What happens after cancer treatment? | Lena Fix | TEDxUNYP

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  • @katibori4796
    @katibori4796 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you Lena, for sharing your recovery story, and what helped you in the process. I'm a Cancer Recovery and Confidence coach and I work with clients, who have the same things to deal with after they are finishing treatments. I support them in a 12 weeks life coaching program of knowing where they are and where they would like to be, also with Styling, Color, Oncology Aesthetic Beauty, and Makeup. Their successes are remarkable and it is so great to see their happiness, having hope and knowing the direction where their life is heading, moving forward in their lives. You are amazing and thank you again, you are helping so many people.

    • @lenafix3758
      @lenafix3758 2 роки тому

      Thank you! So glad there are people like you out there to help those going through such a tough part of their lives! Thank you for what you do!

    • @melissabeltran4658
      @melissabeltran4658 Рік тому

      What is your contact information? I have an 11 year old who needs help out her depression after leukemia treatment.

  • @cancerjourneybiggboss6426
    @cancerjourneybiggboss6426 2 роки тому +7

    Had diagnosed with cancer may 2020 at the start of covid and I understand your story thanks so much for sharing , I have been depressed lost my job my wife and since of life

    • @lenafix3758
      @lenafix3758 2 роки тому

      I am sorry to hear about what you’ve lost. I really wish you all the good luck with your recovery and the future!

    • @zonk4881
      @zonk4881 2 роки тому +1

      Hey man, I beat cancer in late November. I lost a lot of friends and motivation to do things. I just want to know if things get better

  • @jaymieblossom
    @jaymieblossom 4 роки тому +28

    Hodgkin Lymphoma survivor here. It ministered to me your message 💙 I struggled with the same.

    • @lacreskasomante9386
      @lacreskasomante9386 3 роки тому +2

      Wow I was diagnosed with Hodgkin Lymphoma back in 2015. I'm not in remission yet but I'm still hanging in there! :)

    • @rileybesaw
      @rileybesaw 3 роки тому +1

      No doubt you are a very strong woman then! So happy to hear that you’re doing better. I hope all the best for you. Much love!

    • @cjwright5458
      @cjwright5458 3 роки тому

      Congratulations god bless u

  • @daveandersen2484
    @daveandersen2484 3 роки тому +6

    62 year old, husband, father and grandpa. 1 year osteosarcoma in remission. Thanks for making this video. Chemo and surgery was so life changing, I’m having a hard time getting back my positive attitude. And learning how to deal with the pain and discomfort of my surgery. Not to mention the anxiety the illness itself. Thanks you brave young lady. On a humorous note, if you are on the roller coaster with a boy who likes you. He will tell you to hold on to your wig not your blouse top.. lol

    • @lenafix3758
      @lenafix3758 2 роки тому +1

      I’m so glad you’ve liked my talk and hope it helps you in some way. Remission is a very long process (both mentally and physically) and I hope it goes as smoothly as possible for you and that you get all the support you need. ☺️
      By the way, I loved your humorous note and will be sure to remember it next time😂👌

  • @kenobando6750
    @kenobando6750 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks for this speech! I absolutely identify with you! It's a really hard process, I mean, reintegration! Dealing with the fact that almost everybody thinks that after treatment, everything is back to normal when it's not! I've been out of treatment for over a year and I'm still struggling with recovery! People don't seem to understand but with our speeches we are creating awareness! Thanks for this! It just gave me the "pump" I needed to start my day!

    • @lenafix3758
      @lenafix3758 2 роки тому

      It is quite hard for others to understand until they live through it or are close who someone who does. Like you said, the best to do is explain it to as many people we can :) I’m glad you enjoyed the video and it helped you somehow. That’s the best thing that could come out of my speech so thx for letting me know 🥰

  • @sandraregi5217
    @sandraregi5217 3 роки тому +2

    Those survivors are the real humans who gone though the real pain and they are stronger than others 💯 .Her speech has a great message and meaning.It's from the inner heart.

  • @sylviacastro2282
    @sylviacastro2282 4 роки тому +26

    3x Leukemia survivor here. I was in isolation for a year. 😏

    • @treefella6957
      @treefella6957 4 роки тому +7

      May god bless you and your future life, I’m 21 and have one week left of abvd chemotherapy, managed to keep myself together for the past 6-7 months for my family’s sake, I’ve spoke to elderly people who’ve been fighting for years and have no idea how these people carry on going through this torture simply to see their grand kids grow up, can not imagine what you’ve been though after three times highest respect and once more god bless your soul x Keep fighting 🤙🏼

    • @pinklipstickx19
      @pinklipstickx19 4 роки тому

      Did your diet change .

    • @sylviacastro2282
      @sylviacastro2282 4 роки тому +2

      Blackdiamond yes done it all went completely vegan and then introduced chicken again.. you can’t control the one cell that wants to act ridiculous though lol

    • @pinklipstickx19
      @pinklipstickx19 4 роки тому

      Sylvia Castro I was just wondering cause I was curious if people with cancer completely change the way they eat and what affect they have after since I never met so just wanted to see there point of view .9

    • @sylviacastro2282
      @sylviacastro2282 4 роки тому +1

      Blackdiamond oh no problem at all! Some people completely change their diets but it’s not the diet that changes you on a cellular level.. although it can help and have great affects on your body!

  • @thec-podpodcast368
    @thec-podpodcast368 5 років тому +6

    Cancer is such a complex topic, we’ve got to keep talking 🙏🏼

    • @lenafix3758
      @lenafix3758 5 років тому

      The C-Pod Podcast agreed :)

    • @rileybesaw
      @rileybesaw 3 роки тому +1

      Totally agree. I feel like Lena can be of so much support for so many people. She helps people to be more aware of just how hard some things can actually be, and the best way to cope with it all

  • @jasminethecreator19
    @jasminethecreator19 3 роки тому +2

    Such a strong sense of self and character!
    I applaud your confidence and humbleness.
    Great tip on using humor and spreading the joy..and the love.

    • @lenafix3758
      @lenafix3758 2 роки тому

      Thank you so much🥺❤️ these are wonderful compliments that mean a lot to me. So glad you liked my talk.

  • @MarkAndersonPrague
    @MarkAndersonPrague 5 років тому +6

    Touching talk that really hit home! Thank you for sharing your experience with us Lena!

    • @lenafix3758
      @lenafix3758 5 років тому +2

      Mark Anderson thank YOU for everything you’ve taught me and helping make this video possible :)

  • @psico3066
    @psico3066 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your experience with us Lena!

  • @Mimi-ts9tq
    @Mimi-ts9tq 2 роки тому +2

    Every word is true about cancer Time

  • @yourfuturexstepdad
    @yourfuturexstepdad 2 роки тому +2

    That's me currently. At 13 I was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Lymphoma T-Cell. I'm now 15 nearing remision at the end of April. I shaved my head at the beginning. And I'm a boy who had a Bully Magurie haircut, now with less than a 1/4-inch of thin hair. I also dropped from a 105 lb 13 year old, dropped 26 pounds in the first 2-weeks. After almost 2 years I'm back up to 105 lbs. I can't do much exercise with my port being in my upper-right chest area. But I am back to being able to jog, walk up stairs, ride a scooter, and rake the yard. I'm happy but not with who I am Mentaly I constantly self-sabatoge and I'm very arrogant, these are things I am working on but it's a struggle. Thank you for the tips. I'll update this at some point.

    • @lenafix3758
      @lenafix3758 2 роки тому +1

      So nice to hear a story from someone else who has been through the same! And I’m glad you’re near remission! Good luck with the rest :) i totally get it about the port, it is quite annoying.
      Anyways all the best to you and if you feel like having a chat you can find me on Instagram. ^^

    • @yourfuturexstepdad
      @yourfuturexstepdad 2 роки тому +1

      @@lenafix3758 Thank you vey much!

  • @wr9331
    @wr9331 4 роки тому +4

    51 years young & in cancer treatment now. Sending you love Lovely Lena! Thank you for inspiring me & preparing me for survivorship. Xo, Wendy

    • @lenafix3758
      @lenafix3758 4 роки тому

      Thank you! Sending you many wishes and that your treatments (and post-treatments) go as smooth as possible. I am glad if my talk helped you in any way. Good luck!

  • @vickylanding2830
    @vickylanding2830 3 роки тому +2

    God’s Grace and mercy 🙏

  • @kabeer3176
    @kabeer3176 2 роки тому

    I kept replaying video again and again until no ad comes

  • @TheBillionDollarSecret
    @TheBillionDollarSecret 5 років тому +3

    I like your talk, Lena! Thumb up from me!

  • @nayf7682
    @nayf7682 2 роки тому

    Around the halfway mark in my chemotherapy Around 6 weeks into treatment I got to the point where I genuinely didn't care if i made it through, which as horrible as it sounds made it easier to deal with all the thing's that come along with cancer and its treatment as I'd given up worrying about any of it. Unfortunately since I've gone into remission I've found that I still don't really care and have no love or enjoyment for life aswell as developing pretty intense anxiety and on and off depression. The only thing that keeps me going is knowing how me not being here would affect my Mum, brother and nephew's. I really don't know how to change this mindset

    • @mmm81m6
      @mmm81m6 Рік тому +1

      Nayf I was diagnosed with cancer this Feb which came as a complete shock to me. When I got the diagnosis I felt my whole world collapse and a sense of utter despair and fear like never before in my life...for several weeks I just cried, prayed and slowly started to accept the fact that this disease could kill me. I underwent a major surgery, which was very scary, I remember just breaking down crying before entering the the surgery theatre and the doctors and nurses trying to cheer me up and just that horrible feeling of being helpless. Before the surgery I made a list of things I wanted to do and change in my life if I ever recovered from cancer...imagining what I wanted my life to be if I was given a second chance and starting to change my life step by step has given me strength to accept a lot of the fear and anxiety that I feel. Once you accept you will die (which is true for everyone by the way), and that you have no control over this, you start to see how many meaningless things you were doing before, re-evaluate your priorities and ambitions and this can give you the courage to try something different and open yourself to change...once you overcome (or manage) that fear of death you understand that you've got nothing to lose, that your time on this earth is what you make of it every single day and that this is the only thing you can control. I've given this a lot of thought this year and when I die I want to make sure I look back at my time on this earth with a smile, knowing that I was my own person and that I gave it my best shot no matter how long my life is. So if I can give you a suggestion, try to imagine yourself on your last day on earth and think hard about what you would like to remember, what things make a life worth living in your view and day by day try to build that life based on the knowledge you've acquired through this experience as your time on this earth like everyone else's is really really short so embrace it as much as you can.

  • @globalimpactinstitute
    @globalimpactinstitute 5 років тому +2

    Great talk you did, Lena.

    • @lenafix3758
      @lenafix3758 2 роки тому

      Thank you! Glad you liked it :)

  • @sunitavani911
    @sunitavani911 4 роки тому +2

    My father has double hit lymphoma, just finished r chop, he feeling tired irritated depressed, negative thinking always

    • @lenafix3758
      @lenafix3758 4 роки тому

      I’m sorry to hear it. I wish him and you all the strength necessary to go through this hardship.

    • @rileybesaw
      @rileybesaw 3 роки тому

      I’m so sorry to hear about that. I truely hope you may find the necessary strength to endure this difficult time. My love to you and your father

  • @vuzkresengeorgiev304
    @vuzkresengeorgiev304 5 років тому

    That's my Lena!

  • @aizabaluyot6011
    @aizabaluyot6011 3 роки тому +1

    Touching too much...