*Biggest way to fish them out, is compliments. Do they give compliments freely? How do they act when others compliment you? The way I get through it , is reminding them why they are insecure and give them nothing. An insecure person's biggest fear, is that they don't matter.*
This is a good bc I can see jealous behavior but I refuse to believe some can be jealous bc there’s to be jealous of. But I notice this women neverrr gave me compliments even when other people gave me compliments but the minute I gave her a compliment she started giving them too back.
True they always look offended when someone gives you compliments and they try to take it or undermine it to feed their ego or try to make you sad and feel low about yourself.
As a handsome man, I can relate to EVERYTHING you said here. I've had people cut me off for no reason the better looking I became and posted my professional photos on my social media, or they would stop watching my stories after anything successful happened. My entire life this has been the story. What they don't understand is that I never used to look this good, I was chubby when I was younger and as a result, still have that lack of confidence that I used to have before. They take one look at you now, and project a persona on you that you are going to be stuck up or arrogant, which i've been called, despite keeping to myself. It's honestly crazy how... programmed... these people are. Herd mentality. They can never see the good in others.
People are like they are, I'm happy that you became succesfull. I have not been succesfull at all, it's been a hard ride, well I guess I'm hoping my luck will turn. What I wanted to say they don't like unsuccesful people either, when I was bullied at multiple jobs (I guess it could be my apperence, but still think it's weird) well I was so crushed because I did not do something wrong to be treated like this however when I talk because I was desperate well this is a long time ago now but everyone around me it is your fault??? I analysed the to much but I still don't get what happened and never ever heard someone been treated like I have so it was traumatic. With scares like mine they want to be superior, it shows of pretty well. If you aren't in the middle of success I guess you won't be good enough according to them. Best to be avarage looking and avarage succesfull.
That’s what I’ve been experienced at my job. When I first started I was 50 pounds heavier and everyone told me good morning and used to tell my mom that I was sweet and shy because I was quiet. Now that I lost weight the women at my job have now said that I’m mean and stuck up. I got a compliment from a woman who said I was cute and this older housekeeper told her “ she doesn’t smile” it was weird and I’ve noticed most of my female coworkers have isolated me and there’s a weird energy when I walk in the room and when I dress up they seem to look uncomfortable
Omg only facts. New subscriber here 🎉 Every thing you said has literally happened to me. And I was like what’s wrong with me. Like every one you meet just wants to break you down. It got so exhausting to the point I have just decided to be on my own. My depression is literally gone and l Iook so much better. Thanks girl ❤
Thank you I really felt let down in middle high school and I really didn't know why until now as an adult receiving compliments. It was really unfair and not my fault.
Awesome and deep video. As a man, I know that all that you said also happens to men when they are attractive and/or improve a lot. I also know that some less pretty women tend to stay together with prettier women to that part of the attention they get from males "trickles down" to them. In at least one case I heard, men tried to sleep with the ex-girlfriends of a handsome man to boost their ego and prove him they were more attractive than him. People are crazy.
I’m an average (at best) woman and I’ve experienced all of this. I just didn’t have people trying to convince me it was because of my looks. I did have cops tell me I wasn’t attractive enough to be stalked and sexually assaulted by an abusive man who tried to unalive me. I lost a lot of friends because I wasn’t pretty enough for these things to happen and therefore must be lying. I logically know that toxic men are a problem for all women, and our looks have nothing to do with it. They choose to harm women, and we happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time because these dudes don’t coke with a warning label. I had to have a trauma therapist teach me that I was valid as a survivor, and I wasn’t just exaggerating, and everyone who said ‘you should be grateful a man even pays attention to you’ was ignorant, and women who do this are just trying to turn abuse into a compliment. I don’t have anyone celebrating me if I admit I momentarily feel cute in a new outfit, and I get the same level of hate if I criticize my flaws. But it’s super easy and painless to just not share your opinion on your own appearance. You can just as easily compliment the person talking to you, or offer something entertaining or insightful. Of course I get hate for my looks online. Everyone does. I don’t get to pretend none of the comments are true though. But they are just about my looks and not anything more important than that. Call me ugly. At least I am a decent person who works hard, has plenty to offer as a friend, who is living a life with a good partner and plenty of loved ones. I NEED to be attractive because I don’t NEED to get by on looks. But my experience is just average. An unattractive person has a much harder time than me. I used to be more unattractive growing up and kids would attack me for it. They wouldn’t even know me, or know my name. They would just jump me and hit me, or push me down stairs because I had head gear braces, unflattering glasses, and a medical condition that affected how I looked in a lot of ways when it acted up. I’d take a small number of people thinking I’m not humble enough despite actually being humble, over that. I may have been passed over for a promotion when I was more qualified, in favor of a pretty but mediocre employee who had not been there as long, a few times. But an unattractive person experiences that a lot more often, even with average looking mediocre employees. They may even be denied jobs because ‘we want to send a certain image and you just aren’t in line with that image.’ The women living this life only get harassment from toxic men, and few sincere attempts at a relationship because these types of men assume they are insecure, which is unfortunately common. They know that insecurity can make them deep aren’t and people probably tell them ‘you are lucky a man is playing attention to you’ way more often than I’ve heard it. They don’t just have to deal with average treatment from other but they get another kind of ‘special treatment.’ They have to do better than other people, and follow stricter rules and guidelines. They can’t just be decent people working towards being the best version of themselves possible, but near perfect in character. Beauty shouldn’t be rewarded as it isn’t a skill, takes no important effort, and contributes nothing of substance. The absence of it should also not be punished, as it does not cause any harm, and it doesn’t take away anything of value to be around it. Looks should matter very little because they are only a surface trait. They are not on the same level as kindness, intelligence, work ethic, creativity, and actual gifts people can have and use to benefit others. Be prepared for a rude awakening because people are growing tired of giving pretty people special treatment just because they are used to it. We don’t want ti hurt you. We just don’t think you should be hurt over receiving the same boundaries and limits we normalized as kids.
Thank u so so much for shining inside out for all of us, women who felt this way all life... They want to bring our light down. I am proud of you, keep going ! Your are a gemstone. ❤
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*Biggest way to fish them out, is compliments. Do they give compliments freely? How do they act when others compliment you? The way I get through it , is reminding them why they are insecure and give them nothing. An insecure person's biggest fear, is that they don't matter.*
This is a good bc I can see jealous behavior but I refuse to believe some can be jealous bc there’s to be jealous of. But I notice this women neverrr gave me compliments even when other people gave me compliments but the minute I gave her a compliment she started giving them too back.
True they always look offended when someone gives you compliments and they try to take it or undermine it to feed their ego or try to make you sad and feel low about yourself.
As a handsome man, I can relate to EVERYTHING you said here. I've had people cut me off for no reason the better looking I became and posted my professional photos on my social media, or they would stop watching my stories after anything successful happened. My entire life this has been the story. What they don't understand is that I never used to look this good, I was chubby when I was younger and as a result, still have that lack of confidence that I used to have before. They take one look at you now, and project a persona on you that you are going to be stuck up or arrogant, which i've been called, despite keeping to myself. It's honestly crazy how... programmed... these people are. Herd mentality. They can never see the good in others.
People are like they are, I'm happy that you became succesfull. I have not been succesfull at all, it's been a hard ride, well I guess I'm hoping my luck will turn. What I wanted to say they don't like unsuccesful people either, when I was bullied at multiple jobs (I guess it could be my apperence, but still think it's weird) well I was so crushed because I did not do something wrong to be treated like this however when I talk because I was desperate well this is a long time ago now but everyone around me it is your fault??? I analysed the to much but I still don't get what happened and never ever heard someone been treated like I have so it was traumatic. With scares like mine they want to be superior, it shows of pretty well. If you aren't in the middle of success I guess you won't be good enough according to them. Best to be avarage looking and avarage succesfull.
That’s what I’ve been experienced at my job. When I first started I was 50 pounds heavier and everyone told me good morning and used to tell my mom that I was sweet and shy because I was quiet. Now that I lost weight the women at my job have now said that I’m mean and stuck up. I got a compliment from a woman who said I was cute and this older housekeeper told her “ she doesn’t smile” it was weird and I’ve noticed most of my female coworkers have isolated me and there’s a weird energy when I walk in the room and when I dress up they seem to look uncomfortable
They are jealous bse you lost weight and look much better. Just live your life and ignore them girl
@@sabri1913 um, she can't
girl literally works with them?
@@religion-freeLOL
Not just threatened but they assume shit aboit uour life and character and take advantage of it
Yes they either take advantage or try to abuse you!
Omg only facts. New subscriber here 🎉 Every thing you said has literally happened to me. And I was like what’s wrong with me. Like every one you meet just wants to break you down. It got so exhausting to the point I have just decided to be on my own. My depression is literally gone and l Iook so much better. Thanks girl ❤
This is sucha spiritual perspective so appreciated💜
You’re welcome🫶🏾🥹
Thank you I really felt let down in middle high school and I really didn't know why until now as an adult receiving compliments. It was really unfair and not my fault.
your voice is so pretty and soothing
Thank you 🤗🤭
What is beautiful for some people it can't be ugly for others.Sometimes is just pure hate...
Awesome and deep video. As a man, I know that all that you said also happens to men when they are attractive and/or improve a lot. I also know that some less pretty women tend to stay together with prettier women to that part of the attention they get from males "trickles down" to them. In at least one case I heard, men tried to sleep with the ex-girlfriends of a handsome man to boost their ego and prove him they were more attractive than him. People are crazy.
Always look your best!! I've gotten job offers just by looking my best !
Yesss and smelling good!!
New subscriber here😊 you're so pretty i'm glad that you don't let anyone get you down and great advice 🎉🎉
Thank you so much and thanks for subbing. Mosey likes company and we don’t entertain that here!
Gratitude for this video gorgeous New subbie 😊💜
Thanks for subbing and welcome to my channel🫶🏾🥹
I’m an average (at best) woman and I’ve experienced all of this. I just didn’t have people trying to convince me it was because of my looks. I did have cops tell me I wasn’t attractive enough to be stalked and sexually assaulted by an abusive man who tried to unalive me. I lost a lot of friends because I wasn’t pretty enough for these things to happen and therefore must be lying. I logically know that toxic men are a problem for all women, and our looks have nothing to do with it. They choose to harm women, and we happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time because these dudes don’t coke with a warning label. I had to have a trauma therapist teach me that I was valid as a survivor, and I wasn’t just exaggerating, and everyone who said ‘you should be grateful a man even pays attention to you’ was ignorant, and women who do this are just trying to turn abuse into a compliment.
I don’t have anyone celebrating me if I admit I momentarily feel cute in a new outfit, and I get the same level of hate if I criticize my flaws. But it’s super easy and painless to just not share your opinion on your own appearance. You can just as easily compliment the person talking to you, or offer something entertaining or insightful.
Of course I get hate for my looks online. Everyone does. I don’t get to pretend none of the comments are true though. But they are just about my looks and not anything more important than that. Call me ugly. At least I am a decent person who works hard, has plenty to offer as a friend, who is living a life with a good partner and plenty of loved ones. I NEED to be attractive because I don’t NEED to get by on looks.
But my experience is just average. An unattractive person has a much harder time than me. I used to be more unattractive growing up and kids would attack me for it. They wouldn’t even know me, or know my name. They would just jump me and hit me, or push me down stairs because I had head gear braces, unflattering glasses, and a medical condition that affected how I looked in a lot of ways when it acted up. I’d take a small number of people thinking I’m not humble enough despite actually being humble, over that. I may have been passed over for a promotion when I was more qualified, in favor of a pretty but mediocre employee who had not been there as long, a few times. But an unattractive person experiences that a lot more often, even with average looking mediocre employees. They may even be denied jobs because ‘we want to send a certain image and you just aren’t in line with that image.’ The women living this life only get harassment from toxic men, and few sincere attempts at a relationship because these types of men assume they are insecure, which is unfortunately common. They know that insecurity can make them deep aren’t and people probably tell them ‘you are lucky a man is playing attention to you’ way more often than I’ve heard it. They don’t just have to deal with average treatment from other but they get another kind of ‘special treatment.’ They have to do better than other people, and follow stricter rules and guidelines. They can’t just be decent people working towards being the best version of themselves possible, but near perfect in character. Beauty shouldn’t be rewarded as it isn’t a skill, takes no important effort, and contributes nothing of substance. The absence of it should also not be punished, as it does not cause any harm, and it doesn’t take away anything of value to be around it. Looks should matter very little because they are only a surface trait. They are not on the same level as kindness, intelligence, work ethic, creativity, and actual gifts people can have and use to benefit others. Be prepared for a rude awakening because people are growing tired of giving pretty people special treatment just because they are used to it. We don’t want ti hurt you. We just don’t think you should be hurt over receiving the same boundaries and limits we normalized as kids.
Thank u so so much for shining inside out for all of us, women who felt this way all life...
They want to bring our light down.
I am proud of you, keep going ! Your are a gemstone. ❤
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Thank you for talking about this. We women need to shout it from the rooftops. KNOW YOUR WORTH!
You in the thumbnail 😍😍
Thank you
That happened to me and i did not even feel that cute
You should do ASMR. Your voice is so soothing
I will try. Thank you
Are you ok?
Your so pretty btw i wish ❤ your def of true beauty
in my opinion
Awww thank you darling
Thank you for making this vedio
You’re welcome
❤️❤️❤️loved this
Am glad you did!
The right pic in the thumbnail looks like me after way too many joints.
Let’s see what u look like without make up than we can see if u are pretty
Congratulations!!!you're the kind of people she is talking about. Thank you for giving us an example.