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"Yeah but it was Danny DeVito" 💀💀
Sex dreams about Danny DeVito are always acceptable. Encouraged even
I'd wonder what makes my partner find me physically attractive if they were having sex dreams about him.
Lol
Fair enough
i get it tbh
Who's that
"I don't even have any friends" me too bro me too
but at least he has a gf 💀
ISTG! I HAS NEITHER @@lalafuzzy943 👍
so true@@lalafuzzy943
I’ll be your friend
This made me sad and everybody just laughing about it even his girlfriend 💀🥲
“B*tch wouldn’t even get that close” 😂
They are so cute...and they are waiting till marriage
Goals
Are we not gonna talk about how the aesthetics of the couples match.
luv this
Couple at 7:22 could be in a magazine
@@amunre3667the couples at 1:53,5:11 and 3:44 too!!!
Too gorgeous
RIGHTTT i was gonna mention this! they all have similar style, hair, and body language with their partner
If you told me 7:06 are father and daughter I would believe you, and they seem toxic too, holy shit!
things don’t have to be *technically* cheating to make your or your partner uncomfortable, jealous, or upset. not every boundary is about cheating, it’s about respect for your partner’s feelings.
I think cheating is the act of breaking a boundary. Fundamentally, that's what it is. It's doing something, anything, that you have both agreed should not be done.
yup
@@mikepictor Really? So if you forget to take out the trash you agreed to that's cheating?
thats an insane example that doesnt fit into this conversation and you know it lmao@@immanuelcunt7296
huge difference between thinking and considering
You're obviously a home wrecker. 🚫
Well, not really. Considering is carefully thinking about something. 😊
@@pollyseip just stay out of this, and let me handle it. 👍🍻
Why even think about it tho? Can't people just find each other attractive and keep it at that, why the extra step of "oh pretty human let me think about banging them" while they have a partner straight away?
Thinking and considering is literally the same thing…
My husband and I literally had this conversation a few weeks ago, and his response was “I know we’re good, because I’m terrified of STI’s, and you hate everyone” 😂😂😂
Accurate on all counts.
I used to think checking your partner’s phone was an invasion of their privacy but then I thought about it again. How can you give someone access to your private body but phones are off limits? At the time my ex was acting funny so codergodson1 got me full access to sms, video calls, social media accounts without any trace back to me or getting detected at all and all I can say is it changed my life for good.
Those arent good reasons girlie.
If STI's didn't exist he'd prolly consider it then. Makes sense.
Relax guys, it’s a joke
that's exactly what my ex said to me, roles reversed tho and he still cheated on me
The "maybe because I was newly married" dude knew he fck'd up the moment his words came out of his mouth
Yeah talk about a red ass flag lmao
Silent car ride home
Well I disagree. Getting married can feel like having a baby, after that your mind is 100% committed to your spouse, all you can think of is them, all the time. It's a very irrational way of thinking: it's not that you don't consider cheating, it's just that you cannot see other people in any form of sexualized or romantic way. After that "honeymoon phase" things get back to normal and you just know that you are not going to cheat because you can think more rationally, you love your partner and that's it. Anyways, not the smartest move from him but no fuck up at all for me.
Also many women aren't interested in you until another woman is interested in you.
@@malop.2941I like the comparison and explanation you gave. I hadn't put much thought into it but that's very true, at least in my case.
"A bitch wouldn't even get that close" Well said sir!
King shit fr 👑
If you're not willing to do it in front of your partner, it's cheating. Flirting, kissing, touching, etc.
This
this is the right answer.
@@Betweoxwitegan 🤨
@@Betweoxwitegan 😂🤣 you can’t be serious
@@Betweoxwitegan why is there always one of y’all that just be doing the most .. like what you got going on
0:51 “My needs weren’t being met” isn’t an excuse to cheat. This is essentially the same answer as the person admitting to cheating out of insecurity because he “wasn’t getting enough attention”, except his answer takes responsibility and the first one does not.
I don't think he was justifying his cheating. If anything, I think he was being self-reflective
@@chrisr393 I agree 100%. My comment was referring to how the first girl made excuses meanwhile the second guy took responsibility for his actions although the reasons for cheating were essentially the same for both
It may not justify cheating, but it can 100% be a reason for the cheating
But that is a valid reason though? Doesn't make it right.
When would it be justified?
I think about cheating the same way i think about jumping out my car on the motorway. Its an intrusive thought. Thinking about it... makes me less likely to do it. Makes me realise... "fuck, that would be shitty". *considering* cheating... is different. But still not the same as cheating. With some i imagine there are circumstances where weakness prevents itself... and they beat it. Realise what you actually want and should do. I say that as someone who can't even imagine wanting to cheat.
Agreed! 👏👏some folks don’t understand intrusive thoughts and it shows.
I was surprised more people didn't talk about it coming up as an intrusive thought, like not cheating with a person in particular but just the unwanted thought of cheating on your partner in general.
😂 🤡
Do it plz😂😂
*presents
Really fascinating to hear what different folks consider to be cheating. To me personally it means willfully overstepping agreed upon boundaries. So prerequisites are A) you know your partners boundaries and B) you willfully ignore them. Everybody makes mistakes and in close emotional relationships people are bound to get hurt. But hurting you partners feelings by accident and intentionally and egoistically satisfying one of your own needs knowing your SO is not cool with it is what distinguishes cheating for me personally.
okay so like if my partner had a boundary that they didn’t want me to raise my voice during arguments and i willfully overstep that, is that cheating? i’m not trying to be rude btw just challenging your definition bc i think it may be a little broad.
@@bethanyray6421I think the person above meant like boundaries such as talking to your ex, getting a little too close and touchy with your friends, role playing with other people in a inappropriate ways, flirting with other people and not putting peoples offers down if they ask your partner out. Some of these examples are boundaries from my own friends relationships that their partners crossed.
So the person above meant like personal boundaries and such. Especially if you’re unhappy with your relationship and you go outside of your relationship to get needs met outside of your partner. It’s about letting your SO know about these things, and not crossing their boundaries, Then that is a discussion you need to have with your partner.
But for your example, If your partner is raising your voice to you, it’s not cheating, but for sure it can be quite upsetting. For that aspect it’s better to talk your feelings out than raise your voice and have a screaming match, tbh that’s a different discussion to be had….
Interesting, to me cheating falls under being privately intimate with someone else. I say intimate because it means closeness.
If you're hiding any sort of intimacy from your partner you're cheating in my eyes.
Need to put this definition into Webster's goddamn
I’ve never been relationship but does most people in relationships have a discussion at the start of what is considered cheating or overstepping a boundary or is it just expected to already be known?
the guy who said she’d never leave him if he cheated is weird ash bruh. they definitely have a toxic power dynamic
Right like whys nobody talked about that??? The audacity
She should RUN
She said for flirting. Sounds like an overly jealous dynamic and him defending himself against a toxic woman
@@MC-ep8cu So you wouldn't leave your girlfriend if she was flirting with someone else? I guess you wouldn't since you're a non toxic man.
@nyx7344 no I wouldn't leave my wife and she wouldn't leave me over it because we aren't little whiney bitches.
C'mon there's a difference between flirting and cheating. Some people just flirt for fun without serious intentions and it's an over reaction to break up with someone over
"Kissed my girlypop" loooool hearing terms like this in casual conversations crack me up 🤣😂
Big round of applause to everyone who said no even though the bar shouldn’t be that low
I'll cheat on myself, before I cheat on you! ❤️👍🍻
Bigger round of applause for those who were honest enough to say yes in Public
@@sergiodelrioreyes7655 not something to be proud of
@@terri02better to b true to urself tho
@@officialnayzz if they have the thought to cheat they might as well be single
5:10 "If you ever cheat on me, I will beat you with a shovel."
Her partner: giggles cutely
They are both such cute individuals and partners! They are engaged btw!
they are!
❤
Whereas I hear that and want to run in the opposite direction. Holy possession issues. In what other situation would we accept our partners saying if were to do something that is how they would react (jokingly or not).
They are such a good looking couple
What's their @
You're only writing that because they're women, you goof
6:19 GIRL RUN! 😬🏃♀🙄
Bro who said a chick can’t get that close to him to rub his nipped has me rolling 🤣 brother man loyal
Ong
I'm always baffled by people that don't want their partner talking to whatever gender they're attracted to. That's just a huge chunk of the population that they can't interact with without you throwing a fit, and that's insane. To me it shows an incredible lack of trust in your partner, and if that's the case, you probably shouldn't be in a relationship with them.
you’re so real for this
I wish they spent more time on the "Can your partner have [relevant gender] friends?", because anyone saying no to that is a BIG warning flag for me.
Exactly like I prefer my bfs to have friends that are girls cause they’ll understand me a lot more and vise versa
Obviously you skipped over the part that the opposite gender can easily take an opportunity to get too close, then personal information about their partner is eventually breached, then possibly the “catching feelings” phase begins.
For me I wouldn’t trust it unless boundaries are taken so it doesn’t get to that point.
@@sleepysioOr, it could be used against you, anything can happen.
I always love the diversity in the couples that cut shows
3:42 CORRECT ANSWER MY BROTHA
I feel so bad for the girl who has been cheated on in all her relationships… that means even her current relationship. I’d have trust issues.
4:40 brother go go go, run as fast as you can
Same with 6:25 .. girl run tf away from here
It’s how the guy at 1:40 was waiting patiently to hear the guy he should look out for in his friend group 😅
6:18 this man is the living embodiment of a Reddit moderator 💀
Girl.. run 🏃♀️
7:05 bro someone send help to that woman
I was surprised more comments didn't say this
Absolutely, exactly what I came here to comment on and look for comments about.
Is this just because of the age difference? Because the couple @5:00 also has the same age difference...
green card
@@Pou1gie1 no but the dude looks controlling as hell + the age difference makes me think that she feels like she has to stay with him and they have a sugar daddy thing going on
Cut gave some of these couples some things to have a big talk about at home or at least on the way home
I dumped my ex and got with my now husband a week later. I didn’t want to be with my ex and didn’t want to cheat so I did the best thing and I left!
My ex was awful
Wow tbh that's really quick but good that your in a good relationship
Have faith in Jesus to be saved.
Probably hurts like a bih but I'd much rather be left than cheated on
@@IloveJesus777j77have faith in fairytales and be religious.
Were you & your now husband emotionally cheating during your previous relationship ?
Their expressions, responses and body language tells volumes ☕
Out of the topic, I am a teen. And here, where I live, teens go for perfect body postures and the beauty outside. But, watching this made me feel how much matured you need to be to love someone. Physical features doesn't define it. They actually made me realise that how people can love each other because of who they are, their personality. It made me realise how it can overcome stereotypes and how a personality can attract one another. I always thought that being a couple, people need to be beautiful as in physically, but the people here made me feel good and realise that it's not the people, but the feeling of love and actions that make is beautiful.
I am quite chubby, so i always feel like nobody would ever like me. It was nice to share something here.
When you become an adult your preferences change
@blk7747 plenty of fat adults here have relationships. You'll get yours!
Also cut the sugar
When I was a teen, I thought I couldn't date until became skinny. A couple of guys took interested in me even though I was chubby, but I didn't accept it, it didn't make sense at the time.
Well, now Im still chubby but a lot more mature, and I realized that you can have TONS of romantic experiences regardless of you body. I already dated short and long term, dump people, get dumped, all the experience of love life as a young adult.
So don't worry! Just be confident... or act confident, like I did. Fake till you make it, right? 😅
I think attraction is important and you should want to be attracted to your partner, but you also need to realize that one day your and your partner's looks will change and there needs to be more substance to a relationship & commitment than just what is on the outside. That takes real emotional and mental clarity & maturity when deciding to enter into a relationship in the first place. It has to come from a place of love and loyalty, not just what you want.
this is sweet, but these couples are all physically attracted to each other as well. when you're dating you obviously become physical and have sex, so it can't be 100% emotional attraction. you wouldn't date someone if you weren't sexually attracted to them, right? i doubt that any of these couples dating are only dating on an emotional level. they all have sex.
is involving myself in romantic relationships even worth it?😭
nah
after watching some of the couples? NOOOO
No
yes
Yes. When you find the right person you guys will stick together. I didn’t think it was worth it but 6 years later and this girl hasn’t budged in her love at all. You’d think it’s too good to be true but it happens bro.
HOW do some couples look so good together like I would match them in a memory
Get them drunk and ask these questions again 😂
So, even simply looking at someone is considered cheating now? What's the point of being in a relationship if you're gonna be wound up that tight? Jesus Christ, the insecurity with some of these people.
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@@onemillionpercent Do you have a question?
Well, to some people I suppose it could be. It's all about boundaries set before the relationship. I have friends that are dating who do considered checking other people out disrespectful in a way, and they also have some kinky monogamy thing going on where they're like all about each other ( I seriously didn't wanna ask further when they explained it) and they are very happy together. On another hand I have friends who are unhappy in very open relationships and ones that are happy in those. It's a personal thing. What might be weird to me and you might make somebody happy and comfortable.
@@Nina-hz9vv I know everyone has their turn-ons and turn-offs, but I can't get passed the absurd notion that just glancing at someone is cheating. It's perfectly normal to find other people attractive. How one acts on it should be the issue.
Whoosh
7:23 such a gorgeous couple
fr
It’s also okay to be jealous sometimes or that your partner is jealous. It doesn’t mean that you or they did anything wrong. It’s not always a big deal to have little discomforts. Most of those pass.
The variety of people and couples was so fun to see
All these couples are absolutely amazing and show me the diversity of love💛
When I am with someone, I am with someone, even if it's a rough patch. I only see them. The moment I see beyond them, I know that my emotional needs are not being met, and I communicate that and exit the relationship.
The zoom in on her face after the "ehhhhh honestly yeah" 😅
“I would cheat on a lot of my partners because I wasn’t getting enough attention” huh? 😐 communicate! And if nothing changes, leave and go have fun with whoever
It seemed less like defending it and more reflecting on their mind state when they did it.
But I could be completely wrong, and, regardless, I never have and never will defend cheating.
@@user-kq7rf6uq4mimplying that you cheated because you were not getting enough atention doesnt sound like holding accountablity
You left out the word “felt like” which completely changes the intention behind what he said..
4:09 omg it's the couple from revealing the crush in the dark i guess! So sweet they got together
That was such an accurate description of cheating.
"I think of cheating as mostly a betrayal of a partner's boundaries and lying about it." YESS someone finally said it right.
Not the long hug😂 I’m rollin
“b*tch wouldn’t even get that close” lmaoooo how it should be!!!!!
It's crazy how a lot of the answers changed just by how secure some people were with themselves and their relationship.
I mean when I started dating my husband I was so insecure about everything regarding other girls, but now married to him, my mindset has shifted significantly with it and im not worried!!
4:28 bro is baked
That perfect "umm uhhm" with the nodding at 0:14 🤌
why do they look like they're conjoined with eachother 4:31
“because we’ll have a 3-way” took me outttt 😭
4:18 Ooh it’s one of the couples from the truth or drink video! I loved those two!
What a spectrum! That's what's so nice about Keep it 100.
And I hope people who think "You can't even look at someone" see this and maybe get a bit of a broader perspective and have a good conversation about trust.
Every single person in this video is beautiful 😊. LOVE IT
All these couples are to cute!
The guy speaking for his partner saying she would never leave him if he cheated is a walking red flag.
I'd be genuinely shocked to learn that he hasn't been a compulsive cheater his entire life and still is.
Anyone saying their partner would never leave them is an extremely controlling and domineering person who believes that they can speak for their partner and define their emotions or feelings.
The fact that he's dating someone who looks 40 years younger than him, although not necessarily a red flag by itself, definitely raises an eyebrow considering what else he said.
Dang, 40 years 🤣
the age as well as ethnicities... not to be stereotypical but i think i could guess their entire relationship dynamic
@@rewindlly I’ve worked with a couple of old dudes who fit the same bill in construction… whatever you’re thinking is probably right
man gave her a green card from her accent you know he knows what he's talking about
The question wasn’t “if he cheated” but “if he flirted”
Jordan on the sleeve and bulls cap combo is crazy
I love that none of these couples look like siblings!
What a wide range of answers. Some I might never understand but if everyone in a relationship is fine with their set boundaries it doesn‘t bother me. Only bothers me if one person clearly sets them but exclusively for their partner, not for themselves. Like the couple telling he‘s looking at the ground while walking to not look at women on the streets. Dunno if this was a joke or not but if it wasn‘t, I think it‘s unfair if these rules only apply to one person.
I really like the cast of people in this Keep it 100. Such a diversity of people and couples with a lot of different stories! Always enjoy watching these
2:50 is absolutely correct. I couldn’t have said it better myself
All of these couples are so cute and really compliment each other! They all look like I'd find them in a Kohl's magazine.
All of them??
Def not with that old man and asian woman lol
@@nyx7344 um what does your comment imply??.... Because she's inarguably gorgeous and the man looks good too... I'm sure he definitely looked better when he was younger so...
The way Blaine got that last couple with the follow-up question looool. They were GAGGED
the micheal b jordan bit made me chuckle
1:29 ugly? That's crazy
Seeing people I went to high school with in this video was a jump scare
Strange question
6:57 they both seem so sweet and funny😂
2:48 YOURE GORGEOUS, GIRL! ❤
5:51 But if you get to the point of cheating on your partner, isn't that already saying that you've decided the relationship isn't worth saving or giving a damn about if you could knowingly hurt your partner like that?
IDK I feel like the cheating conversation has devolved into such a trivial thing when really it's a breach of trust, loyalty and honestly you're exposing your partner to things without their consent/knowledge: e.g. STIs, drama, emotional and mental mistreatment.
WOW Bella, your boo looks so cute!
love to see it xxx
I have never seen so many wildly different headshapes in the span of about 15 seconds.
7:17 get out of that bro…
She said Danny Devito 😂❤ they are funny
to some of the couples who color-coordinate.....I love it!
❤😊
7:17, run away sir, she's definitely crazy lol.
Oh wow this just made me realize I’m way more open minded than I thought I was
4:57 That Fist Bump 😂
i noticed some extra arm holding from some people while being asked these questions.
I think being honest that you hypothetically thought about someone else is a forum of normal, it depends on how much you think and how far it goes with this.
Very well said. Difference between thinking about cheating and considering cheating. As a fleeting thought I don’t see the issue; now if it’s reoccurring and you start going out of your way to get into those circumstances, whole other story.
7:14 is just…. I feel for both of them.. to be that insecure and to be that much of a pleaser…
y’all really think they were being for real…
The shortness of this video makes me think this is an instant participant' "We'll talk _about this_ in the car later 🚗" videos😅 !
To not look at someone else attractive is crazy. Not cheating.
So many couples looking like siblings tho
Yea well unfortunately their is only so many hair colors and skin colors to choose from, so obviously, a lot of people will have similarities in those areas.
I’m convinced I’ll die single so no worries whatsoever 😂
It’s very interesting to see who answers & who doesn’t & just the overall body language during this video
That Seth Rogen laugh at 4:16
Probably single cut video with most lies told per second 🤣
They all up in there lyin they ass off
the moment at 3:09 was sooo sweet
I don't know why this video made me think of my ex.
I remember one time I asked her if she would dance with other guys at the club, and she, without hesitation, said yes!
I told her that it bothered me and she could care less about how I felt.
I should have broken off the relationship that day, but I stayed in for a couple more months.
You live and learn!
better late than never, it's okay!
Your feelings are your problem. Especially when they are dumb and unreasonable.
@@wastingjam4133some people don’t like women who dance with all the men they can at the club. If you want to do that you do that. No one has to accept your behavior
@@Boosted_aj It's dancing. Not a rim job
@@wastingjam4133 thats cheating.
4:24 big 🧢 my brother 😂
that man straight lying 😭
Last couple was the healthy approach
Opening couple are THE BEST!!
I make lesbians non lesbians almost daily! 👍🍻
The first one saying yes and the guy saying “Wait,what?!” 😂😂😂They gonna discuss that in the car ride home 😂
“A sex dream about Danny Devito?” 2:02 Brilliant 😂
@2:40 "you thought I was feeling you"
4:53 my man 😀
Dude is in hell
0:18 had been watching a lot of Dhar Mann 👀
6:05 they are so cute together 😊❤
i said the same thing she said before she even said it 1:42 LMAO