4 Signs you are still not a MATURE PERSON
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- Опубліковано 22 сер 2024
- Maturity doesn't come with age, it comes with experiences of life and your willingness to change your approach towards things as per that.
Do you know if you really are a mature individual, even though you have matured age wise?
This video will show you that people are not as mature as they think they are. These are the traits that immature people usually have; if you are someone who is like that then there is a need
to improve.
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Mature people do not believe on a random video that tells about whether you're mature or not.
+kastoori saxena pretty mature statement
Get Better Together I'd say you got a mature way to take criticism 🤔😁
kastoori saxena lel impressed ✌🏽✌🏽
That's really impressive point... I can't agree more with u...
Mature peope like to reflect,observe,mastered in controling emotion&handling issue etc..most important those label"mature"given or admit by other/close people around them most of them dont even realized.bragging is not their act they low profile.experienced and always learn..even watching youtube video..knowledge is every where.
Maturity in my opinion is to remain calm under adverse situations and tackle the problems rather than hyperventilating about them. Also includes not giving a damn about negative criticism and continue with your work if you think it's right. A mature person listens more, speaks when necessary and is focused about his goals. Nice video.
Naren kumar sahoo absolutely right:)
Naren kumar sahoo if you’re mature you should be able to take negative criticism, that’s how people improve in general
Naren kumar sahoo that’s basically my life, right there, no one understands me in school and I’m only 15. It kinda sucks to be mature. I have annoying people wanting to be my friend when all they do is talk shit on me and they think it’s funny. When it’s stupid. I can’t stand up for myself and tell them to shut up and don’t even acknowledge my existence because I hate them and won’t even get it because they’re too immature and ignorant to understand my pain on them. I don’t even wanna fight them, I just wanna gone from life. I do not know what to do because it sounds childish to fight over name calling and just be annoying in general. I’m sitting here wondering how to deal with immature people. Because I’m gonna look immature for getting sensitive and weird looking if I throw anger at them. Why can’t everyone just try to mind their own business and just chill. I feel outcasted in school everyday because I have loneliness for not expressing myself. I rarely talk to anyone in school because I’m always bored and tired of hearing worlds’ problems. And I have no confidence at all for having a girlfriend or more friends because I act boring and just a normal being. People just like blabber and blabber about anything. Like they can’t come with something more original and new. Imagine surrounding yourself around people like this every single day of your life. And just knowing you’ll die without being satisfied with yourself. The way I see the world is nothing but a thing. In reality, what so bad about the universe being destroyed and we all die. Nothing. But, what ever, I know I sound like a complete hypocrite but, I’m just giving a comment and probably don’t give a damn. This is why people do weed. Weed makes me feel more comfortable, relaxed, confident, socializing, and actually care about the life. I wonder if you actually took your time reading this.
People hyperventilate because they've been holding it in for so long and it finally bursts open. And they are not taking any drug. I've come to realize that most people need something to get through life whether it be a drug or a person. If you can remain calm in all situations,
it is either a sign of maturity or a sign you don't give a damn. Be a man they're perfect for this. Our best generals were all men. Women were taught to care more that is probably become emotional. People do get tired of being ignored. The Narcissist always remains calm, because they have no feelings or emotions anymore. Hence Robots and artificial intelligence. I've learned to stay away from people who want to see you react instead of really help you or be your friend these people are devious and divisive and just pure out evil.
Naren kumar sahoo I totally agree with you that make so much sense
Just make sure you don't judge others who haven't yet reached maturity, they need help, so help them. We must help each other. Add being judgemental of others is also a sign of immaturity.
V. F. B..,,, yeah
Nah, too much work, nobody helped me.
How do you help your loved one who is very immature as well but, doesn't think he is or has every right to be that way? It feels like the blind leading the blind.
@Grande Leonardo I appreciate that. But it's been hard trying to be patient with them. Even though he's been patient with me. But, I pray I get it right soon.
@Grande Leonardo thank you. I really appreciate it. I will take that into consideration the next time I'm with him. I love him greatly and we argue a lot. It's been extremely hard. But, I want to make this work with him. Thank you again for your advice.
Maturity is also accepting people's as they are .
Never compare your quality to another it makes a barrier. Different people have their own qualities so never judge them on the basis of only education.
Well said 👍
That's a great point you have to deal with people at their level.
So true
Thanks 👍👍 guys
I so agree!
*this is one of the most meaningful videos I've watched in my entire life*
Is... this sarcasm?
Imagine not being mature
@CMN hey watching anime doesn't define you if you are mature or not it means that you think its a cartoon but its not sir believe me there are many animes that are only made for mature audience but i guess you are not sorry sir bye
@@CRM-LIFE People have problems being mature okay? A lot of things effect your maturity, Like the way you’re treated, You’re surroundings or any mentally effective disorders such as bipolar.
Being defensive is a survival instinct. It's good to not be defensive, but on rare occasions, it's very necessary. Knowing the difference is maturity, not avoiding defensiveness.
+Jake Rosser I agree 🙋
Get Better Together Great video. Liked & subscribed!
+Jake Rosser Thanks mate, cheers!
I agree!
Jake Rosser Agreed. Wise words :)
maturity feels more like how you deal with your emotions, relationships and situations, and seeing situations from a wide perspective rather than narrowing down on something tiny
frequently running away from situations and refusing to deal with pressing issues in relationships, letting your emotions get the better of you, letting your ego get the better of you, prioritising your self image, not owning up to your actions and the effect they had, all feel like immaturity
So true..spot on.
are u an army
Indeed true
Damm I'm so immature. I was waiting for one that didn't fit me but you hit me hard with each one 😂
Gosh I feel the same as you think
Same
You are not defensive now..
@Vladimir Putin well said
You are funny kris wu is pretty defensive
If this is true, then 98% of the world is immature, good video
Jane James not true wat u said. U must b overly immature
Citation Needed.
LOL it certainly looks like that. Most of the world is fighting and being selfish all the time so I think you might be right on that.
Mohammed Ali to take the time to notice I'm overly immature is the pot calling the kettle black, don't you think
I dunno, but I heard that 78% of statistics are made up.
"you are what you are today because of the choices you made yesterday"
Reenika , you speak truth.
very true reenika ....
You are what you are today because of the choices your made and the behaviour that was implanted to ya
Well said
correct
1. You are reactive
2. Obsessive with looks
3. They are defensive
4. They play the victim card
Okay.
I'm embarrassed that I'm guilty of #2 and #4
All of these actually lol
Obsessive with looks is overlooked. Taking care of yourself is a mature thing because you care about your health.
#3 they defensive ...., so if you're a sensitive, you're immature?
Thanks. That just saved my time to watch the whole thing.
It's not about maturity or immaturity, Its about living happily and peacefully without harming others.
Do mature people watch this video to find if they are mature?
Green Wood that’s a good question.
I'm wondering the same.
Point
Nic one
Green Wood yes they do, I just did ;)
Basically, don't care about anything and your mature
Dark Reavenger yea when life hits you and you realize its not worth it. Lol
Just like how you don't care about the difference between your and you're
Michelle Cannes
Nobody's perfect
Dark Reavenger And neither are you
So if you're asking me I want you to know....
Michelle Cannes when my time comes, forget the wrong that I've done
I came here cause friends of mine, NEVER take me seriously I’m changing for them.
u shouldn’t change for others. being mature also means that u should be yourself. ur probably a really nice person.
don t change for them your too good for that 💖 affirm yoursel as the way you are
same. It really sucks, they think I'm immature and that their better than me, and It really makes me frustrated! Worst part is I don't even know how to prove to them anymore, I just feel dumb, makes me sad too
@@pineapple3555 When i say something that we never mentioned in a while they say: “what wut? Man i’m confused” i feel so misunderstood like bro they react to what i say and never analyze it, I literally have to spell it out to them
How the change buddy
the guy i like called me immature and that’s why he doesn’t like me. i didn’t think i did these things. god i feel stupid.
No u r not immature it is just he is too mature for this world he wouldn't even have fun
Yeah sometimes we think that he or she is the one who will be life partner for the rest of our life but believe me the person who is ur true love will always come back for u. U don't have to change shit for somebody else u should stay the way u are and u shouldn't care i believe in that❤️
Some guys have too much arrogance for that.
Fucked up life holders always thinks they are mature.
Failures makes man mature😎
+akash Prajapati Yes that's true
akash Prajapati lol...true...I must be VERY mature
yeah sometimes they go to jail.
Or rather, if he/she learns from those failures in a constructive and positive manner. Some people try something and fail over and over, never trying something different and just complain, making them immature and insane.
akash Prajapati I guess I am very mature on that part.
I was ended up in the Jail Custody for 10days cus I had accepted a false allegation to save my bestest friend. When I was released fortunately my friend broke the friendship and said "I don't want a criminal to be my friend." I understood from that very day that you yourself is your bestest friend and most of the people in this world are cunning and will come up for undue advantages.
Why on earth would you do that?
Pralay M Damn! That son of s devil...! Henceforth choose ur people wisely dear...
I feel sorry for you man☺ Go kick his ass
😞
What goes around comes around ! .... Don't worry mate .. You will be fine !
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I hope you will translate these videos into arabic.
I call it boring not mature 😂😂😂 😂 Life is too short to be too mature Find your child within but remember to be kind,open minded and hug someone you love now 💕💕
Miu Miu Koo are you Pisces?
Or Sagittarius
Of course, to have a childlike nature is never a bad thing. One can certainly Be insightful , discerning and wise but yet be childlike at the same time . this video is flawed to a great extent if I'll be honest
Are you trolling?
@@purpp-esque1711 No Iam trying to cope with the sudden death of my partner at the moment Its not easy but its a comfort to know that the last thing i said was I love you 😢
One thing that I learned when I was younger that really helped me a lot was: If someone insults you or says something about you ask yourself "Is it true?" If it's not, calmly tell them they're wrong and don't worry about it. If it IS true, ask yourself "Is this something I need to fix/ is this a problem area?" If the answer is no, stand proud as you are. Be yourself. Maybe you might want to explain your views, but that's about it. However, if it is something you need to change, then work on changing that part of your life.
Calming down and analyzing insults and what people say about me through this method really helped me a lot. My elementary school life was me reacting and blowing up at insults and me losing my cool, to in high-school (I figured this out late in elementary) I was more calm and thoughtful about things. Saved my life. Thank you Mrs. Naylor.
shadowpod13 that's amazing. I need to try this in future - thanks for sharing!
And being yourself means that you are happy with what you are and if you are happy with what you are then you dont need to satisfy yourself with these silly tests.I believe that i m immature that is why i m here.
I just didn't give a shit
what works best for me is to respond to any verbal confrontation with
'hey, you're entitled to an opinion'
@@tsushibu3493 no u
Stop pleasing everyone you come across...
Discussion is always better than Argument...
Be there when someone needs help but never leave yourself behind...
Take a stand on "what is right" instead of "Who is right"
No one can make you happy unless & until you are happy with yourself first...
"Happiness is just a choice"
Never compromise your values...
That's the way to go :)
Ronnie Shah beautiful words you have there!
Ronnie Shah very TRUE!!!
Ronnie Shah absofuckinglutely true
This is truly penetrating through my mind, thank you so much
1.Reactive
2.Obsession with looks
3.Defensive
4.Victimising oneself
Water Existing cool thx I have the first 2 but not the second two so I’m halfway mature acc to this particular video lol
I have all of those traits but I like the way I'm☺️
@@sz_muray Acceptance😍
i'm fully mature but u know most of the people says that i'm immature cuz of my child behaviour and..... ya also i'm looking like a child whatever i'm mature at early age according to these points
so pretty much described women
I really appreciate this video, man. I'm 22 almost 23 and I'm still victim of a lot of my bad habits; mindlessly and anxiously living life through trials and tribulations. Now it's time for me to really take life by the horns and do as I should. Thanks again boss
Good luck with that, I'm 24 will be 25 in July and I am big time dealing with a quarter life crisis as I call!
I like your insight a lot. I realized that I was defensive too and learning to let things go is so liberating. Most times people don’t mean to hurt us and even when they do, it’s more of a reflection of them, rather than you. Good stuff!
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In my opinion, maturity is also understanding that many people have issues that you may not have (needing to wear glasses to see, having autism, being blind, being in a wheelchair, being tall or short for your age, etc.)
+crazycoollady1999 true words
Thanks for replying. I am autistic, was considered tall for my age, and needed glasses when I was 4. Bullying anyone with those kinds of conditions is basically not understanding these issues.
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Daredevil I'm glad you agree.
Everything in this video hits me hard. I'm immature myself due to the stupidity I've done until now. Another reason why my sister keeps insulting me at the same time. The only thing unnacceptable for me is when she judges how chubby I am, and I thought judging people based on their looks is considered immaturity.
By watching this I'm beginning to regret how I've been acting all along, little by little.
If it bothers you, go run a mile
I think im watching this too late anyways thanks I'm still not mature but I'll definitely try make myself mature instead of complaining 😉😉
I used to be over defensive cause I was bullied since childhood couldn't tell if they were joking or really want to hurt me in high school. But as I entered college I haven't experienced a lot of bullying and I understood better that maybe I have done some dumb things in the past, but I own up to it. Now I'm in the military I have to mature significantly and I'm glad to take that leap.
Turok duels same story bro !!! I know how that feels
I can relate. Lost 3 years of my memory. Turned out to be good ❤️😂
Yeah, i was also disliked by the boys from my school, my defense mechanisme was to ignore them because that was what my sister told me to do, But the name calling,trash throwing,ect did not end. Then i heard that maybe i was bullied because they think i was a snob for not friendly with them,so i tried to change by smiling more and try to talk, but the next thing is i heard that one of them called me slut behind my back, i revert to being quiet and ignored them again. i realized that i prefer being called a snob rather than a slut. When i went to college, nothing like that ever happen. It really put my self esteem down really bad back then.but now i am glad to never have to meet them again.
Emanonaeza This is why the public school system is a failure. And the staff doesn't do squat!
I’m happy for you bro
Blaming someone else whenever u fail is also a sign of immaturity as those people dont see their fault or they just dont want to see themselves blamed for certain things.
But, really admitting our own faults and learning out of it is the right move for a MATURE person.
+Amit Savaran True words
Amit Savaran
What about if it actually is their fault
It's never happened to me but I saw a case where a teacher got fired because they altered a students project so they got an F when if they just left it alone they would've gotten an A
So in that sense it really is the teacher's fault they got an F
(Btw I saw it on a video somewhere and it was the footage and an explanation of what was going on (the footage was of the teacher altering the project in their room))
true
Amit Savaran very, very true!
Amit Savaran
Stupid Fool
I always have had a problem with how people express the general attitude towards speaking out about problems. Whilst some say it's self-pity, attention grabbing and playing the victim, others find it's a way to allow one to releave themselves of stress. I think it's important that we make a clear boundary between expressing your troubles and fishing for attention. Because this unclear statement has caused many people I know to lock away feelings which cause them great harm.
frst sign m not mature,i clicked dis video
Frst step toward being.......
*speek englesh looser*
*Me while watching this video*
: oh shit I'm immature.
*Me also*
: nah! don't care!
Little Prince I feel ya
"Accept what you can't change"
Healthify My Life The fact Tramp is president.
Healthify My Life that's actually the most important point!
Absolutely, but sometimes people think they can't change something they actually can, putting them deeply in their comfort zones and then, depression, then comes the victim card which makes it even worse. What happens then is just sad, a waste of potential
Ja Sam Ja very true! Good point!
Healthify My Life i used to get sad when the wather was bad xd my mom would tell me that i cant change the facts but i refused to listen to her but now i just go with the flow, go out with friends, study and do other stiff no matter the weather
Maturity is depends on our mind set and our attitude towards the things or situation ...
Matured person can understand the things properly and react properly
VIDHYA R.,,,, so if you cant control your temper you're immature?
Is mature person laugh too much ?
Sir. Idk how i got here but, it sure made me think twice about my immature side. Thanks!
I am mature . Because i know a 5 minute video can't decide wethr i am mature or not.
+Divya P That's a pretty mature view, thanks for taking the time to watch 👍
4:37 stupid immature fool
Divya P however you are immature for making that comment
CDS how I'd what you say what you are so if I say cat I'm a cat?
Divya P ignoring facts or other peoples opinions is actually quite immature your comment is very defensive :D
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference 🌸
Maturity is when someone is blaming you for which you did no wrong
But for a shake of maturity you decide to blame yourself
Yes I did that! blame me !
You know deep down you didn't do it
But decide yourself to take blame
Just because you see the other person as so immature and you let it go, you don't even hold a grudge
That's a mature person!!;
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That's very good to know Nathan, all the best 👍
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@@nathananderson8720 good to know, when you are starting, getting content out is the key without worrying too much about perfecting every shot and word.
@Prince.C Perfect doesn't exist
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Another sign you are not matured is you put girls over your goals
TheMoosFrequency I fail there 1000000000%
TheMoosFrequency but what if girls are your goals 🤔
then you are not a man just a navel lint
MrSdsok i'm just saying. Like having money and everything ypu ever seeked then comes the girl you always dreamed of and you set her as your goal
That is when you dont have the girl yet. The perfect example i can show you is when you got work to do (a job that you love) but at the same time your girlfriend asks you to go watch movies together. So a wise man would choose his job over his girl. Even if there's a girl you like, you should not prioritize her more than your career/purpose.
Tip: A job that you don't enjoy is NOT your goal. Leave it if you have one :)
Be true to yourself no matter what ...
That's a mature statement.
No. Be the best version of yourself.
True Thank You
i honestly appreciate the video as i really needed the last message, i honestly don't typically complain about life but recently i guess i have been influenced a lot of those people immature around, anyway i will remember this, thankyou 💖
I'm 12, and everyone tells me I'm a mature and wise person for my age. Including my parents. I mean I don't think so but thanks.😶
And....
This way of telling about yourself is a sign of immaturity
For your age its fine
The fast u mature ,the longer u enjoy life.....
Life is short
mature fast
And enjoy ur life
I would hear this constantly as a kid and it just simply wasn’t true. It actually kept me from maturing because I thought I already was. Be objective with your parents opinion about you. They likely just want to brag about you to make themselves look better.
I was more mature in my teens and 20s. Then I started working with people with lower standards, and they had no goals. I have no retirement, because of bad choices, bad health, and the stock market crash of 2008. Associate with great role models. Observe what successful families do to groom their kids for the real world. Do volunteer work for big companies, law firms, or prominent hospitals.
Coool that means you were born on 2007 just like me ya bastard
@@moozaaahead9010 Cussing? That will get you great places. Not mature :(
UA-cam Comments are immature, 90% of the time.
I agree with you 100%.
SegaDisney UA-cam replies are also very immature most of the time.
Yes, definitely the replies! Especially the ones that make no sense at all!
SegaDisney Or the ones that insult the OP for no reason.
So is this comment
Good video! I'd also list seeking approval from others as an indicator that you are not fully mature yet.
+Black Screen Education good one👍
+Get Better Together
I am glad you liked it😊
Black Screen Education I strongly disagree with your comment!
Rusty Sanders 😂😂😂
You Need To Grow Up Dude.
Mature people understand that maturity is self-defined
E.g Others think maturity is drinking and challenging parents and ,while others think maturity is being role-centerd and responsible
'There is only one beautiful and handsome child in the world and every mother has it'
Wonderfully said👌
Maturity doesn’t make you happy tho.Based on these symptoms,seems like once I was a mature guy too,how interesting it is that I have grown up to be immature! I used to not care about my look,I tended to keep all my feelings inside,I was nearly emotionless,I didn’t complain about hard work,instead,I just keep working.I was used to be offended,never defended myself, and I didn’t want people to know my problems.
How miserable I was and still am,but now I know I can do my hair in a different way or I can at least not to wear the same clothing everyday. I used to work 15hours everyday without knowing how morbid it is for a middle schooler.And sharing my feelings and problems really make me feel good, people are suppose to help and share with people all the time,it’s really nice to get your feelings out.
It’s ok to be immature,being immature doesn’t mean you’re inferior,people in general tend to admire mature people and mature lifestyle ,because society is giving people standards and pressures,society always wants us to be mature,it could be a tradition that pass down from former time,when only a small group of people rule the world,these group of people needed obedient people with a great “ethic” and less self-consciousness to help them shaping their world,we were been told it’s always better to restrain yourself.In fact,we do need mature and efficient people to develop the world,but I don’t like the idea of having to force oneself into maturity,it’s ok to be who you are,just to find your balances
I also don’t like what he says about immature people only care about themselves,immaturity doesn’t equal to selfishness,maybe immature people have a tendency of being selfish,but it’s still very immature and superficial of him to make such a conclusion.Even I don’t think he is mature enough,he speaks things in a bitter tone,which makes him sounds like a person who pretends he is mature, it’s the most immature thing to do,but he has a right to express his opinion,and I try my best to not judge his personality
Couldnt agree more
I think you’re mixing up maturity and being boring. Maturity is also knowing when to have fun.
You can be mature and playful at the same time, if u know when to be playful, and when to be serious.
But u can also be immature and boring as well.
How he wrote all this?
And what time it took to write this all! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😅🤔🤔🤔🤔
From what I'm reading, I don't think you've grown immature at all. To me it just sounds like you've grown confidence and a backbone. Frankly, I think another sign of maturity is not that you hold in your feelings, but rather that you're able to vent and express it in a civil and kind manner. And taking care of yourself physically or wearing certain clothes and styling your hair a certain way in order to express yourself isn't immature. I think what the video meant to say was that if you take your looks WAY too seriously, to a point where your happiness depends on whether or not you look good that day, you have a toxic and immature mentality. And people who don't stand up for themselves (mind you, in a calm and neutral tone, and also during the right situation where it's appropriate and you know the way the other person is treating you is unjust) or cannot express their emotions are slightly immature in a way as well, at least I think. So in other words, people like me. haha
So basically, I think you've actually grown more mature over the years, but I don't think you realize that because you have a different idea of what maturity is. I suppose it subjective, but I personally don't find you particularly immature. You're not perfect, every one has room for improvement, but you're on the right path, to maturity that is.
I love this video.
I could understand the changes in me due to the social life circumstances
I'm feeling more optimistic compared to few years ago
Everyone was judging me for my age..
Then about months after all of the judgments I got, i was diagnosed with social anxiety.
But now I'm better and i can say that i learnt a lot from everything that happened to me.
Even being unable to express/explain your challenges, struggles and need is emotional immaturity.
Some people do not know how to put them in words instead tears, anger, brawling, blaming.
They not only have difficulty in expressing challenges but even expressing joy is their problem.
I hope people don't watch this video and try to change themselves to be more mature, because that's just, immature.
Thương Trần ---- Good one 👍
Thương Trần how
Change is good
i agree
He's talking about the good change. Which is what all maturity about.
The thing is u can't change the weather.
But you can move to places with a more suitable climate.
Dennis Petrov absolutely bro you can move to places with suitable climate,apart from that you have no option but regret.
You can enjoy every weather, as soon as it isn't too cold nor too hot. And, as long as weather doesn't describe your feelings...
Shqiponja Mehmeti true!
Dennis Petrov nice one, but moving every time you don't like the weather..... you need to be very very rich for that!
It is 2:23 and I am bored right now
My idea of mature:
1. You listen more than talk
2. You don’t play you hangout
3. You don’t hangout with weird people
4. You listen to rap music, hip hop, or country.
5. You are a calm person and not loud
(Just some ideas)
Thanks for the idea
I know i aint mature, just got curious by the thumbnail
Wow didnt expect to get this many likes, thnx guys
Smiling Sh15 same lmao
nice one :-)
Ok then I just clicked here cause of the thumbnail too
Smiling Sh15 me too
I clicked this shit outta curiosity too, & it turns out according to this shit I am more mature than I thought
What i have learned so far is that life does not go as per our plan. So learn to accept that not every little things you want in your life will happen according to you.
Do not forget to enjoy the journey of life because destination may or may not be what you wanted. 😊
1.ignore complaining people 2.overhear pseudo-insults toward your person from toxic people 3.get perspective over poor souls and stay away from them
everything that you said resonated with me so much and every point that you have mentioned in the video was said to me earlier today by my best friend. its just facts. i hope that we can all grow together and become the best version of ourselves. it is important to acknowledge one's mistakes.
Thanks for watching the vid and taking the time to comment
Have to disagree with the appearance issue. I see people going to work wearing jeans and not caring about their appearance. Mature people get out of bed, take pride in their appearance and look the part. Not some 35 year old dressing like he just came from the skateboard park.
MrJoefizzy
Thats actually got nothing to do with maturity and is rather a superficial influence based on notions of what is normal or culturally acceptable in your environment. That's entirely dependent on what is popular in your environment aswell as different countries have different styles.
That will change over time, and is entirely dependent on the workplace, the universal notion of looking smart would be incompatible in a nuclear plant for example, or in an environment where health and safety equipment is necessary.
Taking pride in appearance is actually something that is very superficial and unnecessary, and fuels emotionally immature behavior like narcissism and competition. It's often something people do during young adulthood when looking for a relationship or trying to impress friends or not feel judged.
People who pay a great deal of attention to how they externally look often do so to compromise for internal discrepancies, the stronger the discrepancies and the deeper the insecurity, the more emphasis on the external image.
too much attention to external image, could actually be symptomatic of insecurity, anxiety or a self conscious mentality.
Over time, many people actually mature and tend to grow out of this behavior, especially when they are retired.
Its not so much not caring, but rather letting go of superficial attachments that burden people during youth, in favor of prioritizing things which are more productive and beneficial for personal development.
Such attachments are not necessary for the entirety of an individual's life journey. Adults are often very immature and that's ok, because people cannot expect to have a lifetimes worth of experience before they have actually lived.
People don't usually truly mature until their life journey is close to an end, that's when people tend to reflect upon their life choices the most.
Primal for me, mature style is one that gives you confidence and comfort. As long as they feel confident and they’re productive, there’s no issue. If someone feels uncomfortable dressing up everyday, it lowers their productivity
EXACTLY!
Theres a fine line between dressing up properly, take pride of it and focusing too much on how u look all the time to the point u frequently stop the task at hand to fix ur look
i think the speaky is talking about those who think looking good will give them a pass into all doors! dont b too concern abt your looks and forget your purpose
What if when the victim is INDEED the victim? How does immaturity has anything to do with unfortunately being the victim? This is just such an unfair world we’re living in.
thank you so much, "Let it go and be more responsible" is stored in my wallet now.
Maturity is not about likes and interests, it's about how minds can understand the source of problem, how it began and how to accept lost.
This video is rather unreliable, everyone has a child inside.Maturity is not determined by a video, but by your actions.
That is very true. You made a great point.
The video basically implies this.
xXMx_G4MINGXx This video explains those actions.
Its in the video.
xXMx_G4MINGXx the child inside is rather a different thing. Being playful for example is a sign of maturity when its not necessary for you to be serious. This is the bad childlike characteristics of a person. But yes a vid doesn't mean much.
I'm 23 and have to say I'm still very immature. I care too much about my appearance, overly defensive, take things for granted like crazy, I don't stick to my plans, I'm spoiled 😢😢😢😭
Because you admit that you have immature traits about yourself, I think of you as very mature.
crazycoollady1999 😀😀👍
O God, give us the wisdom to accept our present, but also give us the courage to better our future, no body's life is ever going to be perfect , still wish everybody happy life :)
Always bringing yourself down is something that would make you an immature human being. Be yourself, you're life will go further than you would expect. The internet and ALL THAT load of B.S are just fake and it makes you feel down and makes you want to be like them. Don't trust the internet like a 2nd or 3rd parent.
You people are great the way you are and should be.
I’m 17 and have been the oldest male in the household for a decade. Being the oldest of 3 siblings and having a single parent made me mature beyond my years and significantly more so then my friends my age. Can anyone else relate?
yes but I was the oldest of 7
Max Duke wtf same dude
The different between mature and not mature is people perspective towards them"SALUTE" they just.."AMAZING..btw you're not alone..know how to manage life also one of mature sign.trial is part of life..
I can relate, I'm am an only child with a small family, I educated myself and seen my fair share of bullshit, I usually talk to people older than me and I like listening to their outlook on life and phrases that mite help me, I also got a job at a young age and left school for a course in construction, I did most things myself, teens my age are usually immuture, superficial morons who complain and take everything for granted
As a woman who has lost my father and aunt when I was young, I can definitely relate.
Some people who also care alot about their looks can also mean they are very insecure, it doesnt mean they are immature, doesnt apply to all scenarios
I have never felt so matured in my life until this.
I'm 36, married, father of a 2 yrs old, but I still don't find self mature enough 😂😂
Thanks a lot for uploading this video. There used to be a time when I was defensive, but not I've changed and realized how immature I used to be.After watching this video, I could easily relate few experiences in my own life.
+Nithin Ganesh Thanks👍 glad you could relate
I think some of the things in this video depend on context, like the obsessiveness over appearance. I personally don't see it as inherently "immature" if its not getting in the way of pursuit of goals, social interaction or how you handle various situations. I think true maturity comes from how responsible you are in day to day life.
Great advice. Be the best you can be but don't become obsessed with it don't compare to others and accept your faults, bad decisions, mistakes or limitations. Sometimes we are the victim and we do need help and we need to be able to express that need of help. Not be ashamed of it not be ashamed of a problem you are having or something that is hurting you. Expose it to the light and then it can be worked out stop hiding it.
I agree to a certain extent. Sometimes, it is necessary to "get stuff done" and not just stay calm and sit on the sidelines letting other people "run the show".
Im mature according to this video but I like being immature at will sometimes.
M. Cobretti, I know exactly what you mean!
I'm immature according to this video, but many people in real life remark on how mature I am.
M. Cobretti ...same
"A little non-sense now and then is relished by the wisest men." - unknown
Richard Baranowski That's true.
I don't want to Grow up, I'm a Toys R Us Kid❤
I'm with you.
how sweet, and so cute stay as you are :-)
I can't understand what you've wrote...
MrR3D he is trying to explain he is a kid into toys still.
You know... Growing up isn't so bad, sure you'll have to think more about your life, think about taxes, your work,your house, ecc... But... You learn somethings too, you learn to take the life with philosophy sometimes instead of just crying over everything, you become more intelligent and learn to think by yourself and stand up for yourself. Growing up is underrated and overrated at the same time lol.
Thanks man! I'm 29 now and still experiencing these terms, mainly arguments and playing victim cards, really wanted to get rid of this.
Many immature comments on the video. Is this immature to say too ?
But the video is very introspective for whoever is mature enough to realize their immaturity and want to improve. Way to go !👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Wow, the last part really struck me there. Maybe I do need to change. Thank you for the video dear sir! Love it and apprexiate!
This really helped . Never realized that I had been such an immature brat the last one really shooked me
my classmates do these stuff and act "matured"
please for god's sake, stop trying to force yourself to be matured, maturity is something you develop instead of forcing yourself to do it.
Maturity comes when people understand that mistake is not the real mistake, not rectifying the mistake and keep moving along the mistake is the biggest mistake.
Well said
@@Prince.C thanks 😊
That people their moods are connected to weather is not immaturity, it is a fact. There is a reason that people get more depressed during the winter.
Bitter Truth lol I am just saying that his information wrong, and your shows why this is necessary. You see this video and blindly accept the information without researching or questioning the facts. To be honest nothing in this video is correct, it is all based on opinions. On his definitions of being an adult. He has to provide sources or researches to back up his claims.
Bitter Truth you still said I was immature for defending, which I wasn't even doing. And yes people are that gullible, that's why Trump is now the president of the U.S.A, he randomly claims stuff without facts or research and people believe him. And sure there are less good researchers, but what does have to do with anything. Generally those researches don't get used, or when they do, they get proven wrong which leaves the claim with no support.
In a way, that is true. I tend to be more miserable when out in the heat (although I tolerate it better than most). Also, many people need the vitamin D from the sun to have their mood improved.
it is actually a legit reason to be upset, especially if you dont have a driver's license and have to walk in shit weather and get your formal clothes wet etc
Maturity (i.e. full growth) may not be the ultimate goal of everyone. Because some enjoy the process of growing. Some enjoy taking turns between being matured and immature. Some enjoy being fixed in their maturity. Lastly, some grow old and back to being innocent again.
You don't need to define your maturity as per those 4 traits. It's a choice. A wise choice is in doing what makes you happy and at peace.
Aum Beedassy absolutely 😋😉
It's hard to have peace when you are worrying about what everyone thinks and reacting what everyone is saying. Also, if you are defensive and refuse to look inward, you won't fix or change faulty thinking and actions, causing you to repeat your mistakes. Which means, you'll have a harder life.
Just my thoughts, take it or leave it...
I totally agree with you. You can only find peace if you look inward. It's not easy, but it's not impossible either.
Switching between both makes your life diverse ...monotonous is less engaging...in my opinion
Responsibility taking is also a sign of maturity. You can't act immature when you have a responsibility, just because you enjoy it.
I recently dated a girl who was a lot younger than me and ended purely because she was just so immature for her age.
There is no way I'd let someone walk over me, and I never will. That doesn't make me immature for not taking responsibility in my role, it makes me mature enough to stand up to myself and defend whatever happened.
Immaturity would be not owning up to mistakes, but immaturity would also be being rude to the other for something they didn't know or realise
I thought I was mature for my age. I guess I'm mistaken. However, many people (especially mature people) remark on how mature I am.
It's just that the traits in this video apply to me.
It's a video on UA-cam... Doesn't mean anything.
Maybe not
Daniyal Ahmed I don't attend parties or act dishonest. Also, many of the quotes I say do implement my life. By your sense, I'm immature.
It's okay. I read it wrong. I think you are a delightful person to speak to. You are also very diligent and mature even if you do not think so.
crazycoollady1999
yes u r not muture.
According to this video, having Seasonal Affective Disorder or Bipolar, wearing makeup, wearing crop tops, thinking on your feet during an argument, or having a traumatic childhood makes you immature. No. There is a lot more to maturity than this video. Hardship can make you into a more mature person.
Faery Halo well said.
Des Tecson I was about to comment "well said" until I saw your comment😂😁
Some people do these things without the disorders lol
I'm even more mature than I thought I was and I thought I was really, really mature.
Thanku for this vedio. Ive been getting constant shaming from my gf about how immature i am. This will certainly help
Also, punishing others in some form or other excessively. Sabotaging them, refusing to help someone, or let groups in, doing things to harm or sabotage others or without their consent or knowledge. Learning to be self-sufficient, honest, healthy, & learning new skills are signs of maturity. Spiritually, realizing the reality that it is.
5. Doing/Helping even if you know you are not going get rewarded.
kiran goud for no reason
watch out of being taken advantage of though
kiran goud Sounds good to others when they hear u saying things lyk dis but if u really do mean it when u say u do help others without expecting anythng in return then it will never affect u in any way. But yeah keeping in mind dat u will not face any problem or invite any unwanted trouble for helping a wrong person.
Life is just simply too short to be weighed down with positives and negatives..We all evolve at different times from different experiences..Maturity is a reflection of what an individual resolves when they have to grow from the things in their lives that simply didn't work out. However immaturity is refusing to advance in the mind. There are people who will always rise above and there are those who won't. Just the absolute of reality
1. Reactive
2. Obsession with looks
3. Defensive
4. Plays the victim card
Remains calm, solves problems, vs. hyperventilating, ignores negative criticism and continues his work (without quitting because of naysayers), NOT INTIMIDATED by others' success but content with self, listens more, only speaks when necessary, focuses on own goals.
there is a difference between cracking a joke about someone and insulting in a subtle way, so one reacting to such situations does nt brand that individual as immature.
Too many generalisations
Ste .L My thoughts exactly.
Ste .L yeah
very true!
Ste .L Human behaviour is very complex, so there are almost always going to be generalizations in these types of videos. I think he did a pretty good job for a five minute video.
Spiker , true
I like this video.. it has really taught me something... really opened my eyes.. :)
Thanks for this video man, i really learned a lot and it was a huge help, keep up the good work
Dislikers are immature i guess...😂😂😂
😂 proves you're too... Lol
Congo For 102 Likes !
xDD
Agree bro..
Adil Ahmed 😆😆😆😆🙌🏻🙌🏻