As someone who doesn’t personally want children I don’t normally care about pregnancy announcements but this made me so excited. They are going to be incredible mothers.
Ditto. I gave it considerable thought actually, as a transgender person. Before my starting T and again before my surgeries.I considered even tho I don’t want a kid today will I ever want to have kids? Even when I was a kid myself I thought adoption was a great plan in an overpopulated world, so I decided even if I changed my mind in the future and wanted kids, we Could go the adoption route. But it wasn’t easy coming to that conclusion. Even so... we never changed our minds, we would rather be related to someone who has kids and borrow their kids occasionally to spoil them, (I’m told I’m an excellent uncle) then go home to our cats and dog. So who would think I’d be excited about someone’s baby announcement who isn’t related to me? But...I know how much they wanted this, and how intentional having children can be in queer relationships. I think maybe that’s why it’s doubly exciting. We know they really want this. It’s not like someone’s condom broke and oops should we keep it?
Everything is a sign of pregnancy. My husband has a “mystery” illness and if you look up any of the symptoms online he’s pregnant. At this point i just ask him when he’s due.
Ahaha as someone who had a “mystery” illness for 6 years and has only got my diagnosis this year I definitely relate to this every time I was at hospital is their any chance you could be pregnant? Me : I’m in the pill a lesbian and painfully single so no no there isn’t any chance
As a young lesbian, this video made me cry. I’ve never actually seen this process before and I had a moment of, “this could be my future.” Of course, it wouldn’t be me because, well, disability, but still. This was so beautiful. Congratulations!!
I'd say research your disabilities, one of mine(which is actually one of my most dangerous ones) has no known cause and no genetic causes. Ofc not saying you have o be the one to get pregnant if you just don't want to or just don't want to take any risks, but don't let a disability make you go 'nope not getting pregnant' if you are genuinely okay with it other than your disability.
This was a whole movie. I never quite understood infertility and pregnancy stories, especially the emotions. Honestly, I thought “How could someone want a baby that much?”. But this has helped me understand, now I wonder “How could I cry over someone else’s baby story?” 😂 Thank you so much for sharing this. Love y’all.
My ex husband and I tried to get pregnant for 10 years. Holy fuck I do NOT miss all of the ovulation tests and meds and shots and ultrasounds and blood draws and deciding e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g is an early pregnancy symptom... GAH. We got pregnant 7 times but miscarried them all because of an unknown genetic issue I have that wasn't discovered until our last loss :( I am SO fucking excited for you both and can't wait to continue to love and support you both 💖 CONGRATULATIONS 😍❤️
Sending prayers, good energy, hopes, wishes and lots of love to you. That you can cheer for others even when faced with your own pain says a lot about you and the type of mom you will hopefully get to be some day. Even if you don't go through birthing, I still hope you'll continue to love and support those around you. That's mothering on a huge level! Thank you for being awesome.
I know I’m 2 years late but thank you for sharing your story. I hope you and your husband are doing well. I’m so sorry you went through so much loss I truly hope you are doing well
I'm so sorry, pregnancy loss can be so hard. My SIL acted as a pregnancy carrier for a couple who dealt with several pregnancy losses with the last one being very traumatic for both parents, so they knew that even though they still wanted a bio kid it wouldn't be possible for the mom to carry because of the trauma of it.
I think I remember the thumbnail was different when this was first posted and she updated it once it was settled that most people knew what the video was about.
Yeah! Did we thank Jessica for that „spoiler“ yet? A very genuine thanks. For news like this it really helps to know it has a happy ... end beat, for that video at least. Even though it‘s rather the beginning, actually.😊
Thank you so much for watching- this was quite an edit to put together! Can't wait to go on this amazing journey and share it with you, Jessica and Claudia xxx
"I bought my wife... some *_SPAM._* There's no non-weird way to say that." That one took me a minute to adjust to the accent, i'm sorry. Seriously thought you guys were building shelves prepping to organize a massive stock of Spam.
I.. I'm glad someone said it. I was waiting for her to laugh or a cut. But no. And now I'm saying it loud and trying to hear it from an American/Canadian perspective because I'm a kiwi. It sounds pretty similar? Lol
As a lesbian who lost her left ovary and fallopian tube to a rare ovarian cancer when I was a teen, this gives me so much hope that I will be a mother one day.
Oh I actually cried when they got the positive test. A couple years ago I donated my eggs, and watching this made me realise how happy I've made someone who otherwise wouldn't have been able to conceive. Big congratulations you guys
So much respect for you! It's a crazy intense process. It's awesome that you did. I was hoping to but because I have endometriosis they won't take mine sadly.
Yeah I got emotional too. Unfortunately I have health issues and with my husband we won't be able to have a kid of our own. We are looking into adoption, also because we are starting to be old (38 and 39 this year). I just really wished things had gone differently for us
The moment I saw the thumbnail I was like "they're pregnant!" I think this is the first time I've ever been excited for a pregnancy announcement in my entire life. Warm congratulations to both! 💛
I have literally no idea who this person is, but I watched anyways because I'm always happy to see more lgbt+ creators, makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside as a gay man
I definitely thought they said Spam! And as a vintage Brit, that would be right on brand, so for the next few minutes I still carried on watching the video completely clueless 😂😂😂
I just came from Shaaba's video on people's announcements, so you primed me for this vid. 😂 EDIT: Shaaba's not pregnant, they were just looking through announcements.
Love and support from Michigan in the states ! I hope your able to be true and live the life you so truly deserve ! Remind yourself that its not your job to make everyone happy and at the end of the day your happiness is whats important. Anyone who truly cares about you will find a way to accept you and be happy for you regardless of their stance on things! 🤍🖤🤎💜💙💚💛🧡🌍🙏🏽
I was so rooting for the 4th try, different donor would work cuz that's exactly how I happened. Three tries with a guy who my mom look liked failed, fourth try with a "perfect match" guy and it stuck first try. I'm so sorry that that didn't work out for y'all but congrats to you two!
Do you miss having a Dad? I’m just curious. Someone I know is contemplating using a sperm donor to conceive because she hasn’t met the right guy and she’s 35 years old. Thanks for sharing your story.
@@remmary100 can't miss what you never had! Honestly, I had a really fulfilling childhood. My mom worked full-time but her best friend would watch me after school and stuff. The only time I ever felt different was when my school had "Me and My Guy Night," but that just makes me wish school would consider that lots of people don't have a "guy." I didn't have a brother, or close uncles; two years that afforementioned best friend dressed up as a guy to take me. I think it's more about the quality of parents than the quantity. I would say if she has the support system, absolutely go for it. my mom had me later than 35 so it's definitely not too late either
That's actually really cool, that might be something I consider it the future. I'm in my early twenties, so I've got some time to find somebody still 😅
imagine when the baby watches this and realizes that nearly 300,000 people were so exciting for they/them to arrive Edit: English is not my first language and in my country we have other inclusive pronouns so I didn’t know what they were in English but now I do. In Spanish is “le” and I bet most of you didn’t know but that’s not a reason to be mean to someone
This is the dramatic clickbate title that a lot of vloggers use to pretend that the secret is something massive and I was like 'No way jessica uses that trope, they must actually be doing something big' and I was soooo wonderfully right❤️ Congratulations!!
@@cheesecakelasagna @Natalie Basin here is a link to Rose and Rosie's video about their current baby if you have not seen it. There's also some older videos about their first baby (they lost) which are also moving. ua-cam.com/video/RLkb3dl8MSw/v-deo.html
Hearing Jess say she just wants to be a mum is the most heartbreaking thing. You can just see how badly they wanted this and I just KNOW that baby is gonna be the most loved in the world!
Congratulations, as someone in hetro relationship (male side), who's experienced more than 10 miscarriages but now have a beautiful child, I can understand the anguish of waiting for all the results.
When my husband and I first started dating, I accidentally clicked the wrong area of Craigslist and saw a post looking for a known donor for a lesbian couple. It was like they were describing my husband and the couple reminded me of my mom's cousin and her partner that couldn't afford the standard insemination routes available long ago. Anyhow, he is a known donor to a lovely young lady. Our son and I had a chance to meet her .....and she had his personality and you'd have thought our kids were raised together. Anyhow, I just found your channel but I'm so excited for you both! You'll make amazing parents!
@@juniper3238 It has also been an unforseen gift for both of our families! All of this took place when my husband and I had only been a couple for a few months. Stumbling upon the ad, realizing that what they were looking for in a known donor matched my boyfriend at the time, and remembering the heartache my mom's cousin had while trying to find a known donor that was affordable for her and her partner.....I felt it was a sign and had to at least ask if he'd be willing to give such a precious gift to complete strangers. Fast forward a couple years into our relationship, while pregnant with our first child, I was t-boned by a semi and haven't been in good enough health to handle a second pregnancy since this accident (16.5 years ago). The two moms have since split up but prior to that we did donate a second time (unsuccessful) and left the option open to both of them even after they separated. We both ended up only being able to conceive one child. While our communication is limited and she lives primarily in Israel, my son and I have met her twice and my husband met her on the second visit. I love that they have the option to have a sibling relationship at any point and in any capacity. Ironically, despite being raised in two separate households and in different parts of the world (her primarily in Israel, he in the SF Bay), they both have the same sense of humor, are wildly creative, and got along as if they'd known one another their whole lives. Both had wanted a sibling so, hopefully, they are able to connect and grow closer once they are older.
Seeing the baby being wanted and loved even before it was actually confirmed is so, so heartwarming. I honestly cried, I'm glad the baby will grow as a wanted child and with lots of love!
52yo man here. I have a 26yo daughter. I had to pause when I saw the two lines, there were all these tears coming out! Thank you for sharing the process!
Sitting here nursing my 3.5 month crying. My husband and I tried for 5 years, experienced loss, before having our beautiful daughter in September. Wishing you all the best. ❤❤
My daughter and her wife got pregnant in August. Their donor is the twin of my daughter too. I saw his toddler picture and it was uncanny. She took on her second try and in less than a week had symptoms of pregnancy. I am so happy for you guys, for all of us really. Congratulations.
@Ryell Gear are you questioning every same sex couple you know why they didn't just adopt? For some people, having a biological child or going through the process of child birth is important - doesn't matter their sexual orientation.
@Ryell Gear Did your parents choose to have you out of vanity? Are you a parent? How many children have you adopted? I'm not saying it's necessarily right or wrong - I think more people *should* adopt. But some don't want to and I don't think we should shame couples for that. I'm sure that this couple would love an adopted baby just as much, but it's just a personal choice the route people want to take to parenthood. I don't think anyone brought up that a biological child would be loved any more than an adopted child. I'm not a parent so I can't really judge. All I know is I'm not going to judge anyone for how they choose to have children. And I'm certainly not going to hold same sex couples to a higher standard when it comes to adoption over having biological children (As @Eleonora La Marca seems to have suggested in their comment above).
Honestly, that would be a very strange way of announcing baby, but it wouldn’t be the oddest thing ever said on this channel, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. Congratulations and good luck to the mummys! I hope Claudia continues to feel a lot better now the second trimester is kicking in!
The heightened smell is honestly like the worst imaginable super power. It's funny because I normally have a sweet tooth but whike I was pregnant I craved hummus and brown rice, and kiwis. After my son was born it was like a switch flipped and I went back to wanting chocolate. 😂 I cried happy tears when you finally got that first positive test result. I am so excited for you both, I genuinely can't imagine two better people raising a child.
When Claudia pointed at a vial and said, "This one hurts," I cringed. Menopur. It felt like fire! Took three tries for me, but the final result is sleeping next to me right now. She turned 11 years old a month ago. :). Enjoy it! The time goes too fast.
@@Courtney_Blake they grow up so fast! My 2 oldest have autism. Kiddos with disabilities have struggles, but they seem more precious to love. Much love!💜🖤
@@mom23js I’m sure you are, but make sure you give the neurotypical siblings lots of extra support too depending on if the older ones are low functioning or not. As a younger sibling who loves my brother with my whole heart and now is his secondary guardian and one of his main caregivers, I’ve seen many low-functioning families fall apart due to the other kids feeling like they don’t get enough attention. Unfortunately, nearly every family we keep in touch with has a child that becomes estranged due to resentment in adulthood. Much love ❤️
My husband is a donor here in the US but we aren't having children ourselves due to my reproductive health complications. I can't wait to adopt but watching people find success in this journey makes me so happy, I'm so glad these steps are working for people and I'm so greatful for fertility research helping the LGBTQIA+ community. Congratulations !!
I have two cousins adopted and I realized that when we were 23 years old and one of them told me, laughing at me. I replied -naaaaaah you are joking me.. Everybody thought I knew cause it wasn´t a family secret at all. For me was a funny surprise, how if they are just like my uncle and aunt in gestures, humour and likes. How is that? Life is mysterious. They are all such a bonded family. So the thing that makes you a parent is Love and care. Adoption will be great!
i have one adopted kid and two bio kids. i was so very sick (near death) and traumatized from my pregnancies, I am still working through the emotional and physical toll it took on me now that my kids are 4,5, and 6. ALSO, you get a special family day holiday to celebrate your family which is hugely awesome! I ❤️ adoption!
My mom didn't know she was pregnant with me until she was 5 months along. She had periods up until that stage, and she was used to them being spotty, so it wasn't anything new for her. Lol. Having spotting during a pregnancy is veeeeeery common. I'm so happy for you beautiful mothers. I wish you all health and happiness!
My mom had her period up until she was 8 months pregnant with me. They told her it was a psychological pregnancy...I'm 45 so technology wasn't as advanced...
As an adoptee, I love how you documented your journey! Although my parents aren’t lgbtq+, I can’t wait to see how many kids grow up loving + accepting the lgbtq+ community in the future! ❤️
Jessica saying “it’s ok baby, come back” as Claudia has hormones off camera is the most adorable and relationship goals thing I’ve ever seen. Way to support your wife! And no shade to hormone crying. It’s ROUGH.
I think you may be the only couple for whom I've watched an entire pregnancy vlog/story by because usually I'm like eh, babies - but OMG I cannot think of 2 better future parents and I'm really really SO thrilled for you both! Im so glad that this thing you really wanted is coming true!!!! So excited for you. You'll be in my thoughts!! 💗
check out a wonderful, natural home birth on a channel called Talasbuan, a Swedish couple who live in a cabin, the true off the grid life, so moving... Namaste Z.
Omg I am such a hugh fan. This is unreal I was literally just reading the comments and you were probably the last person I expected to see. I love your videos
Seeing Jesse cry made this so real and how hard the processes is and how brave you both are for sharing all of the Real parts of it and not just sugarcoating everything so thank you so so much. Watching this in the future and you too are amazing parents❤️❤️🏳️🌈
As a bisexual woman with EDS and being disabled it’s Actually really nice to see someone else with it that is supporting somebody else physically. Its very sweet to see that even we can be the “strong one” in a situation like this.
@@gn8060 She has (as far as I can remember) two genetic disorders, one of which I think is is EDS?? She has lots of videos about it if you want to know !
@Juicy MamaLove just because you’re a sad, angry, hateful excuse for a human being doesn’t mean everyone else doesn’t care. You’re the outlier, my guy. Honestly, why even say that aside from to hurt strangers’ feelings? That’s a super pathetic hobby. You should really find a better one because honestly you’re not even good at this one.
This reminds me of my husband and my journey through infertility. My son will be 34 yo the end of this month and my twin girls turned 31 in November. All IVF. This just back all the emotions. I got pregnant on our 3rd and 4th tries. Being pregnant was one of the best times of my life! Enjoy every moment!
"I am very, very excited, but at the same time kind of terrified.." Yeah, my kids are 22 and 17....i will let you know when that feeling passes.... 😁 Congrats!
My mom was inseminated for both me and my brother. My dad didn't want biological children (for major health issues), but they both decided to look into other options as my mom felt put on this earth solely to be a mother. This really helps me understand what they went through to put me into this world. I'm so excited for you two!
After 5 years of trying, failed IUI and finally a successful IVF, I can now categorically say that I got the children I was meant to have when I was meant to have them - but that’s sooo easy to say in hindsight. So much of the stress and devastation of this video took me right back to that time 😭 One thing I would say - you are entirely permitted to complain about the negative things, even with a baby you’ve fought and longed so much for. The struggle to conceive does not mean you are obligated to love every minute - and that is doubly true once baby arrives! Take care, be super kind to yourselves and massive congratulations! 🥰
For everyone of us who has struggled with fertility, I know that it is difficult to speak of the 'failures.' The popping of that bubble of hope smashes us down into despair, and speaking of it brings us right back to when we fell, and we feel that something is wrong with us, but do not believe that you must suffer alone. Jessica and Claudia, thank you for showing your pain. You could have edited it out, and each time we saw the fall was a little deeper and sharper. I wanted to reach out and give you both a hug saying, "I know. I understand." So this is my hug to all who are still struggling, and a retrospective hug to those who have suffered. I agree with Becky, Complaining about the bad parts does not make you ungrateful! Congratulations! And I am happy that Claudia is feeling better. Unexpected symptoms are terrifying!
Totally the same. Don't ever want to get pregnant and have something growing in me But they are so happy and the kid will be loved very much. So I'm happy for them
I’m a young lesbian and I’ve always been scared to have children even though I really want them and this has given me so much hope. Thank you guys so much for being so amazing! Congratulations!!!!!!
Saw video "we've been keeping a secret" me thinking "har har everyone's gonna think their pregnant" then changes thumbnail to showing the scans "AHHHHH YEEESSSSS"
It’s so crazy to me how some people can get pregnant on accident not even trying and yet people who try so hard because they want to baby so bad have to go through this much stress. My heart goes out to you! Congratulations love y’all!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My mom was also trying very hard and the moment she stopped trying she got pregnant maybe it is easier to get pregnant if you don't focus and stress on it too much you have the best chances. That is my guess but it is not medically based at all only my thoughts.
I got pregnant at 19 even though I had an implant but couldn't keep the baby even though I wanted to (I was very ill) But now, my fiancé and I have been trying for 2 years with no success...
It's also because the people who get pregnant by accident are usually younger like late teens early 20s, whereas people who feel prepared to have kids are usually older like late 20s early 30s, and unfortunately a lot of time fertility is best when you're younger :(
Ok, Claudia is a major badass. What an intensive process, and she just tackled it head on! Congrats, ladies. We're all here rooting for your growing family!
Seeing Jessica tear up because all she wants is to be a mom is...heartwarming and heart breaking all at once. I'm so happy IVF worked and you guys are on this journey together 🤍
When Jessica cried because the test was negative, I couldn't help but cry every time too! I'm so happy for these two wonderful women having a baby. Congrats!
I’m a gay American Sign Language interpreter and seeing this brings tears of pure happiness to my eyes! Congratulations to you and your gorgeous lady!! ❤️🤟🏻
I honestly never want kids and the thought of being a mom gives me panic attacks but my heart melted when she said she couldn't stop crying because she wasn't a mom. She and Claudia are going to be the best, most supportive moms ever, I can tell already. So happy for you guys!
i wonder if its harder on lesbians when they go a year and a half without success, cause straight couples can easily take that long before making a baby and they'd normally only go for fertility treatment after many years, but they gotta start on it right away and get invested in each attempt and monitor and plan and test and test again
@@Crosshill I definitely think the amount of effort and resources contributes. I also wonder if it has to do with lesbians being about to plan exactly when to start trying, so they’re already in “I want a kid so bad right this second” mode. Straight couples can try for a kid whenever the mood strikes (not saying they do, just saying they can), and don’t have to pick the exact right moment due to life stage, time, money, etc. Lesbians are invested deeply from the start because they have to be.
I never wanna have babies but tears came to my eyes when you finally got pregnant, I was so happy that it happened. Congratulations!! On the lesbian moms video I was gonna comment that Claudia looked like she was pregnant but I thought it'd be rude but I'm glad it was actually true. Congratulations again!
I've had several genetic disabilities diagnosed six years ago and I decided that children properly wouldn't be an option for me, but recently I realised how much I want kids one day. I could cry, this shows me that with the right person, I could still have a child with someone I love. Thank you for sharing this intimate time 💗💗💗
@@Spencer1Anne I saw a creator trying to avoid putting the word in the description for algorithm reasons and I thought it was funny so I’ve been using it.
HOLY HELL OUR LESBIAN MOMS ARE ACTUALLY MOMS NOW!! And a huge congratulations on your pregnancy, lovelies!! You’ll be world class moms, we all know it! X
The worst pregnancy pain for me was NOT when my hips separated to prepare for birth... it was after birth when they went BACK TOGETHER! No one tells you about this!
@@KpopLover1013 No, dilation is when your cervix opens during birth. One of the hormones your body releases causes your joints and ligaments to loosen up. Your pelvis separates to make room to push a baby out. After you give birth, it needs to tighten back up.
IVF medication be like: you’re not getting pregnant? Have you tried turning it off and on again?
Nooo 😂😂
Are you sure it's plugged in?
@@laidikirsta9122 🤣
IT baby
LMAO
i love how half of us in this comment section are gays who don't even want children but we watched the entire thing anyway
I feel seen
You didn’t have to get personal about it lmao jk jk I’m just so happy for them
10000% true
I’m straight, don’t want any children, and watched the whole thing 😂
you are absolutely correct
The amount of vintage clothing this child is going to wear excites me
If they want to, yes!
Most glamorous baby ever! LOL
😂👌🏻
@@lizmowrey9866 i mean as a baby-toddler they kinda dont have a choice 😂
@@TraDLaw. They start to be old enough by three to pick their own clothes, so they are going to have to take advantage while there's still time!
Is it weird that I wish we would be able to send this video back in time to show gay couples in history that this is what the future will be like
I even want,to send,it back to them when they were crying about the rounds not working so they could see their baby happens
As someone who doesn’t personally want children I don’t normally care about pregnancy announcements but this made me so excited. They are going to be incredible mothers.
same. i love how happy these two are. they're gonna do great.
so relatable! i am terrified of tiny babies and pregnant people but this make me scream of joy
Same here 😃
Ditto. I gave it considerable thought actually, as a transgender person. Before my starting T and again before my surgeries.I considered even tho I don’t want a kid today will I ever want to have kids? Even when I was a kid myself I thought adoption was a great plan in an overpopulated world, so I decided even if I changed my mind in the future and wanted kids, we Could go the adoption route. But it wasn’t easy coming to that conclusion. Even so... we never changed our minds, we would rather be related to someone who has kids and borrow their kids occasionally to spoil them, (I’m told I’m an excellent uncle) then go home to our cats and dog. So who would think I’d be excited about someone’s baby announcement who isn’t related to me? But...I know how much they wanted this, and how intentional having children can be in queer relationships. I think maybe that’s why it’s doubly exciting. We know they really want this. It’s not like someone’s condom broke and oops should we keep it?
Same. I have no desire for children but seeing the emotion you both experienced in the process was extremely touching.
Everything is a sign of pregnancy. My husband has a “mystery” illness and if you look up any of the symptoms online he’s pregnant. At this point i just ask him when he’s due.
Omg congratulations!🥳😀
Ahaha as someone who had a “mystery” illness for 6 years and has only got my diagnosis this year I definitely relate to this every time I was at hospital is their any chance you could be pregnant? Me : I’m in the pill a lesbian and painfully single so no no there isn’t any chance
@@cocobone5127 Oh man yeah I know that feeling too! As a teenage girl with undiagnosed Crohn's Disease I was so sick of that question lol
@@Sophie_Cleverly lol same except I have ulcerative colitis. It was just me *laughing in lesbian*
HA!😂
As a young lesbian, this video made me cry. I’ve never actually seen this process before and I had a moment of, “this could be my future.” Of course, it wouldn’t be me because, well, disability, but still. This was so beautiful. Congratulations!!
It can. Like Jessica, your partner can carry the baby and disabled people parent all the time!
Who knows what your future might bring.
same it honestly gave me hope in the world
I'd say research your disabilities, one of mine(which is actually one of my most dangerous ones) has no known cause and no genetic causes. Ofc not saying you have o be the one to get pregnant if you just don't want to or just don't want to take any risks, but don't let a disability make you go 'nope not getting pregnant' if you are genuinely okay with it other than your disability.
If you don’t mind me asking, what disability do you have
As a 45 year old lesbian, I couldn’t make it through the video.
This was a whole movie. I never quite understood infertility and pregnancy stories, especially the emotions. Honestly, I thought “How could someone want a baby that much?”. But this has helped me understand, now I wonder “How could I cry over someone else’s baby story?” 😂 Thank you so much for sharing this. Love y’all.
This is absolutely wholesome
Definitely heard “got my wife some spam” and was like canned meat? That’s a cool gift I suppose. Congratulations on your new little love.
I thought the same thing lol
Im so glad I'm not the only one!
Same!
Oh, I'm not the only one!
Hahahaha same! Took me a good 20 seconds to realise what the hell Jess was talking about! 🤣🤣🤣
My ex husband and I tried to get pregnant for 10 years. Holy fuck I do NOT miss all of the ovulation tests and meds and shots and ultrasounds and blood draws and deciding e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g is an early pregnancy symptom... GAH.
We got pregnant 7 times but miscarried them all because of an unknown genetic issue I have that wasn't discovered until our last loss :(
I am SO fucking excited for you both and can't wait to continue to love and support you both 💖
CONGRATULATIONS 😍❤️
Oh my gosh, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending love your way🥰
Sending prayers, good energy, hopes, wishes and lots of love to you. That you can cheer for others even when faced with your own pain says a lot about you and the type of mom you will hopefully get to be some day. Even if you don't go through birthing, I still hope you'll continue to love and support those around you. That's mothering on a huge level! Thank you for being awesome.
So sorry to hear 😞
I know I’m 2 years late but thank you for sharing your story. I hope you and your husband are doing well. I’m so sorry you went through so much loss I truly hope you are doing well
I'm so sorry, pregnancy loss can be so hard. My SIL acted as a pregnancy carrier for a couple who dealt with several pregnancy losses with the last one being very traumatic for both parents, so they knew that even though they still wanted a bio kid it wouldn't be possible for the mom to carry because of the trauma of it.
Jessica: I have a secret
Also Jessica : puts secret in thumbnail
That's when you are far too exited about things. That's how I announce secrets as well.
Makes me terrible at telling jokes as well lol
I think I remember the thumbnail was different when this was first posted and she updated it once it was settled that most people knew what the video was about.
I like the thumbnail made it clear what the video was going to be about
Yeah! Did we thank Jessica for that „spoiler“ yet? A very genuine thanks. For news like this it really helps to know it has a happy ... end beat, for that video at least. Even though it‘s rather the beginning, actually.😊
I really appreciated the thumbnail being "spoilerific" myself!
This is literally the only pregnancy announcement I ever cared about in my life this is AMAZING
AS SOON AS I SAW THIS COMMENT I ACTUALLY WHISPER SHOUTED "I KNEW IT!!" BECAUSE I KNEW IT JUST HAD TO BE ABOUT PREGNANCY
This and RawBeautyKristy's announcement for me 😊
Same here! I almost cried haha
SAME THIS AND ROSE AND ROSIES
Yes absolutely true! I teared up and I normally never do. So happy for you Jessica and Claudia!
Thank you so much for watching- this was quite an edit to put together!
Can't wait to go on this amazing journey and share it with you, Jessica and Claudia xxx
Congratulations! I'm so excited for you, you'll be amazing mothers. Best wishes for the future ❤
I just saw your Instagram post!!!!
Hurray!!!!!! Hahahahaha Yes!!!!
Congratulations! I'm SO happy for y'all!
I went through 11 years of infertility before my first pregnancy. It is crazy making. Now, my kids are 16 & 14!
Omg what a beautiful BEAUTIFUL video!!!!! I loved watching it so much and wished it would never end . Congratulations!!!
"I bought my wife... some *_SPAM._* There's no non-weird way to say that."
That one took me a minute to adjust to the accent, i'm sorry. Seriously thought you guys were building shelves prepping to organize a massive stock of Spam.
XD I also heard spam and was quite confused
Same
I.. I'm glad someone said it. I was waiting for her to laugh or a cut. But no. And now I'm saying it loud and trying to hear it from an American/Canadian perspective because I'm a kiwi. It sounds pretty similar? Lol
I also heard Spam 😂🤦♀️ and I'm from England as well.
American/Canadian here. I heard “Spam”
It’s just to perfect that the lesbian moms, are having a baby during pride month
True! I hadn't even realised!
Biggest birthday celebrations ever. *explodes with joy *
Very appropriate!
One rainbow baby with 2 amazing mums 🏳️🌈
I hadn’t even realised 😃
As a lesbian who lost her left ovary and fallopian tube to a rare ovarian cancer when I was a teen, this gives me so much hope that I will be a mother one day.
I really, really wish you so, from the bottom of my heart
I’m cheering you on from Sweden 🇸🇪!
I really hope it happens for you.
I pray you get your wish someday!
Wishing you luck from canada
"For Christmas 2019 I bought my wife… some sperm" was honestly the best way to start this video 😂😂😂😂
I'm so so so so happy for you, congratulations!!!
Loved Jess saying "I just really want a baby" and to think little Roo might see this one day. You guys are such a good moms
Oh I actually cried when they got the positive test. A couple years ago I donated my eggs, and watching this made me realise how happy I've made someone who otherwise wouldn't have been able to conceive. Big congratulations you guys
Thank you for your most precious gift. ✨💛
Thank you for giving such a wonderful gift.
Thank you! You have definitely changed somone life for the better!
So much respect for you! It's a crazy intense process. It's awesome that you did. I was hoping to but because I have endometriosis they won't take mine sadly.
Yeah I got emotional too. Unfortunately I have health issues and with my husband we won't be able to have a kid of our own. We are looking into adoption, also because we are starting to be old (38 and 39 this year). I just really wished things had gone differently for us
The moment I saw the thumbnail I was like "they're pregnant!"
I think this is the first time I've ever been excited for a pregnancy announcement in my entire life. Warm congratulations to both! 💛
I also was extremely excited for Rose and Rosie! I just love lgbtq families so much
That was my thought too! So happy for them! :)
💯
SAME every other pregnancy announcement i’m indifferent but this had me jumping for joy
I thought that too
My adhd ass really watched this 100% uninterrupted because I'm just That invested
omgosh same!!
Good for you👌❤
Same lol
Same
Same but the ads about KILLED ME lol
I have literally no idea who this person is, but I watched anyways because I'm always happy to see more lgbt+ creators, makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside as a gay man
Jessie and Claud are wonderful people. I definitely recommend joining their community
Same, but as a straight woman.
In summary: Jessica and Claudia are the real life version of Princess Bubblegum and Marceline.
Same!
@@annieyu72 the community loves allies
youtube recommended this to me for some reason and now, 40 minutes later, i am feeling very attached to these women and their unborn baby
I would die for these two women and their unborn baby
Same
Same!🥰
listen i am 4 minutes in and feeling that
Stay for a while!
"I bought my wife some sperm" ICONIC also I am sobbing, we're all so proud of and happy for you!!!! You're going to be the most loving mothers :)))))
🤣
I definitely thought they said Spam! And as a vintage Brit, that would be right on brand, so for the next few minutes I still carried on watching the video completely clueless 😂😂😂
YAY!! So happy for you, you’re both amazing 💛💛💛
AHH YES, THE DINOSAUR-LOVING DIVINITY IS HERE
jAmiE the god of memes has arrived! Tell shaaba hi
JAMIE!
Can't wait for baby to meet uncle Jamie and auntie Shaba!
I just came from Shaaba's video on people's announcements, so you primed me for this vid. 😂
EDIT: Shaaba's not pregnant, they were just looking through announcements.
A closeted gay guy from Malaysia is rooting for you two. I cried when u cried in the video. All the best for your future 😍😍😍😍😍😍
I hope you have a chance to live your best life one day.
@@drshaynescott Thank you for the kind words. I hope so too🥺
Malaysian here too!
Love and support from Michigan in the states ! I hope your able to be true and live the life you so truly deserve ! Remind yourself that its not your job to make everyone happy and at the end of the day your happiness is whats important. Anyone who truly cares about you will find a way to accept you and be happy for you regardless of their stance on things! 🤍🖤🤎💜💙💚💛🧡🌍🙏🏽
Much love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm having a lot of fun with the automatic captions: "gonna help the ovaries produce lots of legs"
Congratulations Mrs and Mrs Kellgren-Fozard!
It's a spider!
@@zealferal that was my favorite
@@zealferal you win
Hopefully just two legs ☺️
😂 HA
I'm a sperm donor kid from a single mom so this is super cool for me to see from the parent perspective!
I was so rooting for the 4th try, different donor would work cuz that's exactly how I happened. Three tries with a guy who my mom look liked failed, fourth try with a "perfect match" guy and it stuck first try. I'm so sorry that that didn't work out for y'all but congrats to you two!
Do you miss having a Dad? I’m just curious. Someone I know is contemplating using a sperm donor to conceive because she hasn’t met the right guy and she’s 35 years old. Thanks for sharing your story.
@@remmary100 can't miss what you never had! Honestly, I had a really fulfilling childhood. My mom worked full-time but her best friend would watch me after school and stuff. The only time I ever felt different was when my school had "Me and My Guy Night," but that just makes me wish school would consider that lots of people don't have a "guy." I didn't have a brother, or close uncles; two years that afforementioned best friend dressed up as a guy to take me. I think it's more about the quality of parents than the quantity. I would say if she has the support system, absolutely go for it. my mom had me later than 35 so it's definitely not too late either
That's actually really cool, that might be something I consider it the future. I'm in my early twenties, so I've got some time to find somebody still 😅
Same for me
imagine when the baby watches this and realizes that nearly 300,000 people were so exciting for they/them to arrive
Edit: English is not my first language and in my country we have other inclusive pronouns so I didn’t know what they were in English but now I do. In Spanish is “le” and I bet most of you didn’t know but that’s not a reason to be mean to someone
Them
Using them works just as well as him/her, and it normalizes using the singular them which helps a lot of people :)
It.
@@dantefloressq thats what i was thinking!
Baby already has a huge fanbase :D I'm so happy to see these two become mums!
Congrats! I was one of the first people in my town to be a biological child of lesbians and I’m very excited to see this cute baby!
Hun, if someone EVER insult you for that, just ignore them alright. Hope for the best for you.
I feel so happy for them. They are so persistent, confident and caring. Also I feel less weird when a gay couple says "we're pregnant"
Can’t think of a more deserving couple!!! Cried like a baby when the pregnancy test was positive :,)
Same! 😭😍😭😍😭😍
I didn't cry but I do remember how overwhelming that joy is. Finally seeing the two lines. I'm so happy for them!
Me too and I was watching it in a cafe at a major shopping centre
SPOILEEEEER I JUST CLICK ON THE VIDEOOOO 😭😭😭😭 IM SO HAPPY 🎉🎉🎉
@@ceroseven4623 if the title is suggesting a surprise you should NOT read comments until you know what it is.
Our lesbian moms are finally moms, I'm not crying you are ;-;
I'm so happy for them
You’re right I am crying! 😭 I’m so happy for them
We are all crying
hello it me yes I am crying
This is the dramatic clickbate title that a lot of vloggers use to pretend that the secret is something massive and I was like 'No way jessica uses that trope, they must actually be doing something big' and I was soooo wonderfully right❤️ Congratulations!!
the fact that jessie and claud & rose and rosie are pregnant at the same time is TOO MUCH for my lesbian heart to handle
imagine if their children met and were friends😢😢
Links to those other creators pls? I wanna know more budding gay parents :3
@@cheesecakelasagna I’m just replying so I get an alert when someone responds to your question
@@cheesecakelasagna @Natalie Basin here is a link to Rose and Rosie's video about their current baby if you have not seen it. There's also some older videos about their first baby (they lost) which are also moving. ua-cam.com/video/RLkb3dl8MSw/v-deo.html
Hearing Jess say she just wants to be a mum is the most heartbreaking thing. You can just see how badly they wanted this and I just KNOW that baby is gonna be the most loved in the world!
My wife and I were literally in tears when they got the result! We’re currently in the “trying” stage and this video definitely helps spark hope
i hope that everything will be alright for both you and your wife♡♡♡♡
Best wishes and sending all the luck your way! Hang in there!
Best of luck!!
good luck to both of you, don't lose ur hope !!
Good luck !!
Congratulations, as someone in hetro relationship (male side), who's experienced more than 10 miscarriages but now have a beautiful child, I can understand the anguish of waiting for all the results.
wow 10 miscarriages is a lot to go through. i can't imagine. so happy you and your wife have a wonderful child now!
rainbow babies are such a gift. 10 miscarriages must be so much to go through but I'm so glad you are happy!
When my husband and I first started dating, I accidentally clicked the wrong area of Craigslist and saw a post looking for a known donor for a lesbian couple. It was like they were describing my husband and the couple reminded me of my mom's cousin and her partner that couldn't afford the standard insemination routes available long ago. Anyhow, he is a known donor to a lovely young lady. Our son and I had a chance to meet her .....and she had his personality and you'd have thought our kids were raised together. Anyhow, I just found your channel but I'm so excited for you both! You'll make amazing parents!
Oh...and my birthday is 6/12 so I'm rooting for that date!
What a marvelous gift he gave to them! Babies are so wonderful. 😍
@@juniper3238 It has also been an unforseen gift for both of our families! All of this took place when my husband and I had only been a couple for a few months. Stumbling upon the ad, realizing that what they were looking for in a known donor matched my boyfriend at the time, and remembering the heartache my mom's cousin had while trying to find a known donor that was affordable for her and her partner.....I felt it was a sign and had to at least ask if he'd be willing to give such a precious gift to complete strangers.
Fast forward a couple years into our relationship, while pregnant with our first child, I was t-boned by a semi and haven't been in good enough health to handle a second pregnancy since this accident (16.5 years ago). The two moms have since split up but prior to that we did donate a second time (unsuccessful) and left the option open to both of them even after they separated. We both ended up only being able to conceive one child. While our communication is limited and she lives primarily in Israel, my son and I have met her twice and my husband met her on the second visit. I love that they have the option to have a sibling relationship at any point and in any capacity. Ironically, despite being raised in two separate households and in different parts of the world (her primarily in Israel, he in the SF Bay), they both have the same sense of humor, are wildly creative, and got along as if they'd known one another their whole lives. Both had wanted a sibling so, hopefully, they are able to connect and grow closer once they are older.
@@naynerboppers5254gosh what a wonderful heartwarming story! Hope you are doing ok after being in the accident
I saw the title and yelled "OMG lesbian mom's are having a baby"
Congratulations, I'm so happy for you
Seeing the baby being wanted and loved even before it was actually confirmed is so, so heartwarming. I honestly cried, I'm glad the baby will grow as a wanted child and with lots of love!
This is so very important 👏💕
52yo man here. I have a 26yo daughter. I had to pause when I saw the two lines, there were all these tears coming out! Thank you for sharing the process!
that's so sweet omg
Awwww that’s so heartwarming
Sitting here nursing my 3.5 month crying. My husband and I tried for 5 years, experienced loss, before having our beautiful daughter in September.
Wishing you all the best. ❤❤
Congrats on your baby girl 🥰🥰🥰
Congratulations! You sound like you deserve it more than most ❤️❤️❤️
My daughter and her wife got pregnant in August. Their donor is the twin of my daughter too. I saw his toddler picture and it was uncanny. She took on her second try and in less than a week had symptoms of pregnancy. I am so happy for you guys, for all of us really. Congratulations.
Omg how genetically perfect this story is!! I love this story 💗 congrats Grandma xxxxxx
if only every baby was as wanted and loved as theirs, the world would be amazing...
Agreed but lmao edgelord 101 (I'm not being rude i just dont know why you made it so depressing xD)
tbh it's still strange that even same sex couple turn to pregnancy insted of adopting
@@eleonoralamarca1447 this way at least one of the parents is biologically related to the parent and they still go through the birth process together
@Ryell Gear are you questioning every same sex couple you know why they didn't just adopt? For some people, having a biological child or going through the process of child birth is important - doesn't matter their sexual orientation.
@Ryell Gear Did your parents choose to have you out of vanity? Are you a parent? How many children have you adopted?
I'm not saying it's necessarily right or wrong - I think more people *should* adopt. But some don't want to and I don't think we should shame couples for that. I'm sure that this couple would love an adopted baby just as much, but it's just a personal choice the route people want to take to parenthood. I don't think anyone brought up that a biological child would be loved any more than an adopted child.
I'm not a parent so I can't really judge. All I know is I'm not going to judge anyone for how they choose to have children. And I'm certainly not going to hold same sex couples to a higher standard when it comes to adoption over having biological children (As @Eleonora La Marca seems to have suggested in their comment above).
I can’t be the only one who heard “I got my wife some Spam”. I was so confused. At first I thought “pregnancy craving? Weird”.
That's what I heard, too!
That’s what I heard as well 🤷♀️
lmao same
Exactly what I thought too
Honestly, that would be a very strange way of announcing baby, but it wouldn’t be the oddest thing ever said on this channel, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. Congratulations and good luck to the mummys! I hope Claudia continues to feel a lot better now the second trimester is kicking in!
The heightened smell is honestly like the worst imaginable super power.
It's funny because I normally have a sweet tooth but whike I was pregnant I craved hummus and brown rice, and kiwis. After my son was born it was like a switch flipped and I went back to wanting chocolate. 😂
I cried happy tears when you finally got that first positive test result. I am so excited for you both, I genuinely can't imagine two better people raising a child.
My pregnant co-worker said she had to fight herself not to eat the cat's wet food because it smelled wonderful to her. Lol
My resolution for 2021 is that Jessica will never apologize for her natural makeup-free and lovely self again
When Claudia pointed at a vial and said, "This one hurts," I cringed. Menopur. It felt like fire! Took three tries for me, but the final result is sleeping next to me right now. She turned 11 years old a month ago. :). Enjoy it! The time goes too fast.
My oldest turned 11 Christmas eve.. congratulations!
@@mom23js My only son will be 10 this year! And he has EDS!
@@Courtney_Blake they grow up so fast! My 2 oldest have autism. Kiddos with disabilities have struggles, but they seem more precious to love. Much love!💜🖤
@@mom23js More to love and understand, grow with and that bond is forever no matter what!
@@mom23js I’m sure you are, but make sure you give the neurotypical siblings lots of extra support too depending on if the older ones are low functioning or not. As a younger sibling who loves my brother with my whole heart and now is his secondary guardian and one of his main caregivers, I’ve seen many low-functioning families fall apart due to the other kids feeling like they don’t get enough attention. Unfortunately, nearly every family we keep in touch with has a child that becomes estranged due to resentment in adulthood. Much love ❤️
“Trending on Gaming” clearly the very obvious gaming content every hardcore gamer is looking for. (Congrats btw)
gayming
@@rodhasmana7306 xd
@@rodhasmana7306 r/technicallytrue :P jk
My husband is a donor here in the US but we aren't having children ourselves due to my reproductive health complications. I can't wait to adopt but watching people find success in this journey makes me so happy, I'm so glad these steps are working for people and I'm so greatful for fertility research helping the LGBTQIA+ community. Congratulations !!
Adoption will be amazing!! ❤❤
In support of adoption too!!
I have two cousins adopted and I realized that when we were 23 years old and one of them told me, laughing at me. I replied -naaaaaah you are joking me.. Everybody thought I knew cause it wasn´t a family secret at all. For me was a funny surprise, how if they are just like my uncle and aunt in gestures, humour and likes. How is that? Life is mysterious. They are all such a bonded family. So the thing that makes you a parent is Love and care. Adoption will be great!
i have one adopted kid and two bio kids. i was so very sick (near death) and traumatized from my pregnancies, I am still working through the emotional and physical toll it took on me now that my kids are 4,5, and 6. ALSO, you get a special family day holiday to celebrate your family which is hugely awesome!
I ❤️ adoption!
What a sweet comment. I wish you the best of luck with adopting. 😊
My mom didn't know she was pregnant with me until she was 5 months along. She had periods up until that stage, and she was used to them being spotty, so it wasn't anything new for her. Lol. Having spotting during a pregnancy is veeeeeery common.
I'm so happy for you beautiful mothers. I wish you all health and happiness!
My mom had her period up until she was 8 months pregnant with me. They told her it was a psychological pregnancy...I'm 45 so technology wasn't as advanced...
Jessica and Klaudia are pregnant, Rose and Rosie are pregnant and Jamie and Shaaba are getting married. I’m so happy
Who are the other two couples?
@@mahfuzamaisha2213 Jamie is a trans youtuber (he's called Jamiedodger on here I think) and Shaaba is his soon to be wife
@@Emma-kw1nx thanks!
That's wonderful!
Dan and Phil adopted a pigeon...you know that actually makes sence for them...
If you’d ever like to adopt a 21 year old, please consider my application 🥺
Felt this
Make that 24.
Make that 19 🥺
Make it two 21 year olds 😂
Add a 22 year old to the list
I told myself I wouldn’t cry but the second Jess started crying after the positive test I started bawling
Omg me too 😅
I cried when she cried at the third negative. She took it so hard!💔
As an adoptee, I love how you documented your journey! Although my parents aren’t lgbtq+, I can’t wait to see how many kids grow up loving + accepting the lgbtq+ community in the future! ❤️
For a second I thought she said "for Christmas 2019 I bought my wife some Spam" and I was so confused.
I heard that too
Same!! haha
Me too.. Even after I realized what she ment I still thought she said spam as a slang word.. 🤦♀️
same! had I not come here from the instagram announcement I would genuinely think this was about food lol
Same. I also heard spam and was like, “What’s so weird about that?” 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Jessica saying “it’s ok baby, come back” as Claudia has hormones off camera is the most adorable and relationship goals thing I’ve ever seen. Way to support your wife!
And no shade to hormone crying. It’s ROUGH.
I'm a trainee embryologist and it was so incredibly interesting to see things from the other side. So happy for you guys!
You should put "Pro Baby Maker" on your business card ;)
Nobody will ever be able to claim your baby wasn't a planned pregnancy. I'm so excited and wish your family well! Congrats!
I think you may be the only couple for whom I've watched an entire pregnancy vlog/story by because usually I'm like eh, babies - but OMG I cannot think of 2 better future parents and I'm really really SO thrilled for you both! Im so glad that this thing you really wanted is coming true!!!! So excited for you. You'll be in my thoughts!! 💗
Oh You should see Rose and Rosie announcement
ikr I really don't like kids so I don't watch anything about them but I'm just super Happy these two finally get to have their baby
Same. I don't like babies or baby anything. But I'm genuinely happy for these two. ❤
check out a wonderful, natural home birth on a channel called Talasbuan, a Swedish couple who live in a cabin, the true off the grid life, so moving... Namaste Z.
SAME!! I'm just so happy for them!
I love how this video is about babies AND eyebrows
Edit: I'm not crying....
well I AM!!!! :)
I cried in sadness over and over with you, and then literally kicked my feet squealing and crying in happiness for you both. Congratulations!!!
Omg I am such a hugh fan. This is unreal I was literally just reading the comments and you were probably the last person I expected to see. I love your videos
omg nexjen so happy to see you on here! love your channel
Me too
Did not expect you to watch this video, but you are a lady of good taste, hence the good content!
@@abigailfritts6424 thank you so much, I love this channel and have been here for forever. So happy to hear from you.
Seeing Jesse cry made this so real and how hard the processes is and how brave you both are for sharing all of the Real parts of it and not just sugarcoating everything so thank you so so much. Watching this in the future and you too are amazing parents❤️❤️🏳️🌈
My old account lol still true ❤❤❤❤
Oh my god I read the title and I was like ‘is she pregnant? that would be amazing I hope she’s pregnant’ and I’m so happy for you!
Me too!
Same here omg
same!!
Yep!
Me too!!!
As a bisexual woman with EDS and being disabled it’s Actually really nice to see someone else with it that is supporting somebody else physically. Its very sweet to see that even we can be the “strong one” in a situation like this.
How is she disabled? (I'm new)
@@gn8060 She has (as far as I can remember) two genetic disorders, one of which I think is is EDS?? She has lots of videos about it if you want to know !
@@gn8060
Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (EDS), and Tomaculous Neuropathy (HNPP).
@Juicy MamaLove just because you’re a sad, angry, hateful excuse for a human being doesn’t mean everyone else doesn’t care. You’re the outlier, my guy. Honestly, why even say that aside from to hurt strangers’ feelings? That’s a super pathetic hobby. You should really find a better one because honestly you’re not even good at this one.
Literally cried as hard as Jessica at the positive pregnancy test
25:39 was the gushing tears sitting in this parking lot.
I really didnt think I would cry, but I completely did 😭 so moving
Same!
@@carrieanneatreides6240 i cried there too 😭 I’m exited though!!
This reminds me of my husband and my journey through infertility. My son will be 34 yo the end of this month and my twin girls turned 31 in November. All IVF. This just back all the emotions. I got pregnant on our 3rd and 4th tries. Being pregnant was one of the best times of my life! Enjoy every moment!
I refuse to cry in a Walmart parking lot and this video is really testing me rn
Just look at the expiration dates kn the food and u can use that as an excuse
I’m at the supermarket parking lot. 😘😘😘🤧😪❤️❤️❤️🌱🌱
@@laurena5502 i choked on my drink 😂 this is golden.
"I am very, very excited, but at the same time kind of terrified.." Yeah, my kids are 22 and 17....i will let you know when that feeling passes.... 😁 Congrats!
My wife and I are pregnant too!!! We did two rounds of IUI and got lucky on the second try. Our due dates are only a week apart!
Congratulations ❤
That’s so cool! I pray the best for you and your wife!
So happy for you! Any advice? We have our consultation on Thursday!
Congratulations!!!
Congratulations!
My mom was inseminated for both me and my brother. My dad didn't want biological children (for major health issues), but they both decided to look into other options as my mom felt put on this earth solely to be a mother. This really helps me understand what they went through to put me into this world. I'm so excited for you two!
After 5 years of trying, failed IUI and finally a successful IVF, I can now categorically say that I got the children I was meant to have when I was meant to have them - but that’s sooo easy to say in hindsight. So much of the stress and devastation of this video took me right back to that time 😭 One thing I would say - you are entirely permitted to complain about the negative things, even with a baby you’ve fought and longed so much for. The struggle to conceive does not mean you are obligated to love every minute - and that is doubly true once baby arrives! Take care, be super kind to yourselves and massive congratulations! 🥰
For everyone of us who has struggled with fertility, I know that it is difficult to speak of the 'failures.' The popping of that bubble of hope smashes us down into despair, and speaking of it brings us right back to when we fell, and we feel that something is wrong with us, but do not believe that you must suffer alone. Jessica and Claudia, thank you for showing your pain. You could have edited it out, and each time we saw the fall was a little deeper and sharper. I wanted to reach out and give you both a hug saying, "I know. I understand." So this is my hug to all who are still struggling, and a retrospective hug to those who have suffered. I agree with Becky, Complaining about the bad parts does not make you ungrateful!
Congratulations! And I am happy that Claudia is feeling better. Unexpected symptoms are terrifying!
I SWEAR I HEARD AMELIA KELLGREN-FOZARD and that name flows so lovely, but I'm certain any name you two choose will be delightful. 💗
That is such a beautiful name!! 💜💜
I LOVE that!!! Like it with an E too ☆
I mean, yes that’s a beautiful name, but I’m 90% sure she said “a mini Kellgren-Fozard” 😅
@@WilhelmineClementine agree. It was "a mini"
That is a lovely name however I am pretty sure they said mini kellgren fozard
I don’t ever want a baby and pregnancy seems like a nightmare but this is SO CUTE.. I’m so happy for them 🥺
I’m the same 😆 this is NOT for me and for sure nowhere in my future. But I’m so happy for them 😊
Samesies. I'm so delighted they're having a kid, even though I have no interest in having one myself
Totally the same. Don't ever want to get pregnant and have something growing in me
But they are so happy and the kid will be loved very much. So I'm happy for them
Same same. Got lucky that my girlfriend is willing to bear the baby tho and been asking me for a whole month now. =///
Same pregnancy for me seems like a horror story but when I think about it for others who truly want it, I just feel immense joy, hope and happiness!!!
These two have the healthiest relationship bond of all the lesbian couples I've watched on UA-cam
#goals
Oh, you just haven't met the Internet's Canadian god-mothers Teya and Kristin (and goblin son Bingus) yet 🤓
ua-cam.com/video/-qWkMwsbchc/v-deo.html
I’m a young lesbian and I’ve always been scared to have children even though I really want them and this has given me so much hope. Thank you guys so much for being so amazing! Congratulations!!!!!!
Instant tears when they took that first positive test.
Saw video "we've been keeping a secret" me thinking "har har everyone's gonna think their pregnant" then changes thumbnail to showing the scans "AHHHHH YEEESSSSS"
It’s so crazy to me how some people can get pregnant on accident not even trying and yet people who try so hard because they want to baby so bad have to go through this much stress. My heart goes out to you! Congratulations love y’all!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Well, a 16yo me was not ready for a child whatsoever
My mom was also trying very hard and the moment she stopped trying she got pregnant maybe it is easier to get pregnant if you don't focus and stress on it too much you have the best chances. That is my guess but it is not medically based at all only my thoughts.
I got pregnant at 19 even though I had an implant but couldn't keep the baby even though I wanted to (I was very ill)
But now, my fiancé and I have been trying for 2 years with no success...
It's also because the people who get pregnant by accident are usually younger like late teens early 20s, whereas people who feel prepared to have kids are usually older like late 20s early 30s, and unfortunately a lot of time fertility is best when you're younger :(
@@tareag993 I mean protection+plan B if the protection fails. It's not hard to avoid pregnancy
Ok, Claudia is a major badass. What an intensive process, and she just tackled it head on! Congrats, ladies. We're all here rooting for your growing family!
the sheer amount of serotonin that was released while i watched this video
Omg I’ve never seen the progress of a lesbian couple having a baby! You guys are awesome and will be the most magical parents!!
check out Rose and Rosie too. they have a UA-cam channel and a podcast, Parental Guidance
The moment that first test after the ivf comes out positive is one of the cutest and most lovely moments ever
*sees title*
*whispers to myself* "baby?!?"
Edit: baby!!! Congrats Jessie and Claud!!
I thought the same thing, I’m so happy for them! xx
I had this same feeling too! They’re going to be the best parents ❤️
Same😄❤️❤️i am happy for them🤗
GUYS OUR MOMS ARE HAVING A BABY WE’RE HAVING A SIBLING
When Jessica cries, I cry.
Omg this “moment of conception” explanation within the timeline of VidCon is the cutest thing EVER hahah
Anyone else never heard of 'VidCon'🤔??
@@lss74 it’s a convention for video creators put on by UA-cam!
Seeing Jessica tear up because all she wants is to be a mom is...heartwarming and heart breaking all at once. I'm so happy IVF worked and you guys are on this journey together 🤍
this is so beautiful! so happy for you
Omg i love your channel Tiffany! Great to find you here!
Oh my gosh Tiffany I love your content girl!
They're doing everything so well, and showing the reality of it. Warts and all(figuratively) .😉
When Jessica cried because the test was negative, I couldn't help but cry every time too! I'm so happy for these two wonderful women having a baby. Congrats!
I’m a gay American Sign Language interpreter and seeing this brings tears of pure happiness to my eyes! Congratulations to you and your gorgeous lady!! ❤️🤟🏻
I honestly never want kids and the thought of being a mom gives me panic attacks but my heart melted when she said she couldn't stop crying because she wasn't a mom. She and Claudia are going to be the best, most supportive moms ever, I can tell already. So happy for you guys!
i wonder if its harder on lesbians when they go a year and a half without success, cause straight couples can easily take that long before making a baby and they'd normally only go for fertility treatment after many years, but they gotta start on it right away and get invested in each attempt and monitor and plan and test and test again
@@Crosshill I definitely think the amount of effort and resources contributes. I also wonder if it has to do with lesbians being about to plan exactly when to start trying, so they’re already in “I want a kid so bad right this second” mode. Straight couples can try for a kid whenever the mood strikes (not saying they do, just saying they can), and don’t have to pick the exact right moment due to life stage, time, money, etc. Lesbians are invested deeply from the start because they have to be.
Omg ur pfp!!!
@@spookystars_x3037 I love yours too!!
you guys and rose and rosie are pregnant at the same time :DDDD 2021 is the year of iconic lesbian babies
You can’t forget the Ensigns, Julia and Abbie, also a red head and a brunette ironically
There was a lesbian couple I saw on Instagram as well!
I never wanna have babies but tears came to my eyes when you finally got pregnant, I was so happy that it happened. Congratulations!!
On the lesbian moms video I was gonna comment that Claudia looked like she was pregnant but I thought it'd be rude but I'm glad it was actually true. Congratulations again!
Same! I feel I'm living vicariously through Jess and Claud
It VERY rude to comment on whether someone is pregnant if they haven't announced it. Even if you think it, DON'T comment it.
Cried my eyes out when I you finally got the positive result, even watching this well after Rupert was born.
I've had several genetic disabilities diagnosed six years ago and I decided that children properly wouldn't be an option for me, but recently I realised how much I want kids one day. I could cry, this shows me that with the right person, I could still have a child with someone I love. Thank you for sharing this intimate time 💗💗💗
I read an article that said “babies are made out of love, not ‘honey I’m ovulating seggs’” and I thought of that for Jessica!
mine will be made out of both. but I've been struggling to get pregnant for years.
Are we really censoring the word 'sex' now or is seggs an actual word for something else?
@@Spencer1Anne I saw a creator trying to avoid putting the word in the description for algorithm reasons and I thought it was funny so I’ve been using it.
HOLY HELL OUR LESBIAN MOMS ARE ACTUALLY MOMS NOW!! And a huge congratulations on your pregnancy, lovelies!! You’ll be world class moms, we all know it! X
The worst pregnancy pain for me was NOT when my hips separated to prepare for birth... it was after birth when they went BACK TOGETHER! No one tells you about this!
And the rib cage returning to its normal position! So painful!
Wait what....... Is this was dilation is?? That makes me so scared...
**what dilation is
I had severe spd while I was heavily pregnant, lucky I didn’t suffer no more once she came out 😭
@@KpopLover1013 No, dilation is when your cervix opens during birth. One of the hormones your body releases causes your joints and ligaments to loosen up. Your pelvis separates to make room to push a baby out. After you give birth, it needs to tighten back up.
When she was crying and said: but maybe next time, right? It will work next time.
I got teary eyes because that was so heartbreaking🥺