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First L take in this vid
She cheated on her first husband. Not a jerk!!
Agree. Bad take.
Not to mention the presenter missed the most important part where the mother said "you WILL be there" IGNORING HIS CHOICE and telling him that he was forced to support his sister.
He made it clear he did not want to be there and the mother made it clear that he was required to be there. He didn't want to spend the money to go to a place he didn't feel comfortable going and so the mother should have paid for the ticket
Everyone likes to think that just because it's their wedding day that everyone else should kowtow to their every whim But you shouldn't be forced to keep the peace with somebody that you Don't want to Even if it is their wedding
Even if I don't know both sides, the sister ruined the sanctity of her vows by cheating. I would never support a cheater's wedding, even if it's family. She promised to be with him through richer for poorer, for better for worse, in sickness and in health, till death do they part, and she decided "Nah, I'm gonna cheat because I feel 'unhappy' at the moment." It annoys me how people disregard vows so much these days.
True cheaters suck
Not the jerk!
Engagement party: you really think there’s any “behind close doors” reason that could justify cheating? The sister vowed to spend the rest of her life with her first husband and she betrayed him. There’s no forgiving or supporting that
Yup
If her husband's behavior was problematic, she should've just divorced and moved on with her life. There is no good reason to cheat. Ever. There are plenty of good reasons to separate or get divorced but there is zero excusable reason to cheat.
exactly
I was thinking that to cheating is wrong no matter what who knows the first husband could have been the nicest person ever regardless of that is still wrong
first husband could have been abusive
Story 6, who cares if OP is being petty. It’s his mom’s and sister’s own fault.
Yup am glad everyone is understanding who’s in the wrong and all that
Wow Mom is being a petty selfish person. Your self worth has absolutely nothing to do with the size of the wedding ring. And you're willing to go into debt to out shine your daughter WOW
Wouldn't be surprised if she wears a white wedding dress on the wedding day
She's going to wonder why the daughter goes no contact with her
@@HWC91 I could see that happening too
Did he seriously try to justify cheating on a SO?
Yes, because we don’t know how her relationship before that was. And fair, we don’t, but she was divorced and engaged within three months so I think that just sounds suspicious.
@@brokeboiiii I don't need to know both sides to know that she broke her vows and decided to give into temptation.....Cheater is a cheater and I would never support one, even if it is family.
Story 6 am sorry but I disagree with the narrator doesn’t matter why the sister cheated she still did op not supporting it is fine if most of his family call him out for it is on them but this is just my opinion on things
Exactly. Cheating is a big No, OP not supporting that is fine and correct.
Furthermore she divorced and got re-engaged in 3 months, that’s massive sus. So I definitely wouldn’t support that. And then the defensiveness from mother and sisters… it reeks of narcissistic projection. So, no.
His deal with dad is fair, specially after enduring immature harassment at the hands of sis 1&2. They’re perpetuating drama they caused, because they don’t like the consequences of their actions
Am glad people see it I do
Sounds like OP grew some balls and had enough of the drama the female family members creates, and that divorce was the last straw. Too bad the dad hasn't grown some balls yet.
True like your wife is trying to push away your son because her your daughters are toxic hopefully the father gets a divorce or something
Don't be surprised. This narrator's logic just makes no sense
I kinda find it weird the reader thought op was petty for not wanting his sisters and mother around because cheating no matter what happened is wrong and then harrasing op makes it worse. I dont like the fact youre talking about trying to make peace when other stories on the channel pertaining to family cheating and somehow being supported by a parent or other family member you would say cut them out of your life because of toxicity. Inconsistent
Ya I don’t understand the narrators takes sometimes
@@gotenblack2542 maybe he thinks Husband 1 may have been abusive?
@@GiordanDiodatostill not an excuse for cheating.
If your partner or spouse is abusive you should simply leave/divorce them. But I don't really think the husband would have been abusive since OP was good friends with him...
The Cheater's Wedding: I disagree with you dude. The mom and sister do not deserve OP's time of day. If the mother in her daughter's place, and her husband cheated on her instead, it'd be a totally different story. "Oh no, don't go to his wedding, how can you support your father!? He cheated!!!" you get it?
I agree and disagree with you
Narrator justifies his take with 'OP should have kept the peace'. When you hear that, you just know he has dished out *HORRIBLE* advise.
Story 1: OP's first problem was dating an exchange student in highschool.... this NEVER ends well, and a lot of exchanges programs highly discourage it and for some of them, its even grounds for getting them sent home. I never get why people just have to go to a dance or prom with someone.... its totally fine and acceptable to go alone. She could've very easily gone alone, and since she was trying to cheat, she deserved to have her ideal prom ruined and be bitter about it. Glad the OP had fun though.
Story 2: Very well played indeed. A lot of neighbourhoods are banning or trying to ban those leaf blowers because of noise (they really are not that loud really), but the way the gardener came back with an even louder, legal machine is just hilarious. Enjoy the noise there, you old boot. I swear, those kinds of people would make noise complaints on people whispering.
Story 3: Hey, the guy said send no Mexicans, and they didn't. Honduras isn't Mexico. Those kinds of people just label every hispanic person as "Mexican".
Story 4: Time for an upgrade? What?? The mother is definitely a jerk here; why on earth would you do that? She did it simply to try and one-up the daughter, and that is just stupid and petty. I wouldn't allow the mom to the wedding if shes going to be this way.
Story 5: Do not, under any circumstances, unban this cow of a woman. The future MIL totally deserved to be banned here. She's rude and a snag for no reason at all. Her son was also married and divorced too, so her comments were also very hypocritical as well. If other people are calling the OP a jerk here and wanting the MIL unbanned, then they deserve to be banner as well. Don't back down and go low to no contact.
Story 6: I think that there is a LOT not being told here, so i can't really say who is and isn't a jerk here overall. The only one who is, is the cheating sister. I'll sling mud at her with no hesitation.
Story 7: Stuff like this is why you shouldn't get tattoos based on people like that. I get the 'my body, my choice', but need to give it more thought. That being said, the new bf shouldn't really be upset here, as it really isn't that big of a deal here. It's 3 dots, not like a giant heart saying "i love you Rory" or something. OP and the bf need to talk more about this, or just break up.
Story 8: While the daughter shouldn't be gloating that she has something that someone doesn't, the OP is not a jerk here at all. He has 50-50 custody with the ex, and he is totally within his rights to get his daugther something at his place. The ex needs to grow up here.
Story 7: I disagree with this "That being said, the new bf shouldn't really be upset here, as it really isn't that big of a deal here." No one really has the right to say what is a big deal or not. To the BF it is obviously a big deal. Why? Because the tattoo is a symbol of OP's past relationship. It is the equivalent of her having tattooed her ex's name on her body. It is reasonable to set up the boundary and ask, "hey remove it or we are done." It is then up to OP to decide what she wants to do.
@@sirei01 How is it toxic and abusive? The BF laid out his stance,”remove it or the relationship is over.” He did not do anything abusive. He did not say anything bad. Heck he did not even attempt to gaslight her. He stated his stance and stayed quiet and allowed OP to make her choice.
Also, yes, it is a tattoo about 3 people but I disagree with the friends. When OP got the tat it was a tat about her, her friend, and her then boyfriend. It is nice OP is friends with her ex (i do believe this is fine). It is also nice OP did what was needed to make her BF aware of this friendship.
However, her saying she is now friends with her ex does not stop what the tat symbolizes. That reasoning she, and you, are giving is akin to the following,”oh my ex and I are so good friends that I am keeping the tattoo of his name on my body, even though I got it when we were together.” I really dont know about you but that phrase sounds wild and I can understand why some people (OP’s BF) would go,”nope not dealing with that”.
Also, why is it a guy’s boundary is “toxic” “abusive” and “controlling” but a woman’s boundary is perfectly acceptable? Such a weird double standard tbh.
@@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd it's not a symbol of the past relationship, it's a symbol of the friendship.
god you're insecure af
@@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd because it's forcing her to change her friends
@@GiordanDiodato he isnt forcing her though. She is being given a choice. The tattoo or the BF. Being given a choice is not the same as being forced.
It can be applied to any other sort of boundary or deal breaker. One person wants kids while the other doesnt? No one is being forced to have/not have kids. They are just being asked to make a choice. Obviously kids and tattoos are different but intensity aside, the concept is still the same.
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i'm glad that op broke up with his girlfriend who cheated on him with this guy who's his friend and i'm glad that op went to prom with his lady friends.
but i hope his ex girlfriend is enjoying prom herself.
She’s living a sad, sad life if she’s still stuck at high school prom. High school and prom don’t mean anything. I’m already like 6 years off that.
The cheating/wedding story: women HATE facing consequences for their actions. Men need to learn to stand up to women. "Never underestimate a woman's ability to rationalize bad behavior and avoid all accountability."
@@ChimkinMcCluckie It very much is. You should watch court cases and talk to some cops or asset protection people at retail. Men will try to talk their way out. HOWEVER, they will own up when it made apparent there is evidence against them. Women on the other hand, will STILL deny deny deny, gaslight,, male excuses about how they were "abused growing up", cry croc tears, etc. even if you're showing them 4k video audio evidence of their wrongdoing. I used to do security, I've seen this first hand. It's wild to witness. Men will almost always be like, "well, sh!t. You got me.".
a message to the op in story 1: I hope you don't mind being single, if you need some comfort, I'll be your friend
Story 7, the reason why the boyfriend didn’t want the OP to have that tatoo is probably because he’s been in a toxic relationship and his girlfriend has cheated on him (or he is very insecure) so of course he’s acting a bit out
your take on the dude and his sister and his mum is an L take if she cheated on her man unless he was a bad dude, the tattoo story the BF is an insecure babyman
Cheating is always bad and hurts as heck, not a jerk!
This is how I relax these stories are awesome to here also congrats on 1m subs
"After she said some HORRIBULL things to me" got me LMAO
Story 6: why is he required to support the sister and have to spend his money to go to a cheater's wedding? Also, what's wrong with him spending HIS money to go on a vacation with HIS gf? I don't understand the thinking here.
The last story so the ex has 2 other kids and based on their ages different fathers as well. Sounds like the other dads don’t/can’t afford to give them expensive gifts/rewards and the ex just wants ger daughter to suffer as well? Seems very messed up
Story 6: Dude the other narrator wouldn't have said this. At this point it feels like this narrator will support a girl no matter what. There aren't any excuses for cheating...
not true the other one does the morning one sides with woman a lot to even if there in the other so both of them are like that sometimes
In story flip the other neighbors they didn't care to help the gardener
Wow. The wedding banned MIL. If she said that so readily after inviting herself over & butting in to the conversation, can you imagine what kind of 💩 she'd try AT the wedding?
congratz for 1M SUBS!!! Loved every second with you!
Story 6, sister cheated on her husband, and is now getting married to said person they cheated with. No reason the brother has to support that scummy behavior.
Last story, husband is being a huge ass here, this is a chance to teach your daughter to not be a spoiled brat. She wants to tease and taunt her siblings, then she does not get the console.
except that wasn't the condition, was it? it was to get an A+
@@GiordanDiodato but it was, the daughter started bragging and teasing their siblings about getting the game console. Perfect chance to teach your child about being humble and showing respect.
Story 6: Only cheaters defend cheaters...I said what I said. The mother, the two sisters, the extended family, this narrator 😅😅😅
ETA...the dad better investigate his wife before not attending his own son's wedding. Her defense of her cheating daughter and even spending so much money on it and banning the son who has morals is very suspicious.
One issue here, which is only the mother's side is told on that account, and may not be comfortable that he can afford to get that for her. There's no outright confirmation that she was gloating or being a spoiled brat, that is just an assumption being made with the information the mother gave him.
_we don't know what is going on behind closed doors_ lmao? How the fuck? She cheated on her first husband, nothing can justify that
Abuse
@@GiordanDiodato Then you just break up, not cheat lmao
@@GiordanDiodatonot even abuse. Also abuse is nuanced as well. What's abused to you is not abused to someone else different strokes I guess.
I’m happy about the op of the first stories revenge
Who tf would support they’re cheating sister.
Last story: NTA. The daughter got an A+ on her exam, she was promised the PS5 I’m exchange for that, she earned and deserves it. The ex needs to get over herself.
Reminds me of that expression trying to keep up with the Joneses it didn't exactly end well there either
congrasts for 1 mil!
The brother spent an arm and a leg making it to sisters first wedding, if she really wanted him at her "i cheated on him for this guy" wedding, she should have coughed up for the plane ticket and stay. No telling how long the trip he went on was planned. Some hotels are non refundable. Or you could have gone and started a betting pool on how long before she cheats on the man she married cheating on hubby #1.
I am so sorry if my wife ever told me anything like that after I took the time and put in all that effort to find an engagement ring for her that she supposedly loved, that would be grounds for you to some serious therapy or divorce
Keep up the great content
Congrats on 1m!
1st story: she had coming. She had it coming. She only had herself to blaaaame🎵
just realized u hit 1 mil. congrats
Never support cheaters, infidelity should be heavily punished
Congratulations on 1 million subscribers
I am shocked that you agreed with OP’s family about going to his sister’s second wedding. He was absolutely not the jerk! On this channel you've always said that blood relations doesn't mean family if they did something horrible to people you care about. OP was good friends with his brother in law, then his sister does one of the scummiest things a person can do, cheats, gets a divorce, and then marries the person she cheated with. If I was OP, no matter how my relationship with my sister was beforehand, I would fully support the brother in law unless there were EXTREME extenuating circumstances. I also agree with OP's decision to shun his mother for supporting this disgusting behavior. As for the trip with his girlfriend, I would much rather have a trip with my girlfriend than go to the wedding between my unfaithful sister and the rat who she cheated with. I understand that this puts the father in a tough spot, but he is free to decide what he wants to do, and so long as OP holds no grudges about his dad's decision here, I think he was in the right the whole way, and congrats on your engagement by the way OP!
Ayy congrats on 1M subs
for the story at 16:44 we don't know the full story of the break up and DON'T need to know as it's not our business, but from the sounds of it, it seems as if things ended on good terms and the og posters new bf may not understand the full meaning behind the tatoo or has his own problems with her still being friends with her ex and has been holding it in till then
8:37 "I was married to my daughters dad'" lol
Don’t let a temporary boyfriend force to make a permanent decision on your body. That’s narcissistic of him
I am sorry but I have to go with the the son who is not supporting his cheater sister. Despite what happened, even if it is a jerk move, don't go to the wedding. Once you cheat you are in the wrong. Don't support cheaters. I certainly would not if this happened in my family.
Story #6
I'm disappointed in this channel
Nta. His sister cheated on his friend and his other sister and mother took her side and started making rude comments and he has every right to not invite them to his engagement + he gave his dad the opportunity but he can decline it if he wants
This channel is great there mite some things you don't agree with, so what its Thier option so they don't deserve hate
It's not the channel, it's this specific narrator. The others talk sense. He does not
@@kirby4077 fax
@@kirby4077 its the other narrator that has the worst takes.
Tattoo story; Nope. NTA. If he's going to be so petty, then he's clearly not ready for a "big boy" relationship.
You can't erase your past and you won't remove/alter such an important part of your journey.
my fil is banned from mine, my hubs and I got eloped and and fil threatened to punch my hubs teeth in cuz we got married, so now he is banned from his only sons wedding, and has no contact with my hubs
Gonna make another point in the dad's favor and ask how truthful the mom is being about her gloating. She said the other two kid's parents are having financial issues, but the question is did she take her daughter being excited at the prospect of getting a PS5 as outright gloating and use that to try and keep her from getting one? We don't know, and from the way the dad talks about her and having spent time with her, he would probably know pretty well if she would go around gloating like that or not, and he never promised her mother he wouldn't get it for her in the first place.
This channel posts faster than when my dad left us
17:45 I really disagree, it’s the boyfriends choice whether he dates you or not, he can choose to end the relationship for any reason. I don’t think I’d date a girl who kept a tattoo she got for her ex boyfriend. There is obviously some residual feelings there. If he wants to end it, it’s really entirely his choice.
bruh
it's a symbol of their FRIENDSHIP, not their relationship. holy crap, you're insecure af
Okay.......
The story about the mom and sisters harping on the op for not spending money on the plane ticket to the second wedding. But shelling out money for a trip with his girlfriend......
Not the jerk.
As someone who lives "across country" from a lot of family and the like with what op says. While burning few hundred dollars in a road trip, or an off shore boat trip(boat goes out a few days and comes back to the same port it left). Compared to spending thousands of dollars to hop across the country to be at a wedding you pretty recently heard about with the divorce 3 months prior.
Op basically said how he lived a ways away from the family and information was spotty, so I can assume that the divorce was as much a shock as the remarriage too.
Couple that with the trip, even if you ball park op living in Florida and the family living in Maine. Pending on the time of the year, the duration of the time between arriving and departing flights. Round about 3k for the trip. Even more if say that the family lives in California and the op lived in Connecticut.
If they Insist the op "HAS TO BE" at the wedding then they should be more than happy to foot the bill.
Then there's the op's own wedding. While yes kind of a dick move to invite dad but ban mom...... The least that can be done is a group phone call between dad, mom and op. To see if mom is apologetic, and if nothing else, show dad how much of a hench bitch she is being........ Now if she subtly is bitchy in apologizing, then the op can just not pay for her ticket to come out there for his wedding, or something.
But end of story, op is NOT at fault, mom and sisters are.
Sister for not keeping her legs closed, other sister for being an angry mouth piece and mom for not only demanding presence for cluster fuck wedding. But also denial to at least fork over some money to help op buy their ride over and secure some lodging for the time spent there....... Honestly there's more going on here than just the wedding, op hop skipped and jumped across the country from home for a reason apparently.
10:01; Nope. NTA. Keep her banned or don't marry the dude. You have a child and I would honestly not allow that narcissistic woman around her ever.
If the other neighbors say anything, just point them to the idiot who called the cops.
In regards to story 6: there is a time and a place for making peace, this isn’t one of them. While the “idea” of fairytale wonderland where everyone gets along together is nice, it absolutely isn’t realistic or even ethical at time. The sister cheated on her husband, there is no excuse for that. No magical “behind the scenes” that forgives that. The OP set his boundaries pain and simple, if they truly wanted him there, they could pay for it. They said no and he stood for his boundaries and I respect him for that. He never said that he didn’t have enough to pay for a ticket, he just didn’t want to invest his money and time on a cheater of a sister. This is similar to a family member asking money for a car, so everyone pitches in and helps, then said family member purposely crashes new car and then expects everyone to help with another car. Why should OP have to waste his time on that? And while I can understand the mom maybe being a little biased, it’s natural for a parent to want to take their child side, even if it’s the wrong side. Everyone but the OP and the dad(ish) is a jerk, including you to an extent @AmITheJerk
As Kevin Samuels once said, marriage is about commitment, respect, and duty. You shouldn't get married because you hope to be happy, you should be happy in the relationship before you got married, because marriage is for building a family. French toast your happiness.
Maybe Edward's problem is not because she's friends with her ex but that she's friends with someone she potentially slept with and he feels emasculated by the tattoo.
My mom box a new engagement ring not cause she wanted a upgrade and my mom has only loved one man my dad so no not that it because I ATE HER ORIGINAL ENGAGEMENT RING WHEN I WAS A TODDLER I ATE IT I have attention disorder hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) autism and anxiety so nice gene soup I got and fits a the description of someone who ate their moms engagement ring so ya😅
How.... How did you get it out?
Don't ever support a cheater. Dont care if its family
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Happy one million
9:13 My honest reaction was just: What the fuck???
The Cheater's Wedding story:
While I am one who tries to keep peace. I will never actively condone forcing someone to attend a function they're not comfortable to attend. If I convinced them or are willing to go under a condition, OP was willing, they are doing it out as an act politeness and should not be made to pay their way.
As for the OP's side understanding "what went on behind closed doors" is not their responsibility it was the OP's family's responsibility to explain it. Pettiness aside, this entire situation only served to show the OP's family's true colours. Where instead of respecting their decision the WHOLE family just berate the OP. WTF?
As I've said I am one who tries to keep peace or at the very least remain neutral but why do so if it's at the the expense of of your own peace? At this point one must make a stand.
Story 6: ah female bias once again. The situation is simple, the sister cheated. OP does not endorse cheating. So he does not go to the wedding. Simple.
As for the mother and other sister of OP. This is also simple. They are endorsing a cheater’s relationship. OP does not want to be associated with a cheater. So by proxy, these two and OP will drift apart.
As for the dad and OP. Honestly, if the dad doesn't go to the engagement, I would take that as him endorsing the cheating and I'd go low/no contact with him.
Also, it is important to note this is OP’s engagement. He can choose who he wants and it is not a jerk move. OP is also placing a boundary which is “I do not want a relationship with people who endorse cheating”. This is very reasonable.
So yeah female bias strikes once again from AITJ, fun.
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Story 7: “Current Boyfriend’s insecurity” ah the bias shows once again. Why is it insecure to place a boundary? The BF does not like the symbol of Op’s past relationship. His boundary is simple. Keep it and the relationship is over or remove it and the relationship stays. This is a boundary and honestly a reasonable one at that. The tattoo is basically a less tacky equivalent of getting the ex’s name tattooed on OP’s body.
That said. I don’t see any jerks here. OP is not the jerk for not wanting to remove it. She did everything needed to make her BF aware of her friendship with her Ex and she did not lie to him. So at this point it's really just a matter of boundaries for the two and when it comes down to boundaries I do not think either party is a jerk.
Absolutely this channel's earlier vids were better and they don't deserve 1 Million
With your opinion on Story 6, I agree with everything except your opinion on the Dad. It's not his battle, and it's not fair that he's getting dragged into this. We shouldn't be labelling him as taking the cheater's side just because he's trying to stay neutral.
I disagree. In this situation, there is no neutral and the father is just trying to avoid confrontation that will inevitability occur.
The relationship between OP and the sister's + mom has already reached the point where the father needs to make a choice. Why? Because the father recognizes that if he goes to the engagement without his wife then a rift in the relationship occurs.
Also, at some point there is a difference between trying to be neutral and fence sitting. The father, imo, is fence sitting. He is not doing sh*t. His wife and daughters are in the wrong and he should be supporting his son. So, imo, if he was to not go to OP's engagement I would take that as a sign as the father either
a) looking out for himself
b) endorsing his daughter's behavior
c) not being willing to call out bad behavior
None of which is something, I think, OP should associate himself with.
Ok at 14:17 I understand you may be confused about why he didn't just pay if he went for a trip but plane tickets are like 3 times more expensive than a normal trip and he might have just drove a bit so it wouldn't really be that much
Okay why was this published on my birthday
Story 1: this is a clear case of “your actions always have consequences.”
Story 2: well played. Karen got what she deserved lol.
Story 3: love when racists get schooled and put in their place. Well done OP.
Story 4: talk about entitled.
Story 5: DON’T let that woman attend your wedding. She will ruin your day on purpose.
Story 6: you are putting a lot of pressure and stress on your dad, because of your sister’s actions that you don’t agree with. You don’t have to invite your sisters, but leaving your mom out is not cool.
Story 7: if your boyfriend is going to “demand” you to get rid of your tattoo after knowing ahead of time of your friendship with the ex, then you don’t want to be with a person like that and should breakup with him.
Story 8: if the daughter is throwing her privileges into her step-siblings faces and making them feel bad, then she doesn’t deserve the gift no matter what she got on her test. You are teaching her how to be an entitled brat that will become an entitled Karen in the future.
for the last stroy depends on if the x was telling the truth she could be embellishing what she said to stop him treating her. he should investigate before doing anything
she isnt throwing it into their faces from what the ex said she was bragging yeah but she is 14 teens and kids do that you got something cool your going to want to say something about also like @ALTEC-Multimedia said the ex was definitely exaggerating it to prevent the 14 year old from getting the ps5
Awesome move the op straight up did not invite his mom *not a jerk*
Story 4: The mother was not only jealous in a petty, disrespectful way, but also stupid. She insisted on buying an expensive new ring to one-up her own daughter, but did so when she knew she and her spouse were having money problems. I hope she has to declare bankruptcy.
Story 5: The fiance's mother was not only truly obnoxious, but also a female misogynist. Seriously, what year was she born? The turn of the century?! Nobody but the fiance's mother will care that her son is marrying a woman who already has a kid; the fiance's mother is completely alone in that regard. Plus, the fiance's mother is a hypocrite ('ironic" is not the right word for it)! The OP was married to her daughter's father and got pregnant after the wedding (before the first husband abandoned them), while the fiance's first marriage was a shotgun that had his son born seven months after the wedding! Also, it felt like she was targeting the OP's eight-year-old daughter. No wonder the OP went mother bear on her fiance's mom!
Story 6: Does the OP's mother actually supposed to support the fact that his sister, Bella, is an adulterer and a possible serial spouse? Very hypocritical for someone who is religious. "Do the right thing?" What exactly is the right thing? Also, Bella is definitely going to cheat on her next husband, who is an idiot if he expects otherwise.
story 6 you are not the jerk, your family was being piety and you were right to clear them from your life, if your dad doesnt want to come to the engagement cause it will be wierd thats on him not you
Last story should just be that the daughter keep the ps5 at his house or share with the siblings u know
Story 7: It sounds like the boyfriend may be controlling and possibly abusive. It is probably best to break up rather than waiting for future abusive episodes that are worse.
My exact same thought. He switched up super hard over a simple tat a group of mutual friends have not just the former couple. He's 100% one of those "he flipped a switch the day after the wedding" guys.
If Edward really loved OP he would accept her as she is and not requiring her to change herself to be worthy of him. That’s not good boyfriend behavior that’s future abusive manipulator behavior! Drop him like a bad habit OP!
My ex husband said to me after 10y that he didn't stands my tatoo that i made for a boyfriend Who died in 2002.... 10y later 😮💨
Big yikes. Glad he's an ex. If someone gets upset about you having a tattoo, big red flag, especially if they keep it a secret and then reveal later that they hate it. Concern over whether a person is sure about a tattoo is no big deal but telling their partner after being involved and knowing about the tattoo that they don't like is a big red flag. It seems borderline controlling, like the people who once you start dating them, they start to tell you to change your outfits or tell you to stop expressing yourself. I'm planning on getting a stargazer lily tattoo on my arm in memory of my mom and if I end up with a partner who doesn't like it, then that partner can suck it and look for someone else.
@@Juzokinnie it took me several years to get free, and an abusive reltionship never more. Love yourself first 💓
I don't even have a ring. I dont even have a tan line from a ring. Because its not what makes marriage. To be jealous over your daughter getting a bigger piece of DEAD DINOSAUR FECES is ever so childish. Humans value the weirdest things.
On Story number 6 I don't think original poster is the jerk. It was stated that the sister did cheat with her first husband and it was also stated that three years later they went through a divorce. It sounds like she's rushing the second one. Sure the original poster might have had the money to go but what if they had been planning to save up for this trip for awhile? They just happen to find love along the way. It doesn't seem like the original poster is being a jerk in my opinion because this is the sisters second marriage and while yes, the brother could say that the he does support his sister, we also have to take into account that the sister cheated and was rushing things for the second relationship as it was 3 years and then divorce for the first one. She just doesn't have her head on straight and doesn't know what she wants and is rushing things too fast is what I'm hearing. I think the family is the jerk in this aspect and not the father mind you because the father doesn't want any of the drama. I can understand where both sides are coming from. And as you say I'm playing devil's advocate here. Sure we don't know what happened with the sister and husband during the first part of the relationship and wedding and what happened after that except for the divorce and a little bit of cheating or something like that, but we do know that she went through a divorce 3 years after which means she obviously had a lot of tension with her husband at that time up to that point which caused it to get to the breaking point. Why should the original poster have to deal with another lump sum of money that could just end up in another divorce? Especially when things were rushed. Original poster is not the joke but everyone except for the father is just a little bit of a jerk on the original poster side of the family. You don't have to be there to give your support to a family member. You could be there via video chat or something like that. I understand it's not as meaningful but sometimes you've got to do what has to be done and especially since it's obvious she had a falling-out and was cheating on the first relationship and rushed the second marriage. Kind of her fault there. Why would somebody want to support something like that? I mean come on, that's not right supporting cheating like that and especially then that short amount of time getting remarried. Sounds like she has no shame at all. Hope her second husband was smart enough to have her sign a prenup.
Prom is bs and never went and glad I didn't waste the time. i also never saw the point in that sort of thing
People saying first for what reason?
How could the guy have been more mature in the first story? He found out his girlfriend tried to cheat on him with his friend and broke up with her. Out of all the stories thats been told on this channel that is peak maturity. He didnt even try and get revenge in any way just a clean break up. It sounds like you were making stuff up to force a other side of the coin situation when there isnt one.
CONGRATS ON 1 MILLION
Whatever might’ve been going on behind closed doors it doesn’t justify cheating. If they were having issues then they should’ve worked on them, if he was vilely mistreating her then she should’ve left him and found someone new after that! There’s no justification for cheating and she barely gives the ink where she signed the divorce papers time to dry before she got engaged to her side piece. I think I know enough about the situation thank you very much! NTA!
Wedding guy is not a jerk
All i have to say about story one is directed to the ex gf, cry harder.
I wouldn't invite her either put the exact same reasons stated in this post
Story 8:
Being that the daughter earned it, it is not her fault that her mother's other sperm donors are not well off. This is a personal problem of the mother, and has nothing to do with the child, and what her father can offer for her. She needs to get a grip and stop opening her legs for every Tyrone, Pookie, and Ray-Ray.
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Back when I was stupid enough to date single mothers _(defined as women who have children out of wedlock and never being married),_ I had a girlfriend who had 3 children, and all 3 had different fathers.the middle child had a father making $35 per hour (which was a big deal back in the 1990's), and the middle child's father would pay for very nice clothing (Lacoste, Fila, and other middle tier to high end clothing), while the other two, the eldest's father was doing a life sentence for malice murder with robbery, and the youngest child's father was playing crazy, to get state welfare benefits and SSI (possibly to avoid paying child support for all 8 of his kids, from 7 different women). The fact of the matter was, that the middle child's father also paid to send all 3 to private schooling (Tuition was about $2000-3000 per semester per child). At the time, I worked as a service technician for Xerox, and went to college part time (just 2 classes per week) she would get angry every time he got his kid something nice, and would badger him into buying things for her other two kids. Me, being in my early 20's, realized that this was not right. I was actually on friendly terms with the father (and we are still friends, 25 years later... It is a shame that his son was murdered due to mistaken identity... He was misidentified as a known gang member, back in 2015... He would be around 30 if he were still alive. The eldest was a girl, and currently following after her mother... 7 kids, 5 different guys, no marriage, and the youngest, a boy is now a supervisor at a postage handling company -- I forgot which one... Possibly DHL or UPS). And I told him that he was not responsible for kids that he did not sire. He gave me the song and dance that if he did not do for the other kids, likely she would use the courts to withhold his son from him. Anyhow, I then tried working on my (now) ex-girlfriend to make sure that she does the amicable thing for the middle child's dad.her and I dated for less than a year, but my influence lasted for far longer. To the point that she laid off the guy, and instead put her two other kids in public school, as the middle son continued private school alone. Granted, in hindsight, it probably would have been better for the other two to have continued at the private school, considering it was a school with high academic standards, whereas the public school that they were forced to go to (by the school district), was considered to be the worst performing school in the city that I lived in. It is a good thing that the youngest ended up graduating top of his class. The eldest.... Dropped out because she got pregnant in the 9th grade. 🤷🏽♂️
The point is, that the father who is well off is not responsible for the kids that are not his, even though they are (half) siblings, and it is not the fault of the child who's father is well off, if he gives *his own child* nice things, *_if the father of the other children are not well off._* He is not responsible for them.
No sympathy for cheaters
First story: prom is overrated. Not a problem if you went or want to go but in twenty years, prom is the least important event you're going to attend in your life.
I'm just curious. I'm not from the USA. Is it a must to have a partner to go to the prom? Or is it very embarrassing attending without one? We don't have a prom like there, in my country,so we don't need a partner. In my case, I'm not sure we had the same amount of boys and girls (at the school) and I didn't have boy friends to ask if they wanted to go with me (in case we had this kind of prom here in my country). And in case, I had boy friends, I'm sure they would already have a partner before me asking them to go together. How do you do it?
what game is that in the background?
14:20 can I point out that the OP is ON THE OTHERSIDE OF THIER CONTRY. Second of all we don’t know where and what building the OP lives in so it could be New York type prices js.
Story 6 there is no way the brother is the jerk in any way. He dosent want to support her gross cheating behavior and shouldn't. Its called having a moral conpass and standards to live by. The only thing him giving in is going to accomplish is his mom and sisters are going to continue thinking what they are doing is acceptable. They event went out of their way to being the drama to social media and the dad is being useless and refusing to call them out on it is not helping. This just shows he enables boths his wifes and daughters behavior and probably never stood up to them. Its also ridiculous how you have to make up potential negative events in your head amd pretend they are reality just to make op out as the jerk. You dont know what happened behind closed doors which is why you shouldn't have brought up something you have no knowledge on to make a point. You do however know the sister cheated and can make an assumption thats why the relationship ended. Not made up scenarios in your head that cantbbe proven. I really like the channel but you start to sound like Twitter when you need to scew reality to support opinions.
1 MIL WOOOOOO
This channel is great there mite some things you don't agree with, so what its Thier option so they don't deserve hate
What game is that
What is this game in the background?
In that second to last story i dont think your reasoning of timelines makes sense. Its only a valid and meaningful relationship if its lasted as long or around as long as her current friendship? Then no relationship would ever hold value.
I don't think this makes since
@@MrHinishiokami ?
Story 5: The logic of that MIL is very stupid, OP is just like her fiancé and everything called out about OP, also applies to the son. If OP is a street-walker, her son is a street-walker. If OP is a used woman, her son is a used man. If OP's daughter is a disgrace, her grandson is a disgrace.
Fun Fact: only 1 person can be first.
I dont get the whole hype about the prom dance thing. It could be different where op lives but where i live its a dance where you have to pay $80-$100 per person. My cousin who went said that it wasnt even worth the money. The food was bad, any events set up werent really geared towards teenagers and all that really happened where people standing around in some building the school rented out for the night.
Last story: His house his rules. Not the 🍑🕳️
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Story #6 narrator really what the hell, she's a cheater in his shoes I'd more likely mock her for being a disloyal piece of trash hell I hope her new husband knows the type of person he's marrying