As a father..I cannot say or know the experience but hearing my daughter crying that she needed me to come to school because "she started". I felt her distress. I got her fresh clothes. I told her I will go to store and get you some stuff products..I probably got too much but I could tell she was aching and cramping. I could tell this wasn't fun for her..yes she became a woman, but it hurt me she was in pain. I know she did not want dad with her for this but she knew she need someone to be there for her. That said...this guy is a moron ..there is no reason to make videos talking about this as I saw how private this is for each woman.
Bless your heart for showing up in an uncomfortable situation and being an amazing dad. I have severe endometriosis (a female reproductive system disease) that has caused me serious grief, agony, depression, healgh complications, and required 4 major operations. My dad was the most supportive person to me, even though my mom was aware of my disease but did nothing but judge me. Dad took me to all my surgeries, spoke with the surgeons afterwards while i was hospitalized, and I witnessed him cry on a few occasions because this disease has caused so much trauma in my life. He has never been afraid to listen to my stories (even though im sure its a bit uncomforable to talk about such female issues), he's purchased those girly things for me over the years I spent hemorrhaging because the doctors could not fix my bleeding issue.... it was like a period on steroids- I became severely anemic as a result and needed a lot of support. Dads like mine- and like you- are gems and deserve to be celebrated. While it may seem to you like a small favor you did for your daughter, I can guarantee she was grateful beyond words. Father's day is coming up, I'd like to extend to you an early happy Father's day and cheers your act of kindness in raising a daughter. Hats off to you sir xx
When I was a teen I bled all over a church bench. My bullies were sitting right next to me and I still remember the look on their faces. Never felt so humiliated in my life. Periods are not fun, it's not pretty, it's not something we enjoy.
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When I first got mine, I remember walking home from the bus thinking I was sweating a lot… went to the bathroom and everything was red through my clothes. I was horrified!!! The fear of bleeding through isn’t cute or something to Cosplay!
Wow I’m sorry you went through that, I can only imagine how you felt. Kids can be so cruel and are getting crueler. I hated high school so much I got my GED in my junior year and started working.
Attempt?!!! This guy's real good at gaslighting! To be at this level, you have to be completely "forgotten" about yourself. No surprise he thinks he's a woman, he doesn't even know about his personality.
I had my best friends children while he and his wife went on vacation. They have a son (10) and a daughter who was 12. The second day they were gone, I started seeing bloody tissues in the garbage. Concerned, I asked where they came from and found out that this poor kid was in the middle of her first period. She was crazy embarrassed, didn't even want to call her mother. Talking about it was just to uncomfortable. I took her to the store, she didn't want to get out of the car and I went inside and we did it over the phone. After it was all said and done she cried and insisted on baking cookies. Watching her deal with what all women have to experience, was an eye opener. since then I've always had a huge appreciation for this event that God saw fit to spare me. The girl in question still tells the story to this day, even included me in her wedding speech, that fact made me realize even more, just how much that event shapes a woman's life.
There are four women in my house. My wife and 3 girls. I try walk on both sides of the fence. I'm no good to them if can't at least try to understand them.
Good job! My dad was the one who helped me when I started. I thought i was having a bad stomach illness, but it turned out to be my first period. Dad woke up, mom was sleeping. When I told him I wasn't going to throw up and why I actually felt sick, dad was great. I think every girl remembers her first one and it's always awful, even for those girls eagerly anticipating puberty.
If his ‘friend’ sent him for tampons, she would’ve told him EXACTLY what she wanted. We ladies are particular when it comes to our feminine hygiene and what products we like.
Exactly! He said “someone told me these dots are for your flow?”… shouldn’t your ‘friend’ be the one telling you what the dots mean and which ones she needs?
Agree. My mum and sister always only want one particular variant of Stayfree pads. When I accidentally got them the wrong type, I didn't hear the end of it.
"It's opened me up to extreme hate" Which translates to "I did something fucking stupid and now I'm sad because people are holding me accountable for my actions."
I m trans myself and i would spit that moron in face for it. Like for god sake every woman i know would like to not have period, one i think is kinda jealous that i wont have, but i wont be biogical woman... But still fuck that persons, womans are sensetive (on avarage) and those trans are just biches...
@@Tenchi707 nah they were evil from begining, but now that they are trans you cannot call them out on it bcs you will be transphobic, so they use it as much as possible
As a woman with fertility issues and is trying to get pregnant, getting your period is one of the most emotionally heart breaking thing ever… don’t see any of these “pretend women” mentioning that.
True. I remember crying back in the day when I first had my period. These faux humans think being a woman is all about seducing men and wearing wigs and dresses 😑
And facts too, people are tired of nonsense and being insulted, there's a limit to tolerance, we can't just let them walk all over us like that and especially disrespect women like that
I used to get extremly ill on my periods throwing up and crippled in pain. After taking loads of pain killers i was so exhausted i would have to sleep it all off. This caused me to loose a lot of days off work. Eventually i went to the doctor and she asked me "are u sure this is not all in your head"? I was so ashamed when i left the doctors. I eventually had an appointment to see a consultant and they found a benign tumour that was bloking my fellopian tubes.
Besides the fact that it can be traumatizing to go the doctor with something related on the subject, it is even worse when a female doctor asks you if it is all in your head.....She should be objective and at the bare minimum take you serious.
What a great friend, he purchased a box of tampons for a friend and gave her an open box with an unpackaged and unsanitary tampon. What a wonderful friend.
@@zhazhaninja9446I’m sure if he did give it to them they threw it away. But I don’t it. He was just being a sexist moron. The people that demand tolerance and equality are the most sexist, racist people out there
Before I had my hysterectomy, my periods had me curled up on the bathroom floor, crying and throwing up. They were giving me literal narcotics once a month to help control the pain. So glad he thinks, as a man, that periods are a joke for him to pretend to be a woman with.
As a woman who suffered from endometriosis for more than 25 years, suffered through extreme anemia, faced multiple warnings that I was infertile, who suffered through massive doses of hormones to force me into temporary menopause, who ended up needing multiple blood transfusions due to extreme and constant blood loss, and ended up requiring a hysterectomy with massive complications due to the multi-organ involvement, I don't want to hear a word this person has to say regarding female cyclicy, tampons, cycles, being a woman, anything that has to do with being an actual biological woman.
@@ohmightywez I am so sorry you had to deal with that! I completely agree with not wanting to hear anything from people like this who are faking what we actually dealt with! It is disgusting on so many levels!
I once walked into a pharmacy and asked where the Pamprin was. Woman I asked said this " Pamprin is in Aisle 2. Red wine is Aisle 7 and chocolate and ice cream are Aisle 5 and 9." That woman was the real MVP.
I'm so glad I ran across your channel. I was someone who was very simple about the trans issue. Someone was born with male/ female organs, but their minds are telling them it isnt right. Gender dysphoria. I personally didnt even care when a trans person would be in the bathroom with me (my own personal feeling). Now being older and watching your content, there is a huge difference in how transmen are transitioning compared to transwomen. Transwomen have, up until a certain point, only viewed women as "girls" and once they started to fulfill being their "true selves" they only had their male gaze pov of what it means to be a woman. Now they're just feeding into female stereotypes because thats all they know. Wearing dresses, getting nails did, obsessing over shoes and purses, talking extra "girly"... its ridiculous. Its so demeaning. They have the audacity of doing this and then still have the balls (heh) to be a victim when women say, Hey this is offensive. I had hoped this trans movement would dissolve the "gender bias" but they're just reinforcing it. Women have fought long and hard to get where we are today and now it's just like men are trying to take womanhood away from us, now from the inside.
Well said. At the risk of sounding like a feminist, women fought way too hard and way too long to get to a point where we could be considered equal in the legal system. All these people who have grown up as boys are trying to act like women, but only the "fun" parts. They don't have to deal with the shame and mockery that comes with natural biological functions like periods. They also don't have to deal with hypersexualization from a young age like young women do. They don't have to deal with lots of things because they were born as boys and treated as such before they transitioned. A lot of these trans women influencers see womanhood as parties , hooking up, and frilly dresses because they only know the male gaze version of womanhood.
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As someone who has endometrioses, I cry every time I get my period and had to get 3 operations and I'm not even 30. When I saw it I was so angry that I just wanted to cry and seeing this apology I thought of all the stupid shit people said to me over the years "You are overreacting", "are you faking your pain to not go to work", "You are probably weak if it hurts that much, toughen up". Some of these things were said by gynecologists when I was a teenager... it still is not talked about and known so don't let people talk down to you because you feel pain.
I’m so sorry. ❤ I have similar experiences but over thirty and no diagnosis. I hope you find ways to manage your pain and eventually can live a life without pain. ❤ it’s really hard, especially when the people around you can’t seem to understand what you are going through.
I have endo, too, and it really sucks. I had surgery which improved it but the pain and bloating are still there. Fortunately I never got the awful comments and treatment that you did,and I'm truly sorry that you had to go through that.
I feel for you and it saddens me , and it is shocking, to hear what your gynecologist said to you. Far to litte research is being made on womens health. When there is a problem with our reproductive organs and menstrual cycle birth control is all they know to give us. (...) Would this have been the case if mens tesities were hurting them for several day every month? I think not. I'm 48 years old and a dear friend of mine is in such severe pain during her period that I am convinced she must be suffering from endometriosis. She will be lying down on the floor in her office all teary eyed and sometimes even writhing in agony when on her period. All her GP tells her is to take some Advil and stay on birth control. Would they have told a man that if their balls were that painful? I think not. I have asked her to tell her GP to examine her to find out if she is suffering from endometriosis. Because what she is going trough is not "normal" like her (male) doctor seems to think..
@@Sunfl75, thank you for your kind words! As you said there is not enough research but if I read correctly France and Germany are finally investing a lot more in this research. I'm so sorry for your friend and it sounds like the symptoms I have. I hope they will find out what and help her according. I found out that tilidin in combination with ibuprofen helps a lot in my case.
I have endometriosis as well that had what felt like a really early onset. Within the first year of getting my period I had my first surgery and was on birth control (which makes me absolutely insane but I couldn’t function without it). I was very lucky to have two parents in healthcare who were knowledgeable but even with that I cant tell you how many times I’ve been told I was exaggerating or to toughen up by healthcare providers. I’ve had 3 miscarriages and I’m 35 still on hormonal BC even though the risks are quite severe. Yeah so watching these people mock and laugh about this honestly is really hurtful.
I got my period at 10 years and was the very first girl in my class to get it. Everyone was talking about it by the end of the week and because kids can be cruel I got teased for it- Now grown ass men still mock us all over TikTok
Why do girls get teased for biological bleeding that's supposed to happen? I swear those girls prob didn't regret it even when THEY started their menstrual cycle. It's so stupid the grown men still mocking women for things they can't control.
I got mine at 10 years old as well but I hadn’t had the talk with my dad or had sex ed yet so I was in this agonising pain and bleeding and I had no idea why
Kids are wack. I had a really bad (and sudden) nosebleed in middle school and dripped all the way to the nearby bathroom. Rumor had it I had started my period, lol. I didnt even know about the rumor until my two friends started talking about it (my name wasnt mentioned so they had no idea) and the story sounded awfully familiar.
i got mine at 9, i’m so thankful the boys at my school were sensible and didn’t make fun of me for it, but it is really funny that even after all these years they still haven’t grown out of it
technically if he’s saying women are wrong and he identifies as a woman, then isn’t he saying he’s wrong but he’s just gonna take us all down with him?
You are so on point with your commentary. Speaking to the point on others trying to tell biological women what we are called...this 59 year old woman from Texas doesn't care who you sleep with, what makeup you do or don't wear, what clothes you wear or what you Identify as. I identify as royalty, but that doesn't make it so. But I will NEVER call myself CIS. Nope. I am simply a woman who gave birth to three children, had a hysterectomy at 36 because of severe anemia and pre cancerous areas on my ovaries. When us this overwhelming need for everyone to think and behave like lemmings going to STOP? Brett, keep up the wonderful videos. Sending much live from Texas.
My period was so painful and debilitating that I had to get prescribed birth control to stop it, I would literally be in so much pain that I couldn't move and these men pretending to be women are making a mockery of something that is deeply traumatic for a lot of women.
I'm 46 and had a hysterectomy at 43...Best decision ever! I had my period for 30 years and every month, without fail, I had terrible cramps, heavy flow, etc. AWFUL, just awful. So glad I had the hysterectomy. A period is not a fun thing. The ONLY time I looked forward to having a period was when I first learned about them at aged 10 --I couldn't wait to be a woman lol then when I realized the true horrors of it ....ugh, my feelings changed real quick!
@@texastea5686 I never had a “looking forward to periods” moment because mine hit at age nine and I was unprepared and didn’t know what they were yet ☹️. I was so scared. Now I have dysfunctional uterine bleeding and dread every period. I can’t use tampons because of TSS soEVERY period I leak through everything no matter what pad products I use. I even use incontinence products and still bleed through everything. I have to sleep on towels for a week to stop from ruining sheets. I hate this. And these men are making comedy skits from this stuff like it’s fun. It’s soul destroying.
Same, completely debilitating for the first two days. As a teen, before I discovered ibuprofen, I couldn't do anything but try to sleep all day to try and escape it. Had to get on birth control to get rid of them, which of course comes with it's own host of side-effects.
'My friend sent me in there' If my male friend went into a shop and bought me tampons which returned to me with the box opened and an individual tampon unwrapped, I would be insanely weirded out and uncomfortable
And I would throw the box away, and go out to get my own. Don't care if I have nothing to catch the blood. I will bleed through my pants and buy what I need. Then never ask that "friend" again
As a woman, I’ve gone to the hospital multiple times because my period was so bad, and so painful, that I almost had my appendix removed because the amount of pain I was experiencing was similar to that of my appendix exploding, they thought I had appendicitis. These videos of people mocking that traumatic experience, calling it fake, or putting makeup on and claiming to have the same experiences for clout make me sick. My periods are terrible, when I get mine, I’m often bed ridden for a couple of days, sleep deprived from the pain. No man is going to ruin the value and realness of my monthly suffering for an aesthetic or viewer count, thank you. You just earned a sub btw lol.
Your videos have made me comfortable standing up for my beliefs, and knowing there are others out there that arent blinded by the sparkly crazy bullshit
@Mama G ive been seeing so many of these. Im a psychology major and ive been horrified of the things these people are going through. Ive yet to meet one transgender individual who doesn't have underlying trauma and its heartbreaking to see people turning to online communities like this that don't have their best interests in mind instead of seeking the help they need and deserve
"They don't fight for equal rights because they have them. They want privilege". Don't remember who said it but this quote about LGBT community stuck with me. Looking as an outsider (Eastern European) honestly it's great source of comedy. You're doing great job, woman, keep it up!
Hey easterner getting your jollies its the TQ+’s not the LGB, gender dysphoria has no correlation to Homosexuality or Bisexuality it’s a wholly different subject
It's the TQ. Not the LGB. Fact is, LGB people DON'T have the same rights as non LGB people. A great example for this is marriage. We don't want privilege. We want to be able to do the same things straight people can. Trans people want everyone to change the way they live their life and change societal norms in place for good reasons, all for THEM. THEY are the ones that want privilege, not us. Don't compare the two; they aren't the same.
Says: "Im so tired of seeing hate and just want to put it all behind me" Means: I don't want to take any accountability or address my negative behaviors."
Also means: "I don't believe that other people have rights and I absolutely will use any amount of power I have to censor and harass dissenting people."
Absolutely cowardly! “I just want to put it all behind me” sounds like a guy who picked on a nerdy guy at school but then found out the nerd is a black belt. Suddenly it’s not fun, it’s tragic, and “I want out” is the mantra. Can’t stand people like this.
As a single mom of 3 who has had to work for everything I have, sometimes working 2 jobs it is infuriating seeing single, able bodied adults begging for free stuff online and even more infuriating that so many people actually give them free stuff but look down on people like me who work hard for everything they have but struggle sometimes. It's so backwards.
its almost like the capitalist structure that Brett supports wholeheartedly has got ya down. There should be liveable wages so you can make as much w just 1 job and spend more time w your children. Brett is AGAINST that while somehow being against capitalism and anti influencer. Brett doesnt understand that influencers are what capitalism ordered.
They’re not really giving him free stuff. They’re having him advertise for them because apparently he has a lot of followers. He puts the products in his videos and he gets to keep the products. Just like how other famous people do sponsorships and commercials.
@Slowmo ummm no, not Cronyism, nobody be following that shit but your group of friends. USA is a proud capitalist country so if you dont like it leave. And if you wish the govt had more control to stop it, you may be better off in Communist china or fascist Russia. Good luck
The thing is dylan did it, he became an influencer got brand deals talked with the ulta makeup company, talked with biden, went to all these award shows was at the Grammys. Why wouldn’t these tik tok trans kids expect the same thing? They feel entitled to it
What these people don't get is Dylan Mulvaney is a professional actor who got propped up by the government to indoctrinate children. He is literally state sponsored propaganda. He didn't become a famous influencer on his own. He has makeup artists, wardrobe designers, camera and lighting men, and script writers. The government promoted him and placed his content everywhere. These people are only getting noticed because they are desperately grasping at Dylan Mulvaney's coat tails but they will never reach that level of fame, sponsorships, and wealth. These people don't have the connections, dedication, or charisma that it takes to make it. They think Dylan Mulvaney just got lucky and fell into this without seeing what really goes on behind the scenes.
What Dylan Muvaney did has made a huge damage to women, mocking them and erasing them. This guy is a nobody. Mulvaney's influence is actually dangerous
Dylan's "cruisade" gave him everything he wanted : attention, fame and money. He is smart enough to understand that the internet is full of poor lost souls in desperate need for attention and validation of their own delusions, who will blindly follow him, and he made good use of it... Problem is, that he influenced too many weak-minded people to follow him...
My fiancée is sitting next to me watching this and states she has never been so angry at another person in her life and that watching this gaslighter makes her blood boil. I concur. These modern gender ideologies are breeding narcissism and it’s sickening.
16:20 “I’m so tired guys” Same Brett. same. I was thinking the same thing at this point. If he says oh my gosh I’m so excited one more time I’m gonna lose it.
So many women feel uncomfortable walking around with a tampon or a pad to go to a bathroom, from the time we get our periods onward. These men posting about tampons and pads as if there’s no stigma for actual women, is disgusting. I love your content and I appreciate you speaking on these very important social issues ruining our country quite frankly.
U r correct, also hi!!!, my wife hates it so much, tht I go and grab it for her, no issues, I feel her embarrassment and feel bad , I have no shame it's my wife 😁😁. Edit: 18 years so far , trust me it is worth it ☺️☺️☺️☺️
Honestly yeah I don't use tampons because I'm too scared to. I am so glad so many people spoke out about this. I used to even feel super embarrassed about asking my husband to buy me some. It's not fun so this was kinda rude.
I know women have an issue with this carrying a tampon or pad but I just think that is sad. Ignore my "name" - I am a woman. It took some time but by the time I was 30 I stopped caring about others seeing me carrying a tampon. It's a natural part of our biology. I worked with another woman who told me how uncomfortable she was trying to hide her tampon when the male boss stopped her to say something while she was on the way to the bathroom. I told her that she didn't need to flail it in his face but he was a married man who was well aware of women's biology and while she should be discrete, she shouldn't feel uncomfortable. I don't know if it resonated but it's how women should think to be more comfortable about this part of our lives that comes every month.
I love how his “apology” end with him name-calling the people he’s supposed to be apologizing to. The entitlement and ego ppl have these days is insane. Bring back humility.
Yes this is the main prong of their defense/attacks, they hate labels so much yet all they can do is call people derogatory names to make themselves feel better because they have no proper argument. It just shows how complacent they are in following everyone else and can't think for themselves
The problem with this asshat is because he identifies as trans or whatever is popular in the woke world this week he thinks he's bulletproof and beyond reprisal, I'm so glad that women are not sitting back and taking these pretend women's shit anymore 🤬
FYI Grant, if I saw a man in the store buying tampons for his daughters or his wife/partner, I would not laugh and mock them. Instead I would think, there is a really cool guy.
Years ago, I was buying tampons and standing just a few feet away was a terrified/clueless guy. He walked over to me and shyly asked for my help. He showed me an empty package of pads and said “I’m looking for these for my wife” I helped him find them and he was so grateful, it was kind of adorable. 2 weeks later, the same man walks into my place of employment for a job interview and we immediately recognized each other 😂😂😂
Right! My husband does it for me all the time. It’s so funny when he comes home with the wrong thing though. One time he brought back panty liners and then next time he bought the hugest pads ever 😂. He is so cute and funny I love him 😂❤️
I have had my period since a very early age and have dealt with it fine, having had very few bad experiences. But ever since I lost my period (only for a few months; though it still isn't very regular) due to disordered eating, I have been beyond grateful for my menstrual cycle and although I do not look forward to the pain, discomfort, mood swings, low mood, being over-emotional, lacking energy, not knowing whether I will be able to do certain activities, or go certain places, I am relieved every single time I get my period because I know that my body is healthy and functioning as it should. Menstruating is a female experience and it will not ever be shared by men.
Good job on your rode to recovery! it can be hard but keep at it even when it all seems to much. It has been 10 years now since I went through that. You have got this 🤗🤗🤗🤗
I agree so whole heartedly, she said we don't get excited, but I get relieved when I get my period. It's comforting to know I ate well, supported my hormones well, reduced stress enough, during my cycle to get my period on time. It tells me my body is healthy, functional and fertile.
@@js-tw3vs you guys are a legit exception. Og comment has an eating issue or what ever she mentioned. Of course shes gonna be relieved, a side effect is not getting a period. Many women for other reasons don't get a period of miss them occasionally. But that is not the majority. Shes speaking on the MAJORITY not the minority of women who are "excited" to get a period. Theres a difference. But i do wish health on all biological women. (I'm a woman)
If my husband went to buy me tampons he would never do an "unboxing" in the car before he came home!! He's an adult man, not a young man in need of attention and affirmation!
My husband buys me tampons and heat pads every time he goes to Costco. Never even asks. He just doesn't want me to go without. Certainly doesn't do an unboxing video in the car...SMH!!
I literally gasped when he threw those things like HE GOT THOSE AS A GIFT. YOU DON'T THROW GIFTS. I would be crying if someone who I didn't know got me that. Like it would be treated like a baby. It's these type of people that make us worry about who will see our pads at school, who will see our tampons, will someone be disgusted with us buying them at the store. This breaks my heart that so many people believe us to be body parts and makeup and nails.
As a man, I am horrified to know that women have to feel such a way. Afraid. I grew up around all women except my one brother. So seeing a box of tampons was normal. Then I learned what it was about in school. Yeah boys can be stupid. There should be no shame for a natural bodily function.
I remember when I got my first period, I was terrified and hysterical since I was so young. The worst was, I was staying with my dad that day! He called my mother for help and ever since then remembered what I needed. I may have endometriosis so I always had very bad cramps and even now that I am an adult he ALWAYS carries my favorite kind of painkiller on him if I need one. I think it is normal for men to not immediately know too much about the female experience, but it's not hard to inform yourself and actually be helpful. Just talk to women. Love my dad for being so caring about such things, my partner is just as kind. Great men❤️
* I am a woman Holds up the tampon; "Where does that go!!!!???" Goes on to remind women of the oppression we faced and still do in many nations, while as a bio male, he would be completely exempt from that discrimination.
Exactly! There are still girls missing school because of their period. Hell, there are still girls not able to go to school at all because of their gender. This just undermines everything women have struggled through and continue to struggle with simply because of their biology.
@@Gjff8 Jajaja obvio no usándolos por favor, pero si veo hombres hablando de ellos y como los cargan en sus bolsos, la locura en latam es una porqueri tambien.
Anytime your apology starts with anything like, "I'm sorry but..." you're not truly sorry and you're about to make an excuse as to why the person is to blame. A true apology wouldn't have any excuses.
Teaching our sons to be respectful of women's needs during their periods, has been incredible. My oldest son was able to buy his young wife what she needed, during an emergency of her period when she was embarrassed to even tell him what she needed. He made it simple and normal, without making her feel bad for the "inconvenience" of him needing to go to the store. My youngest son gave a young lady(around 13) his jacket to tie around her waist until she could get her mom to bring her a change. Ironically, that led to them becoming best friends, and half of the class thinking they were dating. 😂 I'm proud of the man my oldest is, and my youngest is❤ becoming. ❤❤
You are an amazing mother. Not all women instill this in their sons. It's so important. I only have a girl but have always said to myself that I'd make damn sure I teach my son's how to truly be respectful of women, practice descretion and sensitivity etc etc. I am so repulsed at what I'm seeing, I'm hard to offend and am light hearted, have always maintained 'live n let live' but this stuff is just awful. Even my young girl understands this without having to be taught. Even she feels this isn't right right to her core. This destresses her 🌻
Since when has any woman waited to be told to "live your own wonderful life"? I'm 63, and never realized permission was required -from anyone! Let's all thank Grant for giving women permission to be women..
The thing about tampons is funny because, as a woman, I refuse to use tampons and stick to pads. BUT, my mom and my sister use tampons and I know how expensive they are and I'm mad because he wasted a whole box of tampons for an unboxing video.
same...and they hurt...but also makes you wonder why neither bought a pad because pads are cool and won't get them more V/S points like they thought they would
No way- tampons are life!! I hate the way that pads rub on the skin and make it all painful but that never happens with tampons. Honestly tampons make my period 100 times more bearable, and I will always be grateful for having that option.
I was so happy when my periods ended and the hot flashed calmed down a bit. I remember having my first period at 14 thinking "How can I ever feel happy again". These fake women are utterly disgusting!
I had mine a few months before my 12th birthday, having a life changing revelation that life will never be good again at that young age is quite depressing really. It was a bit dramatic but life has definitely been inconvenienced since then 😂.
❤ i was 9. Aug 19th. The day before 4th grade started. Had early puberty. I was maybe 80lbs, wearing a big overnight pad (90s) in my pants looking like i had a diaper on. Sooo embarassing but it was all we had. Mom gave me the talk that night. And i was mortified to even let a boy near me, let alone hold my hand. These men are a disgusting joke. On a funny note, i recently did a stay in a Houston VA hospital where a racist and sexist old man was ranting and raving. Constantly rude and loud. I dont do rude and loud. So i ran to my room, grabbed a tampon some girl left there, and told him to SHOVE THIS UP HIS @$$ AND STFU! The VA needs to do better. I shouldnt have been on the same floor as men like that.... but the staff got a kick out of it. And he did exactly as I said and finally learned respect of others.
at 52... I was counting the days til that YEAR without so I could throw a party. Joke was on me. With nine days left here comes that cycle. Now I gotta start the countdown over. I will at least be grateful that my hot flashes aren't as bad as they used to be. I don't have it in me to care what other people are doing as a matter of self-expression but knowing how many women are without the products they need while others make a joke out of the use REALLY grinds my gears.
42 years of periods for me. Started 3 months after my 10th birthday. I will be forever thankful my mother found an educational box of products and information about menstruation for my 10th birthday. I was well prepared when I started. My brother, who is 2-1/2 years older than I, knew what was happening. And this guy is clueless. Ugh!
Wait! Wait... So it's normal to get hot flashes before and during our periods? I'm only 21 so ik it can't be menopause 😭 I get hot flashes before my period and I didn't know if it was normal
Its funny how a man, cause that guy is a man, says "Period is a state of mind". I mean that's a very strange way to say "I do not know anything about the female biology but i've heard about mood swings so imma go with that and hope my pretend womanhood fools the rest of you." These people are making a joke out of women.
Some people do act in transphobic ways, the issue is that he is using it as an exuse, that still doesn’t make transphobic comments okay ._. Stop validating people who fake a disorders by acting as if they actually have it. Trash on him for being an attention seeker. Trans people have nothing to do with that.
"I am so sorry for misgendering you; I couldn't tell that you are now a woman, or that you even think that it is possible to change genders. To avoid being offended ever again, have you thought of drawing yourself a nice warm bath, lying down in it and taking 90 Vicodin tablets washed down with a fifth of bourbon?"
I had a guy tell me I was lying about how bad my period was. After several years I went to a doctor and she was amazed I went so long without being helped by anyone.
I have seen many comments like that on the redpill and especially black pill subredits, along with shaming single mothers and complaining about "hypergamy" and women not wanting them (they were laughing at some "ugly women" at the same time).
My doctor said the same as my periods were extremely heavy to the point the bedsheets and old matress resembled a murder scene. I was completely white and had no energy!
I’m 61 years old. I have never throughout my whole life seen & heard so much about periods. It was something that was talked about with your mom, your doctor & maybe your sisters that were siblings. It wasn’t plastered all over the newspapers or blasted out over a megaphone in a crowded public forum. Yes it’s a natural bodily function. But growing up there were embarrassing moments. Just really sick of hearing about men & their weird fascination with women & their periods. It’s gross & disgusting.
@shellysands7342 this super open discussion sometimes makes me uncomfortable. Some especially seem so void of any boundries and genuine feelings. How come, he wished to "transition" and yet had never taught himself about basic biology and appropiate language for this..
@@honeybunny1162 I personally believe they don’t care about boundaries or anyone’s personal feelings. They’re narcissistic to the core. The more outlandish they are the more clicks they get. It’s all for personal validation. If it’s not perverse in some way the clicks aren’t there. They don’t really care whether it’s bad attention or good, as long as they get it.
I'm in my mid 40's, and have 2 daughter's. They are both autistic, so talk about periods is quite common from my oldest. My youngest is not ready yet, so I am starting to prepare her. I find the fascination with periods very odd, and decidedly uncomfortable as well. It's not something to wish for, celebrate or pretend either. Painful, messy, uncomfortable, and thoroughly unpleasant. Usually kept in the household, and not widely talked about. I wish it was still like that.
What you were saying about him acting like a careless, prepubescent idiot was spot on. I'm gay myself and I've met quite a few gay men who think it's "cute" or "funny" to act like that and do things like throwing expensive items, snatching things out of people's hands, or squeezing people way too hard. I don't own or use purses but even I found it really disrespectful the way he just threw the bag that was just gifted to him (by the company itself no less). I know what he's trying to do, he's trying to emulate the caricature of wealthy elitists who toss their Prada and say "trash". That's fine if you want to do that with something you bought yourself but he was gifted that. I really hate how so much of the gay community has embraced this elitist, materialistic attitude, and that it's somehow cute to be reckless with expensive items. Grant is the worst stereotypes of gay men rolled into one person. It sucks how most of us are just normal dudes who would never act like that but all it takes is one like him to reinforce the stereotypes and ruin it for the rest of us.
I've been looking for this comment since being trans became "cool". Thank you for calling him out! I couldn't have explained this particular behavior better then you did.
Don't worry, any intelligent person understands that certain gay/lesbian/trans people who act in such a way DO NOT represent the entire community. And I say that as a straight 40 year old female with 2 adult children.
Their use of the words "opened me up to extreme hate" or "I received hate" actually means "I did something about something I don't understand at all and I'm not willing to admit that I might have been wrong and/or ridiculous in my actions".
Thousands of people saying the same thing to him... Yet he thinks HE'S not the problem. He thinks THEY are the problem. "If it seems like everyone around you has a problem, it's not everyone else. It's you."
Nowadays, a person can make a decent living simply by transitioning. You can either be a influencer or set up a gofundme to take advantage of liberal people's sympathy.
Right? Meanwhile, I can't afford to get my spine fixed but I'm not e-begging or even doing a GoFundMe. The pain is bad but they get everything covered. Twisted 🥨 world.
Fun fact. Between 15:24 -18:43, he said: OMG: 21 times Literally: 2 times Stop: 4 times Which makes me feel internal rage due to the level of annoying he is
@@raegangluski No "maybe" about it. Somebody trying to impersonate Miss Brett as a way to steal your money through some crooked scheme or other. This vermin is popping up everywhere on UA-cam. Another common grift is one where somebody claims they invested twenty-three cents and a fuzzy LifeSaver with some cryptocurrency guru after breakfast this morning and before lunch they got a return of a grillion dollars on their investment.
I have high tolerance in dealing with annoying people and usually I can manage and go about my day but I swear to God this creep gives me a headache and literal pain to my eyes ! Social media is destroying generations ...
Welcome to womanhood: The real ones know what it means to be critiqued on every level, trashed for things out of your control, ostracized for tiny missteps, harassed for looking too good or too bad, and subjected to our own self-criticism once the world has done their worst. And, for a lot of us, that’s just dealing with our moms. -Mrs. Slade Edit: I meant all that psychological attack as coming from other women. We have ALL been personally victimized by Regina George. And, if we’re honest, we’ve probably each had at least one turn being someone else’s Regina George.
"And that's just dealing with our moms" 💀 I'm a man but I've heard from my female friends that the worst insults they receive and worst emotional damage are from other women. Yes, they are overall more weary around men than women because of the physical risk but they need to be careful of other women as well.
Evil always uses fear as a weapon to silence, intimidate and hide the truth. You cannot pretend to be something you're not and not suffer any consequences... We're seeing the insane consequences all around us!
The shame and embarrassment I used to have as an 8 year old girl going to the store to shop for feminine products with my mom, and he gleefully struts in the store and to "buy tampons for a friend"... come on, MAN.
As a gay man who came of age in the 90s I took a lot of arrows to fight for the rights of future generations to grow up in a world free from violence. These egregious, public displays of entitlement and narcissism from people like Grant Sikes and Dylan Mulvaney are doing irrecoverable damage to the LGBT community. This is NOT the world we were fighting for. You do not demand respect you earn it.
Phobia means fear. Women, with what we have fought for and all the things as women we need to take on that only real women experience, we are afraid of nothing. We are not fearful, we are pissed!
Yes it seems like the definition of phobia has now changed too. Asking questions, stating one's truth, attempting to engage in debate- those are courageous actions, not fearful.
I agree with you completely, we have to call them out on their bs, because it’s changing the world as we know it. The whole idea that a man can self identify as a woman by putting on a dress and acting like some twisted stereotype of the opposite sex is absurd. Truly gender dysphoric individuals don’t act in this way. They are not attention seekers, they just want to stop feeling bad. It’s not phobic to say this, it’s common sense!
Now I'm furious. I've been a makeup artist for years and all this guy does is say "give me money I'm trans" and he gets brand deals? I've been trying so hard.
I love that in his apology video he pretty much says, "If you dissagree with me, you're trans-PHOBIC" Bro, we ain't scared of men who litterally "wear bikinis, write scathing emails, and cry." There needs to be a better term.
We should throw their labels and accusations right back at them. Call these narcissists who call normal people 'transphobic' simply for having common sense and standing by Truth as "cisphobic" "logicphobic" "sensephobic"
Yep, she really is the Queen of the Smooth Segue, isn't she?! My favourites are when she promotes the beef brand & introduces it via some type of 'beef' between the topic(s) of the show in question...cheers to all from sunny 'Down Under'...mjf.
I’m so sick of these massive narcissists. They don’t give a damn about anything or anyone other then themselves. And the fact that he’s getting stuff that he hasn’t even earned. Truly disgusting.
There's a big difference between being truthfully honest about something and being terrified of something they couldn't ever be anymore different than what they already are
As a Muslim I love watching Youre videos, I’m only twelve and living in a world where people don’t want to be what they were born to be. You are helping me better understand the logical side of society
Hey little brother or sister. Please do not fall for these morons. There are only 2 genders man & a woman. Hope you don't think like these fools who are ruining humanity on so many levels. Brett is great though. Just don't get any ideas from any other gay/trans etc crap. That's all fake.
Throwing a designer bag that was sent to you for “free” is the epitome of entitlement. I put free in quotes because I do question if he actually bought the products himself and just pretended Kate Spade sent them. Whatever the case, his attitude and ego are gross.
The closest thing I have to a designer bag is my $85 Stitch backpack from Disneyland, and I would never in a million years throw that bag. Not just because it’s adorable, and not just because I paid for it myself, but because it was expensive and is high-value, and I was raised to be gentle with my belongings because I can’t always afford replacements
Be patient --- he, like all trannies, will get what is coming to him. He can prance around in his pantyhose and high heels from now until he arrives at the flaming gates of Hell; Satan's demons will take over from there.
I remember as a teenager, I was thinking with dread about periods as I has having the most horrible pains, vomiting, diareea, bleeding, being constantly having to make sure my trousers are stained or not, being embarrassed by the smell my periods had the whole experience was the most horrifying thing ever! Especially since I had a 21 days cycle unlike the usual 28 days other ladies had. So I would basically have only 2 weeks in between periods, basically I had 2 periods every month.
Thats me and its heavy too there will be days itll get lighter but then a second period comes up, and i dont know when itll end.. so not only am i finally ways to regulate my depression when im on my period. Because it becomes ×1000 worse to how do i go into work with a heavy flows every week. For 2 weeks or maybe even 3... its super tiring.. the whole thing. Tampons/ pads are expensive. I probably have 2000 worth of tampons/pads for the month ill be having my period
Agreed! I have PCOS, my periods are very irregular but when I do get them for the first few days I have crippling period pains and I'm very heavy. If someone accidently brought me the wrong flow products it would not be good, especially if I then went out in public. This trans period mockery is highly offensive and needs to stop. Biological woman here who refuses to allow myself to be erased. I've already gone through the traumas of rape and domestic violence, had the police literally take the piss out of me when I reported these crimes and let my ex get away with everything Scot free, experienced homelessness and extreme poverty, lived at a woman's refuge, and when I first fled the abuse I had to use toilet roll as I literally could not afford period products due to financial abuse and my son needed to eat, and lost my son after my abusive ex took me to court twice for full custody. I have not seen my now 7 year old since November 2021. I live in the UK, not some third world country. As a woman, I've been erased and silenced enough in my life. No more...
I understand the PCOS thing. I’ve had it since I was a teen. It’s very frustrating not knowing when it will come, and when it does it’s just, you feel angry. One thing I would like to make you aware of is that having PCOS predetermines that you will develop type 2 diabetes. I wish my doctors had made me aware of this when I was young. So take care of yourself.
12:49 I just moved into a trailer with my husband. As a wedding gift, we got furniture. All we had to buy was an entertainment center (which we got from Walmart ), and we are currently looking for a bookcase on the Facebook marketplace. This kid is ungrateful for looking down on used furniture
I was on the pill for a decade because of how awful my period was. And even now, after not being on it for a couple of years it's still incredibly painful and heavy. It's not something to mock, these people are sick.
Wait I have been on the pill for like a year now. My pediatrician said it will help. You're telling me it doesn't??? Im going through mood swings GALORE for no damn reason?? What do I do? Honestly im scared now im literally 15
@@just_callmesix I realize I may not have been clear, yes it helps but it's not a permanent solution. My menstrual cycle reverted back to how it used to be before I was on the pill once I stopped taking it. Heavy and incredibly painful. It's a frustrating situation.
@@just_callmesix it can help pain, but it depends on the root cause. Endometriosis or adenomyosis can be a cause for heavy/painful periods, and if so, you need a good doctor for it.
@@just_callmesix Definitely talk to your obgyn, seeing if you have any underlying health issues and treating them may mitigate some of your worse period symptoms. Good diet and exercise can help a bit too. If you have to go on the pill try to get the lowest dose possible for your age/weight. It's a difficult issue to navigate because doctors just throw the pill at you for everything and don't bother to go beyond that.
Disliking idiots who think they're the "wrong gender (see "sex")" for their grift is not "phobic" anything. It's the classic gaslight of "you're just insecure because it scares you" bullshit
people wonder like him wonder why people don’t accept him. because a lot of trans people are this rude, but there are some that are very kind. but ikr. like bruh name us something else 😂 oh wait he can’t
When I bought my first box of tampons at 13, a guy I had a crush on was already in the store. Immediately ditched the tampax and got the OB because the box was much smaller and I could hide it in my hands. I spent the rest of kayak summer camp (yeah, got the first one the first day of summer camp and had to be in a bathing suit every day) learning how to use non applicator tampons on the fly. What fresh hell that was. I wonder how many of these fake women even think about what having periods is really like.
They gotta come up with another term. Phobia indicates fear. We aren’t afraid. We are disgusted.
What about trans-disgust? It's not elegant but it gets the feeling across, I hope
@@shady_the_one works for me
Phobia means aversion to not just fear of
@@JasonSimzz we ain't averting, it's being shoveled in our faces man, along with LGBTQ anything yo
Trans-taedio. Best Latin word I could find haha
As a father..I cannot say or know the experience but hearing my daughter crying that she needed me to come to school because "she started". I felt her distress. I got her fresh clothes. I told her I will go to store and get you some stuff products..I probably got too much but I could tell she was aching and cramping. I could tell this wasn't fun for her..yes she became a woman, but it hurt me she was in pain. I know she did not want dad with her for this but she knew she need someone to be there for her.
That said...this guy is a moron ..there is no reason to make videos talking about this as I saw how private this is for each woman.
Bless your heart for showing up in an uncomfortable situation and being an amazing dad. I have severe endometriosis (a female reproductive system disease) that has caused me serious grief, agony, depression, healgh complications, and required 4 major operations. My dad was the most supportive person to me, even though my mom was aware of my disease but did nothing but judge me. Dad took me to all my surgeries, spoke with the surgeons afterwards while i was hospitalized, and I witnessed him cry on a few occasions because this disease has caused so much trauma in my life. He has never been afraid to listen to my stories (even though im sure its a bit uncomforable to talk about such female issues), he's purchased those girly things for me over the years I spent hemorrhaging because the doctors could not fix my bleeding issue.... it was like a period on steroids- I became severely anemic as a result and needed a lot of support. Dads like mine- and like you- are gems and deserve to be celebrated. While it may seem to you like a small favor you did for your daughter, I can guarantee she was grateful beyond words. Father's day is coming up, I'd like to extend to you an early happy Father's day and cheers your act of kindness in raising a daughter. Hats off to you sir xx
Your daughter is lucky to have you.
She wanted dad and kudos for being there for her dude. Bravo❤
Why would he open his friends product
Thank you for being such a wonderful dad for your daughter. ❤
When I was a teen I bled all over a church bench. My bullies were sitting right next to me and I still remember the look on their faces. Never felt so humiliated in my life. Periods are not fun, it's not pretty, it's not something we enjoy.
When I first got mine, I remember walking home from the bus thinking I was sweating a lot… went to the bathroom and everything was red through my clothes. I was horrified!!!
The fear of bleeding through isn’t cute or something to Cosplay!
Wow I’m sorry you went through that, I can only imagine how you felt. Kids can be so cruel and are getting crueler. I hated high school so much I got my GED in my junior year and started working.
Bleeding through the only pants you have on a school camping trip and having nothing but toilet paper to try and make a pad out of. So much fun.
It just shows exactly how IGNORANT they are on the subject! If they experienced a period even once, they would go back to being men!
@@orangepeelqueen2787 I don't wanna imagine
That “apology” was a total attempt at gaslighting.
Totally
Attempt?!!! This guy's real good at gaslighting! To be at this level, you have to be completely "forgotten" about yourself. No surprise he thinks he's a woman, he doesn't even know about his personality.
Well is it surprising? All of them are narcissists.
Absolutely!
I had my best friends children while he and his wife went on vacation. They have a son (10) and a daughter who was 12. The second day they were gone, I started seeing bloody tissues in the garbage. Concerned, I asked where they came from and found out that this poor kid was in the middle of her first period. She was crazy embarrassed, didn't even want to call her mother. Talking about it was just to uncomfortable. I took her to the store, she didn't want to get out of the car and I went inside and we did it over the phone. After it was all said and done she cried and insisted on baking cookies. Watching her deal with what all women have to experience, was an eye opener. since then I've always had a huge appreciation for this event that God saw fit to spare me. The girl in question still tells the story to this day, even included me in her wedding speech, that fact made me realize even more, just how much that event shapes a woman's life.
I had my first one while at weekend visitation with my dad, but he is a doctor so body functions don't make him as nervous as most men.
Such a nice thing you did 😁 seem like a good friend
I had my period at 9, it was heavy and I remember thinking I was actually going to die.
There are four women in my house. My wife and 3 girls. I try walk on both sides of the fence. I'm no good to them if can't at least try to understand them.
Good job! My dad was the one who helped me when I started. I thought i was having a bad stomach illness, but it turned out to be my first period. Dad woke up, mom was sleeping. When I told him I wasn't going to throw up and why I actually felt sick, dad was great. I think every girl remembers her first one and it's always awful, even for those girls eagerly anticipating puberty.
If his ‘friend’ sent him for tampons, she would’ve told him EXACTLY what she wanted. We ladies are particular when it comes to our feminine hygiene and what products we like.
LOL I thought the same thing! We're very brand specific and especially size specific.
Exactly! He said “someone told me these dots are for your flow?”… shouldn’t your ‘friend’ be the one telling you what the dots mean and which ones she needs?
HEY! You have to take whatever some random trans woman so kindly offers you in the bathroom! :)
Agree. My mum and sister always only want one particular variant of Stayfree pads.
When I accidentally got them the wrong type, I didn't hear the end of it.
Notice how it's always tampons and not pads? Why only objects that are to be inserted 🤔 idk. Something's off. Smells like AGP.
"It's opened me up to extreme hate"
Which translates to "I did something fucking stupid and now I'm sad because people are holding me accountable for my actions."
FR MAN
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I m trans myself and i would spit that moron in face for it. Like for god sake every woman i know would like to not have period, one i think is kinda jealous that i wont have, but i wont be biogical woman... But still fuck that persons, womans are sensetive (on avarage) and those trans are just biches...
Bro those people have transitioned into straight up evil
@@Tenchi707 nah they were evil from begining, but now that they are trans you cannot call them out on it bcs you will be transphobic, so they use it as much as possible
Not only if he lying about why he bought his tampons, that was the worst apology I’ve ever heard
As a woman with fertility issues and is trying to get pregnant, getting your period is one of the most emotionally heart breaking thing ever… don’t see any of these “pretend women” mentioning that.
I'm sorry that you're struggling, praying for you, sis.
That must be awful. I really hope you get a child soon
Sorry you have to go for that. Praying for you
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True. I remember crying back in the day when I first had my period. These faux humans think being a woman is all about seducing men and wearing wigs and dresses 😑
You didn’t receive hate, you received people’s real emotions and opinions.
And facts too, people are tired of nonsense and being insulted, there's a limit to tolerance, we can't just let them walk all over us like that and especially disrespect women like that
I personally hate her.
As a representative of males we do not claim those artificial things that are calling themselves women I pass the toch to sewer rats thankyou
Exactly! Calling it "hate" belittles every single woman's feelings who responded.
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I used to get extremly ill on my periods throwing up and crippled in pain. After taking loads of pain killers i was so exhausted i would have to sleep it all off.
This caused me to loose a lot of days off work.
Eventually i went to the doctor and she asked me "are u sure this is not all in your head"?
I was so ashamed when i left the doctors.
I eventually had an appointment to see a consultant and they found a benign tumour that was bloking my fellopian tubes.
Point im making is, which im sure the narc wont see many valid points.
How dare these people mock what real women have to endure on a day to day basis
Besides the fact that it can be traumatizing to go the doctor with something related on the subject, it is even worse when a female doctor asks you if it is all in your head.....She should be objective and at the bare minimum take you serious.
What a great friend, he purchased a box of tampons for a friend and gave her an open box with an unpackaged and unsanitary tampon. What a wonderful friend.
I honestly wouldnt have taken that package.
@@zhazhaninja9446I’m sure if he did give it to them they threw it away. But I don’t it. He was just being a sexist moron. The people that demand tolerance and equality are the most sexist, racist people out there
I have heard and seen what them do IT'S DOWN RIGHT DEMEANING AND DISGUSTING TO SAY THE LEAST
Stunning and brave.
Yeah the whole video is messed up.
Before I had my hysterectomy, my periods had me curled up on the bathroom floor, crying and throwing up.
They were giving me literal narcotics once a month to help control the pain.
So glad he thinks, as a man, that periods are a joke for him to pretend to be a woman with.
Oh, that sounds horrible! Are you feeling better now?
Same. Puked over and over. And then these guys do this crap. What a bunch of creeps.
@@bbypookiee Absolutely!
A hysterectomy did wonders! 😃
As a woman who suffered from endometriosis for more than 25 years, suffered through extreme anemia, faced multiple warnings that I was infertile, who suffered through massive doses of hormones to force me into temporary menopause, who ended up needing multiple blood transfusions due to extreme and constant blood loss, and ended up requiring a hysterectomy with massive complications due to the multi-organ involvement, I don't want to hear a word this person has to say regarding female cyclicy, tampons, cycles, being a woman, anything that has to do with being an actual biological woman.
@@ohmightywez I am so sorry you had to deal with that! I completely agree with not wanting to hear anything from people like this who are faking what we actually dealt with! It is disgusting on so many levels!
I once walked into a pharmacy and asked where the Pamprin was. Woman I asked said this " Pamprin is in Aisle 2. Red wine is Aisle 7 and chocolate and ice cream are Aisle 5 and 9."
That woman was the real MVP.
That woman would be my hero! My mrs' periods are LETHAL I coulda used that the first time in 😅
I'm so glad I ran across your channel. I was someone who was very simple about the trans issue. Someone was born with male/ female organs, but their minds are telling them it isnt right. Gender dysphoria. I personally didnt even care when a trans person would be in the bathroom with me (my own personal feeling). Now being older and watching your content, there is a huge difference in how transmen are transitioning compared to transwomen. Transwomen have, up until a certain point, only viewed women as "girls" and once they started to fulfill being their "true selves" they only had their male gaze pov of what it means to be a woman. Now they're just feeding into female stereotypes because thats all they know. Wearing dresses, getting nails did, obsessing over shoes and purses, talking extra "girly"... its ridiculous. Its so demeaning. They have the audacity of doing this and then still have the balls (heh) to be a victim when women say, Hey this is offensive. I had hoped this trans movement would dissolve the "gender bias" but they're just reinforcing it.
Women have fought long and hard to get where we are today and now it's just like men are trying to take womanhood away from us, now from the inside.
Well said. At the risk of sounding like a feminist, women fought way too hard and way too long to get to a point where we could be considered equal in the legal system. All these people who have grown up as boys are trying to act like women, but only the "fun" parts. They don't have to deal with the shame and mockery that comes with natural biological functions like periods. They also don't have to deal with hypersexualization from a young age like young women do. They don't have to deal with lots of things because they were born as boys and treated as such before they transitioned. A lot of these trans women influencers see womanhood as parties , hooking up, and frilly dresses because they only know the male gaze version of womanhood.
Please don't conflate these males [pretending to be Female-in quotes
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I have been trying and trying to think how to put this into words, thank you! Perfectly stated!
You are very articulate
As someone who has endometrioses, I cry every time I get my period and had to get 3 operations and I'm not even 30. When I saw it I was so angry that I just wanted to cry and seeing this apology I thought of all the stupid shit people said to me over the years "You are overreacting", "are you faking your pain to not go to work", "You are probably weak if it hurts that much, toughen up". Some of these things were said by gynecologists when I was a teenager... it still is not talked about and known so don't let people talk down to you because you feel pain.
I’m so sorry. ❤ I have similar experiences but over thirty and no diagnosis. I hope you find ways to manage your pain and eventually can live a life without pain. ❤ it’s really hard, especially when the people around you can’t seem to understand what you are going through.
I have endo, too, and it really sucks. I had surgery which improved it but the pain and bloating are still there. Fortunately I never got the awful comments and treatment that you did,and I'm truly sorry that you had to go through that.
I feel for you and it saddens me , and it is shocking, to hear what your gynecologist said to you. Far to litte research is being made on womens health. When there is a problem with our reproductive organs and menstrual cycle birth control is all they know to give us. (...) Would this have been the case if mens tesities were hurting them for several day every month? I think not.
I'm 48 years old and a dear friend of mine is in such severe pain during her period that I am convinced she must be suffering from endometriosis. She will be lying down on the floor in her office all teary eyed and sometimes even writhing in agony when on her period. All her GP tells her is to take some Advil and stay on birth control. Would they have told a man that if their balls were that painful? I think not.
I have asked her to tell her GP to examine her to find out if she is suffering from endometriosis. Because what she is going trough is not "normal" like her (male) doctor seems to think..
@@Sunfl75, thank you for your kind words! As you said there is not enough research but if I read correctly France and Germany are finally investing a lot more in this research. I'm so sorry for your friend and it sounds like the symptoms I have. I hope they will find out what and help her according. I found out that tilidin in combination with ibuprofen helps a lot in my case.
I have endometriosis as well that had what felt like a really early onset. Within the first year of getting my period I had my first surgery and was on birth control (which makes me absolutely insane but I couldn’t function without it). I was very lucky to have two parents in healthcare who were knowledgeable but even with that I cant tell you how many times I’ve been told I was exaggerating or to toughen up by healthcare providers. I’ve had 3 miscarriages and I’m 35 still on hormonal BC even though the risks are quite severe. Yeah so watching these people mock and laugh about this honestly is really hurtful.
I got my period at 10 years and was the very first girl in my class to get it. Everyone was talking about it by the end of the week and because kids can be cruel I got teased for it-
Now grown ass men still mock us all over TikTok
Why do girls get teased for biological bleeding that's supposed to happen? I swear those girls prob didn't regret it even when THEY started their menstrual cycle. It's so stupid the grown men still mocking women for things they can't control.
10? Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry you experienced it that early. I got mine at 11 and I thought that was soon
I got mine at 10 years old as well but I hadn’t had the talk with my dad or had sex ed yet so I was in this agonising pain and bleeding and I had no idea why
Kids are wack. I had a really bad (and sudden) nosebleed in middle school and dripped all the way to the nearby bathroom. Rumor had it I had started my period, lol. I didnt even know about the rumor until my two friends started talking about it (my name wasnt mentioned so they had no idea) and the story sounded awfully familiar.
i got mine at 9, i’m so thankful the boys at my school were sensible and didn’t make fun of me for it, but it is really funny that even after all these years they still haven’t grown out of it
this "apology" quickly turned into "you women are wrong!" really damn quick.
the classic poop sandwich technique.
technically if he’s saying women are wrong and he identifies as a woman, then isn’t he saying he’s wrong but he’s just gonna take us all down with him?
@@ShootingStarStudio I don't think he has the capacity to think about what he says.
The fact that he says ‘we need to stick together because of the inequality we face’ just shows how genuinely caught up in their own fantasy they are
well they are narcissists who do not give a flying fuck about other people, they just want to be seen and profit off of it
Yeah when he said that, I was like. Dude you're on your own, there is no we. WE( THE BIOLOGICAL WOMAN) don't appreciate what you did.
Exactly
FFS he went with "support all women.... US".
The delusion is strong in this one.
America has done EVERYTHING for trans ppl.
You are so on point with your commentary. Speaking to the point on others trying to tell biological women what we are called...this 59 year old woman from Texas doesn't care who you sleep with, what makeup you do or don't wear, what clothes you wear or what you Identify as. I identify as royalty, but that doesn't make it so. But I will NEVER call myself CIS. Nope. I am simply a woman who gave birth to three children, had a hysterectomy at 36 because of severe anemia and pre cancerous areas on my ovaries. When us this overwhelming need for everyone to think and behave like lemmings going to STOP? Brett, keep up the wonderful videos. Sending much live from Texas.
It’s crazy how opinions are now considered “hate”
Ikr
So true! We can't have an honest conversation anymore. What ever happened to agree to disagree and move on?
@@blip-2024 People simply cannot cope and seethe.
Facts*
its usually not opinions, its legit FACTS, or CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM that people say is hate because, people are snowflakes nowadays.
My period was so painful and debilitating that I had to get prescribed birth control to stop it, I would literally be in so much pain that I couldn't move and these men pretending to be women are making a mockery of something that is deeply traumatic for a lot of women.
I'm 46 and had a hysterectomy at 43...Best decision ever! I had my period for 30 years and every month, without fail, I had terrible cramps, heavy flow, etc. AWFUL, just awful. So glad I had the hysterectomy. A period is not a fun thing.
The ONLY time I looked forward to having a period was when I first learned about them at aged 10 --I couldn't wait to be a woman lol then when I realized the true horrors of it ....ugh, my feelings changed real quick!
Same, and I felt nauseous the first couple days, sometimes to the point of actually getting physically ill.
@@texastea5686 I never had a “looking forward to periods” moment because mine hit at age nine and I was unprepared and didn’t know what they were yet ☹️. I was so scared.
Now I have dysfunctional uterine bleeding and dread every period. I can’t use tampons because of TSS soEVERY period I leak through everything no matter what pad products I use. I even use incontinence products and still bleed through everything. I have to sleep on towels for a week to stop from ruining sheets. I hate this. And these men are making comedy skits from this stuff like it’s fun.
It’s soul destroying.
Same, completely debilitating for the first two days. As a teen, before I discovered ibuprofen, I couldn't do anything but try to sleep all day to try and escape it. Had to get on birth control to get rid of them, which of course comes with it's own host of side-effects.
Same here! I'm always throwing up profusely on the first day from the pain. Ans then you get this clown making haha goofy jokes about it
'My friend sent me in there'
If my male friend went into a shop and bought me tampons which returned to me with the box opened and an individual tampon unwrapped, I would be insanely weirded out and uncomfortable
And I would throw the box away, and go out to get my own. Don't care if I have nothing to catch the blood. I will bleed through my pants and buy what I need. Then never ask that "friend" again
Not to mention the fact that your friend stopped to do an unboxing video and made total fun of you first. That would be the end of that friendship.
Amd why that woman sent him in to buy tampons? She can't buy them herself?
@@oscarfun100 i agree ngl, kinda weird imo to send a guy to buy your feminine products.
@@dollpickle my dad followed me to the mall and only say them when paying for then... Doing his own shopping
As a woman, I’ve gone to the hospital multiple times because my period was so bad, and so painful, that I almost had my appendix removed because the amount of pain I was experiencing was similar to that of my appendix exploding, they thought I had appendicitis. These videos of people mocking that traumatic experience, calling it fake, or putting makeup on and claiming to have the same experiences for clout make me sick. My periods are terrible, when I get mine, I’m often bed ridden for a couple of days, sleep deprived from the pain. No man is going to ruin the value and realness of my monthly suffering for an aesthetic or viewer count, thank you. You just earned a sub btw lol.
Your videos have made me comfortable standing up for my beliefs, and knowing there are others out there that arent blinded by the sparkly crazy bullshit
Same! I used to be kind of ashamed of being against this crazy shit, but Brett showed that it's okay to have your beliefs
Sparkly crazy bullshit. Good way to describe all this stuff going on…
@Mama G ive been seeing so many of these. Im a psychology major and ive been horrified of the things these people are going through. Ive yet to meet one transgender individual who doesn't have underlying trauma and its heartbreaking to see people turning to online communities like this that don't have their best interests in mind instead of seeking the help they need and deserve
Do it because if your country because like Canada, they can throw you in jail for just saying they are 2 gender
Become*
"They don't fight for equal rights because they have them. They want privilege". Don't remember who said it but this quote about LGBT community stuck with me. Looking as an outsider (Eastern European) honestly it's great source of comedy.
You're doing great job, woman, keep it up!
That's what they mean with "equity" It's not equality anymore, it's "balancing the scales" aka giving them extra stuff aka privileges.
Never seen a trans man do an unboxing of condoms and behave like that... just saying
Well said.
Hey easterner getting your jollies its the TQ+’s not the LGB, gender dysphoria has no correlation to Homosexuality or Bisexuality it’s a wholly different subject
It's the TQ. Not the LGB. Fact is, LGB people DON'T have the same rights as non LGB people. A great example for this is marriage. We don't want privilege. We want to be able to do the same things straight people can. Trans people want everyone to change the way they live their life and change societal norms in place for good reasons, all for THEM. THEY are the ones that want privilege, not us. Don't compare the two; they aren't the same.
Says: "Im so tired of seeing hate and just want to put it all behind me"
Means: I don't want to take any accountability or address my negative behaviors."
Like there is such a better way he could have handled it but I don't think he is surrounded by people who can help him get to that
Also means: "I don't believe that other people have rights and I absolutely will use any amount of power I have to censor and harass dissenting people."
lol imagine if you were his subtitle guy
Well at least he's getting one part of the woman right.
Absolutely cowardly! “I just want to put it all behind me” sounds like a guy who picked on a nerdy guy at school but then found out the nerd is a black belt. Suddenly it’s not fun, it’s tragic, and “I want out” is the mantra. Can’t stand people like this.
All his "apology" proves is that he can be very disrespectful and dishonest
His entitled male energy is apparent when he lies about why he bought the tampons.
As a single mom of 3 who has had to work for everything I have, sometimes working 2 jobs it is infuriating seeing single, able bodied adults begging for free stuff online and even more infuriating that so many people actually give them free stuff but look down on people like me who work hard for everything they have but struggle sometimes. It's so backwards.
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Amen, Aurora...perfectly put...mjf.xo
its almost like the capitalist structure that Brett supports wholeheartedly has got ya down. There should be liveable wages so you can make as much w just 1 job and spend more time w your children. Brett is AGAINST that while somehow being against capitalism and anti influencer. Brett doesnt understand that influencers are what capitalism ordered.
They’re not really giving him free stuff. They’re having him advertise for them because apparently he has a lot of followers. He puts the products in his videos and he gets to keep the products. Just like how other famous people do sponsorships and commercials.
@Slowmo ummm no, not Cronyism, nobody be following that shit but your group of friends. USA is a proud capitalist country so if you dont like it leave. And if you wish the govt had more control to stop it, you may be better off in Communist china or fascist Russia. Good luck
The thing is dylan did it, he became an influencer got brand deals talked with the ulta makeup company, talked with biden, went to all these award shows was at the Grammys. Why wouldn’t these tik tok trans kids expect the same thing? They feel entitled to it
Dylan is a paid government shill. He sold his soul to the devil and this is what he is required to do for fame and fortune. It's not real.
What these people don't get is Dylan Mulvaney is a professional actor who got propped up by the government to indoctrinate children. He is literally state sponsored propaganda. He didn't become a famous influencer on his own. He has makeup artists, wardrobe designers, camera and lighting men, and script writers. The government promoted him and placed his content everywhere. These people are only getting noticed because they are desperately grasping at Dylan Mulvaney's coat tails but they will never reach that level of fame, sponsorships, and wealth. These people don't have the connections, dedication, or charisma that it takes to make it. They think Dylan Mulvaney just got lucky and fell into this without seeing what really goes on behind the scenes.
@@KandyKoRnKorpse THIS.
What Dylan Muvaney did has made a huge damage to women, mocking them and erasing them. This guy is a nobody. Mulvaney's influence is actually dangerous
Dylan's "cruisade" gave him everything he wanted : attention, fame and money.
He is smart enough to understand that the internet is full of poor lost souls in desperate need for attention and validation of their own delusions, who will blindly follow him, and he made good use of it...
Problem is, that he influenced too many weak-minded people to follow him...
My fiancée is sitting next to me watching this and states she has never been so angry at another person in her life and that watching this gaslighter makes her blood boil. I concur. These modern gender ideologies are breeding narcissism and it’s sickening.
16:20 “I’m so tired guys” Same Brett. same. I was thinking the same thing at this point. If he says oh my gosh I’m so excited one more time I’m gonna lose it.
So many women feel uncomfortable walking around with a tampon or a pad to go to a bathroom, from the time we get our periods onward. These men posting about tampons and pads as if there’s no stigma for actual women, is disgusting. I love your content and I appreciate you speaking on these very important social issues ruining our country quite frankly.
U r correct, also hi!!!, my wife hates it so much, tht I go and grab it for her, no issues, I feel her embarrassment and feel bad , I have no shame it's my wife 😁😁.
Edit: 18 years so far , trust me it is worth it ☺️☺️☺️☺️
Honestly yeah I don't use tampons because I'm too scared to. I am so glad so many people spoke out about this. I used to even feel super embarrassed about asking my husband to buy me some. It's not fun so this was kinda rude.
The fact that true men don’t actually do this is hella contradictory and disrespectful not just for women but for men
I know women have an issue with this carrying a tampon or pad but I just think that is sad. Ignore my "name" - I am a woman. It took some time but by the time I was 30 I stopped caring about others seeing me carrying a tampon. It's a natural part of our biology. I worked with another woman who told me how uncomfortable she was trying to hide her tampon when the male boss stopped her to say something while she was on the way to the bathroom. I told her that she didn't need to flail it in his face but he was a married man who was well aware of women's biology and while she should be discrete, she shouldn't feel uncomfortable. I don't know if it resonated but it's how women should think to be more comfortable about this part of our lives that comes every month.
Gaslighting
I love how his “apology” end with him name-calling the people he’s supposed to be apologizing to. The entitlement and ego ppl have these days is insane. Bring back humility.
He made the situation so much worse 😂
@@Porschegirl_944
For real. If he would’ve just accepted his wrongs and apologized, people would’ve respected him more.
Yes this is the main prong of their defense/attacks, they hate labels so much yet all they can do is call people derogatory names to make themselves feel better because they have no proper argument. It just shows how complacent they are in following everyone else and can't think for themselves
@@Porschegirl_944 He's the problem
The problem with this asshat is because he identifies as trans or whatever is popular in the woke world this week he thinks he's bulletproof and beyond reprisal, I'm so glad that women are not sitting back and taking these pretend women's shit anymore 🤬
FYI Grant, if I saw a man in the store buying tampons for his daughters or his wife/partner, I would not laugh and mock them. Instead I would think, there is a really cool guy.
Yeah. My husband has bought me products before, bless him. He has no embarrassment at all about it. What an awesome guy. ❤
Or when they show you the picture of what product they were sent for and ask if you know
I bought them for my mother, my ex-wife and my daughters. Kinda part of being a man with women in your life.
Years ago, I was buying tampons and standing just a few feet away was a terrified/clueless guy. He walked over to me and shyly asked for my help. He showed me an empty package of pads and said “I’m looking for these for my wife” I helped him find them and he was so grateful, it was kind of adorable. 2 weeks later, the same man walks into my place of employment for a job interview and we immediately recognized each other 😂😂😂
Right! My husband does it for me all the time. It’s so funny when he comes home with the wrong thing though. One time he brought back panty liners and then next time he bought the hugest pads ever 😂. He is so cute and funny I love him 😂❤️
You know, such people can be canceled by us, TOO! Thanks for the video.
I have had my period since a very early age and have dealt with it fine, having had very few bad experiences. But ever since I lost my period (only for a few months; though it still isn't very regular) due to disordered eating, I have been beyond grateful for my menstrual cycle and although I do not look forward to the pain, discomfort, mood swings, low mood, being over-emotional, lacking energy, not knowing whether I will be able to do certain activities, or go certain places, I am relieved every single time I get my period because I know that my body is healthy and functioning as it should.
Menstruating is a female experience and it will not ever be shared by men.
Good job on your rode to recovery! it can be hard but keep at it even when it all seems to much. It has been 10 years now since I went through that. You have got this 🤗🤗🤗🤗
I agree so whole heartedly, she said we don't get excited, but I get relieved when I get my period. It's comforting to know I ate well, supported my hormones well, reduced stress enough, during my cycle to get my period on time. It tells me my body is healthy, functional and fertile.
Q. Why don't men get periods?
A. Because they'd always be bragging about how big and long it was.
🤣🤣🤣
@@espirituphantom1166 As a man, I strongly endorse this message.
@@js-tw3vs you guys are a legit exception. Og comment has an eating issue or what ever she mentioned. Of course shes gonna be relieved, a side effect is not getting a period. Many women for other reasons don't get a period of miss them occasionally. But that is not the majority. Shes speaking on the MAJORITY not the minority of women who are "excited" to get a period. Theres a difference. But i do wish health on all biological women. (I'm a woman)
If my husband went to buy me tampons he would never do an "unboxing" in the car before he came home!! He's an adult man, not a young man in need of attention and affirmation!
My husband buys me tampons and heat pads every time he goes to Costco. Never even asks. He just doesn't want me to go without. Certainly doesn't do an unboxing video in the car...SMH!!
If that was me, i would just give them to my mom or a random woman. However i hope strangers don't take it the wrong way :S
I literally gasped when he threw those things like HE GOT THOSE AS A GIFT. YOU DON'T THROW GIFTS. I would be crying if someone who I didn't know got me that. Like it would be treated like a baby.
It's these type of people that make us worry about who will see our pads at school, who will see our tampons, will someone be disgusted with us buying them at the store. This breaks my heart that so many people believe us to be body parts and makeup and nails.
Totally agree with you
I did too. WHY ARE YOU SO CARELESS WITH GIFTS????
@@Kickstop_ EXACTLY
As a man, I am horrified to know that women have to feel such a way. Afraid.
I grew up around all women except my one brother. So seeing a box of tampons was normal. Then I learned what it was about in school. Yeah boys can be stupid.
There should be no shame for a natural bodily function.
i physically winced when he did that
I remember when I got my first period, I was terrified and hysterical since I was so young. The worst was, I was staying with my dad that day! He called my mother for help and ever since then remembered what I needed. I may have endometriosis so I always had very bad cramps and even now that I am an adult he ALWAYS carries my favorite kind of painkiller on him if I need one. I think it is normal for men to not immediately know too much about the female experience, but it's not hard to inform yourself and actually be helpful. Just talk to women. Love my dad for being so caring about such things, my partner is just as kind. Great men❤️
* I am a woman
Holds up the tampon; "Where does that go!!!!???"
Goes on to remind women of the oppression we faced and still do in many nations, while as a bio male, he would be completely exempt from that discrimination.
that was so degrading tbh. like wdym “where does that go” take three guesses damn
Exactly! There are still girls missing school because of their period. Hell, there are still girls not able to go to school at all because of their gender. This just undermines everything women have struggled through and continue to struggle with simply because of their biology.
TSS: um hello? We are still here dipshit
For a young lady in her early 20's, Brett Cooper has a great grasp on herself, her beliefs, and the world. She really deserves success.
@SillyNutz It's hard in this world of victims and lunatics, we young women who think correctly are afraid of cancellation, that's why I admire Brett.
This issues are more of a american thing,
@@Gjff8 Jajajaja claro que no... vives en una cueva o que
@@shlynn-k3c ves a hombres usando tampones en latinoamerica?
@@Gjff8 Jajaja obvio no usándolos por favor, pero si veo hombres hablando de ellos y como los cargan en sus bolsos, la locura en latam es una porqueri tambien.
Anytime your apology starts with anything like, "I'm sorry but..." you're not truly sorry and you're about to make an excuse as to why the person is to blame. A true apology wouldn't have any excuses.
Almost any sentiment a person can speak will be 100% negated when followed by "but......"
Whenever you make a statement followed by "but" you invalidate everything you said before the "but."
My ex used to say “I’m sorry your mad” haha. Great but do you even know why? He’s doing pretty much the same thing
@@davidbriggs6086 "yes but..." means NO.
He did a transcuse. Since trans means fake. Let's see how long it is gonna take for UA-cam to remove my comment
It gets worse and worse each day
Teaching our sons to be respectful of women's needs during their periods, has been incredible. My oldest son was able to buy his young wife what she needed, during an emergency of her period when she was embarrassed to even tell him what she needed. He made it simple and normal, without making her feel bad for the "inconvenience" of him needing to go to the store. My youngest son gave a young lady(around 13) his jacket to tie around her waist until she could get her mom to bring her a change. Ironically, that led to them becoming best friends, and half of the class thinking they were dating. 😂 I'm proud of the man my oldest is, and my youngest is❤ becoming. ❤❤
They sound like wonderful boys! Great job
You are an amazing mother. Not all women instill this in their sons. It's so important. I only have a girl but have always said to myself that I'd make damn sure I teach my son's how to truly be respectful of women, practice descretion and sensitivity etc etc. I am so repulsed at what I'm seeing, I'm hard to offend and am light hearted, have always maintained 'live n let live' but this stuff is just awful. Even my young girl understands this without having to be taught. Even she feels this isn't right right to her core. This destresses her 🌻
“This is like my sleep paralysis demon come to attack me.” Hahaha love it!😂
Good job mama
As a man who was raised to help his wife when she needs it I say, great job mom!
Since when has any woman waited to be told to "live your own wonderful life"? I'm 63, and never realized permission was required -from anyone! Let's all thank Grant for giving women permission to be women..
I know right?!
love the sarcasm
if you were a few years older, you would remember when they waited to be told that
Thank you, fellow Boomer, for thanking Grant for his magnanimous gesture.
@@kevinsullivan3448 We are a sarcastic lot, aren't we?😂
The thing about tampons is funny because, as a woman, I refuse to use tampons and stick to pads. BUT, my mom and my sister use tampons and I know how expensive they are and I'm mad because he wasted a whole box of tampons for an unboxing video.
Oh my gosh same. I hate tampons so much. I had to use them once I will never ever use them again. Pads are 100% superior
same...and they hurt...but also makes you wonder why neither bought a pad because pads are cool and won't get them more V/S points like they thought they would
No way- tampons are life!! I hate the way that pads rub on the skin and make it all painful but that never happens with tampons. Honestly tampons make my period 100 times more bearable, and I will always be grateful for having that option.
pad ladies ftw
urghh ikr i regard tampons with fear and loathing :
The end when she looked dead at the camera with a smile on the rolling chair got me😂I love Brett so much
I was so happy when my periods ended and the hot flashed calmed down a bit. I remember having my first period at 14 thinking "How can I ever feel happy again". These fake women are utterly disgusting!
I had mine a few months before my 12th birthday, having a life changing revelation that life will never be good again at that young age is quite depressing really.
It was a bit dramatic but life has definitely been inconvenienced since then 😂.
❤ i was 9. Aug 19th. The day before 4th grade started. Had early puberty. I was maybe 80lbs, wearing a big overnight pad (90s) in my pants looking like i had a diaper on. Sooo embarassing but it was all we had. Mom gave me the talk that night. And i was mortified to even let a boy near me, let alone hold my hand.
These men are a disgusting joke.
On a funny note, i recently did a stay in a Houston VA hospital where a racist and sexist old man was ranting and raving. Constantly rude and loud. I dont do rude and loud. So i ran to my room, grabbed a tampon some girl left there, and told him to SHOVE THIS UP HIS @$$ AND STFU! The VA needs to do better. I shouldnt have been on the same floor as men like that.... but the staff got a kick out of it. And he did exactly as I said and finally learned respect of others.
at 52... I was counting the days til that YEAR without so I could throw a party. Joke was on me. With nine days left here comes that cycle. Now I gotta start the countdown over. I will at least be grateful that my hot flashes aren't as bad as they used to be. I don't have it in me to care what other people are doing as a matter of self-expression but knowing how many women are without the products they need while others make a joke out of the use REALLY grinds my gears.
42 years of periods for me. Started 3 months after my 10th birthday. I will be forever thankful my mother found an educational box of products and information about menstruation for my 10th birthday. I was well prepared when I started. My brother, who is 2-1/2 years older than I, knew what was happening. And this guy is clueless. Ugh!
Wait! Wait... So it's normal to get hot flashes before and during our periods?
I'm only 21 so ik it can't be menopause 😭 I get hot flashes before my period and I didn't know if it was normal
2:50 “Period is a state of mind” - as a biological woman I’d say “Period is a stage of rage” 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂I agree
lmao true.
Its funny how a man, cause that guy is a man, says "Period is a state of mind". I mean that's a very strange way to say "I do not know anything about the female biology but i've heard about mood swings so imma go with that and hope my pretend womanhood fools the rest of you." These people are making a joke out of women.
PREACH! 😂
Watching him fail at acting grateful is literally hurting my heart and faith in humanity.
Yep
Watching him hurts
@@Bluntula Fr 😂
Go figure and same, he'd hurt anyone's eyes. As well as make them nauseous.
Disgust =/= Phobia
"I'm sorry my thoughtless actions made you act in a transphobic way, let me tell you why I'm a victim for it"
“I’m not going to take responsibility for my actions and instead call you trans phobic”
Bingo. "Sorry, not sorry" is what i heard from him, too
Some people do act in transphobic ways, the issue is that he is using it as an exuse, that still doesn’t make transphobic comments okay ._.
Stop validating people who fake a disorders by acting as if they actually have it. Trash on him for being an attention seeker. Trans people have nothing to do with that.
No one is transphobic. No one is scared of him and his confused ilk. We are disgusted and sick of it.
"I am so sorry for misgendering you; I couldn't tell that you are now a woman, or that you even think that it is possible to change genders. To avoid being offended ever again, have you thought of drawing yourself a nice warm bath, lying down in it and taking 90 Vicodin tablets washed down with a fifth of bourbon?"
I had a guy tell me I was lying about how bad my period was. After several years I went to a doctor and she was amazed I went so long without being helped by anyone.
I have seen many comments like that on the redpill and especially black pill subredits, along with shaming single mothers and complaining about "hypergamy" and women not wanting them (they were laughing at some "ugly women" at the same time).
My doctor said the same as my periods were extremely heavy to the point the bedsheets and old matress resembled a murder scene. I was completely white and had no energy!
You can just see Brett's rage slowly bubbling to the surface. She's over it. I felt that.
I'm feeling like Bret rn.
she? that is a boy that is delusional
I love how Brett can't control her facial expressions 😂😂😭 @5:30. That was a good laugh cuz that was my same face 😂
I’m 61 years old. I have never throughout my whole life seen & heard so much about periods. It was something that was talked about with your mom, your doctor & maybe your sisters that were siblings. It wasn’t plastered all over the newspapers or blasted out over a megaphone in a crowded public forum. Yes it’s a natural bodily function. But growing up there were embarrassing moments. Just really sick of hearing about men & their weird fascination with women & their periods. It’s gross & disgusting.
@shellysands7342 this super open discussion sometimes makes me uncomfortable. Some especially seem so void of any boundries and genuine feelings. How come, he wished to "transition" and yet had never taught himself about basic biology and appropiate language for this..
@@honeybunny1162 I personally believe they don’t care about boundaries or anyone’s personal feelings. They’re narcissistic to the core. The more outlandish they are the more clicks they get. It’s all for personal validation. If it’s not perverse in some way the clicks aren’t there. They don’t really care whether it’s bad attention or good, as long as they get it.
@@shellysands7342 valid assumption by observation, which I believe, too...
I'm in my mid 40's, and have 2 daughter's. They are both autistic, so talk about periods is quite common from my oldest. My youngest is not ready yet, so I am starting to prepare her. I find the fascination with periods very odd, and decidedly uncomfortable as well. It's not something to wish for, celebrate or pretend either. Painful, messy, uncomfortable, and thoroughly unpleasant. Usually kept in the household, and not widely talked about. I wish it was still like that.
What you were saying about him acting like a careless, prepubescent idiot was spot on. I'm gay myself and I've met quite a few gay men who think it's "cute" or "funny" to act like that and do things like throwing expensive items, snatching things out of people's hands, or squeezing people way too hard. I don't own or use purses but even I found it really disrespectful the way he just threw the bag that was just gifted to him (by the company itself no less). I know what he's trying to do, he's trying to emulate the caricature of wealthy elitists who toss their Prada and say "trash". That's fine if you want to do that with something you bought yourself but he was gifted that.
I really hate how so much of the gay community has embraced this elitist, materialistic attitude, and that it's somehow cute to be reckless with expensive items. Grant is the worst stereotypes of gay men rolled into one person. It sucks how most of us are just normal dudes who would never act like that but all it takes is one like him to reinforce the stereotypes and ruin it for the rest of us.
Thank you
Be well
I've been looking for this comment since being trans became "cool". Thank you for calling him out! I couldn't have explained this particular behavior better then you did.
Don't worry, any intelligent person understands that certain gay/lesbian/trans people who act in such a way DO NOT represent the entire community. And I say that as a straight 40 year old female with 2 adult children.
I would NEVER tell someone to “unalive” themselves no matter what.
I would never use the term "unalive yourself" in a serious way. That is dumb AF.
Their use of the words "opened me up to extreme hate" or "I received hate" actually means "I did something about something I don't understand at all and I'm not willing to admit that I might have been wrong and/or ridiculous in my actions".
Thousands of people saying the same thing to him...
Yet he thinks HE'S not the problem.
He thinks THEY are the problem.
"If it seems like everyone around you has a problem, it's not everyone else. It's you."
I actually said YES out loud when she said “fake woman”
Because that’s exactly what this person is
Nowadays, a person can make a decent living simply by transitioning. You can either be a influencer or set up a gofundme to take advantage of liberal people's sympathy.
If it only it also worked when you open a Gofundme for your transition from poor to rich
I don't have a lot of sympathy for the Trans. They are sad, but I'm not fooled by them.
Trans grifters
Right? Meanwhile, I can't afford to get my spine fixed but I'm not e-begging or even doing a GoFundMe. The pain is bad but they get everything covered. Twisted 🥨 world.
Damn. That's a good idea actually. I'll wear makup for 100k. Milk some woke liberals.
Fun fact.
Between 15:24 -18:43, he said:
OMG: 21 times
Literally: 2 times
Stop: 4 times
Which makes me feel internal rage due to the level of annoying he is
I'm laughing my ass off watching Brett cringe in disgust at the videos. She's expressing exactly how a lot of us feel.
What does the little icon of Brett mean? Under the comment?? It’s been piping up for me too
@@Kaia_bee a scammer/hacker maybe
@@raegangluski No "maybe" about it. Somebody trying to impersonate Miss Brett as a way to steal your money through some crooked scheme or other. This vermin is popping up everywhere on UA-cam.
Another common grift is one where somebody claims they invested twenty-three cents and a fuzzy LifeSaver with some cryptocurrency guru after breakfast this morning and before lunch they got a return of a grillion dollars on their investment.
Ah I see. Thanks!!
@@Kaia_bee it’s a bot, they are more prevalent in comment sections with gullible viewers
Aka political commentary channels and shit
I have high tolerance in dealing with annoying people and usually I can manage and go about my day but I swear to God this creep gives me a headache and literal pain to my eyes ! Social media is destroying generations ...
I “literally “🙄can’t stand him. He’s so annoying
Welcome to womanhood: The real ones know what it means to be critiqued on every level, trashed for things out of your control, ostracized for tiny missteps, harassed for looking too good or too bad, and subjected to our own self-criticism once the world has done their worst. And, for a lot of us, that’s just dealing with our moms. -Mrs. Slade
Edit: I meant all that psychological attack as coming from other women. We have ALL been personally victimized by Regina George. And, if we’re honest, we’ve probably each had at least one turn being someone else’s Regina George.
Ok calm down princess
@djnutsackiii4851 let me guess your a dude.
@@djnutsackiii4851 go back to watching Spongebob, sweetie. 😘
Yes ma'am!
"And that's just dealing with our moms" 💀
I'm a man but I've heard from my female friends that the worst insults they receive and worst emotional damage are from other women. Yes, they are overall more weary around men than women because of the physical risk but they need to be careful of other women as well.
Funny bonk of the head on the mic at the very end. Haha. Thank you for being so genuine and leaving it! But also for just being genuine!
Evil always uses fear as a weapon to silence, intimidate and hide the truth. You cannot pretend to be something you're not and not suffer any consequences... We're seeing the insane consequences all around us!
The shame and embarrassment I used to have as an 8 year old girl going to the store to shop for feminine products with my mom, and he gleefully struts in the store and to "buy tampons for a friend"... come on, MAN.
As a gay man who came of age in the 90s I took a lot of arrows to fight for the rights of future generations to grow up in a world free from violence. These egregious, public displays of entitlement and narcissism from people like Grant Sikes and Dylan Mulvaney are doing irrecoverable damage to the LGBT community. This is NOT the world we were fighting for. You do not demand respect you earn it.
I know my friend Neil would be rolling in grave if he could see what it's like now, especially the castration of children, he would go mad.
Man, Larry Kramer and Vito Russo are literally having seizures in their graves.
And this is exactly what I was talking about with my sister. What gay people fought for before is not the same as now. Now they want more…
“You don’t demand respect you earn it” They don’t want to earn anything, they demand respect & handout’s & disrespect everyone
I’m not sure women suffragettes thought their movement would end with women having freedom to own and “Only Fans” site either. People will people.
I really felt it when you said “I’m so tired guys.” Same
Phobia means fear. Women, with what we have fought for and all the things as women we need to take on that only real women experience, we are afraid of nothing. We are not fearful, we are pissed!
Phobia is aversion to...
And disgusted..
Yes it seems like the definition of phobia has now changed too. Asking questions, stating one's truth, attempting to engage in debate- those are courageous actions, not fearful.
No, phobia is IRRATIONAL fear, we're not scared, and we're not being irrational either
@@arlenestewart390I just looked at the dictionary and I can’t believe they changed the definition !
The only transitioning I support is Brett's amazing ability to some how so smoothly mention sponsorships
I agree with you completely, we have to call them out on their bs, because it’s changing the world as we know it. The whole idea that a man can self identify as a woman by putting on a dress and acting like some twisted stereotype of the opposite sex is absurd. Truly gender dysphoric individuals don’t act in this way. They are not attention seekers, they just want to stop feeling bad. It’s not phobic to say this, it’s common sense!
5:40 you cam see the discust on her face 🤣
Now I'm furious. I've been a makeup artist for years and all this guy does is say "give me money I'm trans" and he gets brand deals? I've been trying so hard.
You should have pretended to be man. It would have only cost you your dignity
Yeah it's definitely unfair. Maybe temporarily transition and switch back once you secure those deals? 😂
The fact that some of these people have "followers" is insane
They are simpletons .
Well, you've quite literally identified the issue.
I love that in his apology video he pretty much says, "If you dissagree with me, you're trans-PHOBIC" Bro, we ain't scared of men who litterally "wear bikinis, write scathing emails, and cry." There needs to be a better term.
Write scathing emails 😂
😂
When he said that, I knew it wasn’t a genuine apology. So manipulative tbh
Oh wait I just realized you’re a musician, def gonna check out your music, I’m always in the market for some new songs to listen to
I think it's called phobic because that part gets under our skin and annoys us.
Finally someone who understands!!! Thank you so much Brett for calling like it is!!!!
We should throw their labels and accusations right back at them. Call these narcissists who call normal people 'transphobic' simply for having common sense and standing by Truth as "cisphobic" "logicphobic" "sensephobic"
I love how Brett puts in her sponsors so smoothly into her videos 😄
Yep, she really is the Queen of the Smooth Segue, isn't she?! My favourites are when she promotes the beef brand & introduces it via some type of 'beef' between the topic(s) of the show in question...cheers to all from sunny 'Down Under'...mjf.
I wait for Brett to put in that plug. 😂
She reminds me of Ben Shapiro... lol
I’m so sick of these massive narcissists. They don’t give a damn about anything or anyone other then themselves. And the fact that he’s getting stuff that he hasn’t even earned. Truly disgusting.
So he's got the money so he could rent/buy that apartment. This is insane.
I've been binge-watching your videos since I found your channel yesterday, and I must say you do the best transitions into the sponsored segments.
She does😂😂
Brett's seamless transition from the topic to the ad never ceases to amaze me.
She’s had the best teach her how. Ben will have you in an ad before you even know your watching one. That’s how good he is. What a pro lol.
There's a big difference between being truthfully honest about something and being terrified of something they couldn't ever be anymore different than what they already are
As a Muslim I love watching Youre videos, I’m only twelve and living in a world where people don’t want to be what they were born to be. You are helping me better understand the logical side of society
im also twelve and i agree with you, brett is a great rolemodel
Im 11 and a Muslim and Brent is awesome
Hey little brother or sister. Please do not fall for these morons. There are only 2 genders man & a woman. Hope you don't think like these fools who are ruining humanity on so many levels.
Brett is great though. Just don't get any ideas from any other gay/trans etc crap. That's all fake.
Same except im Jewish
I’m thirteen, and her videos give me new perspectives on a lot of social things
16:00 the man hands…. I can’t 😅
I am 14 and just came across your channel about a week ago. Your videos give me a sliver of hope for my generation- God bless you and all that you do!
Live on and stay away from woke people dear child.
I'm a tiny bit younger and I agree. Brett is giving me a sliver of hope for our generation and its great.
I'm so happy to see people my age too! I'm 15 and it makes me feel like I'm not alone. Stay strong guys! :)
Yes! People my age here! Stay strong guys!
@@klee_.fangirl we need young people like you to follow Kellie jay keen and speak out too.
Throwing a designer bag that was sent to you for “free” is the epitome of entitlement. I put free in quotes because I do question if he actually bought the products himself and just pretended Kate Spade sent them. Whatever the case, his attitude and ego are gross.
The closest thing I have to a designer bag is my $85 Stitch backpack from Disneyland, and I would never in a million years throw that bag. Not just because it’s adorable, and not just because I paid for it myself, but because it was expensive and is high-value, and I was raised to be gentle with my belongings because I can’t always afford replacements
I think you might be right.
“I opened them but I didn’t look at them…”
Then his eyes darted to the left.
“oH mY gOsH BiTcH!”
A dude in a dress.
Exactly!! Well said Brett!!!
Of course he won't apologize. He's a protected class. Doesn't have to. The entitlement from these people is beyond what I ever thought was possible.
Be patient --- he, like all trannies, will get what is coming to him. He can prance around in his pantyhose and high heels from now until he arrives at the flaming gates of Hell; Satan's demons will take over from there.
I remember as a teenager, I was thinking with dread about periods as I has having the most horrible pains, vomiting, diareea, bleeding, being constantly having to make sure my trousers are stained or not, being embarrassed by the smell my periods had the whole experience was the most horrifying thing ever! Especially since I had a 21 days cycle unlike the usual 28 days other ladies had. So I would basically have only 2 weeks in between periods, basically I had 2 periods every month.
Thats me and its heavy too there will be days itll get lighter but then a second period comes up, and i dont know when itll end.. so not only am i finally ways to regulate my depression when im on my period. Because it becomes ×1000 worse to how do i go into work with a heavy flows every week. For 2 weeks or maybe even 3... its super tiring.. the whole thing. Tampons/ pads are expensive. I probably have 2000 worth of tampons/pads for the month ill be having my period
I feel your pain but 28 cycles? I have only seven days I feel so bad for you
Had that for life, now in my 50s menopause is horrendous
@@rushelerobinson2506I think she meant 28 days per cycle
I totally resonate with this. I have the exact same!
Agreed!
I have PCOS, my periods are very irregular but when I do get them for the first few days I have crippling period pains and I'm very heavy.
If someone accidently brought me the wrong flow products it would not be good, especially if I then went out in public.
This trans period mockery is highly offensive and needs to stop.
Biological woman here who refuses to allow myself to be erased. I've already gone through the traumas of rape and domestic violence, had the police literally take the piss out of me when I reported these crimes and let my ex get away with everything Scot free, experienced homelessness and extreme poverty, lived at a woman's refuge, and when I first fled the abuse I had to use toilet roll as I literally could not afford period products due to financial abuse and my son needed to eat, and lost my son after my abusive ex took me to court twice for full custody. I have not seen my now 7 year old since November 2021. I live in the UK, not some third world country.
As a woman, I've been erased and silenced enough in my life. No more...
I'm so sorry you went through that. I hope you are better now ❤
I understand the PCOS thing. I’ve had it since I was a teen. It’s very frustrating not knowing when it will come, and when it does it’s just, you feel angry. One thing I would like to make you aware of is that having PCOS predetermines that you will develop type 2 diabetes. I wish my doctors had made me aware of this when I was young. So take care of yourself.
12:49 I just moved into a trailer with my husband. As a wedding gift, we got furniture. All we had to buy was an entertainment center (which we got from Walmart ), and we are currently looking for a bookcase on the Facebook marketplace. This kid is ungrateful for looking down on used furniture
I was on the pill for a decade because of how awful my period was. And even now, after not being on it for a couple of years it's still incredibly painful and heavy.
It's not something to mock, these people are sick.
Wait I have been on the pill for like a year now. My pediatrician said it will help. You're telling me it doesn't??? Im going through mood swings GALORE for no damn reason?? What do I do? Honestly im scared now im literally 15
@@just_callmesix I realize I may not have been clear, yes it helps but it's not a permanent solution. My menstrual cycle reverted back to how it used to be before I was on the pill once I stopped taking it. Heavy and incredibly painful. It's a frustrating situation.
@@just_callmesix it can help pain, but it depends on the root cause. Endometriosis or adenomyosis can be a cause for heavy/painful periods, and if so, you need a good doctor for it.
@@squidward645 so....what do I do? I just want a normal period cuz im hearing from others that the pill is like...bad...
@@just_callmesix Definitely talk to your obgyn, seeing if you have any underlying health issues and treating them may mitigate some of your worse period symptoms. Good diet and exercise can help a bit too. If you have to go on the pill try to get the lowest dose possible for your age/weight. It's a difficult issue to navigate because doctors just throw the pill at you for everything and don't bother to go beyond that.
I’m not Transphobic, but at this point I would say I’m becoming Grantphobic
I'm not afraid of him either and if he would like to check I'll be happy to prove it.🥊
Being a normal person makes you the boogeyman in their delusional eyes
Me too
Disliking idiots who think they're the "wrong gender (see "sex")" for their grift is not "phobic" anything. It's the classic gaslight of "you're just insecure because it scares you" bullshit
Im grant-intolerant
He called us phobes in his apology lol
Lolll fr 😂 Apologies usually don’t end with name-calling the person you’re supposed to be apologizing too.
people wonder like him wonder why people don’t accept him. because a lot of trans people are this rude, but there are some that are very kind. but ikr. like bruh name us something else 😂 oh wait he can’t
When I bought my first box of tampons at 13, a guy I had a crush on was already in the store. Immediately ditched the tampax and got the OB because the box was much smaller and I could hide it in my hands. I spent the rest of kayak summer camp (yeah, got the first one the first day of summer camp and had to be in a bathing suit every day) learning how to use non applicator tampons on the fly. What fresh hell that was. I wonder how many of these fake women even think about what having periods is really like.
13:02 smoothest transition to a sponsor ever
What Grant Sikes is doing is something I like to call "Transplaining"
That’s funny😂
THAT IS THE PERFECT PHRASE!