Reasons Why You're Single

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  • Are you single and ready to minggg... er i mean laugh about it? Here are some reasons you might be playing hard to get w/o even knowing.
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  • @VarsVerum
    @VarsVerum 11 місяців тому +1171

    Swoozie went from giving reasons why we're single to telling us a story about his life LOL

    • @Airitzu
      @Airitzu 11 місяців тому +5

      Vars 😦

    • @Notcosmicfire
      @Notcosmicfire 11 місяців тому +2

      Another reason why were single is probably because we play league

    • @informer3481
      @informer3481 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@CrackShot-3Gaslighting trash take(although it does definitely apply to most people like you who are NPCs).

    • @purushottamkumarsharma5044
      @purushottamkumarsharma5044 10 місяців тому

      Waah

    • @KrossTheManJ
      @KrossTheManJ 10 місяців тому

      @@CrackShot-3 guys i hate to overuse this joke but we have found another person who doesn't understand what a joke is.

  • @TimeBucks
    @TimeBucks 11 місяців тому +1550

    Very good storytelling and explaining skills

  • @MikoyCreator
    @MikoyCreator 4 місяці тому +31

    I read a good quote.
    Everyones got baggage. You gotta find the person who will help you unpack.

  • @srikarvetcha8894
    @srikarvetcha8894 10 місяців тому +73

    Rather than directly giving us advice, swoozie tried to understand the lonely feeling that singles face and then tried to help us. Swoozie is truly underrated nowadays

  • @saraesse4318
    @saraesse4318 11 місяців тому +1000

    I’m single because I don’t leave my house🫣

    • @enikocsaszar2874
      @enikocsaszar2874 11 місяців тому +27

      Saaaaaaaame

    • @worldsspecialgirl
      @worldsspecialgirl 11 місяців тому +30

      Truth! It saves a lot of money unless u use Uber eats or order online like I do 😅

    • @cretaceousstudios4842
      @cretaceousstudios4842 11 місяців тому +4

      bro same

    • @sor3999
      @sor3999 11 місяців тому +17

      It's safe! Like an index stock. You won't fly to the moon, but you won't lose all your money either!

    • @jaycee254
      @jaycee254 11 місяців тому +9

      No place like Home lol

  • @idk6465
    @idk6465 11 місяців тому +203

    I'm single. Why? Life is expensive. My work is already making me lose my mind. Barely have any free time. So it will have to stay this way.

    • @beruku_scott5154
      @beruku_scott5154 11 місяців тому +1

      Fact's

    • @RadialSeeker113
      @RadialSeeker113 11 місяців тому +6

      You'll always have work. Life will only gets more expensive. I work all day and chilling with my gf at home after is awesome.

    • @Online_Lore
      @Online_Lore 11 місяців тому +2

      I work 6 days a week go to school for 5 do shit with my friends do hw and play multiple sports fuck no I don’t have time for a girlfriend and that drama

    • @Outsiderla
      @Outsiderla 11 місяців тому +2

      On god tho

    • @idk6465
      @idk6465 11 місяців тому +3

      @@RadialSeeker113 Then i guess I'll die alone. I don't know how to fix my schedule when i work 7 days a week. And go to bed at 4am and get up at 7am.

  • @dolphincrescent54
    @dolphincrescent54 11 місяців тому +2117

    Reason why I'm single: I freakin' love it. I have books, a sweet dog, nuff said. I'm basically a hermit and proud of it thank y'all very much!

    • @Hairlike
      @Hairlike 11 місяців тому +160

      Stop lying I know your not happy being single(I’m projecting)

    • @botanicalitus4194
      @botanicalitus4194 11 місяців тому +26

      @@Hairlike😂

    • @maximumforce8275
      @maximumforce8275 11 місяців тому +28

      ​@gigabow.wow123fr. (Though calm down. Its a joke) but yeah...im the same. People just be doing to much and too many things can go wrong.

    • @BringBackCyParkVendingMachines
      @BringBackCyParkVendingMachines 11 місяців тому +16

      ​@gigabow.wow123 you obviously have no sense of humor if you couldn't tell if they're joking

    • @diegeticfridge9167
      @diegeticfridge9167 11 місяців тому +1

      Same 💀

  • @JerushaCouture
    @JerushaCouture 11 місяців тому +1065

    Baby, you know this kiss is very soft, you know that's why you mention me every single day for the last 4 months..🫦

    • @wayne2550
      @wayne2550 11 місяців тому +2

      How long were you and Swoozie together for?

    • @swoozie
      @swoozie  11 місяців тому +5

      Last 4??? ALL my videos are about you. Now they know 😂

    • @JerushaCouture
      @JerushaCouture 11 місяців тому +2

      @@wayne2550 Oh wow! We are going there hey,
      Ok it was 2y then Adande proposed to me in 2012, I broke his heart and moved home to Australia. So of course he has been single ever since…

    • @nickcabrera3087
      @nickcabrera3087 11 місяців тому +1

      @@JerushaCouture I’m over here trying to figure out who asked

    • @nestermaratos1070
      @nestermaratos1070 11 місяців тому

      Handbag smh

  • @JuriLuvsU
    @JuriLuvsU 11 місяців тому +20

    Single days were fun -- full of exploring and trying new things. But my current relationship/marriage days have similar experiences and then more. I've previously dated extremely controlling and rigid people, but my husband is the best friend and perfect partner for me. He's sweet, attentive, emotionally intelligent, comforting, and the most fun I've EVER had. So to conclude... being single is fun and exciting, but finding the very specific right person to be with is the best part of a relationship.
    Also congrats on just....everything awesome happening to you Swoozie!! I've followed your videos for years and it's so cool seeing you find all these opportunities and recognition!

    • @Yoga-zx5ts
      @Yoga-zx5ts 6 місяців тому

      Just curious, did you have hookups in the past or sex with other people other than your husband, how does he feel about it

  • @JoJosWorld
    @JoJosWorld 11 місяців тому +586

    I love free therapy

    • @swoozie
      @swoozie  11 місяців тому +183

      Free? The meter is still running sir. U don’t wanna know what the tab is currently at

    • @AOA.UNIVERSE
      @AOA.UNIVERSE 11 місяців тому +17

      ​@@swoozietell am byoy! ....
      But honestly I ain't paying either

    • @chloesmithwalker7565
      @chloesmithwalker7565 11 місяців тому

      Me too

  • @oceanman180
    @oceanman180 11 місяців тому +474

    The end hit different for me. I should never have been with someone so controlling with a "my way or the highway" mindset. Compromise is such an important yet ignored thing in relationships sometimes, among other things like listening to and respecting your partner. It was an eye-opening experience for me, and it showed me how a relationship should never be. I'm happy to be single and free!!! I'm currently grinding in my first semester of law school. Thank you Swoozie for the banger video as always 👏🏻💯🧡

    • @swoozie
      @swoozie  11 місяців тому +104

      These are the type a comments I love. AND you took me on a life story too. Thanks for hanging in the premiere stream also Ocean! I hold no ill will toward any of my ex's either. I'm still on good terms with all of them because at the end of the day everything that happens to us is a lesson and we can let even failed relationships lead us to growth with the right attitude!

    • @oceanman180
      @oceanman180 11 місяців тому +8

      @@swoozie Woah thank you so much for replying!!! Yes, I completely agree with you that everything happens for a reason. Thank you for your encouraging words!! Your hilarious videos, love of Disney (I really love Disney), and relatability have resonated with me so
      much over the years!! I love your work ethic and style, please keep it going ☺️🧡

    • @Zathren
      @Zathren 11 місяців тому +6

      I left my ex when she pretended to apologize for her actions, only to do them again in less than three days. You made the right choice leaving.

    • @minhvan1216
      @minhvan1216 11 місяців тому

      ok

  • @harryjames1
    @harryjames1 11 місяців тому +219

    What do y’all enjoy most about being single and being in a relationship. Top thing for both…go!

    • @swoozie
      @swoozie  11 місяців тому +112

      Single: freedom!
      Relationship: knowing someone has ur back HARD (cuddling in a v close second)

    • @Whatthenoob812
      @Whatthenoob812 11 місяців тому +9

      Im single because my parents wont let me date till university@@swoozie ,

    • @liveandlearn4445
      @liveandlearn4445 11 місяців тому +7

      Single: Freedom, time, knowing nobody is close enough to backstab me.

    • @HamsterBoi330
      @HamsterBoi330 11 місяців тому +5

      I can go where ever I want. I don't have to set up a schedule with my partner.

    • @VictoriousSage
      @VictoriousSage 11 місяців тому +2

      ​​@@swoozieLoved watching your documentary! I bet if you applied again to animation school, they would take you in a heart beat.

  • @rerickf
    @rerickf 10 місяців тому +8

    I have been single for a long time. I have my good days in being single, but I also have my bad days. That statement swoozie said about getting happy being single first before seeking a relationship means I lot to me. The last three years have been very rough for me, but I am slowly turning things around. I just have to faith that there is someone out there for me, I just haven't found her yet. Thanks for this video Swoozie, it means I lot to someone like me.

  • @rayrayl.4087
    @rayrayl.4087 11 місяців тому +376

    I'm so happy I came across this video. I really needed some validation. Both of my siblings are in relationships and plan to bring their partners to family holiday events. I couldn't help but feel left out. But, when I really thought about it, I was like, "Who am I fooling? Being in a relationship requires effort I am not ready to give."

    • @sexyscientist
      @sexyscientist 11 місяців тому +3

      Maybe a hook-up over the holidays can be managed.

    • @msmariapaula23
      @msmariapaula23 11 місяців тому +17

      This is too real. Also, when you are leveling up in your career you just don't have time for another person and that's OK too 🤷‍♀️

    • @chumbaroo
      @chumbaroo 11 місяців тому

      very true@@msmariapaula23

    • @thandinh2447
      @thandinh2447 11 місяців тому

      ok

    • @tamthuong4048
      @tamthuong4048 10 місяців тому

      ok

  • @ExInfamous
    @ExInfamous 11 місяців тому +174

    I haven't had a significant other long enough to realize that I am far too selfish with my time to realistically devote a large amount of it to someone else. Its not that I don't want to find "the one" but I like everything about being single, and it would take something absolutely special for me to be willing to sacrifice my time.

    • @kkrock_
      @kkrock_ 11 місяців тому +4

      GOJO

    • @davidordaz5251
      @davidordaz5251 11 місяців тому +2

      Yeah true

    • @Renkencen
      @Renkencen 11 місяців тому +3

      Ha same! Like my life style is self center or not willing to commit time to others. Like I know I am selfish but it doesn't means I always put myself first over others. As you said well type, if I ever met someone that I truly in loved with then I will commit some times towards her!

    • @shakirpowell5536
      @shakirpowell5536 11 місяців тому

      This

    • @msmariapaula23
      @msmariapaula23 11 місяців тому

      This 👌

  • @royalbandit8106
    @royalbandit8106 11 місяців тому +89

    "Everybody is madely in love when you're not in love" is something I never knew I needed to hear 💔

  • @idevourorphans
    @idevourorphans 11 місяців тому +7

    I love the way of thinking that emphasizes self-improvement, it makes happiness feel like it is in OUR control, not contingent on other people... love yourself foo

  • @vinxentk
    @vinxentk 11 місяців тому +26

    Adande, you're humors on point lol. I love seeing all your videos and stories.

  • @destinydecoding
    @destinydecoding 11 місяців тому +2018

    reasons why i’m single nobody i want want me 😅

    • @HeroDM77
      @HeroDM77 11 місяців тому +77

      Can I join this club?

    • @daronhybridgaming3165
      @daronhybridgaming3165 11 місяців тому +28

      Me to

    • @destinydecoding
      @destinydecoding 11 місяців тому +30

      @@HeroDM77 lol all is welcome

    • @hoods-s
      @hoods-s 11 місяців тому +69

      It’s probably because you can’t formulate a sentence.

    • @almondiefrancis9451
      @almondiefrancis9451 11 місяців тому +10

      New member here 🙋‍♀️ 😄

  • @Nerdtendo6366
    @Nerdtendo6366 11 місяців тому +102

    The reason I’m single is literally me. I am genuinely “too me” for my own good

  • @Alexifeu
    @Alexifeu 11 місяців тому +31

    1. I only find women that have boyfriends.
    2. I need to focus on work.
    3. Playing Videogames all day everyday when not working or hanging out with friends.
    4. I don't smoke I don't drink I don't vape I don't take no drugs and I use Android.

    • @DragonBallZFansOnly
      @DragonBallZFansOnly 11 місяців тому +4

      Deflecting a whole lotta cooter with this one but some will respek it.💯

    • @big_joshfire419
      @big_joshfire419 11 місяців тому +2

      BRO WE SHOULD BE FRIENDS CAUSE YOU JUST DESCRIBED ME!!

    • @almondiefrancis9451
      @almondiefrancis9451 11 місяців тому

      You sound like my ex! 😱
      That's exactly what he's like, but he has a lot of kids and didn't tell me AND he has a weird relationship with the mother of his kids. They're always hanging out and going to dinner. I walked away from that. He was definitely my type though.

    • @ArmstrongandTumbler
      @ArmstrongandTumbler 11 місяців тому +1

      I relate with that 4th one SOOO bad. 🤣😭

    • @seecunning
      @seecunning 11 місяців тому

      Bro, that's me

  • @johnpavlick7740
    @johnpavlick7740 11 місяців тому +31

    I’m over 30 and single because I’ve made a very complete life for myself and a girl would probably ruin it if she came into the relationship with a lot of her own ideas. Kind of sad, because the companionship would be awesome but it’s difficult to seriously think about a relationship where I’m at. Love your videos so much sWooZie.

    • @lisag.4054
      @lisag.4054 11 місяців тому +8

      There’s a girl out there that has the same ideas as you and will fit in perfectly. You could meet her in a year, or 20 years. But she exists. I hope you find her!

    • @fragileinfairyland
      @fragileinfairyland 10 місяців тому

      there are girls who dont spend so frivolously you just gotta find em

  • @ZyMaverick
    @ZyMaverick 11 місяців тому +4

    I gave her princess treatment for 8 whole months. I mean words cant describe how well i treated this woman. And she left me while I was going through a rough patch because my new roommates were extremely abusive to the point where I had to keep my door locked to my room 24/7. She didnt even try to communicate. She instead told her horrible "friends" about us instead of talking to me about our issues like a normal human being. Not even a break up text. Wake up blocked on everything. Still radio silence 2 weeks later and I honestly don't care, I'm over her. I was devastated. 2 weeks later, I secured a new job that is my dream job. And I'm learning to love myself. Something I've struggled with for years. Maybe everything happens for a reason 😅

  • @almondiefrancis9451
    @almondiefrancis9451 11 місяців тому +139

    I'm single because I need to learn to love myself. The four guys I've dated in the past took advantage of me. I've been told that I'm too nice.
    Right now, I enjoy being single and I wish the people around me would understand that.

    • @almondiefrancis9451
      @almondiefrancis9451 11 місяців тому +6

      @CrackShot-3 I would agree with that 100%, but for me, only one of the four guys wanted to settle...and he's abusive.
      If I met a really cool guy who wanted to settle down, I would give that relationship a shot.

    • @kimk8470
      @kimk8470 11 місяців тому +3

      An awful reason hey, for someone to break up with u😢. I've had the same. But if y'all got along in so many ways you'd think they'd stand by you forever 🤷

    • @animeartist888
      @animeartist888 11 місяців тому +2

      You can be nice in general and still learn how and when you should stand up for yourself. Absolutely get yourself figured out before you go trying for romance again. It's rough for both you and your potential lover if you try to date when you're not happy with who you are. That said, some people are just awful for no good reason. Best of luck to you in finding someone who treats you with the respect and love you deserve.

    • @almondiefrancis9451
      @almondiefrancis9451 11 місяців тому

      @@animeartist888 You're definitely right about that. Thank you.

  • @SignoftheStar
    @SignoftheStar 11 місяців тому +191

    Hey Swooz. Long time subscriber here.
    Just watched that documentary, and bro. That moment around 5:05 where you talk about having your life planned ahead of you and it just getting erased... that hit me, man. I've never seen you get emotional like that, and I felt that. I felt that so hard. Even after all the success you've had, for that to still sting you like it does.
    I've spent the last thirteen years of my life doing everything I could to be either a priest or a friar. For as far back as I could remember, that's what I knew I was supposed to be. I put everything on it. Things kept going wrong, but I still pushed. Like you said, living by faith, not by sight. Finally, just over a year ago, I got so close. I was just a few days before the finish line, the happiest I had ever been in my life, and then out of nowhere, everything, everything just got pulled out from under me. All that time, all that work, just... gone. Totally believing in myself, and being the only one.
    It's like you said, though. No one has my voice. I've got stories to tell. I've got a lot to share. I think UA-cam really is the place to do that. I might not have a whole lot going for me, but I am a storyteller. That's something I love. That's something I hope I can do.
    Thank you for being out here and sharing yourself with us, Adande. You really are a beautiful soul, and it has been an honor to follow you all these years and be a part of your journey.

    • @swoozie
      @swoozie  11 місяців тому +62

      Really appreciate u checking out the doc friend! U guys don't see it but there is a LOT of sacrifice that goes into this :) But like I mentioned, hopefully much more awesome stuff to share on the way!

    • @BethanyGala
      @BethanyGala 11 місяців тому +5

      Thanks for mentioning the doc, I had no idea about it! I've been a subscriber for over 10 yrs, really love seeing him get his flowers 🥰🎉👏🏾

    • @chumbaroo
      @chumbaroo 11 місяців тому +1

      @@swoozie illuminati confirmed

    • @tamthuong4048
      @tamthuong4048 11 місяців тому

      ok

    • @LocPhuoc-nz7qz
      @LocPhuoc-nz7qz 11 місяців тому

      zzz

  • @FigmentForever
    @FigmentForever 11 місяців тому +403

    Hard to find a partner who doesn’t want kids too. I feel truly sorry for those out in the dating world having to find a partner without kids. It’s a mess out there.

    • @mechashadow
      @mechashadow 11 місяців тому +40

      I agree feels like a real mess to have kids in this day and age.
      It used to be better to have kids too.

    • @JAWS_2K
      @JAWS_2K 11 місяців тому +23

      It’s nothing but single moms bro. It’s brutal

    • @xidena166
      @xidena166 11 місяців тому +24

      Bro same, dating feels like a 7D minefield chess. The past three years have been horrible. Can’t think of a good reason as to why.

    • @Jeseabell
      @Jeseabell 11 місяців тому +27

      Almost everyone I know doesn't want kids lol

    • @Advisory_Vessel
      @Advisory_Vessel 11 місяців тому +16

      It's funny because everyone I talk to doesn't want children

  • @budasmagictouch6853
    @budasmagictouch6853 10 місяців тому +8

    YOU DESERVE THE RECOGNITION, SWOOZIE!! been watching you since 2010 and you've grown tremendously!

  • @joshualewis8077
    @joshualewis8077 11 місяців тому +89

    All the singles line up here under this comment and pick a partner

    • @gigs3953
      @gigs3953 11 місяців тому +5

      can i be alone in peace instead

    • @joshualewis8077
      @joshualewis8077 11 місяців тому

      @@gigs3953 You need our singles only department. Thats ext. 3

    • @tomlinson1710
      @tomlinson1710 11 місяців тому

      😢

    • @flipsidelimited6560
      @flipsidelimited6560 11 місяців тому +3

      I rather enjoy my peace

    • @Red-hot_Pyro
      @Red-hot_Pyro 11 місяців тому +3

      I'm to shy to pick anyone. Even over the internet ):

  • @PokkiDaPoppa
    @PokkiDaPoppa 11 місяців тому +32

    I'm single because i just wanna be left alone. I don't have the mental capacity to deal with someone else on top of dealing with myself. Watching this video made me think of all my friends who are in relationships tho, lol superrrr well done! :)

  • @JapanFreak2595
    @JapanFreak2595 11 місяців тому +32

    I’m single cuz I don’t go out too much, but I have been using the time to work on myself and secure my bag. Plus I want to be able to pull my weight in a relationship so the dynamic between us isn’t off balance in any way.

  • @corvoattano1094
    @corvoattano1094 11 місяців тому +47

    Never expected Swoozie to get a documentary. It's cool to see how far he's come

  • @DZombieDragon
    @DZombieDragon 11 місяців тому +6

    Thanks for the video, Swoozie, the validation I’m feeling right now has made me feel so happy.
    I’m single, and I am happy to be single, to a point. But I do have times where I just wish I had someone I could cuddle up with at night.
    Even worse, my family loves to bring up the fact that I’m still single, that there’s clearly something I’m doing wrong to still be single in my 20s, but as much as I do want to find someone, I need to be ready for it. And even if I feel ready for it, it’s a whole new playing field for me, and I need to find someone I feel is right for me. And I’m willing to wait for that.

    • @animeartist888
      @animeartist888 11 місяців тому

      Tips from a happily married woman:
      You really shouldn't be dating if you aren't in a stable and healthy place yourself. If you have a serious mental health disorder that's currently unchecked, a financial situation that's on the rocks, etc, now is not the time. Don't stress yourself and your potential partner by trying to jump into a relationship you aren't ready for.
      Waiting for the right person is absolutely worth it. In the meantime, make friends instead. Who knows, maybe one of those friends will end up being a good fit for you romantically down the line. Having shared interests is always a good start for both kinds of relationships, after all. And the best kind of romances are the ones where you already care about each other and know a little about each other. You get to skip the awkward first few dates like you've used a cheat code.
      For the nighttime cuddles, get yourself one of those super big plushies. They're good to have as something to squeeze or as something to put up against your back while you sleep. It almost feels the same as having another person. And I don't care what gender you are, I'm sure you can still find one you like. So long as you take decently good care of it, it can last a lifetime and then some. Secondary plan- a warm and fuzzy pet like a dog or a cat that will sleep on the bed with you also helps. Camaraderie without the risk and stress of another human being involved. Generally more expensive than the plushie in the long run, but cheaper than dating.
      Best of luck!

  • @OmegaTou
    @OmegaTou 11 місяців тому +2

    Happiness is not a good goal, practicing gratitude so you can enjoy happiness when it happens is a better strategy. Happiness as a goal generally devolves into narcissistic hedonism.

    • @moethemoon
      @moethemoon 11 місяців тому +1

      Agree. I’ve never found anyone who agrees with me on this. I’d rather be content and grateful, but I don’t mind the neutral and challenging emotions. Plus, “happiness” is so vague, that’s why some chase it to perpetuity …

  • @JimmyJamesaustin
    @JimmyJamesaustin 11 місяців тому +13

    Reason I’m single is because it’s cheaper, no drama, it’s better mentally and physically but most of all no one is constantly up your rear end 24/7. I’ve seen how unhappy my cousin is in a toxic relationship and it’s changed him completely. And for that I’m proud to be single and I love the single life 😁😎💯

  • @tonynasaofficial
    @tonynasaofficial 11 місяців тому +14

    Being single is legit so underrated, I enjoty doing stuff without the worry of another person

  • @JAWS_2K
    @JAWS_2K 11 місяців тому +21

    Swoozie out here PREACHING. Too many people out here trying to date someone else to help them with their own baggage

  • @TFoxVA
    @TFoxVA 11 місяців тому +3

    I remember looking up to you for years, especially when i learned you were from TNT like my mother. I still remember when I messaged you on XBox asking if you like CoD and you actually messaged me back. You inspired me to want to be a youtuber.
    While it didnt work out for me, I was able to take your lessons of tenacity and apply it to my work and my education. I'll graduate in May and attained a high position at my office and I thank you for those subtle, and not so subtle lessons.

  • @jamierocke
    @jamierocke 11 місяців тому +7

    I’m single because I’m in a season of learning to be in a healthy loving relationship with myself 🥰

  • @jfalk2473
    @jfalk2473 11 місяців тому +30

    Swoozie hittin us with the REMIX!
    Relationships be hard. Trust be a big thing these days and not many people worth it - don't gotta change your positivity for nobody.

  • @dripplaflare3356
    @dripplaflare3356 11 місяців тому +25

    The reason why i stay single is because i simply dont hang around people like that, and besides im a drama-free person so honestly im not going for it 😂

  • @franklinreed7614
    @franklinreed7614 11 місяців тому +2

    I'm single because I spent my highschool years being socially inept, and I was too shy to talk to people. That coupled with my senior year being taken away by Covid, and moving after getting my GED, im not stuck with the few people I made friends with and two of them are my Exes. I'm single because I screwed myself and was too shy to meet people, and now ive moved away from all of my friends and I'm in a small town with no natural way to meet new people.
    I like to draw 👍

  • @attilathechilla.1383
    @attilathechilla.1383 11 місяців тому +1

    A lot of people are probably single because they just don't go out and meet new people. you have to find something that involves others to get a common ground and connect with people. it also helps if it gives you a 'useful' skill.

  • @AraujoOluap
    @AraujoOluap 11 місяців тому +69

    I'm single. Why? Life is expensive. My work is already making me lose my mind. Barely have any free time. So it will have to stay this way.

  • @CameraX_FNAF
    @CameraX_FNAF 11 місяців тому +41

    Swoozie is one of those people you can look up to from nearly every perspective. He's a successful guy with a stable career and mental health who can pull. We need more people like Swooze in life.

  • @SoulDragonWithFlow
    @SoulDragonWithFlow 11 місяців тому +267

    The reason I'm single is cos I'm heavily disabled and literally no one wants to/has to/should have to deal with that. But you do you.

    • @davidordaz5251
      @davidordaz5251 11 місяців тому +33

      Im disabled as well so makes it hard when being with friends or family since it makes you think your a crutch for people least thats what i always thought for myself

    • @AyumiDreemurr
      @AyumiDreemurr 11 місяців тому +13

      same, so im dreaming of anime husbandos , rip

    • @Dogo.R
      @Dogo.R 11 місяців тому +10

      Find someone like you. You arant alone in your situation so there is no reason to think that.

    • @XavierZara
      @XavierZara 11 місяців тому +23

      ​@@Dogo.Rand their caretakers will forever be third wheels, pun intended

    • @ArmstrongandTumbler
      @ArmstrongandTumbler 11 місяців тому +2

      I'm partially disabled, but live in an super expensive area. So my income means nothing and can't help me for dating when cheap beer on tap cost like 7 dollars.

  • @HarPaelTheMessenger
    @HarPaelTheMessenger 11 місяців тому +9

    Reason why I'm single? Im picky, and I'm also afraid that men who I talk to will turn out to be jerks. (Also I'm not putting myself out there, I still live with my parents, etc etc)

  • @CorVids1031
    @CorVids1031 11 місяців тому +1

    Can verify. Communication and accepting criticism is the key to a good romantic relationship. Everyone has arguments sometimes. No relationship is perfect, but the end goal should always be to improve your lives together.

  • @JoeKier7
    @JoeKier7 11 місяців тому +2

    This video is the latest in a long line of greats. Swoozie knows how to tell a story with great supporting animation!
    The documentary by/with UA-cam is very well done.

  • @serg.i0
    @serg.i0 11 місяців тому +30

    This was in my recommended thank you UA-cam (I am incredibly Lonely)

  • @charlesowusuansah5624
    @charlesowusuansah5624 11 місяців тому +18

    The reason why I’m single is because I’m not ready for a relationship yet, but when I’m ready I’m find someone.

    • @MoneyMan28
      @MoneyMan28 11 місяців тому +2

      You have to have a lot of money and time

  • @anyaaa2801
    @anyaaa2801 11 місяців тому +7

    3:21 HARD AGREE .
    Work on yourself first: your mental health, your academics, your finances, your happiness THEN get into a relationship 💜🔮.

  • @williampena197
    @williampena197 11 місяців тому +2

    I never committed to a relationship so that me it's like an alien learning this whole different side of the human experience

  • @MossyDawn
    @MossyDawn 11 місяців тому +1

    Not about romatic relationships but i've had a couple people try to tell me i can't handle critisism, but by that they actually meant i don't listen when they're sceaming at me at the top of their lungs. Bro I always try to take it to heart when peple come at me respectfuly.

  • @jordynsumter
    @jordynsumter 11 місяців тому +5

    Seeing the end about the UA-cam documentary really made me realize you influenced UA-cam animation creators. I’ve been watching you since 7th grade (2016-2017)and besides the fact that you’re entertaining and a great story teller I really loved your style of animation. I’m not 19 and still watch your videos lol and it barely feels like any time went by. You’re the longest I’ve been subscribed to someone.

    • @EmilyButikofer
      @EmilyButikofer 10 місяців тому

      I’ve been watching since 7th grade too! Crazy all these years have gone by

  • @andreahudson4842
    @andreahudson4842 11 місяців тому +17

    You brought up a lot of valid points in relationships and being single. Also congrats on the documentary!!!

  • @XSelfishxLittlexYouX
    @XSelfishxLittlexYouX 10 місяців тому +1

    I’m convinced the best people are single most of the time. 😂 there’s some WEIRDOS in relationships

  • @CrazyWarriorCatLady
    @CrazyWarriorCatLady 4 місяці тому

    You are right. Love takes work. You know when you’ve found your soulmate because you want to be a better person for them, and they do too.

  • @MarikuSalana
    @MarikuSalana 11 місяців тому +10

    My reason is that I hate physical contact. Can't do romantic stuff when the whole romance part is repulsive to one party. It wouldn't be fair to the other person in the relationship to only feel emotionally attracted.

    • @sexyscientist
      @sexyscientist 11 місяців тому

      I hope you'll find someone who will be okay in a relationship without physical contact.

    • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
      @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 11 місяців тому

      ​@@sexyscientistat that point you'd have to date asexuals

    • @sexyscientist
      @sexyscientist 11 місяців тому

      @@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Yes, I guess @MarikuSalana is ace.

  • @blueblazeflame
    @blueblazeflame 11 місяців тому +23

    The reason I’m single is because I want to work on myself before somebody else has to deal with me. I see a lot of my friends get into relationships and they never last, so I think I don’t want to deal with that until I am ready. And I enjoy it to be honest

  • @azimali322
    @azimali322 11 місяців тому +5

    It makes it so easy to plan your hobby like traveling without being concerned with another person.

  • @ninjagregshow9423
    @ninjagregshow9423 11 місяців тому +1

    Reason why I'm single, i'm awkward as hell,tried going to a bar, couldn't work up the courage to talk to anyone; because I psych myself out, I can't stop thinking about the millions of way this could blow up in my face "what do I say? What if she's in a relationship? What if she's batting for the other team? What if I come as an awkward dork-a-doofus? What if I can't think of anything to say, what if the conversation is boring what if I annoy her or piss her off?" And probably a million more questions but things like online dating or speed dating, different problems I think things are going great but apparently not because I get no numbers and with online dating we'll talk back and fourth for a while and then she disappears into the nebulous void

  • @jasonbudhram4151
    @jasonbudhram4151 11 місяців тому +806

    This is easily the most relatable video I have ever seen IN MY LIFE. 🫶🏽🫡

    • @FNO.MH_
      @FNO.MH_ 11 місяців тому +5

      I just came out of school🗿

    • @O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O
      @O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O 11 місяців тому +4

      It was a half day at school for me

    • @ProperCaveMan
      @ProperCaveMan 11 місяців тому +4

      I JUST GOT OUT OF CLASS

    • @Cadence2
      @Cadence2 11 місяців тому

      I completed all my work so I got to leave school early.

  • @lucasexplainsfunfacts
    @lucasexplainsfunfacts 11 місяців тому +7

    On my life I broke up yesterday, this video couldn’t have been more perfectly timed that this. Thank you Swooz!

  • @jtrcuber1102
    @jtrcuber1102 11 місяців тому +6

    Singleness is a gift

  • @ambientsoundwave6476
    @ambientsoundwave6476 11 місяців тому +7

    The way he presents information is dope. Very good storytelling and explaining skillz....

  • @calula7873
    @calula7873 7 місяців тому

    THIS VIDEO WAS SO PERSONAL AND SO RELATABLE TO ME, THIS MADE ME THINK WHY I WANT TO BE SINGLE.
    THANK YOU SWOOZIE, YOU’RE A REAL HERO

  • @moistsquish
    @moistsquish 11 місяців тому +1

    Reason im single:
    Ppl just dont find me attractive, i dont put myself out there, and am not very sexual and get bored easily so thats a KO for me

  • @timdang3655
    @timdang3655 11 місяців тому +6

    The real reason why I'm single is because I pretty much need to learn how to catch people lying before I can even date. People nowadays can try to snake you. That and girl's standards (particularly in western society) are higher than gas prices, my car insurance and credit card bills. Owning multiple cars is much easier than dating.

  • @mrtrumpeter7113
    @mrtrumpeter7113 11 місяців тому +5

    The documentary was dope as hell, dude. Ain't no one that deserved it more than you, congrats!

  • @imilumines5419
    @imilumines5419 11 місяців тому +4

    Swoozie always gotta expose his fans but that’s why he’s the goat

  • @gisellelozano1998
    @gisellelozano1998 10 місяців тому +1

    25 and single. I’m still figuring myself out and I know I have a ways to go before I feel complete in myself. Hook up culture doesn’t really work for me or make myself feel good. I want monogamy but I’m not racing to marriage and I don’t see kids in my future. Guess that’s why I’m single🤷‍♀️

  • @lonewolfzerochannel9670
    @lonewolfzerochannel9670 11 місяців тому +1

    You know I thought this video was gonna be a legit video on reasons why you are single, but I vibe with this shit not gonna lie. It really motivated me to continue doing what I am doing and I'll find someone eventually.

  • @pragyasingh2297
    @pragyasingh2297 11 місяців тому +4

    Swoozie, you just called me out in 15 ways. Biggest reason for me right now is my last person giving me trust issues bc I really thought he was my forever person. Regardless, being single can bring so much joy and opportunity for self reflection which I genuinely appreciate

  • @Rhapsody_
    @Rhapsody_ 11 місяців тому +7

    The reasons I'm single: According to what has been said directly to my face...in a nutshell - I'm ugly. Boring. Too short. Too nerdy. Too nice. Too much of an introverted homebody who doesn't enjoy clubbing and drinking. "Neither tall, dark, nor handsome."
    In a nutshell...

    • @GreenBayPayton
      @GreenBayPayton 11 місяців тому +2

      Same exact thing for me lol

    • @BeeLy1011
      @BeeLy1011 11 місяців тому

      Some people are into nerds, there's always a chance ❤

  • @lanako18
    @lanako18 11 місяців тому +14

    hello all my single friends 😭

  • @lisanidog8178
    @lisanidog8178 11 місяців тому +1

    Since when do people have to explain, defend, justify, or apologize for being single to busy bodies who seem to want to control what others do.

  • @smtoonentertainment
    @smtoonentertainment 11 місяців тому +1

    Hard to find a partner who doesn’t want kids too. I feel truly sorry for those out in the dating world having to find a partner without kids. It’s a mess out there.

  • @anyaaa2801
    @anyaaa2801 11 місяців тому +4

    7:46 CONGRATULATIONS BROOO

  • @billnotgates
    @billnotgates 11 місяців тому +10

    The timing of this was immaculate. Me and bro was just beefing about me being single and the GOD decided to bless us with this ❤😂

  • @sweetvoic3s
    @sweetvoic3s 11 місяців тому +4

    You’re amazing! I loved watching your stuff when I was younger ❤

  • @CopyKitties
    @CopyKitties 6 місяців тому

    I 100% agree on accepting criticism. My best friend once told me “communication is sexy,” and it’s the best relationship advice I’ve ever gotten. My partner and I have very open communication (at least I like to think so) and I think it has made our relationship last as long as it has. He has helped me become a better person, and I’ve noticed that he opens up to me more and tells me when he’s uncomfortable, and that makes me happy. (If anyone’s interested, we’re closing in on two years together 🥰)

  • @underground868
    @underground868 11 місяців тому +1

    I'm single because I have trust issues. My parents and friends have all been in toxic relationships that ended poorly or good relationships that ended without warning. I acknowledge that its unhealthy to not let anyone in and to deny yourself joy and love. It’s one my biggest struggles in life.

  • @anaarias1993
    @anaarias1993 11 місяців тому +6

    Just recently I’m no longer single 🥰🥰 happily taken. Still gotta watch this video 🙌🏼🤣

  • @lilypines5669
    @lilypines5669 11 місяців тому +5

    Wonderful, hope for your success.
    P.s. Relationships are work and people are work

  • @Goofyahh-mn4ti
    @Goofyahh-mn4ti 11 місяців тому +4

    The reason I’m single is because my girlfriend cheated on me on her horrible ass ex who treated her like shit. And then she proceeded to talk shit about me even though I was adored her till I found out the truth. She apologized for her actions but watch out for some girls/boys guys. (Also she liked someone else while she was dating me)

  • @marche800
    @marche800 11 місяців тому +2

    Where do you find the time to have all these experiences in your life. My man is really making the most of his life, I love to see it

  • @prism058
    @prism058 11 місяців тому +3

    reason why I’m single: I’m 14

  • @Blacknight6577
    @Blacknight6577 11 місяців тому +12

    When I was single it was because I was too nervous to ask a girl out, I was friend zoned, and/or I didn’t meet “expectations”. Although I remember when my female friends asked me why I was still single and I would respond saying “I’m over qualified” 😂.
    If anything, even though I was friend zoned I still got some from a few of them… Wait so I’m good to be ur friend, hear all ur problems, give advice that they only took half of them cus stupid, and I’m good enough to be a booty call, BUT not good enough to take the next level…. Well I’m married so whatever and we’re giving each other all the goods 😊

    • @mario125ww
      @mario125ww 11 місяців тому +2

      Getting friendzone is better than nothing. It means people see you a cool guy to talk to. For me, I just get rejected like I never want to see you again.

  • @jawedt9317
    @jawedt9317 11 місяців тому +5

    Thanks for reminding me I’m not the only single head out there. Social media making me believe when I’m single, nobody is single LOL

  • @Super-Animation
    @Super-Animation 11 місяців тому

    I'm so happy I came across this video. I really needed some validation. Both of my siblings are in relationships and plan to bring their partners to family holiday events. I couldn't help but feel left out. But, when I really thought about it, I was like, "Who am I fooling? Being in a relationship requires effort I am not ready to give."

  • @charlesvictoria6800
    @charlesvictoria6800 Місяць тому

    “It’s better to love and lost than not to love at all”
    Please. Tis better to have money than be broke at all.

  • @janicesmall5083
    @janicesmall5083 11 місяців тому +7

    Being single has its pros and cons 😅

  • @berserktheii8952
    @berserktheii8952 11 місяців тому +4

    swoozie really hit us with reality

  • @valiantstride9757
    @valiantstride9757 11 місяців тому +32

    He needs more flowers! This man has been providing top quality animations and stories for years. S/o to sWooZie

  • @morgan_c
    @morgan_c 11 місяців тому +3

    I’m in a long-term, very happy relationship but I love Swoozie so I’m watching anything he’s uploading Lmao

  • @dan7heman56
    @dan7heman56 10 місяців тому +1

    Jesus the accuracy in this is so real I asked my doctor if it was okay to finish this video 😂😂😂

  • @Secarious
    @Secarious 11 місяців тому +1

    Omg yes... no one can listen to flaws about themselves. The level of maturity in people is frustrating sometimes. There some people that you cannot suggest a single bit of criticism too or they just go off.
    And I try very hard not to be those people. I have gone through hell and high water to better some of my awful emotional habbits. And I try really hard to listen if someone I trust tells me something I need to think about bettering.

  • @anyaaa2801
    @anyaaa2801 11 місяців тому +5

    Yes. I’m a hermit. Yes. I’m single af.

  • @Tomy_Yon
    @Tomy_Yon 11 місяців тому +5

    I'm single by choice. I don't own plants, pets, or children. I do have a guitar and a piano. 😊

  • @JaydenLevineDarkZlade
    @JaydenLevineDarkZlade 11 місяців тому +8

    I’m not single but here I am anyway
    Edit: Still found helpful 💪🏽 11:34