Don't Have Anything To Say to a Girl? Do This...
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- Опубліковано 21 січ 2018
- Do you have trouble knowing what to say or talk about with a girl? Knowing what to say in conversations with women you like is a common struggle for many men. In this video, Brian interviews Anthony about the concept of being proactive vs. being reactive especially when you are out meeting women. You'll hear how Anthony was able to get himself out of a reactive place when he found himself not being able to find words when there was an attractive woman next to him.
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This is 100% true and its so weird how I was only thinking about this the other day. Alot of my interactions with girls where I have felt that I 'needed' to say or do something, it has never amounted to much. However those moments where I became 'real' with myself and others around me, that's when I saw results! Be natural, be present - live for the moment!
Well said Drax. This took me some time to learn but when I got it, it made all the difference in attracting women.
That's a hot story. Very tense.
But what resonated heavily with me was the refusal to speak reactionary. Creates so much more presence and a backseat kinda control. Dope stuff
Glad you got all that out of it!
Love the authenticity in these videos. Thanks for sharing these insight 🧞♂️
Glad you're continually enjoying!
He said there’s no technique, but a technique I use is just bringing the awareness to my heart and feel like transmuting the energy from your brain to your body. That’s what I do and it works for me. Feels like a form of meditation actually. Love this video btw
BEST ADVICE EVER!!! Learning how to feel your body & just enjoy the moment with yourself or with a girl! Thank you Anthony & Brian!!!
Glad it was helpful! Hope to meet you at an event! www.thefearlessman.com/events/
Respect for both of you guys~ amazing clip
It seems like he has remnants of the shy guy, but he has learned to embrace it, enjoy it... And that creates warmth. Just shows how game is growth. Strengthen your comfort and even the elements of your personality you may not yet Embrace can become strengths. #RedPillVegan
Exactly
doobiewah357 quite the opposite actually brother, this page illuminates the true genuine and sacred dynamic between masculine and feminine. Feeling yourself is does not make one a “snowflake” it makes us sexier and makes women want to feel good with us.
Great example of grounding. I understand it a lot better now.
Love to hear that! Glad it helped
"I was just there feeling my body"
Sir, we're gonna have to place you under arrest
This is SOOOOOOOO much like the Vipassana Meditation
This was pretty freaking awesome. Way to Shine Anthony!
Fantastic video! Thanks guys. (and way to go Anthony!!!)
Thanks Matt
Glad you enjoyed
This is amazing, thank you both for this video,
i will sure do a lot of sitting by myself until i feel, welcome ,accept, and let go in every inch of my body.
You guys really inspired me today.
thanks!
Hey Anthony - what's awesome about the video is not only that I connected with it and learned from it as a student, but the awesome thing is that what you described about what you did and how the girl(s) responded is so similar to what happened on the evening I met a girl who turned out to be a soulmate for me a year ago. Reactive impulses came up, but I managed to resist them and avoid making actions I sensed would be more like "forcing" rather than "allowing" things to happen. And my brief conversation with that total stranger (a beautiful one for sure) ended in me with a genuine, content smile, about to end the conversation and continue on my way to dinner...when the girl suddenly stopped me from turning to leave by saying, "So can I have your phone number?" Amazing!
AlexJ Awesome man! I love hearing these stories. Let’s chat it up sometime.
@@anthonyrieux3525 are you the anthony in this video?
@@cant_touchthis69 Entirely. I got your email this morning. Check your inbox, I sent your one back,.
@@anthonyrieux3525 i just replied
Excellent!! Thank U and all the success to both!
You're welcome. Thanks for the comment
really good! You two explain really well!
I totally understand how this feels and it’s great to see and hear others talking about this problem
Haha, Hooka bar. Great spot to meet and chill with the ladies. Get'em Anthony!
Music a little bit is a strange mood.... But I love this video !!! I love your content
I have difficulty feeling and admiring a woman around other people (in public) i am an attractive young man mid 20's and have had all the luck in the world with all women I've found attractive, but my problem is finding my intention and being in my body and staying genuine and in my truths at all times and out of my head. I love these videos of The FearlessMan so much thank you. This is exactly what I've been needing ! I need a coaching session asap!!!
I have the same problem but when haginging out with family members, weird enough is when I get the most looks but I would never in a million years do something near them even less in front. Why? Embarassment, hate you name it, can't, won't do it.
Wish it could happen when going out solo, if only I did ever go out solo, damn
Feel the fear and do it anyway!
This totally makes sense to me now
Hey Ervin, Glad to see you continue to get value here. We’d love if you subscribed man. It helps us get the Fearless principle out to benefit more guys. Cheers - Andrew, TFM Staff
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What Im getting from this; I can see the disability; I mean, concerning talking to someone or talking to women! and this is me! Im exactly like this and I have to relearn how to deal with a new person in front of me! If I know someone for a few months; I can relax! I dont have a few months! Im a great person; but because of this shyness and not responding at some point; and freeze up; I never get started! So; Im now learning about " up close".
Thank you for this insight because I was in the moment as I was listening to you guys explain it but how to get into that more but I am alone by myself a lot but I do like it.
It’s time for how to train like you said to have more of those moments
Love it guys!
Thanks u2 love this info
Thanks guys, good advice.
I notice feeling pleasure even if it's innocent and genuine directed/ caused by an attractive woman becomes difficult for me, it might be the way society's thin line of being a perve and being admiring. May be just me, but I will attend a session because Brian is a body feeling guru lol thanks for the video guys.
A great example of this will be the movie "Drive" Ryan gosling has done a great job and the movie teaches almost everything they talked about in the vid. Watch it carefully.
Thank me later😎
Bringing awareness to my heart and gut*
I like the idea of less is more. When talking to a girl I over analyze everything and try to think of something to say when the conversation stops. I think that when the conversation stops she will become bored and not interested. I’m going to try just being happy and relaxed no matter the speed of the conversation. Maybe there is some truth in the idea that to get something you need to be happy without it.
Twinky I actually want a girl to be quiet with lol. It’s nice...
Glad this helped!
Your not her clown , if shes bored , its not your problem
Thank you guys very much from Malawi
This was posted in the peak of my depression. If only I had followed you back then. Only 0:46 into the video.
Anthony, when you sit by yourself do you occupy you mind with anything? Because I sit by myself a lot during lunch, probably 99% of the time, and I don't feel sad or depressed or anything . I'm used to it, but I am always on my laptop watching videos or movies. is it good or bad? Should I feel the food in my mouth, its taste, and how my body feels instead?
King Tut, this is a really good question. If you'd like we can go into this more over email. Email me at Anthony@thefearlessman.com
Very sympathetic guy!
Less trying, more being. Got it.
Hi Anthony
I really enjoyed the video and kind of relate to the persona you seem to give off. The shy guy.
Unfortunately, with that, I have extreme difficulty speaking to woman.
You spoke a lot about how you are able to ground yourself, and allow the reactive thoughts to just go by.
How did you deal with learning how to speak to women in the moments when grounded enough, you felt you wanted to?
For more clarity, I have a fear of not knowing what to say in a conversation, and running out of things to say. This has happened to me in the past. Have you experiences this, and if so, how have you dealt with it?
One word - practice. "Repetition is the mother of skill." How else does a man get good at a video game or anything else that he masters?
Go talk to a woman, even though doing so is filled with tension for you - and then after the interaction, go over in your mind the things you did successfully as well as the things you'd like to do differently next time. There's no substitute for just simply continuing to have interactions with new women. And reflecting afterwards is vital; also important after the interaction - "talking to yourself" in a private setting to develop your style of expressing yourself in conversation in a way that feels natural to who you are. These things help you grow.
Hey Warren, Thanks for watching. I'd love to talk with you about this. Email me at Anthony@thefearlessman.com
Respect
Hi @Brian that song in the background is amazing, i mean theme of the Fearless Man, can you tell the name of the song please? SO I can listen to it more often?
Hey EH, It's a custom track actually so we can't make it available publicly I'm afraid. Sorry about that - Andrew, TFM Staff
That my uncle yaaaaaalllllll😲
Too cute.
Uncle Anthony is a good one
which courses do i take on your website to become more in tune with myself, vulnerability and feeling my body?
You can simply do a search such as: "Fearless Man, Vulnerability" and discover multiple videos relevant to your needs. It is best for you to discover, and find out which one's work best for you.
Landon, TFM
Thank you
You're welcome!
Totally !
I have been sitting by myself for 40 something damn years. It has done nothing for me but make things way worse.
@@reteiddlefnosch1244 If I had wanted your help I would have ask You for it. But I didn’t.
Totally!!!
No..sometimes staying quiet is not appropriate. Especially when you’re fucking shy and your body language screams “uncomfortable”
get this guy some subs.
is this guy high
He has a Czech flag over his shirt. Sending some regards from Czech
Reminds me of the natural lifestyles
What exactly it reminds you from them ? i also follow them too
ozamrani22 he mostly reminds me of Tony solo with his vibe
does he use the sedona method ?
Anatomy🔥✊🏿
Lol, did you clon him? same gestures right at the beginning
Feel entire body or legs?
that spiderman comic tho :P
That hookah body high is amazing. I always catch girls lookin when I’m just enjoying it.
Feelin feel feelin, chillin chillin chillin
I looked at a girl she looked down right away she did not smile, I looked away 15 seconds later I looked at her again she looked down right away she had no smile. She was going to get off the bus so was I, I stood next to her at the bus doors we are shoulder to shoulder both of us are looking straight ahead, I see her from the corner of my eye she turned her head towards me but I just kept looking straight ahead. Was she interested in me? Should I have turned my head when she turned her head?
Probably not
Had that happen to me in the store. I was standing behind an attractive woman and I noticed that she was looking to her left alot which was the side I was standing on and then she just straight looked right at me and then turned away. She checked out first and left . Then I checked out and walked out and she was parked right in front and was dead staring straight at me. I'm sure she was interested but I just kept on walking to my truck. I know it's the man's responsibility to make the first move but I wasn't in the flirting mood even though I was attracted to her.
@@joetroutt7425 I get that, has happened to me but the 2 times it did was terrible timing. I sensed her interest right away because of the stuff I've learned from content like this but at the time I would have messed up.
Now I know it doesn't matter what I say, but the emotions I project with any word and my body language being strong and calm at the same time
No
Haha anthony though looks like he'd rather be somewhere else!
Great video btw:)
Kairo Ale 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂.Right,he has no idea of how to say shit!
That happens. Camera shy is a real thing lol
Spiderman in the background chilling
Yes sir!
In our country boyfriend girlfriend thing is a crime. Our girls are so afraid of bieng caught than how to purpose that types of girls.
Run to America
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🔥❤
I thought men were supposed to be proactive.
Yo whats up Anthony.
What's up man, thanks for watching.
I had this happen to me also but in a different way, me and my friend were just joking around feeling ourselves and having fun. While the girl was sitting close to us and listening to the conversation. She eventually just asked me out to be her boyfriend. I turned her down cause I'm doing pickup currently and not looking for a girlfriend, however that was mind opening for me how to actually really pickup women.
I know yeah. What girl comes up to 2 guys and asks one of them 'wanna be my boyfriend'? Guys probably recounting a dream he had lol
Feeling yourself?? Like meditate, clear your mind. Im not sure im understanding
When you feel yourself you're aware of whatever is going on in your body but you dont analyze it. You are just observing your feelings and you're completely okay with them, you're enjoying your body. Just like when you're in the cinema. You are just observing what is going on. And then see what happens next, its really amazing... Like magic ;)
Hey! I often come across a similar situation... I end up getting the girl's number but don't know what to text her and talk about later. Similar is the case when I see a beautiful girl near me. I have the confidence but lack the starting script!
You probably need to build a little stronger connection when meeting the woman, and/or be more present with her so what to text her comes naturally. Or...just set up the date!
One word - practice. "Repetition is the mother of skill." How else does a man get good at a video game or anything else that he masters?
Go talk to a woman, and then after the interaction, go over in your mind the things you did successfully as well as the things you'd like to do differently next time. There's no substitute for just simply continuing to have interactions with new women. And reflecting afterwards is vital; also important after the interaction - "talking to yourself" in a private setting to develop your style of expressing yourself in conversation in a way that feels natural to who you are. These things help you grow.
That goes for in-person, anyway. Texting is a whole other skill! Let Coach Corey Wayne's youtube channel and "3% Man" book be your guide for that.
Don't like to pose as an expert by giving advice but I have to take this one. Don't chat on text, set up the date! OK, so it's a problem postponed maybe (if you're no more comfortable in a real world interaction than texting) but at least you've moved things forward and you get to choose what the date entails.
What does it mean if a girl stares at you and then she looks down
You caught her attention, that's something
Women like him because he is build like a Mack truck and good looking. It does not matter that he has anxiety or is shy. He would not be having these same lucks with women. If he was skinny or he was not good looking.
It's just a anther damn drug.
Before I go out to approach I smoke small bit weed and then I be come a super cool a playboy 😎
Shyness is a turn off every other dating coach says I thought? How does he look at girls and they give him their number? I wish I had that magic trick 😒
Matthew Scanlon Insecurity is different from shyness. Shyness without insecurity can be charming
Daniel Hermosillo exactly, shy and confident is the way to go. I had this girl going crazy for me when I gave her those vibes.
@@LatAm13 I don't get the difference
The truth is hes good looking lol no ugly dude can pull off that shy guy strategy like him....dont underestimate the importance of good looks for girls
I have clients who are physically disabled, short and chubby, bald, old, and on who have all learned to be good or great with women. I also have a client who models - looks like a GQ cover - and is shredded, but he came to me because in spite of that, he was still struggling with women because he didn't know how to connect with them and he still felt insecure deep down in spite of his looks and muscles. And here's a video with Joe, who was always tall, good looking, and shredded, but couldn't get a date before: www.thefearlessman.com/does-bodybuilding-make-you-confident-attractive-alumni-interview/
Is he saying he was having a prostitute or a water pipe?
You sould build a german cannel
So a man with model good looks and a gorgeous smile stops sabotaging himself and gets to enjoy multiple short-term (shallow?) relationships.
He seems like a lovely person and I'm glad but unless every man has a similar, radiant smile hidden inside themselves it's hard to imagine his practice/discipline working as well for others.
That's the thing. Every man does have innate very attractive qualities inside them. Anthony was not always like this. It was stripping away layers of defenses and hiding that got him here. And I have short, chubby clients, older clients, and physically disabled clients who have all become good with women, too.
One guy is super UNcomfortable
One guy is super relaxed ...
One is Natural
One is faking
Which is which ....
why do you look like you just got out of prison?
Which one? lol