Top Notch Couples Keep the Spark Alive Weekly Review 42

Week forty-two
Sometimes we need to improve ourselves individually, within a relationship. Imagine what getting into flow would do for your relationship.
Flow is one straightforward way to improve life satisfaction. What are you doing regularly to get in flow, as a couple?
Do you want to have more flow in your life, more ecstasy and bliss, more joy and satisfaction?
Are you doing what is necessary to get into flow?
Are you modeling for your kids how to access flow?
There are a few easy steps to take, and they are not extra things to do, they are things you likely already do, but you would do them slightly differently.
If you are not doing these, are you feeling victimized by life? Are you telling yourself that you don’t have control or don’t have time (because those are cop outs)?
That would be like saying you do not have time for breakfast or for sleeping. You have to eat and sleep; it is a matter of how you do it that puts you in flow or not in flow.
If you do not like how your life is going, you have options. You have more control than you realize, and some people feel like victims when they don’t have to. They could change a couple minor things and take back their lives.
Are you taking control of your life or are you playing the innocent victim who is helpless?