@@PatriccSellapound372Didn’t you clearly hear him say that she saw the 3 pieces if evidence and he saw it? Lol he LOUDLY ASKED WHY AND THE FATHER STATED BECAUSE IF HER POSTING PREGNANCY TEST AND IG. JM SAID I BELIEVE YOU DID IT.
Every women isn't a defenseless flower. Especially the ones in the ghetto. Takes two people to fight and often times its the female that starts the disputes. She can more hold her own and no way she was getting abused with all those crazy male brothers and cousins she has.
The judge tell body language too just like the ppl commenting..plus she already called child services but don't want the child unless it's gonna bring money...she said when he stops beating the child then she'll do something smh....stop praising her...she a dead beat mother
He believes her about the abuse, he looked at the pictures and said so. The thing is he have to follow the law. He can’t go against an investigation outcome. The outcome was unfounded so judge Mathis can’t make a ruling on that. But eventually he looked at the evidence and believed her
She signed over her daughters rghts to run the streets and don't even care to pay 50 little dollars for her daughter so she deserves everything she got from the judge,she got off light actually.judge we t easy on her.
I don’t like how she was giving her testimony, and JM kept interrupting, and rushing her through what she had to say. The plaintive was not rushed at all. He was able to take his time and articulate exactly what he wanted to say.
She explained herself.. she doesn't want to be responsible 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️ and feels entitled. sometimes he does choose sides early.. this ain't one of those times.
Why? Bc she's a woman? I've heard a many judges be harsher to fathers like her, who filed cps cases against the mother but didn't take any initiative to have the child removed and suddenly in civil suit case where they're sued by the mother for failing to pay child support, only them they want to seem like the caring parent.... Hog wash.
She signed over her daughters rghts to run the streets and don't even care to pay 50 little dollars for her daughter so she deserves everything she got from the judge,she got off light actually.judge we t easy on her.
I think they’re both toxic. Their child should be under the care of a close family member or friend who would have their best interest at heart. This is sad.
A whooping is not abuse it's called discipline,y'all seem ok with this mother's actions towards abandoning her own daughter and it's disgusting y'all deadbeat supporters
You do realize that a lot of the CPS cases are where they are investigating WOMEN, and they end it with UNFOUNDED. Yall seem only outraged when it happens to be against a man with full custody. I work in law enforcement and I've seem women BRAG about how many times CPS has investigated them and they still have custody or access to their children. If the abuse in this case is actually true, then why isn't the mother in this case seeking full custody and a protective order for the child against him? She doesn't WANT custody. She had it, willingly gave it up, and thus far has had no desire to seek custody again. And FYI, in certain states like Texas, corporal punishment by a parent is completely legal as long as it doesn't inflict serious bodily injury. But I've seen way more CPS reports of mothers beating their kids than fathers. And sometimes it's a non bio boyfriend of the mother who she let's beat her own kids. Stop with the selective outrage.
@@odog76543Great info to know but that doesn't mean the daughter isn't being abused by the father... That does happen alot in African American house holds. It's either the father or uncles.
Let her speak!!!! She has a story JM!!! And she has a right to give the man full custody as not all women who have children are mentally stable to want to keep them. All of the abuse in this case is just painful, especially when JM seems to not have empathy or sees the bigger picture!
The judge needs to get off her back. He’s a bully sometimes. He sides with any dad who has custody. He’s not even listening to her case and he dogged her looks.
Do you say that when most times the black man is beat up in the judicial system? If the mom does not have custody of her child, what does that say about her?
I see right thru dad mom is a Pos as well and after hearing she signed alllll of her rights to her child away without him even asking knowing he is abusive… I didn’t care what she had to say. I pray that child gets the help she needs.
He's abusive. Her silent demeanor is the key to the level of his abusive. He gives me Suge Knight vibes, and punching walls is abusive, plus judge Mathis can easily be fooled
Judge acts like he has so much street knowledge but sometimes, I think his mentality is stuck in the 70's and 80's It's annoying when he won't let folk speak too.
Judgmental? Hell, is a judge. The reason you don’t let people babble is because they usually engage in character assassination which they think will help. All they’re doing is telling the world about their schit choices in people they choose to have kids with. When you bash your child’s other parent, that’s a reflection of you so sometimes shutting up or being told to makes you look better.
After I got divorced, I dropped my kids off with their Father so he could raise them for a little while. Not sure why it's always the Mother's responsibility to have custody. But, I would definitely take my baby off this dude if he's hurting her.
He probably kicked her ass for running around being fass with those little boys and having to take pregnancy tests at 13… great job for a father!!!!! … get 18 and out on your own and then you can get knocked up by as many men as you please.
I just don't understand. If someone hits a grown adult with a belt, switch or cord it's considered assault. With a weapon. But if the parents do that to their child it's called discipline. Like what could a child do that was so bad they had to be whooped with an extension cord??? And now that you're grown I'm sure she acts as if she doesn't remember. And you still have to hug her and she pretends that she was #ClaireHuxtable
Mathis is acting like stripping is illegal. Or that a father having full custody is illegal. Don’t shame momma if you won’t shame the daddy for the same stuff.
I think its weird that if it was a man who was in the child's life for weekends and vacations he wouldve congratulated him for being in the childs life at all. Since its the mom, its look down on. Just goes to show you how society views mothers and fathers differently. If split custody works for them then why disrupt everything if this was before the abuse? Why does the mom have to have equal or majority custody but a dad can see his kid every weekend and be praised for being there at all?
Unc Judge Mathis being sexist AF. You will never ever catch him saying these things to a man. I do think she should have full custody, but not because she's a woman. That child needs to get out of that abusive situation. 💯
What I meant by my comment is that he never questions the man because he doesn't have full custody. Only the woman.. lol I didn't make that too clear haha. I have definitely seen him go off on men lots of times.
JM actually joked about her stripping, which was 7-8 years passed where they are now. She needs to get custody of her daughter. He's mad that she left him, never reveal a clown, this man is a clown, poor child.
@@PrincessZaire100especially if she resembles her mom or has any of her ways..this was a tough case for me. I pray the child is emotionally safe and physically...
@@jarronwilliams7227 judge Mathis kept saying that’s very odd for a woman not to have custody, which made his comment generalized. That’s what I was rebutting. Clearly he had issues here.
You don’t know this for sure trust me I got 3 daughters and ppl judge me didn’t even know I was supplying everything for them. But mother would lie because I wasn’t with her no more.
Judge....not ever stripper makes a huge amount of money. If definitely depends on the club they're at. I know strippers and OF girls that can barely afford to live on those week to week hotels
@prodyg nah she definitely should pay support. I'm just saying JM is always acting like stripping is a thing that gets to $1000 every night automatically.
No one should ever be subjected or stay in an abusive relationship of any kind. I don't care if you have children or not. Abuse of any kind is completely unacceptable. As much as I want to defend the plaintiff, I believe that he was abusive but she certainly owes for child support. Had it been a man he'd be on the hook as well.
JM downplayed the abuse as IF IT DIDNT happen!! Until showed pictures…the mother/exwife was telling you!! And making a joke “low income stripper” JM needs to retire!! And spend time with Linda and those grandkids!! He’s NOT FAIR he goes off his emotions.
I don't like it when the Judge or any judges disregards the PTSD, or Battered Wives Syndrome the victim suffers during and immediately following the escape from it. Often times the abused party doesn't know which wsy is 'up' or 'down' and according to Judge Mathis she is supposed to think strategically about living arrangements. I say, " When the 'house' is on fire you grab what is precious to you (children/Pets) and GET OUT OF THERE."
Judge Mathis was very harsh on the defendant! I applaud her for giving the child to the plaintiff! It was best for the child! A child needs stability and love. I believe the plaintiff was abusive .
Oh my goodness😯 I thought the comments might’ve been exaggerating. But, Judge Mathis questioned her way more than he did the ex. Judge had so much anger towards her for no reason. All a man has to do is give a few compliments to win u over Judge? Damn, I thought your price would be higher than that😂this is actually embarrassing for the Judge.
Damn, Mathis gave her the 3rd degree over being a stripper and no paying $50 a month .. but went soft on the plaintiff after seeing evidence that he's beating the shit out of his daughter and then lied to Mathis' face when he said he didn't know anything about to injuries. Sometimes Mathis has "crackish" ways.
Crazy that so many people make excuses for beating a kid with an extension cord. Yet, if they were beat with an extension cord, they'd be ready to press charges....
Whooping with an extension cord is crazy in 2024… nothing could make me that mad to hurt a child especially my child that bad as punishment. Also, JM is sick for talking to the defendant like shes not telling the truth. I believe her.
One moment judge mathis is all for supporting strippers the next he's making it sound horrible. The judge made his mind up at the beginning of the case - once again
Judge Mathis was acting extremely JUDGEMENTAL in this case. Extremely accusatory and not allowing the mom to speak! She had proof of him abusing her and he still was just railing into her without allowing her to speak! SMH! This episode was so cringe! It’s like he already had a judgement made without hearing her.
This is a case where he sees a “stand up dad” and sides with them basically because of the lack of his dad’s presence , I don’t think it’s fair for men to have a choice to take care of a child but when the woman makes a decision of what she feels is best she is considered a bad mom. I’m glad she did notice that he was a good father and she couldn’t be the mom her daughter needed but doesn’t mean she has to be judged for that
Plaintiff: you need to take care of your daughter Defendant : as soon as you stop beating her I will WOAH !! Please God protect and guide this women and help their family find resources for great therapy to heal their mind , body and soul . And this cycle of self hate & destruction will come to an end .
No! God guide that man from not abusing their child. And honestly I don’t blame her not paying child support. She should put that money aside and got her a lawyer
JM, when couples separate the mother doesn’t always have to be the primary parent and they are ok with that. What ever works best for them and the child. She should be paying her child support though.
How that's petty? That's lenient!!! People are so bias, because if that was a dude on the other side of this case in her shoes 👞. Everyone would be bashing him calling him sorry and pathetic for not paying 50 in child support. It will be less compassion, but since it's a female Everyone is so emotional attached. Smh!!! This society we are living in is so tragic! 💯
Judge Mathis, she NEVER SAID SHE DIDNT WANT HER DAUGHTER. She said everything was fine until 2020 and that’s when the abuse started and she went to CPS. It wasn’t game, you’re just being an jerk today
@@GoinHam10Four she gave the reasons she gave him full custody, which was fair and made sense. There was nothing wrong with her saying everything was fine UNTIL, and that’s when she called CPS and she even gave proof.
@@PrincessZaire100 if CPS shows no signs of abuse yet she says he is abusive you can't dispute that. She could have opened multiple cases against him if she was adamant about it. Just because she is a woman does not automatically make her story true.
He won’t even let the women talk damn!! She was clearly saying he was more financially stable to support both of them cmon a 9-5 bank job probably wasn’t enough to care for her and their daughter. I hate wen he looks DIRECTLY over the point 🙄
I am really disgusted n disappointed with Judge Mathis's judgement in this case. Victim blaming at it's finest. Lisa other factors as well. I'll stop here.
This The First Time I’ve Been So Upset With JM … I went through damn near The Same Thing Except I took My Kids And Left 2 months later Moved In My House Apartment and We’ve Been Here And Doing Better For 7 Months Now🙏🏾…Not Every Body Has The Same Resources😢
You taking the kids is why he was harsh to her…. Man sat on a bench for 40 years and only 10 times a woman says she was better off without her child. She’s a bird…. Probably was abused but the case is about the child not her
@@50centaintenoughx33she's a "bird" but if a man gave up custody because he wasn't stable but still saw the child regularly as she said (and he didn't dispute) he would be APPLAUDED People disrespect single mothers ALL the time, even when they have their kids. It doesn't matter the circumstance. And men can do the BARE minimum in parenting and get a pat on the back. Maybe she thought she made the right choice for her child back then. And was probably not in the best state of mind if she was young, abused and not financially stable. Men or women, people need to show some grace. Everyone's story isn't the same. JM was completely biased. And calling her a bird ain't no better
why when a father has custody JM always question the mother about why she didnt try to get custody back, but when a mom has custody he doesnt question the dad about why he doesnt have custody?? he always trying to make a mom feel like sh!t for not having custody of her child.
I can't stand men who act so nice and so caring, well spoken knowing what it takes to impress the judge. He is proud of this creep since he is in possession of the daughter. He makes me sick!
I don’t like how the defendant was explaining how the plaintiff punched holes in the wall & JM dismissed it by saying “let’s move on” as if that’s not abuse . IF he was punching holes in the wall he most likely was hitting her too what the hell.. I don’t like how he handled the defendant at all
He was definitely abusive, but the mother is more relieved to not have full custody. He can't be "abus3ive" on one hand and then said that we do great parenting together. Then withholding CS because she doesn't want to give him the satisfaction. Girl, please.
If you listened, she said they WERE co-parenting fine at first. She was not only abused but was not in a financial position to take care of the child (when they first split);and probably also wasn't in the best place mentally at that time. Then years passed, she was admittedly intimidated by him and the fact that he made so much more money and she wasn't as stable... She was clearly still in her daughter's life if she was seeing her every weekend and the daughter opened up to her about abuse. Fast forward some years after they split, and she said the abuse of the daughter, from what she knows at least, didn't start until 5 years ago. She may not be perfect but it's funny how you're giving her heat although you're confusing the timeline and what was said.
Just my opinion. But the plaintive comes off as a reasonable good parent. But then there’s evidence to prove that he may have aggressive behavior. However, her on the other hand. It’s been years and years and if he’s so abusive, why don’t you go to the courts and get your child back. If he wouldn’t sued her for child support, would she still have continuously let the years go on and on.
And right after the case, she says, I will take care of her when you stop abusing her. What kind of logic and sense does that make. It’s not I’m gonna go get my child or I’m a pay child support until I’m able to get custody of my child. It’s I will pay when you stop hitting her. That’s flawed logic.
@@lovelybelleeethat last comment showed me she doesn’t really care for her daughter. Then she wants to get money for emotional distress for a child she doesn’t have custody of and won’t even send $50 a month for. Just sad
@@amaralark1005 exactly her last statement showed me everything I need to know. He has custody he allegedly is violent, even though there’s proof, I’m just saying, allegedly. But she don’t care the way she pretends to care. Because she basically just moved on with her life and put restraining orders out on him. but she wants to talk about what he did to their child. However, she seems to care less about going to get the child. She’s just mad because he’s making her pay child support. I feel bad for the child because both of them seem sketchy.
Judge Mathis more mad at her being a stripper than him being abusive controlling violent and manipulative SMH
There’s zero proof of ANY abuse. Are y’all slow ? What did he do to you “he punched holes in the wall”
He picked and chooses when to call them strippers vs exotic dancers
@@PatriccSellapound372Didn’t you clearly hear him say that she saw the 3 pieces if evidence and he saw it? Lol he LOUDLY ASKED WHY AND THE FATHER STATED BECAUSE IF HER POSTING PREGNANCY TEST AND IG. JM SAID I BELIEVE YOU DID IT.
lol the photos proved it. blk guys never get it @@PatriccSellapound372
Pay him his money
She is definitely not lying about his abuse. Body language is always telling.
she def for the streets too
Every women isn't a defenseless flower. Especially the ones in the ghetto. Takes two people to fight and often times its the female that starts the disputes.
She can more hold her own and no way she was getting abused with all those crazy male brothers and cousins she has.
The judge tell body language too just like the ppl commenting..plus she already called child services but don't want the child unless it's gonna bring money...she said when he stops beating the child then she'll do something smh....stop praising her...she a dead beat mother
She's exaggerating things. She's trouble.
Yes!! He got tense as she begin mentioning it.
What is wrong with Judge Mathis in this one. He literally interrupted the defendant when she was showing him proof!
Cuz she is lying everything she saying is coming back not true
He's done this so much! He will answer to God
He believes her about the abuse, he looked at the pictures and said so. The thing is he have to follow the law. He can’t go against an investigation outcome. The outcome was unfounded so judge Mathis can’t make a ruling on that. But eventually he looked at the evidence and believed her
She signed over her daughters rghts to run the streets and don't even care to pay 50 little dollars for her daughter so she deserves everything she got from the judge,she got off light actually.judge we t easy on her.
He getting to the point he always like this. I could tell by his mood the minute she started talking, he was in one of his moods
I don’t like how she was giving her testimony, and JM kept interrupting, and rushing her through what she had to say. The plaintive was not rushed at all. He was able to take his time and articulate exactly what he wanted to say.
She enough what more did you want to hear …
Yeah, JM is nean to her.
He interrupted her because females can lie about physical Abuse
ITS MORESO THE PRINCIPLE.. NOT THE EMOTIONS..
@@mykarma2good she's a deadbeat streetwalker
It’s so annoying how he sides with a party before hearing the complete story
Right!!! Sometimes he makes his mind up and doesn't give the person a chance to talk. It's so annoying
Don’t need to when you have experience in his craft…. I mean I would listen to you if you said “flip the fries” cause you have more experience
😂😂😂@@samstars9999
Okay, that's why he says I'd like to here the other side
She explained herself.. she doesn't want to be responsible 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️ and feels entitled. sometimes he does choose sides early.. this ain't one of those times.
JM is being aggressive towards her. She doesn't deserve his delivery.
At All!!!💔☹️
He does the same thing to dead beat dads....she's a dead beat so he doesn't discriminate.
@@TheBsheep TY!!!! you know mostly women watch this show
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Why? Bc she's a woman? I've heard a many judges be harsher to fathers like her, who filed cps cases against the mother but didn't take any initiative to have the child removed and suddenly in civil suit case where they're sued by the mother for failing to pay child support, only them they want to seem like the caring parent.... Hog wash.
And Mathis was wrong on this case from what I can tell. You can tell she was nervous and afraid.
He's frequently wrong because he makes up his mind before he hears all the evidence, is very judgemental of women, and doesn't listen.
Right
She signed over her daughters rghts to run the streets and don't even care to pay 50 little dollars for her daughter so she deserves everything she got from the judge,she got off light actually.judge we t easy on her.
@@eleanoraquitaine2966u just a dead beat that runs the streets just say that
@@BrooklynKnicksFan JM was also easy on an abuser.
Just because it’s unfounded doesn’t means it’s not true!!
I believe the defendant. Plaintiff is a narcissist!!!
What does that have to do with him carrying out the law and they were there for child support
And the defendant is irresponsible. Case closed
@@errolm8313 she’s irresponsible?, but yet the plaintiff abused their child. Smh
I think they’re both toxic. Their child should be under the care of a close family member or friend who would have their best interest at heart. This is sad.
And she left the child to him? Ok 🙄
I believe that dude was abusing her more than she mentioned.....she minimized it I believe.
JM wasn't letting her talk like he let the plaintiff babble. The plaintiff buttered up to JM from the beginning (and his laugh was fake, btw)
@@Tiffany_3xHe buttered’em up ta get them brownie points! Laugh was definitely fake asf!!!💀😂
A whooping is not abuse it's called discipline,y'all seem ok with this mother's actions towards abandoning her own daughter and it's disgusting y'all deadbeat supporters
Yes because we all know CPS has never failed any children. Smh
CPS and the police are failing her
Right it’s the sarcasm bc CPS definitely responsible for many tragedies involving these babies.
Yes because bad parents never fail children ….🤨
You do realize that a lot of the CPS cases are where they are investigating WOMEN, and they end it with UNFOUNDED. Yall seem only outraged when it happens to be against a man with full custody.
I work in law enforcement and I've seem women BRAG about how many times CPS has investigated them and they still have custody or access to their children.
If the abuse in this case is actually true, then why isn't the mother in this case seeking full custody and a protective order for the child against him? She doesn't WANT custody. She had it, willingly gave it up, and thus far has had no desire to seek custody again.
And FYI, in certain states like Texas, corporal punishment by a parent is completely legal as long as it doesn't inflict serious bodily injury. But I've seen way more CPS reports of mothers beating their kids than fathers. And sometimes it's a non bio boyfriend of the mother who she let's beat her own kids.
Stop with the selective outrage.
@@odog76543Great info to know but that doesn't mean the daughter isn't being abused by the father... That does happen alot in African American house holds. It's either the father or uncles.
So you cheated on her and thought if you confessed because you now want to commit, so she just should forgive it
Never ever confess
How about never cheat instead
@@gldbss Or never ever cheat
So many men think this way it's ridiculous
"I may be a cheater, but I'm honest about it so it doesn't count"
Let her speak!!!! She has a story JM!!! And she has a right to give the man full custody as not all women who have children are mentally stable to want to keep them. All of the abuse in this case is just painful, especially when JM seems to not have empathy or sees the bigger picture!
He wrecked my nerve the entire episode.
This is Mathis' modis operandi.
It was time for him to get cancelled truthfully. In the later episodes I notice he did this a LOT
His emotions became out of control in the later years for sure, often times influencing his judgements.
I don’t like him at times
Damn JM let the girl talk!!!!!!
He’s a fool
He must be getting old, because he has no patience for people anymore
Fr fr 🤣
He pissed me off this cas3
Whew, he is WORSE on his new show. 😩🤦🏽♀️🙄 I had to take a break from watching and it just recently started!!! It’s a whole mess!!! 🤯
The judge needs to get off her back. He’s a bully sometimes. He sides with any dad who has custody. He’s not even listening to her case and he dogged her looks.
She was asked to pay $600 a year for her child. Never seen a judgment of $0.006857143 per hour on her child. She is a deadbeat mom.
Let me Guess. You're a Single Mom and you keep your kids away from their dads, Ha Bitter Mom
Do you say that when most times the black man is beat up in the judicial system? If the mom does not have custody of her child, what does that say about her?
He need some 🐱
@@jamesrobertson4115u got a point there
I absolutely hate how JM treated her. The plaintiff is a narcissist and JM didn’t make it any better with his bullying.
Exactly what instantly came to my mind about Mr. Trotter: a narcissist. They are nothing short of cruel.
I see right thru dad mom is a Pos as well and after hearing she signed alllll of her rights to her child away without him even asking knowing he is abusive… I didn’t care what she had to say. I pray that child gets the help she needs.
Frfr 🤦🏾♀️
Like Mathis said, he knows game when he sees it. She gave up custody of her daughter to go be a stripper! Despicable to say the least
Well at the end of the day she abandoned her child with a abusive man so she no angel!
Every time he clears his throat, he’s getting it ready to LIE 😂
I was just about to say the same thing. Throat wasn’t itching until it was time to lie.
Facts
Accurate! 💯
He's abusive. Her silent demeanor is the key to the level of his abusive. He gives me Suge Knight vibes, and punching walls is abusive, plus judge Mathis can easily be fooled
But he swears he can’t
Yes, Suge Knight vibes, wicked
Judge Mathis why are you judging this lady for stripping when you sold drugs and was a gang member. And I hate how he talks over his guest
Judges judge 😅
You right he was and she still stripping. Changes and sacrifices have to be made somewhere
@@gregorysmith4666 but you can’t judge someone when you lived the same type of lifestyle she did. She can still turn her life around just like he did
I hate when he get on that high horse and be judgemental AF... LET THE LADY TALK DANG
From the time he heard he had custody she lost! Mathis do it all the time
Judge acts like he has so much street knowledge but sometimes, I think his mentality is stuck in the 70's and 80's
It's annoying when he won't let folk speak too.
A case of reverse karma by the child support system
@melvinwallace2816 Yall be so bitter. It's not "reversed". Child support works the same for everyone who's not the custodial parent
Judgmental? Hell, is a judge. The reason you don’t let people babble is because they usually engage in character assassination which they think will help. All they’re doing is telling the world about their schit choices in people they choose to have kids with. When you bash your child’s other parent, that’s a reflection of you so sometimes shutting up or being told to makes you look better.
I love how she stayed quiet while he acted like a great upstanding guy. And Mathis pls stop she made a living get over yourself
Exactly, she was surviving
After I got divorced, I dropped my kids off with their Father so he could raise them for a little while. Not sure why it's always the Mother's responsibility to have custody. But, I would definitely take my baby off this dude if he's hurting her.
Because in the court's eye, women win 99 percent of the time and no matter how good the dad is, we lose!
@@jamesrobertson4115 this isn’t true but I see why u feel this way
What type of mother don't want their kids?
Confessing after marriage, that was a trick bag!!!! 😡
Sooo disgusting
I remember those extension cord whoopings. Ain't no joke, hands down those spankings hurt the worst.
My mom used to beat me with them.
@misterbee66 my dad got me with them, my mom did belts and switches
He probably kicked her ass for running around being fass with those little boys and having to take pregnancy tests at 13… great job for a father!!!!! … get 18 and out on your own and then you can get knocked up by as many men as you please.
My mom never used extension cords. But she loved to use belts, vacuum cleaner hoses, and shoes. Very traumatic upbringing.
I just don't understand. If someone hits a grown adult with a belt, switch or cord it's considered assault. With a weapon. But if the parents do that to their child it's called discipline. Like what could a child do that was so bad they had to be whooped with an extension cord??? And now that you're grown I'm sure she acts as if she doesn't remember. And you still have to hug her and she pretends that she was #ClaireHuxtable
Mathis is acting like stripping is illegal. Or that a father having full custody is illegal. Don’t shame momma if you won’t shame the daddy for the same stuff.
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Daddy's not stripping
True
@@TopherGrantWho cares
@@TopherGrant so? He’s beating baby girl.
I'm glad Judge Mathis called him out on the abuse! 😡
This case is sad. My heart breaks for the daughter.
I think its weird that if it was a man who was in the child's life for weekends and vacations he wouldve congratulated him for being in the childs life at all. Since its the mom, its look down on. Just goes to show you how society views mothers and fathers differently. If split custody works for them then why disrupt everything if this was before the abuse? Why does the mom have to have equal or majority custody but a dad can see his kid every weekend and be praised for being there at all?
They clap for some men doing the bare minimum.
Judge Mathis was not listening. She said she stopped stripping and he just kept going on and on about it!
Unc Judge Mathis being sexist AF. You will never ever catch him saying these things to a man. I do think she should have full custody, but not because she's a woman. That child needs to get out of that abusive situation. 💯
Nah he def says this to men, Ive seen him go off with deadbeat men multiple times😭
Shiddd! He be cussing them men out baby ion know what Mathis you watching cause the one I watch don’t be giving 2 fucks
What I meant by my comment is that he never questions the man because he doesn't have full custody. Only the woman.. lol I didn't make that too clear haha. I have definitely seen him go off on men lots of times.
False, he gives women passes all the time. One thing he hates though, is a BAD MOTHER.
I hate this episode judge judged her too much
She wasn't judged enough she chose to be a stripper
Damn JM can you let her finish talking?? So harsh smh
The plaintiff is EXACTLY like his father; smooth and professional, but a narcissistic clown behind closed doors.
JM actually joked about her stripping, which was 7-8 years passed where they are now. She needs to get custody of her daughter. He's mad that she left him, never reveal a clown, this man is a clown, poor child.
There’s nothing wrong with dad having primary custody Judge Mathis, as long as dad isn’t abusive and can care for them
Exactly.
Well he’s abusive, so he doesn’t need to have full custody.
@@PrincessZaire100especially if she resembles her mom or has any of her ways..this was a tough case for me. I pray the child is emotionally safe and physically...
the issue at hand is that HE WAS which is why what the mom was saying made no sense, because he was also abusive to her prior to that as she claimed
@@jarronwilliams7227 judge Mathis kept saying that’s very odd for a woman not to have custody, which made his comment generalized. That’s what I was rebutting. Clearly he had issues here.
If there was a way, neither one of these unfit parents would have custody of that child.
You don’t know this for sure trust me I got 3 daughters and ppl judge me didn’t even know I was supplying everything for them. But mother would lie because I wasn’t with her no more.
She isn't necessarily unfit just because she doesn't have much money. Unfit is neglect and abusive!
Totally agree
Young lady get a good ass lawyer NOW
Judge....not ever stripper makes a huge amount of money. If definitely depends on the club they're at. I know strippers and OF girls that can barely afford to live on those week to week hotels
He was trying to shame her
Yep
Gross.
she can afford an apartment but can't pay $50 a month on child support. She hasnt even attempted to get her daughter out of that abusive situation.
@prodyg nah she definitely should pay support. I'm just saying JM is always acting like stripping is a thing that gets to $1000 every night automatically.
This is so sad
He was trying so hard to beat her up... That lady stood her ground, JM makes me sick
No one should ever be subjected or stay in an abusive relationship of any kind. I don't care if you have children or not. Abuse of any kind is completely unacceptable. As much as I want to defend the plaintiff, I believe that he was abusive but she certainly owes for child support. Had it been a man he'd be on the hook as well.
Wholeheartedly agree with you.
But, YOU are abusive. Is that,what happened with your daughter? Did you abuse her?
We know the answer, though....
Of course, you wanted to defend the plaintiff Adrian Prince.🙄 That's what you do. You clearly hate women😒
Wowww ok I see u Adrian 💪🏽😂
Wow JM ! I hate when he doesn’t let ppl finish and constantly cuts them off damn can she tell her side
His demeanor, when responding, tells it all.
Whooping is different then beating
You shouldn’t hit children. Period.
JM….sometimes CPS is not always truthful and thorough in their so-called investigations.
Amen!!!! Hasn't he heard???
JM downplayed the abuse as IF IT DIDNT happen!! Until showed pictures…the mother/exwife was telling you!! And making a joke “low income stripper” JM needs to retire!! And spend time with Linda and those grandkids!! He’s NOT FAIR he goes off his emotions.
I'll be glad when that day judge,you actually listen to the case and not interrupt
I don't like it when the Judge or any judges disregards the PTSD, or Battered Wives Syndrome the victim suffers during and immediately following the escape from it. Often times the abused party doesn't know which wsy is 'up' or 'down' and according to Judge Mathis she is supposed to think strategically about living arrangements. I say, " When the 'house' is on fire you grab what is precious to you (children/Pets) and GET OUT OF THERE."
Judge Mathis was very harsh on the defendant! I applaud her for giving the child to the plaintiff! It was best for the child! A child needs stability and love. I believe the plaintiff was abusive .
Oh my goodness😯 I thought the comments might’ve been exaggerating. But, Judge Mathis questioned her way more than he did the ex. Judge had so much anger towards her for no reason. All a man has to do is give a few compliments to win u over Judge? Damn, I thought your price would be higher than that😂this is actually embarrassing for the Judge.
I dont understand why they dont take abuse and assault cases to criminal court
Exactly! That's what JM was asking the defendant; wondering why didn't she report it and take her daughter away immediately from plaintiff.
I love Judge Mathis but he can be so nasty and judgemental sometimes
Ain't no telling what else he's doing to his daughter... This was NOTa fair ruling.. SMH
Damn, Mathis gave her the 3rd degree over being a stripper and no paying $50 a month .. but went soft on the plaintiff after seeing evidence that he's beating the shit out of his daughter and then lied to Mathis' face when he said he didn't know anything about to injuries. Sometimes Mathis has "crackish" ways.
Crazy that so many people make excuses for beating a kid with an extension cord. Yet, if they were beat with an extension cord, they'd be ready to press charges....
I believe he beat the daughter but I don’t like how he’s doing the mom! he judged her based off what the ex said!!!
I believe everything she said
$50 a month in Child support?!!
JM was wicked wit Her.
u forget ,,,the courts were using the female child support calculator lol
Whooping with an extension cord is crazy in 2024… nothing could make me that mad to hurt a child especially my child that bad as punishment. Also, JM is sick for talking to the defendant like shes not telling the truth. I believe her.
One moment judge mathis is all for supporting strippers the next he's making it sound horrible. The judge made his mind up at the beginning of the case - once again
Judge Mathis was acting extremely JUDGEMENTAL in this case. Extremely accusatory and not allowing the mom to speak! She had proof of him abusing her and he still was just railing into her without allowing her to speak! SMH! This episode was so cringe! It’s like he already had a judgement made without hearing her.
Jm is a nasty work I swear he so one sided that’s why I stop watching him I believe that man hit that lady
Ahh he’s a charmer. I can see how this is about to go lol
Right…started right at the beginning
This is a case where he sees a “stand up dad” and sides with them basically because of the lack of his dad’s presence , I don’t think it’s fair for men to have a choice to take care of a child but when the woman makes a decision of what she feels is best she is considered a bad mom. I’m glad she did notice that he was a good father and she couldn’t be the mom her daughter needed but doesn’t mean she has to be judged for that
I feel like mathis reluctantly gave the verdict to the plaintiff.
Judge let people finish & get out a full sentence! I hope she gets her child away from him!!
GM didn’t even give the young lady a chance and shaming for just because she stripped and she had evidence that he was abusive to their daughter smh
She literally was honest and this judge talking bout “ game “
She said she used to strip 7-8 yrs ago ! Judge already made up his mind about her, so he's not listening.
Damn JM can she finish her sentences without you interrupting
JM is so rude to the defendant! The defendant, needs to get back on track and get her daughter back!
Judge Mathis was right? She should of fight more for her daughter. She was not concerned only when she has to pay child support.
After giving up or losing physical custody of child it very hard to get it back through court system
Plaintiff: you need to take care of your daughter
Defendant : as soon as you stop beating her I will
WOAH !! Please God protect and guide this women and help their family find resources for great therapy to heal their mind , body and soul . And this cycle of self hate & destruction will come to an end .
No! God guide that man from not abusing their child. And honestly I don’t blame her not paying child support. She should put that money aside and got her a lawyer
Idk why JM made a big deal about the dad having full custody it’s nothing wrong with that if it works best for everybody. Doesn’t make her a bad mom
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JM was demeaning the young lady. She said she did what she needed to do to get out and then left the lifestyle behind her.
After this case I have to stop watching this bs. 😔
Because she's a Mother and stripper and Fathers shouldn't be in their kids life?
Maybe she shoulda called him Unk when she started testifying.
JM, when couples separate the mother doesn’t always have to be the primary parent and they are ok with that. What ever works best for them and the child. She should be paying her child support though.
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I believe her
Absolutely
I believe you're a VICTIM 😉
He crying over 50$ a month???? What clown. Take on full financial responsibilities like MOST single moms do!
That's right.
He's still tryna control her🤬He's a evil sneaky narcissist
Dangggg JM being disrespectful towards the defendant because she was a dancer. “Nobody made it rain on you” smh
This case really had me upset, like Judge Mathis had something against her the min she walked in…. Jesus Christ…
He must be mad at Linda for catching him disrespecting her in front of his kids.
He been petty $50 child support what he going to do with that give it to the daughter for allowances 😂
How that's petty? That's lenient!!! People are so bias, because if that was a dude on the other side of this case in her shoes 👞. Everyone would be bashing him calling him sorry and pathetic for not paying 50 in child support. It will be less compassion, but since it's a female Everyone is so emotional attached. Smh!!! This society we are living in is so tragic! 💯
@MrDovellKey I'll say she being petty too $50 amount I wouldn't even waste my time with that little money
Both parents she ashamed dad being physically brutal to daughter her for failing to pay 50 month in child support 😢 SMH 🤦♂️
My thing is you knew he was beating on your daughter and still failed to even attempt to get your daughter back
Judge Mathis, she NEVER SAID SHE DIDNT WANT HER DAUGHTER. She said everything was fine until 2020 and that’s when the abuse started and she went to CPS. It wasn’t game, you’re just being an jerk today
When you give away full custody you are giving the child away for a reason. Since when did it become something different🤔
@@GoinHam10Four she gave the reasons she gave him full custody, which was fair and made sense. There was nothing wrong with her saying everything was fine UNTIL, and that’s when she called CPS and she even gave proof.
@@PrincessZaire100 if CPS shows no signs of abuse yet she says he is abusive you can't dispute that. She could have opened multiple cases against him if she was adamant about it. Just because she is a woman does not automatically make her story true.
I wish we could reach out and encourage her. JM can break ppls spirits and cause them to spiral. He was unnecessarily cruel. They are both narcs
Correct ✅ JM & the plaintiff are both narcissist 💯💯💯
so nobody going to address what she said at the end. As soon as he stop beating the child, then they can come together
Judge Mathis was sucked in by his initial interaction with Christopher and he's not even attempting to give the defendant a chance..
He won’t even let the women talk damn!! She was clearly saying he was more financially stable to support both of them cmon a 9-5 bank job probably wasn’t enough to care for her and their daughter. I hate wen he looks DIRECTLY over the point 🙄
Geez could the judge be any more rude and condescending to this woman? She does not deserve that from him.
Judge Mathis be full of shit with some of these cases! He asks questions and don't allow ppl answer. 🙄
I am really disgusted n disappointed with Judge Mathis's judgement in this case. Victim blaming at it's finest. Lisa other factors as well. I'll stop here.
This The First Time I’ve Been So Upset With JM … I went through damn near The Same Thing Except I took My Kids And Left 2 months later Moved In My House Apartment and We’ve Been Here And Doing Better For 7 Months Now🙏🏾…Not Every Body Has The Same Resources😢
You taking the kids is why he was harsh to her…. Man sat on a bench for 40 years and only 10 times a woman says she was better off without her child. She’s a bird…. Probably was abused but the case is about the child not her
@@50centaintenoughx33she's a "bird" but if a man gave up custody because he wasn't stable but still saw the child regularly as she said (and he didn't dispute) he would be APPLAUDED
People disrespect single mothers ALL the time, even when they have their kids. It doesn't matter the circumstance. And men can do the BARE minimum in parenting and get a pat on the back.
Maybe she thought she made the right choice for her child back then. And was probably not in the best state of mind if she was young, abused and not financially stable.
Men or women, people need to show some grace. Everyone's story isn't the same.
JM was completely biased. And calling her a bird ain't no better
She is terrified of that abuser !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SMH
why when a father has custody JM always question the mother about why she didnt try to get custody back, but when a mom has custody he doesnt question the dad about why he doesnt have custody?? he always trying to make a mom feel like sh!t for not having custody of her child.
I can't stand men who act so nice and so caring, well spoken knowing what it takes to impress the judge. He is proud of this creep since he is in possession of the daughter. He makes me sick!
I don’t like how the defendant was explaining how the plaintiff punched holes in the wall & JM dismissed it by saying “let’s move on” as if that’s not abuse . IF he was punching holes in the wall he most likely was hitting her too what the hell.. I don’t like how he handled the defendant at all
He was definitely abusive, but the mother is more relieved to not have full custody.
He can't be "abus3ive" on one hand and then said that we do great parenting together.
Then withholding CS because she doesn't want to give him the satisfaction.
Girl, please.
If you listened, she said they WERE co-parenting fine at first. She was not only abused but was not in a financial position to take care of the child (when they first split);and probably also wasn't in the best place mentally at that time.
Then years passed, she was admittedly intimidated by him and the fact that he made so much more money and she wasn't as stable...
She was clearly still in her daughter's life if she was seeing her every weekend and the daughter opened up to her about abuse.
Fast forward some years after they split, and she said the abuse of the daughter, from what she knows at least, didn't start until 5 years ago.
She may not be perfect but it's funny how you're giving her heat although you're confusing the timeline and what was said.
Just my opinion. But the plaintive comes off as a reasonable good parent. But then there’s evidence to prove that he may have aggressive behavior. However, her on the other hand. It’s been years and years and if he’s so abusive, why don’t you go to the courts and get your child back. If he wouldn’t sued her for child support, would she still have continuously let the years go on and on.
And right after the case, she says, I will take care of her when you stop abusing her. What kind of logic and sense does that make. It’s not I’m gonna go get my child or I’m a pay child support until I’m able to get custody of my child. It’s I will pay when you stop hitting her. That’s flawed logic.
@@lovelybelleeethat last comment showed me she doesn’t really care for her daughter. Then she wants to get money for emotional distress for a child she doesn’t have custody of and won’t even send $50 a month for. Just sad
@@amaralark1005 exactly her last statement showed me everything I need to know. He has custody he allegedly is violent, even though there’s proof, I’m just saying, allegedly. But she don’t care the way she pretends to care. Because she basically just moved on with her life and put restraining orders out on him. but she wants to talk about what he did to their child. However, she seems to care less about going to get the child. She’s just mad because he’s making her pay child support. I feel bad for the child because both of them seem sketchy.