I Love this!! Ive always thought best way of being a healthy man is being tough and tender at the same time. Knowing of who to protect and fight for. Where to achieve and provide. With being tender with those around you who are VERY important in your life while still standing on firm principles and values. (i could go on but I would be writing forever.)
7:00 This is my solution: Replace the "dating scene/game" with Courting and some level of Arranged Marriages where you focus on shared values, goals, lifestyle preferences, expectations and faith. In my personal experience, I have known my life's purpose for the last 10 yrs and I'm currently 34 while never being in a relationship. We also need to bring back men's networking centers where men and boys of all generations can meet, socialize and network so we can learn from each other or even those looking for work can find a job.
...Helpful Clarity for culture from a year ago. 😁 Nick Frietas, a man with a supreme sense of humor. He speaks truth! Amen. (I looked that book Nick & Lila mention online, I don't know how I missed it. "The Warrior Poet Way.")
Watched the original video, Mr. Freitas really glazed over the whole divorce aspect. His one bit of answering the question was that his parents admitted their failures, but he didn't actually say how that helped or how that affected him. I think I struggle with this now in that I can't fully believe God is a good father, and that the Church and Mary are good mothers, because God gave me a father and a mother that failed me through their separation.
He isn't focused on divorce recovery, he is focused on strengthening marriage. Alzheimers association doesn't focus on cancer🤷♀️. You should keep listening and change your focus, unless you do you will just get more of what you already have. What you focus on increases.
God demonstrates what his fatherhood looks like throughout scripture. He uses the prophet Hosea to show that He will never leave his bride no matter what. Hosea married a prostitute. He was faithful to her and raised her children as his own even while she continued to prostitute herself. This represented God's relationship with Israel (the old covenant church). Your parents set a bad example, but you don't have to associate that example with God. Consistently throughout all scripture, God says over and over, "I will never leave you or forsake you." He is faithful when your earthly parents weren't. Please, don't hold Him accountable for your human parents' mistakes.
I am going to be honest. Men should advocate for themselves mainly. If society wants us to work for them, it better work for our benefit in return. The example of Ukraine shows how the conservative people have no idea why the world ended up the way it did. Acting like men ought to defend women as a whole is the problem. Men should only defend the women that are in their close circle that are actually willingly serving a purpose in helping the man.
There are things countries do as a whole, that will make you go 'now that's just wrong' Feminism is one of those things, but so is sending your women to fight.
@@Neoteny-j4z Why should women get an automatic vote without the potential for forced sacrifice that men are expected to? Many women nowadays do not want children. Let them fight or handle logistics. The ones who want children can get married and pregnant before conscription calls them. If the country bars men from leaving, it should bar women from leaving as well. Alternatively let both men and women flee and have no conscription whatsoever. Or conscription for all but it only fills noncombat roles.
@zs9652 I'd like to explore a middle ground somewhere, where men are respected for for the society they built, maintain and protect. And where women can voice their concerns. Ever since Massachucetts Bay Colony used to rescue Barbadian women from slavery, the fact they had an egalitarian polity meant the 16yr old rescued girl had the same voting power as Gen Gibbons or Gov. Winthrop was a fly in the ointment. As it turns out that girl from Barbados , along with the Goodwin sisters, started the most famous kerfuffle in American history. All that to say, I think weighted ballots ought to be seriously considered.
This comment isn't to say there isn't a typical behavior for boys, but I will say that I've never been physically inclined for anything. I take care of my health of course, but I am much more intellectually inclined. And there should be nothing wrong with that from a faithful, Catholic, masculine standpoint. Not all men are the portrayals shown in the Knights of Columbus videos, climbing telephone poles and electric towers to hang wires, doing heavy labor, or serving in the military or armed service.
I hear a non-stop litany, from both sides, about what men need in order to be productive. I don't hear anyone addressing WHY men should be productive. That's a serious question that really needs to be addressed. If you've got a large number of young men who WANT to be productive, and are failing, then what they need is a logical question. But that train of thought should have been begun 20 years ago. Now, a large and increasing number of men are simply checking out. They no longer have any interest in serving a system that has shown them nothing but disdain for their entire lives. I don't know what it would take to recapture these young men. But I know that nothing you try will succeed as long as screeching feminists are in power and cucks are toting water for them. If you can't fix that, then nothing else matters.
Do you see women asking why they need to be productive? Most women understand that if they don't study and don't get a good job (a productive job or be productive to their families in some way - whether working inside the house or outside of it, and many times women find themselves burdened being stuck doing both while the man in her life is lazy or childishly depressed because not everything is happening the way he wants it to happen), they will end up homeless on the streets and be abused terribly by the men and even other women around them. Most women understand that in this world, you need money to eat and live with dignity and raise your children (if you have them), and you can not live like an island either (even if you are single and content, you need some community). They don't expect to be bribed to be decent human beings (if they see a child or a neighbor who needs help, they tend to help). I have never seen women whining online on why they should look out for shady activities in their neighborhoods, as a matter of fact online weirdos came up with the "Karen" label to shame women out of their instincts, when they notice something not right and report it. Now sure are some women racist or annoying and mean? Yes! Women are human and diverse, just like men. However it is better to be a busybody in your community, than to be completely destructive and detached (as some online men seem to be). Women, generally speaking, understand that no one will respect them and they will expose themselves to so much danger, if they don't have a stable job and a good community system (unless she comes from a rich family). So why do some men have this childish view of the world, that the world (and women ) need to bribe them in order for them to be decent and useful and productive, do they not think that they need a roof over their head and food on their table, and someone who cares about them because they also care? How are some men so detached from the world around them? Side note: Now of course, I personally believe that our safety and usefulness ultimately comes from the Lord, He is our ultimate protector and provider. When a person walks with the Lord, they will automatically start to care about those around them (especially their family), and they will become useful (if they weren't before, as they get renewed in the heart) or more useful than they already are/were (as we become more similar to Christ in character and habits), and society will flourish without any "I need to be bribed to be good and useful" short sighted/foolish mentality which will only lead to bitterness (as a person with this mentality will never be satisfied or happy with their life). I know from my life, that once I adopted the mentality of "everything you do, do it as unto the Lord", my life has become so much better, peaceful, vibrant, and joyful... always remember that you will reap what you sow.
he's right on point! love it! Men are so important and women too, but men are the ones that can protect us and be a great example with the future generations. we're both important but they're the foundation and we complement each other, if we love each other respectfully.
Hello ma’am please help me we need your financially help for my mother she suffering kidney failures and HIV disease please if you are loved your family you can understand my situation please help me I face poverty’s persecutions hardship beings a humans I’m just humble request you please help me 🙏
Its always guys that have been married since they were teenagers trying to emphasize the "importance" of a wife and family. You've never been in the shoes of the grown single men you call yourselves speaking to.
No, he doesn't want to control us. This is a silly, immature comment. He's just isn't lazy, and shirking his duty toward women by pretending to "respect" us, like holier-than-thou, lazy, feminist men.
@priscillalongworth1720 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 He trained his daughter for her to be voiceless to get married. She trained her for a man. To ask his permission to get married. He is not respect you.
MGTOW life is FREEDOM. Peace, Quiet, Freedom. No Marriage. No Cohabitation. No Manipulation. No Usury. No Complaining. No Arguing. No Waste. No Gossip. No Women!!!!!!!!!!!!
I Love this!! Ive always thought best way of being a healthy man is being tough and tender at the same time. Knowing of who to protect and fight for. Where to achieve and provide. With being tender with those around you who are VERY important in your life while still standing on firm principles and values. (i could go on but I would be writing forever.)
7:00 This is my solution: Replace the "dating scene/game" with Courting and some level of Arranged Marriages where you focus on shared values, goals, lifestyle preferences, expectations and faith. In my personal experience, I have known my life's purpose for the last 10 yrs and I'm currently 34 while never being in a relationship. We also need to bring back men's networking centers where men and boys of all generations can meet, socialize and network so we can learn from each other or even those looking for work can find a job.
I’m over 45, never married but not on purpose. I have always had at least a few life-changing goals my whole life.
...Helpful Clarity for culture from a year ago. 😁 Nick Frietas, a man with a supreme sense of humor. He speaks truth! Amen. (I looked that book Nick & Lila mention online, I don't know how I missed it. "The Warrior Poet Way.")
best colab :)
Watched the original video, Mr. Freitas really glazed over the whole divorce aspect. His one bit of answering the question was that his parents admitted their failures, but he didn't actually say how that helped or how that affected him.
I think I struggle with this now in that I can't fully believe God is a good father, and that the Church and Mary are good mothers, because God gave me a father and a mother that failed me through their separation.
He isn't focused on divorce recovery, he is focused on strengthening marriage. Alzheimers association doesn't focus on cancer🤷♀️. You should keep listening and change your focus, unless you do you will just get more of what you already have. What you focus on increases.
@@rhondaharris398you should read the book Not my Fault by Henry Cloud. It’s changing my life!
God demonstrates what his fatherhood looks like throughout scripture. He uses the prophet Hosea to show that He will never leave his bride no matter what. Hosea married a prostitute. He was faithful to her and raised her children as his own even while she continued to prostitute herself. This represented God's relationship with Israel (the old covenant church).
Your parents set a bad example, but you don't have to associate that example with God. Consistently throughout all scripture, God says over and over, "I will never leave you or forsake you." He is faithful when your earthly parents weren't. Please, don't hold Him accountable for your human parents' mistakes.
Very good talk.
I am going to be honest. Men should advocate for themselves mainly. If society wants us to work for them, it better work for our benefit in return.
The example of Ukraine shows how the conservative people have no idea why the world ended up the way it did. Acting like men ought to defend women as a whole is the problem. Men should only defend the women that are in their close circle that are actually willingly serving a purpose in helping the man.
There are things countries do as a whole, that will make you go 'now that's just wrong' Feminism is one of those things, but so is sending your women to fight.
What do you want women to do in terms of "helping?"
@@megankissinger8269 Mainly close mutually helpful friendly relationships, romantic relationships or positive familial relationships.
@@Neoteny-j4z Why should women get an automatic vote without the potential for forced sacrifice that men are expected to?
Many women nowadays do not want children. Let them fight or handle logistics. The ones who want children can get married and pregnant before conscription calls them.
If the country bars men from leaving, it should bar women from leaving as well.
Alternatively let both men and women flee and have no conscription whatsoever. Or conscription for all but it only fills noncombat roles.
@zs9652 I'd like to explore a middle ground somewhere, where men are respected for for the society they built, maintain and protect. And where women can voice their concerns. Ever since Massachucetts Bay Colony used to rescue Barbadian women from slavery, the fact they had an egalitarian polity meant the 16yr old rescued girl had the same voting power as Gen Gibbons or Gov. Winthrop was a fly in the ointment. As it turns out that girl from Barbados , along with the Goodwin sisters, started the most famous kerfuffle in American history.
All that to say, I think weighted ballots ought to be seriously considered.
Truth
This comment isn't to say there isn't a typical behavior for boys, but I will say that I've never been physically inclined for anything. I take care of my health of course, but I am much more intellectually inclined.
And there should be nothing wrong with that from a faithful, Catholic, masculine standpoint. Not all men are the portrayals shown in the Knights of Columbus videos, climbing telephone poles and electric towers to hang wires, doing heavy labor, or serving in the military or armed service.
I hear a non-stop litany, from both sides, about what men need in order to be productive.
I don't hear anyone addressing WHY men should be productive.
That's a serious question that really needs to be addressed.
If you've got a large number of young men who WANT to be productive, and are failing, then what they need is a logical question.
But that train of thought should have been begun 20 years ago.
Now, a large and increasing number of men are simply checking out. They no longer have any interest in serving a system that has shown them nothing but disdain for their entire lives.
I don't know what it would take to recapture these young men. But I know that nothing you try will succeed as long as screeching feminists are in power and cucks are toting water for them. If you can't fix that, then nothing else matters.
Do you see women asking why they need to be productive? Most women understand that if they don't study and don't get a good job (a productive job or be productive to their families in some way - whether working inside the house or outside of it, and many times women find themselves burdened being stuck doing both while the man in her life is lazy or childishly depressed because not everything is happening the way he wants it to happen), they will end up homeless on the streets and be abused terribly by the men and even other women around them.
Most women understand that in this world, you need money to eat and live with dignity and raise your children (if you have them), and you can not live like an island either (even if you are single and content, you need some community). They don't expect to be bribed to be decent human beings (if they see a child or a neighbor who needs help, they tend to help). I have never seen women whining online on why they should look out for shady activities in their neighborhoods, as a matter of fact online weirdos came up with the "Karen" label to shame women out of their instincts, when they notice something not right and report it. Now sure are some women racist or annoying and mean? Yes! Women are human and diverse, just like men. However it is better to be a busybody in your community, than to be completely destructive and detached (as some online men seem to be).
Women, generally speaking, understand that no one will respect them and they will expose themselves to so much danger, if they don't have a stable job and a good community system (unless she comes from a rich family). So why do some men have this childish view of the world, that the world (and women ) need to bribe them in order for them to be decent and useful and productive, do they not think that they need a roof over their head and food on their table, and someone who cares about them because they also care? How are some men so detached from the world around them?
Side note: Now of course, I personally believe that our safety and usefulness ultimately comes from the Lord, He is our ultimate protector and provider. When a person walks with the Lord, they will automatically start to care about those around them (especially their family), and they will become useful (if they weren't before, as they get renewed in the heart) or more useful than they already are/were (as we become more similar to Christ in character and habits), and society will flourish without any "I need to be bribed to be good and useful" short sighted/foolish mentality which will only lead to bitterness (as a person with this mentality will never be satisfied or happy with their life). I know from my life, that once I adopted the mentality of "everything you do, do it as unto the Lord", my life has become so much better, peaceful, vibrant, and joyful... always remember that you will reap what you sow.
❤
How are 63% of men and 33% of women single? The math isn't mathing unless there are a bunch of underground harems or Mormons.
Women are dating older, more financially successful men. Those numbers are based on men and women aged 18-29
Women would rather be a side piece for higher tier guys than "settle" for marriage and family with a normal guy
The first one, there are men that have 4-6-8 women at the same time, we used to call them hoes, now they demand to be called empowered.
@@aw-2130my husband is 6 years younger then me
@@Kroh13 Then you are just a statistical outlier. His claim is a statistical one. If his claim is true, then you just happen to be the outlier.
he's right on point! love it! Men are so important and women too, but men are the ones that can protect us and be a great example with the future generations. we're both important but they're the foundation and we complement each other, if we love each other respectfully.
is nick Brazilian?
He is of Portuguese ancestry
I'm chuckling because I'm a conservative woman, and I need a mission, too! No gender confusion at all, but I do.
Good luck with that
I need a woman to encourage me to do anything...
open the bible
That's just sad. Women have no interest in participating in a relationship like that.
Why do you need a women for that
showing emotion is masculine and we have been trained by society that as men, we need to be stoic and emotionless
I like my men stoic. Stoic and emotionless aren’t the same.
Hello ma’am please help me we need your financially help for my mother she suffering kidney failures and HIV disease please if you are loved your family you can understand my situation please help me I face poverty’s persecutions hardship beings a humans I’m just humble request you please help me 🙏
He really didn’t answer your question.
He did. He said, “give the me a mission.” He then described some of his personal missions.
Host: what do we do about a mass epidemic of lonley, directionless men?
Boomer: hang on let me tell you about my wife and kids
Its always guys that have been married since they were teenagers trying to emphasize the "importance" of a wife and family. You've never been in the shoes of the grown single men you call yourselves speaking to.
I've noticed that too. It's really annoying
This boy Does that care about women He wants to control them.
No, he doesn't want to control us. This is a silly, immature comment. He's just isn't lazy, and shirking his duty toward women by pretending to "respect" us, like holier-than-thou, lazy, feminist men.
@priscillalongworth1720 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 He trained his daughter for her to be voiceless to get married. She trained her for a man. To ask his permission to get married. He is not respect you.
@@priscillalongworth1720 G-d bless you, Ma'am
@@priscillalongworth1720 Feminist men are controlled the same way conservative men are. Both groups are full of simps and idiots.
Is that a sentence? 😂 And you are incorrect. He represents Fairfax's true feelings on these matters. That's right, a blue area elected him!
i will stop gang stalking
MGTOW life is FREEDOM. Peace, Quiet, Freedom. No Marriage. No Cohabitation. No Manipulation. No Usury. No Complaining. No Arguing. No Waste. No Gossip. No Women!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sounds pathetic and lonely.
I'm a little confused about how mgtow implies no usury lol.