Before You Lose Someone - WATCH THIS | by Jay Shetty

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  • We lose people every year to mental health, depression and anxiety. It's about time we started noticing it sooner.
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  • @hanadial-atawe9392
    @hanadial-atawe9392 6 років тому +798

    *"A smile can hide thousands of tears"*

    • @josephtvshow7467
      @josephtvshow7467 5 років тому +5

      Very true and going through this right now many people around me admired my life but they don't know what lacking in life which true love.

    • @darrellkavan_93
      @darrellkavan_93 5 років тому +9

      Yep😓😓depression is when you are happy but you wanna cry...wow so relatable 😥😥

    • @nathrose7612
      @nathrose7612 5 років тому +2

      Yes but people dont know

    • @Paige098
      @Paige098 5 років тому +1

      @@nathrose7612 No, they don't know. And that's ok because people aren't expected to know everything that goes on in someone's life. But we should know that no one's life is perfect. Even for those rich and famous people, they go through depression too, because the money doesn't make them 100% happy, because there is no 100% with anything.

    • @lisaayling6723
      @lisaayling6723 4 роки тому +1

      Yes true, I feel like this sometimes

  • @Imshanshan
    @Imshanshan 5 років тому +215

    "She drank to drown the pain but the pain learned how to swim"
    That's deep.

  • @anayelimontess
    @anayelimontess 6 років тому +2288

    My mom showed me this, she said “I watched this, the first person who came to my mind was you” I wanted to break down as she showed me, because it’s all true. I pretend I’m alright, but deep down I’m hurting

    • @breesanchez3514
      @breesanchez3514 6 років тому +29

      I felt led to tell you that Only Jesus can heal your pain. He loves you! He can take your hurt your insecurities, your inadequacies and make them all right. I’ve gone through feeling alone and afraid but there is nothing like His comfort. Give God a chance, open our heart to him you’ll Never regret it.

    • @francyschavez2837
      @francyschavez2837 6 років тому +7

      You are beautiful, loved, incredibly magical!!!!! Honey you are not alone, many of us are out here

    • @aishaazalea937
      @aishaazalea937 6 років тому +7

      Anayeli Montes my mom led me here too

    • @Sammm-pg5eg
      @Sammm-pg5eg 6 років тому

      End-to-End liar

    • @mattisholmberg4012
      @mattisholmberg4012 6 років тому +3

      Anayeli Montes i feel you. But never give up, take care of yourself. You are so valuable!

  • @jilliandawnmanalastas2892
    @jilliandawnmanalastas2892 6 років тому +97

    "The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone" same, I always felt this😢

    • @Ali-jt3gn
      @Ali-jt3gn 3 роки тому

      can you explain this sentense to me plzz?

    • @jilliandawnmanalastas2892
      @jilliandawnmanalastas2892 3 роки тому

      @@Ali-jt3gn it means being stuck with someone that's not good for you

    • @Ali-jt3gn
      @Ali-jt3gn 3 роки тому

      @@jilliandawnmanalastas2892 ohh thanks

    • @figenfigen3962
      @figenfigen3962 3 роки тому

      So true same here 💕

  • @amreennarang7374
    @amreennarang7374 6 років тому +1007

    “I used to think that the worst thing in life is to end up alone. But it is actually ending up with people who make you feel alone.”
    Couldn’t be more real right there💯

  • @adityashukla7849
    @adityashukla7849 6 років тому +1349

    This is reality of most of the people...
    But with me, it's different. I left social media, and now I am alone because everyone else is being 'Social' on their phones in their bathrooms...

    • @noeljohn4731
      @noeljohn4731 6 років тому +39

      INDroid that's just a temporary way to escape from the realities, thank God you're not like that 😅

    • @user-pn2if3lt5h
      @user-pn2if3lt5h 6 років тому +77

      Dude, you aren't alone. I left Social media too, all of it. And i am not alone at all. When you leave social media, you have more time to the real life, and you make real friends, true friends.

    • @lovealwaysshalisha
      @lovealwaysshalisha 6 років тому +36

      I know how you feel... I left social media some years back and I go back to say Hello every once in a while. I have a clear mind but it gets lonely when i go missing my old closest friends. Everyone is thristy for social media. And it sucks bcuz I havent really built any new friendships just new associates who also love social media like old friends. But I have gotten amazing grades in school and have grown a deeper relationship with my Mom as well as my children and their father. Im also building a stronger relationship with myself. My support system has changed to more so being my family and it took getting used to. Even tho I miss those old friends I know love for me resides more for me within my family. They make me a priority regardless of what they enjoy. And I do the same for them. Find ppl who make you a priority. 🌹🙏💙 All will get better for you Hun. Hugs*

    • @adityashukla7849
      @adityashukla7849 6 років тому +11

      End-to-End dude, I'm from india. That facebook which is filled with Goons and fake profiles advertising Modi. I hate that Modi. He's the worst person alive. He'll give rise to a Civil war where people will die from hunger.
      I left social media because it was changing me. It was making me worse than ever. I started hating everyone from Muslims to Christians.
      This govt. have an old history of creating violence. And guess what, it's still happening! I witnessed it just a couple of minutes ago.
      I left social media because it was polluting me.

    • @Funwinxpixee
      @Funwinxpixee 6 років тому +3

      Indroid, I agree. No matter we accept it or not...whatever we see and expose ourselves to, influences us on a subconscious level.

  • @mammajamma06
    @mammajamma06 5 років тому +91

    Dear Jay,
    A week ago today, my eldest son took his own life. He was 22. He was beautiful and smart, but he was also deaf and autistic. We tried everything to help him and show him as much love as we could muster... to get him to see that he could overcome any challenges. But he had already given up in his mind. He did not see a future for himself in our world. To him, life was boring, bleak and without interest. He couldn't see past the darkness, and now he's gone. I don't know if I could have done anything to stop him, but I still wish I had tried harder. Said something that would have eased his pain and shown him that he could have a great future. Now all I am is sorrow.

    • @positivevibes5364
      @positivevibes5364 4 роки тому +6

      Omg so sorry

    • @angelicarida4037
      @angelicarida4037 4 роки тому +6

      im so sorry for your lost😔

    • @davneybrancoondziepandzou2602
      @davneybrancoondziepandzou2602 4 роки тому

      C'est triste. Mais tenez bon madame, vous avez fait tout ce que vous pouvez et c'est grandiose. Je souhaite que vous trouvez à nouveau le bonheur, soyez heureuse

    • @lisatorrelli727
      @lisatorrelli727 3 роки тому +2

      Oh Lord I'm heartbroken with your tragedy 😥, I cant imagine your pain of loosing a child...God help you through your lost.

    • @mammajamma06
      @mammajamma06 3 роки тому +1

      @@lisatorrelli727 thank you ♥

  • @TristanDefeuilletVang
    @TristanDefeuilletVang 5 років тому +98

    It’s ok you’re now one of my favorite UA-camr. 🙏🏽

  • @tyspeaks6104
    @tyspeaks6104 6 років тому +828

    You must disconnect in order to reconnect ! Love yourself first and the true genuine ones will find their way into your life. Like attracts like. Thanks for the great video Jay 🙏🏽

    • @Buntyteja
      @Buntyteja 6 років тому +5

      Ty Speaks .
      Hey man .. i tried this i disconnected from every social sited nd all people just to have a time with me .nd to know myself better .. nd most importantly to love myself ... But i feels like its also not working .. so any advice for betterment

    • @tyspeaks6104
      @tyspeaks6104 6 років тому +6

      Ritik Tomar it’s a life long process. Start exploring more, go on adventures with people you love. Find people who mean more to you than just another like. Get out of your comfort zone and try new things ! Life’s all about adventure and finding who you are! Doesn’t happen , have faith my friend !

    • @ttrajaraman
      @ttrajaraman 6 років тому +3

      This is really worth it!!!

    • @Buntyteja
      @Buntyteja 6 років тому +2

      Ty Speaks sure man .. i will try ☺

    • @tyspeaks6104
      @tyspeaks6104 6 років тому +3

      Ritik Tomar I’m here to be of assistance if you ever need it ! You can hit me up over on my channel if you’d like !

  • @andreja1973
    @andreja1973 6 років тому +413

    Thanks Jay. I’ve been there and attempted to end my life. Only for the grace of god and having great people around me that got me through. Thanks Jay, you are delivering great messages 🙏🏽😉

    • @alonecozydot195
      @alonecozydot195 6 років тому +6

      Jason Andrews God bless you didn't ❤️

    • @cqrson8079
      @cqrson8079 5 років тому

      @@alonecozydot195are you kidding he is lying he wants attention like 99% of the people that say that are

    • @mardeegracebuletic7551
      @mardeegracebuletic7551 5 років тому +1

      God bless you

    • @sundes2807
      @sundes2807 5 років тому

      Are you feeling better now?

  • @amriyafathima3986
    @amriyafathima3986 5 років тому +14

    "the worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone"!, Awesome one ❤

  • @maryboling853
    @maryboling853 4 роки тому +27

    That's so true. I was depressed for 12 of the 14 years I was married to my first husband. I had had a miscarriage and he didn't seem to care. I them became suicidal. It's just so sad to have to pretend all is well when it's not. I ended up with a nervous breakdown and then tried to end it with pills and booze. Thankfully, the Lord had other plans for me. Thank you for this video.

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому +1

      I'm grateful that you come to know the Lord. You are a living and breathing testimony. Don't EVER let anyone tell you any different. God bless you and yours in Jesus name. God loves you all, and so do I. 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

  • @speadlove7194
    @speadlove7194 5 років тому +247

    It’s hard to connect with others when everyone has their face looking down at their phone 24/7

    • @niveditamajumder5544
      @niveditamajumder5544 4 роки тому +3

      Dont worry so much...take up a book and start reading.....phones are very toxic things....a book is better than that😋😊😋

    • @lemostjoyousrenegade
      @lemostjoyousrenegade 4 роки тому

      WORD!

    • @rupalishah7310
      @rupalishah7310 4 роки тому

      Watch this one also an amazing one
      ua-cam.com/video/SooV8l0Zd98/v-deo.html

    • @rupalishah7310
      @rupalishah7310 4 роки тому

      @@lemostjoyousrenegade ua-cam.com/video/SooV8l0Zd98/v-deo.html

    • @vin3019
      @vin3019 4 роки тому

      My parent>>

  • @jns8212
    @jns8212 6 років тому +96

    This video made me think really hard about my BFF!!!
    Honestly, I just turned a teenager and unlike my other friends, I despise social media and so does my BFF...after seeing this video, I think I'm the most happiest person !!!
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    Happy from the outside, happy from the inside...THANKS TO MY FAMILY & MY BFF!!!😍😍😍👌👍💖❤💓💞💗💝

    • @thiaguinhogameplays
      @thiaguinhogameplays 6 років тому +1

      congrats

    • @invictus6424
      @invictus6424 6 років тому +6

      I’m the same way, I do not like social media and have never thought about getting it. That is so great that you and your best friend both agree on that. None of my friends are like that. I always feel like I’m the only person without social media because I’m constantly surrounded by people on their phones and using social media. Especially at school.

    • @sundes2807
      @sundes2807 5 років тому

      Awww ❤❤❤

  • @nindelicious7
    @nindelicious7 6 років тому +74

    I told one of my best friends how I was feeling, all they said was “oh ok”... and then it was like it was forgotten.... so I just decided to not tell anybody anymore.

    • @yordanoskubrom7096
      @yordanoskubrom7096 4 роки тому +5

      Delicious please trust in GOD
      GOD BLESS YOU 😃

    • @jasminen7323
      @jasminen7323 4 роки тому +4

      delicious u need a new friend. Discuss your feelings and I assure you if a person is a true friend they’ll listen. Perhaps your friend doesn’t understand what you are going through. All the best sweetheart. Sending u hugs love and prayers 😘😘😘

    • @nyasha767
      @nyasha767 4 роки тому +2

      True friends stand together in difficult times.

    • @userokay9767
      @userokay9767 4 роки тому +1

      delicious smae

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому

      Yeah you have to know who you can vent to. More often then not we ask how people are doing out of habit. But if that person share their true feelings. Subconsciously we think that is too much. That we have our own problems.

  • @marinstephanie649
    @marinstephanie649 6 років тому +20

    “People who care ask how you’re doing.”
    The total number is 0. . .
    This video made me realise how lonely i am. But I don’t have any mental illness, i hope.

  • @nightsky7de
    @nightsky7de 5 років тому +98

    This guy is doing a great job! Thanks bro

  • @rosemotee5879
    @rosemotee5879 6 років тому +168

    That is relatable to me😭😭😭 i have the world of friends yet nobody is there😭 i have hundreds of comments and likes shares awewome messages but nobody is really there for me🙁 this is something i walk alone😌 show everybody my fake happiness and they believed in it and thought am actually happy but am not💔 Thank you Jay Shetty for making such videos whenever i look at them i feel relieved and peaceful🤗 I Love You and keep up the good work❤

    • @user-fh8sp2lp1j
      @user-fh8sp2lp1j 6 років тому +3

      Rose Motee Try to talk back to people you feel are not just random passers-by (either online or in real life, but preferably in real life) and check - some of them might be sensible and attentive enough, probably willing to help and make a new connection to make a difference in your life

    • @rosemotee5879
      @rosemotee5879 6 років тому +2

      Yana Rossoshanskaya Thank you. I tried talk to my mom and a friend but they don't really understand my situation to give some really good advice😭 at times i feel like ending my life is the best solution😭 because i don't have many friends in person💔🙁

    • @user-fh8sp2lp1j
      @user-fh8sp2lp1j 6 років тому +2

      Rose Motee There is a site called Blah Therapy, where you get a random nickname for a day and can chat to a complete stranger (no need for an account), either as a venter or as a listener. It might be helpful because there is no prejudice from either of you, and you might receive an advice from either an experienced mind or an objective point of view

    • @rosemotee5879
      @rosemotee5879 6 років тому +2

      Yana Rossoshanskaya Alright i will check it out. Thank you Thank You So Much i really appreciate it🤗

    • @user-fh8sp2lp1j
      @user-fh8sp2lp1j 6 років тому +2

      Rose Motee It indeed is hard to not have a circle of close people or friends to rely on 😔 Try to start a journal or express in different manners to pour the frustration out, the most important is not to keep the emotions bottled up inside because even Mother Nature "explodes" in volcanoes, damaging itself (you surely get my metaphor 🙂)

  • @tashasharma9854
    @tashasharma9854 4 роки тому +17

    Sick of crying
    Tired of trying
    Yes I am smiling
    But inside I am dying

  • @anieattaryan1587
    @anieattaryan1587 5 років тому +25

    Jay, you’re helping during a difficult time. I appreciate you.

    • @veer5714
      @veer5714 5 років тому

      Same in my case

  • @uddhavsurve2974
    @uddhavsurve2974 6 років тому +188

    This is the best one so far!

  • @harryjamespotter4645
    @harryjamespotter4645 5 років тому +5

    It's always the people with most beautiful smile are ones who genuinely doesn't get to smile.
    And you know what?
    everyone's smile is beautiful.

  • @mango7416
    @mango7416 6 років тому +72

    ok well that only made me realize
    the only person who asks if I’m ok is my dad.. I swear I would not be able to live without him because sometimes it only feels like he is the only one who cares..

    • @ramlami1767
      @ramlami1767 5 років тому +3

      Be a true believer.You don't feel no one cares you.Only ALLAH can make your heart satisfied.You will become the happiest person.

    • @sundes2807
      @sundes2807 5 років тому

      Hey, are you feeling better now? Are you okay?

    • @claire8602
      @claire8602 4 роки тому +1

      TWINS!!!!!!!

    • @missnikki1488
      @missnikki1488 4 роки тому

      Mango I fee exactly the same ....

    • @grysz5657
      @grysz5657 4 роки тому

      Dads are THE BEST❤

  • @iiamimperfect6285
    @iiamimperfect6285 5 років тому +8

    "People who love you will wait till you tell the truth"

  • @aryaastark5918
    @aryaastark5918 4 роки тому +12

    Im watching this and remembering Sushant Singh🥺🥺

  • @souhardya1487
    @souhardya1487 4 роки тому +5

    Spirituality is the ultimate path of happyness

  • @pncine6624
    @pncine6624 6 років тому +3

    Not every person climb every mountain. It's hard to think how life drowns in every bit of second. Such an amazing creation Mr. Shetty. I hope someday at some point of time people who feel like this (depression) sees your videos and at the least have some pressurisations on how to LOVE yourself and your priorities not forgetting the so called "Quality life" . May God bless us all

  • @vanessanaglovska5471
    @vanessanaglovska5471 5 років тому +2

    *“Depression is when we smile but we want to cry but we smile. It’s when we talk,but we want to be quiet. It’s when we pretend that we’re happy but we’re not”* that hit way to hard😭

  • @ishnookie
    @ishnookie 6 років тому +7

    "She drank to drown her pain, but the pain learned how to swim.."
    That is some Lionel Richie wisdom right there.

  • @sarahswiattack
    @sarahswiattack 6 років тому +4

    Wow, very powerful message! To whoever reads this, I hope you are truly doing well today! You are loved! 🕊❤

  • @yeetyyeet4403
    @yeetyyeet4403 4 роки тому +6

    Ik m late but in 2020 (present year) in March I loose my most important person of my life.....he died .I cried and cried and after that day I began to lose some of my feelings. my only dream is to make everyone happy and pls people pls be happy that you have someone and u have me too! 🙂🙂

  • @saeidkh1227
    @saeidkh1227 5 років тому +13

    I lost my dad, mom and bff.
    And I'm only 12... It's too late now, but still thanks!! 💔😭👏💋
    Edit: "a smile can hide thousands of tears" people need to be reminded..💔🤤 I have a dream of becoming an actress, but will never be like that for my family... Thank you!!

    • @iffatsyed
      @iffatsyed 5 років тому +3

      Stay strong

    • @undeterminedstudent3636
      @undeterminedstudent3636 4 роки тому

      That’s too bad... who’s taking care of u now? Life to me, is like a tunnel to heaven or hell. Depends. The good, people whom we love is the lighted wax candle in our hand, the only thing we have to light our way. The dripping hot wax sometimes burns our hands, but we must hold on, for they are all we have. Your parents and BFF watch you from heaven, cheering you on. Remember that. They are stars in the night sky, and like stars they shine, never burning out. You can’t always see stars on the daytime, but they’re still there. ( I got a bit carried away expressing life becuz I feel like life is A LOT. ) I wish all the luck in the world and hope you are faring well.

  • @pankajmb304
    @pankajmb304 6 років тому +74

    Jay Shetty sir ... You are Mr inspiration 😇🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @parzival_zd_1156
    @parzival_zd_1156 6 років тому +159

    It seems like my story..😟😢😢😟
    😅 But m not Giving up.... (my short story👇👇)
    I'm really Alone...😔😔
    And...whenever i just Get to study.. I feel Disturbed.....
    There's a Lot of worst things Happened in this..Year.... and those are Really Shocking and . ..depressive.... painful... Just in Two months.. Life have gone...worst ..than ever... Its... I can't even face some of My lovable people ... 😔😔 .. .. It Have My mistake Too.... but now.. I can't change that Incident.. .. I'm just trying hard .. to Overcome that feeling...kind of Depression..
    I don't know..why...But From a Month...Small things are making me sad..And.. angry... on Little Things...
    Now I'M Just trying .... to Figure it Out.. ...
    😟😟
    But yes... i know One..thing.very well...That...
    I'M NEVER GOING TO GIVE UP....
    NO MATTER HOW WORST ALL SITUATION ....ALL MY CONDITIONS... ARE GOING TO BE.....
    NOTHING CAN STOP ME..
    IF EVER I'VE LOVED MY DREAM .... AND COMMITTED TO COMPLETE THAT .. THEN.... YES I AM GONNA MAKE IT. ...
    No matter How i'm going To do That...
    But yea..I will focus On... how To Improve MYSELF.. BETTER THAN I WAS BEFORE.
    May be I'll not be the best.. but Yes..
    I WILL BE... BETTER.. I WILL BE GOOD..
    I WILL BE HAPPY...what ever i will Do...
    I'll be GOOD....
    😊😊😊
    And For Everyone..
    Just NEVER GIVE UP...coz.. YOU'VE ONLY THIS ONE LIFE. and A LOT OF THINGS TO DO....A LOT OF THINGS ARE THERE ....TO LEARN...
    SO...Just .... LETS GO....😄😄😄😄

    • @punjabisongstatus234
      @punjabisongstatus234 5 років тому +3

      Yeah same here in 2 months everything was changed I can't understand what is happening in my life I don't what I should I do also don't want to lose my loved ones 😥😥😥

    • @sunshinemehta2788
      @sunshinemehta2788 5 років тому +1

      @@punjabisongstatus234
      Try talking to me about it.
      My Instagram id is passionatedoctor.
      stay blessed.

    • @sunshinemehta2788
      @sunshinemehta2788 5 років тому +1

      THUNDER BUDDIES
      Mistakes can be forgiven. Loved ones can be gained back.
      Talk to me. I am here to help.
      My Instagram id is passionatedoctor.
      stay blessed.

    • @erwinsmeeth1427
      @erwinsmeeth1427 5 років тому +1

      I don't have time to read your newspaper.
      But don't do like this girl.

    • @sunshinemehta2788
      @sunshinemehta2788 5 років тому +2

      @@erwinsmeeth1427
      WOW !! how on earth did you find the TIME TO VOICE YOUR REPLY ?? 😡😡😡
      DONT do this man !!! SOMEONE'S life is at stake here. If you cant help, MOVE ON !!!
      stay blessed !!!

  • @Zainphotography
    @Zainphotography 4 роки тому +2

    I lost my father. My mom came to visit us overseas to help us during our pregnancy and birth of first child. he was alone for one year, his appetite and health were inclining. she had her two flights cancelled one in may and another in june because of covid. he died on 20 June 2020 and we did our best to book a flight to see him for the last time but were just hopeless. Our heart broke when we learnt he drove all the way to the hospital, parked his car but couldn't get out of the vehicle due to a heart attack. security noticed him after two hours.
    please pray for our family and my mother they had a million plans and were eagerly waiting to be united.

    • @kimalex9945
      @kimalex9945 4 роки тому

      For help WhatsApp +1 (305) 974 1113

  • @maureencarey4769
    @maureencarey4769 5 років тому

    Jay Shetty seems to be a prophet. In every video, he speaks with so much knowledge, wisdom and truth always. Very self-actualized person!

  • @dattiteja9077
    @dattiteja9077 6 років тому +149

    Perfect meaning of depression other than all other rubbish motivation videos.

  • @3Jodyla
    @3Jodyla 5 років тому +3

    😭 You just described my life almost exactly. I thank God for influencers like you who use their platform to make an impact and help others realize they are not alone. I recently posted about my journey and hope to make a difference like you have done for so many. This video touched my soul and I feel seen! Thank you for being who you are.

  • @BrotherTree1
    @BrotherTree1 5 років тому

    As a depression and anxiety sufferer myself, this hits me hard and I just to say this. Please no one ever hide their feelings. Please be honest and truthful.... that's all I ever ask. There's no need to justify if you don't want to. Just let yourself feel and explain it, release it, explore it, and process it because it's what makes us alive and well. To those who judge and ridicule, you are doing no favours to help this - not because you're being mean or inconsiderate, but more concerning, you're adding to the misery and therefore risk of injury and harm. If you truly care about humanity and life, you would be peaceful and, if it's difficult to do so, acknowledge the difficulty to help yet still make some effort to try and understand and respect... not the person or the issue... but life itself. Peace and harmony itself. True happiness itself. To everyone out there suffering, I hear you and I understand how you're feeling. I may not understand every situation but it's always the same goal - I want everyone to find peace of mind, safety and healthy and general wellness. No more wars. No more destroying our own lives and or destroying other people's lives. We thrive together.

  • @XxChirpyxX
    @XxChirpyxX 4 роки тому +2

    First time I watched this I couldn't stop crying as finally someone was describing how I felt

  • @viraleverything7601
    @viraleverything7601 6 років тому +18

    Jay you are a true inspiration! With every video, your teaching is making me a better human being.
    I remember who I was and how I am now by continously following your preachings from the very beginning on Facebook.
    Love and understanding the different perspectives is what making me calmer and more humble.
    Keep it up!
    Abhinav

  • @itspanda8520
    @itspanda8520 6 років тому +4

    After this,I'm thankful to my mom and my family,i don't have friends but I got family.

    • @nyasha767
      @nyasha767 4 роки тому

      Powerful statement.Family is better than anything.

  • @sangeedha981
    @sangeedha981 6 років тому +2

    Thank you, this calmed my heart. Related on so many levels. I once had a friend who said to me, you're not depressed, you don't seem depressed, how can you say you are. And I thought, I don't know or don't want to explain. It'd exhausting because they will never know. Now I know, someone knows what depression is, and how to picture it to people who have a wrong idea of it. Cannot thank you enough 🙏♥🙏

  • @shirohndinguri6491
    @shirohndinguri6491 3 роки тому +1

    Best Company is your company......learn to love you company. Love yourself.. people will love you for who you are

  • @MrRajput
    @MrRajput 5 років тому +10

    Same here... Exactly

  • @HypronEsp
    @HypronEsp 6 років тому +32

    This video is seriously amazing . Finally come to know what is depression . Thanks Jay 😀👍👍

  • @chanduhaswanthsaisarath4671
    @chanduhaswanthsaisarath4671 3 роки тому +1

    Those last lines
    And that's what Robin Williams said.
    'I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not.
    The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you alone.'
    👏👏

  • @abcde6008
    @abcde6008 4 роки тому +1

    why can i relate it to Sushant's story? ... RIP sushant we miss u... i can't accept the fact tht u r no more with us

  • @Cindy-1965
    @Cindy-1965 6 років тому +33

    Thank you for pointing out what we all should see. Not always is it obvious, and it's easy to hide behind a facade....

    • @darrellkavan_93
      @darrellkavan_93 5 років тому

      Social media is always the most common platform to hide from anxiety and depression😅😅

  • @tinah292
    @tinah292 6 років тому +2

    So true! Thumbs up for this video. That's what's become of so many of us in the era of Facebook & Co. This craving for "likes", "followers", lots of positive comments, this need for posting "happy", "spontaneous" life moments, the need for constantly documenting one's life, while real friends are scarce or even unexistent, this is THE one big collective disease of the world we are living in today and the surest way to alienation. But even without social media we can be lonely amongst friends. We are that, whenever we are tempted to exhibit a fake life, with the appearence of being happy and fulfilled, while inside we may be facing sadness, frustration and sometimes even hell. Thank you for reminding us of what we need to avoid in order to live an authentic life.

  • @sandrar.morales9583
    @sandrar.morales9583 5 років тому

    Every single word spoken so true... "When you smile but want to cry... When you talk but want to stay quiet" I think that the worst thing we can do but sometimes its all we can do to mask the pain in our hearts. Faith keeps me strong some day things will get better the problem is how long.... And how strong can you be when everything falls apart, and its like faith and strength slips out of ur hands. God help us all whom are going thru difficult situations stay strong.

  • @xxrandom_userxx9994
    @xxrandom_userxx9994 4 роки тому +2

    she drank to drown her pain
    but her pain learned how to swim
    what a beautiful saying this is the quote for the year

  • @ishaankhan5720
    @ishaankhan5720 6 років тому +44

    The line on 2:55 was amazing....

  • @jHouston68
    @jHouston68 6 років тому +14

    Powerful and thought provoking. We live in a world that values perfection. I wish we valued human vulnerability much more. Will we dare to show the world our talents and gifts alongside our deepest vulnerabilities? Jay this is an incredible production that must have taken a great deal of time to produce?I am new to your channel and I am enjoying the content. 👌

  • @shieynahleo3042
    @shieynahleo3042 5 років тому +1

    I've learn so many things from u and im thankful for that! When i feel alone and no one to talk w/ cause no one want too but im going through those videos of u and realizing that im not alone anymore!its kinda sad life but all u do is to wake up urself and see how amazing to live happy w/ ur own happiness not by someone else !thank u so much Jay Shetty

  • @anykoaniko426
    @anykoaniko426 5 років тому +2

    "I used to think the worst thing in life is to be alone but the worst thing in life is to be with people who make you feel alone" that hit me

  • @moonysonu7047
    @moonysonu7047 5 років тому +3

    Oh my God! His words made me feel like someone knows what I'm gng through 😣 .....Yes Anxiety n depression 😔

  • @MouthFeelIndia
    @MouthFeelIndia 6 років тому +59

    Amazing.. nice thoughts.. the final quote is very true.. good to be late than never.. Thanks for sharing yet another amazing video Jay :) :)

  • @allanab654
    @allanab654 6 років тому +4

    This is soo true and sad....Never live for the approval of others always live to please yourself.

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial9137 5 років тому +2

    I was moved by this video, it makes me think that all of us go through this kind of situation. We always pretend to be happy but deep inside we are suffering from loneliness, I realized that we need to be true with ourself, if we feel pain, we should not run from it because it will haunt us later on. We should not judged ourself if we are feeling down because sometimes, it's okay to be not okay.

  • @ashishnaik2310
    @ashishnaik2310 6 років тому +22

    She drank to drown her pain but the pain knew how to swim!!!! Dayumm

    • @storeymark
      @storeymark 5 років тому

      Sounds like a take off from Bono's lyrics from "The end of the world".

  • @kitkatkaty5632
    @kitkatkaty5632 6 років тому +4

    “She’s smiling but inside she’s dying” 😭

  • @minteabee
    @minteabee 6 років тому

    "I don't think we understand how stressful it is to explain what's going on in your head when you don't even understand yourself." Thank you.

  • @MisterMind12
    @MisterMind12 6 років тому

    It's not always bad to have social media... just don't only be social on social media, actually go out and socialize with random people, take phoneless nature walks, genuinely do something good for a stranger, visit a hospital, retirement home or a prison and comfort the elderly and downtrodden, (they WILL appreciate you genuinely) etc... these are things that help me get over my depression, and controlling my social media accounts to have only the content I require has quite literally reversed most depressing effects it had on me. Love yourself enough to respect yourself, and don't be too hard on yourself; life can be beautiful if you make it so.

  • @Unknown-gn3sx
    @Unknown-gn3sx 6 років тому +5

    Dammit, good point of view.
    Train your mind and your body will follow.
    Careful kids.

  • @HareKrishna-ff2kf
    @HareKrishna-ff2kf 6 років тому +3

    This video just penetrated me deep to my heart💔. It clearly describes my secret life. Thank You Jay Shetty for sharing such relatable videos.💖

  • @mark-opolo8210
    @mark-opolo8210 4 роки тому

    I completely agree. I heard a quote sampled in some music and it is "Death is not the greatest loss in life, the greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live" - Norman Cousins. Hearing this change me in ways that have over the years been instrumental to me seeking positive experiences. Although I still struggle at times I get joy from sharing this quote when ever I can.

  • @lisagaudiosi7889
    @lisagaudiosi7889 2 роки тому

    I suffer from depression, recently it took a turn for the worse for me, one thing most don't understand is sometimes-just sometimes-a person can feel so alone that there are no words to describe it, anything can trigger it. I always feel if a person sees something seems wrong with someone, ask the person 'hey how are you? Are you doing ok?' Show them you care or had noticed, it may mean the world to the person, listen but don't push, most would think the person is being 'too sensitive' but it's something so deep most don't understand it unless you suffer from depression yourself, you want to cry, or don't want to talk to anyone, don't enjoy things we normally would, yet we don't want to show the world because the last thing we need to hear is 'it's not that Serious' or 'get over it'-well, it is serious & about being too sensitive-well-that is the thing, it is a sensitive thing & needs to be taken into consideration!

  • @SAKSHIGANGURDE-ih4ru
    @SAKSHIGANGURDE-ih4ru 6 років тому +2

    Thank you sir. Finally I come to know what is depression.
    Amazing video.
    'she had so many to follow but no one to walk with' touched my heart 🙂🙂

  • @itzme4752
    @itzme4752 5 років тому +28

    *About to lose a friend*
    Me:Wait I have to watch this before I lose you
    Friend:Bish whaaa
    Me:let’s just watch
    *end of video*
    Both:Waaaaaa I love youu

  • @suedafeti7041
    @suedafeti7041 4 роки тому +2

    the most powerful thing i’ve ever seen...👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @its_bahar.k4152
    @its_bahar.k4152 4 роки тому +1

    "The worst thing in life is to emd up its not the worst thing in life is to end up with people who make u feel alone"....I FELT THAT PAIN...

  • @dheaamelia1688
    @dheaamelia1688 6 років тому +3

    I do like that,smile outside,cry inside.

  • @PreetiSharma-nd7nz
    @PreetiSharma-nd7nz 5 років тому +17

    Your aura is really amazimg❤️

  • @alibeaumont-filder3185
    @alibeaumont-filder3185 4 роки тому

    When someone sees behind your cracks .. in your life .. you know you have a true wise inspiring person .

  • @rachaela.5567
    @rachaela.5567 6 років тому +2

    This has been my life for years but I'm still trying to change it. Depression and anxiety take over to the point where no one can tell. Everyone thinks you're okay. Feeling alone is definitely a lot worse when you're with people. I just hope I can get through this as well.

  • @miltonmenezes6195
    @miltonmenezes6195 6 років тому +4

    I have seen ur hundreds of video but this video touch my life.

  • @lefuphotography
    @lefuphotography 6 років тому +4

    Once again you nail it! Your videos are awesome. Thanks!

  • @blingblingnelida
    @blingblingnelida 4 роки тому +2

    Emotions are hide when YOU JUST DONT LET PEOPLE IN..."

  • @MatthewNelsondbz
    @MatthewNelsondbz 6 років тому

    I used to always be the happy guy in class, everyone would want me around them, and then depression hit me and I lost everyone because no one was truly there for me, if you have a friend that goes through depression...please..please...don't abandon them, be there for them, I always am there for anyone whoever needs someone to talk to but when the roles change...I don't have a single person who understands. I hope you guys have an amazing day today! I wish the best for everyone! This world needs more love in the world than hate.

  • @NidhinVinod-tt3tb
    @NidhinVinod-tt3tb 6 років тому +3

    Hai jay Shetty you know what you just did you touch the core of many people's heart

  • @adesh8227
    @adesh8227 5 років тому +5

    This one describes my lyf 900%!

  • @maansimathew6948
    @maansimathew6948 6 років тому

    And i literally cried afte watching this. Amen!

  • @bisesantihok
    @bisesantihok 6 років тому

    we lose people even if we are happy and positive all the time. U can't please people anymore. The best friend is yourself. U don't need anyone & that it. U will never be hurt again.

  • @marleneferrer6532
    @marleneferrer6532 6 років тому +18

    I am definitely sharing this 💯👍

  • @ellacarpenter7782
    @ellacarpenter7782 6 років тому +3

    As always, I shivered.

  • @starbaby3759
    @starbaby3759 6 років тому

    This had opened up my eyes to the world and the people around me showing me how even the happiest people could have the worst emotions and insicuritys about themselves this shows how people really care these days

  • @lesliencube8715
    @lesliencube8715 6 років тому

    Thank you Mr shetty. My name is Leslie and I'm only 14 and the rest of my life has been saved and its all thanks to you sir please do continue inspiring other people and never stop. May GOD bless you in your work sir.THANK YOU ONCE MORE

  • @sultanarazia3531
    @sultanarazia3531 5 років тому +4

    2 years I’m suffering can’t express my pain

  • @ammaramunir3350
    @ammaramunir3350 5 років тому +3

    I feel alone, but I don't want to! I want to cry, but I do not, so that people can't know that I am sad. I want to tell someone about my life, but I don't know whom to trust!

    • @sundes2807
      @sundes2807 5 років тому

      Hey, are you feeling better now? You can trust me haha thats sounds so creepy. lol. Okay... No, trust me :) It doesn't matter what people think. It never matters. People are forgetful… therefore there is no point in hiding your sadness. Believe me, talking about your pain is better than keeping it inside. Its like a physical wound, which when you don't tell others about it worsens. When you do something against that, it heals… thats basically the same :) I hope you feel better now. Let me know please.

    • @nartanaiyer8653
      @nartanaiyer8653 4 роки тому

      Hey maybe talking to a complete stranger will help . I'm listening .

  • @omar40617
    @omar40617 5 років тому

    Thia is me too because I have stress, anxiety, and trauma. My trauma begin because my dad never lets me do what I want. When ever I want to succed in life he puts me down and tells me no and gives me a speech about why not. When I fall down, instead of him helping me up. He pick me up to later complain to me that I'm a dumb ass that I felt. He does it to make himself look good. When ever some falls there's always someone else to help them get up without telling them that their a dumb ass for falling. For years I kept looking for other ways to fill my emptiness inside of me. For someone to catch me when I'm falling or help me get up when I fall without complaining it to me. I even found this girl who is looking for someone to catch her when she is falling or help her get up when she falls. For now we are in an LDR (Long Distance Relationship) and were planing on getting married in the future and starting a family together. One of the reasons I'm doing this is because I want to end with my trauma, stress, and anxiety. I'm also scared that one day we are going to break up and when I fall from that my dad is going to tell me I tild you, you were a dumb ass for being with her.

  • @whitefangs7653
    @whitefangs7653 6 років тому

    People will be inspired by your video I know because I have done a big mistake by forgetting the caring and love part of me ,your video has shown my true self has been forgotten and what a selfish person I have become.
    So Thank you so much.

  • @harshbohara8711
    @harshbohara8711 6 років тому +4

    Hi jay your work is fantastic you are the master of your mind

  • @flitziglitzi3939
    @flitziglitzi3939 6 років тому +4

    You showed me the world

  • @janillearissol5737
    @janillearissol5737 5 років тому

    This video is very touching. I mostly feel sad every single day. People see me smile but they do not know what I go through inside.

  • @jean-victorcote5825
    @jean-victorcote5825 4 роки тому

    Jay Shetty is clearly on a mission here. He hits it on the nail again and again with beautiful sentences. Here is his last one, a quotation: "The worst thing in life is to be with people who make you feel alone." - Robin Williams

  • @sidramalik4806
    @sidramalik4806 5 років тому +5

    Many times I hide my tears bcuz no one understand you😞

  • @Dangerznoodlez_
    @Dangerznoodlez_ 6 років тому +13

    This hit me so hard

  • @misspickljuice
    @misspickljuice 5 років тому

    I'm watching this again. This is the video that I won't forget. This is the video that I came back to, to see how perfect my life is, to see that I need to feel the worth of it.

  • @Samara-yv6tz
    @Samara-yv6tz 5 років тому +2

    Literally me I can’t am crying of how true this is