People mistake peace for boredom...

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  • @knithappy
    @knithappy 27 днів тому +13

    I’m 63 years old and wish I had this wisdom many years earlier! You are wise beyond your years.

  • @Iris-919
    @Iris-919 27 днів тому +10

    As a certified homebody, this message resonates w me. I find peace in solitude. It calms me. Gives me time to process thoughts & emotions w/o distractions. Some of my favorite activities I do alone...reading, bike riding, cooking. I don't feel bored or like I'm missing out. Some people have a hard time being alone w their thoughts & feelings so they need distractions. This is a much needed message. Thank you Tim! 💖

  • @janiceellis6513
    @janiceellis6513 27 днів тому +24

    This is so true. People do mistake peace for boredom. My husband is a Christian man who likes to go to church & read the Bible. He’s STABLE, he’s kind, he doesn’t need a lot of excitement. I tell young women, “ain’t nothing like good treatment!” He will give me his last dime; doesn’t care if my hair is short or long, or I can wear a paper bag on my head….he’s cool with me however I wear my hair or whatever I want to wear. I love that.

    • @Gurl-5150
      @Gurl-5150 27 днів тому

      Serial killer. Look in your basement lady!

    • @BESTMOAD
      @BESTMOAD 27 днів тому

      ​@Gurl-5150 you one of them gulls that can't live without a daily dose of drama

    • @stf8369
      @stf8369 27 днів тому +7

      Beautiful story, I'm so happy for you. Don't pay these jealous people no mind.

    • @janiceellis6513
      @janiceellis6513 27 днів тому +2

      @@Gurl-5150 a tree is known by the fruit it bears. My husband is 94, in perfect health, still cuts his own yard, takes out the trash, takes no medication whatsoever, and he gets up to thank God every day he’s living. He unselfishly still helps with the local food distribution ministry picking up food to distribute to families, and he’s the most respected deacon in his church & community. He loves God & desires to live right. Joke all you want, but there’s nothing like a real man of God.

  • @janiceellis6513
    @janiceellis6513 27 днів тому +10

    Another thing, he respects women. A lot of men thinks it’s okay to disrespect or hit a woman….not my guy; he would never hit me. He wants to live right before God, so he honors me, loves me & respects me.

  • @berniejeanjones596
    @berniejeanjones596 27 днів тому +9

    Love seeing a young man talking about this kind of subject, this is a lesson that takes so many people a lifetime to learn, if they ever learn it at all. So much pressure to be this or that, so much noise coming at us that it's hard to find yourself, let alone accept yourself. Getting stuck on becoming this "ideal" version of ourselves is really just a prison we create for ourselves. Keep up the positive talk!

  • @debbiepochy6751
    @debbiepochy6751 26 днів тому +4

    You are so right Tim! My husband and I are both retired and in our 60's after both of us having busy careers. We see some of our friends constantly posting about traveling, cruises, etc. Both of us love to be home! I love to read, cook, garden and keep a beautiful home. My husband loves to work outside and keep up on all the yardwork. We still like to go out to eat once in a while and do short road trips. We find peace and relaxation in our own back yard! 💗

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr 27 днів тому +9

    Praying for peace in our country and world.🙏

  • @jonathanpatterson4558
    @jonathanpatterson4558 27 днів тому +10

    love you tim.

  • @historianKelly
    @historianKelly 26 днів тому +3

    Tim, not only does lack of drama not equal boring, don't let society make you feel like, if you prefer being alone, OR, if you don't meet anyone who shares your interests, that that means any less about yourself and your choices. When I was younger, I really wanted to be in relationships, but by the time I was in my early 30s, I started wanting more & more time to myself, especially to pursue my hobbies & spend time with friends & family. Now that I'm in my late 50s, I'm good with the choices I made. I love the solitude. That's *my* happy space. It's not for everyone. But no one can shame me for making my choices, because I served my family, I still serve my community, I care for rescue pets, and I share the things I'm good at with anyone who can use my help - I'm not selfish, I just like solitude. No one should allow others to dictate what their happiness is to them. As long as you aren't hurting others, as long as one spreads love (it's the only thing that truly matters), it's all good. ☮️

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr 27 днів тому +9

    That is a reason I don’t follow Social Media!

  • @elainecarey6915
    @elainecarey6915 27 днів тому +10

    Tim grab a cool drink and sit outside on the porch and listen to sitting on the. Dock of the bay. That’s chillin I gave me my best life at 71 years old! Just have to relax and love finds you!!

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr 27 днів тому +7

    My husband and I have been married for 55 years. We are so Blessed!❤

  • @intensepassion3382
    @intensepassion3382 27 днів тому +5

    Such wise advice for a young Man. Yes, I think just peace. ❤

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr 27 днів тому +7

    I pray to God each and every night to thank Him for the many Blessings that He has bestowed upon me and my family!❤️🙏

  • @dianeouellette3571
    @dianeouellette3571 27 днів тому +5

    In an interview Oprah once said that when she first met her life partner, Steadman, her girlfriends warned her that he was dull and boring. As she got to know him, she found him to be a principled man who was a very deep thinker....not at all dull or boring...just not really into a lot of drama. A perfect match for her.

    • @MissJensk1
      @MissJensk1 27 днів тому +2

      Are you serious? A woman who seeks wealth, fame, by delving into other people's drama? Even made up drama, like the Harkles? Worst possible example.

    • @dianeouellette3571
      @dianeouellette3571 27 днів тому

      @@MissJensk1 I know. It's ironic isn't it?

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr 27 днів тому +5

    Sending prayers and love your way!🙏

  • @katboss4886
    @katboss4886 27 днів тому +5

    I would go to the shore with my guy. He sea fishes, I sit in my chair & read my book. It works for both

  • @marvinbone1379
    @marvinbone1379 27 днів тому +4

    Wow, that's AMAZING, Tim ! I wish i'd heard this EONS ago. Reminds me of an old saying, "millions long for immortality.... who are bored, on a rainy Sunday"

  • @barbcarolegrafton6981
    @barbcarolegrafton6981 27 днів тому +5

    Thanks Tim. Good talk! I’m sure lots of people would find my life boring but I don’t care. They don’t have to live it. I am sure I would not want to live their life either. 🤷🏻‍♀️ And that’s okay. The older you get, the more you realize that it is okay to live a life that others don’t understand.

  • @joannparker1977
    @joannparker1977 21 день тому

    Tim, I just happened upon this yesterday. It from like 1941 I think.
    To be silent the whole day, see no newspaper, hear no radio, listen to no gossip, be thoroughly and completely lazy, thoroughly and completely indifferent to the fate of the world is the finest medicine a man can give himself. ~Henry Miller
    You are so right. When I read this above, it sounds like nirvana sometimes.
    But, when I first started trying to do this, I felt guilty. Thinking to myself "Why am I not cleaning up and hauling all the junk I have down to the dumpster?" Or some many things like that. But, I try to tell myself, convince myself, it's okay to do literally nothing "productive" all day. But in the end, spending a day like this is beyond productive. It's important to ask yourself "can this wait? Can it be done tomorrow or the next day?" That's what I ask myself. I hate being a slave to time. What time it is. Having to rush and worry about time. And unplugging has become way easier.
    As far aa going out for a good time, I just do it when I want. And when I'm around people that are like, let's go, go, go, do this and do that, I've become old enough to say no. And sometimes they look at me like I have some problem. Fuck them. Learning to say no and not caring what they think will quickly show you who you don't enjoy hanging with. Find and be with people that accept and enjoy being around you. They are out there.

  • @MariMack
    @MariMack 27 днів тому +3

    Wise words. Thank you for sharing. You be you!

  • @Foxyjk50
    @Foxyjk50 27 днів тому +4

    Wow Tim, you just blew me away with this and I am so glad I tuned in and watched .., to be your age and have so much depth regarding life in general is so wonderful. I could listen to this over and over again, you’re so motivating and inspiring. As a social worker for the past 26 years for largest county in the country, I can only hope that I have been as inspiring as you are for the thousands of clients I have worked with. You have such insight and awareness and it’s refreshing to see. Thank you for being you and Keep up the good work, you are pure awesomeness… ❤

  • @user-yj7iq6um8g
    @user-yj7iq6um8g 27 днів тому +5

    You are right we are all different and like different things , that’s the way of the world. I am a home body also and I keep myself busy. You are a very knowledgeable young man keep up the good work. Thanks for sharing

  • @pjperdue1293
    @pjperdue1293 9 днів тому

    It's whatever feeds your soul. I'm old enough to be your grandma and I can tell you, you're right. You stumbled on this wisdom at a young age. 🥰 Most of us take a few decades more to realize it.

  • @stf8369
    @stf8369 27 днів тому +3

    So true, my husband and I do not like to travel much even though we have traveled. We like being at home, cooking making our home pretty with DIY projects etc

  • @tracytryall4261
    @tracytryall4261 27 днів тому +2

    I love this, Tim❤ I'm a homebody, too. As we grow a bit and heal from our past and possibly trauma, we crave serenity, peace, quiet, movies, good cooking at home. Keep doing what you are doing😊

  • @Marian-sl4mw
    @Marian-sl4mw 27 днів тому +2

    AMEN! Please keep your motivational talks coming. I’m not of your generation but I’m listening when you speak because I know God can use anyone at anytime to speak a word. Thank You. ❤❤❤

  • @BB-nu3vd
    @BB-nu3vd 27 днів тому +5

    I like “boring.“ I’m a low-key person and that’s what I want in someone else.

  • @robertfullone9032
    @robertfullone9032 27 днів тому +3

    I have no time for revenge. Heard this the other day, find myself thinking about it often.

  • @LillyRose924
    @LillyRose924 26 днів тому +2

    To get this at such a young age means you're on the right path little brother. I struggle a bit with people saying I'm odd because I like books and birds and trees. I learned that separating myself immediately from the negativity works wonders. So continue on your own path, you have a great start. I wish you and your brother much success and happiness ❤❤

  • @MissJensk1
    @MissJensk1 27 днів тому +4

    A friend's eife left him because, she said, he was boring. That was over 20 years ago. Unfortunately, he still repeats it. I told him, you've repeated this to yourself so many times, you've made yourself believe it. And also you tell everyone you meet, do they'll believe it too.. Never take on board what one person might think of you.

  • @norakeeswood9808
    @norakeeswood9808 27 днів тому +4

    Thanks so much. 👍🏽🎉🍀🎉

  • @michellehunter7076
    @michellehunter7076 26 днів тому +1

    You said that thing there!

  • @Colleenha83
    @Colleenha83 27 днів тому +3

    You have a wise soul Tim. I find myself a bit anxious when bumping into people I’ve not seen for a while and they say “so what you been up to?”. Feeling like I’m going to be judged bc often I haven’t been doing anything other than going to work!! My life is very boring and peaceful but it’s fine I like it that way 😂

  • @slick11o54
    @slick11o54 27 днів тому +3

    Good job Tim!!! 👏

  • @galpalsal
    @galpalsal 27 днів тому +1

    Excellent quote! You are so right! People think that if they're not "doing something", then something is wrong with them. NOT TRUE. Once you achieve peace for yourself, never change it for anyone.

  • @deborahzuchero7348
    @deborahzuchero7348 27 днів тому +2

    Agreed! You are supposed to have peace ☮️ and quiet life is hectic enough Nobody has ever died of boredom ❤😊

  • @marymiller8370
    @marymiller8370 26 днів тому +2

    Truth!

  • @GiftedMELKSMelissa
    @GiftedMELKSMelissa 25 днів тому +1

    Love this Tim!!! Great message….. someone needed to hear that, that’s why God put the message on your heart🙏🏻❤️

  • @susanmerrell4304
    @susanmerrell4304 23 дні тому

    I needed to hear this today. Thanks Tim! You are an old soul and a gem.

  • @nikkigannon8729
    @nikkigannon8729 25 днів тому +1

    God bless you Tim . You are wise beyond your years!🙏🏼❤️

  • @jacquelinemathews806
    @jacquelinemathews806 20 днів тому

    Thanks for this. Peace is priceless ❤❤❤

  • @tbfisher7717
    @tbfisher7717 27 днів тому

    I love the Tim talks. My peace is chilling with my dog in my house. My 85 year old father thinks I’m boring. He has to be on the go all of the time.

  • @TRL1967
    @TRL1967 27 днів тому +3

    True That My Man!!

  • @19GAS
    @19GAS 23 дні тому +1

    I ABSOLUTELY AGREE WITH YOU!
    A very good Speech!
    Im also a lot in the House, and I go on long Walks or Jogging, because thats MY Peace!
    I also listen to music ♬ ♬ a lot Because thats MY Peace!

  • @dianeouellette3571
    @dianeouellette3571 27 днів тому

    Jon Batiste's song "Be Who You Are" supports exactly what you're saying. It can be lonely being a visionary and not following the crowd.

  • @joer8273
    @joer8273 27 днів тому +6

    I think you’re a good man. You have a good spirit. I feel blessed for being a spectator in your journey to awareness.
    It started as musical awareness, but clearly your level of self-awareness outside of the realm of music is refreshing.
    I’m really proud of you, bro.
    I gotta be honest. As a former teacher and a life coach now, I’d love to spend an hour or so here or there with you.
    Your thoughts, opinions , and reflections would make for incredible conversation. I just know that I might ask one question that would plant a seed that makes for incredible convo in subsequent weeks.
    So proud of you, bro. Can’t say it enough. Shakespeare once wrote “To thine own self be true” and YOU GET IT.

    • @TwinsthenewTrend
      @TwinsthenewTrend  27 днів тому +1

      Yes we can talk more text me on my instagram @twinsthenewtrend

  • @finbarwhite9989
    @finbarwhite9989 18 днів тому

    Sometimes we all need to switch off from life . Finding peace is the best . Remember money is nothing treat people well .

  • @charlottelinder4868
    @charlottelinder4868 27 днів тому +2

    Good Night / Good Morning
    It's nice to see you ☺️
    God's Blessings 🙌 on you and your family.....😇💙😇
    This is so true 👍

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr 27 днів тому +2

    We have already seen Fred back!

  • @samanthabutler8923
    @samanthabutler8923 27 днів тому +2

    Yes, so true!

  • @evelynanderson406
    @evelynanderson406 27 днів тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @SVati-su5ih
    @SVati-su5ih 27 днів тому +2

    💙💙💙

  • @rmichele2016
    @rmichele2016 27 днів тому +2

    💯💕

  • @JARARTVIDEO
    @JARARTVIDEO 26 днів тому

    Thanks Tim....You are a real gem. I appreciate your thoughts.

  • @rosemarydowney1976
    @rosemarydowney1976 26 днів тому

    Well said tim you can't be who someone else wants you to be the best person you can be is yourself you are a blessing to me and others always so nice seeing you be blessed and take good care 👍

  • @user-wo8km4hz9y
    @user-wo8km4hz9y 24 дні тому

    Tim, Thank you for sharing such an important concept! Your messages always speak to me. 💕

  • @wendydabee
    @wendydabee 27 днів тому

    You are quite right.
    Thanks for keeping your videos coming, thankfully at your own pace.
    Thanks for sharing. ❤

  • @allentowngal4769
    @allentowngal4769 27 днів тому

    Exactly. People in Ukraine and GAZA would love some "boredom."

  • @vickiemurph
    @vickiemurph 27 днів тому

    Be yourself. ❤️

  • @karenarens2981
    @karenarens2981 10 днів тому

    Love you guys - you bring joy! Have you listened to Charlie Daniels, The Devil Went Down to Georgia? If not, you must! A classic. Peace.

  • @IdalisCrespo33
    @IdalisCrespo33 26 днів тому

    🥰😇that's true luv

  • @ericjackson3986
    @ericjackson3986 26 днів тому

    Thanks!

  • @ilikebeets9600
    @ilikebeets9600 27 днів тому

    Much Love

  • @thewarman9096
    @thewarman9096 26 днів тому

    Jennifer Rush - The Power of Love.. thanks

  • @loveit7484
    @loveit7484 15 днів тому

    Great video!!!

  • @user-ku9tm3up2q
    @user-ku9tm3up2q 24 дні тому

    Twin, you have got to cover the Kendrick/Drake diss tracks. Can’t wait to hear your take on this.❤❤

  • @MichaelLesesne
    @MichaelLesesne 26 днів тому

    Tim talks? Nice. But, you couldn’t use that title if your name was Ted. 😆

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr 27 днів тому +3

    When you have time, will you please play and react to the video and to the song by John Lennon called “Imagine”. Right now, it is such a relevant song!

  • @quietstorm7684
    @quietstorm7684 24 дні тому

    Tim, you post at your own speed.

  • @Am_Elia
    @Am_Elia 19 днів тому

    You sound like you really got your head on straight. Don’t forget to follow your own advice. If someone is judgmental or putting you down they’re not worth your time.

  • @haijitoro939
    @haijitoro939 9 днів тому

    Twin, where have u been? 😜