    when u see a girl that catches ur eye don't stay there while ur eyes are focused onto her fantisising. just go up say hi and try to make this a natural instinct
    awesome vid btw

  • @danixcalifornia15
    @danixcalifornia15 15 років тому

    The sooner men realize that 'getting a girl' is not a sport or talent that requires tactics or steps, the easier it is to persue them.

  • @holrin29
    @holrin29 15 років тому

    also if u kno her there's a chance she might say "i dont want to ruin our friendship" if u ask her out

  • @deleukc
    @deleukc 15 років тому

    if i can get any advice i need it. i know im not the best lookin guy out there and its like i have a really tough time talkin to girls that are....hot or atleast good looking.....like i cant think of anything to say or even start a conversation and i cant be funny because if i try to be i get nervous thinking its gonna be dumb or immature. I really need some advice

  • @insanity1021
    @insanity1021 16 років тому

    the best way to get a girl to like her is to buy her lots of stuff like diamonds and things, and act like she is a god or something

  • @theterminatorbjs
    @theterminatorbjs 13 років тому

    dude you just gave me the confidence i needed!

  • @Sakumitzu
    @Sakumitzu 15 років тому

    What do I do when I just started going out with a girl I have known for many many years and want to tell her I like her very much and want to be more than just best friends? I know she likes me but I want to be the one to make the first move. Help me plz!

  • @MasculineFreedom
    @MasculineFreedom 14 років тому

    one can see that this guy is good with women. natural, fluent. cool

  • @Dj1HitEclipse
    @Dj1HitEclipse 15 років тому

    thanks, im going to try these, ive got a few classes with the girl i like so im gonna try to talk to her, and if she doesnt want to talk to me ima do what u said, just walk away.

  • @ideasoner
    @ideasoner 15 років тому

    if she has school ask her about what classes she has, talk about the teachers n stuff, or just ask in genral what they like to get up to, or bands they like,be yourself like your talking to a freind but more polite

  • @Jakarta123
    @Jakarta123 14 років тому

    its awesome that u make a video u made my day bro

  • @DJRU2
    @DJRU2 14 років тому

    Nice Vid Brutha!
    Thats some good advice.

  • @RekItRyan
    @RekItRyan 14 років тому

    i lost my shot at the girl of my dreams cuz i hesitated. Damn wish i could go back in time. Hope i live the rest of my life with no regrets.