Reacting To COMING OUT Videos! - Hailee And Kendra
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We’re so excited!! And honestly the game is really cute, we’re playing it a lot 😁
How are you at nearly half a million subscribers and this is your first sponsored video?!!
I love this video Im also like you guys I came out as both straight and none binary because of you guys
So good for u guys..May you guys get more successful sponsors and engage on more ventures over the years
When I came out to my wife after about 30 years of marriage, she said "I've known you all of your adult life. Tell me something I don't know. " ❤
And that’s a supportive partner 💕
I have a friend of mine who came out as gay to his wife, she was not as supportive as yours was, glad that you got a good response.
30 years? God almighty - How????
so glad you were supported 🩷 that’s true care , your bond must be so strong.
@@ilookafterthewater601 haha there's a sitcom I'm currently watching, starring Fran Drescher, with the same basic premise...
As a straight male, some of these coming out videos brought tears to my eyes. I can't imagine the nervousness and anxiety these people had coming out to their family and friends. Much respect to the LGBTQIA+ community!!!
I remember when I was 7, my only cousin on my mother's side came out. He told his parents he was in love with another young man (they were both teenagers). His father was supportive, but his mother freaked the fπ¢& out. She yelled at him, saying "You're can't be in love with a boy! That's wrong!" His response: "Why not? I mean, you're in love with that thing in your nightstand..."
Almost 40 years later, and it's still THE BEST clapback, imho.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶 epic response!!!!!!
OH BOY 👀
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Perfect!!!
I bet you your cousin had that response in the chamber ready to go just in case.
When I came out my parents exact words were "that's good....now set the table for supper"😅😅😅 definitely a memory I won't forget
When our middle daughter came out we told her we loved her and always would as long as she was happy and then to go do her homework. (She was in 8th grade). Keep in mind though I'm pansexual and my hubby is a huge ally. I didn't have a good coming out story though and wanted my daughter to have the support I never got. She is now 20 and married to a wonderful young woman and they are very happy.
That’s very sweet! We’re glad your daughter was able to come out safely 🌹 and that she’s happy and healthy!
“That’s great honey, we love you, but go get the algebra done”
Couldn’t ask for a more this is normal because it is normal response
@@TheMelbournelad Yeah pretty much how we felt about it. ☺ I was live streaming tonight and her wife video called me in the middle of it just to show me what she'd gotten my daughter for Christmas. She was so proud of it. It was adorable.
My parents' reactions to my coming out at 17 were so different. My mom had the emotional "I know and I will always love you" speech while we cried and hugged when I got home from school for Thanksgiving break, and then later that day when we were picking my dad up from work (he's visually impaired so he can't drive) I told my dad who immediately cheered and said "I knew it and that's why you're my favorite!" because he no longer had to worry about lil teenage me bringing home boys and then proceeded to light up like a lightbulb went off in his head and yelled "CAN I TELL YOU SOFTBALL JOKES?!"... it was a good day
I remember my son sitting next to me on the couch. For months he was so withdrawn. I paused the movie and asked him if he was gay. He said yes. Asked if he was in a relationship. He said yes. Asked if he was happy. Said yes. Told him thats all i care about, his happiness. Him and his parter celebrate 11 years together on Christmas. Love them both. Wish all parents, and siblings, could be more supportive.
The boy that apologized broke my heart.... his mother was awesome
It was heartbreaking and at the same time so incredibly wholesome 😭💕
@HaileeandKendra Yes definitely she loves her son so much
I remember coming out to my mum as a lesbian when I was 16, and her reply was I have known since you were 11. I have just been waiting for you to know yourself. You're still my little one and always will be. My dad then came in and saw us crying, and my mum gave him a nod, and he just grabbed me and said, "Thank you for being true to yourself." ❤❤
I love his ♥️♥️
as a single dad ive legit told my daughter who is a pre teen idc who you bring home i just want you to be happy and i love you no matter what
I came out to my family as trans and Bisexual like a year ago and at first, they seemed confused, but literally the next day, i was met with presents of chest binders and pride flags 💗
When I came out to my mother, all she could do was ask what *she* did wrong. Probably the lowest point of my life as up to that moment, I had been so close to her. I haven't talked to her in almost 10 years now and she has made no effort to reconcile.
My sister-in-law was so completely polar opposite of that reaction and embraced me for me. I had never had a deep relationship with her before then and ever since, we have been closer than ever. She has been my biggest ally and advocate.
When the parents reaction is positive, it tears me apart inside...because I am so happy for those people and so sad for my own parents' reactions.
I love you guys for being allies and advocates and for simply being you. *hugs*
Ryan -I’m a parent and I am SO sorry for your sadness. Know that your mom’s reaction was all about her and not you! Still that doesn’t begin to make it ok for her to remain unsupportive for years. Her initial reaction is not uncommon, but her apparent inability to learn about human sexuality and embrace differences is. There’s always a chance she’ll “grow up” and come around to understanding. My guess is she somehow blames herself. For years my mom blamed herself for my brother’s horrible (genetic) neurological disease. Moms are weird like that sometimes.
Embrace the family that accepts and celebrates who you are, live your life with love and joy, and maybe now and then send some of that love and joy (energetically but silently) your mom’s way. It may not make things change but then again, you never know, it might. Love and hugs and congratulations (on your honesty and bravery) to you 😊
That sucks. When my oldest came out as transgender, I took on the philosophy of "still my kid that I love", nothing about that person has changed except they're now being who they're meant to be. You are who you're meant to be. I'm sorry that your mother reacted like that, it's heartbreaking. Stay strong!!
I’m 23 and my parents and sisters said that’s a sin that’s the wrong kind of behavior that I’m in the wrong path in life that they don’t wanna believe that’s true and that they don’t accept or support that, now everyday my mom judges my 2 sister is starting to seem a little more supportive but my other sisters and my parents don’t support it
The social worth of your videos, your genuine natural love and the happiness that seems to swirl around you is such a gift! Made my day watching this. More please, thank you for sharing your experiences with us all!
Thank you for watching our content!! We’re happy you’re enjoying it 🌹
This is why I love the LGBTQIA+ community. I came out as trans 3 years ago, and the first person I told was a bi friends, who instantly told her lesbian friend. that friend called me and said, "is it true?" when I answered yes, she instantly hung up and drove to my apartment, and took me shopping!
The scene with the Asian parents was from the ABC show What Would You Do. I remember watching it when it aired. My wife's and my reaction to it gave my daughter the courage to come out to us.
My youngest daughter never told us about being gay. She just decided not to hide it. I was taking a friend of hers home (and she came along, of course), and when I dropped her off, she gave her a kiss goodbye. Not a "friendly" kiss, but one that a couple would give each other. It was a surprise in the moment, and I talked to her mother later that weekend about it, and she didn't know either. It never changed how we feel about here, though, and include her partner in events. Her partner has also since come out as a trans man, but again, changes nothing for the rest of the family on our feeling for the two.
I love the first song, “Ken not Barbie” it cheats makes me cry, I also cane out to my parents with that song 🥺🥹❤️❤️❤️ love is love. No matter who/what you love!!! Love you Haylee & Kendra 🤟😚❤️
I'm terrified to come out as pan to my parents, my Mom doesn't believe you can be more than gay or straight, and my dad is an extreme homophobe, I don't think I'll ever be able to. My husband knows and actually shares the same sexuality, and everyone else I've told have been amazing and supportive. That's all I need ❤️❤️
Sweetie if you aren’t ready to come out to them that’s 100% okay!!! When you are ready you will know and even if you never come out to them that’s perfectly okay too!!!! Sending you & your supportive hubs lots of love!
As a father, it would never make a difference if my daughter or son is gay , why , very simple. Love is so hard to find , true to ones self, love your children for whobthey are ,not what their orientation is. I have two children, I want them as happy as life will allow. Thank you ladies. You are one of the happiest ciuples i have ever seen. Congrats on your marriage.
That’s how it should be 🌹 and thank you!
I came out to my mom as pansexual almost 10 years ago. She didn't understand at first but she eventually came around and gave her full support.
I came out three years ago and am still hearing bs for it from my parents they talk behind my back and have little talks with me every now and then. I love seeing when parents are supportive because I wish I could have that. Thanks for the video it really makes me feel better
I still remember coming out to my dad and step-mom twelve years ago. It still is the scariest decision that I ever made.
Proud of you for taking that step and being your true self openly 🌹
@@HaileeandKendraI wouldn't know how to come out to my family
I had a horrible coming out experience. I already knew my mom was homophobic, so I didn't plan to tell her until I had moved out. When I was 16, my sister told my mom I was gay, based solely on a rumor she heard at school. I had to spend a year with no life outside school. Over 15 years later, and I still don't trust my sister, or my mom, with anything in my life. My one bright spot was my dad, because my mom had to call and out me to him, thinking he'd be on her side. When she made me take the phone he said, "I love you no matter what, and it's going to be okay."
That experience, is one of the reasons I stand up for all my LGBT+ kids at work. Each one of them are worthy of so much in life, and I want to make sure I'm always a safe space for them.
My friend was unsure about coming out to his dad after he had already told his mom. So he hid in a closet and called for his dad. Wondering what was going on he storms over and told his son to come out of the closet. He simply opened the door and handed his dad a flag and walked away. His dad looks at it and goes duh. The next day he came home and the flag was hanging on the wall. It's the first thing you see when you enter his home.
I remember when I came out to my family, my step mom told me I was lying and my step sister said no you're not, but the one person who love me to the point of getting a divisors to make me safe was my dad. He is the kind of dad to give real hugs at pride.
"I'm sorry"
"Dont be sorry, silly"
I'm transgender and I'm crying
My fav video!!!! Also, thank u Hailee: I don’t know where I would be without my older brother. He always (and still does) supported and loved me. He showed me the world when my parents hid it from me. I was the first family member he came out to and I’m forever grateful that he felt safe to tell me (And now I’m crying). Anyway, thank u guys! I love u!!! Ur such an inspiration in my life. I love laughing and crying with u and being the glorious gender fluid lesbian I truly am ✨✨
As a straight female, I would totally accept and support any of my family or friends if they came to me and told me they’re gay, bi, whatever kind of love they’re wanting from whoever they want it from. And I’m sitting here crying watching these with you guys. I love you gals and your videos. You two have a such a strong bond and love for each other and I hope nothing but eternal happiness for you both. You always make me laugh and I always look forward to your next video. You’re amazing, 😊❤
I came out to my family by accident during lockdown, randomly during a conversation with my sister i came out as lesbain she was like "omg really, all my gay friends always said they had a feeling you were lesbain or bisexual" and we both laughed about that and she could tell I was scared to tell my mam so she told her for me. My mam was really supportive and said how she loves me no matter what and she also said "what kind of mother would I be if I didn't love you just because your a lesbian" and gave me a hug. Now my mam, sister and brother make a lot of gay jokes to me and there so cheesy but very funny, I'm blessed to have such an amazing and supportive family, my family have saved me a lot i can never thank them enough, I'm sorry for this long comment just think this is a safe place to share, thank you for being such wonderful people. Hope everyone has an amazing day/ night, love you all.
heyyyyy, im bisexual and came out to my parents yesterday
they supported me and got questions i anserd them all, i love how they reacted
Less than 3 and a half minutes in, and I'm crying about Kendra's Mom's coming out story. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Ooh snap, I too have a Masters in Criminology and Criminal Justice. I totally see where you are coming from with the social experiments. What I love about the "What Would You Do" series (which the final clip is from) is that when people don't step in, they ask them why and the answer to that question is always interesting. There is a lot of 'I really should have and I feel embarrassed', some 'It wasn't my place', and the odd 'I'm not sure why'. The show has also inspired people to step in outside of the show's context, realising they need to step in when help is needed.
This video literally made me ball because I wish my parents were as supportive as the dad that asked do you feel worthy. My coming out was extremely hard and I had no support or acceptance from my parents. I am so hapoy for the people on these videos, I just wish my story was that happy.
I wish ur story was happier toooooo!!!! I hope ur doing better and in a safer and happy environment ❤
10:53 ok. I cried with the others before this, but I ugly cried to this one.❤❤.
10:52 that one got a tear rolling down my face! 🥺🥺🥺
I only came out in December of 2023 (I was days way from turning 34). First I wrote a letter to my dad and bonus mom. Then I texted each of my 2 brothers who live across the country. Then I made a reel on IG for the world to see. I’ve known who I am for a long time, but living in a very conservative area, I was nervous about how I’d be treated if people knew. I can now say I am panromantic demisexual, or queer, and have it be a relief to have it off my chest.
You two are so lovely together. Also that mum who said " don't worry" thats how the reaction should be!! Love your child full stop
I love y'alls content, it gives me so much joy in seeing your wholesome reactions!
We’re so glad you’re enjoying our content!!
@@HaileeandKendra ❤
We NEEEEEDD a part 2,I loved this sooooo much, I could watch these videos over and over
In hs, when I came out to my best friend and her dad as bi, as a test run for my parents, I opened with something like "I think I have more in common with Willow (from Buffy) than looks and personality."
My parents' response to a more straightforward approach was "we love you, all we care about is that you're safe and happy."
When as an adult I told them I was and had been in a poly relationship with two of my best friends, their response was "yeah, we kind of figured that one out."
I fully supported my daughter when she came out to me. I just told her, you’re still my kiddo, I’ll love you no matter what!!!!! And I got a massive hug. Love is love.
when both of my daughters came out to me, all i did was tell them that i loved them, and would have their back no matter what. I told them who THEY loved didn't matter to me at all, as long as they are happy. My house has now become a "safe place" for all of their LGBTQ+ teenage friends. My wife and i try to give them all the love and support that they all deserve. I consider all of them part of my family. No one should ever be scared or ashamed of who they are. Love is LOVE
I’m a 39 year old straight dad with three teenage daughters and I cried like a baby at this! Love this you two.
That coming out at 8:00 broke me because it makes me realize what I could have gotten when I came out and what all Mormon parents should react with. Our biggest motto is love thy neighbor and love the sinner not the sin yet nobody practices what they preach. I am very happy for both the son and his dad and I hope they have a wonderful life.
Hello, ladies. I just had a drop a line and say how much I love. Watching you do and how much you make the world better. Love from a 60 two-year-old straight man.😊🎉😊
My oldest grandson came out 3 years ago when he was 17 and was afraid to tell me because he thought that I would hate him, I told him I knew since he was a little boy and I will always love him!! I just want him to be happy and find a great partner because he is a wonderful young man!!! And gorgeous too lol!
The “I’m sorry” broke me. I started tearing up like omg my heart 🥺 I hope for a world where no one ever has to feel apologetic for not being able to control who their heart desires. Much love and well wishes to those who have felt the same way as the sweet human in that video or have been shown that they wouldn’t be supported or are currently shown that they aren’t. What you feel is valid, what you feel matters and nobody can take that away from you - don’t let yourself believe that they can or have. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️💕♥️🧡💛💚💙💜💕
27:24 IS MY FREAKING FAVORITE you look so happ and all fun :)
I told my mom I was ace a year or two ago in the truck with my two siblings present... I'm not sure if she remembers or not, but her reaction was quite small.
I told her in a weird way, and she's like "Oh yeah I know about that one."
Didn't tell her I was aromantic or nonbinary at the time though.
Personally, I also very much like the framing of „letting in“. (A cursory lookup tells me that „Inviting In“ is also used. It has been years since I encountered the concept and incorporated it).
It feels more intimate to me and changes expectations. There’s a big difference in conceptualizing who enters which space. For me, letting in emphasizes the trust sharing that info with that specific person and not everyone. This is also crucial when talking about confidentiality.
This is not to ditch coming out but to broaden the way we can approach the process and have more choice.
I’m with Hailee I’m not crying you are when Kendra told her story.
The boy apologising 😭😭 I cried! He seemed so scared and overwhelmed.
Kendra's mom's sound like legends and really awesome people
"The world would be a better place if we all helped each other a little bit." I 100% agree, you never know how much someone needs it or how you could be making their day. Plus we all need help once in a while. Oh also, I believe that the video that you guys were wondering if it was a social experiment or not was from the show "What Would You Do." You were right, the family were actors but the woman coming up was a stranger who had no idea it was for a social experiment. The strangers get informed that it was a filmed social experiment/tv show afterwards.
Your reactions were so wholesome and heartfelt, and kudos to everyone in the videos for finding the courage to come out to their friends or family ❤ Not gonna lie, some of these got me too.
Omg I absolutely loved this what an amazing video the amount of times that I cried watching this such a wholesome video love you guys ❤
Hey guys, I might not be the usual audience for a video like lith as I am a hetero male. But my best friends who are both bisexual told me about your content and I find it very cool to watch and it helps me unterstands whats goin on with my friends on a daily basis better, so thank you for all you do. But onto the reason I'm writing this comment. as I was watching the Video I thought its was really wholsome, but when Hailee talked about a parent asking their child if they feel "worthy of beeing alive" I broke down in tears, because while I don't have to deal with the predjudice that the LGBTQAI+ community has to deal with I never had that question asked to me from both of my parents and realised that they also never made me feel that way too. So while this sound sad it also made me realise that I dont need their approval to be my own person and living my own life. So thank you for making that statement and helping me realise that. Thank you for all you do and keep beeing awsome. Lots of Love Michael (P.S. sorry if this is hard to read as english is not my first language and I had a hard enought time writing it as it is :) )
Please say thank you from us to your friends, we are glad they shared our content with you 😊 and thank YOU for watching it, and being so open and vulnerable about your feelings 🌹 we're glad to have you in our community!
PS: your English is great!!
I’m not crying at 6:15 in the morning. You are. You guys are wonderful for sharing these ❤
I came out to my mom as Pan, and the first thing she told me was to not share with my ultra religious step-dad, and refuses to acknowledge it. These make me so happy for the people who got to have that true acceptance moment with their parents. 💖💛💙
Love the video, the video that was in black and white got me a little emotional with the dad's response
I came out to my dad as a lesbain on his birthday 2½ years ago as i was going to bed, the next day, all he said to me about it is that he loved me and always would. To this day, he still loves me and i know that when he learns about my gf, he'll love her like he loves me
the social experiment is a real life TV show called "What would you do" it showcases difficult social situations with actors but thee reactors are real people. Its pretty cool an an emotional ride. If i may add a word of caution in condemning someone's reaction to big news. In these cases it is never ok to negatively react to your child, sibling or friends coming out. But please remember you may have had months or years to process this information and the person you are telling has had seconds. When my sister came out to me I hugged her and told her i loved her, and i needed a little time before I could talk to her about it. Next day we spent hours chatting because she let me process what she had been processing for the last thirty years.
I love watching these videos and it makes me feel a lot better. Thanks you two. I’m only put to my friends and 3 teachers.
My parents found out before I came out (to be fair, I’m really bad at subtlety lol 😂), and when I came home that day, my Mom just pulled me aside and asked “just checking… that person you’ve been texting, are they a woman?” She was so sweet about it! ❤
When i came out i was around 12 or 13 everyone always suspected i didnt have any romantic feelings for guys but i came out my father looked me dead in the eye and said "well i kinda thought that and im glad ur not going to get pregnant" my mom on the other hand began to verbally, mentally, emotionally, and sometimes physically harm me because of who i am she would always call me vulgar names so i was never really happy with who i was and it still is odd talking to her about my love life even if she is a little more accepting of it (im still confused on why she is so homophobic to me when her own brother has a husband) but it was difficult but i surrounded myself with people who were part of the LGBTQIA+ community and allies and i never felt more loved or cared for
26:09 I've personally had something like this happen to me. I'm disabled and I've had to go to the ER a few times. My knees tend to give out or I easily trip over transitions in doorways, my mother typically would drop me off at the entrance and go find a place to park. I've walked in the first set of doors where there are soda machines before getting to the lobby. There were actually 4 times this happened, where I've fallen, and had to crawl over to something to get back up and struggling bad. People walking by (Including Doctors & nurses) didn't even give 2 sh*ts seeing me on the floor. I had to wait for my mother to finally come in and help me.
I felt so embarrassed and worthless that this happened and I wasn't worth any effort of someone just asking if I needed help. I cried and just felt so awful then.
Still do now tbh
As a straight father of an 18-year-old, I've always tried to let my son know that it doesn't matter to me who he loves. It breaks my heart when I hear of kids coming out to their parents and being rejected. I've seen videos of older guys giving out "Dad Hugs" at pride parades and grown adults who have been rejected by their own fathers breaking down crying because they're getting the hugs and affirmation they didn't know they were really missing. Some day I'll do that. Of course, at my age it may be Grandpa Hugs, but I just want to hug everyone who's been rejected by their parents for just being who they are, and tell them it's ok, they're great just as they are.
a younger family member came out to me before most of the family knew. The first words out of my mouth were "I love you always and I'm honoured you trusted me enough to share" (she wasn't fully out at the time, she's out and proud now with a lovely young woman who fits into our family perfectly so I felt ok to share). I wish we didn't live in a world where sharing who you love is something that requires an advanced notice, but till we live in a world where its safe to just be who you are, the only appropriate response is love and support in my opinion.
I’m so glad that there are so many people out there with supportive parents. My parents to this day don’t accept my sexuality (I’m pan). It was very hard for me at first because it took me over two years to get the confidence to come out and I can still see the disappointment fall over their faces to this day. However as I’ve grown I’ve learned that I can still love them and myself even if they don’t support me and I’ve found happiness and I’m glad that there are parents who love and support their children from the start. 😊
When I came out to my mom, the answer was "Is that the important thing you wanted to tell me? Pffffff, I already knew! I thought was something important..." and I was like O-O
I definitely cried bc when i came out i also said i was sorry bc i was scared what her answer was but luckily my mom and step dad, my childhood besties, everyone excepted me
I wish everyone's coming out was so easy and safe. I wish I was so sure when I was that young. I wish I had better resources and support back then. I wish I understood sooner.
It’s so scary and the world can be scary but it’s so amazing when people find the strength to tell others something so essential to themselves. So proud and happy for them!
I love your guys vibe keep making awesome content
You guys are THE most wonderful couple… you are so supportive & understanding… you should be so so proud of yourselves 🤗 🥰
Ps love you both loads 🩷
I told my son, OK, im proud of you for wanting to be yourself. No matter what I will always love you no matter how you feel. You are always my kid. He waited till his mom and I divorced and first came out to me and my GF. Made me super proud as a dad to be there for my kid
Love u guys always cheers me up and makes me smile hope u having a amazing hoilgays hehe 💖 🎄
So, my wife and I have lived as a married couple since 1997 and raised three children together 2 blocks from my parents. Her mother lived in our house for awhile and now we live in her mother's place. What we've practiced with our families is consent to know. Both my parents and her mother chose not to know. We live honestly and openly as a married couple. We just don't talk about it and her mother treats me like her daughter. My parents have passed but I did get to answer a question from my dad that she treats me way better than my ex ever thought of and it was the end of it. They treated her like theirs as well. Sometimes actions can be coming out and say way more about your relationship with less friction. A tip from an old fart lesbian. 😊🎉❤
I loved this. Though those moments when the person coming out starts crying always get me. It's so hard coming out and with the stress of not knowing the other person's reaction (especially if it's someone really close) that all those emotions just come out in the end (no pun intended). And when we went through that in the past it's impossible not to feel something.
I teared up when you tearing up lol love your videos ladies thank you for making the all ❤❤
I'm a 45 year old woman from the UK, stumbled across your channel through KalmeKris, I love you ladies, probably one of your older audiences 😂 my son came out recently, and I said you know what the problem is with that son? I said both our boyfriends have the same name 😂 I always had an inkling, my son is hard to read, but from a young age, he was always told, you never come out to me, who you love is natural, I'm so proud of my beautiful son. Much love to you ladies, and all in the comments we are all beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤ 🌈 🏳️🌈
I was 15 when I came out to my mom using the Coming Out by Ally Hills. I told her earlier that day that I wanted to talk to her. Then panic me decided I hope she forgot about it, she did not. I put the song on with headphones, gave her my phone and sat in the living room. About four minutes, she came in there gave me a hug told me she loved me. I came out to my younger brothers (9, 10 and 14) who were like cool. My first youngest brother is only a year younger than me and everyone was scared of him in school so when people started badmouthing me, he put a end to it real quick into it.
My mom also injected me with be kind to everyone. I agree 100% HELP PEOPLE!!! Help them cross the street, unload groceries into cars, open doors, hold doors and just be KIND!!
Thanks for the positivity and light you both show in all your videos, you are jewels.
That said, 11:53 hit me HARD with the "F@CK, you're old!" stick, because in WHAT generation did ANYONE in middle school start being bi, much less everyone?
When I was in middle school (and high school for that matter) nobody was bi (at least in any way that they would admit to.) Bravo to the younger generations for getting there sooner that mine did... makes me think maybe some of us are on the right track after all... LOVE is LOVE!
my son came out to me and i told him that this doesn't change a thing ill love you for who you are not for what you are and its brought us closer together
I was raised by my grandparents and I suffered emotional, mental, verbal, & physical abuse from my grandmother. They never once asked me if I felt ok or if I felt worthy of being on this earth
I came out to my mom yester and she was cool with it ❤🏳️🌈
I'm currently in middle school and I openly came out as lesbian to my friends (since it is pretty normal and open topic in my school) and they were very supportive. I also came out to my sister who is in high school, and my dad. they were both really supportive and my dad said to keep my mind open until i'm 16 because then I will probably know for sure what my sexuality is. I recently came out to my mom and she basically said it's just a phase and keeps trying to convince me that. It really hit me hard when you guys said that if someone doesn't accept their child, they aren't worthy of having a kid. That was so true. Watching the videos that the 2 of you make, makes me really happy because they really help me remember that it is fine to be who you are and there will be people who love you no matter what. Thank you two so much for helping me on my journey to discover my sexuality! (P.S. I have identified as lesbian for 2 years so I am extremely positive that I will grow up to still be a lesbian...also, i have a crush on my best friend of 2 years and i have confessed to her many times already and we are still best friends lol)😁 Thank you two so much, again!! ❤❤Keep spreading the positivity and love!!!!
I always told both my kids (now 25 and 22) that i would love and support them no matter what, as long as they are happy and living their truth. My oldest (female) is now married to a wonderful bi man, and my youngest is nonbinary and is in a very happy relationship as well! I get absolutely GIDDY when people come out! It makes my heart so happy to see people not afraid to live their truth regardless of what others think ❤
Hailee - Ready to rage at anything
Also Hailee - Sobbing at the drop of a hat
And honestly SAME!!
I really enjoyed this video and watching others come out. Im hoping that everyone is happy and that they can be their true self without being judged by others. ❤
I'm bi and only out to my friends and siblings, and coming from the great Danny "if you parents aren't going to accept u for u, do they really deserve to know the real you."
Oh and I think you two are amazing and I love watching you two! You both have made some very tough spots in my life a little better by making me laugh when I couldn't do anything but cry! Tomorrow December 13th I will be 53 and sometimes think I'm too old to be watching,but I just love you both!!!
Gratz on your first sponsor young ladies love your videos keep been you and love them smiles
Kendra: I've never met someone who said coming out is easy.
Me: Yeah, because we've never met.
When I tell you it was easy to come out to my mom, I mean it was VERY easy. Beginning of 6th grade, I liked this "straight" girl. She comes out to me as bi, and tells me that she likes me. I ask her to be my girlfriend, and she says yes. We went home from school that day and told our moms. My mom was like, "I already knew this." Her mom was just like, "Well, are you happy?" My (now ex) girlfriend nodded so hard I'm surprised her head's still attached. Her little sister called their VERY religious aunt and was like, "[insert name] has a girlfriend" and their mother immediately snapped. Said sister was grounded for 7 months, no phone, no tv, no going anywhere or having friends over, no snacks, no Switch, and double chores. Her mom's a real one for that.
When I came out as trans mtf at the age of 47, 10yrs ago my parents were fine a little shocked as I hid it well but they have been so supportive of me being me. Of my siblings my 3 half brothers were fine but my brother had a bit more of a difficult time getting his head around it he accepted it but just needed time to adjust to the big brother who looked after him growing up was now his big sister but we all get on really well now. The ones who turned their back on me were 2 of my 3 sons they disowned me and have stopped me seeing my grandchildren as a result of it but I know that if I hadn't transitioned I'd be not here for them if they ever decide to find me and see me when they are older ❤
I am so sorry to hear that your children had an issue with this I can never understand why this changes peoples attitude as you are actually the same person you always were except that you are a happier version of that person or would be entirely if those around you had not reacted adversely. It does not bear well if any of those grandchildren ever need to come out. We live in a world then still generates intolerance of many things. We should just let people be who they are unless who they are brings harm to others.
I remember when my daughter came out to my wife and I. She was scared because of the rejection videos she saw on UA-cam, and other platforms. When she did we were like, "and? ,,,", with her expecting rejection or something. My reaction was as long as you stay within the species, we love you.. Stray outside, it.. gets weird. She received an anti-climactic response. You love who you love and it's also none of the parents business other than support and love.
My mom asked me what I would say/do if my son said he was gay. I told her I’d ask him two questions: are you happy? are you safe? My last relationship was with a woman and in the two years we were together, majority of the time I was unhappy and not safe so in my opinion, if you’re in a relationship: straight or not, happiness and feeling safe is vital. There are far too many abusive relationships out there that you can’t pin point WHO and WHAT kind of relationship will be right for you until you live it. I just want my son to be happy, safe and healthy. If his partner makes him feel anything but I hope he finds it in his heart and goes to someone he trusts for help to get out of that situation. Life is too short to settle for less than what you deserve. 💛
I have seen so many of these over and over again I can still hear the correct music playing regardless of the music sub.
This is probably my favorite video that I've ever watched from you. I have two brothers who are younger than me and whilst my youngest brother totally accepted me as trans my other brother rejected me and we were the closest of buddies until I came out and now he won't even speak to me. I've cried many times because I miss him. You swelled up these emotions in me and even though I'm crying, I love it. I really love you guys and thanks.