What We We Learned in 2023 (Change, Advice, & Resolutions)
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- Опубліковано 26 гру 2023
- Sierra Schultzzie, Riayn Christina, & Paloma Malfavon talk about advice they needed at 25, how to avoid the comparison game, and learning to say no & be present in your twenties.
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Twenty Whatever features Sierra Schultzzie, Riayn Christina, & Paloma Malfavon talking candidly about navigating your 20's with your friends through different phases of life. (formerly Sierra Unfiltered)
What We We Learned in 2023 (Change, Advice, & Resolutions)
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"Exes Change. Doesn't mean you should get back together with them" Riayn... MY DAY JUST STARTED you don't need to call me out 😭❤
I’m 3 minutes in and I’m LIVING FOR YALLS ENERGY IM ALREADY CACKLING SIERRA SAID “THE LAW SAYS ONLY IF YOURE CHILL” 😭😭😭
Biggest thing I learned in 2023: SOCIAL MEDIA ISNT REAL! I feel like I knew this before but this year really showed me the truth. The saddest of people have the shiniest instagram page
My favorite podcast ever!! Anyone else wish they could hang with these girls in real life??? Although I'm 36 and should probably stick to friends my own age 🤣
I decluttered my entire condo doing one small space each week. It took about 10 months, but it felt so good when it was done and it was a manageable amount of time to commit per week. This year I'll be standing for 30 minutes of each work day. Happy New Year, everyone!
I am 31. I feel like I lost the race because I am so single. But you are right. I have time. Thanks for reminding me. I am the one that needed to hear it. Tell me it again.
Rather than a new years resolution I like to pick a word for the next year I'd like to be more mindful of. For example my word for 2024 is balance. And it can mean so many things: balancing my time between work and home, balancing my relaxation with my to do list, balancing being honest with myself with giving myself grace, balancing working out with taking breaks, balancing my friends/family with my own needs, etc. It feels like less pressure to me because its not one "thing" I have to do, it's more of a concept I can remind myself to incorporate into my day to day. And I can't "fail" because it's all up to me and there is no "finish line"
If Sierra ever felt comfortable enough to do an episode about her deconstruction journey I would be SO interested to hear more. Rhett and Link from GMM did a series (and now go back to that convo annually) on their deconstruction and it was really interesting/powerful. I totally understand you probably wouldn’t want to go there because it’s so personal and can be so polarizing but if you ever did, I’d listen❤
Watching the golden bachelor really opened my eyes to the BEAUTY AND OPPORTUNITY that growing old will be.
2 drinks and a water is the advice i needed and will be implementing this year
The advice I’d give to my 25 year old self is “if you’re unhappy, leave. Don’t wait until it’s too late.”
I’m still living at home, and I so badly want to move out. The thing of “you have time” really hit me. Like yes I’m 20 and living at home, but so what? I’m working on bettering myself
My goal in 2024 is to stop fighting people in the comments. I just gotta let the stupid people be stupid. I've gotten way better at it but it affects my mental 😂
I smile when yall say Give yourself Grace, thinking of Grace. She's a great example to be!
Message to the 20 whatever from a 60 whatever these thoughts that you were speaking of not being good enough or not, reaching the goal continues throughout your life if you don’t have a way to make peace. Once you get married, and have the babies and the dog you start comparing that your babies are not reaching developmental milestones that your friends are or your dog isn’t cute enough etc. so I’m so happy that you guys are talking about this trap we put ourselves in and making peace with it. Happy new year. 🎉
something i find hugely helpful with the idea of discipline is not taking a "just do it" approach, but rather being my own ideal caregiver and mentor. encouraging myself through tasks from that perspective, and also celebrating myself afterwards.
Watching around the 20 minute mark made me think about the book How to Keep House While Drowning. It suggests instead of framing thoughts about cleaning about shame and guilt, framing it as "it would be a kind thing to do for my future self to do xyz"
Also to sierras point, being disappointed in how you didn’t put yourself #1 last year when getting into a relationship is regretting the journey of the relationship and not appreciating the steps you’re taking to developing whatever is coming.
It is put in our heads and perpetuated in the media that women need to be a specific way.. in your 20's society values you, once you get to 30's you're supposed to do the parent thing, then in your 40's you're supposed to fade into the background. That doesn't matter as much, you're just getting started
I'm graduating this year and I'm usually a pretty chill trust the universe kind of person but for whatever reason I've been stressing about what I'm gonna do with my life today so hearing you guys say trust the wave and whatever comes your way is kinda exactly what I needed to hear