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  • @pencil_p4977
    @pencil_p4977 3 роки тому +812

    For women who hate the car analogy because it makes you feel not special....think about it this way as a car owner I'm not going around changing the oil on others peoples car, not paying for insurance for others people car, I'm not buying new wheels for others peoples cars just mine. She takes me where I need to go and if I treat her right she be with me for a long time.

  • @newmoneymarcus
    @newmoneymarcus 3 роки тому +814

    My ex-girlfriend gave me a hard time about my old car, my simple apartment, my simple clothes. I kept telling her to be patient because I am saving and investing all my money. This was in 2006…she broke up with me in 2007 right before the stock market crash. The crash came and I invested all the money I saved in rock bottom stocks. Fast forward to today I’m in the top 1% when it comes to net worth. I’m married and my wife has a wonderful life. My ex that broke up with me because I wasn’t a flashy, show off type of guy is still single, struggling financially and still searching for the perfect guy. 😂

    • @keithburch3238
      @keithburch3238 3 роки тому +50

      Most women can’t see past 3 months. I words but not action. Jesus and the preacher becomes their imaginary man which increases the delusional mindset in some cases.

    • @JerseyBoy489
      @JerseyBoy489 3 роки тому +171

      @@yo3rdtier128 obviously your the sensitive one. Replying 😂

    • @Thetrueview409
      @Thetrueview409 3 роки тому +23

      @@yo3rdtier128 😂

    • @gsheverything_2716
      @gsheverything_2716 3 роки тому +120

      @@yo3rdtier128 You must be one of those women

    • @olanrewajuolufemi701
      @olanrewajuolufemi701 3 роки тому +14

      @@JerseyBoy489 Absolutely 💯...🤣🤣🤣

  • @tarikjames6964
    @tarikjames6964 2 роки тому +40

    Top tier content. There will never be another KS. Rest easy, sir.

  • @glo.hardie
    @glo.hardie Рік тому +4

    Who else had this much class, intelligence, and charisma? God bless this man’s soul.

  • @mikeballer08
    @mikeballer08 3 роки тому +479

    I know a woman that wanted a relationship with me and I declined because of her 2 little kids. She consistently said that money does not matter. She's different. So me being an six figure engineer has nothing to do with it? They can't be honest with themselves. It's ok to want security just like it's ok for me not to want to raise another man's kids. It's ok

    • @adriannune8241
      @adriannune8241 3 роки тому +55

      She's different lmao

    • @londonpharaoh1603
      @londonpharaoh1603 3 роки тому +5

      💯💯💯💯

    • @bestsunglasses2715
      @bestsunglasses2715 3 роки тому +11

      @@medusa8019 He said SHE HAD CHILDREN. He didn't say she wasn't married. Learn to read and understand. In fairytales marriage is the happy ending of everything. In life it's just the beginning. People get married but they also get divorce even with children.

    • @marcofalzone6469
      @marcofalzone6469 3 роки тому +7

      They come on like Oh I'm an empty nester,. Shit. Once you start hanging around, these children all gonna start sniffing about like out the woodwork. Fugetaboutit.

    • @shawnbrown9336
      @shawnbrown9336 3 роки тому +3

      Forego bad deals!

  • @ronalddavis8217
    @ronalddavis8217 3 роки тому +166

    Kevin is extremely smart. He will not tell someone what to do. He tells them what necessary for an outcome you say you want and let's the person (if they get it) figure out how to fix their own problem.
    Good stuff.

    • @dannytennial5311
      @dannytennial5311 3 роки тому +3

      @@user-mt4fw6sh9e
      Humans were divorcing long before the Bible was written and Abraham was born. King Hamnurabi gave the laws of Divorce in 1760 BC according to historians. The Old Testament was written between 700 and 600 BC. Your Judeo-Christian viewpoint of marriage and divorce were shaped by your cultural upbringing. I respect your viewpoint but it is from men and not "a god".

    • @akatheheretic3014
      @akatheheretic3014 3 роки тому +2

      @@dannytennial5311
      Actually , the Old Testament . . Is Much older than 700BC 🧐

    • @mr.duanesharpe
      @mr.duanesharpe 3 роки тому

      1 person made a comment that I agree on and then 3 of y’all others came on with issues not relating to the original comment. Just highjacked the comment. TF is wrong with y’all. Make your own comment gat damn. Idiots. Anyways. For the original comment, that’s the rub. It’s leading people especially when it comes to conversations. I agree with you.

    • @akatheheretic3014
      @akatheheretic3014 3 роки тому

      @@Looch212
      What 🤷, does PI mean ??? 🤔

    • @Ginger_Spicy_Candor
      @Ginger_Spicy_Candor Рік тому

      But at the same time don't create the problem by telling people to fornicate. Legs closed til marriage would solve a lot of these broken family issues in the community.

  • @Mr.J281
    @Mr.J281 3 роки тому +50

    LOL!!! He said that these women have eyelashes like “Snuffleupagus”…HILARIOUS!!!

  • @claudejean-louis2289
    @claudejean-louis2289 3 роки тому +86

    I agree with 95% of what Mr. Samuels says. I am just blessed to have an African woman from Kenya who cherishes and respects me.

  • @Omilloadams
    @Omilloadams 3 роки тому +212

    The best feeling i experienced is putting up the Christmas tree with my lady & our daughter ❤️ knowing i have my own family now is everything 💯🖤

    • @RandomPerson-nd2ey
      @RandomPerson-nd2ey 3 роки тому +16

      Congratulations and best wishes Omillio!
      @Albert Pike What's wrong with a Christmas tree? People celebrate different things in different ways.

    • @MJWife07
      @MJWife07 3 роки тому +2

      Merry Christmas to you and your family ❤️. Good bless🙏

    • @REM977
      @REM977 3 роки тому

      Yes sir! It’s such a blessing!

    • @jimhanty8149
      @jimhanty8149 3 роки тому +1

      im 70+. thats the way it used to be everywhere for almost everybody, black and white.. .i was there .i lived it , i saw it ..thats all gone now ..feminism ruined it .. it will not return without a great reset of society... it wont be pretty but thats the only way.... your lucky, be thankful...

    • @theerealatm
      @theerealatm 3 роки тому

      @Albert Pike couldn't be me. Putting up a tree in the house. Lmao.

  • @Deshawn1
    @Deshawn1 3 роки тому +827

    Time stamps

    0:00 Pre show songs, 🎵 O Além é Aqui by Clara Mendes 🎵
    3:44 🎵 Better Kind Of Bitter by Peachy Pavement, Jobii & L.M. Styles Feat. Milva 🎵
    6:55 🎵 Keep On Talking by Lionel Quick 🎵
    9:02 🎵 Stockholm Love by Mathilda June 🎵
    13:12 🎵 Can't Hold It In Anymore by Vividry 🎵
    16:10 🎵 repeat of song one 🎵
    19:46 🎵 Your Good Lies by Vividry 🎵
    22:46 🎬 Show starts, Candle of the evening Le Labo Encens 9 , Fragrance of the evening Creed Aventus, Monologue, Are these men for you?
    1:14:19 📱 1st Caller Chena age 39
    1:33:01 2nd Caller Jasmine age 33 , 3rd Caller Maribel age 40 , 4th Caller Ayala
    1:55:08 back to Jasmine
    2:04:50 Closing words
    2:14:12 Closing Song

  • @freestylebully4849
    @freestylebully4849 3 роки тому +397

    Kevin made me spit my Patron out when he said " Modern women are dressing like drag queens 😂😂😂😂

    • @erictoomer5665
      @erictoomer5665 3 роки тому +6

      😁

    • @leroypoter4184
      @leroypoter4184 3 роки тому +47

      They really are dressing like drag queens from where I'm standing, they are constantly inspiring, and encouraging the next generation to be drag queens before they're even born...

    • @erictoomer5665
      @erictoomer5665 3 роки тому +34

      It’s a strange dynamic

    • @HeavenlyLovely03
      @HeavenlyLovely03 3 роки тому +4

      Not me baby!!!💜😉

    • @erictoomer5665
      @erictoomer5665 3 роки тому +3

      @House of Guards Right 🤮

  • @DanielDouglas555
    @DanielDouglas555 3 роки тому +47

    "only women, children and dogs get loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something." - Chris Rock

  • @ricktaylor14001
    @ricktaylor14001 2 роки тому +4

    “Mr. Snuffleupagus”. OMG that was priceless!! He hit that bang on…. go look it up, all the way back to 1971, Mr. Snuffleupagus had those BIG eyelashes and they looked okay for a huge muppet, but NOT on women. Oh I miss this man, we needed him…still do! I hope no one ever takes his content down. ☮️

  • @melvinmartin9424
    @melvinmartin9424 24 дні тому +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥!!!!!!! 💎💎💎💎💎!!!!!! Rest in Peace GODFATHER !!!!!!! 🙏🏾🕊🙏🏾🕊🙏🏾🕊!!!!!!!!!

  • @rummagingchaos
    @rummagingchaos 3 роки тому +31

    i screamed when he talked about the breathing 😂😭 i needed that laugh. thanks godfather

  • @just_me_-wh5xt
    @just_me_-wh5xt 3 роки тому +339

    For those who grew up with fathers, you may have had this experience: There is a moment when your father looked weak and humbled. In that state, you didn't take advantage of his weakness. When he told you to do something, you did it, despite how weak and humbled he looked. When you grew up, you never forgot that moment, and in an odd way, it transformed your perspective of life and its challenges. This is one of the most important lessons children need to experience, however, the modern woman takes children away from their father, which results in entitled brats.

    • @technolus5742
      @technolus5742 3 роки тому +4

      Modern women don't take children away from their father. Single moms do (go on, blame the woman for the relationship comming to an end...).
      And just like a child can see a father weakened and humbled so can a child see a mother weakened and humbled and have the same reaction. What actually makes children entitled is permisiveness and pampering.

    • @Gr8nessnMe070
      @Gr8nessnMe070 3 роки тому +49

      @@technolus5742 huh? Are you just trying to sound smart? Da heck you mean?

    • @torachan23
      @torachan23 3 роки тому +35

      @@Gr8nessnMe070 He tried simping for modern women, while trying not to seem like he was simping for modern women.
      He didn't try hard enough

    • @MadDukeDiscoveries
      @MadDukeDiscoveries 3 роки тому

      Essence of manhood encapsulated!!!

    • @adriannune8241
      @adriannune8241 3 роки тому +1

      Truth.

  • @vees.5050
    @vees.5050 3 роки тому +195

    Messages are missed when emotions are the controlling factor in the way you decipher things. Kevin's analogy makes a lot of sense, but that first caller was so wrapped up in how she felt about the words used instead of what Kevin was trying to convey to her that it flew over her head.

    • @MrIsles192
      @MrIsles192 3 роки тому +19

      This happens way too often, not just with women but with men too.

    • @anthonygilbert8373
      @anthonygilbert8373 3 роки тому +17

      @@MrIsles192 preach my guy, these dudes talk and listen like they strong independent mama. All emotion no logic. When I hear a dude say I got female friends, I already know not to entertain a convo. I know it ain’t going no where like a car on bricks.

  • @PrimetimeMusiq
    @PrimetimeMusiq 3 роки тому +21

    2:06:33 "We have a lack of women who want to be wives. Today we have too many women who want to do what the hell they want to do but they want men to be traditional" - KS
    That statement pretty much sums up dating in 2021

  • @reginak.6084
    @reginak.6084 3 роки тому +56

    👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽 Dark, you are soooo right. The main reason I waited to be married is because I wanted to be able to afford a healthy lifestyle for my children! I saw the single moms at work struggling. I didn't have that kind of energy. Been a housewife for 18 years now and I enjoy it 🙌🏽

  • @Kyronetta
    @Kyronetta 3 роки тому +63

    Once you bring a child in this world it’s not about you anymore.

    • @nickyamertil9458
      @nickyamertil9458 3 роки тому +5

      Facts. But yet, im useless to my child if I'm not 100%. You first then your child. It sounds weird but honestly you can't be empty trying to fill up a cup.

    • @duckfoutube1761
      @duckfoutube1761 3 роки тому +2

      Facts

    • @mysterymastermind175
      @mysterymastermind175 6 місяців тому

      I thonk he meant just you ​@@nickyamertil9458

  • @Baddawg_313
    @Baddawg_313 3 роки тому +51

    I love when married women call. There's no screaming and playing victim or manipulation. It's just straight forward and honest.

  • @eq2092
    @eq2092 3 роки тому +50

    This monologue is awesome. My confidence is going way up after years of getting beat down and hearing "men ain't shit"

    • @eq2092
      @eq2092 3 роки тому +1

      @@user-mt4fw6sh9e
      Who hurt you?

    • @LateNightRewrites
      @LateNightRewrites 3 роки тому +3

      Yeah man it's amazing the effect of hearing that over time. Time for us to put a stop to it.

    • @Ginger_Spicy_Candor
      @Ginger_Spicy_Candor Рік тому

      Men are amazing. The women who say that have a poor outlook on life because they have poor character themselves. Who in their right mind would speak against their God given covering!

  • @SPARKWISDOM
    @SPARKWISDOM 3 роки тому +174

    I had no idea how delusional women were until I started listening to Kevin. “Average” men over 50 are phenomenal! They are “old school”, believe in traditional values and generally want to settle down. If you’re a 40+ woman and open to listening to Kevin and willing to do the work, you’ll have an edge over other women and get what you want if you can give him peace, pleasure and paradise.

    • @leroypoter4184
      @leroypoter4184 3 роки тому +20

      I don't think they heard you speak a little louder for those whose ears is not receptive...

    • @antoniotula262
      @antoniotula262 3 роки тому +7

      No lies here!

    • @theowaf8822
      @theowaf8822 3 роки тому +5

      Well such men might not recognize the existence of such walking dead women……

    • @understandingunderstanding4880
      @understandingunderstanding4880 3 роки тому +3

      Isaiah 4:1

    • @willia3r
      @willia3r 3 роки тому +6

      Speak up for the audience in the back!

  • @mikhailabdurrachman2443
    @mikhailabdurrachman2443 3 роки тому +50

    Listen toots the reason why HVM don't choose you to be their spouse is because you don't meet their expectation, nuff said.

  • @anthonygilbert8373
    @anthonygilbert8373 3 роки тому +46

    “You tryna make me look crazy,” going right up there with, “I’m a Phd,” in the Die Alone Hall of Fame.

  • @gods_sun626
    @gods_sun626 3 роки тому +19

    Kevin is the GOAT of keeping it 💯 with women. No compromise, no pandering, straight truth. That’s what we all need.

  • @dcuthbertson5778
    @dcuthbertson5778 3 роки тому +59

    So glad he said that ish…. Not one is thinking pass Tuesday. I had this issue with every ex and BW I’ve ever dealt with. That’s why they cannot be on a 5 to 10 year plan. I’ve told em… hey in 5 years we’ll be millionaires, and 10.. multimillionaires. Here’s the plan. 8 years you can retire and never work another day in your life. Here’s our money and here’s the stash. Crickets… Because they don’t think pass Tuesday.

    • @football4914
      @football4914 3 роки тому +8

      Brother I had the same issue with my ex wife! I did the exact same thing showing her 5 and 10 year plans of saving, investing and budgeting! Brother she bucked at every plan I put fourth! So now I’m good bro. If I ever have a relationship again, it will out of this country!

    • @dcuthbertson5778
      @dcuthbertson5778 3 роки тому +13

      @@football4914 man we all have the same problems. These chicks don’t wanna do ish. Hell the sad thing is I was already making over $100K. So it’s not like we talking about some “pipe dream stuff” or we might get there one day. Even my cousin who doesn’t even watch this ish said the same thing… “these BW don’t wanna lift a finger to do ish.” I just laughed when he said it. My philosophy at this point is if I gotta do it by myself; might as well be by myself.

    • @dcuthbertson5778
      @dcuthbertson5778 3 роки тому +9

      @@football4914 And the truth is real simple… who the hell wants to wait until 50 to be a millionaire and living good. It’s really something you wanna work on in your thirties to enjoy in your 40’s. Not at damn 50 when life is almost over after doing it alone for 30 plus years

    • @football4914
      @football4914 3 роки тому +7

      @@dcuthbertson5778 man exactly! I couldn’t have said it more eloquently! We were bringing in over 100k living in Mississippi! Bro I swear I’m to myself because of it to! And really my first barrier to entry with me is do you workout! If she don’t workout 4 days/week of hard resistance training then I don’t want her anyways! I refuse to be in another relationship where I workout and she don’t!

    • @barriowoodworks
      @barriowoodworks 3 роки тому +8

      A long term plan is boring for most folks. Boring coupled with sacrifice and commitment will get you on the road to achieving goals.
      I get asked, how did you retire so young? It was a 30 year plan. Do you have what it takes to make it happen?

  • @amartin4368
    @amartin4368 2 роки тому +2

    Came back to watch all your shows King

  • @lindaann768
    @lindaann768 3 роки тому +47

    You are correct Kevin once again God made women and men to be together to build a union of marriage family and generational wealth and we threw it out window we replaced the man with our degree families with girl trips and affection with a dog emotion with our purchasing a home and now we are scared as hell realizing we are lonely modern women.

    • @inquisitiveOne111
      @inquisitiveOne111 3 роки тому

      Please speak for yourself Ma’am. (Respectfully)
      Also, the Bible says you don’t have to marry but if you burn (with lust) you should. It’s about serving the Lord and you can do that married or single.

    • @lindaann768
      @lindaann768 3 роки тому +4

      @@inquisitiveOne111 you sure do have the option but however becoming so modern on women was a blessing and a cursed now we are not needing or desiring to have healthy relationships with our men just giving off male tendencies and yes I support women 💯 but we have gone to far we our need to be right in our bad life long decisions

  • @scooterhammer6997
    @scooterhammer6997 3 роки тому +13

    My man is brutal!!! This is how I taught lessons to my daughters as they were growing up to be adults!!!

  • @williammartinez3883
    @williammartinez3883 3 роки тому +8

    Man when he did the breathing part I hit the floor in tears, this man just keeps knocking it out the park!!!!!!!!

  • @503redbull
    @503redbull 3 роки тому +124

    The ending is so well put together loved it love the work Kevin

    • @averystrickland8597
      @averystrickland8597 3 роки тому +3

      What's up bro

    • @brofessormex
      @brofessormex 3 роки тому

      Made me stick around.

    • @brofessormex
      @brofessormex 3 роки тому +1

      @@user-mt4fw6sh9e keep God out of this. That's deflection from irresponsible people. We have accepted the fact that 80+% of divorces are filed by women. Not by God.

  • @shel-done-it2654
    @shel-done-it2654 2 роки тому +6

    Saying he is the "Kelly Blue Book" is classic. Lol

  • @HumptyMcFly
    @HumptyMcFly 3 роки тому +77

    Who didn’t crack up when Kevin was going in about how she hates how he breathes? 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @xander-with-a-z
    @xander-with-a-z 3 роки тому +89

    Another absolute Banger !! This is definitely a Classic

  • @kese7691
    @kese7691 3 роки тому +13

    “He don’t breathe right “ 😭😭😂

  • @LinuxLogic1997
    @LinuxLogic1997 3 роки тому +386

    Woman: I left because he was toxic.
    Man: What did he do?
    Woman: He refused to let me spend all my paychecks and half his check on makeup, lashes, wigs and weaves.

    • @ryanphillips5591
      @ryanphillips5591 3 роки тому +48

      Sir that is financial abuse

    • @NoreLyne
      @NoreLyne 3 роки тому +4

      😂 you are cute 😊

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 3 роки тому +4

      🤦‍♂️

    • @torachan23
      @torachan23 3 роки тому +10

      @@ryanphillips5591 I hope you're being sarcastic. If you're not, then "financial abuse" is running rampant in Asian countries where the "wife" takes all of the husband's money and only allows him to spend a little of it outside of the household.

    • @KingSpeechRo
      @KingSpeechRo 3 роки тому +18

      Only to cover it with a bonnet anyway 😂😂😂😂

  • @nickstewartministriesdotco5859
    @nickstewartministriesdotco5859 3 роки тому +25

    One of the Best! ...."He don't breath right"......sums it up perfectly for the most part. Then wreck their homes, hurt their children, and loose good men....so sad...God help us.🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @saiuriyon
    @saiuriyon 3 роки тому +35

    Knew it was about to go downhill as soon as shorty said “afro-centric.” And then when she proceeded to say “the white man’s certificate,” that confirmed what i already knew lol 🤦🏽‍♀️😩

    • @fgcpeak9591
      @fgcpeak9591 3 роки тому +4

      ignorant wmn doesn't realise the white man didnt invent marriage

    • @saiuriyon
      @saiuriyon 3 роки тому +2

      @@fgcpeak9591 she made NO sense lol.

    • @thehoneybunempress1664
      @thehoneybunempress1664 3 роки тому +4

      Victim mentality and lack of accountability smh

    • @juicyj901
      @juicyj901 3 роки тому +1

      Her ass was not being coherent at all.. lawdd!!

    • @SGGCREATIVES
      @SGGCREATIVES 3 роки тому +1

      Marriage is sacred in every single African culture. Black or Arab. That woman was high!

  • @cefrio
    @cefrio 3 роки тому +69

    Time for 10 pushups for every "i feel like" gents! Lets get it 💪🏾

    • @lisakaren8075
      @lisakaren8075 3 роки тому

      Hello 👋 how are you doing today?

    • @DizzKoMane
      @DizzKoMane 3 роки тому +8

      I'm about to look like Tookie Williams 🏋🏾‍♂️

    • @DanDan-lo8nt
      @DanDan-lo8nt 3 роки тому +1

      My muscles id swallowed now ..

    • @cefrio
      @cefrio 3 роки тому

      @@DizzKoMane 🤣 thats it get it

    • @cefrio
      @cefrio 3 роки тому

      @@DanDan-lo8nt you gonna feel the pain🤣

  • @stoltmarketing
    @stoltmarketing 3 роки тому +18

    Kevin you are a master in sales. Big inspiration. Sweden needs your message 🤯

  • @stayathomedad4830
    @stayathomedad4830 3 роки тому +124

    My wife's best friend is a single mom. She comes over and tells my wife how lucky she is to have a guy around and it shows through the kids. I hate seeing women that feel a certain way about men while also seeing her try so hard. It's a really messy situation and it drives me crazy when I see a over weight child that looks exactly like the over weight single mom. Its heart breaking honestly. My daughter is in the 99th percentile In everything she excels in and same for her little brother and she has the audacity to blame it on "oh your child was breastfed". No its because I dont allow my children to smash down candy just to keep them "quite". Its sad how some women raise these fatherless children, really breaks my heart to see a child doing exactly what the mother is doing.

    • @reginaldlucky1056
      @reginaldlucky1056 3 роки тому +16

      These moms on Instagram still trying to turn up are going to raise their grand children

    • @kidasingh820
      @kidasingh820 3 роки тому +5

      Exactly.. these overweight single moms have overweight lazy kids.. it's not their fault.. but the kids are overweight ,antisocial, smarty pants ,know it alls, and full of fast food and sugar!! God forbid if you have any constructive criticism or advice about these kids!! They are above correction and/or discipline just like their moms are!! Even a man in a house that doesn't make a lot of money is better than no man at all for these kids!!

    • @individualized1
      @individualized1 3 роки тому +5

      Congrats bro, keep up the good work with your family but be careful around her best friend.

    • @samhouston1646
      @samhouston1646 3 роки тому +2

      @@individualized1 exactly!!

    • @thetruthhurts131
      @thetruthhurts131 3 роки тому +4

      Be careful letting your wife be friends with a single mother. Unless that woman is a widow that's a no no. Single women and single mothers are a bad influence on married women. Married women should only be friends with other married women.

  • @mr.charm-a-hooutherdough5445
    @mr.charm-a-hooutherdough5445 3 роки тому +48

    Women don't take criticism that well when u speaking the FACTS

    • @Stantorr
      @Stantorr 3 роки тому +8

      @@yo3rdtier128 control your emotions. Feminine men speak like that.

    • @mr.charm-a-hooutherdough5445
      @mr.charm-a-hooutherdough5445 3 роки тому

      @@yo3rdtier128 And your comment is a prime example of what I said and thats BIG FACTS

  • @IM-qy7mf
    @IM-qy7mf 3 роки тому +156

    In regards to the mother of the 4 year old, I was thinking about that the other day, how many of the things I have learned about what makes for a healthy marriage were never explicitly taught me; I learned by _watching_ them being enacted day in, day out: my mother's deference towards my father (in the way she cooked his meals, the silverware she chose, how she stored his food until he came from work); her way of gracefully disagreeing with him; the laughter late at night between the two of them; etc.. And how my father showed strength, dedication, relentlessness, _sternness_ in handling business.
    His "tone" can sometimes make things seem untrue (because he is so direct), but trust that Mr. Samuels knows what he is talking about.

    • @08TeddyGramz
      @08TeddyGramz 3 роки тому +7

      I agree that you learn about relationships through what you are raised around but KS still didn’t help the woman…she said should I get back out to dating and he said I’m not tell you that, he said to get back with her husband…sometimes you can’t simply get back with your ex, you can’t make some love you, and we don’t know the reasons behind the split….ks didn’t really help her

    • @IM-qy7mf
      @IM-qy7mf 3 роки тому +16

      @@08TeddyGramz _Either get in close proximity to your husband, or start actively dating, so that your daughter can learn through mirroring_
      Although, I am paraphrasing, that was the crux of his point. Are you saying that his suggestion was not helpful? If so, what would you suggest the woman do?

    • @uncleroams279
      @uncleroams279 3 роки тому +15

      @teddyhines He helped her completely. She simply does not want to accept reality.

    • @aylamo4069
      @aylamo4069 3 роки тому +1

      @@uncleroams279

    • @doubleboe7NYC
      @doubleboe7NYC 3 роки тому +4

      @@08TeddyGramz "love"? You don't listen to this show very well then. It's not about love. It's duty and responsibility.

  • @kingjamestaylor1
    @kingjamestaylor1 3 роки тому +65

    Ladies if you know what’s good for you y’all better listen to this man. I can’t stress it enough

    • @Thetrueview409
      @Thetrueview409 3 роки тому +7

      If I had listened to this man, then I would have given up, I met my husband at 36, married at 40 and I was a single mother with two kids. Let him tell it, a high value man would never want a woman like me, but every thing in my life fell into place, he’s not always right!

    • @coachmelech773
      @coachmelech773 3 роки тому +22

      @@Thetrueview409 Thanks for showing once again the low level of comprehension that most people have! He has never said that it could not be done, just it’s not likely for most people! So it’s better to talk in Probability than in possibility.

    • @Thetrueview409
      @Thetrueview409 3 роки тому

      @@coachmelech773 thanks again for showing us some people don’t have third grade listening skills… he said hvm don’t want this that and the third… not SOME hvm… have a good day

    • @Thetrueview409
      @Thetrueview409 3 роки тому

      @House of Guards I’m not posting a damn thing to prove anybody wrong, I know what happens in the real world! Bye ✌🏽

    • @lisakaren8077
      @lisakaren8077 3 роки тому

      Hello James 👋 how are you doing?

  • @chinton1908
    @chinton1908 3 роки тому +1

    I did not know you could be so silly. I am crying😂😂😂😂 and had to rewind "the breathing". We laugh because we know it's true and our mail is being read. I agree some of us are picky over trivial things, I continually need to get over myself.

  • @hoost3056
    @hoost3056 3 роки тому +45

    I remember when finishing schools and schools of etiquette were common. They need to be brought back. Although we have people like Kevin to bring knowledge, it's not enough.

    • @RandomPerson-nd2ey
      @RandomPerson-nd2ey 3 роки тому +4

      You know that stuff and see the problem? Great. Please start a channel teaching it. If you do, let me know. I'll be your first subscriber.

    • @htsyami
      @htsyami 3 роки тому

      @@user-mt4fw6sh9e what random ass post is this?

    • @bWalker001
      @bWalker001 2 роки тому

      @ Hoost 305, as a schoolboy, I dreaded school summer holidays. Aside other academic tasks, I had to read to read a charter from the etiquette book on the family's bookshelf. I would be tested on it before school resumed. At the time, I wanted to be out and about with my friends. But, looking back, I am grateful for and to my parents preparing me for life and the best possible outcomes from humble beginnings.
      Etiquette is forever evolving and parents should not only keep themselves abreast, but also their children- daily.

  • @robtinsley3566
    @robtinsley3566 3 роки тому +7

    😂😂 "I need a Dude with Asthma he breath to boring" I had to pause the video till i could stop laughing!

  • @A-NothR
    @A-NothR 3 роки тому +18

    Yes 100% Young Men, get a Mentor or Coach! Much Needed these days!

  • @RillestTalk
    @RillestTalk 3 роки тому +142

    I’ve been in So. California since January of 1991 and watched the Hispanic community/Latin culture grow and prosper. Like most modern women, their women are in the gyms, universities and professional workforce too but collectively remain submissive to their men despite legal injustices and a disparage of higher paying job opportunities similar to ours. And their women bring their cooperativeness over to whom ever they choose to date/marry without all the workplace competitiveness and combativeness. They simply know how to leave work at work.

    • @supercool1238
      @supercool1238 3 роки тому +8

      Wrong these Latina Harpies are even worse than the succubus given the opportunity. If you want a Latina go to a Latin country where they're not protected by judges lawyers prison scrit is lawyers prison's crooked prosecutors et cetera

    • @meka8156
      @meka8156 3 роки тому +2

      And you prolly never dated one to know plenty of black men complain about same thing they do with BW

    • @markb8644
      @markb8644 3 роки тому +1

      Facts same in Florida

    • @RillestTalk
      @RillestTalk 3 роки тому +2

      @@markb8644 Yes, I was swarmed by the baddest Afro-Latinas in Orlando in 1990 before coming to Cali.

    • @raht2808
      @raht2808 3 роки тому +1

      So why don’t you marry a Latina?

  • @frankbarone4065
    @frankbarone4065 3 роки тому +3

    The wisdom and facts here on this channel have changed my life.

  • @antwajuanparks7563
    @antwajuanparks7563 3 роки тому +1

    his analogies be on point...💪🏿💪🏿

  • @johnfoster4244
    @johnfoster4244 3 роки тому +3

    "His elbow ain't right..." LOL!!!

  • @Foxabiy
    @Foxabiy 3 роки тому +22

    With few exceptions, most ladies calling just want to be right. The ability to be quiet and listen is close to nul. Why even call if you can't relax, stop taking everything so personal and learn?

  • @differentperspective5876
    @differentperspective5876 3 роки тому +33

    It's all about being single, emotionally, spiritually and financially...🧬🧬🧬

  • @samsari6783
    @samsari6783 3 роки тому +3

    The breathing thing really was a comedy script...you did that well. From Australia...seeing the culture on black woman is messed up...but rest assured it's a western woman culture thing is messed up. Fyi. I'm using your material to prepare my kids to get their head right..x2 girls and x2 boys. Like your work plus I find it entertaining

  • @douglasjohnson4271
    @douglasjohnson4271 3 роки тому +7

    Kevin had me dead with that breathing expedition 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @lowbo47omsascotave
    @lowbo47omsascotave 8 місяців тому +1

    *Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
    _Tappin' in from South Central LA_
    Salute to the Godfather ✊🏾
    1:44:50
    _"You're trying to make something work that's not designed to work !"_ 🤯
    *Facts over feelings‼*

  • @SergioMedinahouseValuesLA
    @SergioMedinahouseValuesLA 3 роки тому +6

    "His breathing is too normal!"😄😄😄

  • @freshlysaltedfishing8500
    @freshlysaltedfishing8500 3 роки тому +12

    I no longer vette the ladies I date. We sit down and watch KS. Depending on their reaction determines how much we move forward.

    • @quincysimpson2958
      @quincysimpson2958 3 роки тому +1

      Damn… that sounds hella risky lol

    • @freshlysaltedfishing8500
      @freshlysaltedfishing8500 3 роки тому +5

      @@quincysimpson2958 women are Hella inquisitive. I've had a few judge me as a narcissist just because they hear KS. I take it as a compliment and free Tylenol for the headache I dodged.

    • @quincysimpson2958
      @quincysimpson2958 3 роки тому +3

      @@freshlysaltedfishing8500 I’m gonna start doing this

    • @christophersmith9683
      @christophersmith9683 3 роки тому +2

      Smart 💯

  • @MikeP
    @MikeP 3 роки тому +3

    KS your shows get better and better like fine wine! Keep it up!

  • @squirrell19861
    @squirrell19861 3 роки тому +36

    KS said that women want a n$gga with asthma, shortness of breath....whooping cough🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I am phucking done yo

  • @lavernf9204
    @lavernf9204 3 роки тому +5

    The breathing parallel got me! I'm done early in the show!! Lol 🤣🤣🤣

  • @tmwii8795
    @tmwii8795 3 роки тому +1

    God DAMN is he so spot on! Across the board on all colors.

  • @bacongrits4155
    @bacongrits4155 3 роки тому +5

    This man needs to write a book

  • @Marktheproducer
    @Marktheproducer 3 роки тому +3

    “I don’t need a cookbook.” Lol 😂
    Yo he said looking like micky! Come on Rocky.

  • @Thatcaramelchic
    @Thatcaramelchic 3 роки тому +58

    We really do learn a lot from seeing our parents interact with each other I watched my mother get up at 5:30a every morning to make my dad breakfast before work and then she would hop on the treadmill. Every once in awhile she wouldn’t be a size 6 anymore and would complain about it and leading her to go hard in the gym and diet until she was back to her “happy size” now that I’m older I’m a fitness instructor and refuse to be anything over a size 4. We really do become our mothers 😂

    • @johannesswillery7855
      @johannesswillery7855 3 роки тому +2

      All of God's love to you ma'am.

    • @montanachanel1
      @montanachanel1 3 роки тому +1

      👌

    • @lazygirl8877
      @lazygirl8877 3 роки тому

      Yes we do because mines was used and abused has mental issues and same thing happened to me

    • @joshfoxx420
      @joshfoxx420 3 роки тому

      My mom was similar . And now we are trainers too ! The body was meant to move, nutrition and exercise that’s it !

    • @GasLeagueEnt
      @GasLeagueEnt 3 роки тому

      Wow she knew the assignment 🤣 we love that shit 😂 she put in effort , salute to your mom

  • @tankttehctiw8776
    @tankttehctiw8776 3 роки тому +8

    Beautiful show again, thank you for saying that part starting at 1:53:37. Well said and thank you. More to raising a kid besides money. Thank you, no one is saying the things you’re saying in the main stream and we’re losing. Bravo sir

  • @fosterscott3877
    @fosterscott3877 3 роки тому +9

    I read the Moynihan Report because of you. Very interesting, thank you.

    • @willia3r
      @willia3r 3 роки тому +3

      The _Moynihan Scissors_ ✂️ is the most enlightening part.

    • @antoniotula262
      @antoniotula262 3 роки тому +2

      Seems very current from I first read it in the 80s.

  • @ricoa.k.aantlive6052
    @ricoa.k.aantlive6052 3 роки тому +3

    I would love my kids mother to call in on his show... it would actually make my day 😃

  • @dannyrand1733
    @dannyrand1733 3 роки тому +5

    "I like him but his elbow ain't right" LMAOOOOOoooo

  • @harlemswingdancehotjazz1205
    @harlemswingdancehotjazz1205 3 роки тому +6

    💯💯💯💯💥💥💥💥 Your verbal "monologue" smackdowns loaded with TRUTH are enough alone to wake up the lazy or dead - THANK YOU

  • @juniorjames7076
    @juniorjames7076 3 роки тому +23

    Since I was a small Black child I had a fascination with foreign languages. I would daydream in class about being able to speak Chinese, Arabic, Spanish, Russian etc. In high school I took advanced placement French, and in college I did as many study abroad programs my academic calendar would permit (France, Madagascar, Russia). After doing the Peace Corps (Morocco) in my 20s, by my early 30s I was fluent in French, Arabic, and Turkish. The unexpected result was my dating pool (and social life) exponentially expanded. When you understand a language you develop an understanding of that culture. I am at ease conversing and flirting with Turkish, Arabic, and French-speaking women in THIER own language. I really feel sorry for any man who can only speak his native tongue.

    • @RW2996
      @RW2996 3 роки тому +7

      Money is the language of love.
      You can be a Mute and pull these women as long as you got the funds.

    • @s.tanh9818
      @s.tanh9818 3 роки тому +4

      @@RW2996 😂😂😂😂👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @Steamboat04
    @Steamboat04 3 роки тому +2

    We care about woman so much that we try our hardest to have them understand how this market is played out and how to get what they want in relationships so I appreciate kevin continually educating men and woman on how to move forward together me included ya know

  • @deonallen9270
    @deonallen9270 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you Godfather for opening my eyes even more with some real knowledge.

  • @matthewgaines10
    @matthewgaines10 3 роки тому +1

    People without personal accountability is our country’s most abundant natural resource.

  • @indio007
    @indio007 3 роки тому +44

    Who ended the relationship?
    I did.
    EVERY DAMN TIME

  • @mariaallenajasiah5664
    @mariaallenajasiah5664 3 роки тому

    He’s 1000000% correct and I’m Puerto Rican and Mexican. lol thank you Kevin 🙌🏼

  • @Jusshun
    @Jusshun 3 роки тому +5

    When they come in saying I agree with most of what you say. I know it’s fenna be a good night.. 😂🤣

  • @tanknitty3447
    @tanknitty3447 3 роки тому +2

    “U Tryin to make me look crazy…”
    U did a good job of that on your own ma’am.

  • @bodhisattvaofthedharma7176
    @bodhisattvaofthedharma7176 3 роки тому +4

    I am a solids control technician for drilling rigs, here in Texas.. we pull in around 91-110k a year we pull in 90 hours a week just monitoring and manipulating the solids, formations, and drilling materials the rig produces.. this Career requires an analysis type of mind I worked my way up to this position I simply will not deal with a modern woman I have had to take calculated risks in my life to get where I am today dealt with the uncertainty.

  • @qadirshabazz3495
    @qadirshabazz3495 3 роки тому +3

    BLESSINGS OF ABUNDANCE TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
    KS.

  • @R2d2..
    @R2d2.. 3 роки тому +8

    1:41:50
    Single parents always have it hard ...
    The hardest.
    My mom raised me and my brother on her own, she had 2 jobs and she had a lot of stress and depression.

    • @calviahill6864
      @calviahill6864 3 роки тому +1

      Stop have babies being a single...........

    • @calviahill6864
      @calviahill6864 3 роки тому

      That is what your mom signed up for......oh well.

  • @dmans2049
    @dmans2049 3 роки тому +5

    Visited my family in Honduras started dating a local and he's right I've never felt so loved and wanted it hurts I'm 30 and I've been complimented more in the last two months then the rest of my life I didn't realize I was missing this

    • @duckfoutube1761
      @duckfoutube1761 3 роки тому +2

      Shoutout to you for finding happiness brother

    • @Kritikanbringer
      @Kritikanbringer 3 роки тому

      If they are no gold diggers, congratulations! :)

    • @dmans2049
      @dmans2049 3 роки тому

      @@Kritikanbringer if she a gold digger she needs to kill her prospector 😤

    • @dmans2049
      @dmans2049 3 роки тому +1

      @@duckfoutube1761 thanks

  • @tripslikstar
    @tripslikstar 3 роки тому +7

    "Walking around in special effects" haha

  • @jonathanchai9827
    @jonathanchai9827 3 роки тому

    I wish i could just have a KS Bible to help me deal with issues as regards the present day modern women and mostly relationships ..this knowledge is gold everyman should go tthrough a KS mentorship ...

  • @timboslice9905
    @timboslice9905 3 роки тому +13

    With the woman who was struggling with the concept of comparing a woman to a car, it seems that one of the issues some women have with that is the automatic leap to ownership. From the way that questions are framed and tone comes through, it’s like “you think I’m an object?” Or “do you think that you’re buying me?” But that’s not the point that’s being made.

    • @timboslice9905
      @timboslice9905 3 роки тому

      @Andrew Jackson It’s a very effective strategy. Many times, in my younger years, I world look back after a disagreement and wonder how we ended where we ended. How the subject switched or I ended up in defense when I was originally bringing up an issue that I was concerned with. It was this community that caused me to realize why I didn’t feel heard and had become emotionally cold. You’re right, brother.

  • @sterlingmoore6032
    @sterlingmoore6032 3 роки тому +2

    Keeping it real with the truth. Most people are not of the truth. Therefore, they have a problem with hearing, seeing, and/or living the truth. Truth is reality and slaps the delusional and fake fools in the face when presented. Thanks for keeping it real, brother!

  • @princehendrix1640
    @princehendrix1640 3 роки тому +18

    The breathing analogy is spot on😂😂. . My 1st kid mother friendzoned a guy she went to college with who is an engineer because she said she didn't like the white trim around his lips. He was 6 ft 4. Made about 200k, and had no kids. But the white trim around his lips eliminated him completely from her view. 😂😂😂....I know this because he came to our daughters christening. And he kept looking at her with the dreamy 👀. So I picked up on it and asked her after it was over. She said he always liked her and she could tell. Then she goes into the lips thing 😭. Think he had what's called vintiligo

    • @kimdee4275
      @kimdee4275 3 роки тому +2

      ...unfortunately, a lot of women dismiss a man based on what their friends or family may think of him - regardless of every other endearing quality he may have. Yup, my [still] single butt included - 😔

  • @jon-je5mz
    @jon-je5mz 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you man talking for a lot of us 9 to 5 Brothers cuz I'm dealing with a woman just like this and sometimes I feel like talking to her she gone give me an aneurysm and I'm a die early before I'm 35 that's all these women do is bable and argue like they on some reality TV show housewives of Love & hip Hop whichever one they pick and choose 🙏THANK YOU MR. KEVIN🙏 SAMUELS

    • @antoniotula262
      @antoniotula262 3 роки тому

      Help yourself out bro....RUN!. You will thank yourself many many times.

  • @TheDCGuitar13
    @TheDCGuitar13 3 роки тому +61

    I’m starting to see a glaring pattern with so many of these callers. They know exactly what they’re doing to people(they always make it seem like they had no idea) and just flat out don’t care. Once treated how they treat others, they consider it abuse. It’s as if others aren’t even human and should be like trained pets to their every whim.

  • @NaturalHealth-w4i
    @NaturalHealth-w4i 4 місяці тому

    "The way he breaths" got me rolling on the floor.

  • @harrybawls4489
    @harrybawls4489 3 роки тому +47

    A lot of these women are constantly contradicting themselves. They can be broke as hell, but will cry about not being able to find a man who is financially stable. They hope to find unconditional love, all while carrying a bag full of conditions. This is nuts

    • @keenansmith7176
      @keenansmith7176 3 роки тому +4

      They think forward and backwards simultaneously, which allows them to create contradictions that cant coexist together. You're right, it's insane. To compound the issue, they will fight tooth and nail to try to make it make sense.

    • @jwreckurtzspawnofdonthedon7376
      @jwreckurtzspawnofdonthedon7376 3 роки тому +1

      Crazy

    • @Saint-Christopher
      @Saint-Christopher 3 роки тому +2

      Where Reese at...?

    • @NoreLyne
      @NoreLyne 3 роки тому

      it’s the hormones, when I’m on my period , I feel all kinds of emotions .. i feel a lot of dopamine in my body , and then moments later I feel emotionally :(

    • @duckfoutube1761
      @duckfoutube1761 3 роки тому +1

      Christopher Nemeth 😂😂😂😂

  • @djdingle247
    @djdingle247 3 роки тому

    😂 Rocky’s manager!!! 😆

  • @mr.g5480
    @mr.g5480 3 роки тому +27

    There's a big difference between Men and Woman who has options..Women tend to follow trends , their whim, without any regards of the consequences ..Men tend to prioritize ,analyze and logically pick the best .

  • @bxslugz
    @bxslugz 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing show. Thank you. 🙏🏽

  • @logicaltoafault6310
    @logicaltoafault6310 3 роки тому +12

    Almost without fail the following claims will be made:
    1. I was young and stupid
    2. The relationship was toxic/abusive
    The first time you hear it you sympathise.
    The second and third you're concerned about men's behaviour.
    The fourth, fifth, sixth... you start realising not only is it the same story, its the 'exact same wording' and more often than not is bullshit.

  • @51lodb
    @51lodb 3 роки тому

    Thanks Kevin for telling the truth . You're making a difference .

  • @lululashlounge
    @lululashlounge 3 роки тому +12

    Man Kevin never misses.He is right.The older women I know have an inflated view of themselves.They think because they have a degree but they have under their belts several marriages,several kids,several affairs,several abortions they get mad when men their age that make as much money as they do or more,choose younger women with no kids and no degree.

  • @mysterymastermind175
    @mysterymastermind175 6 місяців тому

    The breathing example was spot on