I'm NOT Your Maid!!
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- Rishi wants Jen to learn how to be an Indian housewife. This is going to end well 😂😂 "I don't have two Masters degrees so I can be a maid" says Jen. You've got to give it to Rishi - he's got an excuse for everything. At the end of the day, all Jen wants is honesty. She just wants Rishi to stop hiding the truth and tell his family they're engaged. But oh no! First she's got to learn how to cook, clean, and wake up at 4am to make his tea! For an independent woman like Jen, I don't think that's going to cut it. Do you?
In this video I'm reacting to 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way, Season 4 Episode 6 - Rishi and Jen
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Missed an episode? Watch the full Jen & Rishi story here:
Episode 1 & 2: I Keep Picking The WRONG GUYS!! • I Keep Picking The WRO...
Episode 4: Jen HAS ENOUGH Of Rishi's Lies!! • Jen HAS ENOUGH Of Rish...
Episode 5: THE TRUTH COMES OUT! • THE TRUTH COMES OUT!
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She needs to stop wasting her time. The entire purpose of his family finding him a bride is so they can have a live-in maid
Not exactly- they want grandchildren as well👍
I was wondering where all the fathers seem to be even the last 90 Day fiancé guy from there didn’t have a father and the guy from Egypt. He didn’t have a father. I’d like to know what goes on there do they get other wife’s
That's what is done in south Asian culture - the wives have to go live with the husband's family
Yea that sounds like a nightmare (no offense to the culture)
@@ajheartsong totally agree!
He knows EXACTLY what he’s doing it. It’s called deflection. 💡
Jen : you lied!
Rishi: Come here babe
"You're thinking too much." Cue his Zoolander model face
what? what are you talking about? ;)
Se ela rir cai a cabeça
You can be a 10 but being a chronic liar makes you a 1, even less. I really like Jen - she needs a better self image of herself and find a man closer to home and her age
I agree he been lying to her from the day he met her
He wants to have his cake and eat it too. He is on a TV program, an actor. Go home Jen before you end up like Jenny
😂😂😂😂He is far from a 10!
No, this does not sound like the early days of Summit and Jenny...because neither Summit or his parents were ever that mean and disgusting and uncaring. They may have had a similar differences in cultures but Summit didn't seem to allow his parents to treat Jenny so horribly and this guy allows and almost encourages his family to treat this beautiful, misguided woman. Please, someone encourage this woman to return to the US before it's too late.
Agree!!!
Jen should date the exercise instructor
Exactly my thoughts lol 😂🤣.
I thought so too this dude is a loser lol
He’s cuter too
lol yes !
She needs to go back to her country asap
I think yoga guy is a better match. Jen is too smart and too old to be a 4am maid
I think a better match for her is someone closer to her age and closer to her home
What makes you think the yoga guy wants her? You think all Indian men will pass up beautiful, young Indian women for an old woman? Not because he is being nice to a foreigner means he considers her a life partner. You people think so highly of yourselves and that is why you are always humbled in India. Indian women are beautiful and most Indian men like young and their own. Grow up
@@s.b626 I didn't say the yoga guy wants her or Jen wants him. My OBSERVATION is they have more in common, hence they are friends. Does he lust after her? no idea but it is possible. I agree with you totally regarding lovely Indian ladies. I have many Indian friends in the UK and I agree. You misunderstood what I said, It was an observation that Jen and Rishi are on different journeys with different thinking. She won't live up to what is needed of her for a life in Jaipur. I am grown up and we are all entitled to an opinion or to observe things and formulate an opinion. SB learn kindness and differing thoughts,I gather you are very young.
She is neither smart nor old. She should just go.
That man is far more attractive in physique and behaviour
Maybe he'll finally realize that his looks dont make up for his personality. 🎉
I actually think he's super not attractive. Almost gross level. .. Just my opinion
@@raaaaaaarr Agree
He will not.
He isn’t even that pretty he just has nice hair
@@beccal4189 ok granny
He’s emotionally immature
So is she.
Very much so!! it seems the mothers baby the sons to me
He's an Indian mama's boy, of course he is 🤣
@@gram1976 & Then expect the future wife to do the same.
@@OOhlUkaTmEImGanSTa she is American does it means mom dad are having affair outside
Risha and his family are looking for a MAID. She needs to go home!!!!!
The class her friend was teaching is actually a real thing, it's called Laughter Yoga. They do the whole Hahaha Hohoho thing.
Makes since, it's also a singing exercise
Really? Hahaha, hohoho 😂😂😂
I saw it on " meet my parents ' movie I think. Anyways, fake it till you make it. Has to help depression just because it's silly.😊
Laughter is very healing.
@@SpicyPlur * sense
I agree with the trainer that Rishi is making a fool of Jen. Rishi is just having his fun with her, but will end up marrying whoever his family picks in the end. Jen, you may be educated with your 2 Master's degrees but you are not smart...
I would say she lacks emotional intelligence, not that she is stupid necessarily.
In one of the first episodes his mom said she wants a daughter in law because she will do all the work but mom will be the boss!!😂😂 Jen is stupid if she thinks she will ever fit into the family the way they expect a daughter in law to. If the exercise guy is single he might be a better choice, better yet come home grow up and settle down with someone that has the same ideas about life as she does.
Dana, that's the Indian culture especially if the daughter in law doesn't bring a large dowry.
Maybe the women think they could change those men but they can't.
@@bunnylover1340 Yes and Jen considers herself so smart yet she didn’t bother to learn the language (even just basics) nor did she take the time to actually learn about his culture. Since it is their culture if she expects to be accepted into the family she will have to adjust and live the way they expect her to. I truly wonder if he really ever planned to marry her. Neither of them are teenagers yet they apparently in the two plus years they have known each other they never bothered to talk about how their life would be together or either one’s expectations of the other. I don’t think either one would be happy in a relationship with the other, it’s a train wreck waiting to happen.
I don’t think Rishi was exactly honest and forthcoming with the details of coming to India.
@@senorahz3185 I agree.
What makes you think the exercise guy wants her? What exactly about her is appealing? The friend probably has a wife already. I bet she is young, beautiful and will give him children. NOT because an Indian man is being nice to a foreigner means he thinks she is marriage material. What makes you think he would introduce her to his family? Indian men will not have their wives or partners galvanizing with strange men. What you don't understand is Jen will not have the RESPECT to be his wife. I doubt he will respect a woman who was with his friend now being passed to him
No way would I get up at 4 am to make tea for anyone. Looks like a daughter-in-law in India are treated like maids.
Facts. I dodge that bullet because I knew that's what daughers in law are used for. Glorified maids. Do your research!!!!! Arghhhh
Maids, chefs, caretakers and incubators. 😒🙄😤
Hey, it’s certainly not like that all over . They have shown a very traditional family. I’m sure his sister has a maid in her house. They have just exaggerated the whole scene.
As if, anyone would even ask you 😅😅
In india daughter in law are free maid only. Even if we work... We have to handle career pressure and household chores... Without little bit of appreciation
Miss Two Masters Degrees should have thought to ask a lot more questions of Rishi before she moved to India.
Her degrees are internet trash.
yes and special vital questions about living arrangements, lifestyle, possibility of working both, children... She went blindly to find her Prince Charming, turning out a scammer. Let´s see if end up getting married.
She needs a masters in common sense
@@perlingmargaret You can't buy a master's in common sense.
@@marknewton6984 you're hooked on phonics
As an Asian myself, not Indian, if any man keep you as his secrets. He is not that serious with you. He keep this secret from his friends and family so he can easily back out of the relationship without anyone knowing. I don’t know why she try to find if this is in his culture to do this or not. If he want you, he will attempt to introduce you as his mate to his family even if you are an outsider. She is too old to not know this.
Many people could probably learn from these words 🙏🏻
It is not just there, I am from the European continent and the same holds true in my country. When man is in love and is serious about the relationship he rushes to introduce you to his folks. This man is extraordinarily handsome and attractive looking for an Indian and he knows it. He is a playboy. He knows Jen will not agree to the terms and conditions he puts forward. He is not interested in marrying her. She is not his match for many reasons.
You are right. Her age and being an American should have been enough enough experience to know she is being played a fool.
@@blackpearl8574 i agree except he isn't attractive.😊
She knows deep down but chooses not to believe.
This seems a lot like the early days of Sumit & Jenny 😆
Not them again!
Well it is india.
The man needs to stop lying to the two supposedly *most important* women in his life.
Grow up Rishi, conflict is inevitable as an adult.
Jen. Get out of there. This is just an L you're going to have to take girl.
Like for real. Own it. Wear it. Learn from it and rise above.
And don't do this again 🙏
The longer she waits, the bigger the L
@@xletragedyx yup. No Indian woman would be putting up with this BS. Rishi probably knows that too 😂
Win some, lose some.
"You will live with my extended family and wait on them as your life's purpose."
me: aight imma head out
I'm sorry, but I am so over these American women who move to other countries without understanding their cultures is really too much.
Tell me about it !
It’s his fault for lying to her too… he probly said he wasn’t going to live like a traditional Indian, get their own place etc now he’s going back on his word. And it’s obvious from her yoga instructor friend, that rishi doesn’t have to lie to his parents if he didn’t want to…
@@ajheartsong I always wonder what are they all actually chat about for a whole 1/2/3.. years before the presence? She never mentioned that he promised to her that and that, its a mystery for me how is it all of them manage to become engaged but have no any future possible plans of how would they live discussed?
It's not just American women. This happens across all cultures trying to marry into other cultures.
Je suis bien d'accord
Sooooooooo you have 2 masters degrees but common sense wasnt part of the lesson plan because anyone with sense would look up the culture
100%
I doubt her degrees are real. Probably internet trash.
The higher the level of education the lower the level of common sense. That seems to be the trend these days.
Exactly 💯
Americans are stupid and delusional
Bruh, I'm Indian and these expectations sound insane to me. You can't justify misogyny by simply masking it with culture
Dude have a look at his parents. Seriously, what did you expect, like they would have super liberal views?
Its not misogeny its tradition. Liberal Idiots like you just cant tell the difference. Unless these women also work jobs theres no problem here. Stop trying to police other cultures with your twitter logic.
But isn't that what all Indians do??? Indians keep telling me not to judge their mysogyny because it's "culture"
Ce sont vos traditions dans la culture indienne. Non ?
You think too much is the only red flag I need.
Right?! That was more than enough for any headstrong woman to say hmmmmm
This is the best recap channel 😊
They expect a daughter in law that will move in and take care of the house, that isn’t her. He needs to marry someone in his country for that.
Exactly. He is not going to change and step outside of his culture. He is the one responsible to provide for and take care of the family. He takes that responsibility seriously. He thinks that she will change and become an ideal Indian housewife, and she thinks that he will rebel against his family and culture and become more westernized. Neither one of these changes will occur .They are at cross purposes. It will never work out for them.
Indian women in the cities aren’t like that anymore. So it’s not going to be easy for him with Indian women either. The whole problem is that Rishi is not sure and he is finding excuses and using things like culture to avoid confrontation and delaying unnecessarily. An Indian woman would be long gone by now.
@@rohinireddy547It is not true! My countrywoman married a Indian and she lives a very traditional life there
@@jubernardi23 I am Indian. And I can guarantee you that more half the country does not live so traditionally. It’s your friend’s problem if she chose the traditional half. North Indians are more traditional about joint families than South Indians, West Indians and East Indians . My family, the people around me, the part of India I’m from are not traditional at all. My grandma, great grandmother, mom, aunt, none lived in a traditional joint family. And I would never pick a family like your friend did. First thing I would do is find out the family dynamic which you would know on the first date, you just have to ask 2/3 Qs to understand if he is traditional and would expect you to live a traditional life and being Indian myself, I know how to do that very well - there won’t be a second date otherwise . None of my married friends live in a joint family. None of my friends would even marry a guy that wants to live a joint family. Everyone I’ve dated have always lived by themselves. All my friends parents are also highly educated. Your friend doesn’t make up the entire country, it’s a massive country where even exceptions run in millions. We have more choice to choose what we want here than dating anywhere else. I love it when westerners come And tell us about ourselves with so much confidence and entitlement. I have lived in 5 countries, me and my friends here live a very good life and are independent. Modern Indian women from the cities will never consent to living so traditionally, it’s nobody’s problem if your friend chose her path, I know my Indian friends, nor me would choose it. Also every middle class person and above in india has a maid and cook because it costs approximately 200$ a month to have someone come and do all the cooking and cleaning everyday. So people who expect the woman to cook and clean in india are not even middle class here. If your friend is having to cook and clean, I am quite sure her husband’s parents aren’t educated or at least his mom isn’t and so the overall family status is not middle class according to the economy here. There are also many well to do joint families, that are extremely liberal. I do know some North Indians who live with in-laws but in a mansion and there 5-6 maids, cooks etc and the house is large enough that everyone has their own space. So yeah, you friend chose her path 🤷🏻♀️
If she’s into Indians, there are Indian Americans she can date in America. Why put yourself through this?
I'm glad 90DF is exposing these major world "cultures". As an Indian women surrounded by Hindu & Muslim families, I am disgusted by how they treat their women. I don't care about their religion, I care about the inferior way women obediently live their lives because of discrimination under "culture".
His family is Sikh not Hindu or Muslim🤨.
@@dunya4754 it doesnt matter... still very similar.. My best friend is sikh and the dynamic in their house hold is pretty much the same. Man has a role and a woman has her role, and the man expects her to abide by it.
That culture has a lot to do with religion, though, unfortunately. Religion is harmful to society and most definitely harmful to women's rights.
@@concertslivehd3336 YIKES!! Not for me.
they are using culture and religion as an excuse to do wrong. we should not tolerate this any where in the world. these men must be dealt with
I’m an Indian and I wouldn’t be okay living this way and accepting this role as a wife.
Some households in india sadly follow this but thankfully it’s changing a lot these days.
plz no
another member of the "... it's chaning a lot these days.." brigade ? may be in your imagination ... ?
For example, Seatle (and many states in US) have intriduced laws to prevent caste discriminaiton ?
Not exactly relevant to this programme, but an indication that a "lot is changing" but not as fast as you think...
@@tariq_sharif know nothing ah ahmed!! indian women can be very very wild and they are non push over!!
they are trans gender,lesbian..they drink etc.........some separate at will,when push comes to shove,your are undermine the will power of the indian women,
all you see in movies and how their men portray them is a big fking lies!
You've been americanized. But there are some things abt India that should be kept and America would benefit from. The close family ties for one. Americans are too isolated from the nuclear family.
I think in traditional Indian culture it is even a no-go if a woman is older than her spouse .
Yeah people make such a fuss even if the age gap is five years.
I think he likes her and wants to be with her BUT, he got in over his head and realized she will not fit in with his culture and the responsibilities of being a Indian wife. And now is deflecting any part of telling his family because he knows it wouldn't work out. He dug a hole too deep in lies and doesn't know how to get out.
Rishi’s parents are not stupid, they know what could be going on between him and Jen😅
they getting paid so they don't care
@@royharper2003 false !
Only American citizens gets paid. The other person don’t have a work visa in the USA so it’s illegal to pay them !!!!
They just know because of the camera crew instead.
I'll stay with the instructor
Jen is delusional making a fool of herself
Jen needs to go home because of the fillowing:
- Differrent culture and traditions
- Different language
- She is much older than him
- She cant bare grandchildren
- She doesnt seem ready to adjust to Indian culture
Solution?
Start using your 2 Masters degrees Jen and find someone closer to home and age
The exercise guy is a much better option . He is better looking and seems to have more spine than the cowardly Rishi .
Maybe he doesn’t want to marry a 45 year old
@@rohinireddy547omen from USA are delusional
@@rohinireddy547 Then why the hell is he wasting her time ? He is a spineless character who wants to marry a white woman but does not have the guts to tell his family .
Rishi seems to be more interested in being becoming popular, more than in love with Jen
Sweetheart, lying is part of the south Asian culture, it's one of the biggest things I despise about that culture (I'm from South Asia)
its also known as " saving face" and theyll do just about anything for it
Yes. Westerners don't lie. Darling, only the Easterners do it. So, since you from the East, you a liar too, by this statement? Easternmost may be liars, according to you but American old women are plain dumb and delusional . What exactly does she bring to the table? Youth? Fertility? Cultural knowledge? Good looks😅😅😂
Please explain especially about "South Asia Culture"
Thanks 👍
@@davicool4284 What don't you understand?
@@miadodson1938 you said that "lying is part of south Asian culture..."
Please define the areas you describe as south Asian and why do you think they lie... I think think this is fascinating.
I'm guessing her degrees aren't in Anthropology and Sociology? Research isn't her strong point apparently.
😅Exactly! I"d ask him a million of questions and Google like never before, they have had plenty of time for all this.
all she had to do is watch previous seasons of 90 day fiance with American women marrying muslims or indians ort whatever the heck he is
She is dumb low IQ
How does he explain the cameras? Following him and her around the town?
Good point! How are they explaining this? They might be saying that she is doing some sort of show or cultural information gathering on how they live. But hey what will they say when they see this or hear about this show and learn they've been deceived? This is not a great situation. He's a real good looking man but she is effectively going to be their maid in the end. I don't think she can live like that.
Well, don’t you remember he’s a famous model. Plus he 😂looks like Jesus lol.
Obviously, they know they are filming but they know nothing about the show.
She should swap dudes..
Jenn needs to move on, she is to old for him and the cultural differences are insurmountable. TLC needs to invest in premarital counseling for these "couples".
It look staged to me
They are a bad fit no amount of counseling can help that.
@@beewest5704 ...yea, but counseling in this instance wouldn't be to make them think they are right for each other. It would be to highlight all of the reasons why they aren't from a professional non objective standpoint. They won't listen to family and friends, maybe they will listen to a professional.🤷🏾♀️
I feel like this is a big joke everybody's in on except for Jen😅
Right...def joke is on her 🫣
The truth is he doesn't love her enough to tell his mom he wants to marry her or to tell what marrying him will be like. Obviously BECAUSE neither will.accept or tolerate the reality so either move to US and marry her for her happiness or move on. She is right to wait for sex because that is all he is really offering.
@@sandypietroski8858She only have sex and two master degree, nothing that a real man look for in a woman
Hell I would be more worried on why they couldn't find him one 😂😂😂😂
They will be very picky the mother said that rejected proposals l if the bride to be is short or uneducated.
When one of your criteria is that she can't be short, that's being pretty picky. I thought that most Indian woman were fairly short.
@@girisha_laxmi11 yes. Very picky. Short seems pretty common among Indian women.
I honestly love it how you always talk about these couples in the kind of tone like your life depended on it. Such passion :D thank you for the entertainment
Honestly if she's not happy with how she will be treated leave I never understood why women from here in America go aboard find these men then want to complain about how restrictive the religions if they want American freedom find a American man
American men doesn’t want them 😂
She should of asked these pertinent questions prior to her move! DUH!
should have
Her workout dude wants to get in her pants. Thats just guys. Ive been working with them for years. She needs to go home. Im her age so I get it. I think her fiancé is a weak man & i think he likes the clout
Wow! My husband's family is Indian and although they are a bit traditional, this is very extreme compared to that. I've adapted to some of it but I don't think I could ever adapt to something on this level. Don't even matter how cute he is at that point sis.
what the friend' s wife made was I think masala chai .. I do it too , but you don't need to wake up at 4 am to make masala chai for your whole family .. lol
Personally never woke up at 4 am when i lived with pakistani family they used to wake up at 5.30 am better time near 6 am but used to go to bed at 10 pm to work at field.
If you need to be up before your husband and he gets up early…
i made yesterday Thepla Gujarati roti, but no way i would be kneading bread 4 am in the morning for my family and in laws.
So…. He liked Jen in the “Indian aesthetic” wants her to live like a traditional Indian wife but doesn’t to marry an Indian woman? And Jen is entertaining this? Girl, if you don’t go home!
Jen has chosen the wrong guy again, Rishi is from a rural lower middle class background where women are expected to cook and clean 🙄 in urban areas of India, a married couple will not behave like this because women are out all day in offices doing highly demanding corporate jobs.
So find a maid but marry her so mom can stop doing household chores 🧐🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣🤭🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Sickening, I'm sure these foreign men don't even pay for the plane tickets! They're out nothing and have everything to gain. Oh come on, Jen--you knew it was too good to be true. An attorney who quit practicing?
Stop judging everyone and she is not too innocent it look like it staged like this
In Indian culture, the man will stand up for the woman he loves and marry her no matter what. It’s not an American thing. My dad was financially supporting his family, he had old parents and 4 younger sisters he had to support when he got married. My grandfather didn’t approve but my dad still went ahead and got married. His family didn’t talk for a long time but my dad continued to do his duty by sending home money. If he wants to he will, irrespective of culture/ religion etc. The whole problem is that Rishi is not sure and he is finding excuses and using things like culture to avoid confrontation and delaying unnecessarily. An Indian woman would be long gone by now. Also Rajasthan has the lowest literacy rate in the country. It’s very conservative and traditional. The entire country isn’t like this. The cities in india are very modern, people are modern, educated, the men and women equally contribute to the house or get a maid. Rajasthan would be toooo traditional for most Indian women itself.
Yes. He has many STD to gain because these foreigners will sleep with anything that moves. He better get himself checked
Have they explained what Rishi’s parents think the cameras are for ?? this is bothering me so much
This comment right here! Haha. Gold!
Entire family is a bunch of scammers. Indian parents are sharp because of all the constant monitoring and control the control they exercise over their kids. This is a classic tactice of refusing to acknowledge because thry know he is too much of a coward to bring it up... source : Indian from india :P
What is it w these grown ass men who are just big ass babies...rather be alone 👍
Some men never go past the toddler stage, and those men need to be avoided. You just can't take them seriously as long-term relationship material.
They have been spoon-fed, from different cultures.
One word: mother. As a man I am embarrassed by how hopeless men are,and I include myself! Mothers do way too much for us,and then we have to find a replacement `mother`. Ironically because our mothers expect us to find another mother,they don`t hammer into even the basics of `self-care`. that`ll be the new mother`s job.
@@barryledgister4496 yeah, the dating market is messed up BECAUSE you have all these toddler men that got spoiled by mommy and were never encouraged to take care of themselves because every female they knew catered to them by default. That breeds disaster even he goes out into the real world and both can't take care of himself at the most basic levels (cooking basic food with ingredients from a store, paying his own bills, cleaning up after himself, shopping for necessities) and can't maintain a relationship with a woman because they (rightfully) refuse to mother him.
XD and some men wonder why some women prefer to be single!
The only cure for those men at that point is that if they bevome self-aware of the problem, they make it a priority to correct that behavior.
Jen needs to run as fast as she can. She's been lied to and misled, AND she has to be a servant girl to his family? Absolutely not!
Those people on this show are either quite ignorant or act like it for the show. There is no way you stay in a relationship with a partner from a different culture for years and not do your research and gain some knowledge about their culture.
it is scripted, former people on the show have said it over and over. it is scripted for drama and these people are getting paid toi be on the show.
Absolutely true
Another Jen/Jenny that is with an Indian man whose family doesn't accept her🙁
Oh Jen. 2 Master's degrees, a fascination with Indian culture and you had NO IDEA about traditional Indian family values?
Are we all forgetting this guy is a trained lawyer. He can't be honest.
His family want his wife to be educated just to be a maid to the family? What a waste of money.
Sometimes I feel like the only Americans that apply to be on 90 day Fiance, are the ones who want to publiclly call out the Major cultural differences and get attention for their perceived new suffering.
Rishi is like a low budget Tarazan. Nothing about his look is attractive and he acts like a child. Her yoga friend is so much more mature and attractive. They should date. Soooo much more compatible imo.
One of the biggest mistake anyone can make is bringing family members into a relationship/marriage.Jen's situation is a perfect example.
Why has it taken YEARS to find dude a bride ! No one else finds that odd ?
She has 2 masters degrees. I wouldn’t say that while being on this show and looking so gullible.
as an Indian(female) I really don't agree with some of the stereotypical stuff said about Indian women
honestly i thought jaipur would be more progressive than this. I know in bigger cities they are more relaxed about the strict culture.
yes jen, marry him.
Didn’t Rishi graduate from Law School?…
He knows what he’s doing.
If she has two master degree so why can,t she find a man in America
I have to comment my name is Lillian Lewis!! Very similar to your name! 😂 how funny!
She is too smart.....
Because European and American want younger women 25-35 years old and foreigners like Philippines, Ukraine, Korea, Japan and other Eastern and East Asian countries.
@Rishu Raj She still can pull a man 55 years old but not European men . She should join a matrimonial.
The older the harder there are much ageism nowadays specially against women. Debbie from Colt had luck with Tony!!
I wish she would speak to Jenny and Sumit!! They are there in India !! Please look them up! They can assist you!❤
Yes they are enjoying and no plans to go to USA
Loved this post! You’re really astute with what’s happening. Jen seems to have leveled up with adulting as well.
I'm sorry but am I the only one to wonder what Rishi's family think the camera's are there for following their son, in their home and presumably arriving with Jen??????? 🤷♀️
His family knows exactly what's going on.
love the trainer! he's a great friend
It seems that Sita knows more about the differences between the Indian and US way of life than Jen. Jen with her two master degrees and an engagement period of over two years did not have time to do some research, how it is to be a wife in India 😂😂😂😂 Something is very odd about her!
His parents want him to marry a young bride so that she can clean, cook and have a bunch of children. I think Jen is way passed her child bearing years.🤦♀️
run girl run
Nope. Nope nope nope no.
Someone please remind me what 90 days season this is ? I know you people think it's weird but I do not watch it on TV coz it's kind of boring but I like the drama summary and reviews on UA-cam 😅😅
90 day finance the other way season 4
@christineamlinger I am the same way I like these 90 day reviews. I usually get pretty interesting in some couples. I get frustrated when I have to sit through the couples I don't like to get to the ones I do
@@kristinacarter1063 thank you!
@@charlotrisch5138 yep and sometimes they drag stupid storyline to make some boring couples interesting..
😂 Halarious just give up Jen....
She's not real smart taking into consideration she has TWO MASTER DEGREES
seeing Jen cry on facetime breaks my heart. Why do these beautiful women do this to themselves?
Dheer: "the mom will cry hut she will do it" (never met Sumit's mom)
Personally if I were Jen, I'd rather waste 3yr then 5 or 10 or more
I think the answers that Jen is looking for are staring her right in the face. He is stringing her on, and he cares too much about what his family will say to marry her. Why Jen would want to be a maid to his family is beyond me. She needs to go back home and start over! Rishi is a man-child.
Isn't this just a replay of Jenny and Sumit??
Am married to an Indian ,and live with all his family for now,when they moved in,I stood on my ground am not going to be a maid to anyone,we are all grown ups we share house chores, especially i have a young kid it would be very exhausting
I married the eldest son of a family in rural Japan. They’re farmers. It’s the same as this system in India. It’s a lot of work even if you’re familiar with the culture. When you’re foreign, there’s way more to learn. It’s very hard and if the husband isn’t supportive she’ll break. She needs to decide if that lifestyle is for her or not. If she refuses, he and his family will accuse her of abandoning his mom.
This is a highly orthodox indian family. Not all families are like that. I'm an Indian, my inlaws are highly progressive. In this Era of equality, the wife eats after everyone's eaten. Big No! Please just find another boy and don't make your life miserable.
The moment he says to you "you are overthinking", you are not overthinking, it's code for holy shit she getting on to me. So run and run fast and run very far
This plot is very crazy, an adult American to be with an Indian is asked to be a servant in a poor Indian family.
😂😂😂😂😂
They aren’t poor, more like middle class in Indian 🙄🫣🧐
Beautiful woman wasted her youth and is now chasing a delusion.
The relationship doesn’t look real to me. I’m not seeing any chemistry between these two 🤔
Staged to get views
They were engaged for 2 years and never discussed where they'd live???
I do one one thing …. She can have all the master degrees in the world but you can’t get a degree on having common sense!
He does that because she let him do it. How can she not see what's going on?
He lies to her the same way Sumit lied to Jenny....they know deep down their family isn't going to approve yet they pursue these relationships anyways. Also, is it just me or does he kiss her weird? What is up with her eyes? She almost looks possessed at times lol
The big question is why these Women don't invest are Google these counties of their faith are culture By being an American you think you have a right to do whatever you want These people having been living like this for hundreds of year,You can't blame them look at yourself you choose to interact themselves in their world its not the USA STOP BEING IGNORANT EVERY COUNTRY IN THIS WORLD IS DIFFERENT WE LEARN THIS IN SCHOOL.
Jen should marry that trainer instead of Rishi 😂😂
Omg 😂😂😂😂
Richie believed that his bride needs to pleased his family members first 😮😮😮😢😢😢😢 she needs to go home ! Runnnnnnnnnnn!
Your future in my house (= his mother's house...) 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂