You know 80% of these podcasts are run by single people 😂. They run their mouths all day. They haven't a clue. Married people are quiet. They're in the trenches for real.
At 87. There's no fruit left to reap. Let mama rest. It hurts to lose a parent at any age. My mum lost her mum recently at 84 but it was a celebration of life even tho she was sad. And we all knew grandma was happier finally resting as she had also had diff surgeries over the years as she was getting older. I feel instead let's make the last memories count with some money than pay for an expensive ass surgery for an 87 year old. Also let's discuss if it was the wife who did this for her mum. How would the man feel.
In My Opinion...finances should be discussed from before marriage so it is normal when in a marriage. Being open and transparent will be key...true or definitely true?
Comprimise is what was needed in this situation, for example use half the money and stop paying rent to the dad. You have to take into account school fees etc. Can't use alll the money..cone on.
80 damn 7 please im sorry id struggle not to wring his neck everyday because our life savings you can not replace it be serious. Also i work at a hospital even a successful surgery at 87 they can hardly move sometimes. Their bodies like i feel like maybe yall dont understand what 87 really is itd be like torture damn near. Yall thought with just your heart and with six kids our whole life savings. No you still have to be the man of this family while loving your mom
People not be realistic anymore my mom won’t let me take all my lifesaving or better still pops should gift them d house they wouldn’t worry abt rent anymore
Financial infidelity will ruin your marriage irreparably. There should be enough respect to sit down and talk to your partner before taking these serious decisions
Y'all kept forgetting the 6 kids part
You know 80% of these podcasts are run by single people 😂. They run their mouths all day. They haven't a clue.
Married people are quiet. They're in the trenches for real.
By watching yall ive learned men are children mentally for the most part even when mature the young boy holds a lot of power in mens decision making.
At 87. There's no fruit left to reap. Let mama rest. It hurts to lose a parent at any age. My mum lost her mum recently at 84 but it was a celebration of life even tho she was sad. And we all knew grandma was happier finally resting as she had also had diff surgeries over the years as she was getting older. I feel instead let's make the last memories count with some money than pay for an expensive ass surgery for an 87 year old. Also let's discuss if it was the wife who did this for her mum. How would the man feel.
This guy said what moves are you making at 87 😭😭 I agree with him tho
Yeah that part 😂😂😂
In My Opinion...finances should be discussed from before marriage so it is normal when in a marriage. Being open and transparent will be key...true or definitely true?
What if the shoe was on the other foot? And the wife had gathered their life savings to save her Dad behind her husband’s back?
What if what if. Please focus.
@@evibenson okay
This made my day 😅 great conversation
Great discussion!
Comprimise is what was needed in this situation, for example use half the money and stop paying rent to the dad.
You have to take into account school fees etc. Can't use alll the money..cone on.
David is from Oyo state, Shout out to our state , THE PACE SETTER!
My marriage will still be cool cos the money left will still be for the family
I enjoyed the topic, I only wish the sound was better.
David Olusegun probably meant to say he is from Ekiti State..
Fiditi is in an area in Oyo town, Oyo state, close to Ibadan. Probably 3hrs drive from Lagos
@arowolomariam619 Oh wow! We learn every day.
80 damn 7 please im sorry id struggle not to wring his neck everyday because our life savings you can not replace it be serious. Also i work at a hospital even a successful surgery at 87 they can hardly move sometimes. Their bodies like i feel like maybe yall dont understand what 87 really is itd be like torture damn near. Yall thought with just your heart and with six kids our whole life savings. No you still have to be the man of this family while loving your mom
People not be realistic anymore my mom won’t let me take all my lifesaving or better still pops should gift them d house they wouldn’t worry abt rent anymore
Financial infidelity will ruin your marriage irreparably.
There should be enough respect to sit down and talk to your partner before taking these serious decisions