I feel like more people need to hear your message about releasing shame and not letting it have control over you. I needed to hear this today, thank you.
Mad respect for you and I’m happy you found a solution for your predicament. Two things to remember: 1) no one is listening to the sound of your pants, and 2) diapers aren’t “sexy”. What’s “sexy” is a person confident in themselves so please don’t think less of yourself in anyway for having to wear them. Be you and be proud of yourself.
I have so much respect for you embracing your needs!! I myself need adult diapers for urinary incontinence!! It doesn’t define who you are and if someone judges you for it then it defines who their character is and it is not good!! Own it and be yourself!!
Hi Tiff! I find that they provide a layer of protection and peace of mind. The anxiety of finding a bathroom and wondering if you’re going to make it is often the worst part. So adding this layer of security is worth it just to feel more at peace.
it is hard for me no matter what I do and say in my life most start pick on me or get other things done to me and get to me over time and hard where I get pick on over and over again sometimes yet some women get they voice out there to get some to stop pick on them but no matter my gender I get so badly pick I could do much apart from just put up with it and deal with this world so stuff up not all of have fun way in life so yeah but I still try my best that I can do but this kind of videos pick me up a bit to me you look good in a diaper miss if that ok to say just don't wish to sound like a bit creepy that all just try my best to put it in a nice way and in tiny way I know how you feel about what you are dealing with and I feel your pain if one other thing like to ask would you do video of diapers just see how cute they are that all I have seen all my adult baby utubers do video of they diapers some they wear are cute and my olny cute ones are my cloth diapers hope more ladies do video's about this keep up your good work sorry I have thing about diapers aswell not to sure why I love them so my from time to time but just my brain the way it is
Maybe check out the Nateen brand of adult diapers. They have like 100 oz Combi maxi to 160oz Combi X Ultra protection but seem reasonably priced. Has a honeycomb design based in belgium. Seem to feel decent when wet. Fortunatly I just have urinary incontinence when I'm stressed out. Form of anixity. They seem kinda thinner that other absorbant brands. Started having issues at the tail end of my Civil Environmental Engineering courses. The stress got to me. Could be worse things. Alchohol or caffine can trigger it.
Incontinence (a result of multiple sclerosis) utterly destroyed my confidence and self-image. Ironically, diapers gave me all of that back, even though I spent a long time thinking of them as a sign of weakness and defeat.
This hits home to so many of us, I have not been totally able to overcome the shame even though my wife is understanding and doesn’t care in the least but it’s my brain that doesn’t let go!! I’ve actually found others out there who were for medical or non medical reasons and talking to them has helped me feel more “normal” and helped me understand it’s just part of life. I am so very impressed with you and your strength to publicly talk about your issues and sharing your strengthening classes!!
I got diagnosed with Cushing's Disease which led to several health complications. I have issues with incontinence to this day, although things have improved some. 100% agree about finding the humor, and ignoring what people think. Also, people out in public basically never pay attention, so the fear is mostly in your head. It really helps to find people who have the same struggle. Good on you for sharing.
The shame of incontinence is deep, irrational and poisonous to the soul. Add the shame of wearing diapers on top of that, and your life becomes nothing short of horrific. It took me years just to reach the point where I was able to talk about this stuff without wanting to crawl away and bury myself in a hole. All of us who have to deal with this have my love and compassion. None of us asked for this, or probably ever dreamed it would happen to us.
I've been wearing diapers for over 15 years. I should've been wearing them before. I felt shame too, and I would wet the bed some and almost poop on myself. Finally, my mom and brother talked to me, and they told me wearing diapers isn't a big deal, so I got a box of diapers, and I have been wearing them since. They do the job and I have learned to embrace them.
I also put off diapers for far longer than I should have, and in the process made things much harder on myself than was necessary. More than once I've bawled my eyes out in public restrooms because I wet or messed on myself out of sheer pigheadedness. My advice to anyone is to deal with the shame however you have to and take precautions to save yourself embarrassment and humiliation.
I understand what you went through. I became incontinent from a 15ft fall at the age of 27. Took me 5 years to overcome the fact that I need diapers. I tried suicide twice not just because of the diapers but the pain as well. The biggest thing I think is to let it go. So what I wear diapers 24/7 and am proud. I'm alive and I can do whatever I want, just with a diaper on. All diapers are is just another kind of underwear.
I agree with what you say. The problem being wearing a diaper people get the idea you could be a peadaphile which is so wrong. Males can dress up in women's clothing, that's acceptable, however, wearing a diaper isnt due to people then assuming the worst which is so wrong. I've worn diapers all my life, its a security/comfort issue. Since 2018 I've had to wear them due to a very serious car accident. The contince nurse told me it's only going to worse, I am so glad their are people around that dont stigmatized me. It affects every part of my life, people don't understand due to ignorance or embarrassment.
It takes time to get over the embarassment but you have to accept yourself for who you are, i've been wearing since age 14, as i have an Overactive bladder and incontinence, i'm now 21 and it's become completely normal for me :)
I worked at a job for 8 years where I was subject to constant health issues- lung and respiratory infections, bladder and kidney infections, pneumonia and diarrhea. For almost 8 years, I had to wear diapers almost daily because I had frequent and uncontrollable diarrhea, usually with only a minute's warning from my body that I was about to poop. wearing diapers just became a way of life for me. Cleaning up a messy BM away from home was always miserable and time-consuming. I always had to carry wet wipes and at least 3 extra diapers with me wherever I went. This made dating a bit difficult, especially when you have to explain to a woman why you have to wear diapers every time you leave you home.
Thank you for sharing this. It has taken a lot to get to a point wear I've been able to embrace wearing diapers. Now after 4 years, my life has changed so much for the better. I've gone from embracing something that I'm supposed to be ashamed of, to loving my new life in diapers. Honestly, I enjoy the comfort of knowing I can live a normal life, just doing it in diapers.
There needs to be more people like you that will bring awareness to a situation that people might find themselves in. There are alot of great diapers out there ( rearz has a lot of awsome diapers) keep up the good life with what ever you need to do.
You're an incredibly Brave young lady Holly! I know first-hand what it's like to have to wear a diaper as I was diagnosed as being Incontinent and am a full-time diaper wearer now. The hardest part for me was wearing a diaper to work and I work with a whole bunch of guys in a warehouse but our clothing at work does a great job of concealing my padded butt so I didn't have to worry so much as I thought. I also have been diagnosed with OCD and finding and using a public bathroom is impossible if you're terrified of germs like I am. So after decades of holding it too long I really damaged my bladder with diverticulitis. I also had a pre-existing condition called irritable bowel syndrome. So one day I was driving to work and I had an incredibly embarrassing bathroom accident on the side of the road and when I told my doctor she diagnosed me with Incontinence and gave me a long-term prescription for adult diapers for both bowell and urinary. So the really thick and bulky ones... with a booster pad. Thank you for sharing this Holly you're a real inspiration for people like us! God bless and take care! 💖
Appreciate this video big respect for coming out with the I know it's difficult . Your not the only one never feel embarrassed. Incontinent and proud 👏
I'm a 33 years old guy and i wear adult diapers because i can't hold my pee after a motor cycle accident. I understand the shame, i don't go out and do stuff like i use to do before i only do what "has to be done" i get them from health care though i never had to pay for them
Great idea to have fun with it. There are some "fun" diapers out there from companies such as Rearz and Northshore Diapers. Embrace it when you need it! Don't let anything rob you of time and fun when you are young. Even with a thick diaper on, most people won't notice.
@@HollyCampbellFowler what brand diapers did you end up going with. So glad you have embraced it. I have too. I have been wearing diapers for 8 years soon. Be proud and accept it.
i TOTALLY AGREE with your choice. I have some ATTENDS that have VELCRO closures. BUT you have a LEGIT MEDICAL ISSUE that "requires" you to wear them to function in the outside world. I'm TOTALLY SURE that your "loving husband" would be HAPPY to help you change. Im a husband and i do some ODD things for my wife like if she has loose bowels i help clean her up and clean up the floor. If your brief's do make any noise, i use VINYL PANTS sorta like plastic pants, they help MUFFEL noise, help with odor and liquid /semi-solid control too. i hope this helps.
It happens to so many and all age groups. I was 38 years old when I lost all bladder control after a MRSA infection and surgery. At first I felt ashamed and embarrassed. My ex had a big mouth and told everyone so it was no longer a secret and 99% of friends and family could care less. I have found humility in making light of my need for diapers. I joke about it and so do my friends and coworkers. Kinda hard to hide when you work in a shop full of motorhead and mechanics. Lol!
Thank you so much for putting this out there. I am 35 and been struggling for years. i'm so tired of having accidents. It got worse after my son got older but it started when i had him. Its very embarrising and i don't know how to handle it
I've recently started to wear diapers due to my incontinence caused by my colitits! I have to say it has been a total game changer and only wish I had started wearing earlier. I have found brands that are subtle and comfortable. My biggest fear is that people would noice me wearing them but I've literally worn to work and social get togethers and nobody has said anything about them. I've also told some friends and the have all been incredibly supportive.
Experience has shown me that unless people are involved with your incontinence issues, buying your diapers, changing your diapers or putting a fresh diaper on you, they just don't care. They have their own cares, issues and worries. I can't number how many times I have been in the check-out line at the local supermarket or pharmacy with a pack of diapers and there were no giggles, no whispers, no laughter and no strange looks... nobody cared!
I just started wearing diapers a few weeks ago, after years of hidden my accidents. Life changing for the better! No more stress or worry in public places, no more wet underwear!
Thank you so much im struggling with these issues mentally due to a wreck that caused several spinal issues and have lost most control over bladder along with pots and other issues. Anytime i struggle with the mental hurdle i rewatch your video, and it gives me hope and perspective. Being 32 and dealing with these issues is really tough mentally.thank you.
I have CP, all my life I had trouble going to the bathroom, and I wouldn’t go in school. I would hold it in which isn’t good. Then I would start not going in the morning which I didn’t like. Then I had a uti once which I didn’t want ever again which made my decision to try to look for a solution and I I’ve been keeping it open, which is helping. But now sometimes I can’t hold it in and I leak. I’m in a wheelchair so I don’t think diapers is a long shot to be in, and no one will know but I haven’t started wearing them yet. But it feels like I’m getting close. Your video is inspiring.
I have CP too and use a wheelchair. Because of a CP caused brain damage I wear diapers every night of my 53 years long life. As normal putting on a pyjama in the evening for others, it is normal to me putting a diaper on because of my enuresis. At daytime I use diapers repeatedly if I be on the move so that I must not search a rare wheelchair accessible toilet. In that case diapers are an alternative form of underwear.
I admire you for being totally open about your medical condition After five cancer surgeries that I have had my doctor actually prescribed me to wear Diapers a Bra for comfort and support. I'm 6 ft 2 in tall and 225 lb with A cup breasts Being a guy I tried to conceal my bra wearing for the first year. Now I'm into my 2nd year and I decided to be bold by wearing shirts that you can tell that I'm wearing a bra underneath. Wearing a bra and diapers for me is strictly a medical device it enables me to live a better lifestyle
I have stress incontinence since i was 14, I was always ashamed because of my inability to control my bladder, whenever i laugh, cough or sneeze it just leaks. I have been trying very hard to hide it from everyone but it's been affecting my daily life so much. I've finally accepted the fact that I need to be in diapers, it feels embarrassing as an adult to need diapers, i feel like I'm lesser of a person.. also diapers are uncomfortable with rashes n all. I hate being in diapers but I certainly need it.
There is nothing wrong with this. Being sexy is the ability of knowing how beautiful you are. A lot of people don't know how wonderful they are. Your husband is very lucky.
I never understood the stigma behind wearing diapers? A lot of people have to rely on external devices to help them manage their issues and these devices help them to live a normal life. Hearing aids, walkers, glasses, dentures, canes, prosthetic limbs... are no different than diapers, but people see no shame in using those devices to get back their freedom and independence. Why should we see diapers as anything different?
So happy for you - thank you for sharing this! Diapers come in many different forms. Inserts and pull-ups are barely visible. Whereas all-in-one tape-on diapers (baby-style type - like Pampers) are much harder to conceal. I wear diapers after a 4-degree tear, during child/birth, that basically abolished my sphincter. I find these hard to conceal. Bulky and crinkly. Luckily my husband I very supportive and caring. Best Lisa
@@johnsullivan5525 Would love to see those stats? Do you even know how common incontinence is? In particular bowel incontinence after childbirth? Btw: I am 48 (married since 28yr) and kids are already gone. If you have a good relationship and an enjoyable life (nice house/s, traveling and other activities and opportunities) the aforementioned issues are relatively minor obstacles.
There is no shame for having to wear adult diapers, many people need them some from medical reasons some from just old age. Myself being both at 61 years old and having had a 7mm kidney stone I became incontinent and I'm not ashamed of having to wear them they help me get around thru the day so I'm not just stuck at home. My thought is you come into the world and you wear diapers and if you live long enough you'll probably have to be wearing them again. If your really ok with wearing them you might just have fun since there are so many different diapers out there that are all different colors and looks you can have fun wearing. I say if you have to wear them might as well have fun and look good/cute in them.
Shame can make you believe a lot of ridiculous things. For instance, I used to be afraid that if anyone knew I wore diapers or realized that I did, their immediate reaction would be to laugh at and make fun of me. I was even afraid that friends and family might secretly laugh at me. The idea is insane when you look closely at it, because if anyone I was close to ever revealed a similar secret to me, laughing at them would be the last thing in the world I'd ever do. Yet somehow I expected that it would be done to me; and I think I expected that because on some level I felt like I deserved it. I was mortally ashamed and the shame had my thinking twisted up in knots.
Aw love him you needed that humour from your husband to get over your predicument There is No Shame in wearing nappies/ diapers / pads in the professional profession we are taught that adult nappies should be be refered to as Pads and not nappies/diapers
I like ABDL and BDSM, and I REALLY need some encouragement right now. I want a woman in my life to serve the mommy/mistress role in an ABDL/BDSM relationship more than anything else in the world, but I feel like it will never happen. For starters, most women would find this kink to be disgusting and would have no interest in changing a grown man's wet/messy/cummy diapers. The vast majority of ABDLs are men. There's also the fact that most of the few women who do like ABDL (and the women who like BDSM) prefer to be submissive. I'm actually a switch (although I enjoy being a sub more), but most women seem to ONLY want to be a sub. I'm not even very good at vanilla dating, as I am extremely socially inept and although I'm not hideous, I'm not the most handsome guy in the world either. It all just seems so hopeless.
I find the Pull up style diapers should be the best. I don’t like the briefs because they’re really bulky and they have those annoying tabs. What types do the job but that’s something to consider. The great news is that once you’re in remission or if your flare is less severe, you don’t really need the diapers all the time anymore. Also think about how much your clothes will thank you. We’re all kind of clothes including skirts and dresses or even if I wearing a pair of jeans, the peace of mind is worth it.
Happy you came to terms with wearing a different type of underwear! But that's what diapers are tho, underwear. There's a lot of people who wear them without anyone knowing. Plus, there are many people who do find them sexy as well. There's a whole community out there. Be proud of who you are and fuck the rest. Live your best life!
Coming from a guy nearing 40, back when I was in my early 30s I got a really bad flu/infection that caused almost a complete loss of bladder and some bowel control. I was in the same boat as you - I didn't want to, and I thought too heavily on the fact that here I am having to wear diapers. In the end, I just embraced it, owned it, and while my ability to control has returned, it's not what it used to be and I still have accidents on occasion. So now I just wear whenever I can and don't really care who knows. I even source diapers with different designs on them, more for the humour but the ones I buy now work better than the typical store-brands. It allows me to be more confident they'll do what they need to, and I can have a laugh all at the same time. One day the general stigma of wearing them will hopefully go away. Because it's really not a big deal. Who cares what others think? You just do you. Proud of you for coming out and saying what you did. It gave me the confidence to say what I did just now.
So happy you overcome the fear. Just to maybe help put your mind at ease there's a large population of incontinent people out there not to mention the growing community of ab/dl ( adult baby / diaper lover) out there some wear for kink others just because it makes them feel comfortable because of anxiety, stress, among reasons and some wear diapers just because they feel good. So embrace them and go enjoy the world. Live love laugh.
I'm 49 yrs. old, and I can't tell you how many times over the years I've so wished I was wearing diapers. Like most children, I was *"potty trained"* while rather young, later than most, at the age of age 5 yrs. But I still needed to pee. If I was near a toilet and I could make it in a timely manner, I'm in good shape. But more often than not, I needed to pee, sometimes I needed to poop, but I'm nowhere near a toilet when I need to go.
As someone who is bladder and bowel incontinent because of a neurological condition I can tell you that the only thing that is more embarrassing than the diaper is people seeing what your accident. They also make keeping things clean easier.
I am now 45 years old been wearing dentures since I was 20. I have had night terrors and bed wetting for years. I wore diapers only at night for sleeping. Unfortunately I had a slight accident and lost almost total control of bladder and now wear 24/7. At work my coworkers realized I never used the bathroom during a 10 hour shift so my secret was out. No where near the end of the world. I just put one on and go about my day. The AB/DL diapers work the best for everyday and long wearing.
Just FYI, diapers can be very sexy for a 'sane and normal' person. There is a very large community of ABDL folks, like myself that make the best out of diapers. I actually own an ABDL diaper manufacturing company and sell to thousands of folks who think diapers are sexy. I appreciate your need for diapers and medical diagnosis, but it would be wonderful if you could acknowledge that there those who do not *need* diapers, but wear them anyway, and feel sexy in them. Great work on the channel!
Hi, Just to let you everyone outside, since 3 years I was diagnose with urge incontinence. When I have to go I have no more then 30 seconds and it hurt a lot. I at the beginning was 63 years old and yes with help of internet I found I was not alone and most of us use adult diaper I also found that on internet it exist a community of adult who wear diaper just for fun. From that community I bought ab diaper wich is a lot more absorbant then the regular one found in normal store. At first I was a shame but with time it become use to it and I forget that I wear a diaper instead of adult underwater. Hope that can help others and wish to share other experience.
I think it is great to be able to laugh. Oh the stories I could tell. I am a youth pastor. I have never made it a secret about my incontinence with my youth. When ever we go on a trip I all ways have my diapers with me. On one trip I had a partial pack of diapers and had placed the pack in the overhead rack on our bus. Some of the teen girls managed to take out about 6 pair from the pack and decorate them . They drew smiley faces and Bible verses and other cheerful notes and pictures. Each pair I put on had me laughing and encouraged. Keep laughing and if you ever need a reason I have lots of stories that will help keep you laughing. Blessings
They do make rubber plastic pants that will protect against leaks, odor and sound. According to the web they are quiet. I know it's a bit over board but it cuts the possible leak option down too.
Thanks for making this. I totally am so paranoid about it people see mine and will laugh at me or take pictures or something. Cuz I have to wear kind of thicker ones because my bladder has gotten so bad. I feel like I look ridiculous and you can tell. But I gotta do what I gotta do. Nice to know I ain't alone tho ♥️♥️
@@HollyCampbellFowler that's so true. Great video☺️ honestly it has happened a time or two to me where I bent over and my short tucked in and someone chuckled. I had no idea. But honestly your right. That's their issue not me.
i know what you mean about needing Diaper's becouse i'm 24/7 incontinent i all most did away with myself after 2 year's of having reflex incontinence so don't worry about anyone seeing or noing that you are wearing them i myself is going on 53 year's in Diaper's just be happy in life .
I assume you got corn starch or baby powder,anti-rash cream,and wipes. A portable change mat would help for home use and one for the backpack(diaper bag) , just in case it's needed. Maybe keep some extra supplies in the car.
You should not feel ashamed for having to wear diapers, I have to wear diapers and plastic pants. I also have to wear a plastic kiddie bib when I eat, because I have muscle tremors and a spill on myself otherwise. Anytime I go to a restaurant and bring bibs with me. Some people say to me I like your bib. In fact some people say that they should wear a bib. I have had muscle tremors in my whole entire life. But I am super lucky to be alive. I have a super huge support team. It does make it easier to have to wear a bib, because the minute I sit down my favorite servers say let’s put your bib on you.
I wear diapers and would love to meet other people who wear them too. I need as many diaper friends as I can get. There's nothing wrong with wearing diapers, and people need to stop judging those of us who do. I give you so much credit for not being ashamed of wearing them!!
You're awesome. Please don't he ashamed. I wear diapers 24-7 and have for 4 years now. If you haven't heard of tykables or abuniverse they're worth a shot for cute prints and really high absorption
I like seeing a girl wearing a diaper it turns me on so hard and there's times I have issues with my bowls and bladder and I'll wear them if need be.I'm at the age were I don't care what people think and I owe people an explanation for absolutely nothing. God bless you in everything you do .Good for you that you did what was needed. ❤
I suffer from re occurring kidney stones and I just went through all the testes to see why I have to go every 20-30 mins no matter what I drink I also most of the time couldn’t make it to the rest room I was ashamed so I started using depends and what not finally went and did the uro dynamics test and confirmed I have over active bladdder but I feel ashamed and I feel like people notice I have tried to get a size up in clothes it’s even hard to ask the nurse what kinda products are good and what not I’m new to it I don’t know. Best of luck I chose to wear diapers instead of catheters or what not.
Because of chronic pain issues at night, I have to wear diapers to bed because getting up to go urinate can be extremely painful and potentially dangerous. Once last week, I skipped putting on my night-time diaper because I was so tired, just getting home from a 16-hour work day and I did not feel like messing with putting a diaper on for bed. Big mistake! I woke up after only 3 hours sleep, having to pee really bad; and because I wasn't wearing my usual night-time diaper, had to get up. It took me several minutes just to sit up and stand, and almost fell walking back to my bed from the bathroom. Wearing diapers ensures that I get a safe and restful night's sleep without fear of falling and risking serious injuries or worse.
Wearing a diaper is not a problem. Detecting an event and getting away from people is the most important thing. I can't even count the times I have shifted position and realized there was poop loose, or the smell reaches my nose near a close space, or an abrupt change in a persons expression if they notice before I do.
The whole diaper stigma is all in our heads! What other item do people fearfully hesitate to wear that they absolutely need? Glasses, hearing aids, dentures? Diapers are nothing more than another external device used to help some adults live a more normal life.
Whats absolutely certain, is that you could meet the man of your dreams, fall in love, and live with him, and accept his engagement ring. ..Then one day, discover he wears diapers for whatever reason... And dump him, on the spot. Change your number, get a restraining order, and never allow him to see your face, alive again. I hope your husband never needs them. Or youre gone for good. With the house and kids.
No need to be ashamed, I know easy to say, but thanks to an IED in iraq I myself deal with nuerogenic bladder and have tried pull ups, pads all left me leaking and embarrassed. So now it's full time.diapers due to constant leaking and massive bladder releases with put knowing.. I wear looser clothing to adapt.
There’s nothing to be embarrassed about wearing a diaper it’s a medical issue I’ve been wearing one for over 20 years I’m a 64-year-old white male if it wasn’t for my girlfriend who was a nurse brought home a sample for me and show me how to put them on she explained everything to me then she show me how she wears one at work all the time that the girls were on all the time she says more people are wearing diapers than you know about it’s nothing to be embarrassed aboutI keep a supply diapers in my truck in it in a to go bag when I go into the store or shopping or traveling I’ve changed my diapers in the restrooms in restaurants and in the stores nothing to be embarrassed about it’s a part of life good luck dear
I agree nor disagree with your statement. Because some people only need them temporarily but at the same time other its a daily thing. Such as people with certain disabilities,never been potty trained for x reason,this plays into the first one but has certain medical conditions that require them,and etc.
I became totally incontinent after my hysterectomy (can't feel bladder) and I suffer from IC, IBS, fibromyalgia and sleep apnea. The bedwetting is the worst, but I wear thick diapers 24/7. I failed a bunch of treatments, but I live a normal life with diapers. It's no different than using my walker, glasses and CPAP machine to carry on with life.
the only people that noticed that u where wearing or in diapers them self or know someone that is tends that people that can see u wearing a diaper have more respect and understanding and will not shame u for it
That’s right people don’t pay attention to you & it took me a while to figure out that & realize it but it’s normal for me and I’m a little bit older then you & I have to wear pull-ups and I don’t care if people see it anymore
im 42 and have CP. started haveing issues in 2018 2019 that have just progresed over time. today i had 2 BMs im my diapers. i never have that many in a day mosty just wee. just sucks. One big thing is I have issues from my mom give we up for adoption so she could go party(drinking/Drugs). i became a DL to cope and now feel conflicted like i brought this on myself. then i was over at my sister's and had a nice dinner so i feel a littel better. just rambeling on to help feel better. thanks
I have been an adult baby all my life and have always felt ashamed and kept it hidden from everyone. Now, I regret it because I have been married twice and both only married me for money with a very platonic lifestyle. If I would have been more honest, I may have found someone that accepted me for what I am and not for other things.
I have these issues. Nobody would guess the kind of butch, ripped lady would pee! 🙀 But yeah, it's manageable like putting on big girl pee pants before a long train/plane ride, or e.g. going to the laboratory for samples without emptying in the morning. For me the *f--k it* moment was getting up from a chair, having that sense of bladder vertigo and tripping on the way to the ladies' room, and the reader can guess the rest. My thought is, that if I pee in front of others, it's confusing and awkward for everyone. But if they notice that Tena or w/e they'll figure it's for a medical condition 99/100. There really is no reason to not resort to aids which do actually help.
Personally I don't see what the big deal is with diapers, it's just another medical aid device. Some companies are trying to lessen the stigma by advertising their product to younger people.
Ive had to start wearing diapers because of a bad wreck it almost killed me but i got lucky n just lost my right leg n cause of said wreck i also have very lil control i can feel the urge but no time to get to a bathroom any tips or tricks i need any help i can get
I've had a TBI since 2016 and have been using them since then, I also have a huge medical list. I actually didn't care cause I couldn't remember anything anyway.
I wear layers of cloth (4) folded ,pinned on under plastic diaper leak guards.I feel that people look at my rear and snicker at that behind my back .Now I just keep going and leave it be.Tomorrow I will do it again and waddle to my hearts content.
I feel like more people need to hear your message about releasing shame and not letting it have control over you. I needed to hear this today, thank you.
Mad respect for you and I’m happy you found a solution for your predicament. Two things to remember: 1) no one is listening to the sound of your pants, and 2) diapers aren’t “sexy”. What’s “sexy” is a person confident in themselves so please don’t think less of yourself in anyway for having to wear them. Be you and be proud of yourself.
LOVE this! Thank you for putting this so eloquently and I couldn't agree more :)
I have so much respect for you embracing your needs!! I myself need adult diapers for urinary incontinence!! It doesn’t define who you are and if someone judges you for it then it defines who their character is and it is not good!! Own it and be yourself!!
@@HollyCampbellFowler diapers arent sexy they are cute and comfy! wear what you want and be proud!
Hi Tiff! I find that they provide a layer of protection and peace of mind. The anxiety of finding a bathroom and wondering if you’re going to make it is often the worst part. So adding this layer of security is worth it just to feel more at peace.
it is hard for me no matter what I do and say in my life most start pick on me or get other things done to me and get to me over time and hard where I get pick on over and over again sometimes yet some women get they voice out there to get some to stop pick on them but no matter my gender I get so badly pick I could do much apart from just put up with it and deal with this world so stuff up not all of have fun way in life so yeah but I still try my best that I can do but this kind of videos pick me up a bit to me you look good in a diaper miss if that ok to say just don't wish to sound like a bit creepy that all just try my best to put it in a nice way and in tiny way I know how you feel about what you are dealing with and I feel your pain if one other thing like to ask would you do video of diapers just see how cute they are that all I have seen all my adult baby utubers do video of they diapers some they wear are cute and my olny cute ones are my cloth diapers hope more ladies do video's about this keep up your good work sorry I have thing about diapers aswell not to sure why I love them so my from time to time but just my brain the way it is
Maybe check out the Nateen brand of adult diapers. They have like 100 oz Combi maxi to 160oz Combi X Ultra protection but seem reasonably priced. Has a honeycomb design based in belgium.
Seem to feel decent when wet. Fortunatly I just have urinary incontinence when I'm stressed out. Form of anixity. They seem kinda thinner that other absorbant brands. Started having issues at the tail end of my Civil Environmental Engineering courses. The stress got to me. Could be worse things.
Alchohol or caffine can trigger it.
Incontinence (a result of multiple sclerosis) utterly destroyed my confidence and self-image. Ironically, diapers gave me all of that back, even though I spent a long time thinking of them as a sign of weakness and defeat.
This hits home to so many of us, I have not been totally able to overcome the shame even though my wife is understanding and doesn’t care in the least but it’s my brain that doesn’t let go!! I’ve actually found others out there who were for medical or non medical reasons and talking to them has helped me feel more “normal” and helped me understand it’s just part of life. I am so very impressed with you and your strength to publicly talk about your issues and sharing your strengthening classes!!
Thanks so much Pete!
I got diagnosed with Cushing's Disease which led to several health complications. I have issues with incontinence to this day, although things have improved some. 100% agree about finding the humor, and ignoring what people think. Also, people out in public basically never pay attention, so the fear is mostly in your head. It really helps to find people who have the same struggle. Good on you for sharing.
The shame of incontinence is deep, irrational and poisonous to the soul. Add the shame of wearing diapers on top of that, and your life becomes nothing short of horrific. It took me years just to reach the point where I was able to talk about this stuff without wanting to crawl away and bury myself in a hole. All of us who have to deal with this have my love and compassion. None of us asked for this, or probably ever dreamed it would happen to us.
I've been wearing diapers for over 15 years. I should've been wearing them before. I felt shame too, and I would wet the bed some and almost poop on myself. Finally, my mom and brother talked to me, and they told me wearing diapers isn't a big deal, so I got a box of diapers, and I have been wearing them since. They do the job and I have learned to embrace them.
I'm so happy for you Michelle!
do u have any social media? im a teen and im trying to find other people who wear diapers :)
@@HollyCampbellFowler I would recommend north shore, attends nappies as they are fantastic
@@measurelessmotivation do you have Instagram
I also put off diapers for far longer than I should have, and in the process made things much harder on myself than was necessary. More than once I've bawled my eyes out in public restrooms because I wet or messed on myself out of sheer pigheadedness. My advice to anyone is to deal with the shame however you have to and take precautions to save yourself embarrassment and humiliation.
I understand what you went through. I became incontinent from a 15ft fall at the age of 27. Took me 5 years to overcome the fact that I need diapers. I tried suicide twice not just because of the diapers but the pain as well. The biggest thing I think is to let it go. So what I wear diapers 24/7 and am proud. I'm alive and I can do whatever I want, just with a diaper on. All diapers are is just another kind of underwear.
I'm sorry to hear about your accident! I am glad to hear you have found that you can do all your normal activities again.
I agree with what you say. The problem being wearing a diaper people get the idea you could be a peadaphile which is so wrong. Males can dress up in women's clothing, that's acceptable, however, wearing a diaper isnt due to people then assuming the worst which is so wrong. I've worn diapers all my life, its a security/comfort issue. Since 2018 I've had to wear them due to a very serious car accident. The contince nurse told me it's only going to worse, I am so glad their are people around that dont stigmatized me. It affects every part of my life, people don't understand due to ignorance or embarrassment.
Thanks for making me feel comfortable with my incontinence! It makes my injury feel less shameful.
We have finally made a breakthrough. I'm so happy you can be you, and not have to be ashamed.
It takes time to get over the embarassment but you have to accept yourself for who you are, i've been wearing since age 14, as i have an Overactive bladder and incontinence, i'm now 21 and it's become completely normal for me :)
I'm so glad you are accepting of yourself now!
yeah for me its not a liner process either
I worked at a job for 8 years where I was subject to constant health issues- lung and respiratory infections, bladder and kidney infections, pneumonia and diarrhea. For almost 8 years, I had to wear diapers almost daily because I had frequent and uncontrollable diarrhea, usually with only a minute's warning from my body that I was about to poop. wearing diapers just became a way of life for me. Cleaning up a messy BM away from home was always miserable and time-consuming. I always had to carry wet wipes and at least 3 extra diapers with me wherever I went. This made dating a bit difficult, especially when you have to explain to a woman why you have to wear diapers every time you leave you home.
Thank you for sharing this. It has taken a lot to get to a point wear I've been able to embrace wearing diapers. Now after 4 years, my life has changed so much for the better. I've gone from embracing something that I'm supposed to be ashamed of, to loving my new life in diapers. Honestly, I enjoy the comfort of knowing I can live a normal life, just doing it in diapers.
There needs to be more people like you that will bring awareness to a situation that people might find themselves in. There are alot of great diapers out there ( rearz has a lot of awsome diapers) keep up the good life with what ever you need to do.
You're an incredibly Brave young lady Holly! I know first-hand what it's like to have to wear a diaper as I was diagnosed as being Incontinent and am a full-time diaper wearer now. The hardest part for me was wearing a diaper to work and I work with a whole bunch of guys in a warehouse but our clothing at work does a great job of concealing my padded butt so I didn't have to worry so much as I thought. I also have been diagnosed with OCD and finding and using a public bathroom is impossible if you're terrified of germs like I am. So after decades of holding it too long I really damaged my bladder with diverticulitis. I also had a pre-existing condition called irritable bowel syndrome. So one day I was driving to work and I had an incredibly embarrassing bathroom accident on the side of the road and when I told my doctor she diagnosed me with Incontinence and gave me a long-term prescription for adult diapers for both bowell and urinary. So the really thick and bulky ones... with a booster pad.
Thank you for sharing this Holly you're a real inspiration for people like us! God bless and take care! 💖
Thank you for your kind words :)
Appreciate this video big respect for coming out with the I know it's difficult . Your not the only one never feel embarrassed. Incontinent and proud 👏
Thanks for the encouragement!
You're so brave and beauty is not in what someone wears it's in the things they do and who they are and you are beautiful ❤️
I'm a 33 years old guy and i wear adult diapers because i can't hold my pee after a motor cycle accident. I understand the shame, i don't go out and do stuff like i use to do before i only do what "has to be done" i get them from health care though i never had to pay for them
Great idea to have fun with it. There are some "fun" diapers out there from companies such as Rearz and Northshore Diapers. Embrace it when you need it! Don't let anything rob you of time and fun when you are young. Even with a thick diaper on, most people won't notice.
Exactly!
@@HollyCampbellFowler what brand diapers did you end up going with.
So glad you have embraced it. I have too. I have been wearing diapers for 8 years soon. Be proud and accept it.
i TOTALLY AGREE with your choice. I have some ATTENDS that have VELCRO closures. BUT you have a LEGIT MEDICAL ISSUE that "requires" you to wear them to function in the outside world.
I'm TOTALLY SURE that your "loving husband" would be HAPPY to help you change. Im a husband and i do some ODD things for my wife like if she has loose bowels i help clean her up and clean up the floor. If your brief's do make any noise, i use VINYL PANTS sorta like plastic pants, they help MUFFEL noise, help with odor and liquid /semi-solid control too. i hope this helps.
I live by the 3F philosophy:
Unless you're Feeding me, Funding me or F-king me, I don't care what you think of me.
It happens to so many and all age groups. I was 38 years old when I lost all bladder control after a MRSA infection and surgery. At first I felt ashamed and embarrassed. My ex had a big mouth and told everyone so it was no longer a secret and 99% of friends and family could care less. I have found humility in making light of my need for diapers. I joke about it and so do my friends and coworkers. Kinda hard to hide when you work in a shop full of motorhead and mechanics. Lol!
Thank you so much for putting this out there. I am 35 and been struggling for years. i'm so tired of having accidents. It got worse after my son got older but it started when i had him. Its very embarrising and i don't know how to handle it
I've recently started to wear diapers due to my incontinence caused by my colitits! I have to say it has been a total game changer and only wish I had started wearing earlier. I have found brands that are subtle and comfortable. My biggest fear is that people would noice me wearing them but I've literally worn to work and social get togethers and nobody has said anything about them. I've also told some friends and the have all been incredibly supportive.
Experience has shown me that unless people are involved with your incontinence issues, buying your diapers, changing your diapers or putting a fresh diaper on you, they just don't care. They have their own cares, issues and worries. I can't number how many times I have been in the check-out line at the local supermarket or pharmacy with a pack of diapers and there were no giggles, no whispers, no laughter and no strange looks... nobody cared!
So true! People are usually concerned more with their own lives and don't care as much as we think they do.
I just started wearing diapers a few weeks ago, after years of hidden my accidents. Life changing for the better! No more stress or worry in public places, no more wet underwear!
When you are brave enough to share things like this, it helps other people very much. Thank you.
Thank you so much im struggling with these issues mentally due to a wreck that caused several spinal issues and have lost most control over bladder along with pots and other issues. Anytime i struggle with the mental hurdle i rewatch your video, and it gives me hope and perspective. Being 32 and dealing with these issues is really tough mentally.thank you.
I have CP, all my life I had trouble going to the bathroom, and I wouldn’t go in school. I would hold it in which isn’t good. Then I would start not going in the morning which I didn’t like. Then I had a uti once which I didn’t want ever again which made my decision to try to look for a solution and I I’ve been keeping it open, which is helping. But now sometimes I can’t hold it in and I leak. I’m in a wheelchair so I don’t think diapers is a long shot to be in, and no one will know but I haven’t started wearing them yet. But it feels like I’m getting close. Your video is inspiring.
I'm so glad you felt inspired! Do what is best for you :)
I have CP too and use a wheelchair. Because of a CP caused brain damage I wear diapers every night of my 53 years long life. As normal putting on a pyjama in the evening for others, it is normal to me putting a diaper on because of my enuresis.
At daytime I use diapers repeatedly if I be on the move so that I must not search a rare wheelchair accessible toilet. In that case diapers are an alternative form of underwear.
I admire you for being totally open about your medical condition
After five cancer surgeries that I have had my doctor actually prescribed me to wear Diapers a Bra for comfort and support.
I'm 6 ft 2 in tall and 225 lb with A cup breasts
Being a guy I tried to conceal my bra wearing for the first year.
Now I'm into my 2nd year and I decided to be bold by wearing shirts that you can tell that I'm wearing a bra underneath.
Wearing a bra and diapers for me is strictly a medical device it enables me to live a better lifestyle
I have stress incontinence since i was 14, I was always ashamed because of my inability to control my bladder, whenever i laugh, cough or sneeze it just leaks. I have been trying very hard to hide it from everyone but it's been affecting my daily life so much. I've finally accepted the fact that I need to be in diapers, it feels embarrassing as an adult to need diapers, i feel like I'm lesser of a person.. also diapers are uncomfortable with rashes n all. I hate being in diapers but I certainly need it.
Sheryl Underwood uses them too.
There is nothing wrong with this. Being sexy is the ability of knowing how beautiful you are. A lot of people don't know how wonderful they are. Your husband is very lucky.
I never understood the stigma behind wearing diapers? A lot of people have to rely on external devices to help them manage their issues and these devices help them to live a normal life. Hearing aids, walkers, glasses, dentures, canes, prosthetic limbs... are no different than diapers, but people see no shame in using those devices to get back their freedom and independence. Why should we see diapers as anything different?
So happy for you - thank you for sharing this!
Diapers come in many different forms. Inserts and pull-ups are barely visible. Whereas all-in-one tape-on diapers (baby-style type - like Pampers) are much harder to conceal.
I wear diapers after a 4-degree tear, during child/birth, that basically abolished my sphincter. I find these hard to conceal. Bulky and crinkly.
Luckily my husband I very supportive and caring.
Best
Lisa
So youre another woman that loves telling men youre married, more than youll ever love your husband . Ok..I could tell, the first word I read...
Statistically speaking, men in his situation, putting up with...your situation, leave her, once the kids are 18 ..
No offense, just saying .enjoy bragging about it now .
@@johnsullivan5525
Would love to see those stats?
Do you even know how common incontinence is? In particular bowel incontinence after childbirth?
Btw: I am 48 (married since 28yr) and kids are already gone. If you have a good relationship and an enjoyable life (nice house/s, traveling and other activities and opportunities) the aforementioned issues are relatively minor obstacles.
Very wise decision. Better be on the safe side. I made that move and now having peace of mind. Blessings.
Thanks Joel!
There is no shame for having to wear adult diapers, many people need them some from medical reasons some from just old age. Myself being both at 61 years old and having had a 7mm kidney stone I became incontinent and I'm not ashamed of having to wear them they help me get around thru the day so I'm not just stuck at home. My thought is you come into the world and you wear diapers and if you live long enough you'll probably have to be wearing them again. If your really ok with wearing them you might just have fun since there are so many different diapers out there that are all different colors and looks you can have fun wearing. I say if you have to wear them might as well have fun and look good/cute in them.
I have so much shame around people finding out I need diapers. Your story is inspiring tho and it makes me feel not so alone!
Shame can make you believe a lot of ridiculous things. For instance, I used to be afraid that if anyone knew I wore diapers or realized that I did, their immediate reaction would be to laugh at and make fun of me. I was even afraid that friends and family might secretly laugh at me. The idea is insane when you look closely at it, because if anyone I was close to ever revealed a similar secret to me, laughing at them would be the last thing in the world I'd ever do. Yet somehow I expected that it would be done to me; and I think I expected that because on some level I felt like I deserved it. I was mortally ashamed and the shame had my thinking twisted up in knots.
Aw love him you needed that humour from your husband to get over your predicument There is No Shame in wearing nappies/ diapers / pads in the professional profession we are taught that adult nappies should be be refered to as Pads and not nappies/diapers
I like ABDL and BDSM, and I REALLY need some encouragement right now. I want a woman in my life to serve the mommy/mistress role in an ABDL/BDSM relationship more than anything else in the world, but I feel like it will never happen. For starters, most women would find this kink to be disgusting and would have no interest in changing a grown man's wet/messy/cummy diapers. The vast majority of ABDLs are men. There's also the fact that most of the few women who do like ABDL (and the women who like BDSM) prefer to be submissive. I'm actually a switch (although I enjoy being a sub more), but most women seem to ONLY want to be a sub. I'm not even very good at vanilla dating, as I am extremely socially inept and although I'm not hideous, I'm not the most handsome guy in the world either. It all just seems so hopeless.
I find the Pull up style diapers should be the best. I don’t like the briefs because they’re really bulky and they have those annoying tabs.
What types do the job but that’s something to consider. The great news is that once you’re in remission or if your flare is less severe, you don’t really need the diapers all the time anymore.
Also think about how much your clothes will thank you. We’re all kind of clothes including skirts and dresses or even if I wearing a pair of jeans, the peace of mind is worth it.
Happy you came to terms with wearing a different type of underwear! But that's what diapers are tho, underwear. There's a lot of people who wear them without anyone knowing. Plus, there are many people who do find them sexy as well. There's a whole community out there. Be proud of who you are and fuck the rest. Live your best life!
Coming from a guy nearing 40, back when I was in my early 30s I got a really bad flu/infection that caused almost a complete loss of bladder and some bowel control. I was in the same boat as you - I didn't want to, and I thought too heavily on the fact that here I am having to wear diapers. In the end, I just embraced it, owned it, and while my ability to control has returned, it's not what it used to be and I still have accidents on occasion. So now I just wear whenever I can and don't really care who knows. I even source diapers with different designs on them, more for the humour but the ones I buy now work better than the typical store-brands. It allows me to be more confident they'll do what they need to, and I can have a laugh all at the same time.
One day the general stigma of wearing them will hopefully go away. Because it's really not a big deal. Who cares what others think? You just do you. Proud of you for coming out and saying what you did. It gave me the confidence to say what I did just now.
I'm sorry to hear this! But I am happy to hear you have embraced it :)
So happy you overcome the fear. Just to maybe help put your mind at ease there's a large population of incontinent people out there not to mention the growing community of ab/dl ( adult baby / diaper lover) out there some wear for kink others just because it makes them feel comfortable because of anxiety, stress, among reasons and some wear diapers just because they feel good. So embrace them and go enjoy the world. Live love laugh.
I've worn diapers as a solution for innocence since I was four. I've never been out of diapers. Good luck on your journey.
I'm 49 yrs. old, and I can't tell you how many times over the years I've so wished I was wearing diapers. Like most children, I was *"potty trained"* while rather young, later than most, at the age of age 5 yrs. But I still needed to pee. If I was near a toilet and I could make it in a timely manner, I'm in good shape. But more often than not, I needed to pee, sometimes I needed to poop, but I'm nowhere near a toilet when I need to go.
I really appreciate your candor. I wear them too, overtime I kept thinking there was freedom from wetting my clothes.
As someone who is bladder and bowel incontinent because of a neurological condition I can tell you that the only thing that is more embarrassing than the diaper is people seeing what your accident. They also make keeping things clean easier.
I am now 45 years old been wearing dentures since I was 20. I have had night terrors and bed wetting for years. I wore diapers only at night for sleeping. Unfortunately I had a slight accident and lost almost total control of bladder and now wear 24/7. At work my coworkers realized I never used the bathroom during a 10 hour shift so my secret was out. No where near the end of the world. I just put one on and go about my day. The AB/DL diapers work the best for everyday and long wearing.
Just FYI, diapers can be very sexy for a 'sane and normal' person. There is a very large community of ABDL folks, like myself that make the best out of diapers. I actually own an ABDL diaper manufacturing company and sell to thousands of folks who think diapers are sexy. I appreciate your need for diapers and medical diagnosis, but it would be wonderful if you could acknowledge that there those who do not *need* diapers, but wear them anyway, and feel sexy in them. Great work on the channel!
What brand do you own?
@@robinlaszlo a new brand that will be dropping our first dip in a few weeks! I’ll come back and post here when we get ready to go public.
@@BrandonCarter469did you go public?
@@TheSquishiest I’m not sure what you mean.
@@BrandonCarter469 You mentioned you are making diapers
Their are diapers like North shore you should consider
Hi, Just to let you everyone outside, since 3 years I was diagnose with urge incontinence. When I have to go I have no more then 30 seconds and it hurt a lot. I at the beginning was 63 years old and yes with help of internet I found I was not alone and most of us use adult diaper I also found that on internet it exist a community of adult who wear diaper just for fun. From that community I bought ab diaper wich is a lot more absorbant then the regular one found in normal store. At first I was a shame but with time it become use to it and I forget that I wear a diaper instead of adult underwater. Hope that can help others and wish to share other experience.
I think it is great to be able to laugh. Oh the stories I could tell. I am a youth pastor. I have never made it a secret about my incontinence with my youth. When ever we go on a trip I all ways have my diapers with me. On one trip I had a partial pack of diapers and had placed the pack in the overhead rack on our bus. Some of the teen girls managed to take out about 6 pair from the pack and decorate them . They drew smiley faces and Bible verses and other cheerful notes and pictures. Each pair I put on had me laughing and encouraged. Keep laughing and if you ever need a reason I have lots of stories that will help keep you laughing. Blessings
After a recent fall I find myself using these more than my regulars and I am happy for them
do u have any social media? im a teen and im trying to find other people who wear diapers :)
They do make rubber plastic pants that will protect against leaks, odor and sound. According to the web they are quiet. I know it's a bit over board but it cuts the possible leak option down too.
Thanks for making this. I totally am so paranoid about it people see mine and will laugh at me or take pictures or something. Cuz I have to wear kind of thicker ones because my bladder has gotten so bad. I feel like I look ridiculous and you can tell. But I gotta do what I gotta do. Nice to know I ain't alone tho ♥️♥️
I completely understand this fear! To be honest, most people are more focused on themselves than they are on others and few people will even notice :)
@@HollyCampbellFowler that's so true. Great video☺️ honestly it has happened a time or two to me where I bent over and my short tucked in and someone chuckled. I had no idea. But honestly your right. That's their issue not me.
Support and Love will always be there
i know what you mean about needing Diaper's becouse i'm 24/7 incontinent i all most did away with myself after 2 year's of having reflex incontinence so don't worry about anyone seeing or noing that you are wearing them i myself is going on 53 year's in Diaper's just be happy in life .
What's the problem I were nappies and rubber knickers better than wet and poop clothes
I assume you got corn starch or baby powder,anti-rash cream,and wipes. A portable change mat would help for home use and one for the backpack(diaper bag) , just in case it's needed.
Maybe keep some extra supplies in the car.
You should not feel ashamed for having to wear diapers, I have to wear diapers and plastic pants. I also have to wear a plastic kiddie bib when I eat, because I have muscle tremors and a spill on myself otherwise. Anytime I go to a restaurant and bring bibs with me. Some people say to me I like your bib. In fact some people say that they should wear a bib. I have had muscle tremors in my whole entire life. But I am super lucky to be alive. I have a super huge support team. It does make it easier to have to wear a bib, because the minute I sit down my favorite servers say let’s put your bib on you.
I wear diapers and would love to meet other people who wear them too. I need as many diaper friends as I can get. There's nothing wrong with wearing diapers, and people need to stop judging those of us who do. I give you so much credit for not being ashamed of wearing them!!
when they leave the International Apace Station to go for a space walk, astronauts wear adult diapers inside their space suits.
If astronauts can do it, we can too!
You're awesome. Please don't he ashamed. I wear diapers 24-7 and have for 4 years now. If you haven't heard of tykables or abuniverse they're worth a shot for cute prints and really high absorption
so well done so brave. i have both bladder and bowel problems.i have too wear adult nappies.i am in no way ashamed.mark
I like seeing a girl wearing a diaper it turns me on so hard and there's times I have issues with my bowls and bladder and I'll wear them if need be.I'm at the age were I don't care what people think and I owe people an explanation for absolutely nothing. God bless you in everything you do .Good for you that you did what was needed. ❤
I suffer from re occurring kidney stones and I just went through all the testes to see why I have to go every 20-30 mins no matter what I drink I also most of the time couldn’t make it to the rest room I was ashamed so I started using depends and what not finally went and did the uro dynamics test and confirmed I have over active bladdder but I feel ashamed and I feel like people notice I have tried to get a size up in clothes it’s even hard to ask the nurse what kinda products are good and what not I’m new to it I don’t know. Best of luck I chose to wear diapers instead of catheters or what not.
It gives me such a pleasant feeling to wear a diaper and I don’t have to wear one.
Because of chronic pain issues at night, I have to wear diapers to bed because getting up to go urinate can be extremely painful and potentially dangerous. Once last week, I skipped putting on my night-time diaper because I was so tired, just getting home from a 16-hour work day and I did not feel like messing with putting a diaper on for bed. Big mistake! I woke up after only 3 hours sleep, having to pee really bad; and because I wasn't wearing my usual night-time diaper, had to get up. It took me several minutes just to sit up and stand, and almost fell walking back to my bed from the bathroom. Wearing diapers ensures that I get a safe and restful night's sleep without fear of falling and risking serious injuries or worse.
Wearing a diaper is not a problem.
Detecting an event and getting away from people is the most important thing. I can't even count the times I have shifted position and realized there was poop loose, or the smell reaches my nose near a close space, or an abrupt change in a persons expression if they notice before I do.
I think it's great that you put this out there. Otherwise, I wouldn't know what's going on.
Just be you 🤗 and let no one change who You are 😉
Thanks Drew!
I would NEVER laugh at you for that. I would be so happy to see that lol
The whole diaper stigma is all in our heads! What other item do people fearfully hesitate to wear that they absolutely need? Glasses, hearing aids, dentures? Diapers are nothing more than another external device used to help some adults live a more normal life.
Whats absolutely certain, is that you could meet the man of your dreams, fall in love, and live with him, and accept his engagement ring. ..Then one day, discover he wears diapers for whatever reason... And dump him, on the spot. Change your number, get a restraining order, and never allow him to see your face, alive again. I hope your husband never needs them. Or youre gone for good. With the house and kids.
I support you 💯 percent. I wear adult diapers also for health reasons.
Thanks Susan!
do u have any social media? im a teen and im trying to find other people who wear diapers :)
Hello holly love ya Drew ❤❤
I appreciate this video and your honesty.
Thank you Tamara!
No need to be ashamed, I know easy to say, but thanks to an IED in iraq I myself deal with nuerogenic bladder and have tried pull ups, pads all left me leaking and embarrassed. So now it's full time.diapers due to constant leaking and massive bladder releases with put knowing.. I wear looser clothing to adapt.
It took a lot of courage to make and post this video. #respect
There’s nothing to be embarrassed about wearing a diaper it’s a medical issue I’ve been wearing one for over 20 years I’m a 64-year-old white male if it wasn’t for my girlfriend who was a nurse brought home a sample for me and show me how to put them on she explained everything to me then she show me how she wears one at work all the time that the girls were on all the time she says more people are wearing diapers than you know about it’s nothing to be embarrassed aboutI keep a supply diapers in my truck in it in a to go bag when I go into the store or shopping or traveling I’ve changed my diapers in the restrooms in restaurants and in the stores nothing to be embarrassed about it’s a part of life good luck dear
I agree nor disagree with your statement. Because some people only need them temporarily but at the same time other its a daily thing. Such as people with certain disabilities,never been potty trained for x reason,this plays into the first one but has certain medical conditions that require them,and etc.
I became totally incontinent after my hysterectomy (can't feel bladder) and I suffer from IC, IBS, fibromyalgia and sleep apnea. The bedwetting is the worst, but I wear thick diapers 24/7. I failed a bunch of treatments, but I live a normal life with diapers. It's no different than using my walker, glasses and CPAP machine to carry on with life.
I use medline I suffer from nite time issues bladder
And thanks for sharing that your married. I know what a great feeling of control some women get from destruction of their optemist thoughts.😊
the only people that noticed that u where wearing or in diapers them self or know someone that is tends that people that can see u wearing a diaper have more respect and understanding and will not shame u for it
Ive secretly loved diapers since I was a kid they help me in a few different ways 1 of which is comfort due to childhood trauma and autism
That’s right people don’t pay attention to you & it took me a while to figure out that & realize it but it’s normal for me and I’m a little bit older then you & I have to wear pull-ups and I don’t care if people see it anymore
im 42 and have CP. started haveing issues in 2018 2019 that have just progresed over time. today i had 2 BMs im my diapers. i never have that many in a day mosty just wee. just sucks. One big thing is I have issues from my mom give we up for adoption so she could go party(drinking/Drugs). i became a DL to cope and now feel conflicted like i brought this on myself. then i was over at my sister's and had a nice dinner so i feel a littel better. just rambeling on to help feel better. thanks
I have been an adult baby all my life and have always felt ashamed and kept it hidden from everyone. Now, I regret it because I have been married twice and both only married me for money with a very platonic lifestyle. If I would have been more honest, I may have found someone that accepted me for what I am and not for other things.
What brand of diapers did you wear?
I have these issues. Nobody would guess the kind of butch, ripped lady would pee! 🙀 But yeah, it's manageable like putting on big girl pee pants before a long train/plane ride, or e.g. going to the laboratory for samples without emptying in the morning. For me the *f--k it* moment was getting up from a chair, having that sense of bladder vertigo and tripping on the way to the ladies' room, and the reader can guess the rest.
My thought is, that if I pee in front of others, it's confusing and awkward for everyone. But if they notice that Tena or w/e they'll figure it's for a medical condition 99/100. There really is no reason to not resort to aids which do actually help.
The video just abruptly ended🤔
Personally I don't see what the big deal is with diapers, it's just another medical aid device. Some companies are trying to lessen the stigma by advertising their product to younger people.
what about working out and doing exercises? do you also go to the gym? another hurdle with diapers.
Ive had to start wearing diapers because of a bad wreck it almost killed me but i got lucky n just lost my right leg n cause of said wreck i also have very lil control i can feel the urge but no time to get to a bathroom any tips or tricks i need any help i can get
I've had a TBI since 2016 and have been using them since then, I also have a huge medical list.
I actually didn't care cause I couldn't remember anything anyway.
I wear layers of cloth (4) folded ,pinned on under plastic diaper leak guards.I feel that people look at my rear and snicker at that behind my back .Now I just keep going and leave it be.Tomorrow I will do it again and waddle to my hearts content.
Hi I wear diapers and plastic pants 24/7 all my life. Why put life on hold. Don’t worry about what people think.
Thank you for sharing this video❣️ Best whishes to you