Tuxedo & Black Tie Dress Code Explained: How To Look Awesome in a Tux for Wedding, Groom, Gala, Prom

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  • @dustmeistermiller1011
    @dustmeistermiller1011 4 роки тому +94

    As a man relatively new to Black Tie, I found this incredibly helpful. The in depth description of not just what to look for but, more importantly, what to avoid means I can look to upgrade my outfit and get it right.
    Thanks, GG!

  • @johnmattan3273
    @johnmattan3273 5 років тому +760

    Only the most formal events require a man to wear Adidas tuxedo pants, with the legendary triple galon.

  • @RSskatecompany
    @RSskatecompany 7 років тому +196

    Reminded yet again of how incredibly glad I am to have found this channel, astonishing work.

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  7 років тому +15

      Thanks. Please share it on FB or link to it from sowewhere else. That way we can make more videos of this kind.

  • @markarato8034
    @markarato8034 7 років тому +23

    One of the best channels out there, and the gentleman speaking is very charismatic!

  • @BHHartman
    @BHHartman 5 років тому +28

    @4:47 - This also applies to laundering your pants and jacket! Whether it’s a suit or a tuxedo, you should ALWAYS have them dry cleaned together. If you wear your suit coat without the trousers, or vice versa, and only bring in one piece to be cleaned, over time the color will start to fade. Do this enough times and your expensive suit will be reduced to simply a sport coat and a pair of slacks that don’t match.

  • @duybankai
    @duybankai 7 років тому +234

    Sven is Yoda of Menswear. No one else is even close.

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  7 років тому +57

      thanks, even though I hope I look better ;)

    • @kamdennestor9087
      @kamdennestor9087 4 роки тому

      yep

    • @OrrosGG
      @OrrosGG 4 роки тому +2

      Wisest of ‘em all.

    • @mrsmith4709
      @mrsmith4709 3 роки тому

      Except for any menswear shop attendant in New Zealand or England. They all know it backwards and traditional.y, this guy is not traditional, closer than most, but he is American so that is like getting an Arab to explain to an Eskimo what snow is.

    • @ha9706
      @ha9706 3 роки тому +2

      @@mrsmith4709 He is actually from germany

  • @alikhawar520
    @alikhawar520 7 років тому +6

    I have been wearing suits since I was 3 years old. But never worn a tux in my life and was thinking of getting one tailored. This video showed me everything I needed to know. Thanks a lot for this precious information. :-)

  • @benedictafiemo7989
    @benedictafiemo7989 Рік тому +1

    Almost didn’t notice how good the commentary is. You got talent all around keep it up.
    Still can’t get over Hamer’s Trivela against United and his goal today calls it to memory. Reminds me of Almiron during his best run of form last season.

  • @philipb9088
    @philipb9088 7 років тому +491

    This should be shown before prom at any school ...

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  7 років тому +106

      Agreed!

    • @captainnightblood627
      @captainnightblood627 7 років тому +6

      Philip B aye it should

    • @jasonsalo6517
      @jasonsalo6517 7 років тому +33

      Yeah, here in NZ, my highschool had a 'Formal Prom', and everyone showed up in cheap suits with no tie and casual sneakers. - Absolutely no class at all

    • @marioburgos712
      @marioburgos712 6 років тому +7

      Jason Salo If not following a dress code was a crime, many of them (to avoid saying each and everyone of them) would most likely be in jail right now.

    • @Bexthedaikon
      @Bexthedaikon 4 роки тому +1

      Yup they should

  • @SIRMMA
    @SIRMMA 4 роки тому +23

    I love how all these GG videos put random internet people on blast for their clothing mistakes. The internet never forgets! :)

  • @Willensimperium
    @Willensimperium 7 років тому +28

    Perfect guide, love a lot of your videos and articles but this one has to be one of my favourites (although i only wore black tie 3 times in my short life), you got your talking speed up a bit in the first minutes, which is a good thing and all things are not just pointed out clearly but also historically contextualized.

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  7 років тому +9

      Thanks! We put a lot of work into it :) and we always strive to provide the best content anywhere on the web when it comes to classic & quality men's clothing.

  • @garrycane1170
    @garrycane1170 7 років тому +5

    One of your best videos Sven. IMHO if one never gets anything else perfect black tie is a must.

  • @stylishoversixty9459
    @stylishoversixty9459 7 років тому +8

    Fantastic, Fantastic, Fantastic certainly a plethora and wealth of wonderful black tie and tuxedo information thanks Mr. Schneider for such detail and insightful knowledge!

  • @MMASulu
    @MMASulu 3 роки тому +13

    You can substitute suspenders for a shoulder holster just make sure the tuxedo is tailored to it or it will print. Don't go with anything parkerized or powder coated but rather a high polish blue or a semi-brushed stainless. You want to avoid anything nickel plated which is more suited for white tie. It should also have grips made from a dark wood like Walnut or Cocobolo. Shades like Birch or Maple are just too flashy.

    • @bizarre_razor
      @bizarre_razor 8 місяців тому

      I thought I was the only one who would be interested in this. Good to know it's been tried and thanks for the tips!

  • @gehandharmagunarathne9951
    @gehandharmagunarathne9951 7 років тому +17

    Best youtuber, hands down! A walking encyclopaedia of classic style!

  • @TheDudesterism
    @TheDudesterism 3 місяці тому +2

    My lucky day! Just found a vintage brooks brothers 2 piece Tuxedo that meets everything said in the video! Getting it tailored soon to fit a bit better but it’s almost perfect off the rack!

  • @Tassadar89
    @Tassadar89 4 роки тому +16

    Hello! I'm making my own tuxedo for my wedding, so I want it to be perfect. I've seen lots of your videos and I only have one question, can I wear a boutonniere with a shawl lapel? Should I have it done with a button hole just for that? Thanks a lot for all your help!

    • @jrh11254
      @jrh11254 4 роки тому +4

      Oliver Perry - I’m very curious how your homemade tuxedo turned out? Did you stay with the shawl-collar? What about the buttonhole for the boutonnière (I see you never got a response from Raphael)? And, lastly, on what fabric did you decide & where was it sourced? I’m assuming you have a serger machine? So cool. Much respect for you, Sir!

  • @dvincentart2156
    @dvincentart2156 5 років тому +3

    Amazingly in-depth video. I'll be sure to remember all of this in the future. I have one question for anyone that wouldn't mind answering it. How would I go about an event that could be considered "Creative Black Tie"? I understand it's odd to ask, but I'll be attending a formal dinner with my fiancée soon. While it's hinted as Black Tie, I know the expectations are a bit relaxed to let everyone wear more colors. I want to remain true to the rules of the jacket and pants, but I'm unsure if I should wear a vest and bow tie that coordinate with her dress, or just stay black and let my Boutonniere and Pocket Square match her.
    Any and all suggestions would be appreciated.

  • @sptownsend999
    @sptownsend999 7 років тому +1

    When I was in high school I was determined to find a good black tie guide. I found a guide, and now a video as good as the guide! Are you going to do a video on White Tie? Also, could the homburg be substituted with a black bowler or a black derby?

  • @cpickell1987
    @cpickell1987 3 роки тому +6

    Thanks for putting together some an incredibly comprehensive video - definitely feeling more informed about the subtleties of black tie attire.
    I'm curious, what sort of pocket square fold would you recommend for a pocket which is half concealed by the lapel?

  • @robertboone6504
    @robertboone6504 6 років тому

    Sir Raphael, nice crisp presentation full of great care and detail. This one puts you in another stratosphere. Stay you. Thats all you need to do. Peace.

  • @gentlemansgazette
    @gentlemansgazette  7 років тому +9

    Make sure to download the comprehensive PDF pendant to this video here gentl.mn/black-tie-tuxedo-pocket-guide

    • @BBoYSHaDoE
      @BBoYSHaDoE 7 років тому +1

      You always put out the best content! I have a quick question. Will it work to wear stiff collar shirt and white tie vest with dark midnight blue tuxedo? or is black tuxedo better?
      Thank you again for all your knowledge. I've been following your channel for a long time.

  • @spencerlee7852
    @spencerlee7852 5 років тому +21

    8:17, read the subtitle

    • @carltrotter7622
      @carltrotter7622 4 роки тому +1

      What is wrong with it?

    • @pip5528
      @pip5528 4 роки тому

      @@carltrotter7622 He says "shirt" but it's written without the R. That's why it's funny.

  • @onedead7607
    @onedead7607 7 років тому +9

    The quality of your videos are amazing! I will not mind if I needed pay for these.

  • @BlackLight886
    @BlackLight886 7 років тому +1

    Fantastic video! I hope the next one is on moves that will make you the best dancer at your next black tie event!!

  • @blackperproductions8424
    @blackperproductions8424 7 років тому

    This is awsome... Not only do i learn a lot of this, but i also feel very entertained... Well done! Keep it up!

  • @sonyfrancois9647
    @sonyfrancois9647 7 років тому +5

    The encyclopedia of style. Great video👍

  • @terranempire2
    @terranempire2 4 роки тому +1

    @9:03 Red Bow tie and Red cummerbund are however a proper attire for wear Red Sea Rig. Which is a separate iteration of evening wear primarily in tropical climates. The American iteration is Gulf rig which is Black tie yet again without jacket.

  • @dietrauringkursschmiede7160
    @dietrauringkursschmiede7160 6 років тому +3

    Both center vent and two vents come from riding (2:25). The center vent is for a long coat (see fox hunting coats) and two vents for a shorter coat (more of a sport coat, called hacking jacket). If you are posting during a trot your jacket will get caught on the back of the saddle unless it has vents. This will irritate your horse and you will be off balance.

    • @TheJTMcDaniel
      @TheJTMcDaniel 4 роки тому +1

      In some cases, side vents give off a "police" vibe, as detectives tend to prefer them because it makes accessing a weapon in a concealed hip holster easier.

  • @Mr.Ciobanu
    @Mr.Ciobanu 7 років тому

    Probably never gonna wear a Tux but I still watch this video cause all your videos are so detailed :)

  • @fjahnhogler
    @fjahnhogler 7 років тому +5

    Great video as usual! Regarding regular, french cuffed white shirts to a tuxedo, the British royal family is often seen doing this. Wouldn't you say that they therefore have made that more "casual" look acceptable, like the Duke of Windsor made wearing turn-down collars to a tuxedo a standard? (As long as everything else is traditionally pitch perfect, that is!)

  • @karlorajnovic9613
    @karlorajnovic9613 6 років тому

    What a gentleman and a boss. He could not find the socks he wanted, so he designed them and made them. This is the level I want to achieve.

  • @peterexley4985
    @peterexley4985 2 роки тому +1

    🎩🧐🥾🌹thanks now I know also I wonder about funeral ie the queens would a morning suit be excepted?

  • @markpatterson2507
    @markpatterson2507 4 роки тому

    The usual positive,well spoken info...thank you,sir

  • @petepompies6276
    @petepompies6276 2 роки тому +1

    Love these videos. Always educational (particularly your video on rings). What are your thoughts on wristwatches and pockets watches for black tie events?

  • @justinhansen1328
    @justinhansen1328 2 роки тому

    1:33 I am getting a tux for a black tie event in Alaska come February however I think I will just layer underneath as that advice is probably from first hand experience

  • @andreleverettejr3747
    @andreleverettejr3747 4 роки тому

    The court shoes are calling me for this part of my wardrobe, so unique

  • @FreddyBaggett
    @FreddyBaggett 2 роки тому

    High Gloss shoes, a cumberbund, and a stripe up the leg of the pants... I have always wanted to look like the leader of a High School Band, and thanks to these tips my dream has finally come true...Thank you for keeping the out-dated dream alive!!!

  • @DonkeyEMakesYouWiserNow
    @DonkeyEMakesYouWiserNow 2 роки тому

    If it weren’t for Raphael, I would be a peasant. Just kidding. Great channel by the way. I have watched basically every single one of your videos.

  • @Ctrank100
    @Ctrank100 2 роки тому +1

    I've seen photos of the Duke of Cambridge wearing a soft broadcloth white shirt with mother-of-pearl boutons with his evening wear. I think on your website you mentioned this is acceptable. Could you elaborate more on such shirts with black tie?

  • @mr.berrani
    @mr.berrani 5 років тому +3

    Very very useful detailed video 👍 I need a Tuxedo for my wedding soon

  • @trillionbones89
    @trillionbones89 3 роки тому

    Probably my tuxedo fits most of the black tie criteria even if I don't 😂
    I used a belt 🙃 which had the same color as my dark brown shoes.
    Although the tuxedo came with a dark purple bowtie. I would wear it even if it is a slight deviation from the black tie norm though. Also it came with a matching purple tuxedo-belt thing watch i didn't know how to use and therefore didn't wear. Now i do, thanks!

  • @mandeepbaweja3021
    @mandeepbaweja3021 7 років тому

    This is just the perfect guide that covers everything....Hats off!! Rapheal :)
    Also i want to ask that i am a young college student...can i slightly change the rules like i dont wear Patent oxfords instead Black Leather Tassel Loafers??

  • @kennyoludiya278
    @kennyoludiya278 3 роки тому

    I love velvet. What are the rules for wearing a velvet tuxedo jacket? Why would the trousers look like? Would they also be velvet. If not, how would you find matching colours and what material would the gallon be. Finally, would a velvet bow self-tie bow tie be the perfect match? Thanks

  • @justinhansen1328
    @justinhansen1328 2 роки тому

    10:21 I have never seen velvet slippers before. I love that look. Might pick me up a pair

  • @danieljalel5701
    @danieljalel5701 7 років тому +5

    What about black patent dress shoes with open lacing system? Are they acceptable or not?

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  7 років тому +4

      You can see them in Vienna. Personally, I prefer Oxfords as they are generally a bit more formal. However, it is possible to find very elegant Derbys as well.

  • @christopherl-b1892
    @christopherl-b1892 2 роки тому +1

    Hey, should I wear a cummerbund, a vest/waist coat, or both?

  • @JerryGarner-x7o
    @JerryGarner-x7o Рік тому

    Do you have a preference for turn down collar shirt vs wing collar for black tie?

  • @aaronspringborn34
    @aaronspringborn34 2 роки тому

    Excellent video! One of your best ones!!! ✅

  • @walterfoyt5985
    @walterfoyt5985 5 років тому +5

    You can also wear an opera cape instead of an overcoat when it cold.

    • @walterfoyt5985
      @walterfoyt5985 2 роки тому

      I realize an opera coat is more formal and it’s more flamboyant but it suites me.

  • @fabianmedina7315
    @fabianmedina7315 6 років тому +1

    Can patent leather boots be another option when it’s winter

  • @mikeoxmaul45
    @mikeoxmaul45 4 роки тому

    8:29 peak patrician dinner jacket. It's like wearing White and Black Tie at the same time. 👌 💯

  • @rubend5191
    @rubend5191 Рік тому

    God, I wish more contemporaries would wear tuxedos. It makes it easier and more accessible to wear it yourself

  • @benjamindunnigan2157
    @benjamindunnigan2157 6 років тому

    Completely agree with SRS on all but two points... Whereas he thinks formality has loosened up enough allow highly polished balmorals or coverall lace-ups, it is my view that patent leather shoes are a signature hallmark of the black tie ensemble. At the same time, I have the reverse opinion on jacket vents since it is almost impossible to find an off-the-rack tuxedo in 2018 (even with the other correct features I.e, slit pockets, peak or shawl lapels etc) made without them other than GA or RL Purple Label. Even if you are having it made, vents provide the function of comfort when sitting down.

  • @bobjazzman9038
    @bobjazzman9038 6 років тому +2

    Wow. A ton of great, well explained, information. Outstanding.

  • @TheOldHistorian1929
    @TheOldHistorian1929 6 місяців тому

    I own two 1930s tuxedos in my opinion they are the pinnacle of tuxedos

  • @kimle27
    @kimle27 3 місяці тому

    May I ask, how about for female dresses?
    Please advise.
    Thanks 💞💞💞

  • @CastilhodeAlmeida
    @CastilhodeAlmeida 6 років тому +1

    Is it possible to wear the black tie without the cubber band or the waistcoat?
    Love your channel!
    Big hug

  • @Asimo44
    @Asimo44 7 років тому +1

    I recently bought a tuxedo. Everything was perfect on it except it had side vents and no stripes on the pants. I decided to purchase it anyway because the price was very reasonable and it fit me really well. I know the side vents probably wouldn't be able to be easily altered but would it be possible to have a tailor add galons to the pants?

  • @ichabod0391
    @ichabod0391 2 роки тому

    How do you feel about a black Prince Charles jacket and waistcoat with a kilt ensemble?

  • @justinhansen1328
    @justinhansen1328 2 роки тому

    what is the appropriate use of scarves and overcoats in black tie for especially cold outings?

  • @alexlonergan5096
    @alexlonergan5096 Місяць тому

    I’m looking at a true midnight blue Barthea tux for my wedding. Is that still acceptable? Can I wear this to other black tie weddings?

  • @liammooney9067
    @liammooney9067 2 роки тому

    Double vented tuxedo jackets are increasing in popularity. I agree a no-vent jacket delivers a more traditional silhouette but double vent is comfortable

  • @jlafontaine3517
    @jlafontaine3517 7 років тому +1

    Please do a video about White Tie. I really love these etiquette vids ;)

  • @devianthamburgler1169
    @devianthamburgler1169 6 років тому +3

    Going to prom next week. Hopefully it's worth it without a date👌

  • @misteroz
    @misteroz 7 років тому +1

    Another very comprehensive and informative video!
    One question on the bow tie itself - would you be able to get away with midnight blue (and I mean genuine midnight blue, rather than navy) or must it always be black?
    Many thanks

  • @leonsunu1209
    @leonsunu1209 20 днів тому

    In what dresscode is it accepteble to wear a smoking with a coloured bow tie and pocket square, mabe even a shirt with matching colour?
    Example from my wardrobe I found:
    Black smoking with matching pants, deep blue shirt with matching blue bowtie and pocket square. Tie and pocket square have a floral pattern in a subtle, silvery shine.

  • @BriteTap
    @BriteTap Рік тому

    I'm looking for some advice regarding the proper waistcoat to go with a Tuxedo. I just purchased a vintage Tuxedo made by Anderson & Shepherd with a satin shawl collar. It does not include a waistcoat and I'd like to get one if possible. However, I'm unsure about the etiquette in this regard. If the waistcoat is black, can the fabric contrast with that of the Tuxedo or is that a faux pas? Thanks in advance for your help.

  • @madman1052
    @madman1052 7 років тому +2

    Are you going to do a guide to white tie?

  • @victooriouspac
    @victooriouspac 4 місяці тому

    Is pink jacket appropriate for black tie event? What colors are appropriate for wedding event.

  • @muneebrahman9514
    @muneebrahman9514 Рік тому

    Will it be ideally or historically correct to have surgeon's cuffs on a Tuxedo jacket?

  • @leifharmsen
    @leifharmsen 4 місяці тому

    I'm Canadian, is a raccoon coat a good option as a coat to wear over black tie?

  • @Fred-kk6wy
    @Fred-kk6wy 5 років тому

    It is nice the way you express this "black tie dress code" information. I have a question that can be a bit silly for some people...When you are about to drive a car in order to get to the black tie event, must I remove the jacket or not and obviously put it on again upon leaving the car (I have the same question regarding keeping the tuxedo jacket in place or not when the event is over and you get into the car in order to drive home,etc.)?
    The answer to the previous question is also applicable while wearing a business attire or are there less limitations?
    I ask these questions because on the web there is not enough information about this and some people may argue that is more appropriate to remove the jacket while driving for safety reasons (more freedom in your arms, etc.), but personally I do not have any problems wearing the jacket, besides the possibility of getting a wrinkle in the fabric because of the seat belt.
    In advance, thanks for your kind answer and explanations.

    • @eep80674
      @eep80674 5 років тому +2

      Removing your jacket to drive is preferable for freedom of movement and to avoid wrinkling the jacket. That applies for both dinner jackets and suit jackets.

  • @oscarwills7112
    @oscarwills7112 2 роки тому

    Are dark grey trousers acceptable with a black dinner jacket?

  • @Christien64
    @Christien64 6 років тому

    Great video....One Question, is it a complete faux pas to where a bowler with black tie or should that be left to business/day wear?

  • @agenttux9398
    @agenttux9398 7 років тому +14

    Agent Tux knew this at birth, for most mortals, good info!

  • @hewie2u
    @hewie2u 6 років тому

    Raphael , This is a staggering presentation ; perfect in so many ways . I am interested though with the pockets on the trousers . I personally go for side seem to elevate the formality . What do you think ?

  • @thelegendofdarius
    @thelegendofdarius 5 років тому

    This is my favorite dress code of all time 🤵

  • @1andrewplatt
    @1andrewplatt 2 роки тому

    Is AMF stitching not ideal for a Tuxedo? I assume this to be true given the added detail it would create. Thanks!

  • @shanewright2772
    @shanewright2772 7 років тому

    In cooler weather is it appropriate to wear a cape? Because that would be awesome.

  • @lucasdelacruz7263
    @lucasdelacruz7263 7 років тому +13

    interesting. Can you do a video about white tie???

  • @rlkinnard
    @rlkinnard Місяць тому

    Where do you guys go for a black tie event? I never find anything more than a suit necessary.

  • @MauricXe
    @MauricXe 3 роки тому

    What about color? Is midnight blue always an acceptable substitute or are there some instances in which we can only wear black?

  • @vincent7584
    @vincent7584 3 роки тому

    Would it be appropriate to wear bowler with tuxedo?

  • @dadidadidj8924
    @dadidadidj8924 7 років тому

    my n1 Chanel for professional advices.

  • @gurmukhgurm3146
    @gurmukhgurm3146 7 років тому +1

    can you do a video on table etiquette for gentlemen

  • @GreekHorizon
    @GreekHorizon 7 років тому

    Beste Grüsse, habe mir jetzt ein mitternachtsblaues samt Jackett mit Rundkragen gekauft gekauft. Würde hier ein ein Butoniere zum Rundkragen passen? Möchte das ganze mit einer grün-blau-schwarzen Tartanhose kombinieren. Bin ein großer Fan von Gentleman‘s Gazette!

  • @MrHalvnir
    @MrHalvnir 5 років тому +1

    You will 'forgive' my ignorance, but are studs kin to "Button Covers' ? Do 'studs' fit over the buttons of the tuxedo shirt ?

    • @cyberjar01
      @cyberjar01 5 років тому

      Actually the those tuxedo feature holes where the two layers of fabric of the shirts overlap so you can keep them together with the studs, just like how you'd do with your cuffs when you put on cufflinks.

  • @kevvsy
    @kevvsy 5 років тому

    Hello Sven, are lapel pins allowed or frowned upon with black tie? Is the boutonnière the only acceptable accessory to put on the lapel?

  • @justinhansen1328
    @justinhansen1328 2 роки тому

    I have always had extremely curly red hair I feel it would be best to apply some creme on it to hold it down and darken to match the tux. For someone who wears predominantly brown what pattern would you suggest?

  • @quaziazrafhasan879
    @quaziazrafhasan879 2 роки тому

    hello, are vests always compulsory for black tuxedos?

  • @SaltyElitist
    @SaltyElitist 7 років тому +9

    Where did you get the background music for your videos? It's quite calming haha

  • @apolaki94
    @apolaki94 3 роки тому

    I will get one tux with double vents. Is it ok if should I go with now vents? I am only 1,73 m tall.. thought the jacket could look awkward on me without vents..

  • @singhtalks2256
    @singhtalks2256 3 роки тому

    What's different for cruise, wearing black tie?
    Thanks

  • @samuelclaessens7699
    @samuelclaessens7699 2 роки тому

    I hope I can one day find a good black tie tuxedo.

  • @masonrudesheim9098
    @masonrudesheim9098 7 років тому

    Although uncommon, would it be correct to wear a bowler with black tie? Also, I thought that a boater with a black band is appropriate with black tie when worn in summer, am I mistaken?

  • @danavery4710
    @danavery4710 4 роки тому

    Thanks for this guide. Where did you purchase your jacket in this video? I'm trying to find a Black Tie ensemble online, but they all seem to have multiple buttons, notch lapels, or flap pockets. Is there a clothier that you recommend?

  • @leifharmsen
    @leifharmsen 3 місяці тому

    What's your take on sock garters?

  • @boyscout244
    @boyscout244 7 років тому +1

    I've been waiting for this. thanks Raphael!

  • @trevorstiles1008
    @trevorstiles1008 8 місяців тому

    You sir have saved me from making a mistake thank you