When She Says "I'm Single By Choice" ©
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- Опубліковано 16 вер 2024
- Over 30, Attractive, & Single AF
"He didn't work out"
"He wasn't on my level"
"He wanted multiple women"
"He wanted me to ......."
"I'm single by choice"
Okay now you are over 30, attractive, and single AF now what?
What are your plans since you can't find a man?
Now what?
I didn’t discover Kevin until after he had moved on. What I wouldn’t do for a 1 hour session. Kevin, wherever you are, thank you for your legacy.
Same brother, I heard of him before his passing but didn’t start listening til the last 6 months, and I’d have happily dropped the g to have that hour with him.
I would argue Kevin is one of the sharpest minds of the 21st century, he single-handedly spearheaded this philosophy through UA-cam, the sheer amount of videos he pumped out. It was about time for someone to have the courage and surface this information because feminism diluted society.
He's in OG Heavan
U not single by choice. U are single because of your choices . Thats dope
So untrue!! Single by choice and really loving it. Not all women want to be married or in a relationship. I promise you!!
I hear u
So true!
@@valarieivory1082 the lie you tell yourself
@@valarieivory1082 Why don't u want to get married? How old are u?
I c females with kids don't want male leadership but when things get rough they complain "I am tired of being strong all the time"
!!!!!
Facts.
Going thru that right now with my bm and 13 yr old daughter to the point i had to leave
@@sportstalkwithzo3707 Smart move.
@whiteranger79 you hit that right on the head! Damn I’ve heard that sentence throughout my entire life! My family is (my generation) full of half bro’s and sisters who all grew up without dads and we all received the same story about those men not being worth a damn. I held it down as the oldest of three kids in my moms household..worked a job and bought my first car, moved into my own place at 18, joined the military at 21, and have lived in Germany since 2011 when I left the Army at 26. I literally morphed into my dad, who is an awesome guy and shares so much in common with me! I am close with him now and it’s crazy to see how we are the only ones in such good standing with each other, while my cousins brothers and sister are all attempting to live life without ever reaching out to learn about their fathers! It’s a shame..I remember being at the thanksgiving dinner when I was 17 hearing my aunts and my mom disrespecting one of my cousins dads..at one point I snapped and said that it’s ironic that all of us have piece of shit dads yet all of us are 1/2 siblings and none of the women in our family are married! Of course everyone got pissed at me EXCEPT my grandfather who shut everything down after he took my side. Too many females think they can raise kids alone..it’s BS. Kids need both influences in order to fully develop. My mom still pumps her chest about how we turned out, but I’d like to say that she is very lucky that I was her oldest child.. my siblings had a big shoe to fill by me setting a high standard and now all of us are well off! Interesting point about how I set the standard: I always sought out guidance from strong professional men and emulated the values that they displayed to get good results in my life as a man! All those gems of wisdom that helped me get to where I am today came from decent men who took me under their wing and set me up for success.
Kevin is low key a comedian! “I can hear the cholesterol in your voice.”🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂
😂😂😂
😹😹😹
Frfr I be lmao
He really is
I'm proud of Kev. He trying to convince single mothers to let fathers be fathers👍
Uncharted territory. Kevin is spot on.
I did it, it was the best decision for our son.
@@lifegetsbetterafter4069 tell more bw..PLEASE.
But at what age is it beneficial for a boy to be away from his mother full time?
@Darth Vader you damn right. I’ve seen it myself and by the time the man is in his 50s or 60s she’s cheated or moved on to someone her own age.
“You’re not single by choice, but your choices have made you single”
I could sense Kevin’s passion about her son...and the importance of having his father. This was a important conversation.
Very necessary
Kevin like I, was raised by a single Black mother. He knows of what he speaks.
That was deep
Touché… I APPOVE this👆🏾message! Black fist👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾Bumps ALL around!!!
After my divorce I sent my son to live with his father, it was the best decision I've ever made. It wasn't for financial reasons, it's to make sure our son would have the best fighting chance in life. Although we were not great marries, his father is an amazing dad. I hope she sends her son to his father!
See you were logical and knew what was best for your child. Much respect to you!
Spot on and you made the best decision. Thank you for thinking about your son first. Please educate other women. Many don’t think like you do.
@Mon Deezy no, I think the biggest influence in a child's like is the same sex parent. I would definitely have her father be a huge part of her life, but not to live full time.
@mizzmolly my dad played a huge role in my life, even to this day I'm a daddy's girl, but I believe my best decision was for me to live with my mother. I get it! But girls should be with their mother if both parents aren't together
Chile I never thought I would be away from Our 6 Females. We not even Divorce yet. He sportin his 3 new ones on the Roster. He got a employment. I dropped all the off with the babies. The eldest he not even the Biological father of. Whatever Plan he had , he can't maneuver. Im in my own place. Working pt Agency as a RN. Dialysis MWF. Last word I told him I dont get mad I get even
These female's should get their lies together before calling in 🤣😂
Totally agree
🙏🙏🙏
Sooooo damaged!!!!
Facts
Yes. I'm so confused that they lie and he doesn't even know them. They are lying to themselves... why be secretive about your location?
Mr Samuels, I'm a fairly well traveled and read, middle aged caucasian man. Your analysis is spot on. I believe modern feminism has had riunous consequences on western civilization. I believe the issues are shared by both white and black communities. Stay telling the truth!!
No is the evil music these woman listen to
@@donlugo9735 that is the result of feminism
Modern Music
has Way too many Negative 🙅😈 (subliminal messages) in them directed at 👉 BOTH Sexes ! 😔Smh
"Fairy well traveled?"
Thank you for all the content, Godfather. Even after you're gone there are thousands of hours worth of invaluable content. Miss you, Godfather. Thanks again for everything you've done for me.
Many black women would rather see the child homeless with them to see the child with their father because their hate is so strong.
Been there. I was homeless at 17, hadn't seen my dad since I was 9. Didn't see him again until I was 20. Mom skipped town and did whatever she's doing now. Didn't want to be a parent but also didn't want me to be with the father. Cold game.
@@giggiesurge this is always painful
Yes! I lived that. She kept my son out of spite regardless of the chaos she was living. He's 18 and as toxic as his mom now.
@@rod_da_poet damn. I cannot like that comment, but damn that sucks.
@@giggiesurge my wife skipped town with my son and I dont even know where they are. Ruthless. These modern women have no heart and are selfish AF
This issue of weight concerning black women is one that needed to be addressed and there is no easy way to say it and not have women be offended by saying you need to loose weight. Black women health is at stake but yet continue to do emotional eating for comfort. This is a selfish act and the children are cheated out of caring mothers with energy to love and help them. Also this behavior is passed on to the children as a generational curse. Only the truth can help us break this curse.
You're speaking facts
I agree. Thats why im always active so when I have kids im always active
Education cure ingorance which keep the devil on the run.....
The more detached women are from men the more weight they gain. The split from feminism between the sexes is causing bad health. Love is the solution to cure bw.
Loose is how you look when too fat. LOSE is what folks are trying to make black men do every day.
Young women, remember that you're young for a short period of time and a woman for a lifetime. Embrace your femininity. Let men be men and you remain feminine.
I love this!!
She doesn’t know how old she was when she got married? I believe everything she said is a lie.
Sounds like a bunch of bull shit to me.
Yep me too.. krazy
I can hear the cholesterol in your voice! 🤣🤣🤣
That part💀🤣🤣🤣
My Lord and it's so true!
@@GoddessTMarie Hi Tierra from Facebook lol. I hope you all are well! Glad to see we're in the same spaces. Kevin is on point and I appreciate his outlook. 🌻
Hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😅 LOL
Kevin is breaking her down like a mathematical equation..
@Dewan Foster exactly, he allowed her to be HONEST.
Hope she takes Kevin's advice about the boy needing to be with his father more.
@Dewan Foster and now we need an electron microscope 🔬 to see her
Lol...good God.
This chick is so fullashit. She’s just making the story up as she goes along, and he’s exposing her lies one by one. She’s got more red flags than a Chinese parade.
Feel bad for the kid, to many kids out there right now just used as weapons for revenge.
Dads could never do that. Its usually the mothers. Especially if her mom did the same thing to her.
Yup
It’s crazy, going through it now...
I was one of those kids. I was used for spite and I had to find a mentor elsewhere. Reconnected with my dad at 20 and he was so happy I wasn't broken and weak. I used to hate him but I realized there are so many evil tricks in the court system. Good luck to everyone out there going through something similar. Don't ever give up on your kids, that is your contribution to society. Stay up.
@@giggiesurge Glad to hear a success story. People (women) forget that children aren't here by choice.
I'm telling you...the call with the 26 year old is a CLASSIC EXAMPLE of how and why women find themselves in a deeper hole than they need to be in.
Noticed who under cross examination her story unraveled?..Imagine having a relationship with her
I'm hooked on your youtube channel lol. I wish more black women would listen to this truth. We need it 😣 This call was whewww emotional for me. Nothing but the truth.
I’m with you on that.
This is common sense information...smh...women make it seem like this is new information...as if no man has EVER told them this before
He’s toxic
You're Black???
@@carrom1920 truth hurts
Kev just gave 10,000 women a free therapy session bc that caller was the epitome of a large number of single mothers... once you boil down these particular females situations, all the delusion gets exposed and most can’t handle the gut punch of the truth without emotional responses. That caller was lucky enough to get a reality check, unfortunately many women do not get the reality check needed to change... this was therapy for real i hope she learned from this 💯
N I respect the caller. She took a huge suppository of truth in less than 2 hrs and was even thankful when it was over. Anyone who has gone through the process of growing will know that first dose of truth will have us reeling like we are in an exocisum. I hope she works through that.
I pray for that little boy .May God put his life back in his father's hands..
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Mr. Samuels, I have enjoyed your show immensely and this was the best analysis of a single mother in the history of the internet. Thank you for your superb professionalism and award winning discourse. I salute you for your valor and integrity. Best wishes, Ken.
I second
This was a powerful discussion and yes he did extremely well at exposing her to TODAYS 2020 economic position
He should get an award
He’s masterful, not everyone can or will appreciate him. As a Black woman, he’s helped me to understand some of the things my own father tried to teach me in my “angry” years. He really can help women and men gain the needed clarity to move forward and have successful relationships.
This discussion was a deep red pill.
CGA and KS are my favorite content providers.
I found this show over the weekend and I’ve been hooked. Can’t tell a woman constructive criticism for nothing. I have a female acquaintance ,who is 5’11, 300lbs(Exaggeration), and divorced with 2 kids. She wants a relationship and possibly a marriage. I want her to lose weight, get family dynamic in order (kids are entitled and both parents don’t check kids) and attitude adjustment. I’m under 100k in earnings but I am working towards it . How does a woman have demands but ain’t trying to hear your demands.... anyways Kevin great content 👍🏾
Why in the world did you even pursue this woman, IF she wasn't what you wanted?? Waist of time bruh, you can find another woman with far less baggage...literally speaking.
Earth Reign there’s not a chase..she’s someone from my past who linked up with again. But things have “changed”.... on both ends. My expectations were too much for her.... so....
@mizzmolly you responding to everything the same way lol miserable ass
@Mortal Silence shut yo yellow big head ass up
@AA 4SHAW Not that fat makes coochie extra warm! Hilarious
“I’m a 9 or 10.... 8 if someone is hating on me.” What a humble lady 😅
sO MANY GEMS IN THIS DISCUSSION. Kev is really good at reading between the lines.
Is wonderful having that sort of skill, any men can develope it, by experience and by personal development.
I love that, 0 tolerance and still caring and insightful! I DEFINATELY donot qualify for a high value man(😂) but this is fantastic info to get the accelerate my self improvement and get experienced men's perspectives. 😊
When you're in a relationship with a woman or man that comes from an abusive background you become there therapist and you'll age at twice the speed of a person in a normal happy relationship.
absolutely. smh
And some of them have the nerve to demand you to do it. "It's your job to TEACH us how to love ourselves!" Nah, hun. That's for a professional therapist.
Kevin sounds like an understanding person...he talked the first lady through her issues for free.
Her : I'm single by choice
Me : Yes. Everyone you've ever dated. Has made the choice. Not to marry you.
This isn't true. I was proposed to by every man I've dated but one. That's five proposals. Four of them had rings. .I said "yes" to two of them, but only said "yes" to the first because he was the father of my child (pregnancy resulted in a stillbirth.) I really loved the last one. However, both men were unfaithful and I don't tolerate cheating. Some women are married because they choose to turn a blind eye to whatever wrongdoing their man does. I don't. If I'm faithful and committed to him, I expect the same. It's about reciprocity of love, respect consistency. Most men aren't ready to be married. That's just a fact. They want a wife but aren't ready to be a husband.
@@rtthomas3667 so your were almost a single mother and there isn't a man on earth that measures up to your standards. Sounds typical
@@rtthomas3667 if your last husband was the last man you ever would get would you still have made the same decision?
This man right here, oh my God, his PATIENCE is un-be-f*cking-lievable!! People may not like how he delivers the message but the information is valid and valuable.
He said “I can hear cholesterol in their voice” 😂😂😂
I fell out on that😂🤣😂🤣
Lol
and sugar
@@jracerichards what part, timestamp?
@@domodondoom A month later and you think I have nothing better to do? Seriously?
I have never seen such a masterful persuasion technique, to ask women who say they're single by choice explain two women who are looking to connect, how they can be can find and connect with a man. I'm only 29 minutes in, and it cannot wait to see what answers come up!
Thanks my friend. Enjoy and be well.
Nicely said
Woooow, this chick is childish AF. She giggles at everything. This was a serious reality check for her. Who married this chick?
Remember she said she is a 10 idk if Kevin could see her or not but I thought he agreed she was attractive. Males will damn near do anything to lay with a fine chick
@@chasinggreatness7561 Facts 💯💯
I wish we could go back to the time when we had Shame! Holy Shhhhh.......!!! 💯💯😎
Yes, shame was a good motivator.
100%, nowadays they call it pride.
Shame will make you put down that donut. I know what you mean haha.
@@lpg12338 Shame is a good destroyer
She’s 26 and she sounds like a bloody child! Very very immature, all this laughing for what 😳
It’s very common with women who experience deep trauma at a young age like sexual abuse it’s almost like their minds become stuck at that age! It was crazy to listen because it was like he was talking to a child who just honestly doesn’t understand how life works
@@Stanley_Fields you are right !!!
@@Stanley_Fieldsagree with you 100% that type of trauma is tough to overcome , we definitely need to treat each other better, sounds like she wants to do right just misguided
You are doing God’s work. This was by far the realist thing I’ve heard on UA-cam in a long time. Wow.
Mr. Samuels, Mr. Sharpe, Mr. Adams, Mr. Better Batchelor, Mr. Corey Wayne & Mr. Matt Cross, you guys are real life heroes, thanks for the work you do to help improve both men and women.
Corey Wayne is not as red pill though.
You forgot Strong Successful Male. that's a very good channel as well but he's more keen on keeping guys single but very red pill and worth the watch.
Can you cook, keep a clean house, maintain your shape, workout 3 to 4 days per week, and can you hold a decent conversation outside of sex???
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel Men that are worth something can do all those things or get someone who can.
@@Gioskywalker1 Exactly. Those are simple. It's also not just the ability and consistency to do these things. It's also willingness to do them. Do you desire to keep a home, cook for your husband, care for kids etc. Men already want to secure our homes and get the means to do all these things and more even if not personally done, it can get done... but if you not cooperative, it won't work.
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel Was that a lot to ask of women? Did you know over 70% of American women are overweight?
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel I'm a Tradesman so the answer is yes to your question.
@Dubz Thangs
This is the beginning of the end for these type of BW take a good look of the list she gave u can tell she literally was just trying to come up with anything smh 🤦🏾♂️ SIGN👈🏾
A lot of damaged men and women call into Kevin’s show . He should partner with that online therapist company at least to get these people started
That is a great idea.
Agreed
excellent idea. Hell I'd be willing to have a session. 😂🤦🏾♂️
Don’t be surprised if we find out later that he’s actually licensed.
The first step is for us to immediately stop breaking us up by gender...that is not good for heterosexuality..We need to start addressing the brokenness that is found in "all" of us and how to fix that.
Chairman of the Board Kevin Samuels, nothing but the truth! You speak truth and always look sharp! I can’t say it enough your suits are sharper than a razor blade!
I believe she's a 10 in the face. She sounds so dumbfounded by the heat he's giving her because no one has ever given her a reality check like this. She's used to people (men) kissing up to her.
Yal are so colorist on this post because she has a “non black” like voice she must be a 10?!?! Whew the black men.
@@MrGhanasbest me saying "I believe she's a 10" has nothing to do with her skin tone, which I can't even see 🤦🏿♂️ and everything to do with the nature of her responses. READ. Yall women have got to stop letting your emotions cloud your brain. Let a little logic in. And FYI I love all shades of women, and have dated more dark skin women than any other. So yeah, you wrong as hell.
PrimeTime yeah Aight
@@PrimeTime__ 💯✊🏾
@Mon Deezy idk why don’t ypu rate me since your concerned
My ex told me she needs time to be single... I told her there’s no way I’m taking you back after your used all the way up.
80k for a family of 5 living in the bay area... she should’ve chose a different lie😂
You have just earned my subscription, sir. You certainly schooled that young lady, and I hope she retains the lessons. A lot of the younger generation women are terribly lost! May they find their way home.
Mr. Samuels is a class act and a gentleman, but he’s not for the faint of heart!!! You gotta be ready!
When that sistah said she had an Associate’s Degree in Art like it’s higher education 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Smdh JUST tell folks you got a GED!
That was a very deep and caring short session you gave that young single mom... You have a new fan in a 58 year old man, bless you
My great grandparents were married for over 50 years, same with my grandparents and my parents are headed in that same direction. I've been married for almost 13 years with no children out of wedlock. This is all I know. This whole baby mama baby daddy thing is foreign to me. And I have all boys. There is no way I cud raise them to be responsible men. That's not my job. My job is to nurture them. We all have a specific role to play. I'm not from the US...maybe the relationship climate is different there. Great video. I just subbed. Hoping to learn a lot
Yea this was implemented by government programs which removed the head of the house resulting in this today. When you disobey god there’s curses that follow so if a man isn’t needed chaos is inevitable
@@heat5701 thats true bro.
Wow... Kevin broke it down like a father would a teenager that thought they had everything figured out. Bravo!!! Because she needed to hear every bit of what you said. This... This!!! Is why fathers are important!!!
This society has incentivized Females to the point that when you hold them accountable for their actions it is almost abusive...As a male, I refuse to live with them but is willing to share myself and resources. I use it as a vetting process...."They All FAIL...!" Fellas, If you want to know who she is...treat her like a wife...make her want you...but don't move her in...she will eventually breakdown and give up... better now than with 2 kids and a mortgage...!
the best way to tell who people are is to trigger them, put them under passive stress, withdraw resources, do not sign legal contracts or move them in. If she remains selfless, submissive and supportive, you could move her in.
Idk what it is but the past several weeks Kevin's content has been 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I know.... It's obvious he's a student of the Great Tommy Sotomayor! His talking points are the exact same.... Tommy is just unapologetic and has been for years! But we appreciate this type of Black Man as well....indeed!
I’m confident in thinking women don’t care if their sons end up jacked up & fail at relationships. In return, the son will rely on the mom emotionally. That backfires a lot of the time though & the son resents her.
Son husbands
I was one of those kids. I was smart enough to seek a mentor elsewhere and got help, but statistics are not good for kids in that scenario. I went to school out of town and joined a martial arts gym where I got to be around some honorable men that kept me sharp. Like you said though, many kids are going to adapt to their mom's toxic behavior or worse, run to the streets where there are a bunch fatherless youth floating around getting into trouble.
@ DoNo. 🎠🎠🎠But then they think they can DoNo. Wrong & that's usually when 🚓🚔🚓 are coming so I Do Not go. Unless it's paid for...
I’m happy I’m not a single mom
I'm happy I'm not paying you child support.
MGTOW
Romans 10:9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
Thanks sis and save that for yr hus
u cute
Smart woman
You have nice skin and I love the hair cutie 😍
If anyone thought that Kevin didn't want to build the black community and only wanted to tear down women need to watch the conversation he had with his 1st interviewer. He gave his best shot to help. I hear the pain in that situation of a boy that didn't have his dad to give another boy without his dad a fighting shot. RIP 5 General Samuels
A lot of these women under the age of 30 are not the younger women of yesteryear. They are jumping from man to man and focused on getting “that bag.” These women are following CardiB, Meg thee Stallion, and others. So...good luck with that. LMAO.
The Wall is Undefeated !
@@johnpick8336 ,so is STD's.
@@sweetlogic5938 You are absolutely right. My Grandmother was in that situation with my Grandfather who could be very mean spirited. She never stepped out on him cause he would have probably killed her if he found out. My mother told me when I was 16 that the main reason she pushed herself in school so hard so she would never be in the position her mother was in....my grandmother had no ESCAPE !
It ages them faster too and it shows physically
I agree. He's speaking to an older generation because he's old. Young women don't care about this crap. They're getting their own and not putting up with assholes like this. Thank God
Hi Kevin I want to say that I thoroughly enjoy your content. I'm a new subscriber and as a woman of a certain age, I've waited way too long to be serious about getting married, letting work and ancillary things take precedence while the years fly by.
Now I want to be married and I know that I will need to be with a man much older than I and I'm fine with that. My life choices brought me to where I am now and I get it. If there is a such thing a re-incarnation maybe I'll remember the gems I now know to make smarter decisions. Lol.
If any young ladies read this comment, do not wait! Be smart, execute your plan and get married early if you want a high value man. Don't let the years pass you by while you sit around being picky. Trust me. 💜
Respect your truthfulness, what’s your age range if you don’t mind me asking
Hello...Maya
Thank you for the last paragraph! I hope things have worked out for you and I hope to find someone soon to date and eventually marry
DAMN..HE SAID IT..I'VE BEEN TELLING SINGLE MOTHER'S THAT SAME THING. YOUR SON ONLY NEEDS YOU UNTIL 7 OR 8..
😔
Another masterful break down of relationship woes that has been consistent over decades within the ADOS community between men and women. This provided on a small spec of insight of a multitude of things that continues to happen with our woman of melanin hue with their decision making process. I appreciate your time, patience, and insight. As you can see, it is still heavily needed in the ADOS community.
What is ADOS?
@JBcoolbreez ADOS = American Descendants of Slaves. I don't know why this dude had to use such an uncommon acronym. I don't know if he's trying to seem extra woke/cultured, or if he hangs around people who commonly use it for some odd reason.
@@samasamah its not an uncommon acronym for us who are ados as kevin is. We define us, and we good with that.
Kevin your showed an amazing amount of patience with this young lady. She needs help and you were a great cushion. Thank you
This had to be the realist interview I heard without being disrespectful to a woman and being real with her - she has no ideal what's coming down the pike
Found him randomly because I watch a lot of Red Pill stuff. Subscribed now. Kevin is a genius on the human condition.
love these conversations. yea I wish I knew this back in my early 20s but better late than never.
As a man I wish I have had this also.
Information always been around you just wasn’t checking for
The ability this guy has to pull back layers is freakishly crazy
Be thankful men that this KS content is still up here. Excellent for male focus and direction.
I'm sorry but this woman sounds young for someone who's 26.
More than likely she was abused as a child and never developed
@Drogon Financial man has no right to judge her.
She was in abuse let’s cut that layout first things first. She didn’t mature to be a woman she still stuck in her teenage mentality that’s what happens when you don’t do things correctly.
Can’t equate wisdom with age. Everyone’s experiences with character building and home training is not the same. 7 billion people will never align emotionally, mentally, physically or economically 100%.
My 21 year old brother is wiser than men and women in their late 20s and beyond
Funniest part is when she said she’ll just hide the truth from men and proceeded do so to Kevin by lying about her location 😭
that lady will be fine...young and attractive is like a get put of jail free card..
@@4656supermanShe’s got an expiration date - and I’ve witnessed it. Problem is, they never adapt & life hits them hard.
Was seeing an attractive 43-year old, who dropped hard in looks by 45th birthday, and didn’t even look like the same woman who was 37.
Notice how Kevin Caught her in a lie when he said a person who’s went through therapy would not think to deceive someone that is Genius
Lol...I swear as we started getting up in age, a friend of mine was initially saying "she could've been married if she weren't so picky" and then follow up with how the man has to be XYZ and "love her unconditionally even if she puts on weight, no matter what..." because "she knows she's "attractive and able to take care of herself and can do it all for herself" and said "she's celibate"...this was at about 38. By 40, "she's waited this long, why should she settle? I may as well keep being single" 41-single, 42-single, 43...dated a guy for 3 months which apparently ended by September...by the holidays of that year she's with a new younger guy and once her 44th birthday passed early the following year, they were expecting, "engaged", and parents of 2 kids under 2 all in under a year...and in the end, contrary to ALL she use to say about herself and option to be single and celibate, I'm afraid it seems she did exactly what she said she insisted she wouldn't do which is settle.
This seems like a good movie 🤣💯🙏🏽💕💎
@@LoveAlways1002lmmfao 🤣🤣🤣🤣 my thoughts exactly like blood come on now lying to kick it knock it tf off
🤣..... I can hear the "cholesterol" in your voice. 🤣....
I fell out laughing 😂!🤦🏿♂️👀🤣
Im 25 and I cant wait to be like Kevin and other successful black males... the wisdom... the way they ooze class and sophistication.... men really do get better as we age!!!!
Facts, but just be you my guy
Same bro. I'm 25 working my way to a PhD in ME to get my 6 figs.
My homies 💪🏽
We’re all progressive 25yr olds‼️
The thing is in life it’s so hard to be honest with yourself. Even harder when somebody’s telling you what deep down you know already. Kevin is brilliant at bringing out what’s bubbling under the surface.
We needed KS and his message will always remain 💯.. GODFATHER
*"I can hear the cholesterol in your voice"* 😬☝️💣💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥
Lmaooooooo
Great insight and perspective. Self-analysis is a powerful tool for everyone to utilize before thinking about their expectations of others
Nonfiction
Preach
That caller from Washington with the kid is repairable. She wont get a high value man, but she'll get a decent dude with upside and be happy. At the very minimum she seems cooperative and she listened.
damn brother you broke it down when you said " the most vulnerable target in America"
Another classic. I sure do miss this guy. UA-cam is not the same for me.
I‘m impressed in many ways... The women-whisperer. 👌 Respect!
You're not single by choice, you're choices have made you single. Deep!
Catching the re-play Godfather you’re definitely good at what you do 💎💎 💎 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💞
Nalmah always looking good in these streets SEXY SELF
Damn you put her soul on a platter 💥🔥
These women really over appraise themselves.
Partially comes from years of us men gassing their heads up all throughout their 20's
@Hennessy interesting...very good point man
Like a dealership
I know some true 3 -4’s that believe their 8-9’s. It’s completely messed up. These are the dynamics out there that prevent men and women from any sort of meaningful relationships.
It's OUR fault they over appraise themselves. Us men.
''A person who was in a healthy mind state wouldn't say that...'' WOW!!!
Every once and awhile he says something that sings above the rest of the greatness he gave us. Today it was, send a photo, I can hear the cholesterol in your voice lmao 🤣 😂
I'm sending her love and strength ❤️ this was very emotional to listen to.
I am single by choice. It's possible for a woman to prefer to be alone than date pointlessly or refuse to play the game. I'm over dating. I've been proposed to by every single boyfriend, but one. Four beautiful rings. Real diamonds. I really didn't want to marry any of them, but the last one. I loved him completely, but he cheated. I'm not doing it again. I've been focusing on other aspects of my life and truthfully, I feel so much better single.
That turkey gobble in the beginning took me out! Kevin is a fool! 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you Kevin for your show and the courage to say say out loud , what Mens have been thinking for years. Keep telling the truth and reveal what was in the shadows to the Light, With Facts!!
I’m 26 thank you for the advice !
This was amazing advice. I’m really happy that you stressed the importance of the child being around his father, either in the same state or for him to get custody.
That woman has lots of issues that high value men want no parts of aside from rolling around in the sack
Shes not from Washington she lied about that too. She needs therapy
Man I literally love your show.....I'm soo glad I discovered your page
He basically makes women come correct and be truthful about their situation and this is seen as mean by black women and simps smfh.
She sounds like a young Stacy Dash, voice wise.
51:28 “What if I don’t tell anybody.” WTF !!!👀 Yikes!
This one of those conversations that is going to hurt but it’s much needed.
A social worker with an associate's degree in art? 🤦🏾♂️🙄 this is madness
God gave her the gift of being pretty and she thinks that that’s enough and that it’s going to last forever. Living life on easy mode and then all of a sudden the difficulty level gets turned up.
Old girl sound like a con artist.
No surprise. That's how she learned to survive.