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Recoup the money spent on items that you end up donating instead of selling by getting a donation receipt and writing the amounts off as tax deductions. Simple.
@@KJDogluvthis particular ‘influencer’ has acknowledged this exact phenomenon in a few of her videos. She did say she is aware and apologizes. However our culture can’t help but continue to ask and try to fix their struggles by buying more and more. Even if they are trying to minimize certain areas
What brand and size are the baskets for Tom’s clothes? I’ve been wanting to do this same thing with my man’s clothes but the fabric bins I tried were a joke. I need something sturdy and will last (like yours)!
My face when I see the Minimal Mom has dropped an hour plus long video 😍. Dawn, you are my favorite UA-camr and even though I am very tidy with a minimal house, I still devour your content. Thank you for all you do!
I mean this gently. You might need to watch your own videos where you tell us not to beat ourselves up over past mistakes. You spoke harshly to (about) yourself while decluttering your books and clothes. You’re not dumb, you’re human. And you kept things just because you spent money on them. My friend Dawn says the money won’t come back into our bank accounts just by keeping them.😁. Be as nice to yourself as you are to us🥰 You’re awesome and thanks for your words of wisdom.
Definitely. It started to get irritating how much she was beating herself up in the video. It made me feel negative. Which doesn't usually happen in her videos. Dawn please don't be upset when yourself, we all make these mistakes!
I'm sure she prob feels guilty that she gives the advice that she knows is true but still is on her own journey. And that's even more helpful for the rest of us. Seeing her as still on her journey and still learning how to apply all the things in daily real life. It was encouraging to see that she still deals with it all like the rest of us. It doesn't make us think less of you, Dawn. You don't have to do it perfectly to be able to help others.(well apparently that's something I know and tell others yet I don't take my own advice on that 😬) Thank you for being vulnerable to share your journey and wisdom with us. Yes give yourself grace we all make mistakes. We love you and your channel here.
That's interesting because I didn't hear this or pick up Dawn beating herself. I thought she was being very human and advising on an alternative mindset to the examples of self beration she made.
Dawn, this is why we love you!! You show what your refrigerator really has in it! You don't pre-clean to look super human or perfect. You show your real self and that's why you have such a huge following! I'm subscribed to many channels on youtube. Mostly minimalism and health/fitness. No videos make me feel as good as your videos do! ❤
Once a week I gather all the leftovers, warm up the ones that need to be served hot, open the condiments and chip bags, fruit that needs to be eaten, etc and each one eats whatever he wants. Things don’t always go together but our family loves this and I don’t have to cook and food is not wasted then when bits and pieces of breakfast foods accumulate I do the same, the last of a box of cereal, two frozen waffles, a bagel and an English muffin, the last slice of bread, a pop tart, a cold biscuit, an envelop of oatmeal and the last bit of milk or butter or jam, etc. I leave these breakfast bits out all morning and we always seem to make a lunch out of then too. Kids (and adults) love this.
Okay I was a massive hoarder. I set a really bad example for my ex and my daughter with my inability to let things go. In the beginning I made a game with finally letting things go. We had so many yard sales. We'd pick an item we really wanted for our home and we could only get it if we sold enough from our house. That summer we were able to buy a really nice gazebo, "grown up' silverware, a PlayStation and Xbox, and a Keurig which is saying something considering we priced everything cheap! Anyway - I've definitely gotten rid of things I've regretted but I'm not upset because for every 1 item I've regretted there have been hundreds more that I don't even remember and that space is so worth the little bit of regret that I occasionally feel. Even though I make mistakes I still let go because I love me more than I love any item in my home
Thanks for sharing. I'm having the WORST time letting go. I'm such a pack-rat! Just the thought of getting rid of so much stuff fills me with anxiety and brings tears to my eyes. Your words make it feel a little better.
When I was decluttering 'big time' I took digital pictures of unused sentimental items. I also prayed over all items...that the next 'steward of my stuff' will be blessed & have a happy life. Doing these 2 things made & still makes letting go a breeze! ♡
I am astonished at how you are CONSTANTLY decluttering and your house is SOOOO minimal yet you always find more that can be decluttered.. it's amazing and so inspiring! ❤👏🏻 Love these super long videos too!!!
That is a really good way to look at it. I recently sold shoes that not only had been expensive but so so pretty, but I almost never wore them because they are really narrow in the toes and become uncomfortable when wearing for a bit. So I sent them out and was still feeling regret and thinking about what if I had just given them another chance? (Which is so incredibly silly, I knew I never wore them and they were already in the mail!). But then the buyer sent me a message about how much she loves them and is greatful to have found them and at a good price. And now I know they're in good hands and will be worn and appreciated. Of course you don't get that experience every time; but just from the once, I can remember that in the future, even if I don't get that feedback, I'll now someone will be happy.
Sue Wolfe- Oh Dawn, you had me laughing when you got rid of the tan 3/4 sleeve "winter" blouse because you said you didn't like the color on you, then you bought a short sleeve one in the same color!! That's absolutely something I would do! I think you're a "spring" rather than a "fall". Maybe have your colors done so you can find those that don't wash you out, as you said. It's a fun process and will save you money in the long run! 😉❤️❤️
Another idea, from Christine at Frugal Fit Mom- reverse meal plan. Look at what is in your fridge and plan meals so you use up your ingredients that you already own.
My Aunt taught me how to fold clothes and iron. I think parents need to have some input with teaching our kids. Teachers are not the parents. They are there to teach them skills in math , English, science, home economics , history, woodworking , etc.They have enough to do.
How can school teach one to manage the inventory of a home? Parents need to teach this skill to themselves and then model it consistently to their children.
I'm with you, clutter is such a common problem many kids do not get this training at home but it sure impacts their lives. This would be a great topic in home economics. They could even introduce ideas of putting like with like for organization and the container concept in earlier grades, it could be fun.
Kids are graduating from public school without being able to read. This is firmly in “family learning” territory. Get a grip on your expectations for schools.
I started the habit long ago of putting the date on opened things that spoil quickly or won't be used up immediately. I also put the date and description on the lids of leftover containers. Keeping a sharpie and a roll of painter's tape in the utility drawer for marking dates has saved me thousands in wasted food over the years!
I write straight on our tubs with a dry erase pen; just wipe it off before you microwave it 😅 I'm always cooking for 4 or 5 (there's only 3 of us) so future me has "ready meals" in the freezer, when I don't have the time or energy to cook from scratch.
My dear Carla, I was in your shoes 12 years ago. Bless you! Take a deep breath. Work from corner to corner. If the paper back books are clean retirement homes will take them. I had 1000 books. If not they can be put in paper recycling. Hint.. don't look at photos as you go, just put in bin for later. They will hold up the process otherwise. Good luck and know we are rooting for you. Hugs!
I purged my house four or five years ago and loved the new simplicity. All our stuff fits with room to spare. However, watching this video has motivated me to go to the next level of decluttering. I'm thinking completely empty shelves and drawers are not a bad thing, not bad at all. Thank you! ❤
You have made such a difference in my life for so many years. Sometimes when I am having a hard day I put you on just to listen to your uplifting and genuine voice.💕💕💕
I've said it before, but seeing you and hearing you make "mistakes" and how you process that is EXTREMELY helpful. Our generation was instilled with trash guilt and it's paralyzing sometimes! Thanks for everything you've done over the years.
Thanks Dawn. Love your videos. I don’t know very many people who I could make me feel excited and calm about decluttering all at the same time 😂 You have a kind heart.
my mom was on a tight budget for 8 people in 70s. She only bought groceries based on her 8 meals grocery list. (almost everyone eats only about 8 actual meals and left overs per week). The waste was minimal, and her garden was huge which meant she was always adding two or three vegetable sides to round up the meals. Buying for the actual 8 meals you eat, plus sandwich meat or sandwich breads will help you get that issue under control 100%. I myself have been fighting wastage so have been keeping the costs down and using up lots more stuff. oops I forgot to mention that she used vegetables to make a soup for a weekend meal.
I bulk cook and freeze extra portions, ready to throw in the microwave when I have no energy. Yay for healthy "ready meals" without all the additives. When were all sick for a week, I was all set with frozen, dried and tinned easy meals so we could isolate (not go to the store etc). I'll also buy a 1kg bag of carrots then peel, chop and freeze them in bags of 2carrots portions, ready to throw into Shepherd's Pie, Ragu etc. Same goes for other veggies, and fruits! My boy and I will gladly eat a bowl of frozen mango, berries and sliced bananas as if it's ice cream 😂 ... My point is, try freezing anything you won't have time to cook/eat fresh before it goes off. My Polish, Czech&Slovak friends also love pickling veggies as an alternative method to avoid waste.
When I was decluttering 'big time' I took digital pictures of unused sentimental items. I also prayed over all items...that the next 'steward of my stuff' will be blessed & have a happy life. Doing these 2 things made & still makes letting go a breeze! ♡
I’ve been following you long enough to remember when the lol camper made its way into the girls’ room, it’s bittersweet bc Maggie’s growing up but I’m sure someone else’s child will love it just as much! I feel like I’m with you on this journey 😭🤣
Yes! Don't forget school clubs and retirement centres for crafting materials too 😊 ... Likewise, I donated my son's baby toys to the church baby group once he'd outgrown them.
I’m 64 and I’ve been following you for a couple years. You are so right about what a difference decluttering makes. I wouldn’t have believed it when I first started but now I can’t believe how much extra time I have to do the things I really want to do. Thank you for all you do!!
Thank you so much Dawn! I feel so motivated and seen by every single one of your videos. These house declutters are especially helpful to remember that we are all human and it’s ok to feel the stuff creep in and declutter it again. I love listening to you talk, it just calms and focuses me somehow 😂 Love love love your content, it has changed my life ❤
Been having a rough patch. Was looking for video to accompany me while trying to get my house back in order. An hour is a good time! Surprised to find your video just now! Thanks Dawn!
I would love to have a laundry room!! And on the main floor - how ideal! My washer and dryer are in the "cellar" (most people use the word' basement' now :) I do have a little clothes line, rack with hangers, and small table for laundry supplies so all in all I am blessed!!!! As I write this I realize how lucky I am. Embrace the cellar laundry spot!! LOL
I loved when you went under the bed to pull out all the weird random items that get pushed under there! I don't feel alone now when I go under my grandkids bed and find the oddball stuff (like a can of peanuts with most of them on the floor!). Loved the video, it made me get up and go through my pantry items!😊😊
When my kids were growing up - and still small - I used a small mess bag with each one & had their names on them - They were in charged with putting dirty socks in their bag - until laundry day - the bag went in & came out clean - I mated the socks & they put the clean ones in their drawer - then the bag went back on their bedroom door knob to be repeated the next week.
One thing I've done, when I've had lots of bottles of the same item, I've poured them all together into one bottle. Consolidated it all and saves space, gets rid of extra bottles and helps me use it up 👍 great for shampoos, soap, etc!
I'm amazed at the normality of buying new clothes each season. I certainly don't have money for that, and so when I get something, I buy clothing that will last at least five years. I've had the same good quality winter coat for over 15 years. And the same smart dress for over seven years. Would we not do better as minimalists to buy really good quality, timeless classic pieces that suit our body and colouring that last more than two or three years at least? We would then be saving money overall; time and effort with not having to go shopping and then declutter; and more importantly we will be good stewards of the environment by not contributing to landfills.
Any particular brands you would recommend for good quality clothes? We can't afford brand new, expensive name brands, but I can keep an eye out for them on resale. Would love to have clothes that last a long time, like the cotton/linen skirts that I have worn every day for the past 4 years. Other than some stains, they have held up so well. Makes me wish I had bought more than 4!
I don't buy new clothes each season either. I love my wardrobe. I only buy a new item when one has worn out or I don't like it anymore. Most items last years and years if you take good care of them :)
Aww loved everything about this and so refreshing to see even your house needs some maintenance. Love that you are real and honest about sharing that with us and always providing the best motivation. Thank you!
Thank you for posting this video & sharing your journey with us for all these years!! This really encourages me that even in a minimal home, you still get so much build up of inventory and have to declutter & donate a car load of stuff every 6 months or so. I often feel so defeated by the amount of stuff that accumulates in our home, but this helps me to see how normal it is, and that I'm not a bad homemaker just because I'm constantly having to declutter more. So thank you for your very real, very relatable content!!! - Lindsay Robertson
I just came across your channel and this is exactly what I was looking for. Some inspiration and gentle approach with someone to guide me through decluttering. Love your personality and your videos are fun and easy to watch.. theyre super relatable. Thank you so much!
We are having bad plumbing problems. My landlord is my cousin who can't pay for the repairs. We will have to move. And that move will be a downsize. I have been actively decluttering since 2016 but I believe that I can go even further. I have to. Thanks, Dawn for all of the experience and wisdom you share with us every week. I know this will inspire me.
Hi Dawn, I always just deep freeze the butter. So you have got it handy and it doesn't go to waste. No change in taste! Love your content. Greetings from Germany
I also use the Large laundry bags for seasonal wear storage ( gloves -sockcaps-etc) also for scarfs. Deep drawers are BETTER if you use this method. LOTS OF IDEAS💡😊❤
Even if I am not decluttering but working on something else, I enjoy listening to your videos. It helps me get my work done. I hope you share more hour long+ videos.
Decluttering the fridge took it to a whole new level. I need to give the fridge a deep clean & declutter tomorrow. Thanks for the encouraging reminder. 😊😎😆
This video was so helpful to me. A Huge Thank you! The segment about the guilt really spoke to me. It actually made me tear up because I find it difficult and feel guilty. I'm going through my own home and have been either donating or throwing out stuff over the past few weeks. And there's still more to do. I just feel guilty about it, the money spent, i feel it's such a waste. But then what you said about how we can also feel guilty about creating the cluttered places and making it difficult for self and for the family to get to things. For me the clutter just increases my anxiety and it gets overwhelming. So it's either feel guilty for keeping it or guilty for getting rid of it. But with getting rid of it, it is freeing and so much better to have the space and gives us time to do more important things. I'm beginning to see some progress in my home. My bedroom closet, dresser drawers are so much easier now to find things. I also liked the advice you gave about getting overwhelmed when doing a declutter. Yes, I get overwhelmed. I have to take a break, walk away and do something else. I then return and carry on.
I watched this video the day it came out. Since then I went back to the start of this playlist and watched them all again. My house had started to feel hard and overwhelming so using these videos to either body double or motivation I have been going over my house again. Thank you for your help xx
Love function over anything especially with a growing family . My bathroom counters are clear except for soap . We even went so far as when the time came to replace faucets we did away with the two handled faucets in the baths and eventually even the kitchen to single handled faucets ! So much easier and quicker to clean .
Thank you for sharing. It really helped me give myself a little grace to realize that even someone on top of their clutter still has spaces that get out of control. Love you having a longer video like this to use for body doubling and motivation.
My tip with food waste is to keep a Sharpie by the fridge, mine fits in the gap for the door handle, and EVERY time I open a fridge item, I write the date of opening on it. Sauces and condiments are the worst for not being used in time. Has really helped me cut down on food waste 😊
Inspiring to see how much the minimal mom found to get rid of AGAIN! This is a continual thing, we live, we grow, we change, and now we declutter AGAIN! Thanks Dawn! Hmmmm....which room should I start in?? Oh yeah-- the laundry room! 😅
For clothes what really helped me was the Dressing Your Truth system. It let me know my colors and patterns and styles of what I liked. It helped me know what to buy
Thank you so much for this video. I always have your videos playing to calm me down when I get overwhelmed and it motivates me to get my home in order. When my significant other knows I'm watching a video of yours that I am going to start decluttering and cleaning. He has been a bit of a wall in getting rid of things that I KNOW THAT WE DON'T NEED OR USE... But I am trying to be patient with him. I got him to agree to use the time will tell bin. We got a plastic tote with a lid to put extra bed linens in that he can't let go for sentimental reasons. And put the bin outside on the back patio where it is out of sight and we can have the space in our closet. It is a struggle being a minimalist in a partnership with someone who is not. I am being patient and understanding in his wishes and he is being understanding about my stress with the clutter in our tiny apartment. Don't stop putting out these videos, Dawn! Thank you thank you thank you. Positive thoughts for you and your family!
I’m totally excited to start! Thank you for this video and for your transparency. People scolding you here for being hard on yourself is ridiculous. We know you are a healthy individual and sometimes being tougher on ourselves gets the job done. 🎉
I pitched a few items, and a couple that were somewhat sentimental while listening to this. The items I pitched would be pitched by relatives if I died tomorrow, so I just did it today. Thanks Dawn.
I truly try to only buy groceries. You are correct on that when one decluter, one is more mindful about what one brings in. I recently decluter our pantry. I was at the grocery store. I just couldn't buy chips, cereal, and No Pastas of any kind, till we have used up ¾.
I got clear bins for my panty to replace cardboard boxes. I was very mindful to not buy too many. I had to get a few more about a week later. I also got platic containers for cereals and some for the pastas.
The salsa is probably fine though =) I use up salsa by doing shreddeed chicken mixed with taco seasoning, bell peppers, nachos chips and cheese sauce or cream cheese in a baking pan and top with cheese !
Dawn, I heard some new ideas in your video and some great reminders. I saw so many nice things leave your home, but it makes sense to move forward. Your kids getting the autonomy around their spaces is a great example. I think you could write a book about raising children in a minimalist home. You do it so well. As a fellow MN resident, I see where I need to get through my excess winter items, it makes no sense to keep excess when others are in need. Thank you for the permission to let go. Between you, Dana and Cass, plus clutterers anonymous, I am living in a vastly different home without the struggles I used to have. I am impressed with the amount you hauled out on this full home declutter. Bravo! Happy kickoff to summer!
Not sure if you will see this or not but I have a tip about pillows. I decided to get outdoor pillows to use on my indoor couch. The material is stain resistance. Walmart has a variety-solid colors too. My favorite part is they have ZIPPERS! In a $5 pillow! I have a spring-summer set & a fall-winter set. This would be great with kids! Thanks for all you have taught me. Blessings!
About 4 years ago I started using the Branch Basics cleaning system. You get a concentrate and bottles that have water levels and concentrate levels marked. Man, this has simplified my cleaning so much! I decided to try it when a reviewer stated she didn’t think a really small lid of soap could clean a large load of laundry, but it took stains out of her children’s clothes that had been there for a year. Game changer!
Hi Dawn! With those big salsa jars, i wonder if you could freeze for example half of the leftover salsa and put the rest in the fridge. Also, i believe a lot of things are still good to eat even after the expiration date. But thats me 🤗
If you're enjoying reading, have you thought about getting an e-reader? I love reading but hated the clutter, so i bought a Kindle and it was the best decision 🎉 I'm reading more books than ever and now there's no clutter!
What helps me in the fridge is, the moment I make a shopping list I look at my fridge and storage space...so I don't buy stuff that I still have :) works really well
We have a super tiny entryway. The only place where EVERYONE comes into the house. I had placed a boot tray to keep the footwear corralled and the mud and snow off the floor. It became a dumping ground for everyone's footwear. We also have a shoe rack in the entryway closet. Last week I decided to get rid of the boot tray. Lo and behold......the footwear is now ending up in the closet--where it belongs! 🤯 I sometimes think that we promote laziness without realizing it! And you're right -- flat surfaces and clutter attract more clutter! Thanks Dawn! Love your videos!
With the way you just toss extras under the bathroom sink have you thought of switching your bin in the back to an open bin instead of one with a lid? We have a small closet in our bathroom and I switched our extras to smaller open bins and it was a gamechanger for me because I tend to be a tosser too. Now i can toss but it has an appropriate tossing spot and so I dont feel guilty anymore and the mess stays minimal.
Salsa! Can be used up in chicken tortilla soup, Mexican pizza, ground beef cooked for tacos, chili, rice and beans, Spanish rice, baked in corn bread, as enchilada sauce...🙂
Dawn, I have read the book "The Hiding Place" many times! It's one of my all-time favorites! The first time I read it I was a teenager, and I just celebrated my 64th birthday. I expect to read it again, since it is so inspirational. It has a permanent place on my bookshelf!
I saw the notification for this video and I was like “add that to your to do list cuz this is a must”. I haven’t even watched yet but I know it’s gonna be great!! You inspire me and challenge me. Love your podcasts too!
You can freeze the butter. I try to cut up carrots, celery, onions, and other veggies I can put in bags or containers and freeze for later use. I don’t always get that done before they go bad though. We’ve had the salsa problem before too.
Just figured out where I got the great idea to install hooks around my coat closet instead of using the hanger bar! I love it. Quicker to hang up the coats and easier to access the storage at the floor level.
I felt like I was watching myself declutter our refrigerator. Most of us go through it. All we can do is try to do better the next time. Maybe designate an area for leftovers, and an area for about expire (to consume soon) area. Thank you for this video!
EEEEEEEEEEEK 🙌🥳 I get SO EXCITED to see an hour long video when I log on in the am! Ready to HAMMER THE DAY 💥 Thank you so much, MUCH Mrs. Dawn! All the Love to the FamJam ✨️
I would move the boys to a bigger room. Do you think Tom would build a room onto the house? You guys are so capable of making those renovations a reality. I have a son, they grow SO MUCH in the years you are approaching, my son is over 6 feet tall and has building projects in his room. It changes really quickly from legos to big projects as teenagers. Your family is awesome! They have had a beautiful space, but trust me they are going to grow out of the space.
I see the guest bedroom and they could move the older boy in here or both or switch bedrooms and have the boys in their bedroom. Upstairs could be used if guests come over the boys could go back in there temporarily. Ps appropriate here as you mentioned something and I can't find comment section at the moment🙂
Just decluttered our play room yet again ! 2 large trash bags full... and wr have down sized clothes etc... ( I already would declutter every so often, but 2020 really Inspired me overhaul everything -- mayne due to not being g able to take our large family on field trips etc that year and being g tired of tripping over stuff- and I found your channel. ) going to work on downsizing the kids clothes to 7 play and 3 church outfits if possible.
Dawn, I heard you saying such negative things to yourself while you were cleaning out the fridge! I know if you were helping me clean out my fridge and I had expired food, you would never say those things to me. Give yourself the grace that you give others! We love you ❤
The tactic that works best for me is to pretend (to myself) that I have to move in 3 months more. This helps me so much in deciding which things would be valuable enough to fill my (imaginary) limited moving boxes with. You can even plan how many boxes per room you want to fill to have a contained space 😊
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No, thank you Dawn! I needed to watch this today! 😊
Recoup the money spent on items that you end up donating instead of selling by getting a donation receipt and writing the amounts off as tax deductions. Simple.
Is it just me or is it weird to post links to stuff to buy to add to my clutter?
@@KJDogluvthis particular ‘influencer’ has acknowledged this exact phenomenon in a few of her videos. She did say she is aware and apologizes. However our culture can’t help but continue to ask and try to fix their struggles by buying more and more. Even if they are trying to minimize certain areas
What brand and size are the baskets for Tom’s clothes? I’ve been wanting to do this same thing with my man’s clothes but the fabric bins I tried were a joke. I need something sturdy and will last (like yours)!
My face when I see the Minimal Mom has dropped an hour plus long video 😍. Dawn, you are my favorite UA-camr and even though I am very tidy with a minimal house, I still devour your content. Thank you for all you do!
Me too!!
Yep, totally agree 👍
I make the same face. It's like someone handed me a present. 🤩
I said “let’s goooooo”
YES 👍
I mean this gently. You might need to watch your own videos where you tell us not to beat ourselves up over past mistakes. You spoke harshly to (about) yourself while decluttering your books and clothes. You’re not dumb, you’re human. And you kept things just because you spent money on them. My friend Dawn says the money won’t come back into our bank accounts just by keeping them.😁. Be as nice to yourself as you are to us🥰 You’re awesome and thanks for your words of wisdom.
❤❤ Yes!
Definitely. It started to get irritating how much she was beating herself up in the video. It made me feel negative. Which doesn't usually happen in her videos. Dawn please don't be upset when yourself, we all make these mistakes!
I'm sure she prob feels guilty that she gives the advice that she knows is true but still is on her own journey. And that's even more helpful for the rest of us. Seeing her as still on her journey and still learning how to apply all the things in daily real life. It was encouraging to see that she still deals with it all like the rest of us.
It doesn't make us think less of you, Dawn. You don't have to do it perfectly to be able to help others.(well apparently that's something I know and tell others yet I don't take my own advice on that 😬) Thank you for being vulnerable to share your journey and wisdom with us. Yes give yourself grace we all make mistakes. We love you and your channel here.
Definitely too critical of herself in this video.
That's interesting because I didn't hear this or pick up Dawn beating herself. I thought she was being very human and advising on an alternative mindset to the examples of self beration she made.
Dawn, this is why we love you!! You show what your refrigerator really has in it! You don't pre-clean to look super human or perfect. You show your real self and that's why you have such a huge following! I'm subscribed to many channels on youtube. Mostly minimalism and health/fitness. No videos make me feel as good as your videos do! ❤
Yessssss that is exactly how I felt too!
Never forget someone else is super blessed when you donate good lightly used clothes! Cheerful giver vibes!
Once a week I gather all the leftovers, warm up the ones that need to be served hot, open the condiments and chip bags, fruit that needs to be eaten, etc and each one eats whatever he wants. Things don’t always go together but our family loves this and I don’t have to cook and food is not wasted then when bits and pieces of breakfast foods accumulate I do the same, the last of a box of cereal, two frozen waffles, a bagel and an English muffin, the last slice of bread, a pop tart, a cold biscuit, an envelop of oatmeal and the last bit of milk or butter or jam, etc. I leave these breakfast bits out all morning and we always seem to make a lunch out of then too. Kids (and adults) love this.
My mother said “tonight’s dinner is COI” - clean out the icebox.
Yep, "Buffet Day" is awesome 😂
We call this our Signs dinner, lol. In the movie Signs, they each get their fave food before the invasion. Great way to use leftovers.
Okay I was a massive hoarder. I set a really bad example for my ex and my daughter with my inability to let things go. In the beginning I made a game with finally letting things go. We had so many yard sales. We'd pick an item we really wanted for our home and we could only get it if we sold enough from our house. That summer we were able to buy a really nice gazebo, "grown up' silverware, a PlayStation and Xbox, and a Keurig which is saying something considering we priced everything cheap! Anyway - I've definitely gotten rid of things I've regretted but I'm not upset because for every 1 item I've regretted there have been hundreds more that I don't even remember and that space is so worth the little bit of regret that I occasionally feel. Even though I make mistakes I still let go because I love me more than I love any item in my home
Because I love myself more than a stupid stapler of which I have 4! Thanks for these words.
What an inspiring story! Thanks for sharing this! 😊
Thanks for sharing. I'm having the WORST time letting go. I'm such a pack-rat! Just the thought of getting rid of so much stuff fills me with anxiety and brings tears to my eyes. Your words make it feel a little better.
@Jypsie415 I hope you start to feel better soon
I've been there as well! We. Can do this!
@@PaniaTurania Thank you!
When I was decluttering 'big time' I took digital pictures of unused sentimental items. I also prayed over all items...that the next 'steward of my stuff' will be blessed & have a happy life. Doing these 2 things made & still makes letting go a breeze! ♡
What a great idea. I loved that you prayed that the items could bless someone else!
I am astonished at how you are CONSTANTLY decluttering and your house is SOOOO minimal yet you always find more that can be decluttered.. it's amazing and so inspiring! ❤👏🏻 Love these super long videos too!!!
When donating really expensive or new items we like to think about the joy they will bring someone else!
That is a really good way to look at it. I recently sold shoes that not only had been expensive but so so pretty, but I almost never wore them because they are really narrow in the toes and become uncomfortable when wearing for a bit. So I sent them out and was still feeling regret and thinking about what if I had just given them another chance? (Which is so incredibly silly, I knew I never wore them and they were already in the mail!). But then the buyer sent me a message about how much she loves them and is greatful to have found them and at a good price. And now I know they're in good hands and will be worn and appreciated. Of course you don't get that experience every time; but just from the once, I can remember that in the future, even if I don't get that feedback, I'll now someone will be happy.
Sue Wolfe- Oh Dawn, you had me laughing when you got rid of the tan 3/4 sleeve "winter" blouse because you said you didn't like the color on you, then you bought a short sleeve one in the same color!! That's absolutely something I would do! I think you're a "spring" rather than a "fall". Maybe have your colors done so you can find those that don't wash you out, as you said. It's a fun process and will save you money in the long run! 😉❤️❤️
I was about to comment this too! It’s just the same but short sleeve so can anticipate in being in next year’s get rid pile!
How do you determine your colors? I have no idea what my colors are. I am drawn to earthy tones.
Another idea, from Christine at Frugal Fit Mom- reverse meal plan. Look at what is in your fridge and plan meals so you use up your ingredients that you already own.
I think these skills should be taught in all public schools ! So, important. Applied to all areas of your life
My Aunt taught me how to fold clothes and iron. I think parents need to have some input with teaching our kids. Teachers are not the parents. They are there to teach them skills in math , English, science, home economics , history, woodworking , etc.They have enough to do.
How can school teach one to manage the inventory of a home? Parents need to teach this skill to themselves and then model it consistently to their children.
@@patriciagalanakis4540 Have you never heard of homec classes?
I'm with you, clutter is such a common problem many kids do not get this training at home but it sure impacts their lives. This would be a great topic in home economics. They could even introduce ideas of putting like with like for organization and the container concept in earlier grades, it could be fun.
Kids are graduating from public school without being able to read. This is firmly in “family learning” territory. Get a grip on your expectations for schools.
I started the habit long ago of putting the date on opened things that spoil quickly or won't be used up immediately. I also put the date and description on the lids of leftover containers. Keeping a sharpie and a roll of painter's tape in the utility drawer for marking dates has saved me thousands in wasted food over the years!
I write straight on our tubs with a dry erase pen; just wipe it off before you microwave it 😅
I'm always cooking for 4 or 5 (there's only 3 of us) so future me has "ready meals" in the freezer, when I don't have the time or energy to cook from scratch.
Regarding decluttering regrets, I always remind myself of something that Cass once said. “This is a war, and there WILL be casualties”.
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My dear Carla, I was in your shoes 12 years ago. Bless you! Take a deep breath. Work from corner to corner. If the paper back books are clean retirement homes will take them. I had 1000 books. If not they can be put in paper recycling. Hint.. don't look at photos as you go, just put in bin for later. They will hold up the process otherwise. Good luck and know we are rooting for you. Hugs!
I purged my house four or five years ago and loved the new simplicity. All our stuff fits with room to spare. However, watching this video has motivated me to go to the next level of decluttering. I'm thinking completely empty shelves and drawers are not a bad thing, not bad at all. Thank you! ❤
You have made such a difference in my life for so many years. Sometimes when I am having a hard day I put you on just to listen to your uplifting and genuine voice.💕💕💕
We keep our sons socks with his shoes in the entry and it helps us get out the door in the morning!!🎉
The under the bed part cracked me up! With 4 kids, aged 1-8, this is my life 😆
You never know what you will find but it also can be fun to find something that is missing and also be grossed out too!
Make a pass through the refrigerator every Sunday or the day before you shop.
Garbage night weekly ritual clean out fridge
I've said it before, but seeing you and hearing you make "mistakes" and how you process that is EXTREMELY helpful. Our generation was instilled with trash guilt and it's paralyzing sometimes! Thanks for everything you've done over the years.
Thanks Dawn. Love your videos. I don’t know very many people who I could make me feel excited and calm about decluttering all at the same time 😂 You have a kind heart.
my mom was on a tight budget for 8 people in 70s. She only bought groceries based on her 8 meals grocery list. (almost everyone eats only about 8 actual meals and left overs per week). The waste was minimal, and her garden was huge which meant she was always adding two or three vegetable sides to round up the meals. Buying for the actual 8 meals you eat, plus sandwich meat or sandwich breads will help you get that issue under control 100%. I myself have been fighting wastage so have been keeping the costs down and using up lots more stuff. oops I forgot to mention that she used vegetables to make a soup for a weekend meal.
Great advice from your savvy mom! Thank you!
I bulk cook and freeze extra portions, ready to throw in the microwave when I have no energy. Yay for healthy "ready meals" without all the additives. When were all sick for a week, I was all set with frozen, dried and tinned easy meals so we could isolate (not go to the store etc).
I'll also buy a 1kg bag of carrots then peel, chop and freeze them in bags of 2carrots portions, ready to throw into Shepherd's Pie, Ragu etc. Same goes for other veggies, and fruits! My boy and I will gladly eat a bowl of frozen mango, berries and sliced bananas as if it's ice cream 😂
... My point is, try freezing anything you won't have time to cook/eat fresh before it goes off. My Polish, Czech&Slovak friends also love pickling veggies as an alternative method to avoid waste.
I just started my minimalist journey and kind of overwhelmed! I have so much stuff! Your videos help though!!!!!
You got this!!!
You go girl! A little bit at a time, then suddenly, you'll see space where there was none before and it feels amazing! Cheers and hugs!
When I was decluttering 'big time' I took digital pictures of unused sentimental items. I also prayed over all items...that the next 'steward of my stuff' will be blessed & have a happy life. Doing these 2 things made & still makes letting go a breeze! ♡
I’ve been following you long enough to remember when the lol camper made its way into the girls’ room, it’s bittersweet bc Maggie’s growing up but I’m sure someone else’s child will love it just as much! I feel like I’m with you on this journey 😭🤣
I prefer cold weather but the minimalist in me really appreciates the less required for warm weather!
So happy to know I'm not the only one with a kid that collected spoons under their bed! Lol😂😂😂
I donated my granddaughter’s LOL things to the school before and after care program. They loved it.
Yes! Don't forget school clubs and retirement centres for crafting materials too 😊
... Likewise, I donated my son's baby toys to the church baby group once he'd outgrown them.
I’m 64 and I’ve been following you for a couple years. You are so right about what a difference decluttering makes. I wouldn’t have believed it when I first started but now I can’t believe how much extra time I have to do the things I really want to do. Thank you for all you do!!
Thank you so much Dawn! I feel so motivated and seen by every single one of your videos. These house declutters are especially helpful to remember that we are all human and it’s ok to feel the stuff creep in and declutter it again. I love listening to you talk, it just calms and focuses me somehow 😂 Love love love your content, it has changed my life ❤
Been having a rough patch. Was looking for video to accompany me while trying to get my house back in order. An hour is a good time! Surprised to find your video just now! Thanks Dawn!
Better days coming I hope🎉😮🎉
Oh good, I'm so glad to hear! You've got this!!!
I would love to have a laundry room!! And on the main floor - how ideal! My washer and dryer are in the "cellar" (most people use the word' basement' now :) I do have a little clothes line, rack with hangers, and small table for laundry supplies so all in all I am blessed!!!! As I write this I realize how lucky I am. Embrace the cellar laundry spot!! LOL
Great way to use open jars of salsa is in taco meat or chilli! I often use jars of leftover tomato based things in soup and chilli!
The struggle with living in the north for a larger family! All the different kinds of clothing and shoes that are needed can be overwhelming!
We live in Colorado so it's summer gear, winter gear, sun gear, snow gear, etc... I feel ya
I loved when you went under the bed to pull out all the weird random items that get pushed under there! I don't feel alone now when I go under my grandkids bed and find the oddball stuff (like a can of peanuts with most of them on the floor!). Loved the video, it made me get up and go through my pantry items!😊😊
When my kids were growing up - and still small - I used a small mess bag with each one & had their names on them - They were in charged with putting dirty socks in their bag - until laundry day - the bag went in & came out clean - I mated the socks & they put the clean ones in their drawer - then the bag went back on their bedroom door knob to be repeated the next week.
One thing I've done, when I've had lots of bottles of the same item, I've poured them all together into one bottle. Consolidated it all and saves space, gets rid of extra bottles and helps me use it up 👍 great for shampoos, soap, etc!
I'm amazed at the normality of buying new clothes each season. I certainly don't have money for that, and so when I get something, I buy clothing that will last at least five years. I've had the same good quality winter coat for over 15 years. And the same smart dress for over seven years. Would we not do better as minimalists to buy really good quality, timeless classic pieces that suit our body and colouring that last more than two or three years at least? We would then be saving money overall; time and effort with not having to go shopping and then declutter; and more importantly we will be good stewards of the environment by not contributing to landfills.
Yes! This is what I've been transitioning to
Any particular brands you would recommend for good quality clothes?
We can't afford brand new, expensive name brands, but I can keep an eye out for them on resale. Would love to have clothes that last a long time, like the cotton/linen skirts that I have worn every day for the past 4 years. Other than some stains, they have held up so well. Makes me wish I had bought more than 4!
I don't buy new clothes each season either. I love my wardrobe. I only buy a new item when one has worn out or I don't like it anymore. Most items last years and years if you take good care of them :)
Aww loved everything about this and so refreshing to see even your house needs some maintenance. Love that you are real and honest about sharing that with us and always providing the best motivation. Thank you!
I love the blue in your kitchen. I like the two color combo and open shelving.
Thank you for posting this video & sharing your journey with us for all these years!! This really encourages me that even in a minimal home, you still get so much build up of inventory and have to declutter & donate a car load of stuff every 6 months or so. I often feel so defeated by the amount of stuff that accumulates in our home, but this helps me to see how normal it is, and that I'm not a bad homemaker just because I'm constantly having to declutter more. So thank you for your very real, very relatable content!!! - Lindsay Robertson
Thank you for the refresh, dear Dawn! 🥰
I just came across your channel and this is exactly what I was looking for. Some inspiration and gentle approach with someone to guide me through decluttering. Love your personality and your videos are fun and easy to watch.. theyre super relatable. Thank you so much!
We are having bad plumbing problems. My landlord is my cousin who can't pay for the repairs. We will have to move. And that move will be a downsize. I have been actively decluttering since 2016 but I believe that I can go even further. I have to. Thanks, Dawn for all of the experience and wisdom you share with us every week. I know this will inspire me.
Hi Dawn,
I always just deep freeze the butter. So you have got it handy and it doesn't go to waste. No change in taste!
Love your content.
Greetings from Germany
Watching you clean your fridge was so validating. Thank you for being real.
I also use the Large laundry bags for seasonal wear storage ( gloves -sockcaps-etc) also for scarfs. Deep drawers are BETTER if you use this method. LOTS OF IDEAS💡😊❤
Even if I am not decluttering but working on something else, I enjoy listening to your videos. It helps me get my work done. I hope you share more hour long+ videos.
Decluttering the fridge took it to a whole new level. I need to give the fridge a deep clean & declutter tomorrow. Thanks for the encouraging reminder. 😊😎😆
I store the toothpaste tubes without the boxes. We go through it quickly enough and it takes up way less space that way.
Us too
This video was so helpful to me. A Huge Thank you!
The segment about the guilt really spoke to me. It actually made me tear up because I find it difficult and feel guilty.
I'm going through my own home and have been either donating or throwing out stuff over the past few weeks. And there's still more to do. I just feel guilty about it, the money spent, i feel it's such a waste.
But then what you said about how we can also feel guilty about creating the cluttered places and making it difficult for self and for the family to get to things. For me the clutter just increases my anxiety and it gets overwhelming. So it's either feel guilty for keeping it or guilty for getting rid of it.
But with getting rid of it, it is freeing and so much better to have the space and gives us time to do more important things.
I'm beginning to see some progress in my home. My bedroom closet, dresser drawers are so much easier now to find things.
I also liked the advice you gave about getting overwhelmed when doing a declutter. Yes, I get overwhelmed. I have to take a break, walk away and do something else. I then return and carry on.
I watched this video the day it came out. Since then I went back to the start of this playlist and watched them all again. My house had started to feel hard and overwhelming so using these videos to either body double or motivation I have been going over my house again. Thank you for your help xx
Love function over anything especially with a growing family . My bathroom counters are clear except for soap . We even went so far as when the time came to replace faucets we did away with the two handled faucets in the baths and eventually even the kitchen to single handled faucets ! So much easier and quicker to clean .
I love a single handle faucet - would never go back to the two handled ones!
Love the long declutter videos! It was funny when you went under the bed 😂 My kids love those tiny squishy animals too.
My favorite part of the video today is you crawling under the boys beds. You are very brave!
Thank you for sharing. It really helped me give myself a little grace to realize that even someone on top of their clutter still has spaces that get out of control. Love you having a longer video like this to use for body doubling and motivation.
I love that you share the expired / bad food....makes it all relateable
My tip with food waste is to keep a Sharpie by the fridge, mine fits in the gap for the door handle, and EVERY time I open a fridge item, I write the date of opening on it. Sauces and condiments are the worst for not being used in time. Has really helped me cut down on food waste 😊
Inspiring to see how much the minimal mom found to get rid of AGAIN! This is a continual thing, we live, we grow, we change, and now we declutter AGAIN! Thanks Dawn! Hmmmm....which room should I start in?? Oh yeah-- the laundry room! 😅
Im a ladybug too! No wonder I love your entire style of managing inventory!!
Your makeup looks gorgeous in this video. Simple but so stunning
For clothes what really helped me was the Dressing Your Truth system. It let me know my colors and patterns and styles of what I liked. It helped me know what to buy
Thank you so much for this video. I always have your videos playing to calm me down when I get overwhelmed and it motivates me to get my home in order. When my significant other knows I'm watching a video of yours that I am going to start decluttering and cleaning. He has been a bit of a wall in getting rid of things that I KNOW THAT WE DON'T NEED OR USE... But I am trying to be patient with him. I got him to agree to use the time will tell bin. We got a plastic tote with a lid to put extra bed linens in that he can't let go for sentimental reasons. And put the bin outside on the back patio where it is out of sight and we can have the space in our closet. It is a struggle being a minimalist in a partnership with someone who is not. I am being patient and understanding in his wishes and he is being understanding about my stress with the clutter in our tiny apartment.
Don't stop putting out these videos, Dawn! Thank you thank you thank you. Positive thoughts for you and your family!
I’m totally excited to start! Thank you for this video and for your transparency. People scolding you here for being hard on yourself is ridiculous. We know you are a healthy individual and sometimes being tougher on ourselves gets the job done. 🎉
I pitched a few items, and a couple that were somewhat sentimental while listening to this. The items I pitched would be pitched by relatives if I died tomorrow, so I just did it today. Thanks Dawn.
I truly try to only buy groceries. You are correct on that when one decluter, one is more mindful about what one brings in.
I recently decluter our pantry. I was at the grocery store. I just couldn't buy chips, cereal, and No Pastas of any kind, till we have used up ¾.
I got clear bins for my panty to replace cardboard boxes.
I was very mindful to not buy too many. I had to get a few more about a week later. I also got platic containers for cereals and some for the pastas.
Dawn, I would love to see a full video on being minimal with children. Lots of us moms with young children struggle with this 😢
Thank you.
The cake looks fantastic! How darling! Well done, ladies 🎉🎉🎉
Dawn I completely forgot about the "hush" bedroom. My sons absolutely loved it!!! 😍
The salsa is probably fine though =) I use up salsa by doing shreddeed chicken mixed with taco seasoning, bell peppers, nachos chips and cheese sauce or cream cheese in a baking pan and top with cheese !
Dawn, I heard some new ideas in your video and some great reminders. I saw so many nice things leave your home, but it makes sense to move forward. Your kids getting the autonomy around their spaces is a great example. I think you could write a book about raising children in a minimalist home. You do it so well. As a fellow MN resident, I see where I need to get through my excess winter items, it makes no sense to keep excess when others are in need. Thank you for the permission to let go. Between you, Dana and Cass, plus clutterers anonymous, I am living in a vastly different home without the struggles I used to have. I am impressed with the amount you hauled out on this full home declutter. Bravo! Happy kickoff to summer!
We date each item in a jar, box or can in large print with a sharpie marker as they come in. Saves time and waste.
Yep I do this and rotate my pantry. Saves a lot of money and time looking for dates later. Also most food doesn't need to be thrown out past the date.
I usually don’t watch hour long videos, but I’ve made an exception for you.❤
Not sure if you will see this or not but I have a tip about pillows. I decided to get outdoor pillows to use on my indoor couch. The material is stain resistance. Walmart has a variety-solid colors too. My favorite part is they have ZIPPERS! In a $5 pillow! I have a spring-summer set & a fall-winter set. This would be great with kids! Thanks for all you have taught me. Blessings!
About 4 years ago I started using the Branch Basics cleaning system. You get a concentrate and bottles that have water levels and concentrate levels marked. Man, this has simplified my cleaning so much! I decided to try it when a reviewer stated she didn’t think a really small lid of soap could clean a large load of laundry, but it took stains out of her children’s clothes that had been there for a year. Game changer!
You know it's Minnesota when your winter coats are still out at the end of May :)
Finally washed and put ours away last weekend! Then I realized the hats and gloves got left out of the party 🤦♀️
I like the tan long sleeve sweater that you think you are getting rid of. It looks good on you and you can always add a necklace.
Ty ❤ that was so real! Don’t be so harsh on yourself pls. You are doing gr8. Everyone makes mistakes🌸
Hi Dawn! With those big salsa jars, i wonder if you could freeze for example half of the leftover salsa and put the rest in the fridge. Also, i believe a lot of things are still good to eat even after the expiration date. But thats me 🤗
If you're enjoying reading, have you thought about getting an e-reader? I love reading but hated the clutter, so i bought a Kindle and it was the best decision 🎉 I'm reading more books than ever and now there's no clutter!
What helps me in the fridge is, the moment I make a shopping list I look at my fridge and storage space...so I don't buy stuff that I still have :) works really well
I do the same. Simple habit that ends food waste. It takes a little time and effort but very worth it :)
We have a super tiny entryway. The only place where EVERYONE comes into the house. I had placed a boot tray to keep the footwear corralled and the mud and snow off the floor. It became a dumping ground for everyone's footwear. We also have a shoe rack in the entryway closet. Last week I decided to get rid of the boot tray. Lo and behold......the footwear is now ending up in the closet--where it belongs! 🤯 I sometimes think that we promote laziness without realizing it! And you're right -- flat surfaces and clutter attract more clutter! Thanks Dawn! Love your videos!
With the way you just toss extras under the bathroom sink have you thought of switching your bin in the back to an open bin instead of one with a lid? We have a small closet in our bathroom and I switched our extras to smaller open bins and it was a gamechanger for me because I tend to be a tosser too. Now i can toss but it has an appropriate tossing spot and so I dont feel guilty anymore and the mess stays minimal.
Great video Dawn!! When I donate tuff stuff, I just tell myself that this will Bless someone else! Love ya, Cindy💗🌻
I always seem to watch decluttering videos when I'm at work, & can't participate. 😹
I do the same thing!
Me too and I’m a home health nurse so I’m over here wanting to declutter the patient’s house 😂. Mine is already super minimal.
And then lose motivation by the time I get the time 🤦♀️
@@ChristysChannelYall I find it easier to help others declutter than my own things!
Salsa! Can be used up in chicken tortilla soup, Mexican pizza, ground beef cooked for tacos, chili, rice and beans, Spanish rice, baked in corn bread, as enchilada sauce...🙂
Dawn, I have read the book "The Hiding Place" many times! It's one of my all-time favorites! The first time I read it I was a teenager, and I just celebrated my 64th birthday. I expect to read it again, since it is so inspirational. It has a permanent place on my bookshelf!
Awesome!!! Thanks for this, I will be using this to declutter my house today.
I saw the notification for this video and I was like “add that to your to do list cuz this is a must”. I haven’t even watched yet but I know it’s gonna be great!! You inspire me and challenge me. Love your podcasts too!
You can freeze the butter. I try to cut up carrots, celery, onions, and other veggies I can put in bags or containers and freeze for later use. I don’t always get that done before they go bad though. We’ve had the salsa problem before too.
Just figured out where I got the great idea to install hooks around my coat closet instead of using the hanger bar! I love it. Quicker to hang up the coats and easier to access the storage at the floor level.
I felt like I was watching myself declutter our refrigerator. Most of us go through it. All we can do is try to do better the next time. Maybe designate an area for leftovers, and an area for about expire (to consume soon) area. Thank you for this video!
The Hiding Place is a great book. I still remember reading it as a teen 😢
The Nightingale is fantastic!!
EEEEEEEEEEEK 🙌🥳 I get SO EXCITED to see an hour long video when I log on in the am! Ready to HAMMER THE DAY 💥 Thank you so much, MUCH Mrs. Dawn! All the Love to the FamJam ✨️
I clean out the fridge before trash day. As well as before getting groceries. Much easier to manage since our fridge is small.
I would move the boys to a bigger room. Do you think Tom would build a room onto the house? You guys are so capable of making those renovations a reality. I have a son, they grow SO MUCH in the years you are approaching, my son is over 6 feet tall and has building projects in his room. It changes really quickly from legos to big projects as teenagers. Your family is awesome! They have had a beautiful space, but trust me they are going to grow out of the space.
I see the guest bedroom and they could move the older boy in here or both or switch bedrooms and have the boys in their bedroom. Upstairs could be used if guests come over the boys could go back in there temporarily.
Ps appropriate here as you mentioned something and I can't find comment section at the moment🙂
Just decluttered our play room yet again ! 2 large trash bags full... and wr have down sized clothes etc... ( I already would declutter every so often, but 2020 really Inspired me overhaul everything -- mayne due to not being g able to take our large family on field trips etc that year and being g tired of tripping over stuff- and I found your channel. ) going to work on downsizing the kids clothes to 7 play and 3 church outfits if possible.
Dawn, I heard you saying such negative things to yourself while you were cleaning out the fridge! I know if you were helping me clean out my fridge and I had expired food, you would never say those things to me. Give yourself the grace that you give others! We love you ❤
The tactic that works best for me is to pretend (to myself) that I have to move in 3 months more. This helps me so much in deciding which things would be valuable enough to fill my (imaginary) limited moving boxes with. You can even plan how many boxes per room you want to fill to have a contained space 😊
I sometimes imagine I am moving too😂 I guess it helps us keep perspective on the value of our stuff