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The only gender reveal that I full heartedly supported was a gender reveal party that parents had for their teenage trans kid. It was a “sorry, we got it wrong 15 years ago”.
I love that so much 🥹💕
My cousins still want to throw a little coming out party and frame it as a gender reveal.
About 5 years late now, but lol
Gender reveal parties aren't really the issue. It's the crazy stuff they do during them that's dangerous or heavily bad for the environment that's the problem.
That's adorable.
THAT'S AMAZING WHAT??
I remember when I started to think I may be asexual (I'm actually more Demisexual, but same umbrella), and I told my sisters. They both kinda brushed it off, but then a while later they said how they "consulted the spirits" via a handmade spirit board. When they asked the spirits if I was gay, they replied"no," but when asked if I was straight, the spirits said "no" to that as well. "So what _are_ you??"
I just deadpanned, "I told you, I'm Ace."
So even if my sisters at the time didn't get it, at least I know I'm completely valid in the eyes of nonspecific spirits of the paranormal variety ♡
LMAO!
I had a similar experience once. There was this nice old Indian guy at a shop who offered to tell my romance fortune. I agreed, just out of curiosity as to what technique he would use. He pulled out cards, told me to pick a few while thinking about my partner, standard stuff. Of course, he was assuming my partner was a man and I figured it was better not to correct that assumption. Then he started interpreting the cards, and I started getting really spooked. Not only was everything he was saying about the relationship true, but the cards seemed to know my partner was female.
...all I can think of is a bunch of drag queen ghosts moving the the thing on the board and giggling djdjdjd
I'm reminded of high school. Due to my constant refusal to accept any of the confessions I received, there were quite a few people questioning my sexuality. But no one could reach a consensus. The straight kids could tell I wasn't straight. The queer kids could tell I wasn't showing interest in the same gender either. I was basically a cryptid to their very sexual motivated teenage minds. It benefited me in the end as when I came out as asexual grayromantic, no one questioned it. Many just went "oh, that makes so much more sense."
My niece called me to say she was bi. I said Im ace. You can have all the boys and all the girls. She didnt know I was ace yet as I rarely get to see here (live on opposite sides of the world) and when we are together, sexual attraction never comes up in convos.
Lol 😊❤❤❤
This reminds me... When I had just started my transition (MtF) I went shopping with one of my best friends (male), and the cashier insisted after seeing the name on my card that my "boyfriend" had to sign for the receipt. I told her no, that's my card. She didn't believe me, because I was CLEARLY a lady, and the name was quite obviously male.
This was before hormones or any surgery or anything. I had only let my hair grow out, shaved and was wearing a poofy dress to hide my (lack of) curves.
I don't think she was even trying to be mean or anything, she just saw a woman, in male company, paying with a card that has a male name on it and guessed that it must be the "husband"'s card.
But that still was such an amazing, affirming moment for me, it's really hard to put into words the joy I felt when I realized what had happened.
I love that! I (AFAB) recently had to switch to a different psychiatrist, and when I called to make an appointment I had to give my legal name, which hasn't been changed yet (and is pretty feminine), and she asked if I was setting up an appointment for my wife or partner. I love those fun affirming moments!
That's fucking awesome
I had a few moments like this
I'm not trans, just non-binary and I try to be androgynous and some people sometimes just think I'm a women. Like mostly infront of out local supermarket, xD. It's just people telling their child stuff like "Let that lady go through" or similar stuff
And one time one perspn corrected themselves after hearing my voice and I just quickly went "Oh no, you were right" and just walked into the store
Wow, that really is living the dream 🤩
Bruh when I saw MtF my mind immediately went to the Mobile Task Force of the SCP Foundation
@@kvanctok9234 I'm not nearly suicidal enough for that xD
The funniest thing about trans women being banned from entering the miss Italy competition is that it implies that trans women have a natural advantage over cis women when it comes to wearing nice outfits and looking pretty in them
Well if course! Who doesn't like a buff man in a skimpy bikini. 😂 #D&D armor rules
“We can’t let these man participate in women’s beauty contests, they’ll win all the prizes!😡”
I mean…
Yeah.
All girls are cute unless the ugliness inside them ruins it, but trans women are always twice as cute.
I do have a biological advantage in being fabulous 💃
I man, yeah, we do.
All trans girls are immediately twice as cute as cis girls, even if they look basically identical.
Just radiating girl energy.
One of the prides I have living in Canada is that Canada is considered the safest country for LGBTQ people. We even added LGBTQ into our laws as a protected minority group.
I'm from your neighbor down south and am worried that we're going to export homophobia up there.
As a Dutch person i need clarification on this
I’m moving to Canada
Well now I wanna live in Canada
One of my prides of living in the Netherlands is that we were the first country in the world that legalised gay marriage. I know, because my Grannies married the next year.
i love the "there are only two genders" thing because like. there aren't even only two sexes. transphobes would just explode if they saw an intersex person
Oh, they know intersex people exist. They just like to pretend that
A: intersex people and trans people are at odds
B: intersex people are broken and pitiable
Neither is true.
Yeah, is intersex even taught in schools? I didn't learn about its existence until my mid twenties. 😅
@@VickyViolet can confirm, was not taught about my own sex in school
Intersex is an exception to the norm. Three would be a reasonable stance given that fact, but most people say either 2 or like 87
@@N0rmalDude Yea, but "the norm" often accounts for things like common mental illnesses, a variety of different birth defects, and needing to wear glasses, so not acknowledging intersex people's existence is willful ignorance with questionable motivation. The norm doesn't matter anymore in the modern world.
Whatever the case, I'm not sure if I understand why you felt the need to say that. Talking about trans people automatically means we aren't talking about "the norm". It's like if someone said "I hate when people say ADHD is just being unable to focus, because it's like saying depression is just being sad" and you responded "well, depression is rare" and thinking that somehow works as a counterpoint.
No, three isn't a "reasonable stance", because you're either talking about the genetic norm for people (2 sexes, and even that is debatable since the Y chromosome seems to be a messed up version of the X chromosome), or you're talking about _all_ viable possibilities. No, that doesn't mean 87, stupid.
Not to mention that the A in LGBTQIA+ stands for "ace." And to say they (we? I'm still not sure) don't belong at a Pride parade simply because we don't desire sexual relationships only further reduces being gay or bi into being about nothing more than sex, which is something many already think anyways. Not to mention, it dismisses the "identity" part of the community, which is varied and nuanced.
Friend of mine came out as ace last year, and I’m looking forward to celebrating pride month.
I didn’t for years (Iunno. I just didn’t feel like it was my thing. One year I decided to consume media only at least mostly-queer, but yeah), but to send a “happy pride!” message to him every day is something I’m super hype for.
He’s been really publicly uncomfortable and awkward about being “weird” and such for over 10 years (he’s kind of well known. Not gonna drop names), and he seems to be much more comfortable and confident in general this year, despite stress.
It makes me misty in the eyes 😢
@@GretchZ I wish you and your friend all the best in celebrating pride month this year from a fellow Ace. ♥️
I mean part of the pride parade is an expression of sexuality so I could understand an asexual person being uncomfortable with it but why the heck would anyone be uncomfortable if an asexual wanted to be there. I’ve seen straight people visit pride in solidarity too. I’m genuinely confused. I don’t see anything wrong with asexuality so maybe I’m not capable of understanding. Just make an ace flag float so they can represent or is that being excluding?
@@Skullhawk13 Pride parades and celebrating who you like and who you are is not inherently sexual. Heck, many kids and families are there. Anyone who's in the community of just wants to support should be welcomed.
@@Absbabs88 I did say part. Specifically because I’m aware. I’m pansexual and enjoy lewd things but there’s a lot more to me than my sexuality. But part of pride is embracing every part of it without shame. It sounds to me like you’re just unhappy with that aspect of it so you’re trying to deny it’s a thing.
Pregnancy and labor can be terrifying and painful. For me, the idea of having a fun party with a nice cake that had a secret color inside letting me know "surprise, it's a [sex]" was something that helped me push through some of the more painful early parts of my VERY difficult pregnancy. If my child later comes out as trans, that's OK! It doesn't take away the fun of that party or the loving memories we all shared of that experience. Whenever they were ready, I would just offer to throw a SECOND "gender reveal" with a new cake for my kid's coming out party!
I like your view!
I love that for you!
The only reason they gained such a taboo energy is because of all the large scale disasters some idiots caused. And lately I've noticed people using the acts of 1 as evidence against everything even close. Generalities just bring down society.
I don't see anyone saying no to two cakes! 🎉🍰
CAKEE
Lady with the 8 billion genders made my jaw drop. That is the most affirming, most positive, and probably the most wholesome mentality towards gender I have ever heard. "You are your own gender," is such an endearing thought to tell people, that I would treat her to as many meals as my wallet would allow.
I was like “well, in one sense, yes.” That’s a valid point. One can dig down far enough into the micro scale for that to be true.
It’s like matter. How many states of them are there?
Well, once you get to plasma then things get WILD if you dig down further.
But saying there are 2 is like saying there are 3 states of matter. Nah.
I remember when I spend half an hour telling two friends of mine “no, there’s more than animal, vegetable and mineral”.
@@GretchZ Nooo, I have learn. That's basically the anti lbgtq+ movement is. I agree with you.
Even if you want to break it down to science, no one is exactly the same not even on a microscopic or molecular level. The number of cells and chromosomes and things in general in our bodies microscopically are different. The asserted numbers written out for these things are generalizations just to give the public a very simplified version but it gets extremely complex when you try to analyze the entire body under a microscope.
@@LGBTQLegend identical twins have different _finger prints_ *(?)* (I think that's how they are called in english, the design in your fingers used to identify you?) Even when they have the exact same DNA.
@@spiker.ortmann They actually don't have 100% matching DNA it's just really close.
As a trans femboy, it's so funny the amount of transphobes that aggressively gender me correctly.
"You're just a man in a dress!"
"Yeah, I know."
You kick so much ass.
Dudes like you have so much chutzpah…
I remember realising “oh, I’m just a modern girl” instead of being a guy who was into bucking gender norms.
I’m cool with being some basic, old, Jewish mother, but I’m less cool than I thought. Nothing wrong with being basic :)
Dear God, have mercy.
femboys are adorable. cant believe i used to hate them
Y'all will literally be born female, transition to male, and still dress as female, and not a second later you're complaining about why society treats you like you have some kind of cognitive impairment.
@@RilaAudio not even god can save you from your dirty thoughts 😏
When I was pregnant with our first child my husband's very conservative christian grandmother asked whether we knew if the baby was a girl or a boy. We told her we didn't want to find out, since it didn't matter, and her reply was "I guess you don't know for sure until they are about five or so anyway"
It has nothing to do with this video, but it's so wholesome I like to tell the story whenever I have the chance.
That’s awesome.
The "Satan Respects Pronouns" wasn't actually an accidental ally! It's from a designer that makes a slew of pastel queer stuff. Really glad to hear their designs are making it more mainstream, 'cause they're pretty kickass. In case you couldn't read it in the video, it's Abprallen - I know them from Etsy, but they might be on other platforms.
I always find it hilarious how transphobes confuse the terms "trans men" and "trans women". They think the "woman" or "man" part is towards their sex assigned at birth, when it's referring to their gender identity 💀
well to be fair i was confused for a while too, but that might be just me being a dum
@@Milbyte11I can basically guarantee that at the time you didn't think about trans people much other than "okay so thats a thing, cool". While these spiteful people spend a weirdly large portion of their personal time thinking about it, yet still getting it wrong.
If you are a trans woman, transphobes still see you as a man (and trans), hence the “trans man”. They are confusing this exactly because they are transphobic
@@Milbyte11I mean it IS pretty dumb to think of genitals and even weirder to see a penis and go "MEN"
If you said "MALE" you'd have more chances to be mostly right but, I'd avoid thinking about that so much... appart from yours and your sexual partners genital, think about that all you want
@@draalttom844you reminded me of the last time i saw my dermatologist. She was referring to me as she/her and all until i asked her to check a mole down there. after seeing my penis she then misgendered me when asking the nurse to take a note 😂 i dont think she meant to, but shes probably just never said the words "her penis" so close together before
Wholesome Ally Moment: I came out to my Christian grandparents and they supported me, grandma was like "Feel free to come to the door and introduce me to your girlfriend"
I was crying- 🏳🌈🏳🌈
Aww, that’s so sweet.
I love wholesome grandparents
yayyyy!
thats the way christians should be. my grandma is the same! Its love thy neighbor! not "love thy neighbor but with terms conditions"
I got a half wholesome half bruh one but it's my friends story, they came out as nonbinary to their Christian grandparents and they supported it but her grandma has bad memory lost at times, so my friend had to come out a second time to her but the second time her grandma didn't support it 😭 and my friend really said welp just wait for her to forget and come out again 💀💀💀
I have a “whoops, I helped them” moment too. I work at a magazine and we have a page where us employees comment on stuff. It has our name and picture.
I only figured out last year I’m a trans guy (I’m in my 30s), so before that I obviously had a woman’s name, but I already had short hair and didn’t dress femininely.
So a reader sent me a nasty handwritten letter about how ugly I am and that I look like I’d prefer to be a man and whatnot. I received said letter right after figuring out as trans, so the letter actually helped me with coming out: I’d show it to my coworkers cause it was hilarious and then I could go “you know they have a point when they write I look like I’d rather be a man cause surprise, I’m trans!”
The letter was so helpful cause finding the right moment to come out is so hard.
By now we use a new photo in our magazines with my new name and I really hope I’ll get another letter from that person. I’d love to hear their opinion 🤣
As a Christian who believes that people in the LGBTQ+ community will make it to Heaven I LOVE the rainbow baptism!!! God loves ALL his children!
+1 for Christian ally, less gooooooooo 🎉🌈
@@VickyViolet ❤️
To oversimplify Isaiah 45 (46? I forget):
Trans people who take Saturdays off get into Ultra-Heaven.
Hope you are having a nice good Friday
It's sad to see "Christians" that are like this, assuming you even are one.
5:03 reminds me of that one meme with "Me looking for the country with the 🏳⚧ flag because all the cute girls have it in their bio" and a video of a dude tearing through a jungle with a machete
I have that meme saved in my phone it’s great
What?! They don't all come from TRANSylvania?! *Mind Blown*
"It's Swisterland"
I remember seeing a similar meme, except the punchline was that was the place where all the good Guilty Gear players were.
This really is one of the best flag memes
20:40 The original gender reveal came from a mother who miscarried many, many times before pregnancy stuck, and they were just so happy it goylt far enough that sex could be told. She doesn't understand the psychotic tradition of bravado, pollution and explosions either.
I think she also just…made a cake and posted a picture of it. Which yeah that’s a perfectly normal and sane way to do a reveal.
Also if I’m not mistaken her kid is also enby. Not sure when exactly they had come out but I recall that being part of the story as well.
@@Boundwithflame23you are correct! The kid still uses she/her pronouns but presents her gender in a very masculine way. The mom said she wants her kids to grow up in a world where gender does not matter & thinks society's current concept of gender is limiting & exploitative.
The entire family sounds based tbh.
@@LilChuunosuke Oops. I was slightly mistaken on the pronouns then. Thanks for the correction/clarification. I couldn’t remember the exact details.
I also feel it worth emphasizing that the kid in question is… maybe in high school now? Possibly still junior high? I think she was like 11 the first time I read an article about it a few years ago. So worth keeping in mind how very recent this trend is, and honestly how cool it is that this family let their pre-teen kid discover how she liked to express herself with no stress or drama, just… sure, be who you are.
yeah a big point of the gender reveal party was to celebrate that the pregnancy had progressed so far you could tell the sex of the baby, not actually a celebration of what gender the future child would be
36:42 I did have an unintentional impact tho.
There was/is a bug in Starfield where you suddenly can't shoot, and the solution found by fans was unironically "go trans".
Here’s an actually wholesome for you.
I’m a transgender man. I’m underage and live with my parents but they are divorced. My mom is Christian and my dad is atheist. Ever since I was a little kid every night before bed my dad and I would say goodnight to eachother in French. I have been learning French since kindergarten and my dad is interested in learning. The first line from either of us was always. dad:“bon nuit mon petit Mademoiselle.” (Goodnight my little lady) me: “bon nuit papa.” (Goodnight dad) then we would go on with the rest. I came out to him about a year ago. And that night when I went to bed he said to me. “Bon nuit mon petit monsieur” (goodnight my little Mr/man) I swear I responded with tears in my eyes. Ever since that day he has called me by l preferred pronouns. Only used my nickname when saying my name (my nickname is gender neutral) and introduced me to people as his son. He is the most supportive person I have in my life and I love him.
Actually brought tears to my eyes. May you and your dad live the longest and happiest of lives my guy
Your dad sounds freaking awesome
Supportive parents are the best 🩵 🩷 🤍
that is genuinely so cute, i love that for you
I love him, too.
Every time I see the argument "God doesn't make mistakes." I always respond with "What about pedophiles?" They always become so flustered and angry.
"God makes everyone in his image." "Oh, so God's a pedophile?"
They HATE it.
Read until the end: God doesn't make mistakes, but sin messed everything up. How do you God didn't plan for to be , but sin messed up their biology and forced them into the wrong agab?
@@LegorocketsAnimation Sins of the father?
I ask about babies born with cancer. They *really* don't like that.
There’s also the fact that that taking that to refer to the physical form makes Gd like a clownfish or something…
Literalism is absurd.
When you think about all the inherent flaws of the human body, the idea that God's image is "perfect" is pretty silly.
I think it's fine to not be attracted to someone, or lose attraction, because they don't have the 'right' genitals for what you're attracted to. It's how you handle it that makes you an asshole. Big difference between saying "we aren't sexually compatible" and "You're not really a man/woman because you do/don't have a penis". Sexual compatibility is an important factor.
This, absolutely this!
Same way that some people get icked out by (non-offensive) tattoos, or piercings, or even the way someone chews food or sleeps.
In an ideal world, being trans would be treated the exact same way as any one of these: it's just a thing about a certain person that you - in your own tastes - don't gel with.
I support fully genital preference but it still pains me more than i will ever admit that it happens, being non-binary and pansexual. I'm more inclined towards men in a gay way but since I'm afab and I'm comfortable in not presenting very masc, I know it's just impossible for me I'm gonna be seen as a female. It hurts my brain because, again, totally on board with it, but damn :(
Everyone has turn-ons/offs.
It is what it is.
“Oh, crap. We’re both bottoms/tops” is a thing that happens. To straights, too.
Eh, it’s not impossible. Just gotta keep your radar out, be cool, hope and maybe pray if you’re into that.
My favorite accidental ally thing I've ever encountered IRL is someone telling my demisexual friend "You just haven't met the right person yet." Like... yeah, that's the definition of demisexuality.
lmao task failed successfully much?
so I am a gay demisexual as I know I am gay, but haven't met someone I want to spend every day of my life with that is also gay.
Edit: I am perfectly fine with it btw
Omg! I hope you meet your soul mate soon, hun! Everyone deserves love! I'll be rootin for ya, even if we don't know each other! Cuz I love love and hate hate! Go get em, tiger! @@superJK92
Bavaria is famously conservative so they banned gendered language in schools and other official capacities. This is basically the "there are no genders/there are 8bn genders" meme. Unfortunately they failed to understand that German is a gendered language, so by banning pronouns they may have accidentally evened the way for a more inclusive language xD
Sick.
“Genders?! Not even gonna deal with that!”
“So you want gender-neutral language?”
“I… well, it’s better than admitting anyone is whatever or something!”
They actually made gay marriage legal in Thailand today!
Or they passed a bill, im not sure but either way it's good
Congrats Thailand!
Oh yea i just saw that bc of a opera notif
? That's surprising, considering Thailand is south east asian, I really hope that inheritance bill doesn't pass in my country, even less one legalizing "sexually deviant" marriage
Wait, it wasn't legal before?
That's surprising... I was sure I read that some of the BL actors who got into a relationship during shows got married - but maybe they got married overseas 🤔
Accidental allys are so funny a girl I was friends with was not the greatest person so I blocked her (that's another story). She then tried to misgender me and use my birth gender pronouns (at the time i used they/them). She assumed from my presentation I was AMAB and tried to misgender me by using he/him pronouns and told me I'd "never be a woman". Jokes on her, I'm AFAB and she just kept affirming my identity. I now use they/he.
What do AMAB and AFAB mean? /genq (srry if this is rude,I just don't don't know)
@@1vx1x3 you're all good!
AMAB = assigned male at birth
AFAB = assigned female at birth.
@@ashanenbyrogue804 tysm!
@@1vx1x3 ofc! I'm glad you asked
That's kind of how I realized I was trans. I was being supportive on Twitter as you do, and a bunch of people insisted on calling me "he/him" because I had a femme profile pic... which was a drawing of myself. The euphoria on some days was just... amazing.
31:50 I actually have a wholesome thing to add to that.
Sadly a lot of churches and very religious people are vehemently against queer and trans people, but one of the large churches where I live actually has a giant pride flag on the gallery with something along the line of "everyone deserves love and respect" written on it.
I think it's nice to know that even even in mids the rotten compost that is religious fanatics there still blume some rare flowers of compassion.
My home synagogue has a gay rabbi (first openly-gay student at the Jewish Theological Seminary), and two “all gender” bathrooms.
My local synagogue has an openly gay rabbi.
The local HASIDIC rabbi is super accepting about anything that isn’t in the way of keeping traditions (which is complicated af, but there you go).
If I wanted to go hard on my Judaism, there are some queer-accepting ultra-orthodox communities. Most on on the east coast, I think, but yeah.
There’s also the fact that Jews don’t care what gentiles do, and focus on their local community so even homophobic people don’t really bother people. You’re also not supposed to speak badly of or fight with any other Jew.
I’m talking Judaism a lot, because, well, it’s my world, and I like it here.
Oh, and Conservative Judaism considers misgendering forbidden.
If the religious group actually reads all of their holy book and doesn’t cherry pick they tend to be a lot better
Presbyterians accept queers and have a policy to not even try to convert Jews.
I need to remind my Presbyterian MIL if she ever tries to convince me “but Jesus” again.
47:41 I think the JRR Tolkien quote should have been under actually wholesome anyways.
Came here to say the same I was yelling "check it off click!"
wait timestamp?
@@kanafinweviolinofficial43:14
Transphobes really be like "you'll never be a real man" to someone who looks like a viking who just swallowed 10 litres of protein powder and played through every Doom game while benchpressing the nearest 16 wheeler
But was he a berserker or was she a valkirye? 😂
@@spiker.ortmann
He was a beserker
She was a valkirye
Can I make it anymore obvious?
He was trans
She was too
What more can I say?
@@Banunkie Avril Lavigne - Viking boy (The A is not for Allies, 2024) 🤣
Wait..
I thought vikings were lean according to history..
@@SlyHikari03 pure muscular fiber and totally able of benchpressing an eighteen wheeler though... 🤣
20:40 Fun fact: The first gender reveal was held because the mother kept having one miscarriage after another and this was the first time the baby had survived long enough for her to know their sex. The mother did not intend for it to be such a big thing and has since disavowed them, both because of the dangerous ones involving wildfires and alligators, and because the very same baby from the first reveal (who is now a girl who wears suits - though not non-binary, as the Reddit comment said) taught her about the diversity of gender.
9:55 this whole thing reminded me of an episode that happened in Italy a month or two ago. A person went to a pizzeria and complained in a post online that the table they sat at was next to the table of a disabled person and a gay couple. The pizzeria owner replied to the post basically telling the customer that her pizzeria was open to anyone, and if they had any problems with that, they could just go to another place to eat. Afterwards, a bunch of bigots started attacking this poor woman simply for being a queer ally.
The pizzeria owner drowned herself. Rest in Peace, Giovanna 🙏 🕊
Omg…
15:03 "labels are an approximation" YES OH MY GOD. I cannot tell you how many times I've had the conversation of myself using the label as trans due to it being an accurate approximation. Not to mention it much better explains how I feel about myself and the way I present rather than going into the nitty gritty of why I actually feel this way.
"A large portion of people don't understand what they're hating"
Well yea. Hate born from prejudice is fundamentally born from a lack of understanding as it is not rooted in any form of logic.
or just a plain old superiority complex
Sort of yes and also no. Like, yeah, lots of the time they don't quite understand, but there are plenty of people who understand just fine, and still are bigoted and hateful. Knowledge doesn't inherently make someone less bigoted.
@@AnnekeOosterink Maybe I'm just not getting your point, but I don't see how transphobes who can competently explain the complexity of gender in different human societies could possibly exist. There's always something that bigoted people don't understand.
@@absolutechadd8895 They're called sociopaths. They're fully aware of their actions but choose to deny reason (or empathy).
@@AnnekeOosterink That is actually incorrect, like, all around. I'm not saying that the misunderstanding justifies anything or means you owe them an explanation, but knowledge DOES inherently make someone less bigoted. Obviously, there are some people like Matt Walsh who seem to understand just fine and knows what they're doing is wrong, but at that point it isn't hate.
It is sociopathic indifference, because the bigots that follow them, and believe them, and pay them need their beliefs to be validated constantly or they won't support them anymore. I don't really know why this bothers me so much, but I REALLY feel like I need to make these two things clear:
Bigotry is _inherently_ born from misunderstanding, and bigots aren't owed an explanation if they can't teach themselves. You don't need to tell yourself that they know what they're doing is wrong to justify hating them.
2:45 i want to believe that she’s actually supportive, and just grossly misinformed about trump
Yeah same. To me she seems like the kind of person that is both able to and willing to think about how things are and is about to have a leftie awakening because of it.
The interviewer is such a legend. I think the clip is from him trolling in cpac.
@@quentinlee7031 yup. I love those people that are brave enough to do this. So much gold comes from it.
Exactly the same lol. I literally just watched it and thought "damn the only bad point this woman is making is on her shirt:
yeah, i think shes being smarter than most people that know about gender tbh, like, its a construct, and its gonna feel different with everybody
15:20 that’s the exact reason I like the “labels”. I had never heard of the term asexual until I was trying to explain my feelings (or lack thereof) to a friend. I felt so much relief. I wasn’t a ‘late bloomer’ , nor was I ‘broken’. Having labels means that there are other people who feel the same way. It means you’re not alone. And I know that we praise being unique, but in some cases you just want to fit in. And the Reddit community really helped me understand myself a lot better.
yo, fellow ace-spec - so true, it's a confusing journey but it's nice to know we aren't weird!
also, you like skz? they r so cool :D
6:38 bisexual baptism call it a bi-ptism
7:07 "This poor square is getting really hammered!"
1950s jocks finding pity for a depressed nerd drinking his pain away.
1950s theme gay porn video dialogue
@@CircusFoxxoI don't have words-
Mmm... While funny, they probably wouldn't have used "hammered" for drunk in the 50's 😄
this is funny
@CircusFoxxo I considered that too, but tried my best to go wholesome with it, lol
40:12 For everyone: this isn't ACCIDENTALLY ally. It is intentional. It's not to be anti Satan and anti trans. The design is from a trans guy named Erik from the UK. He actually has created a brand and called it "Abprallen" for these things and even has an online shop with a bunch of other cool trans and other queer affirming merch! Highly recommend checking his stuff out! It' just really cool and funny AND pretty affordable🤩🏳️🌈
fun fact: abprallen is the German word for "to ricochet" or "to bounce off of sth/sb", like an insult not affecting you for example
@@90sHONEY I know, he says it on his website. But even if he hadn't, I'm German myself😁
Yeah, it's kinda weird how that got confused. (I accidentally made a similar comment before I saw yours)
My favorite bar is only my favorite bar because it has three restrooms. Male, female, and then "restroom". "Restroom" has a changing table, a large open handicap accessible stall, and is super clean and well-stocked. It's not marked as a family restroom. All three have the same items in them, and I think the male one has a urinal as well. But it makes me so happy that I go back for trivia every week because heck yeah it's the only no-gender restroom place in town.
*18:11* This is literally just that one meme. Lmao.
[See trans man asking for help to get testosterone and surgery]
[Make a post online to roast him]
[People donate to him and reach his goal]
[People... donate to him and... reach his goal...?]
11:27 There are either 0 genders or 8 billion - as someone who is Agender. This feels right😂
Well, but definition, that would be gender identity, gender is what people agree to groups those genders as
@@minestar2247 Gotta confess. I find gender confusing and I don't think people agree a whole lot on what gender is as they seem to focus a whole lot on the gender expression or looks of a person to define their gender😅
@@lampekartoffel Well, yes, be sure from what I've seen, it's supposed to be: sex --> gender --> gender expression. The arrows are causal, so they use the expression to go back and get the original information, but in some cases you get a problem where what you analyse with isn't in accord with what you want to know, and this is where transphobia starts
As someone who is pangenderfluid, Im gonna catch em all!
@@plum2584 I don't think it's humanly doable, but at the same time, I'm pretty cis. So, try it
As a trans man who sometimes likes to do drag, I absolutely love those moments when I am talking with someone who's pretending to be nice and they gradually get more aggressive when calling me "man" and "bro" thinking that I am a trans woman will be upset, until they get too frustrated with me feeling extremely validated, lol. On a serious note though, it's not surprising but pretty sad that almost all of these are directed at trans people. This is exactly why I don't openly talk about it.
I don’t talk about it because I find it exhausting at this point.
It’s just a recitation
I'm cis and I still avoid talking about trans issues for similar reasons. There's just a ridiculous amount of hate towards you guys right now. I really don't understand it, and I definitely don't appreciate it. Trans people are still people! Luckily, it does seem like the vast majority of people are at least apathetic to trans people's existence, and we're only dealing with an extremely loud and extremely obnoxious minority with the TERFs. Here's hoping it'll all blow over or we'll get some more legislature in more countries/states to support you. Best of luck, man.
Nothing more badass than trans men doing drag or trans femboys.
Same tier, somewhat different energy.
So frocking cool!
I used to like bucking gender norms and then I figured out I’m actually a woman and now I’m over here most comfortable looking basic. 🤷♀️
fair its kinda what makes me scared to do drag king (trans masc) coz i feel like both ends allies and not will both misgender me be it on purpose or not
that just sounds like cis with extra steps lol
Jesus and the Drag Queens sounds like an amazing pop group
"Someone left their luggage at their hotel room can you call them up to get it"
is a sentence once said by a friend of me who works as a receptionist. he himself had never been too against gay rights or lgbtq related stuff. But he has always thought of the label they/them as something stupid. always preferred the Swedish word Hen which is the combination of him and her.
anyways when i pointed out that he used they and them to speak about a single person and that it wasn't plural was he baffled.
As a Asexual person, I got some people who confused Asexuality with Asexual Animals.
Someone didn't think human can feel little to no sexual attraction towards people
It shouldn't be that hard to understand, yet some people still don't. Recently had someone asking me "But does *it* work though?" when I was talking about being ace, definitely a very weird and personal question
Like, isn't it common to not let kids and teens try attraction to other people? It's the case here, because respect is a major value, and also purity
@@minestar2247 Depends, since attraction doesn't imply they're going to have sex or anything, dating and having crushes is fine
I want to be an asexual animal, like a furry ace something.
It sounds really nice.
Can you tell me which animals are asexual?
What? You can't self reproduce to make a perfect clone of yourself? Outrageous! This is just like that time I went to a 10,000 Maniacs concert and it was just 5 normal people!
22:30 Who said nature is perfect? Nature has a way of saying “eh, good enough”. Otherwise we wouldn’t take in food and air through the same hole.
My glasses agree.
Nature and evolution are the definition of "eh, if it survives long enough help sustain the species I don't care how many flaws it has. Or legs."
Yeah nature has a logic, it's a logic. Just... not flawless, like... most animals are messed up when you think about how they act with each other.
Did you know that every rabbit will commit necr0phillia if they can?
Well...
those boars whose tusks grow long enough and curve around to eventually pierce their own brains? yep. that's nature.
but by then the boars have lived long enough to procreate and make more of themselves. as long as the species as a whole survives, nature really doesn't give a crap
Like our brains aren't fully developed until 25 but at 25 our bodies start breaking down. All babies are born too early because the birth cannal is too small. Just giving birth can be lethal. Thanks "perfect" nature!
Yeah, nature just throws stuff to the wall, and whatever doesn't slide down within 1 second is good enough.
Nah nah nah, “it’s a bird! It’s a plane! ITS SUPERMAN!” That is waaaaay too fucking clever to be AI generated. They may be able to make cool looking shit, but they are not that fucking clever yet, which is why I still feel relatively secure about my job prospects.
28:20 oh shit, that's probably why I'm asexual and aromantic- I can't smell!
(To be clear this is a joke lmao)
Best actually transphobic comment I ever got was when I at work at the male toilet, since I worked alone and someone had to do it - me simply opening the window - dude comes in screams at me "U don't belong here and U never will be a man" - me in a snow white dress as trans women standing there and be like thx?
A few years ago in Russia they did a survey on a street in a very conservative Russian town. They simply asked people "What is your opinion on heterosexuality?" The results were hilarious. Most people only knew the term "homosexuality" but they did not know what "heterosexuality" means. Many gave "homophobic" answers such as "Well even if they have TRUE LOVE still they cannot have children..." or "OF COURSE I know several people like this but I am against it..." Like many of they sounded as if they have a very romantic view of homosexuals or as if they think that 50 percents of all people are LGBT+. But also they did not even know what "heterosexuality" means so they were saying all of that stuff about heterosexuality believing that they talk about gay people.
@lizvtaz6 Thats hilarious😂
@@lizvtaz6 lol that's great 😂 like "i'm not heterophobic or anything, i just think it shouldn't be allowed around kids"
LOL that’s hilarious, but I hope if that was a co-worker they were reported for harassment and swiftly punished! (Even if they weren’t a fellow employee I hope that your other employees/higher ups were made aware of their existence and harassment.)
IT'S CRAZY TO ME THAT THEY SAY STUFF LIKE THAT,LIKE IT THAT THAT'S WHAT THAT YOUR GOAL IS
It's a bird? It's an airplane? No, it's... An amalgamation of both
It's an airbird
@@billybobjoe5947that’s… just a bird 💀
@@ripit.3457 yeah, but the name is kinda a combination of airplane and birb
@@ripit.3457to be fair ostriches and penguins are birds that can’t fly
No, It's if Tsundere Plane and the Reaper Bird trio (Astigmatism, Final Froggit, and Whimsalot) became Reaper Bird together!
45:45 The Ace flag can’t really be seen on the bag. But.
WTF cares? It’s your bingo Click!
*DO WHAT YOU WANT!!*
(❤ from a NB Canadian fan 😌)
What's funnier about the trans man in drag at 22:35 is that his page name is literally "Trans Skater Boyfriend"
It's right there in the name.
And he gets comments like this *all the time*
It's fucking brilliant
Hes so cute
Even before their child came out as nb, the person that created gender reveals hated what it had become. I think i remember that the only reason she had one in the first place is because that was her first to make it to the point you can tell in an ultrasound after a lot of miscarriages. It was more a celebration of that then revealing the gender
A bit of a correction: The child is not non-binary, she's simply a gender-nonconforming girl who wears suits.
The us Marines invented gender reveals for a horse. I swear this is real.
@@Duckrabbit_Forgingmarines are insane. I say it with love but they make even non-combatant stateside employees be trained as a rifleman before they start the actual relevant training. They clearly are the work hard play hard goobers
the thing about labels to me is also like.. people will refer to themselves by labels anyway. Like, the quote unquote labels I used for myself before finding "demisexual" were "broken", "frigid" and "prude."
Thats why the label matters to me, because it's one of the very few positive ones I have to refer to how I feel and how I function
Wow, I never thought about it that way and didn't really care one way or the other about labels, but that makes sense.
Yup. This was a big thing for me as someone who is not only asexual and agender, but also autistic & ADHD. I was an outcast everywhere I went. People treated me like a freak. Asked me to my face what was wrong with me.
These labels have flipped my mental health around a full 180 degrees. What I thought were character flaws were just natural deviations in human expression. And I now have the words to explain that to people so i finally can be accepted for who i am
Couple years ago my wife (who is ace) and I told a friend of mine “you’re not weird for not being into X Y or Z. You can just be you, and if you think ace fits you, no one will push you away.”
He came out pretty soon after. I did a cree
labels like that can be really helpful. but even more so, i think it's just more expansive vocab, so that people can describe themselves with terms that don't feel awful and hurtful.
and what's most important I think is removing NEGATIVE labels and not using descriptors with shitty connotations, you know?
i was a lot of things before i was neurodivergent. different or quirky, those were fine. freak, not so much.
So weird trick on the buttercream, use a stick blender to finish the colours and they’ll be more vibrant and true to what you want. Plus the buttercream comes out so smooth and easy to decorate with 44:13
Is there a reason for this? Do you know why it works? I'm wildly curious why that should be the case.
@@sarahr8311 I know this is old but the reason is that over beating takes out the air and makes the frosting more dense which makes the colors darker
32:30 AINT NO WAY A TOMO PFP SAID THAT. THERES A LITERALLY LESBIAN IN THE CARTOON💀
I find the whole thing of straight guys agonising over whether it's straight or gay to be attracted to trans women so weird. I'm a gay man and according to these guys I should be repulsed by some gorgeous trans guy because they have XX chromosomes? Why the hell would I care?
As a gay trans guy, can confirm a lot of gay men are repulsed by us lol, it kinda scares me away from "gay spaces"
Toxic "muh chronosome" straights when someone with Swyer Syndrome walks in (genetic condition in which the "boy-maker" SRY genes fail to activate, so what comes out is a physical female with XY chromosome)
I don't thinks it's the chromosomes that are the issue at all. As a pansexual demi-ace AFAB NB who has had these kind of conversations with their cisgender heterosexual panromantic husband, it really is just the utter disinterest in the 'incorrect' (for the sexuality of the individual) genitalia that causes a bit of confusion. Like there's no panic or repulsion, or dramatic BS, just "how does someone handle this specific situation in a polite manner?". Sex and sexual attraction is about bodies, physical forms (much as we don't like to admit it) more even than minds and hearts. We're not talking about love or any other emotional attachment here, just the physical actions of sex. As a demi-ace I literally have to have emotional investment in someone to be interested in sex, but I still have physical preferences, though way fewer than most gay or straight people I've talked to. If you find vag*na or d*ck repulsive, well, that's not your fault. How you treat the person IS your fault. Just be polite! If we shouldn't get angry about someone having a physical preference for tall women over short, or such, why do we have to get defensive when we talk about genitals? We need more open, civil, communication, not less.
More trans women for me.
❤️🧡🤍🩷💜
@@emia0908 - "physical forms (much as we don't like to admit it) more even than minds and hearts."
Oh, that's very much what I mean. That's what makes it strange to me. I mention chromosomes because it's something that people absolutely cannot tell just from looking, but it's equally true of things like genitals - if you can't see them, then your attraction based on what you *can* see shouldn't really be mitigated by them. I guess these guys think that their brain has somehow picked up on someone's inherent maleness even though they can't see it in any way.
I just had to mention, in the meme about Miss Italy the comment about "biological men having an unfair advantage" really comes across as the person saying it just viewing Trans Women as mega attractive. Maybe they're one of those "Chasers" I've heard about.
22:42 shouldve put down "hot 🔥"
that dude looked incredible •^•
33:26 NOOO you could’ve gotten a bingo with “tiktok gets it right”
39:14 This reminds me of something that happened at my workplace some months ago. Apparently some trans woman had appeared on Danish TV and my boomer colleagues kept on using fem pronouns for her, but sometimes they would remember that "she's a man" and recorrect themselves in order to misgender her - it was such a weird and funny thing to witness. Like... You clearly percieve her as a woman as you have to try really hard to purposefully misgender her😂 so why can't you just... You know... Let her be who she is as it's literally taking more of an effort for you to misgender her...
But accepting her trans identity and the implication of her existance is still an effort, misgendering her is like a way to "defend themselfs from the evil gay agenda" to them
@@minestar2247 I don't know, man... The fact that they had established her as a woman in their minds - while knowing she's AMAB - tells me that deep down they have accepted her as a woman and see her as such. It's just them not understanding "trans" that raises their hackles and makes them cross their arms like little children saying "she's a man".
@@lampekartoffel actually, i dont think the same, I think they litterally just forgot she was trans, and so you'd see them act the same way as they would to any woman. I don't think it's that easy to accept trans people as that, because even explaining the concept is hard
@@minestar2247 How can they forget she's trans when the whole conversation was about her being trans?
And don't get me wrong, I don't think they're accepting of her being trans (they've made quite clear they're transphobic) I'm saying that they percieve her as a woman and only by consciously reminding themselves of the fact she's trans, do they remember to misgender her and see that she's "actually a man".
@@lampekartoffel Yeah, I'm gonna stop and say I agree with you here
16:57 That happens to cis people too. I've been called a girl and gay for things that have nothing to do with my gender or sexuality and when it happens I just tell them "You're absolutely right, I'm a LESBIAN!" in the deepest manliest voice I can muster which usually shuts them up. I'm not actually a lesbian of course, I'm a straight man but it's funny to watch people's reactions when they try to insult me and I just agree with them in a way they didn't expect. Does that count as "Traumatize them back"?
I'm a cis woman whose hair was kept short as a girl in the 1980s because Mom worked full-time and didn't want to deal with tangles/braids/etc. for me and my sister. I was fine with it, because I was very much a "tomboy" who didn't care about skirts, pigtails, and stereotypically "girl things". (And as soon as my sister and I were old enough to take proper care of our own hair, we were free to do whatever we wanted with it - Sis grew hers out in junior high, I mostly kept mine short into my late 20s.)
The number of times I got mistaken for a boy as a kid.... 🙄Even got told I was in the wrong bathroom at least once. "We can always tell," sure...
@@ButMadNNW626 - I gotta confess, I made a mistake of saying that to a girl who had short hair. As she was entering the bathroom, I said: “That’s the girls’ bathroom”, which I was corrected for.
Later on, a teacher in our class notified us of an incident involving the girl and being mistaken for a boy, but they didn’t know who it was.
I talked to the teacher in private and admitted it was me and I wanted to apologize to her so badly, which I was able to do.
Do you ever want to punch your past self in the face so badly? I still cringe at that memory, I hope it didn’t affect her too much.
@@silverrubymoon3574 I was working as a Bouncer many years ago and mistook a woman as a man as she went to enter the women's toilets, after I told her to go the men's she flashed her 'chest' at me and just said "excuse me?!?!"
Her Husband and son were with her at the table nearby and they just burst out laughing, this was before all the recent civil activity so it was not taken as personally as it might be today, I did get to apologise there and then. I also think it was lucky for me that her fam were there and she ended up being more mad at them than me.
No it counts as telling people you're crazy without actually telling them and actual lesbians thinking you're a creep
Yes. And it’s awesome.
12:00
GOD Does Not Make Mistakes! That's why some of us are Gay. God made us that way.
I’m not religious but I love this
Nope, God gives you a choice.
@@N0rmalDude how are you a transphobe AND homophobe when you watch click- like bud if you hate em why do you watch so many videos about them?😭
As an AroAce person who studied biology, I can affirm that... In truth, gender does not exist.
At least in my country's language, gender is a term that only exists in social studies. What we study is sex, which can be chromosomal and gonadal.
I hope with my best wishes that all trans women become the women they always wanted to be. And I hope all trans men become the men they always hoped for.
If anyone non-binary reads this, may you become the Eldritchian horror beyond poor human comprehension that you were always meant to be.
Be yourself, embrace the chaos. Many of us are here to support you.
I think this might not be as well-received as you intend.
15:59 Reminds me of something I read on tumblr once: Even if you believe women are pink and men are blue, that doesn't make every other color a shade of purple.
a bit off topic but in the older days (at least) where I live, queens were assigned with a dark blue colour while kings were assigned with red, but for princes and princesses, they would mix in white with their royal assigned colour so girls would have light blue while boys had pink!
4:08 the things is, that because dc have a multiverse then it’s pretty much certain that there’s already someone like that in some universe that we haven’t seen yet.
Yeah, that's the principle of the multiverse, you want to have a black actor playing Batman? It's another universe. Something doesn't fit the plot of 50000 comic issues? It's another multiverse. You want to change a major character's gender? Multiverse. It's like it was made for that
If it wasn't suspiciously AI, I'd love it. Perhaps we could start a trend of it and get some actually good art from it :>
There was one like this called Earth D where everyone’s race was more diverse. The world was destroyed during Crisis on Infinite Earths in the comics but it was still nice to see.
13:47 lawful evil
25:00 tbh, being upset at gender reveal parties makes sense, idiots have caused a lot of damage with them including forest fires.
Fun fact, the furry at 8:55 is actually pro-trans.
The Twitter post he made before that one was about how he's transphobicphobic (phobic against transphobes).
And not all the time, but quite a lot of furries are part of the lgbt community too! Like how I'm a furry and also bi! Furries support lgbt ❤️
@@StrayShazwhat do you mean "not all the time"? Do you actually meet a real heterosexual cis gender furry? A REAL one who wasn't just in the closet? Wow, you truly met interesting people... 😂
@@spiker.ortmannunfortunately there are conservative furries
@@LaifaCanyonLurker aren't conservatives supposed to think that all furries are zoophiles? I have to admit that I was in the closet when I met the community for the first time and met a lot of people in the same situation, but a real hetero cis furry sounds too farfetched to me, more so a real hetero cis furry conservative... I might be wrong, I only talk from my personal perspective. I never met someone who was REALLY against LGBT+ community and a furry, but I met lots of furries that were in denial of their queerness because their environment wasn't safe... it's sad, but we are getting better around the world in that regard at least... now, conservatives, even if they are furries, aren't particularly know for being allies... that could be a pretty nasty situation... when I was introduced to the community it was pretty closed (early days of internet were very different) and was easy to get rid of that kind of people, but nowadays...
@@LaifaCanyonLurker A furry can be cis and hetero without also being a conservative.
29:34 I like to believe that these "moms for liberty" are now raking in fees due to not returning books in time
Thus libraries make even more money to get even more great books
"I was born in a female body"
"Nuh uh"
"The fuck you mean 'nuh uh'?"
Made me laugh so fucking much
what's the time stamp for that? I watched the video but lost where it was at
@@N0rmalDude37:36
17:46 I have always had a high “girly voice” and “girly qualities” and the moment I mention doing anything seen as remotely feminine I get weird looks from my friends and it has always made me super uncomfortable
Got to say, I do enjoy just seeing Click's progression into just being a plushie factory.
I wanna be a plushie factory 😢
I read furry factory and I still 100% agreed
It's destiny 😤
@@jasonmero2245what's a furry? 🤔
@@willowtabby4926 my poor innocent child, you don't want to know
I love the clock . The caulk is my favourite commentery youtuber . Whenever the cork releases a new video I enjoy it so much . I watch every video from the crank and enjoy it . I am obsessed with the crop .
the cock
It’s the thiccc what do you mean 💀💀
i enjoy the cluck's videos too .
@@the_spanish_inquisition_monty Yall really can’t spell crack right💀
Damn. Yous all so bad at spelling Crinklesanglesboggertstick.
38:27 as a member of the Alex nation, we do not accept this one 🙅♀️
At 24:17 I was like “Wait was this not meant to be wholesome? It was transphobia!? WTF!?” And was genuinely confused lol
The artist is a nazi so yes
I would not be surprised if the people donating for that guy's operation were so incapable of basic reading that they thought the donation would help towards "making her change her mind"
LOL
I thought you were calling him "her" and was confused for a minute
There's a decent chance. I couldn't even begin to guess at the number of conversations I've had that have ended with the other person declaring success that they "have convinced you away from the trans delusion and that you will never be a woman no matter how hard you try and will always be the man God made you". I'm afab.
sadly, you're not wrong.
but like, still got the money, so lol, jokes on them
I used to think i could come out as trans, and my family would be cool. They're way more ready to accept that someone is gay or bi, than they are of gender identity :s
Same. Came out as non-binary twice because the first time didn't stick. Tried again a few years later (last year) and it went better thankfully. Not perfect, but we're making progress.
Wish you the best ❤
You’ll be alright in time.
Just gotta find your tribe if they don’t come around.
@@GretchZ ;_;
@@AlizzaLuna thank you fam, i appreciate you
2:55 THIS IS TRUE GIRL EVERYONE EXPERIENCES GENDER DIFFERENTLY EVEN CIS PEOPLE OF THE SAME GENDER
46:20 I'd say that counts as actually wholesome. You even said it.
I love that you bend the bingo rules for fun, because that's the whole point of playing games on your own: You get to do whatever you want.
I'm pretty sure I started realizing I am Non-binary, when I started playing Starfield. I set up my character to be really sick, yet gender neutral looking. Then added the they/them pronouns. I started figuring out sometime after that. But Starfield was definitely the start. :3
You know what'd be awesome in a game like that where you pilot a vessel of some kind and your character regularly refers to it in conversations in that way pilots and sea captains refer to their vessels, if you could designate pronouns for the *ship* other than the typical she/her. No impact on the game, and only your character would say 'em, but it'd be damn funny. Stuff like, "this here's my ship, isn't he a beaut?" or "yeah, he's a bit temperamental, just gotta whack the control panel in the right spot and make sure he's got enough fuel and charged batteries".
Me being unable to roleplay as a normal man (always weirdos, idiots, crazy people…) in TES and DnD made me realise “I have no idea how men work, so I am just being a joke, because that’s easy”.
Female characters? Always intellectual, focused, sensual.
“…oh, I’m a girl”
What country is this flag 🏳️⚧️ and why are all the pretty girls from there?
It's the trans flag...
and boys :)
@@khadydem4158
I know it’s just a joke :)
@@khadydem4158 r/woosh
Latvian flag :3
About dark vador and omni-man, being the worst dad isn't about killing people. It's about how shitty they were towards their own children.
But again :
Dark vador : tracks down her daughter that leads a rebellion against him, explodes her planet in front of her eyes, cut his son's hand, forces him to fall down to a likely death, tries to get him on the dark side
Omni-man : lies to his son, eviscerate his heroes in front of him, uses him as a tool to kill more people, tries to teach him that humans are worthless and they're gods, tries to get him on the dark side
Kris : is trans
Idk who wins, and it may be far-fetched, but I don't think it's Kris.
“I’m Dark Vader and I’m a Star Wars”
@@GretchZ tf is this quote from
7:49 - Yes, that was meant to be anti-trans... this was trying to show how LGBTQ+ is trying to make trans look cool/awesome to kids, and cis look boring (to make kids excited/wanting to become trans)
Oh Yeah, that's a pretty common argument that I see people use when there is gay representation in western media, and I sometimes try to explain, but hey always awnser by "it's not normal, it's deviance, so they shouldn't try to normalize it"
@@minestar2247 just clap back with "if it needs to be suppressed, it isn't deviant" lol
Says a lot about the people who think it's cool though cause what you think looks cool is highly subjective so they're basically admitting they find it cool.
It's so funny! How do they even get there?! Do they secretly envy the people that have slightly non-boring lives? Or are they just telling on themselves about how miserable they are?
That was one of the first things I fought back with when coming out as not-straight. "Try it for a day, see how fun it is"
@@LGBTQLegend
Oh, I'd love that, but they're more like those 12-year old 4Ch*n users who hate popular women in media. They don't think it's cool to everyone else because they think it's cool, they just think we're following a pointless trend.
I feel like "I'm not cis I'm normal" should be a bingo square
5:20 actually you can get your own island for little more than a new house... but it'll just be bare rock with nothing on it, and probably in 'hurricane/typhoon alley'... and you'll have to buy and bring your own... um... well everything...
One of my favorite examples of "mockery that's badass" that I've seen in the wild was when someone on tumblr made a queerphobic, christian loz discord because they didn't like that some people in the fandom (especially in a certain Links-meet-au iirc) likes to give the different Links different gender identities and sexualities and disabilities and so on, and they described it as making the characters "queered into oblivion" and it was pretty much one of the funniest things I had read at the time and I still see people meme about it lol
29:53 And the library also hopefully charged the thieves and sued them for threat because they stole the property.
I like the idea of the library publicly thanking Moms for Bigotry for their assistance in fund-raising and forgiving them the fines as a gesture of appreciation. They could also mention how wonderful it is that they could now expand their collection of LGBT+ books. That would be passive-aggressiveness at its finest.
"We can always tell" always makes me think of a news article I read about a Karen calling the cops because a cis woman with short hair used the women's washroom
36:55 for context.
That the choice of gender had no impact on anything in Starfield is kinda a thing I like about it. Yeah, it might've been out of developer-lazyness. But think about it, how do you express normality in science fiction?
Did you recognize the dude in the dress in the very first episode of Star Trek TNG? Before or after someone mentioned it to you? The point is, it is not acknowledged in any way by the characters, there's no comment, nothing towards this dude wearing one of the dress uniforms.
And why should there be? In this universe it is not something that is considered unnormal. The expression of self in a way that fits your self is one of the core messages of Star Trek. It would be weird if anyone (from the crew) would make a snarky comment about it.
Back to Starfield: That it has no impact whatsoever in conversation and such could just be that in this future the chosen gender is just.... normal and everyone just accepts it without thinking about it.
That is also what a lot of modern series get wrong about trying to send a morality-message. They highlight what they want to show as normal. But that's not how life works. Normal is not what gets highlighted. Normal is what just happens without anyone really noticing.
I don't think that Bethesda should change anything about this specifically for this very reason. Yeah, if you make it more important you can p'ss off some wannabe alpha males, but is that really the goal? It's funny, I agree, but is this really what showing normality should be about?
29:44 why did i automatically think it was two gay mums 💀
Same lmao
Eeeey! Ace flag on the bingo card!
Are we actually becoming such a prominent presence that our flag just pops up?
Love that!
I'm not ace, but it's such a good flag!
Well yes, all the parts are pretty known
It sucks that the ace community is invisible to many people and often times ignored in queer discussions. Ace people I love you and you're not invisible to me, you're so important and your struggles are real and worthy of being talked about and fought
@@minestar2247 Sorry, but what parts are you referring to? The LGBTQ+ community? The different labels under the Asexual umbrella term? Or something completely different?
@@enravotaboyadjiev7466 Thank you 💙 I think we are becoming more visible and more accepted in the LGBTQ+ community - it's just the few loud ones that make it seem worse than it is 💙
4:20 "is it a bird? Is it a plane? No it's Super Black Lesbian Woman to save the day from normativity!"
I resent the lesbian part, she could be bi or asexual... but YES! ❤
@@spiker.ortmannno I think she's kinda giving lesbian
@@spiker.ortmann my gaydar said she's gay lol
Remember thick thighs saves lives
@@the_moonpie_ I won't accept it until she confirms it. 😉
@@spiker.ortmann or trans....
Jesus and the drag queens is my new favorite band
7:26 this is a One Piece fan trying to be transphobic? Bruh, I am caught up with the anime and there is a whole gay club in one of the prison started by literally the Queen of drag queen. Random fun fact, the Queen of drag queens has the ability to switch your gender, best person to have that ngl.
When I said gender I meant "biological sex" the dang auto words showed up and I accidentally hit gender. Also ignoring the fact that the only reason the main characters are alive is because a man dressed in drag saved them so... Like... How do you even think?
22:00 Let me quickly say: For any trans men who like to dress feminine/are drag queens/are femboys: You're valid. And honestly, you're some of the coolest people out there, and the bane of existence for anyone who says "You'll never be a real [...]!" And for trans women who dress masculine/are drag kings/are tomboys, the same goes for you.
femboys/tomboys/androgynous ppl/etc are the hottest ones
generally chill gay ppl are hot
They kick so much ass. Coolest dudes on the planet.
14:14 my take is sexuality exists only because gender exists. without gender it's just loving who you love
Well, it doesn't sound wrong but it feels wrong, idk why.
I wouldnt say sexuality only exists because gender exists. Even animals have sexualities, what with gay penguins and the like, and im pretty sure they dont have a concept of gender.
@@minestar2247 i think it's because, even if we didnt have words assigned to the concepts, there would still be the fact that most people would only be attracted to certain subsets of the population, and it would vary from person to person, just like it does now. Isn't that what we call sexuality?
That said, OP is definitely right that it's all just loving who you love. As long everyone's a consenting adult, nothing else should matter.
Being bi/pan I agree, I feel entitled to being the default option instead of a secondary unlockable just because people like the gender binary so much.
@@DashSpiderJumpscares wouldn't being ace be the default by that logic?
@@--CHARLIE--Oh yeah probably lol.
4:19 "Is it a bird? Is it a plane? NO, IT'S... both???"
Just so everyone is aware, the post at 11:16 isn't technically correct, there are MORE than two sexes. I can't list them all, but the third one I know of is Intersex, as I am Intersex. Just thought I'd educate people :3 I'd highly recommend doing your own research into it though! /gen