Show Notes: 1-Notice your projections 2-Notice your hidden agendas 3-Realize Boundaries 4-Set intentions on Love 5-Be receptive 6-Hold space 7-Practice honesty 8-Other's best interest 9-Practice devotion 10- other as extension of self
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Lovely Video clip! Apologies for chiming in, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you tried - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (google it)? It is an awesome exclusive product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my old buddy Taylor finally got excellent results with it.
There are more then 5 love languages... Mine is Space. I need my partner to believe in me, and be self sufficient enough to leave me alone for periods of time, and let me go do things by myself. Another one is food. You might say that falls under acts of service, but being skilled enough to prepare good nutritious food is quickly becoming a lost art.
Your languages of love sound to me like personal application the existing ones. Like acts of service or gift giving (with food) and quality time (with space). Quality time for me worms both ways, in terms of having quality time together as well as apart.
When I first began going on silent meditation retreats with my Sangha; it was truly eye opening regarding the tendency toward projection. You practice for a week; a month, or longer with folks you don't talk to. We all realized after the retreats that we were making up stories about one another. I mean seriously deciding so & so dislikes me, & crushing hard on that person over there. I was pretty funny. After years of practice though; I've found that when you can drop agendas as you say, relax discursive thinking & be in the body, that profound intimacy can happen with people even without words. It's really helped me in my relationships in general:)
It really starts to jump out at you if you watch it. Like, it really hit me hard with the Pugle and the guys. I was really sad for people out of nowhere because of it.
I find that the book "The Soul Mate Illusion" shows us the deep psychology of how what often seems to be great romantic love turns out to be a bubble that bursts . . . an illusion. It suggests that early patterns of the bondings of infants recreate themselves in adult romance. Thus there is a simplistic projection of a perfect bond (or a deep need for one) with the partner that makes for a misperception of seeing the real, full, complex adult person with whom we are trying to be intimate. If we understand this patterning, we will be able to cope better, and learn much, when the illusions of love reveal themselves.
Thank you for this video. I definitely learned a different and deeper perspective on the topic. I've been down a rabbit hole with your videos today I would like to hear your perspective on what practical steps one can practice to see past your projections and expectations in order to see people and reality as it really is? I've been struggling with this and find myself suppressing the idea of 'expectations' as my shadow image (also thank you for that video too).
I feel like an incapacity for true intimacy or the total conflation of it with physical attraction is the root cause of dark triad personality traits because it leaves an enormous area of the psyche undeveloped and instead that area is compensated by manipulation and using others for practical needs and self-glorification.
A gem(multifaceted essence) is found in yang energy; formed in time by pressure of yin energy (flow) and becomes intimately crafted for brilliance, by skillful fractures with unconditional harmony and natural light. You’re parallax is desirable and beneficent to my visual trust, Emerald.🦚
Thanx! Love what u do. Very helpful to grow as a human! Completely redesigning all missed emotions as a result of childhood emotional neglect. Youre videos do contribute to that proces. ❤
Thank you for this. The election, covid-19 stress, school, and a hard time at work have really gotten me down. Although my boyfriend is being endlessly supportive and loving, I've been feeling like I'm putting up a wall. It's so scary and disconnecting. This helped to remind me how I can reconnect when we can next be together. Again, thank you.
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Appreciate video content! Forgive me for chiming in, I would appreciate your opinion. Have you thought about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is an awesome one of a kind product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my work buddy at very last got great success with it.
Thanks for the Video! Sorry for the intrusion, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you heard about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is a good one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the headache. Ive heard some great things about it and my GF at last got excellent results with it.
Excellent video content! Excuse me for butting in, I would love your opinion. Have you heard about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is a great exclusive guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the headache. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my friend after a lifetime of fighting got amazing results with it.
Great Video! Excuse me for butting in, I am interested in your opinion. Have you tried - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (should be on google have a look)? It is a great exclusive guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my old buddy Taylor got great success with it.
Excellent Video clip! Sorry for the intrusion, I would love your opinion. Have you thought about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (do a google search)? It is a great one off product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my friend Sam after many years got astronomical results with it.
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Show Notes:
1-Notice your projections
2-Notice your hidden agendas
3-Realize Boundaries
4-Set intentions on Love
5-Be receptive
6-Hold space
7-Practice honesty
8-Other's best interest
9-Practice devotion
10- other as extension of self
Lovely video content! Sorry for the intrusion, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you ever tried - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a great one of a kind guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some super things about it and my mate at very last got cool success with it.
Thanks for the Video! Forgive me for butting in, I would appreciate your opinion. Have you researched - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (google it)? It is an awesome one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some decent things about it and my mate at last got amazing results with it.
Kudos for the video content! Sorry for the intrusion, I am interested in your opinion. Have you heard the talk about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (just google it)? It is an awesome exclusive product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my m8 at very last got cool results with it.
Lovely Video clip! Apologies for chiming in, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you tried - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (google it)? It is an awesome exclusive product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my old buddy Taylor finally got excellent results with it.
There are more then 5 love languages... Mine is Space. I need my partner to believe in me, and be self sufficient enough to leave me alone for periods of time, and let me go do things by myself.
Another one is food. You might say that falls under acts of service, but being skilled enough to prepare good nutritious food is quickly becoming a lost art.
I believe these two are mine as well. I am a foodie at heart
Curiosi Tea I’m the same way! I’m definitely an acts of service, and someone giving me food is the ultimate!
Your languages of love sound to me like personal application the existing ones. Like acts of service or gift giving (with food) and quality time (with space). Quality time for me worms both ways, in terms of having quality time together as well as apart.
Teal Swan has a video on how needing space is not a need but about not being authentic.
No Labels Could it also be about introversion or someone who is on the spectrum? Seriously curious now.
When I first began going on silent meditation retreats with my Sangha; it was truly eye opening regarding the tendency toward projection. You practice for a week; a month, or longer with folks you don't talk to. We all realized after the retreats that we were making up stories about one another. I mean seriously deciding so & so dislikes me, & crushing hard on that person over there. I was pretty funny. After years of practice though; I've found that when you can drop agendas as you say, relax discursive thinking & be in the body, that profound intimacy can happen with people even without words. It's really helped me in my relationships in general:)
It really starts to jump out at you if you watch it. Like, it really hit me hard with the Pugle and the guys. I was really sad for people out of nowhere because of it.
I can’t get relationships, so I practice intimacy with eternal presence
Great lecture. One another important aspect for intimacy is keep working on our personal growth issues and keep learning about each other,
It was like you were speaking to me. You are a very mature person. Thanks.
I find that the book "The Soul Mate Illusion" shows us the deep psychology of how what often seems to be great romantic love turns out to be a bubble that bursts . . . an illusion. It suggests that early patterns of the bondings of infants recreate themselves in adult romance. Thus there is a simplistic projection of a perfect bond (or a deep need for one) with the partner that makes for a misperception of seeing the real, full, complex adult person with whom we are trying to be intimate. If we understand this patterning, we will be able to cope better, and learn much, when the illusions of love reveal themselves.
Complex trauma you are talking about.
I suffered from this soul mate conception.
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leaving a comment for the algorithim...awesome content by the way
Thank you for this video. I definitely learned a different and deeper perspective on the topic. I've been down a rabbit hole with your videos today I would like to hear your perspective on what practical steps one can practice to see past your projections and expectations in order to see people and reality as it really is? I've been struggling with this and find myself suppressing the idea of 'expectations' as my shadow image (also thank you for that video too).
I feel like an incapacity for true intimacy or the total conflation of it with physical attraction is the root cause of dark triad personality traits because it leaves an enormous area of the psyche undeveloped and instead that area is compensated by manipulation and using others for practical needs and self-glorification.
That's an interesting thought. I'll have to ponder on that one a bit.
Couldn’t have said this better myself
Thank you. This is awesome
“Be an empty cup.” I like that. I guess it’s along the lines of holding space.
Spot on as always!
A gem(multifaceted essence) is found in yang energy; formed in time by pressure of yin energy (flow) and becomes intimately crafted for brilliance, by skillful fractures with unconditional harmony and natural light. You’re parallax is desirable and beneficent to my visual trust, Emerald.🦚
Thank you! :)
My son asked me how do you date women.
1. Don't pursue
2. Don't Ignore
3. Be truthful
4. Friends first
That was a wonderful point about looking for people who reflect you, but not people you're just projecting on. Thanks for another great video!
I really liked this video, some of the ideas are compatible with Buddhist thought.
I found this very helpful for understanding what is needed for intimacy.
Good to see you back!
Thanks for the tips!
Thank you and you're welcome! :)
Thank you for insightful content! ^_^
I've been the dog before. But I've also been the people who project onto the dog.
You are The best !! Thanks 👍🏼
Lady. You are amazing.
Resonating highly.
It's just freaking scary. I can't open up to people and be vulnerable
But give yourself credit for self-awareness! Good for you!!
wish i saw this video before my divorce . . .
This material is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you. Greetings from Italy
2 good 2 B true
Thanx!
Love what u do. Very helpful to grow as a human!
Completely redesigning all missed emotions as a result of childhood emotional neglect.
Youre videos do contribute to that proces. ❤
U r good
Thank you for this. The election, covid-19 stress, school, and a hard time at work have really gotten me down. Although my boyfriend is being endlessly supportive and loving, I've been feeling like I'm putting up a wall. It's so scary and disconnecting. This helped to remind me how I can reconnect when we can next be together. Again, thank you.
I am interested in the coaching sessions. Do you have a degree in psychology? Also, where can we talk about scheduling? (Time differences)
Oh man! I've totally experienced what you described with the humans interacting with the dog. It does make me sad to see that....
My wife and I are having intimacy issues. I have a hard time opening up. I am starting to imminent your ten steps. Thanks
I think we inevitably become attracted to people who are most like our parents (for women their fathers, for men their mothers)
I will be coming back to watch this over and over again. This is amazing information
Great again , thanks
its impossible to find a relationship let alone trust a woman with my feelings , i have had to do everything by myself .
Thanks for the knowledge! This really helps. For someone who is distant avoidant 🙈
I'm always learning something new from your videos, thank you!
How do you create boundaries without hurting feelings?
Excellent content. THANKS!!
What a great topic! Thank you!!
This is just the best advice! Thank you
Move yourself out of the way ... love it =D Great vid =)
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Appreciate video content! Forgive me for chiming in, I would appreciate your opinion. Have you thought about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is an awesome one of a kind product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my work buddy at very last got great success with it.
Thanks for the Video! Sorry for the intrusion, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you heard about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is a good one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the headache. Ive heard some great things about it and my GF at last got excellent results with it.
Excellent video content! Excuse me for butting in, I would love your opinion. Have you heard about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is a great exclusive guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the headache. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my friend after a lifetime of fighting got amazing results with it.
Great Video! Excuse me for butting in, I am interested in your opinion. Have you tried - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (should be on google have a look)? It is a great exclusive guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my old buddy Taylor got great success with it.
Excellent Video clip! Sorry for the intrusion, I would love your opinion. Have you thought about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (do a google search)? It is a great one off product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my friend Sam after many years got astronomical results with it.
Thank you. This is awesome
whqt if individual has not dreamed for years,
Do you smoke?or take meds?
Hi, Emerald
I love this video
😘
Great video!
Thank you! :)
Timely!!!! Thank you!
You're welcome! :)