Just showed this to my daughter. She is 5. We were talking about not crying all the time, and being mentally strong. This was the best demonstration of being mentally fit. You ROCK !! AM HAVING NO MORE CONVERSATION ON THIS. Thanks (2023-10-23)
@@jenna1388 I meant it as one, but why do you say it's not a compliment. Is it my wording? Essentially what I wanted to convey is that this lady has a difficulty that she did not choose and could easily be overcome and be down and out. But she chooses to be strong and goes about her life is a positive manner spreading positivity in the process. I wanted my daughter to learn from her example that while we cannot control all things in our life, we can make ourselves so Mentally strong that we are able to overcome the most difficult of circumstances. Now the abridged version may have sounded different, but English is a second language so I may have written it in a way that is offensive. Unless of course you think that this in itself is not a compliment. If you do, that's fine. We can agree to disagree and move on with our lives.
@@acesibhey don’t beat your self up for it the person was probably a troll, your showing your daughter to be strong mentally and many people can do many things even with certain difficulties and challenges
@@acesib Your comments are very nice and positive. You are also a great mother. I also admire your very good command of the English language, especially as it’s not your first language.
I’m a recent paraplegic and everything is a chore to do. Really time consuming, takes a while to learn patience. I still get frustrated with how difficult that the little things are
I grew up with my uncle a quad. He dove in ocean and hit a rock at age 14. He married his physical therapist. He was a computer operator. They owned a beautiful home. He was a man of incredible faith in Christ and led many to a deeper faith. He loved to do wood burning art. He did a tandem skydive to celebrate his 40 yrs in the chair. He passed in his 60s.. I wish you all the best in your future! Fight for it
Wow the things that all of us getting around normally take for granted, we all should be grateful much more than we are, thank you Kathryn for opening so many eyes!
Literally the BEST video I’ve ever watched on UA-cam. I’ve always been curious. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. You’re awesome, many blessings 💞
At 53 (3 years ago) I became a double amputee due to diabetes. I was a drummer who walked at least 5 miles a day, a lot of that on the beach, so my legs were very important. Loosing them was a living hell. The depression and feeling of helplessness was nearly unbearable. NOW, I’m coping much better but still have a lot of dread for the future. Seeing your grace and attitude is up lifting for me. I subscribed to your channel because I think watching your journey will let me know I’m not the only one with issues and that we can over come them. It’s one day at a time… I guess that goes for all of us huh? Hang in there and I’ll try to do the same. God speed.
Your on my mind friend... We never know why God allows these things to happen, but I say this one thing it's all able to work out for His Devine plan. Sometimes we go through life passing Jesus by, but He sees something in us that attracts Himself to us and He will stop at nothing to slow us down and humble us in order to get our attention and as harsh as it may seem at the time, not every thing that happens is what Jesus had intended for our lifes, but He's A Master at turning it around for His Glory. In wich is well deserved. So just think how special you may be to the KING!!! JESUS MESSIAH
My aunt Muriel got Polio and became wheelchair bound in the late 50's. She had four kids and my uncle left her. She never remarried. She raised my cousins and would drive to come visit us all the time. We were little and always asked if we could ride in her wheelchair while she visited. She was the strongest, most amazing person ever until she passed away last year. She outlived my parents and all other uncles and aunts. I remember her car having similar controls as yours. Muriel never let anything get in her way. I don't know your story, but you are so young and have an amazing life ahead of you as long as you never let anything get in your way. :)
Kathryn is a beautiful young woman and it's a blessing that she shares her struggles (and triumphs) dealing with a major medical condition. Kudos to Ms. Granger, I'm sure there are many out there with conditions similar to yours who can and will benefit from your educational and aspirational videos. Keep it up!
This was such an encouraging video for me to watch at this time. I had a below the knee right leg amputation Sept 2020 got fitted for my prosthesis in Apr 2021. September I started learning to drive with hand controls. I never thought I would learn but with perseverance I just finished my 10th lesson. I go for my assessment this week. I love to see you drive it seems effortlessly. Thanks for sharing it means so much.
Hope you got there. If it's any motivation, I knew a guy here in the UK who lost use of his right foot and still drove a manual ("stick") with hand controls and a pedal clutch - you can do it!
Kathryn, Thank you. I am an older disabled verteran and I'm just getting into my new wheelchair life. This little video gave me the information I needed to practice getting in and out of a vehicle. Just seeing it done shows me what I need to know to learn and practice it. I'll be watching some more of your content for little tips and helps. Thanks.
You are A real inspiration. I lost my daughter over 20 years ago if I had another daughter I would be proud to call such a Beautiful young LADY like your self my daughter your amazing best wishes Ronan Wilco ❤ LOL
Of course your physically strong after working that wheelchair for some time now. What I'm so impressed and encouraged about is the mental strength you show, as if this is no inconvenience at all. You have the physical beauty for sure, but also have managed to build the mental beauty of taking life as it is and not what we would want it. I was born into a horrible family with awful parents that loved drugs and alcohol far more than children and yet I managed to use that as fuel to show me what not to be, rather than follow in their foot steps. Today I'm a highly responsible, hardest working, funny guy you can imagine and I see that in you as well. Nothing is going to get you down, and you have a real gift communicating with others. May God bless and keep you, and one day soon a miracle happens for you and that wheelchair will become a distant memory. Peace and happiness to you.
Fascinating, we take simple things for granted, and we still sit around and cry all day, about how difficult life is, but look at her... I need a friend like this, such a positive person.
I understand your comment about having this type of person for a friend- strong, capable, not a victim always looking for sympathy, but someone who brings something to the relationship rather than milks it for what she can get out of it - in other words, a giver instead of a taker. Women have expressed envy at the friendship between my best friend and me -“I wish I had that kind of friend”. We just look at each other, laugh, and say, “BE that kind of friend, and you will have one.” It’s that simple.
Thank you for this awesome video. You are a true warrior. I can’t believe how I’ve taken for granted just being able to get up in the morning, get ready and then just get in my car all on my own. I wish you nothing but the best.
Awesome young lady! Love your attitude and can do way! I been injured 30 years and have learned patience’s is a gift and a blessing! Best of luck and good wishes, if you ever need a ear or eyes please reach out.
Thanks so much for your great video! I'm 75 and had a stroke 3 years ago. I'm learning to walk, and can do a few steps at a time. My friend said "Hey, walking could take a year or even several years, , so why not try driving!" So, I tried left-foot pedals, too hard for me. Now I'm getting hand controls, push/rock. You are an inspiration to all of us!! I couldn' do the manual wheelchair like you, so I got an automatic ramp. When I watch your video that segment at the beginnning is VERY impressive!! If there were a Nobel Prize for grit and determination, I'd nominate you! Keep it up!
Thank you soooo much for sharing this! I am a new paraplegic and feel so lost, I'm getting ready to drive and am overwhelmed with what my options are and the cost of everything. The wheelchair vans are great but they are so expensive and hard to find so this really helped me to see that I don't need all of that. I still don't know how to get in the seat without a transfer board and have never taken my wheelchair apart but now i'm going to practice. Thank you for all of your help!
Am sorry to hear you are feeling lost, i hope you're ok. Just wanted to say i'm half way through Sophie L Morgan's book Driving Forward's (i don't do reading but am listening to it through Audible) and its fking great. Its about her journey before and after her car accident at 18. obvs book isn't gonna change anything but i found comfort in it :) I hope 4 months on from ur comment you've got ur whip 🚙💨💨🌴
Mad respect to you, Kathryn! I learned how to take care of my mom after she had a stroke, because she was paralyzed on the left side of her body. I hope that you have someone who helps you. God Bless you!
I have a close friend with MS she's able to walk short distances but it's progressively getting worse in her legs, this and similar videos are very helpful and encouraging in case she may need to go through a similar journey and I want to be with her on that journey. Thank you and God bless you!
i just want to thank you for being such an amazing friend to her. it’s so hard and lonely with chronic illnesses and so many people leave people when they get sick. I’m sure they appreciate you so so much.
Katherine , you are amazing! I know you might disagree, but you explain things so clearly and calmly it seems that you have such a great attitude. Your mythology and demonstration are superb. Thanks for being an inspiration to me.
Thanks so much for your video! It made my day to watch it. :) I am in my fifties and struggle with anxiety/ depression, but watching you gave me a real perspective on dealing with adversity and overcoming struggles. You are awesome Kathryn!
My dad had a quad injury when I was 5 (35 years ago) and had a severe brain injury. We had an agency connect us with a lady that was a t3/t4 complete spinal injury like yourself to drive our family around when needed. She was with us for over 20 years and a big part of our family. There was nothing she couldn't do and this was before all the new technology gadgets out there. So know there is no limit to anything you want to achieve as long as you can dream it and you have faith along the way. Work hard and maybe down the road you can get a chair lift setup for your car/van. I remember when she got that and it was a game-changer. You are a rock star, God bless!
Thanks so much for your video. I've just started using the same kind of hand controls as you, so it was so relevant and instructive to watch you. I'm working on how to get that fluid motion from throttle to break and maintain a steady speed. Thanks again!
Thank you so much for sharing. You are so courageous and beautiful, in and out. I have shared your video with my two grandchildren and the rest of my family.
Thank you so much for this video. I have MS and my most recent flare has left me unable to drive. My dad has been driving my kids to and from school for the past 6 months, but this is unsustainable, I honestly thought I would have to give my ex husband full custody of my kids, but your video has given me hope. Thank you so much! ❤️
I want to thank you for this! Wow. Because of this video I ordered some hand controls off Amazon, rented a car to try it, and boom, I’m driving again. I’m much bigger, and not ready to lift into an suv, so I got a convertible so I can pick my chair up and put it in the passenger seat. Thank you for helping me get mobil again! Please, if you can, keep these videos coming. You are really helping people.
do you mind sharing what hand controls you got? I’m trying to start driving again after being in my wheelchair for over a year. I miss going out by myself
This video popped up in my feed, never watched your channel before, you have my utmost respect, I can't even imagine what it must be like for you. My neighbor is in the same situation that you are in, and I have watched him get in and out of his car the same way that you do, you seem like such a strong person to me. I see this video was posted 3 years ago, but I still wanted to comment anyway.
@@TheFalseShepphard "that isn't"? When being a pedant or an asshole, although one is rarely distinguishable from the other, you may want to watch your own spelling and/or grammar. Or better yet, just don't be a dick in the first place to somebody that is just being kind.
This is amazing! Thank you so much for this! I myself am a paraplegic and I’m in the learning to drive part. Everything you said and showed was amazing! Thank you so much! I totally understand what your talking about. I’ve been in a chair for close to 20 years. My accident happened when I was young. Before I saw this I got a positive influence from another wheelchair UA-camr. Aaron Wheelz. I started understanding life is difficult this way but it’s a harder and in a positive mindset stronger push to help with people paraplegic (wheelchair bound) i poloskied and play wheelchair basketball. Thank you for this. ❤
Great videos! You’ve been through a lot clearly, your so brave/strong and such an inspiration for others in this situation. I’m so sorry for your loss, I know it’s hard. I’m loving the videos. I’m curious after watching this video: how do you maintain the speed limits? Cuz I see you can take your hand off of the gas lever. Thank you so much ♥️ ✌🏼
Very proud of you im in a wheelchair after haven my legs amputated and haven't drive in 6 years i appreciate you a lot the this video you made got me motivated and inspired to get my self a car and get back to driving god bless you forever girl btw you are really gorgeous 🥰
Your story is such an inspiration to every person who takes “living normal” for granted. I wish you nothing but success and happiness and everything that could possibly go well for you in your “life’s journey” and what lies ahead. You made me smile and tear up during your video. You’re beyond amazing and whomever has the good fortune of being your employer; their business just became 100X better because of you and who you are! 🤷♂️😀😃😄😁
Hi Kathryn, great to see you getting out there. I thought I’d offer some advice that might be of some help. I had my injury 30 years ago and that’s been a lot of getting my chair in and out of a car when driving. I saw that you placed the frame on the passenger seat. My immediate thought was for your safety if you were ever involved in an accident. So I thought this might help. Once I’m in the vehicle and all I have is the frame left to put in the car, I put the seat back of the front passenger forward and down. While sitting up i put the back of my seat abt 45° back. Then lifting the chair from outside and into the car as you do, I’m then able to lie back and lift the chair into the back seat and place it on the right back passenger set. This then clears the front seats of any objects. My front passenger seat is alway forward enough to place both wheels behind it as well. I hope all that made sense. Coming from a place of wanting to pass on what I know/learnt, just thinking of your safety while driving. All the best
Thank you for this! I suffered a severe vitamin B1 deficiency in 2020 that left me with peripheral neuropathy and wheelchair bound. I'm finally to the point now where I feel secure enough transferring to/from my bed and my couch to my chair that I tried today for the first time to get in and out of my RAV4. And I did it on the first try. then like an idiot I came upstairs to my apartment and watched your video lol. But thank you so much for this because of validated what I did and how I did it. Now I just have to get a chair that comes apart like yours instead of this crappy transport chair that I have.
This was super interesting. I always wondered how the hand controls work. I had also always assumed a wheelchair ramp was needed but clearly there are lots of different ways to get in and out of a vehicle with a wheelchair. Thanks for uploading. Definitely going to watch more of your videos!
so amazing and yet enlightening. Its a wonder what humans can accomplish. Thank you for being the strong individual you are and sharing you wonder to us.
Hi Kathryn, great to see you getting around so well! You are an inspiration, to be sure. I was curious if you have full coverage insurance on your car...'coz 99% of insurance companies have FREE windshield repair/replacement. I know I have to get my windshield replaced once or twice a year, just because of the poor road conditions. Be blessed and stay safe!!
Watching these types of videos really make me emotional. Appreciation for doing something as simple as walking is so important. I mean its simple until you can't. I appreciate your inspiration I truly do!😍😍😍😍
I never comment on videos and found this by accident and have to say , your a champ and probably give newly wheelchair'd people major hope. you made that seem almost flawless and as if not even a lifestyle and massive change to life even a issue.
Whatever damage there is to the paint is a small price to pay for the mobility! Having said that, one could have paint protection film applied to the door. It might have to be re-done periodically because it'll get a bit chewed up, but if you were really worried about the paint that's one option. Thanks for sharing your video. You rock.
I'm glad you pointed that out, because I was going to comment the same thing. My Aunt Elsie was paraplegic from her 20's on, and before she went to a van where she could roll her chair to the steering wheel, she loved her Mustangs. We touched up her rear quarter a few times, she lived in a northern state where they salt the roads, so it had to be done to keep the rust at bay. This was before paint protection film was available.
Hi Kathryn, I've been in a wheelchair for 14 months now, it is quite a challenge! I'm still learning the ropes. Thanks for the info, it is useful. Blessings to you :-)
This is so freaking awesome! I have never thought of breaking down my chair, I usually try to throw it in the back of the car, but thank you! I am totally doing this!
For the dings and scratches on the side of your vehicle, you can either get clear rock guard sprayed on the side, or, get some pick up bed "Rhino Liner" sprayed on. Will keep it from rusting out
Great video. My question is I don't have a wheelchair like that so how would I do it. But a better question would be where do I get a wheelchair like that. LOL
Thanks for posting these videos, they're so helpful and encouraging. My girlfriend's sister was also in a wheelchair, I think she would have enjoyed these. God bless you.
Kathryn, you're a very brave girl and showed very positive attitude towards your disability. You think of every way to solve the problems & difficulties from your everyday life and showed to the world. This would bring much courage to those disable people and help them to re-gain their life. 👍👍👏👏 " God help those who help themselves " ! Thank you for sharing and God Bless you !
Dude you're a legend straight up. I can't even find myself thinking dirty because you are beautiful but the shit you have to go through on the daily and to still be happy and upbeat is mad respect!
I've been exploring hand controls for my disabled wife (76). Her foot was broken and due to peripheral neuropathy she didn't realize it until it had healed badly...and couldn't be fixed without great danger. I had driven a friend's car with push-pull controls years ago (put in for his {accident-caused} paraplegic wife). Things have changed, and many variations and price ranges are involved. I loved your video showing the ease of using one type of push-pull controls, and using the cruise control with it. The steering wheel knob is nice...I used one loooong ago. I think they are (or were) illegal in California where I live. The cruise control aspect is one others don't cover, so great to hear it. I use my cruise control all the time, everywhere (saves gas and helps me avoid lead-foot syndrome)...but my wife hasn't delved into that yet. Currently, she wears a custom CROW BOOT that supports her weight on the right calf, required for walking...but it's just too dangerous to try to drive with it on...so she has to switch to a shoe for driving, and back to the boot if she steps out of the car...what a pain! Thus, a suitable hand control setup would be of great help. Thanks a million for your video! Just what the doctor (didn't) order. lol Maybe it will help convince her she can do the hand control scene. (smile)
There can be tragic hardship in life, but we still make the best of things, keep a good attitude and try to be good to ourselves and others. I know there are bad days Kathryn, I hope you have many that are bright and cheery. Thanks for sharing this awesome video ❤
Wow! A truly courageous, inspirational and charming young lady...we can see that nothing in life is going to ever beat you and that is the way to live. 👍🏻 Much love, best wishes and strength to you. 😊
Thanks for posting, I always wondered how it was done. You are an inspiration for all. My good friend has severe physical limitations but is talented in many other ways, like I am sure you are. This video helps me understand his situation and be more positive with my own life challenges.
Wow. Just…wow. I’m not that strong mentally I guess if I were in your situation to get to that level. I’ve fought off cancer now for almost 9 years but your situation is something else entirely. What mental strength you have! ❤
I was just granted a most wonderful experience…. Absolutely WOW! Thank you so much for this, even though it has been more than three years. I am grateful for this feeling. Thank you wherever you are……you oh so true Soul….thank you.
It’s amazing how well you’ve adapted to being in a wheelchair, back when I was first battling head and neck cancer I wasn’t able to walk because of malnutrition and the fact my leg muscles wasted away not being able to be used and being in a wheelchair for nearly a year did it for me I’d also ended up having to do psychical therapy to build my muscles in my legs and arms back up which was hell in its self but I was slowly able to stand up and then started using a Walker so I’d rely less on the wheelchair then once I felt ready I went from a walker to a cane until I felt comfortable walking without the cane I’m 1 year without using a cane now while my balance is ok it’s not like it was but I am amazed at your determination to do things on your own like driving, Keep Up The Good Work!
Just showed this to my daughter. She is 5. We were talking about not crying all the time, and being mentally strong. This was the best demonstration of being mentally fit. You ROCK !!
AM HAVING NO MORE CONVERSATION ON THIS. Thanks (2023-10-23)
Wtf!
@@jenna1388 I meant it as one, but why do you say it's not a compliment. Is it my wording?
Essentially what I wanted to convey is that this lady has a difficulty that she did not choose and could easily be overcome and be down and out. But she chooses to be strong and goes about her life is a positive manner spreading positivity in the process. I wanted my daughter to learn from her example that while we cannot control all things in our life, we can make ourselves so Mentally strong that we are able to overcome the most difficult of circumstances.
Now the abridged version may have sounded different, but English is a second language so I may have written it in a way that is offensive.
Unless of course you think that this in itself is not a compliment. If you do, that's fine. We can agree to disagree and move on with our lives.
@@acesibhey don’t beat your self up for it the person was probably a troll, your showing your daughter to be strong mentally and many people can do many things even with certain difficulties and challenges
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Your comments are very nice and positive. You are also a great mother. I also admire your very good command of the English language, especially as it’s not your first language.
@@wolfydan121I'm with you...what happened to poo the bear...skip that sht ...straight to trauma...!😱
I’m a recent paraplegic and everything is a chore to do. Really time consuming, takes a while to learn patience. I still get frustrated with how difficult that the little things are
What happened?
@@NicoleBermz fell off bridge
I grew up with my uncle a quad. He dove in ocean and hit a rock at age 14. He married his physical therapist. He was a computer operator. They owned a beautiful home. He was a man of incredible faith in Christ and led many to a deeper faith. He loved to do wood burning art. He did a tandem skydive to celebrate his 40 yrs in the chair. He passed in his 60s.. I wish you all the best in your future! Fight for it
Sorry to hear that, I'm sure it doesn't get better physically but I hope it gets better mentally when you are used to it.
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I had polio at 5 months old and I am 73 now. I’ve been driving with hand controls for 50 years. Enjoyed your video.
I'm never complaining again. She's so cool headed about everything. What an amazing person.
I'll complain for you. I love complaining. Helps me through stress
What happened to hr? Car accidents or..? pl give me some ideas as I just passed throu Thks BJCASHKING@$33K/10days usingmy smallbrain
Wow the things that all of us getting around normally take for granted, we all should be grateful much more than we are, thank you Kathryn for opening so many eyes!
Exactly, count our blessings
I just noticed your pic. Cool
Lol yes sirrrrr@@NotMyGuns
Peter Criss? Really??
Ok so lets hear YOUR opinion, what member should it have been????? lol lets hear it!@@lewstone5430
Literally the BEST video I’ve ever watched on UA-cam. I’ve always been curious. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. You’re awesome, many blessings 💞
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But where can I find cars like this? lol 😆 XX 😘 1 LOVE ❤️
At 53 (3 years ago) I became a double amputee due to diabetes. I was a drummer who walked at least 5 miles a day, a lot of that on the beach, so my legs were very important. Loosing them was a living hell. The depression and feeling of helplessness was nearly unbearable. NOW, I’m coping much better but still have a lot of dread for the future. Seeing your grace and attitude is up lifting for me. I subscribed to your channel because I think watching your journey will let me know I’m not the only one with issues and that we can over come them. It’s one day at a time… I guess that goes for all of us huh? Hang in there and I’ll try to do the same. God speed.
your a true warrior Larry, Stay Strong
🙏 from the uk, stay strong Larry
@@justchilling4491 Thank you!
Your on my mind friend... We never know why God allows these things to happen, but I say this one thing it's all able to work out for His Devine plan. Sometimes we go through life passing Jesus by, but He sees something in us that attracts Himself to us and He will stop at nothing to slow us down and humble us in order to get our attention and as harsh as it may seem at the time, not every thing that happens is what Jesus had intended for our lifes, but He's A Master at turning it around for His Glory. In wich is well deserved. So just think how special you may be to the KING!!! JESUS MESSIAH
@@MichaelSnoddy-pq7yi Thank you for the kind words. They’ve really lifted me up this morning.
I'm not disabled in anyway other than being old. The simple things I take for granted are no more. God bless you.
My dad is new to a wheelchair. Thanks for putting yourself out there. It’s nice to see community of all sorts living life!
Should put clear very thick PPF film on the driver's side of the vehicle, will save a bunch in resale by absorbing those scratches.
My aunt Muriel got Polio and became wheelchair bound in the late 50's. She had four kids and my uncle left her. She never remarried. She raised my cousins and would drive to come visit us all the time. We were little and always asked if we could ride in her wheelchair while she visited. She was the strongest, most amazing person ever until she passed away last year. She outlived my parents and all other uncles and aunts. I remember her car having similar controls as yours. Muriel never let anything get in her way. I don't know your story, but you are so young and have an amazing life ahead of you as long as you never let anything get in your way. :)
Aside from Aunt Muriel being the most amazing Aunt ever ! I’m sorry to say this, your UNCLE is the biggest piece of shit ever !!!
Kathryn is a beautiful young woman and it's a blessing that she shares her struggles (and triumphs) dealing with a major medical condition. Kudos to Ms. Granger, I'm sure there are many out there with conditions similar to yours who can and will benefit from your educational and aspirational videos. Keep it up!
You are awesome Kathryn! Thanks for sharing your daily routine. I wish you nothing less than huge success with your life!
This was such an encouraging video for me to watch at this time. I had a below the knee right leg amputation Sept 2020 got fitted for my prosthesis in Apr 2021. September I started learning to drive with hand controls. I never thought I would learn but with perseverance I just finished my 10th lesson. I go for my assessment this week. I love to see you drive it seems effortlessly. Thanks for sharing it means so much.
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Hope you got there. If it's any motivation, I knew a guy here in the UK who lost use of his right foot and still drove a manual ("stick") with hand controls and a pedal clutch - you can do it!
Hand controls are pretty easy for me as I grew up around them. Don't think about substitution, think about controlling.
Kathryn,
Thank you. I am an older disabled verteran and I'm just getting into my new wheelchair life. This little video gave me the information I needed to practice getting in and out of a vehicle. Just seeing it done shows me what I need to know to learn and practice it.
I'll be watching some more of your content for little tips and helps. Thanks.
Thank you for serving.
Go get um Chief from another "Older" Vet
You are A real inspiration. I lost my daughter over 20 years ago if I had another daughter I would be proud to call such a Beautiful young LADY like your self my daughter your amazing best wishes Ronan Wilco ❤ LOL
All of people are the utmost in patience and courage and persistence! I bless all of you
Of course your physically strong after working that wheelchair for some time now. What I'm so impressed and encouraged about is the mental strength you show, as if this is no inconvenience at all. You have the physical beauty for sure, but also have managed to build the mental beauty of taking life as it is and not what we would want it.
I was born into a horrible family with awful parents that loved drugs and alcohol far more than children and yet I managed to use that as fuel to show me what not to be, rather than follow in their foot steps. Today I'm a highly responsible, hardest working, funny guy you can imagine and I see that in you as well. Nothing is going to get you down, and you have a real gift communicating with others. May God bless and keep you, and one day soon a miracle happens for you and that wheelchair will become a distant memory. Peace and happiness to you.
yeah she pushing the accelerator and the breaks with her barefeet. I would like to be that accelerator 😅.
@@subtheman2136amazed, you seriously sad person, subtheman you need help, to think like that you sick, Liam
Fascinating, we take simple things for granted, and we still sit around and cry all day, about how difficult life is, but look at her... I need a friend like this, such a positive person.
I understand your comment about having this type of person for a friend- strong, capable, not a victim always looking for sympathy, but someone who brings something to the relationship rather than milks it for what she can get out of it - in other words, a giver instead of a taker. Women have expressed envy at the friendship between my best friend and me -“I wish I had that kind of friend”. We just look at each other, laugh, and say, “BE that kind of friend, and you will have one.” It’s that simple.
@@HeyBema888 wise words, thanks for sharing
I appreciate the fact that you're sharing your experiences. I hope that others that need your demos and encouragement are finding your videos!
Great. Humbling, impressive, touching and happy to see you managing your life and driving. Thank you!
Thank you for this awesome video. You are a true warrior. I can’t believe how I’ve taken for granted just being able to get up in the morning, get ready and then just get in my car all on my own. I wish you nothing but the best.
Awesome young lady! Love your attitude and can do way! I been injured 30 years and have learned patience’s is a gift and a blessing! Best of luck and good wishes, if you ever need a ear or eyes please reach out.
You are very brave and kind. I wish you fast recovery, a lot of strength, joy and love. Be well and b careful, all the best to you Kathryn
Your spirit to give yourself the best life you can despite circumstances is just incredibly inspiring!
Thanks so much for your great video! I'm 75 and had a stroke 3 years ago. I'm learning to walk, and can do a few steps at a time. My friend said "Hey, walking could take a year or even several years, , so why not try driving!" So, I tried left-foot pedals, too hard for me. Now I'm getting hand controls, push/rock. You are an inspiration to all of us!! I couldn' do the manual wheelchair like you, so I got an automatic ramp. When I watch your video that segment at the beginnning is VERY impressive!! If there were a Nobel Prize for grit and determination, I'd nominate you! Keep it up!
Thank you soooo much for sharing this! I am a new paraplegic and feel so lost, I'm getting ready to drive and am overwhelmed with what my options are and the cost of everything. The wheelchair vans are great but they are so expensive and hard to find so this really helped me to see that I don't need all of that. I still don't know how to get in the seat without a transfer board and have never taken my wheelchair apart but now i'm going to practice. Thank you for all of your help!
Am sorry to hear you are feeling lost, i hope you're ok.
Just wanted to say i'm half way through Sophie L Morgan's book Driving Forward's (i don't do reading but am listening to it through Audible) and its fking great. Its about her journey before and after her car accident at 18.
obvs book isn't gonna change anything but i found comfort in it :)
I hope 4 months on from ur comment you've got ur whip 🚙💨💨🌴
Mad respect to you, Kathryn! I learned how to take care of my mom after she had a stroke, because she was paralyzed on the left side of her body. I hope that you have someone who helps you. God Bless you!
This is incredible! I'm very supportive of showing people your experiences. Thank you for this
I have a close friend with MS she's able to walk short distances but it's progressively getting worse in her legs, this and similar videos are very helpful and encouraging in case she may need to go through a similar journey and I want to be with her on that journey. Thank you and God bless you!
i just want to thank you for being such an amazing friend to her. it’s so hard and lonely with chronic illnesses and so many people leave people when they get sick. I’m sure they appreciate you so so much.
Katherine , you are amazing! I know you might disagree, but you explain things so clearly and calmly it seems that you have such a great attitude. Your mythology and demonstration are superb. Thanks for being an inspiration to me.
Thanks so much for your video! It made my day to watch it. :)
I am in my fifties and struggle with anxiety/ depression, but watching you gave me a real perspective on dealing with adversity and overcoming struggles.
You are awesome Kathryn!
The never give up attitude you have is amazing. Wish you the best!
My dad had a quad injury when I was 5 (35 years ago) and had a severe brain injury. We had an agency connect us with a lady that was a t3/t4 complete spinal injury like yourself to drive our family around when needed. She was with us for over 20 years and a big part of our family. There was nothing she couldn't do and this was before all the new technology gadgets out there. So know there is no limit to anything you want to achieve as long as you can dream it and you have faith along the way. Work hard and maybe down the road you can get a chair lift setup for your car/van. I remember when she got that and it was a game-changer. You are a rock star, God bless!
Thanks so much for your video. I've just started using the same kind of hand controls as you, so it was so relevant and instructive to watch you. I'm working on how to get that fluid motion from throttle to break and maintain a steady speed. Thanks again!
So much strength you are an inspiration to so many people.
Thank you so much for sharing. You are so courageous and beautiful, in and out. I have shared your video with my two grandchildren and the rest of my family.
Thank you so much for this video. I have MS and my most recent flare has left me unable to drive. My dad has been driving my kids to and from school for the past 6 months, but this is unsustainable, I honestly thought I would have to give my ex husband full custody of my kids, but your video has given me hope. Thank you so much! ❤️
I want to thank you for this! Wow. Because of this video I ordered some hand controls off Amazon, rented a car to try it, and boom, I’m driving again. I’m much bigger, and not ready to lift into an suv, so I got a convertible so I can pick my chair up and put it in the passenger seat. Thank you for helping me get mobil again! Please, if you can, keep these videos coming. You are really helping people.
do you mind sharing what hand controls you got? I’m trying to start driving again after being in my wheelchair for over a year. I miss going out by myself
You are an inspiration. No, it is not easy, it's very challenging, but you handled it with grace and grit. Beautiful!!
This video popped up in my feed, never watched your channel before, you have my utmost respect, I can't even imagine what it must be like for you. My neighbor is in the same situation that you are in, and I have watched him get in and out of his car the same way that you do, you seem like such a strong person to me. I see this video was posted 3 years ago, but I still wanted to comment anyway.
Girl, you so cool and share this with stranger people is so breve, i hope you the best ❤️
@@TheFalseShepphard "that isn't"? When being a pedant or an asshole, although one is rarely distinguishable from the other, you may want to watch your own spelling and/or grammar. Or better yet, just don't be a dick in the first place to somebody that is just being kind.
This is amazing! Thank you so much for this! I myself am a paraplegic and I’m in the learning to drive part. Everything you said and showed was amazing! Thank you so much! I totally understand what your talking about. I’ve been in a chair for close to 20 years. My accident happened when I was young. Before I saw this I got a positive influence from another wheelchair UA-camr. Aaron Wheelz. I started understanding life is difficult this way but it’s a harder and in a positive mindset stronger push to help with people paraplegic (wheelchair bound) i poloskied and play wheelchair basketball. Thank you for this. ❤
Thanks for showing your video. You are awesome strong young lady. You are helping lot of people with their problems. God bless.
Great videos! You’ve been through a lot clearly, your so brave/strong and such an inspiration for others in this situation. I’m so sorry for your loss, I know it’s hard. I’m loving the videos. I’m curious after watching this video: how do you maintain the speed limits? Cuz I see you can take your hand off of the gas lever. Thank you so much ♥️ ✌🏼
Very proud of you im in a wheelchair after haven my legs amputated and haven't drive in 6 years i appreciate you a lot the this video you made got me motivated and inspired to get my self a car and get back to driving god bless you forever girl btw you are really gorgeous 🥰
Your story is such an inspiration to every person who takes “living normal” for granted. I wish you nothing but success and happiness and everything that could possibly go well for you in your “life’s journey” and what lies ahead. You made me smile and tear up during your video. You’re beyond amazing and whomever has the good fortune of being your employer; their business just became 100X better because of you and who you are! 🤷♂️😀😃😄😁
Great job girl……so gratifying that you are your own master and an inspiration to others. God Bless You.
Hi Kathryn, great to see you getting out there. I thought I’d offer some advice that might be of some help. I had my injury 30 years ago and that’s been a lot of getting my chair in and out of a car when driving. I saw that you placed the frame on the passenger seat. My immediate thought was for your safety if you were ever involved in an accident.
So I thought this might help. Once I’m in the vehicle and all I have is the frame left to put in the car, I put the seat back of the front passenger forward and down. While sitting up i put the back of my seat abt 45° back. Then lifting the chair from outside and into the car as you do, I’m then able to lie back and lift the chair into the back seat and place it on the right back passenger set. This then clears the front seats of any objects. My front passenger seat is alway forward enough to place both wheels behind it as well.
I hope all that made sense. Coming from a place of wanting to pass on what I know/learnt, just thinking of your safety while driving.
All the best
It make sense to me,thanks so much for a glimpse. Nice presentation take care.and big high fives.
Thank you for this! I suffered a severe vitamin B1 deficiency in 2020 that left me with peripheral neuropathy and wheelchair bound. I'm finally to the point now where I feel secure enough transferring to/from my bed and my couch to my chair that I tried today for the first time to get in and out of my RAV4. And I did it on the first try. then like an idiot I came upstairs to my apartment and watched your video lol. But thank you so much for this because of validated what I did and how I did it. Now I just have to get a chair that comes apart like yours instead of this crappy transport chair that I have.
How did you get that?
This was super interesting. I always wondered how the hand controls work. I had also always assumed a wheelchair ramp was needed but clearly there are lots of different ways to get in and out of a vehicle with a wheelchair. Thanks for uploading. Definitely going to watch more of your videos!
so amazing and yet enlightening. Its a wonder what humans can accomplish. Thank you for being the strong individual you are and sharing you wonder to us.
Doing great!
You should secure all the removable parts, because they will be flying projectiles in an accident.
Greetings from Mexico, you are a strong and powerful girl, so admirable! I wish you the best forever
What an incredible video. Thank you for sharing and for demonstrating that there is nothing that can stop someone unless they give up.
Hi Kathryn, great to see you getting around so well! You are an inspiration, to be sure. I was curious if you have full coverage insurance on your car...'coz 99% of insurance companies have FREE windshield repair/replacement. I know I have to get my windshield replaced once or twice a year, just because of the poor road conditions. Be blessed and stay safe!!
Looking good! I use the seatbelt over my shoulder and lock it so I can use both arms :)
Watching these types of videos really make me emotional. Appreciation for doing something as simple as walking is so important. I mean its simple until you can't. I appreciate your inspiration I truly do!😍😍😍😍
I never comment on videos and found this by accident and have to say , your a champ and probably give newly wheelchair'd people major hope. you made that seem almost flawless and as if not even a lifestyle and massive change to life even a issue.
Whatever damage there is to the paint is a small price to pay for the mobility! Having said that, one could have paint protection film applied to the door. It might have to be re-done periodically because it'll get a bit chewed up, but if you were really worried about the paint that's one option. Thanks for sharing your video. You rock.
I'm glad you pointed that out, because I was going to comment the same thing. My Aunt Elsie was paraplegic from her 20's on, and before she went to a van where she could roll her chair to the steering wheel, she loved her Mustangs. We touched up her rear quarter a few times, she lived in a northern state where they salt the roads, so it had to be done to keep the rust at bay. This was before paint protection film was available.
Hi Kathryn, I've been in a wheelchair for 14 months now, it is quite a challenge! I'm still learning the ropes. Thanks for the info, it is useful. Blessings to you :-)
You are truly inspiring and courageous. Thank you for sharing this.
What an amazing young lady! You are an inspiration to us all. God bless you.
This is so freaking awesome! I have never thought of breaking down my chair, I usually try to throw it in the back of the car, but thank you! I am totally doing this!
For the dings and scratches on the side of your vehicle, you can either get clear rock guard sprayed on the side, or, get some pick up bed "Rhino Liner" sprayed on. Will keep it from rusting out
You are an inspiration! Well done. You have got this.
Thank you for sharing with us and educating us on your method for entering and exiting along with the controls in your car. Keep on trucking :) Thx
Great video. My question is I don't have a wheelchair like that so how would I do it. But a better question would be where do I get a wheelchair like that. LOL
@3:20 to avoid the scratches/ damage I have 3M film that I applied to the areas that can get scratched. Yes, I am picky...
You're not the only one I would've done the same if I was in your situation. Even more so since my car is a collector's item
You’re a trooper! Not letting anything stop you! Awesome.
You're amazing Kathryn. God Bless 🙏
yes girl boss!!!
Where did you get the hand controls from?
You are really mentally & physically strong Kathryn. Keep doing good work ❤
May God Bless You young lady! You sure are an inspiration!
God bless you Kathryn. I just came across your channel just now randomly and i love you already ❤
Thanks for posting these videos, they're so helpful and encouraging. My girlfriend's sister was also in a wheelchair, I think she would have enjoyed these. God bless you.
Thank you for sharing this. You are a strong and determined woman, and I wish you the best!
You are Amazing. Thank you for the help to help others.
Thank you for sharing this video. You are an absolute inspiration. 🏆
Kathryn, you're a very brave girl and showed very positive attitude towards your disability. You think of every way to solve the problems & difficulties from your everyday life and showed to the world. This would bring much courage to those disable people and help them to re-gain their life. 👍👍👏👏 " God help those who help themselves " ! Thank you for sharing and God Bless you !
God bless you on your commitment to helping others and being very strong.
I love your energy! So motivating.
Thank you Kathryn. You are a real trooper. We will be praying for you. Also subscribing. 👍❤️🙏
Dude you're a legend straight up. I can't even find myself thinking dirty because you are beautiful but the shit you have to go through on the daily and to still be happy and upbeat is mad respect!
I've been exploring hand controls for my disabled wife (76). Her foot was broken and due to peripheral neuropathy she didn't realize it until it had healed badly...and couldn't be fixed without great danger. I had driven a friend's car with push-pull controls years ago (put in for his {accident-caused} paraplegic wife). Things have changed, and many variations and price ranges are involved.
I loved your video showing the ease of using one type of push-pull controls, and using the cruise control with it. The steering wheel knob is nice...I used one loooong ago. I think they are (or were) illegal in California where I live. The cruise control aspect is one others don't cover, so great to hear it. I use my cruise control all the time, everywhere (saves gas and helps me avoid lead-foot syndrome)...but my wife hasn't delved into that yet.
Currently, she wears a custom CROW BOOT that supports her weight on the right calf, required for walking...but it's just too dangerous to try to drive with it on...so she has to switch to a shoe for driving, and back to the boot if she steps out of the car...what a pain! Thus, a suitable hand control setup would be of great help.
Thanks a million for your video! Just what the doctor (didn't) order. lol Maybe it will help convince her she can do the hand control scene. (smile)
Strength and Grace. You go girl!
I can't decide which is more beautiful, your inside or outside :) . You're really helping and giving hope.
Wow! You are an inspiration and an impressive human being! Thank you for sharing ❤
There can be tragic hardship in life, but we still make the best of things, keep a good attitude and try to be good to ourselves and others. I know there are bad days Kathryn, I hope you have many that are bright and cheery. Thanks for sharing this awesome video ❤
Wow! A truly courageous, inspirational and charming young lady...we can see that nothing in life is going to ever beat you and that is the way to live. 👍🏻 Much love, best wishes and strength to you. 😊
Thanks for posting, I always wondered how it was done. You are an inspiration for all. My good friend has severe physical limitations but is talented in many other ways, like I am sure you are. This video helps me understand his situation and be more positive with my own life challenges.
Wow. Just…wow. I’m not that strong mentally I guess if I were in your situation to get to that level. I’ve fought off cancer now for almost 9 years but your situation is something else entirely. What mental strength you have! ❤
I was just granted a most wonderful experience….
Absolutely WOW!
Thank you so much for this, even though it has been more than three years.
I am grateful for this feeling. Thank you wherever you are……you oh so true Soul….thank you.
Great to see how positive and get out there sort of girl. Enjoy life, all the best. God bless!
I was inspired by this video..... you are very generous and beautiful ,,, and you are helping many many people
It’s amazing how well you’ve adapted to being in a wheelchair, back when I was first battling head and neck cancer I wasn’t able to walk because of malnutrition and the fact my leg muscles wasted away not being able to be used and being in a wheelchair for nearly a year did it for me I’d also ended up having to do psychical therapy to build my muscles in my legs and arms back up which was hell in its self but I was slowly able to stand up and then started using a Walker so I’d rely less on the wheelchair then once I felt ready I went from a walker to a cane until I felt comfortable walking without the cane I’m 1 year without using a cane now while my balance is ok it’s not like it was but I am amazed at your determination to do things on your own like driving, Keep Up The Good Work!
Good job ❤I currently have a stroke. My right side is affected and I'm getting better slowly. You are a big inspiration. Thank you 😊
Great video and wonderful information.. lovely personality!!! Thank for showing the controls.
You are such an inspiration 😊
Thank you!!!
Bless your heart. You are quite the survivor. Nothings gonna stop you!