The Journey & Its Obstacles | Dream Life Series 🌻

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  • As you create your dream life, there's no doubt you will encounter obstacles, challenges, failure and difficulties along your journey. Are you prepared? Here are my five things to keep in mind to help you stay on course with your dreams.
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    // 5 things to keep in mind throughout your journey
    1. It’s about STAMINA [0:32]
    2. Rethink mistakes & failures [1:06]
    3. Conscious steering [2:11]
    4. Self-Forgiveness [3:24]
    5. Comparison is the thief of joy [4:38]
    And remember: KEEP GOING, NO MATTER WHAT 💪 You got this. I believe in you. I love you. Now go out there and SHINE 🌟
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    The Dream Life Series is a FREE 10-part video and email course with worksheets & journal prompts to guide you step-by-step on how you can create your dream life.
    This series will give you the tools and strategies you'll need to take control of your life and steer it in any direction you choose.
    At the end of the series, you'll have more clarity, direction, and motivation to create your best life.
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  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  5 років тому +11

    If you're looking to go deeper into each topic of the Dream Life Series, check out the Create Your Dream Life Course!
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    It's the first ever Lavendaire course! - A six-week, interactive program to help you discover your true potential, release your fears & make your dream life a reality. Just like the Dream Life Series, it features the different aspects of creating your dream life (with worksheets, exercises, and journaling prompts), but the course is more structured and detailed, with a guided experience. Essentially, it's the next step up from the series!
    PLUS: It's been over a year since I created the Dream Life Series, so I've personally learned so much more about life and the artist of life journey. I'll be sharing those new exclusive insights in the course, so don't miss out!

  • @Passionfruitdiy
    @Passionfruitdiy 6 років тому +54

    I feel like I need this series to be a daily thing because it just brightens up my day! 💖

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  6 років тому +2

      PassionFruit DIY 🤗✨

  • @alyssaj5438
    @alyssaj5438 6 років тому +30

    living breathing and dying for the aesthetic

  •  6 років тому +16

    This conscious steering part got me, real. I've always steemed my hability to try again, I even wrote on the journal prompt about my strenghts my ''perseverance'' as one of them, but I realized watching this video that most of the times I've been just doing the same things over and over again, expecting to get different results thinking I've got better at that with the experience. I really need to evaluate this behavior 😅😅
    Thank you, Aileen, for these amazing reflections. This videos are just on point!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  6 років тому +2

      This is a breakthrough! So proud of you ✨✨

  • @consistentlychristy2991
    @consistentlychristy2991 6 років тому +14

    I love everything coming out of your mouth. Thing with envy, its pointless because their life is that way because of choices they made and yours is the way it is because of choices you made. And you can choose to change, choose to do something, to make something of your own. Do your own thing and let everyone else keep theirs

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  6 років тому +1

      Consistently Christy yes, totally right ✨

  • @ShimmerGirlzbeauty
    @ShimmerGirlzbeauty 6 років тому +8

    such a positive vibe i get from u, and u make me smile all the time, I love u too :)

  • @TypischSissi
    @TypischSissi 6 років тому +6

    Thank you for this powerful video! 🙌🏼

  • @RB-mj7mp
    @RB-mj7mp 6 років тому +1

    What helps me when I find myself comparing myself to others is often times people's lives aren't exactly how they appear on the surface. Not to diminish their happiness & success, but behind every happy & successful person is bad days and struggles. We're all just trying to find our way through life. Most people only showcase the good things. So we can't read into that too much!

  • @SunshineSM877
    @SunshineSM877 6 років тому +2

    Life is a Marathon, not a sprint. Needed to hear that. ❤❤

  • @Piquetures
    @Piquetures 6 років тому +55

    Constant re-evaluation and experimentation has helped me to keep going because without them I feel like I can’t see progress 😊 love all the advice as per usual Aileen!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  6 років тому

      Piquetures by Nomi yes! ❤️❤️

  • @katrinafreeman7562
    @katrinafreeman7562 6 років тому +1

    this is so special to me ❤️ I’ll be moving far from home soon, alone at sixteen, against my parents’ wishes. I know what I’m doing is best for me, and best for them too. I am afraid of failure and having to admit I was wrong, but I’m hopeful that I can do it. I envy success, happiness and freedom of those around me, and that is exactly what I’m about to chase.

  • @ohpinkiepie
    @ohpinkiepie 6 років тому +1

    My goodness, you look SO GOOD. Very few people look this nice in yellow

  • @nurrachmahakim3468
    @nurrachmahakim3468 6 років тому +5

    Love the messages❤❤❤
    It reminds me about my last problem. I lose my patient's document several days ago. It was my mistake, I realize I'm careless. I felt really stress out because that document is really important for my study. But life must go on. I decide to letting go, forgive my self, and treat another patient to make new patient's case report. I believe that there is a value we can learn from mistake we made in the past. Take a lesson and never do the same mistake twice.

  • @paty1035
    @paty1035 6 років тому +1

    Accepting failure is one of the hardest things for me even though I know it's part of the process...

  • @hridayashreeboruah1928
    @hridayashreeboruah1928 6 років тому +5

    I just wish this dream life series never ends... helping me learn new things about life everyday 🌻🌻❤❤
    Thankyou Aileen for this🌻❤

  • @lazyyethealthy9230
    @lazyyethealthy9230 6 років тому +1

    I really liked how you said we should treat envy. Now I am going to create an 'envy' series in my journal ✌

  • @tbird2516
    @tbird2516 6 років тому +1

    This really resonated with me. So many times I get stuck doing the same thing, thinking things will change or fall in to place for me, but I have to make the change. I need to challenge myself. Thank you!

  • @Eryclee
    @Eryclee 6 років тому +1

    Thank you! You're always here with your tips when it's needed ♡

  • @jadeskelton8687
    @jadeskelton8687 6 років тому +2

    You're one of my favorite UA-camrs

  • @LauraAdams173
    @LauraAdams173 6 років тому +1

    You are AWESOME Aileen. Thank you for this series!!

  • @ADea-hp3uz
    @ADea-hp3uz 5 років тому

    You are amazing Aileen, thank you so much for sharing this message. I definitely needed this and you gave me some awareness about my journey of doing the research and writing my thesis. 🌻💖

  • @nikeardila9460
    @nikeardila9460 6 років тому +1

    I love the way you talk and your inner beauty 💓

  • @foreveraia3251
    @foreveraia3251 6 років тому

    Dear Aileen, everytime I feel down and unmotivated, I just have to watch your videos to get my groove back. I will always be grateful to you ❤

  • @gurkhaarmyinterview6143
    @gurkhaarmyinterview6143 5 років тому

    Thankyou Aileen! Again thankyou for inspiring all of us. Keep doing great work!

  • @michi8953
    @michi8953 6 років тому +2

    Thank you Aileen. I’m having a hard time right now. During your video, each tip encouraged me so much.!

  • @pragyabharti4587
    @pragyabharti4587 6 років тому +2

    As I am writing all the task u give I am really feeling the real me and my path and uniqueness of it! Thanks Aileen u have chose a great way of doing that and I'm grateful to u! love u💖

  • @trupscorner2989
    @trupscorner2989 6 років тому +1

    Super positive soul... Your voice just trigger me always to do my best... Always listen your podcast for that reason

  • @Linamac4
    @Linamac4 6 років тому +7

    That color suits you so well. Gorgeous. Thanks for this type of content. IT'S PRICELESS

  • @mistice9843
    @mistice9843 6 років тому +1

    This is soo essential! Dream life series is getting to its best with every episode💜
    Keep going,
    Love you💕💕

  • @seigiaiko9340
    @seigiaiko9340 6 років тому +1

    My fav by far. Thank you.

  • @celinemiranda-lagunilla7719
    @celinemiranda-lagunilla7719 6 років тому +1

    This was really timely for me - most especially #5 "Comparison is the thief of Joy." Keep inspiring a lot of us out there, darling

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  6 років тому

      That ones so important!!

  • @ladycynthian
    @ladycynthian 6 років тому

    I NEEDED to hear this!! Thank you Aileen!!! 💕💕💕💕
    This is one of favorite videos from you!!! I’m going to save this to a playlist!

  • @sola3782
    @sola3782 6 років тому +1

    oh my gosh this video came just in time😂😂 I seriously needed these reminders
    lots of love! 🌻

  • @unicornpink7953
    @unicornpink7953 6 років тому +7

    You're amazing! You've actually helped me so much

  • @basketballeko588
    @basketballeko588 6 років тому +2

    Thanks for the encouragement Aileen.

  • @Aishamgulmutallip
    @Aishamgulmutallip 6 років тому +3

    You are so inspiring....thank you very much..never stop even one small step for every day.....forgive yourself....let.self criticism out of the door....all of them just for me....

  • @thewordseamstress
    @thewordseamstress 6 років тому

    I needed to hear that about self-forgiveness and moving one. Love your videos.

  • @kidexet
    @kidexet 6 років тому

    I needed this. I failed a really big exam and I feel like my world is falling appart. I lost my passion for what I do. I lost any will to continue. I know inside me that this is a bad attitutde... I am working on myself and on my self love right now. Thank you for putting these pieces of advise right when I needed them the most.

  • @aliciatrombly6935
    @aliciatrombly6935 6 років тому +2

    Just caught up with these videos! Loving this series! Thank you Aileen!!! You’re amazing! 💗

  • @wilsongabes
    @wilsongabes 6 років тому

    I NEED THAT BLOUSE! I love it

  • @HitouchLIFE
    @HitouchLIFE 5 років тому +1

    I love this series!

  • @saymasultana7222
    @saymasultana7222 6 років тому +1

    You always make me think positive no matter what the situation is. Thank you thank you so much!! 💜💜

  • @iamusingyoutube1
    @iamusingyoutube1 6 років тому +4

    I needed it and I learned a lot. Thank You !

  • @yaqeensnipes2451
    @yaqeensnipes2451 6 років тому +4

    You are spitting knowledge left and right! The tips you give are tips I myself know, but to hear it from someone else and from a different perspective gives me such a boost. Keep up the good work. I

  • @greekwithnelly8194
    @greekwithnelly8194 6 років тому

    The best series ever !

  • @samyukthayogendra2088
    @samyukthayogendra2088 6 років тому

    Thank you so much Aileen 💞

  • @isabellat.7011
    @isabellat.7011 6 років тому +1

    thank you thank you thank you! this is truly meaningful to me. something happened to me a couple of weeks ago, something small but it got me thinking about myself and how I wish to be seen by others. I had this deep unpleasant feeling of envy towards someone I didn't even know. at first it made me really sad because I started to think about all the things I don't have, but then I flipped it into something positive and I thought you know what? this just means that you want to grow and get better. you just know what you want and you're ready to work for it. I think your video is the way of the universe to tell me I was right. also, I've been thinking a lot about forgiving myself and finding a different and smarter way to get where I want to so it just feels like you knew what was in my mind. thank you💓

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  6 років тому

      Isabel wow yes! So proud of your growth and realization ✨

  • @user-pv7mr3um8w
    @user-pv7mr3um8w 6 років тому +1

    Now I'm free about exams and I can watch all your videos 💚🙆 Thanks you so much for giving us a lof of you at this series I really appreciate all what you do and you always inspire me 💚🙆

  • @ashveenkaur6659
    @ashveenkaur6659 6 років тому +3

    These series are love😙

  • @ambermac77
    @ambermac77 6 років тому +1

    I just joined the email list! This series has been so inspiring!! Thanks Aileen. 💖😘

  • @AlexandreaAnissa1
    @AlexandreaAnissa1 6 років тому +1

    Yellow looks so good on you!

  • @ririrodriguez3395
    @ririrodriguez3395 6 років тому +4

    This is Lavendaire gold! 💛 such good and helpful advice. I’m loving the worksheets as part of my mid year review. I would add with regards to comparison, that yes we feel bad about ourselves Or we feel proud if we think we’re doing better than others- so looking down on ourselves (condemnation) or others (pride), both are bad outcomes of the comparison trap. Looking forward to the next video! 🙌🏽🌻

  • @hananekiskou5721
    @hananekiskou5721 6 років тому +1

    Hiii Aileen ! Thanks for making this valuable video , i really need it :)

  • @hongngocothi3297
    @hongngocothi3297 6 років тому

    OMG Aileen. You're absolutely gorgeous with this hair style. ❤❤

  • @loveforvlogschannel7721
    @loveforvlogschannel7721 6 років тому

    Thank you once again 💕 I can't wait for more series 😘

  • @bp2577
    @bp2577 6 років тому

    This is so timely for me. Thank you so much!! Great video!

  • @kriserlapauladelarosa8763
    @kriserlapauladelarosa8763 3 роки тому +1

    This made me cry thank you

  • @boosyboo350
    @boosyboo350 6 років тому

    🌻 i needed this

  • @windtemps3567
    @windtemps3567 6 років тому

    Thank you Aileen! This is so inspiring 😍

  • @terrifiser8973
    @terrifiser8973 5 років тому +1

    your videos are helping me so much!
    kind greetings from czech republic xx

  • @estieec6575
    @estieec6575 6 років тому +1

    My daily dose of motivation💜

  • @nurulpermatasuri6116
    @nurulpermatasuri6116 6 років тому +3

    Like always, i love your video so much💙

  • @user-cu1lj2eg5e
    @user-cu1lj2eg5e 6 років тому +1

    Thanks for the inspiration I might need this in these days

  • @EvaAntonia1
    @EvaAntonia1 6 років тому +1

    Thank you so much!! I think, this was something I needed to hear!^^

  • @taniavaz1204
    @taniavaz1204 6 років тому +1

    I Love this series
    Thank you

  • @diamondgirl1941
    @diamondgirl1941 3 роки тому

    Thank~you Lavendaire, 💗

  • @NurAtika--T
    @NurAtika--T 6 років тому +1

    Thank you for your tips, you're very helpful😊

  • @lallynor326
    @lallynor326 6 років тому +1

    Aleen you bring me joy ..... love .... happiness ... thank you a lot for those videos 💕💕💕💕 i lov u

  • @itsrychelle
    @itsrychelle 6 років тому +4

    You inspire me so much! I’m only 14 (15 in two weeks) and I’m writing a book and designing clothes! Thank you so much!!!

    • @ms.5779
      @ms.5779 6 років тому +2

      Monica Ra'Chelle great!! Your young enough to make (& bounce back w/ time) mistakes but wise enough to learn from them, evolve and create magnificent work!! I'm proud of you, you have a great future

    • @itsrychelle
      @itsrychelle 6 років тому +1

      Ms. Green Thank you so much!! 💖

  • @damlanana7942
    @damlanana7942 6 років тому

    this video is sure to lead to some changes in my life
    thank you so much
    loves from turkey😊

  • @mialynnrivera3700
    @mialynnrivera3700 6 років тому +1

    Omg you look very beautiful! Idk if it's the blouse or something else but you look very radiant! I had to mention it. Great video by the way! Thank you for the tips!

  • @ludoviquedagloria3025
    @ludoviquedagloria3025 6 років тому

    Thank you♥

  • @ayuprabandari5039
    @ayuprabandari5039 6 років тому +1

    thank you Aileen :)

  • @anyaindra
    @anyaindra 6 років тому +2

    ive been so hard on myself lately, and i fell like im losing mysel a lil bit. but this video helps me a lot! thankyou!! loveu!!! sending u a huge hug from Indonesia!

  • @Amythestz
    @Amythestz 6 років тому +6

    Omg you're almost at 600k! 💕

  • @corinalushi2612
    @corinalushi2612 6 років тому +2

    This is one of your best videos so far ☺ thank you, and very interesting the idea of keeping track in a notebook of my mistakes and what i learned from them . Hugs from italy

  • @beautifulmindpodcast
    @beautifulmindpodcast 6 років тому

    Thank you. This is great. Sending you lots of love.♡♡♡♡♡

  • @kuinimeritalo1566
    @kuinimeritalo1566 6 років тому

    Thank you for sharing Aileen

  • @selinarajwadi9558
    @selinarajwadi9558 6 років тому +1

    Self-forgiveness is imp.thx for this.
    U really inspire us.😊👍

  • @sunnyyyyyyyy01
    @sunnyyyyyyyy01 6 років тому

    Just wanted to thank you for your videos.❤️ they are so inspiring and well-made!!! the series came in a time in my life where I needed it the most too:)

  • @dehandrysjourneyinChrist
    @dehandrysjourneyinChrist 6 років тому +1

    Awesome video! This can help me to change my mindset. That top is really cute btw 💕

  • @jennyamaro7612
    @jennyamaro7612 3 роки тому +1

    This is so cool!

  • @chrisellellesirhc26
    @chrisellellesirhc26 6 років тому +2

    About to take my first steps towards working as a nurse! Thank you for this Aileen! 💕💓 Your vids always come at the best times!

    • @trupscorner2989
      @trupscorner2989 6 років тому +1

      nightingale hey congratulations... Good luck girl...

    • @chrisellellesirhc26
      @chrisellellesirhc26 6 років тому

      trups corner 💓💓💓 Thank you so much! 😭😊

  • @bakedmoments6959
    @bakedmoments6959 6 років тому +8

    I love your hairstyle and colour ❤️ I’m really into the videos you’re making so thank you. Love from New Brunswick 🇨🇦

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  6 років тому +1

      Catherine ❤️❤️ thank you!

  • @elisalecrin
    @elisalecrin 6 років тому

    I'm loving it 🌻

  • @nabilanusrat9845
    @nabilanusrat9845 6 років тому

    You are best ❤️ thank you

  • @milo_activated
    @milo_activated 6 років тому

    I love this series, it's so helpful! ❤️💕❣️

  • @michellemalonza
    @michellemalonza 6 років тому

    This video was so good and so helpful, thank you so much :)

  • @remyajose7368
    @remyajose7368 6 років тому +1

    you believe it or not ,I dreamed you yesterday..😀😀we are improving with your content Aileen. Thank you

  • @shashanktiwari7864
    @shashanktiwari7864 6 років тому

    You motivate me so much love you

  • @JustephanieLee
    @JustephanieLee 6 років тому +1

    Thankyou dear for always motivating us ! And goodluck t0o for your journey

  • @isabellapattinson1437
    @isabellapattinson1437 6 років тому +1

    Thank you for the video. It was a really inspiring video with very helpful advices and tips. By the way you look really beautiful and bright today. Love you and love your channel.

  • @tania0693
    @tania0693 6 років тому +3

    You are wonderful😍 Love from Romania💓💚

  • @ysmjohan
    @ysmjohan 6 років тому +1

    I force myself to watch your series because ik this series is gonna help me 🐅🐅

  • @NekoDarlings
    @NekoDarlings 6 років тому +1

    Thank you for the tips

  • @IamKudos
    @IamKudos 6 років тому +7

    Amazing advice Lavendaire! Loved the stamina part and things are altering me in that way :) thank you ❤

  • @lsidjhgoshg
    @lsidjhgoshg 6 років тому +2

    Great video and uplifting advises :)

  • @karienbadenhorst7265
    @karienbadenhorst7265 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you ;)

  • @yelash
    @yelash 6 років тому

    Now I know what to do this weekend! This series has helped me alot! I was wondering if you could do an adulting video...love your vids!🌻❤

  • @ciel222
    @ciel222 6 років тому

    FANTASTIC VIDEO