normalising a "simple" life

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  • @AryaIRL2
    @AryaIRL2 17 годин тому +1

    Hey I really needed this today. Even after ive been to events, got nails done, shopped like Crazy, I still feel like I have a boring life Cuz I keep comparing my Life to others on insta or snap. I needed to be grateful for all that I get and be responsible about my money. Thanks For this Cuz it makes me feel Like Im not the only one struggling through this. I needed to hear Every Single word here 😭✨

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  11 годин тому

      I totally get it, the comparison trap is REAL! 🥹🫶🏼 So happy this video helped you 💕 your life is beautiful!!

  • @emmmmg
    @emmmmg 13 днів тому +36

    im so glad i found this video!! as a 25yr old girlie trying to decenter my idea of a "normal" life, this reinforces the ideas Ive had!! Instant subscribe, keep it up and keep it REAL like this !!

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  13 днів тому

      Thank you so much for your support ❤ I will always keep it real with you guys 🥹🫶🏼

    • @Pandabear2000
      @Pandabear2000 9 днів тому +2

      Turning 25 this year and i feel like i haven’t done a lot to myself or in my life compared to others but i realized i am just living what i am supposed to live and everyone’s path of life is different we don’t have to live the same things at the same time

  • @michaelaganchovska1111
    @michaelaganchovska1111 8 днів тому +16

    Thank you for this video. We live in such difficult times and everything moves so fast. We need to stay grounded and remember who we truly are. The expensive materialistic things are not worthy at all, collect moments with beautiful people and don't compare yourself to others. Everything is going to be okay. And remember that you are special and loved. ❤

  • @anajervalidze2916
    @anajervalidze2916 8 днів тому +7

    Oh my god, thank you so much for making this video. As a 25 year old girl constantly comparing myself to everyone around me and stressing about not being able to keep up on daily basis, I REALLY REALLY needed to hear all of this.

  • @victoriaaaaa.
    @victoriaaaaa. 13 днів тому +15

    ohh my gosh i needed this vid so bad!! i'm an average teenage girl but i live very near a major city so i live in a small apartment and i have to live a very minimalistic lifestyle because of my lack of space, and i'm always comparing myself to girls online who live in huge suburban houses and have a bunch of clothes and makeup and material things, but this video genuinely helped me so much to take a step back and realize that all of these things aren't necessary and honestly very overconsumption-y. i have privileges in life that so many others don't, and i should def focus on that instead of what i lack :)) ur so right, and it's super important to be grateful in life rather than dissatisfied. tysm for this video, it was genuinely such a breath of fresh air 💕

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  13 днів тому +1

      Ahhh I’m so glad this video resonated with you !!🥹🥹💗💗 you are doing so amazing!! I’ve always wanted to live in an apartment- it sounds so cool 🥹🥹 and you are living a dream that others have ! (Mine included hehe 🥰) give yourself credit because you’ve come so far 💗💗

  • @y2kaydee
    @y2kaydee 13 днів тому +8

    Heavy on the point about cars. I’ve been driving my car for seven years now. I worked SO hard to pay it off and I make sure to take care of it. It’s a 2014 Nissan juke. I absolutely love it.
    I will never understand the people who treat cars as disposable or people who act like they ALWAYS NEED a brand new car.
    We desperately need to learn what our wants vs our needs are

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  13 днів тому +1

      Totally agree with you !!! 💗 mine is a 2015 baby & she has so much character & I love her sm !!! 🥹🫶🏼 and we work hard for these things so we should show them love too !!

  • @naamahannah
    @naamahannah 18 годин тому

    your cup is so cute !! 🎀

  • @mariat15
    @mariat15 4 дні тому

    thank you so much for this video, it was so refreshing to hear all those things , they used to be normal but now we are brainwashed into so much pressure through social media

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  4 дні тому

      @@mariat15 I agree, that’s exactly how I felt and why I decided to film this video 🥹❤️ never forget it !!!

  • @MissTaylorMade101
    @MissTaylorMade101 9 днів тому +1

    Love this!! Someone needed to see/hear this. I totally agree!!

  • @Jacky020999
    @Jacky020999 8 днів тому +2

    Girl you're such a fresh breath of air with these perspectives and I love it❤ It was good for my soul to hear all these reminders, because it truly resonates with how my life does look like.
    Thank you for this video, appreciate your effort filming and uploading it💐
    Btw I also love normality, nothing wrong with having a normal life, it is beautiful because it is real❤

  • @Trustallah1334
    @Trustallah1334 8 днів тому +1

    thank you so much ireland love youre energy and always supporting you ❤

  • @chloeselfloveclub
    @chloeselfloveclub 4 дні тому

    i needed this today

  • @marianaaragon5435
    @marianaaragon5435 5 днів тому

    First video of yours that pops up on my feed and I’m def joining. Great message ❤

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  5 днів тому +1

      Aw thank you so much!! I'm so glad you liked it 🥹🫶🏼💖

  • @Serinaa1_sh
    @Serinaa1_sh 9 днів тому +1

    girl you're so pretty and I'm so happy that I found your channel through this video!!🦋🎀

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  9 днів тому

      Awww this makes me so happy 🥹💛 thank you so much 💗💗

  • @kelseyokeefe
    @kelseyokeefe 6 днів тому

    this was so comforting 💞

  • @sedoo0
    @sedoo0 10 днів тому

    I’m so happy that I found your channel through this video!! You seem so authentic and it’s so refreshing to see content like yours

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  10 днів тому

      Thank you so much ☺️💗 that means a lot

  • @josieleej
    @josieleej 5 днів тому

    you’re sooooo amazing ❤

  • @itscallietaylor
    @itscallietaylor 9 днів тому

    YOU ARE STUNNING! Love that I found your channel! As a new content creator on UA-cam, I find it so fun to find relatable content creators. Thank you for posting this video 🥰

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  9 днів тому +1

      Aw thank you so much, you’re so sweet 💕

  • @charlottelambb
    @charlottelambb 11 днів тому +1

    i love your talky videos girly keep them coming xxxx

  • @faith.pacelli
    @faith.pacelli 13 днів тому

    i am so grateful to have found you!! you are such a refreshing and encouraging presence 💗💗

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  13 днів тому +1

      This is such a beautiful comment 🥲💗 thank you so much 🥹🫶🏼 I’m so grateful to have you here !!!!!

  • @brunaguerra3021
    @brunaguerra3021 8 днів тому +1

    What a cute mug!

  • @by_allie
    @by_allie 7 днів тому

    gurrlll, tysm for the reminders! Love this vid♡♡♡
    (ps. guilty about the phone cases part😆)

  • @RoxanaMelinte245
    @RoxanaMelinte245 6 днів тому

    Love this video!! Thank you girl!❤❤

  • @hadassa_Mb
    @hadassa_Mb 10 днів тому

    Girl you are so beautiful !

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  10 днів тому

      Aw thank you so much, you’re so sweet 💕

  • @lashaniesimms6817
    @lashaniesimms6817 7 днів тому

    You’re so beautiful!

  • @krissyfenner
    @krissyfenner 11 днів тому

    You are absolutely STUNNING & I needed this kind reality check. ♥️

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  11 днів тому +1

      Thank you so much 🥹🥹🫶🏼 always here to remind youuuu!!!🤭💝💝

  • @Mrigonoyona
    @Mrigonoyona 11 днів тому

    Wow I resonated with all your points.Very beautifully explained❤

  • @nurianavarroaznar396
    @nurianavarroaznar396 13 днів тому

    I love your videos in UA-cam!You are an inspiration!

  • @mimistokes7726
    @mimistokes7726 13 днів тому +3

    The love how you speak on the truth about simply living it's not all about aesthetic and I enjoyed listening to you speak about it. I felt as if I related to you when u said that I can't keep up with the rest of the social media world and that's okay I enjoy living life and always being grateful for what I have 🤍 I am happy to have found you on UA-cam

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  13 днів тому +1

      This comment has made my day!!🥲🫶🏼 thank you for your beautiful words💗 I’m so glad you resonated with my video, because this is also how I feel at times (especially in the past) and I always wondered if others felt the same!! A simple life is a wonderful life, I hope you remember that !! 🥹🥰

  • @leastidyworld4365
    @leastidyworld4365 7 днів тому +1

    We need more videos like this (from various creators).

    • @Kei-ge4hl
      @Kei-ge4hl 5 днів тому

      try watch Simple Happy Zen bcs she also make lot of minimalism theme youtube videos

  • @AblaGorashi-zo7ve
    @AblaGorashi-zo7ve 9 днів тому

    I literally love your videos❤

  • @mea16040
    @mea16040 13 днів тому +1

    Love your content🥰 u seem very sweet :) the chipped nails and pajamas is so real😂🥺

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  13 днів тому

      Thank you 🥰 I’m so happy you feel seen !! 🥹🫶🏼

  • @Matchakawaii
    @Matchakawaii 7 днів тому

    You are the prettiest person ❤

  • @eatingcalamarie
    @eatingcalamarie 10 днів тому

    Wow you’re so inspiring 🥰🥰

  • @mahsacool
    @mahsacool 12 днів тому +4

    Getting your nails every week is insane! I found a lady with amazing skills and i do nails every 5 weeks, but it also bc my of my slow growth on nails! In that aspect im lucky. But getting nails done is something simple like normalized for me but at the same time its a treat for all the hard work i have done the previous month! But Im also lucky as i found an amazing nails artist with good quality products and skills.

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  12 днів тому

      @@mahsacool I love this sm 💝 and I love that we all have different things that are our version of self care and luxury!! I think it’s so special & you should continue to do whatever makes you feel good about yourself ! 🥰 if I could afford my nails every month I would loveee 🥰💝

  • @MarylouLyna
    @MarylouLyna 13 днів тому

    Wow, i needed that video, thank

  • @Dolleyed11
    @Dolleyed11 11 днів тому

    Thank you for this video girlie i have chipped nails and i don't do my nails❤ much love❤❤

  • @DesireeWatters-fk6tt
    @DesireeWatters-fk6tt 4 дні тому

    Hi Ireland, wondering where you got your necklace? The shorter one you are wearing in this vid? Love it! Thanks!

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  3 дні тому +1

      The evil eye one is from tkmaxx 🫶🏼💛

  • @elytejano
    @elytejano 6 днів тому

    the timing this popped up on my yt vid. thank you, needed this. 🩵 a big sister giving advice to a little sister

  • @Victoria-ht1fo
    @Victoria-ht1fo 7 днів тому +1

    I agree with everything a 100% except the facial hair . A little bit is fine (let’s be honest , you can’t even see it) but when it’s an actual uni brow or a dark moustache that just looks like a lack of personal care and just not feminine at all

    • @Outrageous86
      @Outrageous86 7 днів тому +1

      Yes, I agree. I have dark hairs that grow on my sides like side burns. But they are so sporadic it’s not like how some people have their hairline that comes down lower on their sides that’s different than what I have.

  • @ayeshasayeed6857
    @ayeshasayeed6857 9 днів тому

    Love it! Can you link your necklaces please ? ❤❤

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  9 днів тому

      🥹❤️ I don’t have links but the evil eye necklace is from tkmaxx (got it a few years ago as a gift) & the C necklace is from Harli and harpa 🫶🏼

  • @alangiles776
    @alangiles776 12 днів тому

    Hi Ireland 🙂
    I know it's not the same, but it's the same for guys, too. Watching people on UA-cam having the latest tech, new clothes, eating out most nights, and multiple holidays isn't real life for most of us. Life is hard these days for men and women. I like the 'real' vloggers like you.
    I agree about holes in socks and keeping a phone for longer than two weeks. I don't care what car you have........ just as long as you can give me a lift 👍 😂. I have never been overseas.

  • @emilydelarosa.5548
    @emilydelarosa.5548 10 днів тому

    I'm so agree with you

  • @Lisa-qt4hh
    @Lisa-qt4hh 9 днів тому +1

    I love this video! I also like how you say that to some people who are not in on this mindset, these reminders may sound insane, but it is so so important that girls and women (boys and men too) have someone to look up to to tell them this. The outfit repeating is so normal. I'm also in the holes in your socks club. I love my socks and get attached to things too. I'm 27 and in the last, let's say 4 years, I have bought clothing occassionaly, and everything I have collected I love. I'm at a point right now where I am looking for a job and I have no money and I can buy nothing, but I have a wardrobe and clothing pieces (even from years ago) that I love and get excited about putting on, and I wear the same shoes everyday because I love them and they are good quality (dr martens). I also am careful with washing stuff. Things do not need to be washed if they do not smell. And with jeans it is often better to let them air out and you can wash clothes with your hands. It makes clothes last longer. Your thoughts about 'childish' things are also so lovely and valuable. Winx club is so fun! All the outfits

  • @josuecari
    @josuecari 13 днів тому +1

    you got to be the prettiest girl in England

  • @hadenconnar5382
    @hadenconnar5382 13 днів тому

    Love the way you smile the whole time, made me smile through the video! Love and hugs!🩷🌷
    [Felt like when you cried and someone tries to comfort you and makes fun of the situation, so it feels lighter! In the best way possible!]

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  13 днів тому +2

      AWWW goodness 🥹🥹 this is so sweet!!! I always want to make people feel lighter, and I’m so happy you can feel that too 🥹💗💗💗 ily

  • @Ireland14-d9x
    @Ireland14-d9x 5 днів тому

    My name is Ireland 🌸🌺

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  5 днів тому

      @@Ireland14-d9x omg hi Ireland !! 💗🥹

  • @MrcMcx
    @MrcMcx 9 днів тому

    Stunningly beautiful woman, and a wise mind to match

  • @ayushagehlot8300
    @ayushagehlot8300 13 днів тому

    Omg I loved the video so. U r so pretty too 🩷🩷🧿( no nazar for u )

    • @irelandcarter_
      @irelandcarter_  13 днів тому

      You are so sweet 🥹 thank you sm ❤️🫶🏼