day in my life without a job

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
  • Day in the life of an unemployed 27 year old. Welcome back to the misfit diaries, where everyone's favorite anti vlogger learns how to apply for a job and get my life together like a normal person.
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    what's your name? Batsheva!
    where did you go to college? I studied film at BU
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 87

  • @CynicalDuchess
    @CynicalDuchess  Рік тому +18

    Have any of you guys been unemployed before? How did you get out of it? Or, if you're still unemployed, you have my permission to use this space as a venting place-- how you all coping? Would love to hear any job war stories you have so we can all feel better about ourselves!

  • @MichelleMozes
    @MichelleMozes Рік тому +14

    I feel like I just watched a movie. The cinematography is unreal, I’m loving every camera angle choice. Congrats girl! Keep living your dream!!!

  • @starsandsuch7778
    @starsandsuch7778 Рік тому +12

    I thought this just might be a vlog of you in various coffee shops or showing how you eat on a budget - i was so pleasantly surprised to see you taking initiative and really putting yourself out there!
    That takes a lot, that’s really brave 😊

    • @CynicalDuchess
      @CynicalDuchess  Рік тому +3

      Really appreciate this comment! Nah, that behavior is for when I get disposable income LOL. My biggest priority is having the funds to continue growing this UA-cam channel, and that means doing things that I may not like to do, which is applying everywhere. Thank the lord, I finally got a job. took me months, but we got there

  • @scrivspo
    @scrivspo Рік тому +7

    FELT LIKE A MOVIEEEE. Your creativity and talent is unmatched, you’re gunna be huge one of these days

  • @ZachWeiss
    @ZachWeiss Рік тому +7

    Incredible video Batsheva! So proud of you for following your dreams even when it’s difficult. You inspire me deeply, considering we come from (very) similar backgrounds. Keep up the good work 💪

    • @CynicalDuchess
      @CynicalDuchess  Рік тому +1

      we do come from extremely similar backgrounds lol, its always funny to me

  • @makermeagan3975
    @makermeagan3975 Рік тому +6

    This was a fantastic video! The storytelling was so well done! Thank you for sharing.

  • @tajashania
    @tajashania Рік тому +4

    Ahh the billboard!! Can’t remember if I already said congrats to you about that but congrats!! Also well done fir getting the job at the end I’m so proud of you ❤❤

    • @CynicalDuchess
      @CynicalDuchess  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Taj!!!! Slowly but surely we all get there (slowly 😑)

  • @alizashugarman6819
    @alizashugarman6819 Рік тому +3

    Wow this is so relatable! I almost didnt go to college bc i saw others fail and beleived i would be the same. I didnt believe that i had it in me to pursue higher education and thought i wasnt "smart enough." Luckily i had people around me who recognized my worth more than i did at that time. I completed college and now i have a job that i love, making a real difference in kid's lives. I marvel at how much i would have lost out on if i had listened to all that negativity i was telling myself.... Keep on going for it Batsheva!

    • @CynicalDuchess
      @CynicalDuchess  Рік тому +3

      I realized last night that I was blocking myself from getting things I wanted (like marriage) because I told myself I didn’t deserve the things I wanted, that it was impossible. The minute I allowed
      Myself to dream, the world opened up. You? Not smart? Pffffft. We are capable of everything.

  • @ThisIsGeorgeMatthew
    @ThisIsGeorgeMatthew Рік тому +4

    Loved this video! I enjoy your videos because I feel the same in that I continue to compare myself to others, I continue to feel like I’m not going anywhere in life except in a circle, and I just don’t know when my luck will change. This video is so inspirational and I hope you continue to chase your dreams and keep taking risks! I enjoy your content, gurl! It may sound cliche but “never stop believing” because if they can do it, we can do it to! Whatever “it” maybe! Thank you for sharing this video! Can’t wait to see the big things you do next!

    • @CynicalDuchess
      @CynicalDuchess  Рік тому +1

      Totally feel you. It definitely feels like going in a circle, or tapping against a very thin window where you see what you want on the other side, but you just keep getting separated from it. But we can’t stop banging on that window. It will open.

  • @batshevagphotography
    @batshevagphotography Рік тому +2

    This was so well done and just wow.
    From start to finish, both opener and closing were simply perfection. What a story. Thank you for taking us on this journey with you!! 👏
    This took incredible vulnerability in so many different ways.
    Best of luck with the new chapter! Can't wait to see what it brings!

  • @zushagoldin
    @zushagoldin Рік тому +14

    THANK YOU for including me in this! Amazing and entertaining! You’re so talented! Kudos for you for DMing the UA-camrs!

  • @Drewskii911
    @Drewskii911 5 місяців тому

    I know the feeling. The hardest part is not giving up hope. The right job will come to you when you are ready

  • @Lydia-kf6hh
    @Lydia-kf6hh Рік тому +2

    Im so glad you're passionate about moving on! You're such a brave person, please remember that getting started is the hardest❤

  • @stylishthriftye
    @stylishthriftye Рік тому +2

    Batsheva!! So happy for you!!!! All the best on your new adventure. Sending you lots of love and Light from NYC! :)

  • @renaberman3355
    @renaberman3355 Рік тому +2

    A billboard!!!!!! So cool!! I loved the first plant you showed. The second one is also so cute!! Great video :)

    • @CynicalDuchess
      @CynicalDuchess  Рік тому +1

      In my head I call it planty plant but it really needs a new name because that one is taken ;)

  • @EstherHyman
    @EstherHyman Рік тому +1

    You've got this girl! Love your content and your drive. It's awesome to see you pursuing what you love and putting yourself out there. You inspire me.

  • @muscular-lr6er
    @muscular-lr6er Рік тому +4

    I have been unemployed since 2020. covid-19 has affected my mental health and would occasionally have seizures and I was attending college. I needed a huge break but I will find a job hopefully around the end 0f 2023.

    • @CynicalDuchess
      @CynicalDuchess  Рік тому +1

      There is so much time in life. Take your time. You have your entire life to be employed and working hard. Well all get there

    • @muscular-lr6er
      @muscular-lr6er Рік тому

      @@CynicalDuchess Thank you 🥲

  • @dafnasalem9200
    @dafnasalem9200 Рік тому +2

    OMG, congrats on the billboard and on the new job! ❤
    I was hearing about the "rejection therapy", I Iwant to dare and try it because I know it helps to gain confidence.

    • @CynicalDuchess
      @CynicalDuchess  Рік тому +1

      thank you!! I defiantly believe in rejection therapy. doing something over and over eventually makes you stronger at it

  • @fireflyc1
    @fireflyc1 Рік тому +1

    So real and creative!! Keep going!❤️

  • @jennifertommo6746
    @jennifertommo6746 Рік тому +2

    Your shirttt!!
    love ittt!!

  • @Life_42
    @Life_42 Рік тому +4

    My unemployment time I would spend reading, learning, and exercising physically. Self-improvement nonstop when not employed.

  • @jennifertommo6746
    @jennifertommo6746 Рік тому +2

    Really love what you do!!!🤩🤩

  • @shoshanagoldman43
    @shoshanagoldman43 Рік тому +1

    This video was super well-made! 😁 You are rlly rlly talented.

  • @andrearuiz9387
    @andrearuiz9387 Рік тому +1

    I loved this video. Be patient with yourself. Everything happens when it should and how it should. You'll get there. Enjoy the journey. כל הכבוד

    • @CynicalDuchess
      @CynicalDuchess  Рік тому +1

      True, when it should and how it should

    • @andrearuiz9387
      @andrearuiz9387 Рік тому

      @@CynicalDuchess "I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning to sail my ship." -Louisa May Alcott

  • @jimmyrivera1837
    @jimmyrivera1837 Рік тому +1

    i love your stuff. keep going

  • @daisyrosario3438
    @daisyrosario3438 Рік тому +2

    Don't give up!
    You're doing good!😊

  • @veve7349
    @veve7349 Рік тому +2

    You're doing great! You've got this!!

  • @CC-oe1zu
    @CC-oe1zu Рік тому +2

    Batsheva, I am SO damn proud of you.

  • @gemmababe
    @gemmababe Рік тому +1

    Proud of you!

  • @rubenc.5648
    @rubenc.5648 Рік тому

    I've been laid off 3 times in the past 4 years. Best advice is EVERY job is temporary and make the best of your career. Update your resume every 6 months and also enjoy the journey of life

  • @b.miller2799
    @b.miller2799 Рік тому +1

    Same here but I’m not at all upset about it . Thank goodness , excited to watch this vid❤

    • @CynicalDuchess
      @CynicalDuchess  Рік тому +1

      sometimes we need a good break to explore!!

    • @b.miller2799
      @b.miller2799 Рік тому

      @@CynicalDuchess yes I’m going to end up with a remote job too eventually !

  • @hpyrkh3
    @hpyrkh3 Рік тому +1

    MORE VIDEOS!!!

  • @CORVAIRWILD
    @CORVAIRWILD Рік тому +1

    1st view from Wisconsin Dells vacation

  • @madamem2140
    @madamem2140 Рік тому +1

    Lana del ray level cinematography

  • @ginger770613
    @ginger770613 Рік тому +2

    The plant must be named rainbow jasmine the second

  • @CORVAIRWILD
    @CORVAIRWILD Рік тому +1

    Dont put your hair on the floor... landlord speaking lmao

  • @michael_howling
    @michael_howling Рік тому

    The idea that in life and cant try without there being repercussions is all in your head, you apply for harvard, you get turned down and you now have a good idea that you arent at the level to be accepted into harvard yet. You didnt die, you didnt get hit, or distorted in any way. Rather, if you choose to not try, your health and fatigue will slowly destroy your youth and your life for years to come, until you either put an end to it, or are crushed by it inevitably. It's far easier to, work part time and try to make youtube happen, maybe even move if you have to, send out a million applications and a million room requests, do it while you have the time to. Because the brick wall that we all have to meet sooner or later is coming, when our health starts to fail, unless we can get to a stable enough point before 30ish. Everyone has potential for an idea, we're in an era where you get paid to be creative especially us, because we're americans, the healthiest and free'st so we have the most nuance brains. But nobody will listen to common sense, if you have a weak body, you wont have the strength to stand up in the morning on hard days. Nobody works out, nobody tries, everyone is afraid of judgment or failure. But death is way worse than blurting the wrong answer out in-front of a group of people, even a million people. Death is the end. A mistake/attempt can be overwritten the following millisecond as long as theres no obvious risk of injury.

  • @Dragondw11
    @Dragondw11 Рік тому

    4:07 Isabel

  • @jennifertommo6746
    @jennifertommo6746 Рік тому +1

    8:48 So Jewish to do that! (asking a question back instead of answering an answer)..

  • @shaistaali9802
    @shaistaali9802 Рік тому

    U like Moya . I think if you moved to Paris u would have so much success with many brands

    • @CynicalDuchess
      @CynicalDuchess  Рік тому +1

      Moving to Paris would be so much fun!! Unfortunately I don’t have an EU passport like Moya does, that’s how she can live in Paris ;)

    • @shaistaali9802
      @shaistaali9802 Рік тому

      @CynicalDuchess oh yes cause she's Irish

    • @shaistaali9802
      @shaistaali9802 Рік тому

      @@CynicalDuchess I know ur going to be very big its just a matter of time

  • @VisibleToAllUsersOnYoutub
    @VisibleToAllUsersOnYoutub Рік тому

    Aaahahaha

  • @ariela_
    @ariela_ 11 місяців тому

    This video was very entertaining but I am genuinely confused. How are you unemployed if you have a good amount of views and you were featured on a billboard…. If you’re getting paid from social media, even if it’s not consistent or much that doesn’t make you unemployed

    • @CynicalDuchess
      @CynicalDuchess  11 місяців тому

      Because views does not payment make :)

  • @aleksandracywka1720
    @aleksandracywka1720 Рік тому

    I'm not sure if I'd go to work for vogue even if they'd literally contact me and offer like a milion a year... well, maybe for an asian one, if I could stay anonymous... 🤔.
    you so don't seem to me to fit to 4 ex. vogue that it'd be difficult to subscribe... but, well, good luck in the subject.

    • @CynicalDuchess
      @CynicalDuchess  Рік тому +3

      I don’t want to work for Vogue, my dream job is UA-cam. But it’s a good exercise to apply to hard to get into places to work on your pitching and resume skills!

  • @Shylockcharm
    @Shylockcharm Рік тому

    salads are bad for you. thats why you have stomach ache

  • @angeliee
    @angeliee Рік тому +2

    this was absolutely brilliant 🥹

  • @1982382
    @1982382 Рік тому +1

    Your very creative and very cute! Thanks for making a video with my brother.

    • @CynicalDuchess
      @CynicalDuchess  Рік тому

      Your brother is also very creative and very cute!