Put yourself in his shoes….. if he asked you did you want a purse or something and he took two weeks to get it for you how would you feel? I’ve been married for 21 years and have learned it’s a give and a take and if I want to stay happy I have to keep him happy as well as he do for me. That’s when that 50/50 kicks in and that communication skill becomes your friend.❤
Yes, you are rude to ask knowing you are not going to make the food that he would like. Think of the situation if it was the other way around. Just don’t ask, like you said, there is food being served no matter what. Then, follow that saying, and stop asking. 😒
Don't ask him if you're not going to prepare it for him we need to remember to be loving caring women that they want to come home to you don't need to give him all the smoke remember he gets that all day everyday at work from people on the streets he doesn't need it when he comes home he needs a loving warm caring environment
You need. To take his feelings into consideration just as well.As he takes yours into consideration.Whatever you want, he makes sure he gets it.That's why marriages don't last one side. D Ijs
@@kelleedevore41 you was the only person that listened lol I always make the meals. It just takes me a while to make them because he has a list of meals lol 😂
I can see where your husband's coming from because you're asking him what he wants to eat so he's thinking you're meaning raping in there not 2 weeks or in the future but what does he want to eat at that moment So I can understand why he would kind of be a little irritated but at the same time I understand why you would be a little agitated as well because there are so many women that don't cook for their man that don't make sure that they eat home cooked meals so it's almost like just be grateful that I do cook and make sure you have these meals but I'm still taking the time out of my day to cook you maybe you should just approach the situation different from now on ask them hey what is something you've been craving lately? or what is something you've been in the mood for lately? That way he's not getting his health stuff thinking he's going to get what he wants that night. 🤣
I'm on his side.
@@timothyhawkins1556 I’m actually on his side as well
I would definitely feel how he feel.
I'm glad to see you held yourself accountable in your marriage, I don't see much of that in married women anymore.
@@jcooper3939 I try to be aware of my shortcomings
Hell yeah I’ll feel the same way. Why you playing with him 😂 you making him crave whatever he asked you for even more. 😢
@@JoJo-op5xy the more he crave the better it would be.
Put yourself in his shoes….. if he asked you did you want a purse or something and he took two weeks to get it for you how would you feel?
I’ve been married for 21 years and have learned it’s a give and a take and if I want to stay happy I have to keep him happy as well as he do for me. That’s when that 50/50 kicks in and that communication skill becomes your friend.❤
Did I get the purse? 🤷🏽♀️ Then I'm grateful. It's not the same, food requests are for that day
Don’t ask, if you’re not going to prepare the meal for your husband!
Yes, you are rude to ask knowing you are not going to make the food that he would like. Think of the situation if it was the other way around. Just don’t ask, like you said, there is food being served no matter what. Then, follow that saying, and stop asking. 😒
Don't ask him if you're not going to prepare it for him we need to remember to be loving caring women that they want to come home to you don't need to give him all the smoke remember he gets that all day everyday at work from people on the streets he doesn't need it when he comes home he needs a loving warm caring environment
You missed me holding myself accountable?
@@Toni.Elizabethafter giving him attitude and doing it over and over again.
@@Dontloo0kplz lol I said I was with the smoke but I digressed lol meaning took a sept back lol took accountability lol.
@@Dontloo0kplzyou act like it's your husband calm down
@@wilinafranklin5903 and youre defending her like shes gonna let you sleep with him. relax.
His side on this
I’m on his side too, I also don’t have a time limit on when I should cook the meal. I ask because I want to know what’s on his mind as far as meals.
@@Toni.Elizabethand he told you and you waited two weeks…..?
@@Dontloo0kplz no it’s just a video lol don’t get uptight about it.
@ no one’s uptight. You posted the video. Asked for opinions then get mad when people share that opinion
@@Dontloo0kplz lol 😂
Ma'am? 2 weeks later 🤣🤣
Your husband is right & he needs to hold you accountable. I'm on his side. He's right. Why would you ask him, if you know you're not going to make it?
You need.
To take his feelings into consideration just as well.As he takes yours into consideration.Whatever you want, he makes sure he gets it.That's why marriages don't last one side.
D Ijs
At least you make it lol. And this looks delicious
@@kelleedevore41 you was the only person that listened lol I always make the meals. It just takes me a while to make them because he has a list of meals lol 😂
Yes
Ummmm yes ma'am
UA-cam keeps deleting 😡 my comments but yes I’m on his side.
@@JoJo-op5xy I get it I’m on his side too
Yeah I’d feel the same way cuz what you asking for? Just to say you did?
Stop asking if he's hungry and wants to eat he'll eat what you made
Damn 2-weeks 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Dre.Day8653 lol 😂 I I had other food I wanted to make OK
Be accountable, that's the problem with women today. Afraid to take accountability. My wife works and ask me what i want to eat on a basis.
You make him what he wants If your asking, and still get upset. I would go get my own food. Since your not making wat you ask him wat to eat.
I mean da,n why you acting like somebody mamas
Toxic 😂
I can see where your husband's coming from because you're asking him what he wants to eat so he's thinking you're meaning raping in there not 2 weeks or in the future but what does he want to eat at that moment So I can understand why he would kind of be a little irritated but at the same time I understand why you would be a little agitated as well because there are so many women that don't cook for their man that don't make sure that they eat home cooked meals so it's almost like just be grateful that I do cook and make sure you have these meals but I'm still taking the time out of my day to cook you maybe you should just approach the situation different from now on ask them hey what is something you've been craving lately? or what is something you've been in the mood for lately? That way he's not getting his health stuff thinking he's going to get what he wants that night. 🤣
Duh that’s dumb why even ask him! Thats like your man saying hey bae get red hair and you come in with blonde😭😭😭 tf like was you even listening 🤯
I'm on his side.