For women who hate the car analogy because it makes you feel not special....think about it this way as a car owner I'm not going around changing the oil on others peoples car, not paying for insurance for others people car, I'm not buying new wheels for others peoples cars just mine. She takes me where I need to go and if I treat her right she be with me for a long time.
My ex-girlfriend gave me a hard time about my old car, my simple apartment, my simple clothes. I kept telling her to be patient because I am saving and investing all my money. This was in 2006…she broke up with me in 2007 right before the stock market crash. The crash came and I invested all the money I saved in rock bottom stocks. Fast forward to today I’m in the top 1% when it comes to net worth. I’m married and my wife has a wonderful life. My ex that broke up with me because I wasn’t a flashy, show off type of guy is still single, struggling financially and still searching for the perfect guy. 😂
Most women can’t see past 3 months. I words but not action. Jesus and the preacher becomes their imaginary man which increases the delusional mindset in some cases.
I know a woman that wanted a relationship with me and I declined because of her 2 little kids. She consistently said that money does not matter. She's different. So me being an six figure engineer has nothing to do with it? They can't be honest with themselves. It's ok to want security just like it's ok for me not to want to raise another man's kids. It's ok
@@medusa8019 He said SHE HAD CHILDREN. He didn't say she wasn't married. Learn to read and understand. In fairytales marriage is the happy ending of everything. In life it's just the beginning. People get married but they also get divorce even with children.
They come on like Oh I'm an empty nester,. Shit. Once you start hanging around, these children all gonna start sniffing about like out the woodwork. Fugetaboutit.
Kevin is extremely smart. He will not tell someone what to do. He tells them what necessary for an outcome you say you want and let's the person (if they get it) figure out how to fix their own problem. Good stuff.
@@user-mt4fw6sh9e Humans were divorcing long before the Bible was written and Abraham was born. King Hamnurabi gave the laws of Divorce in 1760 BC according to historians. The Old Testament was written between 700 and 600 BC. Your Judeo-Christian viewpoint of marriage and divorce were shaped by your cultural upbringing. I respect your viewpoint but it is from men and not "a god".
1 person made a comment that I agree on and then 3 of y’all others came on with issues not relating to the original comment. Just highjacked the comment. TF is wrong with y’all. Make your own comment gat damn. Idiots. Anyways. For the original comment, that’s the rub. It’s leading people especially when it comes to conversations. I agree with you.
But at the same time don't create the problem by telling people to fornicate. Legs closed til marriage would solve a lot of these broken family issues in the community.
im 70+. thats the way it used to be everywhere for almost everybody, black and white.. .i was there .i lived it , i saw it ..thats all gone now ..feminism ruined it .. it will not return without a great reset of society... it wont be pretty but thats the only way.... your lucky, be thankful...
0:00 Pre show songs, 🎵 O Além é Aqui by Clara Mendes 🎵 3:44 🎵 Better Kind Of Bitter by Peachy Pavement, Jobii & L.M. Styles Feat. Milva 🎵 6:55 🎵 Keep On Talking by Lionel Quick 🎵 9:02 🎵 Stockholm Love by Mathilda June 🎵 13:12 🎵 Can't Hold It In Anymore by Vividry 🎵 16:10 🎵 repeat of song one 🎵 19:46 🎵 Your Good Lies by Vividry 🎵 22:46 🎬 Show starts, Candle of the evening Le Labo Encens 9 , Fragrance of the evening Creed Aventus, Monologue, Are these men for you? 1:14:19 📱 1st Caller Chena age 39 1:33:01 2nd Caller Jasmine age 33 , 3rd Caller Maribel age 40 , 4th Caller Ayala 1:55:08 back to Jasmine 2:04:50 Closing words 2:14:12 Closing Song
They really are dressing like drag queens from where I'm standing, they are constantly inspiring, and encouraging the next generation to be drag queens before they're even born...
“Mr. Snuffleupagus”. OMG that was priceless!! He hit that bang on…. go look it up, all the way back to 1971, Mr. Snuffleupagus had those BIG eyelashes and they looked okay for a huge muppet, but NOT on women. Oh I miss this man, we needed him…still do! I hope no one ever takes his content down. ☮️
For those who grew up with fathers, you may have had this experience: There is a moment when your father looked weak and humbled. In that state, you didn't take advantage of his weakness. When he told you to do something, you did it, despite how weak and humbled he looked. When you grew up, you never forgot that moment, and in an odd way, it transformed your perspective of life and its challenges. This is one of the most important lessons children need to experience, however, the modern woman takes children away from their father, which results in entitled brats.
Modern women don't take children away from their father. Single moms do (go on, blame the woman for the relationship comming to an end...). And just like a child can see a father weakened and humbled so can a child see a mother weakened and humbled and have the same reaction. What actually makes children entitled is permisiveness and pampering.
Messages are missed when emotions are the controlling factor in the way you decipher things. Kevin's analogy makes a lot of sense, but that first caller was so wrapped up in how she felt about the words used instead of what Kevin was trying to convey to her that it flew over her head.
@@MrIsles192 preach my guy, these dudes talk and listen like they strong independent mama. All emotion no logic. When I hear a dude say I got female friends, I already know not to entertain a convo. I know it ain’t going no where like a car on bricks.
2:06:33 "We have a lack of women who want to be wives. Today we have too many women who want to do what the hell they want to do but they want men to be traditional" - KS That statement pretty much sums up dating in 2021
👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽 Dark, you are soooo right. The main reason I waited to be married is because I wanted to be able to afford a healthy lifestyle for my children! I saw the single moms at work struggling. I didn't have that kind of energy. Been a housewife for 18 years now and I enjoy it 🙌🏽
Facts. But yet, im useless to my child if I'm not 100%. You first then your child. It sounds weird but honestly you can't be empty trying to fill up a cup.
Men are amazing. The women who say that have a poor outlook on life because they have poor character themselves. Who in their right mind would speak against their God given covering!
I had no idea how delusional women were until I started listening to Kevin. “Average” men over 50 are phenomenal! They are “old school”, believe in traditional values and generally want to settle down. If you’re a 40+ woman and open to listening to Kevin and willing to do the work, you’ll have an edge over other women and get what you want if you can give him peace, pleasure and paradise.
So glad he said that ish…. Not one is thinking pass Tuesday. I had this issue with every ex and BW I’ve ever dealt with. That’s why they cannot be on a 5 to 10 year plan. I’ve told em… hey in 5 years we’ll be millionaires, and 10.. multimillionaires. Here’s the plan. 8 years you can retire and never work another day in your life. Here’s our money and here’s the stash. Crickets… Because they don’t think pass Tuesday.
Brother I had the same issue with my ex wife! I did the exact same thing showing her 5 and 10 year plans of saving, investing and budgeting! Brother she bucked at every plan I put fourth! So now I’m good bro. If I ever have a relationship again, it will out of this country!
@@football4914 man we all have the same problems. These chicks don’t wanna do ish. Hell the sad thing is I was already making over $100K. So it’s not like we talking about some “pipe dream stuff” or we might get there one day. Even my cousin who doesn’t even watch this ish said the same thing… “these BW don’t wanna lift a finger to do ish.” I just laughed when he said it. My philosophy at this point is if I gotta do it by myself; might as well be by myself.
@@football4914 And the truth is real simple… who the hell wants to wait until 50 to be a millionaire and living good. It’s really something you wanna work on in your thirties to enjoy in your 40’s. Not at damn 50 when life is almost over after doing it alone for 30 plus years
@@dcuthbertson5778 man exactly! I couldn’t have said it more eloquently! We were bringing in over 100k living in Mississippi! Bro I swear I’m to myself because of it to! And really my first barrier to entry with me is do you workout! If she don’t workout 4 days/week of hard resistance training then I don’t want her anyways! I refuse to be in another relationship where I workout and she don’t!
A long term plan is boring for most folks. Boring coupled with sacrifice and commitment will get you on the road to achieving goals. I get asked, how did you retire so young? It was a 30 year plan. Do you have what it takes to make it happen?
You are correct Kevin once again God made women and men to be together to build a union of marriage family and generational wealth and we threw it out window we replaced the man with our degree families with girl trips and affection with a dog emotion with our purchasing a home and now we are scared as hell realizing we are lonely modern women.
Please speak for yourself Ma’am. (Respectfully) Also, the Bible says you don’t have to marry but if you burn (with lust) you should. It’s about serving the Lord and you can do that married or single.
@@inquisitiveOne111 you sure do have the option but however becoming so modern on women was a blessing and a cursed now we are not needing or desiring to have healthy relationships with our men just giving off male tendencies and yes I support women 💯 but we have gone to far we our need to be right in our bad life long decisions
@@user-mt4fw6sh9e keep God out of this. That's deflection from irresponsible people. We have accepted the fact that 80+% of divorces are filed by women. Not by God.
Woman: I left because he was toxic. Man: What did he do? Woman: He refused to let me spend all my paychecks and half his check on makeup, lashes, wigs and weaves.
@@ryanphillips5591 I hope you're being sarcastic. If you're not, then "financial abuse" is running rampant in Asian countries where the "wife" takes all of the husband's money and only allows him to spend a little of it outside of the household.
One of the Best! ...."He don't breath right"......sums it up perfectly for the most part. Then wreck their homes, hurt their children, and loose good men....so sad...God help us.🤦🏽♂️
Knew it was about to go downhill as soon as shorty said “afro-centric.” And then when she proceeded to say “the white man’s certificate,” that confirmed what i already knew lol 🤦🏽♀️😩
My wife's best friend is a single mom. She comes over and tells my wife how lucky she is to have a guy around and it shows through the kids. I hate seeing women that feel a certain way about men while also seeing her try so hard. It's a really messy situation and it drives me crazy when I see a over weight child that looks exactly like the over weight single mom. Its heart breaking honestly. My daughter is in the 99th percentile In everything she excels in and same for her little brother and she has the audacity to blame it on "oh your child was breastfed". No its because I dont allow my children to smash down candy just to keep them "quite". Its sad how some women raise these fatherless children, really breaks my heart to see a child doing exactly what the mother is doing.
Exactly.. these overweight single moms have overweight lazy kids.. it's not their fault.. but the kids are overweight ,antisocial, smarty pants ,know it alls, and full of fast food and sugar!! God forbid if you have any constructive criticism or advice about these kids!! They are above correction and/or discipline just like their moms are!! Even a man in a house that doesn't make a lot of money is better than no man at all for these kids!!
Be careful letting your wife be friends with a single mother. Unless that woman is a widow that's a no no. Single women and single mothers are a bad influence on married women. Married women should only be friends with other married women.
In regards to the mother of the 4 year old, I was thinking about that the other day, how many of the things I have learned about what makes for a healthy marriage were never explicitly taught me; I learned by _watching_ them being enacted day in, day out: my mother's deference towards my father (in the way she cooked his meals, the silverware she chose, how she stored his food until he came from work); her way of gracefully disagreeing with him; the laughter late at night between the two of them; etc.. And how my father showed strength, dedication, relentlessness, _sternness_ in handling business. His "tone" can sometimes make things seem untrue (because he is so direct), but trust that Mr. Samuels knows what he is talking about.
I agree that you learn about relationships through what you are raised around but KS still didn’t help the woman…she said should I get back out to dating and he said I’m not tell you that, he said to get back with her husband…sometimes you can’t simply get back with your ex, you can’t make some love you, and we don’t know the reasons behind the split….ks didn’t really help her
@@08TeddyGramz _Either get in close proximity to your husband, or start actively dating, so that your daughter can learn through mirroring_ Although, I am paraphrasing, that was the crux of his point. Are you saying that his suggestion was not helpful? If so, what would you suggest the woman do?
If I had listened to this man, then I would have given up, I met my husband at 36, married at 40 and I was a single mother with two kids. Let him tell it, a high value man would never want a woman like me, but every thing in my life fell into place, he’s not always right!
@@Thetrueview409 Thanks for showing once again the low level of comprehension that most people have! He has never said that it could not be done, just it’s not likely for most people! So it’s better to talk in Probability than in possibility.
@@coachmelech773 thanks again for showing us some people don’t have third grade listening skills… he said hvm don’t want this that and the third… not SOME hvm… have a good day
I did not know you could be so silly. I am crying😂😂😂😂 and had to rewind "the breathing". We laugh because we know it's true and our mail is being read. I agree some of us are picky over trivial things, I continually need to get over myself.
I remember when finishing schools and schools of etiquette were common. They need to be brought back. Although we have people like Kevin to bring knowledge, it's not enough.
@ Hoost 305, as a schoolboy, I dreaded school summer holidays. Aside other academic tasks, I had to read to read a charter from the etiquette book on the family's bookshelf. I would be tested on it before school resumed. At the time, I wanted to be out and about with my friends. But, looking back, I am grateful for and to my parents preparing me for life and the best possible outcomes from humble beginnings. Etiquette is forever evolving and parents should not only keep themselves abreast, but also their children- daily.
I’ve been in So. California since January of 1991 and watched the Hispanic community/Latin culture grow and prosper. Like most modern women, their women are in the gyms, universities and professional workforce too but collectively remain submissive to their men despite legal injustices and a disparage of higher paying job opportunities similar to ours. And their women bring their cooperativeness over to whom ever they choose to date/marry without all the workplace competitiveness and combativeness. They simply know how to leave work at work.
Wrong these Latina Harpies are even worse than the succubus given the opportunity. If you want a Latina go to a Latin country where they're not protected by judges lawyers prison scrit is lawyers prison's crooked prosecutors et cetera
With few exceptions, most ladies calling just want to be right. The ability to be quiet and listen is close to nul. Why even call if you can't relax, stop taking everything so personal and learn?
The breathing thing really was a comedy script...you did that well. From Australia...seeing the culture on black woman is messed up...but rest assured it's a western woman culture thing is messed up. Fyi. I'm using your material to prepare my kids to get their head right..x2 girls and x2 boys. Like your work plus I find it entertaining
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central LA_ Salute to the Godfather ✊🏾 1:44:50 _"You're trying to make something work that's not designed to work !"_ 🤯 *Facts over feelings‼*
@@quincysimpson2958 women are Hella inquisitive. I've had a few judge me as a narcissist just because they hear KS. I take it as a compliment and free Tylenol for the headache I dodged.
We really do learn a lot from seeing our parents interact with each other I watched my mother get up at 5:30a every morning to make my dad breakfast before work and then she would hop on the treadmill. Every once in awhile she wouldn’t be a size 6 anymore and would complain about it and leading her to go hard in the gym and diet until she was back to her “happy size” now that I’m older I’m a fitness instructor and refuse to be anything over a size 4. We really do become our mothers 😂
Beautiful show again, thank you for saying that part starting at 1:53:37. Well said and thank you. More to raising a kid besides money. Thank you, no one is saying the things you’re saying in the main stream and we’re losing. Bravo sir
Since I was a small Black child I had a fascination with foreign languages. I would daydream in class about being able to speak Chinese, Arabic, Spanish, Russian etc. In high school I took advanced placement French, and in college I did as many study abroad programs my academic calendar would permit (France, Madagascar, Russia). After doing the Peace Corps (Morocco) in my 20s, by my early 30s I was fluent in French, Arabic, and Turkish. The unexpected result was my dating pool (and social life) exponentially expanded. When you understand a language you develop an understanding of that culture. I am at ease conversing and flirting with Turkish, Arabic, and French-speaking women in THIER own language. I really feel sorry for any man who can only speak his native tongue.
We care about woman so much that we try our hardest to have them understand how this market is played out and how to get what they want in relationships so I appreciate kevin continually educating men and woman on how to move forward together me included ya know
I am a solids control technician for drilling rigs, here in Texas.. we pull in around 91-110k a year we pull in 90 hours a week just monitoring and manipulating the solids, formations, and drilling materials the rig produces.. this Career requires an analysis type of mind I worked my way up to this position I simply will not deal with a modern woman I have had to take calculated risks in my life to get where I am today dealt with the uncertainty.
1:41:50 Single parents always have it hard ... The hardest. My mom raised me and my brother on her own, she had 2 jobs and she had a lot of stress and depression.
Visited my family in Honduras started dating a local and he's right I've never felt so loved and wanted it hurts I'm 30 and I've been complimented more in the last two months then the rest of my life I didn't realize I was missing this
I wish i could just have a KS Bible to help me deal with issues as regards the present day modern women and mostly relationships ..this knowledge is gold everyman should go tthrough a KS mentorship ...
With the woman who was struggling with the concept of comparing a woman to a car, it seems that one of the issues some women have with that is the automatic leap to ownership. From the way that questions are framed and tone comes through, it’s like “you think I’m an object?” Or “do you think that you’re buying me?” But that’s not the point that’s being made.
@Andrew Jackson It’s a very effective strategy. Many times, in my younger years, I world look back after a disagreement and wonder how we ended where we ended. How the subject switched or I ended up in defense when I was originally bringing up an issue that I was concerned with. It was this community that caused me to realize why I didn’t feel heard and had become emotionally cold. You’re right, brother.
Keeping it real with the truth. Most people are not of the truth. Therefore, they have a problem with hearing, seeing, and/or living the truth. Truth is reality and slaps the delusional and fake fools in the face when presented. Thanks for keeping it real, brother!
The breathing analogy is spot on😂😂. . My 1st kid mother friendzoned a guy she went to college with who is an engineer because she said she didn't like the white trim around his lips. He was 6 ft 4. Made about 200k, and had no kids. But the white trim around his lips eliminated him completely from her view. 😂😂😂....I know this because he came to our daughters christening. And he kept looking at her with the dreamy 👀. So I picked up on it and asked her after it was over. She said he always liked her and she could tell. Then she goes into the lips thing 😭. Think he had what's called vintiligo
...unfortunately, a lot of women dismiss a man based on what their friends or family may think of him - regardless of every other endearing quality he may have. Yup, my [still] single butt included - 😔
Thank you man talking for a lot of us 9 to 5 Brothers cuz I'm dealing with a woman just like this and sometimes I feel like talking to her she gone give me an aneurysm and I'm a die early before I'm 35 that's all these women do is bable and argue like they on some reality TV show housewives of Love & hip Hop whichever one they pick and choose 🙏THANK YOU MR. KEVIN🙏 SAMUELS
I’m starting to see a glaring pattern with so many of these callers. They know exactly what they’re doing to people(they always make it seem like they had no idea) and just flat out don’t care. Once treated how they treat others, they consider it abuse. It’s as if others aren’t even human and should be like trained pets to their every whim.
A lot of these women are constantly contradicting themselves. They can be broke as hell, but will cry about not being able to find a man who is financially stable. They hope to find unconditional love, all while carrying a bag full of conditions. This is nuts
They think forward and backwards simultaneously, which allows them to create contradictions that cant coexist together. You're right, it's insane. To compound the issue, they will fight tooth and nail to try to make it make sense.
it’s the hormones, when I’m on my period , I feel all kinds of emotions .. i feel a lot of dopamine in my body , and then moments later I feel emotionally :(
There's a big difference between Men and Woman who has options..Women tend to follow trends , their whim, without any regards of the consequences ..Men tend to prioritize ,analyze and logically pick the best .
Almost without fail the following claims will be made: 1. I was young and stupid 2. The relationship was toxic/abusive The first time you hear it you sympathise. The second and third you're concerned about men's behaviour. The fourth, fifth, sixth... you start realising not only is it the same story, its the 'exact same wording' and more often than not is bullshit.
Man Kevin never misses.He is right.The older women I know have an inflated view of themselves.They think because they have a degree but they have under their belts several marriages,several kids,several affairs,several abortions they get mad when men their age that make as much money as they do or more,choose younger women with no kids and no degree.
For women who hate the car analogy because it makes you feel not special....think about it this way as a car owner I'm not going around changing the oil on others peoples car, not paying for insurance for others people car, I'm not buying new wheels for others peoples cars just mine. She takes me where I need to go and if I treat her right she be with me for a long time.
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Spot on
Also used that car 🚙 analogy for a 🚺past. Example if a car had 50 previous owners‼️ ⚰️👀
The car analogy 👌🏼
Jerry Lewis said it
My ex-girlfriend gave me a hard time about my old car, my simple apartment, my simple clothes. I kept telling her to be patient because I am saving and investing all my money. This was in 2006…she broke up with me in 2007 right before the stock market crash. The crash came and I invested all the money I saved in rock bottom stocks. Fast forward to today I’m in the top 1% when it comes to net worth. I’m married and my wife has a wonderful life. My ex that broke up with me because I wasn’t a flashy, show off type of guy is still single, struggling financially and still searching for the perfect guy. 😂
Most women can’t see past 3 months. I words but not action. Jesus and the preacher becomes their imaginary man which increases the delusional mindset in some cases.
@@yo3rdtier128 obviously your the sensitive one. Replying 😂
@@yo3rdtier128 😂
@@yo3rdtier128 You must be one of those women
@@JerseyBoy489 Absolutely 💯...🤣🤣🤣
Top tier content. There will never be another KS. Rest easy, sir.
Who else had this much class, intelligence, and charisma? God bless this man’s soul.
I know a woman that wanted a relationship with me and I declined because of her 2 little kids. She consistently said that money does not matter. She's different. So me being an six figure engineer has nothing to do with it? They can't be honest with themselves. It's ok to want security just like it's ok for me not to want to raise another man's kids. It's ok
She's different lmao
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@@medusa8019 He said SHE HAD CHILDREN. He didn't say she wasn't married. Learn to read and understand. In fairytales marriage is the happy ending of everything. In life it's just the beginning. People get married but they also get divorce even with children.
They come on like Oh I'm an empty nester,. Shit. Once you start hanging around, these children all gonna start sniffing about like out the woodwork. Fugetaboutit.
Forego bad deals!
Kevin is extremely smart. He will not tell someone what to do. He tells them what necessary for an outcome you say you want and let's the person (if they get it) figure out how to fix their own problem.
Good stuff.
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Humans were divorcing long before the Bible was written and Abraham was born. King Hamnurabi gave the laws of Divorce in 1760 BC according to historians. The Old Testament was written between 700 and 600 BC. Your Judeo-Christian viewpoint of marriage and divorce were shaped by your cultural upbringing. I respect your viewpoint but it is from men and not "a god".
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Actually , the Old Testament . . Is Much older than 700BC 🧐
1 person made a comment that I agree on and then 3 of y’all others came on with issues not relating to the original comment. Just highjacked the comment. TF is wrong with y’all. Make your own comment gat damn. Idiots. Anyways. For the original comment, that’s the rub. It’s leading people especially when it comes to conversations. I agree with you.
@@Looch212
What 🤷, does PI mean ??? 🤔
But at the same time don't create the problem by telling people to fornicate. Legs closed til marriage would solve a lot of these broken family issues in the community.
LOL!!! He said that these women have eyelashes like “Snuffleupagus”…HILARIOUS!!!
Cumbrellas
I agree with 95% of what Mr. Samuels says. I am just blessed to have an African woman from Kenya who cherishes and respects me.
The best feeling i experienced is putting up the Christmas tree with my lady & our daughter ❤️ knowing i have my own family now is everything 💯🖤
Congratulations and best wishes Omillio!
@Albert Pike What's wrong with a Christmas tree? People celebrate different things in different ways.
Merry Christmas to you and your family ❤️. Good bless🙏
Yes sir! It’s such a blessing!
im 70+. thats the way it used to be everywhere for almost everybody, black and white.. .i was there .i lived it , i saw it ..thats all gone now ..feminism ruined it .. it will not return without a great reset of society... it wont be pretty but thats the only way.... your lucky, be thankful...
@Albert Pike couldn't be me. Putting up a tree in the house. Lmao.
Time stamps
0:00 Pre show songs, 🎵 O Além é Aqui by Clara Mendes 🎵
3:44 🎵 Better Kind Of Bitter by Peachy Pavement, Jobii & L.M. Styles Feat. Milva 🎵
6:55 🎵 Keep On Talking by Lionel Quick 🎵
9:02 🎵 Stockholm Love by Mathilda June 🎵
13:12 🎵 Can't Hold It In Anymore by Vividry 🎵
16:10 🎵 repeat of song one 🎵
19:46 🎵 Your Good Lies by Vividry 🎵
22:46 🎬 Show starts, Candle of the evening Le Labo Encens 9 , Fragrance of the evening Creed Aventus, Monologue, Are these men for you?
1:14:19 📱 1st Caller Chena age 39
1:33:01 2nd Caller Jasmine age 33 , 3rd Caller Maribel age 40 , 4th Caller Ayala
1:55:08 back to Jasmine
2:04:50 Closing words
2:14:12 Closing Song
Thank you DeShawn for the timeline
Much appreciated, brother!
Always on point with the timestamps!
You the 🐐 for doing this most shows! Much needed
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Kevin made me spit my Patron out when he said " Modern women are dressing like drag queens 😂😂😂😂
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They really are dressing like drag queens from where I'm standing, they are constantly inspiring, and encouraging the next generation to be drag queens before they're even born...
It’s a strange dynamic
Not me baby!!!💜😉
@House of Guards Right 🤮
"only women, children and dogs get loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something." - Chris Rock
“Mr. Snuffleupagus”. OMG that was priceless!! He hit that bang on…. go look it up, all the way back to 1971, Mr. Snuffleupagus had those BIG eyelashes and they looked okay for a huge muppet, but NOT on women. Oh I miss this man, we needed him…still do! I hope no one ever takes his content down. ☮️
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥!!!!!!! 💎💎💎💎💎!!!!!! Rest in Peace GODFATHER !!!!!!! 🙏🏾🕊🙏🏾🕊🙏🏾🕊!!!!!!!!!
i screamed when he talked about the breathing 😂😭 i needed that laugh. thanks godfather
For those who grew up with fathers, you may have had this experience: There is a moment when your father looked weak and humbled. In that state, you didn't take advantage of his weakness. When he told you to do something, you did it, despite how weak and humbled he looked. When you grew up, you never forgot that moment, and in an odd way, it transformed your perspective of life and its challenges. This is one of the most important lessons children need to experience, however, the modern woman takes children away from their father, which results in entitled brats.
Modern women don't take children away from their father. Single moms do (go on, blame the woman for the relationship comming to an end...).
And just like a child can see a father weakened and humbled so can a child see a mother weakened and humbled and have the same reaction. What actually makes children entitled is permisiveness and pampering.
@@technolus5742 huh? Are you just trying to sound smart? Da heck you mean?
@@Gr8nessnMe070 He tried simping for modern women, while trying not to seem like he was simping for modern women.
He didn't try hard enough
Essence of manhood encapsulated!!!
Truth.
Messages are missed when emotions are the controlling factor in the way you decipher things. Kevin's analogy makes a lot of sense, but that first caller was so wrapped up in how she felt about the words used instead of what Kevin was trying to convey to her that it flew over her head.
This happens way too often, not just with women but with men too.
@@MrIsles192 preach my guy, these dudes talk and listen like they strong independent mama. All emotion no logic. When I hear a dude say I got female friends, I already know not to entertain a convo. I know it ain’t going no where like a car on bricks.
2:06:33 "We have a lack of women who want to be wives. Today we have too many women who want to do what the hell they want to do but they want men to be traditional" - KS
That statement pretty much sums up dating in 2021
👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽 Dark, you are soooo right. The main reason I waited to be married is because I wanted to be able to afford a healthy lifestyle for my children! I saw the single moms at work struggling. I didn't have that kind of energy. Been a housewife for 18 years now and I enjoy it 🙌🏽
Once you bring a child in this world it’s not about you anymore.
Facts. But yet, im useless to my child if I'm not 100%. You first then your child. It sounds weird but honestly you can't be empty trying to fill up a cup.
Facts
I thonk he meant just you @@nickyamertil9458
I love when married women call. There's no screaming and playing victim or manipulation. It's just straight forward and honest.
This monologue is awesome. My confidence is going way up after years of getting beat down and hearing "men ain't shit"
@@user-mt4fw6sh9e
Who hurt you?
Yeah man it's amazing the effect of hearing that over time. Time for us to put a stop to it.
Men are amazing. The women who say that have a poor outlook on life because they have poor character themselves. Who in their right mind would speak against their God given covering!
I had no idea how delusional women were until I started listening to Kevin. “Average” men over 50 are phenomenal! They are “old school”, believe in traditional values and generally want to settle down. If you’re a 40+ woman and open to listening to Kevin and willing to do the work, you’ll have an edge over other women and get what you want if you can give him peace, pleasure and paradise.
I don't think they heard you speak a little louder for those whose ears is not receptive...
No lies here!
Well such men might not recognize the existence of such walking dead women……
Isaiah 4:1
Speak up for the audience in the back!
Listen toots the reason why HVM don't choose you to be their spouse is because you don't meet their expectation, nuff said.
“You tryna make me look crazy,” going right up there with, “I’m a Phd,” in the Die Alone Hall of Fame.
Kevin is the GOAT of keeping it 💯 with women. No compromise, no pandering, straight truth. That’s what we all need.
So glad he said that ish…. Not one is thinking pass Tuesday. I had this issue with every ex and BW I’ve ever dealt with. That’s why they cannot be on a 5 to 10 year plan. I’ve told em… hey in 5 years we’ll be millionaires, and 10.. multimillionaires. Here’s the plan. 8 years you can retire and never work another day in your life. Here’s our money and here’s the stash. Crickets… Because they don’t think pass Tuesday.
Brother I had the same issue with my ex wife! I did the exact same thing showing her 5 and 10 year plans of saving, investing and budgeting! Brother she bucked at every plan I put fourth! So now I’m good bro. If I ever have a relationship again, it will out of this country!
@@football4914 man we all have the same problems. These chicks don’t wanna do ish. Hell the sad thing is I was already making over $100K. So it’s not like we talking about some “pipe dream stuff” or we might get there one day. Even my cousin who doesn’t even watch this ish said the same thing… “these BW don’t wanna lift a finger to do ish.” I just laughed when he said it. My philosophy at this point is if I gotta do it by myself; might as well be by myself.
@@football4914 And the truth is real simple… who the hell wants to wait until 50 to be a millionaire and living good. It’s really something you wanna work on in your thirties to enjoy in your 40’s. Not at damn 50 when life is almost over after doing it alone for 30 plus years
@@dcuthbertson5778 man exactly! I couldn’t have said it more eloquently! We were bringing in over 100k living in Mississippi! Bro I swear I’m to myself because of it to! And really my first barrier to entry with me is do you workout! If she don’t workout 4 days/week of hard resistance training then I don’t want her anyways! I refuse to be in another relationship where I workout and she don’t!
A long term plan is boring for most folks. Boring coupled with sacrifice and commitment will get you on the road to achieving goals.
I get asked, how did you retire so young? It was a 30 year plan. Do you have what it takes to make it happen?
Came back to watch all your shows King
You are correct Kevin once again God made women and men to be together to build a union of marriage family and generational wealth and we threw it out window we replaced the man with our degree families with girl trips and affection with a dog emotion with our purchasing a home and now we are scared as hell realizing we are lonely modern women.
Please speak for yourself Ma’am. (Respectfully)
Also, the Bible says you don’t have to marry but if you burn (with lust) you should. It’s about serving the Lord and you can do that married or single.
@@inquisitiveOne111 you sure do have the option but however becoming so modern on women was a blessing and a cursed now we are not needing or desiring to have healthy relationships with our men just giving off male tendencies and yes I support women 💯 but we have gone to far we our need to be right in our bad life long decisions
My man is brutal!!! This is how I taught lessons to my daughters as they were growing up to be adults!!!
Man when he did the breathing part I hit the floor in tears, this man just keeps knocking it out the park!!!!!!!!
The ending is so well put together loved it love the work Kevin
What's up bro
Made me stick around.
@@user-mt4fw6sh9e keep God out of this. That's deflection from irresponsible people. We have accepted the fact that 80+% of divorces are filed by women. Not by God.
Saying he is the "Kelly Blue Book" is classic. Lol
Who didn’t crack up when Kevin was going in about how she hates how he breathes? 😂😂😂😂😂
Re watching because it is so darn funny.
Another absolute Banger !! This is definitely a Classic
“He don’t breathe right “ 😭😭😂
Woman: I left because he was toxic.
Man: What did he do?
Woman: He refused to let me spend all my paychecks and half his check on makeup, lashes, wigs and weaves.
Sir that is financial abuse
😂 you are cute 😊
🤦♂️
@@ryanphillips5591 I hope you're being sarcastic. If you're not, then "financial abuse" is running rampant in Asian countries where the "wife" takes all of the husband's money and only allows him to spend a little of it outside of the household.
Only to cover it with a bonnet anyway 😂😂😂😂
One of the Best! ...."He don't breath right"......sums it up perfectly for the most part. Then wreck their homes, hurt their children, and loose good men....so sad...God help us.🤦🏽♂️
Knew it was about to go downhill as soon as shorty said “afro-centric.” And then when she proceeded to say “the white man’s certificate,” that confirmed what i already knew lol 🤦🏽♀️😩
ignorant wmn doesn't realise the white man didnt invent marriage
@@fgcpeak9591 she made NO sense lol.
Victim mentality and lack of accountability smh
Her ass was not being coherent at all.. lawdd!!
Marriage is sacred in every single African culture. Black or Arab. That woman was high!
Time for 10 pushups for every "i feel like" gents! Lets get it 💪🏾
Hello 👋 how are you doing today?
I'm about to look like Tookie Williams 🏋🏾♂️
My muscles id swallowed now ..
@@DizzKoMane 🤣 thats it get it
@@DanDan-lo8nt you gonna feel the pain🤣
Kevin you are a master in sales. Big inspiration. Sweden needs your message 🤯
Hello Joel 👋 how are you doing?
@@lisakaren8077 hello Lisa! Hi
My wife's best friend is a single mom. She comes over and tells my wife how lucky she is to have a guy around and it shows through the kids. I hate seeing women that feel a certain way about men while also seeing her try so hard. It's a really messy situation and it drives me crazy when I see a over weight child that looks exactly like the over weight single mom. Its heart breaking honestly. My daughter is in the 99th percentile In everything she excels in and same for her little brother and she has the audacity to blame it on "oh your child was breastfed". No its because I dont allow my children to smash down candy just to keep them "quite". Its sad how some women raise these fatherless children, really breaks my heart to see a child doing exactly what the mother is doing.
These moms on Instagram still trying to turn up are going to raise their grand children
Exactly.. these overweight single moms have overweight lazy kids.. it's not their fault.. but the kids are overweight ,antisocial, smarty pants ,know it alls, and full of fast food and sugar!! God forbid if you have any constructive criticism or advice about these kids!! They are above correction and/or discipline just like their moms are!! Even a man in a house that doesn't make a lot of money is better than no man at all for these kids!!
Congrats bro, keep up the good work with your family but be careful around her best friend.
@@individualized1 exactly!!
Be careful letting your wife be friends with a single mother. Unless that woman is a widow that's a no no. Single women and single mothers are a bad influence on married women. Married women should only be friends with other married women.
Women don't take criticism that well when u speaking the FACTS
@@yo3rdtier128 control your emotions. Feminine men speak like that.
@@yo3rdtier128 And your comment is a prime example of what I said and thats BIG FACTS
In regards to the mother of the 4 year old, I was thinking about that the other day, how many of the things I have learned about what makes for a healthy marriage were never explicitly taught me; I learned by _watching_ them being enacted day in, day out: my mother's deference towards my father (in the way she cooked his meals, the silverware she chose, how she stored his food until he came from work); her way of gracefully disagreeing with him; the laughter late at night between the two of them; etc.. And how my father showed strength, dedication, relentlessness, _sternness_ in handling business.
His "tone" can sometimes make things seem untrue (because he is so direct), but trust that Mr. Samuels knows what he is talking about.
I agree that you learn about relationships through what you are raised around but KS still didn’t help the woman…she said should I get back out to dating and he said I’m not tell you that, he said to get back with her husband…sometimes you can’t simply get back with your ex, you can’t make some love you, and we don’t know the reasons behind the split….ks didn’t really help her
@@08TeddyGramz _Either get in close proximity to your husband, or start actively dating, so that your daughter can learn through mirroring_
Although, I am paraphrasing, that was the crux of his point. Are you saying that his suggestion was not helpful? If so, what would you suggest the woman do?
@teddyhines He helped her completely. She simply does not want to accept reality.
@@uncleroams279
@@08TeddyGramz "love"? You don't listen to this show very well then. It's not about love. It's duty and responsibility.
Ladies if you know what’s good for you y’all better listen to this man. I can’t stress it enough
If I had listened to this man, then I would have given up, I met my husband at 36, married at 40 and I was a single mother with two kids. Let him tell it, a high value man would never want a woman like me, but every thing in my life fell into place, he’s not always right!
@@Thetrueview409 Thanks for showing once again the low level of comprehension that most people have! He has never said that it could not be done, just it’s not likely for most people! So it’s better to talk in Probability than in possibility.
@@coachmelech773 thanks again for showing us some people don’t have third grade listening skills… he said hvm don’t want this that and the third… not SOME hvm… have a good day
@House of Guards I’m not posting a damn thing to prove anybody wrong, I know what happens in the real world! Bye ✌🏽
Hello James 👋 how are you doing?
I did not know you could be so silly. I am crying😂😂😂😂 and had to rewind "the breathing". We laugh because we know it's true and our mail is being read. I agree some of us are picky over trivial things, I continually need to get over myself.
I remember when finishing schools and schools of etiquette were common. They need to be brought back. Although we have people like Kevin to bring knowledge, it's not enough.
You know that stuff and see the problem? Great. Please start a channel teaching it. If you do, let me know. I'll be your first subscriber.
@@user-mt4fw6sh9e what random ass post is this?
@ Hoost 305, as a schoolboy, I dreaded school summer holidays. Aside other academic tasks, I had to read to read a charter from the etiquette book on the family's bookshelf. I would be tested on it before school resumed. At the time, I wanted to be out and about with my friends. But, looking back, I am grateful for and to my parents preparing me for life and the best possible outcomes from humble beginnings.
Etiquette is forever evolving and parents should not only keep themselves abreast, but also their children- daily.
😂😂 "I need a Dude with Asthma he breath to boring" I had to pause the video till i could stop laughing!
Yes 100% Young Men, get a Mentor or Coach! Much Needed these days!
I’ve been in So. California since January of 1991 and watched the Hispanic community/Latin culture grow and prosper. Like most modern women, their women are in the gyms, universities and professional workforce too but collectively remain submissive to their men despite legal injustices and a disparage of higher paying job opportunities similar to ours. And their women bring their cooperativeness over to whom ever they choose to date/marry without all the workplace competitiveness and combativeness. They simply know how to leave work at work.
Wrong these Latina Harpies are even worse than the succubus given the opportunity. If you want a Latina go to a Latin country where they're not protected by judges lawyers prison scrit is lawyers prison's crooked prosecutors et cetera
And you prolly never dated one to know plenty of black men complain about same thing they do with BW
Facts same in Florida
@@markb8644 Yes, I was swarmed by the baddest Afro-Latinas in Orlando in 1990 before coming to Cali.
So why don’t you marry a Latina?
The wisdom and facts here on this channel have changed my life.
his analogies be on point...💪🏿💪🏿
"His elbow ain't right..." LOL!!!
With few exceptions, most ladies calling just want to be right. The ability to be quiet and listen is close to nul. Why even call if you can't relax, stop taking everything so personal and learn?
Hello Gilbert how are you doing?
It's all about being single, emotionally, spiritually and financially...🧬🧬🧬
The breathing thing really was a comedy script...you did that well. From Australia...seeing the culture on black woman is messed up...but rest assured it's a western woman culture thing is messed up. Fyi. I'm using your material to prepare my kids to get their head right..x2 girls and x2 boys. Like your work plus I find it entertaining
Kevin had me dead with that breathing expedition 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
_Tappin' in from South Central LA_
Salute to the Godfather ✊🏾
1:44:50
_"You're trying to make something work that's not designed to work !"_ 🤯
*Facts over feelings‼*
"His breathing is too normal!"😄😄😄
I no longer vette the ladies I date. We sit down and watch KS. Depending on their reaction determines how much we move forward.
Damn… that sounds hella risky lol
@@quincysimpson2958 women are Hella inquisitive. I've had a few judge me as a narcissist just because they hear KS. I take it as a compliment and free Tylenol for the headache I dodged.
@@freshlysaltedfishing8500 I’m gonna start doing this
Smart 💯
KS your shows get better and better like fine wine! Keep it up!
KS said that women want a n$gga with asthma, shortness of breath....whooping cough🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I am phucking done yo
The breathing parallel got me! I'm done early in the show!! Lol 🤣🤣🤣
God DAMN is he so spot on! Across the board on all colors.
This man needs to write a book
“I don’t need a cookbook.” Lol 😂
Yo he said looking like micky! Come on Rocky.
We really do learn a lot from seeing our parents interact with each other I watched my mother get up at 5:30a every morning to make my dad breakfast before work and then she would hop on the treadmill. Every once in awhile she wouldn’t be a size 6 anymore and would complain about it and leading her to go hard in the gym and diet until she was back to her “happy size” now that I’m older I’m a fitness instructor and refuse to be anything over a size 4. We really do become our mothers 😂
All of God's love to you ma'am.
👌
Yes we do because mines was used and abused has mental issues and same thing happened to me
My mom was similar . And now we are trainers too ! The body was meant to move, nutrition and exercise that’s it !
Wow she knew the assignment 🤣 we love that shit 😂 she put in effort , salute to your mom
Beautiful show again, thank you for saying that part starting at 1:53:37. Well said and thank you. More to raising a kid besides money. Thank you, no one is saying the things you’re saying in the main stream and we’re losing. Bravo sir
I read the Moynihan Report because of you. Very interesting, thank you.
The _Moynihan Scissors_ ✂️ is the most enlightening part.
Seems very current from I first read it in the 80s.
I would love my kids mother to call in on his show... it would actually make my day 😃
"I like him but his elbow ain't right" LMAOOOOOoooo
💯💯💯💯💥💥💥💥 Your verbal "monologue" smackdowns loaded with TRUTH are enough alone to wake up the lazy or dead - THANK YOU
Since I was a small Black child I had a fascination with foreign languages. I would daydream in class about being able to speak Chinese, Arabic, Spanish, Russian etc. In high school I took advanced placement French, and in college I did as many study abroad programs my academic calendar would permit (France, Madagascar, Russia). After doing the Peace Corps (Morocco) in my 20s, by my early 30s I was fluent in French, Arabic, and Turkish. The unexpected result was my dating pool (and social life) exponentially expanded. When you understand a language you develop an understanding of that culture. I am at ease conversing and flirting with Turkish, Arabic, and French-speaking women in THIER own language. I really feel sorry for any man who can only speak his native tongue.
Money is the language of love.
You can be a Mute and pull these women as long as you got the funds.
@@RW2996 😂😂😂😂👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
We care about woman so much that we try our hardest to have them understand how this market is played out and how to get what they want in relationships so I appreciate kevin continually educating men and woman on how to move forward together me included ya know
Thank you Godfather for opening my eyes even more with some real knowledge.
People without personal accountability is our country’s most abundant natural resource.
Who ended the relationship?
I did.
EVERY DAMN TIME
He’s 1000000% correct and I’m Puerto Rican and Mexican. lol thank you Kevin 🙌🏼
When they come in saying I agree with most of what you say. I know it’s fenna be a good night.. 😂🤣
“U Tryin to make me look crazy…”
U did a good job of that on your own ma’am.
I am a solids control technician for drilling rigs, here in Texas.. we pull in around 91-110k a year we pull in 90 hours a week just monitoring and manipulating the solids, formations, and drilling materials the rig produces.. this Career requires an analysis type of mind I worked my way up to this position I simply will not deal with a modern woman I have had to take calculated risks in my life to get where I am today dealt with the uncertainty.
BLESSINGS OF ABUNDANCE TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
KS.
1:41:50
Single parents always have it hard ...
The hardest.
My mom raised me and my brother on her own, she had 2 jobs and she had a lot of stress and depression.
Stop have babies being a single...........
That is what your mom signed up for......oh well.
Visited my family in Honduras started dating a local and he's right I've never felt so loved and wanted it hurts I'm 30 and I've been complimented more in the last two months then the rest of my life I didn't realize I was missing this
Shoutout to you for finding happiness brother
If they are no gold diggers, congratulations! :)
@@Kritikanbringer if she a gold digger she needs to kill her prospector 😤
@@duckfoutube1761 thanks
"Walking around in special effects" haha
I wish i could just have a KS Bible to help me deal with issues as regards the present day modern women and mostly relationships ..this knowledge is gold everyman should go tthrough a KS mentorship ...
With the woman who was struggling with the concept of comparing a woman to a car, it seems that one of the issues some women have with that is the automatic leap to ownership. From the way that questions are framed and tone comes through, it’s like “you think I’m an object?” Or “do you think that you’re buying me?” But that’s not the point that’s being made.
@Andrew Jackson It’s a very effective strategy. Many times, in my younger years, I world look back after a disagreement and wonder how we ended where we ended. How the subject switched or I ended up in defense when I was originally bringing up an issue that I was concerned with. It was this community that caused me to realize why I didn’t feel heard and had become emotionally cold. You’re right, brother.
Keeping it real with the truth. Most people are not of the truth. Therefore, they have a problem with hearing, seeing, and/or living the truth. Truth is reality and slaps the delusional and fake fools in the face when presented. Thanks for keeping it real, brother!
The breathing analogy is spot on😂😂. . My 1st kid mother friendzoned a guy she went to college with who is an engineer because she said she didn't like the white trim around his lips. He was 6 ft 4. Made about 200k, and had no kids. But the white trim around his lips eliminated him completely from her view. 😂😂😂....I know this because he came to our daughters christening. And he kept looking at her with the dreamy 👀. So I picked up on it and asked her after it was over. She said he always liked her and she could tell. Then she goes into the lips thing 😭. Think he had what's called vintiligo
...unfortunately, a lot of women dismiss a man based on what their friends or family may think of him - regardless of every other endearing quality he may have. Yup, my [still] single butt included - 😔
Thank you man talking for a lot of us 9 to 5 Brothers cuz I'm dealing with a woman just like this and sometimes I feel like talking to her she gone give me an aneurysm and I'm a die early before I'm 35 that's all these women do is bable and argue like they on some reality TV show housewives of Love & hip Hop whichever one they pick and choose 🙏THANK YOU MR. KEVIN🙏 SAMUELS
Help yourself out bro....RUN!. You will thank yourself many many times.
I’m starting to see a glaring pattern with so many of these callers. They know exactly what they’re doing to people(they always make it seem like they had no idea) and just flat out don’t care. Once treated how they treat others, they consider it abuse. It’s as if others aren’t even human and should be like trained pets to their every whim.
Egocentrism
"The way he breaths" got me rolling on the floor.
A lot of these women are constantly contradicting themselves. They can be broke as hell, but will cry about not being able to find a man who is financially stable. They hope to find unconditional love, all while carrying a bag full of conditions. This is nuts
They think forward and backwards simultaneously, which allows them to create contradictions that cant coexist together. You're right, it's insane. To compound the issue, they will fight tooth and nail to try to make it make sense.
Crazy
Where Reese at...?
it’s the hormones, when I’m on my period , I feel all kinds of emotions .. i feel a lot of dopamine in my body , and then moments later I feel emotionally :(
Christopher Nemeth 😂😂😂😂
😂 Rocky’s manager!!! 😆
There's a big difference between Men and Woman who has options..Women tend to follow trends , their whim, without any regards of the consequences ..Men tend to prioritize ,analyze and logically pick the best .
Amazing show. Thank you. 🙏🏽
Almost without fail the following claims will be made:
1. I was young and stupid
2. The relationship was toxic/abusive
The first time you hear it you sympathise.
The second and third you're concerned about men's behaviour.
The fourth, fifth, sixth... you start realising not only is it the same story, its the 'exact same wording' and more often than not is bullshit.
Thanks Kevin for telling the truth . You're making a difference .
Man Kevin never misses.He is right.The older women I know have an inflated view of themselves.They think because they have a degree but they have under their belts several marriages,several kids,several affairs,several abortions they get mad when men their age that make as much money as they do or more,choose younger women with no kids and no degree.
The breathing example was spot on