Dear Cass, For all the times you've given me (and everyone else) support I wish you a thousand times more. You've got a lot going on right now. Just remember to breathe. I'm so proud you and all you've done. I hope you and your family feel peace, love and support from me and all the others you've helped. Love and light to you. ❤️
Well said. Cass, my heart goes out to you and your family. I pray that as you grieve, your family will be the support each other needs, and that the prognosis for other family members will end up being better than anticipated. 🤗🤗🤗
I am crying about poor Oscar and your whole family. I can't imagine how awful you must feel thinking about him AND your relatives AND your surgery all at the same time. And THEN to give US a motivational talk...you're amazingly kind, thoughtful, and strong. Thank you so much for a wonderful motivational talk at a perfect time for me and I imagine for hundreds of others. Sending healing hugs from me and the Universe.
I felt like you and I were having a conversation. I am prepping for surgery, and my father had leukemia. I have been looking at my house, just not feeling it. You put things in perspective for me. You are wise beyond your years, my friend. I wanted to send you a big hug at the end. My sincere condolences for the loss of one of your family that way.
Everybody needs a “get out of a funk” playlist. Thanks Cass, it’s not just your upbeat nature we love, your transparency and vulnerability are the bedrock of why we tune in. Hugs to you and your family. RIP Oscar. 🐶
You mentioned listening to those that get you motivated and enthusiastic - Cas, YOU are one of those people for me!! I also have been depressed lately, and am slowly coming out of my funk, and I love how real and honest you were about it in this video - but without apologizing for it. And then after acknowledging and validating those feelings, you gave practical tips to work through them! ❤ you Cas!
Oh Cas, I'm so sorry to hear about all the weighty stuff going on in your life. Yet even in the midst of your grief and sadness, you still showed up today and made an incredibly motivating video full of encouragement and truth. You didn't sugar coat it. You simply reminded us it's okay to be sad. But you also reminded us there are things we can do to take care of ourselves and our loved ones in the midst of our sadness. You are a blessing to me and many many others. Sending hugs and prayers your way.
Sorry about all this stuff but I’m amazed you were able to send good vibes out that are suffering for their own reasons. When I’m sad I think of all the things I’m grateful for and I serve others that helps me try service you will be amazed!!!!
And you look mahvelous! Prettiest ever! And tho I used to believe appearances don’t matter, seeing you look gorgeous while dealing with so much pain and fear helps me “get it together.” Thanks! Bless you all!❤
Oh Cass! I am sending you a HUGE HUG! Even in this very tough time for you, you are providing support for the rest of us! Thank you! Positive vibes and prayers for you & your family.
Thank you, Cass, for including us in your life and being real. I’m sick to hear the story about Oscar. What a terrible heartache-I can’t even begin to imagine. You’re an awesome example for so many of us and I send you a hug from across the miles. ❤
Oh Cas, I’m so very sorry for your loss. Pets are family and it’s so hard to lose them. Praying for the best outcome of the investigation, as well as for your family members. Look at you, motivating US when you’re going through so much! Keep your head up.
I’m so sorry Cas for your loss & for everything you’re going through. My mouth just fell open & my tears immediately came down my face; I’m so sorry…😢 I’m also praying for the best outcome to this investigation, for you, & your family. Hugs & prayers sent your way…💕
When a beloved pet dies, part of us dies too. The circumstances surrounding the death are equally troubling. When we entrust our loved ones to a place of care, we expect that at least, the very basics will be covered. It is horrible to discover otherwise!
I just lost my Mom and I’ve been struggling. I needed this so much right now. Cass, you never fail to inspire me. I’m grateful for you and wish you all the best.
I lost my Mom, too and I was so desperate and didn´t know, how to go on...Then, in a dream, she appeared and told me, I shouldn´t be worried, she just went "on the other side". and whenever I need her, she will be there as always, I just have to ask. And so I did...first very hesistant, but in the meantime, I talk to her, like she´s in the room with me. (and when no one is around) Sometimes, I can even feel her presence. And I ALWAYS get an answer in many different ways!!...
Cas, you and dawn literally helped me out of a 3 year postnataldepression 3 different medicine could not help. You are my motivation. But also so relatable, so real and honest of your personal struggles/mistakes/fun things. You are a real human and a big rolemodel for me in balansing life, home, health, children, mental heatlh and adhd ❤
I feel like God directed me to your video. Lately, I have just noticed that my depression and anxiety have been exceptionally bad this past month. I notice that it is has been more difficult to accomplish what I need to get done. I am so grateful for the inspiration your videos give. I just want to say how sorry I am to hear about your losses in your life and the health issues you are facing. I am lifting you and your family up in my prayers. I am truly so sorry you are going through such a difficult time.❤️
Let’s all give Cass a boost. LIKE and SUBSCRIBE! I had meant to let her know in a comment last time (I never comment, this is my first time) how hearing her comforting voice can be just what I needed during a challenging time. Last week my husband was recovering from a cancer surgery and listening to that week’s video was just what I needed to get out of my head. So appropriate that she came out with this one. Thank you Cass!
Cass, I'm not a dog person, but my heart broke for you, your family, and your dog while listening to your podcast. Then I come here and watch this video today, knowing what you have been through, and I am so in awe and inspired by your ability to presevere, as you said. Thank you for always being real, for sharing even the tough stuff, and for inspiring us all to persevere too. All my love to you and your family.
Cass, you and your You Tube videos keep me going when I feel down and unmotivated. I listen to them while I do my dishes, laundry or quick tidying up. Can't believe you can think of your viewers while you are going through your own health issues, family health issues, loss of a relative and your pet. Thank you for all you've contributed to my life and please, take care of yourself. Your humanity and care of others shines forth every time you share. Praying your surgery resolves whatever health concern you are facing.
I feel for you Cass. My husband passed away last year and the only way to go forward is to function as you say. I still am so sad inside but I function because I have to. Thank you so much for assuring me that I’m not that far off the track to recovery as I thought I was. God bless you and keep you well. Much love and prayers from Dominican Republic. 🇩🇴 P.S. I a small animal veterinarian in the D.R,. and I really truly feel your pain. I will listen to the podcast .
Cass, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Oscar. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Losing loved ones is painful. Thank you for your vulnerability and being willing to share that with us. I lost my mother about a month ago and so I truly can relate to the pain and grief you are going through. A friend of my sister's sent the following words to her the day my mother went into hospice (she passed away the following day) and they touched my heart: "Grief never ends.. But it changes. It's a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith... It is the price of love." (words from a friend)
I’m heartbroken for you, Cas. It’s amazing to me that even in the midst of all that is happening in your world, you find it in yourself to help others find their way up. I just love you, Cas. Gentle hugs…
My help comes from the bible when I'm going through trials. Thank you for sharing, Cass. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family ♡ Sorry for your loss and hope things get better soon. Thank you for all that you do!
For everyone who is grieving or healing, you are doing hard work right there. If you even maintain on other things while you do that huge project, you are doing a lot! If you know someone else who is grieving or healing, take them food, quietly clean their bathroom, empty their trash cans, just be there for them.
Dear Cass I have been dreading decluttering big stashes in my house. You have helped inspire me. Also reading The Science of Stuck, which I recommend. For some reason everything clicked this week and I have made great progress and gotten stuff to charities, etc. This morning I decided to cull a small bookcase in my hall (I only wanted to work a TINY area today.) Anyway, in the mess I found an old ballet book my older sister had used to collect autographed playbills from several ballet greats, including a playbill from The Bolshoi in Russia. This was a sweet sentimental surprise for me as she died in 1999. The book was too well loved to donate but I didn’t want to trash her treasures. It occurred to me that the playbills would be fabulous framed, and since I drive by a nice ballet school daily, I took it up to the school and gave it to them as a gift in her memory. They were thrilled to get it and it boosted my spirits so much. Now I am really on a search and purge and donate roll. 👍❤️
Cass I am so sorry. Pets are definitely members of the family. So it hits hard when we lose one, especially when it could’ve been prevented. I appreciate you practicing what you preach and making this video for us when you have so much weighing you down at the moment. I’m sending you love and hugs and will keep you and your family in my prayers. Prayers for comfort and for healing and a quick recovery. ❤
Cas, I am so sorry for your loss. That is beyond horrible and something no animal parent should ever have to deal with. Thank you for being strong enough to share your story, to share your pain, and to share how you are continuing to move forward each day. "Just keep swimming," as Dory says. Your strength is inspiring. Sending loving, healing thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
@@marilynndesilva7620I so agree! There is no excuse whatsoever for a beautiful animal to be so neglected! I hope there is some resolution for the sake of Cass and her family!!!
Thank you Cass....I'm a Cass too. I also lost my dog of 17 yrs a few weeks ago, but my circumstances were not so tragic as yours. I am so sorry. This week my husband had a massive stroke and (thank God) he has come through a complicated brain operation. He can move his limbs but is cognitively impaired. We are both 75 and in excellent health up till now. I wonder what will come next. I have been busy cleaning and washing etc and have made sure I look and feel good each day. Did my nails, changed the linen, bought myself a new shirt to wear to the hospital and have made sure I eat well. I am feeling positive about the future and am up for the challenge of taking care of my husband. My brother is a great inspiration as he cares for his wife who has advanced Parkinsons disease and is the most positive person I know. I feel so blessed that my husband of 54 years is able to come home after such a bad stroke and am so grateful that the hospital was so quick to operate and saved his life. "Some days are diamonds and some days are stone" but it is mostly how you take it that gets you through. This is one of the best videos I've ever seen. ❤
Cass~ Your willingness to be vulnerable & to share your very real life journey with us, is one of your best gifts. It’s one of the reasons you’re so likable and why so many of us trust you. Thank you for sharing your ups & downs, your strategies & playlists, & your personal stories. As you take all of this day by day, or even hour by hour, I’m sending you strength from the Rocky Mountains of Colorado, and encouragement from my heart to hang in there. I am so sorry for everything that you’re trying to cope with all at once, and for the tragic & shocking loss of your sweet furry baby. And as a mom & wife, I know you’re also having to cope with not only your own buffet of emotions right now, but also the emotional roller coaster your children & husband are experiencing, as well. It’s a lot. The fact that you got up and got on camera today to encourage everyone during such a deeply heartbreaking, painful, & difficult time, shows a strength & fortitude that is also contagious. This is the type of action that shows true leadership & connection to all of us, and makes so many of us want to rally around you & support you with our love. 🥰 So, please take care of our friend Cass~ she’s very special & needs some extra TLC right now.❤
I can't even think of the right words to say to express how deeply sorry I am to hear about the tragic loss of your beloved Oscar. Along with everything else you are dealing with right now, I am beyond impressed that you have the strength to continue to do what you do best. You are truly an inspiration.
Cass, I can’t believe what happened. You would think it’s impossible. I’m so sorry for your loss and trauma and challenges. Watching your videos is one of my strategies to lift myself up. Thank you for keeping on …. ❤
I don't normally comment on anything on the internet, but felt compelled to reach out. Thank you for this post and thank you for not taking it into a "silver lining" direction. Love that you keep it real and tell it like it is. Big hugs for you and your family as you navigate all of this heavy stuff.
Cass showed and set the example of how to get motivated when life a dumpster fire. As she works through this sadness, may she feel the support of her subscribers, our best wishes and heartfelt empathy.
I'm so sorry to hear about Oscar's passing. I would be emotional and depressed if I lost my Yorkie ( Mickey ). He is basically my therapy dog. When I am feeling down and need comfort, I hold and love on him. I will be lost without him. I have had dogs in the past, but Mickey is my favorite fur baby and I love him like he is my child. So I am so sorry about your loss Cass.
Cass, you are always so damn real unlike so many other "influencers". You deserve happiness and I know if anyone can weather these storms, you can! You inspire the hell out of me. Thank you for everything. Hang in there ❤
So sorry for your loss Cass, must be so hard to have lost your wonderful pet in such circumstances. It's horrible. You are very honest and brave to do a video like this at such a difficult time. You are proving grace under pressure, and it's never easy. More power to you, and thanks for sharing all of this with us. Xx
Cass, this came on my feed at the perfect time 😢 I’m currently going through a lot of health issues, mainly chronic pain, but I’m only 28 and they think I’ve developed arthritis. I have hypothyroidism, fatigue, bladder issues, dental/root canal issues, acne, generalized depression and anxiety and I’m pretty sure I’m pre-diabetic now too. All after having some weight gain in the last year. And I regret not being more active when I was healthy because now that I’m in pain, it’s all I wanna do. 😞 I have isolated most of my friends, because I just feel too overwhelmed by the end of the day. Meanwhile, my room is a complete mess and it feels I can never get on top of my chores and decluttering and organizing my studio. Really needed to hear that. I just need to jump into zombie 🧟♀️ mode as soon as I’m not into much pain. Also, my heart sinks for you and your family and your baby ❤ that was heartbreaking to hear. I hope you find comfort soon.
And thank you so much, by the way, for doing a video about finding motivation in the midst of sadness, depression, etc.in the midst of your own. My husband passed away in October after a long battle with cancer and this has been a daily struggle. Thank you for presenting this with love, compassion, and understanding.
Thank you. My husband died in December, then I got Covid and broke my wrist. You are exactly right. Thank you. My project is throwing out stuff. And quilting. Hope your surgery goes well.
After 1 1/2 years of long Covid, I got out of the habit of doing anything! Now that I'm mostly back, I can't get my house organized! Ugh. I do put music on and focus on good feelings, doesn't always get me far, but it jump starts me! Thank you. ❤
I just had 3 extended family members pass away in just a week and a half. I feel what you’re saying on a deep level. ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for being so inspirational.
Can't even tell you how much I needed this video at this moment. Thank you. Wishing you love to get through this awful time and so much gratitude for helping other people with overwhelm in spite of that. You make a difference.
Watching Dry Bar Comedy is great when I’m doing mundane tasks (cooking, dishes, laundry, whatever isn’t fun a fun task for me! I also enjoy learning how to better myself and decluttering small areas at a time, and cleaning has become so much easier! You and Dawn (minimal mom) have been so inspirational. It took me 2-3 months to train my brain watching videos daily, and now it’s become a habit to clean as I go, put things away, and ask myself “why am I keeping this?” but now I’m doing it and my stress and anxiety have gone down, and I can enjoy my home! THANK YOU! I’m sorry to hear of all you’re going through. I lost my husband to ALS, had to put down his dog 2 years later, and it was awful. But I got myself through by doing projects just like you’re advising others to do. Keep your chin up girl! I’ll be thinking of you and your family ❤ and please know things will get better!
Hugs to you and your family, dear Cass. No words can make this better. But I am grateful that you are real and that you trust us (this community) with your pain. I will be praying for all of you - the surgery, too. You are so loved!
First thing I want to say, Cass, is how sorry I am to hear you're going thru so much grieving now. I've seen how resilient you are and know you've got this! Personally, I tend to stress clean. As long as I'm moving around making my environment clean, I feel like I've accomplished something. Hugs to you from Texas💗
I needed to hear this today. Some days I am so overwhelmed, and I can’t get motivated to do anything. I am so sorry for your loss and all that you are going through. Prayers for you and your family.
Dear Cas & Joe and kids. I'm so sorry to hear about Oscar. It's so hard to lose our furbabies but especially in such a sudden way. This community is behind you all and thinking of you. Sending lots of love, Ann ❤️
Oh Cass, my heart breaks for you 😔 I feel you and that deep sadness. Sending you hugs and light as you walk through this really difficult time. Like others have said, you have lifted me out of many a dark time, please know that we are all thinking of you and your family now.❤️
Thank you, Cas. For being brave and sharing your story, your pain and your struggles. Losing a member of the family is hard enough but most especially when it could have been preventable. I am sorry for your family’s losses. Honestly, this video is by far one of the most helpful for me. I love all of your content but find myself feeling this way more often then I care to admit and finally to hear some helpful solutions coming from a REAL place. To know it’s ok to be sad/overwhelmed and I’m not alone. I wish you and your family healing and peace.
I actually laughed out loud at "turns out I actually hate sourdough". Thanks for everything, Cass. You are an inspiration. And even inspirational people need to take time for the rough stuff. Thanks for sharing your humanity :)
Sending you a huge hug, Cass! You are a massive source of inspiration to me, and your training over the years + the Take Your House Back course just gave me the tools to declutter my house to the point we were able to host our son’s bday at home and LEAVE OUR BEDROOM DOOR OPEN and let people use our ensuite!!!! This was a big milestone for us. Thank you for everything you do to spread love and growth to your audience. You’re amazing, and I hope you find happiness again soon, along with justice for Oscar.
Cass, I am so sorry the loss of Oscar. It IS losing a family member, and it’s hard. I just want you to know that you have been a lighthouse for me over the last couple of years. I have ADHD, Hasimotos, and RA and your channel and podcast is one I can tune into when I feel like no one understands my challenges. Life is never a bowl of cherries 🍒 for anyone, but times like these it’s a bowl full of 💩. Be an ostrich if you need to be. Take time for taking care of you. Sending healing and light to you and your entire family❤🙏🏻🕯️
Cas, my heart is with you and your family during this challenging time. I was incredibly saddened to hear of Oscar’s death on your podcast. You give so much to your community. I hope you feel the love reflected back to you.
Hi Cass, thanks for the honest raw share. I'm a chronic illness warrior and some days it is very hard to not get lost in the "I can't" side of things. You are my motivation, I barrow your "crazy pants" energy and get started, even if it is only a tiny space for 5 minutes and I can do nothing else that day. Thank you for always being there for me. I'm so sorry about all the health issues and losses you are dealing with, I've been there. It's not easy. Borrow some healing from all of us. Sending you love, hugs, positive vibes and prayers. 💗
Five months ago my husband died of stage four lung cancer five weeks after being diagnosed and one chemo treatment. It left me numb. I could have given up and just veggies. Instead, I decided to just do the next thing. It was so helpful to keep on living and moving forward. I'm not saying it was easy, but it was helpful. At the age of 76, I had to learn to live on my own for the first time in my life. My advice is to trust in the Lord and keep doing the next thing.
Perfect timing for me,too. I’ve always had low energy and I need something to motivate my best intentions. I’m so sorry to hear about all the sadness you have been facing. Just continue to take good care of yourself and remember that all this pain will one day pass and the sun will come out once again. Good thoughts to you for your upcoming medical procedure.
I'm so incredibly Sorry, Cass. Just so sorry. The loss of a loving animal, especially tragically and traumatically, it's unbelievably horrendous to live through, and we carry that grief forever. Please, give yourself some comfort and know Oscar's death is not your fault, Oscar was very happy, Oscar loved his life because you and your family were his mommy, daddy, and siblings. You guys were the family he loved and dreamed of. He died in an unfair and unjust way, but he died with his most satisfying and happiest dream coming true: finding a family to live with that truly loved and adored him and gave him a most loving and healthy life. He died happy because you were his mom and he lived a life with your love for him. 🤍💖 Please know I feel your pain. I lost my own baby in an unbelievably tragic and traumatic way. I grieve every day but every day I learn how to live with it better. And hey, one day, we'll be reunited with our babies and live in peace and love and happiness with them. I guarantee it.💖🐕💖
My heart breaks for you, I have had my 3rd surgery since November, but what helped me the most was what you said in this video. I cry when I need to, but haveing a clean house definitely helped me. Love & prayers to you & your family ❤
I'm sorry your going through these difficult times I feel you my brother passed of cancer a few months ago and my sister died suddenly before Christmas and I looked to your videos for inspiration to keep going thank you I'm sending you virtual hugs from Ireland ❤️💖for healing in your sad times.
I call this “tricking my brain” and the funniest part is I do it by watching YOU! ❤️ Whenever I have a clean out or organizing job to do, I’ll watch a few of your videos and I’m good to go! It really does work! Also, so sorry about your pup. We just went through it with our 7 year old fur baby. Should have had so much longer! I feel your sadness! ❤️❤️❤️
Cass, this hit me exactly where I am and it was exactly what I needed!! Thank you so much for the amazing content you put out into the universe...you are making a positive difference in the world whether you know it or not. Also, I am so very sorry for your loss! We lost our dog suddenly last year and I'm still not over it. It's such a traumatizing thing to lose a pet but taking it a day at a time is getting me through. Sending prayers to you and your family!
Oh Cass, my heart goes out to you and your family. Thank you for your transparency. It sends us all an important message that 'it's ok to not be ok!' 💗
Cass, I hope the support of this community that you created gives you the strength you need for the weeks ahead. I'm overwhelmed just thinking about it. Sending you and your family lots of love 💕
Nov. 18, 2024 Right Now life is very hard, yes it can be harder. Thank you ❣️ I just half-ass made my bed❣️ I have bill, getting ready to go to court (having to go to the library and print pictures for the judge today for tomorrow early court time.) I am overwhelmed right Now. I was able to get the dishwasher to wash the dishes last night. I won't be able to do laundry till Friday (today is Monday.) My week is full of appointments. 🫣Sorry, I am listening my lacks.😢😔😩😭 Pray that things change for my family and myself. My youngest is going thru so very much.
Oh man.. this hit me hard! Thank you so much for sharing this season of life with us. I feel this so hard right now.. I've been in a funk and just super low. Sending you love, good vibes, good thoughts and good energy! ✨️💖🙌🙏🍀
Cass, I’m sending your prayers, love and hugs, positive thoughts right now! I went through a similar series of terrible events and you and Minimal Mom were the positive motivation that helped pry myself out of a sad place. I hope you know how much light and love you bring to the world! 🥰❤️🙏
So glad I landed on your channel tonight. This was so needed. Sometimes when it rains, it pours. I felt like a black cloud was following me this week. However, you’ve been hit by so much. So sorry about your beloved fur baby and will sending prayers for your upcoming surgery. I admire your positivity and light that shines through. Your tips are spot on.
Oh, Cas, I’m so very sorry for your tragic loss of Oliver, for the devastation of cancer facing family members, the weight and concern of your own impending surgery, and just the overwhelm of it all. Praying for peace and comfort for you and your family. Thank you for taking the time in the midst of your sorrow to share your story, your insights and tips, and your kind encouraging words. ❤🙏🏼
So sorry for your loss and everything you and your family are going through. I lost my dad a couple of days ago and this video was just what I needed. ❤️
Siento mucho lo que te esta pasando Cass, yo perdí a mi querida gatita hace algún tiempo. Te mando mis mejores buenos deseos para que te sientas mejor y todo ya mejore para ti y tu apreciable familia. Eres buena, nosotros tus seguidores te apoyamos en estos momentos tan difíciles, Puedes contar con amigos en todo el mundo, y aquí desde Tijuana BC MX estoy yo que te admiro y siento que nos haces pertenecer a una gran familia. Gracias Cass por compartir tus experiencias.
Thank you for this!! I felt like you were reading my mind and giving me the encouragement I needed today. I love how real you are! You’re such an inspiration! I’m so sorry to hear that you’re dealing with such sadness with the tragic death of your dog and family health issues! Praying for you and your family!🙏
Dang girl. Definitely didn't think I'd be at the end the video in tears. Thanks for the positive words, and prayers all goes well with your surgery. Hope you get to feeling in better spirits soon :)
Oh Cass I’m so sorry for your loss ❤ I’m praying for you and your family Good for you for putting out this video during such a hard time in your life Your encouragement to so many means a lot ❤ As someone who has suffered from depression for many years I know all to well that you can’t sit and dwell on all that is wrong As you said GET UP !!! I was thinking that moments before your video A body in motion stays in motion My ideas that have worked for me Volunteer, whether that’s helping a neighbour or at a school or where ever you can Myself i volunteer at my church’s thrift store Also I listen to worship music 🎶 headphones in and sing along , probably too loud 😂
You are an amazing person Cass. I'm so grateful I found your channel. It was just the lift I needed. I wish you all positive outcomes with your upcoming procedure. And I'm deeply saddened to hear about your dog and your family member. Praying for you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽😇😇
Cas, I have been following for many years before your weight loss surgery you’re my inspiration. Thank you for always being so genuine and humble. I’m so sorry for your loss. A pet is family. You’re right his death could have been prevented. My condolences. My project that I really want to accomplish is to organize and display all my family’s pictures. Right now, what motivates me is happy music.
Cass, I'm so sorry to hear you are going through a difficult time. Like you said, it is okay to be sad. It is part of the grieving process and you will get through the process in your own time. I love your tips for getting motivated. Another one I think is helpful is to give yourself small "rewards" for completing tasks (i.e., clean the kitchen then relax for a bit with a cup of tea, coffee, or hot chocolate.) I hope your surgery goes well and you have a speedy recovery. Thank you for sharing and for helping others.
I love you Cass! From one Canadian woman to another…PREACH! Dealing with cancer in my family once again, dog is sick, work is nuts. Spent family day clearing all the clutter and made my bed. Sending love and hugs for your loss 💔🐾 Give yourself grace, love and time to heal XO
I'm sorry you lost your dog Oscar, and about the people you love that are sick. I hope your surgery goes well. Your advice about how to get motivated is right on the money. Having something to look forward to has gotten me through some low times in my own life. For me, crafting is like therapy, and sometimes nothing lifts my mood more than having a clean kitchen or putting all the dirty laundry in the hamper. It just makes me feel good to have tangible proof of progress, and the pride of accomplishing something, no matter how small, boosts my self esteem. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Lifting you up in prayer, Cas. You did an amazing job today. Though you have lots of reasons for sadness, you’re still encouraging others. I pray for the very best for your family members, for your upcoming surgery, and tender adjustment as you process the loss of a buddy… a pet, especially a dog, love us unconditionally. They’re always so happy to see us. I’m sorry for the sorrows. Praying for better days, and in the meantime, keep moving forward with your projects. I’ve never been a fan of “you deserve it,” (I’ve got different thoughts about that) but each of us need encouragement and friendship and love. So, sending all that your way. May the God of the Bible bless you mightily. ✨
Cass: I am so sorry for the difficult times you are facing. My heart and prayers are going out to you and your family. And yes I have found,though it’s been a week that I have been following you and harnessing my butterfly that what you have to share is a good dose of reality. Thank you for being real. There is a time for laughing and a time for being serious. You have a lot ahead of you. I’ll keep working on my organizing watching your UA-cam channel. And if there is anything I can do for you, please reach out to me. The world is a smaller place than you think if we let it. God comfort and keep you in perfect peace. Sharon. 🦋👐🦋
Dear Cas, Grief is worthy of the time. And grief isn't something to get over or hurry to get through. It takes its time, changes, ebbs & torrents and lessens over time. We live with grief just like we live with love, joy, excitement and stress. It's a part of us when someone or something dear to us is gone. If we love, we also grieve. You always give me cause to think. I've learned SO much from you over the 3 years. You brighten my day, challenge me, get me moving and you've helped me believe that decluttering is not just worth it but it's definitely possible. Thank you Cas! I was sad to hear about your family members' health. My Mom died about 18 months ago. It's never easy and often the emotions are complicated. The news about Oscar is tragic. Our pups (regardless of age) are often as much family members as anyone. I am so sorry. It's not fair and it shouldn't have happened. I hope you & family will get answers from the investigation that explain why Oscar died. You're in my thoughts. Sending a hug from California. Take good care ❤
Cass, my heart hurts for you! You have been and are such an inspiration and uplifting person to myself and thousands of other people and it hurts to see you hurt. Everything you said is 1000% true about getting through times like this. I lost my mom in 2020 to brain cancer which metastasized from lung cancer, I was her and my stepdad's only caregiver and I took care of him after she passed until this past December 2nd when he passed away in the same inpatient hospice house that she passed away at. It has been a real struggle, so when I saw the pain in your eyes in this video, I recognized it and I cried. But you, just like me, will get through this and you will be stronger on the other end of this journey! I am also so very sorry about your beloved Oscar. That entire situation just breaks my heart!! I have four fur babies and they mean the world to me. I cannot imagine losing any of them in that sort of manner. Please keep us updated on what comes about with it. Either way though it won't bring your sweet baby back and that just really sucks and I'm so sorry! I do want to take a moment to tell you thank you from the bottom of my heart for always making me smile, for giving me tons of good ole belly laughs and for teaching me so many things to help me be the best mom and home manager to my family! I will keep you and your family in my prayers and know that you are very loved!!
Cass, I just prayed for you. Our pets are our family members too with their funny personalities and the things they do, like my little guy who would unwrap gifts because a friend tied some milkbones to a gift she got him. I guess he figured that all gifts must have milkbones somewhere on them...or when I had to resort to a baby gate to block off my sewing room, in order to keep my lace for MY sewing projects...or my husband's sock that my little guy claimed as his own. Or the hiding spot in the corner of the couch where he'd hide his "treasures". Time will soften this, so give it time. The hardest for me was the " firsts".... first time you do laundry, and there's his sweater to be washed, or you find his toy under the table, or you have to give away the things he will never use again, or you clean out his hiding spots. It'll take time to grieve and that's ok. Take the time 😮
I needed this so much! My mom, whom I care for, is fighting stage 4 metastatic colon cancer. It’s so easy to get down and out, but I find that turning my mind off by putting on an audio book and doing diamond art takes me away for a bit and gives me enough of a break that I can continue to care for her. I’m sorry for the loss of your dog. I’d be lost without my puppy. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
I’m sorry for your loss Cass. Praying for you and your family. Thank you for the positivity in this video in the mist of your sorrow. Things I love to do that bring me joy is journaling and scrapbooking🙏🏾❤️
Oh Cass, I’m crying hearing about Oscar & what he went thru & what your family is going thru too. I also know first hand how overwhelming life can be when ours or our loved one’s health is a big concern…with an elderly mom again in the hospital for a month now~~I do turn on your UA-cam & other similar to yours just to get thru washing dishes, folding clothes…I also listen to uplifting podcasts as I shower in the AM just to get my mind straight as early as I can….thank you for your motivation & I’ll be praying for you & your family’s health❤🙏🏽🐾
Dear Cass, For all the times you've given me (and everyone else) support I wish you a thousand times more. You've got a lot going on right now. Just remember to breathe. I'm so proud you and all you've done. I hope you and your family feel peace, love and support from me and all the others you've helped. Love and light to you. ❤️
We love you Cass! Peace Love & Perfect Healing.💐
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Well said.
Cass, my heart goes out to you and your family. I pray that as you grieve, your family will be the support each other needs, and that the prognosis for other family members will end up being better than anticipated. 🤗🤗🤗
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😢. I’m so sorry for your loss. You’re right it was preventable! 😢
I am crying about poor Oscar and your whole family. I can't imagine how awful you must feel thinking about him AND your relatives AND your surgery all at the same time. And THEN to give US a motivational talk...you're amazingly kind, thoughtful, and strong. Thank you so much for a wonderful motivational talk at a perfect time for me and I imagine for hundreds of others. Sending healing hugs from me and the Universe.
Yes and you know what? I bet just by her helping us, it also helped her!
I felt like you and I were having a conversation. I am prepping for surgery, and my father had leukemia. I have been looking at my house, just not feeling it. You put things in perspective for me. You are wise beyond your years, my friend. I wanted to send you a big hug at the end. My sincere condolences for the loss of one of your family that way.
I know I'm seeing this months later. I'm so sorry about your pup. And your family members' illnesses. I've been there.
Everybody needs a “get out of a funk” playlist.
Thanks Cass, it’s not just your upbeat nature we love, your transparency and vulnerability are the bedrock of why we tune in.
Hugs to you and your family. RIP Oscar. 🐶
I have several
I agree about everyone needing their own playlist! My starts with Eric Carmen, “all by myself”! Katrina & the waves “walking on sunshine”afterwards!
Andra Day/ Rise Up is one of my favs... Louise Hay/ I Can Do it (on Audible & YT)
“Never Gonna Not Dance Again” by Pink. A must for your playlist.
@@lindasanders9774 I am in love with this song. I was born dancing before I could walk. When I don’t dance, life isn’t the same. 😉
In the midst of your dark time, you showed up for us! Thank you so much! Praying for you and your family!
You mentioned listening to those that get you motivated and enthusiastic - Cas, YOU are one of those people for me!! I also have been depressed lately, and am slowly coming out of my funk, and I love how real and honest you were about it in this video - but without apologizing for it. And then after acknowledging and validating those feelings, you gave practical tips to work through them! ❤ you Cas!
Oh Cas, I'm so sorry to hear about all the weighty stuff going on in your life. Yet even in the midst of your grief and sadness, you still showed up today and made an incredibly motivating video full of encouragement and truth. You didn't sugar coat it. You simply reminded us it's okay to be sad. But you also reminded us there are things we can do to take care of ourselves and our loved ones in the midst of our sadness. You are a blessing to me and many many others. Sending hugs and prayers your way.
Sorry about all this stuff but I’m amazed you were able to send good vibes out that are suffering for their own reasons. When I’m sad I think of all the things I’m grateful for and I serve others that helps me try service you will be amazed!!!!
And you look mahvelous! Prettiest ever! And tho I used to believe appearances don’t matter, seeing you look gorgeous while dealing with so much pain and fear helps me “get it together.” Thanks! Bless you all!❤
Oh Cass! I am sending you a HUGE HUG! Even in this very tough time for you, you are providing support for the rest of us! Thank you! Positive vibes and prayers for you & your family.
Thank you, Cass, for including us in your life and being real. I’m sick to hear the story about Oscar. What a terrible heartache-I can’t even begin to imagine. You’re an awesome example for so many of us and I send you a hug from across the miles. ❤
Oh Cas, I’m so very sorry for your loss. Pets are family and it’s so hard to lose them. Praying for the best outcome of the investigation, as well as for your family members. Look at you, motivating US when you’re going through so much! Keep your head up.
I’m so sorry Cas for your loss & for everything you’re going through. My mouth just fell open & my tears immediately came down my face; I’m so sorry…😢
I’m also praying for the best outcome to this investigation, for you, & your family. Hugs & prayers sent your way…💕
When a beloved pet dies, part of us dies too. The circumstances surrounding the death are equally troubling. When we entrust our loved ones to a place of care, we expect that at least, the very basics will be covered. It is horrible to discover otherwise!
I just lost my Mom and I’ve been struggling. I needed this so much right now. Cass, you never fail to inspire me. I’m grateful for you and wish you all the best.
Hugs Cindi xx take care of yourself God bless and comfort you
Praying for you and your family, Cass. I’m so sorry. Much love to you.
Hugs to you.
I’m sorry for your loss.
I lost my Mom, too and I was so desperate and didn´t know, how to go on...Then, in a dream, she appeared and told me, I shouldn´t be worried, she just went "on the other side". and whenever I need her, she will be there as always, I just have to ask. And so I did...first very hesistant, but in the meantime, I talk to her, like she´s in the room with me. (and when no one is around) Sometimes, I can even feel her presence. And I ALWAYS get an answer in many different ways!!...
Cas, you and dawn literally helped me out of a 3 year postnataldepression 3 different medicine could not help. You are my motivation. But also so relatable, so real and honest of your personal struggles/mistakes/fun things. You are a real human and a big rolemodel for me in balansing life, home, health, children, mental heatlh and adhd ❤
I feel like God directed me to your video. Lately, I have just noticed that my depression and anxiety have been exceptionally bad this past month. I notice that it is has been more difficult to accomplish what I need to get done. I am so grateful for the inspiration your videos give. I just want to say how sorry I am to hear about your losses in your life and the health issues you are facing. I am lifting you and your family up in my prayers. I am truly so sorry you are going through such a difficult time.❤️
Suffering in a similar way my friend. Prayers for you as well. 🙏❤️. Her video post aligned so impeccably with some of us. Keep faith God will lead us.
Hola Cass:
Thank you for sharing. My prayers to you and your family. Be strong. Thank you for thoughts and energy. Daisy
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Let’s all give Cass a boost. LIKE and SUBSCRIBE! I had meant to let her know in a comment last time (I never comment, this is my first time) how hearing her comforting voice can be just what I needed during a challenging time. Last week my husband was recovering from a cancer surgery and listening to that week’s video was just what I needed to get out of my head. So appropriate that she came out with this one. Thank you Cass!
“Turns out I don’t like sourdough.” 😂 You make us laugh even when you’re going through a hard time. Sending love and praying for your fam. ❤
Cass, I'm not a dog person, but my heart broke for you, your family, and your dog while listening to your podcast. Then I come here and watch this video today, knowing what you have been through, and I am so in awe and inspired by your ability to presevere, as you said. Thank you for always being real, for sharing even the tough stuff, and for inspiring us all to persevere too. All my love to you and your family.
Cass, you and your You Tube videos keep me going when I feel down and unmotivated. I listen to them while I do my dishes, laundry or quick tidying up. Can't believe you can think of your viewers while you are going through your own health issues, family health issues, loss of a relative and your pet. Thank you for all you've contributed to my life and please, take care of yourself. Your humanity and care of others shines forth every time you share. Praying your surgery resolves whatever health concern you are facing.
I feel for you Cass. My husband passed away last year and the only way to go forward is to function as you say. I still am so sad inside but I function because I have to. Thank you so much for assuring me that I’m not that far off the track to recovery as I thought I was. God bless you and keep you well. Much love and prayers from Dominican Republic. 🇩🇴
P.S. I a small animal veterinarian in the D.R,. and I really truly feel your pain. I will listen to the podcast .
I am so very sorry for your loss, Sandra. You'll be in my thoughts. ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you healing love.
I am sorry for your loss. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Prayers to you.
My condolences to you Sandra. Be kind to yourself + patient. Cry as u need to as it will help u process your loss. Sending hugs 🫂 from Australia
Cass, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Oscar. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Losing loved ones is painful. Thank you for your vulnerability and being willing to share that with us. I lost my mother about a month ago and so I truly can relate to the pain and grief you are going through. A friend of my sister's sent the following words to her the day my mother went into hospice (she passed away the following day) and they touched my heart:
"Grief never ends.. But it changes. It's a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith... It is the price of love." (words from a friend)
I’m heartbroken for you, Cas. It’s amazing to me that even in the midst of all that is happening in your world, you find it in yourself to help others find their way up. I just love you, Cas. Gentle hugs…
My help comes from the bible when I'm going through trials. Thank you for sharing, Cass. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family ♡ Sorry for your loss and hope things get better soon. Thank you for all that you do!
I love Bones too. I am grateful for this video. My Mom is dying and this was good for my soul. I’m sorry for your losses.
I’m so sorry, Lillian. Hugs.
Sending love to you.
For everyone who is grieving or healing, you are doing hard work right there. If you even maintain on other things while you do that huge project, you are doing a lot! If you know someone else who is grieving or healing, take them food, quietly clean their bathroom, empty their trash cans, just be there for them.
Dear Cass
I have been dreading decluttering big stashes in my house. You have helped inspire me. Also reading The Science of Stuck, which I recommend.
For some reason everything clicked this week and I have made great progress and gotten stuff to charities, etc.
This morning I decided to cull a small bookcase in my hall (I only wanted to work a TINY area today.) Anyway, in the mess I found an old ballet book my older sister had used to collect autographed playbills from several ballet greats, including a playbill from The Bolshoi in Russia. This was a sweet sentimental surprise for me as she died in 1999. The book was too well loved to donate but I didn’t want to trash her treasures. It occurred to me that the playbills would be fabulous framed, and since I drive by a nice ballet school daily, I took it up to the school and gave it to them as a gift in her memory.
They were thrilled to get it and it boosted my spirits so much. Now I am really on a search and purge and donate roll. 👍❤️
Cass I am so sorry. Pets are definitely members of the family. So it hits hard when we lose one, especially when it could’ve been prevented. I appreciate you practicing what you preach and making this video for us when you have so much weighing you down at the moment. I’m sending you love and hugs and will keep you and your family in my prayers. Prayers for comfort and for healing and a quick recovery. ❤
Cas, I am so sorry for your loss. That is beyond horrible and something no animal parent should ever have to deal with. Thank you for being strong enough to share your story, to share your pain, and to share how you are continuing to move forward each day. "Just keep swimming," as Dory says. Your strength is inspiring. Sending loving, healing thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
I thought maybe adorable Oscar died from age or health complications, but learning that it was dehydration! Inexcusable! That poor little dog. 😢
@@marilynndesilva7620I so agree! There is no excuse whatsoever for a beautiful animal to be so neglected! I hope there is some resolution for the sake of Cass and her family!!!
Thank you Cass....I'm a Cass too. I also lost my dog of 17 yrs a few weeks ago, but my circumstances were not so tragic as yours. I am so sorry. This week my husband had a massive stroke and (thank God) he has come through a complicated brain operation. He can move his limbs but is cognitively impaired. We are both 75 and in excellent health up till now. I wonder what will come next. I have been busy cleaning and washing etc and have made sure I look and feel good each day. Did my nails, changed the linen, bought myself a new shirt to wear to the hospital and have made sure I eat well. I am feeling positive about the future and am up for the challenge of taking care of my husband. My brother is a great inspiration as he cares for his wife who has advanced Parkinsons disease and is the most positive person I know. I feel so blessed that my husband of 54 years is able to come home after such a bad stroke and am so grateful that the hospital was so quick to operate and saved his life. "Some days are diamonds and some days are stone" but it is mostly how you take it that gets you through. This is one of the best videos I've ever seen. ❤
Cass~
Your willingness to be vulnerable & to share your very real life journey with us, is one of your best gifts. It’s one of the reasons you’re so likable and why so many of us trust you. Thank you for sharing your ups & downs, your strategies & playlists, & your personal stories.
As you take all of this day by day, or even hour by hour, I’m sending you strength from the Rocky Mountains of Colorado, and encouragement from my heart to hang in there. I am so sorry for everything that you’re trying to cope with all at once, and for the tragic & shocking loss of your sweet furry baby. And as a mom & wife, I know you’re also having to cope with not only your own buffet of emotions right now, but also the emotional roller coaster your children & husband are experiencing, as well. It’s a lot.
The fact that you got up and got on camera today to encourage everyone during such a deeply heartbreaking, painful, & difficult time, shows a strength & fortitude that is also contagious. This is the type of action that shows true leadership & connection to all of us, and makes so many of us want to rally around you & support you with our love. 🥰
So, please take care of our friend Cass~ she’s very special & needs some extra TLC right now.❤
I can't even think of the right words to say to express how deeply sorry I am to hear about the tragic loss of your beloved Oscar. Along with everything else you are dealing with right now, I am beyond impressed that you have the strength to continue to do what you do best. You are truly an inspiration.
Cass, I can’t believe what happened. You would think it’s impossible. I’m so sorry for your loss and trauma and challenges. Watching your videos is one of my strategies to lift myself up.
Thank you for keeping on …. ❤
I pray you find the peace, comfort, and healing you've given so many of us over the years! Big hug to the entire family🤗❤🙏🏾
I don't normally comment on anything on the internet, but felt compelled to reach out. Thank you for this post and thank you for not taking it into a "silver lining" direction. Love that you keep it real and tell it like it is. Big hugs for you and your family as you navigate all of this heavy stuff.
Cass showed and set the example of how to get motivated when life a dumpster fire. As she works through this sadness, may she feel the support of her subscribers, our best wishes and heartfelt empathy.
I am soo sorry to hear about your losses, Cass 😞 You are such an inspiration and I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers!
In spite of your challenges, you gave me the best 14 minutes and 43 seconds of my day. Thank you. So much love back to you, lady.
I'm so sorry to hear about Oscar's passing. I would be emotional and depressed if I lost my Yorkie ( Mickey ). He is basically my therapy dog. When I am feeling down and need comfort, I hold and love on him. I will be lost without him. I have had dogs in the past, but Mickey is my favorite fur baby and I love him like he is my child. So I am so sorry about your loss Cass.
Cass, you are always so damn real unlike so many other "influencers". You deserve happiness and I know if anyone can weather these storms, you can! You inspire the hell out of me. Thank you for everything. Hang in there ❤
So sorry for your loss Cass, must be so hard to have lost your wonderful pet in such circumstances. It's horrible. You are very honest and brave to do a video like this at such a difficult time.
You are proving grace under pressure, and it's never easy. More power to you, and thanks for sharing all of this with us.
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Cass, this came on my feed at the perfect time 😢
I’m currently going through a lot of health issues, mainly chronic pain, but I’m only 28 and they think I’ve developed arthritis. I have hypothyroidism, fatigue, bladder issues, dental/root canal issues, acne, generalized depression and anxiety and I’m pretty sure I’m pre-diabetic now too. All after having some weight gain in the last year. And I regret not being more active when I was healthy because now that I’m in pain, it’s all I wanna do. 😞 I have isolated most of my friends, because I just feel too overwhelmed by the end of the day. Meanwhile, my room is a complete mess and it feels I can never get on top of my chores and decluttering and organizing my studio. Really needed to hear that. I just need to jump into zombie 🧟♀️ mode as soon as I’m not into much pain.
Also, my heart sinks for you and your family and your baby ❤ that was heartbreaking to hear. I hope you find comfort soon.
I'm in shock. I'm so sorry life is going awful right now. Your positivity during all of this is so inspiring. You are so strong Cass. ❤️🇨🇦
And thank you so much, by the way, for doing a video about finding motivation in the midst of sadness, depression, etc.in the midst of your own. My husband passed away in October after a long battle with cancer and this has been a daily struggle. Thank you for presenting this with love, compassion, and understanding.
Thank you. My husband died in December, then I got Covid and broke my wrist. You are exactly right. Thank you. My project is throwing out stuff. And quilting. Hope your surgery goes well.
I'm so sorry for your alls loss & everything that the whole family is going through. Lifting you & the whole family up in prayer in Jesus Mighty Name.
Amen🙏🏻😘
After 1 1/2 years of long Covid, I got out of the habit of doing anything! Now that I'm mostly back, I can't get my house organized! Ugh. I do put music on and focus on good feelings, doesn't always get me far, but it jump starts me! Thank you. ❤
I just had 3 extended family members pass away in just a week and a half. I feel what you’re saying on a deep level. ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for being so inspirational.
Very true!! But sometimes I have to hide and shut down to heal myself but then I just say to myself “come girl keep moving”.💖🌸
Can't even tell you how much I needed this video at this moment. Thank you. Wishing you love to get through this awful time and so much gratitude for helping other people with overwhelm in spite of that. You make a difference.
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Me too xxx
Watching Dry Bar Comedy is great when I’m doing mundane tasks (cooking, dishes, laundry, whatever isn’t fun a fun task for me! I also enjoy learning how to better myself and decluttering small areas at a time, and cleaning has become so much easier! You and Dawn (minimal mom) have been so inspirational. It took me 2-3 months to train my brain watching videos daily, and now it’s become a habit to clean as I go, put things away, and ask myself “why am I keeping this?” but now I’m doing it and my stress and anxiety have gone down, and I can enjoy my home! THANK YOU! I’m sorry to hear of all you’re going through. I lost my husband to ALS, had to put down his dog 2 years later, and it was awful. But I got myself through by doing projects just like you’re advising others to do. Keep your chin up girl! I’ll be thinking of you and your family ❤ and please know things will get better!
Hugs to you and your family, dear Cass. No words can make this better. But I am grateful that you are real and that you trust us (this community) with your pain. I will be praying for all of you - the surgery, too. You are so loved!
I'm so sorry you're having such a sad and challenging time right now, Cass. Thank you for all you do. Thank you for being such an inspiration. Xx
First thing I want to say, Cass, is how sorry I am to hear you're going thru so much grieving now. I've seen how resilient you are and know you've got this! Personally, I tend to stress clean. As long as I'm moving around making my environment clean, I feel like I've accomplished something. Hugs to you from Texas💗
I'm so glad I watched this. I am prone to depression anyway and I'm very overwhelmed. Cas has really help me (I'm a 🐝).
I needed to hear this today. Some days I am so overwhelmed, and I can’t get motivated to do anything. I am so sorry for your loss and all that you are going through. Prayers for you and your family.
Dear Cas & Joe and kids. I'm so sorry to hear about Oscar. It's so hard to lose our furbabies but especially in such a sudden way. This community is behind you all and thinking of you. Sending lots of love, Ann ❤️
Oh Cass, my heart breaks for you 😔 I feel you and that deep sadness. Sending you hugs and light as you walk through this really difficult time. Like others have said, you have lifted me out of many a dark time, please know that we are all thinking of you and your family now.❤️
Thank you, Cas. For being brave and sharing your story, your pain and your struggles. Losing a member of the family is hard enough but most especially when it could have been preventable. I am sorry for your family’s losses.
Honestly, this video is by far one of the most helpful for me. I love all
of your content but find myself feeling this way more often then I care to admit and finally to hear some helpful solutions coming from a REAL place. To know it’s ok to be sad/overwhelmed and I’m not alone.
I wish you and your family healing and peace.
I actually laughed out loud at "turns out I actually hate sourdough". Thanks for everything, Cass. You are an inspiration. And even inspirational people need to take time for the rough stuff. Thanks for sharing your humanity :)
What a soulful dog. I am sure Oscar is watching over you from doggy heaven. ❤️🐶😇
Listening to this as I’m tackling my kitchen and laundry. Thank you and praying for your family!
Sending you a huge hug, Cass! You are a massive source of inspiration to me, and your training over the years + the Take Your House Back course just gave me the tools to declutter my house to the point we were able to host our son’s bday at home and LEAVE OUR BEDROOM DOOR OPEN and let people use our ensuite!!!! This was a big milestone for us. Thank you for everything you do to spread love and growth to your audience. You’re amazing, and I hope you find happiness again soon, along with justice for Oscar.
Cass, I am so sorry the loss of Oscar. It IS losing a family member, and it’s hard. I just want you to know that you have been a lighthouse for me over the last couple of years. I have ADHD, Hasimotos, and RA and your channel and podcast is one I can tune into when I feel like no one understands my challenges. Life is never a bowl of cherries 🍒 for anyone, but times like these it’s a bowl full of 💩.
Be an ostrich if you need to be. Take time for taking care of you.
Sending healing and light to you and your entire family❤🙏🏻🕯️
Cas, my heart is with you and your family during this challenging time. I was incredibly saddened to hear of Oscar’s death on your podcast. You give so much to your community. I hope you feel the love reflected back to you.
Hi Cass, thanks for the honest raw share. I'm a chronic illness warrior and some days it is very hard to not get lost in the "I can't" side of things. You are my motivation, I barrow your "crazy pants" energy and get started, even if it is only a tiny space for 5 minutes and I can do nothing else that day. Thank you for always being there for me. I'm so sorry about all the health issues and losses you are dealing with, I've been there. It's not easy. Borrow some healing from all of us. Sending you love, hugs, positive vibes and prayers. 💗
Five months ago my husband died of stage four lung cancer five weeks after being diagnosed and one chemo treatment. It left me numb. I could have given up and just veggies. Instead, I decided to just do the next thing. It was so helpful to keep on living and moving forward. I'm not saying it was easy, but it was helpful. At the age of 76, I had to learn to live on my own for the first time in my life. My advice is to trust in the Lord and keep doing the next thing.
Perfect timing for me,too. I’ve always had low energy and I need something to motivate my best intentions. I’m so sorry to hear about all the sadness you have been facing. Just continue to take good care of yourself and remember that all this pain will one day pass and the sun will come out once again. Good thoughts to you for your upcoming medical procedure.
"When you talk, you also talk to yourself" ❤ Thanks Cas. It's a lot, and you help us during this process. Wow. Respect.
I'm so incredibly Sorry, Cass. Just so sorry. The loss of a loving animal, especially tragically and traumatically, it's unbelievably horrendous to live through, and we carry that grief forever. Please, give yourself some comfort and know Oscar's death is not your fault, Oscar was very happy, Oscar loved his life because you and your family were his mommy, daddy, and siblings. You guys were the family he loved and dreamed of. He died in an unfair and unjust way, but he died with his most satisfying and happiest dream coming true: finding a family to live with that truly loved and adored him and gave him a most loving and healthy life. He died happy because you were his mom and he lived a life with your love for him. 🤍💖
Please know I feel your pain. I lost my own baby in an unbelievably tragic and traumatic way. I grieve every day but every day I learn how to live with it better. And hey, one day, we'll be reunited with our babies and live in peace and love and happiness with them. I guarantee it.💖🐕💖
I’m so sorry for your losses! I’m praying for you and your surgery! Thx for the pep talk. You are so right! 👍
My heart breaks for you, I have had my 3rd surgery since November, but what helped me the most was what you said in this video. I cry when I need to, but haveing a clean house definitely helped me. Love & prayers to you & your family ❤
I'm sorry your going through these difficult times I feel you my brother passed of cancer a few months ago and my sister died suddenly before Christmas and I looked to your videos for inspiration to keep going thank you I'm sending you virtual hugs from Ireland ❤️💖for healing in your sad times.
I call this “tricking my brain” and the funniest part is I do it by watching YOU! ❤️ Whenever I have a clean out or organizing job to do, I’ll watch a few of your videos and I’m good to go! It really does work! Also, so sorry about your pup. We just went through it with our 7 year old fur baby. Should have had so much longer! I feel your sadness! ❤️❤️❤️
Cass, this hit me exactly where I am and it was exactly what I needed!! Thank you so much for the amazing content you put out into the universe...you are making a positive difference in the world whether you know it or not. Also, I am so very sorry for your loss! We lost our dog suddenly last year and I'm still not over it. It's such a traumatizing thing to lose a pet but taking it a day at a time is getting me through. Sending prayers to you and your family!
Loss is difficult, praying for grace and peace 🐾🐾💗
Oh Cass, my heart goes out to you and your family. Thank you for your transparency. It sends us all an important message that 'it's ok to not be ok!' 💗
Cass, I hope the support of this community that you created gives you the strength you need for the weeks ahead. I'm overwhelmed just thinking about it. Sending you and your family lots of love 💕
Nov. 18, 2024 Right Now life is very hard, yes it can be harder.
Thank you ❣️ I just half-ass made my bed❣️
I have bill, getting ready to go to court (having to go to the library and print pictures for the judge today for tomorrow early court time.) I am overwhelmed right Now. I was able to get the dishwasher to wash the dishes last night. I won't be able to do laundry till Friday (today is Monday.) My week is full of appointments.
🫣Sorry, I am listening my lacks.😢😔😩😭 Pray that things change for my family and myself. My youngest is going thru so very much.
Oh man.. this hit me hard! Thank you so much for sharing this season of life with us. I feel this so hard right now.. I've been in a funk and just super low. Sending you love, good vibes, good thoughts and good energy! ✨️💖🙌🙏🍀
Cass, I’m sending your prayers, love and hugs, positive thoughts right now! I went through a similar series of terrible events and you and Minimal Mom were the positive motivation that helped pry myself out of a sad place. I hope you know how much light and love you bring to the world! 🥰❤️🙏
So glad I landed on your channel tonight. This was so needed. Sometimes when it rains, it pours. I felt like a black cloud was following me this week. However, you’ve been hit by so much. So sorry about your beloved fur baby and will sending prayers for your upcoming surgery.
I admire your positivity and light that shines through. Your tips are spot on.
Oh, Cas, I’m so very sorry for your tragic loss of Oliver, for the devastation of cancer facing family members, the weight and concern of your own impending surgery, and just the overwhelm of it all. Praying for peace and comfort for you and your family. Thank you for taking the time in the midst of your sorrow to share your story, your insights and tips, and your kind encouraging words. ❤🙏🏼
So sorry for your loss and everything you and your family are going through. I lost my dad a couple of days ago and this video was just what I needed. ❤️
The JOY of the Lord is your STRENGTH ❤ Praying for you and your family.
Siento mucho lo que te esta pasando Cass, yo perdí a mi querida gatita hace algún tiempo. Te mando mis mejores buenos deseos para que te sientas mejor y todo ya mejore para ti y tu apreciable familia. Eres buena, nosotros tus seguidores te apoyamos en estos momentos tan difíciles, Puedes contar con amigos en todo el mundo, y aquí desde Tijuana BC MX estoy yo que te admiro y siento que nos haces pertenecer a una gran familia. Gracias Cass por compartir tus experiencias.
Thank you for this!! I felt like you were reading my mind and giving me the encouragement I needed today. I love how real you are! You’re such an inspiration! I’m so sorry to hear that you’re dealing with such sadness with the tragic death of your dog and family health issues! Praying for you and your family!🙏
Dang girl. Definitely didn't think I'd be at the end the video in tears.
Thanks for the positive words, and prayers all goes well with your surgery. Hope you get to feeling in better spirits soon :)
Oh Cass I’m so sorry for your loss ❤
I’m praying for you and your family
Good for you for putting out this video during such a hard time in your life
Your encouragement to so many means a lot ❤
As someone who has suffered from depression for many years I know all to well that you can’t sit and dwell on all that is wrong
As you said GET UP !!!
I was thinking that moments before your video
A body in motion stays in motion
My ideas that have worked for me
Volunteer, whether that’s helping a neighbour or at a school or where ever you can
Myself i volunteer at my church’s thrift store
Also I listen to worship music 🎶 headphones in and sing along , probably too loud 😂
You are an amazing person Cass. I'm so grateful I found your channel. It was just the lift I needed. I wish you all positive outcomes with your upcoming procedure. And I'm deeply saddened to hear about your dog and your family member. Praying for you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽😇😇
Cas, I have been following for many years before your weight loss surgery you’re my inspiration. Thank you for always being so genuine and humble. I’m so sorry for your loss. A pet is family. You’re right his death could have been prevented. My condolences.
My project that I really want to accomplish is to organize and display all my family’s pictures. Right now, what motivates me is happy music.
Cass, I'm so sorry to hear you are going through a difficult time. Like you said, it is okay to be sad. It is part of the grieving process and you will get through the process in your own time. I love your tips for getting motivated. Another one I think is helpful is to give yourself small "rewards" for completing tasks (i.e., clean the kitchen then relax for a bit with a cup of tea, coffee, or hot chocolate.) I hope your surgery goes well and you have a speedy recovery. Thank you for sharing and for helping others.
I love you Cass! From one Canadian woman to another…PREACH! Dealing with cancer in my family once again, dog is sick, work is nuts. Spent family day clearing all the clutter and made my bed. Sending love and hugs for your loss 💔🐾 Give yourself grace, love and time to heal XO
I'm sorry you lost your dog Oscar, and about the people you love that are sick. I hope your surgery goes well. Your advice about how to get motivated is right on the money. Having something to look forward to has gotten me through some low times in my own life. For me, crafting is like therapy, and sometimes nothing lifts my mood more than having a clean kitchen or putting all the dirty laundry in the hamper. It just makes me feel good to have tangible proof of progress, and the pride of accomplishing something, no matter how small, boosts my self esteem. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Lifting you up in prayer, Cas. You did an amazing job today. Though you have lots of reasons for sadness, you’re still encouraging others. I pray for the very best for your family members, for your upcoming surgery, and tender adjustment as you process the loss of a buddy… a pet, especially a dog, love us unconditionally. They’re always so happy to see us. I’m sorry for the sorrows. Praying for better days, and in the meantime, keep moving forward with your projects. I’ve never been a fan of “you deserve it,” (I’ve got different thoughts about that) but each of us need encouragement and friendship and love. So, sending all that your way. May the God of the Bible bless you mightily. ✨
Oh! And just now hearing the end of your video! Goodness, I’m so sorry for Oscars passing… oh oh oh… I have no words. 😢
Cass: I am so sorry for the difficult times you are facing. My heart and prayers are going out to you and your family. And yes I have found,though it’s been a week that I have been following you and harnessing my butterfly that what you have to share is a good dose of reality. Thank you for being real. There is a time for laughing and a time for being serious. You have a lot ahead of you. I’ll keep working on my organizing watching your UA-cam channel. And if there is anything I can do for you, please reach out to me. The world is a smaller place than you think if we let it. God comfort and keep you in perfect peace. Sharon. 🦋👐🦋
Dear Cas,
Grief is worthy of the time. And grief isn't something to get over or hurry to get through. It takes its time, changes, ebbs & torrents and lessens over time. We live with grief just like we live with love, joy, excitement and stress. It's a part of us when someone or something dear to us is gone. If we love, we also grieve.
You always give me cause to think. I've learned SO much from you over the 3 years. You brighten my day, challenge me, get me moving and you've helped me believe that decluttering is not just worth it but it's definitely possible. Thank you Cas!
I was sad to hear about your family members' health. My Mom died about 18 months ago. It's never easy and often the emotions are complicated. The news about Oscar is tragic. Our pups (regardless of age) are often as much family members as anyone. I am so sorry. It's not fair and it shouldn't have happened. I hope you & family will get answers from the investigation that explain why Oscar died.
You're in my thoughts. Sending a hug from California. Take good care ❤
Sorry for your loss Cass. You've always been an inspiration and my heart goes out to you. Much love from India
Cass, my heart hurts for you! You have been and are such an inspiration and uplifting person to myself and thousands of other people and it hurts to see you hurt. Everything you said is 1000% true about getting through times like this. I lost my mom in 2020 to brain cancer which metastasized from lung cancer, I was her and my stepdad's only caregiver and I took care of him after she passed until this past December 2nd when he passed away in the same inpatient hospice house that she passed away at. It has been a real struggle, so when I saw the pain in your eyes in this video, I recognized it and I cried. But you, just like me, will get through this and you will be stronger on the other end of this journey! I am also so very sorry about your beloved Oscar. That entire situation just breaks my heart!! I have four fur babies and they mean the world to me. I cannot imagine losing any of them in that sort of manner. Please keep us updated on what comes about with it. Either way though it won't bring your sweet baby back and that just really sucks and I'm so sorry! I do want to take a moment to tell you thank you from the bottom of my heart for always making me smile, for giving me tons of good ole belly laughs and for teaching me so many things to help me be the best mom and home manager to my family! I will keep you and your family in my prayers and know that you are very loved!!
Cass, I just prayed for you. Our pets are our family members too with their funny personalities and the things they do, like my little guy who would unwrap gifts because a friend tied some milkbones to a gift she got him. I guess he figured that all gifts must have milkbones somewhere on them...or when I had to resort to a baby gate to block off my sewing room, in order to keep my lace for MY sewing projects...or my husband's sock that my little guy claimed as his own. Or the hiding spot in the corner of the couch where he'd hide his "treasures".
Time will soften this, so give it time. The hardest for me was the " firsts".... first time you do laundry, and there's his sweater to be washed, or you find his toy under the table, or you have to give away the things he will never use again, or you clean out his hiding spots.
It'll take time to grieve and that's ok. Take the time 😮
I needed this so much! My mom, whom I care for, is fighting stage 4 metastatic colon cancer. It’s so easy to get down and out, but I find that turning my mind off by putting on an audio book and doing diamond art takes me away for a bit and gives me enough of a break that I can continue to care for her.
I’m sorry for the loss of your dog. I’d be lost without my puppy. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
I’m sorry for your loss Cass. Praying for you and your family. Thank you for the positivity in this video in the mist of your sorrow. Things I love to do that bring me joy is journaling and scrapbooking🙏🏾❤️
Oh Cass, I’m crying hearing about Oscar & what he went thru & what your family is going thru too. I also know first hand how overwhelming life can be when ours or our loved one’s health is a big concern…with an elderly mom again in the hospital for a month now~~I do turn on your UA-cam & other similar to yours just to get thru washing dishes, folding clothes…I also listen to uplifting podcasts as I shower in the AM just to get my mind straight as early as I can….thank you for your motivation & I’ll be praying for you & your family’s health❤🙏🏽🐾
So thankful for this! This is what I need!!! I also have a tendency to ostrich.
I’m so sorry for the hard things going on in your life! 💔